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When I was 56, I went mute for 10 days.

Hello? Hi, Marianne.

Catherine.

Is your dad there?

Why? Is he there?

No, he isn't. What's going on?

I've just had a bit of an argument.

I don't know where he's gone.

You haven't heard from him? No, not since yesterday.

I'd better go and see if I can find him.

You're not getting any more from him, are you?

If you think I am, of course I'll let you know. No, of course, I didn't... I'm

just worried, that's all.

I'm worried now. Just bring me back when you find him.

Of course.

Everything will be alright, that's all.

Catherine.

Catherine.

Catherine, I'm sorry I hucked at you, but you've got to be at the funeral.

Oh, God.

Dad, Dad was trying to fix this.

A whole situation between you and me when he died.

You owe him.

You don't have to worry about anything. I'll sort it all out.

All you have to do is turn up.

Wear something nice.

Can you do that?

come round tomorrow first thing and help you start to sort out Dad's stuff.

What do you think?

You don't want to do that on your own, do you?

I've got some extra bin bags.

I thought they might be a few things that need to be thrown away.

Where do you want to start?

How about I start clearing away those things and you make a start on his

wardrobe?

Okay.

Okay.

I've done everything.

I registered his death.

I made all the phone calls.

Colossal phone.

We're all going through the same thing here, Katherine.

I haven't got time for this.

I have tried to help you.

I've tried to be family and this is what I get.

Just turn up at the funeral, don't make a fuss and then you and me, this whole

situation,

We're done.

We're done.

Oh, dear.

Stop! Turn around.

Go on.

Turn around.

Good.

When I was 56, I went mute for 10 days.

Lord, now you have found love.

Now you have found forgiveness.

Through Him, with Him, you are redeemed.

Look at Him.

Look at the cross.

Look at Jesus.

Through Him you will find love.

Through Him you will find power.

With Him you will go forward.

Look at Him.

Look at Him.

Do not be afraid.

Don't be afraid, don't let yourself be beaten, look at yourself.

The blessed old man ran for you, the blessed old man bought you, the blessed

old man was given to you at Calvary.

Look at him, take him with you, look for him in your heart and you will find

him. Look around you.

Okay.

Yeah, dude.

Do you have somewhere to go?

Okay.

I'm Claire.

Do you want to come back?

You don't have to.

I only live around the corner.

Okay.

Shall we go?

Hey, Kevin.

I've just arranged to work from home all this week, so no hurry to get up.

Is there anything else that you

need?

Well, sleep well.

That's Chloe, my wife.

She died a little under a year ago.

Do you want me to go?

Okay.

Just give me a few minutes to grab your things.

And then we can go straight back to my house.

Okay?

Oh. Hi.

Hi, Beth.

You all right?

Yeah.

Oh, I heard about all the excitement last Sunday.

Are you recovered from your ordeal now? Oh, she's coping okay.

Oh.

Oh, is the remembrance service this Sunday?

Yeah, 10 .30, so Chloe's mum and dad can make it.

Oh, nice.

Will all the family be there?

Her brother and his family and some of her old friends from up north.

Nice.

It'll be nice of you to have a chance to say goodbye finally, hey?

I better be going, but I'll see you there, okay?

Yep.

Okay, bye. Thanks, Beth.

I'm just off.

I just gave you back my lace on the floor, didn't I?

No,

no, no need to get up.

Finish your tea.

And if you've got any problems, then Evan next door is very nice.

laughing laughing laughing

laughing laughing

laughing

Ha ha ha.

Clear.

One evening, I don't know, about a year ago, I

took a walk in the rain in the new forest.

I came across a herd of deer.

Twelve years ago.

Chloe telling me she loved me for the first time.

Closing the front door.

When we just moved into our new house.

Feeling so safe with him.

Holding me for hours every night for a fortnight.

After my last miscarriage.

So we light this match as a symbol of Christ's presence with us. This candle

a light of his presence here.

And after we've lit the candle to be anointed with oil, again as a

that Christ's presence is here. So I invite you to come, to come and to light

the candle to be anointed with oil. Come as you're ready.

In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, may we be filled with

the light of God's peace and grace.

Amen.

In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, may we know that

God's peace is grace and love for you.

Amen.

In the name of the Father, the Son...

People of God's love.