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900 p.m. to midnight might be the most

important threehour window in a 24-hour

day for those who are frustrated,

resentful, struggling, not fulfilled,

unhappy, curious, determined, hopeful,

and ambitious. The number one

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>> All right, that was weird. I feel like

the Matrix just now tried to stop me

from helping everyone. I feel like I'm

giving the real and they don't want it.

They don't want it. 9:00 p.m. to 12.

That's the big takeaway here. Is your

time. And if someone says I'm too tired,

well then then that's that. Then live in

it. Good to see everybody. Very excited

for Tea with Gary Vee. Episode 100. A

nice little milestone. T made a nice

video. I said we don't celebrate, but I

appreciate the effort. We may still post

it. Ragav, you got a question?

>> Uh, what is the power of know?

>> Power of no is something that I've

struggled with. In fact, over the

weekend, I told AJ that um Michael Rubin

from Fanatic said something twice now.

One in a one-on-one meeting, one in a

group thing I was in last week where he

has the same problem that I have, which

is even if 13 different ideas are all

right, collectively they're wrong

because you're just stretching a little

too thin. And I talk a lot about

happiness versus success financially. So

for me, the power of no is very

important. Most of you have a problem

saying yes. I have a problem saying no.

Most of you should be saying yes to more

things. I'm so addicted to the concept

of maybe serendipity karma that I say

yes to a lot of things. There's some

stuff in my schedule today that I looked

at over the weekend that should be nos.

with this last full week before the

holidays, I need to accomplish a whole

lot of things. So, for a lot of you that

are more like me, yes, men and women,

the power of no is more effectiveness,

more efficiency, um not getting

sidetracked,

being able to double down on your most

important things. I think a lot of

people struggle with, ironically, saying

yes to more things. You think you're

busier than you are. Um you're fearful

of wasting time. and and I think I'm a

little bit on the other side and I need

to get a little bit better at no. And I

would say this year I got better at it.

Uh I'm trying to get even stronger at

it, but finding the balance between yes

and no. Actually, everybody who's in the

chat right now, all 700 of you, let's

get the shares going right now. But I

have a question for all 700 of you right

now. How many of you feel like you're

saying yes to too many things? And how

many of you feel like you're saying no

to too many things? Say yes or no. Just

a good oldfashioned yes or no. And thank

you for everybody who's reposting. I see

you. Say you're saying yes to too many

things or no to too many things. And

it's going to be interesting to see.

Nice nice little mix of both. Yeah, I

think all of us are trying to find that

middle. You know, all of us are trying

to find that middle. Um but I think a

lot of you are scared to fail and not

enough yeses. And then I think a lot of

you are just a little more creative, a

little more skelter like I am, uh, and

need to find the power no. The answer to

your question directly is the power of

no allows you to be more effective and

efficient on the things you've already

said yes to

before you say yes to another thing.

Have you fulfilled or executed enough on

all of your prior yeses? Everybody, my

latest book on how to get better at

social media is now going to be pinned

to the bottom of the show. All right,

let's keep it going. How would you

handle being the main supporter for your

family, but you hate what you do, even

though you make money?

>> This is a really good question. This is

just called being a grown-up and eating

crap for the betterment of your family.

I think this is a real grown adult

process a lot of us have gone through.

There have been many times through my

life, especially my life, where I've

been really the financial driver for

many everybody around me. Um

it's called living life, you know, like

our pain tolerance is a direct

correlation sometimes to uh the life we

live. I mean, there's so many of us

right now that are providing and you're

providing emotionally, you're providing

uh financially. And you know

what I would say is to make sure that

you don't create a level of resentment.

This is what I why I've become

infatuated

with um with people learning how to um

use this.

I'm really happy that CryptoDaddy and

Trey 100 just bought this. I hope it

helps them. I think that built the fact

that all of us, if this was 1984 tea

with Gary Vee, I'd say Wayne, suck it

up. You're a man. literally because

Wayne would have to work 9 to6 and

there'd be no really real way without

Wayne taking a high risk of quitting and

trying to get another job for Wayne to

set himself up. The fact that we live in

a world right now where you can use

social media content, LinkedIn

especially to produce content or reach

out to people via social to create your

other job opportunity that you don't

need recruiters coming to you. you could

be the recruiter for yourself

is a real gift. This whole 6 pm, you

know, this whole 6 pm or even if you

want to eat dinner, be with the family,

have a little leisure, call it this 900

p.m. to 5 in the morning economy, and

obviously you need sleep. So 5 in the

morning is a little bit of a hyperbole.

I would say for the people that are

unhappy like Wayne who's providing for

his family but he's unhappy that I would

say that 900 p.m. to midnight is one of

the remarkable three hours in our

society right now. I believe that 900

p.m. to midnight is one of the most

important three hours. I could argue I

could argue that 900 p.m. to midnight is

one of the most important

3 hours if not the most important 3

hours of the unhappy, unfulfilled,

struggling, concerned in our society

right now.

Because from 9:00 p.m. to midnight

between LinkedIn and the other social

networks, you can start creating the

other opportunities for yourself to get

out of the hole you're in. 9:00 p.m. to

midnight might be the most important

3hour window in a 24-hour day for those

who are frustrated, resentful,

struggling, not fulfilled, unhappy, cu

on the flip side, curious, determined,

hopeful,

and ambitious. Because a lot of us have

to do things 9 to5, 9 to6, 9 to7 and a

lot of us also worry about work life

balance some sort of you know reality of

providing the emotional end time for our

spouse our partner our girlfriend our

boyfriend our husband our wife our son

our daughter our parents so fine I'm

giving you 6 to 9 but this 900 p.m. to

midnight is the 3-hour window to flip

the switch. And I highly recommend

people get more serious about it. Thank

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>> How can I tell my mom that is the same

age as you that she still has time to

build something? She's a kindergarten

teacher and not really happy with her

job. I encourage her to post content

about parenting.

>> I mean, it's the same old game, right?

Like, you have to get her to listen to

my podcast. All of you should be

checking out my podcast, Garyve Podcast.

Search that right now on Chat GBT or

Google. Make sure you do that right now.

How many of you are actually, let's be

honest right now, all 888 of you. Good

little number. How many of you are

subscribed on Apple or Spotify to my

podcast? Say yes podcast. Say no

podcast. I need all 900 answers right

now. Say yes podcast, no podcast. Here's

where I'm going with it. Whether it's

the Gary Vee podcast, which I would love

all of you to get on, or some other your

mom needs positivity and encouragement,

accountability and push in her ears.

That's what listen that's all that life

is. All that life is is your mindset,

your perspective, how you see the world.

