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Previously on Before the 90 Days.

Trish.

Oh, you're here.

I'm here, baby.

I really believe that she's the one.

Do you love me?

I love you so, so, so much.

I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish after the ghosting incident.

But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.

Surprise!

You know what I really like from the state? The Chinese food out there.

If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.

My boyfriend is just a charmer. He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.

But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.

They actually just did a big concert. The first song that was performed was

Vicky. And I was getting messages that she was at the concert and that they

together.

I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong, but there's definitely a part of

me that wonders what my aunt is saying is true.

Beer Con is absolutely like the hot main character straight out of a

romance novel.

I'm ready to take the next step with him, but I think my...

Best friend, Michael, has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.

You want my time and attention as though I am your girlfriend, but it can't go

both ways.

You say you never leave?

I want a man who wants to be a man. I want a man who wants to make me a

priority.

I'm heading to the Philippines today, but last night, Sheena tells me she has

been giving all her money to her parents this entire time.

I am not happy, and I don't feel like I can trust her.

I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest when she arrives

here, and I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.

I hate packing.

I feel like I'm going to forget something.

So yeah, I don't like that. I'm like super nervous. Did not expect to be this

nervous.

I've never gone on a trip for this long.

I've never flown over the ocean.

I've never left the continent.

But I am leaving for Turkey today. I am so incredibly excited to finally

be on my way to meet what could be the love of my life.

I've been talking about doing this for so long, for so many months.

And now that it's here, I'm way more nervous than I thought I was going to

The situation with Michael is giving me a little bit more anxiety, too.

When I confronted Michael, I really was trying to give him a chance

so I could have a clear head before going to Turkey to meet Birkan.

But Michael does not seem like he's... ever going to come to terms with his

feelings and his emotions.

And that's not fair to me.

So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.

Michael and I have a really great friendship. We do a lot of things

spend a lot of time together.

And I know that that is not really common to have that kind of male -female

friendship in other cultures, other religions.

And so that's scary to feel like I might possibly have to choose between

somebody who's my best friend and somebody who could be the love of my

It's open.

Hey. Hey, how are you? Good, how are you? Oh, hi, Laura.

Are you excited?

Yeah, a little terrified, actually.

I know. I'm terrified for you.

My parents offered to take me to the airport, which is really nice.

But my relationship has felt a little bit strained with my parents since I

started dating Virkon.

They are very conservative and very Catholic.

And Virkon is not at all who they would expect to see me end up with. So I've

tried not to talk about it with them very much.

You ready for your big adventure?

So excited.

You know what I'm saying?

It seems...

But it's not like I'm going in completely blind or without

the same concerns and questions.

The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.

I mean, how old is he, Laura?

He's 20 years younger than I am.

Oh, my God.

Laura, are you serious? I think I got hair on my chin older than that.

Don't make jokes.

It's not fun.

What is he thinking?

What is he thinking? I'm awesome.

I think he's thinking I'm awesome.

No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.

That's what I think he's thinking.

Were you ever suspicious?

Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman and saying all the right

things. Has he told you he loved you?

Yeah. Okay.

Big red flag.

Because he doesn't love you. That's not what love is.

You haven't even met this guy yet.

You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.

Right now, it's not love. It's some infatuation or some... To me, I will not

convinced. It's nothing but that guy wants out of Turkey. I don't... Like I

said, it's a concern. I agree. Concern? It's more like...

Like ten giant red flags.

My word in heaven.

Do you actually think that there's a possibility that this could work and

could be a lifelong commitment?

Yeah, I do. You do?

If I didn't think that there was a possibility, I wouldn't be getting on a

and flying to Turkey.

We're just pointing out all our concerns, you know, and all I can hope

you make the right decision.

I feel blindsided.

I knew that they didn't really approve.

I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.

I just, honey, I just grew with the whole thing.

All of it.

I want to be happy for you.

But I can't.

I'm already so overwhelmed. I'm feeling every emotion possible.

And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me at this point, it is just

messing with my head.

It keeps me awake at night thinking about you going over there and doing all

that. Don't sell yourself short. Don't ever settle.

We have to make a pit stop.

Why? Because your mother is picking out condoms.

Are you sure you don't want to come in with me? Yeah, yeah. No, that's a show

we're going to happen now.

Yeah.

What did you tell me earlier?

You're how old?

I'm 52.

And you said you were an adult?

I'm an adult.

You don't need my help picking out McDonald's.

My name is Lisa. I'm 52 years old, and I live in King of Pressure, Pennsylvania.

I thought you would feel better knowing that your mother's taking precautions.

I mean, he did say he was a playboy. I said a lot of women seem to like him.

you said he used to play the field a lot.

Is that not a playboy? Playboy is somebody who's like a gigolo.

No, gigolo and playboys are way different.

Gigolos are male hookers. No, that's not.

That's what a gigolo is. That's a pimp.

A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers and gets the money.

Okay.

I live with my daughter, Faith, where Faith lives with me. We live with each

other, and she is the apple of my eye.

We talk about everything.

Whether it's the topic of sex and masturbating to dirty dishes

in the sink and who's going to do the laundry tomorrow.

