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I believe the search for love is a
scientific endeavor.
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And as a society, we've never had more
data to process about ourselves and each
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other. And when we truly understand this
data, it allows us to make calculated
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and informed decisions as we identify
romantic partners.
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It sounds like you're saying you've
hacked romance.
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Well, I mean, if there's a way to
eliminate some of the wasted time and
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that goes into dating, wouldn't we all
want that?
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Okay. Kendall, your best -selling books,
Dating and Mating in the Modern Age and
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Swipe Left, From Data to Dating, these
focus on your science of love
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Using the mind to help the heart. Right,
but neither of the books mentions your
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own love life.
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I'm curious.
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If my own methods have worked for me,
let's just say I'm still kissing frogs,
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just fewer of them.
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Okay, let's get some questions from the
audience.
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Mitchell wants to know how to get rid of
nerves before you go on a date.
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Ah, okay, so the physical symptoms for
nervousness, the dry mouth, sweaty
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accelerated heart rate, those are
actually the same as the physical
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excitement. So my advice is don't get
rid of the nerves. Embrace them and
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reframe them.
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Next question we have is from Jill.
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After a breakup, how do I know I'm ready
to date again?
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Ah, that's easy. Use facts instead of
feelings.
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How do you know if you're ready to date?
By going on a date.
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Actually, that gives me an idea.
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Where's Jill?
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Okay, great. Hi.
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And where is Mitchell?
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Okay, great. I am sending you two on a
date.
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Yep, my treat.
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Go on a walk or have a coffee, have a
meal.
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Mitchell, embrace your nerves.
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And Jill, see if you enjoy being out
with someone new.
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This is kind of awkward.
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It absolutely is. But being embarrassed
on live TV together will at least give
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you guys something to talk about, right?
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Okay. Okay.
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Great. So it sounds like Jill's in.
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Mitchell, are you?
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Sure. Awesome.
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Have fun.
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That was definitely a first.
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Okay, one last question from the
audience. This is from Sheila. Okay. She
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to know what you think about romance
experts like Dr.
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Lovestruck from Pacific Founder
Magazine, who insists real love is all
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fate and feelings.
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Well, Dr.
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Lovestruck writes an interesting love
column, to be sure, but that should not
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confused with real science.
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And I'd like to thank Kendall Turner for
joining us today. Thank you.
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Did you hear that?
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Mocked Dr.
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Lovestruck on TV.
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He inspires people to fall in love. What
is so wrong with that?
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He spreads hope that at any moment two
people would meet and bam, fall in love.
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He provides a real community service.
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Exactly.
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I mean, the science of love, what does
that even mean?
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Who knows?
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You know, I should contact this Kendall
Turner and ask her some questions.
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After all, I am a journalist.
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Moonlighting at the Anonymous Romance
Advice Conference.
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Come on, man.
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Dr. Love struck a Superman. I'm just
Clark Kent. Oh, sure.
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If Superman was a romantic. Superman is
totally a romantic.
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He flies Lois Lane all over Metropolis.
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That dude knows how to plan a date. Plus
that hair.
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You know, the only reason I volunteer
for this gig was to show Perkins I'm the
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team player.
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I mean, do I wish that I had more time
to pursue projects and stories that I'm
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passionate about? Of course I do. But
before you know it, I'll be features
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editor and someone else will have to
cover Dr. Lovestruck.
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Well, good luck finding someone.
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It certainly cannot be me.
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I think it's probably better for the
people of Seattle if I just stick with
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direction. I do not have anywhere near
your level of romance.
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Speaking of which... Oh, speaking of
which, did you do what I suggested?
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I booked the cabin at Mount Rainier.
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Ah, my guy, my guy. And?
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And we were going up there this weekend.
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And?
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There should be more. It's your wedding
anniversary.
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Give her memories that she'll tell her
grandkids about.
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I got it.
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A trail of roses.
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That leads to a candlelit dinner for two
with twinkly lights where someone is
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playing the acoustic guitar and they're
playing the first song that you guys
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dance to at your wedding.
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I don't play the guitar.
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I know you don't.
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You find the one who does.
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Drive out to a lakeside cabin?
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It's about the grand gesture. Trust me,
it'll work.
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Okay. Okay? All right.
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Thanks, man.
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You got it. I got it. You got it. You
got it. Oh, one question. The rose
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Do I do those or do I hire someone for
that too?
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I'll do it. You know you do it.
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Thanks, buddy.
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He doesn't have it.
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Yeah, I mean, it's just so much fun.
Every time I go on the show, the best.
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I mean, matching two people on a blind
date live on camera was a stroke of
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brilliance. I mean, who knows if they'll
actually hit it off on their date, but
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at least... Look at some practice. I
mean, half the battle is getting the
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It is trending on social media, which
means free publicity.
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And the Emerald City Book Gala just
reached out, and they want you for the
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opening night.
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Okay, me next. Is there anyone in here
you can set me up with? It does not work
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like that. Well, I wish it did. If only
you could be my fairy godmother.
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Ella, you do not need a fairy. You just
need to use your beautiful, wonderful,
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spectacular mind. I know.
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Think my way to finding the perfect
partner. I read your books. Exactly.
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Speaking of which.
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Nothing? I'm working on it.
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Publisher parish, my dear.
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You know my work takes time. I do, I do.
And as your devoted editor, I get it.
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Your thorough research is what makes
your work so unique.
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And you're a big seller, so publishers
won't forget you.
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But... But... Just don't take too long?
Correct.
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Got it.
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Don't worry, you will figure something
out.
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and it will be your best book yet.
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Okay?
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Can you believe this, Dr. Lovestruck?
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Be the hero of your own love story with
a grand gesture of affection.
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Stop traffic.
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Hire a skywriter. Be bold and you will
be rewarded.
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Can you believe that? Sounds romantic to
me. Of course it's romantic. But
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skywriting is just hot air that fades
into nothing. It's literally the epitome
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of not making a commitment.
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It's all smoke and mirrors, just without
the mirrors.
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So you want me to agree with you? Yeah.
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Well, I'm not, but you are the expert.
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I am. And I meant to tell you, I'm
bringing Tyler to your reading.
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You think after driving around in an
ambulance all day saving lives, he wants
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come and listen to your big sis talk
about romance for an hour? If he knows
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good for him, he will. Oh, okay.
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Seems like you guys are getting kind of
serious.
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Will you do me a favor?
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What?
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When you meet him, will you just be my
sister and not romance expert Kendall
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Turner?
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Kendall?
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Okay, I will be off the clock for you.
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Cheers.
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The magazine is sponsoring the Emerald
City Festival of Books this year, and
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we're doing our usual coverage, but I
thought it'd be nice to spotlight some
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local participants.
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Speaking of which, I have your next
assignment.
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It's an author profile.
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Kendall Turner.
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Science of love lady.
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Huh.
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You know her?
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Yeah, I saw her interview the other day
on the morning show.
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It's too bad I can't do it as Dr.
Lovestruck, one romance advice writer to
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another. That's why I thought you'd be
perfect for this.
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Now, as you know, your confidentiality
agreement means that you can't tell her
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or anyone that you're Dr.
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Lovestruck. But I'm confident you'll
bring a unique perspective to this.
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2 ,500 words for the next issue. You got
it.
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Oh, and Hart, your profiles often make
the cover.
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And that's what I'm looking for. Keep up
the great work.
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Can do.
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Oh, almost forgot.
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is incredible.
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Thank you for pulling it together.
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Oh, anything for my favorite author.
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I'm going to look in the back, see if I
can find some more chairs.
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Great.
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Sorry I'm late.
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Great turnout.
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I know, right?
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Who was that guy you were talking to
just now?
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Oh, Grant?
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He's the store owner. That's Grant?
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Mm -hmm.
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I shot him on the phone, but I've never
seen him in person.
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He's cute.
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Is he single?
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I don't know.
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Well, maybe you should find out. We did
coffee once.
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The good news? We talked about books for
two hours. The bad news? That's about
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all we had in common.
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Idea. The perfect PR moment.
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Author and bookstore owner reconnect and
start dating. It's like a rom -com. And
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just as fictional.
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Grant is a great guy, but we are just
friends.
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Our happily ever after is purely
platonic.
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Such a shame.
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He has such a nice smile.
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Yeah.
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Hello, everyone. Thank you for joining
us for an event that's all about...
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Romance. How to find it and how to keep
it. I know I could certainly use a few
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tips.
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So without further ado, please welcome
best -selling author and love expert,
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Kendall Turner.
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Thank you.
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Thank you for having me.
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Ultimately, falling in love is a choice.
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And being in a healthy relationship
means actively making that choice to
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every single day.
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It may not sound romantic, but making a
conscious decision every day to love
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that person, what's more romantic than
that?
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Sounds romantic to me.
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Everyone, we're going to be setting up
for the book signing. So if you'd like
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stick around for that in just a few
moments.
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Thank you so much for staying around.
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It was really nice to meet you, Tyler.
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Thank you, Kendall. I hope you enjoy it.
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This was great, Kendall.
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Congratulations. Thank you. Meet you at
your place tomorrow? Sounds great. See
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you tomorrow.
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Bye.
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Hi. Hello.
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Who should I make it out to?
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Larry, please.
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Okay, Larry.
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Well, I hope that you enjoy it. No,
Larry's my best friend, actually. I'm
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Nathan.
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And I already read your book.
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Oh, and what did you think?
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It's entertaining.
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Entertaining? Really made me curious
about your personal experience with
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Oh, well, you are not the first person
to ask me that. You're not even the
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person to ask me that this week.
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Well, I bet you got some great stories.
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Well, I...
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I hate to burst your bubble, but I use a
standard statistical approach. I talk
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to a large sample. I gather the data.
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I try to leave my subjective views out
of it and let the information speak for
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itself. Oh, okay.
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Well, your research is impressive.
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Thank you.
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But most writers write from their own
point of view, and you have to get that
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from somewhere.
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So I'm curious about yours.
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Nathan Hart.
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We met at the Press Club last year. You
were moderating the Q &A with Rebecca
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Solnit. Yeah.
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I'm Ella Carlin, Kendall's editor.
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Nice to meet you again.
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Yeah. Nathan is a reporter for the
Pacific Sounder magazine.
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Oh, you didn't mention that.
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Well, I know I didn't. I didn't mention
it yet.
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But my magazine wants to do a profile on
you.
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Here's my info.
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Maybe we can set up a time to get
together in the next few days for an
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interview. Oh, great.
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That's funny. I feel like the
interview's already started.
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A little bit.
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We will be in touch.
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Well, I hope that Larry finds this
helpful and entertaining.
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Okay. I'm sure he will.
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Well, I'd say that was a roaring
success.
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And we've almost sold out of your book.
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Well, you put on such a great event. How
could we not?
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I'm Ella, Kendall's editor.
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Hi. Hi.
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Kendall, always a pleasure.
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Oh, yeah.
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And we'll have to do it again soon.
Absolutely. Maybe next week.
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No, it doesn't make sense. You know,
I'll call you or text or email.
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Okay.
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Bye.
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Bye.
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Bye. Can you believe that guy?
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He's not so bad.
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Oh, Nathan.
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Don't worry about him. It's a puff
piece. You've done a million of them. He
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called me entertaining.
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That's a bad thing?
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I mean, it's a bit condescending, don't
you think?
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Do not let him press your buttons. It's
one interview.
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You never have to see him again.
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You did so great today.
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Thank you. Yeah. Let's get out of here.
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Come on. Okay.
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Perfect. Thank you.
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Hey.
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Yeah. Right here?
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Okay.
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Here is your latte. Oh.
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Almond milk.
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Extra foam.
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Should I be worried that you know my
coffee order?
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Come on. You're not the only one who
does the research.
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Well, thank you. You're welcome.
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Oh, I love this place. I come here like
once or twice a week. Have you ever
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been? Sorry to interrupt.
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Thank you for the coffee.
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She told you. You hear these pay it
forward, kindness to strangers stories.
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It's never happened to us before.
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Made our day.
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There you go. Your husband is a real
gentleman.
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Oh, he's not mine. We'll do the same
thing one day.
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It's amazing what a little kindness can
do.
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My dad used to do that when I was a kid.
He would pick up the tab for complete
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strangers. You know, Kara wasn't
supposed to tell him it was for me. She
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supposed to say it was on the house.
Kara?
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Uh, the barista.
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Her and I, we have this thing, right?
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Oh. So I come here so much.
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I just kind of look at her and I give
her like a little boop. Yeah. And she
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to just kind of... Here's that rapport.
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Got it. Now you're making fun of me.
Yes, I'm embarrassed.
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Okay, I'll quit.
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Don't be.
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You're very clever.
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Very theatrical.
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Oh.
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Theatrical? What does that mean?
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Your schtick.
