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[birds chirping]
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[closing thermos]
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[squeaking]
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[birds continue chirping]
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- [shouts] Whoa-ho! Woo!
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♪ Peace Like a River
by Paul Simon playing ♪
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♪ Ahh ♪
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♪ Peace like a river
ran through the city ♪
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[spinning]
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♪ Long past the midnight curfew ♪
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♪ We sat starry-eyed ♪
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♪ Ahoh, ahoh, we were satisfied ♪
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[insects chirping]
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[door opens]
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- Johnny Bear! Aw. How you doin'?
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JOHN: Ma, I have to wash my hands.
- [giggles] Go ahead.
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Dinner's ready.
Have a seat when you're done.
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JOHN: Okay.
[clangs]
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[running water]
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- I saw you riding your bike
out the window.
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[water stops]
You were going a million miles per hour.
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- I wasn't going that fast.
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ALICE: How far'd you go?
- Just to the creek.
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- [laughs] Just to the creek?
That's almost 10 miles away.
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Do you know that?
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You should ride in
the Tour de France. Yes!
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- Seriously?
[serving]
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- I have never seen someone
as good as you are at your age.
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[door shuts]
BART: As good as what?
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- Just riding his bike.
I was just saying how great he is.
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- Yeah, I saw, uh, your bike outside.
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The chain is on wrong.
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- Hmm. No, it's not.
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- Hm. Num-num.
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- Soup's gonna be good.
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♪ I've seen a glorious day ♪
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♪ Ahee-ee-ee-ee-eeee-ee ♪
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♪ Ee-ee-ee-ee ♪
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[chopping]
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BETH: I kinda wanna
talk to you about something.
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JOHN:
Soup's gonna be good.
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Alright.
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This is an early prototype.
- Whoa.
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Thank you.
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Okay. [slurps] Mm.
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It's really good.
JOHN: Yeah? You think it's spicy?
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[door knocking]
- Mm-mm.
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- Hey, John, Beth.
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- Hi.
- Hey, did you harvest that watercress?
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- Yes, and your boat's fine.
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It smells really good.
JOHN: Want some soup?
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- It's delicious.
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- [sighs] Shit, can't.
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Have to run and play
some pickleball with some friends.
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You guys wanna join?
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- Um, we can't. We have to--
JOHN: We can,
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but we don't want to. Beth and I both
think that pickleball is stupid.
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It's an embarrassment
to the game of tennis.
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- Uh, okay. Um, yeah.
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Uh, watercress is up in the main kitchen.
Bye, guys.
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JOHN: See ya later.
- Bye.
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SKYLER: See ya.
[door shuts]
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- John.
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- Did you see that dogwood out front?
It's startin' to bloom.
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You know, a lotta people
don't realize that its fruit is edible.
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- You didn't have
to say all that to Skyler.
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I was gonna make something up to be nice.
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- Is it nice to lie?
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- Sometimes.
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- Soup's gonna be good.
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[phone ringing]
- Pharmacy department, how may I help you?
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- Hey, LaVar.
- Ha, Beth!
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What has you callin' me mid-shift
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at this soul-crushin' chain
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that threatens my mental health every day?
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What do you want?
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- Well, I just, ya know, wanted to
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say hi and actually, um,
check in with you about
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this new, uh, drug commercial.
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It was for
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I wanna say migraines.
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It's, like, Soltrex?
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- That is the worst fake drug name
I've ever heard. What do you want?
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- Okay, well,
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I know your son has Asperger's, right?
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- Asperger was a doctor
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who was canceled
for havin' Nazi ties.
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The correct name is
Autism Spectrum Disorder.
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ASD. Not today, Douyon.
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- Well, what day then?
- No days!
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Is this about John?
Is this why you callin'?
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- Oh, um--
- This is why I love my son.
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The same reason you love John.
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It's because they say what they damn mean.
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Now, quit wastin' my time,
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and call my wife
and get some phone numbers.
