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How you deal with headline news?

I've had my share of it.

Last year was hard.

The press is not 100% accurate.

They're not even really 7% accurate.

I'm opening up a pop-up location.

A one night event to research options

for a future second Bar Chix location.

- Like what city? Here? - Baltimore?

- Either Suwanee or Atlanta. - Suwanee is "Yawnee."

How about I invite you guys over to do a menu tasting

- for the pop-up? - Okay.

So these are bourbon wings made with my bourbon.

It--The chicken good, but it taste like pecan pie.

It's supposed to be sweet, though, Monster.

Can we get some salt for the chicken?

You put a little bit more salt on her, she'll be good.

Why this chicken...

have so many feathers on it?

Tamar, think about what you're saying.

She know what she saying, Traci.

I know what the (bleep) I'm saying.

I'm not gonna do a transference of energy

- with this right here. - I have great energy.

Actually, you have the worst energy in the world.

- Yeah, he does too. - Oh, I know.

So does yours. So does yours.

- You're pathetic. - What y--What you want? What?

♪ We are the Braxtons and you'll see ♪

♪ That we are not like an ordinary family ♪

♪ Toni, Traci, Towanda, Trina, Tamar, and Miss E ♪

♪ Will teach you a thing or two ♪

♪ On "Braxton Family Values." ♪

You have the worst energy in the world.

- Tamar: Your baby father. -Yeah, he does too.

So does yours. So does yours. Know that.

Now put that (bleep) in your corncob pipe

and smoke that mother(bleep) 'cause ain't nobody

- got time for this. - I ain't got neither, bitch.

Don't (bleep) play with me, Trina.

What y--What you want? What?

- You're pathetic. - Yes, you--Yes, you are.

Wait a minute, we were talkin' about food.

We were talkin' about food and the pop-up.

That's all I was talking about was food.

I wasn't (bleep) nobody. I know I wasn't--

Yes, you did. And you know you did.

- Why can't we just talk-- - No, Towanda.

What part did I (bleep) on her?

- Let's sit here and talk about food. - Nope. Nope.

- This pop-up. - What part did I (bleep) on her?

- Tell me. I'm lost. - Wait a minute. Hold on now.

- I ain't fallin' for that. - Where'd every--Hold on!

I don't feel like hearing all this.

I got enough (bleep) that's going on

in my life right now.

Trina's reacting to Tamar

'cause she's way too sensitive.

I don't feel like dealing with Tamar and Trina's bullcrap

about something being too sweet

and something not being too sweet.

Come on, Trina. Sit down for a second.

Come on, sit down. Traci, sit down.

Can't we just be happy?

- Trina, grow up. - You grow up.

Raise your child. By yourself.

Instead of putting it on Mommy.

Instead of putting it on Mommy.

Who the (bleep) you think you're talking to?

Who the (bleep) do you think you talking to?

Trina is really hitting below the belt.

Trina just snapped

and said how she was feeling in the heat of the moment.

- We all blood-- - I haven't said anything.

- I don't care. - I'm sitting right here.

I'm not going here with your wife tonight.

Nope. Not doing this.

Nope.

You know what? You know what?

Toni's not here and I'm next in mother(bleep) line.

I'm next in line that I have to make sure

our sisterhood and our familyhood could be together.

Enough is enough.

Both y'all trying to go blows with each other.

Tha-That's stupid.

Tamar, sometimes just be quiet.

I need you to just be quiet right now.

- But if I'm asked to-- - I want you to be quiet ri--

I want you and Trina to be (bleep) quiet right now.

I want y'all to be quiet right now.

- Traci, Traci, Traci-- - I'm--Okay, it's okay.

Traci, hold up.

It wasn't an attack to anybody.

I wasn't trying to attack nobody.

I di-I didn't say Tamar.

I don't think it's just about a piece of chicken.

It can't be just about a piece of chicken.

I didn't say you, Tamar.

That's all I'm saying. Where did Traci go?

What happened? Like, what did I say?

I'm-I-I don't...

You asked me for my opinion.

So when I give it to you, I'm being shady?

And now I'm gonna be on snap

because you know, I ain't (bleep)

'cause somebody watch my baby while I work?

Like, come on. Like, really?

You guys weren't even in the car

when she was like...

"Bar Chix is (bleep) expensive.

- "I can't afford--" - She said that to you?

Yes, she did.

And the she mentioned it again at the table.

As a sister who go to your restaurant,

spend her money at your restaurant,

I spent $300 the other day.

I'm a consumer.

I'm telling you what we want.

- Don't do that. Don't go there. - She did say that.

Tamar's comments about Bar Chix

was very, very, very, very disparaging

and very negative

and not very constructive at all.