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Impress your interview subject, charm
them even with an I'm -just -your
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-friendly -neighborhood -coffee -buying
-journalist approach as an effective way
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to establish the way you would like me
to see you.
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And how would I like you to see me?
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Generous and thoughtful and therefore
trustworthy.
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That's the exact opposite of how I want
you to see me. I don't know about that.
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I mean, I...
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I observe human behavior. That's kind of
what I do.
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Wow, we're cynical much?
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No, just skeptical of someone who sees
what I do as entertainment.
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You match two people on live TV.
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So you're telling me that's not
entertainment? I spontaneously saw an
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opportunity for two people to open the
door to romance.
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Statistically, most dates don't lead to
a relationship.
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So if all that comes out of it is just
courage or confidence in taking a risk,
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then... That's a win.
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Okay. But the same could also be said
for what I just did.
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I spontaneously saw an opportunity to do
something nice for two people I didn't
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know.
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Hmm.
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All right, so tell me about your
background.
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Hmm. I was born and raised in Puget
Sound.
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Got it.
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Majored in behavioral sciences and
biology.
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I started writing for the student paper
in grad school and discovered I had a
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lot to say about human behavior and
romance and love.
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So here I am, doing my thing.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Doing it all. Giving me everything
that's in your bio that I read.
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So you read my bio, did your homework. I
tend to.
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I want to know about your philosophy.
Come on. Well, it's all data -driven.
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what does your data then say about
passion?
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Passion is just a... A minor factor.
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So how do you plan a romantic date?
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Oh, well, it should be casual and
daytime with a focus on
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conversation. Oh, it should also
definitely include something sweet like
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chocolate.
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And why is that?
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Sugar wakes up the neurotransmitters
that make us feel attractive.
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That's good to know. Yeah.
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Feel attractive.
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Ah, after you.
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After you.
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Okay, okay.
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You ever wonder that what you do for a
living keeps people away?
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Well, yeah.
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But, I mean, any man who's intimidated
by my work isn't a good match for me
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anyway, so it's a good thing. Do you
ever worry that your methods will make
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miss that spontaneous exception to the
rule?
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Okay, for instance, I have a thing about
birds.
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Birds? They are tiny dinosaurs that
sleep with their eyes open.
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They give me the creeps.
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But I dated a woman once with a parrot.
I mean, until she moved, she got a new
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job. What, like on a pirate ship or?
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No, she was a zoologist. My point is, is
that was unexpected. Had she not moved,
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I would stay with her, even with the
birds. It doesn't have anything to do
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the bird or shared TV shows or anything
external. It comes down to internal
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compatibility, which can exist.
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Even if, on the surface, it looks like
it doesn't.
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Okay.
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I'll buy it.
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Ella, I know what the next book is. I
decided I'm going to be the focus of my
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own research.
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Collecting and recording emotional data
directly from the source. Testing
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theories. Putting myself in the middle
of it all.
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Okay. Interesting.
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But I'm still not quite clear on your
angle.
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The angle is me.
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My next book will be an account of my
own personal dating experiences. Think
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about it. I've never written about
myself before. So I am putting myself
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there and I'm giving my readers
something totally fresh and new and
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And what are you thinking?
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It's about time. Oh, I think you like
it. I love it. Are you kidding? I can
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already see the promotional tagline.
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Science of love author experiments on
self.
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Where'd you get the idea?
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Well... Oh my gosh.
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You met someone? I did. I did. And I
think he could be totally wrong for me,
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that's okay.
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Wait, I don't get it.
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This guy is a blank slate. So I can try
various methods to test our
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compatibility without any expectations.
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It's perfect.
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So he could be the wrong guy or the
right guy. Right. I mean, that's the
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I have no idea. Do you see the
potential? I don't know, but I love
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this excited, both professionally and
personally.
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I mean, you know me, Ella. I love a new
research project.
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Yes, you do.
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I'm so glad you like it. I love it.
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Breakthrough.
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Breakthrough.
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Hey, save some for the rest of us. Yeah,
yeah, yeah, yeah. I need my caffeine
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now. All right, all right. I got you, I
got you. There you go. Tell me when.
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Keep it coming. Tell me when. That's
great. All right.
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Hey, how was the whole anniversary
thing?
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Oh, yeah, it was good.
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Pretty good.
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Decent. All right.
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What happened?
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Well, she was super surprised by the
rose petals and the dinner by the lake.
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told you, Grand Jester. It's a thing.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Until Anita had an allergy attack from
the flower petals.
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Then it rained. Dinner got soaked.
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So we had pizza.
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Yeah, you can't account for Mother
Nature.
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You should have seen her face.
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Even she said she looked like Rocky
after a fight.
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You know, a dose of Benadryl, a little
smuggled by the fire, and since it
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such a disaster, it turned into the most
memorable and hilariously bad, but
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great, anniversary of all time. You see,
now that doesn't surprise me that
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something unexpected turned into
something romantic.
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Uh -huh. Is that it?
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Oh, I didn't even tell you.
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I interviewed Kendall Turner for the
profile.
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Oh, yeah.
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And it's incredible how seriously she
takes this science of love thing.
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I mean, I have never seen someone so
serious about love. It must be for a
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reason. Are you always this curious
about your interview subjects?
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I'm just saying, man. Like, there's a
story there, okay?
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That's all you're saying.
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Sure, that's not all that was there.
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Don't you have work to do?
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Hey, man, I make my own schedule.
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You do roll in and roll out. Yeah. I'll
give you that.
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I've been knocking for a solid minute.
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I'm sorry. I have been busy having a
breakthrough.
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I think I can actually see smoke coming
out of your ears. This is a hypothesis
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for how to tell through a series of
dates and certain activities if I'm with
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right person, rather the best match for
a long, healthy relationship.
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I have designed an interactive
compatibility test.
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So more signs of love. Better signs of
love. Check it. There are four steps.
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Signal interest, connect meaningfully,
demonstrate worth, and most importantly,
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establish trust.
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So basically dating?
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No, it is entirely different. I am
trying to see if I can track the
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blocks of a relationship as it comes
together or where it falls apart.
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Sounds like a party. If I'm not willing
to test my own boundaries, then how can
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I expect other people to?
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Well, I'm impressed I'm fine. Thank you.
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But it's time for your dinner break.
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Okay.
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Okay. One minute. Nope.
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Okay.
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I'm standing in my waders, you know, hip
deep in water, and I look up, and all I
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see is Joy jumping up and down, waving
one arm and holding the fish and pulling
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the other. I was trying to yell, but the
river was too loud.
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So I eventually get over her, and she
had caught a fish, but she couldn't get
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off the hook, so she was keeping it
underwater, but it was pulling her into
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river. We were in a national park, so
all the fish are catch and release, but
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00:24:57,730 --> 00:25:02,010
the truth is I wasn't actually trying to
catch anything. I was only pretending
465
00:25:02,010 --> 00:25:03,030
to catch, so I couldn't.
466
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:04,420
Spend the day out there with Tyler.
467
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,220
Aww. I can't believe you went fishing.
468
00:25:08,460 --> 00:25:09,680
I mean, that's so unexpected.
469
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:10,999
I know, right?
470
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,000
I'd have to say.
471
00:25:12,220 --> 00:25:13,220
She's a natural.
472
00:25:13,260 --> 00:25:14,640
Okay, so, Tyler.
473
00:25:14,940 --> 00:25:19,000
Every day is life and death for you as a
paramedic. You love the mariners and
474
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,540
the seahawks and fishing, apparently.
475
00:25:21,820 --> 00:25:23,840
But what are your thoughts on art?
476
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:29,720
I have no artistic aptitude whatsoever.
477
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,320
But I know what joy makes is beautiful.
478
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,820
I knew she was special from the first
moment I saw her. Just two hungry souls
479
00:25:37,820 --> 00:25:39,840
buying for the last spring roll at a
wedding reception.
480
00:25:40,180 --> 00:25:43,660
You could have seen how fast she
snatched that thing up, smiling the
481
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:47,420
no regrets. And then I had plum sauce
all over my face, and he handed me a
482
00:25:47,420 --> 00:25:50,360
napkin, and it was love at first sight.
483
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,980
But you guys do know that there is no
such thing as love at first sight.
484
00:25:56,330 --> 00:26:00,150
My beloved sis, are you seriously trying
to correct our adorable meet -cute? I'm
485
00:26:00,150 --> 00:26:04,090
just saying, people can be attracted to
each other at first sight, but it's
486
00:26:04,090 --> 00:26:05,150
completely biological.
487
00:26:05,450 --> 00:26:07,130
You always do this. You always do this.
488
00:26:07,450 --> 00:26:10,230
No, it's funny because I just read
something like that.
489
00:26:10,610 --> 00:26:13,550
The guy who writes in Pacific Sounder
magazine... Oh, don't tell me.
490
00:26:13,950 --> 00:26:19,070
Dr. Lustrock. He says you can tell
within the first few minutes of a date
491
00:26:19,070 --> 00:26:19,809
it's a good match.
492
00:26:19,810 --> 00:26:22,170
Signs from your neuroreceptors, not your
heart.
493
00:26:23,570 --> 00:26:24,570
Well...
494
00:26:24,970 --> 00:26:28,930
Wherever the sign came from, I'm glad I
was paying attention.
495
00:26:29,330 --> 00:26:30,330
Oh.
496
00:26:32,270 --> 00:26:33,089
Good night.
497
00:26:33,090 --> 00:26:34,090
Night -night. Night!
498
00:26:39,290 --> 00:26:40,290
Hello?
499
00:26:43,370 --> 00:26:44,530
Hey, it's Kendall Turner.
500
00:26:44,970 --> 00:26:47,850
Oh, I'm glad you called. I have some
follow -up questions.
501
00:26:48,430 --> 00:26:49,810
Well, you got a moment, of course.
502
00:26:50,070 --> 00:26:51,690
Saturday, lunch in the park.
503
00:27:09,360 --> 00:27:13,520
Okay, I'm confused. Are you dating this
woman or interviewing her?
504
00:27:13,860 --> 00:27:16,640
No, it's definitely an interview. I'm
just not sure if it's a date, too.
505
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,420
Is it a coincidence that you happen to
have professional hair and makeup on the
506
00:27:20,420 --> 00:27:23,680
same day as your date with Nathan? You
are the one who said I needed new author
507
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:24,680
photos for the next book.
508
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,840
Besides, it is not a date. I thought you
asked him out.
509
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,580
Well, I did.
510
00:27:30,120 --> 00:27:32,920
So it is a date. It's research. It's
work.
511
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,860
Aren't you worried you're crossing into
an ethical gray area here? As a
512
00:27:39,860 --> 00:27:40,799
journalist, I mean.
513
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,680
I mean, I had an idea for a different
type of article.
514
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:47,220
You know, Kendall Turner is a romance
expert who literally disagrees with
515
00:27:47,220 --> 00:27:49,200
everything that Dr. Lovestruck says.
516
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:53,620
You do like him, don't you? I don't
know, but that's not the point. It is a
517
00:27:53,620 --> 00:27:58,680
chance for me to test out my theories.
Maybe add a little color to the profile
518
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,680
he's writing. Plus, he's going to have a
great time. I'm taking him to that pop
519
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,620
-up fair and then lunch at the park.
Interesting.
520
00:28:04,220 --> 00:28:06,000
It's not interesting. It's science.
521
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,240
I mean, I can't tell her that I'm Dr.
Lovestruck, now can I?
522
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,880
I mean, other than that, I'm just going
to follow the same advice that I give in
523
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,740
my column. I mean, Perkins loves my
outside -the -box ideas.
524
00:28:16,380 --> 00:28:17,840
I mean, this could break me out.
525
00:28:18,660 --> 00:28:25,480
I can conduct a straightforward
interview, or I can pit Keno's advice
526
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,860
Dr. Lovestruck's, a .k .a. me.
527
00:28:29,340 --> 00:28:30,380
What if you guys don't click?
528
00:28:30,940 --> 00:28:33,720
Like, what if you have a nice time, but
you don't hear bells?
529
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:35,680
Hear bells?
530
00:28:35,820 --> 00:28:39,280
It's what my mom always said. You know
it's love when you hear bells.
531
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,080
Okay, see, that is exactly the kind of
reason I need to write this book. The
532
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,800
goal of the first date should be
familiarity.
533
00:28:46,540 --> 00:28:50,660
Spend enough time together to get rid of
some of the nerves. Talk, listen.
534
00:28:51,100 --> 00:28:52,720
It has nothing to do with bells.
535
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,120
You see these?
536
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:02,460
Mm -hmm. You can't get these anywhere
else in the state of Washington except
537
00:29:02,460 --> 00:29:03,419
right here.
538
00:29:03,420 --> 00:29:04,500
Really? Yep.