I don't know what I'm looking for. What if I buy the wrong one?

How do I know what size it is?

Has he ever told you in inches? Well, I guess it wouldn't be in kilometers.

No.

I have never used a condom before.

Every male I was with, I married.

I have been married five times.

Husband number one, I was young, I was dumb, and it led to an annulment.

Husband number two, he was my very best friend, and it led to my daughter Faith.

But after a few years, I realized he made a better friend than he made a

husband.

Husband number three, he was actually my favorite of all of them. He was a

really good guy.

So why did I leave him?

I realized I was a lesbian.

And for the past 21 years, I've been with women only.

Let's go with the flow.

Relax and watch what happens.

Women are nice and curvy and soft.

And I've had one wife, and then I've had another wife.

But neither of them worked out.

But I forgot about men, to be quite honest with you. I wasn't even thinking

I'd be interested in a man after 21 years.

But sure enough, Daniel came along again.

Yeah, Daniel came along.

Hi, beautiful.

You're my everything. You're the life of my soul.

He is 39 years old, and he lives in O 'Reary, Nigeria.

He's not built like a woman in any sense of the way, shape, or form, so I don't

know what it is.

He messaged me on social media.

We didn't know each other from Adam or Eve.

So at first, I thought, this is a scam artist. I said, I'm not talking to you.

You're not real.

But he kept trying to talk to me. And you know what?

He is a smooth operator.

He says the sweetest, most charming things I've ever heard.

I love you much. You're most like the foods myself.

I just fell in love with him.

He is so sweet, it hurts my teeth like a bad candy bar.

I love you, Lisa, and I will continue to love you.

Daniel says I'm exquisite, and I'm beautiful and gorgeous daily.

And he's better because this damn thing is itchy as all hell, and it's

uncomfortable. Can I take it off?

How did that feel?

Oh, my God, it feels so much better.

One of my exes had me cut off my hair really, really short, and I miss my long

hair so much, so I wear wigs.

Daniel saw me in my natural hair first, and then he saw me in my wigs, and he

was like, damn.

So now I wear wigs every day, and I plan on wearing my wigs the whole time when

I go visit Daniel in Nigeria in less than a week.

Okay, here goes nothing.

Try a flavored one. You might like it. No, I'm not getting flavored.

Give me room.

No, I don't know.

Growing up with mom was a roller coaster.

My mom is somebody who's always fallen in love so quickly.

At least what she thinks is love.

She's been through a lot of relationships.

We've moved so many places.

I've been to 15 different schools, if that tells you something.

Part of me is surprised she's switching over to men after 21 years.

I didn't see this one coming.

Oh, gosh.

Oh, it's a very small selection.

Oh, there's different sizes. Holy crap.

Daniel and I, we've had video sex.

We've sent pictures to each other, and I am attracted to Daniel.

But the idea of laying with a man after 21 years, I can't even think about it.

They have different body parts than women.

The smells, the taste, the feels, the cleanup.

I mean, I remember 21 years ago just walking to the bathroom to have to take

care of myself and still dripping. That's disgusting. You don't have that

women.

It's a whole different ballgame.

Oh, I'm going to be sick.

Um, sir, if you have a moment, could I ask you a question, please?

Not gonna help you. So embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying

condoms. Okay.

They have to be latex free. I'm allergic to latex. Um, oh gosh.

When it says thinnest, does that mean that you feel more like it's a natural

skin on it? It's just, it doesn't feel like there's plastic going in you or,

sorry, I'm crying. No, you're good. I'm just really, really embarrassed. No, no,

it's good.

I'm buying the condoms myself because I'm worried that I'll get there and

won't be a latex -free condom.

But this is incredibly overwhelming and emotional for me. This is not just about

the embarrassment over the condoms.

All I can think about is Daniel and how he has no idea that I lived my life as a

lesbian for 21 years.

Thank you so much. I appreciate it.

A couple of months ago...

I wanted to test the waters to see if I could come out with my whole truth.

And I told him in the past that I had a fling with a woman.

Daniel said to me, how could I do that to myself?

How could I do that to God? God doesn't believe in same sexes being together.

And he was disgusted.

There you go.

Thank you. Yeah, no problem. Tie them in my purse.

I plan on telling Daniel the truth in person because I am not ashamed of who I

am. But I'm terrified to tell him because of how he responded to the

terrified.

I'm worried that he's going to say that this is a mistake and walk away.

And I'm going to be left heartbroken.

Okay, that's over and done with.

Thank God.

I was a player for most of my life.

Now, I still want a family. I want somebody to be here.

That's part of my life. That's part of my life. How you think she's going to

react?

You don't need your passport. Let's get through here. I don't know. I left them

somewhere. What are we doing now? Oh, God.

My flight to Belize, 4 -7 -21.

I'm still on the other plane.

So, hopefully, we get off soon.

I'm rushing to my next gate right now. I don't want to miss my flight.

It's a good thing that I've been keeping up in the gym because I'm having to run

to my connecting flight to Belize to meet my boyfriend Stig for the first

Stig, you better be worth it because running through the airport is really

embarrassing.

