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My darling Doreen, as I stand here
tonight welcoming our friends and
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it's an opportunity for me to confess
publicly.
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Oh, baby.
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It's you, baby, and you alone.
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Let's go through this world together in
love. You look unbelievable.
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You look radiant. You look gracious.
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Jagger, what do you think, son? Yes or
no? What do you think? Yes? I can
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the world with just one hand.
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As long as you're holding the other one.
I love you, baby.
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PK, you bring a lot of color and purpose
to my life. A life that is seemingly
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impossible to live if you weren't by my
side. My husband!
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I was just thinking about my husband!
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To the man of my life, to the king of my
dreams and the mate.
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We renewed our vow that a dress I would
expect you to wear. We got it right the
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first time around. I don't want to,
like, tempt fate.
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I can't stand the fact I wasn't there
then.
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I'm okay, I'm okay.
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We had a really difficult year. He was
spending a lot of time in London and it
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was the year that I needed him the most.
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You have been through a really traumatic
thing and also you have a lot of fear
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in you that isn't rational.
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And there are also elements that I don't
consider are PTSD.
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I consider they're more obnoxious. I
started to feel like, is it possible if
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can I would not make it?
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When I first met Dorit, she was not
quite as high maintenance as she is now.
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Do you think he still wants to be
married to you?
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No.
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I don't.
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I know this.
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If I have to go to war, I will go to
war.
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Once you get to that headspace, it's not
going to be easy to pull me back.
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You've got to get out.
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Storm, why do you smell gutting? What
did you get into?
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Storm, let me wash the sofa!
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Your total for this is $37 ,000.
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I hope that wasn't too much of a shock.
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I'm not going to have to hook on Sunset.
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Hi, sweetheart. I wanted to invite you
to dinner.
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I thought it'd be nice to have you and
Eric and Jerique. Oh, I love that. Are
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those puka shells or pearls?
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No, these are diamonds, baby.
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Oh, wow.
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Thank you.
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Didn't you say she'd cut the t -shirts?
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Well, this was easier.
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I'll bet.
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Okay, look, I have a bar assortment.
Wow.
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You must be prepared for... Oh.
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I have ulterior motive for asking you
over.
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What do you want? Well, I wanted to see
if maybe you would come with me to
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Augusta and meet my mother.
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And I thought it would be fun to, like,
show you Augusta, like, where I grew up.
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I would love to see that. I'm a little
nervous about your mom, but other than
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that, I'm really good. Now, listen, I
love my mother. Of course. But she's
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difficult. My mother and I have found
ourselves in sort of a bad place for the
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past ten years.
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My mom still really likes Christian, but
I don't know if she really likes me.
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I don't feel like I've ever made her
proud or happy.
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As a daughter.
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I have been resentful about my mother's
praise on Christian, even after we were
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divorced. Oh, did you see Christian did
this in the Wall Street Journal or the
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New York Times? And I'm like, yeah, but
did you remember my store that's so
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beautiful in West Hollywood?
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Give me some praise.
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We need backup.
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Let's ask how else you can do it. Yeah.
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Yeah. Where are you?
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In bed.
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Oh, I'm so jealous.
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We're sitting here chit -chatting. I am
going to Augusta to see my mother.
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And thought maybe you might want to join
us.
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You want me to come too?
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Yeah. Have you met Reba?
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No. You have not met Reba. Yeah,
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we can hang out on my porch.
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No, this is real personal. It's a
personal visit.
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And I really would like to get to a
place with my mother where I don't feel
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awkward around her. Garcelle and Kyle
are the perfect women to take with me on
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this trip. Because their mothers have
passed, they inspire me to do this.
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Turning 82.
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And I don't want to have any lost years
with my mother feeling this way. You
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want to be gentle, too. She is 82.
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Okay.
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Wait until you meet her. She does not
need to be treated with kid gloves. I'm
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just going to warn you.
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She's not giving people life.
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She is not.
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People. We best get to work helping some
psychologists.
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All kinds of love.
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Oh, I think that's both.
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Oh, my darling. Hello. We're matching.
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Look at that. We're matching. Hi, baby.
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You always get your vision.
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Oh, girl. What do you want to drink,
baby? I want some water. Water. Okay, so
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this is Winnie. Yep, that's Winnie. And
the other one is?
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Pumpkin. We had so much fun at the
beach. So much fun.
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Boze is making a wish.
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Oh!
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But the way she came in, it was like so
abruptly.
