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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,960 CELEBRANT: I now pronounce you husband and wife! 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,160 NARRATOR: 18 brave singles married a complete stranger... 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,000 (LAUGHS) 4 00:00:09,040 --> 00:00:11,840 ..as part of Australia's biggest social experiment... 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:14,920 (CHEERING) ..and the first dinner party... 6 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:17,840 FILIP: I'm pretty happy. Me too. 7 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,280 ..exposed early tensions. What's your problem? 8 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,520 Seems like we got on better than you and your man, 9 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:25,480 who was looking me up and down. 10 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:26,760 (LAUGHTER) 11 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,960 Luke was left feeling rejected. 12 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,160 LUKE: I can see how she talks to other people in the room 13 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:34,600 and it's completely different to how she talks to me. 14 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,840 And a brand new-phase began. 15 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,520 When I was bigger, I just got no attention. 16 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,720 Hearing things like "I starved myself" pained my heart. 17 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,440 Revelations Week helped peel back 18 00:00:46,480 --> 00:00:47,880 the emotional layers of our participants... 19 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,000 They're going out the balcony. 20 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:51,160 BEC: I loved it. 21 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,320 (RHYTHMIC MUSIC) JULIA: Dangle your head. 22 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:55,360 ..but left others confused... 23 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:56,720 Oh... 24 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,360 ..and in shock by some uncomfortable truths... 25 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:02,920 Fake tan, needy and fat people. 26 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,440 ..led Brook to go on the attack. 27 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,440 Surely he gets on your nerves at times. 28 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:09,800 No. I don't believe you! 29 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:11,440 What?! I don't believe you! 30 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,080 STELLA: I definitely saw a different side of Brook. 31 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:15,240 It felt very cold. 32 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:18,480 Tonight... 33 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,200 ..who will stay and who will leave... 34 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:23,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 35 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,920 ..at the very first commitment ceremony of the experiment? 36 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,800 How's it going? Very happy. 37 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,320 Nothing but progress. 38 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:35,360 Steve's positive spin leaves everyone confused. 39 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,400 Nothing wrong. Connection. Everything. 40 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,040 But the experts aren't buying it. 41 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:41,320 What's going on for you, Rebecca? 42 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 43 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,920 Mel is delivered some tough love. 44 00:01:45,960 --> 00:01:47,480 You need a wake-up call. 45 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:50,120 Hi. (LAUGHS) 46 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:51,960 I really like Steven! 47 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:53,360 You are so special. 48 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,720 Romantic connections will be celebrated. 49 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:58,560 Things are fantastic. 50 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,840 Yeah, we're going great. I'm fully into her. 51 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:02,000 Like, I'm kissing her all the time. 52 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,600 You think he could be a soulmate for you? 53 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,760 If we're heading the way we're heading, yes. 54 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:12,400 But I feel like not everyone likes your happiness. 55 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:14,560 Brook lashes out... 56 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,480 You can't blame me for that. 57 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,480 Get me out of here. No-one cares. 58 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:19,640 We'll just bring it back down. 59 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,560 ..derailing the entire commitment ceremony. 60 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 61 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:41,520 It's the night after an explosive, brand-new Revelations Week task. 62 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:43,920 Oh, it was intense. Was it? 63 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:44,960 It was... Yeah. 64 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,040 Red Flag, Green Flag. 65 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:48,560 A lot going on. Oh, yeah? 66 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:50,080 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's all popping off? 67 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,800 It was pretty rowdy. Oh, was it? 68 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:52,880 Yeah. 69 00:02:52,920 --> 00:02:55,920 And the actions from a particular bride are looming large for many. 70 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,440 RACHEL: Brook surprised me today. 71 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:02,600 She said something quite pointy or direct, was it? 72 00:03:02,640 --> 00:03:04,720 (TENSE MUSIC) 73 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,240 Red flags... Are there any? 74 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,320 Well, that's the thing. Like... There has to be. 75 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,720 There's not... I'm sorry. I'm calling bullshit. 76 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,280 ALISSA: Brook was... Brook kept having her two cents. 77 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:16,920 Wow. Brook! Wow. 78 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,080 Yeah, it was a lot! 79 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,120 And our communication is second to none. 80 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,280 So we... 81 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,840 So it's all rainbows and butterflies and he shits rainbows? 82 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:26,600 (LAUGHS) 83 00:03:26,640 --> 00:03:28,240 She was calling everyone out. She was... 84 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:29,880 Yeah, it was full-on. Really? 85 00:03:29,920 --> 00:03:32,680 Alissa is the expert. 86 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:34,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 87 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,360 She went a bit off. Yeah. Not at you, though. 88 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:42,000 No, she's... I love her. (LAUGHS) 89 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:45,320 But it was Steve's shocking revelations to the boys 90 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,840 that's left many of our grooms reeling. 91 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,000 You know who stood out? 92 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:52,360 Steve and... Steve and Rebecca. Oh, shit. What did you hear? 93 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,520 You know, when he goes... "Da-da-da-da red flag." 94 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,720 Like, he didn't even give her a green flag at all. 95 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:57,960 It was just red flags. 96 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 97 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,000 Now, red flags. There's multiple. 98 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:05,480 Rebecca consistently needs to be talking all the time. 99 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,760 I don't understand some of her humour. 100 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,520 Her emotions are very high and very low. 101 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,600 On top of that, Rebecca's not my usual type. 102 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,440 I think her expectations were getting 103 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,720 a little bit high with intimacy, 104 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:21,680 but we had an amazing friendship. 105 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,560 It actually caught me off guard. 106 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,040 I'm thinking, "What the hell?" 107 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,280 Like, that relationship is definitely on the rocks. 108 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,400 And as Steve comes home to his bride tonight... 109 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:32,960 Honey, I'm home. 110 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,880 REBECCA: Can I just say, I'm so glad to see you. 111 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:37,240 (LAUGHS) 112 00:04:37,280 --> 00:04:41,560 ..an excited Rebecca cannot wait to debrief on the day. 113 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:43,560 So, tell me. Red Flags, Green Flags. 114 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:44,720 Yeah? Yeah. 115 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:49,840 Um, well... Green flag. I mean... What were the... 116 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,520 Um... Do we... Do you want me to tell you what they were? 117 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:54,600 Is that what we're doing? Yeah. 118 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,880 Are you going to share mine? Oh, only if you want to. 119 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:58,040 No, I'm staying... 120 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,160 The red flags, they're not red flags. 121 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:02,440 It's more just teething. 122 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,120 Like, as I said to them, 123 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,200 I think we just have to get used to each other... 124 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,040 Yeah. ..and our...our ways. 125 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:10,240 That's all. 126 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,480 So, uh, but green flags were pretty simple. 127 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,600 Um, you know, you're warm, you're, um... 128 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,120 You're caring, you know... Yeah. 129 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:20,720 You can list more than three. That's easy. 130 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 131 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:28,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 132 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:29,840 Uh... 133 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,960 I'm trying to think if I told Rebecca about the red flags. 134 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,360 Um... 135 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:36,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 136 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:37,400 Oh... (SCOFFS) 137 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:42,640 I don't know if I specifically touched on...on them specifically, 138 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,960 now that I'm trying to recall. 139 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 140 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:52,160 Um, it's nothing personal. 141 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,280 It's nothing that needs to be discussed yet. 142 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:58,160 But, yeah, it was an interesting... interesting get-together. 143 00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:59,200 Yeah. 144 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,480 He didn't really say the red flags, though, did he? 145 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,480 I don't know whether he's being genuine. 146 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,440 Maybe I'll find them out on the couch, 147 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,200 the commitment ceremony, who knows? 148 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,520 I can't wait to get on the couch with the experts. Yeah. 149 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:14,480 The couch is... is scaring me, to be honest. 150 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,000 (STEVE LAUGHS) 151 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,640 (RESOUNDING MUSIC) 152 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:33,040 NARRATOR: It's the morning of the first commitment ceremony 153 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:34,400 of the experiment... 154 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:36,520 Hello. 155 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:38,960 All ready? All ready. 156 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:41,960 ..and with two weeks of marriage behind them, 157 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:46,720 our newlyweds are about to face the experts for the first time... 158 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,640 where tonight they must decide 159 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:57,320 whether they want to stay in their relationship or leave. 160 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,200 Your fit is hot as hell today. I'm just saying. 161 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:01,400 Aw! 162 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:03,400 I don't know if I'm going to be looking at the experts 163 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:04,840 or you the whole time. 164 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,880 (LAUGHS) 165 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:11,520 JOHN: The first commitment ceremony 166 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:13,640 is a huge milestone of the experiment, 167 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:18,640 as it gives our newlyweds a platform to share their experiences so far. 168 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,760 Do you have any questions for the experts? 169 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,920 No, I was gonna give them a big clap, like, a round of... 170 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:24,360 Same. 171 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:25,800 ..and just say, like, "You guys nailed it." 172 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:27,840 Not only are we here as experts 173 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,920 to support our couples through any issues they're facing, 174 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:32,680 we'll also offer raw and honest feedback, 175 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,840 which they'll have to take on in front of the group. 176 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:40,520 Tonight is about holding a mirror up to their relationships, 177 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,120 keeping them accountable 178 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,920 and ultimately sending them into the next phase of the experiment 179 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,680 with the right tools to strengthen their marriage. 180 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,080 Are you writing stay or leave? Don't know yet. 181 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,040 Oh, don't be rude. I'll have to work it out. 182 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,400 Um, I'll have to sit down and have a think about it. 183 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,200 Which one do you know how to spell? 184 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:03,320 (LAUGHS) 185 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,800 'Stay' is easier to write. S-T-A-Y. 186 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:07,920 (LAUGHS) 187 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:13,800 NARRATOR: Down the hall, it's wedded bliss for Gia and Scott. 188 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:15,720 You look stunning. Thank you. 189 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:19,720 ..as they prepare to enter tonight feeling as strong as ever. 190 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,400 I'm actually excited. I'm excited to see the experts. 191 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,200 I can't wait... Yeah. (LAUGHS) It's gonna be so fun. 192 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,200 I'm excited to see what they have to say, to be honest. 193 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:27,560 It'll be good. 194 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,640 GIA: I think with me and Scott, the feelings are growing every day. 195 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:30,760 We are so close. 196 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:34,520 Like, the communication and the things that we talk about, 197 00:08:34,560 --> 00:08:36,600 I haven't talked about with people I've been with for years. 198 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,160 So it's just really, really refreshing. 