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What's wrong, Trina?

Just this whole divorce mess.
It's just a mess.

Gabe told my attorney
that he's going to do
everything he can

to make this divorce
as difficult as possible?

I'm freaking out.

What-- what am I
supposed to be doing?

You two have not taught them
how to resolve conflict.

As long as you
are holding vehemently
to what you had in mind,

you will never see the value
of what you have left.

I miss everything
about our relationship.

- Do you believe her?
- No, I don't.

Wow.

What I feel in the room
is a shocking amount of hurt.

♪ We are the Braxtons
and you'll see ♪

♪ We are not like
an ordinary family ♪

♪ Toni, Traci,
Towanda, Trina ♪

♪ Tamar and Miss E will ♪

♪ Teach you a thing or two ♪

♪ On "Braxton
Family Values." ♪

I wanna visit something
that you and I talked
about earlier.

You talked about a moment,
I think, in Atlanta.

- I was on tour...
- Mm-hmm.

...and had one
of my biggest shows

and the one that I was
so proud of in Atlanta.

And in the middle
of the show

the girls decided
they was gonna come on

and surprise me
and do a number
while I am performing.

It didn't go the way
that they planned it.

- Mm-hmm.
- And I got blamed for it.

Okay.

That has been a big wedge.

Let's visit that
for a moment.

- It was Towanda's idea.
- It was.

Tamar was making a statement
that we never support her.

I wanted to show Tamar
that we're supporting her.

It didn't go the way
that we intended.

Before that happened,

I hadn't talked to Towanda
or Traci for months.

So, how would they think--

the next time
you see me or talk to me

will be on stage with me?

I don't understand
how that's a good intent.

It wasn't malicious,
Tamar,

'cause I was supposed to do it,
too, but I had to work.

I had-- something else
came up,

but it was gonna be
all four us and Towanda
came in

with this idea we should do
something to show Tamar

that we're supporting her.

I didn't see
no harm of it.

If you guys
would have had--
given me the opportunity--

you surprise the fans,
not the artist.

I would have had outfits,

we would have surprised
the audience, and killed it.

They would have loved
to see all of us
in our hometown...

- So, wait,
hold it right there.
- ...and the fam together.

Since you were trying
to do something wonderful,

it didn't work out
right, she says,

"If I would have
known it,

we could have
choreographed it,
surprised the fans,

and done something
really amazing.

Why didn't you do that?

There was no malice involved.
It was all about support.

And Trina said she didn't think
it will be a good idea.

And that's true.
However,

we went to Mommy
and we said,

"Mommy, do you think
this is a good idea or not?

Do you think
this is something
we should do?"

- Hey, guys, what you doin'?
- We're gonna surprise Tamar.

- Oh, that's so sweet.
- We're gonna
hop on stage with her.

She would love that.

And Mommy said,

"I think
that would be wonderful.

I think she would
enjoy it."

The thing is this.

I don't think
we can ever get past it

if we have to
continually rehash it.

It seems like
almost every other week,

the point has
to be proven,

or the situation
has to be cleared up.

Is there room
in here to apologize?

I did. I apologized,
like, four times to Trina.

That was not accepted.

We can only
go about it in the past

what we've always done.

Sometimes Toni
didn't even know

all of us
was coming on stage.

- I've never experienced--
-It's a-- yes, you have.

I don't recall--

- I've never experienced that.
-And surprised Toni.

We've done it
with our old assistant.

- That's Toni.
- And-- and she was happy.

- That's Toni.
- We thought--

You guys did
that with Toni,

- but guess what? Guess what?
-But we thought--

- You have to understand
and take my position, Traci.
-But we thought--

- I don't want to cut you off.
- But we thought,

by us supporting
you like that...

That's not a support.

...would be
a good thing.

- At first you said--
-Hold up. Hold on.

Hold off.
Hold up. Hold up.

Now listen.

The reason you can
never resolve anything

is that the whole issue
gets lost

in who's gonna get to win.

And you're so busy trying
to figure out who's wrong.

Everybody's wrong.

Now, she's not
the fairy godmother
here either.

I get that.

But if you're gonna
throw everything on top
of the problem,

you can never solve any problem
because you can't isolate

any one thing at a time.

This "toxidity"...

is nauseating.

If you were my daughters,
I would go ballistic.

They'd have to cut
the cameras off.

This is a disgrace...