The audio that runs through your head,

self-doubt, self-love, opportunity,

cynicism. I'm 50, she's 50, she thinks

it's over. I don't even think I've

started. That's real. And I don't

believe that a lot of you believe that I

believe that. I don't believe that a lot

of you believe me when I say that. that

I don't feel like I've just started. I'm

aware of my accomplishments, but I

genuinely feel they've been foundational

to what I'm doing next. How many people

here are under 40 and feel like it's

over? Like they've made their bed. They

have to sleep in it. They picked the

job. They picked the person. They picked

where they live. Like how many of you

under 40 say that's me? Say that's me.

And then put your age number on the

right. That's me. And then put your age

number. That's me. I'm 47. That's me.

I'm 39. Put that's me. I need all of you

to say, "Yeah, I mean, like when I see

Tiger Josh say, "That's me and I'm 37.

That's me. I'm 39. That's me. I'm 39."

Like, you could see a lot of 30s. You

know, it's crazy to me, you know, at 34

years old, I worked in a liquor store,

had never made business content or just

started making business content. Like, I

don't think people get it. Like, you

know, and I know all of you have seen

this content for me over and over and

over and over again. I don't care if you

listen to me. You're not my sister.

You you know like you like when people

push back for me like you think I care.

I care in general but I don't know you.

I don't know Sap's ro like I don't know

everyone in here. Like I don't know you

like that. I'd like to know you. This is

why we hang out on tea with Gary D. I'm

desperate. This is why I allocate my

time which is my biggest asset to do

this in the morning on December 15th.

Like I do this,

I do this, but I don't know how to get

you there unless you constantly listen

to it over and over until it breaks

through. How many people here, no

[ __ ] please put in the chat, have

broken through mentally, have gone from

cynical to positive because of therapy,

who you hang out with, who you've cut

out, who's had a breakthrough, say,

"I've broken through." Say, "I've broken

through in the chat." Because I need

people to see others. You see me.

Everybody look in the chat right now.

Like people can break through. But to

answer to your mom like I need you to

listen to my podcast every day, but not

me. Not this selfish like listen to my

podcast. Meaning someone like me. I

don't care if you listen to me or any of

the other thousands of people on the

internet that provide positive and

practical, accountable, and hopeful

content. I really don't care. I really

don't care. Meaning, I'd love for you to

listen to me, but I really don't care if

it's me or someone else. But I need you

to tune out negativity. Like, I don't

know what else to say. It is very clear

to me what's going on. If you hang out

with negative people, cynical people,

non-h hopeful people, non-ambitious

people, like that OG [ __ ] your

great-grandmother told you of like you

are who you surround yourself with is

true. And the problem is most of you

surround yourself right now with social

media and mainstream media content that

is scaring you.

Both sides of the political aisle are

doing the same thing globally.

Both sides are doing the same thing.

They're scaring you. Everyone's cynical.

Everyone's become super overcoddled. So

we're blaming. So you're scared and

you're blaming. Do you know that there's

actually kids that are Gen Z that

actually blame boomers? Like actually

like there's actually random 27 34 year

olds are like it's the 80 year old's

fault. That's insanity.

Like it's exhausting. So I I don't know

like what I would tell your mama is

start listening to optimistic

offenseoriented

people. That's why offenseoriented

orangutang is one of my favorite V

friends. Offenseoriented orangutang is

really un deep. Who's a Be Friends

collector here? Say Bee Friends. It's

one of the ones that are super under the

radar. If people have been following Be

Friends for a long time, they know I

rarely talk about the offenseoriented

orangutang, right? But it's one of my

favorite characters. I call him Triple

O. Triple O is a beast. Like, who's

offenseoriented?

Like almost everything that comes out of

my mouth is offenseoriented.

That's it, man. That's where we need to

be. All right, let's keep it going. Next

question.

>> How do you find work life balance while

you have anxiety that you're not doing

enough?

>> By giving yourself grace by realizing

there's no such thing as work life

balance. This morning I was actually

thinking I was like, you know, we're at

that time of year. I'm like, was 25 a

good year? Like do I feel good about it?

Like how do I feel like I did?

Reality is is like there's no perfect

year like in hindsight sometimes. Like

for example, I might in seven years look

back at 25 and be like, "Oh, that was a

good year, right? I started doing live.

That can be one, right? You know,

there's a lot of ways to think about it.

I I'm just in the business of loving

myself like real talk. Like, but holding

myself accountable and not being

delusional. It's this really interesting

balance of like I know I'm trying and

that is enough.

Like I know I'm trying and that's

enough. And I want all of you there.

Like if you're really trying and you're

coming from a good place and you got a

balance of like trying to do right by

you and your family but also care about

others like even just how nice I am in

public

like opening a door saying hi or smiling

at people makes me feel very fulfilled

makes me feel good about myself makes me

feel like I'm trying to leave a positive

deposit in a world that's passionate

about doing the reverse but I don't get

delusional like a lot of like you can

like yourself you can be ice, but laying

on your couch all day and like watching

porn and like you're probably not being

productive. You could be like laying

around and just gambling on Poly Market

and like DraftKings and Fanatics betting

and like that's probably not productive.

You could be like laying on your couch

and your mom is giving you money and

you're just watching like Elf for the

15th time in the last two weeks. Like

that's probably not productive. So

there's a level of like like loving

yourself but but also holding yourself

accountable. I don't know why so many of

you struggle with the balance of loving

yourself but holding yourself

accountable because I feel like when

people hear holding yourself accountable

they hear it in their mind of like

>> [ __ ] on yourself for sucking.

>> Like when I talk about patience people

get all shook like Gary B.

>> Like I see the comments you guys see it

right? This advice isn't it like you got

to go hard. Like [ __ ] I'm going

harder than you. There's no one who's

left a comment that says Gary's wrong,

you have to go hard. Has gone harder

than me. I feel it. Not one person. But

I think people are struggling with the

balance.

So, how do I answer this person? Very

easily. Like, like, and by the way,

yesterday is over. Like, if yesterday

you sucked, like if yesterday was a bad

day, if if yesterday you were like, I

blew this whole year. I blew my whole

life. It really doesn't matter. Today's

always day one.

Today's day one, y'all.

For example, Nomomas, Michael Silician,

Demarcus Collection, and Act on

Prompting all bought this book probably

to day one next year. They're going to

read it and they're going to get better

at social media content and they can

start winning. All right, next question.

>> I'm 23 and I'm struggling to figure out

my career. I want to build something for

myself, but my girlfriend of four years

wants to get married and move out soon

and expect me to work on a traditional

job. I don't know what to do. Any

advice?

>> 9:00 p.m. to midnight. You could do

both. Like I I I don't understand how

people don't realize you can do both.

You can work 9 to5 and then you could

work in the evening. Now, first of all,

your girlfriend since you were 18 and

now you're 22, you guys are young. Like,

I know that's how they did it in the old

days and you might be immigrant life and

that's how you still do it. I get it.

