All language subtitles for The Jerry Springer Show S27E125

My mother and I had a threesome with my
roommate.

Maybe it's the honor of that daughter.

For you to sit here and say that you're
a little bit perfect, honey, please.

Ooh, big man.

A big man, ain't you? You got some
panties on today, don't you?

I'm going to touch it to the other one
and look at my face.

Jade says she's tired of making room for
her mother.

Jade, what's going on?

Well, recently my mother and I had a
threesome with my roommate.

Whoa.

You and your mother had a threesome with
this guy?

Yes.

About three months. Was this Mother's
Day or what?

That's 21, Jerry.

Go ahead.

All right. About three months ago, my
mother moved in. Yes.

And she's been doing this for the past
two years.

Frankly, I'm sick of it. She jumps from
guy to guy, and then when that doesn't

work out, she comes and lives with me.

And this was this guy. How did you meet
this guy? Was this guy your boyfriend?

We've been friends since high school.

Yeah. My mom doesn't pay the rent.

Oh, no. She just...

sits on the couch all day and doesn't do
anything and so i've been looking for a

roommate um i posted something on
facebook and eventually this guy hit me

up and said hey you're looking for a
roommate i'm going to come and check out

the place and maybe i'll move in with
you so he came over and checked out the

place and we decided yeah he was going
to move in and this was the guy you knew

from high school yes oh okay All right.
So you both said, yeah, he'll be a nice

roommate. Okay.

And we ended up celebrating that night.
We bought a bottle of alcohol.

Yes.

You're all going to hell.

Okay.

We bought a bottle of alcohol, smoked a
blunt, and we ended up watching Narnia

on the TV.

And after a few shots...

My mom's like, hey, let's turn off
Narnia and let's throw on some music. My

mother and I have had a very good
relationship.

A very close relationship.

We were strippers together.

And we've actually slept with the same
guy.

So you've done this before?

Not together, but yeah. Oh, I see what
you're saying.

Visually, you slept with the same guy.
Yes. Was there ever a time that you

thought, gee, maybe this isn't
appropriate?

There has been times, but most of the
time we just laugh it off. I mean, the

first time it happened, did you go,
whoa?

It was a little taken back, but
eventually we just laughed it off and

it's whatever.

Stuff happens.

Yeah. All right. Well, it happened, and
there you go.

So now why are you here?

I'm here to address the fact that I need
my mother out of my house.

We ended up hooking up with that guy
that night.

Yeah, with the drinking, yeah.

And I told my mom, I really like this
guy. I had a crush on him in high

Yeah. I asked her to please back off. I
really like this guy.

I think I'm going to try to date him.
Yeah. And so we've been hooking up after

the whole threesome deal.

Yeah.

i was on snapchat the other day
scrolling through my snapchat and

came across this story and it said
something about hooking up with him

and and the only person i know

that devin calls is my mom so i
confronted her about it

And she just played dumb about the whole
thing. You know, whenever you confront

her about anything, she just plays dumb.

Yeah. And so, frankly, that's the thing
that broke the camel's back.

I want her out of my house.

Okay. All right.

Here's Brandy.

This is what I mean.

What? You look like a whore.

I look like a whore?

You need to remember who your partner
was.

Yeah.

Hypocrite much?

Not a hypocrite. I never dressed like
this.

Not in public on a talk show. That's an
inappropriate use of a noun. I wore this

to remind you of what you also do.

And what do you do? Sit around the house
all day?

I make money.

I've taken care of you for three years.
You've had your job for, what, two

weeks? You haven't taken care of me for
three years. I've been on my own for

three years. You're my mother. You're
supposed to take care of me. I'm not

mother. Mom, does this strike you a
little bit strange?

I mean, she's your daughter, and
you're... Does it strike you as strange?

Not at all, Jerry.

Not at all.

We're very close.

Yeah, we know that. I mean, we...

have had some extremely wild times.

So for you to sit here and say that
you're Little Miss Perfect, honey,

Please. At least I have a job.

Stop lying to yourself. What do you do?
Sit around all day? I have to clean the

house. I have to work 40 hours a week to
clean the house. First of all, how old

are you?

I'm 19 years old.

When did this start?

at 17?

She moved out at 17, Jerry.

