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I told you that
you need to get off that phone.
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You're always on that
phone, now get to class.
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Rico.
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Whoa, whoa, you straight?
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- Yeah, man I'm good.
- You're good?
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Yeah, I'm good, what's up?
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What's up is
your medical bills.
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Boy, you know you got
broke up in practice.
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Man, here he go.
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I know you ain't talking mister,
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oh coach I can't see,
the sun in my eyes.
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Man that happened
one time, you know me.
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Aight, aight, about
two or three times.
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Man, get off my back.
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Yeah, two or three
times per practice
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and we on two-a days.
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Whatever man, what up Paul?
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Nothin' much much.
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Thinkin' about the
game tonight huh?
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Not really, man.
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I'm not even really
thinkin' about the game.
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You ain't thinkin'
about the game?
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Man, if we gonna make
it to the playoffs
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you gotta be worried about
this game right here.
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I mean you're one of
the best players we got.
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Man, you should be focused.
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Plus, I hear they're gonna have
scouts at the game tonight.
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Man, you know Paul ain't
worried about them scouts
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when he got a drawer full
of scholarship offers.
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Boy you ain't
gon' never be nothing!
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This boy has God
given talent he was put
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on this earth to play ball.
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Yeah you was an accident!
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Man he ain't even listening.
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Yo Paul, you listening?
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Yeah man, I hear y'all.
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He probably over there
thinking about Nina.
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Speaking of y'all heard
about that party tonight?
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Oh yeah I'ma be there.
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I'ma see you man.
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Aight bro.
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What's up with ya boy man?
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Man I don't even know.
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Class can anybody
conjugate that for me?
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Miss Nina.
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Yes?
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Can you conjugate
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Matthew?
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Yes ma'am.
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Are you paying attention?
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Where's your book?
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We're on page 548.
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You have to study and read
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if you want to do
perfect for those finals.
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Are you even listening?
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One more remark like that
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and you'll be going
straight to detention.
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All of my aggression is
taken out on the field.
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Pain and hurt, oh I
know how it feels.
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Tell me where's this peace,
that they claim is real?
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Wish I was a clam, so I
could live in my shell.
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I hate life, I hate it.
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What's the point of all of this?
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They say God is love but
this heart was missed.
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Dismissed, off to hell I
think burning is better.
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So God if you're real I hope
you're moved by this letter.
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Aye Paul!
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Yo what up bruh you
seem kinda off today.
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Nothing much man I just
been having a lot on my mind.
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Like what?
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Too much.
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A lot that I don't
even feel like
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is worth talking
about right now.
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You sure?
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Positive.
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Well you know what's
going to help you
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forget about all that right?
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What's that?
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That party they're throwing
tonight after the game!
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Man I don't know.
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You know my people was
tripping on the last party
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that I went to.
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Naw man see yo
people was tripping
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more so on how late you came
in and how messed up you were,
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rather than the fact
you went to a party.
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How about this?
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Go home after the game, wait
until your people's sleep,
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shoot me a text and
I'll come scoop you up.
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Hey bro!
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Hey sis.
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What up D?
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What up?
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Man I don't know.
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Come on man it's
our last home game
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and your senior
year in high school.
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Hold on wait wait don't
tell me you're afraid
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of your hypocriting Pastor.
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It's not him
I'm worried about.
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I just don't want to
disappoint my mama.
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Okay I feel you, really.
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I see where you're coming from,
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but you're forgetting
the best part.
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Hey Paul.
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Hey Nina.
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Are you coming to
my party tonight?
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I'm thinking about it.
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I'll be there.
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So what's there to think about?
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I don't know.
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Well it'll make my
night better if you came.
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We'll see.
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Okay.
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For reasons I don't understand
you're attracted to her,
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and y'all been locking eyes
ever since like freshman year
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so you might as well make
the relationship official
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tonight at the party.
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I'ma think about it.
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So I'll be waiting
on your text.
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Let me get out of here man.
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Alright bro.
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So I'll see you tonight!
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I said I'll think about it.
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Hey ma!
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Boy you better say something
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before you walk in this house.
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About to give me a heart attack.
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Hey mom.
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Hey baby.
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So how was school today?
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School was school.
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That's it?
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What'd you learn?
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I learned how to
fail a chemistry test.
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Fail Tatiyanna?
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Not failed failed but I just
don't think I did that well.
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You know she don't like me.
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Always the teacher's fault.
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Mm hmm.
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Now you know I taught
you better than that.
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I'm just playing mama.
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Alright.
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But you look pretty today.
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Thank you!
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And I like that
make up on you.
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It's Friday gotta
be ready for the game.
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You plan on
wearing that all day?
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Nina just re-did it.
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But you know that make-up
is a little bit too dark
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for your daddy.
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You're gonna have
to take that off.
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She just re-did it!
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I'm sorry Tatiana
it's okay for me
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but you know how your daddy is.
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Go take that make-up off.
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Man.
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So Paul.
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Yes mam.
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How excited are you right now?
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Over joyed.
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All right, all right.
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I know you've been
thinking about college
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because I've been
thinking about it too.
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Awe yes mam.
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It's been on my mind.
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So have you made
any decisions?
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Not really I haven't came
to a sure decision yet.
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I'm still undecided.
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Okay, well there's
nothing wrong with that.
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But you know I've been praying.
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Oh yes, of course.
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That God will lead and
guide you in the right path.
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Yes mam.
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And you know which
one that is right?
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Yes ma'am I know I know.
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Well I'ma be there, I'm going
to make sure I support you.
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I'm your number one fan
you know that right?
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Oh of course!
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Alright.
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Hey are you and dad, y'all
coming to the game tonight?
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I'ma have to call
your daddy and see.
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Hello?
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Hey Adrian I'm not
going to keep you long
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I know you're at
work and pretty busy.
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But Paul has a game.
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Do you think you'll be
able to make it tonight?
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Game?
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Woman I've been up since
3 o'clock this morning
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I'm not going to no game.
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You know that!
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I understand.
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He's not going to
be able to make it.
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Yeah you're right I'm not
going to be able to make it!
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I'm out here working
a 14 hour shift.
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It seem like I'm the
only one worried about
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putting the food in the
house, that you keep burning!
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So no I ain't going to no
game that's out the question.
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I know that Adrian.
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Okay so if you know it
what you calling me for?
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I just thought we should spend
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some quality time as a family.
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Quality time.
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I think it would
be a good idea
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if we just support
Paul as a family.
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Support?
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Is that so much to ask?
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I'll tell you what I'm
going to support Paul
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like you supported
me my senior year.
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You remember when you
popped up and got pregnant?
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Now you wanna go
and bring that up?
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No you brought up.
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You the one started
talking about support.
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Now I'm talking about
my lack of support.
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You know what if it
wouldn't have been for you
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I would've been in the pros.
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Adrian we never do anything
together as a family.
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I just thought maybe we could
have that time together.
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Here you go again
talking about time Leah.
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I tell you what since you got
so much time on your hands
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how about you go spend some
time in front of the TV
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and watch one of
them cooking channels
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so maybe they can show you
something about cooking.
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Leah better yet just go
down to one of those gyms
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and spend some time with them
since you then let yourself go
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since we got married.
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You got so much
time on your hands.
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You know what Adrian?
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I'm sorry I should've
never brought it up.
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You being sorry is the
smartest thing you said all day.
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Hello?
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Clean yourself up!
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Go fix your hair Leah
look nice for a change!
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I'll tell you what I'm
going to support Paul
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like you supported
me my senior year.
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You remember when you
popped up and got pregnant?
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It seem like I'm
the only one worried
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about putting the food in the
house, that you keep burning!
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No you brought up.
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You the one started
talking about support.
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Now I'm talking about
my lack of support.
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You know what if it
wouldn't have been for you
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I would've been in the pros.
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You being sorry is the smartest
thing you said all day!
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I'm trying!
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This is just too hard!
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I can't take this anymore.
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It would be Nina to rent out
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one of the biggest
spots in the city!
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Yeah she went all
out with this one!
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I know it's the perfect
way to celebrate a win!
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See man what I told you.
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You had fun didn't you?
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Yeah man I had
a real good time.
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Thanks for the ride though.
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No problem.
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You know son.
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When I was yo age I
learned that you couldn't
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go back through a window that's
been locked from the inside.
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And if you would've tried to
go back through that window.
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You would've noticed
that I locked it.
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Then, you wouldn't of
came through my front door
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00:11:48,452 --> 00:11:50,975
with that dumb
smile on your face.
263
00:11:50,977 --> 00:11:52,282
Where you been?
264
00:11:53,980 --> 00:11:55,544
Boy I said where you been?
265
00:11:55,546 --> 00:11:57,285
I went to a party!
266
00:11:57,287 --> 00:12:00,027
So I guess you ain't
learn from the last time
267
00:12:00,029 --> 00:12:02,334
you just went to a party.
268
00:12:02,336 --> 00:12:04,727
You think I'ma keep letting
you go out and come in my house
269
00:12:04,729 --> 00:12:06,120
at three o'clock in the morning
270
00:12:06,122 --> 00:12:07,687
and I ain't gon' to
tell you nothing?
271
00:12:07,689 --> 00:12:09,689
Look I'm just trying
to enjoy my time here
272
00:12:09,691 --> 00:12:11,084
before I go off to college!
273
00:12:11,998 --> 00:12:13,214
What you said?
274
00:12:13,216 --> 00:12:15,260
Before you go off to college?
275
00:12:15,262 --> 00:12:16,957
We then already had
this conversation Paul.
276
00:12:16,959 --> 00:12:19,046
You're not going off to college!
277
00:12:19,048 --> 00:12:22,615
You're going to school in this
city to get your education!
278
00:12:22,617 --> 00:12:25,313
You're already going out
partying you think I'm let you go
279
00:12:25,315 --> 00:12:27,272
out of state and waste
my money partying?
280
00:12:27,274 --> 00:12:29,274
I wouldn't be
wasting your money!
281
00:12:29,276 --> 00:12:32,407
I got full ride scholarships
and you know that!
282
00:12:32,409 --> 00:12:35,193
And besides don't you think
that should be my choice?
283
00:12:35,195 --> 00:12:36,672
I mean it is my future!
284
00:12:36,674 --> 00:12:38,587
But guess what?
285
00:12:38,589 --> 00:12:41,242
I'm still your father, that
means I still got the final say
286
00:12:41,244 --> 00:12:42,983
so you understand?
287
00:12:42,985 --> 00:12:44,332
And for one, I'm not going
to have you disrespect me
288
00:12:44,334 --> 00:12:45,594
in my house boy
so watch your tone
289
00:12:45,596 --> 00:12:46,987
when you're talking to me.
290
00:12:46,989 --> 00:12:48,641
I'm not trying to
hear this tonight.
291
00:12:48,643 --> 00:12:50,425
Boy you gon' hear
everything I gotta tell you
292
00:12:50,427 --> 00:12:51,774
don't you ever walk off when
I'm trying to talk to you.
293
00:12:51,776 --> 00:12:52,516
Go sit down.
294
00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:55,955
Boy I said go sit down!
295
00:12:57,869 --> 00:13:00,522
I'm trying to be
patient with you Paul.
296
00:13:00,524 --> 00:13:02,916
I really am man.
297
00:13:02,918 --> 00:13:05,310
But you about to push me to
that level and I don't want
298
00:13:05,312 --> 00:13:06,746
to take it there with
you, you understand me?
299
00:13:06,748 --> 00:13:08,400
You gon' respect
me in my house boy!
300
00:13:08,402 --> 00:13:09,792
Why are y'all always arguing?
301
00:13:09,794 --> 00:13:11,229
I can't never sleep.
302
00:13:11,231 --> 00:13:12,665
Tatiyanna, get back
in your room little girl
303
00:13:12,667 --> 00:13:14,493
'cause right now this
don't even concern you.
304
00:13:14,495 --> 00:13:16,277
Didn't you just preach
a message about love
305
00:13:16,279 --> 00:13:17,322
and peace in the home?
306
00:13:17,324 --> 00:13:18,758
You know we never see that.
307
00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,368
You want to see love
and peace in this home?
308
00:13:20,370 --> 00:13:21,804
Yes.
309
00:13:21,806 --> 00:13:23,197
You gon' rest in peace
if you don't get back
310
00:13:23,199 --> 00:13:24,590
in that room like I told you.
311
00:13:24,592 --> 00:13:27,897
That message anyway was
for my congregation.
312
00:13:27,899 --> 00:13:29,551
So what you're
saying is it's okay
313
00:13:29,553 --> 00:13:31,945
to live one way at church
and another way at home?
314
00:13:31,947 --> 00:13:34,295
Woman, get back in that room!
315
00:13:34,297 --> 00:13:37,298
Adrian these are our kids.
316
00:13:37,300 --> 00:13:39,605
We're suppose to be
an example to them.
317
00:13:39,607 --> 00:13:41,955
Be an example to your
daughter by being submissive
318
00:13:41,957 --> 00:13:43,480
when I said get
back in that room!
319
00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:46,394
Boy get your hands off me!
320
00:13:46,396 --> 00:13:48,396
You thinking you this
big super star athlete!
321
00:13:48,398 --> 00:13:50,224
You getting all kind of praise
from your little partners
322
00:13:50,226 --> 00:13:52,487
and stuff like you're all
that but you're really not!
323
00:13:52,489 --> 00:13:54,054
You understand?
324
00:13:54,056 --> 00:13:55,186
I've been in that same
little spot you're in!
325
00:13:55,188 --> 00:13:56,752
I've been in them shoes boy!
326
00:13:56,754 --> 00:13:58,928
17 years old on my
way to the pros!
