All language subtitles for Married to Medicine – S3E14

Previously on Married to Medicine.

Welcome to Grand Bahamas and all of the
people.

I don't know what the fuck about to go
down. I don't know what's going to

happen. This Mariah, she on a trip with
us after all this time.

I'm kind of scared.

I just feel like y 'all didn't do shit.

Like I was four months pregnant with
twins and y 'all couldn't even send me a

bouquet together. I'm not going to say
I'm sorry at all.

You and Mariah are not friends.

We have not spoken in months.

I've made millions of dollars is
promoting opportunity. And off of other

people's backs of pyramid marketing
schemes is.

I think Jill is an absolute ass for
doing this at the dinner table.

I consider you guys family because we're
connected at this point.

That's not right.

This ain't family. I don't do this shit.

This ain't family.

No. We are not family.

Your actions have proven that we are not
family.

I ain't ready for this.

And I told you I wasn't ready for this.

Good morning, babe.

Morning. How are you? You need coffee?

How you doing?

Oh, you got your little morning reading
going on? Mm -hmm.

Trying to think like a man.

It's a brand new day, and I'm going to
face the day with a new perspective.

I love the beach. I could just live on
the beach.

So I'm sipping my tea and reading my
book. And this book is going to help me

right into the mode because I'm learning
to think like a man.

Yes, Steve Harvey.

I'm going to just sit back and watch.

And I think by the end of this trip, we
will have a good grad whether or not

this is a genuine group or is it a few
genuine gems in this group.

What are you doing over there?

Just trying to get in touch with Keisha
to check on my dad.

Hey, Keisha.

How's my daddy?

No fever or anything?

No matter where I am and what I'm doing,
I'm always thinking, what's up with my

dad? And being here, I still can't
forget that things are going on back at

Well, everybody still has ten fingers
and ten toes, two legs, two arms.

Well, you know, we got plenty of extra
if we losing.

I just felt like I needed some company,
so I came over. He'll be here today,

though. It was kind of nice to spend a
night alone without any kids or any

husband. Not that I would want to do it
every night, but I kind of enjoyed

getting to know myself a little better.

Is something in your makeup?

I ain't in the makeup.

I woke up like this.

Heavenly first thing in the morning
wasn't heavenly?

That didn't make you feel good? You woke
up, you saw two women in your room, in

your bed?

Y 'all ready? What's going on?

No, seeing heavenly first thing in the
morning was not some weird fantasy where

I was going to have a threesome with my
wife. No.

Get off my bed.

This is beautiful out here.

The sand is nice. Water is always
pretty.

Water is a very tranquil place to be. I
always feel at peace when I'm around

water. You know the thing about water,
though? It can be your friend, but it

be... Well,

when that hair will fall.

I can't have my hair pieces getting all
wet up, honey.

This is chocolate. I might melt.

I had a chance to talk to Mariah last
night.

Oh, did you? Yeah. You know, my heart
goes out to anybody who has lost a

pregnancy. Oh, it's hard.

Absolutely. I'm sure it has to be hard.

You know what? I was really, really,
really happy when you made your say that

you were saying it's time for
forgiveness.

I'm here today to accept whatever
responsibility that I've done at this

anyone. So I don't claim to be perfect,
but I am big enough to say that I'm not.

Thank you.

Seeing what they have, he and Mariah
have progressed past.

All of the craziness is an encouraging
sign that Kauai is definitely growing

herself. I'm really proud of her.

You know, I'm not completely there. But
a journey of a million miles started

with one step. One step, baby. And I
just took the first step. You made a

Yeah,

that's okay. However small it is, it's a
step.

How are you doing?

Pastor Earl?

Yes. And Karen? I'm Karen, yes. Oh, you
know, we're from the South. We do hug.

Thank you so much for being willing to
meet with us. I think it is really

important that this group, Doctors and
the Wives, that we do a medical mission

while we're here on the island.

We are so impressed with Care of Them
and all the work you've done all over

world. It gives us the opportunity to do
something meaningful, but to also

continue to ground us and show us how
blessed we are in that life we're living

back home.

