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NARRATOR: Previously...
Here we are!
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Oh, my god!
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Welcome home, darl.
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Oh, love it. Love it.
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I am beside myself
with happiness right now.
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NARRATOR: The brand-new
Revelations Week
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encouraged our couples
to be more vulnerable.
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And I don't think anyone
ever looks at me with lust.
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Ever.
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I had no idea she felt that way
about herself.
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I had to work my butt off to starve
myself and go on these diet plans.
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It pained my heart.
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You're really amazing the way
that you are.
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Don't ever question yourself.
You're beautiful.
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I'm not going to rank none of them
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because they're going out
the balcony.
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NARRATOR: Danny finally gave Bec
the reassurance she needed.
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When I'm in a relationship,
I only look at one woman.
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I loved it.
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I loved it.
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NARRATOR: Chris's unfiltered
comments...
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If I saw that at the beginning,
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I would not even give you a chance.
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..left Brook with even more doubt
about her husband.
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You're 31 and you shouldn't
be speaking about people like that.
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It's hard to say. If there's a kid,
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if there's a kid old enough
they can look after themselves
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and I don't have to pay
any more school fees,
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I'd probably consider it.
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NARRATOR: Gia was shocked
by Scott's views on parenthood.
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I can't get rid of her.
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I'm so sorry. I'm not going
to apologise for having a kid.
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I'm just putting you here.
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NARRATOR: And after some
eye-opening revelations...
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"The most shocking thing I did
after a break-up was..."
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..drive past his house
multiple times during the night-time
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to make sure he was home.
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..Luke left the apartments
needing space to clear his head.
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Tonight...
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Oh, my god!
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..a brand-new Revelations Week task
is unveiled.
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I'll start with green flags.
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Red flags. Um...
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Surely, he gets on your nerves
at times.
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No.
I don't believe you!
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I don't believe you!
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NARRATOR: In front of their peers,
raw truths will be exposed.
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What he said...
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(GASPS)
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I think it's a fake showmance.
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100%, I agree.
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NARRATOR: But it's Steve's
brutal honesty about Rebecca...
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Now, red flags. Um...
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..that leaves the room speechless.
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Rebecca needs to be talking
all the time.
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There's no downtime.
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I don't understand
some of her humour.
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Rebecca's not my usual type.
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Her emotions are very high
and very low.
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That worries me
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because you're not sure the person
you're waking up next to.
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(CRICKETS CHIRPING)
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NARRATOR: Plus...
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Um, I guess there's some things
that I want to talk to you about.
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..Luke's family and friends
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share some comments about Mel
on social media.
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(EXHALES)
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NARRATOR: After being shocked
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by the revelations
from the audition task...
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I say yes and I say no.
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It's hard to say. If there's a kid
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old enough they can look
after themselves
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and I don't have to pay
any more school fees,
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I'd probably consider it.
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..Gia is confronting Scott
about his views on fatherhood.
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You just gave the vibe
of like a single bachelor dude,
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couldn't give a (BLEEP)
about a kid being around.
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It's cramping your style
'cause you've got this lifestyle
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and you're doing all this.
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That kid is in the way.
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I love my daughter...
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And I'm not stopping any of this.
..and I'm not going to apologise
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for having a kid.
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My daughter is number-one to me
and he needs to be OK with that.
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I'm not asking a lot.
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I just want someone
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who is going to show her
what it's like
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for her mum to be properly loved.
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I just wanted a little family,
I wanted someone
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who will accept us both
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and if he doesn't accept me
and my daughter,
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then what the (BLEEP) am I going
to waste my time for?
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So, I'm asking you...
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Yeah, but this is me
before, going into an audition.
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Just remember this.
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Right.
I don't know what to expect, right?
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But now you know,
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and how do you see that working?
Now I know you have a daughter...
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You don't want someone with a kid.
I know...
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I'm looking you in the eye.
That's the way that you came across.
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OK. Well, I apologise
you feel that way,
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and I can promise you right now,
it does not bother me.
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This is the thing, Gia.
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I don't know until I'm in
the experiment,
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until you tell me, "I have a kid."
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I could have gone the other way
and gone,
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"No, I don't like this."
But I've accepted it.
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Like, if I didn't accept it,
I would tell you
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and I wouldn't even bother trying.
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I wouldn't feel as affectionate,
I wouldn't feel this way.
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So, obviously, I genuinely like you.
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Having a child does not bother me.
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It used to but I'll tell you right
now, it does not bother me.
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I am financially stress-free,
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I've told you I'll look after you,
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I'm more than happy to look after
another person.
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I do love my freedom,
I do love our time,
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but this is where I've got to learn
to adapt.
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Like, I need to accept someone,
because before, I didn't,
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and that's why I'm here
because I don't know how to
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and I'm learning that.
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I want to see if this works
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and I want to prove to you
and show you
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that I can be a good father.
I want to be accepted.
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Run this experiment.
It just rubbed me the wrong way
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because I was like,
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"Great, here I am with a kid."
I understand.
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I sound like what you don't want.
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Like...
No.
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We're diving in to the most
in-depth stuff
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for, like, such a short period
of time
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where a lot of these questions
wouldn't get asked for months.
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Yeah.
Do you know what I mean?
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Like, for us going through all these
questions and everything so far,
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I feel like we're (BLEEP) strong.
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Like, let's be real.
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Compared to everyone else,
we have answered everything
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and we hug and we kiss,
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and we're like...
Yeah, I'm, like,
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low-key happy that this happened
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because it's like I would rather
get all this out now early...
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I would too.
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..and, like, figure out
if this is going to work or not.
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Yeah.
You know what I mean?
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100%.
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I just want a good healthy
relationship
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where we communicate
and we like each other so much,
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we walk out of the experiment
holding hands and we're together.
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Like, that's what I want.
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I care. Like, I seriously care.
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I am really happy the experts
gave us this task
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because I didn't, you know,
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I didn't think anything
could shake us
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and this has.
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But, like, a good strength
about us is our communication,
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and Scott reassured me, so yeah.
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I think we brought it back around.
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Like, I wasn't expecting that.
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I thought I was going to be
not sleeping here. Like...
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We're being open today.
I think this is important
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that we are having these deeper,
you know, convos, you know?
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I reckon. You OK?
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Yeah.
Can I have a kiss?
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We're alright?
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I'm good.
Jesus.
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Yeah, I like Scott. Yeah.
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It scares me 'cause I'm, like,
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why am I so worried
about what he thinks?
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Well, because I like him.
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You know, like, it's becoming,
yeah, more apparent to me, yeah.
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Come here.
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You good?
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Yeah, I'm good. I'm good.
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(GRAND MUSIC SWELLS)
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NARRATOR: It's the last day
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of a brand-new phase
in the experiment
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known as Revelations Week.
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Oh, good morning, darl.
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(LAUGHS)
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How many coffees have you had?
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This is my second
but they're tiny.
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NARRATOR: The experts have devised
this phase
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to encourage our couples
to be open and honest
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with the goal to create deeper
connections faster than ever before.
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Holy (BLEEP)!
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I'm going to go get some coffee.
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OK. Thanks.
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Alright. Sick. Alright.
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I'm awake now.
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We've upped the ante this year
in a big way,
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testing all of our couples to get
real with each other fast
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in a brand-new intense phase
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we call Revelations Week.
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We're asking our participants
to be raw, unfiltered,
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and to uncover their sincerest side,
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to accelerate a deeper understanding
between our couples.
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I mean, hopefully, we'll get to go
do something fun today.
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Not that this has not been fun.
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(LAUGHTER)
It's been interesting.
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It's been interesting.
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JOHN: We've never set
a greater challenge
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this early in the experiment.
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But if all our couples commit
to this carefully thought-out phase,
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it has the potential to strengthen
connections
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and lead to longer lasting
relationships.
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NARRATOR: For Alissa and David,
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the intensity of Revelations Week
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has had a positive effect
and created a connection
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on a deeper level.
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Thank you for looking after me
'cause last night...
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(CHUCKLES)
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She was in a little bit
of a frustrated place.
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She was in a spiral.
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Yeah, she's feeling good,
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she's feeling, you know,
much more at peace.
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(LAUGHS)
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Well. Well, well, well. Um...
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(LAUGHS)
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Yes. David and I were intimate.
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We just felt like it was right.
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Yes, it was very good.
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It was very good.
It was, it was fun. Yeah.
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I mean, I'm not going to lie,
you know...
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I feel like Alissa was very hot
and heavy,
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and, you know, she did let me know
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that, you know, even the night
before,
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she was feeling a type of way,
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so Alissa, you know, blindsided me
'cause I was just chilling.
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I jumped him.
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Like, it was just, it was bound
to happen.
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I had to jump him, like,
I made the first move.
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I was just like, "I can't wait
any longer, sorry.
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"It's just happening."
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(BEAT BOXING)
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(LAUGHTER)
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Yes. Yes, it was great.
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I mean, the... Yeah.
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(TRILLS TONGUE)
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Maybe I should do the little...
(TRILLS TONGUE)
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I'm feeling a bit more, yeah,
a bit more relaxed.
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We look after each other.
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100%.
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NARRATOR: The tasks
of Revelations Week
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have also been transformative
for Bec and Danny.
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Open your mouth.
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Let me get it off of you.
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We went out for dinner last night
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and it was just like the vibes
were so high.
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And one thing led to another.
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I'll give you, I'll give you
another...
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Spooning lead to forking.
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(LAUGHS)
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NARRATOR: So far, questions
of their lack of sexual chemistry
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had halted the physical progress
between Bec and Danny...
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"One thing I asked the experts for
that I didn't get is..."
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Probably like really, really high
sexual chemistry.
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..and although Revelations Week
has tested them,
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the tasks have brought them
closer together...
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I'm not going to rank none of them
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'cause they're going out
the balcony.
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Your grass only grows
where you water it.
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Do you know what I mean?
Yeah.
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..and the couple's focus
has rekindled their intimacy.
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We had a little, we had
a little cuddle, you know?
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Um, yeah. It was good.
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I met her dad and shook his hand
and looked him in the eye
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and said I was always going to be
respectful.
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I'm not going to stand
on national TV
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and talk about shagging
his daughter.
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You can ask Bec
and she can tell you.
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It's what I needed.
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I needed that orgasm.
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A couple of orgasms, actually.
