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Come on, let's do this.
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My name is Alexander, and I'm 32 years
old. I'm looking for a girlfriend who
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loves to have lots of laughs, lots of
cheekiness, has a sense of humour, and
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who's just overall full of love.
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We all want love, but finding that
special person isn't always easy.
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I've been a princess. I've yet to find
my prince charming.
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This series follows New Zealanders
living with Down syndrome and other
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disabilities in their search for
romance.
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I think it's kind of like a boyfriend
material.
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I live in a little historic gold mining
town called Thames on the Coromandel
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Peninsula.
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I live with my mum Anne.
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I nicknamed her Fluffy because of the
amount of fluffy hair she has
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on her head.
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I was born in Romania in a place called
Constanza in a hospital or an orphanage
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with 80 other babies waiting to be
adopted.
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So do you remember, you wouldn't
remember this, would you?
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Vaguely. Vaguely? I held on to your
finger and I never let go when I was
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in my cot. Which finger was it? This
one. I remember that too, you know.
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I love my mum so much because she saved
my life from that orphanage. I would
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have perished if it weren't for her and
my dad.
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As a toddler, Alex was diagnosed with
ADHD, then re -diagnosed with Asperger's
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at eight years old.
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find it hard to, like, adapt to things
sometimes.
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And, like, when I, like, I don't like
being forced into doing
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stuff, I don't let my Asperger's or
autism get the better of me. Instead,
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I get the better of it.
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View on life, just always the same,
always cheerful.
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If you're down in a grumpy mood, he'll
always bring you up.
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He's got so much energy.
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This is my mum's part of the house. This
is her living room.
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And then through the magic door, this is
my part of the house.
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We act like we're flatting.
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And we share the kitchen. I cook my own
meals. Because it's all about being
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independent, being your own self, doing
your own thing and being you.
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Over here is my bedroom.
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This is a Romanian painting that I've
got because I'm from Romania and I like
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have Romania here with me.
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This is a Kenwood TS430S HF Transceiver
with an MFJ Deluxe VersaTuner.
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I'm a radio ham operator.
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I passed my ham radio exam on the 21st
of July 2012, and I've never been any
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happier. Plug it in, eh?
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Oh, golly.
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I talk around the world to other people
who own amateur radio gear like this,
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calling CQCQ, standing by for any
possible contact.
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Sometimes I hear road workers and that,
and as I listen in to other people on
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the radio.
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Alex is looking for more than just radio
contact.
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He wants a girlfriend, and he has a lot
to offer.
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I'm loving, I'm caring, I'm thoughtful.
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I have a big heart.
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I don't break any promises, I don't lie,
I don't upset people.
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I just be the best I can possibly be.
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And that's what a woman would love.
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My name is Charlize.
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I'm 18 years old.
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Are you looking for love?
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Yes, I'm looking for some love. Have you
had a boyfriend before?
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In real life, no.
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Bon appétit, guys.
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Charlize lives in Auckland with her mum,
dad and younger brother, Phoenix.
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It actually feels great to be an older
sister.
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Sometimes that older sister can be...
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Annoying to the brothers. But it feels
great to annoy my brother.
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Who's on distance today?
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Phoenix.
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Thanks.
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Charlie, she's very emotionally
intelligent.
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She's headstrong, eh? She brings so much
passion.
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She brings high energy.
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And she really is, she really loves
life.
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This is my bedroom.
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Here's the closet.
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Closet.
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Over here, when you open this curtain,
it's my bed.
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This is my birthday encouragement board.
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I look beautiful with this picture over
there.
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And then I got this picture ever since I
was a baby.
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I got, like, 12 fingers.
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Two extra thumb comes out.
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I have Down syndrome, extra thumb comes
out.
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My mum and my dad were both happy. They
were like, man, this girl is super,
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super special.
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I feel great.
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Finding someone just as special for
Charlize is something everyone in the
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wants.
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Do you want to make some tea talk with
me?
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Sure. I love my sister.
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She's quite joyful.
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She's very caring. So, yeah, there's a
lot to love about my sister.
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Ready? Go.
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What are you doing?
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I thought you were going to do a TikTok
dance. I've never seen her date anyone,
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so yeah, looking forward to it. That
one.
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Yeah, I like that one.
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How would you describe love?
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When someone always makes me giggle.
When you have a love connection, you
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can see each other's eyes, and it feels
great to be loved.
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I'm a volunteer for the Thames Small
Gauge Railway Society Incorporated here
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the town of Thames where I live, and I'm
a train guard.
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I sit on the end of the train wearing a
vest and talking on my walkie -talkie.
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Observer to station, observer to
station, radio check. Feeling very happy
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proud of myself.
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Alex takes his responsibilities
seriously and feels he's now ready for
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stage. The only thing missing from my
life is a girlfriend, someone to share
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life with.
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I'd like to have a woman who understands
Asperger's, who's loving, who's kind,
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and I'd look after her very well.
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So you have to tell me you're going on a
date, mate. Yeah, I'm going on a date.
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Wow. You got some of the questions, so
you're going to ask your date?
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No.
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No plan.
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You're going to wing it. Freestyle.
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Go with the flow, mate. Exactly. That's
what you've got to do.
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When I go on my blind date, it will be
all brand new to me. It'll be a new
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experience, but I'm not going to let
fear get in the way. I'm going to crush
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down every barrier and go for it.
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In Auckland, Charlize and her parents
are setting up their new workspace.
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I work as a receptionist. It's really
exciting to be kind of nervous.
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How are you going to stand when people
come?
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What are you going to do?
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I'll just pop up and be like, Hey guys,
this is the AOK Hub.
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How can I help you today?
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Okay. Do you think that might scare
them?
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No, never do that.
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As well as working in the family
business, she's also studying.
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Charlize started at MIT this year just
as a sort of transition into
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tertiary learning.
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Okay, next we have Charlize.
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Today she's presenting a report on her
work experience.
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My dad actually took some photos of me
drawing some paintings.
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My arms were dying.
