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CELEBRANT: I now pronounce you
husband and wife!
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NARRATOR: 18 brave singles
married a complete stranger...
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(LAUGHS)
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..as part of Australia's
biggest social experiment...
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(CHEERING)
..and the first dinner party...
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FILIP: I'm pretty happy.
Me too.
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..exposed early tensions.
What's your problem?
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Seems like we got on better
than you and your man,
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who was looking me up and down.
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(LAUGHTER)
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Luke was left feeling rejected.
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LUKE: I can see how she talks to
other people in the room
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and it's completely different
to how she talks to me.
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And a brand new-phase began.
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When I was bigger,
I just got no attention.
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Hearing things like
"I starved myself" pained my heart.
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Revelations Week helped peel back
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the emotional layers
of our participants...
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They're going out the balcony.
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BEC: I loved it.
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(RHYTHMIC MUSIC)
JULIA: Dangle your head.
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..but left others confused...
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Oh...
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..and in shock
by some uncomfortable truths...
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Fake tan, needy and fat people.
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..led Brook to go on the attack.
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Surely he gets on your nerves
at times.
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No.
I don't believe you!
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What?!
I don't believe you!
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STELLA: I definitely saw
a different side of Brook.
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It felt very cold.
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Tonight...
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..who will stay and who will leave...
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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..at the very first commitment
ceremony of the experiment?
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How's it going?
Very happy.
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Nothing but progress.
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Steve's positive spin
leaves everyone confused.
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Nothing wrong.
Connection. Everything.
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But the experts aren't buying it.
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What's going on for you, Rebecca?
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Mel is delivered some tough love.
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You need a wake-up call.
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Hi. (LAUGHS)
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I really like Steven!
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You are so special.
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Romantic connections
will be celebrated.
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Things are fantastic.
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Yeah, we're going great.
I'm fully into her.
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Like, I'm kissing her all the time.
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You think he could be
a soulmate for you?
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If we're heading
the way we're heading, yes.
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But I feel like not everyone
likes your happiness.
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Brook lashes out...
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You can't blame me for that.
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Get me out of here. No-one cares.
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We'll just bring it back down.
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..derailing the entire
commitment ceremony.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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It's the night after an explosive,
brand-new Revelations Week task.
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Oh, it was intense.
Was it?
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It was... Yeah.
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Red Flag, Green Flag.
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A lot going on.
Oh, yeah?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
It's all popping off?
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It was pretty rowdy.
Oh, was it?
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Yeah.
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And the actions from a particular
bride are looming large for many.
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RACHEL: Brook surprised me today.
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She said something quite pointy
or direct, was it?
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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Red flags...
Are there any?
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Well, that's the thing. Like...
There has to be.
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There's not...
I'm sorry. I'm calling bullshit.
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ALISSA: Brook was...
Brook kept having her two cents.
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Wow. Brook!
Wow.
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Yeah, it was a lot!
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And our communication
is second to none.
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So we...
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So it's all rainbows and butterflies
and he shits rainbows?
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(LAUGHS)
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She was calling everyone out.
She was...
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Yeah, it was full-on.
Really?
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Alissa is the expert.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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She went a bit off. Yeah.
Not at you, though.
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No, she's... I love her.
(LAUGHS)
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But it was Steve's shocking
revelations to the boys
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that's left many of our grooms
reeling.
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You know who stood out?
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Steve and... Steve and Rebecca.
Oh, shit. What did you hear?
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You know, when he goes...
"Da-da-da-da red flag."
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Like, he didn't even give her
a green flag at all.
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It was just red flags.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Now, red flags. There's multiple.
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Rebecca consistently needs to be
talking all the time.
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I don't understand
some of her humour.
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Her emotions are very high
and very low.
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On top of that,
Rebecca's not my usual type.
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I think her expectations
were getting
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a little bit high with intimacy,
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but we had an amazing friendship.
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It actually caught me off guard.
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I'm thinking, "What the hell?"
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Like, that relationship
is definitely on the rocks.
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And as Steve comes home
to his bride tonight...
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Honey, I'm home.
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REBECCA: Can I just say,
I'm so glad to see you.
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(LAUGHS)
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..an excited Rebecca
cannot wait to debrief on the day.
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So, tell me.
Red Flags, Green Flags.
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Yeah?
Yeah.
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Um, well... Green flag. I mean...
What were the...
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Um... Do we... Do you want me
to tell you what they were?
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Is that what we're doing?
Yeah.
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Are you going to share mine?
Oh, only if you want to.
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No, I'm staying...
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The red flags,
they're not red flags.
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It's more just teething.
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Like, as I said to them,
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I think we just have to
get used to each other...
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Yeah.
..and our...our ways.
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That's all.
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So, uh, but green flags
were pretty simple.
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Um, you know, you're warm,
you're, um...
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You're caring, you know...
Yeah.
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You can list more than three.
That's easy.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Uh...
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I'm trying to think if I told
Rebecca about the red flags.
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Um...
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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Oh... (SCOFFS)
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I don't know if I specifically
touched on...on them specifically,
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now that I'm trying to recall.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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Um, it's nothing personal.
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It's nothing that needs to be
discussed yet.
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But, yeah, it was an interesting...
interesting get-together.
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Yeah.
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He didn't really say the red flags,
though, did he?
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I don't know whether
he's being genuine.
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Maybe I'll find them out
on the couch,
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the commitment ceremony,
who knows?
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I can't wait to get on the couch
with the experts. Yeah.
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The couch is...
is scaring me, to be honest.
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(STEVE LAUGHS)
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(RESOUNDING MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: It's the morning
of the first commitment ceremony
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of the experiment...
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Hello.
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All ready?
All ready.
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..and with two weeks of marriage
behind them,
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our newlyweds are about to face
the experts for the first time...
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where tonight they must decide
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whether they want to stay
in their relationship or leave.
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Your fit is hot as hell today.
I'm just saying.
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Aw!
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I don't know if I'm going to
be looking at the experts
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or you the whole time.
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(LAUGHS)
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JOHN: The first commitment ceremony
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is a huge milestone
of the experiment,
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as it gives our newlyweds a platform
to share their experiences so far.
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Do you have any questions
for the experts?
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No, I was gonna give them
a big clap, like, a round of...
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Same.
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..and just say, like,
"You guys nailed it."
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Not only are we here as experts
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to support our couples through
any issues they're facing,
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we'll also offer raw and honest
feedback,
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which they'll have to take on
in front of the group.
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Tonight is about holding a mirror
up to their relationships,
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keeping them accountable
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and ultimately sending them into
the next phase of the experiment
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with the right tools
to strengthen their marriage.
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Are you writing stay or leave?
Don't know yet.
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Oh, don't be rude.
I'll have to work it out.
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Um, I'll have to sit down
and have a think about it.
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Which one do you know how to spell?
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(LAUGHS)
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'Stay' is easier to write.
S-T-A-Y.
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(LAUGHS)
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NARRATOR: Down the hall,
it's wedded bliss for Gia and Scott.
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You look stunning.
Thank you.
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..as they prepare to enter tonight
feeling as strong as ever.
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I'm actually excited.
I'm excited to see the experts.
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I can't wait... Yeah. (LAUGHS)
It's gonna be so fun.
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I'm excited to see what they
have to say, to be honest.
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It'll be good.
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GIA: I think with me and Scott,
the feelings are growing every day.
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We are so close.
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Like, the communication
and the things that we talk about,
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I haven't talked about with people
I've been with for years.
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So it's just really,
really refreshing.
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It's strong.
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Yeah, I think we're just...
we just fit well.
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I think it's obvious what we're both
going to say tonight.
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(LAUGHS) Yeah. It's crazy.
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I never thought I could know
and learn so much about someone
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in such a short period of time.
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It's a step-by-step thing to...
you know, falling for someone...
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and let's just say
everything's going the right way.
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A massive crush.
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Yeah. (LAUGHS)
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Alright, well, I'll...
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Got lip gloss on
but I'll kiss you anyway.
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I'll kiss you anyway.
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I will see you on the couch.
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Oh, you look like a princess.
Oh... (LAUGHS)
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NARRATOR: This year,
for the first time,
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our couples went through
Revelations Week,
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a brand-new and intense phase
of the experiment...
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It was tough, don't you think?
Yeah.
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It's always good to get below
the surface, dig a bit deeper.
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..and for Rachel and Steven...
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(LAUGHS) Fantastic.
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..the tasks were transformative.
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It was a good week.
RACHEL: Yeah.
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That's exactly how I'm feeling.
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Like, it's happiness.
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An emotional auditions video task
helped the couple connect
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over their shared history
with dating and body image.
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I've been single
for at least ten to 12 years,
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but I've been dating on and off
since then...
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and I had to work my butt off
to turn myself into something
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that I really didn't believe
that mattered.
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You're great the way that you are.
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You really are.
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Oh, my... My god!
(BOTH LAUGH)
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As hard as it is for me to open up
to anyone
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this early into a relationship,
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where we are stronger
and we have come closer,
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it's going to be interesting to see
what the experts are going to say.
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Like, I reckon it's going to be
like, "Tick."
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"Tick."
"Off you go."
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Yeah.
(LAUGHS)
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"Yeah, no problems here."
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But as some couples
revel in their progress,
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Stella is still reeling
after yesterday
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when her relationship with Filip
was called inauthentic by Brook.
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How are you feeling about tonight?
Um... Interesting.
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Yeah.
Yeah. Interesting.
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Interesting feelings.
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I have never had that much
connection with a person.
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I have never had that much intimacy.
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(BLOWS RASPBERRY) Filip...
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Yep.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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I don't believe you!
What?!
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I don't believe you!
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
256
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I told you what happened yesterday.
FILIP: Yeah.
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Like, our authenticity
was questioned, you know,
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and, like, um...
259
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it's going to be interesting to see
if there's going to be, you know...
