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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:02,560 (INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC) 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:05,600 HELEN DALLIMORE (NARRATES): 18 singles 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:07,240 from across the country... 4 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:08,280 Will you marry me? 5 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:10,560 ..took the ultimate leap of faith. 6 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:11,600 (CHEERS AND APPLAUSE) Let's go. 7 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:13,080 This is what I've been looking for. 8 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:14,760 This is a true love story right here. 9 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,720 I don't wanna be with anyone that gets arrested. 10 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:21,440 Sorry. I'm late, everyone. 11 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,040 He was chewing gum sort of with his mouth open. 12 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,560 Alessandra's intimacy week. 13 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:29,320 Definitely has brought Mel closer to Luke. 14 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,560 ..helped some couples progress their relationships. 15 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:33,640 How was it? 16 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,880 But things stalled for Rebecca. 17 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,360 Who doesn't wanna try? It's just all lip service. 18 00:00:43,480 --> 00:00:46,320 Before Alessandra held Steve to account. 19 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,200 Really tread lightly. I don't take to this well. 20 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:59,400 And in a dramatic turn of events, Brook made a sudden exit. 21 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:00,480 (JOYFUL SCREAMS) 22 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:03,720 Only to make a surprise return to the dinner party 23 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,480 just 24 hours later. 24 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,320 I think you're a very rude bitch. 25 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,280 Brook went on the attack. This is enough. 26 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,160 Shut up, Alissa. Loser. 27 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,360 (LAUGHS) Oh. 28 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,480 Leaving her husband isolated and confused. 29 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:24,040 And then... 30 00:01:25,320 --> 00:01:29,160 ..a shock allegation about Danny preferring Gia. 31 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:30,840 There was nothing that I ever said. 32 00:01:30,960 --> 00:01:31,880 Why would I make that up? 33 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:33,680 Caused Bec to spiral... 34 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,000 ..unsure whether to believe her husband or not. 35 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:40,440 Did she trust me first? 36 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:44,560 Tonight... 37 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:45,960 Are you falling in love? 38 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:47,760 I think, yeah. 39 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,280 ..love is in the air. 40 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,160 It's been really good. That's when the kissing started. 41 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,400 Made her blush. So... (LAUGHS) 42 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,280 Some will celebrate incredible breakthroughs. 43 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,520 This morning I kissed him. 44 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,880 As Mel and Luke's transformation continues... 45 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:03,920 We're doing so good. 46 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:05,280 I don't even know who you are. 47 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:11,400 ..the experts unpack the question on everyone's lips. 48 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:12,520 Did you say that, Danny? 49 00:02:12,640 --> 00:02:15,080 It threw me that she didn't believe a comment like that. 50 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:16,400 Absolutely not. 51 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,560 You're not gonna gaslight a woman right now. 52 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:19,720 You know what you said. 53 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,120 You have zero credibility. 54 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,160 She wouldn't make that up, dude. 55 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:24,240 And... 56 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,120 Obviously, yeah, got carried away. 57 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,440 The experts call out Brook's bad behaviour. 58 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:35,000 In all my years working on 'Married at First Sight', 59 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:39,840 I have never experienced a woman be so vicious toward other women. 60 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 61 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,440 (SOOTHING MUSIC) 62 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,320 It's the morning of the second Commitment Ceremony 63 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:06,720 of the experiment... 64 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,680 and our couples are feeling the shock waves 65 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,840 of last night's intense dinner party. 66 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,680 Glad we dressed up for that. 67 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:18,600 I could've gone in my jammies. 68 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,520 Might as well have. At least I would've been comfortable. 69 00:03:21,640 --> 00:03:23,880 That was a wild night. 70 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,280 I would describe that as unhinged. 71 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:27,320 (CHUCKLES) 72 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,840 A lot of insults thrown from Bec, Gia, 73 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:35,760 Brook towards, you know, Stella, towards Alissa, 74 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:37,120 and it was hard to listen to. 75 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:38,400 It did bother me. 76 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,560 I didn't like it, but I've definitely felt bad 77 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:41,880 for Alissa because, like, 78 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,680 I just see this girl that's she's getting slammed, 79 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,640 and it's pretty intimidating, I'd imagine. 80 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:52,800 I care about what people think. I care about people's feelings. 81 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,920 You know? I don't wanna have this conflict. 82 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,000 You know? 83 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:03,000 (SAD MUSIC) 84 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,200 Man, if I could sum up last night's dinner party, 85 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:12,280 I feel like it was a pack of wolves let loose on a village. 86 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,520 All they wanted to do was come in and tear everything apart. 87 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,520 Alissa is really rocked by the dinner party, 88 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,040 um, and I just wanna support her right now. 89 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:24,280 Like, it feels crap. 90 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,760 You know, this is damage control right now. 91 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,480 I feel like, you know, I just need to be the hands 92 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,680 around her and just to comfort her because it's been a rough night. 93 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:41,480 Oh, god. 94 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:49,080 I'm not going to the war zone again. Last night was enough. 95 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,720 I put on a front, and I-I handled it... 96 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:54,240 but I'm not doing it again. 97 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,320 (SAD MUSIC) 98 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,160 It's mean. 99 00:04:58,280 --> 00:05:00,880 And if you can't find anything nice to say about someone, 100 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:02,400 just say nothing. 101 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,800 You don't even know me. You don't know David. 102 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,640 I don't have to sell you this relationship. 103 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:11,200 I don't have to sell it to you... 104 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,000 'cause this is my love story... 105 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:17,600 and it's mean. 106 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,360 (SAD MUSIC) 107 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,000 Alissa wasn't the only one 108 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,640 at the receiving end of Brook's unsolicited attacks. 109 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:27,680 Cheers. 110 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,480 Cheers. Good morning. Good morning. 111 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:30,640 (KISSES) 112 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:32,440 Oh, what a night... 113 00:05:34,280 --> 00:05:36,000 literally. 114 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:39,040 In a way, you're just bringing to her top of mind. 115 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:40,080 She's like, "Oh, hang on. 116 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:41,720 I didn't get what I want in this experiment," 117 00:05:41,840 --> 00:05:43,000 and it pisses her off. 118 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:44,040 I don't know. 119 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:48,360 Like, it would be only her that knows the reasons why. 120 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:49,440 Um... 121 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:51,840 I don't know. 122 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:57,640 Um... 123 00:05:59,280 --> 00:06:01,760 the funniest thing that there was no crime. 124 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:03,200 There was actually no crime. 125 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:06,200 They just needed to create a drama in, 126 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:08,840 out of thin air, and they did it. 127 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,920 I did have my heart rate up. Absolutely. 128 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:16,440 I'm not psychopath. 129 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:21,080 You know, but I do not give power to people to antagonise me 130 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,320 in any way, shape, or form. 131 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:27,280 If I lower myself to your standard, I lost. 132 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,080 Obviously, there's something to, for her to deal with her, 133 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,200 with herself internally. 134 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:33,920 She's got work...she's got work to do. 135 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:34,960 Work to do. 136 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,560 This is just childish behaviour. It's not even worth the aid. 137 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,760 It's not even worth... the effort. 138 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,960 That's-that's no good. That's-that's no good. 139 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:46,760 No good. No good. It's not good. 140 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,160 No good. No good. It's not good. 141 00:06:49,280 --> 00:06:52,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 142 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:56,920 Despite Chris's best efforts during intimacy week, 143 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,400 Brook left the experiment 144 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,400 but made a surprise appearance at last night's dinner party 145 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,520 with some unfinished business to attend to. 146 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:08,280 The runaway bride returns. 147 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,000 The runaway returns. 148 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,600 The funniest thing is-is, I didn't have a plan 149 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,280 going into the dinner party last night. 150 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:17,000 I was like, "I'm just gonna surprise everyone 151 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:18,520 and see how the night takes me." 152 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:22,560 There were some crazy emotions yesterday. 153 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,600 I mean, I was going with a bang, and I definitely did that. 154 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,400 You did the whole night. 155 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:28,800 We can hear it in the hallways. 156 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,560 Everyone's, like, crying and shit. 157 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:33,320 Oh, really? Yeah. 158 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,040 Being called a bully, I then react to that... 159 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:37,080 Mm. 160 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,520 ..which I need to not react to that, but I can't help it. 161 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:44,000 I don't regret having a voice and speaking my opinion. 162 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:47,200 Um, but, at the end of the day, 163 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,760 obviously, I'm glad that's over and done with ship sail. 164 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:51,080 I'm dropping that now. 165 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,960 Mm, I don't even know. I just don't feel it. 166 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,400 I don't know if Chris is ready to let this go, um, 167 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,520 but it doesn't change anything for me. 168 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,560 I still feel how I feel, and I'm not ready for this, 169 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:07,600 and he's not either. 170 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,840 But I still went in here with 100% effort, 171 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:12,280 and it's not like I didn't. 172 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:18,320 As Brook looks back on last night, 173 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:21,000 an even bigger accusation came to light 174 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,040 that rocked the experiment. 175 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:28,120 I reached out to Bec this morning after the dinner party last night, 176 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,080 ah, just to see where she's at. 177 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:34,480 And I said, "How are you going?" And she said, "Not good. 178 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,320 You've ruined my relationship. 179 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,360 I'm devastated. Leave me alone." 180 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:40,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 181 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,280 (INDISTINCT CHATTER) 182 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:56,480 Be honest. Be honest, Danny. 183 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:57,920 Watch your mouth, girl. I'm not watching. 184 00:08:58,040 --> 00:08:59,440 Watch your mouth. I'm-I'm being honest. 185 00:08:59,560 --> 00:09:01,240 But you don't lie about me. Oh, no. But you said that. 186 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:02,280 Don't ever do that. But you said that. 187 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:03,520 Just... oh, yeah. 188 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:05,000 "In the outside world, you would be my type," 189 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:06,040 that is what Danny said. 190 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:07,080 What did...won't she'd be in love? 191 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,160 (TENSE MUSIC) 192 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,240 Brook obviously was on one last night. 193 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,160 Brook said it, told her not to. Brook said what she said. 194 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,280 And now for some reason, 195 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,040 this is all my fault that they're not...they're not good. 196 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:23,320 Can you make that make sense 197 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,880 for your man saying something Sunday night drunk 198 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:27,680 in front of me and a girl, and the girl brings it up? 199 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:29,120 So, why is this my fault? 200 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,680 I just think it's Bec's insecurities coming out 201 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:34,760 because she's trying to protect her own relationship. 202 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,080 She's acting as if I lured Danny in and said, 203 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:38,480 "Do you wanna sleep with me in the bathroom?" 204 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,240 I have no interest in Danny. 