Well, the Bahamas has what we call two
faces of paradise.

The first face, the one you see here,
and then the second face is where people

are in need. So when we heard that there
were doctors in the midst, we came up

with the thought of screening some of
the individuals.

who may need help with understanding
blood pressure, and then diabetes. We

that a lot of our folks are coming up
with diabetes.

So are there supplies we could provide?

We always love to feed folks and give
them drugs. Nothing wrong with eating,

right? Oh, I'm telling you. Nothing
wrong with eating. I'm all for that.

Anytime we travel back to Bangladesh, we
really try to give back because that's

my husband's motherland.

And we feed.

Thousands of people. The last time we
went, we fed over 5 ,000 people, and

just really resonated with me. So we'll
be looking forward to seeing you and

spending time with you tomorrow.

We are as well. Okay, thank you so much.
See you guys tomorrow.

Thank you so much.

It's not just about doing it at home,
but realizing that every community is

affected by the other.

Eat a little bit of the cheese and
grape. You know me, but with the cheese.

I don't want to get you all in an
emotional place today, but can you tell

what happened at dinner last night?
Because I looked down at the end of the

table, Mariah, and you were crying.

I hate that.

You know, I do not like crying in the
midst of people that I don't feel like

truly have my back.

I thought I was at a place.

where I have gotten past a lot of
things, and I could do it, and I could

give faith, and be funny, and be
fabulous, and just come back in.

But I realize that I'm human.

And I'm still dealing with some real,
real stuff.

The hardest thing for me is this
forgiveness thing.

Even with why, I don't understand.

Like, I love, I hug, I smile, but I've
been hurt.

Cut to the core.

I'm hoping at some point that Mariah can
truly just put the past behind her and

understand that no one is perfect. And
just as she makes mistakes and people in

the group forgive her, that she too at
some point will have to forgive others

for their mistakes.

But I think it's important that the
girls see that human side. Do you? Yes.

I don't feel like that. Give all of you.

and ask your friend, take or leave all
of me. Well, the issue with that is the

part that I've given has been rejected.
And you have to be real about that.

That's true.

You know, so why would I give more if
they're not accepting what I have given

already? Give them that part of you that
they can accept and deal with. The rest

of it, you put it in a box, you save it
for later.

Because I promise you later is coming.
Well, that's how I am. That's where I am

right now.

I don't think I have a lot of
expectations for friends.

The only thing I expect is to be treated
the way I treat them. I treat them

great. I expect to be treated good in
return.

I don't think that's too much to ask.

I'm trying to move forward.

What does move forward mean?

It means that the car is not in drive,
nor is it in reverse.

It's in neutral?

Bitch, it's in neutral.

I'm just sitting back and I'm watching
everything. And I think that this

vacation is going to tell me a lot.

And it's going to let me know which
direction I should go in and if I should

in that direction with certain people.

Beautiful.

We had an interesting night last night.
I'm glad we got through that night. Oh,

my goodness.

Imagine someone saying, dentistry is
both.

I have no idea why Jill feels the need
to keep attacking my profession.

Maybe she feels like we still have beef
from the strip club situation.

I apologize to her at having these
angels, but in case she didn't remember,

sorry, Jill.

I feel like she's educated, she's...
Educated does not mean intelligent, and

don't see how she got her education from
a great school. She must have slept

with the janitor to the professor to the
damn president, because there's no

f***ing way. I don't think it's okay at
any time to attack somebody and how they

make their money.

You know? And it's been very successful
for her. And if Jill can't do it, live

and let live. I ain't thinking about
them strippers.

Can't she have a, what is it, a
fraudulent slip?

Fraudulent slip.

Fraudulent slip means you really think
it, you just don't say it. And then come

over to me saying, your man said, fuck
you.

And it didn't happen. And say, oh, maybe
not. Thought only.

Say that.

And then say, oh, well, maybe not. Just
lie. Because you're going to turn

yourself a comfortable line. Okay, so I
get that.