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A natural entertainer, Charlize has
ambitions to entertain beyond the
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She wants to pursue drama, hard out.
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Drama is her thing.
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Like, she's acting all the time.
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Like, when she gets in trouble, she's in
the bathroom, acting out lines that she
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wants to say to us. Good.
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OK, well done.
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Yeah, it was really good going to class.
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I met some friends.
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You guys are so crack up.
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It's been so cool, cos she comes home,
she's talking to all these people, and
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I'm like, who are you talking to? Oh, my
friends, my new friends. And I'm
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like... You are so cool.
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But Charlize is looking for more than
friendship, and her love inspiration is
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her favorite TV show.
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Friends.
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I like making friends, and it's really
funny.
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It was Joey.
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He said, how you doing?
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Do you think you might say that to your
date?
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I think I'd be the one who said, how you
doing?
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And then their boyfriend would be
like... Forget about it.
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And I'll be like, OK.
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In Thames, Alex is busy preparing for
his blind date and his excitement is
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growing.
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Oh, that's so awesome. Looks so pretty.
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She's going to be like, oh, thank you.
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What kind of person would you like to
date?
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One who's got a lovely nature, a big
heart, and one who's trustworthy and
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overall, inside out, lovable.
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I'd be thrilled to bits if you met
someone that you really liked.
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Thank you, Fluffy. Yeah.
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Really looking forward to it. I'm
actually really excited about it.
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Oh, yeah, so am I.
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Thank you, Fluffy.
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I love you, Fluffy. I love you so much,
my precious mother.
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I feel super charged, super excited
about going on my date today.
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It'll be a really good experience for me
and for the person I'm going with as
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well.
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Alex has never been on a blind date
before.
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I'm now ready to go on my date and I'm
going to have an awesome day.
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I'm thinking positive.
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Man, I look handsome.
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In Hamilton, 25 -year -old Daria is also
getting ready.
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I have fetal alcohol syndrome.
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My birth mum drank while I was in her
tummy.
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My dream partner is handsome, smart,
intelligent. My hobby is dog agility.
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If my partner is a dog, it will be a
border collie.
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This is Daria's first blind date too,
but she's prepared for anything.
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Hopefully anything won't go wrong, but I
don't want to play, but I've just done
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my first date level one last year, so
just do first date.
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Today they're meeting at Coromandel's
quirkiest water park.
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Hello, Daria.
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Alec, nice to meet you.
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I've just got you these lovely flowers
that I picked from my mother's garden.
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Thank you.
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Thank you for these lovely flowers.
You're welcome. I might not survive
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So,
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are you ready to... I'll let you kick
off today, if you like.
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Oh, no, I'll let you do it, but there
are no teams. All right, let's go.
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Alex and Daria set off on their date at
a cracking pace.
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So what are your interests, Daria?
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Fishing. I do dog agility with dogs,
similar to horse jumping but with
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equipment. Awesome, Daria.
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You're sniffing the flowers and
sneezing. Yeah.
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Get on the bike, say.
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I'll get on this one.
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They're certainly energetically matched.
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Look, look, I think those are toys.
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Whoa, watch where you're aiming that,
Alex.
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Me and Alex are having a good laugh.
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I really like him. Alex is amazing,
smart.
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It's quite tough.
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Are you going to put some muscle into it
like I'm doing?
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You seem a bit nervous, Daria.
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I am a bit nervous.
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Why are you so nervous?
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Because I thought Alex might not like me
as a girlfriend.
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I'm really enjoying my date so far.
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What do you think of Daria? What's she
like?
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She's outgoing.
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She's excited.
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She's the kind of person who I can talk
to and who I can be friends with.
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After circumnavigating the park in
record time, they've worked up a hunger.
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Can I get something to eat?
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Yeah, I'm a bit hungry.
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I'm really hungry, my goodness.
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Here, let's tuck in.
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Get into it before the mosquitoes eat at
you.
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Oh my goodness, this is delicious,
Daria.
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Wow, and it's even more friendly when
you're here and joining me for lunch.
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really enjoying your company today.
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Where were you born, Daria?
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I was born in Kemerovo, Russia, 1997.
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Oh, yeah? In Russia?
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Yeah. Cool. What about you? I was born
in Romania, in a place called Constanza,
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on the 11th of February, 1990.
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I was adopted. Romania, Romania.
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Same, I was adopted as well.
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Golly. Yeah. And also, I came into...
Oh, buckle off, Clyde, before I kill
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What is your favourite Disney character?
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My one is absolutely Stitch from Lilo
and Stitch.
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Mickey Mouse, because I used to have
Mickey Mouse toothpaste when I used to
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my teeth at night.
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Yeah, I have mini headbands. Oh, my
goodness. That I got when we went to
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World. So I wonder how it's going down
there. Two interesting people, isn't it?
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Yeah, it is two very interesting people.
240
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Yeah. So Daria really struggles to make
friends.
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because she's a little bit out there and
it's quite difficult for her. She knows
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a lot of people but doesn't have very
many friends.
243
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So how does Alex go?
244
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Alex has huge problems making friends.
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Probably because of his communication,
he will struggle.
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Sometimes he might be halfway through a
sentence and he's come in with another
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subject straight away.
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That sounds so familiar.
249
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Does it? Oh, yeah.
250
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What do you like to do in HobbyWay?
251
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I'm an amateur radio operator. Also, I
am a train guard down at the Thames
252
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Gauge Railway. I take my walkie -talkie
and talk to the stationmaster.
253
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I think I ate a jalapeno.
254
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Oh, golly.
255
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That's spicy.
256
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So did you enjoy this date?
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I absolutely loved this date.
258
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Do you think we would see each other as
friends?
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Just as friends. For now? Yep. Just as
friends.
260
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Yeah. And I, hopefully we can, as
friends, catch
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up again.
262
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Like maybe you'd like to come down to
the trains.
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And I might even teach you to use a
walkie -talkie.
264
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Oh, I know how to do a walkie -talkie.
Well, thank you so much, Daria.
265
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I really enjoyed today.
266
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Yeah, I enjoyed it as well. Same.
