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Previously on Married to Medicine.
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I'm not looking to run Nomad.
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I'm just looking to make Nomad
profitable for the family.
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NomadMD is a medical concierge business
started by myself and two other ER
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physicians. Dr. Wise and I would love to
have you come in as a consultant for
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NomadMD. If I could show Eugene how to
take Nomad to the next level, he
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have to count every dollar.
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Somebody's got to count all the dollars.
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And you know I took these courses to
become a certified relationship expert.
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I just feel like I can do a lot to help
people. You're doing too much already.
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I enjoy everything I do. That's what I'm
telling Damon.
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Why can't I tell Damon to sit his ass
down?
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We are here in L .A., guys.
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The energy that I feel when I'm in L .A.
is just like positive. It's productive.
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You like it? I really hate to see this
trip coming to an end.
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Ooh, that's gorgeous.
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We got into our altercation. She's been
aggressively pursuing the police to try
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to get the charge.
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For you. For me.
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I think that it's absolutely crazy that
Quad is filing charges.
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Quad was the more aggressive one. Quad
put her hands on me first.
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I actually was about to start
scrapbooking, but I was glad we did this
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collage for Aspen School.
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Who is we? I did that whole thing.
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No, you did not. You are not the dad of
the year. I don't know who lied to you
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and told you that. I worked real hard
staying on my grind.
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You're saying a lot to patients today.
Remember, I got up at 5.
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I was in the OR early.
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What else did you do today? Okay.
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Disrespect gets you.
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Is that what that is?
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It is.
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How can we help you bring your dream to
fruition? What do I need to do to
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actually get it in Neiman?
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My trip to L .A. really gave me that
extra boost of energy that I needed. I'm
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ready to focus on having coin pitch
galore.
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Yes. So you have luxury retail, the
digital campaign, and we dominate 2015
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on.
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Do you want to come help me cook?
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What? You're going to make me a gourmet
peanut butter and jelly sandwich?
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Yes. Do you want to help?
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I'm going to let you be chef
extraordinaire today, okay? With
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been going on, from the drama with
Claude, the accusations, you know, this
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quality time with my kids, that's
exactly what I need. I need to just let
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weight of the world fade to the
background and just focus on my
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I want to have a business like you.
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You do?
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What kind of business?
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A doll business.
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A doll business.
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I'm listening. You know Mommy's all
about entrepreneurship.
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My daughter is a mini -me, and watching
Mommy always in boss mode
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makes her a little mini -boss.
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How much do you think we should charge
for your doll?
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Uh, $20?
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The last doll I bought for you was about
$100.
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Do you think we can charge that much?
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Yeah. Well, I like the way you think,
honey. I mean, we are a luxury brand.
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I think it's extremely important to
teach children at a young age the value
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hard work.
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Did you make all that money from your
doll?
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Yeah.
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learned my work ethic from my mother. My
mother was a single parent and she
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worked very hard to provide a great life
for us and she didn't stop until she
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accomplished her goal.
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Dinner is served, my madam.
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DJ, it looks like you did a good job.
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This is not peanut butter. This is
chocolate and jelly. Yeah, because I
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eat peanut butter.
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Lately, my schedule has gotten more busy
than usual.
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It's going to take us about three to
five years to build this up to maximum
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capacity. I'm starting a new practice
from scratch.
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I started my foundation helping young
girls and mentoring them.
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The key to life is to fail quickly,
learn from it, and move on.
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My patient base has increased, so I'm
seeing a whole lot of patients.
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Boy, that was a hectic day today. I've
got to go pick up my daughter. And I'm
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still a great wife and mother. I'm still
home at five for my kids.
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I got a lot of rest last week. That was
great. Did you?
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So what did you do this weekend?
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Oh, you know, Lisa Nicole had a birthday
party for her son, DJ.
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Uh -huh.
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But Damon gave me a hard time about
going.
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Oh, really?
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But he always says that I spend too much
time away from home.
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Damon's like, Heavenly, you've been
gone, you know, three nights this week.
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Damon, he really wants me to slow down
and cut back. And right now, I just
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feel like I'm willing to do that. And
now that my kids are a little bit older,
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feel like now is my time to do
everything I ever wanted to do.
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So, girl, how was your trip to L .A.?
Yeah, we went with Quad and
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Jill. But Jill is Toya's trip, right?
Okay.
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So why not invite Toya? Toya ain't got
shit to do. She's available.
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Honestly, after all the shit that's gone
down with Quad and Lisa, you and Toya
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have jacked yourself up right on Lisa's
side.
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Julie, you could not think she was going
to call Toya. Please understand that I
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don't jack myself up on anybody's side.
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I do not think it's right for anybody
for any circumstance, unless they done
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damn killed your ass or slit you up to
be damned, to press charges on a black
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woman that has children. I just don't
support that. This is insane.
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It's psychotic.
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She does not understand the significance
of having a brand, having children,
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because she has none of these things. We
should be uplifting each other. All the
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bullshit. I mean, y 'all so fake with
all that heavily.
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We should be uplifting each other.
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No, no, no, no. She didn't do that
background check. Don't say y 'all are
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malicious shit. Yes, she did do it. You
can yell and scream all you want to. She
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only did it to me malicious. No, ma 'am.
You do not background check your
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friend. You're either friend or you're
not friend.
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I don't know what book of friends she's
reading from.
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You just take up for people blindly.
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Got your damn, you must be an expert.
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Heavenly is the biggest hypocrite I
know. She's constantly saying that women
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should uplift one another.
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But she's the first one to dog a bitch
out.
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Oh, here they come.
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Here they are.
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Hello, Mother.
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Hey, Mama. What's going on, baby girl?
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Hey, Michael.
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Hi. How was school today?
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Good. How was practice?
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Good. Did you ball out?
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Yes. Okay.
