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Previously on Before the 90 Days.

Look at you in pink, like a peach on a windowsill.

I just met my husband for the first time ever. And we're off to our honeymoon.

You heavy.

But Jabon has been talking to this woman that he used to have feelings for.

So that's why we have to figure out the next few weeks.

Three.

We should fix this area here.

We call it abdominoplasty, but in public it's called tongue tuck.

It kind of surprised me, but it's not a problem for me.

You have nothing to be embarrassed.

And you are gorgeous.

I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him that, yeah, he

love me.

I'm really sorry to hurt you, but different now because I see who you are.

feel everything happens in my life.

Here she is going through all these things, and instead of being there for

I went to Columbia to see my ex.

Very much, we talking, and one day, we just go away.

I was just going through a bad breakup.

Right now, I see like she hiding a lot of things.

I can't be engaged with someone who has this secret.

You lied about the fact that you've been married to women several times. Well,

I'm going to come clean on this trip. I'm not going to accept the marriage

proposal until we have this conversation.

What are you doing?

How are you?

Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents

how it's important that I meet them before Mom and Dad meet them.

My fear is Forrest is going to say and do anything just to keep your love.

If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena, who's to say they can't

manipulate Forrest?

They're going to have you snookered before you even realize it, Forrest.

Oh, my God.

I came here for an engagement. I just wasn't expecting it to be in the first

minutes. I had so many other things in my head going on.

I don't want to say yes because I have to tell him my secrets.

Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I have been married

five times and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.

I don't know what to do.

Oh, my God, you're my fiance.

Oh, come on.

How long were you planning this?

Almost six months now.

Six months? That's when we met.

You wanted it for six months?

Yeah.

You are a fast one. Of course.

I don't have to be slow because I know it's going to work. So why should I be

slow then?

Okay.

So you're sure?

I'm sure because you're a mess for me.

Remember what I used to call you?

My God -given gifts.

Thank

you

very much.

God bless you.

And I'm like, oh, my God.

I just hope he doesn't change his mind.

That was unbelievable.

That was unbelievable.

Hey. Good morning.

Good morning.

How are you?

Perfect. Yeah.

It was a nice night.

Yeah? Yeah.

You know, I feel like I am on the cloud.

Also, I'm wasted.

What?

I was really emotional after the surgical consultation yesterday, but

made me feel beautiful.

And when we got home, he definitely showed me that he is physically

me multiple times.

You're on the clouds, but you're wasted. I don't understand that.

Because of happiness, and I'm feeling tired.

Yeah, it's a good combo.

Okay. The sexual chemistry, pretty great. But I do think that it does take

little bit of time to learn a person's preferences.

I feel like he's a little more vanilla and I'm a little more spice.

That's because I didn't have sex in the last four years, maybe.

You're a little sexy.

But... This whole track still works.

True. Plus, he's pretty blessed down there.

I think I'm going to make the coffee.

All right, I'll get ready.

Okay.

I'm so glad we're doing this.

Yeah.

Amazing. I just love this building.

This is so old. It's ancient, actually. Not old. It's ancient.

Oh, my gosh.

This is amazing. Yeah, it is.

My God.

This is part of the history, actually. Why don't we sit here?

Okay.

Like really just kind of mesmerizing about this? Yeah.

It is the Sufi Islam meditating text.

One hand is up and the other hand is down because upside of the

hand getting something from the God, the other hand is giving

death to earth.

Oh, so beautiful.

Watching the whirling dervishes perform with Birkan is a really cool experience.

And I love that he's taking time to make sure that I understand.

That's a really attractive quality that he has.

Thank you. Thank you.

It looks so good. What did you order for us?

It's kebab. This one is the menemen made of tomatoes, eggs.

You like? Yeah, it's really good.

It's nice to have time like this to get to know each other better.

Yeah, quality time.

I want to get to know everything about you.

Why are you wondering?

I can tell you everything.

So, you were living here, and then you moved.

Yeah. I feel like I got bits and pieces through, like, text, but I don't really

know.

Like the full story, what's going on.

So I went to Istanbul, but I couldn't find a

job. So I came back again without a place to stay.

And my debts and my jobless situation, I just, I am broke.

Did you say you're dead?

Yeah.

How much is it?

I don't want to give you a heart attack.

Estimately, I think 50K.

Turkish lira, that's what, 1 ,500 bucks? I hope it wasn't Turkish lira.

So, 50K in U .S. dollars?

Okay.

I did not know any of this.

It's not a big deal.

No. It's not?

50 ,000 U .S. dollars.

That's a lot of money.

It feels like a little bit of a betrayal because he wasn't forthright in our

online conversations about this debt.

It is a giant concern and a huge red flag.

I'm absolutely shocked.

Okay, Javon.

So we're going to start with Inangat.

That's a lot of chilies.

Come on, be a man.

All right.

I don't want my wife to think I'm a punk, that I can't handle, like, a

bit of spicy foods.

Did you finish?

Almost. We have to go to meet all my friends.

I know.

You're so disrespectful.

How am I disrespectful? You are every day. But I'm not going to let you stay

live.

What happened?

Oh, God.

Tired?

Really?

Last night, I arrived in the Philippines, and waking up next to

my wife, Anna Lynn, for the first time on our honeymoon, it's so surreal. Like,

I get to actually...