...to all the millions
of people of color

who idolize you,

who wish their family
could get out of the ghetto
long enough

to get a shot like you got,

and to see you
climb all the way up here

and talk to each other
like this...

it hurts us in places
beyond your family.

The-- you're--
you're spoiled!

You're flat-out spoiled!

I think the bishop
is 110% correct.

We are spoiled.
Some of us more than others.

I deal with people
who have real problems.

People who are losing
their limbs,

who need a kidney transplant.

And those families
go through that with
more dignity

than you can go through
who stood on stage.

Do you know how
unthankful you are?

How ungrateful you are?

To see you in these fancy shoes
and these nice clothes

and act like this.

How can we teach our children
to respect black women

if black women
don't respect black women?

This has got to stop.

It isn't easy to hear
that you're spoiled
and a disgrace.

It feels like we all
just got kicked in the gut.

And it's really hard
to know how to react
or what to say

because he was
absolutely right.

You ought to be
more grateful.

And until you learn
how to be more grateful,

you can make
all the money you want.

You don't have nothin'.

You are far too blessed
to be this miserable.

I think you're better
than this.

Father, I don't know
what will happen
when this is over,

but I pray, God,
that you would do
a workdown in these women

and this family,
and that you would
pull them together

by your power and teach them
just the fundamentals

of love and respect
for each other.

And if nothing else,
God,

make them know
while they're still together,

before they're gathered
over a grave somewhere,

make them know
what it is to be grateful.

In Jesus' name.

In Jesus' name.

- Amen.
-Amen.

-Thank you, Jesus.
- Oof!

Now overall, I definitely feel
like Bishop Jakes

helped us to mend
our sisterhood.

I mean, not even really
our sisterhood,

our family as a whole
back together.

I want you to come back
to your roots.

God gave you a voice...

Sing.

Just sing something for me.

Just take me back home
for a minute.

Um, you guys wanna sing
the "Lord's Prayer"?

- Yeah, we can.
- We can.

♪ Our Father ♪

♪ Which art in heaven ♪

♪ Hallowed will be ♪

♪ Thy name ♪

♪ Thy kingdom come ♪

♪ Thy will be done ♪

♪ On Earth ♪

♪ As it is ♪

♪ In heaven... ♪

I think it was really smart
of Bishop Jakes to ask us all

to go back to our roots
and sing.

Especially because
when we get together

and we sing
and we sing for real,

our sisterhood just seems
to just automatically

mesh together again
once we're together
and singing.

♪ ...Father ♪

♪ A... ♪

♪ Men. ♪

Wow.
That's amazing.

It's been a long time
since we sang that one.

- Yes, the whole thing.
- That's what families do.

We can laugh and love
and lift each other up.

That's how we survive.

We can't stop doin' that.

I don't care who did what,
you're still family.

I'm gonna
tell you somethin'.

We're awfully embarrassed,
but a good embarrassed.

Sometimes you got to get
your face cracked

- and find it on the floor...
-Right.

I'm still
lookin' for my face.

Well, but you know what,
Bishop Jakes?

It was great and refreshing
to have someone to be
honest enough

and to love us enough
to tell us the truth.

- Good. Good.
- So, thank you.

I love you, girls.

Yeah, yeah,
that's what I'm talkin' about.

I want some
huggin' up in here.

I think Bishop Jakes
coming and giving us

a nice swift kick
in the behind

was the best thing
for our family,

especially with our parents.

I-- I came to see
that a lot of our issues

are just spawned
from our parents,

because they don't get along,
and it's this love-hatred thing

that we were starting
to display.

So I saw that
for the first time.

So, for me, it was
an eye-opening experience.

I think that a little piece
of all of my sisters
is gonna grow.

I think they're still
gonna have their personalities.

But it's not going to be
an overnight success,

I don't think.

I just think
there's gonna be baby steps.

Coming up on
"Braxton Family Values"...

How 'bout we start
with some Grace?

Well, let's do it right then
since he didn't do it.

I'm just a little skeptical

that all of our past issues
have magically disappeared.

We're not goin'
prayer for prayer.

Then stop complaining.

♪ Towanda's flat ♪

- No, I'm not!
- Yes, you are. I swear.

- She takes the fun out of it.
- Yeah, she is.

Tamar's really testing
everybody's patience right now.

I started to give you
the finger,

but we singin'
a gospel song.

Hey, guys.
Where's my seat?