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But he likes basketball, huh? Oh, my
goodness. Michael loves basketball.
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I have an idea. You all will have to let
me know what you think about it. Okay.
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I was thinking that, you know, to have a
casual, fun outing, we could get
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together and play Michael's team.
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They're going to beat the shit out of
us.
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All of us are busy in our own right, and
I think that it is important for us as
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mothers spending time with the children,
getting involved in their activities,
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and having that family time together.
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Laura, can you play basketball?
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Are people going to try to push me?
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Push you? Michael, you're not going to
push the ladies, are you? I think he'll
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push his mama.
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I'll tackle her.
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What are y 'all doing?
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Cleaning off our things.
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Oh, okay. Well, who taught you to do
that?
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I don't know.
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At school?
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In your cooking class?
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Yeah. Oh, my God. Ashton is my little
helper.
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Ashton, you on it. Y 'all start without
Mommy.
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Avery, on the other hand, Avery is not a
pleaser.
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Avery is like, you're going to please me
first, and then I might please you.
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And we got to make this really good
because my daddy is on a diet.
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And so he's entitled to one happy day on
his birthday.
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It's my husband's birthday.
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Daddy's going to be so excited.
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So I'm thinking for Eugene's birthday
party, I'm going to do something a
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more low -key. Because the Harris's have
bills.
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But once Mommy takes Nomad to the next
level, that money's going to be rolling
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in. You know I got friends.
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We go to the club, get them some shots.
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Next day, what they need?
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Infusion!
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You're going to get your friends drunk,
and then the next day we're going to go
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and stick a needle in their arm. That's
part of it. That's all day.
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I think this party is the perfect time
to test out infusion because, I mean,
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better to use the test dummies than your
friends?
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Oh, oh, Mommy, burn your hand.
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Hey. Hey, Kay, Mommy.
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Yeah, I'm okay. Thank you for asking.
Don't hurt yourself.
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This is why Mommy don't bake.
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I'm inviting all my girls to the party,
and honestly, I don't know what to do
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about Kwok.
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Yes, I'm feeling some kind of way about
why not invite me to California.
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And so I'm thinking we might need to
have a conversation first, just to make
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sure that the air is nice and clean.
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Happy birthday, Daddy.
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Happy birthday, Daddy.
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You can't do that, Ashton. That's
disgusting.
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Stop, for real.
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Coming up on Married to Medicine.
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You don't have to get loud with me. You
don't have to get smart. I am me, and I
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am here, and I am taking care of
business. All right, that's enough.
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This is the place.
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I'm so excited for you.
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You are?
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Because I didn't think you were serious
about the whole relationship thing. You
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know, I take everything seriously.
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I'm much more than just a dentist.
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I mean, I'm an entrepreneur. I can make
it in any industry.
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I love it, the whole dating app.
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Yeah. Building this relationship app,
this dating app, is just one more step
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building my empire.
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Listen, only an entrepreneur can do what
I do.
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Did you not Google me?
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No.
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Nice to meet you. I'm Toya, just a good
friend of hers who's coming to learn a
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little something.
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Okay, let's go on in the conference
room.
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I've only invited me to attend the
meeting because she knows that I marry
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She knows that I have a lot to offer.
She knows that before Eugene, I was out
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here doing my thing, learning people.
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I was having a great time dating.
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I call it mastering my singleness.
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I do.
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Relationships is my forte.
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I've looked around and everybody tells
me they want a man.
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Mm -hmm. I got a man. I know how to get
a man, and I know how to keep a man.
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There's a lot of people out here looking
for love, looking for what I have with
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my husband and what Lisa has with her
husband, but what I have with my
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Let's look at some of the features that
the Apne's have. What are some of the
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things that you have in mind? I'm
finding that a lot of people look at the
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people on the thing, and they don't look
nothing like the damn picture.
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So we need to stop with the superficial
stuff and let them actually talk before
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they actually see each other. Does that
make sense to you?
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Right, and I think that's the way to
make it different. One of the things I'm
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thinking about doing on the app is
initially not seeing the picture of the
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person, not being able to see them so
you can actually think about the
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character. But what about when you get
to know them and you see their feet?
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Okay, if you deal with all of what y
'all dealing with, the feet are going to
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okay. She's superficial like... If I was
superficial, my husband wouldn't have a
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little belly.
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Thank you very much.
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But it kind of overrides when he got a
good paycheck, right?
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No. No.
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Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that
the man has to be fine.
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But I'm saying you at least know he
ain't butt ugly.
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That's why the dating gang ain't around
no more.
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Because ain't nobody just going to let
you, you know, question them. You sit
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behind a curtain and all of a sudden,
poof, you see the person's face and
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like, I'm straight.
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We need a name, and, you know, I like
Heavenly. That's my brand, Heavenly, Dr.
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Heavenly, right?
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But what do you think about Dr.
Heavenly?
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It's kind of long.
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Okay. They might think it's a Christian
act.
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Okay, when you're out there looking, you
want to see someone that piques your
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curiosity, right?
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What about Pete?
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How do you spell Pete?
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Well, you say Pete.
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No, Pete.
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P -E -E -K?
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Not that Pete. Not the mountain Pete.
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I think that Toya needs to broaden her
vocabulary just a little bit. I mean, if
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you ever heard of a synonym, spell the
word out for Toya and tell her what it
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means. That means to make someone angry
or annoyed.
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That's one.
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That's one definition.
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I'm going to pray for Toya. She'll get
it.
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Just building the app alone, that's
going to cost $30 ,000.
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Okay. Did you say $30 ,000?
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That's just the app itself. That doesn't
include marketing and advertising.
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I think that's a hell of a lot. I mean,
honestly, I know other people that can
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do apps.
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Oh, wow.
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Really? I have a relationship with her.
