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Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
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Welcome to Candy's Peach Buzz Museum.
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This ain't Mommy Nation, this is Mommy
and Daddy Nation.
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Alright, come.
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I'll put you in any car.
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How we gonna make this baby if you
always traveling? I can't even get a
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with my man, much less get some baby
time.
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Can I have another baby?
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Hypertension increases, preeclampsia,
seizure, stroke.
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Death, you have to really make sure that
you're willing to take that risk.
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We're doing this movie now. The wife
ends up doing a hall pass with a woman.
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Who's playing the wife? June.
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There's some stuff on the Internet. You
brought the money in as a chef, and then
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she ended up doing all this other work.
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What was it? It's a lawsuit, but it's
being handled by my attorney. How much
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she throwing you for? $1 ,000.
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She don't have $1 ,000?
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What is $1 ,000 divided by 8?
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$1 ,000.
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Candy said that she saw us kissing.
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That never happened.
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You're not going to make me unsee what I
saw. Candy said it at that interview.
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Is that cutting episode?
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I should have sworn y 'all kissed.
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Maybe it wasn't.
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If I misjudged the moment, I accept that
and I'm wrong.
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I just don't like people lying about me.
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My roots are in Atlanta, but my branches
are worldwide.
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Forget the gaslight.
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I'm taking the spotlight.
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My past may be checkered, but my future
is solid gold.
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I just don't do it for the culture.
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Honey, I am the culture. She by Sheree.
More like she broke the internet.
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If you can't keep the pace, stay out of
my race.
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Hello, Sensei.
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Hi,
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handsome. What you doing?
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I'm at my restaurant just checking on
things.
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I miss your lamb chops.
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Come and get it, baby.
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This is what we're going to do. I'm
going to go first and then you're going
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try it, okay?
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Get these back teeth. Yes, we are.
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Bitch.
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Blaze, you're not supposed to swallow
the toothpaste.
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No.
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The property, it just, it gives like.
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I'm glad. Thank you all.
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So, you know, I heard you guys are doing
a mental health getaway here at the
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home. So I just want to learn a little
bit about more of what you wanted to do.
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It's so important to be ahead of brain
health. Yeah. So you don't end up in a
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psychiatric ward.
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Y 'all know Allison was my manager my
whole entire life. So to see her go
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through something real, I was very
confused. Like, she's always been the
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one. And that's when I started to think
about my own mental health and just with
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everything I have going on.
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My sister shared with me that when she
went through her divorce, that was what
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caused her mental health break. So I am
working so hard to keep my mental health
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in a good space and really be there for
my family.
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So the goal is to open up a conversation
and learn. In our community, the
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African -American community, we don't
talk about mental health enough.
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I know you talked about even having a
bar.
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Well, alcohol is a toxin to the brain.
What I think we should have for the
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actual retreat are some options of what
we call functional drinks.
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Are you serious?
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Supplements like GABA and things that
help you relax.
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So it's a non -alcoholic beverage where
there is no effect.
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Oh, man, seriously?
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All right, well, so you got it, right?
Oh, are you talking to me?
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Because I can't hear you over my news.
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Thank you.
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I just remembered that. I just
remembered that I got this new rollie
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don't know how to act. You know what I
mean?
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There's something wrong with you.
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Okay. So, you know, we have a lot for us
to really, like, talk about and think
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about, I think, as a family.
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I feel like you were gone. It just felt
like we never had a chance to, like,
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really, like. Really dive into it. Yeah.
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I did take some notes, and I did want
you to kind of flip through them.
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Pregnant. This real?
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It's real.
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This is real.
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It's real. This is real.
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It's real. No way.
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It's real.
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No way.
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It's real. That's what I'm talking
about.
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It definitely feels different telling
Ross that I'm pregnant the second time
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around. You know, the first time, Ross
and I had just retired.
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It happened quickly.
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But this time, the whole family had
known how much Ross wanted it and how,
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know, I was kind of unsure about it. It
took some work to get here. I'm excited
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about what the future holds.
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Yeah, sit back, girl. Sit back. Sit
back.
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I'm sweating a little bit. Aw, babe.
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I wanted to surprise you, so I wanted
to, like, surprise you and the family.
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Mom, dad, Chezy, familia.
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Okay, 2023.
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Okay, let's start it off right.
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Daddy -o.
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Yo, yo.
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Family meeting time.
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First, I was just kind of thinking that
we could talk about some of the stuff
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that, you know, we've been working on
and some of the goals that we have for
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2023. I wrote some stuff in my notebook.
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I think it's over here.
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Oh, my God!
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What? What is
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happening? Nobody's throwing me.
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What? I missed it.
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Oh, my God.
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Turn around, babe. Mommy's a slow one.
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Congrats.
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Fantastic.
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Oh, my God. No way. She slept all damn
Christmas holiday.
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True blessing.
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Yeah, that is amazing.
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Unbelievable. So, I mean, okay, so
obviously... We started looking at
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apartments.
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Yeah, we decided to live in the same
community.
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Oh, wait, so you guys have already
identified an apartment?
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That we like, yeah. Yeah, that we like.
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It certainly doesn't help for wanting a
second child with my family wanting to
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move out.
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I actually am okay with finding a nanny
or finding someone else to help.
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It's a lot of things. Just a lot of
things. It's just making it challenging
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your girl. You're going to be a big
brother.
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Mommy and Daddy are having a baby.
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When?
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Congratulations, guys.
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Thank you.
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Oh,
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this is super cute.
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Oh, I'm about to beat you on everything.
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Ooh, let's vote.
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That looks fun, too.
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It's like little balls.
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How we doing today?
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Good. You guys know what you want to eat
today?