In the middle.

Yummer.
Ooh, champagne.

Champagne after all
that church?

Yeah,
this cleanses the soul.

- Jesus turned water into wine.
- It's grapes.

So, how 'bout
we start with some Grace?

Father, we thank you
for another opportunity
to come together

and ask your blessing
to be upon the food

that we're about to receive.

May it serve as nourishment
and strength for our body

for we pray in Jesus' name.

- Amen.
-Amen.

Good God.
You were whispering
the prayer.

- I could barely...
- I could hear him.

- You're right beside him.
- Well, let's do it right then.

- Go ahead, Mom.
- Since he didn't
do it right.

We are not goin'
prayer for prayer.

It's gon' be--

No!

Yesterday was
emotionally exhausting,

but the good news is

it-- it ended
on a positive note.

So, today we'll see
how everyone's feeling

now that they've
had some time

for Bishop Jakes'
message to sink in,

and is there really
gonna be room for real change?

I thought yesterday
was good.

- Mm-hmm.
- Yes.

I thought it was necessary
and it was embarrassing.

Oh, my God!
It was, like, embarrassing.

Like, scared straight,
'cept for Jesus straight.

That's why I like him.

He's blatantly honest.

I think it's
really important

that we revert
back to what he said
during this session

so we can keep it
in our remembrance
and we can apply it

to our sisterhood
on a daily basis.

We all need
to take something and commit

of what we're
going to do

to make things better.

All right, Traci,
you go first.

Well, I commit of--

If I have any issues,
address them right
then and there.

- Yeah.
- In a polite way,

not in a hostile,
frustration tone.

- Yeah.
-Here, here.

- Here, here.
- Yeah.

I am going
to commit to not being
so emotionally suppressed.

- That's good.
- Thank you, Trace.

Okay, "Ton T."

"Tone T."
I am going to learn
to take responsibility

for living my own life.

- Oh, that's good.
- That is awesome.

Clank, clank, clank.

Yes!

That's that whole
Whitney clap--

- Yeah!
- Whitney gon' get you.

- Have a seat.
- Mmm.

I commit
to communication,

even if it's unsavory.

And I also dedicate myself

to knowing that it's
from a good place,

and it's not
"attackerization."

- Here here.
- Let's hear what Tamar
has to say.

I have
to think about it.

Tamar,

you need to stop
walking away.

You have to sit
and talk through things.

I don't walk away.

Peace in
the Middle East.

- I gotta go.
- Don't walk away.

That's not cool.

I love you, boo.
I can't do this.

Of course you can't.

You can't keep
walking away.

Tamar,
that's wack

that you're
walking away, though.

When I feel
that a situation

is getting ready
to escalate

to a negative place,
and I feel attacked,

Oh, yeah,
I'm definitely
gonna get up.

That's not leaving
the situation,

that's the adult thing,
and removing yourself--

-So, you're...
- Especially when
the situation is--

...confirming
that you walk away.

Yeah, I walk away
from negative situations.

Absolutely.

I don't think
they're negative.

I don't walk away
from situ-- I don't--

I think they're
challenging situations
that you choose, like,

"Well, I'm not
gonna stick it out
and see what happens."

I think it's always
best to stay and try
to work things out.

Otherwise, you'll
never get closure

and you'll continue
to harbor all these
feelings indefinitely.

Well, I'm just glad
we're just leaving the past
in the past and moving forward.

Well, I'ma throw
something on the table.

Since we're all
together here in Florida,

I have arranged
a surprise for you...

...to spend
the day together...

...with all of us,
how does that sound?

- Whoo-hoo.
- Okay.

That could be good.

After spending all day
together, yesterday,

I could really
use a break.

It's a little bit
bad timing

because I have
a court date in a few days

for my divorce,
and I should really
be preparing for it,

but my family's
important, too.

We all know that Mommy
and Daddy has only spent

a few hours together
over the past few years,

but I can't remember

the last time they spent
an entire day together.

By the look
on Mommy's face,

I don't think
she likes the idea.

Well then,
how do we dress, though?

Casual.

Okay, well, let me
get myself together.

I don't know about y'all,
I'm not, I-- the time--

I lost a little bit
of little weight
and everything.

Let me go get
myself together.

- Little Orphan Annie there.
- You go, girl.

Not that she has
red hair.

Look cute.

- To the adventure.
- To adventure!