That was bad.

Hey.

You look cute.

Did you wear your shoes in the sand?

I did like an idiot. I know you was
walking backwards because I was going

this. It is hard to walk with these on.
That's why you wear flip -flops on the

beach. But they're not as sexy.

True that.

They don't want to be style yesterday.
She speaks to her. You ain't even speak.

I can't have intelligent conversations
with people that are not intelligent.

That's what I'm saying. I'm saying that
I will not have a baby doll. What?

Excuse me. I can read you.

It's not about a read doll. And it's
not, it's about being respectful to one

another. It's about being intelligent.

We're not going to have a conversation
with someone. I feel not. It's not

intelligent. I'm not going to wait. Are
you saying that I'm not intelligent?

Exactly.

Coming up on Married to Medicine.

I'm just at a place where I feel like if
you don't have trust, you don't have a

marriage.

You stay so stupid.

So do you. No, no, no, not you. It's
true, too.

Inappropriate. Honey, you can't talk to
a man without your husband. No, you are

a stupid woman. You know why?

You know why?

Because you lied. You made something out
of nothing. What did I lie? My husband

and your husband had a conversation.

Had a conversation that was men and men.
It was nothing. It was very respectful.

You came back and lied.

She starts unnecessary conflict between
my husband and her husband.

Your husband said you to my husband? I
think so.

Did John Turner say something
inappropriate to you?

No. And when even I asked her, I said,
he said, she said, yeah, he did.

Goofy ass.

I'm not going to have a conversation
with somebody I don't think is

I will not do it. I will not do it.
You're a dumb bitch. Your mama.

You're a dumb bitch.

You kissed my ass. You need daddy to
come to your rescue.

You need daddy to come to your rescue
when you can't stand up for her. You

assume something. He needs daddy to come
run to her because she can't hold her

own.

She is quick to say that everybody else
is stupid because she's insecure.

I don't know. I think she's threatened
by me or jealous of me. Get her under

control, okay? No, I can get myself
under control. I didn't throw water and

someone. Lisa, Lisa. I'm just saying.
I'm just saying.

I'm just saying. Damn.

It's the truth.

I swear I've been sitting on this beach
for all of ten minutes.

Ten minutes.

We ain't laid out. We had no cocktails.
Where are the cocktails? I had nothing.

And this is the beginning to my beat.

Really? God. That's so crazy.

She is so damn dumb. God damn.

I can't do it. You are a stupid bitch.
What kind of conversation is that?

I just feel like this woman has insulted
everybody.

And then she calls me a dumb bitch.
Bitch, you the dumbest bitch here.

Do you not get that?

Oh, my God.

I'm not going to have a conversation
with a four -year -old.

Toya can do it because y 'all on the
same level. But I cannot do that.

You just went from you're a dumb bitch.

He just called me stupid. I'm sorry. You
can't call me stupid and not expect a

reaction. You know I understand stupid.

You know I understand when you're
verbally attacked and people are

your intelligence.

Use a brain. Oh, oops. She might not
have one.

She said you had no money, whatever,
last year, and she was relentless on

She has fake Louis Vuitton luggage, a
fake Rolex that doesn't even work, and

she's saying that you can't afford your
house.

I know what you can't afford. Lisa
hasn't paid her taxes or whatever, but

saying she's a millionaire and she goes
over and over and over again, I'm a

millionaire. I mean, come on. These
girls are foolish.

They are. They're fake ass bitches.

But the reality is, do you really want
to sit here and go back and forth with

these heifers?

Finally,

we have a nice event with just the guys.

No women.

No drama.

Don't make it seem like the women bring
drama to your life. No women. We bring

excitement to your life.

Thank you, sir. What's your name, man?
Tony. Tony. We have roast conch, conch

salad, roast conch with shrimp.

The conch burger is similar to your
hamburger.

Tony Macaron.

He has his own conch shop.

He's retired.

He opens up when he feels like it.

Wow. He's my hero.

Can you do a really good cheeseburger?

That's what I want.