205 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,880 He's disgusting. Uh, yuck. 206 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,120 Their relationship's a bit fake and full of it. 207 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,080 So, she'll put it on other people's relationships. 208 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,520 Why don't you look at your own relationship? 209 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,040 Bec's gonna bring it up tonight 210 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,680 and she's going to use me as a way to, 211 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,720 I guess, bring them back together in a way so that she can blame 212 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,000 someone else other than her and Danny. 213 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,360 Because you're scared to really face the fact 214 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,080 that maybe he isn't into you. 215 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,000 I hope at the Commitment Ceremony they're open 216 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:13,560 and they actually tell us what's going on. 217 00:10:13,680 --> 00:10:17,040 Danny's a liar and that's all there is to it. 218 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:20,400 He's-he's going around doing everything but being accountable 219 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,240 and I'm sick of it. 220 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,920 And she's a fool, a total fool. 221 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:30,800 Danny was frustrated with Bec for believing Gia last night 222 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,000 and slept in a separate apartment. 223 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,880 Gia and Brook have definitely set out to rock my relationship, 224 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:47,480 and they are succeeding. 225 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,280 I've not felt this low... for years. 226 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,280 Gia and Brook have made this up. It's not true. 227 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:00,840 I know it's not true. I knew it wasn't true last night. 228 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,600 He would never have said that to her ever. 229 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:09,280 Ever. 230 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:11,440 Don't accuse me of doing things like that 231 00:11:11,560 --> 00:11:13,360 because there's-there's no truth in that whatsoever. 232 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:14,480 I need to ride or die. 233 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:15,680 You should trust me first. 234 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,760 I knew that you were gonna do this, I'm done. 235 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,960 (SAD MUSIC) 236 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,240 Oi-oi, what's going on? 237 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:32,880 How are you? 238 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,360 Not the best. How are you? 239 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:37,960 I'm alright. I'm always good. 240 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:41,440 Ah. How was your night? 241 00:11:41,560 --> 00:11:42,720 Shocking. How was yours? 242 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:46,120 You want me to start? 243 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:47,200 Yeah. 244 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:49,440 OK. 245 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:55,040 Last night when Gia whispered to me at the dinner party 246 00:11:55,160 --> 00:12:00,560 that you had supposedly told her on Saturday night 247 00:12:00,680 --> 00:12:02,040 that on the outside world... 248 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,560 she would be, you would wanna be with her, 249 00:12:06,680 --> 00:12:09,320 I didn't believe her for a second, at all. 250 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,040 And then when you didn't wanna come back and wouldn't speak to me, 251 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,480 I was like, "Well, what have I done?" 252 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:16,320 'Cause I had such a bad time. 253 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,520 And then I was like, so, I'm gonna have to lay here by myself 254 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,560 in this room, you won't speak to me. 255 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:24,760 (SOBS) 256 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:27,480 That was a mad one. 257 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,160 And she was crying now, and she almost made me feel 258 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:30,480 like I was in the wrong. 259 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,040 What's all that about? 260 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,240 You got up and you stormed out. Yeah, I did. 261 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:38,240 I was like, "Oh, my god. Is this...is this a thing?" 262 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,120 And then I brought myself back down to earth 263 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:41,720 and thought, "No, it's not." 264 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:42,760 You-you... 265 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,680 I'm obviously not the man you think I am for you to believe that. 266 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,120 Oh, Danny, stop it. 267 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,800 That's what I believe. And I have to say the truth, Bec. 268 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,160 This hurts me as well. Do not think I'm hurting. 269 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:54,240 It was like a dagger through the heart 270 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,240 for you to believe her for 1ms... 271 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:57,920 I know. ..and to your husband. 272 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:02,320 You threw...you threw our trust away 273 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:06,480 for her to believe at that blatant lie over her husband, 274 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:10,280 um, it just hurt and I just needed space, simple as that. 275 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:12,680 Like what I said at the end of the aisle 276 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,840 when-when I married you was like, 277 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,280 the number one thing I want in a relationship 278 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,360 and with a wife are two things, trust and ride or die. 279 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,280 Like, because the... 280 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:24,600 I am ride or die. 281 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:26,600 ..the-the ride or die is not believing a lie about me 282 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:27,640 for one second. 283 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:28,720 That's ride or die. 284 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,480 I view women how I view my mum. 285 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,800 My mum would never ever betray my dad, not in a month of Sundays, 286 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:37,840 not if a thousand people who were saying bad things about him. 287 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:40,120 She'd never believe it for one second. 288 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:42,440 And that's how I-I view women off my mum 289 00:13:42,560 --> 00:13:44,280 because that's what I grew up watching. 290 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:45,880 That's what I'm looking for in a woman, 291 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:47,440 a ride or die like my mum. 292 00:13:47,560 --> 00:13:49,120 So, what does this mean for us? 293 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,000 I don't but I honestly like to be honest, 294 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:52,840 my head scrambled with it. 295 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,880 Like, with all due respect, like, you did betray me in that moment. 296 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:56,920 Ah. 297 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:58,960 Like, what do you want me to do? 298 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,120 Sit here and lie and say, "Everything's fine, Bec. 299 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,440 Everything's fine. I don't care." I'm done. 300 00:14:04,680 --> 00:14:06,200 What I need from Bec now is to prove to me 301 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:07,560 that she is ride or die, 302 00:14:07,680 --> 00:14:08,960 and I don't know how she's gonna do that. 303 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:10,440 She's just gotta come up with something. 304 00:14:10,560 --> 00:14:12,960 (SAD MUSIC) 305 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,640 Go. Go. Yeah. (SOBS) 306 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,560 (SAD MUSIC) 307 00:14:17,680 --> 00:14:19,080 I just don't know how... 308 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:26,000 A comment which is a lie... 309 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,320 that I believed for a minute... 310 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:32,320 and then rectified... 311 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:39,600 could take us from being where we were to where we are now. 312 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,600 (SOBS) 313 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,640 (SAD MUSIC) 314 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:50,040 I feel like we worked so hard to get to where we are. 315 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,480 And now I just feel like it's ruined. 316 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 317 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:11,240 Our couples are getting ready for tonight's Commitment Ceremony. 318 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,640 The stakes have never been higher. 319 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:19,480 We are lions, and, you know, lions don't worry 320 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:20,920 about what mice have to say. 321 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:23,600 Can I see a smile at all? 322 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:25,320 I don't feel like smiling today. 323 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,280 It's a sad day. Mm. 324 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,520 What's the aftermath of what you guys have chosen to do? 325 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:34,520 Like, they made a choice last night. 326 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,000 And so, are they happy with how things have gone? 327 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:41,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 328 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:49,320 Will they stay or leave the experiment? 329 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:52,360 (TENSE MUSIC) 330 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,480 But for one couple, 331 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,120 there has been a complete 180 overnight. 332 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:01,920 We went through some challenges in intimacy week. 333 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,920 It's a bit rough around the edges. 334 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:05,960 Mm-hm. That's fair. 335 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,840 But there were some really beautiful moments as well. 336 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,520 Grayson and I really did tie up our intimacy week 337 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:13,920 in quite a beautiful way. 338 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,520 We have shared our first kiss, which was really beautiful. 339 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,040 Um, yeah, it kind of naturally happened. 340 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:22,480 I just sort of lent in, and...and...and here we are. 341 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,080 (RELAXING MUSIC) 342 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:25,120 I'll see you there. 343 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:27,520 Hopefully, not as many fireworks tonight. 344 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:28,600 He's hoping. 345 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,560 Should we get this show on the road, say goodbye to you? 346 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:34,760 See you there. Bye. 347 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:36,760 (SMOOCHES) 348 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:38,440 Wanna get in there? 349 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,680 You look amazing. You too. 350 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:40,720 Yeah. 351 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,200 You look-look like a good snack. 352 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 353 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:58,960 Greetings, gents. Hello. How are you? 354 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:00,000 Well. Hello, boys. 355 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:01,920 Good evening. How are you doing? 356 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:03,480 Good to see you all. 357 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 358 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:40,600 How're you going? 359 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,360 Good, how are you? Great. 360 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 361 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,360 (EXHALES) 362 00:17:56,760 --> 00:18:00,320 Well, welcome everybody to the second Commitment Ceremony. 363 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:05,080 And if last night's dinner party is anything to go by, 364 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:08,440 tonight we have a lot to get into. 365 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,000 Now, just a heads up, 366 00:18:12,120 --> 00:18:15,600 our lovely expert Alessandra has indeed 367 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,600 lost most of her voice. 368 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,480 And therefore tonight, 369 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:24,280 uh, you may hear a limited amount from her. 370 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,480 And if she feels the need to jump in, 371 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:28,680 she certainly will try. 372 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:32,760 First up on the couch... 373 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:35,800 Alissa and David. 374 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,840 (APPLAUSE) 375 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:41,760 Hello. Hello. 376 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,240 How are you two? Oh. 377 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:49,560 Last night was pretty heavy going for the two of you. 378 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:50,960 Yeah. Absolutely. 379 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:54,120 What was it like for you? 380 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,040 Oh, I'm just, uh... 381 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:02,600 I'm pretty disgusted. 382 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 383 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,720 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 384 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,200 Last night was pretty heavy going for the two of you. 385 00:19:18,360 --> 00:19:19,520 Yeah. Absolutely. 386 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,560 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 387 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,880 What was it like for you, Alissa? 388 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 389 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,480 Oh, I'm just, uh... 390 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:39,760 I'm pretty disgusted. 391 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:44,000 Just the disrespect... 392 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:50,120 the low-grade comments, high school mean girl energy. 393 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:58,440 It was yelling, screaming, storming off, banging on the table. 394 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:00,960 It was toxic behaviour. 395 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:06,640 Last night was really hurtful, like really disgusting, 396 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,680 disrespectful behaviour, and I am just gutted. 397 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:14,920 I just didn't wanna be here today. 398 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,000 I did not wanna walk into this room 399 00:20:17,120 --> 00:20:19,200 but I would be letting my husband down 400 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:22,760 if I didn't show up for him and if I didn't stand up for myself. 401 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,720 She was right. I was so harsh, isn't it? 402 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,320 What is it about your relationship 403 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:35,160 that you think is getting under people's skin? 404 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:36,680 I don't know, 405 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,520 and I don't know where the comments are coming from. 406 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 407 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,120 I haven't said one nasty thing 408 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:49,080 towards any of these people sitting in this room. 409 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:53,800 If there was a reason to come at me, come at me but talk to me. 410 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:55,320 Let's resolve this as adults. 411 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,600 Like, we're not in the high school playground. 412 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:00,280 Like, let's just talk. 413 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,640 Yeah, it's really hurtful. 414 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:05,800 Yeah. Yeah. 415 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:12,400 Alissa, I need to apologise to you because my delivery 416 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,520 of what I said to you was unacceptable. 