- Clank, clank, clank.
- Clank, clank, clank.

-Welcome...
- Uh-uh.

...to the Braxton
family vacation!

- Naw!
- Wait a minute!

Hey!

We riding in a Winnebago?

And I wanna
invite all of y'all

to go to
the amusement park.

What, really?

I am not surprised
that it's an RV trip
to an amusement park,

because that's
what we used to do
when we were younger.

I mean, every month
in the Summertime,

my dad would take
us somewhere,

and it was like
a big family thing,

and it was very
important to our family.

Give it to me.
We ready to go?

Um, no!

I'm gonna go,
Daddy.

You goin'?
I got one, one!

- Oh, come on.
- I got, two, two!

Well, if you got one,
you got 'em all.

- Come on, everybody.
- Five, six?

- Towanda wearin' a skirt--
-Come on, come on!

- Traci, you drive then!
- You see, I'm not sure
on Traci's driving.

Daddy driving
is just as bad.

I don't know about that one.
Y'all go ahead.

- I'll catch y'all--
- Get in here!

- Stop playing. Come on!
- I don't wanna wear a dress!

If I go,
you gotta go.

This is not Mommy's
idea of a good time.

She doesn't
like amusement parks,

and there's gonna
be a long ride
in the R.V,

and of course,
Daddy's here.

But she's being
a team player,

and coming along
even though she doesn't
look thrilled about it.

- Ew! Aw!
- Everyone, take a seat.

This is disgusting!

We really went
back in time.

We couldn't get,
like, an upgraded version?

This is upgraded compared
to when we were younger.

Well, y'all
know me, you know.
I had a coupon for this one.

- Oh, God!
- That's nasty in here.

-Have a seat.
-It is not nasty.

It smells
a little mildew to me.

I really did not
want to go,

but if it
will heal my family,

I will do that.

Towanda, you gonna
play spades with us?

- Okay.
- Okay, y'all ready?

Breaker,
breaker, 1-9.

- This is Captain Braxton...
- Amen.

...on-- online.

When's the last time
you drove one of these?

I think Eisenhower
was president.

Oh.

Who lives like this?

T.D. Jakes said
y'all was spoiled.
Y'all spoiled!

Y'all grew up like this!

We didn't grow up with--

That's what's wrong
with them, Daddy,
they spoiled.

-That's right.
- They don't appreciate nothing.

Well, come sit
right back down here, then.

Everybody's sitting.
You wanna sit with me?

Some people live in an RV
We just takin' a trip.

This is amazing!
I'm gonna do what
T.D. Jakes told me to do!

I am grateful.
Look at God!

Are we really gonna
spend a whole day together?

- Are you excited, Tamar?
- I'm very excited.

- Me too.
- I mean, I feel
like I'm, like, 12.

- I feel like I've
never done this before.
- ...this before!

I've never, never
done this before as an adult.

No TV allowed,
no radio allowed,

- because this is family time.
- Time!

It's like old times.

My dad's driving,
my mom's up front.

I mean, they're not
speaking to each other,

but the point is,
they're together,

and we're all hanging
with them, so that's good.

This thing is far away!

It's an hour
and 15 minutes away.

- No!
- Yes, it's far.

How long have
we been riding?

- Seems like an hour.
- How long have we been riding?

- Are we starting to--
- Seems like--

- 20 minutes, 20 minutes.
- Tell me you're playin'!

- Only 20 minutes?
- That's all.

Coming up
on "Braxton Family Values"...

- That's so un-fun.
- What, me?

We spent two hours complaining
and picking on each other.

Mommy and Daddy
aren't even talking.

This family day
could be a total fail.

Well, there she is.

Gabe keeps threatening
to take half of my assets,

and thinking about it
is really bringing me down.

I'm not even
in the mood right now.

You have no idea.

You looking straight
at my hand, you cheater.

You shouldn't have
even done that.

Why did you look
at my hand?

- 'Cause you were
showing it to me.
- That's supposed to be...

...what I wanna play!

Why don't y'all just sing?

No, thanks!

That's how y'all
did it before.

All the way
down the road.

"O Mary,"
we used to sing "O Mary."

♪ And it rolls on ♪

- Can we do it
in the right keys?
- ♪ And it rolls on me... ♪

- ♪ Drown in the Red Sea ♪
- ♪ Oh Mary, don't you weep ♪

♪ Bum, bum, bum, bum, bum ♪

- ♪ Mother, don't you-- ♪
- Uh-uh, let's watch
these pitches, honey.