199 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:40,800 It's strong. 200 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,760 Yeah, I think we're just... we just fit well. 201 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,160 I think it's obvious what we're both going to say tonight. 202 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,640 (LAUGHS) Yeah. It's crazy. 203 00:08:48,680 --> 00:08:51,600 I never thought I could know and learn so much about someone 204 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:52,960 in such a short period of time. 205 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,040 It's a step-by-step thing to... you know, falling for someone... 206 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:00,160 and let's just say everything's going the right way. 207 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:04,080 A massive crush. 208 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:05,680 Yeah. (LAUGHS) 209 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:06,840 Alright, well, I'll... 210 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,360 Got lip gloss on but I'll kiss you anyway. 211 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:09,520 I'll kiss you anyway. 212 00:09:09,560 --> 00:09:11,240 I will see you on the couch. 213 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,400 Oh, you look like a princess. Oh... (LAUGHS) 214 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,720 NARRATOR: This year, for the first time, 215 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,200 our couples went through Revelations Week, 216 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,800 a brand-new and intense phase of the experiment... 217 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:25,760 It was tough, don't you think? Yeah. 218 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:29,040 It's always good to get below the surface, dig a bit deeper. 219 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,120 ..and for Rachel and Steven... 220 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,240 (LAUGHS) Fantastic. 221 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,320 ..the tasks were transformative. 222 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:37,680 It was a good week. RACHEL: Yeah. 223 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,880 That's exactly how I'm feeling. 224 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:41,800 Like, it's happiness. 225 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:46,840 An emotional auditions video task helped the couple connect 226 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,320 over their shared history with dating and body image. 227 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:52,440 I've been single for at least ten to 12 years, 228 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,000 but I've been dating on and off since then... 229 00:09:56,440 --> 00:10:00,040 and I had to work my butt off to turn myself into something 230 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,680 that I really didn't believe that mattered. 231 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,640 You're great the way that you are. 232 00:10:04,680 --> 00:10:06,840 You really are. 233 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:09,800 Oh, my... My god! (BOTH LAUGH) 234 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,760 As hard as it is for me to open up to anyone 235 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:14,120 this early into a relationship, 236 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:18,480 where we are stronger and we have come closer, 237 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:22,880 it's going to be interesting to see what the experts are going to say. 238 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,200 Like, I reckon it's going to be like, "Tick." 239 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:26,560 "Tick." "Off you go." 240 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:27,600 Yeah. (LAUGHS) 241 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,320 "Yeah, no problems here." 242 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,600 But as some couples revel in their progress, 243 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:37,000 Stella is still reeling after yesterday 244 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:42,160 when her relationship with Filip was called inauthentic by Brook. 245 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,960 How are you feeling about tonight? Um... Interesting. 246 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,680 Yeah. Yeah. Interesting. 247 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,320 Interesting feelings. 248 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,520 I have never had that much connection with a person. 249 00:10:52,560 --> 00:10:55,440 I have never had that much intimacy. 250 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,560 (BLOWS RASPBERRY) Filip... 251 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:02,600 Yep. 252 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:04,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 253 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:05,760 I don't believe you! What?! 254 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:06,720 I don't believe you! 255 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:08,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 256 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:10,960 I told you what happened yesterday. FILIP: Yeah. 257 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,600 Like, our authenticity was questioned, you know, 258 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,360 and, like, um... 259 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:18,080 it's going to be interesting to see if there's going to be, you know... 260 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:19,880 Yeah. 261 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:21,280 Yeah. 262 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,720 It's so interesting to see what people have to say 263 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:26,200 because I just see, like, from the perspective 264 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:27,960 that everyone judges through their own lens 265 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,480 and how they are as people. 266 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:34,160 If they want to bring in, we'll just say what we think calmly, 267 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:35,960 but we're not bothered. 268 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,520 STELLA: I know that misery likes company... 269 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:44,040 and happiness, unfortunately, invites people 270 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:45,840 to try to tear you down... 271 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,800 so I want to protect what we have. 272 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,040 Anyway, we're happy, we're in a good place and that's all that matters. 273 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:55,720 And... Yeah. 274 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,640 ..and we're here for that and for that only. 275 00:12:00,680 --> 00:12:02,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 276 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,600 This morning, Brook isn't wavering in her thoughts 277 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,880 on other couples' relationships, 278 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,760 nor the opinions she voiced yesterday. 279 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,760 I wouldn't even say it's nasty. 280 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:17,520 I actually just think it's girls calling out fake bitches... 281 00:12:17,560 --> 00:12:18,960 Mmm. ..and I'm so glad I did. 282 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,080 But then, at the same time, I still had this inkling in me 283 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,640 that I was, like, "Oh, my god, I'm a horrible person." 284 00:12:23,680 --> 00:12:25,160 But then I was like, "You know what, Brook, 285 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:26,200 "you're (BLEEP) logical." 286 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:27,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 287 00:12:27,680 --> 00:12:32,080 So I'd like to see what bullshit Alissa and Dave... 288 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:36,960 (LAUGHS) ..(BLEEP) whip up today. 289 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:40,080 Honestly, she's got something coming for her. 290 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,160 And obviously we already know. 291 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:45,480 Yeah. We know our thoughts on Stella. 292 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:49,680 CHRIS: Well, I didn't have any thoughts until last night. (LAUGHS) 293 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:51,320 We don't like her. And then all of a sudden, we're... 294 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:52,760 we're blueing with our neighbour. 295 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:53,800 Well, that's fine. 296 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:58,280 I think Stella, like, honestly, she's as fake as that (BLEEP) plant. 297 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:03,600 She is. And I'm sick of it. 298 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:06,760 She couldn't even really say a red flag. 299 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:09,800 Sorry. No-one's relationship is perfect. 300 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,560 Certainly mine isn't. 301 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,240 And I'm not sitting there telling porkies. 302 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:16,560 That's the fakeness of it that I don't like. 303 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,040 (LAUGHS) 304 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,560 I'll let you throw the daggers today. 305 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:21,920 I'll be the back-up. 306 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:25,480 NARRATOR: With decisions made... 307 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:30,400 our couples head off for what's set to be a revealing night. 308 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,600 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 309 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,760 Greetings, gents. MAN: Greetings. 310 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:52,960 Come on in. Grab a seat. 311 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,200 Thank you. ALESSANDRA: Hello. Welcome. 312 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:55,320 Welcome. Thank you. 313 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:57,640 Hi. MEL: Hello, guys. 314 00:13:57,680 --> 00:13:59,200 PEOPLE: Hello. MAN: How are we going? 315 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:00,400 Very well. Good. 316 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:01,560 Take a seat. Hey. 317 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:03,320 MAN: How are we doing? JOHN: We're good. 318 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:04,760 MEL: Very, very well. Good. 319 00:14:05,680 --> 00:14:07,040 MAN: It's comfy. 320 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:08,920 Oooh. 321 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:10,840 DANNY: These sofas are alright, mate. 322 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,880 (RESOUNDING MUSIC) 323 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,120 Welcome, ladies. ALESSANDRA: Hello. 324 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:25,720 Good evening. 325 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:29,920 WOMAN: I'm so glad I'm beside you two. 326 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:31,680 (LAUGHS) 327 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:34,880 WOMAN: Thank you. 328 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:38,240 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 329 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:47,440 Well, welcome, everybody, to your very first commitment ceremony. 330 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,960 Now, this is an incredibly pivotal part of the experiment... 331 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:57,680 where each of you get a chance to open your relationship up 332 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:02,440 to allow us insight into what's actually going on, 333 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:06,280 so it is very, very important that you use these 334 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:10,040 and take advantage of them as best you can... 335 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,920 because it is here where your relationships 336 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,120 can change for the better. 337 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 338 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:25,960 Alright, let's get our first couple up on the couch. 339 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 340 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:31,760 Luke and Mel. 341 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,480 (TENSE MUSIC) (APPLAUSE) 342 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:43,400 MEL: Hello. MEL: Hi. 343 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:44,240 Hi. 344 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:47,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 345 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,360 JOHN: Well, I mean, we can see from body language 346 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,200 that things are a little tense between you right now. 347 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:05,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 348 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:11,400 So let's go back in time to the wedding and go from there. 349 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:17,040 So, on the wedding day, I was really hoping 350 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,200 for me to walk down the aisle, 351 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,400 someone to turn around 352 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,840 and me to be, like, "That's my person." 353 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,240 But that isn't what I got. 354 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:29,760 Right. 355 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:31,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 356 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:33,880 And as I was walking down the aisle, 357 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,400 all my friends and family turned around 358 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:39,880 and they were sort of, like, "What are you doing here?" 359 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,880 And then I realised that Luke wasn't there. 360 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 361 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,840 Luke ended up coming ten minutes later. 362 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:54,760 I felt like I didn't get my moment. 363 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:57,600 Like, I feel like that moment just turned into something 364 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:59,200 that was really silly. 365 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 366 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:02,680 I felt really embarrassed. 367 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:06,080 I felt like I wanted a fairytale. 368 00:17:06,120 --> 00:17:07,960 Right. 369 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:14,960 And, yeah, it just was a really rocky start. 370 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,520 Where were you, Luke? 371 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 372 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:30,480 I had left the rings, so we had to turn the limo around and go back 373 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,600 and get them and then head back in. 374 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,560 But I had the attitude going into the honeymoon 375 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:39,560 "Let's just be as positive as we can. 376 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:43,800 "Let's try and just, like, make it work on a friends' level first." 377 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:46,760 But to be honest, I really struggled. 378 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:50,760 It just felt like Mel was doing whatever she could 379 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:52,840 to just push me away. 380 00:17:55,360 --> 00:17:57,440 Yeah, I've just found every day I just, for some reason... 381 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:58,920 it just wasn't working 382 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:04,320 and every day I got a level of, like, coldness from Mel. 383 00:18:04,360 --> 00:18:07,360 (TENSE MUSIC) 384 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:14,280 One of the observations when we were watching the dinner party 385 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,960 was that there was...there was really two Mels in the room. 386 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:20,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 387 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,600 The one that was with the sisterhood 388 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:25,600 or other people in the group, 389 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:27,600 you came alive. 390 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,080 You were full of energy 391 00:18:29,120 --> 00:18:34,720 and you were charismatic and social and chatty. 392 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:38,880 But as soon as you were placed next to Luke, a spark had gone out. 393 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:42,720 Like, there was disdain that you had for him, 394 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,680 which was hard for us to watch. 