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
262
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It's so interesting to see
what people have to say
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because I just see, like,
from the perspective
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that everyone judges
through their own lens
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and how they are as people.
266
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If they want to bring in,
we'll just say what we think calmly,
267
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but we're not bothered.
268
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STELLA: I know that misery
likes company...
269
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and happiness, unfortunately,
invites people
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to try to tear you down...
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so I want to protect what we have.
272
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Anyway, we're happy, we're in a good
place and that's all that matters.
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And...
Yeah.
274
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..and we're here for that
and for that only.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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This morning, Brook isn't wavering
in her thoughts
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on other couples' relationships,
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nor the opinions
she voiced yesterday.
279
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I wouldn't even say it's nasty.
280
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I actually just think it's girls
calling out fake bitches...
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Mmm.
..and I'm so glad I did.
282
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But then, at the same time,
I still had this inkling in me
283
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that I was, like, "Oh, my god,
I'm a horrible person."
284
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But then I was like,
"You know what, Brook,
285
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"you're (BLEEP) logical."
286
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(TENSE MUSIC)
287
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So I'd like to see what bullshit
Alissa and Dave...
288
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(LAUGHS)
..(BLEEP) whip up today.
289
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Honestly, she's got something
coming for her.
290
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And obviously we already know.
291
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Yeah. We know our thoughts
on Stella.
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CHRIS: Well, I didn't have any
thoughts until last night. (LAUGHS)
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We don't like her.
And then all of a sudden, we're...
294
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we're blueing with our neighbour.
295
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Well, that's fine.
296
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I think Stella, like, honestly,
she's as fake as that (BLEEP) plant.
297
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She is. And I'm sick of it.
298
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She couldn't even really say
a red flag.
299
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Sorry. No-one's relationship
is perfect.
300
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Certainly mine isn't.
301
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And I'm not sitting there
telling porkies.
302
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That's the fakeness of it
that I don't like.
303
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(LAUGHS)
304
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I'll let you throw the daggers
today.
305
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I'll be the back-up.
306
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NARRATOR: With decisions made...
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our couples head off for
what's set to be a revealing night.
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(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
309
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Greetings, gents.
MAN: Greetings.
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Come on in. Grab a seat.
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Thank you.
ALESSANDRA: Hello. Welcome.
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Welcome.
Thank you.
313
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Hi.
MEL: Hello, guys.
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PEOPLE: Hello.
MAN: How are we going?
315
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Very well.
Good.
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Take a seat.
Hey.
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MAN: How are we doing?
JOHN: We're good.
318
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MEL: Very, very well.
Good.
319
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MAN: It's comfy.
320
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Oooh.
321
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DANNY: These sofas are alright,
mate.
322
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(RESOUNDING MUSIC)
323
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Welcome, ladies.
ALESSANDRA: Hello.
324
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Good evening.
325
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WOMAN: I'm so glad
I'm beside you two.
326
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(LAUGHS)
327
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WOMAN: Thank you.
328
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(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
329
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Well, welcome, everybody, to
your very first commitment ceremony.
330
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Now, this is an incredibly pivotal
part of the experiment...
331
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where each of you get a chance
to open your relationship up
332
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to allow us insight into
what's actually going on,
333
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so it is very, very important
that you use these
334
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and take advantage of them
as best you can...
335
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because it is here
where your relationships
336
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can change for the better.
337
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
338
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Alright, let's get our first couple
up on the couch.
339
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
340
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Luke and Mel.
341
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(TENSE MUSIC)
(APPLAUSE)
342
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MEL: Hello.
MEL: Hi.
343
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Hi.
344
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(TENSE MUSIC)
345
00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,360
JOHN: Well, I mean, we can see
from body language
346
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that things are a little tense
between you right now.
347
00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:05,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
348
00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:11,400
So let's go back in time to
the wedding and go from there.
349
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So, on the wedding day,
I was really hoping
350
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for me to walk down the aisle,
351
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someone to turn around
352
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and me to be, like,
"That's my person."
353
00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,240
But that isn't what I got.
354
00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:29,760
Right.
355
00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:31,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
356
00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:33,880
And as I was walking down the aisle,
357
00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,400
all my friends and family
turned around
358
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and they were sort of, like,
"What are you doing here?"
359
00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,880
And then I realised
that Luke wasn't there.
360
00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
361
00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,840
Luke ended up coming
ten minutes later.
362
00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:54,760
I felt like I didn't get my moment.
363
00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:57,600
Like, I feel like that moment
just turned into something
364
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that was really silly.
365
00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
366
00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:02,680
I felt really embarrassed.
367
00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:06,080
I felt like I wanted a fairytale.
368
00:17:06,120 --> 00:17:07,960
Right.
369
00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:14,960
And, yeah, it just was
a really rocky start.
370
00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,520
Where were you, Luke?
371
00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
372
00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:30,480
I had left the rings, so we had to
turn the limo around and go back
373
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and get them and then head back in.
374
00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,560
But I had the attitude
going into the honeymoon
375
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"Let's just be as positive
as we can.
376
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"Let's try and just, like, make it
work on a friends' level first."
377
00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:46,760
But to be honest,
I really struggled.
378
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It just felt like Mel was doing
whatever she could
379
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to just push me away.
380
00:17:55,360 --> 00:17:57,440
Yeah, I've just found every day
I just, for some reason...
381
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it just wasn't working
382
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and every day I got a level of,
like, coldness from Mel.
383
00:18:04,360 --> 00:18:07,360
(TENSE MUSIC)
384
00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:14,280
One of the observations when
we were watching the dinner party
385
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was that there was...there was
really two Mels in the room.
386
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
387
00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,600
The one that was
with the sisterhood
388
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or other people in the group,
389
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you came alive.
390
00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,080
You were full of energy
391
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and you were charismatic
and social and chatty.
392
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But as soon as you were placed
next to Luke, a spark had gone out.
393
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Like, there was disdain
that you had for him,
394
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which was hard for us to watch.
395
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Yeah.
396
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It's the... The thing is,
I shouldn't have been mean about it.
397
00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:52,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
398
00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,720
It's just that I thought
that Luke had feelings for me
399
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and because I wasn't feeling
the same,
400
00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,400
I just wanted to push him away.
401
00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
402
00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,760
So you didn't try to get to know him?
403
00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,440
We still spoke.
Like, I know a lot about Luke.
404
00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,840
I know that Luke is a cattle farmer.
405
00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:14,440
He's lived on the farm
for 18 months.
406
00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:15,840
I know...
407
00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,240
But did you feel like you gave it
a go, Mel?
408
00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:20,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
409
00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,280
I explained to Luke
410
00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,800
that usually when I've been
with somebody in the past,
411
00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:29,120
it's because I've had that
instant connection with that person,
412
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that instant spark.
413
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:32,560
But I also explained to Luke
414
00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:36,480
that I didn't feel it with Luke
on the wedding day.
415
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:39,840
You know, when we first met, Mel,
416
00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,840
you said you wanted a blond-haired,
blue-eyed guy.
417
00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:44,880
That's what you'd typically gone out
with in the past.
418
00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,120
Were you disappointed when you...
when you didn't get that?
419
00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:52,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
420
00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:54,920
A little bit.
421
00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
422
00:19:58,200 --> 00:19:59,720
(BLEEP).
423
00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
424
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,560
But also the lateness
at the wedding.
425
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,920
He was chewing gum
when we were doing the vows.
426
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,920
(BLEEP).
427
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,240
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
428
00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,000
I really did want my fairytale.
429
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,240
I just wanted to feel that spark.
430
00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,200
But I just couldn't feel it
with Luke.
431
00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
432
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:33,480
Yeah.
433
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:37,600
Alright, well, this is...this is why
we've asked you these questions,
434
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,320
because you need a wake-up call.
435
00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:43,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
436
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,720
I really did want my fairytale
and to feel that spark...
437
00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,680
but I just couldn't feel it
with Luke.
438
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
439
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,880
Yeah.
440
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:10,040
Alright, well, this is...this is why
we've asked you these questions,
441
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,760
because you need a wake-up call.
442
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:19,400
MAFS isn't about fairy tales.
443
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:23,800
It's about real relationships,
real work, real challenges,
444
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:28,560
but most importantly,
being open-minded.
445
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:35,320
Your job is to meet a person and go,
"Why have we been matched?
446
00:21:35,360 --> 00:21:37,480
"I'm going to start to learn."
447
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,760
"If there's a chemistry now
straight away, great.
448
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,280
"If there's not, that's fine.
449
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,600
"I'm going to dig in
and I'm going to learn."
450
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
451
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:53,080
And what you did
right from the word go was say no.
452
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,960
You didn't feel the initial spark at
the altar and you've shut him down.
453
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:06,680
And you've essentially done the
very thing that's keeping you single.
454
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,560
You've come in with
a very preconceived set...
455
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,200
ideas about what you want
and what you don't want
456
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:20,120
and what you've got to realise
is that you needed someone
457
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,880
who was reliable,
who had family values.
458
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,400
He wants commitment.
459
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,480
He's basically able to
treat you well.
460
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:33,320
And the real disappointment is
that you don't know how good he is
461
00:22:33,360 --> 00:22:34,840
'cause you haven't let him in.
462
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:42,120
Luke, how did that affect you,
being on the receiving end of that?
463
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:47,320
Oh, I'd say, like, it definitely
knocked my confidence a lot
464
00:22:47,360 --> 00:22:52,520
and it definitely, like,
made me think, you know,
465
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:54,240
"What am I doing wrong?"
466
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,320
Yeah, it was tough. It hurts.
467
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,080
Yeah, I was excited
to get to know someone
468
00:23:05,120 --> 00:23:07,280
and, you know, have fun with them
469
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,000
because I haven't done that
for some time.
470
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,720
(GENTLE MUSIC)
471
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:16,000
And I really tried to do
whatever I could,
472
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,720
whether it was give Mel space,
be friendly or whatever it was...