I think we should go because...

if the wrong thing is said to me...

I pour all my money, all my energy into my business.

And that's what I live on.

Where does that come from?

And why would I try to (bleep) on my sister

on national TV?

Where is Traci?

I've reached my breaking point with Tamar.

First of all,

can't put people's business down.

I wasn't putting her business down.

- Well, that's what it was. - Why?

I just lost it.

- My side door is open. - I want the door open

'cause you're in my face.

You're in my face.

Like-Like I'm gonna do something to my sister.

Well, that's how you're approaching me.

Really? Like I'mma do something to my sister?

You know the (bleep) you done in life.

What? What have I done in life?

You don't know what you done in life?

- No, what happened? - You don't...

You don't know what you've done in life, Tamar?

You really don't know what you done in life?

No, what have I done in life?

You're conniving.

You're a liar.

Yes, it is a "wow."

What did I lie about?

Oh, you don't know what you lied about?

- No. - Oh, so you ain't lie about my auto-tunes?

I ain't want to go there with you,

but you want to go there.

Tamar publicly humiliated me on social media.

When my first album came out two years ago,

- my album came out on Toni's birthday. - Mm-hmm.

And I was paying homage to her.

I ain't never released no daggone album before.

People were, you know,

telling Traci that she sounded great

and that she loved your song...

"You're gonna win a Grammy."

And Tamar made a statement,

"Is there a category for...

- "Duet with auto-tune?" - Auto-tunes.

So she posted it and then deleted it.

But she posted it.

And you know how people are, they catch it.

Anything negative, they're going to catch.

You wanna put stuff on social media.

You can do things-- No, I didn't.

- I put something positive about my sister. - No, you didn't.

- What'd I do, Tamar? - Toni won those Grammys five years ago, Traci.

We don't need to talk about what happened

four (bleep) years ago.

And if that's an issue that Traci has,

guess what?

I care about it, but that's not my issue.

What'd I do? My album came out

on the same day as Toni's birthday.

- I asked her-- - I'm not gonna hold that against you.

And she said, "Okay."

It was a trigger when she said

that she ain't never do nothing to me.

So I was like, "What do you mean?"

- You put your album out-- - Traci, I don't have control about that.

- Yes, you do, Tamar. - What do you think, I'm a record label?

You think I own the-- You think I own Epic Records?

I know the business, you know the business.

Really, Tamar? Really?

- Where's Vince at? - I don't care about what Vince has to say.

Who cares what the (bleep) Vince ha--You my sister.

- Let me call Rodney Jerkins. - You my sister.

- Let me call LA Reid. - You my sister!

I don't have any control over when the album comes out!

Let's call LA Reid and you put that on social media.

Let's call LA Reid, you put that on social media.

Let's talk about that on social media.

That's all I've got to say.

I'm not in competition with my sister.

At the end of the day, you my sister.

I'mma ride and die for you.

If I hurt you, I'm sorry for it.

But what I can't have

is Traci demeaning my character

as a woman, as a sister,

as a businessperson

because you know, I pride myself

in being a good person

because you have a choice to be an ass(bleep)

or to be a good person.

And I choose to be a good person.

- What are you talking about? - Why would I do that?

- What're you talking about? - I don't have control over when my album comes out.

I have no control over that.

Are you kidding me?

I'm not Beyoncé yet.

I can't tell people when I'm putting out my (bleep).

Are you serious?

And I'm not-I'm not here to (bleep) on my family.

What are you talking about?

I thought we came here for a food testing.

I can't tell you how I feel about the food

because you asked me?

What are you talking about?

Why-why would I wanna see my sisters fail?

Like, why do you guys think this (bleep) abou--

"I'm a liar and I'm conniving

"and I'm all..."

Wait, wait. What?

- Wh-- - I mean, are these the people

who tellin' the (bleep) press this (bleep)?

'Cause I--People around me don't feel that way.

I-I can't. I'm sorry, Towanda.

I'm not trying to... I'm just in my feelings right now.

It's really hurtful, the things--

You wasn't out here. The things that was said to me

was very hurtful, I'm sorry.

I know there are a lot of emotions going crazy.

I can't. I have to go.

And I'm going home, getting my...

My child that I apparently don't watch.

'Cause how long you been feeling that way?

And I'm gonna get my husband

and I wanna be left alone.

Well, I-I just think there needs to be a conversation.

Tamar is extremely emotional.

I feel terrible that she is hurt.

Having someone tell you to raise your child

is very upsetting.

- We need a family meeting. -I'm aight.

Hey...

You hear me?

I love you. I love all my sisters.

You absolutely right.

What Traci right about? I wanna know.

No, because...

I allowed myself to get so angry

that I brought up the baby

- and I shouldn't have. -You can't.