395 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) Yeah. 396 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:50,880 It's the... The thing is, I shouldn't have been mean about it. 397 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:52,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 398 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,720 It's just that I thought that Luke had feelings for me 399 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,040 and because I wasn't feeling the same, 400 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,400 I just wanted to push him away. 401 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 402 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,760 So you didn't try to get to know him? 403 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,440 We still spoke. Like, I know a lot about Luke. 404 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,840 I know that Luke is a cattle farmer. 405 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:14,440 He's lived on the farm for 18 months. 406 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:15,840 I know... 407 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,240 But did you feel like you gave it a go, Mel? 408 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:20,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 409 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,280 I explained to Luke 410 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,800 that usually when I've been with somebody in the past, 411 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:29,120 it's because I've had that instant connection with that person, 412 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:30,600 that instant spark. 413 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:32,560 But I also explained to Luke 414 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:36,480 that I didn't feel it with Luke on the wedding day. 415 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:39,840 You know, when we first met, Mel, 416 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,840 you said you wanted a blond-haired, blue-eyed guy. 417 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:44,880 That's what you'd typically gone out with in the past. 418 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,120 Were you disappointed when you... when you didn't get that? 419 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:52,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 420 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:54,920 A little bit. 421 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 422 00:19:58,200 --> 00:19:59,720 (BLEEP). 423 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 424 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,560 But also the lateness at the wedding. 425 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,920 He was chewing gum when we were doing the vows. 426 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,920 (BLEEP). 427 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 428 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,000 I really did want my fairytale. 429 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,240 I just wanted to feel that spark. 430 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,200 But I just couldn't feel it with Luke. 431 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 432 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:33,480 Yeah. 433 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:37,600 Alright, well, this is...this is why we've asked you these questions, 434 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,320 because you need a wake-up call. 435 00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:43,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 436 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,720 I really did want my fairytale and to feel that spark... 437 00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,680 but I just couldn't feel it with Luke. 438 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 439 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,880 Yeah. 440 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:10,040 Alright, well, this is...this is why we've asked you these questions, 441 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,760 because you need a wake-up call. 442 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:19,400 MAFS isn't about fairy tales. 443 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:23,800 It's about real relationships, real work, real challenges, 444 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:28,560 but most importantly, being open-minded. 445 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:35,320 Your job is to meet a person and go, "Why have we been matched? 446 00:21:35,360 --> 00:21:37,480 "I'm going to start to learn." 447 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,760 "If there's a chemistry now straight away, great. 448 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,280 "If there's not, that's fine. 449 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,600 "I'm going to dig in and I'm going to learn." 450 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 451 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:53,080 And what you did right from the word go was say no. 452 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,960 You didn't feel the initial spark at the altar and you've shut him down. 453 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:06,680 And you've essentially done the very thing that's keeping you single. 454 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,560 You've come in with a very preconceived set... 455 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,200 ideas about what you want and what you don't want 456 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:20,120 and what you've got to realise is that you needed someone 457 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,880 who was reliable, who had family values. 458 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,400 He wants commitment. 459 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,480 He's basically able to treat you well. 460 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:33,320 And the real disappointment is that you don't know how good he is 461 00:22:33,360 --> 00:22:34,840 'cause you haven't let him in. 462 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:42,120 Luke, how did that affect you, being on the receiving end of that? 463 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:47,320 Oh, I'd say, like, it definitely knocked my confidence a lot 464 00:22:47,360 --> 00:22:52,520 and it definitely, like, made me think, you know, 465 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:54,240 "What am I doing wrong?" 466 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,320 Yeah, it was tough. It hurts. 467 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,080 Yeah, I was excited to get to know someone 468 00:23:05,120 --> 00:23:07,280 and, you know, have fun with them 469 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,000 because I haven't done that for some time. 470 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,720 (GENTLE MUSIC) 471 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:16,000 And I really tried to do whatever I could, 472 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,720 whether it was give Mel space, be friendly or whatever it was... 473 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:23,080 I genuinely gave it my best shot, that's the thing. 474 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,880 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 475 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,160 (BLEEP). 476 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,240 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 477 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,000 Yeah, yeah, I'm fine. 478 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,680 Oh, thank you. 479 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,280 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 480 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:15,080 Mel, if you had a chance to do anything differently, 481 00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:17,040 what would you do? 482 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,320 Yeah, I'm not proud of the way I acted. 483 00:24:20,360 --> 00:24:22,160 Genuinely, I'm really embarrassed. 484 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:25,200 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 485 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,200 If I could take it back, I would 486 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,080 and I would treat Luke with more kindness. 487 00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:34,280 Just more patience. More of an open heart. 488 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,760 Yeah, I would do it very differently. 489 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,800 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 490 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,960 Well, I think it's time for us to go to the decision. 491 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,920 Let's go with you first, Luke. Stay or leave? 492 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:56,440 So this was a pretty tough decision for me to make. 493 00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:00,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 494 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:05,000 And I suppose almost an ignorant part of me didn't want to believe 495 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,160 that it wasn't ever going to work. 496 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:12,240 And I kind of saw, like, the last light 497 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,360 being chatting to you guys 498 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,880 and maybe that might potentially do something. 499 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,760 Right. So... 500 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 501 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:26,880 ..even though, like, it has been so tough and everything with us... 502 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,760 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 503 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,960 ..I don't want to leave it on that note. 504 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,840 (GASPING) 505 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,520 BEC: I think that's great. Yep. 506 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,120 GIA: Oh, my god. Wow. 507 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,680 Oh, my god! 508 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,000 I love it. I love it. (APPLAUSE) 509 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,320 Yes! Oh, my god! 510 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,520 And what about you, Mel? 511 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,320 (TENSE MUSIC) 512 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,360 Obviously, like, this experiment has been a lot harder 513 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,640 than I thought it was going to be... 514 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 515 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:15,960 ..and I can see that Luke and I are different people, unfortunately. 516 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,600 So I've decided to write 'leave'. 517 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 518 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 519 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,200 So, as we know, with the rules of this experiment, 520 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,120 that if one person says stay, the other says leave, 521 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:46,440 then they stay for another week to see if they can turn it around. 522 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:52,440 Now, Mel, how do you feel about this and about his decision to stay? 523 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:53,640 He's not quitting. 524 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,080 I'm really, really shocked, to be honest. 525 00:26:56,120 --> 00:26:59,120 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 526 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,720 But, yeah, I definitely will take your advice on board 527 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,840 and I really want to prove to Luke that I'm not a mean person... 528 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:10,600 and I'm not a bad person. 529 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,240 We know you're not a mean person and you're not a bad person either. 530 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:15,280 MEL: Mmm. 531 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:19,600 But what's important is that you get curious, 532 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:20,800 you open your mind up, 533 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,600 'cause from what we're hearing, 534 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,160 he really didn't get a chance from the word go. 535 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:32,000 You've got a week now where you can actually find out 536 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,640 why he's so compatible 537 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,400 and break patterns. 538 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,040 OK? OK. 539 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,320 There's no pressure. 540 00:27:39,360 --> 00:27:40,960 Just have fun, enjoy each other's company 541 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,520 and get to know one another 542 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,360 as though this is day one of your relationship. 543 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:47,720 Alright? 544 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:49,320 Tough session. You did well. 545 00:27:49,360 --> 00:27:51,200 Back to the group. (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 546 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:52,760 MEL: Well done, guys. 547 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,840 GIA: Yay! 548 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,280 Still in the game! 549 00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,320 MAN: Give me a hug, mate. You're a good boy. 550 00:27:59,360 --> 00:28:04,800 I see this as my genuine last crack at giving this...giving this a shot, 551 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,480 so I'm keen to take what they've said on board 552 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,480 and get to know Mel again with a good energy. 553 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,840 I'm really, really hoping Mel can do the same 554 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,240 and put everything in the past behind us. 555 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,640 We're going to be positive. Yeah. 556 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,880 ALESSANDRA: It's time to get our next couple up on the couch. 557 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,760 (TENSE MUSIC) 558 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,880 Gia and Scott. GIA: I knew it! 559 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,560 SCOTT: Yeah. (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 560 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,400 First of all... MEL: Hello. 561 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,000 ..thank you so much for doing a good job for my beautiful wife and I. 562 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,160 Aw! 563 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,800 ALESSANDRA: That's very good. 564 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:54,920 So, let's go to the decision, shall we? 565 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,160 (LAUGHTER) SCOTT: I'm a happy guy. (LAUGHS) 566 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,520 ALESSANDRA: Tell us about this happiness and this... 567 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,640 Mmm. ..leg over leg kind of situation. 568 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,000 We've been like this since the moment we met. It's crazy. 569 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,640 Like, the moment we saw each other at the wedding, 570 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,240 like, both of us straight away, 571 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,360 we were, like, just stoked with who we got. 572 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:14,560 Yeah. 573 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,200 It was a feeling I haven't had before. It was pretty crazy. 574 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:17,280 Yeah. 575 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:18,880 Like, I felt this instant connection. 576 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,200 Like, our chemistry just went off the bat and it just... 577 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,400 Yeah, it was unreal. 578 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,680 (GENTLE MUSIC) 579 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:29,040 And then she pulled me aside and told me about her daughter 580 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,160 and... Yeah. 581 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:31,960 ..I just grabbed her hands and I'm like, "I'm fully open 582 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,320 "to bringing her into my life." 583 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,040 And for me, I just felt something even stronger, like, just from that. 584 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,600 (GENTLE MUSIC) 585 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,880 Yeah. 586 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:44,520 Like, we get along good. Like, I'm happy. Yeah, it's good. 587 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,960 I think we can tell you're happy. Yeah, yeah. 588 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:48,720 (LAUGHTER) We're picking up on that. 589 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,760 But you want... You want to talk because... 590 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,920 Well, I think... I don't know, 'cause we're both... 591 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,800 Because you're, like, you want to talk and I want to talk because... 