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Oh, away we go.

Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.

Patia said she wants to go back to the US.

When something's meant to be, it always finds a way. But I want us to stay

together. I want this to work.

Will you marry me?

Yeah. Oh, my God.

You're going to be marrying my son. But the three weeks that he's been here,

it's...

Is this really what you want?

Smith and I are going to move back to our apartment where we were happy.

You have to live with us.

I can't take it. anymore. You understand?

I'm not going to live in this bedroom the rest of my life.

We are depending on them right now. We cannot move out of there.

Our life sucks.

I'm done.

I'm headed to Jonathan's house to get all my stuff.

It's just over.

I did something really stupid.

It's being a guy.

I did ask a woman for her news.

I'm very sorry for her.

It's up to her if she wants to forgive me or not.

Hi, Billy.

When it gets loud, I hear your voice calling through the crowd.

So take a breath, we're here with you.

So what are we trying today?

Back and bys, chest and tris, glutes and glutes?

Let's do tris and bys.

Have you done this run before, love?

That's chess. I thought we were doing buys and tries. You didn't say chess and

tries? No, I said buys and tries.

We can start a little warm -up with this.

Okay. Now that I'm engaged, I feel very different. I feel like he's realized

that I'm the one for him, and he's finally committed.

You know, it's just amazing.

Feel the burn.

Good job, babe.

Look at those veins.

Damn.

But the more time I spend here, the more I feel like it's not my home.

Good, babe.

Well, don't overdo it. We're just warming up.

So the other day, we went great stomping, and I did talk to Dylan about

back to the States with me.

Even though Tasmania is a beautiful place, I just don't see myself living

here. But you heard when I gave you the ring, you'd be happy.

And now that you've got the ring, it's like now you want to fly away.

I mean, I want to go back and dance. And babe, you can come with me.

I'm not crazy about the idea.

He was not thrilled.

So things have been a little tense.

Good. Let's see if we can do it in synchronization.

Ready? Ha!

Ha!

Really good. I'm going to come and help you form. Keep going. I'm going to

correct your form. Don't stop.

You're sort of coming out to the side too much.

So turn it up. Bring it in.

Squeeze your glutes.

Squeeze your core.

You want to go up and wait?

Hey. Can I show you what you're doing?

I know how to work out.

You know, I know what I'm talking about.

I'm so passionate about it. I love it, and I want to help.

I've been working out 20 years before you, since you were in diapers.

Before you were born.

This is basically like our relationship.

Me trying to help, and then you not wanting to help.

That's frustrating to me because I'm trying to help her, lift her up, but I

that Patia sees that as being controlling.

I think Patia sometimes enjoys the chaos and the drama.

You know, like, after I proposed to her and gave her the commitment, I thought

she'd be like, hey, this place isn't so bad at all. We can make this work. But

she wants to go back to the US and do dancing again, and she wants me to come

with her.

What next?

Some cardio, and then we'll get out of here.

Like, these are the big issues that need to be, you know, sorted out.

So, love, when I was trying to train you...

I felt like you were rushing through the workouts a bit. Like, I was just trying

to help.

I don't like it when you boss me around like that. Like, the controlling thing

is a little bit much.

The thing that's hard is when I can see something is detrimental to your health

or your finances, I'm trying to sort of help you because I've seen you make

those mistakes before. And I want you to be happy. I want to see the sparkle in

your eyes.

I want you to be the best version of yourself.

Okay?

I don't want to be arguing and bickering and spending and the credit cards and

the fast cash, fast spend lifestyle.

I want it to be more slow and calm and peaceful.

But I told you, I'm not like that anymore.

I don't want the fixed credit cards to be seven and eight.

Babe, it's not like that anymore. I told you.

Is that it?

When the big decisions come, I'd like to have some input, and I'd like to have

my opinions sort of respected.

Of course, Dave.

I just feel like if you're telling me that I'm controlling it, you're trying

control me too.

You don't admit that, that you could sometimes be controlling also?

I'm so confused.

I mean, we just got engaged, and you're just nitpicking about everything.

Where is this coming from?

You can do whatever you want.