327
00:13:58,930 --> 00:14:01,148
But I made one to the
dumbest mistakes of my life
328
00:14:01,150 --> 00:14:02,715
and you remind me of that
every time I look at you!
329
00:14:02,717 --> 00:14:03,759
You understand?
330
00:14:03,761 --> 00:14:05,587
It's not even about that!
331
00:14:05,589 --> 00:14:07,763
It's about the respect and
honor that you preach about!
332
00:14:07,765 --> 00:14:09,156
Pastor Adrian!
333
00:14:09,158 --> 00:14:10,114
That's right boy
I'm your Pastor!
334
00:14:10,116 --> 00:14:11,245
Mmm hmm hypocrite.
335
00:14:11,247 --> 00:14:11,985
Hypocrite?
336
00:14:11,987 --> 00:14:13,421
Yes, hypocrite.
337
00:14:13,423 --> 00:14:15,206
I'm tired of your
mouth little girl!
338
00:14:15,208 --> 00:14:16,163
Boy this my last time telling
you not to put your hands
339
00:14:16,165 --> 00:14:17,599
on me, you understand?
340
00:14:17,601 --> 00:14:19,819
Don't you ever put your
hands on me again boy!
341
00:14:19,821 --> 00:14:21,168
Woman didn't I just tell you
to get back in that room?
342
00:14:21,170 --> 00:14:24,215
- Shut up!
- Mama?
343
00:14:24,217 --> 00:14:26,739
- Put that gun.
- I said shut up!
344
00:14:26,741 --> 00:14:28,784
- Mama what are you doing?
- Paul move!
345
00:14:28,786 --> 00:14:30,351
- Mama no please.
- I said move!
346
00:14:30,353 --> 00:14:32,527
Leah put that...
347
00:14:32,529 --> 00:14:36,270
You don't know how hard
it is to live with someone
348
00:14:36,272 --> 00:14:38,316
who's so controlling!
349
00:14:38,318 --> 00:14:40,100
I'm so sick of this!
350
00:14:40,102 --> 00:14:43,888
You don't know how hard
I've cried every night!
351
00:14:45,325 --> 00:14:47,629
I can't keep nothing down!
352
00:14:47,631 --> 00:14:49,196
My weight is up and down!
353
00:14:49,198 --> 00:14:51,242
My hair is falling out!
354
00:14:51,244 --> 00:14:54,027
I just can't take this anymore!
355
00:14:54,029 --> 00:14:55,202
Leah okay.
356
00:14:58,599 --> 00:15:02,122
Do you Adrian Vincent
take Leah Morris
357
00:15:02,124 --> 00:15:04,429
to be your beloved wife?
358
00:15:04,431 --> 00:15:07,997
To have and to hold from
this day forward for better
359
00:15:07,999 --> 00:15:12,526
for worse for richer for poorer,
in sickness and in health
360
00:15:13,527 --> 00:15:16,136
to love honor and cherish
361
00:15:16,138 --> 00:15:18,660
for as long as you
both shall live?
362
00:15:18,662 --> 00:15:18,967
Yeah I do.
363
00:15:20,490 --> 00:15:23,491
Do you Leah Morris
take Adrian Vincent
364
00:15:23,493 --> 00:15:25,450
to be your beloved husband?
365
00:15:25,452 --> 00:15:28,279
To have and to hold
from this day forward
366
00:15:28,281 --> 00:15:32,587
for better for worse
for richer or poorer,
367
00:15:32,589 --> 00:15:36,635
in sickness and in health
to love honor and cherish
368
00:15:36,637 --> 00:15:38,767
for as long as you
both shall live?
369
00:15:38,769 --> 00:15:39,509
I do.
370
00:16:02,924 --> 00:16:04,228
Don't do this
to us mama please!
371
00:16:04,230 --> 00:16:05,316
911 what's your emergency?
372
00:16:05,318 --> 00:16:07,405
Please oh my God please!
373
00:16:07,407 --> 00:16:09,798
Ma'am, calm down
what's your emergency?
374
00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:11,235
Please!
375
00:16:11,237 --> 00:16:12,888
Ma'am please calm down
what's your emergency?
376
00:16:12,890 --> 00:16:15,369
God my mama just shot herself
I don't know what to do!
377
00:16:15,371 --> 00:16:16,936
Okay is she still with us?
378
00:16:16,938 --> 00:16:19,068
I don't know but
there's blood everywhere!
379
00:16:19,070 --> 00:16:20,635
Ma'am please go check and
see if she's still breathing.
380
00:16:20,637 --> 00:16:21,636
I can't, I can't!
381
00:16:21,638 --> 00:16:23,116
Ma'am.
382
00:16:23,118 --> 00:16:25,249
Please just hurry, please!
383
00:16:25,251 --> 00:16:26,293
Okay what's your address?
384
00:16:26,295 --> 00:16:28,556
2014 Alamo Street please!
385
00:16:28,558 --> 00:16:30,645
I have an ambulance,
I have a rescue
386
00:16:30,647 --> 00:16:32,647
and police officers in route.
387
00:16:32,649 --> 00:16:35,302
I need you to stay on the line
with me and try to stay calm.
388
00:16:35,304 --> 00:16:36,392
Why mama, why?
389
00:16:41,528 --> 00:16:43,441
God how could I have
been so blind God?
390
00:16:43,443 --> 00:16:45,094
Why didn't show me that?
391
00:16:45,096 --> 00:16:48,752
Why didn't you show me
this was on her mind God?
392
00:16:53,888 --> 00:16:55,933
God no Lord no God, Leah!
393
00:16:58,284 --> 00:16:59,676
Leah please baby!
394
00:17:01,112 --> 00:17:02,853
Back up this is
all your fault!
395
00:17:05,682 --> 00:17:09,599
I know I'm so, Lord I
know I'm sorry I'm sorry.
396
00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:11,340
I'm sorry.
397
00:17:15,083 --> 00:17:16,911
God, how can I go on?
398
00:17:20,828 --> 00:17:24,960
She was all I had!
399
00:17:24,962 --> 00:17:26,442
She was my strength!
400
00:17:27,530 --> 00:17:29,880
She was my encouragement!
401
00:17:31,491 --> 00:17:34,102
She was the one
that I talked to!
402
00:17:35,277 --> 00:17:36,887
I'm all alone now!
403
00:17:39,716 --> 00:17:41,412
I'm all alone.
404
00:17:55,166 --> 00:17:57,428
Well Mr. Vincent, due
to the extensive damage
405
00:17:57,430 --> 00:18:00,779
on her head and face an open
casket really isn't an option.
406
00:18:00,781 --> 00:18:03,523
However, you may proceed
with a closed casket.
407
00:18:05,742 --> 00:18:07,570
I don't think I
want to use a casket.
408
00:18:09,355 --> 00:18:12,227
I feel as though, people should
remember Leah as she was.
409
00:18:13,707 --> 00:18:15,576
Maybe we can get some
of her best photos
410
00:18:15,578 --> 00:18:19,667
and put them out on an easel
with some flowers all around.
411
00:18:19,669 --> 00:18:21,889
You know, just, more
of her personality.
412
00:18:23,325 --> 00:18:25,238
And about the program.
I want to make sure
413
00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,109
I have everything correct.
414
00:18:27,111 --> 00:18:28,504
Leah, is that
short for anything?
415
00:18:32,595 --> 00:18:34,467
Mr. Vincent, is that
short for anything?
416
00:18:35,468 --> 00:18:36,771
You gotta show me that.
417
00:18:36,773 --> 00:18:37,903
You gotta show me that.
418
00:18:37,905 --> 00:18:38,949
Man.
419
00:18:40,386 --> 00:18:42,516
Excuse me, excuse me.
420
00:18:42,518 --> 00:18:43,909
Say red don't I know you?
421
00:18:43,911 --> 00:18:44,694
It's Leah.
422
00:18:46,043 --> 00:18:48,261
I'm saying I know, I know you.
423
00:18:48,263 --> 00:18:49,915
Adrian.
424
00:18:49,917 --> 00:18:51,264
Vincent, I know.
425
00:18:51,266 --> 00:18:52,787
We have algebra together.
426
00:18:52,789 --> 00:18:54,833
Right. Okay. Yeah. Yeah.
427
00:18:54,835 --> 00:18:57,705
But you ain't gotta to
be that formal with me.
428
00:18:57,707 --> 00:19:00,491
They call me Vinny or you
can call me the great one.
429
00:19:00,493 --> 00:19:01,624
- The great one?
- The great.
430
00:19:02,582 --> 00:19:04,233
Do you hear this?
431
00:19:04,235 --> 00:19:05,713
I'm definitely not
calling you that.
432
00:19:05,715 --> 00:19:07,193
Okay, it's funny?
433
00:19:07,195 --> 00:19:09,761
What ya mama call ya?
434
00:19:09,763 --> 00:19:11,066
I don't really see what
my mama got to do with this
435
00:19:11,068 --> 00:19:12,198
but she call me lil boy.
436
00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:13,939
Lil boy?
437
00:19:13,941 --> 00:19:16,158
You know, get out
my face lil boy.
438
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:17,856
You getting on my
nerves lil boy.
439
00:19:17,858 --> 00:19:18,683
That's funny?
440
00:19:18,685 --> 00:19:20,162
Yeah.
441
00:19:20,164 --> 00:19:21,555
So Leah what's that
short for Ah-leah?
442
00:19:21,557 --> 00:19:22,948
No.
443
00:19:22,950 --> 00:19:23,731
Is that short for anything?
444
00:19:23,733 --> 00:19:25,559
No just Leah.
445
00:19:25,561 --> 00:19:28,170
L-E-A-H.
446
00:19:28,172 --> 00:19:29,955
Mr. Vincent.
447
00:19:29,957 --> 00:19:31,522
Is that short for anything?
448
00:19:31,524 --> 00:19:34,133
No, just Leah.
449
00:19:34,135 --> 00:19:35,874
L-E-A-H.
450
00:19:35,876 --> 00:19:38,616
Okay and since you're
opting out of the casket.
451
00:19:38,618 --> 00:19:40,184
Are you considering cremation?
452
00:19:41,577 --> 00:19:44,143
I think cremation
would be best.
453
00:19:44,145 --> 00:19:45,233
So the abuse never ends huh?
454
00:19:46,626 --> 00:19:48,147
Paul what are
you talking about?
455
00:19:48,149 --> 00:19:50,192
You preach one way,
you live another,
456
00:19:50,194 --> 00:19:51,890
you abuse your family.
457
00:19:51,892 --> 00:19:53,674
You killed my mama and now
you plan on burning her!
458
00:19:53,676 --> 00:19:55,110
What else you plan
on taking from me?
459
00:19:55,112 --> 00:19:56,808
Taking from you?
460
00:19:56,810 --> 00:19:58,984
Paul you think you the
only one hurting right now?
461
00:19:58,986 --> 00:20:00,942
Boy I've lost just
as much as you have!
462
00:20:00,944 --> 00:20:02,204
Shut up!
463
00:20:02,206 --> 00:20:03,991
Everybody just shut up!
464
00:20:06,385 --> 00:20:07,862
You didn't lose nothing.
465
00:20:07,864 --> 00:20:09,170
You threw everything away!
466
00:20:12,608 --> 00:20:13,912
Maybe you should come
back at another time.
467
00:20:13,914 --> 00:20:15,261
Yes sir!
468
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:31,320
Everything was
laid out so nice.
469
00:20:31,322 --> 00:20:32,931
Did you see those flowers?
470
00:20:32,933 --> 00:20:34,193
Girl yeah they were
gorgeous I don't know why
471
00:20:34,195 --> 00:20:35,760
they left them at the church
472
00:20:35,762 --> 00:20:36,978
I was going to ask him
for that purple one.
473
00:20:36,980 --> 00:20:38,415
Girl you silly.
474
00:20:38,417 --> 00:20:39,459
Hey girl!
475
00:20:39,461 --> 00:20:41,026
I thought you had to work today.
476
00:20:41,028 --> 00:20:43,158
I did, but I cancelled,
I had to be here.
477
00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,204
Well I'm glad
you could make it.
478
00:20:45,206 --> 00:20:46,901
Mary this is Monique.
479
00:20:46,903 --> 00:20:47,946
Hi Mary.
480
00:20:47,948 --> 00:20:48,947
Hey nice to meet you.
481
00:20:48,949 --> 00:20:50,296
Nice to meet you.
482
00:20:50,298 --> 00:20:51,558
I'm Leah's sister in law.
483
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:52,777
Okay.
484
00:20:52,779 --> 00:20:53,908
Do you go to church with them?
485
00:20:53,910 --> 00:20:55,562
Yes.
486
00:20:55,564 --> 00:20:57,172
Anyway, did y'all
see how Pastor Adrian
487
00:20:57,174 --> 00:20:59,610
broke down during that eulogy?
488
00:20:59,612 --> 00:21:01,786
Yes, you could just
see the pain in his eyes.
489
00:21:01,788 --> 00:21:03,178
Pain?
490
00:21:03,180 --> 00:21:04,832
Girl that was guilt.
491
00:21:04,834 --> 00:21:05,964
What you mean?
492
00:21:05,966 --> 00:21:07,139
Come on now y'all.
493
00:21:07,141 --> 00:21:08,619
Everything was not all holy
494
00:21:08,621 --> 00:21:09,881
and righteous like
people thought.
495
00:21:09,883 --> 00:21:11,665
Here she goes.
496
00:21:11,667 --> 00:21:14,363
I'm serious, Leah use to
call me all the time crying.
497
00:21:14,365 --> 00:21:17,628
Telling me stuff that was going
on. Y'all just don't know.