539
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,960
Huh. So I'm not just getting her
flowers. I'm getting her flowers at
540
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:13,220
I put forth the effort, and then I
thought about her because when I look at
541
00:29:13,220 --> 00:29:15,120
these flowers, I see her.
542
00:29:17,140 --> 00:29:18,140
I'll have these, please.
543
00:29:18,500 --> 00:29:19,500
Thank you.
544
00:29:19,980 --> 00:29:24,340
Okay, and the fact that you are starting
your relationship with a lie?
545
00:29:24,700 --> 00:29:27,340
First of all, she and I are not in a
relationship.
546
00:29:27,930 --> 00:29:30,170
We're just getting lunch, and she asked
me.
547
00:29:30,810 --> 00:29:32,630
Second of all, I won't lie.
548
00:29:33,410 --> 00:29:37,690
I may have to omit some details, but I'd
never lie to her.
549
00:29:38,630 --> 00:29:39,630
It's like I'm undercover.
550
00:29:39,710 --> 00:29:42,270
How about that? Okay, but what happens
when the covers come off?
551
00:29:42,570 --> 00:29:47,550
You're such a pessimist. Come on, man. I
come from a long line of romantic.
552
00:29:47,850 --> 00:29:48,850
I know what I'm doing.
553
00:29:51,030 --> 00:29:52,030
Thank you.
554
00:29:53,210 --> 00:29:54,550
Give these to your wife.
555
00:29:55,010 --> 00:29:56,010
Ugh.
556
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:57,760
She does not deserve you.
557
00:29:58,660 --> 00:30:02,740
My dad bought my mom flowers and still
does the first of every month.
558
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:06,220
He says that 10 -minute errand is worth
a smile on her face.
559
00:30:07,340 --> 00:30:09,580
He says it's the reason they stay
together this long.
560
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,740
She has no idea what she's in for with
you.
561
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:14,340
No, she doesn't.
562
00:30:18,140 --> 00:30:19,500
Good? Great.
563
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:25,000
Okay. I know your brand is all
scientific method, but keep an open
564
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:26,440
I always do.
565
00:30:26,620 --> 00:30:28,480
But the data will speak for itself.
566
00:30:29,420 --> 00:30:30,420
Hi,
567
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:37,800
I'm Kendall Turner.
568
00:30:38,020 --> 00:30:41,060
I think you have some books for me to
personalize. It's great to see you, Ms.
569
00:30:41,140 --> 00:30:42,099
Turner.
570
00:30:42,100 --> 00:30:46,200
Until I read Swipe Left, I had no idea
I'd been doing online dating all wrong.
571
00:30:46,340 --> 00:30:49,420
Oh, you are so sweet. Thank you. It's
always nice to meet a fan.
572
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,580
Well, your books are just in the back.
Give me a second. Great, thanks.
573
00:30:53,100 --> 00:30:54,100
Kendall.
574
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,260
I was just thinking about you. Oh, I bet
you'd say that to all the authors.
575
00:30:58,580 --> 00:31:01,000
I was surprised to hear that there were
so many special orders.
576
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,480
Oh, our customers love books with a
personal message.
577
00:31:03,820 --> 00:31:07,120
And since you're local and can come on
down and sign them, why not?
578
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,400
Well, whatever I can do to make the
readers happy.
579
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,200
You know, whenever I see someone
browsing by your books, I tell them I
580
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:14,740
science of love author personally.
581
00:31:15,060 --> 00:31:16,060
Oh.
582
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:17,440
And she's brilliant.
583
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:22,360
Oh, thanks. Then they ask if your books
have worked for me. And I have to say,
584
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:23,720
not yet.
585
00:31:26,350 --> 00:31:31,170
You know, I could actually use your
advice about romance.
586
00:31:31,890 --> 00:31:32,890
Sure.
587
00:31:34,390 --> 00:31:39,010
There's someone who's caught my eye.
588
00:31:39,610 --> 00:31:43,990
We have a professional relationship, but
I'm interested in something more.
589
00:31:44,870 --> 00:31:51,090
Yeah, that can be tricky, but do you
know if she or he feels the same way?
590
00:31:51,290 --> 00:31:52,970
and no, I don't, but...
591
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,820
I really want to find out.
592
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,300
You mentioned she's a colleague? She's
in publishing, yes.
593
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:01,180
Do I know her?
594
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,440
She's beautiful.
595
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:06,960
And smart.
596
00:32:07,780 --> 00:32:08,780
And funny.
597
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,260
And... Did I mention beautiful?
598
00:32:12,620 --> 00:32:13,620
Yeah.
599
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:18,980
I don't want to fall in the same trap I
always fall into. Getting friend -zoned
600
00:32:18,980 --> 00:32:21,080
before I've worked up the nerve to
express myself.
601
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:22,680
What do I do?
602
00:32:24,110 --> 00:32:25,410
What would you do? Nothing.
603
00:32:26,430 --> 00:32:29,770
Nothing? No, nothing. Not a zip. Don't
do anything.
604
00:32:29,970 --> 00:32:35,450
That way, if she's interested, she will
come to you. It will protect your
605
00:32:35,450 --> 00:32:39,030
professional relationship, which I'm
sure means a lot to her.
606
00:32:39,890 --> 00:32:42,470
Maybe you should even play hard to get.
607
00:32:42,690 --> 00:32:47,150
Look, I don't normally advise playing
games in romance, but in this case, I
608
00:32:47,150 --> 00:32:51,070
honestly think your best option might
just be to ignore her.
609
00:32:55,409 --> 00:32:56,409
Do nothing.
610
00:32:56,490 --> 00:32:57,810
Not a single thing.
611
00:33:00,770 --> 00:33:01,770
Okay.
612
00:33:03,130 --> 00:33:04,130
You're the expert.
613
00:33:04,150 --> 00:33:05,129
I sure am.
614
00:33:05,130 --> 00:33:06,730
Yeah. Oh, book.
615
00:33:06,930 --> 00:33:08,570
Gotta go. Yeah. Gotta find. Yeah.
616
00:33:15,550 --> 00:33:16,550
Hey,
617
00:33:21,390 --> 00:33:22,690
what's so funny? Oh, hi.
618
00:33:23,260 --> 00:33:27,480
Nothing. Nothing at all. Those are for
you.
619
00:33:27,740 --> 00:33:28,740
These are lovely.
620
00:33:29,300 --> 00:33:30,860
Those are a local variety.
621
00:33:31,220 --> 00:33:35,680
There's a woman that runs a farm. It's
right down the street. Do you know who
622
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,360
writes the Dr. Lovestruck column?
623
00:33:38,140 --> 00:33:42,440
I mean, the magazine can't have that
large of a staff, right? I mean, I guess
624
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:46,560
they could freelance it or outsource it,
which could help with privacy.
625
00:33:46,900 --> 00:33:48,820
Either way.
626
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:54,720
As much as I hate to judge people, I
don't know. I have to say, I think he's
627
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:55,840
doing your readers a disservice.
628
00:33:56,740 --> 00:33:57,760
Why would you say that?
629
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:02,780
Well, for instance, in his last column,
he said that first dates should be
630
00:34:02,780 --> 00:34:04,720
outrageous and memorable.
631
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,880
Studies show that first dates are more
efficient when they take place in a
632
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:14,280
location or environment that is casual
or encourages relaxed conversation.
633
00:34:15,500 --> 00:34:16,500
I see.
634
00:34:19,150 --> 00:34:20,770
I haven't had a Jamaican patty in years.
635
00:34:21,030 --> 00:34:22,870
You want? Yes, please.
636
00:34:24,330 --> 00:34:25,330
Two, please.
637
00:34:25,610 --> 00:34:26,610
Yes.
638
00:34:30,090 --> 00:34:34,110
Apparently, Dr. Lovestruck thinks all
first dates should be fireworks and
639
00:34:34,110 --> 00:34:40,590
champagne. I mean... A daytime activity,
640
00:34:40,929 --> 00:34:45,429
ideally something interactive, creates a
space for clear connection.
641
00:34:47,770 --> 00:34:50,690
Now I think I understand what we are
doing here.
642
00:34:50,909 --> 00:34:52,429
Oh, do you? I think so.
643
00:34:53,310 --> 00:34:54,330
This is really good. Smells good.
644
00:34:54,590 --> 00:34:55,590
I'll come back to it.
645
00:35:01,710 --> 00:35:02,710
Bell.
646
00:35:03,510 --> 00:35:07,130
Those are more like chimes. Bells
usually have like a bing -bong, bong
647
00:35:07,130 --> 00:35:08,130
bong -bong. Wait, you hear them too?
648
00:35:08,210 --> 00:35:10,150
Yeah, that's, I mean, it's noon at St.
James Cathedral.
649
00:35:10,430 --> 00:35:12,550
Oh, yeah, duh.
650
00:35:13,790 --> 00:35:14,790
You are?
651
00:35:14,810 --> 00:35:15,810
Yeah.
652
00:35:19,180 --> 00:35:22,900
I cannot tell you the last time I had
lunch in the park.
653
00:35:23,720 --> 00:35:25,300
So thank you for the invite.
654
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,380
Well, thank you for saying yes.
655
00:35:28,580 --> 00:35:29,880
What made you get into this?
656
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,300
You know, helping people find love.
657
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:35,560
A really bad breakup.
658
00:35:36,380 --> 00:35:41,440
Like a heart -wrenching, stay in bed,
eat ice cream for a week, cry at
659
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,860
commercials kind of breakup.
660
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,040
But then I figured out the problem.
661
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:48,800
It wasn't me.
662
00:35:49,180 --> 00:35:51,960
It wasn't even necessarily him. It was
just us.
663
00:35:53,300 --> 00:35:54,400
We didn't work.
664
00:35:55,660 --> 00:36:02,300
And I realized that everyone would save
a lot of time and energy. There was a
665
00:36:02,300 --> 00:36:03,580
way we could figure that out sooner.
666
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,340
How about you? Any sad breakup stories
in your past?
667
00:36:07,740 --> 00:36:08,740
Come on, don't we all?
668
00:36:09,420 --> 00:36:15,140
But I was wondering, do you think your
ex ever bought a copy of your books?
669
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,780
Oh, well.
670
00:36:17,180 --> 00:36:18,180
I hope so.
671
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:20,640
Okay.
672
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,400
I mean, it must be hard dating, though.
Come on. As a romance expert?
673
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:26,700
Actually, yeah, it is.
674
00:36:27,380 --> 00:36:32,220
I feel like people are either trying to
impress you or they're really skeptical
675
00:36:32,220 --> 00:36:33,220
of you.
676
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:39,200
It's hard to find people who are
actually just themselves, but I try to
677
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:40,200
through all the posturing.
678
00:36:41,140 --> 00:36:42,140
Yeah.
679
00:36:42,740 --> 00:36:44,200
Gotcha. Yeah.
680
00:36:44,580 --> 00:36:45,760
What about the feelings, though?
681
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:53,960
You know, what about the butterflies in
your stomach and the lightheadedness?
682
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:55,120
Uh -huh.
683
00:36:55,260 --> 00:36:57,240
Come on, there's nothing like that
feeling.
684
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,380
Oh, that's just your vagus nerve
responding to your brain processing
685
00:37:00,900 --> 00:37:02,780
We are actually the ones who assign that
meaning.
686
00:37:03,780 --> 00:37:10,000
You know, you can be a bit serious.
687
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,360
Well, you can be so distracted.
688
00:37:13,780 --> 00:37:15,540
Do you have anything planned this
afternoon?
689
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:17,400
No, but... Perfect.
690
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,120
I have an idea we should just throw
ourselves into.
691
00:37:23,500 --> 00:37:24,500
Come on.
692
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,480
So, any hints about what we're doing?
693
00:37:28,820 --> 00:37:29,900
Oh, no, that wouldn't be a surprise.
694
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,760
Okay, well, I'm not the biggest fan of
surprises.
695
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,760
Trust me, it'll be good. Okay. It'll be
good.
696
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:41,800
Well, that talk radio on the way over
was pretty interesting. Was that hiding
697
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,520
some guilty music pleasure?
698
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:45,600
I never hide my music.
699
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,680
And I listen to the news because it's
part of the job.
700
00:37:48,980 --> 00:37:51,080
Well, see, I need music when I drive.
701
00:37:51,340 --> 00:37:54,320
And I'm also very passionate about
singing in the car.
702
00:37:54,580 --> 00:37:56,340
Are you now? Oh, wait, wait, come on.
703
00:37:56,720 --> 00:37:57,720
You're not that person.
704
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,400
You're not that person. When I'm driving
in the car and I look over and I just
705
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,220
see... Oh, yeah, that's me. No, for
sure.
706
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:08,320
A little bit. I didn't even get my
license and learn how to drive until I
707
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:09,760
out here after college. Can you believe
that?
708
00:38:10,260 --> 00:38:11,600
Yeah. Why Seattle?