But as soon as I try and call my mom... No, I can't do whatever I want. Yes,

basically you can't. No.

You can call your mom, you can call your friends, but as soon as I try and call

my mom, you flip out, okay?

Please. I don't flip out, no. You're so foolish.

It's like you're very controlling, babe.

Babe, you don't let me control you.

If I had control, you wouldn't be working in a freaking strip club.

You do whatever you want.

With whoever you want. I don't know who you're with, at what time you're out

till four or five, six in the morning with different guys.

What are you talking about with different guys? You're going out with

guys after work. You've got them on your phone. You're such a liar. You're

changing. You're so insecure.

You really think I go out with different guys?

I'm not insecure. You do whatever you want, whenever you want. I just want to

know the truth. I am telling you the truth. I want to hear it from your

And you refuse to believe it.

If you don't trust me, why are you even with me? I do trust you, love. No, you

don't. You're saying I go off different guys every night? I know for a fact

you've got customers in your phone, love. So what? Does it mean I go out

them? Well, you're with them at the pub, and then afterwards sometimes you go

back to the hotel.

Are you for real?

Yeah.

I can't believe you just said that.

I've never done that.

Okay.

You're lying about stuff.

You're making things up. You lied to me for years about what goes on in that pub

until now. Because you're not telling me the truth, love. I am telling you the

truth.

This is extremely... I know what he's implying, that I have sex with other men

in the club.

He's calling me a prostitute. Sorry, I'm not. We're not prostitutes. We're

entertainers. Big difference.

I'm shocked and I'm hurt and my heart is like crying.

I am so mad. If you're going to assume that I'm doing something that I'm not,

then you don't love me because there's no trust there.

Let's be honest. There's a lot more going on in that club than I know about.

Oh, my God. And I'm not stupid, love.

I'm not talking to you. You piss me off. I can't be with somebody like you.

I've never used one of these steamers before. I don't know if I'm doing this

right, but I'm nervous, excited, a bunch of emotions.

I mean, today's a big day.

Today is my wedding day.

I'm so nervous about it. I was worrying this day for like one year and a half,

but we are here finally.

But imagine that Luke told him everything.

He told him about the stripper.

And it was very uncomfortable.

So it was like we were also talking about the name of the property.

In the end, I said, obviously, I respect that he's your son.

But that doesn't change the fact that he's wrong.

The trust had been lost.

You brought my shoes?

Yep.

We're finally here. I'm getting dressed in my suit, you know? Like, it's

surreal.

And he's second thoughts.

Charge him up.

I mean, do I have some doubts? Yeah. I mean, we've fought nonstop.

But I love the girl. I want to take a step into my future. And I

feel ready.

I had this conversation with Madeline last night. I said, are there any second

thoughts on your side?

And she actually paused and thought about it.

This is the man I love, but I still have so many doubts.

Like, 48 hours ago, I didn't know if I was going to marry this guy.

I only want to get married once, so I'm confused.

Just my head gets so many questions to me.

Luke said he's coming to me, and we're working some issues, but I really don't

want to be hurt more.

I don't know.

Mom finally accepts you, and you want to move on? Are you crazy?

Moving God out of the house is not an option.

Samit has the upper hand right now in our relationship.

I'm trapped.

I asked you multiple times if you had slept with that girl. What did you tell

me? No.

So you lie.

Yes. That is a problem. You don't lie about that.

You want to talk about lying?

Really?

Yeah, really.

Jenny and I are supposed to be having a relaxing day off.

She just told me that she don't want to live with my family anymore.

And she already talked to my parents about it.

Do you even understand what I'm going through?

You realize I left America to come live with you here in India.

And now I have to deal with this. I have to live with your parents.

You should have tried harder to keep that apartment.

You should have did whatever it took.

We were living away from the family for a reason.

Because they didn't accept us as a couple. Now we are.

And right now I need my family. I need.

They help and that's what they are doing. They just try to help us

You were mad that you were never a part of the family and mom finally accepts

you and you want to move on? Are you crazy?

Like moving out of the house is not an option, baby.

What should I say in this situation? How can you be happy about this?