498
00:21:17,630 --> 00:21:19,804
I know the Vincent's and
they wouldn't act that way.
499
00:21:19,806 --> 00:21:22,459
You said the keyword
right there boo. Act.
500
00:21:22,461 --> 00:21:24,286
That's all they ever
do is put on a show.
501
00:21:24,288 --> 00:21:25,592
I'm telling you.
502
00:21:25,594 --> 00:21:26,985
I don't know.
503
00:21:26,987 --> 00:21:28,639
I know this.
504
00:21:28,641 --> 00:21:30,423
She sure wouldn't
have killed herself
505
00:21:30,425 --> 00:21:32,381
if everything was going good.
506
00:21:32,383 --> 00:21:34,906
Something had to have
been going wrong.
507
00:21:34,908 --> 00:21:37,517
Well I don't know, and
I don't want to know.
508
00:21:37,519 --> 00:21:39,214
And I know too much.
509
00:21:39,216 --> 00:21:39,956
Exactly.
510
00:21:49,531 --> 00:21:51,751
Do you mind if I sit with you?
511
00:21:58,148 --> 00:21:59,149
What's on your mind?
512
00:22:00,237 --> 00:22:01,717
Just thinking about her.
513
00:22:05,852 --> 00:22:09,029
I've been thinking
about her a lot too.
514
00:22:10,204 --> 00:22:11,640
You know she really loved you.
515
00:22:18,647 --> 00:22:21,474
I know it's a lot going
on with you right now.
516
00:22:21,476 --> 00:22:22,912
It's a lot going
on in your mind.
517
00:22:25,436 --> 00:22:29,221
But I want you to know
that I'm here with you.
518
00:22:29,223 --> 00:22:32,267
And if it's anything you need
I want you to let me know.
519
00:22:32,269 --> 00:22:33,140
Just save it.
520
00:22:34,620 --> 00:22:36,447
It's okay you can talk to me.
521
00:22:37,623 --> 00:22:39,187
I'ma be okay.
522
00:22:39,189 --> 00:22:41,540
Paul is who you really
need to try to talk to.
523
00:22:44,847 --> 00:22:45,587
You're right.
524
00:22:46,632 --> 00:22:48,545
Have you seen him?
525
00:22:48,547 --> 00:22:49,896
He's in the back with Damian.
526
00:22:54,030 --> 00:22:56,901
Listen I'ma go
talk to your brother.
527
00:22:56,903 --> 00:22:59,340
And if you need anything I
want you to let me know, okay?
528
00:23:00,602 --> 00:23:01,560
I love you.
529
00:23:02,865 --> 00:23:06,086
Tatiyanna I love you.
530
00:23:08,828 --> 00:23:09,698
All right I'm gone.
531
00:23:21,754 --> 00:23:24,232
Man I just want to
thank you for coming over.
532
00:23:24,234 --> 00:23:25,756
Awe It's no problem man.
533
00:23:25,758 --> 00:23:27,714
We're boys I wouldn't
leave you hanging.
534
00:23:27,716 --> 00:23:29,803
Especially at a time like this.
535
00:23:29,805 --> 00:23:33,111
Yeah man I feel so empty now.
536
00:23:33,113 --> 00:23:35,069
My mom she was the one
who took me to the side
537
00:23:35,071 --> 00:23:36,029
and had real talks with me.
538
00:23:37,552 --> 00:23:40,161
I would feel nothing but
love coming from her.
539
00:23:40,163 --> 00:23:42,729
Even when she corrected
me about things.
540
00:23:42,731 --> 00:23:44,644
My dad on the other hand.
541
00:23:44,646 --> 00:23:45,691
He always yelled at me.
542
00:23:46,866 --> 00:23:49,693
He spoke at me and not to me.
543
00:23:49,695 --> 00:23:51,085
That's why I've been
able to do so well
544
00:23:51,087 --> 00:23:53,610
on the football field
all these years.
545
00:23:53,612 --> 00:23:55,483
I learned how to
channel my aggression.
546
00:23:56,615 --> 00:23:58,094
Man I can't believe this.
547
00:23:59,095 --> 00:24:01,182
But then again I can.
548
00:24:01,184 --> 00:24:04,359
Man he pushed her
too far this time.
549
00:24:04,361 --> 00:24:07,232
It's crazy though, none
of this seems real.
550
00:24:07,234 --> 00:24:09,626
When you're driving the speed
limit and your sure of it.
551
00:24:09,628 --> 00:24:12,237
You see the police officer
then you are not afraid
552
00:24:12,239 --> 00:24:14,065
but there's still
some reverence.
553
00:24:14,067 --> 00:24:15,893
You still check him out you'll
watch him in your rearview
554
00:24:15,895 --> 00:24:19,418
mirror, even if you were
driving the speed limit.
555
00:24:19,420 --> 00:24:22,595
I'm telling you that because
we are worried about a ticket
556
00:24:22,597 --> 00:24:24,031
that we can pay with money.
557
00:24:24,033 --> 00:24:25,990
But I'm talking about a soul,
558
00:24:25,992 --> 00:24:29,123
that can spend forever
in eternal hell fire.
559
00:24:29,125 --> 00:24:31,865
And a soul that can have a
life where they never die.
560
00:24:31,867 --> 00:24:34,041
The choice is yours to make.
561
00:24:34,043 --> 00:24:36,567
God said you choose
whom you will serve.
562
00:24:38,352 --> 00:24:40,787
God spoke of the earth will
be filled with violence.
563
00:24:40,789 --> 00:24:42,441
This is what's happening today.
564
00:24:42,443 --> 00:24:44,182
He talked about in
the end of time.
565
00:24:44,184 --> 00:24:46,227
How that the mother would
turn against the daughter
566
00:24:46,229 --> 00:24:47,794
and the daughter
against her mother.
567
00:24:47,796 --> 00:24:49,709
The son would rise
up against his father
568
00:24:49,711 --> 00:24:51,580
and the father against the son.
569
00:24:51,582 --> 00:24:54,192
Now today whenever there's
a murder many times
570
00:24:54,194 --> 00:24:57,804
that's unsolved, the prime
suspect is a relative.
571
00:24:57,806 --> 00:25:00,851
The Bible said the time
would come that a man's foes
572
00:25:00,853 --> 00:25:02,635
would be, they of
his own household.
573
00:25:02,637 --> 00:25:05,856
I never would've believed
that I would see that.
574
00:25:05,858 --> 00:25:09,511
But I believed what
God said and I believed
575
00:25:09,513 --> 00:25:11,078
we were in the end of time.
576
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,255
And I prepared myself
based on one occasion
577
00:25:14,257 --> 00:25:16,867
where I would hear of a family
member fighting another.
578
00:25:16,869 --> 00:25:18,651
I said that's what God said.
579
00:25:18,653 --> 00:25:20,305
But now it's common place.
580
00:25:20,307 --> 00:25:22,176
What am I telling you this for?
581
00:25:22,178 --> 00:25:25,005
God as well as he's spoken
these things would happen,
582
00:25:25,007 --> 00:25:28,052
he's also spoken of
a time of judgment.
583
00:25:28,054 --> 00:25:32,143
That we will all stand
before him in that day.
584
00:25:32,145 --> 00:25:35,015
The Bible has told us except
a man be born of water
585
00:25:35,017 --> 00:25:39,063
and spirit that man cannot
see, the kingdom of God.
586
00:25:39,065 --> 00:25:40,934
You will not luck
up and get to heaven
587
00:25:40,936 --> 00:25:43,676
and the devil will tell
you, well I just believe
588
00:25:43,678 --> 00:25:45,417
God's gonna, let me by some how.
589
00:25:45,419 --> 00:25:47,985
I just you know I just
believe things gon' change.
590
00:25:47,987 --> 00:25:50,552
You know I believe well
when that time comes.
591
00:25:50,554 --> 00:25:51,902
He wants you holding back,
he wants you waiting,
592
00:25:51,904 --> 00:25:54,165
he wants you trusting
in a fantasy.
593
00:25:54,167 --> 00:25:55,949
He don't want you getting
up and doing something
594
00:25:55,951 --> 00:25:58,343
and recognizing I see
the police out there
595
00:25:58,345 --> 00:25:59,474
I better get of my gas.
596
00:25:59,476 --> 00:26:00,998
I'm speeding!
597
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,741
I better check my life,
I may be speeding!
598
00:26:04,743 --> 00:26:08,442
Contact us on line, at
www.refugetemple.net.
599
00:26:11,227 --> 00:26:13,924
Thank you and may God bless you!
600
00:26:13,926 --> 00:26:15,536
Man that's exactly
what I needed!
601
00:26:18,844 --> 00:26:19,932
What's wrong with you?
602
00:26:22,021 --> 00:26:22,935
That man?
603
00:26:23,849 --> 00:26:24,850
Who?
604
00:26:26,242 --> 00:26:27,635
The man on the commercial.
605
00:26:28,636 --> 00:26:32,769
Yeah, what about him?
606
00:26:32,771 --> 00:26:35,032
That's my bishop.
607
00:26:35,034 --> 00:26:37,599
What? What you mean?
608
00:26:37,601 --> 00:26:39,647
I grew up at the church
he was preaching at.
609
00:26:40,822 --> 00:26:41,649
What?
610
00:26:43,042 --> 00:26:45,346
When I was young
my dad got saved
611
00:26:45,348 --> 00:26:47,958
and begin to dedicate
himself to the ministry.
612
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,960
After a few years my
mom ended up leaving him
613
00:26:49,962 --> 00:26:51,831
because she felt like
he didn't love her.
614
00:26:51,833 --> 00:26:55,139
But really it was because she
wasn't as dedicated as he was.
615
00:26:55,141 --> 00:26:56,575
A few months after she moved out
616
00:26:56,577 --> 00:26:58,231
she ended up getting
custody of me.
617
00:26:59,667 --> 00:27:01,101
After only going to
service on the weekends
618
00:27:01,103 --> 00:27:02,929
I was with my dad
and not connecting
619
00:27:02,931 --> 00:27:04,801
to the body and the ministry.
620
00:27:04,803 --> 00:27:07,064
I stopped wanting
to go completely.
621
00:27:07,066 --> 00:27:08,630
Before I knew it I
started hanging out
622
00:27:08,632 --> 00:27:10,632
with different groups at school.
623
00:27:10,634 --> 00:27:13,592
And eventually I
started being influenced
624
00:27:13,594 --> 00:27:15,465
rather than being the influence.
625
00:27:17,032 --> 00:27:19,337
So you mean to tell
me after all this time
626
00:27:19,339 --> 00:27:21,252
you had what I needed
and didn't say nothing?
627
00:27:21,254 --> 00:27:22,688
I'm sorry man.
628
00:27:22,690 --> 00:27:24,429
How could I tell you
what you should've
629
00:27:24,431 --> 00:27:26,039
and could've been doing when
I wasn't doing it myself?
630
00:27:26,041 --> 00:27:28,128
You could've at
least said something.
631
00:27:28,130 --> 00:27:29,826
Man all my life
I lived wondering
632
00:27:29,828 --> 00:27:32,045
what the solution
to my problem was.
633
00:27:32,047 --> 00:27:34,526
Wondering if there was people
actually living the truth
634
00:27:34,528 --> 00:27:36,397
and not just quoting it.
635
00:27:36,399 --> 00:27:39,183
I always wondered if I could
actually find truth peace,
636
00:27:39,185 --> 00:27:41,228
and the person who I
thought was my best friend
637
00:27:41,230 --> 00:27:44,275
withheld all the answers
from me and made it seem
638
00:27:44,277 --> 00:27:46,581
like I could find it in the
females, drugs and partying.
639
00:27:46,583 --> 00:27:48,366
I'm sorry man.
640
00:27:48,368 --> 00:27:49,584
Man get out my house.
641
00:27:49,586 --> 00:27:50,803
I said I'm sorry.
642
00:27:50,805 --> 00:27:52,111
I said get out my house.
643
00:28:05,820 --> 00:28:07,646
There you go, there you go.
644
00:28:07,648 --> 00:28:08,475
Lock out, lock out!
645
00:28:09,911 --> 00:28:11,258
So the dynamic
duo then split huh?
646
00:28:11,260 --> 00:28:12,869
Lightweight, Lightweight
647
00:28:12,871 --> 00:28:14,261
Yep.
648
00:28:14,263 --> 00:28:17,179
So what's gon'
happen to the kids?
649
00:28:18,137 --> 00:28:19,571
Come on man. Lighten up.
650
00:28:19,573 --> 00:28:20,574
I'm just messing with you.
651
00:28:23,142 --> 00:28:24,143
Coach want you man.
652
00:28:35,981 --> 00:28:36,807
Close the door.
653
00:28:37,765 --> 00:28:38,505
Have a seat.
654
00:28:45,338 --> 00:28:47,599
I gotta talk to you
about your grades.
655
00:28:47,601 --> 00:28:49,470
What about 'em?
656
00:28:49,472 --> 00:28:51,037
I just got your
progress report man
657
00:28:51,039 --> 00:28:53,300
and it's not looking good.
658
00:28:53,302 --> 00:28:54,651
I'ma have to sit you down.
659
00:28:56,131 --> 00:28:57,826
Now I talked to one
of your teachers.
660
00:28:57,828 --> 00:28:59,567
She's willing to work with you.
661
00:28:59,569 --> 00:29:01,265
She's willing to help you
and tutor you on the weekend
662
00:29:01,267 --> 00:29:02,964
and after school if need be.
663
00:29:04,748 --> 00:29:06,226
Vincent you hear
me talking to you?
664
00:29:06,228 --> 00:29:07,836
Yeah I hear you!