417 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,880 The way I spoke to you last night, 418 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:21,960 I need to take accountability for how cruel I was to both of you. 419 00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:27,080 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 420 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:30,360 I'm sorry for the way that I spoke to you last night. 421 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:31,560 It wasn't acceptable. 422 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,120 It was mean and I can assure you it won't happen again. 423 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,840 And I'm really genuinely sorry to you both that that's the way 424 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,120 that I came at you. 425 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,120 I-I mean, it's yeah. 426 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:47,240 What's-what's your response to that? 427 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,080 I just, I'm lost for words. 428 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,640 I actually don't even wanna sit at a table with half of the people 429 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,440 in this room because I'm embarrassed. 430 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,240 I'm embarrassed to sit at the table 431 00:22:01,360 --> 00:22:04,200 and share space with the disrespectful, 432 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,520 the cattiness, the fire starting, the interrogation. 433 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,600 That is just immature behaviour 434 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,760 and I'm just not here for it and I'm not standing for it. 435 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,080 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 436 00:22:18,120 --> 00:22:22,040 The three of us observing you were so impressed. 437 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,120 Watching the two of you work as a team, 438 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:31,080 not buy into the comments, stand your ground as a couple. 439 00:22:32,120 --> 00:22:33,640 You turned toward each other. 440 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,960 You supported each other and you were a real team. 441 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,000 (SOOTHING MUSIC) 442 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,360 You showed real dignity and grace. 443 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,280 It was so incredibly impressive. 444 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:49,680 So, credit to you both. 445 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,080 At the end of the day, you can talk crap, 446 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,000 throw all those stupid insults all you want, 447 00:22:57,120 --> 00:22:58,040 it doesn't mean anything. 448 00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,520 But if you're gonna come at my wife 449 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,360 and, you know, talk about women that way, it says a lot about you. 450 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:04,440 Disgusting. 451 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:08,280 You know, she's-she's a sensitive person. 452 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,880 She comes across a very bubbly, outspoken. 453 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,360 But when you get to know her, she's really a sensitive soul. 454 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:15,600 So, I think she didn't deserve that. 455 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,640 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 456 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,680 You know, I'll thank myself for sitting on this couch 457 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,560 next to my husband and, you know, standing up for us 458 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,760 and what we've built along the way. 459 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,920 So, things seem to be going pretty well. 460 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,520 Honestly, fantastic. 461 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,600 I feel like last night made us even stronger. 462 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,280 Closer together again. It just made us stronger. 463 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,600 It's like nothing's gonna stop us. Just go away. 464 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:42,840 Yeah. Don't burst a bubble. 465 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:44,240 Like, just leave us alone. 466 00:23:44,360 --> 00:23:47,440 Like, we're here because we are totally into each other 467 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,040 and we are giving this 100%. 468 00:23:53,120 --> 00:23:55,560 I'm actually falling for this man. 469 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,080 I'm falling hard for him. 470 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,840 (JOYOUS MUSIC) 471 00:23:59,960 --> 00:24:01,200 I feel the exact same way. 472 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,120 We are definitely on that cusp of, uh... 473 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:05,160 It's so good. 474 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:08,760 ..of falling in love and it's crazy, it's crazy to actually say that. 475 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,560 And I have so much more to offer her, and, yeah, 476 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,640 I'm just grateful that, you know, you guys match us together. 477 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,280 And, yeah, I'm definitely falling for her for sure. 478 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,320 (CALM MUSIC) 479 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,000 So, with that said, we're gonna go to a decision. 480 00:24:25,120 --> 00:24:27,640 Let's start with you, David. 481 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,680 Oh, OK. I knew it was coming at me. 482 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,800 Well, I mean, I've already said a little bit 483 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,080 of what I wanna say about this woman. 484 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,880 She is an amazing woman, and I can't wait to see 485 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,880 how the rest of this experience goes, 486 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:41,080 and I am really falling for her. 487 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,840 So, with that said... 488 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:46,840 Hey. 489 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:48,360 Pretty obvious. Strong statement. 490 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:49,760 (APPLAUSE) Love it. 491 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,600 Thank you. And to you, Alissa. 492 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:53,800 I'm not here for the BS, 493 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:57,520 and I'm here to really test this relationship 494 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,280 and to find something rock solid. 495 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,360 This man keeps showing up for me every day 496 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,960 and I really am falling for you. 497 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,440 So, stay with him, love heart. 498 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,440 (APPLAUSE) 499 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,840 Look, the two of you, just keep doing what you're doing. 500 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,520 Keep turning toward each other. 501 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,200 Wherever you can, block out that external noise 502 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,000 because as you've said, what's important is what's here 503 00:25:21,120 --> 00:25:22,040 between the two of you. 504 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,240 So, continue focusing on that. Thank you. 505 00:25:24,360 --> 00:25:25,280 Thanks a lot. Good on you, guys. 506 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,480 Appreciate that. Well done. Thank you. 507 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,520 (APPLAUSE) 508 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,000 Thank you. Sure. 509 00:25:34,120 --> 00:25:37,000 (UPLIFT MUSIC) 510 00:25:37,120 --> 00:25:39,720 Our next couple up on the couch... 511 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:42,640 Mel and Luke. 512 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,520 (APPLAUSE) 513 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,560 Hey. 514 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:48,600 Oh, I've been looking forward to this. 515 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:49,640 Hello you two. 516 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,080 We've been looking forward to talking to you guys too. 517 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,360 I bet. 518 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,040 It's a whole new couple right here. 519 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,560 Well, I don't wanna speak for both of us 520 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,000 but I feel like a different person. 521 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,960 You look... Yeah. 522 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,880 ..and sound like a different person. 523 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,360 I don't even know who you are. 524 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,240 I don't know either. It's so crazy, isn't it? 525 00:26:07,360 --> 00:26:08,760 (CHUCKLES) 526 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,920 What feels different for you, Mel? 527 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,400 Well, I just feel more positive. 528 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:15,680 Mm-hm. I feel lighter. 529 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,280 Mm. And do you know why? 530 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,360 It's because, like, obviously, at the first Commitment Ceremony, 531 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,600 like, I listened to everything you all said to me. 532 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,520 I acknowledged your advice. I took it on board. 533 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,600 I changed my attitude. 534 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,280 I changed my outlook, and that's why it's changed our relationship. 535 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,760 We're doing so good. 536 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,400 (RELAXING MUSIC) 537 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:39,080 We just have, just been more curious with each other, 538 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:40,200 more open-minded. 539 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,240 When we're speaking to each other, we've got eye contact. 540 00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:45,600 Just keep in mind, like, us, a week ago, 541 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:46,760 we didn't even look eye, you know. 542 00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:48,320 Yeah. Oh, we know. 543 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,920 Yeah. 544 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,880 Kind to each other, positive with each other. 545 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,720 Love that. We love it too. 546 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:57,960 (LAUGHTER) Seriously. 547 00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,360 Yeah. 548 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,680 Yes. (CHEERS AND APPLAUSE) 549 00:27:02,120 --> 00:27:04,200 Mel, I'm so impressed with you. 550 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,160 Thank you, John. I really appreciate that. 551 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,640 You-you had checked out. 552 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,480 I was. 553 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:14,560 You listened and you let go of, 554 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,920 I guess, all your sort of expectations. 555 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,080 And you said, "I'm going to begin now." 556 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,680 Yeah. We-we really, really did reset. 557 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:26,960 We drew a line in the sand, and we said... 558 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,000 Yeah. 559 00:27:28,120 --> 00:27:29,600 .."We're not going back and looking at anything 560 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:30,640 that's happened in the past." 561 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:32,720 Yes, we cannot forget what's happened 562 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,120 but there's no point talking about it. 563 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,080 So, we tried to keep it super light. 564 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:37,120 Super light. Yeah. 565 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,360 Super positive and that's about it. 566 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,200 Mel, you intrigued me when I first met you 567 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,360 because you talked to me about pink and blue jobs 568 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,280 in a relationship, which I'd never heard of before. 569 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,680 Do you understand what we're talking about? 570 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:54,360 No. No. 571 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,360 Can you tell them, please, Mel? Yeah. 572 00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,920 Basically, what it is, being pink makes you feel feminine. 573 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,440 It makes you feel girly. It makes you feel light. 574 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,440 It makes you feel like a pretty fairy, basically. 575 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,680 And then...and then a blue person makes you feel that way 576 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,920 because they take sort of the weight off your shoulders. 577 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,160 (SOOTHING MUSIC) 578 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,880 Is Luke someone who is a blue guy 579 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,200 that makes you feel pink? 580 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,280 If you asked me a few weeks ago, I'd have been like, 581 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,320 no, Luke doesn't make me feel pink at all 582 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,760 because I wasn't sort of in my feminine... 583 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:32,880 Yeah. ..energy. 584 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,480 I was really in that sort of negative energy 585 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,520 and negative mind-set. 586 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:41,160 But, yeah, Luke is definitely a blue guy. 587 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,040 (JOYOUS MUSIC) 588 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,120 That's cute. 589 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:47,400 Wow. 590 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,720 I gather you two haven't been living together this week. 591 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:52,800 No, we haven't. 592 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,960 Are you ready to make that next step of moving back in? 593 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:57,720 I'd be...I'd be fine to do it. 594 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,480 I just feel like I'd want to move in 595 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,640 if I felt wanted to-to move in. 596 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:05,720 Yeah. Right. 597 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,200 I-I definitely do feel nervous about it. 598 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,680 We've actually developed a great relationship. 599 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,720 What if it just goes bad again? 600 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,680 (SOOTHING MUSIC) 601 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,320 You know what? You'll never know until you do it. 602 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,520 I mean, the experiment is all about getting out of your comfort zone. 603 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,520 Yeah, that's really right. Moving forward. 604 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,600 You may as well keep going with that process 605 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,680 because it's working. 606 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,920 Exciting. We got a plan. 607 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,200 Yeah, we do got a plan. 608 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,240 How about we go to a decision? Yeah, let's just do that. 609 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:41,720 I'll say first. 610 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,040 Well, it's an obvious one. 611 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:44,800 I wrote "Stay" because we've had such a good week. 612 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:46,720 Yeah. So, it makes sense. 613 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,120 (APPLAUSE) 614 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,320 I also think that because we've had such a good week, 615 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,800 it'd be silly for me to write anything else but "Stay." 616 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:54,880 Look at that. Love that. 617 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,040 (APPLAUSE) Good stuff. 618 00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,120 Thanks, guys. 619 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,760 Can I also say it's a great example for the rest of the group 620 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,160 that they were critical. 