Think of how our life was before.

You can't do any of the things that we were doing before.

We can't even have sex in this house.

This just sucks.

I can't enjoy my life.

You can enjoy your life. You have everybody around.

You have family around.

You have business around. You have me.

How can you enjoy your life by yourself? Like, you cannot.

Well, at least I don't get insulted and be called fat and lazy.

They were living by ourselves, and nobody was there to say anything.

It sounds good, but that was toxic. That was unhealthy.

You seemed pretty happy. Yeah, I was. Yeah, until this situation arrived.

Look, what happened? We enjoyed so much that we end up into that situation where

we have to ask for help from my family. Who would help us? It's your family.

So I expect you to think the same way.

This is not right. This is being a selfie chauffeur.

For seven years, I gave whatever she wanted. I get divorced.

I start living away from my family. I risk my relationship with my parents and

society over Jenny. And where I need Jenny most, she is not ready to adjust

sacrifice.

I'm just letting you know that we are moving out.

And you're figuring out how.

Or I'm moving out.

It's fine for you. For me, it's not fine.

You can make it work.

I'm getting so upset.

He doesn't want to leave.

He doesn't understand, or he doesn't want to understand.

I told Sumit, I will leave. I will just be gone.

But, I mean, if I try to move out on my own, where would I go?

Where am I going?

Sumit has the upper hand right now in our relationship.

I'm kind of stuck there. I'm trapped.

I'm screwed.

We are living with the family.

What do you want to do?

you can say anymore. Like, it's not.

I shouldn't have said the things to you when I'm so sad. Like, I'm sorry. Like,

I really am.

I really just want to go home. Like, I don't think you realize how upset it,

like, really made me.

Like, I've been miserable.

Like, I would never do that to you.

Never. Like, there's no justifying it. I would have never done that.

Ever. That hurt so bad.

So bad.

I'm gonna f*** up.

What I did was very wrong.

I'm sorry for that.

I'm sorry that I asked a woman for nudes.

I'm very sorry.

I was being stupid. I was bored. I was being a guy.

Okay? It's not an excuse.

I'm not trying to justify it. I'm admitting my fault.

Okay?

But my point here is that how you reacted.

It wasn't the right way.

You went through my phone, took a bunch of screenshots of things before we were

actually committed to each other, tried to portray a picture of me between your

friends, your family, and everyone else.

No, but I'm just trying to explain to you my point. What was before us?

Because the girl that you hooked up with in May, yes.

That was before us, apparently. That was before us.

But I asked you about it.

You're just mad because you didn't know who it was.

That's why you're mad.

Because you already knew about this video.

I've seen the video, but I didn't know it was her.

Exactly. That's my point. And I asked you multiple times if you had slept with

that girl. What did you tell me? No.

Okay, so did you not lie?

I did. I'm sorry. Okay, so when I actually saw the other video of you two

together, I was like, oh, my God.

You told me you deleted that whole...

an album, a bunch of girls, and if you deleted it, I wouldn't have found any of

this.

So you lied.

Yeah. That is a problem. You don't lie about that.

You want to talk about lying? Go ahead.

I'm not in the wrong.

Fine, you want to put May behind us? Good, it was already behind me.

But you went through my behind my back.

Cry about it.

Like, dude, you're so childish, man.

I'm childish?

Yeah, dude, it's like...

At the end of the day, it is wrong to ask for nudes in front of your

I'm explaining to you, I was bored, I was being stupid, and I was a guy, and

wrong for doing that. I cheated, and I'm sorry. I admitted that. My problem with

you is that you're bringing all these things from the past and trying to

me as this evil person, and I can't deal with that.

I can't deal with a person that's going to talk bad about me. Or that when

there's a problem between us, you let the whole world know. That just shows

you're not too thick and thin.

You know how many days a week I'm bored?

Yeah. What do I do? Go to the beach. That's what I do. I'm a guy.

I'm sorry. I like women.

I'm sorry that I cheated. You have a woman right in front of you. Yeah, that

treats me like... Anyways.

Okay. Alright?

I treat you like... Cheating scandal? You were treating me like... Anyways.