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I think we're going to do the wings,
sweet potato fries.
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Yes. Then two side cars.
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I got that working for you. Thank you.
My pleasure.
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Ooh, baby, it's out on the safe. Ooh,
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date night is very needed.
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Come on now.
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I mean, Ralph and I have not been
keeping up with our weekly date night
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Ken suggested.
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If I get a strike, you got to call me
daddy, all right? Okay, okay, deal.
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Well,
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if I beat your score, you got to call me
daddy, all right? Yeah, okay, that's
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what you're trying to do? Yeah. I'm
still just looking to make sure that I
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doing all the things necessary and right
to make this marriage work.
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Cheers. Hey, cheers to a date night,
finally being able to just unwind, take
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some time to ourselves.
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Yes, amen.
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Cheers.
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This is good.
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Babe, did you enjoy the holiday?
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You know what?
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I think it was probably one of the best
Christmases, honestly, because it was
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just very simple, very quiet, because
it's like I've got the most happening
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my family, and then I've got the most
happening with work, with the music.
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Because when are we finishing the EP?
The movie with Todd and Candy. We
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closed the deal today.
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And then everything that's going on with
Allison being here. I want to support
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her in this whole mental health event.
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I'm realizing I need this mental health
retreat just as much, you know, as I
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thought I was doing it for everyone
else. Are you okay, though? Do you think
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that you're in a stable state? I mean,
you see me. I feel like sometimes I have
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a breakdown.
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Sometimes I need a hug.
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Sometimes I need to just talk.
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We started marriage counseling together,
but then out of nowhere, you just stop.
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Ralph had an issue when Dr. Ken was
holding him accountable for his bad
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behavior. I have chosen to stay in
counseling and continue my old growth
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I noticed that I need to gain more
independence in this relationship and
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afraid to speak up for how I'm feeling.
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I don't want to, like, put more pressure
on you.
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He's going deep.
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One of the things that I even feel with
marriage counseling is... It's just a
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difference in experience in general, I
think. Sometimes you get to a certain
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point where you need to really, like,
focus on the actual work, and you need
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start applying it. And I feel like
sometimes with counseling, it's just,
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right, this topic, now this topic, now
you've got this issue, but that's going
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to get us divorced.
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Like, I can say I've had less blowups
than I've had last year.
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Dr. King called you a maniac.
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A maniac?
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You don't even understand what maniac
even means.
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I tried to give her steak and lobster
that night. Like, I'm not talking about
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steal. She deserves a lunchable.
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Would you agree?
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But I'm doing work, though. Babe, what
were you doing? No, no, no, no, no.
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Listen, listen, listen, listen.
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Babe, come on. You got to measure it on
the frequency of making sure it can
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reduce the occurrences that they
actually happen.
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This is very intellectual that I'm
saying.
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I graduated early, so don't think I'm
not following. I can't change you. I
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force you. And I'm not going to mother
you.
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All I can do is worry about my girl.
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I don't care if you get mad or not.
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I can't change you. I can't force you.
And I'm not going to mother you.
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Barbecuing. Yes.
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Thank you.
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Good. And some buffalo for you guys.
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All right. Thank you. Perfect.
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I'm not going to lie. I think that it's
important for you to meet me halfway to
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continue to do the work together because
I'm not single. I'm married.
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And I just need you to show up.
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I also need support in the movie that
I'm doing with Todd because this movie
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is going to take me away for 10 days.
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So it's going to take up a lot of time,
but when it comes to the kids and the
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house, I want to make sure you're okay
because I'm not going to be around.
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We got a little problem.
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What? I'm going to be real with you.
You're now booked and busy.
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I've always been busy.
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I'm going to step up as much as I can,
but there's a bottom line that I got to
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make sure of, and it's money. Like you
see Todd, he has daddy daycare.
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I'm not daddy daycare.
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He doesn't travel as much as me and as
much as I'm going to be. 2023.
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It is going to be a challenging year.
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Do you think anything happened between
Ralph and the video producer when he
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traveled to Vegas?
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No, I really don't feel that way.
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More so it's about Ralph and I.
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Anything can place a wedge between us
now because we're not on a solid
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foundation. We going to another level.
You know, ideally I want to be, I want
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be like Barack and Obama.
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Barack and Obama.
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I'm sorry.
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I'm drunk.
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I'm drunk. I'm drunk.
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I'm like Ike and Tina.
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No, no, no, not crazy Ike, like regular.
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Let me show you.
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Let me get back on this game.
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Where's Michelle?
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Hey, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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Michelle, I mean, Michelle, baby, you to
Michelle.
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You know what, let's just go.
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You forget you have a wife, I swear.
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The strip salad.
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I thought you might be dropping carbs
right now.
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So you can stay looking all sexy.
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What you got going on?
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Girl, you know I'm building out the
salon.
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Yes, how is that coming along?
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Like, it's coming along. So now we're
ready to put drywall up.
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So that might take... Uh -oh, let me go
get the door. I'll be right back.
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Spinach, chopped salad. It looks good.
I'll take it. You want, you want, um,
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Madame, is this to your liking?
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You know,
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so at Brooklyn's new school, we have to
have cloth napkins in her lunchbox.
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Yeah, every day.
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Where does mommy tell you you have to
put the napkin?
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In my lap, but the teacher doesn't want
me.
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Okay.
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I don't know why not.
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That's where they go.
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Oh, I need to do better with my child.
So they make sure they put them on their
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lap.
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You know, and occasionally, you know,
when I cook or have someone cook, you
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know. What do you mean have somebody
cook?
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Because I can pop the bottle for
celebratory reasons now.
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Well, possibly, which is why I like that
you girls are here, because I am
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thinking about having another baby.
