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Introduce yourselves please, ladies
first.

Charlie Ford.

Cody Steele. Welcome back, both of you.

Today we are going to be doing Sex and
Submission.

Charlie, is this your first time on Sex
and Submission? Yeah.

Well, welcome.

Thanks, I'm excited.

Do you enjoy doing a little role
-playing, acting? Yeah.

Yeah. Good. Yeah, and Cody and I have
good chemistry with acting.

Good.

Cody's great.

We've had Cody on here before, and we
have Cody for two days this week, I

We do. Yeah.

20 years.

Lots of work.

Good stuff.

So today, we are not going to talk about
the story, but we are going to talk

about safe words and hard limits and all
that shit.

So first, if you want everything to
stop, you'll say red.

If you have a gag or anything in your
mouth that prevents you from speaking,

you'll uh -uh -uh. Both of those break
character, look into the lens so we know

something's going on.

If you're okay to stay in bondage and
stay in character, but you want Cody to

back off, what he's doing is yell her
mercy.

Yeah. Sound good? Yeah.

If we get to a point where tears show up
for whatever reason, that doesn't

necessarily mean that we're going to
stop as long as it's consensual and

everyone's like, I think she's okay. I
love a good cry.

Let it go.

We're going to kind of leave it up to
you unless...

We also empower everyone on set. So if
someone's sitting here and they're like,

hey, this looks like it's getting a
little too deep, they're empowered to

up on your behalf and say something
also.

Sound good? Yep.

Awesome. All right. Hard limit.

What are we not doing today?

We... No bruiser. I'm like, no bloodshed
and bruises is my motto. Yeah. No

animal foreplay?

Yeah. No.

No. Yeah, just because I'm a
veterinarian, I feel like that's...

I don't want to go there.

If you request it, I won't really.

And also, I'm not super into, like,
verbal degradation as in, like, you

whore. Like, you can tell me I'm a sexy
whore, but, like, I'm not useless.

Gotcha. Yeah.

Unless you're particularly wanting a
vibe. No, that's part of the story.

yeah. I think, I mean, but if you're
good with, like, whore and slut, you

don't want it to be, like, you fucking
whore.

Like, yeah.

You're such a good little fucking whore.
Yeah. Great.

Perfect. Although, actually, maybe you
will have to. I mean, I don't mind.

Because the whole idea is, like, you're
punishing me for square. But what if

it's doing a motivational?

I know you can do better than this
fucking slut. Do better. Yeah. So it's

of an encouragement versus.

Because there is. There's a difference
between you filling whatever the blank

bad word or versus all the other things.
Yeah.

I think it's the intent.

Yeah. And we're going to stay away from
negative. Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah, I can be a bad, useful girl.

You're extremely useful.

You can be extremely useful, but you
need to do better.

Damn it.

So with all that said, we know all the
no's, we know all the yes's. Even though

you've said yes to several things, most
things, if anything changes.

Don't hesitate to speak up. Consent is
100 % revocable. I don't give a fuck

what's going on. As soon as your brain
goes, this isn't sexy anymore, say so

we stop.

The only questions we're going to ask
are, are you okay and can you continue?

And as long as both of those are yes,
then we'll move on through the shoot.

Because the last thing I want is you
enduring anything that you don't have

So you guys know the story. I keep
getting distracted by your socks because

keeps making me think about how
comfortable my socks are that I don't

right now.

You said you like doing role -playing
stuff. Do you like, because this isn't

necessarily going to be a C &C thing,
but do you like kind of playing like the

maybe I don't want this? Yeah, I love
that.

Yeah, I think C &C is like one of the
biggest kinks for women. I think it's

actually been studied.

And I think it's just that loss of
power, which is really nice.

Right. Yeah.

And there's ways of doing it. Like the
way we're doing it today, you are, it's

going to.

feel like it's against your will but
there's going to be consent involved

whole little loophole that we yeah um
love a little porn loophole yeah a

get away with something see if we can
get away with um so let's see is there

anything you're looking forward to today
carly as far as like is there drowning

cody drowning me drowning cody yep yeah
yeah so are you but you're gonna

be tied so you're not gonna be able to
like hold him and keep him there no but

He's going to be so motivated.

You've seen me squirt. You can't really
dodge that shit sometimes.

That's true.

He's got his headband on. He's ready for
anything.

All righty. Then we should get started,
right? Yeah. You guys got questions?

No. Then let's get started. Have a good
one. We'll talk to you after. Tell them

bye. Bye.

I mean, that's the thing. He's going to
leave me if I don't fix the problem, and

I don't know what to do about it at this
point.

All right, well, I mean, every marriage
comes across issues, but can you explain

more exactly what the issue is?

It's kind of embarrassing, if I'm
honest. I don't know if I feel

talking about that.

