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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,020 And look, I've been coaching men for well over a decade, from special forces 2 00:00:05,020 --> 00:00:07,000 some of the greatest rock bands in the world. 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,200 And what I've learned is confidence is not something you're going to think your 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:14,840 way to. It is something you have to build with action. 5 00:00:15,140 --> 00:00:19,580 So today I'm going to talk to you about ways to actually build your confidence. 6 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,400 And it's not going to happen through affirmations, right? We're going to have 7 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:25,100 get out into the real world and make things happen. 8 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:31,040 one of the things in the context what we're dealing with right now is women 9 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:37,720 women don't really care as much what you say all they care about is how you make 10 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:42,900 them feel and one of the biggest attraction markers for women when it 11 00:00:42,900 --> 00:00:49,800 an energy exchange is is he confident is he sure of himself has he been here 12 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:56,250 before does he know how this game this interaction works And let's be honest, a 13 00:00:56,250 --> 00:01:00,350 lot of guys know, right? We just haven't had the reps. We haven't been to 14 00:01:00,350 --> 00:01:02,950 batting cage and not to really get that good swing down. 15 00:01:03,230 --> 00:01:06,490 So you have to go get your at bats, right? 16 00:01:06,770 --> 00:01:11,770 With that energy exchange, you have to give her this presence of one of the 17 00:01:11,770 --> 00:01:13,630 things women need the most, which is safety and security. 18 00:01:13,870 --> 00:01:19,310 She has to feel what you're saying to her. And all this comes from a grounded 19 00:01:19,310 --> 00:01:20,430 place of. 20 00:01:20,990 --> 00:01:23,510 confidence. So here's what I'm going to give you today, guys. 21 00:01:23,750 --> 00:01:28,250 Your challenge today is to go play the compliment game. 22 00:01:28,870 --> 00:01:32,510 A lot of guys that I work with do have a hard time approaching women. They have 23 00:01:32,510 --> 00:01:36,970 a hard time having conversations with women. So what I want to do today is I 24 00:01:36,970 --> 00:01:38,910 just want to get you used to having conversations. 25 00:01:39,330 --> 00:01:42,890 I want to get you used to just having conversations, going up and talking to 26 00:01:42,890 --> 00:01:46,490 somebody and saying, this is who I am. Just want to come say, hey. 27 00:01:46,890 --> 00:01:49,270 So here's how the compliment challenge works. 28 00:01:49,730 --> 00:01:55,450 I want you to just find the next five people you interact with and just pay 29 00:01:55,450 --> 00:01:56,450 a compliment. 30 00:01:56,750 --> 00:01:58,470 Here's the caveat to this. 31 00:01:58,710 --> 00:02:01,850 I don't want you to compliment something about their physical attractiveness. 32 00:02:02,310 --> 00:02:05,450 I want you to think outside the box here because here's the magic. 33 00:02:05,790 --> 00:02:10,550 Think about either a decision they had to make or something that they had to 34 00:02:10,550 --> 00:02:13,890 actually think about. It could be something they're wearing. It could 35 00:02:14,170 --> 00:02:16,130 You know, maybe she's got a purple stripe in her hair. 36 00:02:16,790 --> 00:02:20,650 Maybe she's got like, maybe she's got some decorated Chuck keys on. 37 00:02:21,150 --> 00:02:23,630 Maybe she's got like a Van Halen t -shirt on. 38 00:02:24,190 --> 00:02:28,890 Maybe she just got some great energy, which by the way, leads me into my 39 00:02:28,890 --> 00:02:30,370 one hack here. 40 00:02:30,850 --> 00:02:36,650 If you ever don't know what to say to a girl, just say, wow, you have amazing 41 00:02:36,650 --> 00:02:38,710 energy. Watch what happens. 42 00:02:39,130 --> 00:02:43,410 Guys, it's something in the way that women receive that compliment. I promise 43 00:02:43,410 --> 00:02:45,110 you, it lands and it works. 