665
00:29:07,838 --> 00:29:08,881
Well you gon'
get with this lady
666
00:29:08,883 --> 00:29:10,013
about getting your grades up?
667
00:29:10,015 --> 00:29:11,666
I don't know.
668
00:29:11,668 --> 00:29:13,886
What you mean you don't know?
669
00:29:13,888 --> 00:29:16,062
I'm trying to help you out.
670
00:29:16,064 --> 00:29:17,716
I'm trying to help you so
you can continue to play
671
00:29:17,718 --> 00:29:20,501
despite the fact you ain't
even been playing well.
672
00:29:20,503 --> 00:29:22,112
Yeah so I've been a little
bit off my game lately.
673
00:29:22,114 --> 00:29:23,200
But at least I'm trying.
674
00:29:23,202 --> 00:29:24,592
I don't need you to try.
675
00:29:24,594 --> 00:29:26,159
I need you to do it.
676
00:29:26,161 --> 00:29:27,204
Do it like you did
it in the past.
677
00:29:27,206 --> 00:29:28,642
On and off the field.
678
00:29:29,991 --> 00:29:31,253
Look man.
679
00:29:33,473 --> 00:29:36,039
I understand that you're
going through some things.
680
00:29:36,041 --> 00:29:37,170
I understand you
just lost your mom.
681
00:29:37,172 --> 00:29:38,911
No you don't understand!
682
00:29:38,913 --> 00:29:41,261
That's the problem everybody
thinks they understand!
683
00:29:41,263 --> 00:29:43,350
Nobody gets what
I'm going through!
684
00:29:43,352 --> 00:29:45,962
Well why don't you
help me to help you?
685
00:29:45,964 --> 00:29:49,095
Look I don't need your
help or anybody else's help!
686
00:29:49,097 --> 00:29:51,184
I tell you what,
get out my office
687
00:29:51,186 --> 00:29:52,533
you're off the team
until further notice!
688
00:29:52,535 --> 00:29:53,623
Man, whatever.
689
00:30:52,378 --> 00:30:53,986
But he told the believers,
690
00:30:53,988 --> 00:30:55,944
he told the ones
that believed in him.
691
00:30:55,946 --> 00:31:00,166
Now, it's important for
you, to continue in my word!
692
00:31:00,168 --> 00:31:04,301
Not just believe me and go
on about away from my word.
693
00:31:04,303 --> 00:31:07,043
But if you continue in my word.
694
00:31:07,045 --> 00:31:09,654
Then you are my disciple indeed.
695
00:31:09,656 --> 00:31:10,831
And you shall know the truth.
696
00:31:12,224 --> 00:31:14,615
And the truth shall
make you free.
697
00:31:14,617 --> 00:31:16,704
It is only through you
continuing in God's word
698
00:31:16,706 --> 00:31:18,404
that you truly start,
knowing the truth.
699
00:31:19,927 --> 00:31:22,362
This word know does not
just mean you understand
700
00:31:22,364 --> 00:31:22,930
what was spoken.
701
00:31:24,105 --> 00:31:25,974
You can understand what I speak
702
00:31:25,976 --> 00:31:27,280
and still not know the truth.
703
00:31:27,282 --> 00:31:28,457
I can speak this
Bible all day long
704
00:31:30,372 --> 00:31:34,896
and you can believe what it
says but until you continue
705
00:31:34,898 --> 00:31:38,509
in the word and start
to know the truth
706
00:31:38,511 --> 00:31:40,772
how do you know the truth?
707
00:31:40,774 --> 00:31:44,471
We must understand this word
know used in this context.
708
00:31:44,473 --> 00:31:47,039
This word know in this
context really meant
709
00:31:47,041 --> 00:31:47,868
to become intimate with.
710
00:31:49,348 --> 00:31:51,652
It is not the truth that
you hear Bishop preach
711
00:31:51,654 --> 00:31:54,266
that frees you from your old
methods and your old ways.
712
00:31:55,397 --> 00:31:57,441
Because you can walk around here
713
00:31:57,443 --> 00:31:59,486
and say oh yeah he
preached the truth.
714
00:31:59,488 --> 00:32:01,880
But it's only when you
will open up your mind,
715
00:32:01,882 --> 00:32:04,796
your way of life and allow
the truth to take part
716
00:32:04,798 --> 00:32:08,669
of your life and you exercise
it in your everyday doing.
717
00:32:08,671 --> 00:32:11,150
That's the truth that'll
free you from lesbianism.
718
00:32:11,152 --> 00:32:13,892
That's the truth that'll
free you from homosexuality.
719
00:32:13,894 --> 00:32:16,895
That's the truth that'll
free you from whoremonging.
720
00:32:16,897 --> 00:32:19,811
That's the truth that'll
free you from being drunken
721
00:32:19,813 --> 00:32:21,856
or filled with drugs!
722
00:32:21,858 --> 00:32:25,862
When you know the truth the
truth is in your reasoning.
723
00:32:27,037 --> 00:32:29,821
When you reason to do something
724
00:32:29,823 --> 00:32:32,128
and you're tempted
to do something.
725
00:32:32,130 --> 00:32:34,695
The truth is in the
midst of your reasoning
726
00:32:34,697 --> 00:32:37,176
and you are not led
away by how you feel
727
00:32:37,178 --> 00:32:38,960
about doing something.
728
00:32:38,962 --> 00:32:41,398
Oh so and so makes me feel
good but you are lead to do
729
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,531
what the truth of
God's word says
730
00:32:44,533 --> 00:32:47,447
because you'll know the
truth you have opened up
731
00:32:47,449 --> 00:32:48,798
and let it in you.
732
00:32:53,455 --> 00:32:55,979
And that truth starts
to change a man
733
00:32:57,372 --> 00:32:59,157
from one condition to another.
734
00:33:11,256 --> 00:33:13,081
Hey, how you doing?
735
00:33:13,083 --> 00:33:14,692
Good I guess.
736
00:33:14,694 --> 00:33:16,476
Can I help you with anything?
737
00:33:16,478 --> 00:33:19,305
Yeah, I'm looking for
Bishop Wendell Archie.
738
00:33:19,307 --> 00:33:22,395
I saw him on TV today and I
want to ask him a few things.
739
00:33:22,397 --> 00:33:24,834
Okay unfortunately
he's not here right now.
740
00:33:26,619 --> 00:33:29,185
I'm actually about to lock
up and get out here myself
741
00:33:29,187 --> 00:33:31,187
after I do a little
touch up cleaning here.
742
00:33:31,189 --> 00:33:34,973
That's alright I'll just
come back another time.
743
00:33:34,975 --> 00:33:37,932
Okay well look if you
need someone to talk to
744
00:33:37,934 --> 00:33:40,152
I'll be here for about
another 30 minutes or so.
745
00:33:40,154 --> 00:33:43,982
No offense but I
would rather get advice
746
00:33:43,984 --> 00:33:46,332
from somebody that actually
comes to this church,
747
00:33:46,334 --> 00:33:47,248
not the janitor.
748
00:33:48,075 --> 00:33:49,422
Is that right?
749
00:33:49,424 --> 00:33:51,119
Well I don't think
we formally met.
750
00:33:51,121 --> 00:33:52,556
What's your name?
751
00:33:52,558 --> 00:33:53,557
Paul.
752
00:33:53,559 --> 00:33:54,558
Paul my name is Eathan.
753
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:55,341
I'm a minister here.
754
00:33:55,343 --> 00:33:56,777
A minister?
755
00:33:56,779 --> 00:33:58,605
Like ordained and everything?
756
00:33:58,607 --> 00:34:01,826
Yeah. The license, the
horn of oil, the whole nine.
757
00:34:01,828 --> 00:34:04,481
I'm sorry I thought
cause of the broom and all.
758
00:34:04,483 --> 00:34:07,440
No need to apologize
I'm not offended. At all.
759
00:34:07,442 --> 00:34:09,355
You wouldn't catch
any of the ministers
760
00:34:09,357 --> 00:34:12,793
at my father's church
sweeping floors.
761
00:34:12,795 --> 00:34:16,449
Well Jesus is our
example and the Bible says
762
00:34:16,451 --> 00:34:18,451
how he made himself
of no reputation.
763
00:34:18,453 --> 00:34:21,019
But took upon himself
the form of a servant
764
00:34:21,021 --> 00:34:24,065
and the thing about it the
way up is down in this life.
765
00:34:24,067 --> 00:34:25,632
You know the Bible lets me know
766
00:34:25,634 --> 00:34:27,808
that they that humble
themselves under the mighty hand
767
00:34:27,810 --> 00:34:30,246
of God he said he'll
exalt them in due time.
768
00:34:30,248 --> 00:34:33,249
See that's one thing I
noticed about the commercials
769
00:34:33,251 --> 00:34:37,035
this church doesn't water
down or over look scriptures
770
00:34:37,037 --> 00:34:38,776
they take them
for what they are.
771
00:34:38,778 --> 00:34:41,866
And when I finally watched
one of his messages.
772
00:34:41,868 --> 00:34:43,737
I knew that everything
that he was saying was true
773
00:34:43,739 --> 00:34:46,827
because he said it like
he truly believed it.
774
00:34:46,829 --> 00:34:49,830
He didn't make it seem like
God didn't mean what he said.
775
00:34:49,832 --> 00:34:52,268
Right and God definitely
means what he says you know.
776
00:34:52,270 --> 00:34:54,313
We don't add to and
we don't take away.
777
00:34:54,315 --> 00:34:56,620
The Bible says man should
not live by bread alone,
778
00:34:56,622 --> 00:34:58,839
but by every word that proceeds
out of the mouth of God.
779
00:34:58,841 --> 00:35:01,059
And we actually believe in
applying those scriptures
780
00:35:01,061 --> 00:35:03,583
to our lives every day.
781
00:35:03,585 --> 00:35:06,238
Well maybe you
can help me then.
782
00:35:06,240 --> 00:35:07,848
Okay maybe I can.
783
00:35:07,850 --> 00:35:08,938
Let's take a seat over here.
784
00:35:16,642 --> 00:35:19,382
All my life, I've been
abused by my father.
785
00:35:19,384 --> 00:35:21,209
Mainly verbally.
786
00:35:21,211 --> 00:35:23,429
But it's been going
on for so long that,
787
00:35:23,431 --> 00:35:25,823
I've developed a hatred for him.
788
00:35:25,825 --> 00:35:28,260
I never really
take it out on him.
789
00:35:28,262 --> 00:35:30,871
I usually take it out
on the football field.
790
00:35:30,873 --> 00:35:32,917
Which has worked out pretty
well for me in the past,
791
00:35:32,919 --> 00:35:35,920
but, man now he's saying
I can't choose what school
792
00:35:35,922 --> 00:35:37,356
I want to go to.
793
00:35:37,358 --> 00:35:40,403
I mean it's so many
different things.
794
00:35:40,405 --> 00:35:42,666
I ended up coming
home late from a party
795
00:35:42,668 --> 00:35:47,279
and when I came home me
and my dad got into it.
796
00:35:47,281 --> 00:35:50,761
One thing lead to another and
before the argument was over
797
00:35:50,763 --> 00:35:54,941
with my mom she ended up,
she ended up killing herself!
798
00:35:56,725 --> 00:35:59,900
I mean I'm I'm at the point
I don't know what to do.
799
00:35:59,902 --> 00:36:01,598
I don't know what to think.
800
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:06,167
At times I begin to think about
committing suicide myself.
801
00:36:06,169 --> 00:36:07,560
But when I seen that commercial
802
00:36:07,562 --> 00:36:10,041
it really did something for me.
803
00:36:10,043 --> 00:36:13,131
It's like everything
he was preaching it was
804
00:36:13,133 --> 00:36:15,220
what I've been searching
for my whole life.
805
00:36:15,222 --> 00:36:18,092
I mean this is my last hope.
806
00:36:18,094 --> 00:36:22,969
Wow, ummm, Look uhh I know,
I know it must be pretty tough
807
00:36:25,450 --> 00:36:27,103
for you and your
family right now.
808
00:36:28,627 --> 00:36:33,327
But I also do know that
God is able to bring us
809
00:36:34,459 --> 00:36:35,155
through the toughest of times.
810
00:36:36,635 --> 00:36:38,332
You know and in this
book called life.
811
00:36:40,073 --> 00:36:42,900
There's a lot of different
chapters and different pressures
812
00:36:42,902 --> 00:36:43,511
that come upon a man.
813
00:36:45,339 --> 00:36:47,385
But the thing about God
he's given man a free will.
814
00:36:49,299 --> 00:36:53,171
That man does what he wants,
in those times of pressure.
815
00:36:53,173 --> 00:36:57,262
So we can't blame God and we
can't charge God foolishly
816
00:36:57,264 --> 00:36:59,525
for things that
some one else does
817
00:36:59,527 --> 00:37:01,224
when the pressure
comes upon them.
818
00:37:02,835 --> 00:37:05,226
And we can't hold
unforgiveness in our heart
819
00:37:05,228 --> 00:37:05,881
towards other people.
820
00:37:07,796 --> 00:37:09,668
Because ultimately it
boils down to you and God.
821
00:37:11,104 --> 00:37:13,106
You know I heard
you mention about
822
00:37:14,629 --> 00:37:15,587
this being your last hope.
823
00:37:17,502 --> 00:37:20,677
You know the Bible says how
God has called us in one hope
824
00:37:20,679 --> 00:37:25,072
of his calling and many times
what God does is he uses
825
00:37:25,074 --> 00:37:28,859
these situations that
we encounter in life
826
00:37:28,861 --> 00:37:31,211
to get us to realize
that he is our only hope.
827
00:37:32,691 --> 00:37:35,735
So why does God
have to draw people
828
00:37:35,737 --> 00:37:38,390
by allowing things
to happen to him?
