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Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, the other way.

That's what you call a nice couple experience?

Seeing Manon's reaction to the farm, I'm kind of questioning my decision on the

surprise. I'm sick and tired of you playing games on me like that. You don't

listen.

Dylan told me that you wanted him to marry somebody younger, and that's where

the resentment with you talking to Dylan...

Okay, well, I've never said anything like that.

But I'm so sorry, Jo, really.

I'm so mad at Dylan because I hated her for many, many years.

Are we all good?

I feel so unsure if I do want kids anymore.

This is a complete shock to me.

We've even named what all of our kids would be called.

I mean, we didn't get off to, like, the greatest start.

What? I found out on social media that he was with a girl for her birthday.

Johnny was not faithful to my daughter.

Now, I'm actually pissed about that.

You take picture and fight and nitpick.

How rude.

I am how I am.

This is anything like what our marriage is going to be like?

Holy, do we have problems.

Respect goes both ways. No importa.

You're going to broke up this relationship.

F*** you.

Hey,

Chloe.

I'm going to go for a jog. Do you want to come with me?

Absolutely not.

I'm ready to go. Wonderful.

Let's go.

Let's go for it.

Earlier today, I told my mom about Jonathan's cheating, and now she wants

have some one -on -one time with Jonathan.

You guys going to run a 5K or what?

Let's see what happens.

I definitely regret telling my mom because now she's going to drill

like 17 billion times more.

4 .5 is my max speed.

Learning that Johnny cheated on my daughter has changed a lot of things.

It's given me so many more levels of concern.

Very windy today, huh?

That was great.

If it was up to me, I would bring my daughter home with me.

Yeah, this is the beach I was talking about.

This one? Yeah, right here. Let me show you.

Okay. It's the first part of Eagle Beach.

It's very famous for these two trees in particular.

That's the DVDV tree. It goes through the form of the wind.

It's beautiful.

Yeah, they even have a special... It's like a big bonsai tree.

Yeah, kind of, yeah.

Wow.

So, you know, I'm glad we had this time alone without Chloe

here, you know, as I'm leaving tomorrow. And I do have concerns

in regards to an infidelity in Miami with some girl.

That happened way in the beginning. We weren't even, I mean.

You know, like we weren't serious. We didn't agree to commit to each other at

that time.

You know, so we were going out, but we weren't in a relationship.

Now, for the last few months, we've been something real serious, and of course

I'm not going to do anything like that.

Shouldn't you two have already discussed that and already been there? I feel

like maybe you were only saying that because that was the right thing to say.

That's unacceptable, and it scares me, and I don't want to leave my daughter

here on this island, and then something like that happens again, and then she's

all alone.

So... Chloe shouldn't have told her mom that there was an incident because, you

know, we weren't exclusive in the beginning like that. We really weren't.

I feel like Chloe should admit that she was also with somebody else, you know,

but I'm not a person that goes and tells her mom that, you know. I'm a person

that, hey, you know what?

Think what you want to think. I'm just going to try to show you that I'm a

better person than that.

Being a mom is, you know, I take that job very seriously.

My daughter living here, you know, so far away from me, you know, that means I

need to put a lot of trust in you.

And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her, honestly.

And like I said, I'm leaving tomorrow.

Yeah.

I need to see that she's going to be okay with you.

Yeah, definitely, definitely. I know we're out of that on my mind.

If she could start getting a work permit, then she could start working,

keep herself busy, make some tips out of it.

Set a date to it. Yeah.

You know, if you don't set a date to it... It will never happen. Yeah, it

never happen.

I sometimes worry that Johnny's just telling me what I want to hear, and I am

not satisfied with his answers in reference specifically to...

You know, the unfaithfulness.

To be honest, the way that I see it, once a cheater, always a cheater. And I

want my daughter to know that she deserves more.

I don't trust him as much as I did when I got here.

You both really need to sit down together and have a conversation to make

that this is truly like what Chloe wants, what you want, whether it's

together or separately.

Yesterday, I told Matthew that I am unsure about having kids.

So I sent out an SOS to the wives chat because I am completely spiraling about

my relationship.

Hey, oh my God, hi.

How are you?

I'm doing okay.

You have duct tape on your finger?