♪ Well ♪

♪ That's the note
you just did... ♪

♪ Oh, Mary,
don't you weep ♪

- I'll help out--
- There you go.

♪ Doo-doo-doo-doo ♪

♪ Mother
don't you mo-oan ♪

♪ Oh, Mary, don't you weep ♪

Missin' a...

You gotta go
all the way down.

- ♪ Uh, two, and-- ♪
- I'm gonna sit over here.

- Why?
- 'Cause I don't know my notes.

- We ain't get to you yet.
- I can't find them.

When you ready for me,
let me know.

- Oh, you tried?
- Look, I can't-- I'm standing.

Tamar's really testing
everybody's patience right now

by acting like
she's the choir director,

or you know,
the mommy of the group,

like Mom used to direct us.
Tamar, that's not you.

That's not you.
You're not right.

You're not right.

- Try it again,
- ♪ Oh, Mary ♪

♪ Well, singin' Mary ♪

- ♪ Oh, Mary ♪
- Ah.

- ♪ Oh, that's not on the note ♪
- That's-- I have it.

- She got it.
- I'm saying you gotta start

- ♪ On the note... ♪
- I did.

♪ ...because otherwise
it sounds a little funky ♪

Okay--
♪ Well ♪

Well, since you
left the group, Toni,

somebody had to take control.

♪ Oh Mary,
don't you weep ♪

♪ Mother,
don't you mo-o-o-oan ♪

- ♪ Oh Mary, don't you weep ♪
- ♪ Towanda's flat ♪

- No, I'm not!
- Yes, you are, I swear.

I started to give you
the finger, but we
singin' a gospel song.

♪ Mother,
don't you mo-o-an ♪

♪ O-o-oan ♪

♪ Then it ro-o-olls on me ♪

Tamar, you have
a take-over spirit,
and you wanna be in charge,

we get it.

We don't sing this far
away from the pianist.

- Come over here.
- Come on, Trina.

Go over there,
go over there.

Even as a little girl,
Tamar's always wanted
to be in charge.

♪ Traci, you ready
to play your note ♪

♪ This is how
you gonna sing it ♪

♪ In this low key ♪

I'm just gonna
do my best right now,

and not allow
that take-over spirit

to get on my nerves
and remember

all the wonderful
things that Bishop
T .D. Jakes has taught us

and I'm just
gonna apply it.

I'ma try.

♪ On me, that's your note ♪

I know my note.
I've been singing
as long as you.

-You haven't
sung it in 20 years.
- ♪ Rolls on me ♪

And Trina on it.

- ♪ Then it-- ♪
- ♪ I know my note ♪

♪ That's your note, right ♪

- Two, three, and go.
- That's what--

She's taking
the fun out of it.

- Yeah, she is.
- I don't know--

You know this works.

I know my note works.
But I know my note.

Nothing has changed,
has it?

It was real funky,
so I was trying

to make sure
everybody got it...

♪ This is your note
right here ♪

- ♪ Can you remember that? ♪
- ♪ No, I'm not doing that one ♪

You know, that was
my favorite song y'all sang.

Trina think
she LeAnn Rimes.

You think
you're Tamar Braxton.

That I can do.

That I can definitely
live up to, honey.

We're here, we're here,
we're here.

We're here.
Everyone excited?

Yay!

I want that,
I want that, I want that.

I'm not getting
on that one.

-I'm getting on that.
- Nope.

I want that.

I want that.

No!

I am so not surprised
that Toni and Tamar

don't want to get on
a tall ride.

'Cause they are
fun-snatchers.

We spent
two hours in an RV

with everybody complaining
and picking on each other,

Mommy and Daddy
aren't even talking,

and now nobody
can agree to a ride?

This family day
could be total fail.

Where's
the white-water rafting?

You wanna get on that?

I don't wanna
get my hair wet.

I'm not-- I'm not
going with them anymore.

Like, never.

What, me?

That's so un-fun.

Okay, let's get on
the white-water raft.

Yay, let's get on!

Everybody's so excited
about the ride.

I don't want
to be the one

to ruin the bonding
experience,

so I'm gonna
make this work,

you know, I'm thinking,
"How bad could it be?"

That's what
we're getting on?

Coming on,
that's Traci.