592 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,480 I'll get into the honeymoon... OK. 593 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,680 So, obviously the wedding was amazing. 594 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,520 And then we went to Townsville. 595 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,360 We both were, like, not wanting to have sex straight away. 596 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,880 But we tried to hold off as much as we could... 597 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,000 We were trying to hold on, but it was getting intense. 598 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,000 (LAUGHTER) We just gave in. 599 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,280 Yeah, it was, like... We gave in on the honeymoon. 600 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:17,320 And it was so great. 601 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:18,640 And, like, since then we've obviously, like, 602 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,200 we've slept together literally every day since then. 603 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,400 Multiple times. (LAUGHTER) 604 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:23,560 Sorry. 605 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,440 You know when you start, you can't stop? 606 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,240 (LAUGHS) We just... 607 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,320 Yeah. We're just... And every day we get closer. 608 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:30,720 Like, it gets better every day too. 609 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:34,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 610 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,000 Clearly there's a... Clearly there's a physical situation 611 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,840 that is very undeniable. 612 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,520 The chemistry, yes... We can feel it from here. 613 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,880 Yes. All of that. It's palpable. 614 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,720 Like, he just ticks all my boxes and I just feel so comfortable with him. 615 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,960 And I feel, like, seen and, like, that I can be me. 616 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,080 I've never had that, to be honest. For him, I think... 617 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:56,000 Aw. Yeah. 618 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,800 (LAUGHTER) 619 00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,280 I feel like we shouldn't be here right now. 620 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:03,400 (LAUGHTER) 621 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,160 I'm telling you right now, I could get out with her right now 622 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:06,200 and we're sweet. 623 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,880 I can see that. Yeah. (LAUGHTER) 624 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 625 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,880 I don't know that at this point we have much more to say. 626 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:17,000 Why don't you show us your decision at the same time? 627 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,960 At the same time? Alright. Ready? 628 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,040 One, two and three. Go. 629 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,160 Stay 1,000%. 630 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,200 Alright. "I am not leaving." 631 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,720 "I'm not leaving." (LAUGHTER) 632 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:28,400 Beautiful. 633 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,920 Honestly, this is not something we see very often... 634 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,040 No. ..this kind of synergy... 635 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:36,280 this kind of just really intense, high-energy enthusiasm 636 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:37,960 this early on in this experiment. 637 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,520 So, for now, keep doing what you're doing, 638 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,440 keep being curious, keep having fun. 639 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,680 Yeah. And I hope you have a great week. 640 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,080 Thank you! Thank you. 641 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,680 JOHN: Well done, guys. Well done, you guys. 642 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,360 (APPLAUSE) Honesty is key. 643 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,000 Absolutely. 644 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,760 Beautiful. DAVID: My man. 645 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,440 (LAUGHTER) 646 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,920 Oh... WOMAN: Well done. 647 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:59,440 WOMAN: I thought you guys were about to get a bit frisky on the couch. 648 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,000 (LAUGHS) I love it. 649 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,800 Bit of a bogan. It's great. 650 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,880 MEL: And our next couple on the couch, Bec and Danny. 651 00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,440 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 652 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,200 BEC: Hi, guys. ALESSANDRA AND MEL: Hello. 653 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,120 MEL: How's it all going? 654 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,840 Look, we, um... It hasn't been easy. 655 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,200 We had a beautiful wedding. It was amazing. 656 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:31,960 But in Fiji, we... we did have a hard time. 657 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,600 On the honeymoon, we had one intimate evening 658 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,520 and then Danny stripped it right back. 659 00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:43,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 660 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,440 Did that feel like rejection? It did. Yep. 661 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:46,840 Yeah. 662 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:51,960 Um... 663 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 664 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:59,320 Like, I thought our sexual chemistry was pretty low... 665 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,640 (TENSE MUSIC) ..and I was struggling with that... 666 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,800 because in the normal world, if I met a girl like that 667 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,400 and there wasn't that chemistry, 668 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,040 I'd probably just do a runner, do you know what I mean? 669 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:19,000 But I sort of, like, for the rapid res... 670 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,360 What's the word? (LAUGHTER) 671 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,720 The revelation. Yeah. 672 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,200 ..for the card challenge, I sort of brought it out 673 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:28,840 and we had a chat about it... 674 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:30,120 That was intense. 675 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:33,640 ..and Bec had a cry and it made me feel like shit 676 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,080 'cause I'd sort of made her cry, do you know what I mean? 677 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,080 But I'd done some reflection and I was, like... 678 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:39,840 It lit a fire in my belly, to be honest with you. 679 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,520 But it's getting so much better. Like... 680 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,760 So much better. Like... 681 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,280 This has been transformative for us... 682 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,360 Mm-hm. ..this week. 683 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,200 Yeah. 684 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:52,200 Like, I just have to remember that patience is key with intimacy. 685 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,720 And also, everyone works at a different pace. 686 00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:02,080 Well, I've got to say, you've been faced with a couple of challenges. 687 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,720 You've approached them with some maturity, an open mind, 688 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,200 willingness to change and to challenge yourself 689 00:34:08,240 --> 00:34:11,840 and to talk about it, which is so promising. 690 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,480 And I love that, Bec, you've shown Danny some real vulnerability. 691 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:22,800 You've opened up and you've shown him that you trust him to do that. 692 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:27,360 Maybe, Danny, it's your turn to open up a little bit more this week 693 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,000 and to show her some of your soft underbelly, 694 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,200 'cause there's so much there 695 00:34:32,240 --> 00:34:35,400 and I love that you're starting to sort of create some cracks there 696 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:36,640 in the veneers 697 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,920 and open up to each other a little bit more. 698 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:40,320 That's it. 699 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,920 I think we're going to go to a decision. 700 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,280 Let's do it. Who's going first? 701 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:48,320 We'll start with you, Danny. 702 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,320 Alright. So, nice easy one. 703 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,880 But, yeah, I put stay. 704 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,440 Brilliant. Me too. 705 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,440 (APPLAUSE) 706 00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,960 (LAUGHS) And to you, Bec. 707 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,880 This was an easy one for me, so I said stay. 708 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,320 Of course. Of course. 709 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,000 (APPLAUSE) Love it. 710 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:10,520 JOHN: Well done, guys. Well done, you guys. 711 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:11,600 Thank you. Very impressed. 712 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,200 Good work. Thank you. 713 00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:15,200 (APPLAUSE) 714 00:35:15,240 --> 00:35:17,280 Whoo! 715 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,520 Whoo-hoo! WOMAN: Well done, guys. 716 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,120 Thanks. Well done, darling. 717 00:35:24,720 --> 00:35:27,440 No. No-one would say that. 718 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,280 Who said you guys were fake? Oh... 719 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,080 No. 720 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 721 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 722 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:41,760 NARRATOR: Coming up... 723 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,600 I feel like not everyone likes your happiness. 724 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,400 ..brides go head to head. 725 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,520 No-one has said that. 726 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,640 Don't sit up here and make yourself be the victim. 727 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,040 Let's get our next couple up on the couch. 728 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,880 Rachel and Steven. 729 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,240 (LAUGHS) 730 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:16,480 (CONTINUES LAUGHING) 731 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:17,800 MEL: Hello. STEVEN: Hello. 732 00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,480 That was quite the chuckle. 733 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:22,000 (LAUGHS) There it is! 734 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,520 Hello. (LAUGHS) 735 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,200 Oooh, comfy.., Comfy lounge. It is comfy. 736 00:36:27,240 --> 00:36:28,760 Might I take this one back to the apartment. 737 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,880 (LAUGHS) 738 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,880 How have you two been? Yeah, good. It's been... 739 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,680 It's been a hell of a ride. 740 00:36:37,720 --> 00:36:41,240 The wedding was absolutely fantastic. 741 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:45,000 I mean, I was about to make love to the ground by fainting, almost. 742 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:48,400 (LAUGHS) I was just so nervous... 743 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,840 (LAUGHS) ..you know. 744 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:56,560 But as soon as I saw Rachel, my nerves just immediately dropped. 745 00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,760 And one thing I can definitely say about the ceremony and everything, 746 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,200 it was messy. 747 00:37:04,240 --> 00:37:05,920 It was unpolished, it was funny 748 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:10,040 and I wouldn't want it any other way. 749 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,560 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 750 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:16,520 Yeah, it was just, I don't know, it was like the goofiness just ensued. 751 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,840 It was a lot of fun, so... 752 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:21,400 It was a lot of laughing. A lot of laughing. 753 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:22,560 Like, a lot. 754 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:23,960 (LAUGHTER) 755 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,360 Yeah, we started off on a really big high 756 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:30,720 and even though we had a couple of hiccups on the honeymoon, 757 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,280 with Revelations Week... 758 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,600 Can I hold your hand again? Yeah. 759 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,040 Aw. 760 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,800 ..we're getting closer and closer 761 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,440 and showing... and we connected emotionally. 762 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,920 We've got this relatability as well. 763 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,800 And it's a bit heartbreaking too, 764 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,080 'cause we do share a common thing with body image. 765 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,000 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 766 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:51,840 Yeah. 767 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,920 Watching Steven's audition video brought up a lot of emotion for me. 768 00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:00,600 It hurt my heart to hear what he had experienced 769 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,080 and that relatability of, like, 770 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,360 what we'd experienced in the dating world 771 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,760 and what we're looking for, 772 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,440 it all connects. 773 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,560 We can see it there and we feel it there. 774 00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,320 And that is a big part of why you're such a good match... 775 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:22,520 (LAUGHS) 776 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,160 ..so, your shared history and, you know, your playfulness 777 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,080 is definitely something that we loved about the two of you. 778 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,720 Rachel, now is a good time to ask, how do you feel about this man? 779 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,120 How do I feel about my husband? 780 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,080 (LAUGHS) 781 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,640 (LAUGHS) 782 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,680 I really like Steven. 783 00:38:41,720 --> 00:38:44,360 And, you know, I think you're really handsome 784 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:48,120 and you are amazing the way that you are. 785 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,200 And I will tell you every fricken day if I have to. 786 00:38:52,720 --> 00:38:54,120 I got to hand it to her. 787 00:38:54,160 --> 00:39:00,280 Rachel, I can definitely say, is the most selfless person I've ever met. 788 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,120 She's my number one fan. 789 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:03,760 Like, you are amazing. 