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Hi, I'm Lacey, and this is my husband,
Dan.
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Today's scene is one of our kinks and
one of our fantasies. To have me
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blindfolded. Oh, hello.
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Have someone come in and have sex with
me and then leave and me not ever see
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person. Yeah.
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Oh, fuck you.
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We're living it out live on the YC
Studio.
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And you're watching YC .com.
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All right, baby, we're almost there.
We're here.
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How are you feeling?
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I'm excited.
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Are you excited?
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Yeah, what's going to happen? I don't
know.
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Are you nervous?
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Anxious. Anxious? Yeah.
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It's the unknown.
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How many guys are you?
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You don't know. I know.
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You're about to find out. I'm so
excited. You ready? Yeah. All right,
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it. Okay.
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Here we are. We'll get the wifey, the W,
stage one.
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Oh, it's happening.
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Look at it.
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Oh, that's so beautiful.
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Look at the time.
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I know.
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The bed.
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Is it fun?
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I can't wait.
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You got that look to it. You got that
walk crazy.
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Full icon energy.
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Working the angles. One, two, three.
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You got that look to it.
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You got that walk crazy.
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Full icon energy.
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Working the angles. One, two, three.
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She won't stop smiling at my camera. I
can't help it.
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That's what you do.
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It's a hard job you have. I know, right?
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Does your wife know what you do here?
She knows what I do.
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But don't tell her. Don't tell her
anything.
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It's my girlfriend. We've got to worry
about her.
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What's up? It's Hollywood Cash.
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Greg Dicknick.
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Dan Damage.
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Jimmy Knox.
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We're here at Wifey Studios.
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Today we're with Lacey and Dan.
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It's going to be a big surprise.
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They haven't seen us yet. She don't
know. She's blindfolded, but she'll know
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it's going to be us guys.
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We're here for a big treat, a big
surprise.
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That's right.
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Y 'all ready?
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Let's go. Let's do it. And give her a
fantasy.
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You got that look through your teeth.
You got that walk crazy.
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Beautiful. Perfect with the ring.
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I'll let you start. Where are we from?
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I was born and raised in Southeast
United States. So, yeah, born in the
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South. And I actually grew up in New
England. I'm from Maine. And so I was in
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the military in her area, and that's how
we crossed paths.
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We were both singles in the lifestyle.
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And I was on a swinger website, and I
messaged him.
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And I thought he was cute. So I was
like, how are we in the same city and
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same age, and we don't know each other?
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Yeah. And so I got the message, and I'm
like, this is definitely a dude that's
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probably trying to get pictures of my
dick.
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And so I don't think, there's no way
this beautiful woman is on a dating site
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online messaging me.
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But just in case, she actually was, I
messaged her back a little bit. And we
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eventually agreed to meet. And when she
showed up to my hotel room that night,
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it turned out she was very real.
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I proposed to her during COVID, right?
And it was on Lookout Mountain in
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Chattanooga. And so I got a photographer
to find us a nice spot with a nice
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view. And she went ahead of us and met
us there.
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And so once we get up to the top of the
mountain, where the photographer had
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messaged me to show up at, it was
actually closed because of COVID. There
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like a big sign there that says, do not
enter.
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And so...
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I'm now trying to convince her that we
have to jump the sign and go out to the
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lookout spot so that I can ask her to
marry me.
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And I'm, like, messaging the
photographer, like, are you here? Is it
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she's like, oh, yeah, just jump the
sign. I have heels on.
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Like, I was not wanting to. So she was,
like, mad at me. She's like, what are
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you doing? Why are you making me do
this?
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But then once she got there and she
figured it out. Yeah. It was
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So I found out about the lifestyle
because I was dating a guy and he had
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about this lifestyle club in Nashville,
Tennessee, that you could go and people
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could watch you have sex. And that's not
something that I'd ever thought of, but
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the thought of it was extremely hard. I
had no idea it was swingers or anything
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like that. I just thought it was a place
where people could watch.
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And we went and he was extremely
uncomfortable. He was like, I don't want
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part of this.
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I was like, okay. So we left because we
had made the agreement to leave if one
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of us felt bad about it. And I just kind
of stored it as something that maybe
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one day I would like to do.