621 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,840 They were ready to break up last week. 622 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,040 A week on, look at them now. 623 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:15,960 So, it is possible to turn it around if you invest and go with it. 624 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,280 I see great things. Thank you. 625 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,520 Uh, go back to the group. 626 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,080 I can't wait to see you next week. 627 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,000 Me too. Cheers. Likewise. Thank you. 628 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,120 Enjoy. 629 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,960 (APPLAUSE) 630 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:32,320 Still to come, a surprising breakthrough. 631 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:33,520 I kissed him. Oh. 632 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:35,440 Yay. 633 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:36,520 And later... 634 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,600 Did you say that, Danny? Absolutely not. Of course not. 635 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,760 Danny doubles down. 636 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,360 You know what you said. 637 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,040 Why the hell would I make... Gia. Gia. Gia. 638 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,320 ..stop. I'm talking. 639 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 640 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,960 Alright. Let's get our next couple up on the couch. 641 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 642 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:03,960 Rebecca and Steve. 643 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,240 (APPLAUSE) You guys. Kudos. 644 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,600 Alright. 645 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,240 Help us understand what's going on. 646 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:14,720 I don't know where to start, John. 647 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,000 Like, I'm... OK. Sorry, guys. 648 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,720 Um, I don't wanna, uh... Take your time. 649 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,520 Tell us what particularly has been disappointing for you. 650 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,800 I came into this experiment wanting to find love. 651 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,680 I was open. I've been authentic. 652 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,280 I was here for all the right reasons. 653 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,840 When I first met Steve, like, we had our connection. 654 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,200 I was thought the experts have got it right. 655 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,280 We had a great wedding, great honeymoon. 656 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,680 As soon as I started saying to him, "I need this from you," 657 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,400 re-voicing my needs and my wants... 658 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:49,440 And what... ..telling him how... 659 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:50,480 I'd say, please let me finish. 660 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:51,520 Sorry. Sorry. Sorry, I was just... 661 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:52,560 Yeah. 662 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 663 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,880 I felt unheard in the relationship. 664 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,920 I felt like every time I tried to voice how I was feeling, 665 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,200 I was getting shut down and spoken over. 666 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,040 I feel like he wasn't vulnerable. He didn't show up for me. 667 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,480 And I just feel that I've been matched with someone 668 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,680 that hasn't been all in with me. 669 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,320 How hasn't he been all in? 670 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:18,840 He's too concerned 671 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,080 about what everyone else's perceptions of Steve. 672 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:24,240 The Intimacy Week, we didn't do a lot of it. 673 00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,560 And when I ask him, why not? 674 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,120 It's like fruit salad, just lip service. 675 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,320 It didn't make any sense. 676 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,320 Steve, what do you say to that? 677 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:33,560 I just disagree. 678 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,600 We did have, again, 679 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,360 what I would consider to be a personality clash on... 680 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,720 I just stop you there. 681 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 682 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:44,560 You use the term personality clash. 683 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,240 Yeah. That's a cop out? 684 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:49,600 What do you mean by that, though? 685 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,480 I tell you what I mean. Yeah, please. 686 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,640 What is the clash? What is it about the personality? 687 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,040 It's a very general term. It's a throwaway comment. 688 00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,600 Get specific. 689 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,160 Um, the discussion started off being around. 690 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,200 You know, look, I'm sure a lot of people have, you know, 691 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,920 not come in here with, um, you know, 692 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,880 knowing that they're gonna find the one. 693 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,840 Surely, they've got, you know, other motives and whatnot. 694 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:13,920 Rebecca said, not me. 695 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:18,120 I came in here for love only, and, you know, it became very fiery. 696 00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:23,280 Both of us, we don't communicate well in those circumstances. 697 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:29,000 There's a complete disconnect with how Rebecca sees a situation 698 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:30,520 and how I see it. 699 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:34,200 To be honest, there's no winning or losing in that conversation. 700 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:35,240 It's almost like... OK. 701 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,120 So, you're... It's not about personality. 702 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,400 Well, or maybe it was just... 703 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:39,440 It's actually about a communication style. 704 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,480 Yeah. OK. 705 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,440 Everyone has different patterns. Yep. 706 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,000 But they can certainly be adjusted. 707 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,000 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 708 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,840 After the last Commitment Ceremony where I said to you, 709 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,200 "You've got your partner sitting there saying, 710 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:53,520 I don't feel desired." 711 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,120 Mm-hm. "Do something about it." 712 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:56,400 Mm-hm. What have you done? 713 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,840 Um, I got in touch with Rebecca, um, 714 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:02,720 and invited her to lunch on the Sunday. 715 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,520 Rebecca decided to go out with other people on the Saturday 716 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,320 and I got cancelled on-on Sunday morning. 717 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,880 It emotionally sets you back a little bit, 718 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,560 and so, we didn't get to bond 719 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,600 when other people had some time together. 720 00:34:16,720 --> 00:34:19,200 And then we had a good Monday when we came back together. 721 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:20,240 I think all came good again. 722 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:21,480 So, Steve, what about after the Commitment Ceremony? 723 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:22,520 Yes. 724 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,040 You had the ability... Oh, we... 725 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,280 ..to Monday, Tuesday, today. 726 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,640 What have you done? 727 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:35,920 Well, Tuesday, we had the dinner party, 728 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,720 so, we didn't really... 729 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,360 Steve, since you last saw me sitting on this couch... 730 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,240 Yes. Yeah. ..it's a very simple question. 731 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:44,400 And I thought I was trying to... 732 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:45,480 Have you take her out for coffee, a walk... 733 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:46,520 Yes. 734 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:47,760 ..woken up saying how was your sleep 735 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,120 and shown the nice gestures yet? 736 00:34:49,240 --> 00:34:50,560 Because I haven't heard it. Always. 737 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,080 Oh. 738 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:53,120 I've-I have done that. 739 00:34:53,240 --> 00:34:55,400 Rebecca, has he done any little favours 740 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:56,680 to show that he's interested? 741 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:57,720 No, Scott. He hasn't. There's your answer. 742 00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,800 I get up in the morning. I give you kisses. 743 00:34:59,920 --> 00:35:00,840 That's right, you make... I get you a coffee. 744 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:01,880 He's made me... 745 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:02,920 I say, can I go get you coffee 746 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:03,960 and bring you takeaways. 747 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:04,960 Can I say? 748 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:06,040 He made me, he has made me coffee a couple of times. 749 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:07,920 What have you done to make her feel desired? 750 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,400 Apart from the organising lunch, nothing. 751 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,160 Why? 752 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,760 Because I'm not romantically, 753 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,280 you know, wanting to lead Rebecca on. 754 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,680 And I was kind of given the impression 755 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,280 I now have to be a bit more genuine 756 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,160 with myself and with Rebecca. 757 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,640 And so, after meeting with Alessandra, 758 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,880 it did make me think, be honest with myself. 759 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,360 I'm gonna take you back to the first time 760 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,160 you and I met via video. 761 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:38,200 Yes. 762 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,960 And we had a pretty open conversation 763 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:41,280 about your past relationships. 764 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:42,320 Yeah, we do. 765 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:43,360 And the fact that you described yourself 766 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,440 as being pretty selfish in past relationships. 767 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:46,480 Mm. 768 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,120 It was all about you and your needs as opposed to your partner. 769 00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:50,760 You made yourself a bit of a promise 770 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,360 was that you were gonna come into this experiment... 771 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:53,400 Mm. 772 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:54,800 ..and try things differently. 773 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:55,960 Mm-hm. 774 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,000 How do you feel about that now? 775 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,240 I think I've tried very, you know, in my own way I think I've tried, 776 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,440 and I think I've tried to progress, um, faster than... 777 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,240 You think you've been selfish in this relationship? 778 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,280 No, I don't think I've been selfish. No, I don't. 779 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,600 I've-I've always asked Rebecca to be herself. 780 00:36:12,720 --> 00:36:14,800 I said, "You do you." You know? 781 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:16,160 Look at her now. 782 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:17,800 Sorry. Look at her now. 783 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:19,480 What's that? Look at her. 784 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:20,560 Yes. I know. 785 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,760 And I've been literally with Rebecca for the last few weeks 786 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,760 and I've always been there for her when she's feeling this way. 787 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,800 What could I say? It's all lip service. 788 00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:30,840 But when I say I've been there for you but... 789 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:31,880 It's all fruit salad and Caesar salad 790 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:32,920 and Greek salad all mixed in. 791 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,200 Alright. Alright. It really is. It really is. 792 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,480 Steve, you tell us now, 793 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:42,280 have you contributed to the problems in this relationship? 794 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:43,800 Oh, I miscommunicate with her 795 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:44,960 as much as she miscommunicates with me. 796 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:46,000 It's half-half. 797 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:47,960 I want you to stop talking about her because... 798 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,120 How? ..that's a real problem. 799 00:36:49,240 --> 00:36:50,200 OK. 800 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,400 Spotlight is on you. Yep. 801 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,520 What do you do to contribute to the problems 802 00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,960 in this relationship, you alone? 803 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 804 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,720 I don't know. I-I... 805 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,960 That's why I ask you because you should know. 806 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:14,880 What we hear now is a guy that's sitting there going, 807 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,320 "You know, I'm not selfish. 808 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:18,520 I've given it my all." 809 00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,360 I don't think you have given it your all. 810 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,840 You are not able to answer the question. 811 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,080 I thought I had answered the question. 812 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,120 You haven't. You've just said... 813 00:37:30,240 --> 00:37:31,760 I-I don't know the other reasons. 814 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,040 So, from your expert point of view, 815 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,040 tell me what you've seen that I'm not doing... 816 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:37,320 I need you...I need you to tell me. ..and what I need to do. 817 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,360 I'm not sure. 818 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:39,440 I can't give you the answer... 819 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,600 other than the fact that I thought I was trying. 820 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:50,560 This is a very important time for you, Steve, because... 821 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,040 this moment, you can actually start looking inwards. 822 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:57,960 What else might be a problem... 823 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,560 in terms of this relationship and what you contribute to it? 824 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,000 No. Obviously, I've said no. So... 825 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,920 If we pivot and go to the Intimacy Week, 826 00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,000 there was an exchange between you and Alessandra? 827 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:15,040 Yes. 828 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,520 Can you tell me why it is that you became 829 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,480 so fixed against what Alessandra was telling you about? 