All language subtitles for Sexuele Voorlichting - Puberty Sexual Education For Boys and Girls (1991) Eng

At the out sides are sitting my sister
Carine and my oldest brother Stijn.

Stijn is recently married.

Next to me sits Jan.

On our lap sits
Bert and Sofie.

The question is, who is
Bert and who is Sofie?

At babies it's difficult to say
if it's a little girl or a little boy.

It's only clearly when mom and
dad are changing their nappies.

That we can tell who is
Bert and who is Sofie.

We see this from the genital between the
legs, this organ is called the sex organ.

At the boy his sex organ is outwards.

At the girl her sex organ is inwards.

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The male sex organ is outwards and oblong.

It's called the penis. But other common
nicknames are cock, prick, dick or weenie.

The skin over the penis is at
the tip wrinkled and pointed.

With some boys it's more
noticeable then with others.

This end bit sits loose and is
stretchy. It's called the foreskin.

Being stretchy, it allows the
foreskin pulled backwards.

That way the glad or penis
head becomes visible.

The tip of the glad and the foreskin are joined
with an elastic band of tissue, called the
frenulum.

Some friends think when you pull the
skin to far back, the glad will drop out.

Of course this isn't true. The glad sits as
strong on the penis, as your nose on your face.

With some the foreskin is almost un-retractable
and nearly closed at the tip, this way the skin

can't be pulled backwards over the glad.
This is called phimosis.

With a small surgical correction the foreskin
gets removed and the glad is exposed permanently.

This is a cut penis.

In the middle of the glad is a hole
this is the far end of the urethra

and it's the passage for the urine
to leave the body having a pee.

Outdoors with mates sometimes when we have
to pee we compete on who can pee the furthest.

Behind my penis hangs the ball sack with in
there the 2 testicles separated from each other.

As with many boys my left testicle
hangs a little lower than the right one.

The sack hangs now soft but by
cold or touching this can shrink.

In the penis are 3 erectile tissue chambers, by
touching or sexual excitement they fill with
blood.

The penis becomes larger and erect,
the glad swells, becomes more reddish and

glides out the foreskin. This is an erection.

Boys gets their first erection as baby.

Then less frequent.

From the start of puberty this happens more
and more, and at all possible moments.

There are lager, smaller,
thicker and thinner penises.

This is obvious, there all
people look different too.

Nevertheless that penises are very different in
erection they are more or less the same seize.

At me there isn't much to see external the female
sex organs are inwards when I spread my legs I

see the outer labia and opening, this is also
called the vagina, among friends we say pussy or
fanny.

The large lips are soft cushions, when I push them
aside I see I don’t have yet small lips. They come

at an older age. At adults they are clearly
visible at the top where the large lips come
together is a

small knob called the clitoris. Under it is a
small opening where the pee comes outside the
body.

At the moment I’m in my
puberty so is my brother Jan.

My sex organs will undergo many changes.

At girls puberty is between age 10 till 13.

At boys this is between age 12 till 15.

It can be earlier or later, until age 10 there
aren’t much visible changes at the penis.

The penis stay until then rather small.

From age 10 the penis starts to grow he
becomes thicker, larger and the skin darkens.

Roughly at age 13-14 pubic hairs start to grow
around the penis, obviously it's different from
boy to boy.

The hair grows very slowly.

Is the boy 15-16 years old, then we see
that the penis as well the hairs growed a lot.

Some more years later at age
18 the sex organ is fully growed.

It's noticeable that the skin color of
the penis is darker than the rest of the skin.

Until age 10 there isn't much changed, a lot
of girls haven't yet any breast development.

From 11-12, it can be a little sooner
or later, the breasts starts to develop.

The nipples start pointing out, the lips get
more fleshy and at the underbelly starts a

light hair growth. At age 13-14 the
breasts have growed already a fair bit.

At age 17-18 the breasts as
well the hair are fully developed.

Not every women has the same breasts,
sizes and shapes vary from women to women.

Regular go my sister
Els and I together in bath.

I also spend time at washing my penis.

To be able to wash my penis good
I slide the foreskin all backwards.

I wash the glad without soap this is the
best way. If you don't do this daily a

bad infection between the foreskin and glad
will give itch, redness and pain at the penis.