Yeah, we went and...

fed apples to some um hogs yesterday and i got bit by a pig

oh you're gonna eat out of my pocket okay oh don't eat my hand okay

you guys are getting a little bit feisty i just got bit it's all good

but while we were picking apples i brought up the fact that i've been

on the fence about having children and he was like

And I was like, I think that you are made to be a dad, like you'd be an

father. And I don't want you to resent me for thinking that you will one day

convince me. And I'm never convinced.

Yeah, sure.

He then said that he would shoot me over having kids.

Babe, to the deepest part of my core, I love you.

And you make me happy.

If you end up not wanting kids, I'll still be there.

That's what I would always give.

That's what a partner should always give.

So I'm just really struggling right now because I moved here for him so we could

be together and, like, get married. And I can see, like, what a good person he

is and, like...

What a great husband he would be, like an amazing husband.

But for the past six months, we did not feel very connected.

And there was definitely a decline in the relationship.

So I started to wonder if, like, he isn't my

person. Oh, my God, Greta, that's a lie. You're, like, breaking my heart right

now.

I used to call Matthew all the time. I used to flirt with him more.

I used to send him nudes a lot.

But when I was studying for the bar, it's about 8 to 10 hours of studying a

So we really lost connection.

I started questioning if all my anxious thoughts about being disconnected was

because we were across the pond or because we are just no longer connected

each other in general.

I think I had to wait till I came here and like really understood how we would

be together. And whenever I first saw him at the train station, it was like

really great to see him.

But I didn't feel like, you know, that spark in my heart.

In general, our interactions don't feel very romantic.

We did sleep together, but...

It, like, hasn't been.

Yeah, yeah.

It was hard.

So I'm getting really conflicted because it wouldn't be, like, a bad

relationship. It would be, like, a fine relationship.

I love Matthew. Like, you know I love Matthew, but, like, you just don't

to have a fine relationship.

If there's still no spark, then that, I think, tells you everything you need to

know.

I really care about him.

But... Like... Even

though this is, like, a future that would, in many ways, would fulfill,

everything I've hoped for in life, I have, like, changed so much in the past

years, and I don't know what to do about it.

It's, like, honestly that simple.

But... Also so complicated.

Yeah.

I really love Matthew, but I'm worried that we might not be compatible anymore.

I can't even imagine what it's like right now for you.

Yeah. I feel really sad saying that, and

I truly just, like, don't know what to do right now.

For money, I could always just dress up as a mime. It is both silly and

romantic.

Welcome to the great outdoors.

I love it.

Really? It's so different from being in the city.

That's mom.

Hi, mom.

Hi, how are you doing?

She's constantly invading our relationship.

She calls every day.

What's the big deal? It's my mom.

Hey, it's not normal.

Every little movement, every little thing you do,

is it the light of hand that commands my heart to

love you?

Salut! Hey!

Je m 'appelle Anthony.

Enchantée, Anthony.

C 'est vous qui m 'avez contacté? Yes.

Since we've been in France, there's been a lot of really serious discussions or

arguments. Everything's very, very heavy.

On y va? On y va. C 'est parti.

Allez. I do know that I missed the mark with the goat farm, so I'm just looking

to cheer her up a little bit.

Pourquoi tu veux apprendre le mime français?

Ah, ma femme.

You know moonwalk?

Oh, yeah, Michael Jackson.

Like a fly.

I had made a joke one time to Manon

when we had decided to move here that for money, I could always just dress up

a mime, put a hat in front of me, and people can pay me for my mime -ing

And it's just kind of been this running joke between us.

Yes.

It is both silly and romantic.

And it is sort of the only job that I'm qualified for, not being able to speak

French.

Yes, very well.

Okay.

I know that Manon

and Ben are coming any second.

Ah, super.

For what she thinks is a walk.

I don't know if I'm nervous for them to see me as a mime or to improvise for

strangers.

This is a complete turn off.

He's taking the jokes way too far. Like, we don't do that in France. You don't

put yourself in a spectacle in the street, okay?

It's very, very humiliating. Like, this is not helping our relationship

whatsoever. Anthony, what the heck? What are you doing? What is wrong with you?

Oh, it's a little fun.

A little fun?

Yeah. You're so serious all the time. I'm just trying to have a little fun

trying to be like a little romantic and show you that I love you.

Anthony, oh my gosh.

With makeup on and lipstick on your face?

Yeah. Okay. Well, we don't have the same idea of romance, I guess.