473
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:23,080
I genuinely gave it my best shot,
that's the thing.
474
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,880
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
475
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,160
(BLEEP).
476
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,240
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
477
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,000
Yeah, yeah, I'm fine.
478
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,680
Oh, thank you.
479
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,280
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
480
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:15,080
Mel, if you had a chance
to do anything differently,
481
00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:17,040
what would you do?
482
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,320
Yeah, I'm not proud
of the way I acted.
483
00:24:20,360 --> 00:24:22,160
Genuinely, I'm really embarrassed.
484
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:25,200
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
485
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,200
If I could take it back, I would
486
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,080
and I would treat Luke
with more kindness.
487
00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:34,280
Just more patience.
More of an open heart.
488
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,760
Yeah, I would do it
very differently.
489
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,800
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
490
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,960
Well, I think it's time for us
to go to the decision.
491
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,920
Let's go with you first, Luke.
Stay or leave?
492
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:56,440
So this was a pretty tough decision
for me to make.
493
00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:00,120
(TENSE MUSIC)
494
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:05,000
And I suppose almost an ignorant
part of me didn't want to believe
495
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,160
that it wasn't ever going to work.
496
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:12,240
And I kind of saw, like,
the last light
497
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,360
being chatting to you guys
498
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,880
and maybe that might
potentially do something.
499
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,760
Right.
So...
500
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
501
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:26,880
..even though, like, it has been
so tough and everything with us...
502
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,760
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
503
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,960
..I don't want to leave it
on that note.
504
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,840
(GASPING)
505
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,520
BEC: I think that's great. Yep.
506
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,120
GIA: Oh, my god. Wow.
507
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,680
Oh, my god!
508
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,000
I love it. I love it.
(APPLAUSE)
509
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,320
Yes! Oh, my god!
510
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,520
And what about you, Mel?
511
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,320
(TENSE MUSIC)
512
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,360
Obviously, like, this experiment
has been a lot harder
513
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,640
than I thought it was going to be...
514
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,480
(TENSE MUSIC)
515
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:15,960
..and I can see that Luke and I are
different people, unfortunately.
516
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,600
So I've decided to write 'leave'.
517
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
518
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
519
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,200
So, as we know,
with the rules of this experiment,
520
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,120
that if one person says stay,
the other says leave,
521
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:46,440
then they stay for another week
to see if they can turn it around.
522
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:52,440
Now, Mel, how do you feel about this
and about his decision to stay?
523
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:53,640
He's not quitting.
524
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,080
I'm really, really shocked,
to be honest.
525
00:26:56,120 --> 00:26:59,120
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
526
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,720
But, yeah, I definitely will take
your advice on board
527
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,840
and I really want to prove to Luke
that I'm not a mean person...
528
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:10,600
and I'm not a bad person.
529
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,240
We know you're not a mean person
and you're not a bad person either.
530
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:15,280
MEL: Mmm.
531
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:19,600
But what's important is
that you get curious,
532
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:20,800
you open your mind up,
533
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,600
'cause from what we're hearing,
534
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,160
he really didn't get a chance
from the word go.
535
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:32,000
You've got a week now
where you can actually find out
536
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,640
why he's so compatible
537
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,400
and break patterns.
538
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,040
OK?
OK.
539
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,320
There's no pressure.
540
00:27:39,360 --> 00:27:40,960
Just have fun,
enjoy each other's company
541
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,520
and get to know one another
542
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,360
as though this is day one
of your relationship.
543
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:47,720
Alright?
544
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:49,320
Tough session. You did well.
545
00:27:49,360 --> 00:27:51,200
Back to the group.
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
546
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:52,760
MEL: Well done, guys.
547
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,840
GIA: Yay!
548
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,280
Still in the game!
549
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,320
MAN: Give me a hug, mate.
You're a good boy.
550
00:27:59,360 --> 00:28:04,800
I see this as my genuine last crack
at giving this...giving this a shot,
551
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,480
so I'm keen to take
what they've said on board
552
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,480
and get to know Mel again
with a good energy.
553
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,840
I'm really, really hoping
Mel can do the same
554
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,240
and put everything in the past
behind us.
555
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,640
We're going to be positive. Yeah.
556
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,880
ALESSANDRA: It's time to get
our next couple up on the couch.
557
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,760
(TENSE MUSIC)
558
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,880
Gia and Scott.
GIA: I knew it!
559
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,560
SCOTT: Yeah.
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
560
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,400
First of all...
MEL: Hello.
561
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,000
..thank you so much for doing a good
job for my beautiful wife and I.
562
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,160
Aw!
563
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,800
ALESSANDRA: That's very good.
564
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:54,920
So, let's go to the decision,
shall we?
565
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,160
(LAUGHTER)
SCOTT: I'm a happy guy. (LAUGHS)
566
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,520
ALESSANDRA: Tell us about
this happiness and this...
567
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,640
Mmm.
..leg over leg kind of situation.
568
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,000
We've been like this since
the moment we met. It's crazy.
569
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,640
Like, the moment we saw each other
at the wedding,
570
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,240
like, both of us straight away,
571
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,360
we were, like, just stoked
with who we got.
572
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:14,560
Yeah.
573
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,200
It was a feeling I haven't had
before. It was pretty crazy.
574
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:17,280
Yeah.
575
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:18,880
Like, I felt this instant
connection.
576
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,200
Like, our chemistry just went
off the bat and it just...
577
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,400
Yeah, it was unreal.
578
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,680
(GENTLE MUSIC)
579
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:29,040
And then she pulled me aside
and told me about her daughter
580
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,160
and...
Yeah.
581
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:31,960
..I just grabbed her hands
and I'm like, "I'm fully open
582
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,320
"to bringing her into my life."
583
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,040
And for me, I just felt something
even stronger, like, just from that.
584
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,600
(GENTLE MUSIC)
585
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,880
Yeah.
586
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:44,520
Like, we get along good.
Like, I'm happy. Yeah, it's good.
587
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,960
I think we can tell you're happy.
Yeah, yeah.
588
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:48,720
(LAUGHTER)
We're picking up on that.
589
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,760
But you want...
You want to talk because...
590
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,920
Well, I think...
I don't know, 'cause we're both...
591
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,800
Because you're, like, you want to
talk and I want to talk because...
592
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,480
I'll get into the honeymoon...
OK.
593
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,680
So, obviously
the wedding was amazing.
594
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,520
And then we went to Townsville.
595
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,360
We both were, like, not wanting
to have sex straight away.
596
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,880
But we tried to hold off
as much as we could...
597
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,000
We were trying to hold on,
but it was getting intense.
598
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,000
(LAUGHTER)
We just gave in.
599
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,280
Yeah, it was, like...
We gave in on the honeymoon.
600
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:17,320
And it was so great.
601
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:18,640
And, like, since then
we've obviously, like,
602
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,200
we've slept together
literally every day since then.
603
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,400
Multiple times.
(LAUGHTER)
604
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:23,560
Sorry.
605
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,440
You know when you start,
you can't stop?
606
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,240
(LAUGHS)
We just...
607
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,320
Yeah. We're just...
And every day we get closer.
608
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:30,720
Like, it gets better every day too.
609
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:34,240
(TENSE MUSIC)
610
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,000
Clearly there's a...
Clearly there's a physical situation
611
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,840
that is very undeniable.
612
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,520
The chemistry, yes...
We can feel it from here.
613
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,880
Yes. All of that.
It's palpable.
614
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,720
Like, he just ticks all my boxes and
I just feel so comfortable with him.
615
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,960
And I feel, like, seen
and, like, that I can be me.
616
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,080
I've never had that, to be honest.
For him, I think...
617
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:56,000
Aw.
Yeah.
618
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,800
(LAUGHTER)
619
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,280
I feel like we shouldn't be here
right now.
620
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:03,400
(LAUGHTER)
621
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,160
I'm telling you right now, I could
get out with her right now
622
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:06,200
and we're sweet.
623
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,880
I can see that. Yeah.
(LAUGHTER)
624
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
625
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,880
I don't know that at this point
we have much more to say.
626
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:17,000
Why don't you show us your decision
at the same time?
627
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,960
At the same time? Alright.
Ready?
628
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,040
One, two and three. Go.
629
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,160
Stay 1,000%.
630
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,200
Alright.
"I am not leaving."
631
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,720
"I'm not leaving."
(LAUGHTER)
632
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:28,400
Beautiful.
633
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,920
Honestly, this is not something
we see very often...
634
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,040
No.
..this kind of synergy...
635
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:36,280
this kind of just really intense,
high-energy enthusiasm
636
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:37,960
this early on in this experiment.
637
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,520
So, for now,
keep doing what you're doing,
638
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,440
keep being curious, keep having fun.
639
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,680
Yeah.
And I hope you have a great week.
640
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,080
Thank you!
Thank you.
641
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,680
JOHN: Well done, guys.
Well done, you guys.
642
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,360
(APPLAUSE)
Honesty is key.
643
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,000
Absolutely.
644
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,760
Beautiful.
DAVID: My man.
645
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,440
(LAUGHTER)
646
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,920
Oh...
WOMAN: Well done.
647
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:59,440
WOMAN: I thought you guys were about
to get a bit frisky on the couch.
648
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,000
(LAUGHS)
I love it.
649
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,800
Bit of a bogan. It's great.
650
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,880
MEL: And our next couple
on the couch, Bec and Danny.
651
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,440
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
652
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,200
BEC: Hi, guys.
ALESSANDRA AND MEL: Hello.
653
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,120
MEL: How's it all going?
654
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,840
Look, we, um... It hasn't been easy.
655
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,200
We had a beautiful wedding.
It was amazing.
656
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:31,960
But in Fiji, we...
we did have a hard time.
657
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,600
On the honeymoon,
we had one intimate evening
658
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,520
and then Danny stripped it
right back.
659
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:43,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
660
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,440
Did that feel like rejection?
It did. Yep.