You and I, we could open a Kong shop
together.

Did I say his wife was out there?

I'm just saying.

Did I say Tony and Simone?

I'm just saying.

Tony Macaroni. I wish Damon had made it,
man. Yeah, and I wish you, man. I wish

Damon had made it.

So, John, have you figured out how you
want to handle this?

Your Damon discussion is going to be
separate? I really don't want to kind of

say, okay, this is my side of the story
without Damon here. Because that's not

fair to him. Right.

I'm not going to bring this up without
Damon here because I think it's

disrespectful. In general, when you work
at a strip club, a lot of those women

do go home with the men. You know what
they say when you assume.

Don't disrespect my wife. I never meant
to disrespect you or your wife.

Great talk. You're going to leave me?

Yeah. I don't know Damon.

And I certainly, you know, first
impressions mean the world, and I

to, you know, leave a bad taste in his
mouth. He's already left a bad taste in

my mouth.

We get it, and I think, just to your
point, I think it'll be quick, out of

way, boom, that's all. We're going to
reenact the way it was before.

Cigars, guys, and we'll get it over
with.

I certainly don't want to pass judgment
on, you know, his ulterior motives, but

I think I need to find time to speak
with him and figure this out.

This is an old cunt right there. How do
you know? I've eaten enough in the last

two days. I know the old stuff.

You hear the ocean or something?

Something about the ocean is just
relaxing, just calm.

Maybe we should make the ladies come out
here a little more.

Isn't it really all the ocean? You're
right.

It was ocean last night. It was calm.

Right?

Blonde? Do you not see that?

You were...

Why do the ladies do these things? I
mean, why do they do these things?

Sometimes it's not even worth trying to
figure out the intent, because we're

men, and they're women, and I don't
think we're ever going to really get it.

Even if you figure it out, you're not
going to understand. Right, we're not

going to get why.

It's not fun when a guy wouldn't even do
that. Anyway, we just want to thank

Cecil. Good looking out, man.

Yeah, man. Good day, good day, good day.

Y 'all gonna bring her back over here,
okay?

All right, come on. Can we just make
this right?

Because Heavenly said, I'm not gonna
talk to you because I don't talk to

ignorant people. I said people that are
not intelligent.

But I am intelligent. Why would you
think I'm not intelligent?

You say things that are not true.

Okay. Okay?

Because you're saying that when I said
that John said you to Damon. Right.

I misunderstood. I thought my husband
said you.

Right. And maybe he should have, but he
didn't. No, he shouldn't have. He

shouldn't have.

He might say it right there. Okay,
pause. If he does, I think it'll be

Pause. Pause right here. This is the
problem right there. You say sorry, and

then in the next sentence, you become
dumb and refuse it, which is why I then

say, Blondie, what are you not getting?

This girl has no boundaries. I mean, she
just keeps going and going and going

and saying one dumb thing after another
dumb thing. Emily, I don't want you to

walk away. I don't.

I don't. Okay, wow. That's it. Wow.

That's a big statement, and it's not
true because you tell lies, and that's

definitely one of my lies. No, I told
you it was a misunderstanding.

I mean, don't get me wrong. I love the
fact that Jill is not one of those

pushover white girls, per se.

You know, because people will come at
them. You know, they feel like, oh,

they're weak. She's small.

I think some things she needs to just
blow off because things are getting way

too out of hand way too quickly.

How old are y 'all grown -ass women?

Like, stop.

Like, come on. Like, for real.

Why even try?

Why even?

Come on. Don't do it. That's right.

You know what? It's best to drop the
issue. So I'm going to be the better

person, and I'm going to walk away
before I strangle this bitch.

Coming up, I felt like you guys had a
relationship with me. You've known me

years, and you should have believed me.

Flip your hand right through there, Dad.

How y 'all doing?

Really stand up as a unit strong.

But what do we do?

We fight about shit that doesn't matter.

When are we heading over to mission?

I guess we better get ready and get
going now.

Let's go.

You have to say pretty please.

I'm not saying pretty please. This is a
mission.