I know
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what's going to be right. Now, you
looking at this number, I'm not quad,
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Oh, you can afford that? I don't have to
go out and find an investor.
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Anything that's right, that's done well,
costs money. And I'm going to go
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forward with the app because I believe
in the product. I believe in it, and I
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think it's going to be one of the best
apps out there.
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We came up with some great ideas. We
need to know how to implement them. So I
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want to know weekly where we're at.
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Is that okay?
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Sounds good. Sounds good. Oh, I'm so
excited. I'm excited for you. Me and you
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both. You better clean that mess up.
Don't play.
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Oh, that's fine. I got that for $30
,000.
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Are you a housekeeper too?
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For $30 ,000, I'll come clean your
house.
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November. How are you? I'm good. I'm
sleepless.
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Oh, sleepless in Atlanta.
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How are you? Good.
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So how is it?
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It's different, but it's fun too though.
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Certainly the gay baby boom has
increased because technology is so great
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that it's more affordable.
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Women are more open with the fact that
they're same -sex relationships and they
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have a child. So it's a common
occurrence now.
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When baby's here and cord's cut, what's
that feeling? Because I personally,
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honestly don't know.
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I just felt like I was in a whole other
world with nobody else around me or
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nothing, just me and him. I didn't feel
anything else around me. That's why when
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I was screaming or crying or anything,
it just didn't matter.
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Same -sex couples are much like myself.
You can't actually have a child.
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But it's one of those things in life
when you can't have it and you finally
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it, oh, my God, you treasure it with
your life.
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Have you had any fears about it all,
though, in explaining to the baby?
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I have, yeah. And then we kind of see it
because, you know, it's different in
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your families. Nobody knows what to
expect.
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No one knows how to react.
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So it's really different. And it's hard
to get people on board the way you want
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them to be on board. You want them to be
like, you know, this is y 'all's
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family. This is y 'all's baby. This is
it. But some people are, you know,
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they're not receptive to it. Family.
Right.
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Oh, yes, indeed.
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How are you? Well, I'm not going to ask
no sex questions.
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I'm not. I'm not drunk.
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She said I'm not going to go there.
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I can't believe.
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Well, good.
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All right. So you get undressed, and I
will come back.
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Okay? All right.
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Okay. Mama, you're doing your work?
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You need some help?
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No. No, you're good? Okay. Well, let me
check it when you're finished, okay?
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All right. What's that?
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Candy. Mama, you don't do candy. That's
not good for your teeth. Give it to me.
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Now, we don't do candy. I don't even
know where you get this from.
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Over there.
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I know. We don't do candy here.
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Hey, baby. What's going on?
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Where you been?
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Working. I wouldn't change the stuff.
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Hey, little baby. What you doing? I was
just talking to Amara. She's doing her
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homework.
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So, Daddy, I'm real excited.
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About what? Well, I met with some people
about getting my app done, the
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relationship app, the dating app.
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So you're really going to do it, huh?
Yeah, we came up with some names. We
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up with a marketer plan, everything,
Damon.
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I'm glad you're doing it. I'm excited,
but are you sure you want to take on one
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more thing?
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What? What are you saying?
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I'm saying that...
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We just talked about you being busy, and
I want you to do stuff, but you're
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doing a lot already, buddy.
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You also have other responsibilities
like me and like the kids. But I always
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what you want me to do, and this time it
may be a little bit different.
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No, it won't.
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Damon, don't you think you're doing a
lot? I mean, you got your computer in
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hand. What are you about to do with
that?
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Not ignoring my whole family. Well, you
brought a computer in the kitchen. What
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are you doing?
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Buddy. Don't turn the table.
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What do you mean? You're doing a lot
more because this is going to take some
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work to do that.
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Helen has been taking on a lot more
things recently. She's developing a
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practice. She's doing charity work.
She's doing mentoring. And now she wants
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do another venture. So that's got me a
little bit concerned.
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You don't know my background. I mean,
Damon, I was poor all my life. My mama
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always taught me to always have more
than one form of income.
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people, Damon. I can't depend on you.
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Growing up, I thought, you know, my
mom's struggling, and I thought when,
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know, she didn't have a job, how my
father acted differently.
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To this day, I cannot see me being
totally dependent on any man.
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What I'm saying is, I know you're a
great guy and all that, but I will
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have my own.
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That's not my fault.
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Yeah, you know what, Allura, do your
homework upstairs, little baby.
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Okay.
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Why she got to go upstairs?
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Well, we had to have an argument or a
discussion, man. We had to have an
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argument. What I'm telling you is you
need to spend time with the family.
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And you're doing too much, whether you
think you are or not.
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Structure your schedule so you're here
and you're not always doing stuff. You
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don't have to get loud with me. You
don't have to get smart. I don't get
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You know, I'm going to listen to you,
baby. I'm just saying.
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I think you're being unreasonable
because I work the same hours as any
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female that has a job. So when I leave
the house, the kids are here. I make
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I'm doing everything that's done before
they leave, and I'm here when they get
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back. The whole purpose of submitting to
your husband is so you can get what you
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want to out of them. How could you say
that?
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What the f*** was I thinking?
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Submitting all this time, and now that
that's something I really want to do, he
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won't support me in it?
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I've been submitting all this time for
nothing.
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All right, that's enough, okay?
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Just think about what I'm saying.
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I know you didn't just walk away from
me.
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Coming up.
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You know, I think I might need to just
remove myself from some of the women in
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this room.
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Are you okay?
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Yeah, I'm okay.
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Yeah, I was just checking on you.
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What was that rolling eyes for?
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Damon and I process things a lot
differently.
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I'm the type of person that wants to get
it all out there. I want to fuss about
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it. I want to talk about it. He kind of
internalizes stuff, and he kind of vents
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by going to play his music, and that
pisses me the hell off.
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You know, I love you, buddy. I'm glad
what you're doing. It's important.