661
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:46,840
Yeah.
662
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:51,960
Um...
663
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,480
(TENSE MUSIC)
664
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:59,320
Like, I thought our sexual chemistry
was pretty low...
665
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
..and I was struggling with that...
666
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,800
because in the normal world,
if I met a girl like that
667
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,400
and there wasn't that chemistry,
668
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,040
I'd probably just do a runner,
do you know what I mean?
669
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:19,000
But I sort of, like,
for the rapid res...
670
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,360
What's the word?
(LAUGHTER)
671
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,720
The revelation.
Yeah.
672
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,200
..for the card challenge,
I sort of brought it out
673
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:28,840
and we had a chat about it...
674
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:30,120
That was intense.
675
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:33,640
..and Bec had a cry
and it made me feel like shit
676
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,080
'cause I'd sort of made her cry,
do you know what I mean?
677
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,080
But I'd done some reflection
and I was, like...
678
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:39,840
It lit a fire in my belly,
to be honest with you.
679
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,520
But it's getting so much better.
Like...
680
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,760
So much better.
Like...
681
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,280
This has been transformative
for us...
682
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,360
Mm-hm.
..this week.
683
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,200
Yeah.
684
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:52,200
Like, I just have to remember
that patience is key with intimacy.
685
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,720
And also, everyone works
at a different pace.
686
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:02,080
Well, I've got to say, you've been
faced with a couple of challenges.
687
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,720
You've approached them with
some maturity, an open mind,
688
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,200
willingness to change
and to challenge yourself
689
00:34:08,240 --> 00:34:11,840
and to talk about it,
which is so promising.
690
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,480
And I love that, Bec, you've shown
Danny some real vulnerability.
691
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:22,800
You've opened up and you've shown
him that you trust him to do that.
692
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:27,360
Maybe, Danny, it's your turn to
open up a little bit more this week
693
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,000
and to show her
some of your soft underbelly,
694
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,200
'cause there's so much there
695
00:34:32,240 --> 00:34:35,400
and I love that you're starting to
sort of create some cracks there
696
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:36,640
in the veneers
697
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,920
and open up to each other
a little bit more.
698
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:40,320
That's it.
699
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,920
I think we're going to go
to a decision.
700
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,280
Let's do it. Who's going first?
701
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:48,320
We'll start with you, Danny.
702
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,320
Alright. So, nice easy one.
703
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,880
But, yeah, I put stay.
704
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,440
Brilliant.
Me too.
705
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,440
(APPLAUSE)
706
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,960
(LAUGHS) And to you, Bec.
707
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,880
This was an easy one for me,
so I said stay.
708
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,320
Of course.
Of course.
709
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,000
(APPLAUSE)
Love it.
710
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:10,520
JOHN: Well done, guys.
Well done, you guys.
711
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:11,600
Thank you.
Very impressed.
712
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,200
Good work.
Thank you.
713
00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:15,200
(APPLAUSE)
714
00:35:15,240 --> 00:35:17,280
Whoo!
715
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,520
Whoo-hoo!
WOMAN: Well done, guys.
716
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,120
Thanks.
Well done, darling.
717
00:35:24,720 --> 00:35:27,440
No. No-one would say that.
718
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,280
Who said you guys were fake?
Oh...
719
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,080
No.
720
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
721
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
722
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:41,760
NARRATOR: Coming up...
723
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,600
I feel like not everyone
likes your happiness.
724
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,400
..brides go head to head.
725
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,520
No-one has said that.
726
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,640
Don't sit up here and make yourself
be the victim.
727
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,040
Let's get our next couple
up on the couch.
728
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,880
Rachel and Steven.
729
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,240
(LAUGHS)
730
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:16,480
(CONTINUES LAUGHING)
731
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:17,800
MEL: Hello.
STEVEN: Hello.
732
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,480
That was quite the chuckle.
733
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:22,000
(LAUGHS)
There it is!
734
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,520
Hello. (LAUGHS)
735
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,200
Oooh, comfy.., Comfy lounge.
It is comfy.
736
00:36:27,240 --> 00:36:28,760
Might I take this one
back to the apartment.
737
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,880
(LAUGHS)
738
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,880
How have you two been?
Yeah, good. It's been...
739
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,680
It's been a hell of a ride.
740
00:36:37,720 --> 00:36:41,240
The wedding
was absolutely fantastic.
741
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:45,000
I mean, I was about to make love
to the ground by fainting, almost.
742
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:48,400
(LAUGHS)
I was just so nervous...
743
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,840
(LAUGHS)
..you know.
744
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:56,560
But as soon as I saw Rachel,
my nerves just immediately dropped.
745
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,760
And one thing I can definitely say
about the ceremony and everything,
746
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,200
it was messy.
747
00:37:04,240 --> 00:37:05,920
It was unpolished, it was funny
748
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:10,040
and I wouldn't want it
any other way.
749
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,560
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
750
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:16,520
Yeah, it was just, I don't know, it
was like the goofiness just ensued.
751
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,840
It was a lot of fun, so...
752
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:21,400
It was a lot of laughing.
A lot of laughing.
753
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:22,560
Like, a lot.
754
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:23,960
(LAUGHTER)
755
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,360
Yeah, we started off
on a really big high
756
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:30,720
and even though we had a couple of
hiccups on the honeymoon,
757
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,280
with Revelations Week...
758
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,600
Can I hold your hand again?
Yeah.
759
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,040
Aw.
760
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,800
..we're getting closer and closer
761
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,440
and showing...
and we connected emotionally.
762
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,920
We've got this relatability as well.
763
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,800
And it's a bit heartbreaking too,
764
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,080
'cause we do share a common thing
with body image.
765
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,000
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
766
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:51,840
Yeah.
767
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,920
Watching Steven's audition video
brought up a lot of emotion for me.
768
00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:00,600
It hurt my heart to hear
what he had experienced
769
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,080
and that relatability of, like,
770
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,360
what we'd experienced
in the dating world
771
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,760
and what we're looking for,
772
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,440
it all connects.
773
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,560
We can see it there
and we feel it there.
774
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,320
And that is a big part of why
you're such a good match...
775
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:22,520
(LAUGHS)
776
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,160
..so, your shared history
and, you know, your playfulness
777
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,080
is definitely something
that we loved about the two of you.
778
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,720
Rachel, now is a good time to ask,
how do you feel about this man?
779
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,120
How do I feel about my husband?
780
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,080
(LAUGHS)
781
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,640
(LAUGHS)
782
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,680
I really like Steven.
783
00:38:41,720 --> 00:38:44,360
And, you know, I think
you're really handsome
784
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:48,120
and you are amazing
the way that you are.
785
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,200
And I will tell you
every fricken day if I have to.
786
00:38:52,720 --> 00:38:54,120
I got to hand it to her.
787
00:38:54,160 --> 00:39:00,280
Rachel, I can definitely say, is the
most selfless person I've ever met.
788
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,120
She's my number one fan.
789
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:03,760
Like, you are amazing.
790
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,480
You are so special
791
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:09,560
and I really hope that we're going
to move in the right direction
792
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:10,760
and we're going to get there.
793
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,000
Oh, my god!
794
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:13,800
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
795
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,000
Yeah! (LAUGHS)
796
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,320
GIA: Love it.
797
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:17,760
Beautiful.
798
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,720
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
799
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,200
Alright, well,
we're going to go to a decision.
800
00:39:23,240 --> 00:39:24,760
ALESSANDRA: Yes.
Oh!
801
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,200
Rachel, we'll go to you first.
OK.
802
00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:31,680
I'm following my heart
in this moment.
803
00:39:31,720 --> 00:39:34,160
I'm staying, baby!
Wonderful.
804
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,720
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
805
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,840
Excellent. And to you, Steven.
806
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,280
I'm really happy how this week went,
807
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,280
so I've decided to stay.
808
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,360
With all capitals! Eh!
(APPLAUSE)
809
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,040
Thank you both.
Thank you so much.
810
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:55,400
Thank you.
Well done.
811
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:56,800
Thank you.
Well done.
812
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,840
(RACHEL AND MEL LAUGH)
813
00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:01,960
Thanks, guys.
814
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:03,640
(LAUGHS)
815
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,560
(GENTLE MUSIC)
Oh, my god.
816
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,560
I almost died up there.
817
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:08,920
Oh...
818
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,880
REBECCA: Well done. Well done.
Hey.
819
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,920
(GENTLE MUSIC)
820
00:40:18,720 --> 00:40:20,520
Let's get our next couple up.
821
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
822
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,080
Steve and Rebecca.
823
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,800
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
824
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,040
OK.
Do you want this side or that...?
825
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:34,720
I don't know. Let's just sit.
Let's just go.
826
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:35,880
OK.
OK.
827
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:37,480
Alright.
How's it going?
828
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:41,920
Very happy.
Nothing wrong with the wedding day.
829
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,200
The connection. Everything.
830
00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:46,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
831
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,560
It's like I had known Rebecca
for a very long time.
832
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:50,800
Yeah.
833
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,120
We're very solid and comfortable.
Yeah. Yeah.
834
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:58,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
835
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,720
Then I think we built a friendship
very quickly
836
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,400
during and after the honeymoon.
837
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
838
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,440
So I think we've got
nothing but progress.
839
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,960
I mean, it's...
Yeah, we're all good, I think.
840
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
841
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,120
Yeah?
Yeah, look, I... Yeah.
842
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:25,320
(LAUGHS) Yeah?
Yeah.
843
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,280
Yeah. Yeah.
844
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
845
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,840
ALESSANDRA: I want to look into this,
Rebecca,
846
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:45,000
because I know how big of a deal
it is for you...
847
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:46,360
Yeah.
848
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,840
..with your history and the time
that you have spent by yourself
849
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,240
not being in a relationship.
850
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,120
The foundation of you've got to
build friendship very quickly
851
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,800
in this experience...
Yes.