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And a few years down the road, I found
myself single. And I was like, what
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that lifestyle? And so I started doing
research and found out that you could be
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a single in the lifestyle. And that's
when I made my profile. And now here we
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are. Yeah, so similar for me. I came out
of a 13 -year marriage. I wasn't
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looking for a long -term relationship.
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And I actually started dating somebody.
And in conversation with her, it came up
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that her and her ex -husband were
swingers.
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And I was like, that's something people
still do? I thought that was something
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people did in the 70s with key parties
and things like that.
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So me and her actually explored it a
little bit together. And then me and her
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broke up for reasons that have nothing
to do with the lifestyle. But same
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I was like, I actually really enjoyed.
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that part of it.
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So I made a singles profile on one of
the dating sites and, you know, fast
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forward like a year or two and that's
how I met Lacey. Love it.
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We are definitely probably more of a
full swap couple, but we have engaged
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like single guys for me and single girls
for him.
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It can be fun.
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Yeah, we're open to pretty much
anything.
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The nice thing about starting our
relationship as non -monogamous, we've
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been very open to each other about what
we want to do and things we want to try.
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And we even kind of, I think, push each
other a little bit to try new things.
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So hot wifing, again, like Lacey said,
isn't something that we do very often,
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but it's something that we dabble in
there every once in a while, and it's
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for us.
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I think most people go try swinging for
the first time.
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because they're interested in the sex.
They want to have a threesome. They want
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to do a couple swap.
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They want to do a gang bang or whatever
the thing is.
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But I think what a lot of people don't
realize is that when they explore that,
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they then find a whole community of
people that are open -minded, that
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judgmental, that you can feel safe to
explore any of your fantasies with and
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communicate with. And I think a lot of
people come for the sex, but I think a
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lot of people stay for the community.
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Agreed.
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Me and Cynthia just got married, and
we're not even living together yet,
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actually. And so when I got put on
orders for deployment, we had a long
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conversation about what is that going to
look like for us? Because we met in a
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swinger's lifestyle, we were very
sexually active, we knew we were both
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people and needed that kind of
fulfillment in our life. So before I
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overseas, we had a conversation about,
well, if you do have those needs, how
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we going to meet those?
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And so we kind of, you know, Lacey had
some friends that we knew from swinging
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that were local that, you know, we kind
of like, well, if you really need
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somebody to fuck, you can hang out with
our friends and do that. And she kind of
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said to me, well, if you meet a cute
girl over there and you get an
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just let's have a conversation about it
before you do anything.
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So that's kind of how we went into it
going overseas.
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Well, once I got over there, I was
texting her every night.
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And I was asking for pictures and videos
and send me all the stuff.
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He was blowing my phone up, like, do
this, send me this picture.
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Go on the back porch and masturbate.
Yeah.
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He did it, though, like a trooper. I
did. I did do it.
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But at some point, I was like,
something's got to give. You're driving
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This is during COVID, so this is when
OnlyFans really started.
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And you were like, why don't we make an
OnlyFans?
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Because, treat this, swingers take
pictures, and they take video. They
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like they don't, but they all do. So we
had all of these pictures and videos of
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ourselves together.
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So we had a lot of stuff, and he was
asking me to film this stuff for him.
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So he was like, let's do it. So I
agreed.
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One of the things that came up when I
started researching how to get people to
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your page was TikTok.
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And so I said, Lacey, you need to make a
TikTok. And from what I've read, you
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need to have a niche.
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And I'm like, and we're swingers. And
that's kind of a cool niche. And there's
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not many swingers on TikTok.
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So if you go and you make a page about
TikTok or a swinger page on TikTok,
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be kind of sexy.
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Then people will click through our links
and find your OnlyFans page.
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And so I talked to her about it. And
she's like, OK, yeah, I'll try that.
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So I think we made two or three videos
and it was like the third one She took a
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just a pineapple sticker and put it on
the back window of her car upside down
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and I think I put some text on it
something like You know how you let
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people know you're a swinger or
something like that and posted that
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think overnight It hit like five million
views within a week. It had like 11
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million views
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So we went from we were private swingers
living normal lives. We had full -time
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careers. It was major.
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Everybody in the world knew that we were
swingers. We had a lot of conversation
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about, hey, do we want to do this now
that everybody knows?
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And Lacey was like, you know what? Fuck
it. Everybody knows at this point. Let's
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just embrace it and just be who we are.