Look, within this office, everything
said here stays within the wall, okay?

I'm not...

I'm going to repeat this to anyone. My
job is to help you figure out how to

resolve the issue. If I don't know what
the issue is, I don't really know how I

can help you.

You've got to be honest with me and tell
me what he's talking about.

Okay.

So when we are intimate, I...

This is embarrassing.

I'm a bit of a projectile girl.

Like, I tend to squirt everywhere.

But,

like, it's bad.

I mean, I understand why he's so
frustrated with me because, like, the

drenched, the sheets, like, everything
gets saturated and we're going through,

don't know, like, four or five lots of
sheets a week.

Because I have my sex drive.

And he's had enough of it.

I mean, I'm trying my best to do the
laundry.

But I also have a full -time job. And
he's home. So I've been trying to get

to do all of this stuff while I'm gone.
And he's just over it. He doesn't want

to do it anymore. And I get it.

But he's threatening to leave me if I
don't kind of settle my... But it's my

body. I don't know how to control that.

You know what I mean? No, of course you
don't.

Right. That's what we're here to learn,
how to control that. So we need to

figure out first. So he, this is enough
of a problem that he threatened divorce.

Yeah.

Which is crazy because we've been
together for like eight years now. Like,

don't understand how that can be
something that would end a relationship.

that's what he says.

It's a little odd for me. Most times I
found that the opposite is true. Most

would prefer that.

Yeah. And therefore, that's the issue
with the wife on the other side.

Like, so many men would, like, actually
be really excited for that.

You're literally soaking through entire
sets of bed sheets.

Yeah. Ruining beds.

Yeah. Obviously, the financial burden on
you as well, too.

Yeah. And, I mean, even beyond that,
like, he started to, like, make jabs at

about how I should be wearing a fucking
diaper and stuff like that.

Well, usually when people are
uncomfortable with the situation, they

into insults.

childlike behavior.

Yeah, that's true. Have you tried
anything to fix it?

Have you tried maybe just not drinking
as much water during the day?

Yeah, I mean, I have, but I don't know
why my body is just like really

to that.

It's been happening since I was, I don't
know, like 24 or something like that.

And it's kind of almost like once my
body learned how to do that, I can't

it in now. And it's just getting like,
Bigger and bigger over time.

So at that age, you noticed that. Yeah.
This was happening with another man at

the time, I assume. Yeah. So this is
something that's not specific to him.

Right. So anyone will make this happen.
Interesting.

There's a lot of things that we could go
through.

There's not really any medication for
this.

Yeah. There are some treatments that we
could get into, but aside from

exhausted, some of the things you've
tried, I mean, there are some other.

unconventional steps that we could take.

I don't know how open you are to trying
some experimental therapies or probably

some new things.

Well, it depends what it is.

Right. Well, I mean, you've heard of
things like maybe positive

much like with an animal, you positively
reinforce good behavior to keep that

happening, right? Yeah.

And this behavior is something that you
can't really control.

One thing we can control is your
perspective to the behavior.

So,

We could try maybe more intimate
sessions one -on -one.

This therapy has a pretty high success
rate, 85%, 90%. Sometimes more sessions

are needed. We can never guarantee with
any one subject.

But it's negative reinforcement.

So as the problem is happening, we
negatively associate your

mind with what's happening.

To hopefully curb the behavior, to avoid
the negative behavior.

I don't know. I mean, that doesn't sound
very ethical.

I've got to be honest with you. I don't
know.

No, it's something perfectly ethical.
We've tried it many, many times. It has,

like I said, quite a bit of success, but
it's only usually reserved to our

patients who are desperate enough for
it.

With your marriage in the state that
it's in, we can keep talking and

or possibly have sessions with him, but
I think maybe something a little more...

hands -on would get you in the right
place.

I guess so.

I don't know. In my head, I feel like
there should be a way that I should be

able to do this without going down a
negative road.

I'm a very positive person. I don't want
to force myself to have to go through

something like that, but I am getting
desperate.

Being that positive and being that
comfortable with that, it's led us down

road to where now your husband is about
to leave you.

Yeah. Can I think about it?

Exactly. Maybe it's something to
consider for now.

We have one more session on the books
already anyway. We'll continue from

Maybe we can see where we're going.

Okay. All right. Sounds good.

Okay. I'll see you again soon. All
right.

What are you doing?

I'm done.

I can't handle it anymore.

After eight long years of this, I have
tried. Are you kidding me? Like you're

just going to walk out the house?

I can't deal with it anymore.

I love you so much, but this is the one
thing.

You're the only man that I know who
thinks that his wife is too fucking wet.

you seriously leaving the house? I am. I
can't take it anymore. I have tried. I

really have tried. I've put in all of
the effort that I can.