852
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:57,240
..and I think we built that
very quickly.
853
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:58,880
I would love to hear from Rebecca.
854
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,680
(TENSE MUSIC)
855
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:08,520
Well, I think at the moment
we have a rock-solid foundation
856
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,120
and I respect that, I get it,
857
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,720
but I haven't had a relationship
858
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,840
or been in a relationship
for eight years.
859
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:20,880
The whole reason I'm here
is because I want to find my person.
860
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,120
I'm craving affection...
861
00:42:25,240 --> 00:42:27,320
and I want to feel like I'm desired
by my partner.
862
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,720
But, like, I'm very attracted
to Steve...
863
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:35,200
and we were in such a good place
on the wedding and the honeymoon
864
00:42:35,240 --> 00:42:37,800
that I was expecting
a little bit more from him
865
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,200
with the romance.
866
00:42:39,240 --> 00:42:41,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
867
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:42,760
I'm more conservative...
Yep.
868
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:44,840
..so it is a slow pace with me.
Yep.
869
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
870
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,160
But do you feel that sense
of attraction to her,
871
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,440
of wanting to lean into that romantic
feeling with Rebecca?
872
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:56,360
Do I now?
873
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:57,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
874
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,080
Have you since you've met her
and in this experience?
875
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:01,400
Yeah, on honeymoon...
As I said, the progress...
876
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,480
100% we were heading that way.
And do you not now?
877
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,240
Since you've just made
the distinction, do you not now?
878
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
879
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,400
Yes, I do.
880
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:10,480
Yes, I still do.
881
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,680
(TENSE MUSIC)
882
00:43:12,720 --> 00:43:15,080
Yes. That's the answer.
883
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:20,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
884
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:35,480
Can I ask, Rebecca,
has Steve made you feel desired?
885
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
886
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:41,680
Don't hold back.
887
00:43:41,720 --> 00:43:44,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
888
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,600
No.
889
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
890
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,840
(TENSE MUSIC)
891
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:05,680
Can I ask, Rebecca,
has Steve made you feel desired?
892
00:44:05,720 --> 00:44:09,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
893
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,600
Don't hold back.
894
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:15,720
No.
895
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:24,240
So there is that doubt
that Steve does look at me...
896
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:26,960
other than just...
897
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,760
Like, I don't want a friend.
I don't need another friend.
898
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:30,800
I didn't come here to make friends.
899
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,600
So do you think he looks at you
as a friend at the moment?
900
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,080
Yeah, absolutely.
901
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
902
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,200
I'm scared now, to be honest.
903
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,800
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
904
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,600
Hey.
Look, I sound fricken...
905
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:02,760
I'm here.
Yeah, I know.
906
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,160
But now I'm scared
of the rejection part.
907
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:05,640
Hey.
908
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:09,000
Yeah, I know. But that's
my biggest fear, is being rejected.
909
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:12,640
Like, I know that...
910
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,440
Look, we're both in this position
911
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,120
because obviously we're just
getting to know each other.
912
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,000
But I look at him
more than a friend now.
913
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,400
Like, I'm just, like, I'm terrified
914
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,520
because I'm terrified of rejection
from Steve.
915
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:34,760
(TENSE MUSIC)
916
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,880
Um... I'm just...
917
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,160
I would like to think
I'm being respectful.
918
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:43,520
I know this is an experiment,
but I think we're going as fast...
919
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,280
or I'm going as fast
as I possibly can.
920
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,600
I don't... I don't... Oh...
921
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:54,120
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
922
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,040
She has just told you, though,
923
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,080
that she looks at you
as more than a friend.
924
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:02,880
She's very attracted to you.
925
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,400
Yes.
926
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,520
And the challenge here, Steve,
927
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,680
is that what you're saying is you're
not looking at her romantically.
928
00:46:12,720 --> 00:46:14,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
929
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,160
It's platonic.
930
00:46:18,240 --> 00:46:22,320
So, what this is all about is
now getting onto the same page.
931
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,560
Did you know that you were
at a crossroads
932
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,840
over this particular issue?
933
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:30,320
Um...
934
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,600
I wouldn't call it a crossroads.
935
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,240
I knew that there was
a different speed
936
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,040
in which we were both wanting
to possibly go,
937
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,160
but I'm understanding how that's
an issue for Rebecca, for sure.
938
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:45,320
I'm definitely open to it,
progressing that side of things.
939
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,360
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
940
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,640
Let's go to the decision.
941
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,560
Stay or leave. What you gonna do?
942
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,120
Let's go with you first, Steve.
943
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,400
Yeah, yeah.
944
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:03,720
Um... There's so many amazing
qualities to Rebecca.
945
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,840
So, um...
946
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,400
Yeah, I'm definitely not going
anywhere, so...
947
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,560
Yeah. Stay. For sure.
Good.
948
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,960
And what about you, Rebecca?
What you got for us? Stay or leave?
949
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
950
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:17,640
Um...
951
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,000
I'm going to...stay.
952
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,840
Whoo-hoo!
953
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,840
(APPLAUSE)
954
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:29,560
You can go back to the group.
955
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:30,920
Alright. Well done.
956
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:32,920
(APPLAUSE)
957
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,240
MEL: Thank you, guys.
Thanks, guys.
958
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,640
Thank you.
959
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:37,840
Thanks.
960
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:39,560
That's a lot.
Whew.
961
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,320
It was confronting. Yeah.
962
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,640
STEVE: Oh, not easy up there, guys.
963
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,720
Like I said, I don't need another
friend. I'm not here for that.
964
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:51,160
But I'm also really glad that
now he knows that I need more,
965
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,520
so I'm really excited
for the task to come.
966
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:54,920
Like, I hope he'll step up.
967
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,840
You alright?
Yeah.
968
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,600
Hey.
Aw!
969
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
970
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,120
Let's get our next couple up.
971
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:09,560
Chris and Brook.
972
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,160
(LAUGHS)
(APPLAUSE)
973
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:13,600
Yeah.
974
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,480
Hello, hello.
MEL: Hello.
975
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:17,760
How are you?
JOHN: Hello, you two.
976
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,760
MEL: Hi. Welcome.
Thank you.
977
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,160
CHRIS: How are we going? Hey.
978
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,360
How are we doing?
Good.
979
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:27,320
Nervous. A little bit.
A little bit.
980
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:28,960
How are you going?
981
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,080
Oh, yeah, nice try.
982
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:32,920
(LAUGHTER)
Oh...
983
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:36,720
We're actually wondering about, uh,
what you're nervous about.
984
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:38,080
Uh...
985
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:43,760
I think it's been a pretty...
a bit of a roller-coaster.
986
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:48,040
After the ceremony,
I was not sure about Chris.
987
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,760
Your vows were a little bit 'neggy'
at the time.
988
00:48:54,600 --> 00:49:00,280
He said that there is a 0.000001%
chance that this is going to work.
989
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:03,040
MEL: Wow.
990
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,760
So I was a bit, like,
"What are you doing here?"
991
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,320
(SOME LAUGHTER)
992
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,960
(TENSE MUSIC)
993
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:14,040
So, Chris, did you not have faith
in the match that we had done?
994
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:17,680
So, I was very pessimistic, yes.
995
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,360
But I've been proven wrong.
996
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:22,680
Mmm.
I'm sorry?
997
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,480
I have been proven wrong.
Oh.
998
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,480
ALESSANDRA: Oh.
Interesting.
999
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,920
Mmm.
Yeah, we'll take that apology.
1000
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:33,160
Um...
(LAUGHTER)
1001
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,880
Carry on. What happened
after those vows?
1002
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,560
So... Because it sounds like
you were a little unnerved.
1003
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:40,880
Yeah, I was.
1004
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:42,680
And it probably wasn't until day two
1005
00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:45,080
that, like, we started to get
a deeper connection
1006
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,920
and I could actually see something
that could start to evolve.
1007
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:51,400
So we went into Revelations Week
1008
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,880
thinking that it was going to be
so easy.
1009
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,240
But then I watched
the audition tapes
1010
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:02,200
and there was a lot of things
that he said in the video
1011
00:50:02,240 --> 00:50:03,360
that I don't agree with.
1012
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,360
Like what?
1013
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,760
That he hasn't found a connection
with girls
1014
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:11,880
and the only girls that he gets with
are hot and dumb.
1015
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,600
I was being really blunt
with my labelling of terms, which...
1016
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,120
Well, let me explain
what you actually said.
1017
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,880
You said your three icks
or three red flags
1018
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:27,840
were fake tan, clingy girls
and fat people.
1019
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1020
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:39,520
That's done some big damage.
1021
00:50:42,720 --> 00:50:45,240
How did you explain your way
out of this one?
1022
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,000
What did you say to her?
1023
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
1024
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:50,800
I didn't.
1025
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,360
How did you handle it?
1026
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,360
I took full responsibility
for that video.
1027
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:56,400
Mmm.
Um...
1028
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
1029
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,920
Me, I've come from a footy...
1030
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:02,400
I've been playing football
my whole life.
1031
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,640
I've been in this environment
1032
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,320
where it sort of promotes
this sort of behaviour.
1033
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:13,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1034
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,360
OK, I want to go there with you.
1035
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:24,280
Why is it inappropriate
to talk about women in that way?
1036
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,200
It's degrading.
1037
00:51:27,240 --> 00:51:28,440
Correct.
1038
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:34,000
It sends a message to women
that you're not respecting them.
1039
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:40,240
You're looking at them as objects
that you can use, throw away.
1040
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,520
(TENSE MUSIC)
1041
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,200
Disappointed in myself.
1042
00:51:47,240 --> 00:51:49,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
1043
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,680
Being with Brook now, the person
that I've been the last two weeks,
1044
00:51:51,720 --> 00:51:53,040
it's a dramatic change.
1045
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,640
Yeah, and that's the thing.
1046
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,840
Like, I've seen
a different side to him
1047
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:00,040
and that's why
I'm still sitting here.