So I don't want you anyways.

Like, it's ridiculous.

I have to do all this for what? For someone that disrespects me? That when

there's a problem, won't come and talk to me? Instead, runs away and bashes my

name? You think I want to be with somebody like that?

Are you serious?

Hello. Hello.

Oh, my God.

I feel my hair going, like, hundreds of the times more fast.

This is real.

This is happening right now.

But I feel so nervous because I don't know if we are really ready to get

smart yet.

I'd be lying if I didn't say that I've had moments of extreme doubt.

through the whole relationship.

I can't believe the day's finally come.

It's been a bumpy road. We've had ups and downs, like a roller coaster.

I mean, the wedding's probably been called off ten times or something like

Who knows at this point?

But we're finally here.

You only need a single man for a few more minutes, boy.

Okay?

I'm standing up there. I'm waiting.

I'm overwhelmed with joy.

But... I'm nervous.

I'm nervous.

This is meddling. I think this is meddling.

Getting to the helicopter and see the wedding venue from the air.

Oh, my God, that moment is magic.

But at the same time, I see Luke's face.

He was... So that means he already started to cry a lot.

In that moment, I feel like this one is the right decision.

As

I'm

standing up there, all I can feel is happiness.

And all of my problems, all of the fights, all of the hardships that we've

endured just floated away.

Yeah.

I never saw someone so beautiful.

I was just overwhelmed, and I was so happy to see her.

Look,

amor mio, I love you so much.

You know, are you the best thing that ever happened to me?

Thanks for teaching me independence.

And I'm so grateful to have you in my life.

Bradley, from the very first moment we met, I knew my life had changed forever.

You were my best friend.

My heart, my hope, and today in front of everyone, I give you the most precious

thing that I have, which is my heart.

I am the one you need.

I love you, Mom.

We just got married.

I can't believe that I'm so lucky and this is my life.

Seeing her get out of the helicopter with her big asterisk, it filled me with

much emotion.

I cried. I'm so embarrassed.

This is my girl. This is my person. This is my future.

And I'm blessed.

Oh, my God.

Like, it's so amazing.

I can't tell you how happy I am for the both of them.

There's been a long, heavy -duty build -up with all the hurdles.

He gave up everything he owned to come down here to be with her.

Every marriage has their ups and downs.

I'm just praying that they can make it work, because I think they're wonderful.

I really do.

After everything we've been through, I'm so excited to start this new chapter of

a life together.

From the bottom of my heart, I love you, baby.

Thank you so much.

I can't imagine my life without you.

Make sure we are together forever.

I'm not

talking to you.

You piss me off. I can't be with somebody like you.

I have asked Batia on numerous occasions what goes on in these champagne rooms

with these high rollers, but she just brushed it off. I got really defensive

it makes me feel like she's hiding things.

But I wish my emotions wouldn't get the best of me.

I really shouldn't have pushed it that far.

We just got on tour.

Sit down here, love.

I do trust you, love. It's just... It's hard because you get so defensive

whenever I... It's such a touchy subject.

You're accusing me of doing stuff that I'm not doing. I don't appreciate that.

tell you, I'm not like that.

For 12 years I've been trying to tell you that I'm not like that, but I can't

believe you're still today asking me that.

It hurts.

Hey, I'm sorry.

You get very defensive and agitated and emotional when I ask about it. It hurts

because you're calling me a liar when I'm, like, trying to be truthful with

Like, you don't believe me. It hurts. It's like, why am I even with this guy

he doesn't trust me?

I mean, if you really feel like that, accusing me of, like... Going home with

guys, really? Are you serious? The thing is, babe, I don't care what happens.

Yes, you do.

If you didn't care, you wouldn't bring it up. I'm just saying, whatever

whatever did or didn't happen, no matter what, I'll always love you. I just

wanted to know the truth. And if you say it's the truth, then it's the truth.

It's the truth. It hurts from the bottom of my heart. I don't want to lose you,

babe. I don't want to lose you, okay? Because if that's what you believe, I

seriously can't be in this relationship. I don't want to lose you, babe. I'd

rather, like...