But like I I would just say like outside

pressure is always wrong. You can't live

your life based on what your girlfriend,

fiance, future wife wants you to do,

even if you love her more than breathing

itself, because there will be resentment

that builds from that. I'm about to drop

a bomb this morning.

Many of you that are people pleasers

must protect yourself

from resenting those that you're

pleasing and then blaming them for it.

I'm going to say that again. Many of you

that are people pleasers must protect

yourself

from resenting those that you're doing

the people pleasing for only to them

then blame them for it when you decided

to do it.

This has been a vulnerability of mine

through my life's journey. You are

deciding to please someone else. your

mom, your dad, your your husband, your

wife, your boyfriend, your girlfriend,

your child. You've decided to please

someone else. And not from a place of

insecurity. You just have a lot of

warmth in your heart. Like I don't

people please cuz I'm like cuz I want

you to like me. I actually don't give a

[ __ ] if any of you like me. I like to

people please because I'm in a good

place and I like it. It feels it

fulfills me. Yeah, I get it, J Chat. But

it's really really important, you know,

like you're absolutely right. That's

what so many people can get caught on.

Like I'm telling all of you, you have to

be very careful. And this is why we're

talking about it. I like you too, the

man. I need all of you to understand

this. You can't blame others when you

people please and then you resent them.

You must be accountable.

You must be accountable.

That's it. Accountability matters. A lot

of you have to check yourselves. We need

more humility, more self-awareness.

I I really hope this helps someone this

morning.

I really hope this helps someone this

morning. This is real stuff. A lot of

you pointing fingers when it's actually

thumbs. All right, I'm going to talk to

the chat for a little bit. Just talk

into the chat a little bit. Everybody in

the chat. Christy says, "Wow, I've never

looked at it like that before." See,

that's what I'm here for. See, Christy

just made my whole morning. these little

angles like all life is is how you see

it. All life is is how you see it.

That's all like there is no life besides

how you see it.

People think there's right.

I I laugh at this. PEOPLE THINK THERE'S

RIGHT AND WRONG. PEOPLE think life is

black and white. How many of you

struggle with wanting life to be black

and white? How many of you see life

black and white? How many of you think

life is black and white? How many do you

How many people here want others to see

life black and white? How many say black

and white in the chat if you're one of

those people? I need it. I need it. I

need you to own it. It's easy behind the

screen. Own it. How many people here are

disappointed by other people?

Other people disappoint you.

Jojo says, "Wow, Gary, you look tired."

No, no, Jojo. It's just I'm 50 now and I

don't use face cream and I'm not doing

the I'm not doing the facelift thing.

I'm not doing it.

I'm not doing the plastic surgeon. Look,

you'll never believe it. Like, I can

make myself look better, but I just not

where I'm about. How many of you are

disappointed by others? I'm telling you.

I'm telling you. Be careful. Too many

expectations,

too much insecurity. If you're

constantly disappointed by people,

there's too much ego, there's too much

insecurity.

That's you. If you're disappointed by

others, it's not them, it's you.

>> Cool. Let's keep going.

>> My girlfriend and I have totally changed

our lives in the last 3 years. We hardly

drink, don't take drugs, just bought a

house, and had a baby. Recently, we feel

like all the friends we've accumulated,

being young and crazy, are dwindling as

we're living a better life, but we

haven't yet found our new like-minded

friends. Is it still worth trying to

make an effort with our old friends even

though it seems like we have less and

less in common as we're

>> you know

friendship comes in different levels

I think we can all agree with that right

everybody you all agree like right you

have like super deep friends that feel

like direct family then there's the next

tier underneath that they don't feel

like family but they're like really good

friends it's awesome it's light it's

good then there's that next tier of like

it's kind of in the middle then there's

one lower that I would call is

borderline line acquaintance and service

level, but you're always thrilled to run

into them twice a year and be like,

"Yeah, right. That's it." You know,

maybe those friends that were drugs and

party and night life were used to be

deepest when you were in the same [ __ ]

together. And maybe they can convert

into light. You could see them once or

twice a year reminisce old stories,

catch up. Maybe because you're in a

stronger mental place, maybe you can

become that for those friends. Maybe you

can become the north star. Maybe you can

talk through how you got there. Maybe

you can call them out of like, hey,

like like cut the cocaine out of your

life. Like maybe you can be that person.

So that's how I answer that. There's

layers to relationships. Again, this is

back to black and white. Some people

like either like I know a lot of people

in my own life. If you're not like best

friends and deep and it's like deep,

then it's nothing. And I'm like, [ __ ]

man. Where the layers?

A lot of people are like, "Man, if I

can't be authentic and real and like

deep with a friend, then it's zero. It's

like literally 100 or zero." And those

people tend to have no friends.

I'm a little bit more like there's

different levels to the game.

54 321 542 and one. By the way, I hate

when you evaluate employees or other

things. Random thing. You have to get

rid of the number in the middle. If you

evaluate employees, managers, if you

have like an evaluation system of like 5

4 3 2 1, get rid of three. Everybody

evaluates at three. Get rid of the

three. Force them into a four or two.

Little little little side thing while

we're here. All right, let's keep going.

>> How would you handle working two jobs

while trying to get a business off the

ground? Some days I just don't have the

physical energy because my body will

literally shut down and I want to ensure

that I'm taking care of myself

healthwise.

>> Patience.

Like there's plenty of times where my

body's tired and I go super hard and I

go to sleep. I love a good go to sleep

at 9:00, wake up at 8. I I think I've

slept 11 hours twice in the last 30

days. 11.

You like that brain?

>> Yeah. You didn't see that coming, huh?

>> Yeah, man.

>> I'll I listen to my body all day. I have

unlimited ambitions, but I don't get

this. Like, when when do people think

it's over? Everybody just wants it too

fast. Lack of patience. This is why I

talk about patience all day. All right,

let's keep it going.

>> What is more important to you as a

leader? Challenging your employees with

new tasks to grow or making sure to give

them tasks that they excel at? The

>> answer is and. Both of those things

matter to me the most. Players in a

position to succeed, create paths to

stretch them, to learn about them, and

get context of what they're good and not

good at. By the way, when I give new

employees new tasks, different things to

do, I don't necessarily need them to be

great at it. I want to create

opportunity for them for career growth

and I want to get context on their

ability, but I'm not disappointed.

They do not lose when they fail at news

tasks.

And sometimes I'll go back to the same

person and give them a third up or

second or fourth bite at that apple.

Got it? So employees, if you've got a

great boss,

if you if you fail at a new task,

sometimes it's not a bad thing.

>> All right, go ahead.

>> So on last week on LinkedIn, we did a

poll that said, uh, what is the number

one reason that you would leave your

job? poor work life balance, a difficult

boss, salary or other. After 10,000

votes, the number one answer at 48% was

a difficult boss. Any reaction to that?