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Who's going to be the daddy?
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Yeah. I still have.
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embryos frozen.
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So, Mark.
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Okay.
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I am a little concerned about this.
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He said you can still use them?
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When we signed the paperwork, it asked
you, you can only choose one person.
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And I was chosen. Yeah, see, that's the
thing. You did right. I need to get
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tested again. So she's going to do the
ultrasound.
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Medically speaking, it's so many things
that can go wrong.
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It's so many things. But now you have a
surrogate. I have a surrogate. Yeah.
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Thank you.
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Everybody knows that I went through a
surrogate to have Blaze.
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Shadina has been a blessing to us, and I
want to say thank you. Well, Shadina,
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my surrogate, is also Shamia's. I got
her baby mama!
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Shadina is amazing.
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I feel like if I had a surrogate...
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would I feel jealous?
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When your baby gets here, it's going to
be the same exact feeling. They're going
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to have you in the hospital, in the bed.
They're checking you in, too.
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And you're going to have that baby with
you bonding.
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So it's definitely something you've got
to be just comfortable with in yourself
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to be like, I don't care what nobody
else thinks.
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Because you're going to get so many
people to be like, oh, you're only doing
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because you're vain. Yeah, you don't
want to ruin your body. No, because I'm
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vain. No, they're vain about their
vagina.
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They're like, we want to be nice. Girl,
that thing will snap right back,
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especially if you're doing those
exercises.
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Why would you say that I started doing
them? She's doing them right now. Like,
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one minute. Oh, okay.
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Are you going to tell, Mark?
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I think I have to. Or are you just going
to just do it?
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No, I think I have to. Okay, so if he
doesn't give you his blessing, are you
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doing it anyway?
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I'm going to answer it for you. I would
proceed.
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So crazy. I wish you had been around.
Like, it's been so many crazy days going
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on, girl.
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It has been so mean.
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What's been going on? Catch me up. Y
'all are good with Charay right now. Is
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still dating Martel?
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You revealed the tea about him asking
all the ladies for a cash out to pay for
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their dinner. He didn't pay for her
birthday dinner.
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Girl,
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it was Marlo and Sonia.
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The bill was $1 ,500.
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I spent $1 ,500 today.
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I said, Martel, if it's even your last
$1 ,500, just go ahead and front the
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bill. I find it quite funny that she
didn't invite me to the birthday dinner.
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But the people that she did invite are
going in on her man.
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At least when I say stuff, I say it out
in the open. He was like, all the ladies
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that were there, he asked them to catch
up.
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That's a word.
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But I'm the thirsty one.
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Please, sir.
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Right.
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Coming up next.
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Hey, husband.
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Oh, you just?
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Yeah, he just got here. Ralph literally
went around the room and hugged.
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Everyone except for her.
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Who do we have here?
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This is Gotti. So Gotti's been rolling
around in the dirt.
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good washing.
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His normal groomer couldn't get him in
today.
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I've never done this before.
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All right, I'll help mom out a little
bit.
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Look, I've dealt with a lot of dogs in
my life, but Gotti's number one in my
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book. Good boy, Gotti. He likes to be
cleaned. He is in heaven right now.
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He's a great listener.
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Like Martel, Gotti's the ideal partner.
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I'm going to allow you to pick out a few
treats.
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Oh, hey.
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Listen, you are not going to guess what
I just got finished doing.
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What's that?
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I actually bathed Gotti. He got out this
morning, and he was rolling in the
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grass and in the dirt.
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I can't see you doing all that.
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I know. Me, though.
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It's the first time for a lot of things.
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Yeah. You're on your way to the airport?
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Yeah, yeah. I'll be there in, like,
eight minutes. I'm speeding, too.
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I know. You got to go. Yeah, I'm going
to call you when I get up here and get
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seated, okay?
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Okay. So Martell and I have both been
swamped with our work schedule.
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But I was so happy that, you know, he
was able to come for New Year's and for
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birthday. What did we're filling in for
your birthday?
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An Alexander McQueen handbag.
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Yeah, I was really shocked.
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I don't even want to say this because
I'm going to keep it. But he doesn't buy
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the expensive high -end labels.
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Okay. Okay. All right. Bye -bye. Okay.
Bye -bye.
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You find some good treats?
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Well, we got a couple of things that
we're going to send Gotti home with.
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Perfect. I see a future. I mean, it's
been maybe about six months.
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The status of our relationship right now
is just we're enjoying life. We're
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enjoying each other.
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We're having fun. It's complicated.
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It's just a lot of things.
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Would you like to start a points
account?
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Yes. All right. What is the best?
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Okay. The best one is at AOL.
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No, I still use AOL.
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I wasn't going to say anything.
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I have so much going on. Exactly.
Between the script and the music.
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Starting off strong.
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It's been really awkward between Drew
and I.
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Y 'all not going to be sitting up here
trying to act like I'm making up lies
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about y 'all. I think she was
fantasizing because I know I didn't get
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The only reason why it got so big for me
is because she was calling me a liar.
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So after I got past that, it's stupid.
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Now Candy has not apologized to me for
the whole Latoya.
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situation. However, I'm at peace with it
because I just know what the truth is.
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So I'm going to do this movie, and I'm
excited to do it, and I'm just ready to
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move on.
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And then also, I sent you the text for
my mental health retreat.
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Yes. So it should be awesome.
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We started a bureau.
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Work it. Look, work it. Booked and busy.
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Booked and busy.
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I just wanted to welcome everybody to
the table read for the past.
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I've been working on this thing for a
minute. You know what I mean?
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You know, being secure, insecure about
it, and my wife been pushing me. She's
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like, man, just go in and do it, go in
and do it. So everything happens at the
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right time, and we're going to make
magic.