I don't want to lose you, babe, okay? So let's never talk about that again, all

right? Let's put that to bed. No, I want you to say yes. I trust you. Yes, I

trust you.

I'm sorry for making you upset.

I hate to see you upset, love.

I don't want to fight. I don't want drama.

I just want to live a happy, peaceful life. That's all I want.

Loving life.

That's what I want. I'm not drama, and I just feel like being with you is just

toxic and drama all the time.

You love all this? You love this roller coaster? No, I love you.

I feel like it's just a roller coaster ride. We just go in circles and circles.

Babe, I love you, and I want to be with you.

I told myself, this is it. I'm going to come to Tasmania. If we don't come

together, if I don't get a proposal, if we don't get married, I'm done.

Well, you've got the proposal, love, and we're about to get married.

I know.

How are we going to get past all this?

Like we always do, babe.

Like we always do.

In order for this to work, he has to change.

He has to have, one, my back.

When I'm talking to him about his mother and how she influences his decision in

her life.

Two, he needs to trust me.

And three, being controlling.

He needs to work on that.

I want to get married. I want to be with you.

Show me, babe.

Starting today, show me.

Help me to get past this.

It's got to change, you know. I can't keep going on like this. We just cannot

keep doing this.

I love this crazy, beautiful love.

It is crazy. I wouldn't trade it for the world.

These aren't like earrings.

Chloe. Did he just not care the entire time?

I don't even know.

Those are not mine.

I don't care who they are.

Like, it's ridiculous.

I have to do all this for what? For someone that disrespects me? That when

there's a problem won't come and talk to me? Instead runs away and bashes my

name? You think I want to be with somebody like that?

You cheated.

I'm sorry.

I like women.

You're a guy? My ex didn't do that.

My dad didn't do that to my mom.

Because you're a guy?

Does that mean I have to go in the kitchen and clean for you while you're

doing this?

And you want to tell me?

You don't do it anyway.

Thank God I didn't cook and clean for you. This is why I didn't cook and clean

for you. Because I knew this was going on.

So why even start with me in the beginning?

Because I didn't think you were a person.

My mistake.

Now I'm a person?

What do you want me to tell you?

I'm not perfect, man. I will admit that I was wrong. It was messed up, me asking

for the girl from news. Hey, but don't be like, oh, petty. I'm going to go

behind your back, and I'm going to try my very, very best to ruin your

reputation. No man wants a woman like that.

No man will ever want a woman like that.

I admitted that I cheated.

I'm sorry for that.

My point is, when there's a problem, you shouldn't go run around and go tell

everybody about it. I don't get it.

Of course, because you don't understand relationships.

Who? Whoa. I don't understand relationships?

Okay. All right.

How's this? I'll see how my next relationship goes versus yours. I have a

feeling the next girl you're with is going to leave your ass a little bit

than I did because no one's going to put up with the shit that I put up with.

Okay. I ask for loyalty in that.

Okay. I moved my entire life here. I also asked for loyalty and honesty in a

of things, but you did not give that to me. Okay, you know, I'll... me then,

okay. No, no, it's not... Right? You're acting like I did so much when you did a

lot worse.

Oh, yeah, no, I'm... I mean, you don't even care.

Like, you have no sense of reality.

No woman would want somebody to do this. And you think anybody would want a

woman that disrespects him like that? Talking about his dead mom?

She disrespected me by mentioning my mom like that. You disrespected me by

cheating.

Okay, so you know what?

It's okay.

The more I talk to you, the more I realize I don't want to be with you.

I didn't come here to be with you.

All right?

Done. You happy?

No, I'll never be happy about this. You won't be happy. You go home, you'll be

fine. Hey, chill out, dude.

So, I'll just do this myself.

You can just hide your face because I don't want to see you anymore. All

Chloe. So, thank you for that.

Thank you. With a smile on your face. Yeah, of course, it ain't worth it.

What? It ain't worth it.

It ain't worth it.

You're just not compatible when there's a problem.

You're like, you can't be compatible with a... I can't be compatible with

No one can. I can't. I actually can't even speak.

I literally can't even... Of course not, because you can't control your

emotions.