Makes a lot of sense to me. Like I mean

to me that's exactly right. Like I I

think most people leave jobs for a

difficult boss or more money somewhere

else. That makes sense. That's the way

it should be, right? Fi finances matter

and happiness matter. It really kind of

makes a lot of sense, you know. And so,

in fact, a lot of How many people in the

chat have left a job for more money, got

there, didn't like the boss as much, and

then went back to their prior job for

less money than their new job for the

old salary or maybe a increase from the

like some something in between. How many

people have done that? Uh, say

boomerang. Say boomerang. How many

people have done that? had a job, left

for more money, and then realized, wait

a minute, this is unhappiness, and then

went back. Look how many people look at

all these boomerangs. Look at that.

And someone said, "Never go backwards."

I actually don't think that's going

backwards. I think that's going forward.

I think that's you realizing your

day-to-day happiness is more important

than a couple more dollars. Dollars is

not the only thing.

Money is not the only thing in how many

people think money is the only thing in

life. I even people trolling I feel

hopefully won't say this in the chat

because then the gods of karma are going

to strike them down

like nobody believes that you know money

matters. Please don't misunderstand what

I'm saying money enables a lot of

opportunities but I mean you know

someone said never go backwards to that.

I view that as forward. If you go

through an experience where you go that

job is not as good and then you go back

for le back to the same amount or in

between the two numbers or [ __ ] man some

people might have gone back to you know

Hov says says a rich person. I love that

the number one weapon of like money

doesn't matter. Oh says the rich person

is the number one loser [ __ ] to say in

life. I'm just going to go right at and

poke you in the heart. Loser talk. It's

just like it's weaponizing a lack of

depth like like Anyway, let's keep it

going.

>> In the coming era, organic social is a

bang on thing, but apart from building

your brand organically, what do you

think will be the highest growing asset

someone can own digitally right now,

especially with all the AI and web 2.0

buzz happening?

>> The highest asset is attention.

You know, the highest asset is

attention. The biggest asset in the

world is attention.

amassing it creates opportunity, right?

Oh, Corso says, "Pea with Gary Vee." I

could do this show from the bathroom

could be huge. Oh, this might be a good

time to announce my new show. I'm

launching a new show in 2026 called uh

uh No Whining with Gary Vee.

No whining or whining. What did I call

it?

>> Winding down.

>> Yeah, winding. No, I was thinking about

winding down, but then said no wine.

>> I like no whining, right? Where I taste

a wine. It's gonna be a mix of Ask

GaryVee, Tea with Gary Vee, and Wine

Library TV. It's going to be basically

this, but I'm also going to be drinking

a wine, reviewing that wine so that

people can uh learn it, but then really

being on like the no excuse kick.

So, anyway, I would say there's so many

things I Let me break this down for

everyone. A couple things to think about

for everyone here. One, I highly

recommend all of you focus on

self-awareness,

right? Like self-awareness.

Self-awareness. Self-awareness. What I

mean by that is so many of you should

focus on written content. So, Substack,

LinkedIn,

uh photos on Instagram with very long

written captions.

>> Audio, some people are scared of video

should be on audio, right? You know,

like as I get older with the bags under

my eyes, the comments of like, "Oh, you

look tired. Gary, you look bad. I'm

worried about you because people haven't

been seeing me a little bit. Gray bags."

For a lot of people, that cripples them,

makes them stop wanting to be on video.

I'd like you all to go through

self-esteem building and be able to go

up and persevere through that. But if

you can't, you could still make content

by doing audio,

right? You could do audio or video. So I

think for this person, you know, it it's

there's a lot of ways to attack this,

but written word, audio, and video are

all I do have a podcast. Who's the boss?

Everybody, please Google or chat GBT

Garyve podcast. It's the Gary Vee Audio

Experience. It's on Spotify and Apple.

Please subscribe. Let me know if you

subscribed to my podcast during this

show. Let me know. Let me know if you

did that. All right, let's keep it

going.

>> I'm 66.

>> 66.

>> 66. I wish I were 67.

>> Worked two jobs for 24 years. Looking

for suggestions to supplement my social

security after I retire next year in

July. Is something online really

possible for an older person?

>> Yeah, of course. I mean, live social

shopping is the answer. My number one

thing for everybody who's watching right

now as we go into 2026, I do believe the

biggest opportunity for most of you, for

the thousand of you that are watching

right now, I believe the number one

opportunity, number one opportunity

is live social shopping. Tik Tok shop,

Tik Tok affiliate, whatnot, Twitch,

uh, District, which is an app that lets

you do live shopping. I'm an enormous

fan of live shopping. This is QVC on

social media. If you know what live

shopping is, say live shopping. If you

don't know, say don't know in the chat.

I need all 10,000 of you to say it. Say

live shopping or say don't know. I need

all of you to learn this. I need all of

you to try this. For everyone who's

saying don't know, you just go into chat

GPT or Google and type in what is live

shopping? Live shopping is literally QVC

or affiliate. There Tik Tok has an

insane affiliate program. The Tik Tok

affiliate program is bananas. I highly

recommend all of you figure out Tik Tok

affiliate. This is where you literally

get product in the mail. Like my By the

way, my comic books are going to be part

of the affiliate. You guys need this.

You guys need this. Um, you need to

figure out what's going on with comics.

Let me know if you picked up a Vfriend

Friends product. The answer to that

question was for that 66 year old woman

is live shopping. Who here thinks

they're a good salesman? You've worked

retail. You've you've been a a waiter

and you were good at upselling. Who here

thinks they're a good salesman? Say

salesman. Who here thinks that they're a

good salesman and does not know what

live shopping is? Say sales but no live.

Say sales but no live in the chat. These

are the people I want to talk to right

now. Sales but no live. David Arugula,

Mary Hall, the royal family, Daniel J.

Charles. I'm about to change so many

lives right now. Every single person

that said sales but no live has to

Google and chat GPT what live shopping

is. You need to go live and start

selling on Tik Tok. Tik Tok live

shopping or on whatnot. You've got to

figure this out everybody. Danatello

says I don't want to go live. You don't

have to. Charles says what do we sell?

Anything. There's a ton of things in the

affiliate store. You can do a garage

sale. Every one of you can do a garage

sale. Now again you're like I don't know

how. just search it. Plus, we're going

to make a deck on like live shopping

101. That's a big focus of mine for

January. All right, go ahead.

>> My son grew up wanting to be a YouTuber

for his gaming. I was always very

supportive of this. He is 22 and refuses

to try the software I got him to record

his gameplay. I know he probably needs

someone to sit with him and figure out

the software and encourage him, but I'm

a woman of few words and honestly, it's

more like nagging at this point. Can you

give him a message of encouragement to

make his dream a reality?