Cuddle with her and smell her morning breath.

So, how did you sleep last night?

Oh, we didn't get much sleep last night.

Yes, we made love.

Was it good, though?

Oh, my God, you hit a long -ass pause.

It is good.

Okay, well, why did you just say that in the beginning? Because I also think of

the same question I was thinking to myself.

How do you feel about that?

I ain't got no complaints, none.

Yeah, that's right. Yeah.

Breakfast is over, so you feeling lunch?

Yeah.

You have a spicy night with your spicy wife, so I'm going to take you for a

spicy lunch.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Hello. Hello.

I actually grew up in Bicol, but I moved when I was a teenager.

And I've been really excited to show Dubon my culture.

Would you like to sit down here, please? You can wait.

Just wait on me.

I'm taking Javon for lunch today to a local eatery that makes a real authentic

Bicolano dishes.

Okay, Javon.

So we're going to start with inangat, with taro leaves.

Shall we?

All right.

Bicolano love spicy food.

I'm not really content if I don't have any chopped chilies on my plate.

We even put chili on ice cream.

I'm going to try it with the chilies. If it's too much, I'll let you know.

Cheers. Oh, that's really big, boo. I know. Let me take baby step. Yeah. All

right. You can do it. I know you can.

Most of the American food that I know, it's more blonde in my taste. So I don't

know if you will be able to handle the heat.

So,

what

do you think? I like this.

I don't want my wife to think I'm a punk, that I can't handle, like, a

bit of spicy food.

But inside, I'm definitely burning up.

Ready?

Level two.

That's a lot of chilies.

Come on, Jabon, be a man.

All right.

Okay.

Oh, God. Okay.

I feel this one in my... I feel this one in my chest.

My mouth is on fire. My stomach is struggling.

I hope all the food here isn't like this.

Because I don't want to spend too much time by the toilet blowing it up.

You want me to order more? No, I'm good, I'm good, I'm good.

So, you know, because of Bicolanos being known for spicy food,

they say that, you know, Bicolanos are just hot.

Like hot in what way? You found it out last night.

Oh.

Yeah.

And if we're lucky enough, just the one night and it's bullseye.

Like, what do you mean?

Maybe if I'm pregnant?

Yeah.

We talked about this way before he came down here.

And we agreed that we might get pregnant on this trip.

I feel like I always have a maternal instinct in me.

And I'm almost 40, so it's not like I'm getting younger.

So, hypothetically, if I get pregnant, how do you think is this going to...

Affect us?

Yeah.

If you got pregnant, you know, I'll do everything in my power to be here with

you. So, you know, boo, whatever it takes.

There's no way that you're going to be over here with my kid and then I'm back

home.

So it's like since you're going to have a kid, suddenly you can easily

find a way to come here whenever.

Wow, you love our kid more than me.

I sometimes feel like my wife's mood suddenly changes at the drop of a hat.

I mean, I thought I was saying something positive.

But she twists my words around like I don't want to spend time with her.

Like, you're capable of this and that when I'm pregnant.

But when I'm not pregnant, why did it take years for you to come visit me in

Philippines?

It seems to me like you're saying it's all just going to be for the baby.

Does that not sound a little just out there? You flipped it and made it about

you.

Instead of the baby.

Don't give me that.

This is a prime example of the way she goes from zero to 100 real quick.

I definitely feel like I'm walking on eggshells a lot because I sometimes feel

like she's looking for problems.

It almost feels like you can't 100 % be yourself without the other person

getting upset.

And that needs to change.

Will we get there? I do not know.

But for the sake of our marriage, I hope so.

Emma. Yes?

Did you finish?

Almost. We have to go to meet with my friend.

I know. I'm almost done.

You look so great. Why do you need all this makeup?

I just need to touch up a little.

I need to bronze my boobs.

How you can't stay one hour behind the mirror?

It's like two hours.

Okay.

This is so cute.

Yeah.

Hello.

Hi.

Hi, how are you? I'm Emma. Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you.

Hi.

Hi.

This is nice.

I definitely think that this is showing some progress in our relationship, that

I'm meeting Zia's friends tonight.

Thank you.

I'm going to take, like, grape and chocolate.

I guess just the cappuccino?

I was upset about not meeting his family, but I'm starting to feel a

special in this moment that he's willing to introduce me to other people in his

everyday life.

And, you know, hopefully I'll get the opportunity to do a little bit of

and get to the bottom of who Ziad really is.

Thank you.

Good, how are you?

I'm so happy that you are with my friends.

Aw, thank you. So do all three of you guys, like, hang out all the time?

Are you besties? Yeah, most of the time.

Has he said anything about me?

Yes. Yeah, he told me that I meet a beautiful girl from the US.

And, yeah.

Why did you choose the app?

Well, we met on the dating app. Yeah.

And when we first started talking, he was, like, so sweet and just genuinely

kind to me.

Like, he would text me every day. He would call me every single day. He was

calling me his wife within, like, 10 minutes of us talking.

And I just, like, fell for him really quickly, so.

It was like an instant connection.

He asked me,

for example, when we will go out and you take some clothes, like open

here. You know what I'm saying?

Because we are in a minute. What are you going to do?

Okay, can I just say one thing?