830 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,400 Um, I don't know if I-I wasn't sure 831 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,000 if I was fixed against what you were saying. 832 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:31,120 To refresh your memory, what actually happened, 833 00:38:31,240 --> 00:38:33,840 you had a very difficult time listening to an opinion 834 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,640 that differed from yours. 835 00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:40,000 It was about not Steve's desires and Steve's space 836 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,600 but understanding what Rebecca wanted. 837 00:38:42,720 --> 00:38:45,160 And you pushed back hard, you spoke over me, 838 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:46,920 you disrespected me with your words 839 00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,160 and also with the tone of voice that you spoke. 840 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:51,720 You were skirting around issues. 841 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,920 And, of course, when you don't give clear concise answers, 842 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,560 I will push back and try and get something precise from you, 843 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,400 and that was impossible to get from you. 844 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,720 And tonight, it's been pretty impossible again 845 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,320 for you to give any precise definitions 846 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:13,520 to these things that sound very much like lip service. 847 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:14,640 OK. 848 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,880 Rebecca has been very forthright 849 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,480 about liking the possibility of creating something with you, 850 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,640 wanting to move forward, 851 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,880 really championing and cheering for that, 852 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,360 and you putting the brakes. 853 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,800 And if it's not at your pace, then it becomes a problem. 854 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,960 Every time she's tried to speak up, it has become a problem. 855 00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,440 So, I think you have a little reflection to do 856 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:41,120 as to where this miscommunication really stems from 857 00:39:41,240 --> 00:39:43,160 and how it is that you get here. 858 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:44,440 Hmm. OK. 859 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:52,320 OK. 860 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,880 Well, look, think it's time that we go to a decision 861 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:56,360 with the two of you. 862 00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,080 Steve. Sure. 863 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,480 Um, we started off fantastically well. 864 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:05,320 And, yeah, and since then it's been going downhill. 865 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,360 I chose to, uh, to Leave. 866 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,440 And to you, Rebecca. OK. 867 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,280 Whoa. Thank you for finding me a match. 868 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:18,640 It hasn't quite worked out. 869 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,920 Came here for love and I didn't get what I wanted. 870 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:26,120 I'm not gonna settle and waste any more of my time. 871 00:40:26,240 --> 00:40:29,160 I wrote "Leave" with a kiss. 872 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,720 I think this experience is gonna bring up 873 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,880 some opportunities for reflection. 874 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,800 I really hope that there are some, 875 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,120 you know, really valuable lessons here 876 00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:47,080 that you can take on board in terms of moving into this next chapter. 877 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:48,520 You both know what you need... 878 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,120 Yeah. ..in your next relationships. 879 00:40:50,240 --> 00:40:51,440 Go out and get it. 880 00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:52,920 Thank you. Thank you so much. Thank you all of you. 881 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,640 And, Alessandra, I'm, I never meant to, you know, any, 882 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,080 you know, speaking over you. 883 00:40:58,200 --> 00:40:59,200 I apologise. 884 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,000 It was, um, something I need to get better at, 885 00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:03,200 and that's something I've taken on board. 886 00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:04,240 I really have. 887 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:05,800 So, um... I appreciate that. 888 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:06,880 ..I thank you for the feedback. OK? 889 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,640 Well, there's apologies going around. 890 00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,520 Is there an apology for me for being robbing me off the experience? 891 00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:13,800 I-I-I've enjoyed being doing this with you. 892 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,480 You know that. We've had... Yeah. 893 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:16,520 ..some great times. 894 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:17,560 We have. It's been amazing. 895 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:18,600 I just, anyway. 896 00:41:18,720 --> 00:41:20,400 It's not the ideal finish but... 897 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:21,720 Yeah. ..we've been doing well. 898 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,640 Yeah. It's been (BLEEP) fine. 899 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 900 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,920 Well, let's get our next couple up on the couch. 901 00:41:39,240 --> 00:41:41,560 Grayson and Julia. Yay. 902 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,400 (APPLAUSE) Hello. 903 00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:44,960 You look so amazing. 904 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,560 Aw. I need this outfit of you. 905 00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:51,640 Well, I've gotta say the energy between the two of you 906 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,600 is very different from last week. 907 00:41:53,720 --> 00:41:54,640 Yeah. OK. 908 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,880 What's going on? (CHUCKLES) 909 00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:57,920 Yeah. 910 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,640 So, um, this morning, I kissed him. 911 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:02,680 Oh. 912 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,440 Hey. Woo! 913 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,800 (CHEERS AND APPLAUSE) 914 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,800 Grayson seems happy about that. 915 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,720 Yeah. 916 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,640 Well, what did the kiss do to your relationship? 917 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,960 Yeah. It was very unexpected for me. 918 00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,560 I was like, this isn't gonna happen 919 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,520 unless I let him know that I'm open to that. 920 00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:21,560 Yes. 921 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:22,960 And so that felt really necessary for me 922 00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,000 to be the-the one to-to do that. 923 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:27,600 And I think it was necessary for Grayson 924 00:42:27,720 --> 00:42:31,560 to-to have that very clear cue that this is now OK. 925 00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,560 Yeah. Yeah. 926 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,320 So, in having the kiss, 927 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,120 did you feel there was chemistry 928 00:42:37,240 --> 00:42:38,680 between the two of you in that sense? 929 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:40,000 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah-yeah. 930 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:41,640 I love the way both your faces light up 931 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:42,720 when you talk about this kiss. 932 00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,320 (LAUGHS) Which is lovely to see. 933 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,520 And with that being the case, let's get to the decision. 934 00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,520 You first, Grayson. Me? Alright. 935 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,240 Stay or leave? 936 00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,320 I'm fully in this, so, I'm gonna "Stay." 937 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,520 Good. (APPLAUSE) 938 00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,480 Uh, Jules, what are you gonna do? Stay or leave? 939 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,760 So, I've written "Stay." Right. 940 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,480 Oh, a little love heart. So, he's still more snogging. 941 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,080 (APPLAUSE) 942 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:07,160 Well done, guys. Good stuff. 943 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,040 (APPLAUSE) 944 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,080 Alright. Let's get our next couple up. 945 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:13,600 Rachel and Steven. 946 00:43:13,720 --> 00:43:15,000 Woo. (CHEERS AND APPLAUSE) 947 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:16,840 I love it. Let's go. 948 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,600 Hello. 949 00:43:18,720 --> 00:43:22,680 Hello, you two. Hello. Johnny, how are you going? 950 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,240 Got a story to tell you. Yeah. 951 00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:29,920 So, tell us about this Intimacy Week 952 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,480 because clearly it had an impact on you in a positive way. 953 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:38,280 I rejected a simple kiss on that ultimate fantasy 954 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,920 and essentially rejected her. 955 00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,160 She was standing there vulnerable, and I hurt her feelings, 956 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,080 and I felt terrible how I made Rachel feel. 957 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,360 When it comes to intimacy, I'm a bit of a dope 958 00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,600 when it comes to it, 959 00:43:54,720 --> 00:43:58,760 but I took Alessandra's advice on very seriously 960 00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:04,320 through the workshop, and I'm really leaning into the tasks now. 961 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,520 Intimacy Week has made me feel 962 00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,480 a lot more comfortable around Rachel. 963 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:11,800 Fantastic. 964 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,680 Uh, it's a step forward for me, and it's a massive step forward. 965 00:44:15,720 --> 00:44:18,520 Right after your workshop, Alessandra, he turns up at my door, 966 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:19,920 12-long stem roses. 967 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,080 Aw. Yes. 968 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,680 What's a girl to do but swoon? 969 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:26,880 Like, I'm sorry. She was swooning like a schoolgirl. 970 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:32,560 What I love is that you persevere and move closer to her. 971 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,680 There are times when you drop the ball 972 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,240 but what you don't do is give up. 973 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,720 And you can see him doing that. I can. 974 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,880 That's why... Look, it's why I'm still here. 975 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,240 It's why I moved back. Yeah. 976 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,640 'Cause I could feel him trying. 977 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:46,720 I could feel it. 978 00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,040 So, you did move back in? I'm back in the house. 979 00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:50,080 You're back in. 980 00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:51,240 And I was very happy to be back. 981 00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,040 And how's it been? It's been good. 982 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:54,320 OK. It's been really good. 983 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:55,480 That's when the kissing started. 984 00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,920 Made her blush. So... (CHUCKLES) 985 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:02,720 I made her blush a bit too, I think. 986 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,440 Um, I don't know. I thought that was a sweet-sweet moment. 987 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,480 Well, that's nice. That's a nice way to describe it. 988 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:09,560 Yeah. 989 00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,200 So, Rachel, how do you feel about Steven right now? 990 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,000 I like Steven. The crush grows for me. 991 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:16,960 The feelings are growing. The crush grows? 992 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:20,080 The crush grows. It grows. Getting bigger. 993 00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,280 And that's because he's trying with me. 994 00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,680 Alright. Let's go to the decision. 995 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:28,920 Rachel. 996 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,400 I said to Steven that I'd give him a chance to show me 997 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:33,960 that he's trying, and he has. 998 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,200 I'm staying. 999 00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,280 (APPLAUSE) Love it. Fantastic. 1000 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:39,800 Steven, over to you. 1001 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:41,440 I don't wanna be a quitter. 1002 00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:44,560 I know I'm gonna stuff up along the way, and I hope I don't stuff up 1003 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:45,640 much-much more because I've... 1004 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,000 Stop. Oh. (CHUCKLES) 1005 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:48,840 ..I've done a few stuff ups, and, you know, 1006 00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,880 hopefully, next week is a much better week 1007 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,680 and I can come in and go, I aced it and I wrote "Stay." 1008 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:54,720 Yes. (APPLAUSE) 1009 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,320 Oh. Yes. 1010 00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,200 You are gonna make mistakes, both of you. 1011 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,240 Yeah. Don't quit. 1012 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,000 I'm not gonna be perfect, I'm just gonna try here. 1013 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,400 And if I make mistakes, I'll pick myself up, 1014 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:07,920 I'll keep going forward. 1015 00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,400 Thank you, guys. Thank you all so much. 1016 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,680 Well done. Good on you. Good work. 1017 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,080 Thanks, John. Beautiful, Rachel. 1018 00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,120 Thank you. 1019 00:46:16,240 --> 00:46:19,120 (RAIN POURS) 1020 00:46:19,240 --> 00:46:21,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 1021 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,840 Alright. Let's get our next couple up. 1022 00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:25,000 Gia and Scott. 1023 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:26,400 Oh, we're here. Let's go. 1024 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 1025 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,600 Good evening. Evening. 1026 00:46:34,720 --> 00:46:35,680 Hello. 1027 00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:38,600 Where do you wanna start? 1028 00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,240 Firstly, I wanna apologise to the entire group. 1029 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:47,000 Um, yesterday, my behaviour was really not OK. 1030 00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:48,800 (SAD MUSIC) 1031 00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:51,720 Especially, I wanna focus on Alissa and David though 1032 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:52,920 because I really, 1033 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,960 I came at you and I didn't have enough information to go off. 1034 00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,280 I went crazy and I really want you to know that I am genuinely sorry. 