Well, what did your mother say that's
not appropriate? Don't do that?

Certainly.

How do you stay in your mother role if
you're acting like a close friend of

and not being a mother?

Okay, well, she asked me to strip with
her.

Yeah, normally a mother would say no,
and I prefer, frankly, that you don't

strip.

Yeah.

I thought you liked me. Why would you
sleep with my mother?

Sex is sex.

Call 1

-877 -75 -JERRY for your free tickets.

Last week has been one of the best times
of my life.

And she said what? She said no.

I haven't even seen her since that day.

Now we're on Jerry's face.

I said we're brothers.

Ever since you got pregnant, you've been
getting fat.

Monday.

I want to meet this guy. Here's Devin.

liked me why would you sleep with my
mother we i do like you and everything

sex is sex why wouldn't you you're not
yes sex is sex to a 19 year old

but i'm trying to settle down i'm trying
to make a life if you like me and

you're sleeping with me after the
threesome maybe you should think about

feelings

I'm angry.

Sorry, Terry.

I'm just... Yeah. I'm... How did you get
involved in all this? What, I mean...

Well, I asked to move in with her. Yeah.
And I ended up moving

in a couple weeks ago.

Well, we ended up celebrating, and
celebrating, drinking, ended up leading

sex. Right. Do you like her? I do like
her, yeah. Okay. Yeah.

Enough to not sleep with her mom?

I'm 19.

I'm still young.

When alcohol gets in me, I get horny.

You can't really blame me.

So... Why are you... I can understand
why you're upset by this. I can't.

But why are you surprised?

I'm surprised. I mean, you've all been
willingly in this combination here.

So now you can't be surprised that, oh,
my gosh, he would go back and sleep with

the third person in the threesome.
Because he told me he could love me. Of

course he tells you that.

I mean, he's my son.

I'm not saying you should approve of it.
I'm just saying.

someone who's going to get involved in
this situation, you can't then be

surprised if he goes back to her.

Fine, if you want my mom, then have her.
But I won't, I'm not going to deal with

it. Well, why don't you say, that's my
daughter, and if you're going to

disrespect my daughter, you're not going
to say goodnight.

Because I'm trying to show her what
reality is.

Well, reality could be some good values
which say, hey, you don't do that to

someone.

Or dress like that.

Honey, let's not be a hypocrite again.

Do you see what I'm dressed in? Yes.
It's appropriate, at least. But that's

what you're dressed in when you're
dancing on the pole.

So maybe you're on a stutter, sitting on
your high horse and thinking you're

better than everybody.

Maybe you should go out and get a job
that's not spinning on a pole, dearie. I

do have a job. I make great money.

Then where is it?

That's right, because I was making $17
.95 an hour for the last freaking eight

months.

Why not $18?

Why?

Who says I'm going to pay you $17 .95?

Would you like to see a little bit,
Jerry?

1785.

All right.

So what's going to happen here?

I'm kicking you out.

You're saying she's out of the house and
you're saying what?

I honestly don't know right now.

Oh.

You may decide to be with neither of
them or... Probably neither of them.

Most likely neither of them.

We'll be back.

All right, Mercedes says marriage isn't
all it's cracked up to be. Mercedes,

what's going on?

When I married my husband, I had to
become his mom too.

Why?

Well, let me explain.

Yeah. When we got married, I was 18 and
he was 16.

Oh. And in Kentucky, there's no
emancipation law, which means that...

Being married doesn't mean that you're
an adult. So I had to actually go and

custody of my husband.

Wait, so you got custody of him, which
means that you could then give

for him to get married.

Well, we were already married first.

He was missing a lot of school and his
aunt was getting truancy letters, so I

had to actually go and get custody of
him. Even the lawyers looked confused,

our county attorney said that there was
no emancipation law in Kentucky.

Okay. And honestly, I'm just sick of it.

Yeah. So you're his wife?

Yes. And his mother?

That's a perfect show for us.

You know, we've had a lot of tough times
because when we first got married, he

was 16.

He wanted to go out and do his own
thing. You know, he wasn't really ready

the commitment. No, he had to have his
homework done first.

Well, see, he wanted to go out and party
and do all that. And, you know, I was

at home alone, and I just felt like he
wasn't really there for me. And, you

know, he's... Why did you... Jokes
aside.