I can't with you.

What a f***ing day.

Don't help, please. The faster you're out, the better.

Yeah, I think you have your rings and stuff in the room.

What am I leaving here?

What is it? I don't know.

What rings?

These are my earrings.

Oh, God.

Chloe, why are you acting like this? Chloe.

Chloe.

Chloe, why would you say that? Because none of those earrings are mine.

You lost all day, Chloe.

Those are not mine.

I don't care whose they are.

Like, all I wanted to do was talk to you and try to fix these issues between me

and you.

I don't have anything else to say. Like, you say you love me, but this is not

what... Yeah, you know what? I do, and I shouldn't. No, you don't.

If you did, why didn't you just talk to me? Jonathan, I was talking to you. Why

didn't you just talk to me? I just talked to you. It wouldn't have gone

if you just talked to me. And I was disgusted with this conversation.

Why can't you just be nice to me, man? Jonathan, you know what? Why can't you

just be respectful and nice to me? I know I cheated, but damn, what you're

is insane, dude.

Call me names, mention my mom, all these sorts of things.

For some nudes?

I'm not going to let you cheat and go. I'm not going to let it go. Okay, all

right. So it doesn't matter how many times I say sorry. It doesn't matter how

many times I ask for your forgiveness. It doesn't matter how many times I go

through with you.

I don't have anything else to say anymore.

Do you want it done?

There's no option, Jonathan. There's no option. You always have an option. I

can't stay with somebody who's going to do that to me. That's not fair.

Zoe, it's a mistake.

I'm not going to do it ever again.

Clearly, I will never do it ever again.

Clearly.

Is that how you're gonna look, Tony?

I will take you back, man.

There's nothing we can fix right now. I'm sorry. I cannot put it behind me. I

can't.

You... You can go inside now.

I still have a love for Chloe.

You know, I really, really wish, you know, it was different and we could have

worked it out.

But, like, the way she reacted was very disappointing.

And, yeah, I just have to live with the fact that, you know, you can't always

have it your way. You can't always have a person be the way that you want them

to be, especially when there's a conflict. You know what I mean? So take

lesson, you know.

Swallow the pill, you know. Be a man.

That conversation completely changed, like, my last image of him.

Like, say that I'm in the wrong and that, like, I'm the problem. It's just,

like, none of it makes sense. None of it makes sense. It's very, very hurtful.

I'm just like, literally, who are you? Like, I feel like I was in a

with a total different person than what I saw today.

Did he just not care the entire time?

I don't even know.

Next time on 90 Day The Other Way, the couples tell all.

Bend your knee a little bit and you're going to do the figure eight.

Woo!

We both look like we did the same hairstyle.

Top it.

Everybody ready?

Do we have a choice?

No, you don't have a choice.

Matthew, Greta said that the sex, They'll slap.

Damn, Greta.

I don't really remember it.

What? I think sex is a reflection of your relationship.

Oh, my goodness.

Katia, are you adjusting better to Tasmania?

Uh, well.

That's a say no. I have some tea for you.

Uh -oh. Uh -oh. Pour us a cup.

really did love him so much. It, like, hurt.

Johnny, is there anyone special in your life now?

Yeah.

Do you see marriage in your future?

Well, it's a very complicated situation.

Come on, let us know. Lay it on us.

Okay, guys, don't kill me.

So... What the... Oh, my God.

With Jenny and I, things are not working.

I can't be miserable all day long, every day. Is divorce in the cart?

Yeah, I am at my drinking point.

No, no.

I think Chloe's a catch, bro, and you done fucked up.

I see it, Luke.

You so much interested in her.

Bitch. Luke actually messaged me saying, are we grabbing a drink tonight? What

are you doing?

Here, everyone, see it.

If I'm making you so miserable, leave.

Don't worry, honey. It's okay.

Don't call me honey.

Don't call me honey.

She controls her phone.

I have to delete messages if I'm talking to my family because she's going to see

those messages and blow up. That's crazy.

Why does everyone else matter the most to you and not me?

We're going to drop.

Oh, my God.

Oh, she's leaving.