I asked him a million questions before I got here.

For example, I would say, when I come there, can I wear whatever I want?

He's like, yeah, you can wear whatever you want here. People wear clothes like

it's Europe.

But people in old minutes play conservative.

Yeah, but you didn't tell me that until I got here. Why wouldn't you say? I

don't know. I didn't know we will be together in the middle.

Yeah, but you could have said certain places.

You can wear whatever you want, but not everywhere.

He had lied.

I feel like he was saying different things to me online and in person.

It's just a lack of communication.

Lack of communication on his end. He lied about something.

What did I lie about?

Okay, the difference between Ziyad and I.

Everything I've said. I know, but I'm speaking.

Everything I've said. I do respect you, but I'm disrespectful.

How am I disrespectful?

I think you're disrespectful.

You are, you are, you are. I think you're disrespectful.

Listen, I make a lot of effort just to find what I'm not someone who is.

Perfect in English.

I know.

And you stopped me. It's like I forget everything, so.

But I'm not going to let you stay live.

What have I lied about?

What happened?

Why you were in a relationship with someone else at the same time when you

talking to the end?

It wasn't. No, no, no, just liar. Something liar. I'm not a liar.

We were broken up when I met him. You're a liar.

Oh, immediately.

I can't be with someone, for example.

In the same time, I'm taken with a girl. But you're on dating app.

Not only were you on dating app, but you were actually talking to girls.

Messaging them.

You were telling girls, come to Morocco.

You know what we probably should bring here?

What? My banana hammock.

Today we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their

blessing, to be married. No banana hammock for us. I put it back.

Well, this is something you didn't tell me about. Wait, stop.

Can you just calm down? You've been holding this secret for, what, four

now?

Now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days directly has to do with her

That looks very suspicious to me. Why would you keep that from me?

My first day with Trish had its ups and downs.

We did clear the air about her ghosting me for five days, and it made me feel

better. But I'm not quite ready to tell her what happened in Columbia yet.

I'm starting to feel closer to her, and I don't want to lose this feeling.

I don't see what the problem was with... Trish told me that she's very sexually

open -minded, and she let me know that she's, you know, a female

ejaculator.

When she gets excited, she can make quite a mess.

So I came prepared with a little protection for the bed.

So we can get in charge for the sheets, you know.

Oh.

What?

Oh, my God.

This is what I like to call a splash pad.

I know he bought that for me because I sent him a sexual video of me.

And he liked it.

But it doesn't seem like something to put on the bed.

It's like garbage bag.

I was doing it as a surprise to show you that I was ready to go all the way with

pleasing you.

But this is so stupid.

Seriously?

So are you going to pay for the damages to the mattress?

It's horrible.

Even though Trish didn't go for the splash pad, we both were satisfied last

night. I'm feeling like she could really be the one.

But, you know, I feel like Trish didn't give it a fair shot.

Which is disappointing because they're $50.

Pretty expensive for a piece of plastic, you know.

Well, I mean, you only have yourself to blame for that because you lied to me.

No, I didn't lie to you. Well, you kept it from me. You kept it from me.

Trish and I were about to go to dinner when all of a sudden Trish was telling

that her motorcycle was about to get dropped off and that it got fixed.

I assumed it would be dropped off by a mechanic, but as it turns out, it was

ex -boyfriend's friend.

Rick, stop, please.

This is something you didn't tell me about.

Trish and this guy are going on and on in Malagasy, and I don't know what the

hell they're saying.

So I started asking all these questions, and he spoke some English.

So I asked her if she was still in contact with her ex.

He's saying that they saw each other about four months ago.

At that point, we were supposed to be exclusive.

Why would you keep that from me?

You've been holding this secret for, what, four months now?

It was not really important.

That looks very suspicious to me. I'm just telling you.

Something more must have happened with your ex. I think you would have said

something to me if nothing happened.

Rick, I didn't lie to you.

I'm ready to go.

Can you just calm down, please?

I'm calm and cool. Your reaction, like, oh, well, well, well. I'm calm and cool

and collected.

I just wanted to get my bike back, and I didn't expect it to turn into the whole

thing.

Rick found out that I saw my ex, and I don't know how to tell Rick the whole

story. And I'm scared.

This one is for you, Aviva.

The sex good and the vibe good.

Would I breathe your soft wood?

So you like my guy, huh?

You're aware of what happened to him in the past, eh?

Girlfriend from Texas.

If I said that he could've overreacted, I'm lying.

Wicked!

Hi. Hi.

I love you, babe. I'm

glad

we can

actually be physical.

Like in real life.

I know. I like the lingerie. Yeah.

I like it better when it was off.

Jake and I did have a long night.

I definitely think us being intimate made us a lot closer.

It did feel really good waking up next to him.

You thought we made a baby last night?

Mm -hmm.

We'll see.

Last night... He didn't want to use protection, and he knows I'm not on

control, so I guess we're not trying to have a baby.

I know it seems a little crazy and super soon, but I want a family, and

I would love to have little baby sticks.

He would make a great dad.

Enjoy making love with you.

Mm -hmm.

It didn't feel like just sex. I'm hooking up with a girl. It really felt

That's good.

I'm just going to go with the flow.

If she want to go all the way, we're going to go all the way. If she don't

to use protection, we ain't going to use no protection.