Why would you marry a 16 -year -old?
Well, I was pregnant.

Oh, by him? Yes, and we needed to get
married because of the

baby and everything, because it was the
right thing to do, which, you know.

Okay, so you married him. Yes. And how
has the marriage been going?

Not great, Jerry, honestly.

We're always fighting. We gave our
daughter up for adoption because we

financially support her.

And I blame him for that because he
wasn't responsible.

He wanted to run out and do his own
thing.

And you didn't want to raise the child
alone.

It was just a financial struggle. I had
to work, and he was out doing his own

thing. And it's like it's hard to get a
babysitter. Yeah.

So we put her up for adoption.

And now it's like he's...

We're emotionally distant.

We fight all the time.

I don't feel like he's there for me.

And my family and him doesn't get along.
I don't get to go to my family dinners

or anything like that because my family
doesn't want him around.

And honestly, I want to separate.

I'm here to tell him that I don't want
to be with him anymore and there's

another man.

And there is another man?

Yeah. And, oh, is he older than 16?

He's 19. He's 19.

Whoa. Well, you're staying in the teens.

Yes,

yes.

Actually, this woman, Christy, that I
know, I call her Mama.

We're really close.

It's her son. I went to her for advice
because of how my marriage was going,

she said, you know, Why don't you and my
son go out? And she gave us some money,

and we went to dinner.

And he ordered exactly what I wanted. We
went to Black Stallion. He ordered me a

steak medium rare, and he ordered the
same thing. And at the end, we

kissed. Well, that is love.

Well, we grew up together. We knew each
other.

And we went on a second date.

And after that date, we had sex, and I
just knew that he was the one that I

wanted to be with.

So you're here basically to tell your
husband you want to leave him? Yeah. And

that you're messing around with this
other guy, and he knows this other guy?

Yeah, they're not really close friends.

Me and him are, but they know each
other. Yeah.

His name is Chance?

Yeah. Well, you took one.

Here's Chance.

Hey, Chance. Welcome to the show. How
you doing, Gary? Good.

So I guess we've heard the story. You
were married at 16.

Yeah. And you have a child.

Yeah.

But you gave the child up for adoption.
Yes, we did. Because you didn't think

you were ready yet to... No, we weren't
financially stable at the time.

Yeah, I see.

So how is it going?

I mean, everything's been, you know,
since then. It's been real rough on us.

Yeah. Been a hard time.

But I care about her, and I want to try
to make everything work with her.

What do you want to say?

Chance, I don't think this is working.

I brought you here so that I could talk
to you about it. I don't think we should

be together.

I mean...

We're always fighting. We can't seem to
get along about letting our little girl

go for adoption.

And honestly, I blame you because you
were immature.

I just don't feel like this is working.

And, I mean, I think I want a divorce.

And there's another man.

What do you mean there's another man?

Well, I went to Mama, and I asked her
for some advice on what to do for our

relationship. And she thought that it
would be good for me to go on a date

her son.

And so we did. She gave us some money,
and we went to Black Stallion.

He ordered me the steak. He knows that's
what I wanted.

sweet to me the whole time at the end of
the day you know we kissed and we had a

second date after that and we had sex
after that and i know i i know that i

to be with him he makes me happy so
while i'm out taking care of you

you by paying all your bills while
you've sat at home for the last half

you've been looking for someone else to
be with since i've been sitting taking

care of you

Chance, you may be supporting me
financially, but you're not supporting

emotionally.

That's because I'm working 60, 65 hours
a week to make sure that you have a

place to lay on your back, apparently.

Well,

if you really cared about me, Chance,
then you would support me emotionally as

well. You can't just say, oh, I'm
supporting you financially. It doesn't

that I'm not there for you emotionally.

Like you have to at least act like you
care about me.

Well, if you cared about me, you
wouldn't be acting like such a little

then, would you?

When we got married, I was 18 and he was
16.

And in Kentucky, being married doesn't
mean that you're an adult. So I had to

actually go and get custody of my
husband.

And honestly, I'm just sick of it.

I think I want a divorce, and there's
another man.

What do you mean there's another man?

Chance, you may be supporting me
financially, but you're not supporting

emotionally.