1035 00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,320 And I think you guys are like this, 1036 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,080 and I'm-I'm really happy for you guys. 1037 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:07,920 And Stella as well. 1038 00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,320 I'm sorry about last night joining in with Brook and, 1039 00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,600 like, going over the top like it was just not OK, my behaviour. 1040 00:47:13,720 --> 00:47:14,920 So, sorry. 1041 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:18,160 Well, thank you for that, Gia. 1042 00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:23,320 Your behaviour last night was ugly. 1043 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,080 It was mean. 1044 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,960 This is something that you need to take on board. 1045 00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,480 I cannot stress that enough. 1046 00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,160 Yeah. 1047 00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:35,720 I am curious to know where that came from 1048 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:36,760 'cause I haven't seen that before. 1049 00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:37,800 Yeah. 1050 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,920 Um, I've had a quite an emotional few days. 1051 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,240 Like, we had our first argument. 1052 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:45,280 Oh. Yeah. 1053 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:46,320 Um... 1054 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,920 We're bound to have one. It was gonna happen. 1055 00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:50,720 But, you know, we went out. 1056 00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,680 He was really tired and wanted to go home. 1057 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:53,960 Obviously, he doesn't drink. 1058 00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,360 So, you know, sober person in a room full of drunk people is, 1059 00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:58,600 like, not always a fun time. 1060 00:47:58,720 --> 00:48:00,840 And I probably should have listened to him and gone home at 08:00 1061 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,800 when he said and I didn't... 1062 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:03,840 I totally apologise to him. 1063 00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,720 I was-I was a kind of, accountable for my behaviour, 1064 00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,560 and it, like, I would never do that again. 1065 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,040 It, like, made him uncomfortable. 1066 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:14,520 And what did that do to the two of you? 1067 00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,600 Um... 1068 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,240 in reflection of the weekend, 1069 00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,120 it's actually taught me a lot on a positive note... 1070 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,120 because it's, I've experienced now social environments 1071 00:48:25,240 --> 00:48:27,960 and just how do we handle one another around people. 1072 00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:31,720 And I think it was just, it was more the aftermath, 1073 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,480 you know, a big night the next day, emotions start coming out. 1074 00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,000 And just, you know, some things hurt me a bit, 1075 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:40,680 which we communicated with, and I'd, 1076 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,640 I faced it straight away because it really did hurt me. 1077 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:43,920 What sort of things? 1078 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 1079 00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:51,640 Just, uh, and it could be a thing of emotions start coming out 1080 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,600 but words I didn't appreciate was, "You don't like me, 1081 00:48:55,720 --> 00:48:57,560 you're here for the wrong reasons, and I can get any guy I want." 1082 00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:04,360 Coming up... 1083 00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:05,880 I just wanted to do the right thing. 1084 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:07,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1085 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:11,720 I have never experienced a woman be so vicious 1086 00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:12,840 toward other women. 1087 00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:15,360 What the heck? 1088 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:23,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 1089 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,360 Words I didn't appreciate was... 1090 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:29,640 "You don't like me, you're here for wrong reasons 1091 00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:30,680 and I can get any guy I want." 1092 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,720 (TENSE MUSIC) 1093 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:37,360 I'm not putting you under the bus, 1094 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:38,880 it's because I really care about you. 1095 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:40,480 Wait. You're talking about what I said when I was drunk? 1096 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:41,640 No, this is the next day. 1097 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:45,080 (SAD MUSIC) 1098 00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,280 And it could be a-a thing of, you know, it's been a big night. 1099 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:48,320 Yeah. 1100 00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,920 You know, words do hurt me, 1101 00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,920 and that's kinda what's taken me a step back. 1102 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:57,280 Gia, explain to me 1103 00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:03,000 why you would say to Scott that you could get any guy you want? 1104 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,360 (TENSE MUSIC) 1105 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,160 I do tend to self-sabotage. 1106 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,640 If something's going too well, I find a reason to, like, 1107 00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:13,640 push back a bit. 1108 00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:14,720 Oh, it's too good. 1109 00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,080 Like, it's not, you know, let me throw some shit at it 1110 00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:18,800 and see what happens. 1111 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,680 And you certainly did that. Yeah. Yeah. 1112 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,880 It was like self-destructive behaviour. 1113 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,080 So, do you feel like you're testing him a little bit? 1114 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:27,120 A little bit. Yeah. 1115 00:50:27,240 --> 00:50:29,480 And I know it's bad but I feel like I am to see, like, 1116 00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,000 if he'll hang around. 1117 00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:36,840 You're doing these self-sabotage type of behaviours 1118 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:38,480 and I'm wondering what you're scared of. 1119 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,040 I'm like scared to fully let him in 1120 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:43,800 because I'm scared I'm gonna get hurt. 1121 00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:45,520 (SAD MUSIC) 1122 00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:49,200 It's hard for me because, like, in my previous relationship, 1123 00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:51,800 the wall had to stay up because I was never protected. 1124 00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,920 I-I don't wanna go into this and do the same thing but it's just, 1125 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,160 it's harder for me to pull the wall all the way down. 1126 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,680 It's really scary for me to be honest. 1127 00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:04,320 I can see that. Yeah. 1128 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,680 What are you afraid that might happen 1129 00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:10,360 if you let the wall down? 1130 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:11,520 That I'll get hurt. 1131 00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,560 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 1132 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,800 But if you notice how I speak to your daughter, 1133 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,960 I speak to your mum, I show efforts, I'm there every day... 1134 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:24,000 No, you do. ..for you. 1135 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:25,040 Like... 1136 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:26,080 Yeah. 1137 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:27,280 ..there's no reason to not allow me in. 1138 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,160 It's one of the things where, like, 1139 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:31,680 we're still a little bit early in the experiment. 1140 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,280 We've now had a hurdle. 1141 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,160 We're... We've had such a beautiful time. 1142 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,120 Like, I keep saying, 1143 00:51:38,240 --> 00:51:42,600 I'm all in on this and I see so many more positives. 1144 00:51:42,720 --> 00:51:45,960 Some things that weren't meant to be said happened. 1145 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,800 And I know you don't mean it but as long as you're self aware, 1146 00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:50,200 I just don't want it happen again. 1147 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,360 But-but it's very... it's very important 1148 00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,480 what you've heard from Gia tonight 1149 00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,680 is that she's testing you not because she doesn't like you 1150 00:51:57,800 --> 00:51:59,760 but you're also pushing him away. 1151 00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:00,880 Yep. 1152 00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:02,960 And so you're on notice with that. 1153 00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:04,000 Yep. 1154 00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,200 You've got a guy that adores you right now, 1155 00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,440 who fits exactly what you want. 1156 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,720 But if you keep doing what you're doing, 1157 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:13,680 he's gonna start to lose interest. 1158 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,720 Gia, how do you feel about Scott? 1159 00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,200 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 1160 00:52:22,240 --> 00:52:23,680 I really like Scott. 1161 00:52:24,720 --> 00:52:30,080 Everyone would probably agree, like, genuine, kind-hearted. 1162 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:31,800 I've let him in my whole life, and I mean, 1163 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,000 he's met my daughter on FaceTime. 1164 00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:37,160 Yeah, I don't want it to end to be honest. 1165 00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:38,600 (SOOTHING MUSIC) 1166 00:52:38,720 --> 00:52:40,640 It's funny because I feel like we're in a ten-year marriage 1167 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,360 already the way we carry on our lifestyle and our routine. 1168 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:44,400 You know what I mean? 1169 00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:45,440 Like... Yeah. 1170 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:46,520 ..we wake up in the morning. 1171 00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:48,920 As soon as we get up, we're both on the other side, 1172 00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:49,960 we pull the sheet over. 1173 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:51,640 It starts there, and it's like we're aligned. 1174 00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,200 It makes me feel complete 1175 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,000 because it's like that's what I was missing 1176 00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:56,160 and I just can't stop smiling. 1177 00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,120 Let's go to the decision. 1178 00:53:00,240 --> 00:53:01,560 Gia. 1179 00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:05,360 Um, I'm obviously gonna "Stay." Good. 1180 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:06,960 (APPLAUSE) 1181 00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:09,160 Scott, stay or leave? 1182 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:10,200 'Course I'll "Stay." 1183 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:11,440 (APPLAUSE) Good. 1184 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,520 Yes. 1185 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:15,600 Well done. Well, you've learned a lot. 1186 00:53:15,720 --> 00:53:18,040 You kinda know exactly what direction you need to go in. 1187 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:19,600 Yep. Now, let him in. 1188 00:53:19,720 --> 00:53:22,960 I know it's scary but that's where the fairy tale lies. 1189 00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:24,000 Yep. 1190 00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,440 And you gotta embrace it if you want it. 1191 00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:26,480 Yep. Alright. 1192 00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:27,600 Back to the group. Thank you. 1193 00:53:27,720 --> 00:53:28,640 Thank you. Appreciate it. 1194 00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:29,680 Well done, you guys. 1195 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,880 Yew! 1196 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:34,960 Our next couple up on the couch... 1197 00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:38,080 Bec and Danny. 1198 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:41,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 1199 00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,120 (APPLAUSE) 1200 00:53:43,240 --> 00:53:44,480 Hi, guys. Hello. 1201 00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:45,560 How are you all? 1202 00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,520 We're doing pretty well. What about you two? 1203 00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:53,080 Not good. 1204 00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:59,280 Bec, you look like you're really struggling. 1205 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,000 (SAD MUSIC) 1206 00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,640 Help us understand what's going on. 1207 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,560 Um, we had like the best week. 1208 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:12,680 Alessandra's Intimacy Week was amazing for us. 1209 00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:16,800 And then last night, Gia made a comment to me 1210 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,600 that on Saturday night, Danny said to her... 1211 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,760 "In the outside world, you would be the type of girl 1212 00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,240 that I would be interested in, not me." 1213 00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:31,800 Did you say that, Danny? 1214 00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:33,800 Absolutely not. Of course not. 1215 00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 1216 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:38,960 So, I walked off, 1217 00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:42,240 and then he stayed somewhere else last night. 1218 00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,600 And then today when he came in, 1219 00:54:44,720 --> 00:54:46,440 he basically said to me that... 1220 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,600 we've got no trust because... 1221 00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,280 because he wants someone 1222 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:57,800 that's a Bonnie and Clyde kind of love. 1223 00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:02,160 And that because I believed him for a minute... 1224 00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:07,200 that, basically, I have to rebuild the trust 1225 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,880 and he doesn't know what I can do to do that. 1226 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:19,440 Sorry. 1227 00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,560 So, Danny, you were saying that Bec had broken your trust. 1228 00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:39,240 For me, obviously, when we spoke this morning... 1229 00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:40,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 1230 00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,320 ..there was just like, it threw me 1231 00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:46,080 that she'd even believe a comment like that. 1232 00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:49,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 1233 00:55:50,720 --> 00:55:53,480 And, Bec, where do you sit on this? 1234 00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,520 Do you believe Danny at this point? 1235 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 1236 00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,720 I don't think he would do that because I know how loyal he is, 1237 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:05,000 and that's something that we're basing 1238 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,600 our whole relationship off of. 1239 00:56:06,720 --> 00:56:09,440 And I know I've broken your trust and I'm sorry. 1240 00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:16,000 I was just in a, on a diff... I-I was a space cadet last night. 