829
00:37:38,392 --> 00:37:38,871
Well let me ask you this.
830
00:37:40,699 --> 00:37:43,351
If everything was going
right in your life right now.
831
00:37:43,353 --> 00:37:45,094
Would you be here talking to me?
832
00:37:46,095 --> 00:37:47,140
Probably not.
833
00:37:48,446 --> 00:37:49,359
You see many people.
834
00:37:50,839 --> 00:37:53,449
They think they're
all right with God.
835
00:37:53,451 --> 00:37:55,714
So God has to allow
things to happen
836
00:37:57,542 --> 00:38:00,543
to get people to really see
where they put their trust
837
00:38:00,545 --> 00:38:01,807
and where they put
their confidence at
838
00:38:03,678 --> 00:38:06,899
and many people resort to
things that are not like God.
839
00:38:08,509 --> 00:38:11,077
Women resort to men
to take care of them.
840
00:38:12,557 --> 00:38:14,515
Men resort to women
for satisfaction.
841
00:38:16,212 --> 00:38:20,214
Resort to alcohol, resort
to drugs, partying.
842
00:38:20,216 --> 00:38:21,827
A life that does not
include God at all.
843
00:38:23,568 --> 00:38:26,264
He's given us so many different
situations in that Bible.
844
00:38:26,266 --> 00:38:28,222
That teaches us how we
should handle things
845
00:38:28,224 --> 00:38:29,530
that we encounter.
846
00:38:31,358 --> 00:38:34,707
The Bible says how Jesus he
said it was need be that he go.
847
00:38:34,709 --> 00:38:38,668
He said if I don't go, he said
the comforter will not come.
848
00:38:38,670 --> 00:38:41,235
He would give us another
comforter so we wouldn't have
849
00:38:41,237 --> 00:38:43,803
to put our confidence and our
trust and try to find comfort
850
00:38:43,805 --> 00:38:48,416
in things that do
not pertain to God.
851
00:38:48,418 --> 00:38:51,550
Man well what do I have to do?
852
00:38:51,552 --> 00:38:54,510
I mean I'm tired of my life
falling apart like this.
853
00:38:54,512 --> 00:38:56,296
You need the spirit
of God in your life.
854
00:38:57,427 --> 00:38:58,992
What is that?
855
00:38:58,994 --> 00:39:01,473
The Holy Ghost which
is the spirit of God.
856
00:39:01,475 --> 00:39:04,084
It is that comforter that
I'm telling you about.
857
00:39:04,086 --> 00:39:07,914
And what happens when God
gives a man his spirit
858
00:39:07,916 --> 00:39:11,744
he gives that man power
to say no to the things
859
00:39:11,746 --> 00:39:14,181
that he always
wanted to say no to
860
00:39:14,183 --> 00:39:16,532
but never could
really commit to.
861
00:39:16,534 --> 00:39:19,883
It gives that man power
over sin in his life.
862
00:39:19,885 --> 00:39:22,450
It gives that man a
conviction about things
863
00:39:22,452 --> 00:39:25,453
that normally seemed okay.
864
00:39:25,455 --> 00:39:29,675
But what it is the mind of
God it is his personality
865
00:39:29,677 --> 00:39:33,461
that he puts inside of
man and he begins to feel
866
00:39:33,463 --> 00:39:35,422
a conviction about things
that God says I don't like.
867
00:39:37,293 --> 00:39:41,339
Without the spirit of God a
man can't really please God
868
00:39:41,341 --> 00:39:44,429
because he doesn't know how
God really feels about things,
869
00:39:44,431 --> 00:39:45,952
so he'll continue to do things
870
00:39:45,954 --> 00:39:47,911
that he thinks God is okay with.
871
00:39:47,913 --> 00:39:49,654
That God really
is not okay with.
872
00:39:51,264 --> 00:39:55,658
I mean but my dad
told me if I accept
873
00:39:55,660 --> 00:39:59,052
the Lord Jesus Christ
as my personal savior
874
00:39:59,054 --> 00:40:00,837
if I confessed with my
mouth and I truly meant it
875
00:40:00,839 --> 00:40:04,580
in my heart then I was saved
everything would be alright.
876
00:40:04,582 --> 00:40:07,583
Right. But the Bible
goes on to tell us
877
00:40:07,585 --> 00:40:10,281
in Romans chapter 10.
It says with the mouth
878
00:40:10,283 --> 00:40:13,545
confession is made,
but with the heart
879
00:40:13,547 --> 00:40:15,462
man believes onto righteousness.
880
00:40:16,985 --> 00:40:20,508
As far as accepting the
Lord the Bible tells us
881
00:40:20,510 --> 00:40:23,642
that we have to be
accepted of him.
882
00:40:23,644 --> 00:40:27,692
We don't accept the
Lord he approves us.
883
00:40:29,824 --> 00:40:32,172
But with the heart he said
you'll believe onto righteousness
884
00:40:32,174 --> 00:40:33,828
you'll begin to do
something different.
885
00:40:35,351 --> 00:40:37,264
When a man receives
the spirit of God
886
00:40:37,266 --> 00:40:39,789
and begins to walk after
God there's a change
887
00:40:39,791 --> 00:40:41,573
that takes place in his life.
888
00:40:41,575 --> 00:40:43,749
He can't remain the same.
889
00:40:43,751 --> 00:40:46,012
He can't remain around
the same old friends.
890
00:40:46,014 --> 00:40:49,363
He can't remain around
the same influences
891
00:40:49,365 --> 00:40:51,670
because they'll continue
to be an influence.
892
00:40:51,672 --> 00:40:53,890
But when God gets a hold
of him and he begins to do
893
00:40:53,892 --> 00:40:59,243
what's right to God, God becomes
the influence in his life.
894
00:40:59,245 --> 00:41:03,466
Man they really don't teach
this at my dad's church.
895
00:41:05,164 --> 00:41:07,555
And most churches don't
but it doesn't do away
896
00:41:07,557 --> 00:41:09,906
with the fact that
it's still true.
897
00:41:09,908 --> 00:41:14,214
The Bible says let God's word
be true and every man a liar.
898
00:41:14,216 --> 00:41:17,914
So regardless if it's popular
or if it's not popular,
899
00:41:17,916 --> 00:41:20,307
if the world agrees
or disagrees.
900
00:41:20,309 --> 00:41:21,615
It's still true.
901
00:41:22,747 --> 00:41:26,226
Man I'm really glad I came.
902
00:41:26,228 --> 00:41:27,795
Look I'll tell you what.
903
00:41:32,321 --> 00:41:35,281
I want to give you
my information here.
904
00:41:36,935 --> 00:41:37,936
My phone number.
905
00:41:39,938 --> 00:41:41,981
I want to stay in
touch with you.
906
00:41:41,983 --> 00:41:43,506
So feel free to give
me a call anytime.
907
00:41:45,291 --> 00:41:49,206
Okay man thank you I'll
definitely be using this.
908
00:41:49,208 --> 00:41:51,599
I mean I'm starting to
feel better already.
909
00:41:51,601 --> 00:41:52,470
Amen.
910
00:41:52,472 --> 00:41:53,471
That's how God does.
911
00:41:53,473 --> 00:41:55,516
He knows what you need.
912
00:41:55,518 --> 00:41:57,127
But before you leave here today
913
00:41:57,129 --> 00:41:59,697
I would like to pray with
you if you don't mind.
914
00:42:01,176 --> 00:42:01,873
Okay.
915
00:42:07,139 --> 00:42:10,053
You know the Bible
says when a man repents,
916
00:42:10,055 --> 00:42:14,057
which means to turn
away from that lifestyle
917
00:42:14,059 --> 00:42:15,711
that he use to living
the sinful life
918
00:42:15,713 --> 00:42:17,582
he's use to chasing after.
919
00:42:17,584 --> 00:42:20,716
What mom and dad may have
taught what sister and brother
920
00:42:20,718 --> 00:42:22,674
or grandfather may
have instilled in you
921
00:42:22,676 --> 00:42:24,676
that was contrary to God.
922
00:42:24,678 --> 00:42:28,027
When you repent God
looks at you and says
923
00:42:28,029 --> 00:42:30,638
I want to fill that man
with the spirit of God.
924
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,816
So today when I pray with
you I want you to repent
925
00:42:33,818 --> 00:42:35,556
and I want you to talk to God
926
00:42:35,558 --> 00:42:38,255
so that God will fill
you with the Holy Ghost.
927
00:42:38,257 --> 00:42:39,952
- Amen?
- Amen.
928
00:42:39,954 --> 00:42:41,782
Remember you just talk
to God and you pray.
929
00:42:42,914 --> 00:42:45,697
Father in the name of Jesus.
930
00:42:45,699 --> 00:42:49,309
God I pray right now God
first and foremost oh God.
931
00:42:49,311 --> 00:42:50,876
God that you would
help this young man
932
00:42:50,878 --> 00:42:52,965
to forgive his father God
933
00:42:52,967 --> 00:42:55,707
. God for you said if we do
not forgive that you will not
934
00:42:55,709 --> 00:42:58,057
forgive us our trespasses God.
935
00:42:58,059 --> 00:43:01,365
God teach him how to mend
the relationship between him
936
00:43:01,367 --> 00:43:03,106
and his father God.
937
00:43:03,108 --> 00:43:05,064
God I pray God that you
would help him to be strong
938
00:43:05,066 --> 00:43:07,371
oh God for his family
at this time oh God.
939
00:43:07,373 --> 00:43:10,417
That they would see your
power operating in him oh God.
940
00:43:10,419 --> 00:43:13,725
That they would begin to
inquire at what this is
941
00:43:13,727 --> 00:43:16,510
that is keeping him strong
in this hour oh God.
942
00:43:16,512 --> 00:43:19,383
God I pray father that you
would give him wisdom God
943
00:43:19,385 --> 00:43:22,386
to counter the influences of
the peer pressures oh God.
944
00:43:22,388 --> 00:43:24,475
The things that he deals
with on the day to day basis
945
00:43:24,477 --> 00:43:26,346
at his school God.
946
00:43:26,348 --> 00:43:29,306
God help him to renounce and
to denounce God the lifestyle
947
00:43:29,308 --> 00:43:31,569
that has kept him
bound for so long God.
948
00:43:31,571 --> 00:43:33,353
To put aside the things oh God
949
00:43:33,355 --> 00:43:35,573
that are keeping him
away from you Father.
950
00:43:35,575 --> 00:43:37,880
God the iniquity that
is in his heart oh God.
951
00:43:37,882 --> 00:43:40,447
The things God the sin in
his heart that is keeping him
952
00:43:40,449 --> 00:43:42,362
away from you God.
953
00:43:42,364 --> 00:43:44,234
God I pray father that
you would help him oh God.
954
00:43:44,236 --> 00:43:47,150
Give him a heart and a
mind God to change oh God.
955
00:43:47,152 --> 00:43:49,674
God help him to be free
today God by filling him
956
00:43:49,676 --> 00:43:51,502
with your power oh God.
957
00:43:51,504 --> 00:43:54,070
Which this is the only way
that a man can be free oh God.
958
00:43:54,072 --> 00:43:56,072
God By receiving
your spirit oh God.
959
00:43:56,074 --> 00:43:58,291
God and I pray today that
you would forgive him
960
00:43:58,293 --> 00:44:01,164
of his sins oh God.
God wash him clean God.
961
00:44:01,166 --> 00:44:04,297
God wash him white as snow as
your word has declared oh God.
962
00:44:04,299 --> 00:44:07,561
God that he may walk
away today a new man God
963
00:44:07,563 --> 00:44:10,434
that people might see him
with a different identity God.
964
00:44:10,436 --> 00:44:12,871
They might see him manifesting
a different character
965
00:44:12,873 --> 00:44:14,699
that comes only
from heaven oh God.
966
00:44:14,701 --> 00:44:17,789
God that they might see Christ
and your word walking in him
967
00:44:17,791 --> 00:44:18,836
and talking through him oh God.
968
00:44:20,707 --> 00:44:22,272
But you have said in your word
oh God that if we come out
969
00:44:22,274 --> 00:44:24,013
from among them oh God
and be separate God.
970
00:44:24,015 --> 00:44:27,407
You said then will you
receive us unto you oh God.
971
00:44:27,409 --> 00:44:28,715
And you will be a father unto us
972
00:44:29,803 --> 00:44:31,498
and we would be your children.
973
00:44:31,500 --> 00:44:33,979
We would be your people
and you would be our God.
974
00:44:33,981 --> 00:44:38,549
And the alcohol and
the drugs and the lust.
975
00:44:38,551 --> 00:44:40,638
I forgive my dad!
976
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,640
I release him from my heart!
977
00:44:42,642 --> 00:44:44,860
I surrender to you Lord!
978
00:44:44,862 --> 00:44:47,516
I'm done fighting I
give it all up to you!
979
00:45:17,764 --> 00:45:19,287
Yeah they coming out good now.
980
00:45:20,810 --> 00:45:21,940
You think these
brownies gon' come out
981
00:45:21,942 --> 00:45:23,463
like mama use to make 'em?
982
00:45:23,465 --> 00:45:25,813
Nobody can make 'em
like mama made 'em.
983
00:45:25,815 --> 00:45:27,903
I know I would always tell her
984
00:45:27,905 --> 00:45:30,122
that she could make a
fortune for making brownies.
985
00:45:30,124 --> 00:45:33,343
And once I made it to the pros
she would have her own shop.
986
00:45:33,345 --> 00:45:35,127
That's the only way
they would've got out
987
00:45:35,129 --> 00:45:37,173
'cause mama wasn't giving
that recipe to nobody.