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- Thank you.
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[sighs]
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- Hey, LaVar!
LAVAR: Hey, Jen!
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That was just Beth on the phone.
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- Aw, that's nice.
- Oh, wow.
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Another hydrocodone, huh?
Is it from that bowlin' injury?
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- Right? You thought I'd
be better by now, right?
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- Hm.
- It's really frustrating.
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- It's pretty interesting. Yeah.
JEN: Yeah. Nice to see you, too.
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I'm gonna take a loop. [giggles]
- Hey, good to see you.
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[laughs]
- Always!
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Okay, bye-bye.
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JUDGE JUDY [on TV]:
Do you have photographs of the damage--
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SPEAKER 1 [on TV]: Yes, he has photos.
- ...is my question. May I see them?
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SPEAKER 1:
He has photos of the damage.
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- I also have pictures of my ferrets
if you'd like to see them.
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- I don't care to see pictures.
I know what ferrets look like.
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- This show is lawless.
- Mm-hm.
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SPEAKER 2 [on TV]: And Brandon here
is the one that took the pictures.
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JUDGE JUDY:
Listen--
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[static]
- Oh, shit. The cable's doing it again.
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[barely audible TV chatter]
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- You can basically see what's happening.
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- No, I'm gonna call the cable company.
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- I can take care of it.
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- Really?
- Definitely.
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It's just a poor connection.
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Simple fix.
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[toolbelt jingling]
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- Yeah, I don't know.
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- Well, would you rather pay somebody
to come here 10 days from now,
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four hours later than they said,
and charge you $3,500 for it?
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- Yeah.
- I got it.
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I'm not gonna get
electrocuted or anything.
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[door shuts]
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[door creaks]
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- Okay. No. Nope. This doesn't feel safe.
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- It's not that high.
I go into higher trees all the time.
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- Well, can you stop? C-- I--
- It'll be quick.
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- M-May I implore you
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that we just get someone over here
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that does this for their living?
- Why don't you believe in me?
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- [scoff] This is--
You're not a cable guy!
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[sighs]
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[static]
- I've had Terry for five,
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six months at a time.
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- You can at least see
what's going on now.
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This guy wants joint custody
over this woman's dog or dad.
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[people argue on TV]
- Yeah.
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[arguing continues]
It's chilly in here.
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You cold? You want a sweatshirt?
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- I'm fine.
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SPEAKER [on TV]:
Larry needs to get a new dog and a life.
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[overlapping chatter]
[buzz, puts down remote]
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- May I ask you a question?
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- Mm-hm.
- Okay.
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And you can, like, 100% say no
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...to this.
- Okay.
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- Okay, so,
[clanking spoon]
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[sighs] ...um,
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what I'm wondering is
just are you interested,
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or, uh,
[water running]
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...in learning more about your brain?
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[stops water]
- Yeah, sure.
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[clangs]
In what way?
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- There are these online tests
where you can find out
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if you're, like, maybe on, on the
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Autism spectrum or whatever.
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[puts down bowl]
- Do you think I'm autistic?
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- Maybe. I,
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I don't know. I just think it
could be helpful for us to know.
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You know, for you or for us.
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Like, th-there's these online tests.
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They're by no means
a way of getting diagnosed.
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They're just, you know,
could give us a general sense
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of if we even wanna pursue it.
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- Cool. Okay, let's do it.
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- Yeah? O-Okay. Um.
- Yeah.
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- Okay. Okay.
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- "I tend to get fixated on tasks.
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Strongly agree, somewhat agree,
somewhat disagree, strongly disagree."
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Is that a bad thing?
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If you have something to do,
isn't it good to work hard?
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- Yeah. Yeah, and it's not bad or good.
It's just-- It's a thing. It's just
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...a question, you know?
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- "Sometimes people say I am being rude
even though I think I am being polite."
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I guess. I mean.