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(LAUGHTER)
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Last time we had sex
on our honeymoon,
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it was, like, it was a bit like
this is what we should do.
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There wasn't the passion
like there was last night.
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It was just a really romantic,
passionate situation.
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It felt right.
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NARRATOR: While intimacy
has returned for Bec and Danny,
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outside, Stella and Filip's
physical connection
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remains strong as they take
a morning dip.
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Oh, yeah!
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You bring ten or something?
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Yeah, things are really good.
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Like, marital bliss.
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We're very affectionate,
we're very comfortable,
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we're very physically,
like, kind of aligned.
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Um, we definitely could stay
a little longer.
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I can unapologetically be myself,
you know?
291
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(LAUGHTER)
Yeah, I'm enjoying it.
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I'm feeling pretty complete.
293
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NARRATOR: When they first met,
Filip's vows...
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I'm a carpenter
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but I'm also an online health coach,
a YouTuber...
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..raised concerns of his sincerity
towards the experiment.
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Him promoting himself
on his YouTube...
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Exactly what I said.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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NARRATOR: But at their honeymoon,
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the couple quickly got
on the same page...
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Oh! Yeah.
302
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Like it.
303
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..and in the cool climate,
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things began to heat up...
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Mmm.
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You kiss well.
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Love it.
So do you.
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Love it. Thanks.
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..and ever since, their physical
connection has continued to grow.
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She's hot as.
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I am very PDA and so is Filip.
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I'm pretty happy.
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(LAUGHS) Me too.
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(LAUGHS)
315
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I'm very pleased with this ring.
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Me and Filip are... We're great.
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We are on the same page,
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we are extremely physically
attracted to each other.
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(LAUGHS)
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We did a disservice.
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I've... Honestly, I've never felt
anything like it before, ever.
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Ever, ever.
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It just... It's cute.
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It's cute.
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Navigating intimacy in the early
stages of the experiment
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can be difficult for our couples.
327
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For some, intimacy occurs
straight from the beginning.
328
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For others, it takes time.
329
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And sometimes the level of intimacy
can fluctuate.
330
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But for couples, open and honest
communication
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and the ability to listen
to their partners' wants and needs
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will lead to strong physical
and emotional connections.
333
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Hello, hello.
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Good morning.
335
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How was the gym?
336
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NARRATOR: For one of the experiment'
most intimate couples,
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Revelations Week has seen Gia
and Scott face their first hurdle.
338
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How are you?
I'm good.
339
00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:58,680
Last night was a bit crazy.
340
00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:01,520
I wasn't expecting that.
341
00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:02,840
That was full on.
342
00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:04,640
Yesterday was huge for us.
343
00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,760
Yeah, first, like, real breakdown
I've had,
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first, like, kind of disagreement
that we've had so far.
345
00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:13,520
It definitely put some pressure
on us.
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00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:14,480
I know.
347
00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:17,200
After, like, last night in bed,
we had more conversations about it
348
00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,640
and he was like, "I'm here for you.
Like, I want this.
349
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"I don't care about you
having a kid and all that."
350
00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:24,760
He's like, "I... That was before
I met you.
351
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"Now, I know you
and it's different."
352
00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:30,000
We're still power couples. (LAUGHS)
353
00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:33,600
Last night, that was probably the
most intense conversation we've had
354
00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:35,280
but it's probably - it's a blessing
in disguise
355
00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,560
because we've gone into
more depth about one another.
356
00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,560
We communicated well,
357
00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,680
we went to bed on no argument,
358
00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:43,840
we woke up with a smile
on our face.
359
00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,680
There's so many good things
we have with each other.
360
00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,960
We're not perfect but it doesn't
outweigh how good we are,
361
00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,080
you know what I mean?
In general.
362
00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:54,720
So, we're just keeping things
strong.
363
00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:55,880
I'm happy.
364
00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:56,840
We're all good.
Yeah.
365
00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:57,960
We did well.
366
00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:03,400
Have I...
367
00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:04,760
Well, she calls her Bub
368
00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:06,760
and I am trying to get myself
not in shit.
369
00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:08,680
I keep saying, "Daughter."
370
00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:10,960
(LAUGHS)
371
00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,560
(BLEEP) shit!
372
00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:14,720
You know what's funny?
373
00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,920
After yesterday, I was like,
I'm in trouble
374
00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:19,520
but I'm not gonna ask
'cause then it's obvious,
375
00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:21,440
so I'm waiting till I hear it
and then I'm going to...
376
00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:23,200
Yeah. (LAUGHS)
377
00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,880
NARRATOR: One couple facing
greater challenges
378
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than the remembering
of children's names
379
00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:30,960
is Mel and Luke...
380
00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,720
..as Revelations Week has seen
an awkward move-in...
381
00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:37,960
Yep.
382
00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,920
..as well as some shocking
revelations...
383
00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:42,800
We love a stalk.
384
00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:47,320
..and Mel being the only participant
in the experiment so far
385
00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:51,160
to not rank her partner first
in the photo ranking task...
386
00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:57,440
..all leading to Luke leaving
to spend the night away from Mel.
387
00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,800
This morning, Mel is awaiting
Luke's return.
388
00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,240
But overnight, fellow bride,
Brook,
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00:17:06,360 --> 00:17:08,800
has come across some social media
comments
390
00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,760
Luke's family have posted about Mel.
391
00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,240
I'm seeing some of Luke's sisters
get involved
392
00:17:16,360 --> 00:17:18,560
and say some nasty things
about Mel online...
393
00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,000
..and I think that's petty
394
00:17:22,120 --> 00:17:25,920
to have your sister's comment
rude things online about Mel,
395
00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,880
and, I don't know, it doesn't sit
well with me.
396
00:17:31,360 --> 00:17:34,360
I don't like people that tear girls
down in that way.
397
00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,880
I think it's not very nice.
398
00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,320
When I saw those comments,
I thought they were horrible.
399
00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:42,760
So, he should shut that down,
being a man,
400
00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:44,720
he should shut that down
no matter what.
401
00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:46,880
I don't think Mel deserves that
402
00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,400
and I know that Mel
saw those comments as well.
403
00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,360
So, last night, I read
on social media
404
00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:58,080
of some comments made
from Luke's friends and family
405
00:17:58,200 --> 00:17:59,760
that really hurt my feelings.
406
00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,120
They were comments
about my personality,
407
00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,040
they were comments
about my character.
408
00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:07,600
I'm actually shocked.
409
00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,280
Luke's sisters left some comments,
410
00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,640
saying that I've got
a mad resting bitch face,
411
00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:17,960
that I'm not genuine, that I don't
deserve someone like Luke,
412
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:22,040
that I don't know what I've got
in front of me until I've lost it,
413
00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:25,000
and what I thought was, these
comments aren't out of nowhere.
414
00:18:25,120 --> 00:18:28,400
These comments would've been from
what Luke was telling them about me.
415
00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,720
So, I need to talk about it
with Luke.
416
00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:37,640
What really hurt me
about his sisters' comments
417
00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:39,760
is this whole time
on the experiment,
418
00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:43,600
Luke has consistently reminded me
that he's positive,
419
00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:46,960
he's nice, you know, he's not rude,
420
00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,760
he's got a great outlook on life.
421
00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,920
But, you know, comments like that
are the exact opposite
422
00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:54,360
of what he's been telling me.
423
00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:58,480
Um, I guess there's some things
that I want to talk to you about.
424
00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
425
00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,480
Um, I guess there's some things
that I want to talk to you about.
426
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,160
Um...
427
00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,680
And, I guess, it's kind of hard for
me to talk about because like...
428
00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,680
..it really hurt me,
429
00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:26,720
the comments left by your friends
and family on the social media post.
430
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:32,840
Because I felt like comments from
your friends and family about me
431
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,640
are because of what you would've
told them about me.
432
00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,320
I woke up and I saw those comments
433
00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:41,640
and I want you to know
that I'm sorry.
434
00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:44,720
I never wanted those comments there
435
00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:47,160
and when I saw them there,
I got really upset
436
00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,280
because I didn't say anything
437
00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:53,560
about the stuff that they had
said to them.
438
00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:54,680
I had never said that.
439
00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,200
All I was saying is how I feel.
440
00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,480
I've tried so hard to keep positive,
441
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,040
tried so hard to keep calm
442
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,080
because of, you know,
of being in this
443
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:05,640
and I'm trying to do this with you
444
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:06,720
but, like, you haven't been
445
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:08,040
giving me anything back.
Let me just stop you right there.
446
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,720
Do you think you were trying hard
this week?
447
00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:12,600
Because you made my life hell.
448
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:19,240
You know how it feels
to feel isolated
449
00:20:19,360 --> 00:20:20,640
'cause I did that to you
on the honeymoon
450
00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,120
and I know I did.
451
00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:23,760
But that's what you did to me
this week.
452
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:28,120
Oh, wow. I have not come back here
to get into, like,
453
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,720
I've already had so much anxiety
about coming back here
454
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:34,760
because the way you've treated me
in this whole experiment
455
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,280
has been horrible, so...
456
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,920
I feel, like, so anxious
being here right now.
457
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:45,080
So do I.
458
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,000
I've tried so...
459
00:20:49,120 --> 00:20:50,040
For so long.
460
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:52,720
We've only been here
for three weeks.
461
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:56,280
I just feel like it's been
a little bit unfair recently
462
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:58,840
because I kind of came to my...
like, not senses,
463
00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,400
but I kind of realised
that this whole experiment,
464
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:05,000
I've been, you know, a lot
like saying things to Luke
465
00:21:05,120 --> 00:21:07,720
to spare his feelings
but at the expense of my own.
466
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:09,960
And I don't really think that's fair
467
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,280
for Luke to constantly
play the victim
468
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:13,840
where, you know, he's done
wrong too.
469
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,040
It's not just me.
470
00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:16,800
Like, I have done wrong for sure
471
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:20,480
but he doesn't take
any accountability for his actions.
472
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:28,640
OK.
473
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:46,800
(GRAND MUSIC SWELLS)
474
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NARRATOR: This week,
475
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,720
our couples have not only begun
living together...
476
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,240
Thanks for doing that.
You're amazing.
477
00:21:57,360 --> 00:21:58,160
No, that's alright.
478
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:03,960
..they've also taken on a brand-new
intense phase of the experiment,
479
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:05,520
Revelations Week.