I could do the washing instead.

We've been through this. I can't.

Wait.

I just went and saw a new therapist.

And he has a treatment and he said it's
guaranteed to work.

But did you actually done it yet? No,
because I wanted to come home and talk

you about it. I'm tired of talking about
it. We've been through this.

I've tried.

Water. I can't deal with it though.

Maybe for the next guy, get this
treatment done if you want. I can't. The

guy? I'm sorry.

I'm done.

I'm done.

Dr. Steele?

Hi.

So if I'm hearing you correctly, he just
left you.

Yeah.

I don't know what else to do at this
point.

I feel like I've tried everything, and I
really didn't think that this would

happen.

The good news is we haven't tried
everything yet.

Yeah. Like I said, this is a very direct
form of therapy, but I think this will

be what we're thinking.

Well, at this point, I'll do anything,
honestly.

I love him.

You're going to do what it takes to get
over this?

Yeah, I, yeah, yeah.

You tried everything else.

This is all we have left.

I guess. You want your husband back,
right?

Yeah. Of course you don't want to live
all alone.

With no one else.

It's a little problem that you have.

But we can fix it.

But you have to want it.

I mean, I do want to fix things with
him.

I don't feel too sure.

Do you want to fix it?

Yes.

Say, yes, I want to fix it.

Yes, I want to fix it.

It's not going to be easy.

You have a pretty big problem.

I made it cost your husband to leave
you.

You're going to do what I tell you to
do?

If it gets him back, yes.

Yes, I'm going to do what you tell me to
do. Yes, I'm going to do what you tell

me to do.

You trust I can fix your problem?

I guess we're going to find out.

I want you to say, I trust you to fix my
problem.

I trust you to fix my problem.

Good.

Like I said.

It's a little unorthodox.

I told you it was unorthodox.

Negative reinforcement.

Negative reinforcement

implies exactly as it sounds.

It's going to be negative.

Some things are going to hurt.

But I believe that you can take that in
order to get over your little problem.

Are you strong enough to get over your
problem?

Yes.

Yes, I am strong enough to get over my
problem.

Yes, I'm strong enough to get over my
problem.

Say it again. Make me believe you.

Yes, I'm strong enough to get over my
problem.

Say it again.

Yes, I'm strong enough to get over my
problem.

I don't think you even believe yourself.

Say it again.

Yes, I'm strong enough to get over my
problem.

One more time.

Yes.

I'm strong enough to get over my
problem.

All right.

Hands behind your back.

Just like that.

Good.

I'm going to start here.

This is where your problem lies, isn't
it?

Yeah.

Every single time.

You're stimulated.

You produce a waterfall, right?

Mm -hmm. Mm -hmm.

Well, we're going to need you today.

We're going to stimulate you.

We're going to make you do exactly what
your problem is.

And you're going to keep doing that
until you've experienced enough pain,

negative reinforcement that it no longer
affects you.

You understand?

Yeah.

Yes, what?

Yes, I understand.

Mm -hmm.

Two, four.

There you go. Right there.

Is that starting to get out there?

I mean, I don't want to. I mean, I'm
like... No, no, no. You will want to.

Yet you do want.

Because you want to get over your
problem. Correct?

Yes.

So I want you to want it.

And through wanting it, we are going to
rid you of it.

Sometimes in situations like these, you
can want it as much as you want.

We need to bring in some tools.

You trust me?

Yes. So you trust me to fix your
problem? I trust you to fix your

You wait right here.

Really?

Right here.

Well, this tool goes back a long time.

I'm sure you're familiar.

I hope that's good for you.

Making it happen.

I'm sure you don't have sex with your
parents.

Tell me you didn't.

You don't want to keep ruining your
relationship.

I'm in charge of you and I'm instructing
you to not squirt.

Be bigger than your squirt.

Look at it.

Look at all of that.

That's your marriage all over the floor.

Look at it.

That's your marriage all over the floor.

You want to clean it up?

You need to clean up.

You have to control that you have to be
better.

Yes.

If this doesn't stop it, you have to
move to other methods.

Do you understand?

Yes.

You want this to work, right? Yes. You
want this to end, right?

Yes, yes, yes. I want this to end.

Oh, my gosh.

Hold it.

Focus.

Don't look at me. Focus.

Control it.

You understand?

Yes. And you trust me to fix your
problem?

Yes.

inability to curb your problem, you've
had to go to more drastic measures.

Do you understand?

Yeah. We're going to make you keep
courting.

You're going to rid yourself of this
problem.

Do you understand?

Yes.

You're going to simulate exactly what
happens every time you experience this

problem.

Talk to me.

Do you want to use it?

You understand?

You're just going to control this hole.

I'm going to use every single one of
them.