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And, you know, I would never stand in
the way of you pursuing your dreams
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because you never fit in mine. That's
how I was able to do all this stuff.
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Right? So what is the problem?
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If you did tell me, hey, Damon, bring it
in a little bit and think about this
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one thing, I thought about it.
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Damon, I always do what you tell me to
do.
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We got a problem, baby.
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No, we don't. We don't have a problem.
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Yes, we do.
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No, we don't.
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I don't know what you want from me,
David. I mean, I lost weight. I'm here
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you. I make sure this house is taken
care of. I do stuff when you're sleeping
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that you don't even realize I do.
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I'm not saying stop what you're doing.
Why are you talking to me?
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Can I do everything I want to do?
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Buddy, what I'm telling you is this.
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Take one or two days off a week.
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I love you, buddy. I just want you to
spend more time.
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That's all.
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You know, when me and my husband argue,
I always feel bad because I know that he
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has my best interest at heart. I know he
does.
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Well, we'll talk about it, baby, okay?
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You want me to rub your back? We'll talk
about it, okay?
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Okay. We can talk about it. I know this
feeling like the back of my hand. I
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already know what to do. Come on now,
I'm a relationship expert. If I didn't
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know how to do that, how the hell can I
help other people?
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That's it. I love you, too.
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You want to say hi?
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You want to talk to her about how she
don't invite you to anything?
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What up, little pumpkin? How you doing?
She's very upset at you. Hello!
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Hi! She said you never invite her to
anything.
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What's up, girl? What's going on?
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How are you?
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I'm well. How are you? I decided to drop
by Toya's house.
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to bring Eugene a gift for his birthday.
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Is he here?
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No, you can save it and give it to him
at the party. You're so cute. Because if
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she who shall not be named will be at
the party, I won't be there.
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Well, it is so nice to see you. It's
been a minute.
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Yes, it has, honey. It's been a minute.
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Miss M -I -A.
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No, I've actually been around.
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You've been around? You just haven't
been around me? I just haven't been
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Jill. Why?
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I heard about your California trip.
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I did. I was really jealous about that.
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Girl, I can understand why you would be.
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I like to sit by pools and have drinks.
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And live the fabulous life.
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Girl, pump your brakes.
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She's done nothing to even see if I was
okay from the situation that happened
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between myself and Lisa. In fact, she's
pretty much been Team Lisa.
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It was a combination of things. And I
just said, you know, I think I might
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to just remove myself for a minute.
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Right? And reevaluate what I thought I
had with some of the women in this
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I called you. I texted you.
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And Kauai has not responded to me. Well,
I want to talk to you about that, too,
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because the night of the situation, I
think Heavenly called me and was like,
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hey, where are you?
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Kauai, this is Toya. What did you do?
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She just threw water on your face?
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Out the blue?
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You just automatically went into, what
did you do? What did you say to make her
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pour water in two glasses at you? And
it's almost implying, like, it's
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justified. You shouldn't have said it.
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Okay. When that happened, I'm thinking
back in my mind, the last time I saw
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Kwai, she said she was about to go at it
with this girl. She was about to get
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her stuff, her background, and she was
about to let her have it. Because that's
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what you said.
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You made it abundantly clear. Let me
give you exactly what I said so no one's
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confused. What I did say was, you know
what, Lisa, I'm not going to do anything
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behind your back. I'm going to conduct a
background investigation on you. It was
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a lot.
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It was a little more animalism.
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No, wait a minute. Girl. And you know
what?
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If there's something there, there will
be a presentation shortly thereafter.
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Not for the world, but for me and her.
No, you said I'm going to tell
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No, I didn't say that.
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I'm going to tell you what I'm going to
do. I'm going to do a background check
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on you. And I will expose it, my dear.
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So, I'm going to see Kwa at Eugene's
birthday party for me.
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I just don't want to be a part of any
drama. But I got a nice bottle of
458
00:25:38,060 --> 00:25:41,060
champagne, and I hope it sets the mood
for you and Gina, baby. I do.
459
00:25:41,940 --> 00:25:47,300
If you can't find it in your heart to
move past your petty little issue with
460
00:25:47,300 --> 00:25:52,040
Lisa and come and at least give my
husband a hug, a high five, whatever you
461
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,500
to do, then that just shows how deep our
friendship really is.
462
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:07,600
How are we, baby?
463
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:09,600
Sisterhood.
464
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,680
I'm glad I brought you with me.
465
00:26:12,140 --> 00:26:15,560
Shoot, I would have been scared to come
out here. I need security.
466
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:20,460
I think a lot of people think that we
have a perfect marriage. No marriage is
467
00:26:20,460 --> 00:26:24,120
perfect. We have the same issues just
like everybody else. But I think that
468
00:26:24,120 --> 00:26:26,600
thing that we do have is that we respect
one another.
469
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,520
And then when we have issues, we
communicate.
470
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,240
We here for Eugene's birthday party.
471
00:26:32,500 --> 00:26:35,860
A lot of times it's not about yelling
and screaming like Simone does.
472
00:26:35,860 --> 00:26:38,480
it's just about talking, you know me? To
get my way.
473
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:40,160
Right, baby?
474
00:26:40,780 --> 00:26:41,780
Where are we?
475
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:42,900
Is that Heavenly's car?
476
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,580
Yeah. What does she have hanging from
her rearview mirror?
477
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:47,800
Looks like an air freshener.
478
00:26:48,220 --> 00:26:51,580
And her Bentley? She says it's a
Bentley, but it's probably a Chrysler
479
00:26:51,580 --> 00:26:52,539
Bentley sticker.
480
00:26:52,540 --> 00:26:55,180
Here's somebody who really belongs in
here. Look.
481
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:57,280
Hey!
482
00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:58,880
How's it going?