480
00:22:06,360 --> 00:22:08,040
(KNOCK ON DOOR)
481
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,040
Oh!
Oh, OK.
482
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:16,120
NARRATOR: But the experts have saved
this week's toughest task for last.
483
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,400
They still didn't put my name first.
484
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:19,640
(LAUGHS)
Honestly.
485
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,040
We have a letter
from the gods above.
486
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:23,760
I'll do the honours.
487
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:29,360
"Stella and Filip, today you will be
spending the day apart."
488
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:30,440
Oh, no!
489
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,440
"Alissa, get ready because you're
going for some girl time,
490
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,520
"and David, it's time to see
the boys."
491
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,320
Oh! Uh-oh.
492
00:22:39,120 --> 00:22:40,240
Relax.
493
00:22:40,360 --> 00:22:41,560
OK? We're all good.
494
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,200
OK?
495
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:47,200
We said we would test our couples
this year more than ever before,
496
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,720
and today, we're really turning up
the heat.
497
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,640
Alright, see ya!
498
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,040
JOHN: Firstly, we're dividing
our couples.
499
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:55,720
Have fun.
Bye!
500
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,320
Brides and grooms will be separated
501
00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:01,200
to test their honesty
amongst their peers.
502
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:02,720
Alright, I'll see you soon.
Enjoy.
503
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,640
At the cocktail party
and at the dinner party,
504
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:09,080
sometimes you can tell
when you're speaking to people
505
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,240
that they're, like, almost looking
over their shoulder for their missus
506
00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:13,080
Yeah.
507
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,800
Where when it's
a whole day apart,
508
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,440
there could be some revelations.
509
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,480
JOHN: The brides and grooms
will head off
510
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,160
and what may appear as a catch-up
with their peers,
511
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,600
instead is a brand-new
and intense task.
512
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,080
Oh, my god!
513
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,640
(CHEERS AND LAUGHTER)
514
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,320
Look at the photos
on the wall, girls!
515
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,680
JOHN: One that pushes everyone
to be raw and unfiltered
516
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:43,960
about their relationships.
517
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,680
What is going on here?
518
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,680
Oh, look at these pictures
on the wall.
519
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,800
Hey!
Oh, wowser!
520
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,120
It's time for Red Flag, Green Flag.
521
00:23:56,120 --> 00:23:59,480
NARRATOR: With the brides upstairs
and the grooms downstairs,
522
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:04,000
the venue is set for this intense
new task to begin.
523
00:24:04,120 --> 00:24:05,920
OK! Oh, my god, guys.
524
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,200
"Today is your chance to catch up
525
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,440
"and gain some fresh perspective
on your relationship.
526
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:15,000
"Your task today is to share
green flags and red flags
527
00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:17,280
"you've noticed about your spouse.
528
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,440
"Be open, be honest, and dig deep.
529
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,240
"As a group, you should offer
feedback,
530
00:24:23,360 --> 00:24:24,400
"challenge each other's thinking,
531
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,560
"and help each other see things
from an outside perspective.
532
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,880
"The Experts!"
533
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,760
(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING)
534
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,760
NARRATOR: Downstairs, the first groo
to take on Red Flag, Green Flag
535
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:37,760
is Steven.
536
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,200
Steven!
537
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,200
Have a sip, mate. Don't worry.
Last sip, mate.
538
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:45,320
(LAUGHTER)
539
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,720
That was a little bit
of Dutch courage.
540
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:47,760
Up the front, mate.
541
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,480
Get up there, Stevie boy.
542
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,720
Well, that's me.
543
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:52,760
That's you.
544
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:54,600
Rachel.
You look good.
545
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,560
I'll start with the green flags.
546
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,280
She is very selfless.
547
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:02,320
She has the biggest heart.
548
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,520
And she's actually willing
to show me her interests
549
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,680
and she's actually interested
in my interests as well.
550
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:10,800
Yeah.
551
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,920
Probably the only,
what I'd call a red flag
552
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,880
is that I feel like our sense
of humour doesn't align.
553
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,680
And we're having that flirty banter,
554
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,960
then say, I sort of initiate
a romantic spark.
555
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,960
I was trying to do that
at the honeymoon
556
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,000
and I felt like that was taken,
you know, out of context.
557
00:25:30,120 --> 00:25:31,040
Yeah.
558
00:25:32,120 --> 00:25:34,880
So, I've sort of really pulled
it back
559
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,160
in fear that it's going to cause
friction.
560
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:38,320
So...
561
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,360
We all wish we had personalities
like you.
562
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:41,600
(LAUGHTER)
563
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,560
True?
564
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,400
So, don't cover it up, man,
565
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,360
'cause that's a gift,
what you've got.
566
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:48,880
Don't cover your gift up.
567
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:50,640
I reckon you should be yourself.
568
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:51,560
That's why we love you, man.
569
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,040
We all love you.
570
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:54,440
Yeah.
So, why wouldn't she?
571
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,640
Yeah.
Thanks, guys. (LAUGHS)
572
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,400
I'm just lucky to have
the same name, mate.
573
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:01,840
(LAUGHTER)
574
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,640
She has been saying to me,
575
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,720
you know,
"Come on, let's start bringing..."
576
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,600
We call it Stevo.
577
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,400
(LAUGHTER)
578
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,400
You know, "Can we bring - can we see
Stevo come out a little bit?"
579
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,000
But in positiveness,
we're working through it.
580
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,880
(APPLAUSE)
581
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,120
You know, the boys were saying
I've got self-doubt.
582
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:24,480
"Be yourself."
583
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,800
And Rachel is telling me,
"Be yourself", so...
584
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:29,920
..the writing's on the wall.
585
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:35,520
NARRATOR: Upstairs, it's Rachel's
turn to discuss red and green flags
586
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,680
about her husband, Steven.
587
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,520
(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING)
588
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,400
OK, so green flags about Steven.
589
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,480
I like how excited he gets
when he talks about his passion
590
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,680
and I feel like I see
the real Steven come out,
591
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:52,200
the real passionate, the light,
that Steven.
592
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:53,600
And I can see that he has
a kind heart
593
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,600
and he really does mean well.
Yeah, he does.
594
00:26:55,720 --> 00:27:00,760
And in our tasks, Revelations Week,
he is honest
595
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,800
and he really leans
into that vulnerability.
596
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,280
I actually cried during his video,
597
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,600
hearing a lot of his insecurities.
598
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,760
He lost a lot of weight
and he starved himself
599
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,520
because he believed you have
to look a certain image.
600
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,000
Wow!
601
00:27:15,120 --> 00:27:17,480
He felt like he had to, so honestly,
602
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,280
this week, Revelations Week
has been really good for us.
603
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:21,560
It has made it lighter
in our apartment.
604
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:22,920
Oh! OK, love that.
605
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:23,920
Yeah, it's a vibe, it's a vibe.
606
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:25,000
Cute.
607
00:27:25,120 --> 00:27:28,080
We have done all of these tasks
set for us by the experts
608
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,200
truly in honesty
609
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,720
and I can't ask anything more
of him.
610
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,680
We've come out
in a really good place.
611
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,000
I'm really happy.
612
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,560
It was really nice, you know,
getting all this positivity.
613
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:41,440
Bec is up!
614
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:42,600
(APPLAUSE)
615
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,320
BEC: Um, OK. Danny boy, Danny boy.
616
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,200
Our communication
is second to none.
617
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,080
Like, the other morning at 1 AM,
618
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,280
I woke him up and I was like,
"I'm worried about this!"
619
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,360
And he was like,
"Alright, let's talk about it."
620
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,000
Oh, wow!
621
00:27:56,120 --> 00:27:57,120
Yeah.
622
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,960
I've never ever felt so safe
in my life with a human being.
623
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,400
Hallelujah!
624
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:05,120
And the loyalty, I trust him.
625
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,760
Like, I trust him through
and through.
626
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:10,280
Oh, bless!
627
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:12,480
I love that for you.
628
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,120
GIA: Um, I think Danny's not loyal.
629
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,120
Because we all saw it
at the dinner party.
630
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,120
He was looking at me.
631
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:23,200
Yeah!
632
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,000
I feel like I'm probably more
his vibe
633
00:28:25,120 --> 00:28:27,400
and that's why he was looking me
up and down.
634
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,480
Red flags. Um...
635
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,800
The only issue Danny and I have had
over these past few weeks
636
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:42,360
has been that the sexual chemistry
between us,
637
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,160
so up until a week ago,
638
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,280
like, it was like the sexual
chemistry's low,
639
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,040
he was saying that.
640
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,680
But we're intimate now
641
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,200
because we've had conversations
about it
642
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,640
and Revelations Week
has helped us so much.
643
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,040
Like, we went out for dinner
644
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:00,640
and we like were just all over
each other,
645
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,080
we came home, we had sex.
646
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,040
I love this!
647
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:06,800
But it's not just that.
648
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,480
Like, the next red flag is...
649
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,720
Sometimes I think
that he might think
650
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,320
that, like, he's better looking
than me.
651
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,120
Oh!
652
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,880
That he's being short-changed
being with me.
653
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,400
And I've talked to him about it
and he's assured me so many times.
654
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,480
I don't know, is it my past traumas?
655
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,360
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
656
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,120
When Gia told me that she could see
657
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,960
that the vibes between
Danny and I were off,
658
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,760
or, "Yeah, I kind of get that vibe",
659
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:46,000
she was like, trying to suggest
that Danny isn't into me.
660
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,080
And it pissed me off.
661
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,760
Based on everything you're saying,
662
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,120
it sounds like he's into you.
663
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,640
You are, like, you are a queen.
664
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,640
He is!
Absolutely!
665
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,360
You need to start,
like, talking to yourself.
666
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:04,840
Yeah!
667
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:06,480
Thank you.
In your little heart, queen.
668
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,120
I think because I've lost
so much weight
669
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:11,400
and I've got, like, loose skin
670
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,680
on my arms, and my stomach,
and my legs...
671
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,840
You're over-thinking.
..maybe I'm insecure
672
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,040
because, like, I'm like,
look at all of these amazing women.
673
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:20,880
Babe, stop it!
No! Oh, my god!
674
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,440
You're the most amazing!
675
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,800
Babe, when I accidentally ran into
you and Danny in the hallway,
676
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,240
you can see that he's into you,
babe.
677
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,200
He is like - and I was like, wow!
That's hot.