I have planned a health fair at a local
community center, and we are going to do

some medical screenings like blood
pressure, glucose, psychiatric

This is going to be good. It is. I don't
think everybody is excited about it. I

am concerned that some of the ladies
will not participate in the medical

mission. We might just find Toya off on
a cart eating jerk chicken somewhere.

Get your phone.

I feel like you're rushing me.

Take your time, but hurry up.

I'm excited.

I don't know what's planned, but I hated
that I couldn't be here on the first

day, but I got to hold the fort down at
the practice, so that's what I did.

Hey, buddy.

I miss you so much.

I feel so happy to see my husband. You
know, with all the other craziness going

on, when I see Damon, it always brings
me to a calming place. So I was just

happy to see him.

The Lord looked at me last night and she
said, she said, do you miss your mama?

And I said, yeah.

And I said, you?

And she said, yeah.

And you know how she smiles.

Heavenly, like, I don't talk to
unintelligent people. Not much bothers

But there are certain things that do,
and then I do get loud.

I'm Jersey.

But that's not an excuse to say that
you're Jersey, and that's my upbringing,

and I'm Jersey, so it gives me license
to be obnoxious.

It's in my blood.

Well, I understand, but you can change
that.

You do know, Toya, that here you drive
on the opposite side of the road, right?

Well, it's the same thing.

Yeah, there are laws in the Bahamas.

I think that it's a great idea to go and
travel and spend a couple of hours of

your time giving back.

Now, if I'm on my honeymoon, I'm
probably not thinking about giving back.

Did anybody bring their phone for the
navigation?

It's only one road that goes around the
whole island.

I'm okay with going with Mariah and
being in this cold space with her. I'm

to choose to drive so that if she says
something, I can just tone her out and

people will understand that I'm just
concentrating on her.

the road.

I'm so glad you organized this. I think
it is such a great thing to be able

to come here and have a good time and
also do great. I do too. I'm not sure if

everybody was excited about it, but I
just thought it'd be a really good

opportunity for us to bond, specifically
you and I, Lisa. So I thought it'd be a

good opportunity for us to at least try
to get to know one another.

What? Who are you?

Drive the damn car.

You need to be following the left side.
Don't worry about nothing else.

It feels good to be in a car with Mariah
right now and actually not be arguing,

laughing. And it just, it felt like back
in the day.

It felt like this was the person that I
knew. This was the person that I became

friends with. So when you sat back and
thought about everything from last year,

what were your thoughts as far as you...

You know, the whole situation with the
group. I just thought that it was, um, I

thought it was very messy. I did in very
high school, and I just thought as a

group. But all of us thought that.

Seeing you guys last year go through
that thing, too, it was hurtful for me

because, like, I don't know what's
happening. Oh, really?

It was hurtful only because I don't
fight like that with my best friend.

So it was hurtful for you? It was
hurtful to see it.

Because I didn't think y 'all was ever
going to come back from that.

and throw tomatoes with you, sweetheart.

Staying on your chariot doesn't mean
that you're superior to everyone else.

just means you're not going to go in the
gutter with the pigs and the rats.

And I think they're learning the hard
way because they're seeing what it's

when they do come off their chariot and
hit below the belt.

It should not have got to the place
where it happened.

with someone else you know why because i
felt like you guys had a relationship

with me you've known me for years so i
felt like your loyalty should have been

to me and you should have believed me
yeah last year mariah

said i should have left that roach where
i found her and she was right

It looks like we are getting close to
the place where we're going to do our

medical mission. And what the doctors,
what I'm hoping all of my docs will

participate and do.

Does that include Dr. Heavenly?

Yes. Okay. She's one of our docs.

Hey, you guys, I ain't shading.

There's hot tea in the shade, honey.
Strong tea.

And it's in a lot of shades. Yes, it is.

What's going on?

Jackie, don't you see not a damn thing?

Hey, hey, Dr. D, will you tell your wife
not to talk to my wife like that?

Buddy, please stop talking like that.

All right. Now, we straight there. We
straight.

