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At the out sides are sitting my sister Carine and my oldest brother Stijn.

Stijn is recently married.

Next to me sits Jan.

On our lap sits Bert and Sofie.

The question is, who is Bert and who is Sofie?

At babies it's difficult to say if it's a little girl or a little boy.

It's only clearly when mom and dad are changing their nappies.

That we can tell who is Bert and who is Sofie.

We see this from the genital between the legs, this organ is called the sex organ.

At the boy his sex organ is outwards.

At the girl her sex organ is inwards.

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The male sex organ is outwards and oblong.

It's called the penis. But other common nicknames are cock, prick, dick or weenie.

The skin over the penis is at the tip wrinkled and pointed.

With some boys it's more noticeable then with others.

This end bit sits loose and is stretchy. It's called the foreskin.

Being stretchy, it allows the foreskin pulled backwards.

That way the glad or penis head becomes visible.

The tip of the glad and the foreskin are joined with an elastic band of tissue, called the frenulum.

Some friends think when you pull the skin to far back, the glad will drop out.

Of course this isn't true. The glad sits as strong on the penis, as your nose on your face.

With some the foreskin is almost un-retractable and nearly closed at the tip, this way the skin

can't be pulled backwards over the glad. This is called phimosis.

With a small surgical correction the foreskin gets removed and the glad is exposed permanently.

This is a cut penis.

In the middle of the glad is a hole this is the far end of the urethra

and it's the passage for the urine to leave the body having a pee.

Outdoors with mates sometimes when we have to pee we compete on who can pee the furthest.

Behind my penis hangs the ball sack with in there the 2 testicles separated from each other.

As with many boys my left testicle hangs a little lower than the right one.

The sack hangs now soft but by cold or touching this can shrink.

In the penis are 3 erectile tissue chambers, by touching or sexual excitement they fill with blood.

The penis becomes larger and erect, the glad swells, becomes more reddish and

glides out the foreskin. This is an erection.

Boys gets their first erection as baby.

Then less frequent.

From the start of puberty this happens more and more, and at all possible moments.

There are lager, smaller, thicker and thinner penises.

This is obvious, there all people look different too.

Nevertheless that penises are very different in erection they are more or less the same seize.

At me there isn't much to see external the female sex organs are inwards when I spread my legs I

see the outer labia and opening, this is also called the vagina, among friends we say pussy or fanny.

The large lips are soft cushions, when I push them aside I see I don’t have yet small lips. They come

at an older age. At adults they are clearly visible at the top where the large lips come together is a

small knob called the clitoris. Under it is a small opening where the pee comes outside the body.

At the moment I’m in my puberty so is my brother Jan.

My sex organs will undergo many changes.

At girls puberty is between age 10 till 13.

At boys this is between age 12 till 15.

It can be earlier or later, until age 10 there aren’t much visible changes at the penis.

The penis stay until then rather small.

From age 10 the penis starts to grow he becomes thicker, larger and the skin darkens.

Roughly at age 13-14 pubic hairs start to grow around the penis, obviously it's different from boy to boy.

The hair grows very slowly.

Is the boy 15-16 years old, then we see that the penis as well the hairs growed a lot.

Some more years later at age 18 the sex organ is fully growed.

It's noticeable that the skin color of the penis is darker than the rest of the skin.

Until age 10 there isn't much changed, a lot of girls haven't yet any breast development.

From 11-12, it can be a little sooner or later, the breasts starts to develop.

The nipples start pointing out, the lips get more fleshy and at the underbelly starts a

light hair growth. At age 13-14 the breasts have growed already a fair bit.

At age 17-18 the breasts as well the hair are fully developed.

Not every women has the same breasts, sizes and shapes vary from women to women.

Regular go my sister Els and I together in bath.

I also spend time at washing my penis.

To be able to wash my penis good I slide the foreskin all backwards.

I wash the glad without soap this is the best way. If you don't do this daily a

bad infection between the foreskin and glad will give itch, redness and pain at the penis.