790 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,480 You are so special 791 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:09,560 and I really hope that we're going to move in the right direction 792 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:10,760 and we're going to get there. 793 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,000 Oh, my god! 794 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:13,800 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 795 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,000 Yeah! (LAUGHS) 796 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,320 GIA: Love it. 797 00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:17,760 Beautiful. 798 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,720 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 799 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,200 Alright, well, we're going to go to a decision. 800 00:39:23,240 --> 00:39:24,760 ALESSANDRA: Yes. Oh! 801 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,200 Rachel, we'll go to you first. OK. 802 00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:31,680 I'm following my heart in this moment. 803 00:39:31,720 --> 00:39:34,160 I'm staying, baby! Wonderful. 804 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,720 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 805 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,840 Excellent. And to you, Steven. 806 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,280 I'm really happy how this week went, 807 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,280 so I've decided to stay. 808 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,360 With all capitals! Eh! (APPLAUSE) 809 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,040 Thank you both. Thank you so much. 810 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:55,400 Thank you. Well done. 811 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:56,800 Thank you. Well done. 812 00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,840 (RACHEL AND MEL LAUGH) 813 00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:01,960 Thanks, guys. 814 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:03,640 (LAUGHS) 815 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,560 (GENTLE MUSIC) Oh, my god. 816 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,560 I almost died up there. 817 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:08,920 Oh... 818 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,880 REBECCA: Well done. Well done. Hey. 819 00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,920 (GENTLE MUSIC) 820 00:40:18,720 --> 00:40:20,520 Let's get our next couple up. 821 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 822 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,080 Steve and Rebecca. 823 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,800 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 824 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,040 OK. Do you want this side or that...? 825 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:34,720 I don't know. Let's just sit. Let's just go. 826 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:35,880 OK. OK. 827 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:37,480 Alright. How's it going? 828 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:41,920 Very happy. Nothing wrong with the wedding day. 829 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,200 The connection. Everything. 830 00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:46,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 831 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,560 It's like I had known Rebecca for a very long time. 832 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:50,800 Yeah. 833 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,120 We're very solid and comfortable. Yeah. Yeah. 834 00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:58,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 835 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,720 Then I think we built a friendship very quickly 836 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,400 during and after the honeymoon. 837 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 838 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,440 So I think we've got nothing but progress. 839 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,960 I mean, it's... Yeah, we're all good, I think. 840 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 841 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,120 Yeah? Yeah, look, I... Yeah. 842 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:25,320 (LAUGHS) Yeah? Yeah. 843 00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,280 Yeah. Yeah. 844 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 845 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,840 ALESSANDRA: I want to look into this, Rebecca, 846 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:45,000 because I know how big of a deal it is for you... 847 00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:46,360 Yeah. 848 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,840 ..with your history and the time that you have spent by yourself 849 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,240 not being in a relationship. 850 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,120 The foundation of you've got to build friendship very quickly 851 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,800 in this experience... Yes. 852 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:57,240 ..and I think we built that very quickly. 853 00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:58,880 I would love to hear from Rebecca. 854 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,680 (TENSE MUSIC) 855 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:08,520 Well, I think at the moment we have a rock-solid foundation 856 00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,120 and I respect that, I get it, 857 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,720 but I haven't had a relationship 858 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,840 or been in a relationship for eight years. 859 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:20,880 The whole reason I'm here is because I want to find my person. 860 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,120 I'm craving affection... 861 00:42:25,240 --> 00:42:27,320 and I want to feel like I'm desired by my partner. 862 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,720 But, like, I'm very attracted to Steve... 863 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:35,200 and we were in such a good place on the wedding and the honeymoon 864 00:42:35,240 --> 00:42:37,800 that I was expecting a little bit more from him 865 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,200 with the romance. 866 00:42:39,240 --> 00:42:41,280 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 867 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:42,760 I'm more conservative... Yep. 868 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:44,840 ..so it is a slow pace with me. Yep. 869 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 870 00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,160 But do you feel that sense of attraction to her, 871 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,440 of wanting to lean into that romantic feeling with Rebecca? 872 00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:56,360 Do I now? 873 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:57,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 874 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,080 Have you since you've met her and in this experience? 875 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:01,400 Yeah, on honeymoon... As I said, the progress... 876 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,480 100% we were heading that way. And do you not now? 877 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,240 Since you've just made the distinction, do you not now? 878 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 879 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,400 Yes, I do. 880 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:10,480 Yes, I still do. 881 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,680 (TENSE MUSIC) 882 00:43:12,720 --> 00:43:15,080 Yes. That's the answer. 883 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:20,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 884 00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:35,480 Can I ask, Rebecca, has Steve made you feel desired? 885 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 886 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:41,680 Don't hold back. 887 00:43:41,720 --> 00:43:44,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 888 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,600 No. 889 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 890 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 891 00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:05,680 Can I ask, Rebecca, has Steve made you feel desired? 892 00:44:05,720 --> 00:44:09,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 893 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,600 Don't hold back. 894 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:15,720 No. 895 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:24,240 So there is that doubt that Steve does look at me... 896 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:26,960 other than just... 897 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,760 Like, I don't want a friend. I don't need another friend. 898 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:30,800 I didn't come here to make friends. 899 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,600 So do you think he looks at you as a friend at the moment? 900 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,080 Yeah, absolutely. 901 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 902 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,200 I'm scared now, to be honest. 903 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,800 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 904 00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,600 Hey. Look, I sound fricken... 905 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:02,760 I'm here. Yeah, I know. 906 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,160 But now I'm scared of the rejection part. 907 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:05,640 Hey. 908 00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:09,000 Yeah, I know. But that's my biggest fear, is being rejected. 909 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:12,640 Like, I know that... 910 00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,440 Look, we're both in this position 911 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,120 because obviously we're just getting to know each other. 912 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,000 But I look at him more than a friend now. 913 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,400 Like, I'm just, like, I'm terrified 914 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,520 because I'm terrified of rejection from Steve. 915 00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:34,760 (TENSE MUSIC) 916 00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,880 Um... I'm just... 917 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,160 I would like to think I'm being respectful. 918 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:43,520 I know this is an experiment, but I think we're going as fast... 919 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,280 or I'm going as fast as I possibly can. 920 00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,600 I don't... I don't... Oh... 921 00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:54,120 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 922 00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,040 She has just told you, though, 923 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,080 that she looks at you as more than a friend. 924 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:02,880 She's very attracted to you. 925 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,400 Yes. 926 00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,520 And the challenge here, Steve, 927 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,680 is that what you're saying is you're not looking at her romantically. 928 00:46:12,720 --> 00:46:14,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 929 00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,160 It's platonic. 930 00:46:18,240 --> 00:46:22,320 So, what this is all about is now getting onto the same page. 931 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,560 Did you know that you were at a crossroads 932 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,840 over this particular issue? 933 00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:30,320 Um... 934 00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,600 I wouldn't call it a crossroads. 935 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,240 I knew that there was a different speed 936 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,040 in which we were both wanting to possibly go, 937 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,160 but I'm understanding how that's an issue for Rebecca, for sure. 938 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:45,320 I'm definitely open to it, progressing that side of things. 939 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 940 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,640 Let's go to the decision. 941 00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,560 Stay or leave. What you gonna do? 942 00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,120 Let's go with you first, Steve. 943 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,400 Yeah, yeah. 944 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:03,720 Um... There's so many amazing qualities to Rebecca. 945 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,840 So, um... 946 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,400 Yeah, I'm definitely not going anywhere, so... 947 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,560 Yeah. Stay. For sure. Good. 948 00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,960 And what about you, Rebecca? What you got for us? Stay or leave? 949 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 950 00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:17,640 Um... 951 00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,000 I'm going to...stay. 952 00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,840 Whoo-hoo! 953 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,840 (APPLAUSE) 954 00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:29,560 You can go back to the group. 955 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:30,920 Alright. Well done. 956 00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:32,920 (APPLAUSE) 957 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,240 MEL: Thank you, guys. Thanks, guys. 958 00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,640 Thank you. 959 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:37,840 Thanks. 960 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:39,560 That's a lot. Whew. 961 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,320 It was confronting. Yeah. 962 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,640 STEVE: Oh, not easy up there, guys. 963 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,720 Like I said, I don't need another friend. I'm not here for that. 964 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:51,160 But I'm also really glad that now he knows that I need more, 965 00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,520 so I'm really excited for the task to come. 966 00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:54,920 Like, I hope he'll step up. 967 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,840 You alright? Yeah. 968 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,600 Hey. Aw! 969 00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 970 00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,120 Let's get our next couple up. 971 00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:09,560 Chris and Brook. 972 00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,160 (LAUGHS) (APPLAUSE) 973 00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:13,600 Yeah. 974 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,480 Hello, hello. MEL: Hello. 975 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:17,760 How are you? JOHN: Hello, you two. 976 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,760 MEL: Hi. Welcome. Thank you. 977 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,160 CHRIS: How are we going? Hey. 978 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,360 How are we doing? Good. 979 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:27,320 Nervous. A little bit. A little bit. 980 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:28,960 How are you going? 981 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,080 Oh, yeah, nice try. 982 00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:32,920 (LAUGHTER) Oh... 983 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:36,720 We're actually wondering about, uh, what you're nervous about. 984 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:38,080 Uh... 985 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:43,760 I think it's been a pretty... a bit of a roller-coaster. 986 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:48,040 After the ceremony, I was not sure about Chris. 987 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,760 Your vows were a little bit 'neggy' at the time. 988 00:48:54,600 --> 00:49:00,280 He said that there is a 0.000001% chance that this is going to work. 989 00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:03,040 MEL: Wow. 990 00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,760 So I was a bit, like, "What are you doing here?" 991 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,320 (SOME LAUGHTER) 992 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 993 00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:14,040 So, Chris, did you not have faith in the match that we had done? 994 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:17,680 So, I was very pessimistic, yes. 995 00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,360 But I've been proven wrong. 996 00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:22,680 Mmm. I'm sorry? 997 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,480 I have been proven wrong. Oh. 998 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,480 ALESSANDRA: Oh. Interesting. 