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She just shut me down. This morning,
Jagger, he's like, are you and daddy
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divorced? I'm sorry. I hate to
interrupt. I'm so sorry.
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I think we need to get going because it
does take us a while to get out there.
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Did you call PK? Did you tell him? Well,
Jagger had said. Yes.
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I sent him a long text. I said, I know
you're coming back from London soon, and
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I think it's really a good idea for us
to get to a more friendly place, you
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know, for the kids. It'll be easier for
them. Never heard back from him.
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So the day later, I write back.
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Really, PK? No response?
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Oh, Lord.
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He writes back.
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I'm at a friend's wedding.
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Have a nice day.
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Girl, ain't no way.
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When did I become the enemy?
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I haven't heard a single word from TK
since he stormed out of the office when
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were in therapy and screamed that he
wanted a divorce.
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My concern, as has been, is, like, just
be prepared.
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Yeah. His return from London, it could
go left.
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It could go right.
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If he comes this week. In service
papers.
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Girl. I know. What happens?
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That's all I think about all the time.
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Coming up... You can thank God that I
came into your life. Baby, I thank God
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every day. You do?
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Even if I didn't, I would say that
anyway.
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I'm so excited for this dinner.
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Oh, babe, you're going to love this
spot.
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Really? Yup.
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Thank you.
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Thank you, babe. Thank you.
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All right. I love it. It's beautiful.
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You care for something to drink besides
water?
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We're going to do champagne.
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I'm glad to be here with you. It just
seems like I haven't seen you in so
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Cheers. Enjoy. Thank you so much.
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What are we talking to?
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It's up to you.
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To us.
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Okay. Learning more about each other and
your beautiful smile. Thank you, baby.
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Cheers. Trying to find somebody that you
connect with in L .A. in your late 40s,
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damn near impossible.
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So I really appreciate my relationship
with Keely. We are in our love bubble.
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Everything is fantastic.
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We are definitely goo -ga -ga.
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What are we thinking for food?
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I would like the petite filet.
Excellent.
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Do the center cut, filet, medium plus.
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Thank you very much.
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You and I.
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me to have some conversations.
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It feels like we're hurtling some things
if we go all the way to, like,
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fertility.
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At what point would you feel like I was
wasting your time?
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Because I'm not going to say I'm not
going to waste your time. I'm not saying
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that.
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Do you feel like there's a timeline?
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Like, hey.
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What? Really?
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Hmm. Yes, of course there's a timeline.
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I mean, I'm 47.
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Where are the eggs?
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They're getting older, and babies don't
grow on trees.
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You've got to get it moving.
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Well, let me answer it this way.
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You know, if I want to carry a baby
myself, I don't have a lot of time to do
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that.
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And then I don't want to be out of
wedlock.
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I mean, we're on the same page. Okay,
marriage, of course, first. You know, I
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think you are an incredible woman.
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I love the fact you're not pressuring me
into anything.
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It's allowing me to move at my own pace,
okay? Yeah. And that's really important
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with me.
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Keely and I's definition of urgency
might be different. His right now might
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several months behind my right now. But
regardless, I know that we want a future
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together, and so I believe in that. And
that's what I'm waiting for.
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The future.
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Together.
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How are you feeling? about us at this
stage. I'm grateful I had an opportunity
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to experience you.
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You better be. You're welcome.
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I set myself up for that one. That's all
good, baby.
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You can thank God that I came into your
life. Baby, I thank God every day. You
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do?
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All right, there you go. You thank God
every day?
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Even if I didn't, I would say that
anyway.
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Hey, there you are. Oh, look at you, all
decked out.
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Armied out. If you're going to get a
license and you want to protect
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want you to shoot this .38, because I
think that's a pretty good weapon.
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I think Mo wants me to feel safe holding
a gun should I decide to get a gun and
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use a gun if I had to.
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Let's do it. We're going to set
everything down on table 18.
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Ooh, great table for us. After the
burglary, I was so afraid for so long.
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There was a...
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massive break -in at your house. Tell me
what happened.
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Yeah. Every single piece of jewelry or
handbag you see on this season is gone.
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So, why are you here at the range? I
think it's important to know how to
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yourself in case of an emergency.
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Okay. Slap it in there like it owes you
money.
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Nice and smooth.
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Nice. There you go.
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Where'd it go? Right next to that
bullseye. Right in the bullseye. You're
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great.
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I would like to know that if I had to
defend myself, that I could.
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And if I'm going to, I'm going to be a
bad act.