Like my brother Jan I also wash
my genitals daily without soap.

I only wash my genitals at the outside.
There isn't any need to go inside my

vagina with the washcloth their
the vagina cleans itself internal.

Suddenly I got stomachache pain this
could be the start of my first menstruation.

My sister Carine had only just
recently explained me everything.

If we look inside a female body then we
see 2 ovaries, from birth inside those

are a lot of eggs. Every month one
egg gets released leaving the ovary

and if not fertilized it will leave the body.
At that moment the bleeding will occur

and will together with some vaginal
fluid leave the body trough the vagina.

This whole process will repeat every month.

The next morning when I woke up it had started
a little menstrual blood sat between my legs.

I called my sister Carin, not that I was
unaware but still I was a little shocked.

At the same time I was also
proud that it finally was there.

When I woke up in the morning I noticed
that my pyjamas pants was a little wet.

I knew what had happened, my
testicles had started to produce semen.

This semen sits in a white
sticky fluid, named sperm.

Last night I had an erotic dream,
I dreamt that my girlfriend

Marleen was sitting naked covered
in a mist among sparkling stars.

Trough the excitement I had
a wet dream or ejaculation.

It means that sperm shoots out the penis
from that moment a boy is fertile.

An ejaculation can also be stimulated
by rubbing the foreskin up and down

the glad, the penis becomes erected.
After a while jerking off this way sperm

will ejaculate from the penis. This
is called self-abuse or masturbation.

Girls masturbate using a finger by
caressing the clitoris and the area around.

This gives a wonderful feeling, Sometimes
I think back at the time I was 6 or 7 years old

and played doctor with my friends. Jonny had
got a doctor's bag for his birthday and played

the general practitioner that came on visit.
Nancy was his nurse, Jonny examined me

thoroughly and didn't miss out any part.

Sometimes I dream about things that never
happened but give me a wonderful feeling.

Most often I fantasize about Marleen.

How I touch her and how she touch me.

In dreams there can a lot,
much more then in reality.

In the old days sometimes they
said that from masturbating you

could get a curved back or become
deaf, but of course that isn't true.

Actually masturbating is
totally harmless and healthy.

After a while masturbating I reach
the pleasuring feelings and ejaculate.

Per ejaculation there come 1 a 2
teaspoons sperm from the penis.

When the amazing sensations from
masturbating reach their highpoints I climax.

This special feeling is called an orgasm.

One evening in the middle of a board
game my brother Stijn and his wife An

came along to tell something important
An was pregnant from their first baby.

Mom and dad organized
immediately a small party.

I wanted to know how a women becomes
pregnant, dad explained us the whole process.

In the first place it’s very important
that man and wife love each other fully.

That there is true love, they go then
hug, feel each other’s warmth and sex.

This cuddling and touching
is called foreplay.

Trough fondling, cuddling and wanting
each other the penis becomes fully erect.

The women vagina becomes wet.

The man let the penis glide in
the vagina and thrust the penis

up and down inside the vagina
till they both reach an orgasm.

The penis has than an ejaculation.

Millions of male sperm cells come
inside the vagina and force their way

through the uterus up to the ovaries.
The fertilization find mostly place

high up in the ovaries. Several
sperm cells reach the egg. Only the

first sperm cell that meets the egg
melt together. Then the women is pregnant.

Who want to make love without getting
pregnant has to use a preservative or

anti conception. Karin uses the pill
which we keep in our pharmacy cabinet.

The man can use a condom. A
condom is a little bit like a rubber balloon

that is unrolled over the erect penis.
By unrolling you have to keep the tip

free. This bit is the space
where the sperm is collected.

A condom protects also
against AIDS and STDs.

It's recommended to use a condom
in combination with a spermicidal agent.

Spermicidal is applied inside
the vagina with a special syringe.

A 3rd birth control method is an
Intrauterine device, IUDs have a

plastic T-shaped frame with a copper
wire. A IUD is placed inside the vagina

by a doctor. It needs being
replaced every 3 years.

For An and Stijn follow exciting months.
Is it going to be a boy or a girl?

Special Thanks To:
Carine, Els, Marleen, Stijn and Jan.