And Traci was abs-- She's absolutely right with that.

And I can't negate that. I--There's nothing I can say

except I'm sorry and I was wrong.

You gotta apologize because he's innocent.

- You right. Absolutely right. - You can't.

Well, everybody's sensitive because a lot of stuff

- has been unresolved. - Yes.

Here I was, trying to get Traci and Tamar

to settle their differences

about the social media incident.

And now out of nowhere,

Trina and Tamar are having issues.

When things are unresolved, you can't move forward.

You can't move forward for forgiveness

for yourself or anyone else.

If we all didn't bury our feelings inside,

I don't think any of this would ever happen.

We are sisters.

And we may not agree with a lot of different things,

but we got to bring it back together.

Usually, we can count on Toni to bring us all together.

But since she's on tour

I feel I need to come up with a way to fix

this divide between everyone before it gets worse.

Well, let's just love on each other

so I can go home.

I love y'all. See y'all tomorrow.

- Whatever. - Bye. See ya.

I'll walk you guys out.

You hold people to the cross

when you have opened the door--

You and your husband opened that door

because it's all over the tabloids.

I don't know what the (bleep) she talkin' about.

First of all, I was saying, "Stop. Enough is enough."

Come on. Let's not-- We actin'--

We gonna act like that's cool?

First thing I think I will have is a cup of coffee.

-Yes, ma'am. - Thank you so much.

- So two. - Two coffees.

Okay, all right.

Toni's kids are incredible.

When she was on tour, I watched the boys.

But now she's back.

I'm enjoying myself in Atlanta.

- Oh, look. Everything look delicious. - Oh, these look great.

I'm exhausted after the big blow up

at my house with Tamar last night.

But I wanna get my mind off of that

and back to something positive.

I wanna have a talk with my mom

and share the pop-up idea for Bar Chix.

Look, I'm not about to tell Mommy

about everything that happened because frankly,

we are grown women

and we should be able to handle this on our own

without involving Mommy in it and stressing her out.

It's a cute little spot.

It is a nice little spot.

I just find myself always looking at spots

- whenever we go places. - Yeah. It's great.

You know, speaking of which, you know, I'm trying to do

a pop-up location for Bar Chix.

- Oh, really? - Yes, ma'am.

In looking for another location what I'm doing is, um,

just checking out different areas,

checking out different ideas and trying to see

who my customer would be over here or over here.

I wanna just try out some new locations and...

And see how well it's received

- in different areas. - Okay.

I really want to talk to her

about this pop-up shop idea

and get her ideas and kinda bounce off of her

the things that she thinks I should and shouldn't do.

What areas are you checking out?

Um, I'm looking in Suwanee

and I'm looking in Atlanta.

Mmm!

Atlanta.

- You think Atlanta too, huh? - I think Atlanta.

Towanda saying the same thing.

- Who? - Towanda.

Oh, my God. Yes.

Atlanta is booming.

It's not that I'm against Atlanta,

I just know the expense of Atlanta.

And if I want to go all out,

I really have to crunch my numbers

and see what the best thing is for Bar Chix.

I went to a financial advisor.

- And... He was saying-- - Great.

That I should wait two or three years--

Oh, no.

- Oh, no. - Right? Before I open up

another location.

And it was disappointing.

But, um...

I see what he-- I see where he's coming from

- since it's only been year one. - Right.

The financial planner said I need to stop "spending."

I don't think I-- I don't think I spend like that, though.

I'm a pretty--I'm a pretty conservative spender.

What does he mean?

You know, he was just telling me to be careful

because sometimes these costs can add up.

And sometimes we have some unforeseen circumstances

that end up costing even more money.

- Things pop up. - Right.

You know?

And you're not looking for that.

- What you call "life." - Right.

You know, things happen, as they say.

But I think you need to hit it while it's hot.

- Right. - I think three years is too long.

You know? 'Cause who knows?

Three years, what?

- Three years? - Uh-uh. Uh-uh.

Uh-uh. Uh-huh.

So you think the pop-up is a good idea?

I think the pop-up is an excellent idea.

- Excellent. - Yeah.

I think you should try the pop-up first

- and then work from there. - Yes, ma'am.

I know I need to be smart about my money and expenses.

But I also feel I need to be

bold, positive, and confident about Bar Chix.

I think I should get the ball rolling on the pop-up

and scout out a couple of locations.

Whatever works for you--

- Okay. - And your business.

It's about being successful.

- Do it. - Yeah.

I asked Traci and Tamar to stay in Atlanta for another day

because I just think that it's extremely important

for Traci and Trina and Tamar

to get together and talk things out.

I have enough drama in my life right now with this divorce

and the last thing I need is for my sisters

to have discord amongst each other.