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Right now, my priority is the restaurant
and then the movie.
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Really?
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But I found it good.
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We'll turn it over to our director,
Bobby Huntley, and we'll get the reading
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started. I really need this movie to
happen.
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for himself. My career has been the
priority and he has been supportive of
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career and the things that I've wanted
to do.
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Don't tell me what I need to happen for
myself.
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Yeah, you do.
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I do need my movie to happen.
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I think the movie is more a passion
thing.
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So we need to make it happen.
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We're going to go ahead and read through
the script and let's go ahead and jump
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into it. Let's do it.
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Interior, back to home, kitchen,
evening.
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Nina pours a glass of wine for Etta
Franklin, her mother. She hands it to
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Ma,
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don't start.
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He does pretty great consulting.
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I just hope I don't get so busy that I
won't have time, you know, to grow our
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family. Would your client like to
respond to this evidence?
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Could this be because of your past?
414
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What is she talking about?
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00:22:34,580 --> 00:22:38,020
Girl, me and Dan have this past thing.
Taking on another partner?
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Ooh, girl, I must be rubbing off on you.
417
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,140
I don't know how you could ever do that.
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If he's going to go out and get it, I'd
rather know about it.
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00:22:48,420 --> 00:22:49,420
All right.
420
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I swear none of this has anything to do
with my life.
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We do not do passes.
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Etta is not Mama Joy.
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And just so everybody knows, we start
shooting Monday.
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It's a very aggressive schedule.
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So if you're two hours late, it's going
to cost me a lot of money. And we
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appreciate you guys so much, too. We're
going to set these lines up. You hear
427
00:23:14,620 --> 00:23:15,900
me? Coming up.
428
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Just wanted you to be honest with me
because I think that this is really sad
429
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you. I just feel like this is too much.
430
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,079
A survivor.
431
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,320
I like the fire.
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I met the fighter.
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She's a survivor.
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This is... Look at the shots, though.
435
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Oh,
436
00:23:47,020 --> 00:23:50,520
my God. Are you guys here to see your
health? What is in here?
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Well, we have a little bit of turmeric
and all the good things for your health.
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You ladies enjoy.
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00:23:55,540 --> 00:23:56,680
Okay, thank you. Thank you, ladies.
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This mental health retreat came about
just due to my sister's journey dealing
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with mental health and really me
learning things about her that I never
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I just didn't know anything about what
you were dealing with. The guy dated at
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22 and he beat the crap out of me. That
started bad dreams, anxiety, and PTSD.
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This day is intended to educate us all
and to help us with our own
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individual mental health challenges.
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Transformed the mess. Oh, my goodness.
Right now.
447
00:24:36,980 --> 00:24:37,959
Oh, my God.
448
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:41,700
As soon as you walk in, you feel it.
It's just going to be a very holistic
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We've got brain -boosting foods. We're
going to do a drop -in with Drew
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We're going to do some meditation.
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Everything Allison did while in the
hospital to recover, restore, and get
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out in the world.
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How hot you look, that's your birthday.
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Oh, yeah!
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Birthday, babe.
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Birthday, babe.
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00:25:18,010 --> 00:25:19,010
No, thank you.
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Is Ralph having some kind of mental
breakdown because does he not see his
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there? Hey, husband.
460
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,040
Oh, you just?
461
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Yeah, he just got here. I've been here.
462
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,900
Ralph literally went around the room and
hugged everyone except for her.
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Wait for a hug. I haven't seen him. He's
been out all day.
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00:26:00,820 --> 00:26:05,060
After date night, Ralph has been
distant. But him showing late and then
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acknowledging everyone else but me, it's
embarrassing.
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This is typical Ralph when he feels
disrespected.
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00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:15,220
Instead of speaking his mind and saying
how he feels, he was being so cold.
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I thought
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she was coming to get me.
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Everybody find a space. We're ready to
start.
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So Dr. K, she has been working with
Allison since my sister has been on a
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journey just bettering her mental
health. You know, she has some, what is
473
00:26:42,570 --> 00:26:44,470
called? Mental mishaps.
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That's the new word. That's going to be
the new word. I'm learning so much.
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I just want to tell a little bit about
my story because I don't know if you
476
00:26:50,790 --> 00:26:54,910
know. In 2020, I started having anxiety
attacks and panic attacks.
477
00:26:55,450 --> 00:27:00,530
And I called 911 so many times that they
ended up transferring me to a
478
00:27:00,530 --> 00:27:02,450
psychiatric hospital where I spent 19
days.
479
00:27:02,940 --> 00:27:07,180
We know as black people, we don't talk
about things. It's very stigmatized. And
480
00:27:07,180 --> 00:27:08,099
I'm going to get through this.
481
00:27:08,100 --> 00:27:14,000
So I just want to offer this gift to you
of what saved my life because it does
482
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:15,000
work.
483
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:22,160
I am so proud of my sister and her
strength to be able to talk about her
484
00:27:26,580 --> 00:27:29,200
Everybody find a space. We're going to
get started.
485
00:27:29,700 --> 00:27:31,560
All right, don't go too hard now, Will.
486
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:32,760
Dropping with Drew, baby.
487
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:33,920
Come on.
488
00:27:34,100 --> 00:27:35,100
Oh.
489
00:27:35,260 --> 00:27:39,140
Six, seven, eight, nine, ten.
490
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,680
Oh, my God. Dropping with Drew was
amazing.
491
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,780
We're still having our 21 -day
challenges.
492
00:27:44,860 --> 00:27:48,880
I dropped it with Drew once, and that
was an epic fail. Let me see. This
493
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:49,859
bad working.