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- Yeah, like the Skyler
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pickleball thing, maybe.
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- I wasn't trying to be rude, though.
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- Yeah, I-I think that's sort
of the point of this question--
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- I could just as easily say that you were
being rude because you were going to lie.
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- That's fair. Oh, here. Okay.
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This is asking if you have
trouble regulating temperature.
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That's... a strongly agree, right?
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- If I'm comfortable.
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- Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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U-U-Um, I'm gonna give you space.
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I don't wanna influence--
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Just answer the questions
however you, however you want.
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Ya know? Or-Or if, if you wanna,
ya know, just bail, that's cool.
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W-- And let's-- Should we just
do that and shut the computer
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and, like... go get Skittles
and... Charleston Chews or whatever?
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Just--
- It's okay. I'm okay.
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- Okay. Okay. I love you.
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- I love you.
- Okay.
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♪ soft music playing ♪
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♪
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♪
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- You want salmon for dinner?
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- Sure.
- Okay.
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I'll do some asparagus, too.
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- John, uh, what did the test say?
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- It says I probably have it.
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♪
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[inaudible chatter]
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- How can I help you?
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- I'm here to be assessed
for possible Autism. John Wallace.
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- Are-Are you sure?
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- I have an appointment.
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- Hi. John? Hi.
- Yes. Hi.
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- And you're just gonna
fill out this questionnaire.
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- Okay.
- Okay?
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[door shuts]
Sorry everything is so small.
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We work with children.
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Uh, there is
an adult-sized chair right over there.
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That was my idea, so.
- Thank you.
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[clears throat]
[door shuts]
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♪
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[clatters]
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- If it was a childhood...
like, assessment place,
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then why did you stay?
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- Well, it wasn't all bad. I mean,
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it was sorta like the online test,
but just maybe geared more toward kids.
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They asked me about what I like to play.
I said basketball.
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Lots of adults play basketball,
so that seemed fine.
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- Yeah.
- They asked about family.
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- What'd you say about family?
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- I told them how my mom passed away
from cancer when I was 13
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and how I slept out on the front lawn
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after she died.
- I didn't know that.
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- It was winter.
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- Why didn't anybody make you go inside?
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- I don't know.
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It wasn't so bad.
They gave me a Spider-Man sticker.
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ANN [over phone]:
So, John needs a therapist?
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- Yeah.
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- And you're calling me about this why?
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BETH [over phone]: 'Cause I'm at work
just thinking and I know you've seen
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a lot of them over the years,
and I was hoping that you
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would have a recommendation.
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Hello?
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- Yeah, I'm trying to plug in a Vornado.
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Yes, as a kid, I saw a lotta therapists,
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but not as an adult.
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- Okay, well, I'm sorry.
I thought you might be down to help.
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- No, I think you're under
a lotta stress lately.
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I don't know what kinda
antidepressants or SSRIs you're taking.
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People aren't even supposed
to be on those long-term.
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- Is that true?
ANN: Yeah.
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I think you should consider
a daily microdose of mushrooms.
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I've done it. It's helpful.
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I think it could really help
with your mood swings
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and erratic behavior.
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- [scoffs] This isn't about me!
This is about John, okay?
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And if anybody has a problem
with mood swings, it's you.
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- You gonna say it's me? No.
My mood is always shit,
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and I'm comfortable with that.
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- Oh, okay. Great.
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[Vornado whirring]
- Fucking eureka.
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- That's a great signed photo of Meg Ryan.
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- It's not signed.
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- How do you know her?
- [sniffs] She's a patient.
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Not of mine, but I know her issues
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through a friend.
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So, uh, yes. I could definitely
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do an evaluation, see if you
have high-functioning autism
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or as the DSM calls it now, AS--
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- D? ASD?
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- Exactly.
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- You and I spoke on the phone.
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You said you were an expert,
and that you can evaluate John
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to see if he's maybe on the spectrum.