Stig's a famous musician in Belize and the women there love him.

So the last thing I want to do is...

Look like a sweaty mess when I meet him for the first time. But I don't really

have a choice right now.

Four minutes.

Just getting to my seat.

I made it with perfect timing.

Thanks, Lord.

Next stop, police.

After waiting for so long, I'm super nervous to meet Stig. But I cannot wait

get my hands on him and start a future together.

It's my second plan to believe.

I'm coming for you, baby. I'm coming for you, baby.

What's up? I am Erlin Dwayne. I go by Tig the Artist.

I'm a musician from Belmont, Belize, Central America, and I'm 30 years old.

You know the vibe.

I think I'm a cool guy, you know. I'm just chill for the most part.

But when I'm performing, it's just a different feeling.

I just get alive.

I love what I do. I love music. I love singing for the ladies, them.

And the girls, you know, they can get pretty wild at my show.

Just this one time, this girl was literally trying to get in my pants. She

on stage.

I'm like, yo, chill.

But if that's what my music gives them, that kind of joy, Thank you. I'm doing

the right job.

I can't pick you off my mind.

About 10 years ago, I put out my first song, my first music video.

I recorded every single day in the studio.

I grew my fan base.

And now I'm at the highest level of belief as an artist.

So everybody recognized me. And I am very grateful for the love and support

I get here.

That can only be one.

One you.

One love.

I'm very proud of what I've become.

I couldn't have done it by myself.

Perf is my producer.

He produced a lot of my biggest songs.

Richie is my manager.

Six is my G.

He's one of my best friends.

They're still my homies since we started everything.

And I know they're always looking out for me.

Have a special toast.

My gallery tomorrow.

So cheers, yeah?

World, world, world.

You really like the American girls, bro. You really like them. Foreigners? Yo.

Listen,

my friends, they can joke around as much as they want and tease me, but I'm very

serious about my girlfriend Aviva.

Two years ago, I started talking to Aviva on social media. At first, we were

both in a relationship, but when we both became single, it was way beyond

friends.

Aviva's super hot.

She has the most beautiful blue eyes.

But one of the most attractive things about Aviva is her personality.

She has a beautiful heart.

So humble and gentle.

And she has a cute little laugh.

With her, I don't have to be stick to artist.

You know, I don't have to impress her. I can be Erlin Gwynn. And that's why I

feel like she's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.

So you're really serious in this girl, bro?

Yes, I am.

You think you'll settle down really with this woman?

Start a family, just get married, just have kids. I don't know.

I might want a baby.

You're a breather.

You want a burial, girl? Hello.

I mean, whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop.

Damn.

So you're right, she's older. Why she gonna have her baby over here, over

America?

You're taking her to San Pedro for the shows?

You ready for that?

Yeah, I mean, I hope she's ready.

You know they call San Pedro, right?

Temptation Island.

So what if we can fix San Pedro when a hundred girls jump out of town?

I can bet you as you reach San Pedro... My

past relationship, I tell them, like, you're going to get jealous?

No, no, no.

You always trip, so I told Aviva, we're going to see how folk you don't trip.

And she's like, no, I'm not like that. I'm not jealous.

What? I don't know.

I want somebody by my side, you know.

See, that's a word about all that kind of stuff.

Yeah, but everywhere we go, people always say, you have X, Y, Z girls.

How do you think she's going to react?

I hope.

Hope and pray I could be the best version of myself.

This time I could do things a little bit different.

No disrespect, right?

I heard that song too many times, bro.

I can't control it. I can't control it.

A lot of my relationships in the past have failed because of this very issue.

You know, I was a player for most of my life.

Now, I actually want a family. I want somebody I can go home to at night and

they're there to listen to me, to be there for me.

I hope Aviva can be that person and that I can be a faithful partner.

You guys are going to love Aviva.

You know, I love her. So let's see how it goes.

I have 20 % fear.

God. Damn.

So update on the season.

Look at that.

That's good stuff.

She and I get good heroin.

Let me take a flight back home.

Forrest is arriving today with his parents and I feel, wow,

like super happy and excited.

I'm on my way to the airport now.

We rented a bigger apartment where we can all stay together. So I'm carrying

quite a few bags.

Also,

I am bringing jackfruit.

I want Orson and his family to taste the local goodies here in the Philippines.

I'm really quite nervous, and I don't know to react.

It's possible that I would kiss him for the first time. I would be quite too

nervous to kiss him for the first time.

Honestly speaking, we will both enjoy with each other.

But I'm worried regarding with Molly that she would say bad things to me.

So I'm trying to get rid of my nervousness, especially meeting the

with the love of your life.

It's once in a lifetime, so why not enjoy with it?

After so long.

Four sisters is a long way to come traveling for a

girl. Yeah, but she's not just any girl.

Thank you.

After 30 hours of being on an airplane, I finally made it to the Philippines.

I'm feeling ecstatic.

I feel like I drank like six energy drinks.

Yes,

I have the check -in flight and it landed.

But I'm also worried since he's not texting me.