Okay,
as a germophobic,

I always have
a pair of gloves

in my purse somewhere.

I'm always prepared.

You look crazy.

I'm dry.

- For now.
- For now.

My hair's not gonna
get messed up.

You have a short...

- I don't touch that.
- Yes.

Oh.

Traci was a mess.

She was drenched.

Drenched.

That was amazing!

I'm pretty dry from all
my protective layering,

and Traci should
have listened to me,

but she got
the most wettest.

Is that a word,
"wettest?"

am I sounding
like Traci?

Whose stupid-ass
idea was it to go

on this--
damn water ride?

My hair, my makeup,-- ruined.

This is not-- fun.

No fun at all.

Okay, the carousel.

I'ma get on a camel.

I'm on a camel.

Toni, you all right?

It's a little higher
than I thought.

Mine ain't goin'
up and down!

Yours ain't
goin' up and down?

Y'all had to have a camel.
That's what y'all get.

- My camel's not
going up and down!
- Mine's not moving!

Well, Tamar and Trina
picked the biggest camel,

thinking
because it's tall

and bigger, that it does--
it's better-- see?

So sometimes,
little things
are the way to go.

Well, not in everything.
Not in everything, but--

- Mine's broke.
- Mine doesn't move.

My camel didn't move,
it didn't go up and down,
it just went around.

Just around.

No up and down,
just around.

I got cheated.

Girl, you wanna do it again

- so you can get a--
-No, I don't.

You wanted the biggest
animal on that ride,

and it didn't move.

Mine worked.

Coming up on
"Braxton Family Values"...

I was born
to do this album.

I know I went
through a period,

where I didn't know myself,
and I definitely

didn't love myself.

What didn't you love
about yourself?

Trina, he want half
your business. Hit it!

Tomorrow's gonna
be an epic battle.

Get ready for the fight
of your life, Gabe.

Oh, that's a big old bird.

- Oh!
- Hi!

What's the thing
she holdin'?

- Is it alive?
- What is that?

I'm not going over there.

This is a sloth, look.

Look at this.

Yeah. Right.

Look at the flamingo.
Look.

Towanda does.

Hi, flamingo.

- Towanda,
you wanna feed 'em?
- Yeah.

I was a little nervous
about feeding the flamingos.

- No, Logan. No, Logan.
- Look, Logan. Look at...

Aah!

It tickled.

Then I was ready
to wash my hands.

I'm glad we all
spent the day together

and had fun as a family.

We made some really great
memories today,

and it felt like we were
really back together again.

I don't know how long
this is gonna last,

because real change
takes time,

but so far so good.

Okay, one, two, three,
"the Braxtons!"

Come on.

Whoo!

I know.
It was very Aerosmith.

It's one of the best trips
we've taken in a long time.
No lie.

And we're gonna end it
with my new favorite chef.

I love him.
He's incredible.

Just surprise us.

Give us your thingy,
and we'll just enjoy.

It's our last night
in Florida,

and an end to
an
absolutely amazing day
at the amusement park,

where surprisingly
there was no drama.

Ooh, there she is.

"I'm allergic to basic--"

And so am I, girl.
And so am I.

Let me hear the song.

♪ Yeah ♪

♪ Trina's always late ♪

♪ Late, late ♪

♪ Not later than you ♪

All of this laughing
and singing and carrying on

is so amazing, however, comma,

I'm just a little skeptical

that all of our past issues

have magically disappeared.

But I'm hopeful.

- ♪ Trina ♪
- ♪ She's always late ♪

♪ With her
obscene shirt on ♪

♪ In front
of her parents ♪

♪ We gonna pray for her ♪

♪ So she can come on back
like Bishop said ♪

She is coming back.

When you come back,
you don't wear shirts
like that.

"I'm allergic to..."

"Basic..."

You can't wear
that shirt, Trina.
Button it up.

I can't button it up, Toni.

Child...

I'm not even
in the mood right now.
You have no idea.

I do.
I understand. Sorry.

This trip has been
really fun.

But my court appearance
about my divorce is
in a couple of days,

and thinking about it
is really bringing me down.

Didn't we have fun today, guys?

Listen...

The whole weekend was good.

It really was.

It was productive.

It was bumpy at first.

You know, the biggest
thing for me is, like,

letting bygones be bygones.

Yeah, that's true.

And not having to be right.

Should we have a code word

when a person's
hurting our feelings,

and maybe we say a code word?