999 00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,920 Mmm. Yeah, we'll take that apology. 1000 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:33,160 Um... (LAUGHTER) 1001 00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,880 Carry on. What happened after those vows? 1002 00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,560 So... Because it sounds like you were a little unnerved. 1003 00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:40,880 Yeah, I was. 1004 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:42,680 And it probably wasn't until day two 1005 00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:45,080 that, like, we started to get a deeper connection 1006 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,920 and I could actually see something that could start to evolve. 1007 00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:51,400 So we went into Revelations Week 1008 00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,880 thinking that it was going to be so easy. 1009 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,240 But then I watched the audition tapes 1010 00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:02,200 and there was a lot of things that he said in the video 1011 00:50:02,240 --> 00:50:03,360 that I don't agree with. 1012 00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,360 Like what? 1013 00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,760 That he hasn't found a connection with girls 1014 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:11,880 and the only girls that he gets with are hot and dumb. 1015 00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,600 I was being really blunt with my labelling of terms, which... 1016 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,120 Well, let me explain what you actually said. 1017 00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,880 You said your three icks or three red flags 1018 00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:27,840 were fake tan, clingy girls and fat people. 1019 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1020 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:39,520 That's done some big damage. 1021 00:50:42,720 --> 00:50:45,240 How did you explain your way out of this one? 1022 00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,000 What did you say to her? 1023 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 1024 00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:50,800 I didn't. 1025 00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,360 How did you handle it? 1026 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,360 I took full responsibility for that video. 1027 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:56,400 Mmm. Um... 1028 00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 1029 00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,920 Me, I've come from a footy... 1030 00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:02,400 I've been playing football my whole life. 1031 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,640 I've been in this environment 1032 00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,320 where it sort of promotes this sort of behaviour. 1033 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:13,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1034 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,360 OK, I want to go there with you. 1035 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:24,280 Why is it inappropriate to talk about women in that way? 1036 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,200 It's degrading. 1037 00:51:27,240 --> 00:51:28,440 Correct. 1038 00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:34,000 It sends a message to women that you're not respecting them. 1039 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:40,240 You're looking at them as objects that you can use, throw away. 1040 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 1041 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,200 Disappointed in myself. 1042 00:51:47,240 --> 00:51:49,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 1043 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,680 Being with Brook now, the person that I've been the last two weeks, 1044 00:51:51,720 --> 00:51:53,040 it's a dramatic change. 1045 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,640 Yeah, and that's the thing. 1046 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,840 Like, I've seen a different side to him 1047 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:00,040 and that's why I'm still sitting here. 1048 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:04,520 And I know that he's trying to be a better person and change. 1049 00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:08,040 I think, you know, as much as it did set us back, 1050 00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,680 I...you know, I hope that we can progress 1051 00:52:10,720 --> 00:52:13,040 because we do have a great connection together. 1052 00:52:16,240 --> 00:52:18,280 So, let's go to the decision. 1053 00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,720 Let's go with you first. Stay or leave, Chris? 1054 00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,360 I think mine's pretty obvious. 1055 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:26,000 I'm staying. Yeah. 1056 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:27,880 OK. What about you, Brook? (LAUGHS) 1057 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,320 Stay or leave? 1058 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,480 No, I think that there's still definitely more to explore, 1059 00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,280 so I've done stay with the poo emoji. 1060 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,040 (LAUGHS) 1061 00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:38,560 (APPLAUSE) 1062 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,520 Right. And with that, you can go back to the group. 1063 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,320 Lovely. MEL: Thanks, guys. 1064 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:46,920 Thank you so much. 1065 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1066 00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:50,960 Thanks, guys. 1067 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:52,320 Thanks. 1068 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:53,400 (LAUGHS) 1069 00:52:54,720 --> 00:52:55,960 So (BLEEP). 1070 00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:57,640 BEC: Well done, babe. You did so good. 1071 00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:58,760 Thank you. 1072 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:00,240 NARRATOR: Coming up... 1073 00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:01,200 Fool. 1074 00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,360 She's a fool. 1075 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,920 ..a tense end to the first commitment ceremony. 1076 00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:10,480 I don't understand why you're coming at me. 1077 00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:11,880 STELLA: I'm not coming at you. 1078 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:13,800 I'm so pissed off. CHRIS: Brook. Brook, Brook, Brook... 1079 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1080 00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:28,880 Let's get our next couple up. 1081 00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:34,200 Julia and Grayson. 1082 00:53:34,240 --> 00:53:35,200 MAN: Hey. 1083 00:53:35,240 --> 00:53:37,240 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 1084 00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:39,240 (LAUGHS) 1085 00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:40,960 GRAYSON: Hey, guys. MEL: Hello. 1086 00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:42,920 Pleasure to meet you. Hi. 1087 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:44,000 Welcome. 1088 00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:45,560 ALESSANDRA: Good to see you together. 1089 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:46,400 You're like a rainbow. 1090 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:47,840 (LAUGHS) Yes. Look at us. 1091 00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:49,840 Technicolour dream. Yes. 1092 00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:51,800 Love it. 1093 00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:53,320 Well, to look at the two of you, 1094 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,040 you're looking very comfortable together. 1095 00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,000 Yeah. Yeah, we are pretty comfortable. 1096 00:53:57,040 --> 00:54:00,080 Tell us, how are things going? Really positive. 1097 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:04,240 Uh... At the wedding, like, Jules, for me, owned the aisle. 1098 00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,480 She just had this beaming smile. 1099 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:09,640 And in that moment, everything sort of slowed down for me 1100 00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,280 and put me at ease 1101 00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:12,640 and I felt safe. 1102 00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,160 I love that. 1103 00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,160 Yeah, it was just mind-blowing. 1104 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,160 As you know, I'm a bisexual woman, 1105 00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:23,680 so I didn't know if there was going to be a woman there, a man there, 1106 00:54:23,720 --> 00:54:25,400 what...you know, who it was going to be. 1107 00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:29,000 But the moment I sort of locked eyes with Grayson, I felt at ease. 1108 00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,800 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 1109 00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:35,000 We have so many values that are aligned. 1110 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,240 Yeah. You know, he is very open-minded. 1111 00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:40,960 And this is something that I really value about Grayson. 1112 00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:45,040 You know, he doesn't shy away from new things 1113 00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,560 and that is something that I find really attractive. 1114 00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:52,960 But, you know, taking it slow is important to me, 1115 00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:57,640 so, for us, I think it's been about building a foundation of friendship, 1116 00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:58,840 first and foremost. 1117 00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,600 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 1118 00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:03,360 And is that what it's about for you too? 1119 00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:07,480 Yeah, absolutely. I think... It absolutely is. 1120 00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,480 Um, but I... 1121 00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:12,240 you know, I don't want to get caught in that space. 1122 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:16,160 I want to... I want to be able to shift into a romantic place 1123 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:17,760 and that takes both of us. 1124 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,040 You know, Jules made it very clear on our wedding night 1125 00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,240 and said, "Look, I'd like to take this slow, very slow." 1126 00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,360 And I said, "Well, if that's what it's going to take..." 1127 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,600 I've got all the time in the world to fall in love, 1128 00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,600 but I just want to build some form of relationship 1129 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:36,200 and create a space of safety and trust for her to...to flourish. 1130 00:55:36,240 --> 00:55:38,760 And for me, that brings up a few questions. 1131 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,560 I love the idea of building a strong foundation of friendship. 1132 00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:48,360 I think that's super important. 1133 00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,200 But it's not 'Friendship At First Sight'. 1134 00:55:52,240 --> 00:55:53,320 It is Marriage At First Sight. 1135 00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1136 00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:58,680 And the time here is limited 1137 00:55:58,720 --> 00:56:01,120 and it is meant to fast-track 1138 00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:05,480 the way a relationship can build that safety and trust. 1139 00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,640 And it sounds to me like, Julia, you set the pace 1140 00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,880 and Grayson and then you said, "Oh, well, OK." 1141 00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,600 It has to be both people coming together, 1142 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,840 not one adjusting to the other. 1143 00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:24,960 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 1144 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,080 And so I'm wondering how that feels for you. 1145 00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,520 Look, it's... 1146 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:31,680 It's, um... 1147 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,560 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 1148 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,880 I'm... I am here to fall in love 1149 00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,560 and find someone to fall in love with, um... 1150 00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:46,280 so would I have liked it to be a little further down the line? 1151 00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,360 Yeah, but, I mean, 1152 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:54,600 if I see small steps taken daily 1153 00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:59,200 or, you know, if I see us sort of, you know, progressing and... 1154 00:56:59,240 --> 00:57:02,760 So is there progression? I wonder, is there romance between you? 1155 00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:07,480 Um... I wouldn't say at this point there's...there's been much romance. 1156 00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,480 No. No. 1157 00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:16,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 1158 00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:20,960 Is that a conscious decision, 1159 00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,200 something you decided was not going to happen? 1160 00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:24,360 You're waiting for... I'd actu... 1161 00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,600 I'd love to say that, like... Yeah. 1162 00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:31,400 It's really coming across here like I'm the one leading this, 1163 00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:35,720 but I'm just honouring my process. 1164 00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,400 I wanted to take it slow. 1165 00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:40,320 Moving into a space of romance, 1166 00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:44,360 I really need to feel emotionally safe and connected. 1167 00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:51,040 So, yeah, I just don't want it to be coming across like I'm the one 1168 00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:52,280 who's, like, "No." 1169 00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:55,000 It's not like that. It's a dance. 1170 00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:58,840 And I think we're both trying to kind of, like, work each other out. 1171 00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:00,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 1172 00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,800 He's reading me. I'm reading him. 1173 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:06,320 Grayson, is that a fair call? 1174 00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:08,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1175 00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:10,520 No, it's just because I... 1176 00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,520 because all the issues and all the conversations we've been having 1177 00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:15,440 are purely about you, Jules. 1178 00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:17,280 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1179 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:31,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1180 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:34,960 I just don't want it to be coming across 1181 00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:37,120 like I'm the one who's like, "No." 1182 00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:38,360 You know, it's not like that. 1183 00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:43,080 I think we're both trying to kind of, like, work each other out. 1184 00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:45,440 He's reading me. I'm reading him. 1185 00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:49,920 Grayson, is that a fair call? 1186 00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,440 No, it's just because I... 1187 00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,280 because all the issues and all the conversations we've been having 1188 00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,000 are purely about you, Jules. 1189 00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:01,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1190 00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:08,760 I... On a daily basis, since the honeymoon, 1191 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:11,320 it was just all, like... everything was just compounding 1192 00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:12,520 on how you were feeling 1193 00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:15,320 and I just showed up and I was there for you. 1194 00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:18,040 I've been patient, open. 1195 00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,680 I was doing everything I could to...to support Jules. 