483
00:27:03,470 --> 00:27:06,470
I think Jill and John are okay. They
just seem like the odd couple, in my
484
00:27:06,470 --> 00:27:08,050
opinion. Working hard.
485
00:27:08,790 --> 00:27:12,590
John seems like he's the type of person
that's really kind of quiet and laid
486
00:27:12,590 --> 00:27:15,870
back, and Jill seems like she just, they
don't seem right for each other.
487
00:27:16,170 --> 00:27:19,730
How long have you worked together, like,
daily, pretty much?
488
00:27:19,970 --> 00:27:20,970
Four years.
489
00:27:21,090 --> 00:27:21,989
Going on five.
490
00:27:21,990 --> 00:27:22,569
That's good.
491
00:27:22,570 --> 00:27:24,950
So why don't you have your own firm and,
like, do your own thing? I'm just
492
00:27:24,950 --> 00:27:27,110
asking. I don't want my own firm.
493
00:27:27,530 --> 00:27:29,170
You'd rather just work for your husband.
494
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,020
Well, I wouldn't say it's working for my
husband. I work with my husband.
495
00:27:34,220 --> 00:27:35,220
But it's his practice, right?
496
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,300
It has his name on it, but it's our
practice.
497
00:27:37,700 --> 00:27:41,200
What would she do with her own firm?
Work somewhere else?
498
00:27:41,660 --> 00:27:42,660
No, own it.
499
00:27:42,820 --> 00:27:46,060
Own her own firm and have other lawyers
working under her. That's what I do. I
500
00:27:46,060 --> 00:27:50,120
have other doctors. I think women who
work for their husbands are probably the
501
00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:52,460
type of women that cannot make it in the
real workforce.
502
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,360
So they kind of hide behind their
husbands and work in their jobs in order
503
00:27:56,360 --> 00:27:58,240
say they have something they can do, but
really...
504
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:00,820
They're just playing at their husband's
job.
505
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:05,900
So, um, I have a question. So what is
your thought about, like, what happened
506
00:28:05,900 --> 00:28:10,220
the Cheetah when we were there? Like,
how Lisa kind of attacked me and was
507
00:28:10,380 --> 00:28:15,580
you... Uh... How's Aaron?
508
00:28:16,100 --> 00:28:17,100
Ooh.
509
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:24,040
My husband doesn't come here. He
doesn't. I didn't know.
510
00:28:24,300 --> 00:28:28,420
You're gonna bring up the... His strip
club again, really?
511
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:29,800
Where are we?
512
00:28:30,180 --> 00:28:31,180
Well,
513
00:28:31,340 --> 00:28:36,480
I thought it was quite interesting. I
don't know a woman, an intelligent
514
00:28:36,660 --> 00:28:40,140
that would tell the wife because that's
messing up their money. They're there to
515
00:28:40,140 --> 00:28:43,700
make money, right? They're going and
sending themselves out there to make
516
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:48,640
right? Well, Lisa came in there offering
up her pyramid marketing scheme as a
517
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,300
better... She says scheme.
518
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,060
I'm going to give you a card, okay? Oh,
okay.
519
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,060
This is a business that I did to pay for
school.
520
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,680
Is your girlfriend doing direct sales
right here? She probably is.
521
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,240
They're very comfortable with the choice
that they made for their career.
522
00:29:06,970 --> 00:29:09,810
Some of them don't know that they had a
choice, something better. You have to
523
00:29:09,810 --> 00:29:12,790
understand the mindset. A lot of these
women think that they cannot do better.
524
00:29:12,890 --> 00:29:16,110
Girls know they have a choice. No, they
don't. A lot of times it's their
525
00:29:16,110 --> 00:29:17,410
mindset. It's not prostitution.
526
00:29:17,710 --> 00:29:22,110
Well, it probably leads to that. Most
times it does lead to that. You think
527
00:29:22,110 --> 00:29:25,910
a majority of the women that work at a
strip club are prostitutes? Yeah, a
528
00:29:25,910 --> 00:29:27,170
majority of them are.
529
00:29:27,450 --> 00:29:29,570
Well, prostitution is when you get...
530
00:29:29,820 --> 00:29:33,040
Money for sex. And they are getting
money for a type of sex.
531
00:29:33,420 --> 00:29:39,760
My whole life, people judge me because
I'm blonde or I have big breasts or I'm
532
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,720
bubbly or I'm married to a plastic
surgeon. And they make these
533
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:47,980
So it bothers me when people assume
things about other people that aren't
534
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,500
So you know these girls too? No, I don't
know them. I'm saying in general. You
535
00:29:51,500 --> 00:29:53,500
can't say that all strippers are
prostitutes.
536
00:29:53,820 --> 00:29:57,220
No. I mean, it's like saying all
dentists are crooks, you know?
537
00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,860
I have patients that work at strip
clubs.
538
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:01,840
They are nurses.
539
00:30:02,060 --> 00:30:04,000
They are students.
540
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,280
They're dentists.
541
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:11,020
In medicine, and I'm sure it's the same
in dentistry, you never say never and
542
00:30:11,020 --> 00:30:12,020
you never say always.
543
00:30:12,540 --> 00:30:13,540
Those are the rules.
544
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:19,640
But I think for dancers, on the
application, there's a box that says,
545
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:20,299
or not.
546
00:30:20,300 --> 00:30:21,440
And if you check...
547
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,060
No, then sorry, no deal, right?
548
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,720
Must be. In general, when you work at a
strip club, a lot of those women do go
549
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,840
home with the men. They do. That's just
a fact. You know what they say when you
550
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:32,840
assume.
551
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:35,860
Okay, I don't like to talk to men.
552
00:30:39,860 --> 00:30:41,780
Coming up on Married to Medicine.
553
00:30:42,340 --> 00:30:47,780
I'm not truly owning my shit. The bottom
line is I was angry and being mean.