I mean, why?

Guys, I want everybody to come together

because I don't care what's going on

between the sisterhood, but I need all of my sisters

to put whatever it is aside.

And I just need my sisters--

-Focus on you. - Focus on me.

Mommy told me that it's okay for me to be selfish.

I need my sisters 100%. Not--I don't nee--

I don't want the 90% of my sisters,

I want 100% of my sisters.

I thought last night was about us getting together

and enjoying the food, you know?

And then with all this fighting,

I got upset 'cause I'm like,

"Come on, guys, this is supposed to have been fun."

This wasn't supposed to have been arguments or anything like that,

it was supposed to have been fun and it went...

Totally left.

I definitely got into my feelings

because Bar Chix, that's how I make my money now.

And I-I feel like it was being disparaged.

And that really... It rubbed me the wrong way.

And I do want to apologize to you, Tamar,

because I feel like I hit you below the belt

when I was talking about your parenting.

And I apologize for that

'cause that was definitely below the belt.

I did some soul-searching. I was like,

"You know, Trina, you were-- You were wrong for that."

So I apologize from the bottom of my heart.

I don't have to run down my childcare to somebody

who don't check on me.

Because if you was worried about my parenting skills,

why you ain't come up in here

and make sure my son was all right?

Oh...

There's nothing more I can say about it.

I think Tamar's silence is very selfish.

It wasn't hard for me to apologize.

But when I saw the lack of sincerity

in you even wanting to receive it,

then that made me want to recant.

That made me be, like, "Wait, wait, wait, wait.

"We're here to reach some resolve

"but it feels like you want to hold on

"to whatever it is that you're holding on to

"instead of reaching that resolve."

I was coming to you guys because you know,

I trust-I trust your opinions.

But that doesn't mean that I have to accept it.

- But I still appreciate it. - Well then you shouldn't ask.

'Cause when you ask for people's opinion,

you open the floor for...

The truth. And the honesty should not offend you.

And I don't know, maybe I'm a different person

but I appreciate when people tell me the honest to God truth.

To you, you might feel like you're being truthful.

But it's the truth according to you.

Well then maybe you're the kind of person who shouldn't ask.

You're the kind of person who just don't ask

and do what you wanna do.

And that's okay too.

But that's not really fair

for you to get upset and then offend the person

and then tear down they, you know, motherhood

and, you know, relationships and all that stuff that goes--

Tamar, you can't make a comment like that

when you talk about, you know, bringing people's

relationships into things, "blah blah blah,"

because you really have been that kind of person.

I feel like at the end of the day,

you know, I haven't said anything that you didn't say.

I don't know what the (bleep) she talkin' about.

I ain't never spilled nobody's tea.

That's not my thing. I am a vault, okay?

And all of my friends and frenemies

will tell you that.

Because there are things that I have not said

that I could have said that I can still say

that I will not say, okay?

You hold people to the cross when you have opened the door

and they tell you what they feel

because you have allowed that?

You know, I just feel like that's not really that fair

for you to react in that way.

Talk about opening a door? You and your husband

opened that door because it's all over the tabloids.

Well, it's all over the tabloids basically

because, you know, from the information that I got,

it's one of my sisters did it.

I've never--What?

- Wow... - One of your sisters did what?

Yesterday really hurt me 'cause...

No one knew about it.

I feel like something happened. Just tell me.

Well, maybe like a week before I went to Atlanta,

I found out I was, uh...

opened that door because it's all over the tabloids. You and your husband ab?

Well, it's all over the tabloids basically

because, you know, from the information that I got,

it's one of my sisters did it.

I've never--What?

- Wow... - One of your sisters did what?

I definitely heard through the grapevine

because Atlanta is...

That small,

that one of my sisters in particular

has been talking about my business.

We don't hang out like that.

We haven't.

So you don't even know what's going on in Tamar Land.

I heard about it.

So did I.

And you know where I heard about it too?

At your house yesterday.

You know, let me just tell you something.

That's what people do, you know what I mean?

Girlfriends, that's what they do.

We talk about people man,

they husbands, they relationships.

What I don't feel like is ever fair

is when you attack someone's motherhood.

As a mother in general,

we all battle mommy guilt.

And what you don't want-- Especially somebody

who is your blood or in your sisterhood

to make you feel like you're judged on your motherhood.

You know? And at the end of the day,

I just feel like it's a little selfish

and a little hurtful

that you would even think to go there.

- Tamar, let me ask you a question-- - Like that's nothin--

No, I don't want you to ask me a question.

- But I-- - I don't want you asking me a question

'cause I'm not prepared for it.

And I just feel like that's being an adult.