267
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It's been lovely.
268
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Hi, Fluffy.
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Hey.
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Oh, how did it go?
271
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It went really well, thank you, Fluffy.
Yay.
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Daria is really nice.
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Oh, cool. And I cannot wait to hopefully
catch up with her as friends in the
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near future.
275
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Oh, lovely.
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Yay.
277
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Hello. G'day, mate. How did that go?
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It was great.
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Was it? You want to tell me a little bit
about it?
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Darya may have been hoping for more, but
being friends is a great way to start
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any relationship.
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Charlize and her dad are also talking
friends, dating and boys.
283
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I feel kind of nervous.
284
00:18:17,390 --> 00:18:22,570
Nervous? Yeah, because I never asked
that guy before.
285
00:18:22,890 --> 00:18:24,530
Do you have a particular type?
286
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I like when someone makes me laugh.
287
00:18:26,950 --> 00:18:28,490
Yeah, because you're quite funny, eh?
Yeah.
288
00:18:28,830 --> 00:18:34,050
He has great hair, has good -looking
eyes.
289
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He has a really good personality and...
290
00:18:40,629 --> 00:18:41,629
He's cute.
291
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Yeah, he likes me.
292
00:18:45,710 --> 00:18:48,730
What would be your ideal date? How would
you like it to pan out?
293
00:18:49,330 --> 00:18:54,550
Yes, in the beach, with the sunset, in
the background.
294
00:18:55,270 --> 00:18:56,270
Well, that's romantic.
295
00:18:56,590 --> 00:18:58,930
And then you can see the shooting star.
296
00:18:59,230 --> 00:19:02,330
Oh, man, you'd be quite lucky if you see
a shooting star on your first date.
297
00:19:02,770 --> 00:19:04,490
Yeah. Might be a sign, eh, Shelley?
298
00:19:04,690 --> 00:19:07,510
Yeah. And how do you know when you've
found the right one?
299
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I feel like my body is...
300
00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:13,980
It was, like, a bit jumpy. When I get,
like, a jump scare, it comes out.
301
00:19:14,820 --> 00:19:15,820
A jump scare.
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Excited. When my heart is, like,
pounding.
303
00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:22,700
You know, Mum and Dad really hope you
find someone that really likes you and
304
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treats you well, eh? Yeah.
305
00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,700
Someone who's quite respectful, good
value.
306
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:28,980
As a father, I'm looking for that. Oh,
OK.
307
00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:31,940
If you're respectful, you're honourable,
all good.
308
00:19:32,140 --> 00:19:33,140
All that kind of stuff.
309
00:19:33,420 --> 00:19:37,680
Why, the big one, Charlize, what if he
asks us to kiss you on the first date?
310
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Would you let him kiss you?
311
00:19:39,740 --> 00:19:41,120
Yeah, I don't mind.
312
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What?
313
00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:46,560
Maybe, I'm not sure.
314
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Oh, okay.
315
00:19:48,060 --> 00:19:48,899
That's fine.
316
00:19:48,900 --> 00:19:49,940
No, that's fine, shall we?
317
00:19:50,180 --> 00:19:54,600
Not that much. Just one thing, and then
that's enough.
318
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:58,100
Oh, just one kiss, or you mean like a
pick on the cheek, hey?
319
00:19:58,340 --> 00:20:00,180
Yeah. Are you sure? That's what you
meant?
320
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,260
Yeah, that's what I meant.
321
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,860
Oh, okay. We're checking here, shall we?
322
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:06,900
Yeah. OK.
323
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:12,600
She's definitely a daddy's girl, and
they have a pretty special bond, so
324
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be interesting.
325
00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:15,860
We'll see how it goes. We'll see how it
goes.
326
00:20:16,120 --> 00:20:17,120
See who we are.
327
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At the Telsey Sugar Factory in Auckland,
Charlize is patiently waiting to meet
328
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her blind date, Joseph.
329
00:20:28,820 --> 00:20:34,100
He's 21 years old and an avid swimmer
and has also never been on a date
330
00:20:37,020 --> 00:20:38,140
Hi. Hi.
331
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:40,400
My name is Joseph.
332
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Nice to meet you.
333
00:20:42,220 --> 00:20:43,260
This is for you.
334
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:44,780
Aw, thank you.
335
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,680
There's the three of you. You're so
pretty.
336
00:20:49,100 --> 00:20:50,100
And you are too.
337
00:20:50,740 --> 00:20:51,740
Aw.
338
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,240
I like your necklace.
339
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:54,880
Oh, thank you.
340
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:59,120
Do you see? I like your glasses. Thank
you. You look so trendy and stuff.
341
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:00,860
Should we go inside?
342
00:21:01,260 --> 00:21:02,520
Yes. Okay, let's go.
343
00:21:05,290 --> 00:21:06,670
Welcome to Chelsea Factory.
344
00:21:06,910 --> 00:21:07,910
My name is Evie.
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For their date, Charlize and Joseph will
be making cupcakes.
346
00:21:12,850 --> 00:21:13,990
Are you super happy?
347
00:21:14,290 --> 00:21:15,290
Yes.
348
00:21:15,950 --> 00:21:18,910
Is it your first time wearing an apron?
349
00:21:19,270 --> 00:21:20,690
Yes. Does it help?
350
00:21:21,250 --> 00:21:22,250
Thank you.
351
00:21:22,510 --> 00:21:24,190
You're so gentleman -like.
352
00:21:25,550 --> 00:21:27,510
Thank you.
353
00:21:27,770 --> 00:21:28,770
You're welcome.
354
00:21:30,590 --> 00:21:34,090
You're so good at tying your ear thing
like that. Thank you.
355
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,860
Okay, we're going to cream the butter
and number one.
356
00:21:40,580 --> 00:21:41,580
Isn't that cool?
357
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:42,719
It is.
358
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:43,720
Wow.
359
00:21:44,660 --> 00:21:46,720
Have you made cupcakes before?
360
00:21:47,060 --> 00:21:48,500
This is my first time.