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I'm going to shoot the .45. This one's
loud.
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Maybe I need two of these.
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That's not bad.
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Wow. That's impressive.
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We're all good, guys? We're done. Thank
you, Joe. Take care.
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So that was fun. Did you like that?
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Yeah, I do like that, actually.
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But, oh, we shouldn't appear it?
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Okay, no.
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Is your condo coming together?
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Yeah, it's pretty together. It's coming,
I mean, it's as together as I'm going
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to get it.
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I mean, I have, I mean, like, my
refrigerator is, you know, got eggs.
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You know what I do is I eat a lot of
soups, like canned soups.
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Canned soups?
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Yeah, just throw them in, little tomato,
whatever.
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How is it living at the house with the
girls?
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I mean, it's quiet sometimes, you know?
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You're, like, in a new place, and it
feels new and different. It's like I'm
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our home.
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Yeah. I'm there with, like, you know,
I'm in a place where everybody was, and
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feels different.
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Yeah. Sorry.
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It's okay.
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I walk around most of my days hiding.
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What a struggle it is.
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It's a very big life adjustment to live
your life a certain way for decades.
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Here we go, everybody.
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Quick test.
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Welcome home.
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It really is grieving the loss of
someone who is still here.
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It's weird sometimes.
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It is.
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It's still really strange for me.
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Coming up.
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I love your grandchildren.
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Very smart kids. They are smart.
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James is kind of weird.
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Good
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morning,
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Christa. Welcome to Seattle. Good
morning. How are you? Good. How are you?
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It's early.
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It's very early.
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Thank you. This is really nice.
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We should be leaving around 5 o 'clock.
Well, we need the other people.
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Yes. Okay. But I'll be back to give a 10
-minute warning call. Beautiful.
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Are you the first one here?
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Yeah. And you... It's not even my
friggin' trip. Oh, my God. Hi. How many
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you pick up today?
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345.
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It's Sutton's track. I thought, we're
going to fly private.
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There's going to be valet waiting for
us. We might even see a manly hand or
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on the plane to massage us while we're
flying.
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Oh!
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But no!
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We took the red eye, commercial.
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I mean, there's no later flight to
Augusta, Georgia.
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Oh, my God, this is crazy. We're
literally on the tarmac.
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All right, ladies, welcome to your
plate.
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Isn't it great?
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Thank you so much. My pleasure.
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Well, not a day goes by that I don't
love where I come from.
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Come on.
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Good girl.
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Let's go get your mommy.
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Welcome. Thank you.
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Augusta, Georgia. Here we are.
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I love this airport because it's very
small.
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June, where are you going?
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Be a lady.
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Hey, hey, don't, do not. I know, hey,
Junebug. No, where are you going?
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Where's the snacks?
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We have snacks at home, Kyle.
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I'm hungry.
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Hello.
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I'm here.
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Avi. Not Junebug, too.
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Hello.
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Welcome to Augusta.
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Vamonos. Right, right. Here you go. Here
you go.
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Ladies, are we ready? We're ready.
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Can't wait to see your outfit.
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Oh, look at that swamp.
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Alligator! I love Augusta, Georgia.
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It's where I grew up, of course. It's
also where I learned the art of ballet.
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It's where all of my childhood friends
are that I still have in my life.
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I'm nervous when anyone meets my mother
for the first time, doesn't matter who
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they are. Especially now, Garcelle and
Kyle, because I've flown them all the
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out to Georgia.
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Please be nice, Mom.
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Are we here?
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Yeah, this way.
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What?
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Oh, my God, this is gorgeous.
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Thank you.
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Holy crap.
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You're such a little girl to be in this
big old house.
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It's not that big. It's like 4 ,500
square feet. No, it's not that big. No.
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I don't expect anything less from
Sutton. The house is opulent and
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There's just a Southern feel to it. You
know, old school, people on their
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porches, having lemonade and waving to
your neighbors. It just feels like that.
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You don't get that in Beverly Hills.
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Everybody's behind a gate.
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Can we see our room? Okay, Garcelle,
I've got you in here.
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It's called the princess room.
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Beautiful.
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Now take me to the queen room.
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You get quarter trim.
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This is so cute and cheery, the colors.
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Do you want to see my room?
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Yes, of course.
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Oh, this is really pretty. Yeah, it's
pretty.
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When did you buy this? I bought it with
Kristen.
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Oh, you did? I did.
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So you got it in the divorce?
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Oh, yeah.
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Son, this is amazing.