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So that's kind of how the podcast was
born because I would go live on TikTok.
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And this is during COVID when people
just wanted information.
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And people would say, what do you do
when you're jealous? What do you do
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you know, something doesn't or you can't
get it up? What do you wear to the
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clubs? How do you find clubs? How do you
meet people? People just wanted
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information. So we, the idea was thrown
around about a podcast and really from
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the people that were following us, not
really us.
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They were like, you should do a podcast.
We do nothing about podcasting.
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But Dan did some research, watched some
YouTube videos, and...
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The podcast was born.
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Yeah, so I came back from deployment.
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We went on Amazon and bought some
equipment, and then we started doing
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And that was over four years ago, and
that whole thing has blown up. It's
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how far all that's gone. Now we do two
podcasts a week.
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It's kind of crazy.
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When we started all this, we had no idea
where our lives would take us.
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Our content journey has been kind of
crazy.
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I feel like we definitely have it dialed
in now where pretty much all of our
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content is with people that we have
connected with, that we've fucked off
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camera, that we genuinely swing with and
swap with.
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In the beginning, we kind of just were
going with the flow and doing what
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everybody else was doing. And it took us
a little bit of time to kind of figure
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out what...
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Was good for us, you know, we joke about
it sometimes and I think wifey is doing
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an excellent job But that the adult
content is educational in itself I mean,
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think if somebody is curious about
having an orgy or having a threesome,
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know I think of a video like this where
you sit down with a couple you talk
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about why they're into those experiences
And then you actually get to see them
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have an experience.
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I mean, that's that's the perfect intro
into the lifestyle. Yeah
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I feel like Dan gets turned on talking
to guests on the podcast quite often.
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So I feel, and in your defense, we
interview a lot of very hot sexual
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Yeah. Most of the men that we've, we've,
like, old men. Yeah. Or, like, doctors.
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That's true, yeah. Except they're not,
like, super sexual beings.
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We've interviewed probably a lot more
women than men, too. For sure.
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Yeah, and they're usually, like, young,
cute doctor, like, or, like, sex
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experts. Like, intimacy coaches and
things like that.
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So I have a habit of flirting with them.
I don't know if I actually have got a
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heart on. The only time I can think of
that I got a heart on the podcast is one
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time we did a dick size podcast.
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And Lacey actually got my dick hard and
then measured it live on the air. Yeah,
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because we were determining what the
average dick size was.
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So we kind of broke it all the way down.
We actually recently just did an
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episode where we had a former pastor who
had been a pastor of a church for 16
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years. And he was talking about, you
know, the lifestyle.
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Now he's in the lifestyle.
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And Christianity and how those two can
kind of coexist.
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And he actually said that in a lot of
ways he felt like the lifestyle and
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in the lifestyle was a lot of things
that he thought that the church was
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supposed to be for him. The community.
Right. Yeah. The community around the
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lifestyle.
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was really what he thought he would find
in the church, but he had not found
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that. We can always tell when a podcast
hits a nerve because we start getting
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emails and texts.
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And so there's been a few podcasts that
as soon as we send them out, we start
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getting blasted. People have such an
opinion on people and their lifestyle
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swingers.
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It's kind of crazy.
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We are just normal people that live our
lives.
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What I don't think people realize is
that their teachers are swiggers.
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They could even be the pastor.
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They're nurses.
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People are pretty harshly judging us and
being pretty vocal about it. It's hard
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to believe that the people that they
know in their lives are probably also
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this, living a non -monogamous
lifestyle.
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and they don't realize it. But because
we're public and because we're out,
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these terrible, awful people.
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Yeah, I think it's a double -edged
sword. I think we encounter a lot of
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that will message us and say, thank you
for saying what you say. Thank you for
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speaking out.
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We went to our first club for the first
time because we found you guys on
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TikTok, or we just had our first
vacation, and oh my gosh, it was life
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for us and our marriage.
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I think for me, the biggest positive
side is I don't think there's too many
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people
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that get to live life as their true
authentic self.
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And we've somehow found a way to be able
to do that.
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And it's very rewarding that we have no
secrets. Our parents know, our kids
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know, everybody in our life knows that
we're swingers. They know what we do.
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We're pretty loud and proud about it
these days.