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- I have to be honest with you.
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I am not exactly an expert yet.
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Um, I'm still studying.
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- I really tailor my approach
to meet the needs of every single patient.
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I just wanna make sure that
everyone's really feeling heard.
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You know, it's like me with my party.
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It's like my camp friend, Ashley,
suddenly, she's single.
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My fiancée's mother,
they wanna plan the whole thing.
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- I mean, you ever see You've Got Mail?
I mean, that thing was a--
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it was incredible.
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- Seriously, only six hours left.
And then I'll be officially certified.
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I could actually say, you know,
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officially, like,
this is what you need to do.
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- Sleepless in Seattle
and When Harry Met Sally...
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were the beginning of the fall
of Western civilization, in my opinion.
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- And they're taking something
that's supposed to be about
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someone else, the bride,
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and they're making it entirely
about themselves. You know what I mean?
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- Yeah, I really do.
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- Hey, I got your text. I don't know
any therapists, but did you try Ann?
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I mean, I hope she's in therapy.
- I know, right?
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No. Thanks anyway, though.
JESS [over phone]: But I will say this:
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New Orleans did more for my mental health
than a year in therapy.
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- [scoffs] Okay,
well, I'm glad to hear that.
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I'm gonna run. I'm here with Maya.
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- I'm awake and alert and wet.
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[FaceTime ringing]
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Uh, I-I gotta go, bye.
- Right.
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[puts down phone]
- What she want?
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- She doesn't know any therapists.
I'm asking her for John.
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- Well, she need a therapist.
BETH: I really--
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[FaceTime ringing, answers]
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BEAU [over phone]: Hey, kitten.
- Hi. [giggles]
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- You're lookin' cozy.
- Guess who I was just thinking about?
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- Uh, who?
- You.
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- [laughs] That's so lit.
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- Ya know, Beth, I gotta apologize.
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I gave you a lotta shit for goin' down
to New Orleans, you know?
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- Oh. That's fine.
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- But I got to stay
a little bit of extra time
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and have a good time with my family.
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[restaurant chatter]
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- Good. Good.
- Yeah.
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And as a "sorry,"
my cousin got me two tickets
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to see Isabel Wilkerson,
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and I want you to come with me.
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- Wow. Who--
- Yeah.
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- Oh! Oh, is that that author?
She wrote, um--
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- Caste. Yeah.
- ...Caste. That book.
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Yes. Oh, that's amazing.
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- Kinda get that Black experience
I was tellin' you about.
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- Yeah. I'd love to.
I'll definitely be there.
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- Great. That's great.
- Yeah, and you know what?
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I wanted to ask you if you, uh,
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by any chance, know of a therapist?
I don't know.
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Just thinkin' for John. I'm assuming no.
- Um.
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- I've never heard you talk
about therapy, but.
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- Personally, I mean, I ain't
tellin' nobody my business.
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So, you know, Black people don't do that.
- Right.
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- We still goin' to God. "Talk to God."
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- Oh, yeah. I don't think
God's in my network, but.
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NARRATOR [on TV]:
A robotic lawn mower!
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[door opens]
JOHN: Hey.
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Oh, it's doing it again.
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[static, chatter]
- Yeah. Uh, it's fine.
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- I can fix it.
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- Okay.
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- I know what I did wrong.
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- I'm, like, not even watching it, but.
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Um,
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...so, Cole is throwing,
like, an event this week
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at this, like, famous painter's house
to bring in more business.
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We'll go? Cool?
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- Yeah.
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- I remember my first day of high school.
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Look at this place. So big!
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- Paul says they have two full-size gyms
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and a field that takes
10 minutes to even walk across.
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- What? [laughs] That's crazy!
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Think of all the friends
you're gonna make. [sighs]
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- I hope I can make the basketball team.
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- Are you kidding?
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Gonna be varsity freshman year.
[shifts into park]
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Blow 'em all outta the water. Come here.