494
00:27:49,860 --> 00:27:51,240
Oh, oh, oh.
495
00:27:52,180 --> 00:27:53,180
404 not found.
496
00:27:53,460 --> 00:27:54,580
Lord, it didn't drop it.
497
00:27:55,150 --> 00:27:56,670
The internet then dropped it again.
498
00:28:00,230 --> 00:28:05,650
Next up is the meditation studio with
Sister Jenna. You're going old school
499
00:28:05,650 --> 00:28:07,890
today, men. Say and talk amongst
yourselves.
500
00:28:08,110 --> 00:28:12,590
And you must take your shoes off. I
don't have any socks.
501
00:28:15,030 --> 00:28:16,590
Now we'll do the meditation.
502
00:28:17,050 --> 00:28:21,710
So what I'd like you to do is to imagine
that you're in a search inside of
503
00:28:21,710 --> 00:28:23,410
yourself for something really deep.
504
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,740
Something that the world hasn't been
able to give you yet to make you feel
505
00:28:27,740 --> 00:28:28,740
complete.
506
00:28:29,620 --> 00:28:34,280
And somehow, someway, the divine
whispered something to you to show you
507
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,160
you've been trying to catch on your own.
508
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:41,220
I'm really surprised. The mental health
event looks very nice. This is the
509
00:28:41,220 --> 00:28:42,220
reason for the healing trip.
510
00:28:42,300 --> 00:28:43,300
Let it go.
511
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,320
Let it flow.
512
00:28:45,060 --> 00:28:46,800
I'm glad that she was so inspired.
513
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:47,939
Good job, Sheree.
514
00:28:47,940 --> 00:28:48,879
Good job.
515
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,400
I do not want to breathe in, breathe
out. It smells.
516
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,660
I don't know if it's they feed or if
it's them from them working out and they
517
00:28:55,660 --> 00:28:56,700
ain't put on any deodorant.
518
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:02,040
I know we're here for the brain, but
there's a pool down there.
519
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:04,520
What's up, Kiana?
520
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:05,600
Come on.
521
00:29:06,460 --> 00:29:09,160
Good to see you. Hello, y 'all. Good to
see you also.
522
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,400
You good?
523
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:11,560
Oh.
524
00:29:13,140 --> 00:29:14,660
Slowly open your eyes.
525
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:25,820
I needed this retreat.
526
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:31,700
My blood pressure been high, stress, my
group falling apart.
527
00:29:32,140 --> 00:29:34,300
I got friends who say I'm not really
there for them.
528
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,000
We're trying to get this movie done.
It's not everything.
529
00:29:38,860 --> 00:29:43,420
I don't know. I need those thought
moments.
530
00:29:43,820 --> 00:29:45,320
We're going to meet in the dining room.
531
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,120
How'd it go the other day in court, man?
532
00:29:48,380 --> 00:29:51,460
You know what, it's the one of those
situations, somebody goes and comes into
533
00:29:51,460 --> 00:29:53,400
your house and decides they want to try
to sue you.
534
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,440
and exploit you just because they feel
like they can.
535
00:29:56,820 --> 00:29:59,260
Definitely not many people in your
house, though.
536
00:29:59,460 --> 00:30:02,980
Man, I really don't want nobody in my
house. The table setting is beautiful.
537
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,880
It seems like y 'all be catching hell
with these, you know, assistants.
538
00:30:07,220 --> 00:30:10,860
And that's just from the outside looking
in. Nah, we do. For real. No shading.
539
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:12,900
I'm just saying as a friend, bro, you
know.
540
00:30:14,420 --> 00:30:15,420
Nice, we have Portugal.
541
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:17,280
After the meditation.
542
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,140
Yep. Continuing on the journey.
543
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:26,940
I think, too, like for me, because
specifically when we were in Portugal,
544
00:30:26,940 --> 00:30:28,960
did have a moment of vulnerability with
you guys.
545
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:33,180
And I didn't even feel comfortable, you
know, just to open up so I ran.
546
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,400
I am a work in progress. And we all are.
Drew.
547
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:39,600
I didn't know what was going on.
548
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,400
And then you explained to me that, you
know, that was a really tough moment for
549
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,700
you and that you were going through a
lot.
550
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,520
And I do know that recently you went to
court.
551
00:30:49,740 --> 00:30:50,740
How did that go?
552
00:30:52,550 --> 00:30:53,730
Um, would you win?
553
00:31:02,250 --> 00:31:05,950
I do know that recently you went to
court.
554
00:31:06,190 --> 00:31:07,550
Do you want to talk about it?
555
00:31:07,950 --> 00:31:12,510
What do you feel would be the proper
justice for you?
556
00:31:13,250 --> 00:31:17,350
Honestly, just for her to go away, get
thrown out, you know, but I think
557
00:31:17,350 --> 00:31:19,070
-stealing is a strong statement.
558
00:31:19,490 --> 00:31:21,190
So we'll get the official verdict.
559
00:31:21,630 --> 00:31:23,030
It's going to be 30 days.
560
00:31:23,310 --> 00:31:28,610
What happened? What happened with this
court case? Oh, no, this girl wanted an
561
00:31:28,610 --> 00:31:30,390
opportunity to see if we would hire her
as our chef.
562
00:31:30,670 --> 00:31:33,650
So she brought the pans of food over,
and there was hair in the food, like
563
00:31:33,650 --> 00:31:35,330
hair. Yeah, hair and stuff like that.
564
00:31:36,470 --> 00:31:38,070
So, you know, she was like,
565
00:31:38,910 --> 00:31:41,790
what other opportunities do you have? We
was like, hey, we got another
566
00:31:41,790 --> 00:31:45,710
opportunity to be like a nanny. We did
an interview. She walked in the house,
567
00:31:45,810 --> 00:31:47,610
got a plate, wasn't really.