361
00:21:48,740 --> 00:21:49,740
Oh, wow.
362
00:21:50,220 --> 00:21:51,480
Would you like a turn?
363
00:21:52,020 --> 00:21:53,060
Yeah, of course.
364
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,680
So what's your favorite music?
365
00:21:57,100 --> 00:21:58,380
Yeah, like jazz.
366
00:21:59,100 --> 00:22:05,220
Oh. Do you like song songs or do you
just like... Any pop songs?
367
00:22:05,860 --> 00:22:07,800
I like any pop songs.
368
00:22:08,300 --> 00:22:11,380
Ooh. I listen to K -Perry.
369
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:15,220
Ooh. For some reason, I like the 80s for
some reason.
370
00:22:15,620 --> 00:22:18,480
Yeah. Man, you have a brimful voice.
371
00:22:19,220 --> 00:22:20,220
Thank you.
372
00:22:20,300 --> 00:22:22,240
Yeah, I like singing and dancing.
373
00:22:22,660 --> 00:22:23,660
Oh, you like dancing?
374
00:22:23,900 --> 00:22:24,900
Yes.
375
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:29,680
So, um, what kind of dance moves did you
do?
376
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,620
Yeah, I like, um, slow dancing.
377
00:22:33,150 --> 00:22:34,150
Ooh.
378
00:22:34,270 --> 00:22:36,870
Yeah, I like the cha -cha -cha.
379
00:22:37,450 --> 00:22:39,070
Ooh, the cha -cha? Yeah.
380
00:22:39,390 --> 00:22:42,090
Oops, sorry, it's just a little mistake.
381
00:22:42,530 --> 00:22:44,930
Yeah. Oh, my gosh, I know, it's so
weird.
382
00:22:45,170 --> 00:22:51,910
I just, I'm just going to look away
and... Nothing happened.
383
00:22:52,770 --> 00:22:53,990
I mean, how does it taste?
384
00:22:54,570 --> 00:22:56,030
It tastes pretty good.
385
00:22:56,230 --> 00:22:57,230
Do you want to try some?
386
00:22:57,350 --> 00:22:58,650
I think I might.
387
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,760
What does it taste like? Pretty good.
388
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:04,960
This is actually really fun.
389
00:23:05,360 --> 00:23:07,400
He has a really good personality.
390
00:23:08,420 --> 00:23:09,560
Good looking.
391
00:23:10,540 --> 00:23:11,700
He's really handsome.
392
00:23:12,660 --> 00:23:13,940
And he's really sweet.
393
00:23:15,220 --> 00:23:17,680
So, um, what is your favorite color?
394
00:23:18,260 --> 00:23:19,520
Yeah, I like orange.
395
00:23:21,020 --> 00:23:22,020
Oh, you like orange?
396
00:23:23,100 --> 00:23:25,500
Wow. Ooh, nice color.
397
00:23:26,780 --> 00:23:28,280
So, while...
398
00:23:28,510 --> 00:23:29,510
We're just waiting for the icing.
399
00:23:29,890 --> 00:23:31,090
Do you want to do something?
400
00:23:32,310 --> 00:23:35,790
Yes. So how do you do with this? May I
put my hand here?
401
00:23:36,050 --> 00:23:37,049
Yeah, of course.
402
00:23:37,050 --> 00:23:38,530
And now we sway.
403
00:23:39,030 --> 00:23:40,030
Oh.
404
00:23:42,370 --> 00:23:43,530
And now twirl.
405
00:23:48,890 --> 00:23:50,010
Is this really fun?
406
00:23:50,490 --> 00:23:51,490
Yes.
407
00:23:52,130 --> 00:23:53,770
Wow, you're really good at this.
408
00:23:54,310 --> 00:23:55,630
It's going really good.
409
00:23:56,350 --> 00:24:01,170
These are amazing way she is. They could
be a girlfriend.
410
00:24:03,990 --> 00:24:05,470
Mabel and outside.
411
00:24:05,910 --> 00:24:07,890
Go for it, guys. Okay. Have fun.
412
00:24:08,190 --> 00:24:09,650
Like I was thinking, taste.
413
00:24:10,090 --> 00:24:11,090
Okay, I'm sure.
414
00:24:12,430 --> 00:24:13,890
Ooh, is it good?
415
00:24:16,850 --> 00:24:18,270
Ooh, nice art.
416
00:24:18,690 --> 00:24:19,990
Awesome, high five.
417
00:24:20,510 --> 00:24:21,510
Nice.
418
00:24:22,990 --> 00:24:25,030
Should we go sit down? Yes.
419
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:26,680
Okay.
420
00:24:28,060 --> 00:24:32,660
So, um, are you going to save your
cupcakes for, um, your parents?
421
00:24:33,020 --> 00:24:34,720
Yes. Ah, that's good.
422
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,100
What is your favorite part for today?
423
00:24:39,900 --> 00:24:43,560
Um, meeting you the first time.
424
00:24:44,140 --> 00:24:45,600
Aw, you're so sweet.
425
00:24:46,780 --> 00:24:47,880
Just like the cupcake.
426
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,800
It's okay if I could have you for
number.
427
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,080
Maybe.
428
00:24:54,350 --> 00:24:55,950
Okay. Yeah, of course.
429
00:24:56,230 --> 00:24:57,230
Thank you.
430
00:24:57,630 --> 00:24:58,630
Should we hug?
431
00:24:58,790 --> 00:24:59,890
Yes. Okay.
432
00:25:01,390 --> 00:25:02,750
Enjoy your day.
433
00:25:03,190 --> 00:25:04,750
It was good to meet you today.
434
00:25:04,950 --> 00:25:05,950
It was nice to meet you.
435
00:25:06,230 --> 00:25:08,330
Well, I guess, bye.
436
00:25:08,810 --> 00:25:09,810
Bye.
437
00:25:12,350 --> 00:25:13,350
Man,
438
00:25:14,010 --> 00:25:17,570
he's such a good -looking guy.
439
00:25:19,050 --> 00:25:19,729
Hi, Mum.