She's fine.

Bruh, we got to enjoy this to the fullest.

You want to see me in action today?

You saw me in action last night. I don't mean it like that. I don't mean it like

that. Different type of action? Okay, okay.

So, I want to take you to the studio.

Have you seen what I do and how I do it?

And the guys want to meet you.

They want to chat to you.

And after that, I have a show tomorrow. So we're going to hop on a boat.

We're going to go to the island.

I had a great night with Stig.

Everything's going super well.

And although I'm wishing I had a little bit more alone time with Stig first, if

I plan on starting a life with a Belizean music star, I have to be able

handle the lifestyle.

So this is the studio.

You good?

You got this.

Gentlemen, gentlemen.

Cool. Gentlemen.

Hi, I'm Aviva. This is my girl. Nice to meet you. Finally here. Nice to meet

you. Aviva, you want a hug? I think we should hug, man.

Finally. I heard so much about you.

I told them you're the love of my life and all that good stuff.

Ready to see some magic? I'm ready. All right, then. All right, let's do it. I'm

going to leave you with the guys.

Okay. No trouble, gentlemen.

I'm excited to take Aviva to the studio to meet the homies and show her what I

do.

I have some lyrics that are sitting around in my mind that I'm inspired by

night.

Aviva, first time in the studio?

It is. Yeah? Yeah.

Your first time, you're getting a song about you. First time, I love it.

You ready to rip it off for a stick?

I know.

This one is for you, Aviva.

The sex good and the vibe good. And you love me as you should.

Would I marry you? Yes, I would.

Would I breed you? Yes, I would.

You understand what he said?

You understand last night?

We did have fun last night.

Nobody ever really says they want to breed you in America.

Really? I don't know. I'm a dance hall artist. That's how we talk.

What do you do?

Yeah.

Sweet talker.

All right. Want to hear another song? Yeah.

You really like my guy, huh? I do, yeah, a lot. Like the dude?

Mm -hmm. I hope he likes me, too. You know he's a handful, huh?

A little bit, a little bit.

I always try to give him good advice and put him on the right path.

There's a lot of mistakes that he made in the past, you know, so I wouldn't

to see that happening all over again.

From my perspective as management, I always see these relationships damage

career.

His ex in Texas was, in my opinion, kind of horrible because we couldn't get

anything out of him productive.

I can't allow Aviva to bring any type of drama to us, especially to Sting's

career.

You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?

Your friend from Texas, she definitely did a number to my dude.

He mentioned it to you, brought it up to you? We talked about it a little bit,

but he probably held back, yeah.

Yeah, but I mean, when it all started, it damaged us.

We couldn't get anything out of him, you know, for months. He was just

depressed.

And we had a lot of international projects ahead of us, and all of that

paused. So it was a tough breakup, and I believe that he had planned for a lot

with her, you know.

He wanted to start a family.

And then, bam!

I didn't know that he was ready for a family with her.

So that's news to me.

Is it bothering you?

Yeah, a little.

I mean, I didn't know that it was that serious.

Well, if I said that he's fooling over it, then I'm lying.

I knew about Stig's ex -girlfriend because that's how we bonded.

We were both going through a heartbreak at the same time and found comfort in

each other through that.

But I had no idea that he was planning to have a family with her.

Now I definitely feel like Stig lied to me because he swore he was over her.

And that's why I was willing to come all the way out here.

So now I don't know what to believe.

Right here.

Right here. Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of

getting their blessing to be married.

They have a lot of questions for you.

First, it's their career.

I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's financial

situation. I'm worried about their acceptance of me.

I know. It's challenging me.

You know what we probably should bring here? What?

We should bring sex bear. Just leave him alone.

Just leave him alone.

He doesn't want to. You want me to wear my speedo? Just leave it. My banana

hammock?

No banana hammock for us. I put it back.

Okay. Today we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting

their blessing, to be married.

It's still a bit confusing to me to get the blessing of these people who have

been mistreating Sheena this entire time.

She told me that she has to give them money all the time. And if she doesn't

give them money, they start yelling at her, mistreating her, threatening to

kick her out of the house.

But I really just want to go and represent myself and show how great I

And once I make a good first impression, then we'll have the real hard

discussion about cutting them off financially.

Thank you. Oh, man, Jean. Goodness gracious.

I'll just leave that there. Okay. Okay.

Here, look, bye.

So Sheena and I are about to get out of here.

Okay.

You guys go and have your meeting the first day with your family. Then I can

proceed to go from there.

Yeah. I really appreciate you doing that, Mom.

I wish you the best of luck, and I pray for the best outcome in the situation,

all right?

I know my mom's upset with me that I want to go see Sheena's family by

But her being my mom, I still want her opinion. So I'm kind of relieved that my

mom is going to come the second day and support me how I've been wanting her to

support me this entire time.

I just hope that she doesn't blow up everything.

Yeah. Bye, guys. Bye. See you tomorrow.

I am really upset that he didn't want us there. I think that what's going to

happen is they're going to go talk to them.

And they're going to tell me we've got it all handled, we've got it taken care

of, it's all good, and they're going to keep me from seeing the parents. That is

my gut feeling.

And I'm not going to accept that.

We just have to walk, honey.

Yep.

Ow. Sorry.