I know this is gonna sound real selfish.

I want my feelings right now

to matter more than anybody else's at this point

because of what I'm going through.

I feel like I am here for you.

A divorce is hard in any right, you know?

I just feel like I'm going through

my own personal hell.

I'm not trying to take away from your moment.

But I can't help anybody else

because I'm going through so much.

That statement yesterday really...

As a mother, I go through a lot of mommy guilt.

That statement yesterday really hurt me 'cause...

Listen, I went to do IVF

and I lost-- Just my daughter.

Vince and I have been trying to have another child.

IVF is a really tricky thing.

And I've been going through the process

for like two months.

It's a lot emotionally, financially, on your body

just to play Russian roulette basically.

But it's all the same.

Whether you end up with a baby or not,

whether the baby took or not, it's still a loss.

And that was just really hard for me to hear

that I'm just a really (bleep) mother.

I just feel like I've been going through so much loss this year.

But you didn't even tell-- We didn't even know about that.

I didn't have an opportunity to.

I've been in this puddle of loss--

- When did that happen? - 'Cause I lost my job,

and I felt like I lost a whole bunch of friends.

And my record didn't come out, I lost my tour.

Then I try to have a baby and I lose my baby.

And I'm not trying to make you feel bad

and maybe I'm just emotional

because of what I'm going through.

- But it was just a... - Your hormones is going crazy.

- It's a lot. - You lose a baby? Believe me.

-What I'm sayin-- - It's just a lot.

And I'm sorry, Towanda.

I know you going through a divorce.

I been through one. It-it is hard. You right.

And every divorce is different.

But I'm just in my own personal...

-Well, Tamar-- - Hell of a bull(bleep) life right now.

Let me tell you another part of it. Let me tell you.

How can we be there for you

if we don't know?

Tamar did not divulge her pregnancy.

No one knew. No one knew about it.

So how-how can you put yourself

in a position of empathy for someone

when you don't even know what the situation is?

We don't know when, we don't know how,

we don't know all of that information

of the details of you losing that.

- Means that we potentially-- - I didn't know I was gonna be

called a bad mother over some damn chicken.

- It doesn't matter. - I didn't call you a bad mother.

You did. You said, "You need to go home

- "and watch your child." - I did say that.

But I didn't call you a bad mother.

My truth doesn't mean anything.

It's always "your truth," Tamar.

You're right, I shouldn't make it about me.

Guys, hello? Hello? Let me just say this--

Forget about the baby I lost, forget about my job.

When it comes to me, I gotta eat my feelings.

It's, "Oh, you too much in your feelings.

"I ain't do this." Or, "You all right. Blah blah blah."

It's-it's-it's-it's cool.

Tamar, come on now. You know your ego is so high,

why would we have to check up on you?

Guys, I didn't bring everybody here for this.

My ego is so high that I don't have feelings?

I didn't say feelings.

I don't feel like they being supportive

because they don't give a (bleep).

I mean, I'm just being honest.

If you tell your sisters or your closest friends

that you just had a miscarriage like a week before,

everything else should go out the window.

We talkin' about a life. We ain't talkin' about

no chicken wings.

We ain't talkin' about a tweet.

At the end of the day, hurt is hurt.

We are all going through something.

And just like you want me to support you,

I need you to support me too.

This isn't what I wanted us to rally and sit and talk about.

I didn't want it to turn left once--Yet once again.

I just thought that maybe we could come up

with some type of resolution and move forward.

I don't see it turning left.

I just feel like I was attacked yesterday.

Out the blue.

I've always supported Trina's company.

And to have that type of retaliation is unfair.

I don't feel like what you had to say was supportive.

I don't feel like it was positive.

I felt like it was an attack.

I did feel that way. I did. I absolutely did.

And when I was saying go home and take care of your child--

I do have something to say about it.

You know what?

Mommy is an older woman.

- Ain't she? - Yes, she is.

But sometimes that's a lot on Mommy.

I don't put my child on Mommy.

- I--You said it, I didn't-- - My son has a...

My nanny stays at my mother's house with my child.

Tamar and Trina are...

too emotional right now

to settle any of this.

They're gonna continue to rehash

everything that happened and go nowhere.

- I love you. - I wish the best for you, baby.

I have the best for me. I wish the best for you.

- You know what? - Hallelujah?

- I receive that. Thank you. - Please. Why don't you

get on them knees, get them knees ashy?

- I will. Have a good one. - Hmmm.

I thought you was gonna go to the birthday party.

- You gonna go? - No.

No, you gotta go to your friend's birthday parties.

That's not cool.

If somebody invites you somewhere

you have to go, you gotta be social.

- Okay, come on, buddy. - No.

Come on.

Pick up this thing right here.