[laughs]
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Oh, sweetie. I love you.
365
00:17:51,780 --> 00:17:53,782
Go! Don't be late.
- Okay.
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- Oh, don't forget your lunch.
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JOHN: Oh, thanks.
- Okay, bye!
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[student chatter]
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- Hi, I'm John.
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[indistinct chatter]
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Hi, I'm John. I'm from Marisport.
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[sighs]
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[indistinct chatter]
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Cool bikes. Do you guys ride to school?
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[snarky laughter]
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- Oh, my God! Anyway, dude.
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♪ melancholy music playing ♪
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[bell ringing]
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BETH: Are you hungry? Do you want?
- Yeah. I was thinking of putting
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a little plate together. The brie.
BETH: Oh, yeah.
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I want some of that.
- Maybe you could put a little spread
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on a slice of the baguette.
- Okay, I'll make a plate.
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- Are you friends with the artist?
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- Um--
- Oh! Aurora, yes?
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This is Jean Louise's gallery manager.
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- Oh, you own that little space in Nolita.
- It's precious.
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- That's-- That-- Uh, no.
I don't own any gallery.
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I-I work for Cole.
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- You work at Kohl's?
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00:19:11,652 --> 00:19:14,863
[phone buzzing]
- Uh, will you excuse me?
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- Do you, uh, get
good discounts at Kohl's?
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- No.
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00:19:22,079 --> 00:19:23,205
- Hey.
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- I found someone for you.
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- I'm married.
- No, for John.
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She specializes in Autism.
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[party chatter]
- Oh, my God, Annie, are you serious?
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Really? Thank you so much.
ANN [over phone]: Don't thank me.
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- You know, I do have a story, um,
and it involves me and Ina Garten...
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MORGAN: What is that?
- ...and you'll never--
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00:19:43,183 --> 00:19:45,978
- No, I-I can't tell you.
It's been really confusing.
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00:19:45,978 --> 00:19:47,896
[over phone] We've had
so many false starts and, like--
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[mouthing]
[hangs up]
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00:19:51,275 --> 00:19:54,653
Hello? [sighs]
[phone beeping]
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00:19:54,653 --> 00:19:56,822
[indistinct chatter]
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00:19:58,365 --> 00:19:59,741
Hi! Sorry about that.
[laughs]
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00:19:59,741 --> 00:20:01,910
Anybody seen my husband?
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00:20:01,910 --> 00:20:04,246
- Well, he left in the middle
of Angelo's best story.
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00:20:04,246 --> 00:20:05,831
[tapping glass]
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MORGAN/BETH:
Oh.
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[chatter stops]
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00:20:13,130 --> 00:20:18,969
- What is paint...
if not a squirt of color?
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- Word.
COLE: Well, that's actually pretty good.
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Squirt. You don't hear that
a lot anymore, do you?
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Will you write that down?
- What?
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- "Make me squirt."
Um, what was I saying?
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[street noise]
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♪ jazz music playing ♪
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DR. MORRIS:
Yeah, so, uh, have-have a seat.
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Make yourself comfortable.
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I'm just gonna ask you
a bunch of questions first
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to get to know you a little.
- Great.
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00:20:53,128 --> 00:20:56,632
- Why don't you tell me about,
um, where you grew up?
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- I grew up in, uh, North Fork, and, um,
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00:21:01,470 --> 00:21:03,764
on a big farm.
- Uh-huh.
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00:21:03,764 --> 00:21:05,933
- It's a vineyard now, and...
- Oh.
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00:21:05,933 --> 00:21:07,809
- ...I still live there and work.
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00:21:07,809 --> 00:21:12,481
♪ Clair de lune by Claude Debussy
playing on piano ♪
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- Oh, wow. So, you're still in
the home that you grew up in?
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00:21:15,484 --> 00:21:17,778
- Yes.
- Who was there with you?