"You're hurting my feelings."

Why can't we just say
"lemon meringue pie"?

♪ Fire truck ♪

Banana pudding.
Banana pudding is our word.

To do what with?

To calm us down
or to bring peace,
or to...

I sure ain't
gonna remember that.

Or to say you hurt--
your feelings getting hurt.

Banana pudding.

I think
the word "banana pudding"

is the best code word
for "you hurt my feelings"

because it's something
that makes you happy,

because we all love
banana pudding.

So-- take some
of the edge off.

Sometimes it's not
what you say,

it's how you say it.

If I said,
"You know what, Toni?
Banana pudding."

It's still another trigger.
It's still--

It's, like, tone.

How about this?
Banana pudding. Extra cookies.

People are gonna feel like
we have Tourette syndrome

just saying,
"Banana pudding.
Banana pudding."

They're gonna think there's
something wrong with us.

I'm just saying.

Banana pudding.

Okay, so let's
go around the table

and talk about
what our favorite part
of the weekend is.

Go, Trina.

I think,
um, sitting in the RV
playing card games

and just
laughing and joking.

Getting on the water ride--

Toni actually
got on the ride with us.

Yeah, that was cool.

Mine was just
all us being together
and not arguing.

A whole day.

My favorite part was...

finding out that everybody

was gonna spend
the whole day together.

I think the best thing was
we tolerated the animals.

And mommy did too.

Who tolerated the animals?

Who? Who?

We tolerated the smells.

We saw different, um--

I meant my feelings.

Trace, we talking about
the best part about us.

- Right.
- Not the animals.

It's nice to see
new things.

Yeah!

Banana pudding,
banana pudding,

banana pudding,
banana pudding!

I am so thankful
for Bishop Jakes,

that he left such
a positive attitude,

that he remind them
where they come from.

We should toast
to the bishop.

- Yes.
- To Bishop.

To the bishop!

To the bishop,
and to the Braxtons!

How about that?

Yes, yes,
clank, clank, clank, clank...

Look at God.

Ooh, it's got a ring
and everything.

- Hi.
- Hi.

Welcome. Paul Delgado.

- Hi. How are you?
- What is your name?

- Towanda.
- Towanda.

- Trina.
- Trina.

Traci flew to Atlanta
because she and I

really want to help Trina
get ready for court
with Gabe tomorrow,

and so boxing, I felt,
was a perfect exercise.

She can get rid
of all of her aggression.

She needs to hit hard,

'cause she's going
through a divorce.

Okay, we're gonna
teach you that,

and we're gonna get you
ready for this battle.

- Ready?
- Yes.

Now let's
get started then.

Okay.

Gabe keeps threatening
to take half of my assets,

including Bar Chix,

so tomorrow is gonna be
an epic battle.

Everything I've
worked hard for is at stake.

I'm a lover, not a fighter.

Be a fighter. Go.

One, one, two.
Roll, two. Come on.

Trina, he want
half your business.
Hit it.

Do it. Do it.

You can do it.
Come on.

Roll.
Then come back
with the two.

- Two again.
- Yes, Trina.

But I'm not going
through a divorce.

What's that?
But you still gotta defend
yourself at all times.

We're here for support, Traci.
Moral support.

-Come on.
- Okay.

- Ready?
- Yes.

Go. One, two,
one, two, one two.

Keep going,
keep going, keep going.

Don't stop. Don't stop.

Can we go in
this boxing ring?

Big hook.
You wanna go in the ring?

- Let's go in the ring.
- Let's go in the ring.

See what I'm talking about?
Yeah.

See?

Ding, ding, ding.

In this corner, we got
Trina "Don't hurt 'em
too hard" Braxton.

- Let's go again.
- One, one, two.

- There you go.
- One, one, two.

One, one, two.

Wait.
Can you make it sound hard,

so people don't
think I'm a wuss?

All right, ready?
I'll slam it on you.

- Just go.
- Okay.

One, one, two.
There you go!

Yeah,
come get some.

- One, one, two.
- Yeah, I got--

Again. There you go.
Lot of--

Come on.
Little harder.

Ugh. One more.

One more.

One, two, three.

Time. Good work,
good work, good work.

Who's the champ?
Who's the champ?

Good work. Get 'em,
get 'em, get 'em.

Go, Trina!

I cannot wait
to get this court date
over with tomorrow.