1048
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:04,520
And I know that he's trying to be
a better person and change.
1049
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:08,040
I think, you know, as much as it did
set us back,
1050
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,680
I...you know, I hope
that we can progress
1051
00:52:10,720 --> 00:52:13,040
because we do have
a great connection together.
1052
00:52:16,240 --> 00:52:18,280
So, let's go to the decision.
1053
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,720
Let's go with you first.
Stay or leave, Chris?
1054
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,360
I think mine's pretty obvious.
1055
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:26,000
I'm staying.
Yeah.
1056
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:27,880
OK. What about you, Brook?
(LAUGHS)
1057
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,320
Stay or leave?
1058
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,480
No, I think that there's still
definitely more to explore,
1059
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,280
so I've done stay
with the poo emoji.
1060
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,040
(LAUGHS)
1061
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:38,560
(APPLAUSE)
1062
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,520
Right. And with that,
you can go back to the group.
1063
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,320
Lovely.
MEL: Thanks, guys.
1064
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:46,920
Thank you so much.
1065
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1066
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:50,960
Thanks, guys.
1067
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:52,320
Thanks.
1068
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:53,400
(LAUGHS)
1069
00:52:54,720 --> 00:52:55,960
So (BLEEP).
1070
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:57,640
BEC: Well done, babe.
You did so good.
1071
00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:58,760
Thank you.
1072
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:00,240
NARRATOR: Coming up...
1073
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:01,200
Fool.
1074
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,360
She's a fool.
1075
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,920
..a tense end
to the first commitment ceremony.
1076
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:10,480
I don't understand
why you're coming at me.
1077
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:11,880
STELLA: I'm not coming at you.
1078
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:13,800
I'm so pissed off.
CHRIS: Brook. Brook, Brook, Brook...
1079
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1080
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:28,880
Let's get our next couple up.
1081
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:34,200
Julia and Grayson.
1082
00:53:34,240 --> 00:53:35,200
MAN: Hey.
1083
00:53:35,240 --> 00:53:37,240
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
1084
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:39,240
(LAUGHS)
1085
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:40,960
GRAYSON: Hey, guys.
MEL: Hello.
1086
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:42,920
Pleasure to meet you.
Hi.
1087
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:44,000
Welcome.
1088
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:45,560
ALESSANDRA:
Good to see you together.
1089
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:46,400
You're like a rainbow.
1090
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:47,840
(LAUGHS)
Yes. Look at us.
1091
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:49,840
Technicolour dream.
Yes.
1092
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:51,800
Love it.
1093
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:53,320
Well, to look at the two of you,
1094
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,040
you're looking very comfortable
together.
1095
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,000
Yeah.
Yeah, we are pretty comfortable.
1096
00:53:57,040 --> 00:54:00,080
Tell us, how are things going?
Really positive.
1097
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:04,240
Uh... At the wedding, like,
Jules, for me, owned the aisle.
1098
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,480
She just had this beaming smile.
1099
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:09,640
And in that moment, everything
sort of slowed down for me
1100
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,280
and put me at ease
1101
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:12,640
and I felt safe.
1102
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,160
I love that.
1103
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,160
Yeah, it was just mind-blowing.
1104
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,160
As you know, I'm a bisexual woman,
1105
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:23,680
so I didn't know if there was going
to be a woman there, a man there,
1106
00:54:23,720 --> 00:54:25,400
what...you know,
who it was going to be.
1107
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:29,000
But the moment I sort of locked
eyes with Grayson, I felt at ease.
1108
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,800
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
1109
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:35,000
We have so many values
that are aligned.
1110
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,240
Yeah.
You know, he is very open-minded.
1111
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:40,960
And this is something
that I really value about Grayson.
1112
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:45,040
You know, he doesn't shy away
from new things
1113
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,560
and that is something
that I find really attractive.
1114
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:52,960
But, you know, taking it slow
is important to me,
1115
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:57,640
so, for us, I think it's been about
building a foundation of friendship,
1116
00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:58,840
first and foremost.
1117
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,600
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
1118
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:03,360
And is that what it's about
for you too?
1119
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:07,480
Yeah, absolutely. I think...
It absolutely is.
1120
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,480
Um, but I...
1121
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:12,240
you know, I don't want to get caught
in that space.
1122
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:16,160
I want to... I want to be able to
shift into a romantic place
1123
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:17,760
and that takes both of us.
1124
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,040
You know, Jules made it very clear
on our wedding night
1125
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,240
and said, "Look, I'd like to
take this slow, very slow."
1126
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,360
And I said, "Well, if that's
what it's going to take..."
1127
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,600
I've got all the time in the world
to fall in love,
1128
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,600
but I just want to build
some form of relationship
1129
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:36,200
and create a space of safety
and trust for her to...to flourish.
1130
00:55:36,240 --> 00:55:38,760
And for me, that brings up
a few questions.
1131
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,560
I love the idea of building
a strong foundation of friendship.
1132
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:48,360
I think that's super important.
1133
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,200
But it's not
'Friendship At First Sight'.
1134
00:55:52,240 --> 00:55:53,320
It is Marriage At First Sight.
1135
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1136
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:58,680
And the time here is limited
1137
00:55:58,720 --> 00:56:01,120
and it is meant to fast-track
1138
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:05,480
the way a relationship can build
that safety and trust.
1139
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,640
And it sounds to me like, Julia,
you set the pace
1140
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,880
and Grayson and then you said,
"Oh, well, OK."
1141
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,600
It has to be both people
coming together,
1142
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,840
not one adjusting to the other.
1143
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:24,960
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
1144
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,080
And so I'm wondering
how that feels for you.
1145
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,520
Look, it's...
1146
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:31,680
It's, um...
1147
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,560
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
1148
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,880
I'm... I am here to fall in love
1149
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,560
and find someone
to fall in love with, um...
1150
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:46,280
so would I have liked it to be
a little further down the line?
1151
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,360
Yeah, but, I mean,
1152
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:54,600
if I see small steps taken daily
1153
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:59,200
or, you know, if I see us sort of,
you know, progressing and...
1154
00:56:59,240 --> 00:57:02,760
So is there progression? I wonder,
is there romance between you?
1155
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:07,480
Um... I wouldn't say at this point
there's...there's been much romance.
1156
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,480
No.
No.
1157
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:16,120
(TENSE MUSIC)
1158
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:20,960
Is that a conscious decision,
1159
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,200
something you decided
was not going to happen?
1160
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:24,360
You're waiting for...
I'd actu...
1161
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,600
I'd love to say that, like...
Yeah.
1162
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:31,400
It's really coming across here
like I'm the one leading this,
1163
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:35,720
but I'm just honouring my process.
1164
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,400
I wanted to take it slow.
1165
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:40,320
Moving into a space of romance,
1166
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:44,360
I really need to feel
emotionally safe and connected.
1167
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:51,040
So, yeah, I just don't want it to be
coming across like I'm the one
1168
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:52,280
who's, like, "No."
1169
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:55,000
It's not like that. It's a dance.
1170
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:58,840
And I think we're both trying to
kind of, like, work each other out.
1171
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:00,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
1172
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,800
He's reading me. I'm reading him.
1173
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:06,320
Grayson, is that a fair call?
1174
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:08,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1175
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:10,520
No, it's just because I...
1176
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,520
because all the issues and all
the conversations we've been having
1177
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:15,440
are purely about you, Jules.
1178
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:17,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1179
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:31,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1180
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:34,960
I just don't want it to be
coming across
1181
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:37,120
like I'm the one who's like, "No."
1182
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:38,360
You know, it's not like that.
1183
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:43,080
I think we're both trying to
kind of, like, work each other out.
1184
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:45,440
He's reading me. I'm reading him.
1185
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:49,920
Grayson, is that a fair call?
1186
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,440
No, it's just because I...
1187
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,280
because all the issues and all
the conversations we've been having
1188
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,000
are purely about you, Jules.
1189
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:01,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1190
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:08,760
I... On a daily basis,
since the honeymoon,
1191
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:11,320
it was just all, like...
everything was just compounding
1192
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:12,520
on how you were feeling
1193
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:15,320
and I just showed up
and I was there for you.
1194
00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:18,040
I've been patient, open.
1195
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,680
I was doing everything I could
to...to support Jules.
1196
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:28,160
So, um, look, to be honest,
I think it's been far outweighed
1197
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:29,360
in regards to effort.
1198
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:36,120
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
1199
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:38,640
I really don't feel that
that is fair, to be honest, Grayson.
1200
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:40,640
But that's...that's the reality
for me, Jules.
1201
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:41,960
Well, I'm just...
1202
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:45,360
OK, so I think
that there may have been
1203
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,520
some sweeping under the rug
1204
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,520
because I didn't actually know
that Grayson was feeling
1205
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:51,640
some of these things.
1206
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,320
And I think that's something
that we should chat about more.
1207
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,560
Yeah. Yeah.
Um...
1208
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:03,240
At the end of the day, it's about
really how you each hear
1209
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:04,640
what the other is saying
1210
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:08,240
and also do your part to lean in,
1211
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:11,280
not only put walls up
and keep the other away,
1212
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:14,800
because the defensive part,
you have loads of experience with.
1213
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,120
You've been doing that for years.
1214
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:19,840
You wouldn't be here if that
hadn't been the case in the past.
1215
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,080
I feel that. Yeah.
1216
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:24,440
Yeah, yeah.
1217
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:28,360
I believe we are both having...
giving this a good nudge.
1218
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,160
Um...
MEL: Oh, and we can see that.
1219
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,000
And I guess that's why we're,
you know,
1220
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:33,440
gently challenging you here,
1221
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:35,920
because there's
so much potential here.
1222
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:41,080
So, with that said,
we're going to go to the decision
1223
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,320
and we're going to go to you, Julia.
1224
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:47,200
Um, well, there's so much here
that I want to continue to explore,
1225
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,400
so it's a stay.