I'm starting

to

fall more in love with Trish.

But I think it's important that we're completely transparent with each other.

wanted to touch base with you about what exactly you were doing for those five

days and why you weren't in contact with me.

Did you sleep good?

I slept great, baby.

I slept beautiful in the morning.

I was

really tired from what

we did.

So was it everything you expected it to be?

Even more.

Yesterday night, we had sex two times.

He's older, and I didn't think, like, he can do all of the stuff he did.

Like, for the second round, it was, oh, my God.

Do you want to go one more round?

Let's do that.

You good?

Yeah. You here?

Wow, so this is the market.

I only gave Trish a little sample of what I could do. I have some more tricks

my sleeve.

If it were up to me, I'd just stay at the hotel all day.

But... This is our first day in Madagascar together, and Trish wants to

to explore her city.

What is that, fried fish right there? Yeah.

This is so different from anywhere I've ever been in my life.

Today, I want to show him everything around in Antananarivo.

First, I'm taking him to the market in Alakini.

The butcher shop right here, huh? Mm -hmm.

And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?

Yes.

Ooh, big face.

Yeah. Oh, my God. What is that, baby? What is that?

The stomach of the cow.

The stomach? Yeah, yeah. And then it's also like the intestines or what? Yeah.

I think I see a heart over there. Yeah, that's it.

Oh, my God.

I'm feeling like Trish deceived me. I mean, this is our first date.

All this raw meat is going to mess up the sexy vibes we had going this

So this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat.

No, we'll see that.

In my culture, we eat everything. We don't waste something in the

cow. Oh, my God.

Even their feet, their head.

and testing the heart, liver, everything.

Greg, it's just food. Relax.

Baby, I know that's not a brain right there. It's a brain.

Oh, Lord. Yeah.

Why? Would you eat that?

Of course.

Well, baby, don't put that in those stews that you cooked for me.

Please don't.

Enjoy it! Wow, what a view!

You can see all Madagascar here.

Wow. I can see the whole island.

Yeah.

I know how to tap dance, but this is not tap dancing. This is something foreign

to me. I've never seen this style of dance before.

But I'm realizing that there's a lot that I don't know about Trish just from

talking to her over the phone.

Like, she's an amazing dancer.

I didn't know she had that in her.

Hey, all right!

Every minute, I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish.

But I think it's important that I get to know her better and that we're

completely transparent with each other.

Wow. That was fun. Was that your traditional dance?

No, that's not mine. I just dance like that.

You like it?

Oh, it's beautiful.

The name of the place is Rufa.

Rufa? Rufa. That means a palace.

Oh. Okay, now where's the palace?

It's there. Oh, that's the palace. Okay, yeah. It's beautiful.

Oh, I'm tired even.

You're looking so beautiful, baby. I'm having such a great time with you.

But, you know, there's some things that I want to talk to you about.

So I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly

you were doing for those five days.

why you weren't in contact with me.

I already told you, like, you want me to explain to you everything happened.

You know that all of these things that you're telling me, you know, kind of

sounds unbelievable in a way.

I would like you to be open and honest with me right now.

I promise I will tell you everything, but...

Promise me that she won't get mad.

You sent him money, right?

Is that not part of a romance scam?

My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.

She's in so much debt. I think this topic needs to be over because this is

ridiculous.

I'm going to put the fire on Adam.

Now we got entertainment.

Uh -oh.

And we have fire.

What we gonna do? Gonna break that heat. What we gonna do? Gonna break that

heat.

Oh, go for it, babe.

Oh,

I can do it.

Oh, that was so close.

Let me try.

That was way over my head. That was on you.

That was on you.

Told you. I'll give you a good one.

Oh,

my gosh.

That looks delicious.

What kind of food do they have in Nigeria?

Well, Daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals. He's always eating

rice. Is it like a fried rice thingy thing?

I don't know.

I have no clue what their food is. Where are you going again?

I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.

Wow. Why?

I am going to meet a man that I have not met in person yet for the very first

time.

Wow.

Congratulations. Good for you. Thank you. Thank you.

But it's crazy.

Yeah, it might be a little crazy. I would agree.

But, you know, the heart wants what the heart wants. So go for it, I say.

Thank you.

I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet Daniel for the first time in just a few days.

I can't believe I'm doing this. I must be insane.

I really must be.

I'm very, very nervous. So I wanted to take the edge off by having a night out

with my daughter Faith and my friend Gina.

There's a volcano. Here it comes.

I'll kiss you, friend.

Gina is my very best friend.

I swear to God, if she was a lesbian, Gina would be my ideal woman.

Gina knows the ringer I've been through in past relationships, and she is

supportive of Daniel.

I'm hoping this is finally my happiness every year. I'm going to hold you to it.

What? That this is my happiness every year? Yes.

My issue is she's saying it's the last one, as she's said every other time,

which we know. Right. He's always talking sweet to me. He's always trying

hard to do things.

He just makes me feel so good and so wonderful.

It's a good thing that he's treating you well, but that's part of what concerns

me. The love bomb right away?

It's part of a romance scam.

They go for...