That bus is quite big.

Yep, that bus is going hardcore.

My family lives in a province in Cavite, two hours from Manila.

The good thing about the Cavite is the nature. It's less polluted and much more

peaceful.

I usually take a bus first, then a tricycle, which is the local

transportation in the Philippines.

So it's not an easy trip.

You have fun in the bus today?

No.

I've never been on a bus this cramped before.

I got this guy sitting right on my lap. I don't know if he likes it or what, but

he just switches through it.

There's no way that Molly and Deb could figure this out on their own.

So we're going to arrange a car for them tomorrow.

If they happen to travel with a bus, we might never see them both again.

You're so beautiful, Sheehan. Thank you. I love you. How'd you go through

everything not becoming a model?

I don't know.

Perhaps it meant for me. That's why I'm so proud of it.

We're here.

We're here?

Yeah.

We're going to have to ride some bicycle now?

Oh, we're getting the ride of trike? Yeah.

What's the how to wait?

Oh, man.

Are you okay?

Well, I kind of just want to, like, regroup our thoughts here and kind of

out what we're doing.

This is the first time meeting me in seven years.

I'm worried.

about their acceptance of me i know challenging me they have a lot of

for you so i just have to answer them honestly first it's your what's your

purpose for coming in the country then second thing possible it's your career

hearing that sheena's parents are going to probably ask me about my career and

how i make money makes me extremely nervous honestly because of my

I can't focus or do certain tasks that normal people would be able to do.

It takes a lot for my boss to come back to me and keep telling me, hey, Forrest,

you're messing up. Hey, Forrest, you're doing this wrong.

And a lot of the time they can't do that, you know, because I'm now costing

money.

So I haven't had a job in several years.

And I've been living on disability checks.

Sheena has always understood my situation. And that's why.

It's been put more on her to save for our future, and I feel awful about it.

I don't want your parents' disapproval.

I'm worried that they will say that I'm not able to afford you.

You have to be mad out of it. I mean, you're an adult. You could find a job. I

know you proved yourself, and that's what I want to see from you. You could

a job.

That's the only way.

Gina, I'm definitely going to work hard for you, and I'm going to tell them

that.

I have been helping my family for years to keep them happy.

And the truth is, I'm quite frustrated that Forrest, as a guy, that he doesn't

have work.

It's hard for me working by myself. Well, he haven't saved anything for

And now I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's

situation.

I get really get emotional because the pressure on my shoulders is quite hard.

So I don't know what's going to happen.

And I'm so nervous.

Fight in spirit, honey.

Do this thing together.

We had that last argument, and you called my sister, and you were

about me. You were a little bit unhinged.

Oh, my God. I can't believe you're born right now.

I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other woman.

Hannah, can I just rest just for a little bit?

No, no, no, no, no, no.

Come on.

We're on honeymoon.

I think we both need a massage. Like, look at you. It will lessen the tension.

Is it because of last night?

Was I rough on you to make you feel like you need to go get a massage?

Yeah, part of it.

Honestly.

Come on.

What's up with you and massages?

I mean, because, boo, I don't want anybody and everybody up in my personal

space. If you gave me a massage, I wouldn't complain.

But that's you. You're my wife.

Have you seen these tiny, skinny fingers?

Yeah, but that doesn't mean they don't work magic.

Earlier today at lunch with Anna, things got a little bit tense.

Navigating marriage with my wife in person is a little bit more challenging

I thought.

We're both on our honeymoon.

We're supposed to be having good, positive vibes.

So we called it truce for now.

Hi, good evening, Paul.

Thank you.

Okay.

Oh, see?

Nice. Now it's nice, huh?

Yeah, it's nice.

Base goes here, right?

No, it's your butthole. It goes there.

I don't really like massages, but if it eases the tension between me and Anna,

I'm all for it.

How long do you think it's been since you've been in a spa?

Like a few years?

Last month.

Last month?

When you have some stiff muscles, it really relaxes you.

Also, if you have...

Get a massage. After the massage, I guarantee you, you'll fall asleep.

Sounds like you go a lot.

Yeah, because it, you know, relaxes me.

For about the last five years, I've been sitting at least 600 a month, but

sometimes more.

I'm very old school.

I believe the man should provide financially, and the woman is supposed

the nurturer and the caregiver.

But sometimes I feel like the money I give her is her vacation fund.

That definitely makes me feel some type of way.

I could have been here probably already if she just would have learned how to

budget so I can spend less money.

So...

When we leave here and we visit Cavite, I'm excited to see where you live, boo.

Have you been practicing your Tagalog?

No, but I need to.

How do you think you're going to communicate with my mom?

I mean, I'm not here that long, and I got you.

But don't you want to make some effort to have a relationship with her?

I tried to make a good relationship with your siblings.

Well, I mean, I want you to have a good relationship with my siblings.

But sometimes I feel like, you know, you overstepped just a little bit.

What do you mean?

You know, kind of like we had that last argument and you called my sister.

Remember that?

And you were complaining about me.

And you think that is what?

Oh, no, I mean, it's, you know, it's a bit much.

Because, you know, she was at work and, I mean, you kind of unloaded a lot on

her.

A little bit unhinged.

You feel comfortable enough that you can talk to her about our problems.

But you can't do with me. Why is that?