678
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,640
Like, I want that relationship.
679
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,040
GIA: I don't agree.
680
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:37,960
I saw them walking down
the hallways
681
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,400
and I don't see (BLEEP) anything
from Danny to Bec.
682
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,200
Honey, he's like, it's like
he wants to protect you.
683
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:43,640
Like, you can see it a mile away.
684
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:44,640
He's your protector, babe.
685
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:45,720
He's into me.
686
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:46,800
He's into you.
687
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:48,800
I think you're going delulu.
688
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,080
I'm delulu!
689
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,440
Danny's type is not Bec,
unfortunately for her.
690
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,120
I think he's just thinking
it's root, to be (BLEEP) honest.
691
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
692
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,160
Eugh!
693
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,680
NARRATOR: Coming up...
Gia!
694
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,240
..Bec retaliates.
695
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:11,840
I think it's early days
696
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,640
and the cracks will show,
without a doubt.
697
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,720
NARRATOR: And Brook reveals all.
698
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:18,960
(GASPS)
699
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:20,320
Oh!
No!
700
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,440
Are you joking?
He did not say that?
701
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,200
Get in the bin!
702
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:26,400
(BLEEP)
703
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,160
In the bin!
Oh, my god!
704
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,400
NARRATOR: It's Revelations Week
705
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,600
and our brides and grooms
have been separated
706
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,560
to participate in
the Red Flag, Green Flag task
707
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,000
to highlight early success
708
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,440
or discuss any issues
that they may have.
709
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,040
Oh, Scotty!
Hey!
710
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:52,840
Come on, buddy!
Let's go, mate!
711
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:53,840
It's a safe place here.
712
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,840
This is me. This is Gia.
713
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:57,920
Just thought I'd let you know.
714
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,040
So, green flags.
715
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:04,560
Well, our genuine connection,
our chemistry is inseparable.
716
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,200
We have not let go of each other
the whole time,
717
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,680
so that's a massive green light.
718
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,000
She's a very family girl.
719
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,240
She is the best chef I've ever seen.
720
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,520
And probably the best sex
I've had a long time, so...
721
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:16,840
(LAUGHTER)
Yeah.
722
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:20,240
Looking in, you guys look super
just, yeah, like, together.
723
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,600
I appreciate it.
Straight up. Yeah.
724
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,240
Red ones...
725
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:25,680
Um...
726
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,120
Gosh!
727
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:28,720
What's a red flag?
728
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:29,840
Just give us something.
729
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,840
(LAUGHTER)
I'm trying to think.
730
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,080
Oh, a red flag.
731
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,480
She... (LAUGHS) Here's a red flag.
732
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:36,720
I like to shave my body
733
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:38,280
but she wants me
to have a hairy chest.
734
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:39,520
That's a problem.
735
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:40,800
That's the only red flag
I can think of.
736
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:41,920
(LAUGHTER)
No, that's it, mate.
737
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:43,720
(LAUGHTER)
738
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,560
I don't have a single red flag.
739
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,040
And I would say
if there was something
740
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:48,360
'cause I don't give a shit.
I would say
741
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:49,760
but we are actually really good.
Yeah.
742
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:50,920
Well done, mate.
Thanks.
743
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:52,000
Good stuff.
744
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,960
(APPLAUSE)
745
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:55,880
I feel like me and Gia
are on cloud nine.
746
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,000
I had nothing bad to say
about my wife.
747
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,240
Gia!
Gia!
748
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,360
(APPLAUSE)
749
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,120
Babe, get that jacket off!
750
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,400
OK!
751
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:14,080
You guys all know like
me and Scott are like this.
752
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:16,520
Green flags with me and Scott
753
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,680
is, like, communication
is like everything.
754
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,200
And I think with Scott,
we go very deep.
755
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:22,760
We talk about, like, everything.
756
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,120
And my ex and I didn't have that.
757
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,000
It was like constant like,
like, he just didn't go deep.
758
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,560
And I think another green flag
is like the sex is like off-tap.
759
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,240
I've got to say.
760
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,200
I hadn't had sex in three years
coming into this.
761
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,160
And so, I told him. I was like,
762
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:39,520
"If you're thinking
I'm just a girl who's..."
763
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:40,880
'Cause I know what I look like
764
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,840
and I look like I'm probably
going to put out but I don't.
765
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,240
No, you look beautiful! Don't...
766
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:45,760
Please don't ever say that.
"I look like this, I..."
767
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,960
No, but I think I get judged
and I think initially...
768
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,480
I judged you at the hens party.
769
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,200
So, yeah. He was like,
you are so hot.
770
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,600
You know, whatever.
What did you say at the hens party?
771
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,680
I'm really into you and it was
like immediate attraction
772
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:01,840
and we were just like...
773
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,520
He's like immediate, immediate.
Wait!
774
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,840
Wait, can we repeat
what just was said.
775
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,360
Anyway green flags, green flags!
776
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,200
Other green flags, like, every
morning he goes to the gym at 5 AM.
777
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,440
He comes back with a coffee.
778
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,200
Oh, yes!
He makes the bed,
779
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,640
he checks in with me.
780
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,240
Like he's very attentive.
That's so good. So good.
781
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:19,840
Babe!
782
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,120
Alright, red flags!
783
00:34:21,240 --> 00:34:22,280
Next!
784
00:34:25,240 --> 00:34:26,440
There's not many.
785
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:28,480
Like, and I don't want to be
an annoying bitch
786
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,000
but, like, red flags is,
787
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,800
I listened to his audition video
and literally cried because...
788
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,160
Why?
Because his audition tape
789
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,320
was, like, "I don't care
if she has kids or doesn't
790
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,000
"but I don't want to pay
school fees",
791
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,320
and I'm a single mum and I...
792
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:43,640
It hit me.
793
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,360
Another red flag, he forgot
my daughter's name.
794
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,880
Oh!
Gia!
795
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:49,920
Wow!
796
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,880
Why is he forgetting
your daughter's name?
797
00:34:55,720 --> 00:34:59,400
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
798
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,320
Bec liked to comment that Scott's
a bit of an airhead.
799
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,640
I don't agree that Scott's
an airhead.
800
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:05,880
But we know that bitch
801
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,880
loves every (BLEEP) minute
that she can to start speaking,
802
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,440
so she couldn't help herself.
803
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,680
She should probably worry more about
why her husband is looking at me
804
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,240
and not her than why my husband's
an airhead.
805
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,280
That's so bad.
806
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,040
Scott's great. I...
807
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:23,720
Scott's not an airhead.
808
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:24,680
Don't agree.
809
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:28,240
She's a bit of an airhead,
to be (BLEEP) honest.
810
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,240
Do you think that it's more of
a sexual thing between you two?
811
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,240
Rather than...
No, no, no, no.
812
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:34,800
We're like cuddling on the couch.
813
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:36,880
We just...
You can see it's real though.
814
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:37,920
You can see...
815
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,560
I think it's early days
816
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,400
and the cracks will show,
without a doubt.
817
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,360
I just don't see that happening
for us.
818
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,240
I just think, like, we're so good.
819
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:48,760
I really can't talk shit about him.
Like, I'm...
820
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,640
I really like him.
No need.
821
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,400
I like him. Yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
822
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:55,200
OK.
Beautiful.
823
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:56,520
Thanks, girls.
824
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:57,720
Go, Gia!
825
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,200
Listening to Gia talk about
her and Scott's relationship,
826
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:08,520
to me, there's no way in the world
that there's no red flags.
827
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,360
No way. I mean, one of
these red flags
828
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,840
would be that disgraceful
earring that he wears.
829
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:14,480
(GROANS)
830
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,320
Give me a break and a bucket.
831
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:21,560
I'm pissed off.
832
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,640
Now, she's come
for my husband a bit.
833
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,120
She's called my husband an airhead
which is crazy,
834
00:36:26,240 --> 00:36:28,840
which is why I need - I (BLEEP) need
to confront her. I'm so over it.
835
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:31,560
I love you, ladies,
836
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,280
as much as there's people
I can't stand
837
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:34,960
and people I absolutely adore.
838
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,600
I think that we are actually
a dynamic group
839
00:36:38,720 --> 00:36:40,200
and that we've all got
each other's back.
840
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:41,640
Who can't you stand though?
841
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,360
Who can't you stand though?
842
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,600
Can I say one thing?
OK. I'm gonna shut it down.
843
00:36:46,720 --> 00:36:49,600
Sorry, guys. OK, can I say
that I'm going to shut it down.
844
00:36:54,720 --> 00:36:56,600
I wanted that opportunity with Bec
again
845
00:36:56,720 --> 00:36:58,760
but unfortunately, that didn't come.
846
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,880
But her calling my husband
an airhead now
847
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,360
has really pissed me off.
848
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,000
I said the pot was simmering
849
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,520
but now, it's boiling over,
the lid's off.
850
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaking from someone whose husband
doesn't want a bar of her,
851
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,880
she should really (BLEEP) stay
in her place.
852
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:17,320
NARRATOR: Coming up,
one groom's revelations...
853
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,680
Her emotions are very high
and very low.
854
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,400
..shock everyone.
855
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,560
That, to me, is a red flag.
856
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,560
NARRATOR: And upstairs
with the girls,
857
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,360
Brook doesn't hold back.
858
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,800
I don't believe you!
I don't believe you!
859
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,400
I think it's a fake showmance.
860
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:35,880
100% agree.
861
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,040
(APPLAUSE)
Alright, let's go!
862
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:49,280
Green flag, red flag.
863
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,560
Huge opportunity for the boys
to give their feedback
864
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,040
and, in the real world,
865
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,760
I'll always go to my friends for
their take on my relationships.
866
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,480
I see a handsome Nigerian stallion
867
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,040
next to a Barbie doll.
868
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:04,960
I'll start with green flags.
869
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,760
Alissa is very honest,
she's family-orientated.
870
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,800
And family is something
that is very important to me,
871
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,480
so she's really caring,
like, that's all I want.
872
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:16,800
You know, I told you guys
873
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,560
that I wasn't going to get intimate
on the first night
874
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:21,400
and I'm so glad I didn't
875
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,200
because I got to know her
on a deeper level, emotionally,
876
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:25,120
spiritually, mentally.
877
00:38:25,240 --> 00:38:26,000
Good on you.