Single, and I don't mean to say this, older women who have been hurt and who

desperately looking for somebody and want someone to give them all the

compliments, all the love. Stop.

Hold on. Do I look like an old, vulnerable, searching -for -somebody

on the Internet?

No, I was minding my own business, not looking for anybody.

But you sent him money, right?

Is that not part of a romance scam, sending money?

Even though I live paycheck to paycheck, I send Daniel money almost every two

weeks.

Daniel works in construction.

He makes very little money, and he lives in a very poor area of Nigeria.

I give Daniel money for food. I have bought him clothes.

I give him money for fuel, for electricity.

This is my generator.

Daniel has come straight out and asked for money around two, maybe three times.

But I give Daniel money more for myself because I want to feel that he's safe

and I want to feel that he's secure.

All I know is within the first two months, you sent $2 ,000 total.

And that was two months ago.

So how much more is it now?

I don't know.

How did he do it?

Before he met you, does he not have a job?

Yes, he has a job.

But lately he's been sick and he's missed work because of the malaria and

things that he has caught.

That's not a red flag to you. He meets you and now all of a sudden he's getting

sick all the time.

My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.

She borrows from June a lot.

She's in so much debt and it has me feeling more on edge.

You were telling me that Gina gave you money to help us with bills.

She has, haven't you?

So she's been giving you, how much in debt now are we?

You already know I hate that you're asking for money all the time.

But it hasn't been the amount that it has been.

It's still bad.

Daniel seems to be a really, really nice person. I see how happy she is. So I

have given her money to send to him.

And I gave Lisa the money for the visa to go to Nigeria.

I do have some concerns because if he's scamming her, then he's scamming me.

This was between Gina, me, and Daniel.

It had nothing to do with you and me and your bills. It had to do with Gina and

I and Daniel.

And you're still not seeing any red flags about this?

Gina has talked to him. Does he seem like he's a real bad man from texting?

No, he doesn't. But, you know, texting and talking are two different

things.

There's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything.

That's fine.

Because I know things that are inside and out more than you do because you're

not in the relationship.

And this may be the best relationship I've ever had.

You've said that every time.

It always has to be over.

I'm done.

I'm done?

I'm done.

This might be the start of the rest of my life with one girl.

We would say one burner.

That means you have one partner.

Never always been a one burner.

I used to be full of gal.

I need to make some changes in my lifestyle.

But I'm nervous to handle all that.

This is crazy.

I was

getting

warm in here. Had to beat, beat, crack into the atmosphere.

Come on, let's get in the power and go.

Let's go.

So today, my girl is coming.

I want to give her a belief and welcome.

Beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady.

Today, I'm meeting my girlfriend Aviva for the very first time in person.

Aviva's probably thinking that we're going back to my city, to my apartment,

she don't know that we have a nice hotel room in Belize City because I want a

nice little romantic stay tonight.

But hey, this looks a little kinky.

I have butterflies.

I feel like a kid again.

This might be the start of the rest of my life with Aviva, with one girl.

We would say one burner.

One burner.

That means you have one partner.

Never always been a one burner. I used to be full of gal.

But I need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle so I can be the

that I've always envisioned I would be.

After two years of talking and six months of dating, I'm finally meeting

for the first time. We're here. We made it.

I am super, super nervous, and it's making me nauseous.

Oh, the flight just landed.

I'm ready.

What's going on, bro? I appreciate it, bro.

Yes,

man. Enough songs, my bro.

Bless him.

Believe.

Okay, I am going to the bathroom to freshen up.

I'm super nervous. I know he's outside waiting.

I just want to make sure that he sees me and he's attracted to me.

I'm so tired. It's stressing me out.

I know he's around beautiful women all the time.

And deep down, there's things I'm worried about.

My biggest fear is that I'm going to go in with this big loving heart

and it's going to get crushed.

Here we go. This is what I've been preparing myself for.

Oh, this is crazy.

Look at him. So beautiful in person.

No.

Social media don't lie. Ain't got nothing on you.

She's a good kisser. You know, it felt good.

It felt natural. It felt good.

It did. You're getting red.

You're a blessing. You're a blessing. I love it.

Oh, your hair.

I know.

You're very beautiful. Thank you. You look really good, too. And I'm super

happy.

Love that.

I've even got a fat ass. I had no idea. I know she's been in the gym a lot, but

I like it.

Okay,

well, I brought you Chinese food since you asked.

No way.

Don't eat that. Don't eat that. Please don't. Just throw it away.

You did say that if I bring it to you, you'd marry me, so.

I mean, I brought it.

I brought it. It's here. It's full. I bet. I'm a man of my word. Ask anybody.

Ask about me. Okay, okay.

Ready?

I definitely feel a spark right away. I couldn't have asked for

a better first kiss. It was a very magical moment.

He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.

I'm going to eat it.

making me feel really special.

And I know I only just got here, but it just seems like the rumors Aunt Spring

brought up that he hasn't been exclusive with just me seem a little silly and

not true.

You're actually here.

I know.

What are we going to do?

Well... I did bring some lingerie.

Laura is coming to Turkey and it makes me feel excited.

Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out.

I know

that's something that I should tell her,

but I don't know how she's going to react.

No?

Take care.

I'm sure you're right.

I'm about to head to Turkey so I can meet BeerCon in person for the very

time. And I'm trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were

saying. Bye. Love you.

Bye. Bye.

Who are you?

Singing as I step on the floor

There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face and everyone

that was naysaying against it will tell me that they told me so.

But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks. And if I'm not willing

take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?

I have about 13 hours until I get to meet the love of my life.

And I need to decompress from just all of the negative energy from the car

ride with my parents with a good smutty book, with some really steamy moments.

This is the best part.

It's darkness, you know. It's what I love about Nietzsche. He lightsen the

people around him, but he's the darkness himself.

He was the part of the reason I wanted to find the light.

I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the surface.

I am trying to learn lives that I never lived.

I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life.

I had the chance to have a professional career of a football player.

I was on the training, and my knee collapsed with the other one's knee, and

ACL crashed.

I knew it was over.

But I still play football for fun.

You know, I love the game.

You just have to keep moving.

The embrace the pain.

I don't like this.

One part is struggling, and one part is surviving.

After I ruptured my cell, it was just

end of everything, you know?

Everything I dream of, now I rebuild it from the bottom.

And what's helping me the most is finding Laura, actually.

It was destiny.

I met Laura in Snapchat.

We started talking and joking around.

She was so supportive, so optimistic. She made me believe that dreaming is

That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me.

I'm in the darkness, but I can see the sun.

It's about third or fourth weeks I told her I love her.

And now Gloria is coming to Turkey and it makes me feel excited.

Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out.

I want to move to the next level and maybe propose.

I don't know yet. I'm waiting for just a minute.

How are you?

Memo and Tuba are my best friends in Izmir.

I'm not close with my family so they are the closest people I have.

We'll die of excitement.

She's old.

It's okay because I dated older woman before.

The thing I'm attracted with older woman is they understand, you know, not

childish.

Laura looks good when you consider her age. She looks young.

When my football career is over, I opened up a couple of businesses.

Eventually, everything has failed and I couldn't find a proper job.

She knows that I have some troubles, but she doesn't know how much.

I know that's something that I should tell her, but I don't know how she's

to react.

He has a boyfriend.

If you're his best friend, you can do everything together.

He even compares me to him.

These are the things I'm afraid of.

It's a terrible situation for me.

I want him to end this friendship.

If there's a problem, you can't agree.

He may not like it.

We have to think about it.

There's something like that.

I don't feel good about Michael at all. They are doing every activity together,

but you think that you're just friends?

Then I'm bye.

I'm not comfortable with this friendship she has.

And if she doesn't cut Michael out of her life, I don't know this relationship

is going to work.

I'm supposed to be your cop now. I thought that you were with somebody

Now that we're face to face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.

I didn't tell her everything, but, um... Oh, man.

Scared, man.

I'm done?

I'm done.

I can't. I can't.

Now I'm worried about her.

I don't know what to do at this point because it always ends up being a fight.

Every time I've tried, she voiced my opinion.

She doesn't want to talk about it.

She doesn't want to hear it.

Or she tells me I'm not allowed to feel that way.

Let's see if we can find her. See if we can fix this.

Let me talk to you for a minute.

I really don't want to. No, look at me. Look at me.

Please look at me.

I love Daniel and I know that you're worried that I'm in another bad

relationship and things are going to go sour and you're trying to save me from

that. But I don't want you to feel like you're being second choice. I will

always choose you before somebody else. Look at me. I will.

You said do not marry Daniel while I'm in Nigeria. I promise you with the

of my heart, I am not marrying Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.

I'm not.

Just give me the opportunity to do this.

If you break this promise.

I'm not going to break this promise. If you break this promise again, I can't do

this anymore. No, because that would be toxic. And I'm not a toxic person

anymore, okay?

So just please, give me a hug.

I really need some space right now.

Okay, I'll do that.

This was an awful lot for her today.

I have been in so many relationships and moved around so much on this poor child

when she was little.

But at that time, I was searching for who I was.

I want to show her that this is different. I'm a grown -up. I'm not this

mom who is trying to take care of a young child and have a relationship

relationship. I want my happily ever after. I want this to be forever.

And Faith doesn't see that yet.

Can I talk to you for a minute?

I'm trying to understand your feelings and I'm trying to not fight about it.

Is your biggest fear that I'm going to marry him without you knowing him and

that I'm going to choose him over you?

You never listen.

I'm telling you to think about us first.

Listen, I understand your point of view. I'm listening to you, and I'm going

there to get to know him better. I'm going there to see if we are compatible.

I'm not going there just to run off and get married.

I'm listening to your concerns, and I am going to voice them.

I promise you I will.

Okay? Can I have a hug now?

Okay, come here.

I love you. I will start listening better.

I'm proud of everything you do. You are wonderful and kind -hearted and loving

and sweet and caring, and you have been good to your mother, regardless of what

I've put you through. And I'm proud of you, and I will listen to you more,

All right.