At least when I'm hyper -emotional, I just go to families.

I mean, you're upset with me, but you run to other women.

It's just so funny that you have the guts to call me out, that I share it to

your siblings, yet you're so willing to share it to someone that you used to

fancy.

If you have this history, what do you think could happen?

Well, I mean, Anna, like, once again, I'm waiting on accountability from you,

be honest with you, because, like, why did my husband go to another woman and

talk about our problems?

Huh. I wonder what made him feel like he needed to do that.

You're saying that the reason you did this is because of me? So basically,

like justifying cheating.

I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful. You know that, don't you?

Here we go again.

Jesus.

I'm just going to change.

You done?

Yeah, I'm done with this conversation.

You always complain about my hyper -emotion.

You're the reason why I have it.

I'm not doing it intentionally.

Yeah, whatever.

Oh, my God.

I can't believe you're born right now.

I thought the reason we were fighting so much was because we were in a long

-distance relationship.

But now that we are finally together, we're still fighting.

If we're already like this on our honeymoon, what does it say about our

marriage?

were you on dating apps, but you were actually talking to girls.

Messaging them.

You were telling girls, come to Morocco.

You were telling girls, follow me on social media. You were like, let's get

know each other. My name is Yad, I'm from Morocco, I'm 27.

You were on dating apps.

It was from a dating app.

So that's a normal thing. Why would you welcome girls on a dating app if you're

in a relationship?

That's how we are. So if I was on dating apps and I was talking to a bunch of

guys, and all the guys I was talking to, they come to Los Angeles, come to Los

Angeles, that's okay for me to say that? It's not the same.

How is it not the same?

Let me explain. Me, I'm so proud about my country. So if anyone... Yeah, but

you're meeting people on dating apps.

Don't act like you're meeting people on dating apps and just want to welcome

them to Morocco. You are meeting girls on dating apps trying to talk to pretty

girls. Actually, I totally understand you.

So your friends agree with me, right? You guys are on my side? No, they are

They just do that for you. We are with our guests. They want to make you... No,

they see that I'm right, and they're on my side.

Well, I think for me, from my perspective, it's like a lack of trust.

yeah.

Emma, after what happened, do you see yourself... Continue in this

with Zia.

I mean, I think we have to, like, talk about our differences, but I want to

overcome our problem.

Overcome? Move forward and then get married.

Oh, okay. Yeah. So you are looking to get married with Zia?

Yeah. Okay. I want to be engaged before the end of this trip.

Zero percent.

Zero percent what? Zero percent. He asked him if, can you see Emma as your

And you said zero percent?

At the moment, I mean. So you're saying in this very moment, you see zero

percent chance of me being your wife?

For this moment.

And what does that mean for the rest of the time I'm here?

You told me before I came here you wanted to get engaged.

I need more time to know you. But you're at zero?

I need a lot of time to understand you because we are so different.

We need more time.

Okay.

I brought condoms too, baby.

I know, but where's the time?

It's been 21 years since I've been with a man.

I'm a little nervous about it. What if I want it and he doesn't want me? Do you

know what kind of a letdown that's going to be?

You

shocked

me with that proposal. I wasn't expecting it.

You're not supposed to keep secrets from me.

I can't believe I'm here. I'm in Nigeria, and

I haven't even known Daniel but for ten minutes in person, and

I'm engaged to him. It's crazy.

It's crazy.

Daniel is very affectionate. I've never been kissed like that before. Really?

Yeah, but I liked it.

Your lips look as natural as honey.

That's why I wanted to, you know, bite off the ugly lips.

Also, she was looking so stunning. I couldn't resist her.

Oh, my gosh, you're a smooth talker.

That should be very happy.

Regarding yesterday, we should call Princess Drift about how I pulled this

We will talk to her, not tonight.

No, not tonight. It's late. I want to spend time with you tonight, but we will

talk to her.

I think she will be very surprised.

I love you, man.

Faith is going to be furious when she finds out we got engaged.

I told her that I was going to come clean before he proposed, and that

happen.

She wants me to be very careful and not rush things.

Tonight, the last thing I want to think about is the lecture I'm going to get

from Faith.

Oh, baby.

This is beautiful.

They wrote me a special.

I want to show you what I got you. I got you so much stuff, baby.

All right, you ready?

We'll open it.

I love it.

There's more. Wait. You have to open this one. Okay.

Wow.

Let's see if it fits.

Wow.

Wow.

I bought oils.

Carrot. This one is strawberry.

It's supposed to, like, change the temperature as you're friction.

And I brought condoms, too, baby.

I know, but I'm wearing a tie -on.

Come on. Go ahead and take your shower.

You want to take your shower together?

Take a shower. Tomorrow we'll do that, okay?

Okay. Now we are tired.

Go take your shower. Get everything ready.

Okay.

Is he tired or is he really just not interested?

I'm feeling like he's not interested anymore.

So I don't know what's going on.

But I want it to happen.

I'm nervous. I want it to happen. I want to get that port out of the way.

And get the new situation underway.

It's been 21 years since I've been with a man.

So, I'm a little nervous about it.

Oh, God.

Do you know what kind of a letdown that's going to be after 21 years of not

having it and then all of a sudden saying, okay, I'm ready for this, and

him turning around and saying no?