1196 00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:28,160 So, um, look, to be honest, I think it's been far outweighed 1197 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:29,360 in regards to effort. 1198 00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:36,120 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 1199 00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:38,640 I really don't feel that that is fair, to be honest, Grayson. 1200 00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:40,640 But that's...that's the reality for me, Jules. 1201 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:41,960 Well, I'm just... 1202 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:45,360 OK, so I think that there may have been 1203 00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,520 some sweeping under the rug 1204 00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,520 because I didn't actually know that Grayson was feeling 1205 00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:51,640 some of these things. 1206 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,320 And I think that's something that we should chat about more. 1207 00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,560 Yeah. Yeah. Um... 1208 00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:03,240 At the end of the day, it's about really how you each hear 1209 01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:04,640 what the other is saying 1210 01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:08,240 and also do your part to lean in, 1211 01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:11,280 not only put walls up and keep the other away, 1212 01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:14,800 because the defensive part, you have loads of experience with. 1213 01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,120 You've been doing that for years. 1214 01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:19,840 You wouldn't be here if that hadn't been the case in the past. 1215 01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,080 I feel that. Yeah. 1216 01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:24,440 Yeah, yeah. 1217 01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:28,360 I believe we are both having... giving this a good nudge. 1218 01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,160 Um... MEL: Oh, and we can see that. 1219 01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,000 And I guess that's why we're, you know, 1220 01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:33,440 gently challenging you here, 1221 01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:35,920 because there's so much potential here. 1222 01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:41,080 So, with that said, we're going to go to the decision 1223 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,320 and we're going to go to you, Julia. 1224 01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:47,200 Um, well, there's so much here that I want to continue to explore, 1225 01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,400 so it's a stay. 1226 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,160 Yeah. (LAUGHS) Whoo-hoo. 1227 01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,000 Wonderful. 1228 01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:55,480 And to you, Grayson. Yeah. 1229 01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:57,960 Um, look, I have had so much fun 1230 01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,760 and I want to give this everything I've got. 1231 01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,520 And so, yeah, I chose to stay. 1232 01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:05,480 (APPLAUSE) Brilliant. 1233 01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,440 Wonderful. Thank you both. Thank you so much, guys. 1234 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,040 Have a wonderful week. Thank you. 1235 01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:12,280 Bye. 1236 01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:14,240 WOMAN: Well done. CONTESTANT: Whoo! 1237 01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:15,280 Good luck up there. 1238 01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:16,440 MAN: Well done. 1239 01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:20,560 Well done. 1240 01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:26,280 Yeah? 1241 01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:27,840 Alright, let's get our next couple up. 1242 01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:30,800 Alissa and David. 1243 01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,400 Yay! 1244 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,360 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 1245 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:42,680 MEL: Hello. ALISSA: Hello. 1246 01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:44,640 DAVID: Hey, guys. Lovely to meet you. 1247 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:45,840 Hey. 1248 01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:48,880 Get all snuggled. 1249 01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:54,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 1250 01:01:56,960 --> 01:02:00,480 Alright. Where are we going to start? How are things right now? 1251 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:02,720 Things are fantastic. 1252 01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:04,320 I don't know how you guys did it. 1253 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:07,480 You guys are wizards, but, like, you guys nailed everything. 1254 01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:09,040 Ah. 1255 01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:12,000 When I saw her walking down the aisle, 1256 01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:14,440 straight away, I was like, "You nailed the look. 1257 01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,360 "What is her personality like?" 1258 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,800 Um... 1259 01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,240 And the first thing she did when we did our vows is she... 1260 01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,360 she said she wasn't going to marry me 1261 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:25,360 until I got down on one knee and proposed. 1262 01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:26,960 MEL: Oh! 1263 01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:31,560 Um, straight away... I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 1264 01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:33,480 It was a big move from you. It was a ballsy move. 1265 01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,280 I know. It was a ballsy move. 1266 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:36,640 It was. MEL: Mmm. 1267 01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:39,720 But I love that because it just showed me that she's direct, 1268 01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:42,080 she's sharp, she's honest. 1269 01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 1270 01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:47,280 And that's something I've asked for. 1271 01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:55,200 I know it's early days, but I care for Alissa a lot. 1272 01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:57,880 You know, I definitely have feelings for her. 1273 01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,840 The amount of things that we're literally the same in... 1274 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:03,080 Yeah. ..is crazy. 1275 01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:04,320 So you guys literally went... Aligned. 1276 01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:05,600 ..ticking, like, boxes. 1277 01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:07,760 Values. Religion, even. Yeah. 1278 01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,000 Like, and our childhood and our upbringings. 1279 01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:11,240 And it's just nuts. 1280 01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:12,600 And just listening to that, it sounds like 1281 01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:14,800 you've been asking each other a lot of questions. 1282 01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:17,720 We've literally been staying up till late hours just talking. 1283 01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:20,360 Getting curious. So curious. 1284 01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:22,560 But also, like, you know, just skipping bullshit. 1285 01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1286 01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,840 JOHN: This is fantastic. We're going to go to the decision. 1287 01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:41,840 Let's... Let's go with you first, Alissa. Stay or leave? 1288 01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:43,640 Capital 'stay', 1289 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:45,440 with a smiley face 'cause I'm really happy. 1290 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,320 Oooh, I love that. 1291 01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:48,920 And David. 1292 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:50,560 Oh, this was very tough. 1293 01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:52,840 Oh... (MEL LAUGHS) 1294 01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,040 Yeah, I went with 'stay'. 1295 01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:57,840 (APPLAUSE) Fabulous. 1296 01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:01,680 JOHN: Great work, you two. You can go back to the group. 1297 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:02,640 OK. Thank you. 1298 01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:04,400 MEL: Well done, guys. (APPLAUSE) 1299 01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:07,560 (RESOUNDING MUSIC) 1300 01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:18,520 And last up on the couch, Stella and Filip. 1301 01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:21,800 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 1302 01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:23,240 Hello. Hello. 1303 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,160 Hello. Hi. 1304 01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:26,640 JOHN: Hello, you two. Hi. 1305 01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:29,320 Welcome. Thank you. 1306 01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:34,120 How are you both going? Yeah, we're going great. 1307 01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,440 The wedding was unreal. 1308 01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,680 I saw her and I was just, like, "Wow," so... 1309 01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:41,440 Instant attraction. Oh! 1310 01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:44,440 And I told her she's cool, I got her. 1311 01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:47,200 And then, fast-forward to the honeymoon 1312 01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:48,440 and then we just started to realise 1313 01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:49,600 that we see the world in the same way. 1314 01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,120 Family and friends are super important. 1315 01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:53,440 We like similar music, 1316 01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:57,200 we eat the same food, we go train and do all this kind of stuff. 1317 01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:59,080 And I'm fully into her. Like, I'm always looking at her. 1318 01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,440 I'm kissing her all the time. 1319 01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,160 And it's kind of helped with, you know, 1320 01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,600 like, there's different levels of intimacy as well. 1321 01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:07,960 Like, we've given each other full-body massages 1322 01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:09,520 that have lasted an hour, longer. 1323 01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:10,520 Oh! Yeah? 1324 01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:12,080 God. 1325 01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:13,560 Please. 1326 01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:15,760 (LAUGHTER) 1327 01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,000 Can I just make an observation? 1328 01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,040 We're sitting here and looking at you two. 1329 01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:23,960 Your eye contact... MEL Mmm. 1330 01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,560 ..is unbelievable. Yeah, we do have a lot of that. 1331 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,280 Like, you directly stare into his eyes. 1332 01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:33,320 So when you say you've got a high level of intimacy, 1333 01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:34,720 you can see it. Yeah. 1334 01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:38,440 And, like, to be honest, I kind of also want to protect it in a way. 1335 01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:39,920 Um, yeah... 1336 01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:41,880 What do you mean? 1337 01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:43,280 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1338 01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:45,720 Just protect it for the time being. 1339 01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:47,200 Yeah. 1340 01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:48,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1341 01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:52,080 I feel like, um... 1342 01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:56,360 not everyone likes your happiness. 1343 01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:57,600 Mmm. 1344 01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:58,760 Oooh. 1345 01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:03,360 Are you suggesting that some people here find your happiness 1346 01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:05,760 difficult to swallow? 1347 01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:08,600 It felt in the moment, yeah, 1348 01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:10,800 at the red and green flags. 1349 01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:12,720 There was questions raised, you know, 1350 01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:16,440 as in, like, it wasn't authentic, you know, what we had. 1351 01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:23,240 What exactly are they saying? 1352 01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:25,320 You know, that me sitting on his lap 1353 01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:27,000 and giving kisses at the dinner party 1354 01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:28,200 was, like...wasn't authentic. 1355 01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:29,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 1356 01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:33,760 It was more of a performance? Yeah. Yeah. And it really is not. 1357 01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,360 Like, I'm here to show up for myself and for my partner. 1358 01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:38,400 Sure. GIA: What? 1359 01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:40,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 1360 01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:45,840 OK, who in the group feels like... 1361 01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:49,880 this is a performance and it's not genuine? 1362 01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:52,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1363 01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:55,680 I mean, look, I'll be honest. 1364 01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:57,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1365 01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:08,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1366 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:14,880 Who in the group feels like this is a performance and it's not genuine? 1367 01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:18,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 1368 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,200 I mean, look, I'll be honest. 1369 01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:25,840 At the start, I did feel like it was a little bit of a performance 1370 01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:29,720 because I was, like, "Whoa, this is very hot and heavy very early on." 1371 01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:34,800 So I was, like, "Wow, like, sounds too good to be true." 1372 01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,040 It wasn't like I was being, like, "This is fake." 1373 01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,720 It was some of the comments of "We're looking at baby names 1374 01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:43,320 "and already falling in love with each other" 1375 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:44,440 that seemed full-on. 1376 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:46,920 (TENSE MUSIC) 1377 01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:50,840 Do you know what, I think you guys are gonna have babies 1378 01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:52,560 and you're... and you're falling in love, 1379 01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:54,720 so let's move with positivity. 1380 01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:56,440 (BLEEP) what anyone else thinks, 1381 01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:59,320 because what you guys have you know is real 1382 01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:00,480 and that's all that matters. 