Hi. Oh, you're scaring Ben.

You're scaring me?

I think you are making quite the spectacle.

I was shocked.

I was shocked seeing my husband in front of people doing the clown.

Supposed to be... Whoa, whoa, whoa.

Not a clown. Yeah, it's kind of... Mime. It's the same.

What is in your mind, Anthony?

Oh, my God. I'm trying to show you that, you know, it doesn't have to be serious

all the time, and you, like, completely took it seriously again.

I'm in front of, like, thousands of people. I'm not out here begging for

I was doing it for you.

This was a whole routine, like, for you, right? It's a tightrope. We're working

on balance.

I fall off, and I present you the rose, and then you could have taken my heart,

and I was rejected.

Just now it's me. We cannot speak.

Why?

You did, again, something that you liked.

That you know that is not my style and not my vibe.

You do that in public, and then I look like the crazy and grateful bitch.

You know I don't like this type of things.

Maybe I should put

some tears on her makeup.

You just don't get what I'm saying. It's fine.

I know nothing about camping, but I'm sure you know me. You need to be so

comfortable, love. Oh, thank goodness.

You don't want to leave.

Okay.

After dinner the other night, Dylan and I talked about him lying about his mom

and the age gap thing.

I cannot believe you don't remember telling me that. The hatred stems from

telling me that your mom said all those things about me. Yes, you're right.

You're right in everything you're saying. And I apologize.

Welcome to the great outdoors.

But it's raining.

I was so mad.

But then he apologized.

And at this point, I'm ready to let it go.

Camping in the rain.

So what? We've got tents.

We've got shelters.

I've never put one of these up before.

Do you have instructions?

I don't need instructions.

Do you want it that close to the fire?

My hair's going to catch on fire.

That'll be fine.

Patia's a big city girl. She comes from the big city of Dallas.

And, you know, she doesn't like camping, but maybe once she actually tries it,

she's never tried it, maybe she'll love it. And I also see it as being beautiful

and magic and romantic.

And if she's going to be here in Tassie, she needs to get into the culture and

the lifestyle of Tasmania.

Oh, yeah!

Good job!

It's going to get dark soon. Let's pull up some chairs and make some nice

marshmallows and enjoy this beautiful evening.

If I go to the bathroom, you're going with me. Sure.

That's so cute.

Hi, baby.

I'm blinding him.

That's a little patty melon.

Does he bite?

No.

He can't go into the little scary way.

Oh, there he goes.

How do you feel about Tasmania now?

I love it. Being out here in the wilderness?

I love it.

Really? It's so different from being in the city.

That's Mum.

Hi Mum.

Hi, how are you doing?

Good, how are you?

I'm good, where are you now?

Camping with Patia.

That's romantic.

We've had a great day.

Is it cold out there?

It's currently raining.

Oh, really?

Yeah. Don't let the mosquitoes bite you, for goodness sake.

Have you got any spray or anything?

No, we didn't bring any of that.

All right, babe.

We have to go now. I'm sorry.

Oh, okay. Well, listen, have a lovely evening together camping, and I'll be

thinking of you both.

Bye, Joe. Bye.

Take care. Bye.

Oh, can you just not, like, call when we're, like, trying to do stuff? I'd

to call her back and tell her. No, I don't want to call her back and tell

It seems like you're not going to tell her.

She calls every day.

She doesn't call every day.

Just relax. Enjoy life.

He wants so badly for me to love his mother, but I feel like she's constantly

invading our relationship.

G'day, Mum. How are you?

G'day, Mum. How are you?

Hi, how's it going?

Good. How are you?

G'day, Mum. How are you?

Let's look at your call log. I bet you it's all your mom.

Bust it out. Let's count how many times your mom called.

Oh, my God. It's just Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe.

What's the big deal? It's my mom.

Babe, it's not normal.

You're 38.

You're pushing 40, and you talk to your mom that many times.

It's very normal.

She wants you close to her. She wants you at her beck and call.

You really, I've got to set boundaries with you.

I've sat at the table with you girls, and I'm like, is it resolved?

But you guys act like best friends, and you're both saying it's resolved.

Yeah, but you're saying, is it resolved? You're supposed to say, you know what,

Mom, Pateer's right.

Let's work on not talking so much.

It's really frustrating that Pateer's still jealous of my mom calling me.

To have Pateer dictate what my relationship is with my mother, it's

unreasonable.