I'm really happy that Simone and Mariah
organized this event. I think that this

is what it's all about.

Now, I ain't never did a charity event
on vacation, but I'm willing to do it,

you know?

Yeah. And, I mean, we didn't have any
pre -notice, but.

That's okay. We'll do it anyway. I think
the biggest impact that we're going to

have today here locally really is going
to be addressing high blood pressure and

blood sugar. Right, yeah.

If you find an elevated blood pressure
or an elevated blood sugar, we're going

to put their name, date of birth on a
card, and then we have to give that to

people who run Karazine so that they can
make sure that these people are

followed up.

with clinics that do provide some free
care.

Curtis and I are going to have a hugging
and a kissing station.

We're going to keep them in line, keep
them going forward.

We're not medical, so we're just going
to hug and kiss.

Your blood pressure is 250.

Go get that checked out.

Okay.

We're here.

Good to see you hugging.

And I brought friends.

Thank you.

This is Lisa.

How are you? This is Toya. Hi, Lisa. We
hug in the Bahamas.

This is a very last -minute project, so
I don't have many expectations.

If we're able to help one family, then
we've done our job.

Here comes trouble.

What's that?

Blood pressure.

cuff and the lancets and everything to
check blood sugar. You know, we've been

given gifts to be physicians, and we're
looking forward to just, you know,

sharing our talents and our services,
you know, with the people here, and

hopefully we'll be a blessing to
somebody.

We've invited some families to come.

those who really cannot afford to go to
the clinic and that sort of thing, and

they're less fortunate than some of us.
The way we have it set up is because you

guys are doing, you know, checks and
stuff upstairs, so all the doctors will

upstairs and everyone else will stay
down here and we'll handle the food.

We need one person to do a check -in. We
do blood pressure, and then you do

blood sugar, and then you have like a
consultation check -out. Just in case of

emergency, I got IV fluid.

You got a mass unit in here. You got
everything.

Hey, does this not feel like the
apprentice?

You know, we got a team in here. We got
to do this, and we're going to do this.

Can you put a knot in these for me? And
we're going to stick them right here.

Come on now.

You been getting the people crack all
day.

You got to have a little sign. You
seeing some crack?

Yeah. Okay, cognac.

Girl, my pants fit.

Oh, okay.

My pants fit. It depends on what you
call fit.

You want some of my ass?

Damn, her damn ass is colossal, ain't
it? Like, goddamn, did she get some

injections from damn Jill's husband?

Where'd she get all that ass from?

Okay, we have our first patron.

This is the Hanfield family.

Hello, how are you doing today?

Nice to meet you.

How y 'all doing?

So what we're going to do, I think, is
take you upstairs to get signed in, and

then you guys can come back down here
and have some refreshments and some

snacks. Sit up in the chair, relax, and
don't talk to her while she's talking to

you when I pick your blood sugar.

Flip your hand right through there, Dad.

You ready?

Yeah. Dr. Eugene, nice to meet you. What
we're doing at this table is we're

checking for blood sugars and doing like
a diabetes screen.

Oh, no problem. There you go, hon.

You got to cut back on the beers because
there's a lot of sugar in there. We're

going to provide you a place to go to to
monitor your blood pressure.

I think you're next for your counseling
session there.

Your blood sugar needs to be stabilized.
You need IV fluids probably.

Hi there.

Aren't you adorable?

Are you going to cry?

Okay,

I don't want to do you then.

You hear people say, I'm going to pray
for you and, you know, bless you. But

it's a little bit different and a lot
more rewarding when you actually put

something in somebody's hand.

Here you go.

Or you give somebody some knowledge to
change their lives. So this is probably

like the high point of the trip so far.
Hello.

Hi. Don't you act shy.

This may have been last minute, but I
have to say I am so impressed.

So many people came.

What's your name?

Hi, Tamia. You're so pretty.

The thing that touched my heart the
deepest are the children.

White people are really nice.

We can really stand up as a unit strong.

But what do we do?

We fight about it doesn't matter.