554
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,380
I have patients that work at strip
clubs.
555
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,340
They are nurses.
556
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,460
They are students.
557
00:30:58,780 --> 00:31:00,740
They're dentists.
558
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:05,940
In general, when you work at a strip
club, a lot of those women do go home
559
00:31:05,940 --> 00:31:08,920
the men. They do. That's just a fact.
You know what they say? You assume.
560
00:31:11,750 --> 00:31:14,990
Okay, I don't like to talk to men. I
want to have a conversation with her.
561
00:31:14,990 --> 00:31:15,990
no, no.
562
00:31:16,750 --> 00:31:18,470
He's not going to have a conversation
with me.
563
00:31:19,250 --> 00:31:20,910
You're kicking me out of the circle. No,
no, no.
564
00:31:24,090 --> 00:31:27,910
I think that John is trying to be an
ass. I really do. I feel like I don't
565
00:31:27,910 --> 00:31:31,570
to talk to them anymore because
obviously you don't know me and you
566
00:31:31,570 --> 00:31:32,570
don't know what to say.
567
00:31:32,930 --> 00:31:35,450
Sorry, I thought we were having like a
civil conversation. No wonder why she
568
00:31:35,450 --> 00:31:36,470
doesn't work in your office.
569
00:31:37,150 --> 00:31:40,390
It was so ridiculous that I really
didn't want to laugh in her face.
570
00:31:41,020 --> 00:31:42,960
I just don't want to say the wrong thing
to your husband.
571
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:48,880
I've learned over the years to sometimes
just kind of take a deep breath and
572
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,060
walk away.
573
00:31:51,980 --> 00:31:52,980
Yay!
574
00:31:55,300 --> 00:31:56,300
Hallelujah!
575
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,420
Thank goodness you didn't broke up. We
needed a breath of fresh air.
576
00:32:02,590 --> 00:32:04,890
I'm excited. Today is my birthday.
577
00:32:05,270 --> 00:32:09,770
It's your birthday. So I get to have,
you know, a nice event at a sports bar.
578
00:32:10,070 --> 00:32:13,030
I'm good. You see, I was budgeting. I'm
happy. You see, I was budgeting. I'm
579
00:32:13,030 --> 00:32:16,890
happy. It was a struggle getting here.
Toya had me running errands. On your
580
00:32:16,890 --> 00:32:21,830
birthday? I'm not happy that we're late,
though, because I hate being places
581
00:32:21,830 --> 00:32:23,570
late, especially my own event.
582
00:32:24,570 --> 00:32:25,570
What's your title?
583
00:32:28,630 --> 00:32:29,890
It's my husband's birthday.
584
00:32:30,170 --> 00:32:31,690
Why are your shorts so short?
585
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,040
You can't be over here that short for my
husband.
586
00:32:35,060 --> 00:32:36,080
Girl, bye.
587
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:39,840
Hello, Bebo.
588
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:41,720
You came.
589
00:32:41,860 --> 00:32:45,080
Thank you so much. I was going to wear a
dress just like this.
590
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,300
Well, Toya, I'm trying to get more
fashion. That would have been tragic.
591
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,640
That would have been tragic. That would
have been horrible.
592
00:32:51,060 --> 00:32:52,600
You are doing a good job.
593
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:54,900
I'm trying to look beautiful as always.
594
00:32:55,140 --> 00:32:59,300
Thank you. I'm definitely giving it a
chance with Toya again.
595
00:32:59,930 --> 00:33:02,230
I mean, we enjoyed hanging out with them
before.
596
00:33:03,030 --> 00:33:05,850
I don't see why we couldn't make it work
again. You cheat?
597
00:33:06,090 --> 00:33:07,330
Do you want a birthday dance?
598
00:33:07,570 --> 00:33:09,710
One hug per waitress, and that's it.
599
00:33:09,910 --> 00:33:13,210
I think I got to take a little bit of
credit. You guys are having a good time,
600
00:33:13,410 --> 00:33:18,710
smiling, laughing, giggling. All of the
credit goes to me and Toya for making
601
00:33:18,710 --> 00:33:21,270
the decision that we didn't want to
fight anymore.
602
00:33:21,590 --> 00:33:23,410
The credit goes to you guys.
603
00:33:23,970 --> 00:33:27,970
Let you and I go. I'm not going to try
to work anything out. That's it.
604
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,380
Oh, my God. You and Eugene fell
miserably, honey.
605
00:33:31,700 --> 00:33:32,700
Yeah.
606
00:33:35,420 --> 00:33:36,440
What's going on, man?
607
00:33:36,660 --> 00:33:37,660
Hey,
608
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:39,240
how you doing, Tony?
609
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,780
Hey, what's going on? Happy birthday.
610
00:33:43,340 --> 00:33:45,440
Dr. G, yeah.
611
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,200
See, I knew you had it in you.
612
00:33:49,020 --> 00:33:53,520
I'm going to support my boy. That's
right. Do what you got to do, Dr. G.
613
00:33:55,920 --> 00:34:02,820
from hopefuls me and the kids made it
last night let me get
614
00:34:02,820 --> 00:34:06,040
you a drink let me get you a drink what
do you want you want some juice i want
615
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:11,020
some coke you want to you know that's
what i like appreciate you guys coming i
616
00:34:11,020 --> 00:34:15,380
really appreciate it i'm always looking
for a party oh yeah i mean it's nice to
617
00:34:15,380 --> 00:34:21,739
see the women sitting here talking
laughing having fun you know It's been a
618
00:34:21,739 --> 00:34:23,800
difficult time not hanging out with
Eugene.
619
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,060
I mean, we were hanging out. It's not
been that difficult.
620
00:34:26,300 --> 00:34:27,380
It's been kind of difficult.
621
00:34:27,639 --> 00:34:28,639
Cecil, don't lie.