440
00:25:19,730 --> 00:25:21,710
Hey. Oh, nice flowers.
441
00:25:22,170 --> 00:25:23,930
Yeah, he bought me some flowers. Oh,
they look so nice.
442
00:25:24,590 --> 00:25:25,870
So tell me all about it.
443
00:25:26,070 --> 00:25:26,989
It was amazing.
444
00:25:26,990 --> 00:25:29,970
We made some cupcakes, and then we did a
slow dance.
445
00:25:30,390 --> 00:25:31,390
You did a slow dance?
446
00:25:31,550 --> 00:25:32,930
Yeah. Did you dance?
447
00:25:33,310 --> 00:25:36,490
Yeah, we were just dancing, and it's not
kissing, isn't it? We were just
448
00:25:36,490 --> 00:25:38,250
dancing. Was he a good dancer?
449
00:25:38,570 --> 00:25:40,250
Yeah, he was really good. Oh, wow.
450
00:25:40,670 --> 00:25:42,010
So shall we go home and tell Dad then?
451
00:25:42,950 --> 00:25:44,510
Yeah. Cool.
452
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:57,060
In the last month, Chloe has had two
very successful dates with Nathan.
453
00:25:57,380 --> 00:26:04,380
So successful that now she's back at
work, she's struggling to keep her
454
00:26:04,380 --> 00:26:05,380
mind on the job.
455
00:26:12,620 --> 00:26:17,020
I think about him night and day, all the
time. When I think about him at work,
456
00:26:17,020 --> 00:26:21,500
even my supervisor comes along and I
say, can we do your work? And I'm there
457
00:26:21,500 --> 00:26:23,380
thinking about him all the time.
458
00:26:25,060 --> 00:26:31,880
He's handsome, he's tall, he's muscular,
he's chatting like me, the chatterbox
459
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:32,880
like me.
460
00:26:34,090 --> 00:26:37,930
It takes an hour and a half to talk on
the phone. Even though we're trying to
461
00:26:37,930 --> 00:26:42,190
save our credit on our phone, it's okay
because I've got plenty on it.
462
00:26:43,770 --> 00:26:48,290
When I ring, I have a feeling of, oh,
and after I finish my phone call, I just
463
00:26:48,290 --> 00:26:53,790
walk out my room and go, ah, like that.
Oh, that lovely, lovely, lovely feeling.
464
00:26:53,950 --> 00:26:55,590
I never had this feeling before.
465
00:27:00,970 --> 00:27:05,070
Chloe's falling head over heels and she
can't stop talking about it.
466
00:27:05,770 --> 00:27:11,690
Oh, Mum, he's lovely. He's charming,
he's sweet. He's much better than my
467
00:27:11,690 --> 00:27:12,790
boys put together.
468
00:27:13,230 --> 00:27:14,230
Sounds nice.
469
00:27:14,550 --> 00:27:16,550
And I really, really like him, Mum.
470
00:27:17,510 --> 00:27:21,910
And I really want you guys to meet him.
Yeah, I'd love to meet him. I hope Dad
471
00:27:21,910 --> 00:27:23,150
likes him too.
472
00:27:23,590 --> 00:27:27,830
Yeah. He's got a box like me. Oh, no. I
don't know about my ears.
473
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,420
It's sweet and kind and everything.
474
00:27:32,360 --> 00:27:33,360
Oh,
475
00:27:33,700 --> 00:27:37,720
I'm so pleased for you. That's really
nice. I'm happy for myself as well.
476
00:27:38,740 --> 00:27:45,500
In Thames, things aren't going quite so
well.
477
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,160
Alex and Daria have hit a speed bump.
478
00:27:48,620 --> 00:27:53,840
I don't like to rush things. I just like
to take things one step at a time. I've
479
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:54,880
always been like that.
480
00:27:56,010 --> 00:27:58,690
But that's not the speed that Daria
works at.
481
00:27:59,190 --> 00:28:04,630
Well, she just started texting and
texting and texting. Just made me feel a
482
00:28:04,630 --> 00:28:08,670
little bit freaked out. And as it was
quite intense, it was like she was
483
00:28:08,670 --> 00:28:14,450
into it. She was saying, would you like
to go on a date? Do you like me? And all
484
00:28:14,450 --> 00:28:15,690
that sort of stuff.
485
00:28:15,910 --> 00:28:20,690
And I got quite overwhelmed by it all.
And I just wanted her to stop.
486
00:28:23,690 --> 00:28:24,990
Well, we teach good.
487
00:28:25,770 --> 00:28:29,790
And then we stopped, and then I think I
continued it, and it really stressed the
488
00:28:29,790 --> 00:28:31,810
hell out of him, and fair enough.
489
00:28:33,210 --> 00:28:39,150
I think I felt like he was the first guy
that I really liked to text, because
490
00:28:39,150 --> 00:28:43,670
he's a guy that I really like. You know,
I'm not great with boys, talking to
491
00:28:43,670 --> 00:28:44,670
boys.
492
00:28:44,730 --> 00:28:46,690
That's what I am. I like texting.
493
00:28:47,050 --> 00:28:48,450
How many texts did you send?
494
00:28:49,010 --> 00:28:50,590
Heaps. Yeah.
495
00:28:50,970 --> 00:28:52,370
How many have I done?
496
00:29:00,330 --> 00:29:01,330
Jesus Christ.
497
00:29:02,990 --> 00:29:05,010
And that wasn't the only issue.
498
00:29:05,690 --> 00:29:09,810
My phone does this stupid thing where it
autocorrects for something
499
00:29:09,810 --> 00:29:10,810
inappropriate.
500
00:29:11,270 --> 00:29:13,910
I have a bad habit of texting at night.
501
00:29:14,290 --> 00:29:16,750
It's a habit that I need to get out of.
502
00:29:17,330 --> 00:29:19,750
Texting too much when they stop texting.
503
00:29:21,470 --> 00:29:24,550
Daria's very keen to get things back on
track with Alex.
504
00:29:25,150 --> 00:29:29,550
I think... We have a few things in
common. I like trains, he likes trains.