That's because I'm working 60, 65 hours
a week to make sure that you have a

place to lay on your back, apparently.

We just shouldn't be together. I want to
be with Rocky.

You want to be with Rocky? Yes. Well,
here's Rocky.

You look stupid.

Wow.

Really?

I'm scared, bro. Really? Hell yeah, I
have.

You're going like this, like a little
girl.

I like to see that.

Can't help it, your woman wants me.

I can't help it, I got feelings for her.

So what are you going to do about it?

It's beauty, man. You don't want none of
these moves, bro. I want moves. You

little girl.

Look, dude.

I'm telling you right now.

Ooh, big man.

Stay away from my big man. A big man
ain't you. You understand me? You got

panties on today, don't you? You
understand me?

Ooh.

Hit like a little girl anyways.

Why would you want to be with her
knowing that they're married?

Because he's never there for her. She's
always telling me advice, always crying.

He's not there supporting her.

Like, she gets emotional, so I'm there
24 -7.

So you want to be with her?

Hell yeah, I want to be with her. Well,
why wouldn't you say, just for me, as

soon as they end whatever they've got
going, then you would step in rather

being the reason that they're breaking
up?

Well, start being there financially for
her and I wouldn't have to step in. I am

there financially for her, dude.

Because apparently, I'm supporting both
of you.

There you go.

Well, at least you don't have to support
either of us emotionally.

Like you deserve it, apparently.

You're running around being a little
slut with a 12 -year -old.

All he knows how to do is cry.

Cry.

Well, okay, so you were fixed up with
her by your mom?

Yes, sir.

Here's Christy.

Hey, Mom.

The reason why I hooked you all up...
It's because I knew the marriage

last because me and Chance hooked up.

Really?

Yeah, really.

I ain't gonna say nothing. I've been
having sex with his wife, so I ain't got

much to say.

You old bitch. She's two times your age.
She's old as... I can't help it. I went

up there to hang out with somebody who I
thought was my friend, but he wasn't

there. We started talking.

She needed me to go get her some
backers, so I did.

And I brought it back to her, and we sat
in there talking.

And she was sitting there spitting her
backer.

She was doing what?

Backer, dip, you know, chewing tobacco.

Oh, oh. Backer, where we're from.

But she was sitting there chewing her
backer, and I started talking to her

because I knew you wasn't happy.

I could tell you haven't been happy. And
I was talking to her, and be honest,

uh i ended up giving her oral sex while

she was spitting back

Jerry, you look good for your age. Yeah.

So you slapped the guy that slept with
your mother.

Yeah.

And I don't know who's with whom
anymore.

Okay, so you can't really complain
because you're cheating as well as she

Who's going to stay with whom?

You still want to be with him?

I want to be with you, Rocky.

Kenley says she wants to finally have
her first boyfriend.

Kenley, you haven't had a boyfriend?

No.

So have you ever been with a boy?

I've been with one boy, Jerry.

Yeah, you've been with one, but he
wasn't really a boyfriend.

I see.

And so why are you here?

Jerry, I'm 18, and I...

I have been with one boy when I was 15.

He broke my heart.

So I have major trust issues when it
comes to men.

And because of that, I'm shy.

You know, I get really shy around boys,
which causes me to not have a boyfriend.

But today I'm here to tell the boy I
like that I like him and I have a huge

crush on him and I want to be with him.

Well, tell me how you...

How did you develop this crush? How did
you meet him? Was he in your class or

what? No, actually, Jerry, my mother
introduced us.

I actually happened to see him at a
family member's house one day, and I

mom, like, he's the one. He is cute.

He's really cute. Yes. I added him on
Facebook because I knew we had mutual

friends. And ever since then, we smoke
together, we hang out together.

So all of a sudden there's a new picture
of you I'm getting.

And I just want to tell him I want to be
with him. Oh, you want to. Okay. And

you've never indicated that to him
before.

Now, who's Brittany?

Brittany is my mom.

Oh, so it was your mom who introduced
you to him.

All right. Here's your mom, Brittany.

Well, fine.

Your daughter is just telling us this
lovely story about how you introduced

to a young man who she's now telling me
she has a crush on.

Yes.

Talk to your mom.

