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I guess I just feel like I haven't been
noticed my whole life.
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I feel like everyone's always ignoring
me.
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There was some trauma when I was at the
mall and it was around Halloween time
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and I hung out at the Halloween store
for a while until I realized that I had
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make my way home.
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And I just feel like it's been a series
of me just being ignored all my life.
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Yeah, I agree with that.
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Did you, can you actually, I'm sorry,
can you actually Repeat all that again.
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spaced for a little bit. I was taking
notes.
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Can you just repeat that again?
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Yeah.
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I just feel like I've been ignored by
everyone all my life, and I feel like
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I have needs, and I need attention, but
I feel like I just need to reach
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out and take what I want, I guess, now.
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Yeah.
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That's understandable.
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I have another patient coming in, so
we'll work on those things, okay? Okay.
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Thank you.
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Hi. Hi, I'm here at 11 o 'clock.
Perfect. Come on in. Come on in.
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Well, ever since I dyed my hair blonde,
I just keep getting bombarded by blonde
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joke after blonde joke after blonde
joke. I just can't take it anymore.
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blonde jokes making you feel are people
at least being disrespectful,
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with negative attention.
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Yeah, and I mean, people just assume I'm
dumb, I'm a bimbo, that I can't
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count to 10. I can count to 50.
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Okay. So, I, it's just so frustrating.
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I can see why you're frustrated.
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Okay, let's, um, what have you done?
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makes you feel, um, that helps with it?
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Have you done,
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have you, have you talked to them and
told them your feelings and explained to
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them like you're not done? You can count
up to 50.
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Um, so have you done those things or do
you just let it go?
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You know, it just, I guess I just can't
formulate my words. You know, I say,
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guys, please, it's just a hair color. I
can change my hair, but
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You have to defend yourself.
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I'm totally with you on this and I'm
sorry that you're experiencing this.
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Would you, how would you feel if you
changed your hair color, if you did dye
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Wow. I mean, I just can't imagine myself
anything other than blonde. It would be
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too much. I don't think my psyche can
handle something like that.
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Okay. I think that's good because I
don't think you should have to change
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yourself.
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To, you know, to make these people feel
better about themselves. Because, you
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know, the only reason why they're
teasing you and doing all these things
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because they feel very horrible about
themselves. They have a bad outlook on
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themselves. You know, low self -esteem.
So everything that you're doing is
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you're just showing them that you're
smart,
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independent, confident.
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Yeah, I don't have to conform to social,
you know.
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You know, you keep being you. You want
to be.
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that self -confidence and just don't
worry about them.
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Fear is very insecure.
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They have their own issues that they
have to deal with.
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So you are doing just fine. Keep doing
what you're doing.
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Wow. That's amazing advice. Thank you so
much. I'm so glad you're really
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listening to me and giving me the
attention I deserve.
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It's awesome.
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But the real reason I'm here is I
developed an
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intense fear of the dark.
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Of the dark?
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Yeah, just thinking about being in the
dark is giving me chills right now.
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Oh, okay. Well, we're in a very bright
room right now, so don't worry about it.
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So what is it about the dark that, or
actually, can you explain yourself?
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what is your fear?
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In the dark and not being able to see
anything. The lack of sight.
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Okay, so it's not knowing what's in the
dark. Is it actually, like, you're
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scared. I just need more and more.
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Same thing with bananas.
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Oh,
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bananas are a good one as well.
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I would agree.
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I think cucumbers are really good. I
love zucchinis. Clean them in the oven.
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a healthier lifestyle to try and, you
know, healthier living, functional
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medicine, you know, just try to feel
better about myself and, you know, take
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some more.
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Those are all really, really good steps
to living a healthier
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life. I definitely agree with you. Those
more natural, well, it's Friday.
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less fried food. You know, it tastes
really, really good. It's very healthy.
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you have a very positive outlook on
life.
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Wow, that means so much to me.
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You know, it's really hard trying to eat
healthy and stay the whole foods and
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not, you know, succumb to the
preservatives and processed
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things. So, oh, I actually started a
garden in my backyard.
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Yeah. You know, it's been such a great
hobby to do as well.
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And, you know, I feel so connected to
nature and so much more free
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and just a lot more positive energy.
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That's really, really good.
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That really makes you feel a lot better.
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Those are very positive hobbies.
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Yeah. I believe that if you continue the
gardening and the healthy lifestyle,
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like those vegetables, less fried food,
the different takes
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on like the medicine and exercise, I
definitely think that that's really
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the dead, all of those different things
that we've talked about.
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You really think so?
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Of course.
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Everything affects your life. One thing
affects the other. It's all just one
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big, big cycle.
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to make sure that you find something
that you enjoy, something that you're
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at, something that really, really
excites you.
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And it seems like gardening really,
really, really excites you.
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So that is really awesome. I'm so glad
you found this hobby.
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See? It will make things a little bit
easier, I think, because it shows that
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you're determined and that you pull
through and that you're not going to
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up. Yeah. So I really think that you
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gardening is a really, really good sign
that
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you will be really good with overcoming
the
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debt issues, the dark issues, for sure,
because, you know,
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something that you will have to overcome
and you will overcome.
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So your determination.
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You know, I believe in you. I definitely
know you can do it.
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Wow, Dr. Lane. I mean, wow. I mean, I
wish I could see you like three times
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a week, honestly.
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Your advice is so awesome.
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And yeah, gardening, it's been a great,
great experience for me. What do you
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enjoy about gardening?
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Is it like being outdoors? Oh, I love
just reaching my hands into the dirt,
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getting dirty.
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watching things, watching things grow.
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Well,
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I'm just trying to give you some,
there's some doodles too, because, you
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it's fun.
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Yeah. But you're supposed to be able to
let him know about how you feel.
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It can't just be whatever you, you know,
you want him to think.
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It's, you know, it's, yeah.
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just his you're there too and if he
doesn't like that you're telling him
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you're speaking up then you also need to
just tell him you know what you're
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gonna stop and you're just not gonna
have sex with him or suck his dick until
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like you know he does what you want yeah
that's exactly the way it's gonna be
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i'm gonna say that
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Tell him exactly what turns you on,
exactly what you like.
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Really? That's the only way he's going
to know what you like, is if you tell
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him, if you speak up.
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So if I tell him that I love getting my
ass smacked with some black and blue?
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Then that's what you taught me. Tell
him.
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your big cock right in between my legs
and pound until you just come on me.
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Exactly. That's what I would say. Yes. I
want you to speak up and you tell them
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everything you like. You tell them to
pinch your nipples. Yeah. Or to bite you
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or to bite your hair.
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Yeah. With exactly everything that you
enjoy, you need to let them know. You
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need to let them know that you can get
pleasure from it as well.
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You're right.
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Wow.
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You definitely, that's definitely what
you need to do. You have to let them
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you need to speak up.
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Okay. Well, let's do this. We're done.
Our session's done for today.
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Okay. I'm going to write down our notes
for the things that you need to work on.
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Okay. So these are, what was your name
again? How did you spell it?
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It's B -L -A -K -E,
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right? That's what I got. Cool. So we
got L -A -K -E.
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Yes. What was the thing?
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Dark. The blonde joke. Breathing.
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Oh, yeah. Hold on. Breathing? Or the
dark, right? Yeah, we're going to do
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breathing exercises.
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Blonde joke.
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Daily payments, remember?
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So daily payments.
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And then last but not least is the sex
with the boyfriend.
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Yeah. So you need to tell him and you
need to speak up.
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Yeah.
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See ya.
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It is fucking merciless.
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