1383 01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:02,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 1384 01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:03,840 We're just doing our thing. 1385 01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,480 Like, it's good and It should be good. It should be fun. 1386 01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:08,520 And that's particularly the reason 1387 01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:10,560 why I feel like I want to protect it. 1388 01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,800 I'm fricken fuming. 1389 01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:18,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1390 01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:28,120 I guess, you know, it's kind of sad to learn that at the age of 32, 1391 01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:32,760 I have to relearn that not everyone is wishing you happiness. 1392 01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:36,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 1393 01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:39,400 But no-one's saying that we're not happy for you. 1394 01:08:39,440 --> 01:08:41,840 Like, no-one has said that. 1395 01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:44,240 No-one yesterday said that we're not happy for you. 1396 01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:45,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 1397 01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:50,080 So, don't sit up here and make yourself be the victim, 1398 01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:51,440 because that's how it is. 1399 01:08:51,480 --> 01:08:53,800 (TENSE MUSIC) 1400 01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:55,360 JULIA: Oh, I don't know if she's being the victim. 1401 01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:57,600 I think that she's just trying to express 1402 01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:59,760 that there can be a bit of mean-girl energy sometimes 1403 01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:01,120 and maybe she doesn't... 1404 01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:03,520 And vice-versa, babe! Literally same, though. 1405 01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:06,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 1406 01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:11,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 1407 01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:13,360 Alissa, shut up, 1408 01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,240 'cause all you do is speak with an infomercial voice. 1409 01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:17,600 Pipe down, OK? 1410 01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:20,760 No, I'm just saying, there were, like, names called yesterday. 1411 01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:22,640 We're done with it. 1412 01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:23,920 (TENSE MUSIC) 1413 01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,040 You called everyone fake. 1414 01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,840 You roll your eyes at everyone, Alissa. Far out. 1415 01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:31,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 1416 01:09:31,440 --> 01:09:33,800 OK, guys, we'll just bring it back down. 1417 01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:37,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1418 01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,800 You know, the good thing, though, Stella, by bringing this up, 1419 01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:47,480 immediately I watch for Filip's reaction 1420 01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:49,200 and his reaction is he's got your back. 1421 01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:55,360 And that's the thing I like. I'm here to match his energy. 1422 01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:57,520 We do align on so many different levels. 1423 01:09:57,560 --> 01:10:01,760 And I said, at the end of the day, I'm going to give my heart fully. 1424 01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:05,520 If I get hurt, I get hurt. That's going to be a lesson for me. 1425 01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:09,560 But I will not try to self-sabotage myself by playing it safe, 1426 01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:14,400 because I think, for myself, 1427 01:10:14,440 --> 01:10:18,280 I'm not looking anything less than a soulmate-level connection. 1428 01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:21,680 So you think he could be a soulmate for you? 1429 01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:24,000 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 1430 01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:28,760 I think we... If we're heading the way we're heading.... 1431 01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:31,920 yes. 1432 01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:33,680 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 1433 01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:36,120 FILIP: Definitely. I feel the same as well. 1434 01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:37,760 Like, yeah, I feel really blessed to have been, 1435 01:10:37,800 --> 01:10:39,240 like, matched with Stella. 1436 01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:43,680 And it's amazing to see you both thriving and growing 1437 01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:47,040 and doing really what you're meant to do in this experiment, 1438 01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,440 which is be curious, learn about the other 1439 01:10:50,480 --> 01:10:52,280 and find a way to come together. 1440 01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:57,240 So, having said that, let's go to the decision. 1441 01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:00,600 And we're going to start with Filip. 1442 01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:02,080 Yes. 1443 01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:05,120 I've got no reason to go anywhere right now. 1444 01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:08,040 We just start... We just got here, so I wrote 'stay'. 1445 01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:09,680 Starting up. Thanks. 1446 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:11,600 That's a strong stay. And Stella? 1447 01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:13,560 Oh. Did you write 'stay'? 1448 01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:15,120 We have a little love heart. Oh. 1449 01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:16,640 Yeah. Oh. 1450 01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:21,720 Keep doing what you're doing, you guys. 1451 01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,240 Thank you very much. Thank you. 1452 01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:25,800 Thank you. (APPLAUSE) 1453 01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:28,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1454 01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,640 I'm not going to sit there and be happy for someone 1455 01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:40,560 when they call out a story that didn't even happen. 1456 01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:42,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1457 01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:47,880 Not one person yesterday at the lunch said 1458 01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:49,240 they were unhappy for your happiness.... 1459 01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:52,880 so don't put words in other people's mouths 1460 01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,560 and make it out like we're not happy for you. 1461 01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:56,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1462 01:11:56,440 --> 01:11:58,800 You also went around to everyone in the room having your opinion. 1463 01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:01,000 Everyone had their opinion, so don't... 1464 01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:03,040 That's what I'm saying, playing the victim... 1465 01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:04,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1466 01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:07,240 ..because you had your opinion as well as everyone. 1467 01:12:07,280 --> 01:12:09,400 Um, look, 1468 01:12:09,440 --> 01:12:14,240 I think what you brought up yesterday 1469 01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,400 at the very end of the whole thing... 1470 01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:19,680 Brought up what? 1471 01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:23,280 ..that I didn't support Mel enough in Mel's and Luke's situation... 1472 01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:28,000 Mel brought that up, babe. Mel brought that up, not me. 1473 01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:29,400 It was all wrapped up. 1474 01:12:29,440 --> 01:12:31,080 No, it wasn't, babe! 1475 01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:32,720 You can't blame me for that! 1476 01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:34,440 Hold it there, guys. Hold it there, guys. 1477 01:12:34,480 --> 01:12:36,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1478 01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:54,200 What you brought up yesterday that I didn't support Mel enough 1479 01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:55,880 in Mel's and Luke's situation... 1480 01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:57,640 Mel brought that up, babe! That was Mel. 1481 01:12:57,680 --> 01:12:59,400 Mel brought that up, not me. 1482 01:12:59,440 --> 01:13:01,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1483 01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:04,600 You can't blame me for that. 1484 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:07,600 Hold it there, guys. Hold it there, guys. 1485 01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:11,160 This is a conversation for another day. 1486 01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:15,760 It's not the place now, but we will revisit this. 1487 01:13:27,440 --> 01:13:28,520 Fool! 1488 01:13:30,440 --> 01:13:31,840 She's a fool. 1489 01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:35,240 No, don't tell me that it's alright. 1490 01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:36,640 She's just making shit out of her arse. 1491 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:39,840 Alright. 1492 01:13:39,880 --> 01:13:43,080 Tonight we've heard a lot of revelations. 1493 01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:48,440 You may find that this was very confronting. 1494 01:13:48,480 --> 01:13:51,440 Buckle up, because there is plenty more of this to come. 1495 01:13:51,480 --> 01:13:56,400 And this week, there are further challenges coming your way. 1496 01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:01,680 So, on that note, please give it everything you've got. 1497 01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:03,960 Thanks for tonight and good luck. 1498 01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:05,200 MEL: Thanks, everyone. 1499 01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:07,080 ALESSANDRA: Thank you. Goodnight. 1500 01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:10,640 Get me out of here. 1501 01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:12,280 That girl sucks. 1502 01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:15,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 1503 01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:18,120 She's just... Can we please have a chat, bub? 1504 01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:21,680 Babe, to be honest, I don't understand why you're coming at me. 1505 01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:22,720 I'm not coming at you. 1506 01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,360 GIA: No-one cares about your relationship. 1507 01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:25,920 No-one cares! We're not jealous at all, doll. 1508 01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:27,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1509 01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:37,880 Just taking a moment. (CRIES) 1510 01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:44,960 Yeah. It is emotional. 1511 01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:48,560 I don't know, it just feels unwarranted. 1512 01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:54,520 It wasn't about anyone but me and Filip 1513 01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:58,080 and me wanting to protect what we have 1514 01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:01,480 and not wanting to be questioned. 1515 01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:03,800 And it's not my intention, like, to fight with people here. 1516 01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,560 Like, I'm not... I'm not... I'm not that person. 1517 01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:09,840 And I will never be. Like, I don't care. 1518 01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:13,120 Like, they can throw shit at me for all I care. 1519 01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:17,000 I'm not here for that. I'm here for my person. That's it. 1520 01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:23,760 CHRIS: OK. OK. OK. 1521 01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:29,880 OK. I'll just... (LAUGHS) 1522 01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:32,840 Brook. Brook, Brook, Brook... 1523 01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:40,040 No-one gives a (BLEEP) about your relationship, babe. 1524 01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:43,440 Everyone's here for themselves, so focus on that. 1525 01:15:43,480 --> 01:15:47,160 But also, when you're bursting out saying that you're in love with him 1526 01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:49,880 and you're picking kids' names after five days, 1527 01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,960 of course everyone's going to have, you know, ideas 1528 01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:54,520 that it's a little bit fake. 1529 01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:56,120 Like, prove me wrong. 1530 01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:57,600 Prove everyone wrong 1531 01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:01,280 'cause I guarantee everyone is saying it, not just me. 1532 01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:06,040 You know, (BLEEP). She's a snitch as well, so... 1533 01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:09,440 That's all I have to say. 1534 01:16:11,360 --> 01:16:13,960 I don't need to say any more. I don't give a (BLEEP) about her. 1535 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:16,520 She sucks. End of. 1536 01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:18,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1537 01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:23,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1538 01:16:29,360 --> 01:16:31,520 (KNOCKING) NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... 1539 01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:34,240 (GIGGLES) Oh, what's going on? 1540 01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:37,360 ..our newlyweds enter the next phase of the experiment. 1541 01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:38,720 Hello! 1542 01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:39,880 Intimacy week. 1543 01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:43,520 It's meant to build emotional closeness, safety 1544 01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:46,360 and then other playful aspects of a relationship. 1545 01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:49,720 While some embrace stepping out of their comfort zone... 1546 01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:51,000 Goddamn! 1547 01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:52,600 How about we do those push-ups? 1548 01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:54,280 Come here. 1549 01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:55,640 You know, it's... 1550 01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:57,840 ..Steve remains hesitant. 1551 01:16:57,880 --> 01:16:59,120 It's just not for me. 1552 01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:02,640 Intimacy comes in many shapes and forms. 1553 01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:04,600 Were you bullied? Um... 1554 01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:06,640 Has a stranger ever changed your life? 1555 01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:08,480 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 1556 01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:11,840 What's your favourite quality about your ex? 1557 01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:15,480 Julia's interpretation of intimacy... 1558 01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:17,520 How do you mean by that? Sorry. 1559 01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:20,760 ..leaves Grayson feeling confused and frustrated 1560 01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:22,440 with the lack of clarity. 1561 01:17:22,480 --> 01:17:24,760 Can you see any kind of future with me? 1562 01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:25,840 Um... 1563 01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:28,120 And then... 1564 01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:30,240 "Kiss me now, 1565 01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:33,000 "the kind of kiss that makes me feel something." 1566 01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:37,640 ..Steven's massive moment of truth. 1567 01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:39,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1568 01:17:50,280 --> 01:17:53,280 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 117061

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