>> Yeah, bro. Stop being a [ __ ]

You're a [ __ ] [ __ ]

I don't know what to do, Erin. I'm

trying. I don't know. Like, clearly

loving, you know, like you have to

understand like this is what the old

school like mom dad dynamics why it

created such a good earth. There's the

naturing and then there's like, you

know, like the push. Like you can't have

two parents or two mentors who both just

>> We're good. Are we still here?

Everybody, are we still here? All right.

That was weird. Um, that was

interesting. Uh, are we back?

>> Yeah.

>> Was that a phone call you got that

changed? No. Something weird

>> on the phone said We disconnected.

>> Okay, we're fine. I mean, I feel like

even Tik Tok algorithm didn't want me to

give the real advice. I feel like the

Matrix just now tried to stop me from

helping everyone. Did anybody just see

that? Like, I feel like I'm giving the

real [ __ ] and they don't want it. They

don't want it.

LIKE, WE'RE SO OVERCODDLED RIGHT now

that people don't want the like, you're

a [ __ ] is the best advice for someone

WHO'S BEEN OVERCODDLED. MOMMY'S BEEN

TRYING TO HELP YOU, DICKPACE, and you're

not doing anything about it. And to the

mom and to all the parents that are

overcodling your kids, stop.

If you've given them a year or two of

money and love and cuddling and a roof

over their head and taking care of

[ __ ] everything, cut them off.

Here's the encouragement. You're a

[ __ ] [ __ ] Get off your [ __ ] ass

cuz [ __ ] crying about it and pointing

fingers and being like, I'll never be

clicks. He got lucky or [ __ ] got lucky

or Marlin got lucky or Lacy got lucky or

Face I got lucky or I can't do it. No,

stop [ __ ] crying and [ __ ] man up.

You're [ __ ] 22 years old.

[ __ ]

Here's words of encouragement. You're a

[ __ ] [ __ ] Stop bitching.

I don't know what else to say. Like,

right, Guz. I mean, I don't know. Like,

you know, like saps robots, right? Like,

I don't know. I don't know what to say.

Like, we want people to win and like I'm

for in this scenario, I'm just following

the question. If someone if if now if

this question was like, "Hey, I've been

calling my son a [ __ ] for two years. Do

you have any words of encouragement?"

say, "Yeah, tell him you love him and

he's the best and he's capable." This is

the ying and yang.

But like, when you're all in on one

thing, overcoddling, love bombing, you

got to go to the [ __ ] in the [ __ ]

like throw him in the snow.

Go shovel some [ __ ] snow today,

you know? So, like, you got to find the

middle.

I don't know. All right, let's keep

going. On a recent podcast, you said,

"Sadness comes from insecurity," which I

really vibe with. I'm a creative

filmmaker and entrepreneur, and imposter

syndrome is really loud for me. I know

you believe that imposter syndrome is

really just insecurity. So, how do I

start becoming more secure

>> by losing more? I don't think people get

it. Like, you start getting comfortable

with by losing more and loving yourself

more. It's two extremes. Again, using a

you know how bridges pull hard from both

sides and they help you get across to

the other side. There's a real analogy

there, right? I'm trying to get people

to cross the other side. And the way I

think you do that is by two extremes. By

loving yourself unconditionally and not

putting anyone else on a pedestal. Just

you're [ __ ] good. I just need all of

you to know you're good. All of you are

awesome. Like real talk, all of you are

great. Real talk, you're great. And

you're a little [ __ ]

Like, like that's it. Like I don't

understand how this is so hard. You're

the best and you suck at most things.

That's good.

And definitely this.

So I think there's something there

trying to get people to the other side

of happiness. They need to cross the

bridge. The bridge comes from pulling

from opposite directions, right? which

is you're awesome and you suck at many

things and they can coexist. Everyone,

this is that whole black and white thing

that all of you are struggling with. If

you read this and you do it, you will

grow on social media. You will grow.

Things will happen. I I know that to be

true. Lacy, Adwan, Francisco, Michelle,

they all bought the book. Court, do you

know how positive I am that two out of

four of them are not even going to read

it? Mhm.

>> People think buying it is the action.

Then some of them are going to buy it

and read it. And then you know how many

are not going to do anything with the

information? Four out of five.

Now what?

That person has to make fun of

themselves.

How many of you are the classic do all

the things except the real thing? like

you buy all the right equipment,

but like so many of you do that, right?

Like you do the checkbox, you posture

that you're about it, but you're not

about it. You write entrepreneur

in your title of your Instagram, but

you're not an entrepreneur. You talk

about going hard, but you know that God

knows that you don't. How many of you,

let's call ourselves out this morning.

How many of you are full of [ __ ] Say

full of [ __ ] in the chat. You posture to

make everyone think you're about that

life, but you're not. Don't say me. Say

full of [ __ ] I need you to own it. Now,

I need all of you that say this. Yeah.

And I blame my age ADHD. I'm ADHD.

All right. It looks like you can't say

full of [ __ ] Probably in the chat. It's

probably So FOS. Everyone say FOS. YOU

POSTURE. YOU TALK ABOUT IT. You look the

part. You FOS.

This is step one, y'all. Look at all

these FOSs, man. And they all know it.

This is the world. Now, here's the key.

FOS's. FOS's.

You don't don't be sad. Don't be mad. If

you're FOS, I need to know how old you

are. FOS's. Uh, what's FOS? Full of

[ __ ] YOU POSTURE. YOU BUY ALL THE

EQUIPMENT. YOU BOUGHT HOW MANY PEOPLE

JUST Here's a big one. I need you to say

me with like a bunch of exclamation

points. I need this so bad. Josh, it

might be you. Carrie, it might be you.

Rush Power, it might be you. How many of

you just bought this book and you know

you're not going to read it? I need it.

Say me with all caps and across the

board. Say me with all the way. I need

it. How many of you just bought the book

and you know you're not going to read

it. That's the foss's,

right? That's it.

How many of you have hired the trainer

or pay for a fitness thing and don't

live that life?

>> Runners is a big one.

>> Runners are huge. They get the nice

sneakers.

Like people people live that life. So

enough.

But don't beat yourself up. It's hard.

Being disciplined is hard.

Being disciplined is hard. How many of

you were very disciplined in one part of

your life and very not disciplined in

another? That's everyone, right? We all

know. Everybody just raised their hand

here. The whole crew. Aaron did. Ragav

did. Braden did. Naa, Courtney, and

Train. All of us did it. All of us did

it. Me, too. I tried to eat discipline

this weekend. Lost all three days. I'm

like, I'm going to kill Friday,

SATURDAY, SUNDAY. LOST ALL THREE. Over

three.

Over three.

Not even on bad weekends, I'm like one

for three, two for three. Like when over

three, I'm like, I'm gonna crush over

for three.

I get it. The reason I can talk about

this is cuz I get it. We all get it. But

I'm telling y'all, you got to fight. If

you're unhappy, you got to fight. If

you're unhappy, you got to fight. All

right. Next question.