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You made it sound like it was a title of
a house. I did not.
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Who is this?
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That is my brother and sister -in -law.
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Do you really want to see some good
ones?
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There's some old pictures of Reba.
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Oh, let me see.
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Hello.
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Hi, Mom.
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Hello, great to see you.
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Thank you. Hi.
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What a pleasure. Thank you. How do you
do? Hi, I'm Garcelle.
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I'm Jim.
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Pleasure to meet you. I'm like all, I
got all squished back over here. Kyle.
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You look very pretty.
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00:20:46,030 --> 00:20:50,010
Thank you. So nice to meet you. Nice to
meet you. I'm Kyle.
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Nice to meet you.
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So what's y 'all's plan?
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We're going to dinner. We don't have a
lot of time.
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Hold up. I'll be right back.
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Oh, this is so pretty here.
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Hope this goes over well.
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It's so pretty.
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Reba, I just bought you a little
present. Oh, goody. What is it? Thank
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Well, you got to open it.
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00:21:13,170 --> 00:21:16,670
Oh, I like to know what it is. Why would
I tell you?
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Why are you laughing?
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Nothing. Is this a trick? No, I would
never do that. Is there a snake in here?
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Not for me.
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A lizard?
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A lizard.
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A scarf?
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Yes.
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You're welcome.
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I took the time. I went to the sack. I
picked out a gift. I had it wrapped.
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I brought it on the commercial flight.
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You could use this as a saloon.
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You could do that, too.
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That's beautiful.
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Maybe I should have pulled a Kyle and
brought nothing.
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I've heard so much about you.
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I've heard so much about you, too.
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Good, I hope. I'm going to see.
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Uh -oh.
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00:22:07,570 --> 00:22:09,670
Okay, I'm going to go into my house and
have a drink.
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00:22:09,910 --> 00:22:10,910
Where's your house?
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Oh, you don't know that?
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No. I live right back there.
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Can I peek in the back yard?
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Yeah.
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Let's go.
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It's so pretty.
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Wow, this is beautiful.
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After Sutton left town, she had to have
someplace to come back to for her,
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Christian, and the children.
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We decided that I should live on the
property as well. I saw this house, and
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said, that is perfect.
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And I love your grandchildren.
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Very smart, very sweet kids. They are
smart.
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James is kind of weird, but smart.
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00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,620
Mom, why would you call James weird?
He's like the cool one.
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I got a weird one, too.
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I probably was referring to Jack.
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You guys, I know, I've seen it.
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Oh, I'm kidding.
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00:23:06,670 --> 00:23:10,070
I mean, am I supposed to say I have a
weird kid, too? I feel like everyone has
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to say that now to make things less
awkward.
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See y 'all later.
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00:23:13,650 --> 00:23:18,930
Bye. She called James weird. And James
is the cool kid in school, by the way. I
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have one, too, and she goes, oh, I know.
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00:23:23,750 --> 00:23:26,250
Cleve has been stalking you on the
ground right now.
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Coming up.
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I am part Chinese, 3000 BC.
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What?
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Javier needs to be set up now, and I
need those candles lit, please.
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00:23:53,550 --> 00:23:55,810
I think two silver and four of those is
fine.
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00:23:56,130 --> 00:23:58,990
No, no, no. We need to do, I need
another, I need two more silver.
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00:23:59,670 --> 00:24:03,750
Hello. Tonight is inspired by my trip to
Capri.
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I love pasta.
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00:24:05,810 --> 00:24:06,970
I love lemon.
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00:24:07,550 --> 00:24:11,330
There are a lot of factors when it comes
to throwing a dinner party.
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00:24:11,550 --> 00:24:16,170
I like to set everything up and have it
look just spot right on.
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00:24:16,470 --> 00:24:18,930
Three minutes. I got that. I need the
ricotta.
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00:24:19,470 --> 00:24:21,790
Okay. It's a lot of effort.
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00:24:23,050 --> 00:24:24,050
Beautiful.
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00:24:30,250 --> 00:24:32,830
Hello. Good evening.
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00:24:33,570 --> 00:24:35,090
Thank you.
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00:24:36,210 --> 00:24:42,530
Thank you. Thank you so much. Thank
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you. My darling.
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This is so beautiful.
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00:24:47,990 --> 00:24:50,590
I have to put this down. Oh, honey.
Because I have to give you a full body
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You know what I'm saying?
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One of those.
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00:24:52,750 --> 00:24:55,450
I don't want to get you dirty. You look
so beautiful.