878
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,600
And two weeks, obviously,
after that,
879
00:38:28,720 --> 00:38:32,840
it just naturally, it felt right,
man, and like I have no regrets.
880
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:34,280
I think that was the best thing
I've ever done
881
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:35,520
coming into this experiment,
882
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,280
just taking my time
to get to know her
883
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,120
and then getting to that, you know?
884
00:38:39,240 --> 00:38:42,200
And yeah, communication
with her is like spot on,
885
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,200
'cause she's honest.
886
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,320
Just an observation, you guys
look great.
887
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:46,400
Like, even when you're talking,
888
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:47,680
she's like looking at you
like when you talk.
889
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,120
Like, just you can tell
how she looks at you.
890
00:38:49,240 --> 00:38:50,240
I can tell, like, she likes you.
891
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:51,760
Absolutely.
892
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:53,120
I have worn my green shirt
893
00:38:53,240 --> 00:38:56,480
which means by default
I am a green flag.
894
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,800
(APPLAUSE)
Thank you.
895
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,120
Babe, go! You're up! You're up!
Alright, thank you.
896
00:39:04,240 --> 00:39:05,840
(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING)
Thanks, guys.
897
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:07,160
Go, Rebecca!
898
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,080
Daddy Steve!
899
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,360
Daddy Steve!
Alright. You ready?
900
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:15,160
Rebecca for president!
901
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:16,760
(LAUGHTER)
902
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,920
When I first saw Steve at the aisle,
903
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:21,680
I was completely wrapped
and taken aback.
904
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,480
So, I've got my silver fox
and I love that for me.
905
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:27,960
Yeah, we just connected. It's like
I've known him for like years,
906
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:31,200
so I love that for us,
and I love his family values.
907
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,360
Like, he's obviously got
his four beautiful girls,
908
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,040
so we have that in common,
so that's really nice for us.
909
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:37,360
Yay!
Nice.
910
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:38,560
We like that.
911
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,400
Green flags are really simple.
912
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,480
Yeah, green flags, there's multiple.
913
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,680
Um, now, red flags. Um...
914
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,200
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
915
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,360
We have spent...
Hang on a second!
916
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,680
What's going on there, brother?
917
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:57,640
What the hell's going on here?
918
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,000
Like, the fact that Steve says,
919
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,720
you know, "I know she's got
some green flags
920
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,480
"but she's got a few reds."
921
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:06,280
And when you say that, it means
like you're on the lower scale
922
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:07,960
of liking the relationship.
923
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:11,760
Rebecca is consistently that person
924
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,920
where needs to be talking
all the time or needs to be,
925
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:16,240
you know, there's no downtime.
926
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,680
Rebecca's humour, I don't understand
some of her humour.
927
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:24,320
It's... Sometimes it's got a bit
of a sexual innuendo to it
928
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:28,880
and I'm very conservative,
so it's just... it seems rude to me.
929
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,360
Rebecca's not my usual type
930
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:33,600
and what I mean by that
931
00:40:33,720 --> 00:40:37,400
is just her personality's
less conservative than mine.
932
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,880
It's quite hard to get my head acros
933
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,120
because at the dinner party,
934
00:40:41,240 --> 00:40:44,440
Rebecca and Steve looked like
proper husband and wife.
935
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:45,960
Like, just the married old couple.
936
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:51,440
On top of that, yeah,
just the emotions,
937
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,560
just her emotions are very high
and very low.
938
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,000
I'm not sure what I'm going
to get. That worries me.
939
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:58,560
You kind of lose a bit of trust
940
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,040
because you're not sure the person
you're waking up next to.
941
00:41:02,720 --> 00:41:06,200
Rebecca's very opinionated,
a bit more outspoken.
942
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,400
I'm not. I'm almost the opposite
of that.
943
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,200
It's just such a shock
that a relationship
944
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,080
that from the outside,
looked very strong
945
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:20,680
had sides that none of us
were seeing is just crazy to me.
946
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,600
Are you playing tonsil hockey?
947
00:41:23,720 --> 00:41:24,960
(LAUGHTER)
948
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:26,560
Have you guys made out?
949
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,680
Are you... OK. What stages
are we at?
950
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:30,800
We haven't been intimate yet.
951
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:32,000
Have you kissed?
952
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,280
Did you play other parts
of the menu?
953
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,200
No, we haven't played
any other parts of the menu but...
954
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,320
So, you've only had appetisers?
955
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,160
We've had a kiss and a cuddle,
that's about it.
956
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:41,320
That's all I'm saying!
957
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,080
OK, OK.
(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING)
958
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,800
Well done, babe.
959
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,960
Steve and I, I'm happy
where we're at.
960
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,120
We're gold and we've got to get
to platinum in a couple of days,
961
00:41:51,240 --> 00:41:52,480
so I'm ready now to go back
to my husband
962
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:53,960
and give him a hug and say,
like, "We've got this."
963
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:55,840
Like, please. We're doing so well.
964
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,320
So, I'm here for it.
965
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:00,400
It's just been a lot.
966
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,320
Rebecca's just a lot in general.
967
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:07,160
But definitely, red flags are,
look, Rebecca, um...
968
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:08,840
She's got to slow it down
a little bit.
969
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,800
And I think her expectations
were getting a little bit high
970
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,040
with intimacy.
971
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,160
I'm quite slow in that process.
972
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,360
Because I need to be sure.
973
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:19,440
I'm trying to do the right thing.
974
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,400
Rebecca's just been a bit impatient
975
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:22,960
and that has affected
our relationship.
976
00:42:24,240 --> 00:42:25,480
That, to me, is a red flag.
977
00:42:32,240 --> 00:42:33,920
Yeah, with intimacy,
978
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:35,400
Rebecca has to slow that down
979
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,640
and understand that the intimacy
and affection
980
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,320
that I'm already showing,
981
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,920
that's all I'm capable of
at this point in time.
982
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,920
Do you still feel positive about
moving forward from the relationship
983
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,440
We had an amazing friendship.
984
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,920
One step forward, two steps back,
you know?
985
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,680
That's where I feel like we're at,
at the moment.
986
00:42:54,720 --> 00:42:55,920
Yeah, I'm quite shocked to hear
987
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,880
that Rebecca and Steve
actually are in the friend zone.
988
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,680
I don't know, I'm not a type of guy
who does friends.
989
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:03,920
It's like you're in it or you're not
990
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,960
(APPLAUSE)
991
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:07,760
Moral of the story, he just went,
"One, two, skip a few",
992
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:09,120
went straight to red flags.
993
00:43:10,240 --> 00:43:11,960
Yeah, you're pretty much in the shit
994
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:13,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
995
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,000
OK, let's give it up for Brook!
996
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:18,680
(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING)
997
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,400
I'm actually really excited
to hear what you have to say.
998
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:21,360
Really?
Yeah.
999
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:22,360
Yeah.
1000
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,440
Alrighty. Chris. Green flags.
1001
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:28,920
He wears his heart on his sleeve.
1002
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,760
I would say we're very honest
with each other.
1003
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:34,920
There's nothing to hide.
1004
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,160
But then I get the ick very fast.
1005
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:42,440
And this can delve
into the red flags.
1006
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,120
You girls have all met Chris.
1007
00:43:46,240 --> 00:43:47,120
He's a handful.
1008
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,000
Loves to have a wine,
loves to have a complain,
1009
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,760
and I will tell him,
"Stop (BLEEP) complaining.
1010
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,320
"Stop being a (BLEEP) diva."
1011
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,160
I will put him in his place.
1012
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,240
But then another red flag...
1013
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,840
And this is what has made me
go into the friend zone.
1014
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,400
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
1015
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,600
I watched his audition videos.
1016
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:16,680
In his videos, he said, "I've got
three red flags, three icks."
1017
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,280
"Fake tan because that makes
girls insecure."
1018
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,000
Oh!
1019
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:23,640
Are you joking?
1020
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,720
The second, clingy girls.
1021
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:27,080
What?
1022
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,120
Well, Chris is a very clingy boy.
1023
00:44:29,240 --> 00:44:30,840
Yeah.
So, he was projecting.
1024
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,480
He was projecting.
1025
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:33,640
And the third...
1026
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1027
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,800
He said, "I hate fat people."
1028
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,240
(GASPS)
1029
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:42,960
Fat people?
1030
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,680
Oh!
1031
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:46,880
Are you joking?
1032
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1033
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,280
BROOK: The final red flag.
1034
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,560
I watched his audition videos.
1035
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,960
He said, "I hate fat people."
1036
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:07,600
(GASPS)
1037
00:45:07,720 --> 00:45:09,120
No!
Fat people?
1038
00:45:09,240 --> 00:45:10,840
Oh!
1039
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,600
Are you joking?
1040
00:45:12,720 --> 00:45:14,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1041
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:15,840
Whoa!
1042
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,720
I wasn't shocked to hear
some derogatory comments
1043
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,320
Chris made about women,
1044
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:22,960
if I'm going to be
completely honest.
1045
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,040
Just something about Chris
that's a bit off for me.
1046
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,800
It's disrespectful to women.
1047
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,000
It's disgusting.
I know.
1048
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:30,560
Horrible.
1049
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:33,640
That is such an unkind thing to say
1050
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,000
that he doesn't like fat people.
1051
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:37,240
Being...
1052
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,800
Being the curviest girl here,
1053
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,040
like, instantly, I just felt
that insecurity
1054
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:44,640
(BLEEP) flare in me
1055
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,880
and it's not OK to say those things.
1056
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:51,440
Why the hell should anyone feel
like a less of a person
1057
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:52,560
just 'cause they're a little bit
bigger than you?
1058
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,440
It's really changed my view
on Chris a bit,
1059
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,960
like, I hate to say it
but it's the truth.
1060
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,560
So, and he goes, "Give me
a brunette skinny girl
1061
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:03,280
"on a silver platter..."
No!
1062
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:04,720
"..and I will be there for her."
1063
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:06,400
(GASPS) Oh!
1064
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:07,920
No!
Are you joking?
1065
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,400
He did not say that!
1066
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:12,880
In... In the bin!
Oh, my god! Chris!
1067
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,280
In the bin!
Oh, my god!
1068
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,920
So, I said to him, "One step
forward, two steps back with you."
1069
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,600
He is like, "But I'm growing
with you."
1070
00:46:23,720 --> 00:46:25,960
But I said to him, "I don't want
to grow with you, babe.