Get ready for the fight
of your life, Gabe.

All right, ladies,
we're done. That's it.

Good work.
Great session.

Starting to get
a little amped about it.

Coming up on
"Braxton Family Values"...

You tried it, Vince.

See,
I was about to say
something nice,

and you done spoiled it.

The process for a divorce
can take some time.

Gabe just wants the drag this
divorce out to torture me.

-

-What up, mama?
-Hi.

Hi, how are you?

I'm good.
How are you?

Tamar Braxton hanging out
with your boy Big Tig

on the people's station,
V-103.

Now I'm uber-excited
to be here

to promote
my new single.

I feel like everybody's
excited for my new record,

because it's bomb.

I feel like I was born
to do this album.

You were "born"?

I feel like everything
I've been through in my life

was to write this album
and put it together.

Mm-hmm.

And I know
I went through a period

where, you know,
I didn't know myself

and I definitely
didn't love myself.

What didn't you
love about yourself?

I wasn't comfortable
in my skin.

I had to, you know,
come to the realization

that, you know,
I have to love myself

so someone else can love me.

- There's this new song...
-God.

...that you have that you're
parading around the country.

Ooh,
"If I Don't Have You"
is my newest single.

You know, it's about
being transparent,

and it's about, you know,

if I don't have you
in my life,

then I don't know
what I'm gonna do.

I'm not gonna be able
to make it.

When did you, like--
"Mm-hmm, that song about him"?

You know,
"If I don't have you,
Vincent."

Um, I think when
Logan came into play.

I mean, I always knew...

- No, you tried it.
- Yeah, me too.

You tried it, Vince.
You tried it.

Me too.
I was like, "Oh..."

Vince was like,
"Wait. All the way then?"

See, I was about
to say something nice,

and you done spoiled it,
you see?

You said, "Logan."
That's all I heard.

No, I was going to say
I felt it a long time ago,

but when Logan came into play,

it kind of put things
into perspective,

because, you know,
I just feel like

our whole family dynamic
would not work without Vince.

No one can come in
and fill his shoes,
period. Ever.

- Aw.
- Yeah.

What's the number-one
song today?

...do it.

It's "If I Don't Have You,"
my Tamar-tian friends,

where would I be?

You too, Vince.

Song number one
in the big four
at 4:00 on V-103.

- Yes!
- Like, "Ow!"

Me too.

♪ Baby, baby,
call me crazy ♪

Normally, an artist
will be really concerned

about their next album,

especially after coming off

the success of a record
like "Love and War."

I'm a little nervous,

but, you know,
as long as I feel

like I'm putting
amazing music out,

I feel like, you know,
my response will be
just as amazing.

'Kay?

♪ If I don't have you ♪

- ♪ See, baby, I'ma
tear down these walls ♪
- Hey, yo.

Sing, girl.
Sing.

- ♪ And it's on my life ♪
- Big Tigger: Sing!

♪ I'll lose my mind
if I don't have... ♪

Big Tigger:
I don't hear you.

Tamar, we love you.
Thank you.

Ooh, I got my life.

Whoo!

- That's some--
-Child!

- Ooh!
- Big Tigger: Tamar!

Oh, I was "re-bornt."

-Please be seated.
- Okay.

Well, what are we
fighting over now?

An area rug? What?

It's not the area rug.
It's a...

Right.

The court appearance is today,

but Antavius, my attorney,

asked me to meet him
at his office first.

Now, we already
discussed everything,

so I don't know
what this is about,

and now I'm just
even more stressed out.

Well, you know that
divorces take a long time.

Um, and in fact--

My first one didn't take
as long as this one.

But the process for a divorce
can take some time,

because, you know, we go
through the discovery process,

wherein you're answering
and asking questions
of the other side.

Okay.

So do you have any
other questions about
the discovery process?

Um, my question is,
"Do we really have to answer

a lot of these
just ludicrous questions?"

Uh, under normal
circumstances, yes.

I mean,
it's a legal process,

and we have to have it
have an answer.

Thank you.
You have to have an answer.

More documents?
The court appearance is today.

Now what's Gabe trying
to surprise me with this time?

He's trying to take
all of Bar Chix?

You want Bar Chix?
No.

There's been some haggling
back and forth,

um, with our side
and their side.

I swear I can't
take this anymore.

We've been haggling
for months,

and Gabe just wants to drag
this divorce out to torture me.

-