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00:21:17,778 --> 00:21:20,614
♪ continues playing piano ♪
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- Do you mind if I take my jacket off?
- No!
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00:21:22,366 --> 00:21:24,535
I want you to be comfortable. Please.
[mouthing]
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00:21:24,535 --> 00:21:27,412
ALICE:
Mm-hm. Keep this light.
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00:21:28,038 --> 00:21:30,415
♪
436
00:21:32,918 --> 00:21:35,629
[inaudible]
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00:21:38,215 --> 00:21:41,802
[leaves crunching]
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00:21:41,802 --> 00:21:44,805
♪
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00:21:56,316 --> 00:21:57,693
[giggles]
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00:21:58,652 --> 00:22:01,446
♪
441
00:22:03,448 --> 00:22:06,451
♪ piano playing ends ♪
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00:22:06,451 --> 00:22:09,454
[wind rustling]
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00:22:12,958 --> 00:22:15,335
- Well, in order to diagnose ASD,
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00:22:15,335 --> 00:22:18,213
we need to see challenges in three areas.
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00:22:18,213 --> 00:22:21,216
Uh, communication, socialization,
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00:22:21,216 --> 00:22:24,761
and intense interests
or repetitive behaviors over time.
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00:22:24,761 --> 00:22:27,472
So, that's why we focused on your history
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in addition to any current
social communication issues
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and intense interests.
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Uh, John, my evaluation shows
that you would be classified
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as someone living with high-functioning
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Autism Spectrum Disorder level one.
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So, I'm sure as you both know
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that there are some difficulties
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in living with Autism.
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Uh, challenges
with, uh, picking up social cues,
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uh, a tendency to fixate on things.
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00:22:59,796 --> 00:23:01,673
- Yes, yeah.
DR. MORRIS: But
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there are so many positives as well.
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00:23:04,468 --> 00:23:06,345
There's so many qualities that John has.
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00:23:06,345 --> 00:23:08,889
His great discipline,
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00:23:08,889 --> 00:23:11,058
his ability to stay focused,
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to commit to a difficult
task until mastery.
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These are all excellent traits
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that have served him
well throughout his life.
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00:23:18,398 --> 00:23:19,858
- Yeah.
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00:23:19,858 --> 00:23:22,110
I mean, he's the greatest person
in the whole world.
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00:23:22,110 --> 00:23:25,739
DR. MORRIS: Yeah, and those
are qualities that are great
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for many people in many areas.
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For example, to name one,
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karate.
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00:23:35,082 --> 00:23:37,626
- I-I'm sorry. Did you say karate?
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00:23:37,626 --> 00:23:41,088
- I did.
- Like, you do karate?
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- I am a purple belt.
BETH: Oh.
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00:23:43,465 --> 00:23:46,134
Yeah, I don't, I don't really
know the belts, but,
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00:23:46,134 --> 00:23:47,970
you know, that sounds high up.
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00:23:47,970 --> 00:23:49,847
- But I-I'd like to focus on, on, on John.
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00:23:49,847 --> 00:23:51,139
- Yeah.
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00:23:51,139 --> 00:23:52,558
- So, John, I wanna hear from you.
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00:23:52,558 --> 00:23:55,894
- No, I think it's impressive
and it is high up, I think.
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00:23:55,894 --> 00:23:58,814
It's green, then purple.
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00:23:58,814 --> 00:24:01,358
And I'm seeing you differently now,
knowing that. I didn't--
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00:24:01,358 --> 00:24:04,945
- Oh, I'm sorry.
Uh, I wanna know your feeling.
484
00:24:05,612 --> 00:24:07,114
- Yeah. Um.
485
00:24:08,115 --> 00:24:09,533
Well, I think I-I've always kind of known
486
00:24:09,533 --> 00:24:13,620
that my brain works
differently from other people.
487
00:24:13,620 --> 00:24:15,622
Um, sometimes I react differently
488
00:24:16,540 --> 00:24:19,209
from-- than-than other people. And...