709
00:38:12,500 --> 00:38:13,500
Why Seattle?
710
00:38:14,190 --> 00:38:18,750
I applied to about 60 magazines,
newspapers all over the country,
711
00:38:18,750 --> 00:38:19,750
would accept me.
712
00:38:19,970 --> 00:38:22,790
I was just so passionate about being a
journalist, I would have gone anywhere.
713
00:38:23,250 --> 00:38:27,730
Let me guess, you are up with the sun
and the first one in the office every
714
00:38:27,990 --> 00:38:31,750
Not every day, but... Every day, pretty
much every day.
715
00:38:32,910 --> 00:38:33,910
Listen,
716
00:38:34,030 --> 00:38:36,350
it's not a criticism, it is just an
observation.
717
00:38:37,410 --> 00:38:38,410
Bye -bye.
718
00:38:45,420 --> 00:38:46,580
A judo class?
719
00:38:46,780 --> 00:38:48,780
How did you know I'm into martial arts?
720
00:38:50,020 --> 00:38:51,020
I didn't.
721
00:38:51,900 --> 00:38:52,900
Oh, you're good.
722
00:38:53,980 --> 00:38:56,300
All right, everyone, let's start with
some stretches.
723
00:39:00,940 --> 00:39:05,120
You're sure you didn't dig this up in
some old interview or magazine article
724
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,740
something? I just thought about it when
we were sitting down having lunch
725
00:39:07,740 --> 00:39:11,580
earlier. I believe this spontaneity is
one of life's greatest pleasures.
726
00:39:12,350 --> 00:39:15,590
So, how is this for a twist ending to
our first date?
727
00:39:15,810 --> 00:39:20,350
Well, this is definitely a first for me.
I'm not normally this spontaneous,
728
00:39:20,770 --> 00:39:27,490
but... Judo camp every summer, buddy.
729
00:39:28,630 --> 00:39:29,630
Obviously.
730
00:39:30,850 --> 00:39:32,850
Try and keep up. All right, you got
this. I got this.
731
00:39:34,510 --> 00:39:35,510
Right leg first.
732
00:39:40,050 --> 00:39:40,948
That's okay.
733
00:39:40,950 --> 00:39:41,950
Let's try it again.
734
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,200
All right, time to practice your throws.
Call me over if you need any help.
735
00:39:47,180 --> 00:39:48,620
Ready? We'll see.
736
00:40:22,130 --> 00:40:25,230
Thanks, everyone. And don't forget to
send me your marketing and publicity
737
00:40:25,230 --> 00:40:27,010
suggestions as soon as possible.
738
00:40:27,370 --> 00:40:28,370
Thank you.
739
00:40:30,790 --> 00:40:31,790
Thanks, guys.
740
00:40:33,310 --> 00:40:34,310
Bye -bye.
741
00:40:35,710 --> 00:40:39,150
Kendall, I just want to say, I think
this could be your biggest book yet.
742
00:40:39,650 --> 00:40:40,650
Thank you.
743
00:40:42,830 --> 00:40:44,570
I totally love it.
744
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,160
And if the marketing team is excited, we
are already ahead of the game. I mean,
745
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:52,460
you're sure it wasn't too early to bring
up this idea? I only just started my
746
00:40:52,460 --> 00:40:56,520
research. Yes, but it is you that
they're selling. Your perspective, your
747
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,520
experiences.
748
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,560
You're putting yourself out there in a
new way, and that's what makes this a
749
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:01,560
whole different ballgame.
750
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,060
Plus, we can reserve a publication date.
751
00:41:04,340 --> 00:41:05,340
Valentine's Day next year?
752
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,900
We'll tease it out to the press during
the gala. I'll get you some talking
753
00:41:07,900 --> 00:41:08,900
points. Okay, great.
754
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:11,520
What's the matter?
755
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,200
Don't tell me it's a writing injury.
756
00:41:13,860 --> 00:41:15,980
Judo injury with Nathan.
757
00:41:16,460 --> 00:41:21,120
Judo? His idea, but I did dust off some
of my old skills.
758
00:41:21,540 --> 00:41:22,540
Clearly.
759
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,920
Okay, so aside from the bodily harm, how
was it?
760
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:32,340
Okay, I think he was trying to impress
me, so that was kind of cute. Boys and
761
00:41:32,340 --> 00:41:35,520
girls get ready for class because it
sounds like we have chemistry.
762
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:40,520
Sure, the chemistry was there, but it's
only there because I'm doing all the
763
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,580
right things to create it. Are you sure
about that?
764
00:41:43,070 --> 00:41:46,870
I mean, sometimes it just happens
naturally.
765
00:41:50,010 --> 00:41:51,010
Ella?
766
00:41:51,910 --> 00:41:54,330
Are you... Are you seeing someone?
767
00:41:54,730 --> 00:41:57,910
Okay, it is really new, and I am not
talking about it. Oh, my God!
768
00:41:58,649 --> 00:42:01,150
I'm not talking about it because I
always do that. I always talk about it
769
00:42:01,150 --> 00:42:02,350
soon and then it jinxes everything.
770
00:42:02,570 --> 00:42:06,230
Okay, okay. Well, you know what? I think
I need to interview you for my book. No
771
00:42:06,230 --> 00:42:10,010
way. No, I need to save all my stories
for the inevitable tell -all memoir I
772
00:42:10,010 --> 00:42:14,150
will write after I have lived a full and
crazy life with this new Prince
773
00:42:14,150 --> 00:42:17,470
Charming that I'm not talking about
anymore. Okay, we're done. We're done.
774
00:42:17,470 --> 00:42:18,470
done talking about him.
775
00:42:18,730 --> 00:42:21,190
So, when are you going to see Nathan
again?
776
00:42:21,470 --> 00:42:25,170
And I guess the real question is... Are
you going to tell him that he's the
777
00:42:25,170 --> 00:42:29,290
subject for your book? He is not the
subject. I am. He is just a factor.
778
00:42:30,470 --> 00:42:33,450
Sure would be interesting if he turned
out to be a bigger factor than you
779
00:42:47,190 --> 00:42:52,290
I mean, are you mad at me for making you
fall at judo class?
780
00:42:52,750 --> 00:42:54,970
Because it kind of feels like
punishment.
781
00:42:55,610 --> 00:42:56,610
Not at all.
782
00:42:56,710 --> 00:42:57,689
Accidents happen.
783
00:42:57,690 --> 00:42:59,730
But it did get me thinking.
784
00:43:00,350 --> 00:43:03,030
You can learn a lot about someone when
you share a perilous situation.
785
00:43:05,510 --> 00:43:09,670
Perilous? Like as in peril, as in
danger, Will Robbins in peril?
786
00:43:09,950 --> 00:43:10,950
Yeah.
787
00:43:11,110 --> 00:43:12,110
Oh.
788
00:43:12,370 --> 00:43:13,370
Suit up.
789
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:26,580
Well, you're doing great. There you go.
790
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:32,900
All right.
791
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,860
You got me? I got you. Come on.
792
00:43:37,180 --> 00:43:41,540
All right. I'm going to just slide on
back.
793
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:42,880
You're natural.
794
00:43:43,500 --> 00:43:47,360
This is great. I am relaxed. I have
found my spot.
795
00:43:55,069 --> 00:43:56,069
What's up?
796
00:43:58,150 --> 00:43:59,150
You okay?
797
00:43:59,450 --> 00:44:00,450
Whoa.
798
00:44:04,510 --> 00:44:07,790
Are you going to stay here or are you
going to keep going?
799
00:44:08,910 --> 00:44:09,910
I think I'm going to keep going.
800
00:44:10,070 --> 00:44:11,029
Of course you are.
801
00:44:11,030 --> 00:44:12,030
I think I'm going to keep going.
802
00:44:12,610 --> 00:44:13,610
Wow.
803
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,600
You know, I'm so glad you invited me all
the way up here.
804
00:44:32,540 --> 00:44:35,200
Seriously, how many times did you do
that?
805
00:44:35,660 --> 00:44:39,360
Why does it matter? Because the whole
point of today was to see what a
806
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,260
challenging environment brings out in
you.
807
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:47,520
Ah, well I think the whole point of
today was for you to embarrass me. No,
808
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,940
was not the point. That was not what I
was trying to do.
809
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,440
But it doesn't matter because it looks
like the joke was on me, huh?
810
00:44:53,980 --> 00:44:55,660
Mm -hmm. Mm -hmm.
811
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,980
Listen, I really enjoyed myself today.
812
00:45:02,260 --> 00:45:03,260
Me too.
813
00:45:05,180 --> 00:45:06,500
I'm enjoying getting to know you.
814
00:45:07,580 --> 00:45:08,580
Same.
815
00:45:09,100 --> 00:45:11,660
So nice to talk to someone who doesn't
have anything to hide.
816
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:18,540
So, in the spirit of full disclosure...
Okay, yep.
817
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,300
Alright, I am writing a new book.
818
00:45:21,940 --> 00:45:22,960
So... Okay.
819
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:24,480
I'm making myself...
820
00:45:24,700 --> 00:45:29,980
The subject of my book and using my own
personal experiences with dating as
821
00:45:29,980 --> 00:45:31,320
research.
822
00:45:32,060 --> 00:45:37,960
Well, it's only fair to tell you since
you're kind of part of that now.
823
00:45:41,940 --> 00:45:44,120
Well, I guess it makes sense now.
824
00:45:44,900 --> 00:45:48,640
All the notes you've been taking in your
phone. Oh, that obvious, huh?
825
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,660
Only to report it. Only to report it.
826
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:54,160
So.
827
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:55,440
I have a question.
828
00:45:56,180 --> 00:46:00,840
When you write about me in your book,
are you going to change my name to
829
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:01,558
the innocent?
830
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:02,479
Of course.
831
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:03,620
Can I pick the name?
832
00:46:04,060 --> 00:46:06,560
I always want to pick the name. I want
to go like Rocky or Spike.
833
00:46:07,980 --> 00:46:08,980
Spike. Spike.
834
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,000
Okay.
835
00:46:11,180 --> 00:46:12,098
We'll see.
836
00:46:12,100 --> 00:46:13,100
All right.
837
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,520
Have you ever written about yourself?
838
00:46:15,980 --> 00:46:19,000
Made yourself the subject of your work?
839
00:46:19,240 --> 00:46:20,360
I think sometimes we have to.
840
00:46:21,900 --> 00:46:26,300
I think we have to mine our own lives
for our work and use our point of view.
841
00:46:26,720 --> 00:46:27,780
Otherwise, what do we have?
842
00:46:28,580 --> 00:46:29,580
I agree.
843
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,040
Good. Yeah.
844
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:34,200
Well,
845
00:46:34,740 --> 00:46:39,300
I think today gave me some really good
material, but I have so many more
846
00:46:39,300 --> 00:46:42,780
questions for you. Okay. Well, listen, I
hope you know that I'm only going to
847
00:46:42,780 --> 00:46:45,240
tell you about the times I was a hero.
I'm not going to tell you about the time
848
00:46:45,240 --> 00:46:49,140
that I hid in my closet. Man, ain't that
flew in my bedroom. No way.
849
00:47:03,390 --> 00:47:05,870
Joy, these new paintings are so good.
850
00:47:06,250 --> 00:47:07,950
Are they all going to the gallery?
851
00:47:08,230 --> 00:47:10,950
Yeah. I've already got a buyer for one
of them, I think.
852
00:47:11,250 --> 00:47:12,750
Well, that's not surprising.
853
00:47:13,130 --> 00:47:15,970
Clearly, whoever this buyer is has great
taste.
854
00:47:16,250 --> 00:47:17,290
You are too kind, sis.
855
00:47:22,810 --> 00:47:25,990
So, I'm bringing someone to your show.
856
00:47:27,410 --> 00:47:28,410
Someone like a date?
857
00:47:29,570 --> 00:47:31,890
Even Old Anonymous says not really.
858
00:47:32,540 --> 00:47:34,340
Complicated. Yeah, love always is.
859
00:47:34,660 --> 00:47:40,060
Not in that way. I'm not really sure how
I feel yet. You'll figure it out.
860
00:47:41,720 --> 00:47:45,640
You know, when Tyler and I first met, I
went back to one of your books.
861
00:47:46,620 --> 00:47:47,459
You did?
862
00:47:47,460 --> 00:47:51,380
Even though our relationship felt
strong, Tyler and I don't make a lot of
863
00:47:51,380 --> 00:47:52,380
on paper.
864
00:47:52,460 --> 00:47:55,720
But then I thought, sometimes romance is
just unexplainable.
865
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:57,980
There is such a thing as good feeling.
866
00:47:58,520 --> 00:47:59,520
Pure instinct?
867
00:47:59,700 --> 00:48:00,700
Yes.
868
00:48:01,090 --> 00:48:02,770
Instincts aren't something you can
really quantify.