1241 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:17,480 I was on a different planet. 1242 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:19,960 It's alright. 1243 00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 1244 00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,600 Absolutely not. You're not gonna gaslight a woman right now. 1245 00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:36,560 You know what you said. 1246 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,160 Why the hell would I make... Gia. Gia. Gia. 1247 00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:39,640 Stop. I'm talking. 1248 00:56:45,720 --> 00:56:47,920 (RAIN POURS) 1249 00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:50,800 (TENSE MUSIC) 1250 00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,520 Absolutely not. You're not gonna gaslight a woman right now. 1251 00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:55,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 1252 00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:57,440 You know what you said. 1253 00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,120 Why the hell would I make... Gia. Gia. Gia. 1254 00:56:59,240 --> 00:57:00,440 Stop. I'm talking. 1255 00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:03,600 Why would I make this up? 1256 00:57:03,720 --> 00:57:06,240 I'm so happy in my match and my relationship. 1257 00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:08,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 1258 00:57:08,240 --> 00:57:10,640 You're making her feel like she can't trust you now, 1259 00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:11,680 when you've lied. 1260 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:13,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 1261 00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,840 Gia, you have zero credibility. 1262 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,680 I swear on my daughter's life. Do not lie. 1263 00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:23,600 You and I both know the truth, and you know what you said. 1264 00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,320 And now you're trying to cover your ass. 1265 00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:32,600 Scott, you was there with me the whole night. 1266 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,080 She wouldn't make that up, dude. 1267 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:37,240 Gia. Gia. 1268 00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:39,200 No, I'm not going back and forth on this. 1269 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:40,360 Can I just say one thing? 1270 00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:42,720 Not interested anymore. You're not interested? 1271 00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,640 It's gonna go around and around. Like, he's never gonna admit it. 1272 00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:47,840 He's never gonna. 1273 00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,240 He's saying, I lied. Why would I lie? 1274 00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:52,680 Please get a lie detector test. Please. 1275 00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 1276 00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,640 So, Danny, you're saying that Gia's description of you 1277 00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:58,720 didn't happen. 1278 00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:00,800 That didn't happen. No. 1279 00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,840 It's just weird how no-one else heard it. 1280 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,360 And-and, Bec, if he did say that, 1281 00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:11,360 would that be something you could move past? 1282 00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,160 No. No. It's not. 1283 00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:17,040 Why is that? 1284 00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:20,960 It's hard for me because we've had such a good week 1285 00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:25,680 where it felt like the connection was so intense and amazing. 1286 00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,320 And I feel like we've got a real connection. 1287 00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:33,240 So, like, for-for, I-I... 1288 00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:35,400 No, I'm not...I'm not...I'm not gonna believe that. 1289 00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:36,760 I'm not gonna believe it. 1290 00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,880 I would be doing our relationship an injustice 1291 00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:45,160 if I didn't believe him and respect him. 1292 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:46,720 We're in this relationship. 1293 00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:52,880 Do you trust me? 1294 00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:56,080 Yeah, I do. 1295 00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:57,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 1296 00:58:57,960 --> 00:58:59,320 Why do you say that? 1297 00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:03,320 Because I'd-I'd, like I do. 1298 00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:07,160 I don't think she'd betray me on no major level. 1299 00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,080 It frustrated me. Do know what I mean? 1300 00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,160 But it's not, nothing, that can't be fixed. 1301 00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:13,760 That's why I'm still here. 1302 00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:16,920 Alright. 1303 00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:22,400 What you're gonna need to do this week particularly is be kind, 1304 00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,160 to have that mind-set. 1305 00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:25,520 That's all you gotta focus on. 1306 00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:30,080 Make sure you're there for each other. 1307 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,240 We're gonna go to the decision. 1308 00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,720 We're gonna start with Danny. Stay or leave? 1309 00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:38,920 Obviously, it's been a bit of a rough 24 hours 1310 00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:40,920 but I still wanna stay and work through this. 1311 00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:42,520 Good. Good. I like that. 1312 00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:44,520 (APPLAUSE) 1313 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,080 And for you, Bec? 1314 00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,480 It's 100% stay, 1315 00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,320 and there's a little "Adore u" next to it. 1316 00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:53,600 Thank you. 1317 00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:56,760 On that you can go back to the group. 1318 00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:58,320 Thanks, guys. Thank you, guys. 1319 00:59:58,440 --> 00:59:59,360 Oh-huh. 1320 00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:01,440 (APPLAUSE) 1321 01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:04,280 Can I get a kiss, please? 1322 01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,000 Next up on the couch, 1323 01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:14,160 Stella and Filip. 1324 01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:16,400 (APPLAUSE) Woo! 1325 01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,000 Hi. How are you going? Good. 1326 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:21,720 How are you? Great. How are you? 1327 01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:22,760 Yeah. We're going alright. 1328 01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:23,840 We're just...yeah. 1329 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,400 Stella, you know, last night was, 1330 01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:29,920 you know, pretty intense for you. 1331 01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:31,320 (TENSE MUSIC) 1332 01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:36,160 Uh, the spotlight hit, and they came for you. 1333 01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:38,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 1334 01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:42,520 I watched closely to see how you would act 1335 01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:45,800 under that sort of intense challenge. 1336 01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,920 Mm. And you didn't react. 1337 01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:51,280 You stayed very calm... 1338 01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:54,600 and you were very mature. 1339 01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:55,680 Thank you. 1340 01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,000 And it was quite outstanding to watch. 1341 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:03,120 Now, you've had some apologies since then. 1342 01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:07,800 Uh, how's that landed? How do you feel about it? 1343 01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:09,360 The apologies? Yeah. 1344 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:10,440 Um. 1345 01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:15,240 Hmm. 1346 01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:18,280 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 1347 01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:25,880 Look, apology... 1348 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,200 is worth nothing without changed behaviour. 1349 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:35,560 So... 1350 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:41,920 unfortunately, I can't witness changed behaviour 1351 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:43,320 just yet, if ever. 1352 01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:46,640 I don't hold grudges but, yeah, 1353 01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:50,080 you know, apology without changed behaviour is nothing. 1354 01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:55,960 And what did that do to you, 1355 01:01:56,080 --> 01:02:01,200 Filip, when you saw her in that sort of situation and how she responded? 1356 01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:03,200 When she's getting pressed and when, you know, 1357 01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:06,880 when things are not comfortable, you know, she keeps her cool. 1358 01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:10,720 But I-I just really wanna put it out there and just say, 1359 01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:13,680 I really respect how you handled yourself. 1360 01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:16,920 Like, how you talk to people and approach life, 1361 01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,160 I dare say that that's like your greatest superpower. 1362 01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:22,360 She held her own and-and, like, yeah. 1363 01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,320 And now we just choose to, we're just, 1364 01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:25,720 in our own lane we got the horse blinkers on, 1365 01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:26,760 we're just doing our thing. 1366 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:27,800 Yeah. 1367 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,160 You know, like, we're just up in each other's grill, 1368 01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:31,880 having a good time, and it's good. 1369 01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:35,680 Stella, how deep are your feelings for him now? 1370 01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:38,040 Um... 1371 01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:46,000 Whatever future holds. It's good. Yeah. 1372 01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:47,600 Yeah. I've never met a man like him. 1373 01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:48,760 Wow. 1374 01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:52,920 How I'm feeling, it just unlocks so much more 1375 01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:54,320 beauty to my life. 1376 01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:59,800 Like, so, as much as it feels surreal, I feel like, um... 1377 01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,360 it was just meant to happen. 1378 01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:06,080 So, are you falling in love? 1379 01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,040 I think yeah. Wow. 1380 01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:12,840 I feel very mushy, very vulnerable, 1381 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,280 you know, and that obviously means... 1382 01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,240 that obviously means that, you know. 1383 01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:19,240 So, yeah. 1384 01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:23,960 What about you, Filip? Do you feel the same way? 1385 01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:25,040 Um... 1386 01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:30,680 She knows that I definitely feel a certain way about her. 1387 01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:35,560 And, um, yeah, so I can definitely see myself starting to offer her. 1388 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:38,000 For sure, definitely. 1389 01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:42,720 Well, I don't think, ah, there are gonna be any surprises 1390 01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:44,760 here but we're gonna go to the decision. 1391 01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:49,000 Stay or leave, and we're gonna go with you first, Stella. 1392 01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:51,960 Obviously, not a question, right? 1393 01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:54,240 So... (CHUCKLES) Great. 1394 01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:55,520 A mere formality. 1395 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:58,560 (LAUGHS) Ah, for you, Filip. 1396 01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:02,440 Every week keeps getting better and better with you, no doubt. 1397 01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:05,640 Uh, and I'm looking forward to the next one, 1398 01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,480 so I'm going to write, "Stay." 1399 01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,160 (APPLAUSE) Love it, guys. 1400 01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:11,360 Off you go. 1401 01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:12,960 Yay, guys. 1402 01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:16,000 (APPLAUSE) (JOYOUS MUSIC) 1403 01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:20,120 And last up on the couch... 1404 01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:23,440 Brook and Chris. 1405 01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:26,280 After you. Thanks. 1406 01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:29,520 Hello, you two. 1407 01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:30,760 Hello. 1408 01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:33,920 Hi. Hi. 1409 01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:36,800 (TENSE MUSIC) 1410 01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:40,640 Alright. Where do we start with you two? 1411 01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:43,680 (TENSE MUSIC) 1412 01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:45,880 Oh, gosh. 1413 01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,720 (TENSE MUSIC) 1414 01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:00,080 (RAIN POURS) 1415 01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:03,720 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 1416 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:08,160 Alright. Where do we start with you two? 1417 01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:10,920 Oh, gosh. 1418 01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:15,800 Um, before we start, I just wanna say, 1419 01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:20,240 um, especially to Alissa, Stella, 1420 01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:23,880 I'm extremely sorry for my actions last night. 1421 01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:29,720 I feel so much guilt and, um, you know, regret today. 1422 01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:30,800 Um... 1423 01:05:31,920 --> 01:05:35,200 I, you know, I did take it too far last night. 1424 01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:36,280 Um... 1425 01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:39,960 Um, there's no excuse for that behaviour, 1426 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,680 and I'm really sorry I took it too far and I shouldn't have. 1427 01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:44,080 So, I'm sorry. 1428 01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:53,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 1429 01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:00,280 (BLOWS RASPBERRY) 1430 01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:02,520 Well, just on that, Brook, 1431 01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,480 why did you react like that at the dinner party? 1432 01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:08,000 Um, I think for me walking in, 1433 01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:09,840 there was a lot of things that I was a little bit upset 1434 01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:10,920 with that had happened... 1435 01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,480 and there was things that I wanted to vocalise. 1436 01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:16,720 But my emotions got the better of me, 1437 01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:18,280 and I came out and attacked. 1438 01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:23,920 Um, no-one's perfect. I know I'm definitely not perfect. 1439 01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,320 Um, that's not who I am. 1440 01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:28,560 I don't even do that in the outside world. 1441 01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:30,640 So, I was like, why did I do that in here? 1442 01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:35,920 I mean, I can only apologise and take accountability. 