1226
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,160
Yeah. (LAUGHS)
Whoo-hoo.
1227
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,000
Wonderful.
1228
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:55,480
And to you, Grayson.
Yeah.
1229
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:57,960
Um, look, I have had so much fun
1230
01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,760
and I want to give this
everything I've got.
1231
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,520
And so, yeah, I chose to stay.
1232
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:05,480
(APPLAUSE)
Brilliant.
1233
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,440
Wonderful. Thank you both.
Thank you so much, guys.
1234
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,040
Have a wonderful week.
Thank you.
1235
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:12,280
Bye.
1236
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:14,240
WOMAN: Well done.
CONTESTANT: Whoo!
1237
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:15,280
Good luck up there.
1238
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:16,440
MAN: Well done.
1239
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:20,560
Well done.
1240
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:26,280
Yeah?
1241
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:27,840
Alright, let's get
our next couple up.
1242
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:30,800
Alissa and David.
1243
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,400
Yay!
1244
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,360
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
1245
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:42,680
MEL: Hello.
ALISSA: Hello.
1246
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:44,640
DAVID: Hey, guys.
Lovely to meet you.
1247
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:45,840
Hey.
1248
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:48,880
Get all snuggled.
1249
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:54,440
(TENSE MUSIC)
1250
01:01:56,960 --> 01:02:00,480
Alright. Where are we going to start?
How are things right now?
1251
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:02,720
Things are fantastic.
1252
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:04,320
I don't know how you guys did it.
1253
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:07,480
You guys are wizards, but, like,
you guys nailed everything.
1254
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:09,040
Ah.
1255
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:12,000
When I saw her walking
down the aisle,
1256
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:14,440
straight away, I was like,
"You nailed the look.
1257
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,360
"What is her personality like?"
1258
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,800
Um...
1259
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,240
And the first thing she did
when we did our vows is she...
1260
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,360
she said
she wasn't going to marry me
1261
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:25,360
until I got down on one knee
and proposed.
1262
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:26,960
MEL: Oh!
1263
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:31,560
Um, straight away...
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
1264
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:33,480
It was a big move from you.
It was a ballsy move.
1265
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,280
I know.
It was a ballsy move.
1266
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:36,640
It was.
MEL: Mmm.
1267
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:39,720
But I love that because it just
showed me that she's direct,
1268
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:42,080
she's sharp, she's honest.
1269
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
1270
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:47,280
And that's something I've asked for.
1271
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:55,200
I know it's early days,
but I care for Alissa a lot.
1272
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:57,880
You know, I definitely have feelings
for her.
1273
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,840
The amount of things
that we're literally the same in...
1274
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:03,080
Yeah.
..is crazy.
1275
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:04,320
So you guys literally went...
Aligned.
1276
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:05,600
..ticking, like, boxes.
1277
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:07,760
Values. Religion, even.
Yeah.
1278
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,000
Like, and our childhood
and our upbringings.
1279
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:11,240
And it's just nuts.
1280
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:12,600
And just listening to that,
it sounds like
1281
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:14,800
you've been asking each other
a lot of questions.
1282
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:17,720
We've literally been staying up
till late hours just talking.
1283
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:20,360
Getting curious.
So curious.
1284
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:22,560
But also, like, you know,
just skipping bullshit.
1285
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
1286
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,840
JOHN: This is fantastic.
We're going to go to the decision.
1287
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:41,840
Let's... Let's go with you first,
Alissa. Stay or leave?
1288
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:43,640
Capital 'stay',
1289
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:45,440
with a smiley face
'cause I'm really happy.
1290
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,320
Oooh, I love that.
1291
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:48,920
And David.
1292
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:50,560
Oh, this was very tough.
1293
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:52,840
Oh...
(MEL LAUGHS)
1294
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,040
Yeah, I went with 'stay'.
1295
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:57,840
(APPLAUSE)
Fabulous.
1296
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:01,680
JOHN: Great work, you two.
You can go back to the group.
1297
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:02,640
OK.
Thank you.
1298
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:04,400
MEL: Well done, guys.
(APPLAUSE)
1299
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:07,560
(RESOUNDING MUSIC)
1300
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:18,520
And last up on the couch,
Stella and Filip.
1301
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:21,800
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
1302
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:23,240
Hello.
Hello.
1303
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,160
Hello.
Hi.
1304
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:26,640
JOHN: Hello, you two.
Hi.
1305
01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:29,320
Welcome.
Thank you.
1306
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:34,120
How are you both going?
Yeah, we're going great.
1307
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,440
The wedding was unreal.
1308
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,680
I saw her and I was just, like,
"Wow," so...
1309
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:41,440
Instant attraction.
Oh!
1310
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:44,440
And I told her she's cool,
I got her.
1311
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:47,200
And then, fast-forward to
the honeymoon
1312
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:48,440
and then we just started to realise
1313
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:49,600
that we see the world
in the same way.
1314
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,120
Family and friends
are super important.
1315
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:53,440
We like similar music,
1316
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:57,200
we eat the same food, we go train
and do all this kind of stuff.
1317
01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:59,080
And I'm fully into her.
Like, I'm always looking at her.
1318
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,440
I'm kissing her all the time.
1319
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,160
And it's kind of helped with,
you know,
1320
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,600
like, there's different levels
of intimacy as well.
1321
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:07,960
Like, we've given each other
full-body massages
1322
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:09,520
that have lasted an hour, longer.
1323
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:10,520
Oh!
Yeah?
1324
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:12,080
God.
1325
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:13,560
Please.
1326
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:15,760
(LAUGHTER)
1327
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,000
Can I just make an observation?
1328
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,040
We're sitting here
and looking at you two.
1329
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:23,960
Your eye contact...
MEL Mmm.
1330
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,560
..is unbelievable.
Yeah, we do have a lot of that.
1331
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,280
Like, you directly stare into
his eyes.
1332
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:33,320
So when you say you've got
a high level of intimacy,
1333
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:34,720
you can see it.
Yeah.
1334
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:38,440
And, like, to be honest, I kind of
also want to protect it in a way.
1335
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:39,920
Um, yeah...
1336
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:41,880
What do you mean?
1337
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:43,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1338
01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:45,720
Just protect it for the time being.
1339
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:47,200
Yeah.
1340
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:48,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1341
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:52,080
I feel like, um...
1342
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:56,360
not everyone likes your happiness.
1343
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:57,600
Mmm.
1344
01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:58,760
Oooh.
1345
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:03,360
Are you suggesting that some people
here find your happiness
1346
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:05,760
difficult to swallow?
1347
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:08,600
It felt in the moment, yeah,
1348
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:10,800
at the red and green flags.
1349
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:12,720
There was questions raised,
you know,
1350
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:16,440
as in, like, it wasn't authentic,
you know, what we had.
1351
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:23,240
What exactly are they saying?
1352
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:25,320
You know, that me sitting on his lap
1353
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:27,000
and giving kisses
at the dinner party
1354
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:28,200
was, like...wasn't authentic.
1355
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:29,840
(TENSE MUSIC)
1356
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:33,760
It was more of a performance?
Yeah. Yeah. And it really is not.
1357
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,360
Like, I'm here to show up for myself
and for my partner.
1358
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:38,400
Sure.
GIA: What?
1359
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:40,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
1360
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:45,840
OK, who in the group feels like...
1361
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:49,880
this is a performance
and it's not genuine?
1362
01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:52,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1363
01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:55,680
I mean, look, I'll be honest.
1364
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:57,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1365
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:08,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1366
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:14,880
Who in the group feels like this is
a performance and it's not genuine?
1367
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:18,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
1368
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,200
I mean, look, I'll be honest.
1369
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:25,840
At the start, I did feel like it was
a little bit of a performance
1370
01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:29,720
because I was, like, "Whoa, this is
very hot and heavy very early on."
1371
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:34,800
So I was, like, "Wow, like,
sounds too good to be true."
1372
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,040
It wasn't like I was being,
like, "This is fake."
1373
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,720
It was some of the comments of
"We're looking at baby names
1374
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:43,320
"and already falling in love
with each other"
1375
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:44,440
that seemed full-on.
1376
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:46,920
(TENSE MUSIC)
1377
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:50,840
Do you know what, I think you guys
are gonna have babies
1378
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:52,560
and you're...
and you're falling in love,
1379
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:54,720
so let's move with positivity.
1380
01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:56,440
(BLEEP) what anyone else thinks,
1381
01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:59,320
because what you guys have
you know is real
1382
01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:00,480
and that's all that matters.
1383
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:02,520
(TENSE MUSIC)
1384
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:03,840
We're just doing our thing.
1385
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,480
Like, it's good and It should be
good. It should be fun.
1386
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:08,520
And that's particularly the reason
1387
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:10,560
why I feel like
I want to protect it.
1388
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,800
I'm fricken fuming.
1389
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:18,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1390
01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:28,120
I guess, you know, it's kind of sad
to learn that at the age of 32,
1391
01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:32,760
I have to relearn that not everyone
is wishing you happiness.
1392
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:36,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
1393
01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:39,400
But no-one's saying that
we're not happy for you.
1394
01:08:39,440 --> 01:08:41,840
Like, no-one has said that.
1395
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:44,240
No-one yesterday said
that we're not happy for you.
1396
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:45,960
(TENSE MUSIC)
1397
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:50,080
So, don't sit up here
and make yourself be the victim,
1398
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:51,440
because that's how it is.
1399
01:08:51,480 --> 01:08:53,800
(TENSE MUSIC)
1400
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:55,360
JULIA: Oh, I don't know
if she's being the victim.
1401
01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:57,600
I think that she's just trying
to express
1402
01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:59,760
that there can be a bit of
mean-girl energy sometimes
1403
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:01,120
and maybe she doesn't...
1404
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:03,520
And vice-versa, babe!
Literally same, though.