869
00:48:02,990 --> 00:48:05,290
Well, you don't have to. You just have
to listen to him when you're around your
870
00:48:05,290 --> 00:48:06,650
man. Okay, he's not my man.
871
00:48:07,370 --> 00:48:08,370
Okay.
872
00:48:10,490 --> 00:48:11,550
It's getting somewhere, right?
873
00:48:12,450 --> 00:48:13,450
Yeah.
874
00:48:15,970 --> 00:48:19,750
We're devoting our usual coverage to the
book festival this year. I'll be
875
00:48:19,750 --> 00:48:22,650
emailing you all your assignments with
who's covering what.
876
00:48:23,190 --> 00:48:27,230
Levi, great layout last year. Do even
better this year.
877
00:48:27,950 --> 00:48:31,550
We go to print right after the festival,
so we're going to have to be on our
878
00:48:31,550 --> 00:48:32,550
toes.
879
00:48:32,690 --> 00:48:33,690
Any questions?
880
00:48:35,270 --> 00:48:36,750
Excellent. Thanks, everybody.
881
00:48:37,170 --> 00:48:38,170
Oh, Hart.
882
00:48:39,350 --> 00:48:44,390
Yes, sir? I read a draft of your profile
of Kendall Turner. Smart move
883
00:48:44,390 --> 00:48:45,430
integrating the Dr.
884
00:48:45,810 --> 00:48:46,810
Lovestruck angle.
885
00:48:47,070 --> 00:48:50,570
Thank you. Thank you. Have it fact
-checked. Make your final edits by
886
00:48:50,770 --> 00:48:54,530
Should I maybe give her a heads -up,
just so she's not surprised when the
887
00:48:54,530 --> 00:48:58,200
article comes out? It's up to you. When
it comes to your subjects, I'm sure you
888
00:48:58,200 --> 00:48:59,200
know best.
889
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,320
Hey, did he talk to you about the
features editor gig yet?
890
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:07,360
No. Why?
891
00:49:07,780 --> 00:49:09,680
Catherine, she put in her notice earlier
this week.
892
00:49:10,100 --> 00:49:11,100
Really? Yeah.
893
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:12,940
Look at you. You are ready.
894
00:49:13,260 --> 00:49:15,100
Your path to promotion just opened up.
895
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:19,040
Bigger story, and no more Dr. Lovestruck
secret identity business.
896
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,940
That'll be good, because Kendall
admitted she's writing a new book. And
897
00:49:22,940 --> 00:49:24,420
experiences together are going to be
part of it, man.
898
00:49:25,540 --> 00:49:26,540
Cool.
899
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,980
That's very cool. Hey, you got to make
sure that she gives you a really cool
900
00:49:30,980 --> 00:49:31,799
fake name.
901
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:32,800
I already did.
902
00:49:33,780 --> 00:49:35,480
Spike. Oh, nice.
903
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,520
So does this mean that you told her
about the Dr. Lovestruck angle to your
904
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:44,620
article? I almost did. But it's because
we're in a similar situation, man. But
905
00:49:44,620 --> 00:49:50,200
then I realized that if I'm in her book,
then that means that we're probably
906
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:54,960
most likely... Yeah, we're dating.
907
00:49:56,240 --> 00:49:57,380
I don't want to mess this up.
908
00:49:57,780 --> 00:50:00,360
But then there's that whole science of
love thing.
909
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,980
And it totally contradicts everything
that Dr. Lovestruck writes in his
910
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,660
I mean, my column, me.
911
00:50:07,900 --> 00:50:12,340
But then I have this professional
obligation to myself and my readers that
912
00:50:12,340 --> 00:50:13,340
just have to tell the truth.
913
00:50:13,660 --> 00:50:14,660
You know?
914
00:50:15,860 --> 00:50:19,220
So I'll probably just let the article
come out. And if she likes it, she likes
915
00:50:19,220 --> 00:50:20,600
it. If she doesn't, she doesn't.
916
00:50:21,660 --> 00:50:22,940
And then we can just go from there.
917
00:50:23,380 --> 00:50:24,259
You know?
918
00:50:24,260 --> 00:50:25,260
Right?
919
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,420
Right? You give such great advice, man.
920
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:41,480
So a promotion.
921
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:42,900
That is great news.
922
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,340
I mean, obviously it's not a done deal
until it's officially announced, but I
923
00:50:46,340 --> 00:50:47,960
think it could happen anytime soon. Oh.
924
00:50:48,180 --> 00:50:50,720
Yeah. Well, then the seafood is
definitely the way to celebrate.
925
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:52,140
Really? Mm -hmm.
926
00:50:52,430 --> 00:50:55,830
Here's the best fish and chips in the
city, and that is coming from a local.
927
00:50:56,430 --> 00:50:58,790
I can't believe I never heard of this
place.
928
00:50:59,710 --> 00:51:00,710
You're welcome.
929
00:51:01,530 --> 00:51:02,530
Well, thank you.
930
00:51:04,130 --> 00:51:05,130
Oh,
931
00:51:05,990 --> 00:51:06,990
this is beautiful.
932
00:51:07,230 --> 00:51:08,230
Yes, it is.
933
00:51:09,310 --> 00:51:12,370
Wow. So what, Ashley, you ever think
about living anywhere else?
934
00:51:14,230 --> 00:51:15,510
I've thought about it.
935
00:51:16,230 --> 00:51:20,010
But every time I come to the same
conclusion that...
936
00:51:20,540 --> 00:51:23,720
Everything I want and everything I need
is right here.
937
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,920
Must be nice to be so sure about
everything.
938
00:51:29,720 --> 00:51:35,220
Maybe it's that, or maybe I'm just
overly cautious about the unfamiliar.
939
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:41,240
I mean, you're about to put yourself
into a new book, didn't you? These
940
00:51:41,240 --> 00:51:42,038
are crazy.
941
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:43,460
I wouldn't call it cautious.
942
00:51:44,100 --> 00:51:47,520
Crazy. I won't do anything for a good
experiment, okay?
943
00:51:48,860 --> 00:51:49,860
I hear you.
944
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:59,400
Look, I did want to say thank you for
being so supportive, especially since I
945
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,300
didn't tell you about it at birth.
946
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:05,180
What can I say?
947
00:52:05,660 --> 00:52:07,380
Spike is a supportive guy.
948
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:19,600
No. Delicious.
949
00:52:20,020 --> 00:52:24,680
Tyler is a great chef, which is
wonderful, since we all know that I
950
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:25,680
boil water.
951
00:52:26,460 --> 00:52:27,540
What are you making?
952
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,240
Vegan chili. I'm trying to perfect the
recipe.
953
00:52:30,580 --> 00:52:32,940
It all comes down to paprika.
954
00:52:33,300 --> 00:52:34,640
Wait, are you vegan?
955
00:52:35,220 --> 00:52:36,520
He is sometimes.
956
00:52:37,060 --> 00:52:38,240
We're working on it.
957
00:52:38,500 --> 00:52:39,820
Oh, how's your new book coming along?
958
00:52:40,780 --> 00:52:42,480
Good. Fine.
959
00:52:43,700 --> 00:52:45,700
Good. That was convincing.
960
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,650
Hey, I, uh... I read one of your books.
961
00:52:49,570 --> 00:52:51,330
Oh, you did, huh?
962
00:52:51,590 --> 00:52:52,590
Mm -hmm.
963
00:52:52,790 --> 00:52:53,790
What did you think?
964
00:52:54,150 --> 00:52:59,810
I like what you said about how unique
every relationship is because the way
965
00:52:59,810 --> 00:53:02,650
people come together is specific only to
them.
966
00:53:03,290 --> 00:53:04,290
The match principle.
967
00:53:04,570 --> 00:53:09,250
Yeah, that made a lot of sense to me
because even though we're so
968
00:53:09,250 --> 00:53:10,330
Together we make sense.
969
00:53:11,170 --> 00:53:14,870
Let's just say vegan chili was not in my
kitchen repertoire before this one came
970
00:53:14,870 --> 00:53:16,330
along. Now if I can only get you to eat
it.
971
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:17,680
Baby steps.
972
00:53:18,340 --> 00:53:25,120
Oh, guys, before I forget, they gave me
a couple of extra passes to the
973
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:29,160
gala because of speaking, including the
opening night party.
974
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:30,800
You want them?
975
00:53:30,820 --> 00:53:34,500
Absolutely. So it's like a book party?
976
00:53:35,580 --> 00:53:36,558
Kind of.
977
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:39,340
Awesome. This is going to be so much
fun. Thank you. Of course.
978
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:40,560
Cheers.
979
00:53:40,860 --> 00:53:43,480
Do you want to try some?
980
00:53:43,700 --> 00:53:44,700
Yes.
981
00:53:50,410 --> 00:53:51,388
It's silver.
982
00:53:51,390 --> 00:53:53,450
I see that. It'll be memorable.
983
00:53:53,670 --> 00:53:55,550
That's one word for it.
984
00:53:56,530 --> 00:54:01,350
Well, I like it. Well, it would look
great on you. It would, wouldn't it?
985
00:54:03,810 --> 00:54:05,630
I'm actually kind of nervous about this
event.
986
00:54:06,650 --> 00:54:09,250
Why? You do speaking engagements all the
time.
987
00:54:09,750 --> 00:54:13,250
Yeah, I know, but I don't normally talk
about my work before it's finished.
988
00:54:13,290 --> 00:54:14,910
Also, this is so personal.
989
00:54:15,690 --> 00:54:18,610
Don't overthink it. Just be your
natural, charming self.
990
00:54:19,310 --> 00:54:22,030
I arranged for a car to pick you up, and
I will meet you at the venue to walk
991
00:54:22,030 --> 00:54:22,589
you in.
992
00:54:22,590 --> 00:54:24,850
Huh. You could drive with me if you want
to.
993
00:54:25,990 --> 00:54:28,990
Well, my date is actually picking me up.
994
00:54:29,910 --> 00:54:31,690
Wait, you're bringing a date to the
gala?
995
00:54:31,990 --> 00:54:32,990
Mm -hmm.
996
00:54:33,090 --> 00:54:34,290
Is it the mystery man?
997
00:54:34,770 --> 00:54:38,790
Mm -hmm. So you guys are, like,
approaching official couple territory
998
00:54:38,790 --> 00:54:42,110
so weird. I feel like I'm finally with
someone I can actually be serious about.
999
00:54:43,190 --> 00:54:44,169
What about you?
1000
00:54:44,170 --> 00:54:45,990
Anyone special cheering you on from the
audience?
1001
00:54:46,350 --> 00:54:48,230
A certain reporter, perhaps?
1002
00:54:50,410 --> 00:54:53,590
I don't know. I mean, it's kind of a
work event for both of us since he's
1003
00:54:53,590 --> 00:54:54,990
covering the gala for the magazine.
1004
00:54:55,650 --> 00:54:56,650
Kendall Turner.
1005
00:54:56,710 --> 00:54:58,650
All the more reason to make a bold
choice.
1006
00:54:59,010 --> 00:55:00,550
Do not miss an opportunity.
1007
00:55:00,930 --> 00:55:02,090
Oh, okay.
1008
00:55:06,070 --> 00:55:10,030
Actually, it could make for good
research.
1009
00:55:11,330 --> 00:55:16,290
Explore how environmental elements
impact the way two people spend time
1010
00:55:16,290 --> 00:55:17,290
together.
1011
00:55:19,720 --> 00:55:23,280
You know, for a love expert, sometimes
you take the romance right out of
1012
00:55:24,420 --> 00:55:26,080
My book is the priority.
1013
00:55:27,220 --> 00:55:28,220
Should it be?
1014
00:55:33,940 --> 00:55:34,940
Wow.
1015
00:55:39,260 --> 00:55:40,800
This place is beautiful.
1016
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:43,200
Now I know what you're thinking.
1017
00:55:43,420 --> 00:55:45,240
Wine tasting. How original.
1018
00:55:46,670 --> 00:55:51,490
Well, I have been honing my skills for
the past couple years, and I believe
1019
00:55:51,490 --> 00:55:56,870
whining and dining is an essential part
of every romantic relationship, so I am
1020
00:55:56,870 --> 00:55:58,450
going to guess your taste.
1021
00:55:59,610 --> 00:56:01,210
Based on what?
1022
00:56:02,590 --> 00:56:06,150
How I do martial arts and climb rope?
1023
00:56:06,390 --> 00:56:07,390
Pretty much.
1024
00:56:08,390 --> 00:56:09,870
Bold move, Mr. Hart.
1025
00:56:10,090 --> 00:56:13,670
Well, if you haven't noticed, bold is
pretty much my thing.
1026
00:56:15,020 --> 00:56:21,860
As we move down the line, we go from
sweet to dry and lacy and light to
1027
00:56:21,860 --> 00:56:23,340
rubber and chewy.