568
00:31:48,010 --> 00:31:49,230
You know, interacting with my kids.
569
00:31:49,550 --> 00:31:52,510
It didn't work out either. You know, it
was like, all right, thank you so much.
570
00:31:52,710 --> 00:31:56,110
We don't need your services, whatever.
She sends an invoice for $1 ,000.
571
00:31:56,430 --> 00:31:57,430
Like, wait, what?
572
00:31:57,610 --> 00:32:00,370
She kept persisting. When am I getting
paid? I need my money. You better give
573
00:32:00,370 --> 00:32:03,590
my money. And then a year later, a
sheriff shows up at my door to serve me
574
00:32:03,590 --> 00:32:05,430
paper. She upped it to $10 ,000.
575
00:32:05,850 --> 00:32:07,790
From $1 ,000 to $10 ,000? Uh -huh. Yeah.
576
00:32:08,550 --> 00:32:09,550
So, yeah.
577
00:32:09,830 --> 00:32:12,110
Thank you for asking, though. I do
appreciate it.
578
00:32:12,350 --> 00:32:14,870
I thought it was $1 ,000. So it's $10
,000 now?
579
00:32:15,150 --> 00:32:17,310
These stories be changing up and stuff.
580
00:32:19,340 --> 00:32:20,340
1K, 10K.
581
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:21,800
Okay.
582
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,700
Now, let's talk about the new year. The
new year, you had a birthday charade.
583
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,600
What was at dinner? Tell us about the
dinner, because I saw you posting on
584
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:29,600
social media.
585
00:32:29,620 --> 00:32:30,620
Well, you already know.
586
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:37,140
I was booking movies, and I was
scrolling, so I saw a few things.
587
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,740
So I had some of my girlfriends that
I've known for over 30 years.
588
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:42,960
I was there, of course.
589
00:32:43,340 --> 00:32:44,980
Miss Bailey was there. Yeah.
590
00:32:45,180 --> 00:32:47,200
Marlo came in. Courtney was there.
591
00:32:47,420 --> 00:32:49,440
Sonya was there. Wait, hold on.
592
00:32:49,660 --> 00:32:53,640
Did Cherie say that she was inviting
people that she's known 30 years? But
593
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,920
Courtney, Marlo, and Sonya get invited.
594
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,440
But I don't get invited.
595
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,960
So you known these bitches longer than
you know me.
596
00:33:03,930 --> 00:33:04,809
I don't know.
597
00:33:04,810 --> 00:33:08,270
Sharae has been different with me
lately. And, you know, I don't know.
598
00:33:08,270 --> 00:33:09,370
just are growing apart.
599
00:33:09,710 --> 00:33:12,970
People come out for me. OK. People show
up for Sharae. Is my invitation locked
600
00:33:12,970 --> 00:33:13,849
in the mail?
601
00:33:13,850 --> 00:33:15,210
Both of ours is locked.
602
00:33:15,610 --> 00:33:18,830
Ralph just told me that your baby got
sick. So you guys did not go to town.
603
00:33:18,830 --> 00:33:19,830
we didn't. That is true.
604
00:33:19,910 --> 00:33:22,610
Candy can't even show up for the group.
So I know she's not about to show up for
605
00:33:22,610 --> 00:33:26,250
me at the last minute. You have not been
showing up.
606
00:33:26,580 --> 00:33:29,960
I'm just surprised that I didn't even
get a text. So what you're saying,
607
00:33:30,060 --> 00:33:33,040
is you just felt like you would have
liked to have had the opportunity to say
608
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,000
you were busy? You know you were not
coming.
609
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,560
Girl, that is not true. I was at home
that night, and I definitely would have
610
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,560
come.
611
00:33:40,620 --> 00:33:42,900
Okay, well, I apologize. I didn't think
you would be able to come.
612
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,820
It was a small dinner. It was very last
minute.
613
00:33:46,020 --> 00:33:48,360
And it was at Nobu, which is one of my
favorite restaurants.
614
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,780
I was like, no, boo. Oh, yes, boo. I can
definitely check you. Honestly, just
615
00:33:52,780 --> 00:33:56,700
figured maybe, you know, candy.
Somewhere being Oprah, honey. So I just
616
00:33:56,700 --> 00:34:00,580
she was booked and busy. I actually do
have a question, though. What is the
617
00:34:00,580 --> 00:34:04,120
question? I did hear that you guys were
kind of split.
618
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,640
Like, who's what?
619
00:34:07,670 --> 00:34:09,070
Portugal were all as one.
620
00:34:09,389 --> 00:34:13,750
Mayeta told us not too long ago that
these three and Courtney were in an
621
00:34:13,750 --> 00:34:17,370
alliance. Wait, what was the word I
used? Collusion. I witnessed a
622
00:34:17,590 --> 00:34:21,550
She said she witnessed a collusion? You
thought it was a collusion? No. It was
623
00:34:21,550 --> 00:34:22,308
very intense.
624
00:34:22,310 --> 00:34:25,909
I had to go look that one up. Courtney
was fighting for her life to try to
625
00:34:25,909 --> 00:34:30,409
that she was, you know, on your side.
No, no, no. It was never on my side. It
626
00:34:30,409 --> 00:34:34,409
was telling the truth. That I knew her
for years. Uh -huh, and you just met
627
00:34:34,409 --> 00:34:37,800
cousin. Cousin -in -law. Cousin -in
-law. Yeah. You were talking, I think
628
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,860
said something, too, about it. Well, I
heard this, I heard that.
629
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,300
And you called your cousin -in -law a
bitch.