We hurt each other for what? There's no
gain in it.

Coming up. You're actually going to pair
with a different spouse.

Oh, Lord.

We don't share a spouse with child.

Jackie, you look quite beautiful in your
electric blue.

Thank you.

Your sexy is coming way back. Stand up.
Let us see the sexy.

Listen, and you feel the butt cheek,
too.

Yes! She's just not ready to come out
full throttle in a bathing suit.

I'm going to need her to put some spanks
or body magic or something underneath

that bathing suit. Let me see what
you're wearing, Toya.

You know, just a little something,
something. There's no jiggling that ass.

Nathan's type.

It's all tight. It's all tight. You
know.

Oh, honey, we got some croc going on,
some lavender, some hood, some crochet.

You go, Miss Toya. She's giving the
people Nathan's song.

Orange hair. I call it spice. Sonia
Connery. She's giving the people strip

the beach.

What about you, Mariah? What you working
with over there? Let's save them for

tomorrow. I mean, now, y 'all just gonna
force me to do it.

Oh, I like that. You know, I believe
that I should save something for my

husband.

Hey,

babe. Yeah? Can you help me freshen up
my makeup?

Oh, so you need me to come in there and
put some lashes on?

Yeah. Toy, you said Eugene helped her.

Yeah, I'm not Eugene.

Oh, damn.

Last year in Blue Ridge, we had the
couple session, and it was amazing.

How many times a week should a couple
have sex?

Me and Eugene at one point said we
wanted to have sex at least once a week.

Yeah. It don't happen.

You and your partner, sometimes you feel
like your partner is like way off base.

When it's brought out in a group, then
you're like, okay, it's not just my

partner's crazy.

All of these ladies are crazy.

No, that is not what you were supposed
to be saying.

Okay, that's what I get out of it.
You're going to jack me up. I've watched

do it. I can do it now. Oh, you can?

Yeah. Y 'all good?

Let's go. You a nut.

Couple therapy, for me, means that I'm
going to be able to hear other people

going through some of the situations
that I've been through.

That's what it's all about.

Like, we're all at so many different
places in our marriages that we have so

much to offer each other.

The mirror on the wall.

Who's the most beautiful one of all?

Couples therapy, well...

I think that that could be a pretty good
thing considering all of the

interesting dynamics that my husband and
I have been having over the last few

months.

This is what I love, us having a good
time, partying, and just really enjoying

the energy.

Maybe there is hope for us.

Why do I want to waste calories on non
-alcoholics?

You don't have brown?

You'd have Jill and Kisa together.

What's up with Jill? She done lost her
damn mind with this brunette wig.

If the man can buy a new hair, he can
buy a new breast, can he get a brain?

That's the thing. I mean, if you want to
be a surgeon, be a brain surgeon and

buy this bitch a brain.

Well, they have a rice and macaroni and
jelly.

The bonsai is absolutely beautiful. I
mean, they woo you in with all this

warm, comfortable setting, good food,
lots to drink.

Hoo, but I'm nervous.

So...

things we're gonna do tonight is we're
gonna have an exercise which i came up

with a little name partner repair you're
actually gonna pair

with a different sound oh lord we don't
share spouses child i'm going to

repair you

with a different partner, and get his
perspective, another perspective, and we

are going to repair your issue.

When you go to your new wife, each lady
would talk about an issue.

Oh, God. See, I came with y 'all.

I like that. I actually was going to
swap you for Jill's husband just to see

what it was like.

See what what was like.

You always saying you want a quiet
woman, you know.

I don't see her as quiet.

To start, Heavenly, come to the circle
and join your husband, Curtis.

Curtis. Come on, baby. Come on, daddy.

Hey, hey, hey.

I'm a little nervous.

With Dr. Heavenly, you're never quite
sure how she's going to respond.

In a situation.

Never. My word today is priority.

Let me tell you something.

I set my own priorities because I know
what's most important to me. And you

I was driven when you met me. I know I
take care of my kids. I make enough

to pay the people that I need to pay to
take care of the minor things so I can

take care of the major things.