Pick it up.

So it's been a very emotional couple of days for me.

So I just need to be at home

with people who understand me

and have my back no matter what.

And that's just my baby Logan and my husband Vince.

You are the only person that he listen to.

He does not listen to his mother.

- - Is that your phone?

No, that's your son on the piano downstairs.

Sometimes it can sound like it's like...

four and five kids in the house

with just one person.

Yeah, I wish I did have four or five kids.

You really want four or five kids?

Listen, I really wish I knew better

when I was popping off, "I don't want no kids."

Or, "I ain't havin' no kids."

Like you really gotta be careful about what you put out there.

You never know.

- Do you want a baby? - Not right now.

Who's gonna watch it? I got things to do, busy...

That sounds--Nannies. There are nannies

But that's why I don't have one.

Just 'cause my sisters was hot in the ass

when they was younger and decided to have kids,

that don't mean that's what I wanna do with my life.

I don't want to be the duck with the kids--

- The duck? - Walkin' behind me.

Yeah, you know how the duck have the baby

and all the doggone chickadees and all that.

I don't want that. That ain't hot.

It's true. Sometimes you can say things, but you don't know.

How you feel today?

- I had a rough morning. - Why?

Because. You know, first of all,

going through IVF is not easy.

You know, like, the mental part.

Trying to stay calm, trying to stay positive

when the stakes are so high.

And the instant weight gain and body change?

That throws you completely off.

But then it's the other side of, like, "Oh, my God.

"It could be." You know?

But then once they do the transfer,

it's a downer again 'cause it's a waiting game.

You know what I mean?

Well I decided to go the IVF route

because I didn't have another choice.

I did go through IVF,

but I never got my embryos implanted.

And Logan was a miracle baby for Vince and I.

And since, you know, we had the kids in the freezer

and they're younger embryos,

and the younger the embryos, the better the chances of them

being completely healthy,

we decided to go that route.

You know what I mean? So it can feel like a downer,

- but it's really not-- - It's a downer, Vince,

because it's a loss, you know?

Like I feel like I was positive

and I feel like I was very sure

and then, like...

it happened and then it didn't happen.

You never know until you know.

You don't know until you're going through it.

And mentally and financially?

It's hard...

when you don't win in the end.

And winning in the end is conceiving a child.

It's-it's hard to talk about her out loud.

- Do you know what I'm saying? - But the positive thing

is that you can try again.

Yeah, but you have to build yourself up mentally

- to try again. - At the end of the day,

it's all up to God

and he knows best for every situation.

Even when we think we know.

It's just-- Right now it feels like

a lot of L's.

And I'm tired of L's.

I need W's all around me.

You're hurt.

- It's definitely a loss. - I'm just really surprised

that my sisters didn't see it that way.

Like it's just...

- No, we don't want-- - I don't want a pity party.

It's just that, I guess when you--

When that happens to you? Really, to be honest,

the only person that's going through it

is the person that's going through it.

I'm a little hurt because I didn't

tell my sisters for a reaction.

Or I didn't tell my sisters to gain sympathy,

I told my sisters because I'm really,

actually going through something

and that, you know, is affecting me.

I don't wanna sit up here and argue about

no damn chicken, m'kay?

All of that is obsolete.

It's about what's going on right now

is that I lost my child.

I just wish, you know, I could just, like,

depend on my sisters more

when it comes to things like that

because they're women too.

No one's perfect.

But at the end of the day, you just...

want a little bit of love and support.

Yeah, especially when

it has everything to do with family

- 'cause it starts there. - Starts and ends there.

Nothing's more important than family.

If one child has transformed me so much

and made me so happy,

what is another child gonna do?

Or then another child on top of that,

or then another child on top of that?

Like, I wanna keep going until I can't do it anymore.

Thanks, Vince, for being my friend.

- Ah, you welcome. - And my rock.

T...

Why your house smell like burned up bacon?

I kinda burned the bacon earlier.

Come on. Shoot.

The tour's done, and I'm finally back home

in Los Angeles for good.

I've invited Tamar over because I wanna know

what's-what's been going on with her.

- You look cute, where you comin' from? - Girlfriend. Girl...

I just got back from Atlanta, child.

Wait a minute. So...

- How's Trina? How's-- - Trina's doing the pop-up shop.

- Is she? Like what kind of pop-up shop? - Mm-hmm.

You know, servin', you know, her best-sellers

from the restaurant.

I thought pop-up places was for clothes.

Now I know.

Now that I know what "pop-up" means,

I was thinking like a Pop-Up Video

on VH1 or something, I don't know.

But I think it's a great thing. I mean, if you could just--

Anything that you can do to get your merchandise

or your product out is a good thing.