1071
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,880
"I want you to be that person."
1072
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:29,280
Be a man!
Be grown!
1073
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,360
I want to meet you grown!
1074
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:35,960
Girls, all I want to say is, like,
I didn't come here to train a boy.
1075
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,360
And if it was me
on the outside world,
1076
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:40,880
I would tap out.
Yeah.
1077
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,440
But he's learning so much,
1078
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,320
he's never been like this
with a girl.
1079
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:48,800
And this is where
I'm struggling with
1080
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:50,440
and this is where I'm like,
do I tap out?
1081
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,400
Hmm. Yeah.
1082
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:56,000
I said, "You go and tell your mum
what you said on camera
1083
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:57,920
"'cause you look like
a (BLEEP) piece of shit."
1084
00:46:58,040 --> 00:46:59,640
Yeah. Yeah. Go, girl.
1085
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,560
(APPLAUSE)
OK!
1086
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:04,840
(CHEERING)
1087
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:06,920
I'm very undecided right now.
1088
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,400
There is a connection,
there is something there with Chris.
1089
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:14,600
But if he's not ready to step up,
1090
00:47:14,720 --> 00:47:17,080
then what's my - what's the point
of this?
1091
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,760
(LIVELY MUSIC)
1092
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:22,720
Stella!
1093
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:24,160
Stella!
1094
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,440
Oh, god. This is so intimidating!
1095
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:27,720
(LAUGHS)
1096
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:29,000
Green flags first.
1097
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,160
Green flags! Start with the good!
1098
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,640
Right, so Filip and I,
we communicate well.
1099
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,000
It's ridiculous how well
we communicate.
1100
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:40,160
He's deep, we are attracted
to each other.
1101
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:43,120
I didn't ask for any physicalities
in the person.
1102
00:47:43,240 --> 00:47:45,240
I asked for a kind heart,
kind soul.
1103
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:46,400
No expectations.
1104
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:47,280
No expectations.
I love that.
1105
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:53,520
And I feel like I got an old soul
in a really hot body. Like...
1106
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:54,600
(LAUGHTER)
1107
00:47:54,720 --> 00:47:56,760
Um...
Are you wearing the Chanel watch?
1108
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:00,080
Um, right. So...
1109
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:01,640
It is, isn't it? It is.
1110
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:04,360
Red flags...
1111
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,000
Are there any?
1112
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:07,120
Well, that's the thing. Like...
there's not...
1113
00:48:07,240 --> 00:48:09,360
There has to be, I'm sorry.
I'm calling bullshit.
1114
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:12,560
I'm sorry!
1115
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,240
Surely, he gets on your nerves
at times.
1116
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:16,600
No.
1117
00:48:16,720 --> 00:48:18,160
I don't believe you!
What? At all?
1118
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:19,280
I don't believe you!
1119
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:20,680
I'm sorry!
1120
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:21,960
There is no way!
1121
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,800
Surely, he gets on your nerves!
1122
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:26,200
Yeah, Brook surprised me.
1123
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,840
Just the way she was speaking,
pretty disrespectful.
1124
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:30,600
And at that point,
I was kind of like,
1125
00:48:30,720 --> 00:48:32,800
yeah, I don't know about you.
1126
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:36,560
I'm proceeding. You all good?
She's doing her!
1127
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,400
Um, right, so...
1128
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,080
Yet we have to have a fight,
1129
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,080
we haven't fought yet.
1130
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,120
Yet we have to have a disagreement.
1131
00:48:43,240 --> 00:48:45,680
At the moment, there is nothing
I can list bad about him.
1132
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:46,840
So, you haven't had a disagreement?
1133
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:48,200
We haven't had a disagreement.
1134
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:49,280
Are you shaggin'?
1135
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:50,520
Yes.
They're shagging a lot.
1136
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:52,000
Yeah, they are, they are.
1137
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:53,320
Stella said she was in love
1138
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,560
picking out baby names
at the dinner party.
1139
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,120
(LAUGHTER)
1140
00:48:57,240 --> 00:48:58,840
They're going to have a baby, guys!
1141
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,600
I liked the way that you guys were
interacting at the dinner party
1142
00:49:04,720 --> 00:49:05,720
when you are talking
about each other...
1143
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,120
But I also think that...
Hang on babe, I'm not finished.
1144
00:49:08,240 --> 00:49:10,480
When you are sitting together.
1145
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:11,680
Do we want to be here all day?
1146
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:13,240
'Cause Alissa will finish then.
1147
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:19,360
Are you done?
Are you done?
1148
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:20,800
Are you done?
Are you?
1149
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,840
I was watching Alissa talk.
1150
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:25,800
I'm like, zip it!
1151
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,800
Anyway, I just loved the way
that you guys were communicating
1152
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,960
and I feel like you're in
the right direction.
1153
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:32,960
Yay!
1154
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:34,840
Alissa is the expert.
1155
00:49:38,720 --> 00:49:40,920
Brook was just trying to like provok
1156
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,120
but not letting the person
who was sharing speak.
1157
00:49:44,240 --> 00:49:45,920
And it's this kind of
bitchy behaviour,
1158
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,600
it just makes me feel
a little bit uncomfortable.
1159
00:49:48,720 --> 00:49:51,480
I have never had that much
connection with a person.
1160
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:55,400
I have never had that much
intimacy with a person.
1161
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:57,480
Wow!
Yay!
1162
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,120
Good on you!
Girl!
1163
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:03,960
(BLOWS RASPBERRY)
1164
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:05,480
Are we good? We covered?
1165
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:10,200
Yeah.
1166
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,560
I definitely saw a different side
of Brook.
1167
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:16,680
She's very feisty.
1168
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:20,280
Like, she's very icy.
It feels like...
1169
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,080
..maybe a lack of empathy in her.
1170
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,880
I don't know what it is
but she felt very cold.
1171
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:29,000
We good? Yeah.
1172
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:33,360
It's obvious, anyone that is
the real deal can see it.
1173
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,640
And the fact she struggled
to pick out a red flag
1174
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,920
is absolutely bonkers to me.
1175
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,840
My (BLEEP) arse, you can't
figure out a red flag.
1176
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,160
My arse.
1177
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,880
So fake, so fake.
1178
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,400
I don't really care
what they're saying
1179
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:52,400
because that's how they project,
that's a projection.
1180
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:54,600
Because they probably feel,
1181
00:50:54,720 --> 00:50:57,200
A, either they are not there
for the right reasons
1182
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,080
or their partners are not there
for the right reasons,
1183
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:00,720
and they truly know that.
1184
00:51:06,240 --> 00:51:07,400
NARRATOR: With most of the brides
1185
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:11,080
having gone through the red and gree
flags in their relationship,
1186
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,920
it's now Alissa's turn.
1187
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:14,720
Alissa!
1188
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,920
Yay! It's my turn!
1189
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:21,720
So, we started with green.
1190
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:23,320
Green flags.
Oh, you're going straight in!
1191
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:24,200
I love this. Green flags.
1192
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:28,240
Green flags, so in my wedding vows,
1193
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,040
Davis listened to everything
that I needed.
1194
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:31,960
Like, date nights once a week,
1195
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:33,960
good-morning, and good-night kisses.
1196
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,840
And he...
Dragon breath.
1197
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,600
He took me on dates
1198
00:51:40,720 --> 00:51:42,520
and I was saying I wanted to do
the Titanic exhibition.
1199
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,000
He's like, "Babe, just so you know,
I've booked it."
1200
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,600
Oh!
I say, oh, damn! He listens.
1201
00:51:46,720 --> 00:51:47,520
He just...
1202
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:50,280
He is kind. He's house proud.
1203
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:51,840
But, like, have you (BLEEP) yet?
1204
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:55,880
Oh, my god!
1205
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:58,160
No, listen to my story.
1206
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,200
But sorry, but have you?
I'm curious.
1207
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:01,280
Shh!
1208
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,120
Listen to my story.
1209
00:52:04,240 --> 00:52:06,240
So, I was literally sitting there
doing some work.
1210
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:07,800
So, no.
1211
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:09,000
Girls, shut the (BLEEP) up.
1212
00:52:10,720 --> 00:52:11,680
Like, listen.
1213
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,080
OK, so I was doing some work.
1214
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:16,280
He's vacuumed, mopped the floor.
1215
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:17,520
Yes.
1216
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,840
Put a load of washing on,
put the washing in the dryer,
1217
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,360
and I'm just sitting there,
like, oh! OK!
1218
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,560
Which is, like, tick, tick, tick!
1219
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:30,160
And our communication
is second to none. So, we...
1220
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:31,280
So, it's all rainbows
and butterflies
1221
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:32,800
and he shits rainbows?
1222
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:35,000
(LAUGHS)
1223
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:37,120
No, let her talk, let her talk!
1224
00:52:37,240 --> 00:52:38,160
This is my moment.
1225
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,640
Yeah, go. Go, honey. Go.
Yes. Go, girl.
1226
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:43,760
We have talked about the good,
the bad, the ugly, the fugly...
1227
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:44,960
Really?
1228
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:46,440
Really?
..the shit, the nasty.
1229
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:47,840
Whoa, let's give her a chance!
1230
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:48,760
Yeah.
1231
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,640
Our communication, like I said,
is second to none.
1232
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:51,840
We talked it through.
1233
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:54,680
Brook was definitely a lot more voca
1234
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:58,320
than I have ever experienced
with Brook, to be completely honest.
1235
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:00,200
Like, "I've got something to say,
I've got something to say."
1236
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,600
We should actually be giving
all the respect to each other
1237
00:53:02,720 --> 00:53:04,120
and actually just listen,
1238
00:53:04,240 --> 00:53:05,760
like, hold space for each other
1239
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:07,080
and let each other speak.
1240
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,040
OK, red flags.
1241
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,000
Oh, tell us.
1242
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:14,240
OK, let's go.
Are you ready for it?
1243
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:15,280
(BLEEP) yeah, you are.
1244
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:16,840
Look at you thirsty bitches.
1245
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:18,680
(LAUGHTER)
Get a drink. You might need one.
1246
00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:21,360
Alright, so I woke up
and I said to David,
1247
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,560
"I'm just not feeling myself today."
1248
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:27,720
And I felt emotional and I said,
"It's got nothing to do with you."
1249
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,360
We had some breathing space
for the day, OK?