44 00:02:45,570 --> 00:02:49,130 But you're having, like, you're just going up to somebody and just giving 45 00:02:49,130 --> 00:02:54,570 compliment. And here's what I also want to remember. This is a non -outcome 46 00:02:54,570 --> 00:02:55,650 -based compliment. 47 00:02:56,590 --> 00:03:00,770 I don't want you thinking I have to give this compliment and get something in 48 00:03:00,770 --> 00:03:06,350 return. No, the point of this challenge is to just go be a good human. Go change 49 00:03:06,350 --> 00:03:07,670 five people's day. 50 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:12,680 And watch the energy exchange that happens. Watch what happens when you 51 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,180 outcome off of the conversation. 52 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:18,040 Just go pay a compliment and watch how that other person reacts. 53 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,920 Also, watch how much easier it gets for you. 54 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,760 When you're not trying to land the number, trying to land the date, and 55 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,860 not trying to get something out of that person, all you're doing is trying to be 56 00:03:29,860 --> 00:03:32,220 a good human and just go be a good guy. 57 00:03:32,780 --> 00:03:37,640 When that's your sole goal, that interaction becomes a lot easier. 58 00:03:38,110 --> 00:03:39,110 And here's what I want you to do. 59 00:03:39,570 --> 00:03:42,850 I want you to go find five people today to go do that too. 60 00:03:43,310 --> 00:03:45,390 Then I want you to make that a daily habit. 61 00:03:45,630 --> 00:03:48,810 That's just something deeply ingrained. It kind of weirds my girlfriend out 62 00:03:48,810 --> 00:03:50,410 because I do it so much. 63 00:03:50,610 --> 00:03:53,250 But it's become a daily ingrained habit in who I am right now. 64 00:03:54,010 --> 00:03:57,130 I just pay compliments everywhere I go. Hey, bro, look at your shoes, man. 65 00:03:57,450 --> 00:03:59,890 Like, bro, how can I get in the gym like you? 66 00:04:00,270 --> 00:04:03,910 Or, wow, this coffee is absolutely amazing. Did you make this? 67 00:04:04,990 --> 00:04:06,770 Something as simple as that. 68 00:04:07,420 --> 00:04:11,620 is what it's all about so that's your challenge today guys go have as many of 69 00:04:11,620 --> 00:04:15,660 those compliment challenge games as possible i want to talk to you in the 70 00:04:15,660 --> 00:04:19,300 upcoming videos about what to do after that but i want you to get really good 71 00:04:19,300 --> 00:04:23,040 this the number one thing that i hear in feedback from guys doing this challenge 72 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:29,580 is people aren't so scary are they like no they're human just like you i promise 73 00:04:29,580 --> 00:04:32,960 you the people you're talking to are probably just as insecure and scary as 74 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:38,960 are Go just pay compliments, be a good human and watch how that changes your 75 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,700 confidence level and approaching people moving forward. Because guys, we're 76 00:04:42,700 --> 00:04:46,360 building confidence through action, not through just thinking about it. So guys, 77 00:04:46,460 --> 00:04:48,620 that's what I have for you today. That's today's video. 78 00:04:48,860 --> 00:04:51,720 I'm going to see you tomorrow where we're going to talk about a little bit 79 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:53,680 of the growth mindset and how to reframe things. 80 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:58,020 And that's just going to build upon what we're doing today. So make sure you 81 00:04:58,020 --> 00:04:59,180 take action today, guys. 82 00:04:59,620 --> 00:05:01,780 Also, host in the community. 83 00:05:02,280 --> 00:05:06,260 Give us feedback how this challenge went. Let us know what happened when you 84 00:05:06,260 --> 00:05:09,040 started paying confidence to people and what happened in those interactions. 85 00:05:09,340 --> 00:05:11,860 All right, guys, that's it. I'm Robbie, and I'll see you tomorrow. 8092