>> I know that you talk about how much your

mother's support meant to you. If you

could envision that your mom had been

strongly opposed to you starting your

own company, your adventures, what would

you have done to overcome that?

>> I would have built that company and

stuck it to her face.

My mom is my hero and she pushed back on

me on a lot of things and I stuck it to

her. She pushed back on me on school. My

mom grounded my ass every single report

card and progress report.

By the way, when I talk about my mom and

dad the way I talk about them, I have a

funny feeling for the people that are

hardcore that follow me, they have the

script confused.

You don't think my mom, my dad did

unlimited things wrong, and my mom did

some things wrong. I just choose not to

dwell on it or talk about it. I don't

empower the things they did wrong. I

empower the things they did right.

Uhoh.

Some of the hardcore Gary Vee fans

who've been using well Gary had a good

mom as the excuse to why not might have

just got caught.

I live my truth. I focus on good.

What would I have done? I would have

built a huge [ __ ] business in her

mouth and said, "Now what, [ __ ]

I've done

Eric said caught. Yeah, Eric. Like a lot

of you have chosen to say, "Well, Gary

got lucky that he had a good mom and he

came from little, so that made him

unstoppable." No, no. Gary has chosen

dwelling on what my parents did wrong or

what was done wrong to me. In my little

inner family, my brother, my sister, my

parents,

most of those people feel bad for me.

They know

a lot more than you all know.

I just Yeah, Katie. What? No way. They

feel bad because my parents feel bad

that they child labored me and broke my

back and I had all these physical

issues. They feel bad because they held

me to a standard that they didn't to my

other siblings.

like they feel bad that I'm the

emotional and financial stability of

like Yeah.

Here's the secret though. I don't feel

bad for me.

I like being a gangster.

I like taking the last shot and missing

and having the whole crowd boo me. I

like your judgment.

I like your judgment. That's the thing

that I always uh laugh about is people

that want to hate and troll don't

realize that that makes me happier.

I feel so bad for my haters.

It man, I would hate to be a Gary Vee

hater. If they knew how much juice that

gives me and how happy I get, it would

break their [ __ ] little soft insecure

heart.

It would break their little [ __ ] soft

ass [ __ ] soul.

It would hurt them. They feed me. So

that's it. That's it. That's the game.

And I believe everyone can get there.

I believe it's crazy what I actually

believe. I know this. Zachary, thank you

so much. M actually how many people have

met me in real life? Said, "Met you in

2018. great guy. I You know what's so

funny? I have such a nice persona and

then I still stun people in real life

because you're able to be more like, you

know, like let's keep going. Next

question.

>> I've built my business to 6 million

followers on Tik Tok and 1 billion

views. And now I want to build my

personal brand, but I'm a turn between

the expectations I grew up with and the

person I know I'm becoming. I come from

a very traditional Mexican Catholic

family in a small town where being

silly, loud, or saying bad words is

considered disrespectful. Two questions.

Should I separate my personal account

from my business one? And how do I

handle the fear that my family or people

from my hometown will judge me?

>> You can separate your accounts now.

Everything's about the individual piece

of content. So, I'm not scared with

people creating separate accounts to

separate. I'm also not scared for you to

blend it in your business account. Both

work. Uh the sec if you do a separate

account at first, the views will be

smaller, but you can still make content

that gets millions of views. That's

amazing. As far as judgment, my friend,

you're being judged. Now,

for everybody who's scared to jump like

this gentleman Gilbert, I've got a crazy

one for you. I got a crazy I've got a

truth bomb

that's going to blow your face off.

Finally, third time's a charm. All

right, here's a secret that's gonna This

is actually I'm actually about to change

many people's lives right here on the

spot. I've never said this out loud.

For everyone who's scared

to be judged by the conservative and

fearful and reserved and classic in your

friend group, your family, your

neighbors, and it sounds like this whole

town. I've got a secret for you. You are

actually being judged currently. The one

to 3% that are winners are judging you

for being a puss.

So, most of you right now are scared

because you don't want to be judged by

the 97% that are scared and

conservative, but you're silently being

judged by winners for being a [ __ ] and

having it.

I judge, and I try not to judge, but I

judge. I don't really judge. It's so

funny. I tried to force it. I It's the

greatest gift I I don't [ __ ] judge.

It's such a [ __ ] gift. I AM SO

BLESSED. I IT'S SO FUNNY. I COULDN'T

even hold that.

>> I don't know how to judge. The truth is

I am desperately sad and empathetic and

sympathetic and sad for those that I see

are winners who aren't jumping. You

could call that a version of judgment.

My friends, you're being judged. You're

just being judged by winners.

I know, Jennifer, right? That was a game

changer. I've never I KNOW THAT'S A WAS

THAT A [ __ ] BOMB?

>> Holy [ __ ]

>> You're scared because you're being

judged by the conservative and the

losing. And you're like, "Oh my god, my

judgment."

>> And meanwhile, the silent winners of the

world are judging you for being a [ __ ]

Oh my god,

that is so big. Holy [ __ ] that's big.

We are actually being judged by the

winners and the greats. Yeah, Katie,

right? That is a dang.

Everyone's scared to jump and be their

true selves because they're scared of

the judgment of the losing.

And yet they don't know it because the

winners aren't telling you. Losers are

telling you because misery loves

company. Winners are just [ __ ]

cooking because they're focused on their

own [ __ ] and building. They don't have

time to tell you.

I can't believe that just happened. That

is like a crazy secret.

Holy [ __ ]

Whose life just completely ch who was

just like [ __ ] I'm a LITTLE BIT LIKE

[ __ ] I never put it to words. Holy

[ __ ] That's a big deal. [ __ ] me. That

is such a problem. Holy [ __ ] That is

such a big deal. You're always being

judged regardless, but you're not going

to live your happiness and your joy and

your winning because you're valuing the

judgment of the loud losing.

And you didn't realize that the silent

winning is judging you even more. Holy

[ __ ]

You stay being judged, my friends. Now

the question is, who do you want to be

judged by? Did someone's brain just

break? You court you. You got hit by

that. It's a good one, right?

>> H

cooking this morning. Wow, that was big,

man.

That was real. Let's keep it going. I

judge myself sometime, friends. When you

judge yourself, you've been instilled

judgment by others and you think it's

you. You're not judging yourself. All of

you naturally love yourself. This is

wild. Here's another one. Who here shits

on themselves and judges themsel? Who's

relationship here? Ah, I need everybody.

I need everybody. I need absolutely all

1300 of you. We're all answering. Ready?

Here we go.