988
00:45:37,175 --> 00:45:38,480
Man you sure got that right!
989
00:45:45,487 --> 00:45:48,053
Tatiyanna what's this?
990
00:45:48,055 --> 00:45:48,751
What's what?
991
00:45:50,536 --> 00:45:52,492
Oh that's nothing!
992
00:45:52,494 --> 00:45:54,233
Nothing?
993
00:45:54,235 --> 00:45:55,715
It sure looked like
something to me!
994
00:45:58,065 --> 00:46:00,152
Let me ask you something.
995
00:46:00,154 --> 00:46:01,501
You've been going
by Rico's house?
996
00:46:01,503 --> 00:46:02,850
That's none of your business.
997
00:46:02,852 --> 00:46:04,765
None of my business?
998
00:46:04,767 --> 00:46:07,551
I'm your brother and I'm
suppose to look out for you.
999
00:46:07,553 --> 00:46:09,901
You said it right your
my brother. Not my daddy.
1000
00:46:09,903 --> 00:46:11,163
It's none of your business.
1001
00:46:11,165 --> 00:46:12,950
Tatiyanna you don't know Rico.
1002
00:46:14,821 --> 00:46:17,648
Don't let him fool you with
this silly lover boy act.
1003
00:46:17,650 --> 00:46:20,172
He can get pretty
aggressive and he goes
1004
00:46:20,174 --> 00:46:22,261
around school dating girls
with one goal in mind.
1005
00:46:22,263 --> 00:46:23,784
Yeah whatever.
1006
00:46:23,786 --> 00:46:26,700
I'm serious I know
Rico and I don't think
1007
00:46:26,702 --> 00:46:29,965
you should be dating him let
alone going to his house.
1008
00:46:29,967 --> 00:46:31,705
Tell me y'all
haven't been sleep...
1009
00:46:31,707 --> 00:46:32,880
And if we have?
1010
00:46:32,882 --> 00:46:34,491
Let me ask you something.
1011
00:46:34,493 --> 00:46:36,580
Do you think God would
be okay with you sleeping
1012
00:46:36,582 --> 00:46:38,582
with somebody, that
you're not married to?
1013
00:46:38,584 --> 00:46:40,410
God this. God that.
1014
00:46:40,412 --> 00:46:42,542
You act like you've been
an angel all your life!
1015
00:46:42,544 --> 00:46:44,936
I haven't but I've turned
away from my old ways
1016
00:46:44,938 --> 00:46:47,330
and I'm no longer living in sin.
1017
00:46:47,332 --> 00:46:50,159
And now you think you can
tell everybody what to do.
1018
00:46:50,161 --> 00:46:52,596
Look I'm just trying
to look out for you.
1019
00:46:52,598 --> 00:46:55,251
I know Rico and he's not
the person you think he is.
1020
00:46:55,253 --> 00:46:57,122
You and daddy need
to leave me alone
1021
00:46:57,124 --> 00:46:58,996
and let me live
life how I want to.
1022
00:48:22,775 --> 00:48:24,211
I need to call Damian
and get this right.
1023
00:48:34,178 --> 00:48:35,699
Hello?
1024
00:48:35,701 --> 00:48:37,050
Hey man you busy?
1025
00:48:38,225 --> 00:48:39,094
On my way to Rico's house.
1026
00:48:39,096 --> 00:48:39,574
What's up?
1027
00:48:41,010 --> 00:48:42,621
I don't even know
where to start.
1028
00:48:45,363 --> 00:48:47,191
Well it's really good
to hear from you man.
1029
00:48:49,062 --> 00:48:50,975
After that last time we spoke
I was starting to wonder
1030
00:48:50,977 --> 00:48:51,934
if we'd ever talk again.
1031
00:48:53,545 --> 00:48:56,023
Yeah God really
started showing me myself
1032
00:48:56,025 --> 00:48:57,157
and I hated what I saw.
1033
00:48:58,593 --> 00:49:00,463
I'm so sorry for
blowing up on you
1034
00:49:00,465 --> 00:49:02,031
and for the person
that I've been.
1035
00:49:03,424 --> 00:49:05,250
I'm sorry for
taking my aggression
1036
00:49:05,252 --> 00:49:06,079
and my confusion out on you.
1037
00:49:07,602 --> 00:49:10,342
I realized now how hard
it must've been for you
1038
00:49:10,344 --> 00:49:12,564
to know the truth
and not be doing it.
1039
00:49:14,348 --> 00:49:16,742
I just want to apologize
for being so inconsiderate.
1040
00:49:19,397 --> 00:49:21,399
Hello, you still there?
1041
00:49:23,052 --> 00:49:27,970
Yeah man I'm here
I'm just speechless.
1042
00:49:28,928 --> 00:49:29,842
Did something happen?
1043
00:49:31,757 --> 00:49:36,063
Well honestly man I got
tired of being sick and tired
1044
00:49:36,065 --> 00:49:37,589
and I got fed up with my life.
1045
00:49:39,156 --> 00:49:40,894
I knew there had to
be something different
1046
00:49:40,896 --> 00:49:43,377
because if not I knew
all hope for me was gone.
1047
00:49:45,205 --> 00:49:47,640
I knew I couldn't go on
living the way I was living,
1048
00:49:47,642 --> 00:49:49,076
so I went to the
only place I figured
1049
00:49:49,078 --> 00:49:49,949
I can find out answers.
1050
00:49:51,342 --> 00:49:53,429
I literally was seeking
a place of refuge
1051
00:49:53,431 --> 00:49:56,258
and I found it at your church.
1052
00:49:56,260 --> 00:49:58,129
I went there and I met this man
1053
00:49:58,131 --> 00:49:59,957
who turned out to be a minister.
1054
00:49:59,959 --> 00:50:01,959
Wow I've been
thinking a lot lately
1055
00:50:01,961 --> 00:50:03,615
about getting my
life back together.
1056
00:50:05,660 --> 00:50:08,879
Hey Damian that's my dad.
1057
00:50:08,881 --> 00:50:10,097
Let me call you back.
1058
00:50:10,099 --> 00:50:11,449
Oh okay. Later.
1059
00:50:13,407 --> 00:50:15,015
You didn't have to
get off the phone.
1060
00:50:15,017 --> 00:50:16,321
I just came in to tell
you that I'm about
1061
00:50:16,323 --> 00:50:18,062
to go back to work.
1062
00:50:18,064 --> 00:50:19,803
Y'all take of the house tonight.
1063
00:50:19,805 --> 00:50:22,762
That's fine I'll text
Tatiyanna and let her know.
1064
00:50:22,764 --> 00:50:24,373
Text her?
1065
00:50:24,375 --> 00:50:25,027
Where she at?
1066
00:50:26,594 --> 00:50:28,770
She said something
about Allison's house.
1067
00:50:30,250 --> 00:50:31,945
Just make sure she
gets in this house
1068
00:50:31,947 --> 00:50:32,946
at a decent time, okay?
1069
00:50:32,948 --> 00:50:34,211
- Okay.
- Alright.
1070
00:50:42,697 --> 00:50:44,480
Hello?
1071
00:50:44,482 --> 00:50:47,091
Why you not texting me back?
1072
00:50:47,093 --> 00:50:48,527
I'm busy.
1073
00:50:48,529 --> 00:50:49,226
Busy doing what?
1074
00:50:50,836 --> 00:50:52,183
Studying.
1075
00:50:52,185 --> 00:50:53,184
Studying?
1076
00:50:53,186 --> 00:50:54,098
Okay studying with who?
1077
00:50:54,100 --> 00:50:55,012
What does it matter?
1078
00:50:55,014 --> 00:50:56,492
Because I want to know!
1079
00:50:56,494 --> 00:50:59,364
Look I told you
I'm changing my life.
1080
00:50:59,366 --> 00:51:01,497
If I was studying with
anyone it would most likely
1081
00:51:01,499 --> 00:51:03,150
be one of my team mates.
1082
00:51:03,152 --> 00:51:05,675
You know? Somebody
who wouldn't tempt me.
1083
00:51:05,677 --> 00:51:07,590
Whatever.
1084
00:51:07,592 --> 00:51:11,202
What? I don't even know why
I'm explaining myself to you.
1085
00:51:11,204 --> 00:51:12,812
We're not even dating anymore.
1086
00:51:12,814 --> 00:51:15,337
So Paul we agreed to
be friends so as a friend
1087
00:51:15,339 --> 00:51:17,556
I text you to check upon
you but you're too busy
1088
00:51:17,558 --> 00:51:19,993
tied up with whoever,
you're not replying
1089
00:51:19,995 --> 00:51:21,343
to any of my messages.
1090
00:51:21,345 --> 00:51:23,170
I'm at home
studying by myself.
1091
00:51:23,172 --> 00:51:25,042
I'm not tied up
with nobody but God.
1092
00:51:25,044 --> 00:51:27,044
Oh you're by yourself?
1093
00:51:27,046 --> 00:51:27,786
Well I'm on my way.
1094
00:51:28,787 --> 00:51:32,051
Man why did I say that?
1095
00:51:41,103 --> 00:51:42,886
Do you believe in God?
1096
00:51:42,888 --> 00:51:45,889
I guess, never really
think about it though.
1097
00:51:45,891 --> 00:51:47,586
Why you ask?
1098
00:51:47,588 --> 00:51:49,242
I was just wondering.
1099
00:51:50,678 --> 00:51:53,113
You ever thought
about getting saved?
1100
00:51:53,115 --> 00:51:54,506
Man I don't know.
1101
00:51:54,508 --> 00:51:56,769
Why you asking all
these questions?
1102
00:51:56,771 --> 00:51:59,250
I just been thinking
about it a lot lately.
1103
00:51:59,252 --> 00:52:02,122
Okay you say that like it's
going to change something.
1104
00:52:02,124 --> 00:52:05,038
Well if I did it
would change a lot
1105
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:05,780
but it would be for the best.
1106
00:52:06,738 --> 00:52:08,999
What you mean by that?
1107
00:52:09,001 --> 00:52:10,609
We're gonna have to
stop sleeping together.
1108
00:52:10,611 --> 00:52:12,916
I don't think God's
okay with that.
1109
00:52:12,918 --> 00:52:14,570
We've been together
all this time
1110
00:52:14,572 --> 00:52:16,572
and you ain't never have
a problem with that.
1111
00:52:16,574 --> 00:52:18,574
Even beyond that
what if I get pregnant
1112
00:52:18,576 --> 00:52:19,577
or what if we get caught?
1113
00:52:20,404 --> 00:52:21,533
Get caught?
1114
00:52:21,535 --> 00:52:23,056
Girl we ain't get caught yet.
1115
00:52:23,058 --> 00:52:24,144
But you don't know
what's gon' happen
1116
00:52:24,146 --> 00:52:26,103
if we keep taking chances.
1117
00:52:26,105 --> 00:52:27,757
Man I see you really buggin.
1118
00:52:27,759 --> 00:52:30,760
Look I just think
it's time for a change.
1119
00:52:30,762 --> 00:52:33,284
I love you but we just need
some space for right now.
1120
00:52:33,286 --> 00:52:35,939
I don't want to keep
disappointing God.
1121
00:52:35,941 --> 00:52:39,116
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,
whoa, let me get this straight.
1122
00:52:39,118 --> 00:52:42,554
You love me, but don't
want to be with me
1123
00:52:42,556 --> 00:52:45,514
and why all of a sudden you
care about what God thinks?
1124
00:52:45,516 --> 00:52:46,558
Look all I'm trying to say...
1125
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:47,690
Man listen!
1126
00:52:47,692 --> 00:52:51,084
We together and always will be.
1127
00:52:51,086 --> 00:52:53,522
You ain't going nowhere
and I ain't either.
1128
00:52:53,524 --> 00:52:55,437
Ain't no giving
each other space.
1129
00:52:55,439 --> 00:52:58,918
I like things the way they
is and you gon' like it too!
1130
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:00,355
Man I knew this was
gon' happen I'm leaving.
1131
00:53:00,357 --> 00:53:02,922
Didn't I say you
ain't going nowhere!
1132
00:53:02,924 --> 00:53:05,272
Wait what'd you just say?
1133
00:53:05,274 --> 00:53:08,841
I said you ain't
going nowhere!
1134
00:53:08,843 --> 00:53:09,973
I said.
1135
00:53:09,975 --> 00:53:12,064
Let me go. Stop let me go.
1136
00:53:18,592 --> 00:53:19,724
God how did I get here?
1137
00:53:21,421 --> 00:53:24,422
Come on Bae you know
how much I care about you.
1138
00:53:24,424 --> 00:53:26,206
I mean I just got
caught in the moment
1139
00:53:26,208 --> 00:53:29,340
I ain't trying to lose you.
Come on at least talk to me.
1140
00:53:29,342 --> 00:53:30,907
Look I just got a lot
I need to think about
1141
00:53:30,909 --> 00:53:32,084
and I'd rather be alone.
1142
00:53:33,215 --> 00:53:34,347
At least take your phone.
1143
00:53:35,435 --> 00:53:37,870
Rico stop! What are you doing?
1144
00:53:37,872 --> 00:53:38,958
Let me go!
1145
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:39,916
Get back in the house.
1146
00:53:39,918 --> 00:53:40,614
Stop!
1147
00:53:44,444 --> 00:53:46,794
I know that's not Tatiyanna.
1148
00:53:48,492 --> 00:53:50,885
Go! Stop! Let me go! Stop!
1149
00:53:54,454 --> 00:53:56,411
Man what you doing?
1150
00:53:56,413 --> 00:53:58,195
Man Damian get back in the car
1151
00:53:58,197 --> 00:54:00,023
this ain't got nothing
to do with you!