622
00:34:29,020 --> 00:34:29,938
I mean.
623
00:34:29,940 --> 00:34:32,900
I make up for the time that you can't
spend with Eugene.
624
00:34:33,380 --> 00:34:36,860
Right, you don't. No, okay. I think we
were successful.
625
00:34:37,699 --> 00:34:40,560
Just like we said in the beginning.
Right.
626
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,260
You don't want to listen.
627
00:34:42,580 --> 00:34:44,440
Right. But it worked. Right.
628
00:34:50,370 --> 00:34:51,370
Excuse me.
629
00:34:52,449 --> 00:34:53,228
What's up?
630
00:34:53,230 --> 00:34:56,650
I told Eugene that you guys brought him
home with some drinks today, but I
631
00:34:56,650 --> 00:34:59,370
didn't tell the girls that I saw Clyde.
I wanted her to come.
632
00:34:59,610 --> 00:35:00,610
No, she's busy.
633
00:35:00,850 --> 00:35:03,090
Does she work at 9 o 'clock in the
morning? Yes, she does.
634
00:35:03,510 --> 00:35:06,510
Sometimes she's up to 1, 2 o 'clock in
the morning. For the puppy clothes.
635
00:35:07,770 --> 00:35:09,130
Okay, so she's still working then.
636
00:35:10,270 --> 00:35:14,110
Well, if she spent more time working her
puppy life, she'd probably have less
637
00:35:14,110 --> 00:35:17,150
time to be worrying about some
background checks. That's my thought on
638
00:35:17,930 --> 00:35:18,930
going on in your life?
639
00:35:20,710 --> 00:35:22,030
Haven't we got a dating site?
640
00:35:23,830 --> 00:35:28,070
Matchmaking? Do you want to be on the
dating site?
641
00:35:28,810 --> 00:35:33,090
We're going to have a section for if
they want children right away.
642
00:35:33,990 --> 00:35:37,530
I think that's probably going to bomb.
643
00:35:41,830 --> 00:35:43,170
What are you drinking, Jill?
644
00:35:43,630 --> 00:35:44,810
Vodka and soda.
645
00:35:45,240 --> 00:35:50,340
Vodka, very little soda. So, ladies, I
wanted to share with you guys. I'm
646
00:35:50,340 --> 00:35:51,660
a basketball game.
647
00:35:51,900 --> 00:35:57,360
The ladies against the children. I was
actually going to recommend managing the
648
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:58,720
cheerleading squad myself.
649
00:35:59,060 --> 00:36:03,400
Well, here's the thing. I wanted to make
this point.
650
00:36:04,620 --> 00:36:10,500
Because, Lisa, I'm not actually
extending an invitation to you.
651
00:36:11,060 --> 00:36:12,880
Oh, you're not inviting me to come?
652
00:36:13,770 --> 00:36:17,310
I'm not. I don't want you to take it
personal because Quad is coming.
653
00:36:18,210 --> 00:36:19,210
That's deep.
654
00:36:20,050 --> 00:36:21,350
I feel very hurt.
655
00:36:21,850 --> 00:36:23,970
I don't have any issues with them all.
656
00:36:24,290 --> 00:36:27,650
So, basically, this is just a repeat of
last year again.
657
00:36:28,410 --> 00:36:29,410
That's what I see.
658
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,720
Having to choose friends, choose what
side they're on. I mean, it's immature.
659
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,820
If you have a problem with another
woman, go talk to that woman and squash
660
00:36:38,820 --> 00:36:41,520
If you can't do that. But they talked
and it didn't work out well. That's
661
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,840
because you pulled out some bad stuff on
her husband.
662
00:36:44,140 --> 00:36:46,680
Now, if you want to have a conversation
with me and you say something bad about
663
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,280
Daddy, the conversation's not going to
go well.
664
00:36:48,660 --> 00:36:55,100
How childish can you be? We did this
last year and it was dumb as hell. So we
665
00:36:55,100 --> 00:36:58,340
learn from our mistakes, okay? And if
we're going to make the same... mistakes
666
00:36:58,340 --> 00:37:01,480
over and over again we're not learning
we're not growing we're staying in the
667
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:05,500
same rut that we started with this
childhood should not be in the same room
668
00:37:05,500 --> 00:37:08,900
someone just because if we're all
friends and we're all good friends and
669
00:37:08,900 --> 00:37:13,760
here to celebrate the only difference is
they had an actual physical altercation
670
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:18,580
yeah i have a different side to me
sometimes every last one of us can all
671
00:37:18,580 --> 00:37:24,400
there you saw a side of me that someone
attacked my family and i responded and i
672
00:37:24,510 --> 00:37:27,710
think that each and every one of you
would probably do this? I know I would
673
00:37:27,710 --> 00:37:28,710
have. I would not.
674
00:37:29,010 --> 00:37:34,390
All these women think that they've been
given a license to react and act any way
675
00:37:34,390 --> 00:37:36,650
they want if somebody crosses the line.
Uh -uh.
676
00:37:37,030 --> 00:37:38,610
That's called being a child.
677
00:37:39,270 --> 00:37:43,570
I've invited Quad to the basketball
game. I've known her longer, Lisa.
678
00:37:43,790 --> 00:37:46,310
it's not personal if you're taking it
personal.
679
00:37:46,790 --> 00:37:47,790
It's personal.
680
00:37:48,130 --> 00:37:49,350
It is personal.
681
00:37:55,310 --> 00:37:57,170
I'm shocked at Lisa's reaction.
682
00:37:57,510 --> 00:38:01,510
Why is she thinking that she's entitled
to come to the game?
683
00:38:01,890 --> 00:38:07,650
It is actually okay to get left out of
an event every now and again. Have you
684
00:38:07,650 --> 00:38:08,650
reached out to Quad?