1028
00:56:24,100 --> 00:56:26,740
Chewy? Oh, it means earthy and rich.
1029
00:56:26,980 --> 00:56:27,959
My advice?
1030
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:30,020
Let the wine speak to your scent.
1031
00:56:30,340 --> 00:56:35,340
Let your taste buds find the flavor of
sunlight or dirt.
1032
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:40,680
And if your spirit sings, well, then
you'll find the flavor of your heart.
1033
00:56:41,240 --> 00:56:43,740
And one cannot live a fulfilling life
without it.
1034
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:45,780
Well, thank you for that.
1035
00:56:48,300 --> 00:56:50,720
There's someone who's passionate about
their work.
1036
00:56:51,720 --> 00:56:53,960
I have a question for you.
1037
00:56:55,620 --> 00:56:59,440
Sure. Do you think you'll ever write
about something other than the science
1038
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:04,880
love? Yeah, I mean, I think about what
will happen when I settle down, get
1039
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,100
married, kids, get older.
1040
00:57:08,220 --> 00:57:10,800
So far, that all seems like territory I
can't wait to explore.
1041
00:57:13,020 --> 00:57:16,820
I do think about teaching sometimes,
too.
1042
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:17,959
See, I can see that.
1043
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:18,960
Oh, yeah.
1044
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:20,000
Professor Turner.
1045
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:21,400
Has a nice ring, right?
1046
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:24,000
Maybe one day.
1047
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,360
Do you ever worry about making a
relationship last?
1048
00:57:29,820 --> 00:57:30,820
Odds aren't terrific.
1049
00:57:30,940 --> 00:57:33,040
I love the idea of growing old with
someone.
1050
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:35,600
Having a family, creating.
1051
00:57:36,300 --> 00:57:37,300
Decades of memories.
1052
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:41,080
Two people just side by side growing old
together.
1053
00:57:42,260 --> 00:57:43,700
I want that epic love.
1054
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:45,680
I mean, who wouldn't?
1055
00:57:46,980 --> 00:57:48,240
What if it's not epic?
1056
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:55,880
What if it's just cooking dinner and
carpool and temper tantrums and
1057
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:59,160
paying bills and picking out a new
carpet?
1058
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:04,060
Can you stick out the day -to -day
regular life? That's what makes it epic.
1059
00:58:06,540 --> 00:58:07,540
Excuse me, Miss Turner?
1060
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:11,220
Oh, remember us? Oh my gosh, yes.
1061
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:16,680
Jill and Mitchell. Sorry to bother you.
We just wanted to come over and say
1062
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:20,120
hello and thank you for introducing us
that day.
1063
00:58:20,620 --> 00:58:25,260
Ah, okay. So you're the couple from
Seattle today that she matched on air.
1064
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:29,720
So we took your advice, went for coffee.
Why not, right?
1065
00:58:30,060 --> 00:58:31,380
We just couldn't stop talking.
1066
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,440
Turned out to be the best day of our
lives.
1067
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:39,180
I am so glad it worked out. You saw
something in us. I don't know how, but
1068
00:58:39,180 --> 00:58:41,080
goodness you did, because you were
right.
1069
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:42,880
We're so grateful.
1070
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:44,460
Thank you, Miss Turner.
1071
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:45,680
My pleasure.
1072
00:58:47,060 --> 00:58:48,060
Bye.
1073
00:58:51,980 --> 00:58:55,580
Wow. Well, that was nice.
1074
00:58:56,700 --> 00:58:57,700
That was epic.
1075
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,560
I believe it's time for the lady to make
her choice.
1076
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:02,760
Oh, um...
1077
00:59:02,890 --> 00:59:05,730
Yeah, I think I like that one.
1078
00:59:06,290 --> 00:59:07,290
The Cabernet.
1079
00:59:07,490 --> 00:59:08,510
Wait, wait, wait, wait, no.
1080
00:59:10,510 --> 00:59:11,510
This one.
1081
00:59:11,930 --> 00:59:13,630
The 2018 blend.
1082
00:59:16,370 --> 00:59:21,230
It's a wonderful wine. One that a
gentleman correctly gets would be your
1083
00:59:21,230 --> 00:59:23,350
favorite. Well done, sir.
1084
00:59:23,730 --> 00:59:25,170
How did you know that?
1085
00:59:25,490 --> 00:59:28,030
Well, you're not the only one that's
taking notes when we're together.
1086
00:59:28,390 --> 00:59:30,390
And I know you also don't like
surprises.
1087
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:33,780
You probably would have gone for
something a little more well -known.
1088
00:59:34,260 --> 00:59:37,300
It's basically the same thing you did
when you matched two perfect strangers.
1089
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:42,260
Well, I didn't necessarily know that
they would hit it off. I just knew that
1090
00:59:42,260 --> 00:59:43,300
they had one thing in common.
1091
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:45,078
Dating nerves.
1092
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:47,660
Be that as it may, they look very happy.
1093
00:59:48,260 --> 00:59:51,240
Now, come with me.
1094
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:53,860
Where are we going?
1095
00:59:54,300 --> 00:59:55,300
You'll see.
1096
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:57,000
Okay.
1097
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:08,880
We did the whining.
1098
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:10,580
Now it's time for the dining.
1099
01:00:12,060 --> 01:00:13,080
Cheers. Cheers.
1100
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,080
This is gorgeous.
1101
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:19,060
Well, I figured it was time.
1102
01:00:20,020 --> 01:00:21,020
Time for what?
1103
01:00:21,700 --> 01:00:25,980
Time for a full -on, unabashed, top -to
-bottom romantic dinner.
1104
01:00:29,140 --> 01:00:30,140
Oh, you're good.
1105
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:37,160
Well, it's not every day that a guy gets
to try his moves on a...
1106
01:00:37,850 --> 01:00:39,030
Science of love guru.
1107
01:00:43,090 --> 01:00:47,030
Well, it is pretty enchanting.
1108
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,000
Hey, man. You going up or down?
1109
01:01:13,180 --> 01:01:14,380
Earth to Nathan.
1110
01:01:14,820 --> 01:01:16,060
What are you doing out here?
1111
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:19,700
Uh, I don't remember.
1112
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:21,160
Are you okay?
1113
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:24,320
Yeah, I think.
1114
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:26,880
Is this about Kendall Turner?
1115
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:31,040
Have you succumbed to her science of
love ways?
1116
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:36,280
It was just a simple profile puff piece.
1117
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:39,000
Then I turned it into an interrogation
of her methods.
1118
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:40,720
And then we had a great time.
1119
01:01:43,260 --> 01:01:44,260
Now I don't know.
1120
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:46,400
You fell for her.
1121
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:48,240
I guess I did.
1122
01:01:49,820 --> 01:01:50,920
What are you going to do about it?
1123
01:01:52,700 --> 01:01:53,780
That I don't know yet.
1124
01:01:55,620 --> 01:01:56,620
Oh, hey.
1125
01:01:56,680 --> 01:02:00,180
If you need some advice, you should ask
that Dr. Lovestruck guy. He knows what
1126
01:02:00,180 --> 01:02:01,180
he's talking about.
1127
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:02,800
You would say that.
1128
01:02:05,509 --> 01:02:09,050
Nathan, there you are. Been looking all
over for you. Hi, Lewis. It's Larry.
1129
01:02:09,410 --> 01:02:13,330
I need you to come to the board meeting
tomorrow. There's been an uptick in the
1130
01:02:13,330 --> 01:02:14,850
web traffic for the last few Dr.
1131
01:02:15,070 --> 01:02:18,050
Lovestruck columns. Matter of fact, the
numbers are the highest they've ever
1132
01:02:18,050 --> 01:02:20,130
been. And the board would like to meet
Dr.
1133
01:02:20,390 --> 01:02:21,430
Lovestruck in person.
1134
01:02:21,690 --> 01:02:24,690
I'm glad to hear it. I mean, I don't
read the column myself.
1135
01:02:24,950 --> 01:02:28,150
After three marriages, I'm pretty much
an expert on romance.
1136
01:02:29,110 --> 01:02:33,490
But my assistant tells me that the
advice has just gotten better.
1137
01:02:33,850 --> 01:02:35,770
I'm glad your assistant can find it
useful.
1138
01:02:36,170 --> 01:02:37,170
It's not just him.
1139
01:02:37,490 --> 01:02:38,750
Metrics don't lie, Nathan.
1140
01:02:39,310 --> 01:02:41,230
My office will be in touch with the
meeting details.
1141
01:02:41,570 --> 01:02:42,670
It was good speaking with you.
1142
01:02:42,910 --> 01:02:43,990
Yeah, you too, Lionel.
1143
01:02:44,670 --> 01:02:50,710
It's... It's not funny.
1144
01:03:08,300 --> 01:03:11,860
I've already sold four paintings. Can
you believe it? I am so proud of you.
1145
01:03:11,900 --> 01:03:13,620
Thank you. Wait, where's Tyler?
1146
01:03:14,060 --> 01:03:15,700
Oh, he's over there.
1147
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,560
He has been working the room like he's
my agent.
1148
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,540
He probably deserves credit for half the
sales. Oh, amazing.
1149
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:23,780
But wait, where should I start?
1150
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:25,700
Oh, well, I'd start by grabbing a glass
of champagne.
1151
01:03:26,300 --> 01:03:27,700
Noted. And then start over here.
1152
01:03:27,940 --> 01:03:30,860
All my stuff is on this side of the
room. This is so exciting.
1153
01:03:31,220 --> 01:03:32,220
Okay, I'll see you in a bit.
1154
01:03:50,350 --> 01:03:51,029
What's up?
1155
01:03:51,030 --> 01:03:52,030
Hi.
1156
01:03:54,070 --> 01:03:55,070
What do you think?
1157
01:03:56,430 --> 01:03:59,030
This Joyce? Tell me what you think and
I'll tell you if it's one of Joyce.
1158
01:04:00,330 --> 01:04:03,570
I like it.
1159
01:04:04,230 --> 01:04:05,169
That's it?
1160
01:04:05,170 --> 01:04:06,170
Yeah, that's it.
1161
01:04:06,230 --> 01:04:09,090
Well, I'm sure Joy will be glad to hear
that you like it.
1162
01:04:10,430 --> 01:04:12,150
Well, I look forward to meeting Joy.
1163
01:04:12,850 --> 01:04:14,710
Yeah, she's right over there with Tyler.
1164
01:04:15,890 --> 01:04:19,150
Well, I must say, inviting you to her
show, I'm flattered.
1165
01:04:19,790 --> 01:04:23,170
And meeting your sister is a serious
step.
1166
01:04:23,530 --> 01:04:24,550
A crucial one.
1167
01:04:25,430 --> 01:04:29,150
As your book says, our family and
friends, they give us perspective.
1168
01:04:30,810 --> 01:04:31,810
Oh.
1169
01:04:32,050 --> 01:04:35,010
Perspective we sometimes lose when we're
caught up in our feelings.
1170
01:04:35,310 --> 01:04:37,210
They provide a good counterbalance.
1171
01:04:38,030 --> 01:04:39,990
Well, I know how important she is to
you.
1172
01:04:40,510 --> 01:04:43,830
So, come on, let's go meet her. Okay.
1173
01:04:47,510 --> 01:04:48,510
Julie!
1174
01:04:49,830 --> 01:04:51,510
Hi. So nice to finally meet you.
1175
01:04:51,770 --> 01:04:52,890
Nice to meet you, too. Nathan.
1176
01:04:53,290 --> 01:04:54,290
Tyler. Hi, Tyler.
1177
01:04:54,530 --> 01:04:55,530
Pleasure.
1178
01:05:38,169 --> 01:05:39,430
Nathan, what can I do you for?
1179
01:05:40,110 --> 01:05:43,690
A couple minutes of chat? Yes, of
course, of course. Come in, come in, sit
1180
01:05:43,750 --> 01:05:44,750
take a seat.
1181
01:05:45,170 --> 01:05:46,690
I think I know what this is about.
1182
01:05:48,490 --> 01:05:49,730
Actually... Features editor.
1183
01:05:50,380 --> 01:05:53,780
You know the position is opening soon,
and you want to let me know that you're
1184
01:05:53,780 --> 01:05:55,060
interested in the job, yes?
1185
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,120
Yes, I'd very much like to be considered
for that position.
1186
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:02,400
I know, I know. I pride myself on
keeping up with what's going on around
1187
01:06:02,540 --> 01:06:05,840
And I don't mind telling you that's one
of the reasons I'm introducing you to
1188
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:06,779
the board today.
1189
01:06:06,780 --> 01:06:10,840
That way, when I make my recommendation
that we make you features editor, they
1190
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:12,540
can put a face to the name.
1191
01:06:13,690 --> 01:06:15,050
Does that mean... Yeah, yeah.