So, you know, we went to her house

because she wanted to put some special items on the menu.

She was like, "Come over to a tasting

"at the house" or whatever.

And so, you know, I tasted the food

and she didn't want my response.

Did you taste it? Was it good? I'm sure it was good.

Okay, so here was the thing.

It wasn't nasty.

She had chicken wings.

You know I live for a chicken wing

and I'm very particular about my chicken.

It just tastes like chicken syrup,

you know?

And I just couldn't let that slide.

- Did you tell her that? - I had to, you know?

I feel like something happened.

- Just tell me. - Oh, yeah, girl. Yeah.

Trina got upset with me.

She said, "Go home and raise your child."

Where'd that come from?

- This is the day before the chicken? - Chicken.

No. The chicken.

Chicken. Child.

- What? - Yeah.

I don't know how this happened.

He was only there a couple days.

Toni, I don't know neither.

You know, I didn't tell nobody

because it was very, very new.

- Uh... - Tell me.

Sometimes you just want to not be nice

- and that's what that was. - What? What?

Like, stop.

Guess I'm gonna have to do things by myself

because I don't like being told what I should do.

- I don't like it. - Oh, I'm telling you what you should do?

- What're you changing? - Well... change on the menu? rg

we've already started manipulating the seafood blend.

So you gonna take that off the menu?

- No, not quite. - Okay.

I changed it.

It's been heated up. And it's hot.

- Really? - Yes, ma'am.

You feel a certain kinda way 'cause I changed

- the signature dish? - Um...

There's cream and cheese in it.

And it's like a hot dip and it's really delicious.

Oh, okay.

And the customers have been receiving it very well.

- Really? - Yes, ma'am.

Okay.

Y-It's selling, How about that?

I see it on your face you don't like the fact

- that I changed it. - No, I think it's good.

Totally a business move. I respect that.

To change.

Here, here.

You know, I didn't tell nobody

- because it was very, very new. - Tell me.

Well maybe like a week before I went to Atlanta,

I found out that I was pregnant.

- Congratulations! - Hold on, what happened was--

No. Uh-uh.

You're pregnant.

No. I was.

I'm sorry, Tay.

Yeah.

I was really disappointed

that she didn't tell me, but I understood.

Sometimes it's just between a husband and a wife.

But I was glad that she finally told me

and I could be there and hold her hand

because I'm sure that was a disappointing situation

that happened for her.

And then Trina said

that I push my baby off on Mommy.

And she too old to watch my son

like she watches my child.

Okay.

I don't think that Tamar

necessarily pushes Logan on Mommy,

but I do think there's some unresolved conversations

that maybe Trina's had with herself

about Tamar's parenting.

And she should discuss it with Tamar and say,

"Look, this is what I think as a sister,"

and be honest.

So it was like, a whole lot.

Between the thought of how horrible of a mother

she thought I was...

Sometimes Trina blurt off like that.

- Maybe-- - 'Cause sometimes you just wanna not be nice.

And that's what that was.

Listen, maybe she going through something too.

You don't throw nobody motherhood in they face.

Like I ain't out here in these streets like that, girl.

I'm out here working. Like, stop.

I ain't turning tricks. And even if I was,

that don't mean I'm a bad mama.

That just means I'm a hoe. But I gotta go.

What? What? How we go there?

I'm gonna invite all the girls over

for a sister meeting to talk about

what happened between them in Atlanta.

And I'm praying that this time it'll be different

and we'll reach a resolution without too much drama.

- I'll call you. - Okay.

Sorry, Tay. Love you.

Well, let's go through here. Through Centennial Park

for other choices for your pop-up.

After sharing with Mom my plans to open up a pop-up shop,

I'm now starting the process of scouting

and I've invited Towanda to come along with me

in Downtown Atlanta since she's been very supportive

and opinionated along the way.

Look how busy it is.

It's always something going on downtown.

But it's always something going on.

I think that the downtown area

is a perfect spot

for the pop-up Bar Chix

because everything is right there, Trina.

It just makes more sense, you know.

Just more traffic right there. People traffic.

Look. This is gonna be the bomb.

Look at this. Look at all this.

Look at all this space, look at all the people.

There are a lot of great choices.

- A lotta different choices. - It is.

I just have to see what makes more sense

financially, that's all.

It's more than just saying, "Ooh, I think

"I'm gonna just pop-up." No, it's not like that.

You gonna have to explain "pop-up" then to me

because the way that I'm thinking about

pop-up locations is there's a pop-up--

"Oh, there's a Bar Chix right here."

Yeah, but do you know much that's gonna have to

go into doing that though, Towanda?

- No. - I have to get signage, I have to get coasters,

I have to get everything the same

as if you were going to Bar Chix.