If 100% is where I I feel like I'm 95 to

100. If 95 to 100% is full love of

yourself, FULL SUPPORT OF YOURSELF, BUT

holding yourself accountable, you got

this incredible balance. You're not like

[ __ ] delusional and narcissistic and

egoed out. You got this nice balance. If

100% is 100, and 0% is like you you

dislike yourself so much, you're ready

to be take yourself out. Like the worst

of the worst, what percentage are you

this morning? I need to know where are

you right now. Gary was handed $3

million wine business yet claims to be

like us. I wasn't handed anything. I

never owned that business. I don't own

that business. In fact, my dad had a $3

million a year revenue business that

made $100,000 in profit and I built out

the 65 million for him. Left, started

Vayner Media in a conference room of

another company because I didn't have

enough money to have rent. I was that

broke at 34. I don't claim to be just

like you. I claim to be better than you,

dick face.

>> Cuz I built something for MY DAD CUZ I

HAD IT LIKE that and I knew I was a

[ __ ] gangster and I knew at 34 I

could start from [ __ ] dead zero after

giving 12 years of my life to my family.

I don't claim to be like you. I'm better

than you, [ __ ]

>> You claim to come up with an excuse that

isn't true. How about that,

>> dick face?

>> Now what, [ __ ]

>> You like that trait? And I still got

love for that person. I'm not even mad

at them. I'm just tired of people coming

up with excuses. I didn't get handed

[ __ ] I [ __ ] built a business for my

father and mother because I loved them

so much. Left with nothing.

Real talk. Why do you think I tell all

of you that I think you can do it at 34

after [ __ ] bleeding and breaking my

back and working 100 hours a week for 12

years straight and giving up my entire

20s and all that?

Yeah. Okay. Get your [ __ ] history

right if you got something to say.

Um, all right. Going back to the

percentages. I need percentages, y'all.

I need percentages.

I need percentages. I know the

explanation is not necessarily sock, but

a lot of people here don't know who I

am. And a lot of people feed into

excuses and they need them.

They need them. I am the bubble hockey

guy. I can All right, for everybody in

under 50%. I'm telling you right now, of

course, Raj, I'm reading the chat. I

need all of you. I need all of you to

hear this. I need all of you to hear

this. If you're under 50% in your love

towards yourself, you need to know that

that judgment was put inside of you. If

you [ __ ] on yourself, who here shits on

themselves, say poop in the chat. Who

here shits on themselves? Say poop in

the chat. Say poop.

Okay, for all of you, you need to know

it's not you [ __ ] on yourself. You

love yourself. You just believed someone

who was judging you and took it as your

own. Often a parent, sometimes a

sibling, sometimes a random friend.

You've got to get good with this. Next

question.

>> How do you pursue projects to discover

your passion when you have to work a

full-time job you don't really like? I

currently take care of and support two

of my younger siblings. Can't afford to

work less hours, but never seem to have

the time or energy to work on projects

that might get me out of my job that I

don't like.

>> 9:00 p.m. to 12. That's the big takeaway

here. This is going to be a platform I'm

going to play on next year. 9:00 p.m. to

12:00 p.m. is your time. And if someone

says, "I'm too tired." Well, then then

that's that. Then live in it. How many

people here are living in this room? And

then everyone, say me, how many people

here are living doing certain things

that they wish they weren't, but they

feel obligated for family reasons or

just living a life? Who feels obligated?

Say me. Me.

Okay, I have a funny feeling every

single person's gonna say me. There's

not one person on earth.

>> There's not a single It's called being

grown. It's called you're not seven

anymore. And even that, [ __ ] man. I

LIVED THAT. THAT'S WHY I GOT COMFORTABLE

with it. I hated school. I [ __ ] You

know why I'm why I'm ready for life? Cuz

I hated school. I lived my whole

childhood waking up Monday morning be

like this Monday. Well, this Monday back

in the day I was pumped because I was

like Christmas [ __ ] break's a week

away, [ __ ] you know. But like,

man, the Monday that's coming up on the

back end of Christmas break, Monday,

January 7th. Shoot me. I was like, [ __ ]

this.

What is this? Of course you don't have

time. Of course you're taking care of

siblings. You're a normal human being

that has responsibilities. Who here has

no responsibilities?

Who here in the chat has no

responsibilities? Say no. And you know

what's funny? Someone who has no

responsibilities as a grown-up is the

most depressed

because their mom and dad are taking

everything for them and they feel like

losers. What are we talking about in

here, friends? Life is about enjoying

the unenjoyable.

Life is about enjoying the unenjoyable.

feel pride in what you do for everyone

else. 900 PM to 12 in the morning is not

enjoyable for most to get out of it. But

that's what this is about. Get out of it

by using social media. We got lucky.

Your grandma was stuck. YOUR GRANDPA WAS

STUCK. THEY DIDN'T HAVE THE INTERNET.

THEY DIDN'T HAVE SOCIAL MEDIA. You

[ __ ] CAN MAKE ONE VIDEO AT

10:15 TOMORROW NIGHT THAT changes the

course of your life.

We have nothing to complain about. If

you're ON [ __ ] TIKTOK AT 10:16 IN THE

MORNING WATCHING MY ASS, YOU NEED TO

SHUT THE [ __ ] UP.

I can't be doing this.

I can't be doing this. I can't do what

all 1300 of you are doing right now. I

can't just watch some random [ __ ]

dude at 10:16 on a weekday for enjoyment

or value. I don't live that life. I

haven't done that [ __ ] since I was

[ __ ] 18.

So, you're [ __ ] good. You won. I

don't know what the [ __ ] you're DOING

RIGHT NOW, BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW THE [ __ ]

YOU'RE doing it. You won. You have a

smartphone. Yeah, motherhood. Damn is

right. You're winning, man. I'm pumped.

Who's pumped this morning? Are you like,

do you understand how good this is?

Andrew says, "I'm watching this at

work." Yeah, but you're not working.

You're watching this. I know where the

[ __ ] you are. I ain't crashing out, B.

I'm getting hyped. Like, I'm watching

this at work. No [ __ ] But when I work,

I work. I don't watch [ __ ] Gary Vee

on TikTok.

Yeah, you guys are winning.

You guys are winning.

Today is one of the biggest

opportunities of all time in your life

to change your life. And thank you for

being with me this morning. I am

desperate out here. I'm going into

desperation in my 50s. I decided 50 to

60. I'm going desperate. I'm desperate

for all of you to figure out this is

real. I can't believe this shit's real.

I can't believe how life is so good. I

can't believe live shopping is here. You

could sell How many of you have dumb

[ __ ] in your house? How many of you have

a bunch of dumb [ __ ] in your house that

you don't need anymore? Clothes,

electronics. Who's got dumb [ __ ] Sell

it

on on an auction site or here like live

shopping. THIS, BY THE WAY, YOU DON'T

WANT TO BUY THIS pinned garyve.

Attention. Gary, you going to be in more

movies like Tron? I might, Joel. I might

become a huge actor. By the way, with AI

coming, I think I'm going to be a huge

rapper. I think AI music is going to be

for every I think everyone's going to be

in the music business with the way AI is

going. And I have a funny feeling my

words translate. I don't know what I'm

going to do, but I'm going to do it.