1443 01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:37,040 So... 1444 01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:39,840 (BLOWS RASPBERRY) 1445 01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:41,960 ..I wasn't even gonna be there to start with. 1446 01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:43,000 Um... 1447 01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:45,840 Well, just on that, Brook, you decided to up and leave. 1448 01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:46,920 Yeah. 1449 01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,400 Take us there. What was that all about? 1450 01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:54,360 Um, since the video, I've had my guard up still. 1451 01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:58,040 I had tried to let it go down. Um, I felt really sad. 1452 01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:00,760 I think also sad because I know how hard 1453 01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:05,240 Chris is trying as well um, to, you know, get us progressing. 1454 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:08,680 But in the same time, there's things in actions that Chris has done 1455 01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:11,000 that I can't move past. 1456 01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:14,000 As much as I've got a lot of work to do on myself, um, you know, 1457 01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:15,120 Chris and I have discussed, 1458 01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:17,840 he's got a lot of work to do on himself as well. 1459 01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:19,360 We get along like a house on fire. 1460 01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,080 We enjoy each other's company but it's friends. 1461 01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:25,960 Chris, if I jump in, 1462 01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:28,360 what impact did it have on you when Brook left? 1463 01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:30,720 I just... It was just a little bit rushed, 1464 01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:33,520 and that was probably the only part that sort of made me 1465 01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:34,840 a little bit uneasy but-but saying that again... 1466 01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:36,000 Did it hurt? 1467 01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:39,320 Not...not...not hurt, no. 1468 01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:43,040 It wasn't like I was blind sided in any means. 1469 01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:47,960 What would be the feeling? 1470 01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:51,080 Just the feeling of that void that was left. 1471 01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,160 And did you feel rejected? 1472 01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:55,200 No. 1473 01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:56,720 Not really rejected 1474 01:07:56,840 --> 01:07:59,160 purely because I knew to get to where we are now 1475 01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,040 has been mostly my fault. 1476 01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:05,200 I know that Brook is-is an amazing person 1477 01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:07,520 and-and giving as-as much as she can. 1478 01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:13,680 I know...I know that I've been more or less the problem in this. 1479 01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:17,800 So, I've never...I've never once felt blind sided by Brook. 1480 01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:21,160 Thank you. 1481 01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:24,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1482 01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:29,480 Chris, do you have romantic feelings for Brook? 1483 01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:33,440 Um, Just I've gown, 1484 01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:34,960 I've got...I've got feelings for Brook. 1485 01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:37,120 Yes. Romantic ones? 1486 01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:39,080 What-what defines romantic? 1487 01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:41,080 Well, more than a friend. 1488 01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:46,080 Obviously, I care. I care...I care a lot about her. Yeah. 1489 01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:50,560 If she was interested in exploring that with you, 1490 01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:52,360 is that something that you'd be keen to do? 1491 01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,840 I think...I think throughout the experiment, 1492 01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:58,560 we've had issues obviously with the-the video 1493 01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:00,000 and things like that. 1494 01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:02,160 That it's-it's gotten Brook to this point where she, 1495 01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:05,720 her-her guard is up, and she just doesn't really see, 1496 01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:08,360 especially in this experiment, anything progressing with us. 1497 01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:12,760 I know exactly how she feels towards me 1498 01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:14,280 and towards this whole experiment. 1499 01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:15,320 So, it means I feel... 1500 01:09:15,440 --> 01:09:16,960 How does she feel towards you? 1501 01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:18,040 She knows she's got a lot of care 1502 01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:22,600 and...and...and emotional respect for me. 1503 01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:24,920 We just know that it won't work in here. 1504 01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:27,480 But I'm-I'm more at the point where I'm like, 1505 01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:29,080 it's not that it won't work in here. 1506 01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:30,720 It's the fact that it's like, 1507 01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,320 it won't work on the outside either, Chris. 1508 01:09:33,440 --> 01:09:34,400 (CLEARS THROAT) 1509 01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:37,440 I'm not saying like we're ending this 1510 01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:39,280 and we're gonna be 100% on the outside. 1511 01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:40,320 Yeah. Like, that's not it. 1512 01:09:40,440 --> 01:09:41,360 No. No. It's more... 1513 01:09:41,480 --> 01:09:42,400 Like, you're go off and live your life. 1514 01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:44,040 Yeah. Do better for you. 1515 01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:45,160 You work on yourself. 1516 01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:47,600 If you wanna do whatever you wanna do, do that. 1517 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:49,360 And I'll do the same with me. Yeah. 1518 01:09:49,480 --> 01:09:51,920 You know, we have such a beautiful friendship. 1519 01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:53,680 And there's things and actions that Chris has done 1520 01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:55,640 that I can't move past. 1521 01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:59,840 I have had to hold your hand the last couple of weeks. 1522 01:09:59,960 --> 01:10:01,360 I have to ask you to apologise 1523 01:10:01,480 --> 01:10:03,920 to people and, like, things like that, and I'm not, 1524 01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:06,160 I didn't come here to hold your hand. 1525 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,160 And in my life, I've always had to hold my own hand. 1526 01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,200 And so I want my hand to be held now. 1527 01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:13,280 Which is fair. 1528 01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:16,440 You alright? 1529 01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:20,240 And, Brook, why-why did you come back? 1530 01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:25,000 Um, I mean, I left, and within, like, two hours of being home 1531 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:27,680 as much as I was enjoying the sun and the Gold Coast, 1532 01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:30,080 I felt guilty for leaving Chris. 1533 01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:31,880 I had guilt that I'd left, and I was like, 1534 01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:35,320 I need to get back there, and so, that's why I decided to come back. 1535 01:10:35,440 --> 01:10:37,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 1536 01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:39,800 I just wanted to do the right thing. 1537 01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:46,920 Just whatever. 1538 01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:48,040 (GROANS) 1539 01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:53,760 Can I share an observation with you, Brook. 1540 01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:57,120 So, you're saying that, you know, you felt guilty 1541 01:10:57,240 --> 01:10:59,560 about-about leaving Chris, so, you wanted to come back. 1542 01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:03,800 But observing you coming into the dinner party... 1543 01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:05,000 Mm. 1544 01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:07,040 ..you quickly acknowledged him 1545 01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:09,720 and then shifted your focus to the rest of the room. 1546 01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:10,800 Mm. 1547 01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:13,800 And we didn't see you interacting with Chris much. 1548 01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:16,880 Could you see how it might have looked like you came back 1549 01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:18,240 to have a go at people? 1550 01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:20,000 100%. 1551 01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:22,720 (SAD MUSIC) 1552 01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:24,920 Why do you think you did that? 1553 01:11:26,480 --> 01:11:29,680 Why did I not talk to Chris at the beginning? 1554 01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:30,760 Yeah. 1555 01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:34,840 Obviously, yeah, got carried away. 1556 01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:42,120 So, at the last Commitment Ceremony 1557 01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:43,760 when we were here, 1558 01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:46,600 you had some issues with the way Chris spoke about women 1559 01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:47,680 in his audition... 1560 01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:48,800 Mm-hm. ..video. 1561 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:51,480 I guess I'm just reflecting on last night 1562 01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:52,560 and observing you, Brook. 1563 01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:54,560 I know and I've taken full accountability and... 1564 01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:56,600 And the way that you spoke to women. 1565 01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:58,680 Oh. 1566 01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:01,120 Can you see how that feels a little bit at odds 1567 01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:03,240 with the attitude you're having toward Chris last week. 1568 01:12:03,360 --> 01:12:04,280 100%. 1569 01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:06,720 And I get that you're sitting here and saying that but I'm like, 1570 01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:10,160 also, it was a tough week, and I wasn't feeling myself. 1571 01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:13,600 Um, you know, it was a difficult situation. 1572 01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:16,440 Like, there's been a few things that I've just kind of struggled 1573 01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:18,120 to get past in this experiment... 1574 01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:19,480 (BLOWS RASPBERRY) 1575 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,960 ..but I've still gone out of my way to go and apologise. 1576 01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:24,480 Sorry. Can I just jump in there? 1577 01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:28,040 I've gotta say in all my years 1578 01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:29,920 working on 'Married at First Sight', 1579 01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:33,440 I have never experienced a woman 1580 01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:36,240 be so vicious toward other women. 1581 01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:38,360 Mm. 1582 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,360 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 1583 01:12:48,480 --> 01:12:51,120 In all my years working on 'Married at First Sight', 1584 01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:54,720 I have never experienced a woman 1585 01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:57,600 be so vicious toward other women. 1586 01:12:58,680 --> 01:12:59,720 Mm. 1587 01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:04,560 It was relentless. 1588 01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:06,120 Mm. 1589 01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:10,320 And to continue doing that for several hours 1590 01:13:10,440 --> 01:13:14,200 without barely taking a breath, it was vicious. 1591 01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:16,760 Mm. 1592 01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:19,800 (TENSE MUSIC) 1593 01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:25,320 I'm gonna go to the toilet quickly. 1594 01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:33,000 What the heck? 1595 01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:36,760 I'm just going to the loo. 1596 01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:57,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 1597 01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:09,320 But you've just got to... 1598 01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,920 (TENSE MUSIC) 1599 01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:37,080 (HUMS MUSIC) 1600 01:14:49,120 --> 01:14:50,680 No, I think Brook's gone. 1601 01:14:50,800 --> 01:14:52,000 I don't think she's coming back. 1602 01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:56,760 Hopefully not. 1603 01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:27,760 (TENSE MUSIC) 1604 01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:41,720 Yeah. Once Brook gets back. 1605 01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:53,840 Yeah. 1606 01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:55,680 And she was like, see you later. 1607 01:15:55,800 --> 01:15:57,880 She knew they were about to get into her and she went drunk. 1608 01:15:58,000 --> 01:15:59,040 Yeah. Sure. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 1609 01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:00,080 Yeah. 1610 01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:02,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 1611 01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:03,600 (CLEARS THROAT) 1612 01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:04,680 Chris... 1613 01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:07,600 I've got some news. 1614 01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:13,560 Unfortunately, Brook is not coming back. 1615 01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:22,160 She's decided to do a runner... again. 1616 01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:25,800 I'm not... Nah. Nah. 1617 01:16:32,240 --> 01:16:35,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 1618 01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:50,760 No. 1619 01:16:55,480 --> 01:16:57,320 It just shouldn't have ended that way for them. 1620 01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:04,920 Tomorrow night, the experiment enters its next exciting chapter. 1621 01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:09,840 To fall in love in this experiment would mean everything. 1622 01:17:10,880 --> 01:17:14,800 Over two big nights, love will be in the air. 1623 01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:17,720 I'm definitely ready to share my life with someone. 1624 01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:21,680 When three brand new couples enter the experiment. 1625 01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,920 I'm just ready to go all in. 1626 01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:28,480 First, we meet the regimented groom 1627 01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:31,360 who's struggling to find true love. 1628 01:17:34,280 --> 01:17:36,960 If they have children, that's the first red flag. 1629 01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:39,360 I'm not here to look after someone else's kids. 1630 01:17:39,480 --> 01:17:40,520 That's not my job. 1631 01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:44,040 If the person across from me today embraces woke culture, 1632 01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:46,000 we'll have a problem. 1633 01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:47,080 Plus. 1634 01:17:50,480 --> 01:17:55,360 This outgoing bride is looking for her eccentric class clown. 1635 01:17:55,480 --> 01:17:57,960 Shall we get married? I'm hungry. 1636 01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:00,200 But will the groom's wedding vows... 1637 01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,040 I've actually got many flaws. 1638 01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:03,800 Carpet, tiles, wood. 1639 01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:05,920 You name it, baby. 1640 01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:07,400 (CROWS CAW) 1641 01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:10,200 ..or his mother's unusual tribute... 1642 01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:12,320 And you turn into a gluttonous pig. 1643 01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:15,640 ..derail the wedding day. 1644 01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:18,680 (TENSE MUSIC) 1645 01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:23,920 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 122070

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