1250
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:31,880
We got back together
in the afternoon.
1251
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:33,040
We had a debrief,
1252
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,640
and what he said,
you're going to die.
1253
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:37,480
Sorry, girls.
1254
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:40,080
He said I was a bit
of a drama queen.
1255
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:41,920
Yeah, yeah.
1256
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,960
(LAUGHTER)
1257
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,840
Like, this is literally what I came
in for and he is like...
1258
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:51,440
Yeah, but have you guys had sex?
Have you had sex?
1259
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:52,960
Yes! We've had sex!
1260
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:54,120
Oh, OK.
1261
00:53:54,240 --> 00:53:55,720
We've had sex!
1262
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:58,120
Like, and it was hot and it was
just - it was natural for us.
1263
00:53:58,240 --> 00:54:00,720
We hear from our husbands.
We hear from our husbands.
1264
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:01,760
At the bucks,
1265
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:04,720
your husband was saying
that he is not having sex
1266
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:07,520
throughout this whole situation,
la, la, la, la.
1267
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:09,040
"I'm not having sex, end of."
1268
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:12,080
We both made a pact,
we wanted connection
1269
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,400
and when it felt right and for us,
that was our moment.
1270
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,040
That felt right and it was amazing.
1271
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:18,920
And go you.
1272
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,560
'Cause I will say, I think
it's a fake showmance.
1273
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:23,880
100% agree.
1274
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:25,840
I'm sorry, got to agree.
1275
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:27,720
What do you mean?
1276
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,680
Be real, guys. Like, do you agree?
1277
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,320
Stop with the facade though!
1278
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,200
I was thinking, I was, like, surely,
this is too good to be true.
1279
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:38,400
Yeah.
After the dinner party,
1280
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,080
I thought it was bullshit.
Yeah.
1281
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,200
I did.
Yeah.
1282
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,880
I thought it was bullshit.
Yeah, I agree. I agree.
1283
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:46,320
I didn't think it was bullshit!
1284
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,240
I didn't think it! I didn't think it
1285
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:52,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1286
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:53,880
Brook was coming at me.
1287
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,880
I feel like it wasn't called for.
I don't think that was necessary.
1288
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:01,960
I did not get that at all.
1289
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:06,000
That hurt my heart, hey.
1290
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:10,240
Calling her fake, her relationship
was for show.
1291
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:11,920
I didn't get that at all.
1292
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,840
I was sitting next to them
at the dinner party
1293
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:16,200
and we were talking
1294
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,440
and I think Alissa and David's
relationship
1295
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:20,240
is it's a true love story
1296
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:21,920
and I think they're both
lucky to have it.
1297
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,600
Yes! Yes!
1298
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:30,320
I have a different experience
of you with you, Alissa.
1299
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:31,960
OK.
And I just want to let you know
1300
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:33,720
that, like, yeah, you came in
at hens,
1301
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:35,320
and you had presence.
Big energy.
1302
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:37,200
And, like, I'll be honest,
I found it quite intimidating.
1303
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:38,800
But I didn't get to speak to you
at all.
1304
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:39,880
I know.
1305
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:41,840
As soon as I came
into that dinner party,
1306
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:43,440
you grabbed me, you sat down,
1307
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:44,920
and we had a conversation
1308
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,960
and Steve and I didn't have
a great honeymoon,
1309
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:49,840
and you instantly put me at ease.
1310
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:52,280
You instantly showed me kindness.
1311
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:53,960
You gave me what I needed.
1312
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,720
So, please don't go out of here
thinking
1313
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:58,840
that everyone's thinking that.
1314
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:00,680
I just think that you're
a beautiful human.
1315
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:06,440
Look, I will say with Alissa,
initial judgements is like, oh, OK.
1316
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:08,400
Maybe it's just a performance, you
know,
1317
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:10,040
but it's just the way she speaks.
1318
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:11,320
It's just who she is.
1319
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:12,880
(APPLAUSE)
1320
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:14,840
And I'm not fake, bitches!
1321
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:16,400
(LAUGHTER)
1322
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:19,720
I know!
1323
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:21,840
Sit up straight.
1324
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:27,160
I feel like Brook and Gia
did come on a little bit hard on me.
1325
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,480
Maybe, I don't know, I've upset
them in some sort of way.
1326
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,760
Maybe I'm too loud for them
but it is me.
1327
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:37,160
It's not all rainbows
and butterflies
1328
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:38,000
and I'm (BLEEP) over it.
1329
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:39,520
I think that Alissa is theatrical
1330
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:42,000
and I think she sugarcoats
everything
1331
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:45,080
and I think that relationship's fake
and I don't trust Alissa.
1332
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:47,320
That's it.
1333
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:59,120
NARRATOR: The Red Flag, Green Flag
task is coming to a close...
1334
00:56:59,240 --> 00:57:00,840
Alright, Alissa!
1335
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:05,040
..and it's time for our final couple
to flag the successes
1336
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:08,360
and any issues they have
in their relationship.
1337
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:12,920
Um, I'll start with green flags.
1338
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:18,120
Mel does have that capacity
to be empathetic,
1339
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:19,760
caring, that kind of nature.
1340
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,240
I feel like she can have
a very pleasant and sweet
1341
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:25,920
kind of aura about her.
1342
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,640
And I feel like that's nice.
1343
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:33,280
Red flags. Um...
1344
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:43,800
Yeah, I don't know what to say
for the red flags.
1345
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,320
I feel like you're holding back
from something.
1346
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,240
Just be yourself.
Just say it.
1347
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:53,760
Yeah.
1348
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:57,640
It's been tough.
1349
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:02,920
I feel like I've really tried
to make it work
1350
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:04,960
and, like, I've just gotten
an absolutely nowhere.
1351
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:09,800
That's been, like, just a really
tough pill to swallow.
1352
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:12,040
Exhausting, yeah? Yeah.
Yeah, exhausting
1353
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,280
and I feel like she's just been
pushing me away from day dot,
1354
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,320
which, like, sucks.
1355
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:18,600
That's tough.
1356
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:19,840
I'm just in this position
1357
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,680
where like I'm trying
to make it work
1358
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:23,680
and I'm just getting
like blanked out.
1359
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:25,200
Like, I don't even exist.
1360
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,200
I would imagine you must feel
so alone.
1361
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:30,720
Oh, mate.
Yeah, alone,
1362
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,400
even, like, Mel's body language
towards me,
1363
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,320
like, I've... I noticed Mel
at the dinner party
1364
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:39,800
and I've noticed her, like, dealing
with anyone else except for me,
1365
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,040
she's very, like, cold to me.
1366
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,000
I mean, you'd think that she'd be
giving the best energy to me
1367
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:47,320
'cause like we're in this together.
1368
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:48,640
Yeah.
1369
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,000
But for whatever reason it is,
1370
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:52,400
like, I haven't received
any of that.
1371
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:56,160
So, how can I believe
that she's trying?
1372
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:57,920
Oh, mate. You can't.
1373
00:58:58,040 --> 00:58:59,240
That's horrible.
1374
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:02,480
I really feel for Luke
1375
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:04,760
because you can tell
that he's a broken man
1376
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:08,080
and you can literally feel the pain
coming out of him.
1377
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:11,840
I feel like my confidence
has just been, you know...
1378
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:12,800
That's one thing.
1379
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:14,520
That's one thing I wanted to say
1380
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:15,760
is, like, when I met you
at the bucks party,
1381
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:17,960
I was like, this bloke
has got that swagger.
1382
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,560
You know what I mean? And I said,
if I was a woman,
1383
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:21,800
I'd be looking for a bloke
like Luke.
1384
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:24,600
Like, he's built, he's handsome,
he's a farmer.
1385
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:26,120
I sound like... (LAUGHS)
I sound like I'm keen.
1386
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,560
(LAUGHTER)
1387
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:32,760
At least we know your type.
1388
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:34,160
(LAUGHTER)
1389
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:35,880
Seeing you at the dinner party,
1390
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:38,560
I've never seen, like, someone
take a hit like that.
1391
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,040
Like, it was like you'd been smacked
to the chin.
1392
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:44,560
Don't let it take away like
that thing what makes you you.
1393
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:46,120
Yeah. I appreciate it.
Do you know what I mean?
1394
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:49,200
Luke's obviously in a tough spot.
1395
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,040
It's pretty brutal.
1396
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:53,040
He... Yeah.
1397
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,080
He looks defeated.
1398
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,120
And I'm in a position now
1399
00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:00,840
where, like, I genuinely feel
like I can't trust her, so like...
1400
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:02,400
That's tough.
1401
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:05,320
I can see he's really hurting.
1402
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:07,480
He's a really emotionally
in-tune guy.
1403
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:09,000
It's really unfortunate for him
1404
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,080
that his partner is not willing
to open up
1405
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:13,440
and, you know, how does she know
that this guy
1406
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:16,640
isn't the one for her when she's not
actually opening up to him?
1407
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:28,560
Unfortunately, where we are
at now...
1408
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:31,480
..there is no green flags.
1409
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:34,400
None?
None.
1410
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1411
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,480
Let's go to the reds.
Don't pressure yourself.
1412
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:47,040
His red flags, because I don't have
feelings for him,
1413
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:49,000
he's made my life a living hell.
1414
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:51,200
Oh, my god.
1415
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:53,600
He's trying to be malicious to me
like every chance he gets.
1416
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:54,800
(GASPS)
1417
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:57,320
Can I have a say?
1418
01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:58,960
Yes.
1419
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,640
I think he's not here
for the right reasons.
1420
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,760
Oh!
1421
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:07,720
He's there telling his sisters
all this drama
1422
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:09,720
and they're going online
and slandering Mel.
1423
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:11,160
What?
1424
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:12,640
Was this in comments?
1425
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:14,800
I don't know any of this.
This is new.
1426
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:17,240
It was hard for me to read comments
about myself
1427
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:20,320
from his friends and family
on social media
1428
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:23,000
and I think that if he could have
a voodoo doll of me, he would.
1429
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,280
Luke's constantly told me,
"You're not easy-going,
1430
01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:28,360
"you're uptight, you're regimented."
1431
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,960
Wait, what?
1432
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:32,120
Another red flag
1433
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,680
is when he doesn't like
what I've said
1434
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:36,040
or the energy in the apartment,
1435
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:38,640
he sulks, lying face first
on the bed.
1436
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:39,600
Whoa!