So, Mom, I obviously like him.

I want to be with him. And what do you
think about it? I just don't think he's

good guy for you.

What do you mean you don't think he's a
good guy for me? You introduced us.

Yeah, well, you know, I mean, he's just
not ready to settle down. He likes to

party. He don't want nobody to eat.

You're the one who introduced us. You
told me he was a good guy, that I

you know, take my shot at him.

He doesn't want anything serious.

How do you know?

Okay, so, um, one night we were hanging
out with our friends, and

CJ needed a ride home, so I offered to
drive him home. Yeah.

Well, whenever I drove him home, he
said, I just think that you're really

and I'm into older women. And we started
making out, and we wound up having sex.

Look, you're entitled to be with men,
etc.

But knowing that your daughter is shy
and knowing that your daughter likes

this guy, wouldn't that kind of be a red
flag to say, this is not a guy I need

to be messing with?

I mean, yeah, but I was in the moment.

What do you want to say to mom?

We were just getting close. You know,
you were in prison for eight years. You

weren't in my life.

Yeah, I was in prison for eight years.

You know, I don't understand.

You weren't there for my first, like,
kindergarten graduation, my eighth grade

graduation, not teach me how to ride a
bike, my first heartbreak, my basketball

game.

You were never there.

I didn't choose not to be there. Yeah,
you did.

No, I didn't.

You chose not to be there. No, Kenley, I
didn't. They put me there. I didn't

choose to go. I made a mistake.

You might have made a mistake, but you
had the choice to not do that.

Yeah, I wanted to come see you. Yeah, I
wasn't allowed to. But you're my mom.

How could you do this?

CJ's the guy, right? Yes, Jerry.

Here's CJ.

I'm sorry that this had to happen, but I
just don't like you like that.

We were just smoking friends. It wasn't
supposed to go no more than that.

I don't see myself being with you.

If you don't see yourself being with me,
why do you lead me on? Why would you do

this with my mom?

You could have told me, hey, I don't
want to be with you, but you haven't.

been two years, and you have yet to do
that.

I'm just a weed guy. I'm cool with
everybody.

All right.

Are you interested in having a
relationship with him?

No, Jerry. He was a one -time thing.
Yeah. Yeah.

Okay.

I think then, most importantly, from
your point of view, is to see if there's

any way over time to repair a
relationship with your mom. That,

everybody goes through.

Gee, I had a girlfriend. I had a
boyfriend. It didn't work out.

That is the most normal thing in life.

This is not the most normal thing. So
working on this probably is the best way

to your happiness. You'll find a guy.

We'll be back.

This is for the redneck crew with little
slut riding hood in the red dress.

I think the four of you should go back
to the trailer park and get in the same

bed together. I mean, what's the
difference?

Hello, Jerry.

It looks like Brandy and Jay are looking
for a roommate.

I might be available.

I got a question for Brandy. What has
more holes in it, your pants or your

teeth?

This is for the Justin Bieber wannabe
over there. You should drop Beetlejuice

and go for the daughter.

I just want to say to the mother and
daughter, they need to eat some biscuits

and syrup.

This question is for the mom on the end.
How dare you do that to your daughter?

You are a slut.

How is your wife?

How you doing, Jerry?

What I have here is kind of a public
service announcement.

Anybody that thinks spandex looks good
on everybody, take a look up here.

under pressure.

I just got a comment for Brandy the mom.
You is a hot mess.

Our producers have decided that you will
take us into the break.

We'll be right back with Jerry's final
thought.

No, becoming a mom doesn't mean you stop
being a woman. You still need to have

your own life. It's even healthy that
your kids get to see that.

But you can't stop being a mom, either.

The guiding, nurturing, disciplined role
of a parent is vital to the child's

upbringing.

Tempting as it may be to stay young, to
still be one of the kids, to be their

friend rather than the bad guy parent
who has to say no from time to time, to

draw the attention of the young guys you
used to get until daughter came along

and started filling out those jeans,
having your own life doesn't mean you

the right to rob your child of her own
space, of her right to have a supportive

parent, not a competitive one.

Simply put, it's not a matter of how
young you are or feel or want to be.

Having it means you can't be one
anymore.

Till next time, take care of yourself
and each other.