That's a real possibility, and it's scary.

I don't know. It's weird.

He's acting different all of a sudden than he did at the airport and during

engagement.

It's confusing, but I'm not giving up yet.

I'm starting to think he's second -guessing everything.

He sees my wrinkles and he sees my saggy body and he doesn't want me.

Yeah,

yeah. Go to sleep.

Okay.

I don't know what to think.

I feel rejected and I'm worried. He's going to call off the engagement.

He's going to leave me stranded here because he's not attracted to my body

that he's seen it in person.

That's how I feel.

I'll lay on you for a little while. Is that okay?

Can I snuggle you? Is that okay?

What

happened

with your ex? Is he still sending you messages?

No. Would you be willing to show me that?

Why do you think your mind goes to Chi?

My greatest fear, that Chi still has feelings for him.

So, what happened when you went to Texas a few months ago?

You kind of just went quiet, so I thought that you were definitely seeing

eye. Dick went to Texas, and he didn't invite me.

I can't help but think maybe there was a reason he didn't invite me to Texas.

Kevin, I...

I want wings. I want some shrimp.

And I want some beef.

I'm just so

confused and a little bit irritated.

I've been insecure about Trisha's ex -boyfriend because I know he has a lot

money, but... Patricia swore to me that she would never get back with him

because of how badly he treated her.

But if that were the case, why would she be hanging out with him so recently?

It bothers me that she kept that from me.

Now I'm thinking, again, that this whole thing about her ghosting me for five

days directly has to do with her ex.

Are you ready to talk?

I still don't understand why you went to talk like we were just saying hi.

That's it.

So where was this? Where did you just happen to run into? A restaurant.

So you just happened to be eating at the same restaurant as him?

I saw him outside. And you called him over?

Yeah.

Thank you.

He was with his family, so I got a good relationship with his family.

And we just talked a little bit, then I went home.

I don't know, that sounds really sketchy to me. Because if it was a situation

like you just happened to run into him, I think you would have told me about

that.

Listen, so the reason why I didn't told you is he's trying to

get me back.

He wants to get back with you.

And how did you respond?

I said, no, I already have someone.

Then he got mad because I said no.

I didn't say anything about it because I was really scary about your, how would

you react of that? Like maybe you would say, maybe she's still with her ex.

Like how you react right now?

Have you guys been in contact since then?

He contacted me on a text message.

So he still hasn't gotten the message that you've moved on.

And when did this conversation happen?

Four months ago.

And is he still sending you messages like that?

No.

Would you be willing to show me that?

So if I show you, will you believe me?

I'd have no choice but to.

Look at the time.

I didn't even respond, Rick. Look.

Missed voice call.

Yeah, I missed. I didn't even pick up. Do you believe me now?

I see the date.

So... I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.

I'm not, Ray. I'm not.

That's a big deal.

That makes your story a lot more credible.

That was my greatest fear, that she still has feelings for him.

But it just shows me there wasn't any more text messages between her and her

Why do you think your mind goes to cheap?

Do you wonder if that's something you're projecting?

It's possible.

If it did turn out that you were right, would that make you feel better?

I don't know if I would feel better, but, you know, maybe I won't feel as

for what I did.

I hate when I'm telling you everything.

I'm being honest with you and you're just like, oh, I don't believe this. I

don't believe that. It seems like really getting bad.

These are just growing pains. We got to get through these, you know, rough

patches in the beginning to get to the green pasture, you know, that we have

ahead of us.

Yeah, I hope so.

It's really hard for me to defend myself in front of Rick because...

Even if I explain something a hundred times, he's like, is that true? And he

doesn't trust me without proof.

My ex was always jealous and, like, really suspicious.

But he's the one who was cheating on me the whole time.

And now I'm worried that it's the same thing with Rick.

What if he's hiding something?

If someone is like that...

I think something is going on.

What's good, brother?

Hey, can you take us to the ferry row? Okay.

I just introduced Aviva

to Richie and Perf at the studio.

And now we're about to take a ferry, go to San Pedro for a couple of days, where

I have a show.

And I'm really excited about this, and I know she is too. I hope so.

Are you okay?

I know.

How do you not know?

I mean, I'm kind of upset about some things, but I mean, I just learned a

What? Like what?

I'm pretty upset with Stick because...

His friend Richie shared some things that definitely made me question whether

Stig is even being honest with me.

I'm hesitant to bring up these worries already. I don't want this first week to

be uncomfortable, and I want to show him that I'm not just a crazy jealous girl.

However,

the things Richie said...

Brought up some previous concerns that I had just swept under the rug, and now I

feel like I do need to address them with Stig.

That's what the worst thing is.

I think that's where some of the cruise ships get off there.

Aviva's being weird right now.

I don't really know what. She don't want to talk about it.

That is not cool because I'm big on communication.

If something's bothering you, tell me.

You ever been on a cruise?

As a kid, I really want to go on another one.

You are a kid.

You're acting like a kid right now. I'm acting like a kid? You don't want to

tell me what's up.

I don't like silent treatment.

I wasn't trying to ruin the mood, but Richie told me that you were

really thinking about having a baby with your ex, and you said that same thing

to me.

So I'm not sure if that's what you say to every single girl now.

Kind of rubbed me the wrong way.