I shouldn't have to choose between my mom and my partner.

If Batir can't move past this, I don't know how our relationship will work.

Since I've arrived, all we've done is fight and bicker.

Look at what Kana's saying.

We really need to have a come -to -Jesus conversation because we don't make each

other happy.

I have doubt in my mind about whether or not I'm the right person for you.

You can't take one off my back, so that is so hard for you.

You want to pop the trunk?

In the trunk.

Give me my poop.

Oh, wow, you've been caballero.

Madeline and I really need to have a come -to -Jesus conversation because

car ride was super heated.

The wedding is this weekend, and...

We don't make each other happy.

What are we doing here?

Yeah,

no kidding.

It seems like every day I've been here since I've arrived, all we've done is

fight and bicker.

And it's alarming to me because if it's any indication of what this marriage is

going to be like, we're going to have big problems, like really big problems.

All I really want is just some appreciation.

Look at what I'm going to say.

I value so much everything you sacrificed for me.

You just need to be careful about the way you say things.

You don't come to tell me, I pay your rent, I pay your bills, and like that.

So this is not something about you need to feel superior.

I just, I don't, I don't want to argue all the time. Like that's what I really

don't want to do.

Me neither.

Sometimes like I have like a little doubt in my mind about whether or not

I'm the right person for you.

I really don't want to fight with you.

To me, happy.

You know all my traumas, from where I'm coming from.

You know my mom had me when she was 16 years old.

My father don't be in my life.

And all the men I know in my life, it's such a bad, bad, bad, bad, bad men.

All the men cheating.

All the men never balled a woman.

The only love I have is myself.

And I protect myself.

That is when I react and when I start to work a lot.

When I was a child, I don't have any control of my life.

And later I grow up and be lonely.

And when you are lonely, you have the control of everything.

It's so beautiful. You make me so much happy with so many things.

You're my first love, like I never have love.

From my parents and from all my story, it's so, so hard work getting

into a space when I cannot have peace.

And right now, like all these problems, you steal my peace. And I just want to

my peace come back.

I love you and I care about you.

and I'm sorry that you've had to go through what you've gone through, but

don't need to go through life alone.

I'm not like the other men.

I'm a good person. I'm a good guy.

Madeline is opening up more than she typically does.

She's trying to be vulnerable, and this gives me confidence.

I think that we can have an adult conversation without yelling at each

and I feel really hopeful for the future of our relationship.

I love you, and I want to make this work.

Let's try and have a good weekend.

Let's try with a clean slate not to argue.

Okay?

Okay.

Love you. Love you, too.

I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had indiscretion

infidelity, but I think when she feels the difference, between having my

financial support and not, a little bit of reality is going to settle in.

Chloe, John, are you guys ready? I'm all packed.

I have to make my flight.

After visiting for the weekend, my mom is flying home today.

John, did you mind taking the bags down to the car?

I'll help you take the bags down. I'm just going to make sure we have

everything. Looking back at it, I think my mom and Jonathan learned a lot about

each other, but I think it also created more questions.

All right, so you know what's in here?

My credit cards.

You know what I can do with those credit cards right now? Buy you a ticket home.

What do you think?

No, but you can give me your credit card.

No. Just consider it right now.

First class ticket home.

What's that thing?

When the bird flies from the nest, let it fly.

I'm 100 % sure that's not a thing. Well, it is now, and that's how I feel. So,

no, I'm not coming home. I'm going to stay here, and I'm going to figure it

and then you're going to be very proud of me.

I'm proud of you anyway, but, you know, I'd be more proud if you were home.

My mom's offer, for the most part, is just projecting what she thinks would be

best for not only my future, but our relationship.

Do you need directions?

To the airport? No.

I can't say in this moment that I'm making the right decision because I feel

guilty about it, but I truly am happier here, and I think that's important.

Did you enjoy your trip?

I did.

Mostly.

But I was dreading today. I was dreading this part.

Yeah. That was always the hardest part.

Yeah. This time it's so much harder.

Well, I'll miss you.

I will. I'll miss you more.

It's hard for me.

I knew she would always, you know, move out and, you know, develop her own life

and find her own path. But I just didn't know it would be so far away from me.

Come on, honey.

I don't want my hand.

Just making sure you're safe.