685
00:38:09,350 --> 00:38:15,950
No, because one thing that Quad said a
long time ago to me is that she's a
686
00:38:15,950 --> 00:38:20,230
Taurus, and when she's angry, she just
needs to... No, no, no. I'm talking
687
00:38:20,230 --> 00:38:21,230
owning your part.
688
00:38:21,720 --> 00:38:26,500
For things to get better between Lisa
and Quad, I'd like to see Lisa just say,
689
00:38:26,620 --> 00:38:33,580
okay, did this, probably wasn't the
wisest thing to do, let's fix it. And
690
00:38:33,580 --> 00:38:37,980
reason being is we have legal matters
going on. You guys can get beyond that,
691
00:38:38,020 --> 00:38:39,580
though, don't you think so? Absolutely.
692
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,140
I'm not the one pursuing it, you know.
693
00:38:42,420 --> 00:38:46,340
This thing has just spiraled so far out
of control.
694
00:38:46,990 --> 00:38:51,810
Do I want to file charges? No, I just
want this thing to end. I don't want to
695
00:38:51,810 --> 00:38:54,030
keep the drama going.
696
00:38:54,570 --> 00:39:01,530
I feel like I threw the water, yes, but
I would never ever put my hands
697
00:39:01,530 --> 00:39:08,110
on someone. If I say to Toya that I
called you all that because you said
698
00:39:08,110 --> 00:39:10,650
right, I'm not truly owning my shit.
699
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:16,240
The bottom line is, I spurted those
things out of my mouth because I was
700
00:39:16,240 --> 00:39:17,480
and being mean.
701
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:28,240
Coming up.
702
00:39:28,620 --> 00:39:31,020
Now she got to leave because everybody
making a point.
703
00:39:31,240 --> 00:39:32,680
I don't give a f*** about Lisa.
704
00:39:39,740 --> 00:39:43,740
When it comes to this new infusion
thing, I'm going to get my girls pumped
705
00:39:43,740 --> 00:39:44,940
liquor. What are you drinking?
706
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,680
That's a little cup. Do you have a big
cup?
707
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,800
So that tomorrow they will have an
appreciation for what I'm bringing to
708
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:52,180
Can I get a drink, but Simone?
709
00:39:52,940 --> 00:39:54,560
You want dark liquor or light?
710
00:39:54,900 --> 00:39:56,700
Please believe, I'm on my job.
711
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:41,500
not even here at the party, but she
clearly is still pulling Simone's
712
00:40:42,240 --> 00:40:46,940
It doesn't matter what y 'all say. When
you talk about a physical altercation,
713
00:40:47,100 --> 00:40:49,920
I'm just not down. You almost had a
physical altercation. I'm just not down.
714
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:54,660
When you get angry, you yell, you
scream. When I'm in control and all I'm
715
00:40:54,660 --> 00:40:55,660
is yelling.
716
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:58,440
Not physically, throwing glasses.
717
00:40:58,840 --> 00:40:59,840
I'm in control.
718
00:41:00,220 --> 00:41:02,860
Simone has lost it on many occasions.
719
00:41:08,940 --> 00:41:12,260
But you didn't even give me a chance. I
don't need to give you a chance. It
720
00:41:12,260 --> 00:41:13,260
ain't about you.
721
00:41:13,340 --> 00:41:16,180
If that's not the pot calling the kettle
black, I don't know what is.
722
00:41:16,540 --> 00:41:17,540
I'm in control.
723
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:19,120
No, you're not.
724
00:41:19,260 --> 00:41:21,720
How could you say that? We're talking
about holding our shit.
725
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,100
I'm not crying about nothing.
726
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,960
Now she got to leave because everybody
making a point.
727
00:41:28,180 --> 00:41:32,760
I don't give a fuck about Lisa. The
bottom line is, I don't like what Lisa
728
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:33,760
done to Quad.
729
00:41:33,820 --> 00:41:37,040
They can defend her all they want. I'm
tired of the bullshit.
730
00:41:38,500 --> 00:41:39,720
She's not getting invited.
731
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:41,200
And that's it.
732
00:41:41,380 --> 00:41:42,380
I'm done.
733
00:41:47,220 --> 00:41:48,960
Next time on Married to Medicine.
734
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,700
They were happy as hell. They're like,
oh, free drinks?
735
00:41:52,240 --> 00:41:55,120
She's topping them off. They thought I
was just being hospitable. Right. I tell
736
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:58,240
you, this is the perfect way to
advertise the infusion.
737
00:41:58,540 --> 00:41:59,538
It's all legal.
738
00:41:59,540 --> 00:42:03,220
Of course. It's vitamins. It's going to
be like delivering crap.
739
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:08,400
Miss Simone decided that since Miss
Quiet was going to be at the basketball
740
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,360
game, that Mommy didn't need to come.
741
00:42:11,620 --> 00:42:13,300
Simone goes, you're not invited.
742
00:42:13,620 --> 00:42:16,480
But they're friends now again. They were
at some event together.
743
00:42:16,900 --> 00:42:20,780
No, that ain't possible, because Quiet
said she is not going to anything Lisa's
744
00:42:20,780 --> 00:42:22,140
at. Oh, my God.
745
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,220
I don't want any drama.
746
00:42:25,460 --> 00:42:28,840
So why don't we all just drop it, drop
it, charge and drop it? Well, here's the
747
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,240
thing. I ain't going into it with you,
baby, because it's really none of your
748
00:42:31,240 --> 00:42:34,410
business. I've been reading the blogs
about you and Lisa.
749
00:42:34,630 --> 00:42:38,050
Oh, honey, we're not even going to
participate in all those blogs. Well,
750
00:42:38,050 --> 00:42:41,570
needs to worry about why her husband is
sleeping with me.
751
00:42:43,650 --> 00:42:46,850
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