505
00:29:30,210 --> 00:29:35,870
I like fishing, he used to like fishing.
He used to have a dog, I have a dog.
506
00:29:36,110 --> 00:29:37,510
He's been a really nice guy.
507
00:29:41,070 --> 00:29:43,670
Ray's first date with Hayley went very
well.
508
00:29:44,170 --> 00:29:46,010
Should I give you a hug?
509
00:29:46,610 --> 00:29:47,990
Yes, you can give me a hug.
510
00:29:50,070 --> 00:29:53,170
He even got to rock her world with a
serenade.
511
00:29:56,780 --> 00:29:57,780
She's a woman.
512
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,200
Now he's back home in Dargaville. Rock
and roll.
513
00:30:04,860 --> 00:30:06,400
And it's back to work.
514
00:30:08,060 --> 00:30:10,880
As a firewood supplier at Greenways
Trust.
515
00:30:12,060 --> 00:30:19,020
When I go on a
516
00:30:19,020 --> 00:30:23,280
log splitter, I make it stop when it
goes...
517
00:30:27,180 --> 00:30:34,100
Then I'd go... Then it would fall apart.
518
00:30:36,020 --> 00:30:41,200
I've been thinking about Hayley nearly
every day.
519
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:48,000
I told a few of my workmates that I went
on a date.
520
00:30:52,970 --> 00:30:55,530
I actually won't be here tomorrow.
521
00:30:56,090 --> 00:30:56,989
Are you?
522
00:30:56,990 --> 00:30:57,990
Oh, no.
523
00:30:58,130 --> 00:31:01,430
I'm going on a date. Are you? Yes.
524
00:31:01,750 --> 00:31:02,750
Oh, Cassation.
525
00:31:03,090 --> 00:31:04,090
Cool.
526
00:31:05,090 --> 00:31:06,170
What's her name?
527
00:31:06,430 --> 00:31:09,870
Hayley. She likes scary movies.
528
00:31:11,270 --> 00:31:13,290
Yes. That's good.
529
00:31:13,510 --> 00:31:15,690
You can see it. Not yet.
530
00:31:16,070 --> 00:31:18,790
No, no, no. It hasn't happened yet.
531
00:31:19,290 --> 00:31:22,110
Okay. I haven't quite got that, so.
532
00:31:25,700 --> 00:31:30,780
While Ray's contemplating his second
date with Hayley, Daria's getting some
533
00:31:30,780 --> 00:31:31,860
with her texting habits.
534
00:31:35,100 --> 00:31:40,300
Today she's meeting with Carolyn O
'Neill, who specialises in relationship
535
00:31:40,300 --> 00:31:41,300
communication.
536
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,040
How do you feel when you get a message?
537
00:31:44,820 --> 00:31:48,300
Happy. And so what's happening inside
your brain when you receive a text?
538
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:49,680
is dopamine.
539
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:55,080
It's a nice, warm, fuzzy, yummy feeling.
And it becomes a little bit like we
540
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,360
want it over and over again.
541
00:31:56,580 --> 00:32:01,140
But we have to watch it because we can
do too many texts and then the dopamine
542
00:32:01,140 --> 00:32:02,980
feeling goes away for the other person.
543
00:32:03,700 --> 00:32:04,700
Meh.
544
00:32:05,900 --> 00:32:10,380
With some visual aids, Daria will work
through good and bad ways to text.
545
00:32:10,660 --> 00:32:13,100
Having a flurry of texts every day.
546
00:32:13,420 --> 00:32:15,280
That is definitely bad habit.
547
00:32:16,570 --> 00:32:19,370
Letting the other person be the one to
start texting.
548
00:32:19,570 --> 00:32:21,050
I reckon it would be a good thing.
549
00:32:21,270 --> 00:32:26,150
Cool. That's a good texting habit. So
when you and Alex text, do you let him
550
00:32:26,150 --> 00:32:28,070
the other one to start texting
sometimes?
551
00:32:30,450 --> 00:32:32,830
You know what? I start the conversation.
552
00:32:33,290 --> 00:32:36,830
So that's something you could look at
improving, right?
553
00:32:37,050 --> 00:32:40,070
What might be clues that they're
finished for now? No more texts?
554
00:32:40,450 --> 00:32:41,450
Not so sure.
555
00:32:41,590 --> 00:32:42,750
It might be...
556
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:47,120
They started off with long text, and
then the text are getting shorter and
557
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,120
shorter and shorter.
558
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,720
Yeah. So they're sort of like running
out of energy.
559
00:32:51,020 --> 00:32:54,120
Yeah. All right, what's another one?
Having days of no texting.
560
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,240
Days where you're not texting at all.
Good habit.
561
00:32:57,500 --> 00:32:58,500
Good. Great.
562
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:03,040
So do you think you're good at having
days with no text? No.
563
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:08,000
So it's about putting down the phone and
leaving it alone and doing other stuff.
564
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:10,440
So you can leave Alex alone completely.
565
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:12,860
Okay, something to work on. Cool.
566
00:33:13,260 --> 00:33:16,980
This is great. I'm so glad you're being
so honest because that means we can move
567
00:33:16,980 --> 00:33:18,200
forward and learn, right?
568
00:33:18,580 --> 00:33:23,020
I've been getting into about a really
bad habit where I text someone in the
569
00:33:23,020 --> 00:33:24,020
middle of the night.
570
00:33:24,220 --> 00:33:28,340
If you're awake and you can't go to
sleep, you could just write the question
571
00:33:28,340 --> 00:33:32,940
down not on your phone. And you might
even say, sometimes I'd like it if you
572
00:33:32,940 --> 00:33:33,899
text first.
573
00:33:33,900 --> 00:33:37,180
Yeah. And then you have to be cool about
that and just let him.
574
00:33:38,180 --> 00:33:43,440
I actually think this is a really great
opportunity with Alex because sometimes
575
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:47,960
when you get to know someone, you're
going to get it wrong. Yeah. And you
576
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,660
even say, oh, sometimes I'm going to get
it wrong, Alex, but could you just
577
00:33:50,660 --> 00:33:53,380
please tell me because I really like to
be your friend.