I think Chloe feels comfortable in her own mind, but I think when she feels the

difference between having my financial support and not, a little bit of reality

is going to settle in.

So, Johnny, thank you so much.

Thank you.

Take care.

Definitely.

I'll come visit you.

Yes. All right. I love you. Love you. I miss you.

I miss you, too.

So much.

I'll see you soon.

Okay. Mama, I'm sorry.

You make me cry every time you come to the airport.

I miss you already.

Why do you do this?

Do the things we talked about, okay?

Okay.

Show me that you can secure yourself here.

Please.

Okay. All right. Love you.

I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had indiscretion,

infidelity, you know, at the beginning of the relationship, which definitely

causes a lot of concern for me.

So I know you're both set in your ways with your current plan.

But I want you to know that my offer to come to Boston, you know, and be part of

the company still stands.

Okay?

If the future is Chloe and Johnny and Aruba forever, I'll be missing out

on, you know, on my daughter's life.

All right.

Love you. Bye, guys.

Bye. Take care of her.

It's really sad to think I won't have those milestones with my daughter.

She's so cute.

She's gone.

I feel, like, really guilty.

Why?

I have been feeling stiff in my relationship with Matthew.

The only thing true is that... I can't.

Okay, let's see. I need vegan mints.

I'm making a vegan shepherd's pie. One kilogram potatoes.

And I don't know how much a kilogram is at all.

So I guess I'm just going to get like six potatoes and hope that's enough.

After my first date with Matthew, I went to see a friend that I had in London.

And one of the first things I said to this friend was, I think I just met my

husband.

I was so excited. He was a vegan and like very passionate about animals.

We just had very interesting conversations.

Hi there. I'm ready to check out.

Can I add these as well? Yes. Thank you. We were very, very aligned in how we

saw our future together.

I felt this immense excitement of possibility.

But after moving here, And giving our relationship a chance.

I don't really know if it's who I am anymore.

Apple, how was your day?

Hey.

Where are the pots?

Pots.

Cooking in other people's kitchens are all very stressful to me.

I don't know where anything is.

At the beginning of our relationship, I felt like he was Mr. Darcy and I was

Elizabeth. And it was just really romantic and magical.

But I think, like, I am pretending to be the person that I think

that he needs.

And that is someone to come home to, to a nice home -cooked English meal.

I lose housewife points right now.

I have been feeling stiff in my relationship with Matthew in the past

months.

I realized that I started telling him less and less about my life.

And we just really lacked emotional intimacy with each other.

I think you're with the right person whenever you're in a relationship that

makes you feel like you can fly.

And that's not how I'm feeling right now.

Honey, I'm home.

Hey.

Hiya.

Hi. Hi.

You OK?

How's your day?

Good. How's yours?

OK. I made a vegan English shepherd's pie.

Wow.

I don't know. It's probably really bad, though.

I mean, to address the elephant in the room, what is it?

I'm just, like, thinking how long.

I'm actually a little afraid that's going to be gross.

What's in it?

Vegan mince, carrots, celery, onions.

It actually turned out okay. Yeah.

I agree.

That doesn't look good.

This is alright.

How have you been feeling after attacking the car?

Like I want to ship in choppy waters.

How about you?

I feel, like, really guilty.

Why?

I think you're, like, one of the greatest people I've ever met.

But, like, I don't really think I'm being very fair to you at all.

I am just so, so grateful I met you.

You deserve the world.

And you deserve to be really happy. And you deserve to be with someone who,

like, loves you, like, to the most that their heart can handle.

And, like, who reciprocates, like, your affection and, like, appreciates, like,

what an amazing partner you are.

And, like, the honest, like, truth

is that I don't, like, think I love you anymore.

Next time on 988 Beyonce, The Other Way.

Manon loves the fact that I was in the military. She just loves the uniform.

Very cute. Very sexy.

Very cute.

Ooh, yeah.

You ready?

Yes.

Dylan's mom is the reason why we are not married today.

You still haven't heard the devil? Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move

here.

Dylan's fault again.

This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much information with his mom

about us. I feel like you're a needy mother, Joe.

How long would it take if we didn't file the partnership papers?

That process will take approximately five months.

Part of that five months you need to stay in the States.

That's a long time. That's a long time.

I'm shocked.

Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance. Not at all.

Maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life.

I had no idea it was building up all this time.

We just need to spend a little bit of time together again.

I think there's something to explore still.