I can't just half-ass it. I-I can't.

I know there's a lotta work to be done

in terms of researching the costs and permits and staff,

and a host of other things-- And it's stressing me out.

That's why I have to do things by myself,

because I don't like too many opinions.

- Are you irritated? - I am.

- Why? - My eye hurts.

I don't like being told what I should do.

- I don't like it 'cause-- - Oh, I'm telling you

- what you should do? - I feel pressurized.

But Trina, I'm telli-- How am I pressuring you?

'Cause I do. I jus-- I feel pressured. I do.

What am I doing to make you feel pressured though?

"Why don't you do this? Why don't you do that? Why don't you just--"

I don't-I don't want-- No, no, no.

Trina is the most sensitive Braxton sister

and everyone is having their own comments

and advice for her.

And right now, I'm just gonna support her

with everything that she needs.

Listen, I don't want you to think that I'm just like,

really trying to tell you what to do.

I'm just excited for the pop-up

for the Bar Chix, I'm just excited for you.

But you have to think about the fact

that I'm nervous too, though.

So I can't just be so inundated with stuff.

I'm--I have to make sure

it makes sense for me too, though.

I'm just excited for you, though.

- I appreciate it. - I think it's gonna be amazing.

I think it's gonna be amazing too.

But can we get out of this amazing cold?

- My eyes are running-- - You should've dressed better.

- I shoulda told you-- - Towanda, I've gotten thinner

so I'm trying to look thinner.

Well, you look great.

- Look at how pink. - Bar Chix pink!

-Hello? - Ooh, Michael Braxton.

Well, Tamar .

So I'm calling my father because I wanna tell my parents

about the IVF and miscarriage

and I prefer to have this conversation face-to-face.

And so I just really hope

he can clear his calendar

and bring his little yellow behind to LA

to see his baby girl.

What's your plans in the next few days? You busy?

Uh, chillaxing.

Well do you think you could take a break from relaxation

and get your wheelchair and cane ready

and get on a plane to come see you're little young,

vibrant daughter?

You want me to come out there?

If it's not too much trouble. I know you're busy relaxing.

Okay.

But I gotta come out there to see you?

You do.

Must be something serious.

It is.

I feel like there's an abyss between us.

I don't know y'all anymore.

I'm too short. I can't reach 'em.

I've invited all the girls to talk about the events

that recently happened in Atlanta.

And my goal is for all of us

to come to some resolution

so we can move on as a family.

But this could all backfire,

and go completely off the rails.

Tamar and I are in a not so good place right now.

We didn't resolve anything the last time we met,

and haven't talked since our meeting at Boogalou's.

I'm frustrated, and I already apologized

so I don't really know what else to say.

So what happened in Atlanta?

Everything got torn down because of what?

No one's gonna tell me?

Well...

It all started...

Trina was feeling that she was being judged

- on her... - On what?

Her, um, restaurant ability skills.

- Did you feel that, Trin? - I did.

-By who? - By Tamar.

-Basically. - You were calling me stubborn

because I didn't serve French fries.

Did they really have World War III

over French fries?

Okay, there has to be some underlying issue

that we need to get to.

This cannot be about freakin' French fries.

I mean when I said it, I honest to God realized

in that moment that, "Damn, my sister stubborn."

Like, I never thought that about you.

I always thought that about Toni.

Toni's very stubborn.

That is kinda stubborn, you ain't gonna do french fries.

- "People like french fries." - Traci, it doesn't matter.

I don't know how me calling you stubborn

turned into me being a bad mother.

- No, I didn't call you a b-- - You did.

"Go home and take care of your child."

Come on, let's not-- We actin--

We gonna act like that's cool?

If I felt like I wasn't able

to raise my child

in a healthy environment?

Then... I would change my situation.

But at the end of the day,

I-I swear on everything that I love and own--

Which is a lot, hallelujah--

I don't need anybody to co-sign my life.

I got up twice. First of all, I was saying,

- "Stop. Enough is enough." - I remember that.

That wasn't warranted for Trina to say

"Go home and take care of your child."

- And I told Trina. -Yes, she did.

I didn't know that you said that to her.

I was feeling both y'all. How both y'all was feeling.

I'm gonna start with the fact that I get very defensive.

I want my business to thrive so bad,

that when I felt like it was attacked,

that I went on "10." And you know what?

And I said to you from beginning, I said--

- See? This doesn't help. - Because that wasn't even--

- I'll wait. - The kids wasn't even in the story about chicken.

We was talking about chicken.

And had you said, "Your chicken ain't (bleep),

then that's different--

But don't say, "Go home and take care of your child"

- when we talkin' about chicken. - I'll wait.

How did chicken turn into children?