BETH: Mm-hm.
489
00:24:20,210 --> 00:24:23,297
- ...I spent a lot of time alone as a kid.
490
00:24:23,297 --> 00:24:26,008
- Right, I understand.
I remember you told me that.
491
00:24:26,008 --> 00:24:28,510
- Yeah, but, um, yeah.
492
00:24:30,179 --> 00:24:32,014
Those are some of my happiest memories.
493
00:24:32,014 --> 00:24:36,018
- Time alone fosters creativity,
and that's great.
494
00:24:36,018 --> 00:24:37,728
You're a very creative person, John.
495
00:24:38,562 --> 00:24:41,064
- But, yeah, I feel okay. And, uh...
496
00:24:43,650 --> 00:24:46,028
yeah.
- Beth, are you okay?
497
00:24:48,447 --> 00:24:52,034
- [cries] I just feel bad that people,
like, misunderstood him all those years,
498
00:24:52,034 --> 00:24:54,286
ya know? Like, [sniffles]
499
00:24:54,286 --> 00:24:55,871
like, it's just unfair.
500
00:24:56,622 --> 00:24:58,624
JOHN:
Yeah, I never really
501
00:24:58,624 --> 00:25:01,502
got why people seemed mad at me,
502
00:25:01,502 --> 00:25:04,296
ya know, or-or didn't believe in me.
503
00:25:05,422 --> 00:25:07,549
- Well, there's a quote that I love.
504
00:25:07,549 --> 00:25:10,719
"The secret of change
is to focus all of your energy
505
00:25:10,719 --> 00:25:14,306
not on fighting the old,
but on building the new."
506
00:25:14,306 --> 00:25:16,141
- That's beautiful.
507
00:25:18,393 --> 00:25:21,438
I think I kind of need a hug.
508
00:25:25,317 --> 00:25:26,568
- From Dr. Morris?
509
00:25:26,568 --> 00:25:28,904
- She-She needs a hug from you.
510
00:25:32,574 --> 00:25:35,577
- Actually, would you get
in here, too, Dr. Morris?
511
00:25:35,577 --> 00:25:37,079
- Oh.
512
00:25:38,288 --> 00:25:39,665
♪
513
00:25:39,665 --> 00:25:42,167
- Thank you. Thank you.
DR. MORRIS: Yeah, thank you.
514
00:25:52,594 --> 00:25:55,097
[bikes rattling]
515
00:25:55,639 --> 00:25:59,351
♪ Thirteen by Big Star playing ♪
516
00:26:00,644 --> 00:26:05,649
♪ Won't you let me walk
you home from school? ♪
517
00:26:09,528 --> 00:26:15,492
♪ Won't let you let me
meet you at the pool? ♪
518
00:26:18,704 --> 00:26:21,206
♪ Maybe Friday ♪
519
00:26:21,206 --> 00:26:23,333
♪ I can ♪
520
00:26:23,333 --> 00:26:27,171
♪ Get tickets for the dance ♪
521
00:26:29,882 --> 00:26:35,387
♪ And I'll taaake you ♪
522
00:26:36,847 --> 00:26:38,557
♪ Ooh-ooh ♪
523
00:26:41,935 --> 00:26:45,898
♪ Won't you tell your dad
get off my back? ♪
524
00:26:52,112 --> 00:26:58,118
♪ Would you be an outlaw for my looove? ♪
525
00:27:00,579 --> 00:27:04,583
♪ If it's so, well, let me know ♪
526
00:27:04,583 --> 00:27:09,087
♪ If it's no, well, I can go ♪
527
00:27:10,464 --> 00:27:16,470
♪ I won't maaake you ♪
528
00:27:17,554 --> 00:27:19,765
♪ Ooh-ooh ♪
529
00:27:30,859 --> 00:27:32,694
- It's so easy.
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