I understand where Faith is coming from, and I understand that she has been down

this road with past relationships over and over again.

I hold her opinion deeply in my heart.

But I think Daniel is different.

I think he's the real deal. I think he's a very precious man who is very rare.

And I would be a fool not to go after him.

Can we go home now?

Big is everything I thought you would be. You look super good.

There is definitely some chemistry, but it's a bit scary.

I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle, and I don't want to be

super jealous or crazy, but I hope that you haven't been seeing other people.

Just breathe.

You got this. You're a man.

Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and

hoping my mom will not fight with Sheena. I just don't know how to feel on

whole situation.

There's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.

I love it.

Celebrity, that is okay.

Can I take a picture of it?

Yeah, sure.

Lovely, lovely girl.

You know you can change the world.

So, where are we going? I don't even know where we're going. I don't know.

You don't know?

No, I don't. The driver, you know where we're going? The driver's taken.

He don't know where we're going either. Whatever.

I don't know.

But I can tell you though, we're going to spend the night in Billy City at a

hotel.

Tomorrow, we're going to go to the islands.

I do have a show out on the islands. Okay.

Some new songs.

I'm excited to perform those. Excited. Hopefully I kill it.

Okay. A lot of people are going to be there?

Yep. Are you ready to be there?

Are you ready for that?

I do want to be there either.

I can't walk today.

Okay.

I know Stig can't stop working while I'm here. I would never ask him to do that.

But I'm really shocked to hear that I'm seeing Stig perform already in just a

couple days.

We're here.

I've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls

having him interact with fans in front of me.

And now I'm going to be thrust into it right away.

And it's a bit scary.

Welcome, welcome.

So we'll have an extra prize for you.

Since you said that you love the flower, I got you some more flowers.

Oh, those are so pretty.

Thank you. This was to show you that you're my one and only.

And this is to show some gratitude that you're here. Oh, thank you. I like them.

They're so pretty.

Take him out.

He is everything I thought he would be. He looks super good.

There is definitely some chemistry.

What are you going to do with those?

Come on over here.

We've been touching each other, kissing each other, so I hope the night

continues on sexually.

Let's get comfy.

That sounds good to me.

I'm attracted to her even more now in person.

But I'm a gentleman.

I'm not going to just push up on her and try to get some the first night.

We'll see how it goes.

I'm going to let it play out the way it should be.

Get more coffee.

So, what about your tat?

A flower? What is it?

Zero.

What are you going to get?

Only if you get Aviva.

Leave my ass and I have Aviva big on my neck or something.

Damn, how do you think I would feel?

I'm going to leave you.

Unless you make me leave you.

What would make you want to leave me?

That's a good question. If you can't understand what I do for work and my

lifestyle because of what I do and who I am.

Yeah, I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle.

And I don't want to be super jealous or crazy, but I also want to be, like,

respected, too. Just, like, I hope that you haven't been seeing other people,

because I feel like we've been talking seriously, but... Why are you rolling

your eyes like that? I don't know, because, like... You don't trust me?

Oh, you don't trust me? I mean, I know your lifestyle.

There's a lot of beautiful women around you, always, so... They're not you,

though.

Okay, Mr. Charming.

I do

have

one more thing for you that's not spilled Chinese food.

Okay. Yeah.

Jake makes me feel really comfortable. He just knows the exact right thing to

say. And Sting and I just feel right together. It's just a spark, a

a happiness, all wrapped together with a bow.

I don't know how to explain it.

Hi. Hi.

That's how you feel? Uh -huh.

Yes,

man. That is it.

Jesus. I love you too.

Aviva just might be the one.

But I don't think she understands the extent of my lifestyle as a performer.

Sometimes girls go on stage, dance on me. You know, girls be in my DMs. Some

pretty girls.

I wonder if she can handle all that.

She said she will, but we'll see.

on Monster Passport, left on the airplane.

But we found it, got it figured out.

Here we go.

He's texting me.

He's already here.

Feeling so happy and floating, enlightened feeling.

All right, here we go.

I actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom. Go ahead. Oh, man, I got to

find it. See you in a minute.

This way.

Oh, man.

I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.

Yeah.

It's just, I mean, I think that I have these ideas of what I want to say

the emotions get there, the feelings get there.

Settle down, Moe, settle down.

Just breathe.

It's going to be good.

Everything's going to be at peace.

You got this. You got this. You're a man.

Keep moving forward.

My mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.

She sent text messages to Sheena that made her really upset and hurt.

So I'm hoping that my mom will not fight with Sheena.

Hey, Mom.

Shane and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I

want everything to go smoothly.

You look good. Let's get this fixed up a little bit. Here, let me get this.

There you go. You look good.

Thank you. Are you ready? Yeah, I'm ready.

This is your moment, okay?

I'm so nervous.

Let's do this thing.

Here it comes. You've got this. You will do fine.

You tell her hello. You say, we'll just do whatever you feel. Okay.

You got this.

Go for it. Go.

Thank you. I love you guys.

Our journey is about to start and we're going to go to the next level.

I love you too.

Meeting you, getting to be with you finally, is my world.

My everything.

Everything.