1152
00:54:00,025 --> 00:54:02,373
It's got everything to do
with me she's like my sister!
1153
00:54:02,375 --> 00:54:04,288
Tatiyanna get in the car!
1154
00:54:04,290 --> 00:54:05,334
Don't even look at her!
1155
00:54:15,562 --> 00:54:17,434
Lord please don't
let this be Nina.
1156
00:54:27,095 --> 00:54:27,835
Where's your key?
1157
00:54:33,188 --> 00:54:34,363
Tatiyanna what's wrong?
1158
00:54:36,714 --> 00:54:37,454
Everything!
1159
00:54:38,890 --> 00:54:40,369
What are you talking about?
1160
00:54:41,849 --> 00:54:43,503
Everything you said was right!
1161
00:54:53,992 --> 00:54:55,341
It'll be alright sis.
1162
00:55:04,481 --> 00:55:07,307
Now God want you to front
slide so you can bring
1163
00:55:07,309 --> 00:55:10,136
some of them other back
sliders back to sliding back!
1164
00:55:10,138 --> 00:55:12,225
Get on back in the church!
1165
00:55:12,227 --> 00:55:14,271
Get on back where you use to be!
1166
00:55:14,273 --> 00:55:16,273
Stop feeling sorry for yourself!
1167
00:55:16,275 --> 00:55:19,798
Get your Bible in your hand
and walk in Jesus name!
1168
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,974
Let nobody stop you
or turn you around.
1169
00:55:21,976 --> 00:55:23,369
Stand up on your feet everybody!
1170
00:55:24,762 --> 00:55:26,457
Alright man I'm starving.
1171
00:55:26,459 --> 00:55:28,415
I'm about to go.
1172
00:55:28,417 --> 00:55:29,460
About to get out of here.
1173
00:55:29,462 --> 00:55:30,330
We'll catch up with you later.
1174
00:55:30,332 --> 00:55:31,375
Okay. Alright T.
1175
00:55:31,377 --> 00:55:32,550
Bless Him preach!
1176
00:55:32,552 --> 00:55:33,205
Bless Him.
1177
00:55:34,119 --> 00:55:35,901
How you doing?
1178
00:55:35,903 --> 00:55:37,250
Good. I want to
introduce you to my sister.
1179
00:55:37,252 --> 00:55:38,948
Tatiyanna this is
minister Eathan.
1180
00:55:38,950 --> 00:55:40,079
Hello. How you doing?
1181
00:55:40,081 --> 00:55:40,863
Hello. Finally
get to meet you.
1182
00:55:40,865 --> 00:55:41,994
Mmm hmm.
1183
00:55:41,996 --> 00:55:42,908
Did you enjoy yourself today?
1184
00:55:42,910 --> 00:55:44,301
I did it was real nice.
1185
00:55:44,303 --> 00:55:46,085
Everything he said
I needed to hear.
1186
00:55:46,087 --> 00:55:47,826
Especially when he was talking
about forgiving everybody
1187
00:55:47,828 --> 00:55:49,524
and letting go of the past.
1188
00:55:49,526 --> 00:55:51,656
And it's not just okay to
just to come to church.
1189
00:55:51,658 --> 00:55:53,658
You gotta build a
relationship with God.
1190
00:55:53,660 --> 00:55:55,442
It was nice.
1191
00:55:55,444 --> 00:55:57,749
That's good. That's good
and you know a relationship
1192
00:55:57,751 --> 00:56:00,317
is not just about coming to God
only when you need something
1193
00:56:00,319 --> 00:56:02,798
and it's not just about a
verbal confession with the mouth
1194
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,583
but a relationship
with God is action.
1195
00:56:05,585 --> 00:56:07,498
You know the Bible says
if you love me he said
1196
00:56:07,500 --> 00:56:11,502
you'll keep my commandments
and that's what it's all about.
1197
00:56:11,504 --> 00:56:13,635
Dad! You decided to come?
1198
00:56:13,637 --> 00:56:15,245
Yeah.
1199
00:56:15,247 --> 00:56:17,377
Minister Eathan
this is my dad.
1200
00:56:17,379 --> 00:56:18,465
How you doing?
1201
00:56:18,467 --> 00:56:19,510
I'm doing good Adrian Vincent.
1202
00:56:19,512 --> 00:56:21,251
Adrian. It's nice to meet you.
1203
00:56:21,253 --> 00:56:23,079
It's nice to meet you I've
heard a lot of about you.
1204
00:56:23,081 --> 00:56:24,428
Hopefully good things.
1205
00:56:24,430 --> 00:56:26,691
All good things.
All good things.
1206
00:56:26,693 --> 00:56:28,388
I've seen the affect
that you've had on my son
1207
00:56:28,390 --> 00:56:31,435
and it's caused me to make some
changes in my life as well.
1208
00:56:31,437 --> 00:56:33,568
In fact, if you have a moment
1209
00:56:33,570 --> 00:56:34,699
maybe I can speak
with you in private.
1210
00:56:34,701 --> 00:56:36,353
For just a minute.
1211
00:56:36,355 --> 00:56:38,618
Yeah we can go in the
back, excuse me guys.
1212
00:56:49,934 --> 00:56:54,634
♪ We invite you in ♪
1213
00:56:59,639 --> 00:57:02,511
♪ We invite you in ♪
1214
00:57:10,519 --> 00:57:15,524
♪ We invite you in ♪
1215
00:57:19,703 --> 00:57:24,664
♪ In this place ♪
1216
00:57:28,712 --> 00:57:33,412
♪ We We We invite you in Jesus ♪
1217
00:57:37,285 --> 00:57:40,811
♪ Oh Lord We invite you in. ♪
1218
00:57:49,341 --> 00:57:51,865
♪ Come and rest ♪
1219
00:58:14,279 --> 00:58:17,976
♪ In ♪
1220
00:58:17,978 --> 00:58:23,329
♪ In ♪
1221
00:58:23,331 --> 00:58:28,336
♪ In ♪
1222
00:58:32,689 --> 00:58:37,694
♪ This place ♪
1223
00:58:40,392 --> 00:58:45,353
♪ Holy Spirit ♪
1224
00:58:47,921 --> 00:58:49,965
♪ Holy spirit ♪
1225
00:58:49,967 --> 00:58:54,928
♪ You are welcome ♪
1226
00:58:56,974 --> 00:58:59,452
♪ You are welcome ♪
1227
00:58:59,454 --> 00:59:04,111
♪ Come and rest ♪
1228
00:59:07,419 --> 00:59:12,163
♪ In this place ♪
1229
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:16,992
♪ In this place ♪
1230
00:59:16,994 --> 00:59:21,912
♪ Holy spirit ♪
1231
00:59:24,218 --> 00:59:26,784
♪ Holy Spirit ♪
1232
00:59:26,786 --> 00:59:31,748
♪ You are welcome ♪
1233
00:59:32,792 --> 00:59:37,012
♪ You are welcome ♪
1234
00:59:37,014 --> 00:59:41,932
♪ Welcome ♪
1235
00:59:43,194 --> 00:59:46,935
♪ In this place ♪
1236
00:59:46,937 --> 00:59:51,593
♪ In In In this place ♪
1237
00:59:52,638 --> 00:59:57,164
♪ We invite you in ♪
1238
00:59:58,426 --> 01:00:02,689
♪ We, We invite you in Jesus ♪
1239
01:00:02,691 --> 01:00:05,083
♪ We invite you in ♪
1240
01:00:05,085 --> 01:00:09,479
♪ Oh Lord we invite you in ♪
1241
01:00:09,481 --> 01:00:14,399
♪ We invite you in ♪
1242
01:00:17,619 --> 01:00:21,752
♪ In this place ♪
1243
01:00:21,754 --> 01:00:26,411
♪ In this place ♪
1244
01:00:27,455 --> 01:00:32,112
♪ We invite you in ♪
1245
01:00:35,072 --> 01:00:39,726
♪ We invite you in ♪
1246
01:00:39,728 --> 01:00:41,554
♪ Thank you Jesus ♪
1247
01:00:41,556 --> 01:00:43,382
♪ Thank you Jesus ♪
1248
01:00:43,384 --> 01:00:44,993
♪ Hallelujah ♪
1249
01:00:44,995 --> 01:00:47,911
♪ Rest In this place ♪
1250
01:00:55,832 --> 01:00:57,614
♪ Come and rest Jesus ♪
1251
01:00:57,616 --> 01:01:00,617
♪ Come and rest Jesus ♪
1252
01:01:00,619 --> 01:01:01,879
♪ Oh Lord ♪
1253
01:01:01,881 --> 01:01:06,712
♪ Rest In this place ♪
1254
01:01:11,412 --> 01:01:15,545
♪ Come and rest in this place ♪
1255
01:01:15,547 --> 01:01:18,071
♪ Come and rest ♪
1256
01:01:26,558 --> 01:01:31,519
♪ In this place ♪
1257
01:01:32,912 --> 01:01:35,349
♪ This place ♪
1258
01:01:39,876 --> 01:01:42,659
Hallelujah! Glory to God!
1259
01:01:42,661 --> 01:01:44,271
Hallelujah! Hallelujah!
1260
01:01:45,794 --> 01:01:48,752
Oh God I feel you
in this place Lord!
1261
01:01:48,754 --> 01:01:51,407
I feel your presence Jesus!
1262
01:01:51,409 --> 01:01:54,410
Hallelujah Lord!
Glory to your name!
1263
01:01:54,412 --> 01:01:57,543
Thank you Jesus!
Hallelujah Lord!
1264
01:01:57,545 --> 01:01:58,198
Thank you Jesus!
1265
01:01:59,939 --> 01:02:04,770
And now I present to you
at this time your pastor.
1266
01:02:05,771 --> 01:02:06,990
Pastor Adrian.
1267
01:02:21,395 --> 01:02:23,221
Amen give God some praise
for this wonderful choir.
1268
01:02:23,223 --> 01:02:25,006
Refuge Temple Ministries
Deliverance Choir.
1269
01:02:25,008 --> 01:02:25,791
Amen?
1270
01:02:26,966 --> 01:02:27,967
Hallelujah.
1271
01:02:31,057 --> 01:02:32,709
I know many of you might
be wondering as to why
1272
01:02:32,711 --> 01:02:35,407
we've been collaborating
with this other ministry.
1273
01:02:35,409 --> 01:02:36,758
And I will get to that.
1274
01:02:38,891 --> 01:02:40,586
But first off I
want to do something
1275
01:02:40,588 --> 01:02:41,807
that I don't normally do.
1276
01:02:43,243 --> 01:02:44,851
This morning I would
like to speak to you all
1277
01:02:44,853 --> 01:02:46,420
from my heart is that alright?
1278
01:02:47,421 --> 01:02:48,118
Amen.
1279
01:02:54,515 --> 01:02:57,301
Saints I stand before you all,
today full of Godly sorrow.
1280
01:02:59,259 --> 01:03:03,131
As many of you know, that this
past year for my family and I
1281
01:03:03,133 --> 01:03:06,310
has been a very tragic one
with the lost of my wife Leah.
1282
01:03:08,225 --> 01:03:13,663
For this tragic incident I
hold myself completely guilty
1283
01:03:13,665 --> 01:03:16,753
for it because as the head of
my household I'm responsible
1284
01:03:16,755 --> 01:03:20,237
for everyone in my household,
as well as their actions.
1285
01:03:22,326 --> 01:03:25,457
Saints with that guilt I'm
also guilty of preaching to you
1286
01:03:25,459 --> 01:03:26,983
all only half of
the word of God.
1287
01:03:28,419 --> 01:03:32,203
The half that was
convenient for me
1288
01:03:32,205 --> 01:03:33,990
and was comfortable
for most of you.
1289
01:03:36,862 --> 01:03:37,515
Saints with that guilt
1290
01:03:39,169 --> 01:03:41,432
I'm also guilty of
verbally abusing my family.
1291
01:03:43,129 --> 01:03:46,652
I would tell them exactly
what was on my mind
1292
01:03:46,654 --> 01:03:49,266
and expect for them to deal
with it the best way they could.
1293
01:03:51,050 --> 01:03:53,226
I've let my children down.
1294
01:03:54,445 --> 01:03:56,708
I've driven my wife to a point,
1295
01:04:02,453 --> 01:04:05,236
I now understand
clearer than ever
1296
01:04:05,238 --> 01:04:07,804
the scripture that tells
us that there is death
1297
01:04:07,806 --> 01:04:10,113
and there's life in the
power of your tongue.
1298
01:04:12,289 --> 01:04:17,424
I once heard a man of God say
that anger itself is not sin,
1299
01:04:19,165 --> 01:04:22,601
But it's when you use that
anger in the wrong way
1300
01:04:22,603 --> 01:04:25,780
or for the wrong purpose
it becomes of evil.
1301
01:04:28,522 --> 01:04:30,174
Let me ask you a
question how many fools
1302
01:04:30,176 --> 01:04:31,525
do I have in the house tonight?
1303
01:04:33,745 --> 01:04:34,485
Nobody.
1304
01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:40,663
The Bible says that anger
rests in the bosom of a fool.
1305
01:04:40,665 --> 01:04:44,275
And if you have any anger
if you have the temper
1306
01:04:44,277 --> 01:04:47,713
or the frustration
as I've once had.
1307
01:04:47,715 --> 01:04:48,847
Then who are you really?
1308
01:04:52,198 --> 01:04:54,809
Because of my anger I've
lost something valuable.
1309
01:04:57,290 --> 01:05:00,030
And because of my foolishness
1310
01:05:00,032 --> 01:05:01,947
I've thrown away
something irreplaceable.