1437
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:41,720
That is a lot to digest.
1438
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:43,000
Yeah, that is a lot.
1439
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,720
He hates me so much
that he's trying to find any reason
1440
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:48,920
just to be mean
1441
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:52,680
but the only thing I've done
is not have feelings for him back.
1442
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:54,280
He doesn't hate you, honey.
1443
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:56,840
No, his ego is so bruised
1444
01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:58,960
that he has to bring you down now
1445
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:00,480
to make himself, like, compensate
for that.
1446
01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:01,960
100%.
1447
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:04,240
I don't know about what I heard.
1448
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:05,880
Like, Mel is really sweet
1449
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,680
but then hearing her say
that Luke is quite rude to her
1450
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:10,840
behind closed doors,
1451
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:13,360
I don't know whether I'm buying that
to be honest.
1452
01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:17,800
The Luke I know and that I've sort o
got to know at the dinner party,
1453
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:20,960
he seems really lovely. So...
1454
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:25,160
I don't know. I don't know,
it's not sitting well with me.
1455
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:30,080
I feel like you were a bit salty
at the start
1456
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:31,400
and he's obviously salty now
1457
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:34,520
because, you know, vice versa,
it's gone both ways.
1458
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:36,800
There's a rejection ping-pong.
1459
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:38,800
You got hurt, he got hurt.
1460
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:40,440
And you don't know
how to deal with that.
1461
01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:42,720
Yeah, obviously, I'm looking out
for my girl
1462
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:44,120
'cause I've got your back.
No, you're not,
1463
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:45,600
you're acting like
you're on the man's side
1464
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:47,600
and fuck that. We're girls' girls.
No, no. I'm...
1465
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,720
We heard shit...
No, I'm literally saying...
1466
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:51,640
It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter
1467
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:52,840
Girls' girls. Boys' boys.
1468
01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:53,960
There's humans.
1469
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:58,280
Because a relationship is 50-50,
love.
1470
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:01,040
No.
It's not a 50-50!
1471
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:03,920
We need both of you speaking
at the same time.
1472
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:06,040
Get all the facts first.
1473
01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:09,400
No. No, no, no!
1474
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:13,280
There's always two sides
of the story.
1475
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:16,720
Let's just not bash each other.
1476
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:19,760
Just wait until you speak
in front of each other
1477
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,080
in front of everyone else
and keep each other accountable.
1478
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:24,680
Babe, the thing with him
1479
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:26,600
is you need to stand up
for yourself, babe,
1480
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:30,080
and do not sit there
and let this boy tear you down.
1481
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:32,520
You need to bring this shit up
at the commitment ceremony
1482
01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:35,080
because we need to all,
like, we got you.
1483
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:36,640
It's like, what if he lies?
1484
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:37,920
He'll be called out.
1485
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:41,200
If this is just a rejection wound,
then he'll be called out on that.
1486
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:42,800
We've got you.
We've got you.
1487
01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:44,000
Oh, I'm scared.
1488
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:46,360
(APPLAUSE)
We got you! Don't worry!
1489
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:52,400
I am so happy and so appreciative
1490
01:03:52,520 --> 01:03:54,680
to have the support
of the other brides.
1491
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:55,760
You've got this, babe.
1492
01:03:55,880 --> 01:04:00,640
But I feel like what Stella
said to me was really unfair.
1493
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:03,400
She told me that, you know,
every situation is 50-50.
1494
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,240
I will back you. No, we will
back you.
1495
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:08,840
I didn't feel like Stella had
my back in that situation.
1496
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,800
OK, so girls, it's been great.
Thank you, I'm out.
1497
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:13,200
Alright, let's go.
1498
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:14,640
Back to our husbands!
1499
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:16,040
I'm taking that photo.
1500
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:19,560
Can I just say, Mel...
Mel, has something to say.
1501
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:21,000
I do.
1502
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:24,880
Stella, for every other woman here,
you were on their side
1503
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:28,120
but I was the only one that you
said, "You have to go 50-50.
1504
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:29,760
"There's two sides to every story."
1505
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:31,160
Always, babe.
1506
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:33,040
But you didn't say that
to anybody else.
1507
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:36,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1508
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,000
Stella, for every other woman here,
you were on their side.
1509
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:52,880
But I was the only one that you
said, "You have to go 50-50.
1510
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:54,800
"There's two sides to every story."
1511
01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:56,080
Always, babe.
1512
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:57,960
But you didn't say that
to anybody else.
1513
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1514
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:04,400
I said...
No, you didn't.
1515
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:05,240
OK.
1516
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:06,600
I saw the same thing.
1517
01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:07,920
We all backed Mel
1518
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:10,080
and you were kind of trying
to like take the guy's side
1519
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:11,680
and, like, let's see both sides.
1520
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:15,560
I don't think it's valid,
but I'll take it on board.
1521
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:19,760
Gia and I can vouch for this.
1522
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:21,240
We're girls' girls...
Yeah, same.
1523
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,080
..and you were very women,
women, women,
1524
01:05:23,200 --> 01:05:26,960
and then it was Mel
and that's how Mel felt.
1525
01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:29,320
I didn't feel supported.
1526
01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:33,920
Stella is a girl that, like, backs
men more than she does women
1527
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:35,240
and it's really gross.
1528
01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:38,800
She didn't back Mel
which made me feel yuck.
1529
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:39,920
We get it, you don't have friends.
1530
01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:41,160
We get that girls don't like you.
1531
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:42,480
You don't need to, like, scream it.
1532
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:43,760
Like, it's very obvious.
1533
01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:45,640
So, let's validate Mel.
1534
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:49,840
Yes. OK, I apologise, Mel.
Look, I apologise, Mel.
1535
01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:51,440
I didn't even realise.
1536
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:53,080
Did you realise that?
1537
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,240
I thought she was quite diplomatic
with everyone.
1538
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:56,600
No, she wasn't!
1539
01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:02,320
I'm a girls' girl.
Trust me, I'm a girls' girl.
1540
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:06,120
And I think you can see who actually
has each other's backs.
1541
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:08,760
I am iffy about Stella.
1542
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:10,320
I smell a (BLEEP) fish.
1543
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:12,400
I don't trust her.
1544
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:16,240
But you're also someone
that I think you are like,
1545
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:19,400
"OK, there's no red flags
with my husband."
1546
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:22,200
But your husband is also
one of the one guys here
1547
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,560
that has a YouTube channel
trying to promote himself
1548
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:26,080
but you're saying he's here
for the right reasons.
1549
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:27,880
100%.
1550
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:33,720
Look, again, everyone's perception,
right, everyone's opinions are valid
1551
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:35,800
and I apologise if you actually
felt that way.
1552
01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:39,440
Look, I really genuinely apologise
if you felt that way, babe.
1553
01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:41,200
I really do, I really do.
I just wanted to let you know
1554
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:42,520
how I was feeling, genuinely.
I really do.
1555
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:45,080
Yeah, I really do apologise
if I ever made you feel that way.
1556
01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:46,240
Like, it's not my intention.
1557
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:48,200
I literally believe
in any relationship
1558
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:49,720
there's always 50-50.
1559
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:51,360
And, you know, I love you.
1560
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:55,280
I'm not going to lie,
I felt a little bit attacked.
1561
01:06:56,000 --> 01:07:00,080
But I truly, deeply,
like, apologised
1562
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:03,040
Mel really felt unsupported because
that's definitely not my intention.
1563
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:07,640
I don't personally agree
with girls' girls
1564
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:10,080
or boys' boys concept in general.
1565
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:12,040
Like, I just don't agree with that.
1566
01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:17,640
I was definitely holding space
for both Luke and Mel.
1567
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:21,920
It just felt like Mel was saying,
"Luke did that, Luke did that,
1568
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:23,320
"Luke did that, Luke did that,
1569
01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:25,400
and I'm like, but there's two people
1570
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:27,240
There's always two people, you know?
1571
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:31,440
It's just so unfair and invalid
just to bash him.
1572
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,560
It's always, always two sides
of the story.
1573
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:36,160
Alright, whoo!
1574
01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:38,720
That was good. I needed to vent.
1575
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:40,400
I was sick of being nice girl.
1576
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:42,560
You were. You owned it today.
1577
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:46,400
I can say, this whole experiment
so far,
1578
01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:49,640
I've been so true to myself
and saying what I actually feel.
1579
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:53,920
Because I don't care anymore
and this is the thing.
1580
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:56,640
I was all for caring about
what people thought
1581
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:58,800
and I've just thought,
you know what?
1582
01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:01,840
People love me for me
and I'm my truest self.
1583
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:06,160
Because I just see so much fakeness
going around and I'm over it.
1584
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:11,040
And now, I feel like I'm on fire.
1585
01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:15,080
NARRATOR: Sunday night...
1586
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:20,280
Who will stay and who will leave
1587
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:23,720
at the very first commitment ceremon
of the experiment?
1588
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:25,680
How's it going?
1589
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:28,120
Very happy. Nothing but progress.
1590
01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:32,160
NARRATOR: Steve's positive spin
leaves everyone confused.
1591
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,200
Nothing wrong.
Connection, everything.
1592
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:36,840
NARRATOR: But the experts
aren't buying it.
1593
01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:38,120
What's going on for you, Rebecca?
1594
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:42,720
NARRATOR: Mel is delivered
some tough love.
1595
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:44,280
You need a wake-up call.
1596
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:46,920
Hi! (LAUGHS)
1597
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:48,760
I really like Steven.
1598
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:50,160
You are so special.
1599
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:53,520
NARRATOR: Romantic connections
will be celebrated.
1600
01:08:53,640 --> 01:08:55,360
Things are fantastic.
1601
01:08:55,480 --> 01:08:56,480
Yeah, we're going great.
1602
01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:58,800
I'm fully into her, like,
I'm kissing her all the time.
1603
01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:01,400
You think he could be
a soulmate for you?
1604
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:04,560
If we're heading the way
we're heading, yes.
1605
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:09,200
But I feel like not everyone
likes your happiness.
1606
01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:11,360
NARRATOR: Brook lashes out...
1607
01:09:11,480 --> 01:09:13,280
You can't blame me for that.
1608
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,280
Get me out of here.
No one cares!
1609
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:16,440
We'll just bring it back down.
1610
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:19,360
..derailing the entire commitment
ceremony.
1611
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,920
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