578
00:33:53,620 --> 00:33:57,840
Yeah. This is a really exciting time to
get to know each other and just take it
579
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,640
slow. Yeah. So how do you feel? Are you
ready to go? I'm nervous.
580
00:34:01,180 --> 00:34:04,800
Yeah, and that's understandable. We all
get nervous and that's a bit exciting.
581
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:05,960
Good job.
582
00:34:06,060 --> 00:34:06,759
Should we go?
583
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:07,760
Yeah. Okay.
584
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:08,920
Well done.
585
00:34:16,980 --> 00:34:21,400
In Auckland, Chloe has organised for
Nathan to meet her parents for a dinner
586
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:22,400
date.
587
00:34:22,420 --> 00:34:24,620
Are you guys excited to meet Nathan?
588
00:34:26,260 --> 00:34:28,540
Oh, yeah. I'm really excited.
589
00:34:29,139 --> 00:34:32,000
He's a really nice mum and dad. He's
charming.
590
00:34:32,810 --> 00:34:35,389
I describe what he looks like as well.
591
00:34:35,790 --> 00:34:39,989
Yeah, but you describe somebody like
Shrek. No, he's not like Shrek. He's a
592
00:34:39,989 --> 00:34:41,550
nice, calming boy.
593
00:34:42,110 --> 00:34:45,370
Is he coming by horse or on his
pushbike? I don't know.
594
00:34:45,790 --> 00:34:46,790
Scooter? No.
595
00:34:50,759 --> 00:34:55,659
Okay, this is my lovely mum, Helen, and
this is my dad, Colin.
596
00:34:55,900 --> 00:34:58,000
Hi, good to see you. Good to meet you,
Helen.
597
00:34:58,740 --> 00:35:00,320
Nice to meet you, Colin.
598
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,060
Good to meet you, Colin.
599
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,900
How's life gone with you? Really good,
mate. How's it going for you?
600
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,560
Awesome. Get to know each other a little
bit more. Maybe knock a few whiskies
601
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:09,680
back. Yeah, definitely.
602
00:35:16,100 --> 00:35:18,900
Perhaps it ain't time for a whisky.
603
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,760
Oh, look at these. Oh, beautiful. Thank
you very much.
604
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:24,540
This is beautiful, mate.
605
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:25,760
Cheers.
606
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:27,080
Cheers.
607
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,560
Whoa, this is so good. Oh, that's nice.
608
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:34,680
Look, you're not driving.
609
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:35,880
Cheers.
610
00:35:39,580 --> 00:35:42,580
How was the go -karting? Oh, it was
awesome.
611
00:35:43,340 --> 00:35:47,320
Who won? I surely won because I got my
biggest trophy right here.
612
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,560
Smooth talking, eh?
613
00:35:52,420 --> 00:35:57,920
What do you do, Nathan?
614
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:04,820
Well, I've been kind of all over the
place. Now I volunteer at a place called
615
00:36:04,820 --> 00:36:08,220
Halotau, which is a restaurant, bar and
hangar.
616
00:36:08,460 --> 00:36:09,460
Oh, right.
617
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,760
That's my horsey.
618
00:36:13,740 --> 00:36:15,880
Do you like cars? Yeah, I love cars.
619
00:36:16,900 --> 00:36:18,300
GT3. Yeah.
620
00:36:20,060 --> 00:36:21,840
Cars, some common ground.
621
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,240
What do you do for a hobby, Nathan?
622
00:36:26,500 --> 00:36:30,680
I've got a few hobbies, and I used to be
in a band. Oh, wow.
623
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:35,460
What sort of music? We were classed as a
pop -rock band.
624
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,600
So you'd be good at singing then?
625
00:36:40,300 --> 00:36:42,280
When I've had a few beers, yeah.
626
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,260
It's Nathan's sincerity that's winning
them over.
627
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,560
Welcome to the Benji family.
628
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,580
Awesome. If that's OK with you guys.
629
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:53,800
Yeah, lovely.
630
00:36:54,060 --> 00:36:55,440
Right, well, we'll go settle the bill.
631
00:36:55,740 --> 00:36:56,960
Thank you, Mum and Dad.
632
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:59,120
So nice.
633
00:36:59,980 --> 00:37:02,380
I've had such a magical night with you,
my Chloe.
634
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:07,660
May I kiss you, Nathan?
635
00:37:08,300 --> 00:37:09,760
Yeah, if that's all right with you.
636
00:37:13,720 --> 00:37:16,880
It's so good to have you for my
girlfriend.
637
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:20,880
Yeah.
638
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:29,120
Thank you. Thank you very much. I love
your meal. Thank you. See you again.
639
00:37:29,240 --> 00:37:30,580
Thank you. Shall we leave, Nathan?
640
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,320
Yeah.
641
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:35,640
I don't really want to, but yeah.
642
00:37:35,980 --> 00:37:37,640
Me too, we can't spoil the moment.
643
00:37:37,860 --> 00:37:38,900
What does that tell us, whoever?
644
00:37:46,460 --> 00:37:49,380
It's been over a month since Ray last
saw Hayley.
645
00:37:49,820 --> 00:37:56,700
He's made the trip to Auckland for a
second date, accompanied by his support
646
00:37:56,700 --> 00:37:57,700
worker, PK.
647
00:38:00,240 --> 00:38:02,160
John, on a scale of one to ten, how do
you feel?
648
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:03,760
12 out of 12.
649
00:38:05,220 --> 00:38:07,880
I've been waiting for this moment.
650
00:38:08,240 --> 00:38:09,980
For a long time too, eh, Brent? Yeah.
651
00:38:10,420 --> 00:38:12,020
Looking for love.
652
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:13,320
Oh, yeah.
653
00:38:13,740 --> 00:38:15,940
All right, let's get to it. Let's get to
it.
654
00:38:16,340 --> 00:38:17,480
Bring it in, my brother.
655
00:38:17,720 --> 00:38:20,000
Yeah. Well done, well done.