Oh, I like that. Right. I don't know

what I'm going to do, but I'm going to

do it. That's good. I've never said that

before either. I have no clue where like

if you think I thought I was going to

act, I didn't. But I'm going to do

everything cuz why not? What are we

doing out here?

We have it so good. And yet everybody

wants to think it's so bad. I want to do

standup comedy. I agree. Minded mood.

You know what's funny? I'm I have a good

sense of humor and I'm very good at

improv. I think there's a lot of work

for me to be good at standup. Like doing

jokes. I'm not sure. I got to really

think it through. When I give keynotes,

I can like mix it in. And I've got

tendencies. I've got standup tendencies,

but I don't have standup discipline.

Yeah. Yeah. Like, you got to really work

at it. But I might do some standup. I

don't know. All I know is that you guys,

life is good. And you got it good. Alina

says you'll get better. You're damn

right I will. I [ __ ] pumped out 70s

this weekend on the [ __ ] flatbench

70s five times and [ __ ] dominated it.

That's a nice number.

>> Right. You guys are bigger. Like, what

do you do?

>> That's what I'm doing right now.

>> What do you do?

>> Yeah. Well, your chest looks humongous.

Like, right.

>> Yeah, bro. I'm [ __ ] And like [ __ ]

seven years ago, like 25s, I was dead.

>> Yeah, man. I had no muscles. Like, you

[ __ ] put in work. Like, and that [ __ ]

doesn't come natural to me. And I'm not

naturally built for it. You You're

naturally thicker than I am. It's hard.

Like, I'm thin as [ __ ] I don't have the

natural [ __ ] chest. You came out the

womb with a [ __ ] chest train. All

right, let's keep going.

>> I saw your recent post about social

shopping. Is it really realistic to make

that kind of money you said? And what is

the best way to start? You're the best,

Gary.

>> The best way to start is to find

something to sell and to go live and do

it. It's [ __ ] real, man. Live

shopping is going to be massive. All of

you are going to be super pumped. Lando,

big shout out to you. You're all going

to be super pumped. I remember listening

to you on Uber Eats seven years ago, Mr.

Beats. Thank you. Like, this is real.

All of you, all of you can do this. Uh,

the book's available in Asia Pursue

Grace. Uh, Samantha French, thank you.

I'm telling all of you, you can all do

this. You can all do this. Live shopping

is going to be a monster. Live shopping

is a huge opportunity in 26,27. But it

takes discipline.

It takes work. It's, you know, it's

there, but it's hard. But every friends,

every single thing that is worth it is

hard. Love is hard. Relationships is

hard.

Being healthy and strong is hard. Making

money is hard.

We have to [ __ ] fall in love with

hard.

How the [ __ ] do we not understand this?

Go ahead.

>> I was [ __ ] over by my mom about the

inheritance of our apartments. All my

plans of having passive income are

crushed. I'm 37. How do I recover from

this knockdown?

>> Easy. Take that anger and despair

and negativity and turn it into positive

fuel. Hold no resentment towards mom.

Move on and just go cook. You're a grown

ass man.

Being mad about something you didn't

even earn is some crazy ass [ __ ] So,

THIS IS ON VIDEO FOREVER. Anyone who

cries and [ __ ] and moans and

complains about inheritance is a [ __ ]

[ __ ]

Crying and complaining about something

you didn't even earn.

What do I see you need to do? Man the

[ __ ] up. You're 37 and you're a kid.

You could do this. [ __ ] do whatever

the person that was going to leave you

then. I I can't tell if it was the

grandpa or the grandma or the mom. I

don't know the details here. Do what the

person that [ __ ] earned that real

estate did and earn your own [ __ ] Rely

on no one but yourself.

Are you serious? People People crying

and mad at people for inheritance.

Are we really at that place where we're

crying and mad at people for some [ __ ]

we didn't even do?

I need to be yelled at every morning

like this. Healing peace. Thank you. I'm

not even like I'm just You know what's

so funny? No. And you know me. What's

the person's name?

>> Johnny.

>> Johnny. Johnny. No judgment.

I'm not mad at you. I don't think you're

a loser. That was me giving love. That

was love. Johnny, how you crying? Like

if Johnny was my best friend. Get over

here, Ra. Just get over here. I'll just

reenact. If Johnny was my best friend

and we were just we're just hanging and

you were like cry about it. Be like,

"Damn, my mom.

>> Oh my god. Yeah. Like, dude, I'd be

like, "Dude, you didn't earn that [ __ ]

anyway, Johnny.

>> Why the [ __ ] were you entitled to that

in the first place? You got this, bro.

You could do this [ __ ]

>> [ __ ] that [ __ ] Stop crying."

>> All right.

>> All right, bro. Good. That's it. Like,

what are we talking about? We're crying

about [ __ ] that we didn't even earn.

That's some [ __ ] [ __ ]

That's some [ __ ] [ __ ] One more

question.

>> I'm 31 years old. I work a comfy

corporate job that I don't mind.

>> How old? 31

>> young.

>> Um, a great pay and benefits, but I am

very lit up and passionate about real

estate investing. I want to do that

full-time. It's not even about the money

for me. I just love it. I have a three

unit rental property and have

successfully flipped one house that made

me 30k. Wow.

>> I'm about to flip another one. How do I

know when to make the quit my job?

>> Now you're 31. You could go back and get

a cushy job in the future if you fail.

Friends, you can always get another job.

I know everyone's trying to scare you

and say AI is taking every job. AI is

not taking every job. People that use AI

are taking every job. Just like people

that used the computer in the 80s and

90s became more valuable employees than

ones that didn't. Could you imagine

trying to be an employee in a company

right now where you don't use a

computer?

How about the people that took jobs in

the late 90s, early 2000s? People that

use the computer and the internet. Could

you imagine the audacity to walk into

here at Vayner on my team and say you

don't use a computer? Next, you use a

computer, but you don't use the

internet.

How about next the mobile device? How

about what do you think would happen if

you came here and said, "I want to work

with you. You know how we work, but I

don't use mobile devices." How do you

think that would work?

That's all AI is doing, at least in the

short term. AI is pretty big. There's

more to come, but

you can always get another [ __ ] job.

She's ready. You know, a lot of people

dream. She acted. She's already sold and

made a 30k profit. She's got another one

brewing. She's 31. She needs to jump

yesterday. She needs to quit today. Her

res resignation needs to happen now.

Everybody, I am jumping off right now.

You never miss one of these shows. I

don't want you miss. I'm going crazy in

2026. We're going to be doing this every

time I'm in New York in the morning. I'm

going to be midday streams. I got this

no whining with Gary Vee wine show in

the evening. I'm going crazy on live

streaming in 26. Say it. Bye.