1192
01:06:15,410 --> 01:06:19,550
You've got the job. No sense keeping
your suspense when you're clearly in
1193
01:06:19,550 --> 01:06:23,290
about it. Thank you, sir. I don't know
what to say. This is tremendous news.
1194
01:06:23,410 --> 01:06:27,990
Thank you, Mr. Perkins. I promise you
that I will work so very hard to make
1195
01:06:27,990 --> 01:06:29,550
and this magazine proud.
1196
01:06:29,850 --> 01:06:34,010
I know you will. Oh, and by the way,
it's your responsibility to find someone
1197
01:06:34,010 --> 01:06:35,570
take over the new Dr.
1198
01:06:35,810 --> 01:06:40,130
Lovestruck. Though I expect you to
continue to oversee it and keep it
1199
01:06:40,390 --> 01:06:41,810
of course. Of course, but...
1200
01:06:42,890 --> 01:06:44,290
That's not why I came in here today.
1201
01:06:45,930 --> 01:06:46,930
Oh?
1202
01:06:47,690 --> 01:06:50,210
No. It's about the Kendall Turner
profile.
1203
01:06:50,770 --> 01:06:51,770
Okay.
1204
01:06:53,070 --> 01:06:58,950
After I wrote it, Miss Turner and I kept
seeing each other on a more personal
1205
01:06:58,950 --> 01:06:59,970
basis.
1206
01:07:00,810 --> 01:07:03,850
Hart, are you telling me you're dating
your interview subject?
1207
01:07:04,310 --> 01:07:05,310
Yes, sir.
1208
01:07:05,930 --> 01:07:10,010
Well, have you altered the profile in
any way because of this personal
1209
01:07:10,010 --> 01:07:12,370
relationship? No, I was... I am. I am.
1210
01:07:12,810 --> 01:07:14,510
Totally objective in my reporting.
1211
01:07:15,630 --> 01:07:17,250
Well, then I don't see a problem.
1212
01:07:18,390 --> 01:07:19,390
Great.
1213
01:07:21,190 --> 01:07:22,149
Thank you, sir.
1214
01:07:22,150 --> 01:07:25,870
Of course, I don't have to warn you
about the disadvantages of dating a
1215
01:07:25,870 --> 01:07:28,310
since you have that in common. No, sir,
you do not.
1216
01:07:29,170 --> 01:07:30,170
Everything is copy.
1217
01:07:31,210 --> 01:07:32,210
Thank you.
1218
01:08:01,420 --> 01:08:03,520
How are you? Well, this is a nice
surprise.
1219
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,440
Yes, and I'm sorry it's so last minute.
1220
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:09,560
There's something I want to talk to you
about.
1221
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:10,800
Okay.
1222
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:13,200
So, there... Can I get you anything?
1223
01:08:13,500 --> 01:08:15,180
Oh, just an iced tea for me, please.
1224
01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:17,240
I'm good. Thank you.
1225
01:08:18,500 --> 01:08:19,500
Okay.
1226
01:08:19,859 --> 01:08:22,680
So, that's a nice dress.
1227
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:25,600
Thank you. I like yellow on it.
1228
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:29,180
Is this your way of buttering me up for
something?
1229
01:08:29,740 --> 01:08:30,740
What's going on?
1230
01:08:30,899 --> 01:08:34,160
No, no, no, no. I actually wanted... Oh,
thank you.
1231
01:08:35,340 --> 01:08:36,340
Thanks.
1232
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:41,840
Okay, the reason why I had you come out
here today so rushed and everything is
1233
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:45,660
because I wanted to tell you that I
have... Oh my gosh, you got the
1234
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:50,779
Yeah, yeah, yes, I did. Oh, I am so
happy for you. Wait, wait, features
1235
01:08:50,939 --> 01:08:53,580
right? Tell me all the details. What
does that mean for you?
1236
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:58,560
It means that a few things about my job
will change, but a few things will stay
1237
01:08:58,560 --> 01:08:59,560
the same.
1238
01:08:59,730 --> 01:09:03,770
But there is definitely one thing that I
will have to give up.
1239
01:09:04,450 --> 01:09:05,450
Oh, no.
1240
01:09:05,950 --> 01:09:10,550
What? This guy, he's really nice, and
he's always been a really big supporter,
1241
01:09:10,710 --> 01:09:13,090
but I'm pretty sure he has a crush on
me, and he's here.
1242
01:09:13,430 --> 01:09:17,569
Really? The last time I saw him, I think
he got really awkward, but I do feel
1243
01:09:17,569 --> 01:09:22,170
bad for him. So if he comes over here,
just... Oh, that's great.
1244
01:09:24,330 --> 01:09:25,470
Don't feel bad for him.
1245
01:09:25,850 --> 01:09:27,649
I think he's on a date. What?
1246
01:09:39,050 --> 01:09:40,510
That's Ella, my editor.
1247
01:09:41,170 --> 01:09:43,810
I knew she was seeing someone, but she
didn't tell me who it was.
1248
01:09:44,550 --> 01:09:46,250
Okay. Here they come.
1249
01:09:47,250 --> 01:09:48,250
Hi.
1250
01:09:48,529 --> 01:09:49,529
Busted.
1251
01:09:50,490 --> 01:09:53,649
Nathan, you remember Ella Carlin, my
editor.
1252
01:09:53,910 --> 01:09:57,990
And this is Grant, the owner of Book
Salad.
1253
01:09:58,310 --> 01:10:03,270
Great story, dude. Well, thank you. Is
this the mystery man?
1254
01:10:03,530 --> 01:10:04,530
Yes.
1255
01:10:06,310 --> 01:10:08,490
So when did this happen?
1256
01:10:09,050 --> 01:10:15,470
Well, as you know, we met at your
reading, and there was a spark, and I
1257
01:10:15,470 --> 01:10:19,410
I was being clear that I was interested
in him. Which you was, and then I asked
1258
01:10:19,410 --> 01:10:23,670
your advice about asking someone out.
Yeah. And you said to do absolutely
1259
01:10:23,670 --> 01:10:24,690
nothing.
1260
01:10:25,590 --> 01:10:28,210
Lo and behold, it worked.
1261
01:10:28,810 --> 01:10:31,810
Look at that. I got so tired of waiting
for him to call, I called him.
1262
01:10:32,030 --> 01:10:34,250
Science of love expert strikes again.
Boom.
1263
01:10:35,410 --> 01:10:37,790
And it's nice to see you again as well,
Nathan.
1264
01:10:38,460 --> 01:10:39,419
Likewise, Ellen.
1265
01:10:39,420 --> 01:10:41,240
We're excited to read the profile you
wrote.
1266
01:10:41,460 --> 01:10:44,420
Oh, Nathan is the reporter doing the
piece on Kendall. Oh. It should be out
1267
01:10:44,420 --> 01:10:47,200
soon, right? Next week. And you'll be at
the gala, too?
1268
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:48,960
No way.
1269
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:50,800
Great.
1270
01:10:52,340 --> 01:10:54,500
Would anybody like to order any food?
Oh, absolutely.
1271
01:11:08,810 --> 01:11:09,830
That was a surprise.
1272
01:11:10,850 --> 01:11:14,550
Yes, but I'm glad Grant didn't let his
crush on you hold him back.
1273
01:11:15,210 --> 01:11:17,770
You just had to bring that up, didn't
you? Come on, of course I did.
1274
01:11:18,270 --> 01:11:21,050
Suffice it to say, my instincts were a
bit off on that one.
1275
01:11:21,590 --> 01:11:25,450
Just a little bit, but it's okay.
Nobody's right 100 % of the time, not
1276
01:11:25,450 --> 01:11:26,450
expert.
1277
01:11:26,970 --> 01:11:29,950
Hey, I'm sorry we didn't get a chance to
celebrate your happy news.
1278
01:11:30,470 --> 01:11:32,250
And wait, wasn't there something else
you wanted to tell me?
1279
01:11:33,450 --> 01:11:37,710
Yeah, it's just something I'm working on
I wanted to share with you, but it...
1280
01:11:38,250 --> 01:11:39,250
They can wait.
1281
01:11:39,490 --> 01:11:40,710
Okay. All right.
1282
01:11:42,390 --> 01:11:47,350
Listen, I was actually thinking that if
you're not busy or, you know, too
1283
01:11:47,350 --> 01:11:51,890
swamped with work after my event, maybe
we could grab dinner?
1284
01:11:52,470 --> 01:11:53,470
Just us?
1285
01:11:53,770 --> 01:11:55,790
I mean, I promise I won't take notes.
1286
01:11:56,250 --> 01:11:57,250
Yes.
1287
01:11:58,290 --> 01:12:01,730
Great. I'll text you. All right. See you
later.
1288
01:12:01,990 --> 01:12:02,990
Bye.
1289
01:12:03,370 --> 01:12:06,570
Actually, Kendall, it'll probably be a
little romantic.
1290
01:12:07,620 --> 01:12:08,880
So you may want to take notes.
1291
01:12:43,810 --> 01:12:44,810
Done.
1292
01:12:45,350 --> 01:12:47,570
Well, happy Saturday to you, too.
1293
01:12:48,290 --> 01:12:49,910
The whole proposal. All ready.
1294
01:12:50,130 --> 01:12:51,290
All done. All finished.
1295
01:12:51,550 --> 01:12:55,390
Do as I say and as I do. How the science
of love worked for me.
1296
01:12:56,550 --> 01:12:58,750
A working title. I like it.
1297
01:12:59,070 --> 01:13:04,470
But does this mean... It sounds like
you're saying you fell in love. No.
1298
01:13:05,290 --> 01:13:09,170
I mean, I guess it could be interpreted
that way, but it's really just meant to
1299
01:13:09,170 --> 01:13:13,490
suggest that I took my own advice and
here's what happened. Look, here's the
1300
01:13:13,490 --> 01:13:14,490
table of contents.
1301
01:13:14,690 --> 01:13:15,690
And look at the journey.
1302
01:13:18,150 --> 01:13:22,330
What? A romance author in love. I'm
sorry, but this is going to be great PR
1303
01:13:22,330 --> 01:13:25,790
the book. Gosh, you need to stop. Just
because you are head over heels does not
1304
01:13:25,790 --> 01:13:27,970
mean everyone else is. Not everyone
else.
1305
01:13:28,230 --> 01:13:30,310
You. I know you guys.
1306
01:13:31,219 --> 01:13:35,620
parks, chemistry, compatible biochemical
reflexes, or whatever it is you call it
1307
01:13:35,620 --> 01:13:36,398
in your book.
1308
01:13:36,400 --> 01:13:37,420
You guys have it.
1309
01:13:38,020 --> 01:13:39,160
This is a good thing, right?
1310
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:40,679
You're happy?
1311
01:13:40,680 --> 01:13:45,560
Yeah. No, yeah, I'm happy. I just, I do
want to see where it goes.
1312
01:13:45,900 --> 01:13:47,680
Oh, so do I. So do your readers.
1313
01:13:48,340 --> 01:13:50,380
Art imitating life imitating art.
1314
01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:52,980
Are you going to give a copy to Nathan?
1315
01:13:53,860 --> 01:13:54,860
Oh.
1316
01:13:55,620 --> 01:13:56,620
I don't know.
1317
01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:58,920
Well, if you're serious about him, why
not?
1318
01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:01,080
That way it's... All out on the table.
1319
01:14:01,740 --> 01:14:03,900
You know, you're probably right.
1320
01:14:04,900 --> 01:14:07,960
Plus, he's a writer too, so he can give
me helpful feedback.
1321
01:14:08,500 --> 01:14:09,500
Bingo.
1322
01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:21,540
Oh, are you reading now? You want me to,
my cue to go? Just let me know what you
1323
01:14:21,540 --> 01:14:23,000
think. I will. Okay. Bye.
1324
01:14:35,690 --> 01:14:36,690
Hi. Hi.
1325
01:14:36,890 --> 01:14:37,890
I brought you something.
1326
01:14:37,930 --> 01:14:41,370
I could have left it at the office for
you, but I really wanted to make sure
1327
01:14:41,370 --> 01:14:42,810
got it today. I'm glad you called.
1328
01:14:43,210 --> 01:14:44,770
A few things I want to talk to you about
as well.
1329
01:14:45,210 --> 01:14:46,250
All right, come on in, please.
1330
01:14:49,470 --> 01:14:50,990
Looks like you're working today.
1331
01:14:52,390 --> 01:14:53,610
Yeah, editing an article.
1332
01:14:53,970 --> 01:14:54,970
Can I get you anything?
1333
01:14:55,710 --> 01:14:58,610
Um, just your honest opinion.
1334
01:14:59,790 --> 01:15:01,770
I think that you should read my book
proposal.