656
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:22,700
Rock and roll.
657
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:30,220
Tonight they'll be touring a famous
horror haunt, Weta Workshop.
658
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,100
I'm excited about seeing Hayley again.
659
00:38:38,340 --> 00:38:41,560
I bring her a surprise gift.
660
00:38:44,460 --> 00:38:45,640
Hey, Ray.
661
00:38:46,420 --> 00:38:47,420
Hi.
662
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:49,940
How are you?
663
00:38:50,300 --> 00:38:55,940
I'm really good. I've been excited to
see you.
664
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:57,960
Yeah, me too.
665
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,520
Would you like to see?
666
00:39:01,300 --> 00:39:02,640
Yes, please.
667
00:39:03,950 --> 00:39:05,970
Three, two, one.
668
00:39:06,510 --> 00:39:09,450
Wow. Ta -da. That is awesome.
669
00:39:09,850 --> 00:39:13,390
I thought I'd give this to you to have.
670
00:39:14,030 --> 00:39:15,070
Oh, that's amazing.
671
00:39:15,390 --> 00:39:19,130
I've actually seen the Candyman movie.
Thank you so much.
672
00:39:20,530 --> 00:39:22,930
Could I give you a kiss?
673
00:39:24,070 --> 00:39:26,110
Yes, you can, on the cheek.
674
00:39:28,170 --> 00:39:29,850
Thank you.
675
00:39:30,830 --> 00:39:33,530
He did kiss me and I thought that was
very sweet.
676
00:39:33,810 --> 00:39:35,390
I got a bit of butterflies.
677
00:39:41,470 --> 00:39:45,750
Nestled in this home of horror, tonight
they'll be creating their own special
678
00:39:45,750 --> 00:39:46,750
effects.
679
00:39:46,930 --> 00:39:49,610
Would you mind if I hold your hand?
680
00:39:50,270 --> 00:39:51,310
No, that's fine.
681
00:39:53,750 --> 00:39:59,130
Utilising his painting skills, Ray's
crafting a gruesome laceration on
682
00:39:59,670 --> 00:40:03,230
Never done this sort of art before.
683
00:40:05,210 --> 00:40:10,010
I think this flesh wound looks finished.
684
00:40:10,630 --> 00:40:11,630
Ta -da!
685
00:40:12,210 --> 00:40:14,150
Wow, that looks amazing.
686
00:40:14,950 --> 00:40:18,370
His skills are really good. I'm
impressed in a good way.
687
00:40:20,970 --> 00:40:25,750
Ray's gone for subtle by asking Hayley
to create a bullet hole in his forehead.
688
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,500
What does it feel like on your head?
689
00:40:29,900 --> 00:40:34,500
Sort of feels like a cat licking my
forehead.
690
00:40:37,180 --> 00:40:39,160
Just mixing the paint.
691
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,700
Yep. Next up.
692
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:49,420
Which sort of horror movie inspired you
to do special
693
00:40:49,420 --> 00:40:50,420
effects?
694
00:40:51,300 --> 00:40:53,160
Movies like Scream.
695
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,380
Oh. And...
696
00:40:55,610 --> 00:40:58,730
The Evil Dead and Nightmare on Elm
Street as well. Oh.
697
00:41:01,490 --> 00:41:02,490
Okay.
698
00:41:02,890 --> 00:41:06,510
It'd be funny if I wore it out to
dinner.
699
00:41:06,930 --> 00:41:12,370
Oh, you know, wear it to dinner. You
won't scare children if there's
700
00:41:14,930 --> 00:41:15,930
Okay,
701
00:41:20,650 --> 00:41:21,890
you can open your eyes now.
702
00:41:23,430 --> 00:41:24,430
Oh.
703
00:41:26,039 --> 00:41:28,880
I think that looks really cool.
704
00:41:29,140 --> 00:41:30,560
That's awesome.
705
00:41:31,340 --> 00:41:36,880
Now that they look the part, it's time
to move on with the tour.
706
00:41:37,420 --> 00:41:40,600
This looks really scary.
707
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,880
I'm going to smoke Batman.
708
00:41:50,620 --> 00:41:51,780
That's a lie.
709
00:41:54,899 --> 00:41:57,140
Could I do a scream?
710
00:41:57,940 --> 00:42:01,100
Sure. One, two...
711
00:42:01,100 --> 00:42:08,620
Their
712
00:42:08,620 --> 00:42:16,260
evening
713
00:42:16,260 --> 00:42:19,380
finishes with a walk around Sky Tower's
viewing platform.
714
00:42:19,860 --> 00:42:22,580
Oh, well, look at this.
715
00:42:23,020 --> 00:42:25,020
This looks really nice.
716
00:42:25,540 --> 00:42:28,240
And all the pretty lights. Really cool.
717
00:42:28,820 --> 00:42:31,980
I like that sign. It says whatever.
718
00:42:32,720 --> 00:42:35,040
Yeah, me too. I like that sign too.
719
00:42:39,540 --> 00:42:43,000
I really enjoyed our date. I thought it
was really nice.
720
00:42:43,220 --> 00:42:47,540
It was really good to see you again. I
think you're a very cool guy.
721
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:52,000
Oh, thank you. I would like to see you
again after today.
722
00:42:52,540 --> 00:42:54,320
Yeah, they're set up late.
723
00:42:54,720 --> 00:42:55,720
Yeah.
724
00:42:56,720 --> 00:42:59,020
Could I give you a hug?
725
00:43:00,380 --> 00:43:02,480
Yes, sure, you can give me a hug.
726
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:11,000
Fantastic.
727
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,880
Next time, we have a photo -finished
first date.
728
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:28,820
What are you doing in there?
729
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,060
Love's put a skip in Daniel's step.
730
00:43:35,340 --> 00:43:37,700
I hear all about it. He's got a nurse
friend.
731
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:43,360
And the writing's on the wheel for
Charlize and Joseph.
732
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,840
Joseph finally made a move on me.
733
00:43:48,060 --> 00:43:49,500
It means he likes me.
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