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And so there is no hidden secrets, not
between me and Lacey, not between us and
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anybody. And to be able to live your
life authentically and openly and not
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to apologize for that, I think not too
many people get to experience life that
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way. And it really is. I wouldn't go
back. You couldn't force me to go back
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the way it used to be.
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You're prettier than me.
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For me, watching Lacey, I experience
compersion, which, you know, compersion
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getting joy from seeing your partner
have joy or getting pleasure from seeing
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your partner get pleasure.
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And so I can hear.
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There's been times where we've been
having sex in an orgy, and I can just
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the noises she's making, and I know what
the experience is that she's having.
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And so I get authentic pleasure and joy
from...
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seeing her get pleasure.
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And it's one of the hottest things about
swapping and hot wifing. So my favorite
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thing about Lacey in bed is that she's a
dirty girl.
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And I was going to say, you might not
know it, but everybody out here is going
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to know it at some point if they're
watching this video.
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You know, she comes across as this
sweet, innocent Southern belle, but then
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get her into a room with a bunch of
people and start having sex, and she
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into somebody completely different. And
I love that person as much as I love
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this person. Aw, it's like the best of
both worlds.
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A hundred percent, yeah.
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I think the lifestyle has helped me grow
as a person because I've learned how to
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communicate.
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No other relationship prior to this have
I been so open and free with my
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partner. I've not been able to share all
my wants and desires.
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I think doing this with you has taught
me that it's okay to be myself and
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to tell you anything and everything that
I want or need.
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That has made me feel so accepted and
loved.
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I appreciate that.
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I really think this lifestyle
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you either have to grow or get out. You
know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. Because if
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you have insecurities, if you have
jealousy issues, if you have
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body image issues, if you have anything
like that, it's going to ruin the
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experience for you. And you're going to
experience those things. At some point
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in time in your journey in this
lifestyle, you're going to hit those
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and really your only two options are to
grow from that or...
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get out of it and move on.
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And for the most part, most of the
couples that we meet grow from it. There
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people that have bad experiences and
they decide to go a different route, but
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there's a lot of growth in this
lifestyle and community.
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And again, because it's a community,
there's people around you to then, when
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hit those road bumps, to help you work
through them and to help you grow. Yeah.
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For me, I immediately tell him if I have
any jealousy, any insecurities,
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I don't wait until two days later. I
tell him immediately.
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And honestly, usually just saying it out
loud is enough. And him validating
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those feelings is enough for me.
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to kind of be, okay, I've said it, I'm
okay, and now we can move on. And that's
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what helps me. I feel if I bottle them
up and don't speak on them, it just kind
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of festers into something much bigger.
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When you hit those insecurities, whether
it's jealousy or some other insecurity,
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you have to communicate it, and you
almost have to then dive deeper. Like,
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I felt jealous when you said he had a...
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he was really hot and you loved his abs
like well why did that make me feel
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jealous well it made me feel jealous
because i don't have abs like you know i
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mean so okay well what are my choices
well maybe it's just okay that lacy
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abs with some guys that actually work
out and eat healthy or maybe i should go
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to the gym and get abs myself so that i
don't feel that way but you know it kind
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of if you go that next step and figure
out okay i feel this way but why do i
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feel this way and what can i do to make
it better i think that's really then
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where the growth comes from
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In the beginning, we had these
boundaries because that's what people
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do. But we just, sometimes they go out
the window. Sometimes we forget to tell.
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I mean, now we are much better.
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I think if this is something that you
want to explore together, I would say go
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slow. You do not have to rush into
anything.
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I think a lot of people see us and see
other swingers and they just think, I
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just got to do it the first night. I got
to jump in there and do it. And you
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don't have to.
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You can go. You can observe.
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You can go and just dance with someone.
You can go and kiss.
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You don't have to jump all the way in
and have full -on sex immediately.
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Go at your own pace.
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We always say that you can always back
up. I mean, I think there's baby steps.
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And I'm giving you permission to take
the baby steps.
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So I think the biggest reason that
couples should see couples like us is to
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that they're not alone, that they're not
weird, they're not strange.
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I think it's estimated somewhere between
5 % and 10 % of America is non
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-monogamous, but it's still one of those
subgroups that isn't public, that can't
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live out of the shadows.