I can't stay home. I know you want
what's best for us and I know you want

best for me.

You knew who I was when you married me.

I think that Damon had a very old
-fashioned view of what our roles would

think he thought that I would be, you
know, home, cooking dinner, barefoot and

pregnant.

I think that he has a very old
-fashioned sense of what a man's role is

woman's role. But that's one of the
things I do love about him, that he

his role as a man.

Now, I want you to have what you desire.

But when you made that commitment to be
my wife, things change. Things change

for me. They change for you. Don't
forget, we're in this together.

And our priorities should be somewhat of
the same.

But sometimes I just want to do what I
want to do, not what you think I could.

I want you to have what you desire.

As long as that doesn't interfere with
what we have in terms of our marriage

our kids, I'm all for it. All right?
Okay.

I want her to be happy. I love when
she's happy. I like when she's excited

the things that she does.

And if I had held her back in any form
or fashion, she wouldn't have done some

amazing things.

Our next couple will come to the circle.

That couple will be Lisa and her new
husband, Dr.

Aiden.

No, cover up. He likes his women covered
up on him. Let me help you out.

I believe my husband is a good man. I
don't believe my husband. But I do

that we have to work on our trust and
transparency.

Okay, honey.

The last time we were talking about
transparency, and I need to be as 100 %

transparent as possible.

It's not just not telling little lies
and being 100 % honest. I know I can

be kind of rigid.

And my ways of thinking, you know, and
what I think we should have in a

and what I don't think we should have in
a marriage.

We've been through so much in our
marriage.

And we've learned to get through it.

But when information is withheld, it's
like a lie too, you know. And

I'm just at a place where I feel like if
you don't have trust.

You don't have a marriage.

It just causes you to wonder, you know,
when you get off from the hospital and

you take two hours to get home, where
are you? Are you really taking time to

finish up your charts, or did you take a
little detour to a bar to get a drink?

Coming up, I know I need to, like, just
trust that when you say you're going to

be somewhere, you're there.

We've been through so much in our
marriage, and we've learned to get

But when information is withheld, it's
like a lie, too, you know? And I'm just

at a place where I feel like if you
don't have trust, you don't have a

I know I need to, like, just trust that
when you say you're going to be

somewhere, you're there.

But I'm that way because of all that
we've been through.

Sometimes people feel like because you
were able to overcome

it and because you were able to forgive
and forget, that it doesn't

hurt. And it does.

You know?

It takes a lot of strength to move past
that.

Maybe there's part of me that's
hindering me from telling some of these

because our relationship or our past,
okay, and also you probably give that

energy that I don't want to tell you
some of these things.

So it's got to be both ways for you.

Okay.

It is very difficult to watch her be
such a strong woman in certain areas and

such a weak woman in this area. And I'm
not saying that Darren is cheating now,

but there are different levels of
cheating. You don't have to just cheat

bedroom. You know, you can cheat by
lying to me.

I mean, it all hurts the same.

Trust is the foundation of growth of
everything, from our relationship.

to our family relationship, to our
friends' relationship. If you don't have

trust, you don't have anything.

When you believe that God has picked
this woman for me,

he is going to make sure we get through.

The challenges, because there are going
to be challenges. The obstacles, because

there are going to be obstacles. The
hills, the valleys.

But in the end, when we're 80 years old,
we're going to be sitting on top of

that mountain because we've been through
the valleys. We've been through the

lows. We've been through the obstacles
because God chose this person for me.

Next time on Married to Medicine.

Toya, you can be mean sometimes.

And your friends even know it.

They want to be your friend. I want to
be your husband. But it can be rough.

If you're not there, I bet you it's
boring.

No, Mariah, that baby.

Ooh, and I need a break from that bitch,
too.

It's like, you know what?

If you're not over it, stay away.

But I'm not going to fake it that, like,
y 'all didn't lie on me. I'm not. I

lied? Yes.

Girl!

What's going on?

Y 'all better check that bitch. And
we're done with you.

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