630
00:34:44,540 --> 00:34:45,540
What?
631
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:49,460
I called who a bitch? You said the bitch
said, Drew. I called Drew a bitch? Do
632
00:34:49,460 --> 00:34:52,520
you guys remember that? I don't
remember. A bitch? I said Drew said, and
633
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:56,260
said this to her, and I said that to
her. And then the bitch asked me about
634
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:57,339
Wrong person.
635
00:34:57,340 --> 00:34:58,380
Oh, no, it was you, baby.
636
00:35:09,610 --> 00:35:13,710
Bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch,
bitch, bitch. Out of all people, for it
637
00:35:13,710 --> 00:35:16,250
Courtney, I'm definitely confused at
this moment.
638
00:35:17,190 --> 00:35:18,590
I say bitch 24 -7.
639
00:35:18,890 --> 00:35:20,790
I say like this, bitch, you look good.
640
00:35:21,270 --> 00:35:22,490
Bitch, what you doing today?
641
00:35:22,890 --> 00:35:25,490
Bitch, bitch, bitch, try me. Bitch, they
got a lot of bitches.
642
00:35:25,830 --> 00:35:27,810
I definitely did not say that, Drew.
643
00:35:28,430 --> 00:35:32,530
We've had hiccups, but I would never
call you or anyone else at this table a
644
00:35:32,530 --> 00:35:33,530
bitch.
645
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:39,980
It's a divide in this group. Even the
cousins ain't cussing in right now.
646
00:35:40,660 --> 00:35:46,600
The food was very good. I never called
you a bitch. I don't use the word.
647
00:35:47,100 --> 00:35:50,300
I didn't. You just said bitch. You just
said bitch.
648
00:35:50,720 --> 00:35:54,480
Like, the irony. Like, what in the hell?
649
00:35:58,140 --> 00:36:00,740
Is everybody out here?
650
00:36:01,190 --> 00:36:02,930
Let's get a quick picture for us.
651
00:36:03,450 --> 00:36:04,530
All right, ready, ready, ready?
652
00:36:05,370 --> 00:36:09,210
All right, cool, cool.
653
00:36:10,230 --> 00:36:14,470
All right. All right, open y 'all
phones. Open y 'all phones real quick.
654
00:36:14,470 --> 00:36:15,470
'all phones. Open y 'all phones.
655
00:36:15,650 --> 00:36:16,650
I got it.
656
00:36:16,990 --> 00:36:18,730
Open y 'all phones. Make sure y 'all
like it.
657
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,680
Sonia does things. Girl, just tell us
you're pregnant. Like, everything
658
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:54,880
need to be a social media stunt.
659
00:36:55,260 --> 00:37:01,060
I am sure that that baby is already
craving some jerk chicken and plantains
660
00:37:01,060 --> 00:37:01,738
the womb.
661
00:37:01,740 --> 00:37:05,140
Oh, my God. I am totally getting baby
fever.
662
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:06,980
I'm really happy for her.
663
00:37:08,180 --> 00:37:10,800
Congratulations. Thank you. I'm so happy
for you.
664
00:37:20,830 --> 00:37:21,830
Coming up next.
665
00:37:21,970 --> 00:37:26,950
I didn't get married to get divorced,
but it's just like, at what point are
666
00:37:26,950 --> 00:37:30,630
things going to turn around? At what
point does someone want to fight for the
667
00:37:30,630 --> 00:37:31,630
marriage?
668
00:37:45,770 --> 00:37:48,390
This is my first session in person with
Dr. Kim by myself.
669
00:37:48,810 --> 00:37:52,310
instead of trying to force someone that
doesn't want to continue counseling.
670
00:37:52,410 --> 00:37:56,590
Like, I can't change anybody. So then
when you get confronted with Ralph or
671
00:37:56,590 --> 00:37:59,710
something happens, you have the tools.
Wait, I think Dr. Ken rang the doorbell.
672
00:37:59,830 --> 00:38:00,830
Oh, he did? Oh,
673
00:38:01,450 --> 00:38:04,150
thanks. Do I need to join this
counseling session?
674
00:38:04,370 --> 00:38:07,910
Oh, my goodness.
675
00:38:08,350 --> 00:38:09,890
Live and in person.
676
00:38:10,870 --> 00:38:16,740
Hi. Hey, good to see you. You too. I
feel like it's been so long. Ever since
677
00:38:16,740 --> 00:38:20,740
date night, things have been going
downhill with Ralph and I. We're not
678
00:38:20,740 --> 00:38:22,720
talking. He moved out of the bedroom.
679
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,360
Our marriage is in a perpetual cycle.
680
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:27,080
Sometimes it's up, sometimes it's down.
681
00:38:27,300 --> 00:38:31,040
We try to go out, have a good time, but
then things go left.
682
00:38:33,100 --> 00:38:34,580
I was thinking.
683
00:38:35,020 --> 00:38:40,320
Yes. You have been in counseling with me
for really what?
684
00:38:40,620 --> 00:38:42,140
13, 14 months.
685
00:38:42,380 --> 00:38:45,180
And a lot of times, people back out of
counseling.
686
00:38:45,540 --> 00:38:50,900
Ralph and I have been married for eight
years. And in hindsight, we have been
687
00:38:50,900 --> 00:38:56,580
dealing with issues of transparency, of
faithfulness,
688
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,200
of respect.
689
00:38:59,580 --> 00:39:01,220
I feel like you shouldn't leave your
family.
690
00:39:01,500 --> 00:39:02,439
You're married.
691
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,120
I leave because I don't have a choice.
692
00:39:04,780 --> 00:39:08,260
You got to stop these stupid issues.
Where were you?