1335
01:15:04,170 --> 01:15:10,470
Since my experiences with you are a
major part of it, and even if this
1336
01:15:10,470 --> 01:15:14,810
continue, they'll still be part of my
work. So in the interest of full
1337
01:15:14,810 --> 01:15:20,930
transparency and because I want you to
trust me and because I think it's only
1338
01:15:20,930 --> 01:15:24,790
fair for you to see it, I think you
should do so.
1339
01:15:25,010 --> 01:15:28,890
And there are some things I want to talk
to you about as well. I mean, I wanted
1340
01:15:28,890 --> 01:15:31,750
to wait and come over, take you out.
1341
01:15:33,230 --> 01:15:37,450
I mean, since you're here, let me grab
you some coffee, and you can have a
1342
01:15:37,530 --> 01:15:39,610
and we can hash it out and talk about
everything.
1343
01:15:40,290 --> 01:15:41,108
Sounds great.
1344
01:15:41,110 --> 01:15:42,110
All right.
1345
01:15:44,550 --> 01:15:45,550
Almond milk, right?
1346
01:15:45,590 --> 01:15:46,590
Right.
1347
01:15:56,310 --> 01:15:58,870
Do you edit the Dr. Lovestruck column?
1348
01:16:01,610 --> 01:16:02,610
Not exactly.
1349
01:16:03,930 --> 01:16:05,030
That's what I wanted to tell you.
1350
01:16:11,170 --> 01:16:16,070
Technically, I'm contractually obligated
to not reveal my identity, but since...
1351
01:16:16,070 --> 01:16:21,450
Wait, are you Dr. Lovestruck? I was
going to tell you, but the magazine
1352
01:16:21,450 --> 01:16:25,410
anonymous. But listen, now that I got a
promotion, someone else has taken over
1353
01:16:25,410 --> 01:16:26,029
the column.
1354
01:16:26,030 --> 01:16:29,910
I was going to tell you the other day,
but we got interrupted by Ella and
1355
01:16:31,950 --> 01:16:38,570
And the irony is that the column has
never had more readers since you and I
1356
01:16:38,570 --> 01:16:40,030
been seeing each other.
1357
01:16:40,350 --> 01:16:43,930
It's like the column got better, and I
think it's because of you. That is
1358
01:16:43,930 --> 01:16:48,610
ironic. Also ironic is the fact that I
was doing research for my book while you
1359
01:16:48,610 --> 01:16:52,150
were doing research for the column, but
the difference is I was totally upfront
1360
01:16:52,150 --> 01:16:53,790
with you about it. I know.
1361
01:16:54,150 --> 01:16:54,969
I know.
1362
01:16:54,970 --> 01:16:57,390
I feel like you haven't been honest with
me.
1363
01:16:57,610 --> 01:16:59,410
Look, I'm sorry I didn't tell you
earlier.
1364
01:17:00,270 --> 01:17:03,810
Okay, but I was trying to stay truthful
to my work and stay committed to what I
1365
01:17:03,810 --> 01:17:04,810
was doing there.
1366
01:17:05,730 --> 01:17:06,890
I think I need to go.
1367
01:17:07,430 --> 01:17:08,430
Kendall.
1368
01:17:08,910 --> 01:17:13,870
Come on, just... You know, I... What's
funny is I actually built a whole
1369
01:17:13,870 --> 01:17:15,170
around building trust.
1370
01:17:16,670 --> 01:17:18,530
Turns out I was completely wrong.
1371
01:17:18,750 --> 01:17:20,990
No. Just read my column.
1372
01:17:21,390 --> 01:17:22,390
Okay, you'll see.
1373
01:17:23,410 --> 01:17:24,990
I learned so much from you.
1374
01:17:26,750 --> 01:17:27,850
You can trust me.
1375
01:18:17,430 --> 01:18:21,950
Your devoted sisters here with
sustenance and caffeine to get you
1376
01:18:21,950 --> 01:18:23,070
day. Thank you.
1377
01:18:24,430 --> 01:18:27,730
Also, they may be worn out for some in
your closet just to shake things up.
1378
01:18:28,030 --> 01:18:29,370
I'll take anything you want.
1379
01:18:31,770 --> 01:18:32,770
Are you okay?
1380
01:18:34,550 --> 01:18:35,610
Yeah, I'm fine.
1381
01:18:36,970 --> 01:18:38,190
No, you're not. I know you.
1382
01:18:39,690 --> 01:18:41,130
No, seriously, I'm fine.
1383
01:18:43,270 --> 01:18:44,270
What happened?
1384
01:18:48,050 --> 01:18:53,150
Nathan. I had all of these feelings for
him, feelings I haven't had for anyone
1385
01:18:53,150 --> 01:18:54,210
in a really long time.
1386
01:18:55,450 --> 01:18:56,450
You love him.
1387
01:18:57,850 --> 01:19:00,370
What? You heard me. You love him.
1388
01:19:00,810 --> 01:19:04,630
You set out to test your theories on how
to find the right partner, and you did
1389
01:19:04,630 --> 01:19:05,710
it. Your method worked.
1390
01:19:06,050 --> 01:19:07,270
No, not really.
1391
01:19:07,690 --> 01:19:11,630
I mean, the fact that I fell for someone
who was keeping things from me is proof
1392
01:19:11,630 --> 01:19:12,990
that I have to throw the whole book out.
1393
01:19:13,430 --> 01:19:16,510
And there's no way I can get up there
tonight and talk about my work knowing
1394
01:19:16,510 --> 01:19:22,910
that it's all wrong. Kendall, you may be
the science of love guru, but as your
1395
01:19:22,910 --> 01:19:24,670
sister, I'm an expert in the science of
you.
1396
01:19:25,550 --> 01:19:27,090
I've watched you and Nathan together.
1397
01:19:27,770 --> 01:19:29,690
I've seen how happy you've been these
past few weeks.
1398
01:19:32,230 --> 01:19:33,330
It's going to be there tonight, right?
1399
01:19:34,630 --> 01:19:36,450
Yet again, our work brings us together.
1400
01:19:36,890 --> 01:19:38,190
Yet again, maybe it's fate.
1401
01:19:39,130 --> 01:19:40,690
Well, you tried it your way and look
what happened.
1402
01:19:41,530 --> 01:19:42,530
So maybe...
1403
01:19:43,260 --> 01:19:46,140
Stop trying to intellectualize it and go
with your feelings.
1404
01:19:48,540 --> 01:19:49,540
Well,
1405
01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:51,600
that felt good.
1406
01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:55,640
I'm just saying. You have a chance to
talk to him tonight. Hear him out.
1407
01:19:56,180 --> 01:19:59,380
For once, don't worry about blood
pressure or heart rate.
1408
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:01,160
Trust your instincts.
1409
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:05,200
Now, time for hair and makeup and choose
my dazzling outfit.
1410
01:20:06,040 --> 01:20:07,600
Can't I just wear what's in bed?
1411
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:08,919
Oh, girl, you got it bad.
1412
01:20:08,920 --> 01:20:10,000
Okay, let's start with makeup.
1413
01:20:28,110 --> 01:20:29,110
Stunning!
1414
01:20:29,170 --> 01:20:30,169
Thank you.
1415
01:20:30,170 --> 01:20:31,790
Joy pulled it all together.
1416
01:20:32,310 --> 01:20:34,190
Well, I guess it really pays to have a
sister who's an artist.
1417
01:20:35,370 --> 01:20:36,370
Yeah.
1418
01:20:36,390 --> 01:20:37,890
Are you looking for somebody?
1419
01:20:38,750 --> 01:20:39,750
I haven't seen them yet.
1420
01:20:39,970 --> 01:20:44,010
Oh, no, I wasn't. But look, we need to
talk. There's a problem with the book.
1421
01:20:44,330 --> 01:20:45,890
What? Don't be silly here. Come on.
1422
01:20:46,590 --> 01:20:47,568
I'm going to take you upstairs.
1423
01:20:47,570 --> 01:20:48,570
We're going to relax.
1424
01:20:48,870 --> 01:20:50,610
I'll get you situated before the Q &A.
Come on.
1425
01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:00,620
Good evening, sir. If it isn't the new
features editor.
1426
01:21:02,060 --> 01:21:06,680
Would you look at this? When I first
started out, a book festival was
1427
01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:11,300
that happened in the spare room of a
community center. Now it's all classy
1428
01:21:11,300 --> 01:21:12,300
an open bar.
1429
01:21:12,780 --> 01:21:15,080
Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Have you seen Larry?
1430
01:21:17,180 --> 01:21:19,140
Our graphics designer guy.
1431
01:21:20,500 --> 01:21:24,240
Scruffy hair glasses. He's the guy
that... Oh, you mean Liam. Yeah, he's
1432
01:21:24,240 --> 01:21:25,240
there with the little...
1433
01:21:25,540 --> 01:21:26,840
Keisha's. Okay. All right. See you in a
bit, sir.
1434
01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:28,560
Liam.
1435
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:29,960
Larry.
1436
01:21:30,220 --> 01:21:31,360
Oh, hey, man. Hey, dude.
1437
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I need a favor. Yeah, anything for you.
Well, actually, no. You should tell me
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01:21:34,620 --> 01:21:35,619
what it is first.
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01:21:35,620 --> 01:21:39,680
Okay. Any chance you can help Dr. Love
Truck with one last romantic gesture
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01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:40,740
before he retires?
1441
01:21:41,780 --> 01:21:43,060
Oh, absolutely.
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01:21:43,440 --> 01:21:44,440
Let's do it.
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Ladies and gentlemen.
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Welcome to the Emerald City Book Gala's
opening night.
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We'll be kicking off the evening with a
Q &A with author Kendall Turner.
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Thank you for joining us. Well, thank
you for
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01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:21,540
having me. Before we get to audience
questions, I was wondering... if you
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01:22:21,540 --> 01:22:25,420
give us a preview of your new book. A
little birdie told me it's a real
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01:22:25,420 --> 01:22:26,900
departure from your previous book.
1450
01:22:27,120 --> 01:22:33,740
Sure. Well, I wanted to do something
different this time around. So instead
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01:22:33,740 --> 01:22:37,660
interviewing other people, I decided to
make myself the subject.
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01:22:37,980 --> 01:22:39,020
What do you mean exactly?
1453
01:22:39,380 --> 01:22:45,780
I made myself, my feelings, and my
experiences with dating the focus of my
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01:22:45,780 --> 01:22:46,780
research.
1455
01:22:46,920 --> 01:22:50,960
And let me tell you, definitely a
different experience writing about
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01:22:51,940 --> 01:22:53,840
And? What did you find?
1457
01:22:55,920 --> 01:23:02,240
Well... I guess you just have to read
the book to find out.
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01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:03,920
Yeah.
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01:23:05,760 --> 01:23:10,300
At the author's request, we'll be
devoting the bulk of our time tonight
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01:23:10,300 --> 01:23:12,760
Give the guy 20 bucks to turn off all
the audience mics.
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01:23:12,980 --> 01:23:14,460
This is the only one that's on.
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01:23:16,110 --> 01:23:20,190
So if you have a question, just raise
your hand and... I have a question.
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01:23:28,930 --> 01:23:29,930
It's about forgiveness.
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01:23:30,790 --> 01:23:32,270
Nathan, what are you doing?
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01:23:32,610 --> 01:23:33,730
It's also about trust.
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01:23:34,670 --> 01:23:37,110
I've read your work, Ms. Turner.
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01:23:37,390 --> 01:23:42,130
And I know from personal experience that
you put your heart into everything you
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01:23:42,130 --> 01:23:43,130
do in your life.
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01:23:43,850 --> 01:23:44,850
Your research.
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01:23:45,370 --> 01:23:47,930
your work, and the people you care about
the most.
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01:23:49,050 --> 01:23:53,650
And I was a very, very lucky man to be
one of those people.
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01:23:56,010 --> 01:23:58,170
You were one of those people.
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01:23:58,490 --> 01:24:01,990
And you are the best thing that ever
happened to me.
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01:24:03,030 --> 01:24:07,310
Now, I know we have very different
approaches on our feelings toward each
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01:24:07,390 --> 01:24:10,410
but I've learned so much from you.
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01:24:10,850 --> 01:24:12,110
And I know that...
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01:24:13,480 --> 01:24:17,260
A grand gesture is still a good way to
show someone you love them.
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01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:30,100
This is how I'm going to say, I love
you, Kendall Turner.
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01:24:32,280 --> 01:24:34,280
Will you let me show you how much I love
you?
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01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:37,620
Will you give me that chance?
1481
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:40,080
Yes.
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01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:57,120
So was that too much?
1483
01:24:57,700 --> 01:24:58,700
Absolutely.
1484
01:25:00,740 --> 01:25:02,700
I want to tell you I read your new book
proposal.
1485
01:25:03,460 --> 01:25:04,460
And?
1486
01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:06,520
I think Spike is one lucky guy.
1487
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:08,820
Yes, he is.
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