Like my brother Jan I also wash my genitals daily without soap.

I only wash my genitals at the outside. There isn't any need to go inside my

vagina with the washcloth their the vagina cleans itself internal.

Suddenly I got stomachache pain this could be the start of my first menstruation.

My sister Carine had only just recently explained me everything.

If we look inside a female body then we see 2 ovaries, from birth inside those

are a lot of eggs. Every month one egg gets released leaving the ovary

and if not fertilized it will leave the body. At that moment the bleeding will occur

and will together with some vaginal fluid leave the body trough the vagina.

This whole process will repeat every month.

The next morning when I woke up it had started a little menstrual blood sat between my legs.

I called my sister Carin, not that I was unaware but still I was a little shocked.

At the same time I was also proud that it finally was there.

When I woke up in the morning I noticed that my pyjamas pants was a little wet.

I knew what had happened, my testicles had started to produce semen.

This semen sits in a white sticky fluid, named sperm.

Last night I had an erotic dream, I dreamt that my girlfriend

Marleen was sitting naked covered in a mist among sparkling stars.

Trough the excitement I had a wet dream or ejaculation.

It means that sperm shoots out the penis from that moment a boy is fertile.

An ejaculation can also be stimulated by rubbing the foreskin up and down

the glad, the penis becomes erected. After a while jerking off this way sperm

will ejaculate from the penis. This is called self-abuse or masturbation.

Girls masturbate using a finger by caressing the clitoris and the area around.

This gives a wonderful feeling, Sometimes I think back at the time I was 6 or 7 years old

and played doctor with my friends. Jonny had got a doctor's bag for his birthday and played

the general practitioner that came on visit. Nancy was his nurse, Jonny examined me

thoroughly and didn't miss out any part.

Sometimes I dream about things that never happened but give me a wonderful feeling.

Most often I fantasize about Marleen.

How I touch her and how she touch me.

In dreams there can a lot, much more then in reality.

In the old days sometimes they said that from masturbating you

could get a curved back or become deaf, but of course that isn't true.

Actually masturbating is totally harmless and healthy.

After a while masturbating I reach the pleasuring feelings and ejaculate.

Per ejaculation there come 1 a 2 teaspoons sperm from the penis.

When the amazing sensations from masturbating reach their highpoints I climax.

This special feeling is called an orgasm.

One evening in the middle of a board game my brother Stijn and his wife An

came along to tell something important An was pregnant from their first baby.

Mom and dad organized immediately a small party.

I wanted to know how a women becomes pregnant, dad explained us the whole process.

In the first place it’s very important that man and wife love each other fully.

That there is true love, they go then hug, feel each other’s warmth and sex.

This cuddling and touching is called foreplay.

Trough fondling, cuddling and wanting each other the penis becomes fully erect.

The women vagina becomes wet.

The man let the penis glide in the vagina and thrust the penis

up and down inside the vagina till they both reach an orgasm.

The penis has than an ejaculation.

Millions of male sperm cells come inside the vagina and force their way

through the uterus up to the ovaries. The fertilization find mostly place

high up in the ovaries. Several sperm cells reach the egg. Only the

first sperm cell that meets the egg melt together. Then the women is pregnant.

Who want to make love without getting pregnant has to use a preservative or

anti conception. Karin uses the pill which we keep in our pharmacy cabinet.

The man can use a condom. A condom is a little bit like a rubber balloon

that is unrolled over the erect penis. By unrolling you have to keep the tip

free. This bit is the space where the sperm is collected.

A condom protects also against AIDS and STDs.

It's recommended to use a condom in combination with a spermicidal agent.

Spermicidal is applied inside the vagina with a special syringe.

A 3rd birth control method is an Intrauterine device, IUDs have a

plastic T-shaped frame with a copper wire. A IUD is placed inside the vagina

by a doctor. It needs being replaced every 3 years.

For An and Stijn follow exciting months. Is it going to be a boy or a girl?

Special Thanks To: Carine, Els, Marleen, Stijn and Jan.