1405
01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:06,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
1406
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:11,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
1407
01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:13,360
Alissa, shut up,
1408
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,240
'cause all you do is speak with
an infomercial voice.
1409
01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:17,600
Pipe down, OK?
1410
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:20,760
No, I'm just saying, there were,
like, names called yesterday.
1411
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:22,640
We're done with it.
1412
01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:23,920
(TENSE MUSIC)
1413
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,040
You called everyone fake.
1414
01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,840
You roll your eyes at everyone,
Alissa. Far out.
1415
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:31,400
(TENSE MUSIC)
1416
01:09:31,440 --> 01:09:33,800
OK, guys,
we'll just bring it back down.
1417
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:37,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1418
01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,800
You know, the good thing, though,
Stella, by bringing this up,
1419
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:47,480
immediately I watch for
Filip's reaction
1420
01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:49,200
and his reaction is
he's got your back.
1421
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:55,360
And that's the thing I like.
I'm here to match his energy.
1422
01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:57,520
We do align
on so many different levels.
1423
01:09:57,560 --> 01:10:01,760
And I said, at the end of the day,
I'm going to give my heart fully.
1424
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:05,520
If I get hurt, I get hurt.
That's going to be a lesson for me.
1425
01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:09,560
But I will not try to self-sabotage
myself by playing it safe,
1426
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:14,400
because I think, for myself,
1427
01:10:14,440 --> 01:10:18,280
I'm not looking anything less than
a soulmate-level connection.
1428
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:21,680
So you think he could be a soulmate
for you?
1429
01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:24,000
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
1430
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:28,760
I think we... If we're heading
the way we're heading....
1431
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:31,920
yes.
1432
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:33,680
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
1433
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:36,120
FILIP: Definitely.
I feel the same as well.
1434
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:37,760
Like, yeah, I feel really blessed
to have been,
1435
01:10:37,800 --> 01:10:39,240
like, matched with Stella.
1436
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:43,680
And it's amazing to see you both
thriving and growing
1437
01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:47,040
and doing really what you're meant
to do in this experiment,
1438
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,440
which is be curious,
learn about the other
1439
01:10:50,480 --> 01:10:52,280
and find a way to come together.
1440
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:57,240
So, having said that,
let's go to the decision.
1441
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:00,600
And we're going to start with Filip.
1442
01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:02,080
Yes.
1443
01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:05,120
I've got no reason
to go anywhere right now.
1444
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:08,040
We just start... We just got here,
so I wrote 'stay'.
1445
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:09,680
Starting up.
Thanks.
1446
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:11,600
That's a strong stay. And Stella?
1447
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:13,560
Oh.
Did you write 'stay'?
1448
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:15,120
We have a little love heart.
Oh.
1449
01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:16,640
Yeah.
Oh.
1450
01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:21,720
Keep doing what you're doing,
you guys.
1451
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,240
Thank you very much.
Thank you.
1452
01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:25,800
Thank you.
(APPLAUSE)
1453
01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:28,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1454
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,640
I'm not going to sit there
and be happy for someone
1455
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:40,560
when they call out a story
that didn't even happen.
1456
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:42,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1457
01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:47,880
Not one person yesterday
at the lunch said
1458
01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:49,240
they were unhappy
for your happiness....
1459
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:52,880
so don't put words
in other people's mouths
1460
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,560
and make it out like
we're not happy for you.
1461
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:56,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1462
01:11:56,440 --> 01:11:58,800
You also went around to everyone
in the room having your opinion.
1463
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:01,000
Everyone had their opinion,
so don't...
1464
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:03,040
That's what I'm saying,
playing the victim...
1465
01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:04,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1466
01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:07,240
..because you had your opinion
as well as everyone.
1467
01:12:07,280 --> 01:12:09,400
Um, look,
1468
01:12:09,440 --> 01:12:14,240
I think what you
brought up yesterday
1469
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,400
at the very end
of the whole thing...
1470
01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:19,680
Brought up what?
1471
01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:23,280
..that I didn't support Mel enough
in Mel's and Luke's situation...
1472
01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:28,000
Mel brought that up, babe.
Mel brought that up, not me.
1473
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:29,400
It was all wrapped up.
1474
01:12:29,440 --> 01:12:31,080
No, it wasn't, babe!
1475
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:32,720
You can't blame me for that!
1476
01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:34,440
Hold it there, guys.
Hold it there, guys.
1477
01:12:34,480 --> 01:12:36,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1478
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:54,200
What you brought up yesterday
that I didn't support Mel enough
1479
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:55,880
in Mel's and Luke's situation...
1480
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:57,640
Mel brought that up, babe!
That was Mel.
1481
01:12:57,680 --> 01:12:59,400
Mel brought that up, not me.
1482
01:12:59,440 --> 01:13:01,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
1483
01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:04,600
You can't blame me for that.
1484
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:07,600
Hold it there, guys.
Hold it there, guys.
1485
01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:11,160
This is a conversation
for another day.
1486
01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:15,760
It's not the place now,
but we will revisit this.
1487
01:13:27,440 --> 01:13:28,520
Fool!
1488
01:13:30,440 --> 01:13:31,840
She's a fool.
1489
01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:35,240
No, don't tell me that it's alright.
1490
01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:36,640
She's just making shit
out of her arse.
1491
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:39,840
Alright.
1492
01:13:39,880 --> 01:13:43,080
Tonight we've heard
a lot of revelations.
1493
01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:48,440
You may find that this was
very confronting.
1494
01:13:48,480 --> 01:13:51,440
Buckle up, because there is
plenty more of this to come.
1495
01:13:51,480 --> 01:13:56,400
And this week, there are further
challenges coming your way.
1496
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:01,680
So, on that note, please give it
everything you've got.
1497
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:03,960
Thanks for tonight and good luck.
1498
01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:05,200
MEL: Thanks, everyone.
1499
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:07,080
ALESSANDRA: Thank you.
Goodnight.
1500
01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:10,640
Get me out of here.
1501
01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:12,280
That girl sucks.
1502
01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:15,240
(TENSE MUSIC)
1503
01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:18,120
She's just...
Can we please have a chat, bub?
1504
01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:21,680
Babe, to be honest, I don't
understand why you're coming at me.
1505
01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:22,720
I'm not coming at you.
1506
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,360
GIA: No-one cares
about your relationship.
1507
01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:25,920
No-one cares!
We're not jealous at all, doll.
1508
01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:27,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1509
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:37,880
Just taking a moment. (CRIES)
1510
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:44,960
Yeah. It is emotional.
1511
01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:48,560
I don't know,
it just feels unwarranted.
1512
01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:54,520
It wasn't about anyone
but me and Filip
1513
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:58,080
and me wanting to protect
what we have
1514
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:01,480
and not wanting to be questioned.
1515
01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:03,800
And it's not my intention,
like, to fight with people here.
1516
01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,560
Like, I'm not... I'm not...
I'm not that person.
1517
01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:09,840
And I will never be.
Like, I don't care.
1518
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:13,120
Like, they can throw shit at me
for all I care.
1519
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:17,000
I'm not here for that. I'm here for
my person. That's it.
1520
01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:23,760
CHRIS: OK. OK. OK.
1521
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:29,880
OK. I'll just... (LAUGHS)
1522
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:32,840
Brook. Brook, Brook, Brook...
1523
01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:40,040
No-one gives a (BLEEP)
about your relationship, babe.
1524
01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:43,440
Everyone's here for themselves,
so focus on that.
1525
01:15:43,480 --> 01:15:47,160
But also, when you're bursting out
saying that you're in love with him
1526
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:49,880
and you're picking kids' names
after five days,
1527
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,960
of course everyone's going to have,
you know, ideas
1528
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:54,520
that it's a little bit fake.
1529
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:56,120
Like, prove me wrong.
1530
01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:57,600
Prove everyone wrong
1531
01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:01,280
'cause I guarantee everyone
is saying it, not just me.
1532
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:06,040
You know, (BLEEP).
She's a snitch as well, so...
1533
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:09,440
That's all I have to say.
1534
01:16:11,360 --> 01:16:13,960
I don't need to say any more.
I don't give a (BLEEP) about her.
1535
01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:16,520
She sucks. End of.
1536
01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:18,240
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1537
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:23,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1538
01:16:29,360 --> 01:16:31,520
(KNOCKING)
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1539
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:34,240
(GIGGLES)
Oh, what's going on?
1540
01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:37,360
..our newlyweds enter
the next phase of the experiment.
1541
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:38,720
Hello!
1542
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:39,880
Intimacy week.
1543
01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:43,520
It's meant to build
emotional closeness, safety
1544
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:46,360
and then other playful aspects
of a relationship.
1545
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:49,720
While some embrace
stepping out of their comfort zone...
1546
01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:51,000
Goddamn!
1547
01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:52,600
How about we do those push-ups?
1548
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:54,280
Come here.
1549
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:55,640
You know, it's...
1550
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:57,840
..Steve remains hesitant.
1551
01:16:57,880 --> 01:16:59,120
It's just not for me.
1552
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:02,640
Intimacy comes
in many shapes and forms.
1553
01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:04,600
Were you bullied?
Um...
1554
01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:06,640
Has a stranger ever changed
your life?
1555
01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:08,480
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
1556
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:11,840
What's your favourite quality
about your ex?
1557
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:15,480
Julia's interpretation of intimacy...
1558
01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:17,520
How do you mean by that? Sorry.
1559
01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:20,760
..leaves Grayson feeling confused
and frustrated
1560
01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:22,440
with the lack of clarity.
1561
01:17:22,480 --> 01:17:24,760
Can you see any kind of future
with me?
1562
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:25,840
Um...
1563
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:28,120
And then...
1564
01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:30,240
"Kiss me now,
1565
01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:33,000
"the kind of kiss that makes me
feel something."
1566
01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:37,640
..Steven's massive moment of truth.
1567
01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:39,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1568
01:17:50,280 --> 01:17:53,280
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