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And so I think seeing somebody like me
and Lacey on TikTok or, you know, seeing
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us on social media and seeing us kind of
be loud and proud, I think it almost
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gives them permission to do that. You
know, and we've been doing this for,
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public for like five years now.
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And when we first started on TikTok, I
think there was one or two other couples
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that were on TikTok talking about
swinging.
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Now I see new faces every single day. I
think there's hundreds, if not thousands
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of people that are sharing their
lifestyle journey publicly.
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And so I think the more that you see
that, the more you normalize it and say,
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it's okay to be kinky. It's okay that
you can love somebody and still have sex
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with multiple people.
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We got a little surprise for you.
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Today's scene is one of our kinks and
one of our fantasies. So I actually,
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I was single in the lifestyle, was
sleeping with this guy. And he had a
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to have me blindfolded and have someone
come in and have sex with me and then
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leave and me not ever see the person.
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I would have no knowledge of it. And so
I did that. And I can't remember being
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very nervous.
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But it was almost a control thing. I had
to trust him and trust that the person
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that he picked out, you know, I'd be
safe.
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And it ended up being really a lot of
fun. And I really enjoyed it. And then
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fast forward, you know, I would tell him
about this experience. And I'm like, I
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feel like that's the ultimate, like,
trust. Like, I'm trusting you to pick
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this person for me.
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Here we are. Now we get to do it. So
this is really like our top number one
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thing that we haven't done. We're living
it out live on the wifey studio.
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Oh, hello.
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That was one thing that I loved about
when I would watch other wifey episodes.
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When I was making the decision to come
and do this, I was like, this is
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educational. Yes, you get to see hot sex
at the end.
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But I love that the bulk of it is about
the couple and the interview.
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And I think for people that are thinking
about joining the lifestyle, I think
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this is a really good resource for them
to kind of see like true authentic
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couples and what it actually is like in
some of these scenarios. So it made me
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feel more comfortable to be here and be
a part of it.
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We have some amazing talent ready in the
way. Yeah. Are you ready to share your
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wifey experience with the world? Yes.
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We're ready.
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We got a little surprise for you.
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Are you ready?
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Love you. Love you.
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Thank you.
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Keep looking for more.
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Thank you.
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They're all so big.
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Good girl.
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She's hungry today.
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Let's get that mouth open.
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It's time to try that pussy out.
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I like the way you think.
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Take that.
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the other guys are.
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I don't want to forget about y 'all.
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Getting big drunk already.
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They're doing a good job.
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I don't take this at all.
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He's taking turns.
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I love it.
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Oh, fuck.
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This is a good job.
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You can fold her up like a pretzel, man.
She'll be all right.
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There you go. There you go.
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There you go. There you go.
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There you go.
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Yeah, there you go.
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Oh, so deep.
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Oh,
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kiss that dick.
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You picked the biggest one for me to
get... Get on them toes.
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Yeah.
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This one? Both?
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Just lay there and relax and take it.
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Thank you.
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Fuck you.
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Between the leave and the guarding.
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Yeah, keep your face right there in this
lap.
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Yeah.
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There we go.
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That's what I'm talking about.
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Good girl.
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Stay right there and take it.
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You made my dick look so pretty.
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Oh, God.
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It's true.
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Never a date far away.
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Oh,
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put it in deeper, baby.
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That's right.
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Now we're having a party.
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Like it's somewhere to hair you.
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He's a good chair.
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Amen.
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It's nice to know.
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Want more?
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I feel good.
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01:02:56,510 --> 01:02:58,490
How's your pussy feeling? It feels
great, yeah.
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It was hard to figure out how many guys
were there. Yeah, it was just all the
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dicks, all the dicks.
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It was kind of crazy to figure out who
all was here, and it was neat. I had a
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good time.
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Oh, I get to keep it. Yay.
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We had a lot of fun coming.
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We'll take this home. There you go.
Yeah, we'll take this home.
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We just wrapped on Wifey. Lacey did an
amazing job handling all the big digs.
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Everybody here was so nice, and we
really enjoyed it. So we hope to, maybe
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do it again someday.
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But she definitely put on a show, and I
definitely enjoyed watching.
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It was so much fun. It was four guys. I
had no idea, and it ended up being four
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guys, and it was so much fun. I even
squirted.
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Anyway, bye.
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If you want a wifey experience of your
own, visit wifey .com forward slash
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