1311
01:05:04,210 --> 01:05:08,171
You see, everything
that grows has a root.
1312
01:05:09,911 --> 01:05:14,044
And because I nurtured
and watered one tiny seed
1313
01:05:14,046 --> 01:05:17,134
of inconsistency, It has
grown into a great vine
1314
01:05:17,136 --> 01:05:19,486
and I've allowed it to choke
the life out of my family.
1315
01:05:23,316 --> 01:05:27,840
Because of me, I won't ever
get back the warm embrace
1316
01:05:27,842 --> 01:05:28,582
of sister Leah.
1317
01:05:30,193 --> 01:05:31,542
Because of my foolishness.
1318
01:05:33,587 --> 01:05:37,676
Often times I just sit
down and I just ask God
1319
01:05:37,678 --> 01:05:39,027
and I would just cry.
1320
01:05:40,638 --> 01:05:42,118
God just one more time God!
1321
01:05:43,641 --> 01:05:45,773
If I could just hold her
hand just one more time!
1322
01:05:47,601 --> 01:05:50,169
God if I can just hold one
more conversation with her.
1323
01:05:51,997 --> 01:05:54,347
What would I tell her how
would I make it different?
1324
01:06:10,276 --> 01:06:12,798
Saints, are your eyes
still closed this morning?
1325
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:14,235
How much will it take?
1326
01:06:14,237 --> 01:06:16,759
Does blood have to be
shed on your carpet also
1327
01:06:16,761 --> 01:06:18,154
for your eyes to be open today?
1328
01:06:20,460 --> 01:06:23,026
My prayer this morning is that,
1329
01:06:23,028 --> 01:06:24,897
is that your eyes will be open.
1330
01:06:24,899 --> 01:06:25,291
That you will see clearly
1331
01:06:27,206 --> 01:06:30,644
before another loved ones eyes
will be permanently closed.
1332
01:06:32,037 --> 01:06:33,473
Saints I feel as though,
1333
01:06:35,432 --> 01:06:37,999
I feel unworthy to be
before you this morning.
1334
01:06:39,871 --> 01:06:42,524
In fact I feel as though it
would be unfair to you all
1335
01:06:42,526 --> 01:06:45,137
if I were to continue
to Shepard this church.
1336
01:06:46,704 --> 01:06:50,749
With that being said
from this moment forth
1337
01:06:50,751 --> 01:06:52,797
I relinquish my rights as
the pastor of this church
1338
01:06:54,233 --> 01:06:56,931
and I will bring
to you a man of God
1339
01:06:58,716 --> 01:07:02,502
that actually lives the
life that he preaches about.
1340
01:07:04,243 --> 01:07:06,809
A man of God that has
helped my children
1341
01:07:06,811 --> 01:07:11,685
with their unbelief and
with their hatred towards me
1342
01:07:13,252 --> 01:07:16,386
and through their change
my eyes have been open.
1343
01:07:18,170 --> 01:07:20,388
He's no stranger to you all.
1344
01:07:20,390 --> 01:07:22,346
You've seen him in our retreats,
1345
01:07:22,348 --> 01:07:24,609
you've seen him in
our camp meetings.
1346
01:07:24,611 --> 01:07:28,961
I want you all to welcome with
me your minister and mine,
1347
01:07:28,963 --> 01:07:32,313
Refuge Temple Ministries own
minister Eathan Williams.
1348
01:07:41,672 --> 01:07:42,020
Amen.
1349
01:07:43,456 --> 01:07:45,458
Come on give Jesus
a big hand praise.
1350
01:07:47,286 --> 01:07:48,156
Hallelujah.
1351
01:07:50,246 --> 01:07:53,118
You know It takes true
humility for someone to do
1352
01:07:55,338 --> 01:07:57,557
what Pastor Adrian just did.
1353
01:07:59,385 --> 01:08:00,863
And the Bible teaches us
1354
01:08:00,865 --> 01:08:03,259
that we should be
clothed with humility.
1355
01:08:05,130 --> 01:08:08,958
It goes on to speak about
those that humble themselves
1356
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:11,397
he said they will be
exalted in due time.
1357
01:08:13,312 --> 01:08:17,880
You know I'm humbled and I
respect Pastor Adrian so much
1358
01:08:17,882 --> 01:08:20,537
for the decision he's
made of his own will.
1359
01:08:22,147 --> 01:08:25,017
The Bible teaches us
that in the last days
1360
01:08:25,019 --> 01:08:27,587
he said perilous
times would come.
1361
01:08:30,111 --> 01:08:31,981
He said how men would
be lovers of themselves
1362
01:08:31,983 --> 01:08:36,290
more than lovers of God
seeking to do what they desire
1363
01:08:36,292 --> 01:08:40,511
what makes them feel good
rather than seeking the one
1364
01:08:40,513 --> 01:08:43,645
that created us for
his own pleasure.
1365
01:08:43,647 --> 01:08:44,300
God almighty.
1366
01:08:46,171 --> 01:08:50,304
It goes on to tell us they'll
have a form of godliness,
1367
01:08:50,306 --> 01:08:54,179
look just like the church,
but deny the power thereof.
1368
01:08:55,833 --> 01:08:59,095
The power that causes
a man to change
1369
01:08:59,097 --> 01:09:02,056
from one creation to another.
1370
01:09:04,407 --> 01:09:06,972
The Bible says it like
this in second Corinthians
1371
01:09:06,974 --> 01:09:08,280
chapter five.
1372
01:09:10,935 --> 01:09:12,806
It says how a man can
be a new creature.
1373
01:09:14,591 --> 01:09:18,593
He said old things would
be past away and all things
1374
01:09:18,595 --> 01:09:21,641
would become new and all
things would be of God.
1375
01:09:23,426 --> 01:09:28,431
But it takes something in
order to become a new creature.
1376
01:09:30,650 --> 01:09:34,522
Today I want to talk to
you about that something
1377
01:09:34,524 --> 01:09:36,961
that it's going to take
for a man to change.
1378
01:09:38,092 --> 01:09:40,310
Ask yourself this question.
1379
01:09:40,312 --> 01:09:43,008
The truth that you have
believed all the way
1380
01:09:43,010 --> 01:09:44,272
up until this point.
1381
01:09:45,622 --> 01:09:46,884
Has it made you free?
1382
01:09:49,626 --> 01:09:50,625
Are you still lying?
1383
01:09:50,627 --> 01:09:52,061
Still cursing?
1384
01:09:52,063 --> 01:09:54,455
Still full of deceit
and unforgiveness?
1385
01:09:54,457 --> 01:09:55,371
Still drinking?
1386
01:09:57,460 --> 01:09:58,852
You can be free today.
1387
01:10:01,681 --> 01:10:05,598
I want to talk to you today
about receiving the Holy Ghost.
1388
01:10:13,127 --> 01:10:14,390
Oh yeah I remember that.
1389
01:10:15,913 --> 01:10:18,348
Hey you remember my
first football game?
1390
01:10:18,350 --> 01:10:19,741
Yeah.
1391
01:10:19,743 --> 01:10:22,134
Man I was so happy
when I caught that ball.
1392
01:10:22,136 --> 01:10:24,223
I just knew everybody
would be excited
1393
01:10:24,225 --> 01:10:25,401
if I could make a touch down.
1394
01:10:26,489 --> 01:10:28,055
And so I ran as hard as I could.
1395
01:10:29,143 --> 01:10:31,753
Man I felt so untouchable.
1396
01:10:31,755 --> 01:10:34,059
And I can remember them
screaming out my name.
1397
01:10:34,061 --> 01:10:35,757
Paul. Paul.
1398
01:10:35,759 --> 01:10:36,714
Then you realized it
was cause you were running
1399
01:10:36,716 --> 01:10:38,150
the wrong way.
1400
01:10:38,152 --> 01:10:40,588
Oh so now you decided
to get off the phone?
1401
01:10:40,590 --> 01:10:42,416
Naw I'm playing
man I'm just excited.
1402
01:10:42,418 --> 01:10:43,939
That was my mom on the phone.
1403
01:10:43,941 --> 01:10:45,897
She said her and my dad
are getting remarried.
1404
01:10:45,899 --> 01:10:47,508
Really?
1405
01:10:47,510 --> 01:10:48,334
Yeah.
1406
01:10:48,336 --> 01:10:50,206
Man look at God!
1407
01:10:50,208 --> 01:10:52,208
You see what can happen if you
give your life over to him?
1408
01:10:52,210 --> 01:10:54,340
He'll cause everything
else to fall into place.
1409
01:10:54,342 --> 01:10:56,125
That's right.
1410
01:10:56,127 --> 01:10:58,040
You know I felt like I was
having to give up everything
1411
01:10:58,042 --> 01:11:00,782
when I came back to this
ministry but I didn't realize
1412
01:11:00,784 --> 01:11:03,349
he was just giving me
so much more in return.
1413
01:11:03,351 --> 01:11:05,569
I know exactly what you mean.
1414
01:11:05,571 --> 01:11:07,136
For me giving up my church
was the hardest thing
1415
01:11:07,138 --> 01:11:08,139
I ever had to do.
1416
01:11:10,097 --> 01:11:11,706
I guess because I tried to
build it up into something
1417
01:11:11,708 --> 01:11:16,058
that I wanted to my
expectations but I realized
1418
01:11:16,060 --> 01:11:18,626
it was never mine to begin with.
1419
01:11:18,628 --> 01:11:22,412
Ever since I gave it back over
to God put it in his hands
1420
01:11:22,414 --> 01:11:25,241
he made it into something that
I could never do on my own.
1421
01:11:25,243 --> 01:11:26,592
He did the same thing
for me with football.
1422
01:11:28,507 --> 01:11:31,943
Man I was running my little
football career in the ground.
1423
01:11:31,945 --> 01:11:33,641
Going off on my coach.
1424
01:11:33,643 --> 01:11:35,471
Getting suspended from the team.
1425
01:11:36,559 --> 01:11:37,734
Man I was losing it.
1426
01:11:39,387 --> 01:11:41,302
But after I gave
everything to God
1427
01:11:42,739 --> 01:11:44,001
he turned it all
around for my good.
1428
01:11:45,742 --> 01:11:51,049
Took a lot of apologizing
but it all was worth it.
1429
01:11:51,051 --> 01:11:53,051
So now you then went
from running the wrong way
1430
01:11:53,053 --> 01:11:54,185
to running God's way right?
1431
01:11:56,448 --> 01:11:57,926
Speaking of football.
1432
01:11:57,928 --> 01:11:59,449
I know by now you
decided which college
1433
01:11:59,451 --> 01:12:00,583
you're gonna play for right?
1434
01:12:01,540 --> 01:12:02,715
I got one in mind.
1435
01:12:07,938 --> 01:12:10,155
So you decided
to stay home huh?
1436
01:12:10,157 --> 01:12:12,897
Yeah I really wanted to
stay connected to the ministry
1437
01:12:12,899 --> 01:12:15,421
and I believe God has
a work for me here.
1438
01:12:15,423 --> 01:12:16,120
Hey guys look over here!
1439
01:13:55,349 --> 01:13:59,658
♪ To God be the glory ♪
1440
01:14:00,833 --> 01:14:05,098
♪ To God be the glory ♪
1441
01:14:06,230 --> 01:14:10,495
♪ To God be the glory ♪
1442
01:14:11,714 --> 01:14:16,412
♪ For the things you have done ♪
1443
01:14:16,414 --> 01:14:18,895
♪ You have done ♪
1444
01:14:24,378 --> 01:14:26,814
If y'all don't mind before I
bring up the speaker tonight
1445
01:14:26,816 --> 01:14:30,078
I just want to give a
brief testimony about him.
1446
01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:33,690
As you may or may not know he's
my brother and if it wasn't
1447
01:14:33,692 --> 01:14:35,781
for him I would not be
standing before you tonight.
1448
01:14:37,609 --> 01:14:40,610
I can honestly say that he
practices what he preaches
1449
01:14:40,612 --> 01:14:43,700
and his life truly lines
up with the word of God.
1450
01:14:43,702 --> 01:14:45,702
And because of the
example that he set
1451
01:14:45,704 --> 01:14:47,227
I'm here before you today.
1452
01:14:48,707 --> 01:14:51,447
After watching him I
begin looking at myself
1453
01:14:51,449 --> 01:14:53,971
and seeing how much I
needed to be changed
1454
01:14:53,973 --> 01:14:56,887
and I started seeking
God and just repenting
1455
01:14:56,889 --> 01:14:59,411
of everything that I
knew wasn't like him
1456
01:14:59,413 --> 01:15:02,023
and he finally filled
me with the Holy Ghost.
1457
01:15:04,331 --> 01:15:06,680
And none of that would've
happened if it wasn't
1458
01:15:06,682 --> 01:15:10,074
for my brother and the
example that he set before me.
1459
01:15:10,076 --> 01:15:13,034
So without further ado I
present to you the speaker
1460
01:15:13,036 --> 01:15:15,558
for the night my
brother Paul Vincent.
1461
01:15:23,742 --> 01:15:25,481
Amen.
1462
01:15:25,483 --> 01:15:27,354
Can you all give Jesus
Christ a great big hand clap?
1463
01:15:30,706 --> 01:15:33,315
I see a lot of you brought
your notebooks and your Bibles,
1464
01:15:33,317 --> 01:15:35,360
that's good.
1465
01:15:35,362 --> 01:15:37,841
If you will can you please
turn with me to Ephesians
1466
01:15:37,843 --> 01:15:40,585
chapter five verses 15 and 16.
1467
01:15:45,372 --> 01:15:48,332
The title of tonight's
message is Redeeming The Time.
1468
01:16:01,300 --> 01:16:06,300
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