Oh, Papa Bear.

Oh, baby, you're the best muggle bear ever. I love you.

It feels like heaven.

This is the best I have ever felt.

Oh, no.

Sita, can I give you a kiss?

Sure.

Kissing you.

It was ecstatic.

She has some really good, like, perfume or something on.

Actually, I put some a lot of flavor, like, flavored perfume in it. I know

you're going to love it. Oh, I'm loving it right now. I think I got it all over

me. Oh, really? Yeah.

I got mom and dad here, too, with us.

I want us to be a big family.

Do you like to be crying for us? I know.

Oh, boy.

Seeing Sheena cry, seeing Morris cry, and then the big trigger was just Deb,

then that was the waterworks.

You're all right, Sheena. You're okay, okay?

I was surprised that it got to me like that.

I don't cry very often.

And then right there, I couldn't hold it back, you know, and it kind of felt

good, I guess.

Sorry. I hope they apologize.

Well, I thank you for apologizing, but let's make this a happy moment, all

right? Because we're going to be, today is a happy day. We are all together,

right? I'm so glad to see you guys. It's been like a family.

We're a family now. We're a family.

You're with family now, Sheen.

Seeing her face -to -face with him, face -to -face with me, this whole thing is

just so overwhelming.

I love you, my Sheen.

I love baby bear.

And he got the softest lips ever. Oh, really? And he tastes like candy.

Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed and talked

about before we can proceed.

That's just how I see it.

I would call you, you would press decline, and then I would hear back for

I didn't tell her everything, but... During the time

that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I made the biggest mistake of my

life.

What did you do?

I promise I will

tell her everything, but...

Promise me that she won't get mad.

I can promise you that I won't get mad, but I can't promise that it won't hurt.

About months ago, I had a lot going on in my life.

And for five days, I didn't answer Rick's call.

He was really, really upset, and he caused a huge problem for us.

My ex -boyfriend got robbed.

Right, yeah, you told me about that. Yeah. And you said that he blamed you?

Yeah, he blamed me. Like, I was complete for everything, so I was really nervous

and upset.

And also, I didn't tell him everything, but...

Oh, man.

Scared, man.

After my ex -boyfriend got robbed, my brother got in an accident. He hurt

someone, bumped someone on my scooter.

We did a lot of process, like going for the radiographic and...

The guy at the hospital, we're paying for his food and paying for everything

needs. Then we went to the police to pay for the comments.

Why didn't you tell me that?

I mean, I would call you, call you. You would press decline.

I didn't press decline.

Or you would just not pick up.

And I would text you, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.

I thought that you were with somebody else.

I didn't even really care about my phone.

I didn't even want to talk to anybody when I came back there because I was

nervous and really upset.

I'm supposed to be your confidant. We have to work together.

I didn't see you yet, Rick. So it's scary to tell all my problems.

Maybe just say...

That's not true. I don't believe. Maybe she just wants money.

Maybe you will judge me, but, yeah, I was wrong.

I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much, but it's different now because I

see you.

I see who you are.

So I can share, like, everything happens in my life.

You okay?

I'm okay.

I completely understand what you're saying now.

Thank you so much for explaining everything to me.

I didn't know what to do, baby.

What she was telling me before just wasn't adding up in that moment.

But now that we're face to face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.

And I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her.

Here she is going through all these things. And instead of being there for

I made the biggest mistake of my life.

What did you do?

During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I talked to my ex

from Columbia.

And she said, you know, why don't you come down here? I'm missing you.

And so, you know, I decided to book a trip and go

spend time with her.

Even though Trish started talking to me again, in my heart, I believed that she

cheated on me.

And so I still went to Columbia.

My ex stayed with me for the week.

We were acting as a couple once again.

Did you have sex?

We had sex all the time, the whole time. Multiple times a day, every day.

I feel bad for that.

So I know that I need to tell her.

But I'm extremely scared that it'll be something that she can't forgive me for.

And it might be the end of her.

Next time on Before the 90 Days.

This is it?

I can't believe I'm about to meet him.

I'm really proud of the progress that I've made.

But I am nervous Birkan won't be as attracted to me in person.

Oh, my God. Here we go.

I love Lisa.

She's thick.

She has bumps.

But as an evil man, I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.

We don't have to help that.

Major, they got more people.

Mm -hmm.

We're here going to the Philippines.

Yes, I'm going to see my wife. I've never even met my wife yet. This will be

actually our first meet.

Oh, okay.

Me and Adam, we've been married two years.

He said that?

No, we have been in a relationship for six years and married for almost three

years. Okay?

Did you guys do the old nook and nook it?

You're pushing too far.

It's in the right time, poor place.

Nina already has that control, that thumb on him.

Let's not forget, she was giving all of her money to her parents instead of

saving for their future.

You haven't given me a direct answer as to why you lied.

The pieces aren't lining up. I love you.

I don't like that we were fighting yesterday, but there's something else I

wanted to talk to you about that I didn't tell you yet.

What? What is this? What's happening?

I really want to tell Zied about my last engagement because I think it's the

only way that we could move forward.

I don't know what I'm going to do.