Make sure every single part you can
control it.

Oh

my

God.

Look at me.

I'm just going to fix your problem.

What are you not going to do?

You're not going to what?

Thank you.

That's it right there.

Don't you fucking dare.

What is that?

It's morning again.

Do not.

Take some of that squirt and keep coming
like that.

Control your sex.

Hold it up.

Don't you fucking dare.

Don't you dare.

Stay here with me.

fucking dripping.

So, we're all done. How are you guys
feeling?

Great. Wet.

So,

there was a lot of squirting that
happened today. A significant amount.

If you could pick one thing that made
you squirt the hardest, what would it

been?

I think it was when you were going off
to pussy for a minute. I think that's

really hot.

And sometimes that alone.

will just be enough to get my body,
like, relaxed enough to let go.

Yeah. Obviously, like, Hitachi's always
do it. But we were talking earlier,

sometimes Hitachi's, like, edge me, and
so the beginning part's harder. Right,

right. Breaking the coil's the harder
part.

Yeah. Yeah. That makes sense.

It was good, though.

Yeah, it was hot to watch. Yeah. It was
super hot. What did you think of the

little story? Was it fun? Yeah, it was
fun. It's fun. This is my first time

doing a story for Kink. Oh. Well, I
think you did right, Tanya.

I don't know if Cody saw this part, but
when you, after you and your husband had

your separation conversation, you came
in and we had this part where you were

going to hit the door and kind of slide
down and be sad.

And you actually brought on real tears.

Yeah. That was, holy fuck. It was
impressive.

And I was like, okay, let's do it again.
And then she did it a second time. The

second one wasn't as like...

Like, committed, but it was still fun,
yeah. I like fake crying.

Yeah. It was good. I mean, the whole day
was good. I mean, Cody, you were

obviously always fucking on top of it.
You were a champion. And not that I

doubted you by any chance. You took it,
though. You came in there and fucking...

Oh, yeah. Well, and I was nervous
because it was my first, like, kink

since my back surgery, which people on
kink probably, maybe they know about it,

maybe they don't, but yeah.

So I was like, is my butthole going to
be stretchy enough? Is my body going to

sweat? She killed it. All of the above.

All of the above.

Yeah. But it's because I find that my
body opens up to people that I get along

with and have good chemistry with. They
have made it fucking easy.

I know. You were very generous with the
compliments today. I was like, damn.

Yeah. Nice dude and a nice dick.

A nice dude with a nice dick gets all
the compliments.

Do you need me to compliment you as
well? You're a nice dude as well.

And I'm not a nice guy. I've never seen
your dick, but I can say that you're a

nice dude. Yeah.

Right, yeah.

He's only nice when he's not beating me.

There you go.

So if you had to pick anything, if
there's anything at all, what would you

was the most challenging part today?

That last high was intense because as
their ropes were getting wet, they were

kind of shrinking down.

So finding a position that I could put
my hands, because also when I put my

to the side, it tightened them even
more. So I was like, where the fuck do I

But I like that kind of like physical
challenge of time.

What about you?

The hardest part? Yeah.

Fucking and all this work.

Yeah. It starts to slide around. Yeah.
And then you're like, you know, but we

made it. Yeah, we got it. Yeah.

What was your favorite part?

After pussy.

Yeah. And also finally getting a chance
to like look him in the eyes. Like,

cause that's like my jam. Like that's
what really gets me going is like eye

contact. Every other time was kind of
like a behind you. Yeah.

So, yeah.

I was like, fuck, that's so annoying.

I'm going to stare into some pretty
eyeballs.

Yeah.

And you said the same thing for you with
Ask the Pussy. Was it your favorite or

was it something else?

I mean, I think just her reaction to,
like, the over -stimulus was a lot, you

know, where you're just, like, you can't
control it anymore and it just happens,

you know? Yeah.

It's so hard because, like, you want to,
like, make everything available for the

camera to see, but I can't fucking
concentrate or think about anything when

that intense.

Yeah. I just like pray. You're just
right.

Yeah, you go. Cody's really good. He's
very, he's always had this awareness.

I've noticed the way he knows the
cameras. They're like, no, put the

light on.

Yeah. Love you shit. Which is so helpful
because it's such an overwhelming

feeling sometimes. Of course. Yeah.
Yeah. I can't expect you to then getting

vibrator and getting fucked in the ass
and squirting and be like, I know. I am

super woman. Yeah. Right. Yeah.

So, Charlie.

Yeah. Did you feel safe today? Yeah. Did
you feel at any point anything went too

far? No. Would you come back and do it
again? Hell yeah. Awesome. Both of you,

amazing. Thank you so much.

Bye.

Enjoy.

Wait, you've already enjoyed it.

Bye.