693
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,220
Tampa. So he did bring in an assistant.
694
00:39:12,500 --> 00:39:15,060
She had texted him, I'll come to your
house and give you a massage.
695
00:39:15,380 --> 00:39:18,960
That is all becoming challenging for me.
696
00:39:19,180 --> 00:39:20,880
How things going with Ralph now?
697
00:39:21,100 --> 00:39:22,280
You have gone on dates?
698
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:23,680
Yeah, we did.
699
00:39:23,720 --> 00:39:24,678
Yeah, we did.
700
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:25,680
And that was fun?
701
00:39:25,820 --> 00:39:28,740
It kind of like spiraled into like a
disagreement.
702
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,320
Counseling, it's just, all right, this
topic, now this topic, now you got this
703
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:34,980
issue, but that's going to get us
divorced.
704
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:40,860
I feel like I'm able to stand stronger
in what I know is right for me.
705
00:39:41,580 --> 00:39:46,060
I'm willing to draw a line of boundaries
whenever he decides to come around.
706
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,900
I think you're kind of saying nobody can
gaslight me.
707
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,220
Oh! Is that what you're saying? I mean,
you woke up. I'm woke.
708
00:39:54,500 --> 00:39:59,020
Yeah, I will not be tumble -dry. Those
days are gone. Those days are gone. And
709
00:39:59,020 --> 00:40:01,880
yet, where does that really leave your
marriage, though?
710
00:40:04,359 --> 00:40:05,359
Like, questionable.
711
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:08,080
Disconnected.
712
00:40:08,240 --> 00:40:09,660
How are you feeling right now?
713
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:19,060
It's like the emotional awareness is
still lacking, which is all I've ever
714
00:40:19,060 --> 00:40:22,360
for. Like, I just want you to care about
my heart. I want you to care about how
715
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,480
I feel. I want you to care about the
things that are important to me.
716
00:40:24,860 --> 00:40:29,900
Is that your way of saying that you're
believing that my husband doesn't care
717
00:40:29,900 --> 00:40:31,020
about how I feel?
718
00:40:32,660 --> 00:40:33,660
Right.
719
00:40:34,860 --> 00:40:39,060
I feel like, you know, I didn't get
married to get divorced, so I'm always
720
00:40:39,060 --> 00:40:44,980
willing to try, but it's just like, at
what point are things going to turn
721
00:40:44,980 --> 00:40:48,860
around? At what point does someone want
to fight for the marriage? Like, I'm
722
00:40:48,860 --> 00:40:53,440
still in counseling, but he's not. I
hope that things can turn around, but
723
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,520
without him showing up and making
effort, it's impossible.
724
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:01,300
I'm definitely worried about the state
of our relationship.
725
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,980
Sometimes I look at him, and he's so
vulnerable.
726
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,940
It's like... So you're torn.
727
00:41:07,540 --> 00:41:08,540
Right.
728
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:15,360
Because sometimes I just feel like this
is too much. Like, I feel like I'm okay,
729
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,260
and then I'm just like, am I doing this
to myself?
730
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,880
Am I causing myself more pain?
731
00:41:22,820 --> 00:41:25,280
I don't know.
732
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:29,120
Your first relationship is to yourself.
733
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:34,720
You can't be good for anybody else,
Ralph, the children, if you're not good
734
00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:40,460
yourself. It's like I have to be more
aware of what's going on with me here.
735
00:41:41,340 --> 00:41:45,120
When will you know enough is enough?
736
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,560
Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
737
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,060
Everybody's saying you're killing it.
Drew was the best decision I made in
738
00:41:56,060 --> 00:41:58,900
movie. Drew is a real actress. She knows
what she's doing.
739
00:42:01,740 --> 00:42:04,820
I didn't know that that was going to
take place last night. Things around
740
00:42:04,820 --> 00:42:07,660
change a lot. You usually don't come
when I have, like, intimate scenes.
741
00:42:07,860 --> 00:42:11,640
Well, I don't come for guy -on -girl
scenes, but girl -on -girl is a
742
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,000
story. I'm here for it.
743
00:42:13,940 --> 00:42:14,940
Good evening, everyone.
744
00:42:15,340 --> 00:42:19,200
Thank you all for coming. With this
event, I'm honoring successful people
745
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:20,940
have made it out of the foster care
system.
746
00:42:21,180 --> 00:42:23,660
They are special. They are seen, and
they are appreciated.
747
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,140
It feels like this is my calling.
748
00:42:27,509 --> 00:42:31,230
I'm a new grandma, and most of my
parents have not seen her yet. So, like,
749
00:42:31,230 --> 00:42:34,450
has to be fabulous. It has to be over
-the -top. It has to be beautiful.
750
00:42:34,810 --> 00:42:36,210
This is so gorgeous!
751
00:42:36,670 --> 00:42:38,110
She buys for a party.
752
00:42:39,230 --> 00:42:43,990
Can we have a little conversation?
753
00:42:44,410 --> 00:42:45,410
Oh, no.
754
00:42:45,510 --> 00:42:47,230
No, just a tiny one.
755
00:42:47,590 --> 00:42:48,770
I'm not going to come in.
756
00:42:49,150 --> 00:42:50,150
Why are you not coming in?
757
00:42:50,430 --> 00:42:54,510
There's a man here that literally... Oh,
shit.
758
00:42:54,970 --> 00:42:55,970
That's not Bob's girl.
759
00:42:57,070 --> 00:43:01,990
Who is this woman that Bob is pulling to
the photo?
760
00:43:02,650 --> 00:43:03,650
Maybe a sister.
761
00:43:03,850 --> 00:43:05,670
Maybe he has another daughter we don't
know about.
60747
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