I mean, try to deny that.

It is true, but, I mean, when I date, that's the reason I date, though.

I told you this, I was trying to chill, get off that player, playboy.

I was looking for love. Of course I wanted a child of mine. Of course I was

looking for marriage of mine. Of course that's what I wanted.

A couple years back, I met a girl from Texas.

She was visiting Belize.

We worked together a year and a half, off and on, and she broke my heart.

I was planning a future with this girl.

That's not a bad thing.

I mean, are you actually over her? Because Richie said he doesn't think

fully over your ex. Is that true?

Richie thought you were crazy.

That doesn't mean it's true.

So you're going to let that get to you?

I don't know. I mean, a little bit.

Getting to me a little bit, for sure. I mean, it's a big deal. You've got to

control your own feelings.

No, it's not a big deal. You're making it a big deal.

when you went to Texas a few months ago?

A few months ago, Stig went to Texas, and he didn't invite me. I knew that he

was busy with work and that he has family there, but there's a part of me

thought that Stig saw his ex in Texas.

I thought I was just being paranoid, but now...

I can't help but think maybe there was a reason he didn't invite me to Texas and

he was actually going to see her.

They booked me for a Belize day.

I was out there performing.

I didn't even see my family, much less see any other girls.

I went with a crew of us, a Belizean crew, went to perform.

It was like, what, two days? You know that.

Well, you kind of just went quiet, so I thought that you were definitely seeing

your ex. I don't know.

I don't know.

It's all just, like, not really adding up, so I'm trying to figure it out, I

guess. It's not like that.

Have I ever given you a reason to think that kind of way?

I don't know. I just feel like you're a big charmer, and I don't know if you,

like, were serious about being exclusive or if you were just saying that.

You know? I don't know. Like, I don't know.

If what you say is real or not.

You know?

Like, how am I supposed to know if you're telling me? Because I don't like

lying. If I felt the other way, I would have told you.

You really are, you want, you're like a one -woman type of guy. Yeah. Like,

that's actually true. I could do that.

I could do that. Like, I want that gift.

When I go home, like, how am I supposed to, you know, trust that you'll do the

right thing, you know?

Honestly, a state is really hard to resist, but I have to be careful and

my heart. And he's not convincing me that he's telling me the truth.

This is

super unsettling because I haven't been using protection with him.

And I don't want to start a family with a liar.

That's my death in this country. If I'm not in that country, who cares how

much death I am in?

You're talking about a massive amount of death. Yeah. And you want to run away

from it and flee in another country.

She has a lot of doubts inside.

That's why I'm avoiding telling the entire story.

So 50K in U .S. dollars?

Okay.

It's not a big deal.

No. It's not?

I'm not happy right now.

I know that he's having some difficulties with money and jobs.

But I had no idea how bad his financial situation actually is.

Birkan told me multiple times that his intention was to be this protective

provider as a husband.

And I'm questioning how at this point.

And I'm so worried about what else he could be keeping from me.

I didn't let you know because I am trying to figure out everything myself.

But, I mean, if we're talking about sharing our life together, your problems

would be my problems.

And we'd be starting off together in a sizable debt.

Okay, but we are not partners in that debt, you know.

That's my debt. In this country, if I'm not in debt.

country who cares how much debt i am in

so

you're talking about a massive amount of debt yeah and you want to run away from

it and flee in another country

I'm concerned by the fact that he would just run away from his debt and flee a

country to get out of it. I'm not okay with that. I don't want to bring Birkan

to the States and be financially responsible for him and then be worried

he would be burning through my money.

You don't have to worry about my debt.

I always handle my own problems.

Then why haven't you done that by now?

Because I'm waiting for the right time to figure that out.

And the time is close, I know.

Just in this country, earning money is too hard.

If I come to America...

I think I can be able to afford my debt and also provide.

Okay. I can do two jobs, maybe three jobs. I can take care of everything.

You know, I am hustling. I am trying to survive.

I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with

me because you would want a green card and money.

And hearing that...

Kind of makes it seem like that's true.

She has a lot of doubts inside, and I get it.

But that's why I'm avoiding telling the entire story.

I'm worried if she finds out how I make money when I'm not working,

she could leave me.

And before the 90 days.

Oh, Lord.

This is worse than the bus.

I'm going to meet Sheena's family for the first time.

But her family has been these ominous figures.

I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down.

The importance you have found, you know.

You've got to help her.

She's been helping us also.

But always.

What is that?

I feel very awkward

because I didn't want him to do the song, and now he's flirting with this

I still have my suspicions, and it's making me feel pretty insecure.

There is all these girls on the stage with you.

I'm disappointed.

We are me.

I don't trust Michael.

I want you to cut him out of your life.

So, you or him?

Yes, you heard me right.

This is some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet. This

feel like the man that I thought I knew online.

Why don't you think a little?

You know, I just get some air.

My uncle was here tomorrow.

I'm a little nervous.

The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.

Whether we can marry.

In my family, we are Christian.

We don't smoke.

We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.

What kind of questions are going to be asked?

I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.

I spent some romantic time with my queen.

Being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.

Like, what happened between me and my ex in Columbia?

Do you think that I'm enough for you?

You are. You are enough.

I really do care about Tree.

But what I did, it needs to come out.

What you mean?