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00:24:56,330 --> 00:24:57,490
Hello, beauty.
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00:24:57,870 --> 00:24:58,870
Hello.
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00:24:59,050 --> 00:25:00,530
The baddest has showed up.
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00:25:01,950 --> 00:25:04,030
Ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies.
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00:25:04,510 --> 00:25:07,390
Gorgeous. I don't know why. I feel good
tonight. I feel good tonight. You
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entered life. You feel good. I know.
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00:25:09,270 --> 00:25:10,790
And you look good. Thanks.
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00:25:11,150 --> 00:25:13,590
How are you? And you do look good. Oh,
you really are.
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00:25:13,850 --> 00:25:16,710
Beautiful. Yes, the second one. Hey.
Wow, look at that skin.
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00:25:17,310 --> 00:25:18,249
I try.
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00:25:18,250 --> 00:25:23,270
I love it. I could tell you feel good.
Have you caught up with Kyle? I talked
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her, but, you know, she's busy, and I
guess they left today, Sutton and
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Garcelle. They went to Augusta.
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00:25:31,070 --> 00:25:34,470
I didn't even know. And you have the
connection to the South.
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00:25:34,670 --> 00:25:37,830
I just want to know why you weren't
invited. Well, I know. I mean, this is
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what's really... I am from the South.
I'm from, like, 90 miles north.
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00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,840
I don't understand why I'm not invited.
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00:25:48,660 --> 00:25:49,660
Here we go, right here.
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00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,780
Luigi's. Come on back.
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00:25:54,940 --> 00:25:59,400
Luigi's is an establishment in Augusta,
and I've been coming here since I was a
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00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,120
little girl. It's family -owned, I
think, three generations now. Oh, my
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00:26:03,140 --> 00:26:03,979
you guys.
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00:26:03,980 --> 00:26:05,320
The people looked amazing.
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00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:10,020
This is kind of what Augusta is. We all
know each other. We all support each
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00:26:10,020 --> 00:26:11,160
other. We love each other.
440
00:26:12,030 --> 00:26:15,190
I just want to show Kyle and Garcelle
what Augusta is.
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00:26:15,390 --> 00:26:18,730
I love it here. Italian sausage and
sauce sounds amazing.
442
00:26:19,750 --> 00:26:21,070
How are you, ladies? Good, how are you?
443
00:26:21,470 --> 00:26:22,710
Good. Let me get for you a drink.
444
00:26:23,030 --> 00:26:24,130
Non -alcoholic beer?
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00:26:24,410 --> 00:26:25,410
I'll do a pinot.
446
00:26:25,610 --> 00:26:29,570
The house Chianti? House Chianti, yeah.
Can I order the Italian sausage, please?
447
00:26:29,750 --> 00:26:30,449
Yeah, sure.
448
00:26:30,450 --> 00:26:32,450
I'll just get the spanakopita. Do y 'all
like that?
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00:26:32,670 --> 00:26:35,250
I don't know what that is, but this is
whatever. I don't know what it is, but
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00:26:35,250 --> 00:26:39,410
we'll try it. Thank you. You're welcome,
yes. So when Erica and I were getting
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00:26:39,410 --> 00:26:41,780
our IVs, Uh -huh.
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00:26:42,260 --> 00:26:47,600
And I mentioned that we were coming to
Augusta. You know we're going to
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Georgia, right?
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00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,560
Kyle's going, too, by the way. Oh, wow.
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00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,740
But she should bring that to the
sisterhood.
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00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,420
We should know about that.
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00:26:54,780 --> 00:26:56,600
Eric and I are push and pull sometimes.
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00:26:56,940 --> 00:26:57,879
Yeah.
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And this is very emotional for me.
460
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:06,360
And it's why I didn't want, like, all
the girls to talk. Sure, of course.
461
00:27:06,380 --> 00:27:07,380
Because God knows.
462
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,100
No, that's scarier than Reba.
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00:27:19,120 --> 00:27:20,120
Dinner is ready.
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00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,780
How beautiful. Oh my gosh, this is
absolutely beautiful.
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00:27:23,220 --> 00:27:24,220
Good evening, lady.
466
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:25,400
Good evening.
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00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,520
I have French and I got Italian.
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00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,720
I'm not a wine snob, but Italian wine,
even though I'm Italian.
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00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,780
Are you? What part of Italy are you
from? I found out. You're Northern
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Wait, did you do 23andMe or Ancestry
.com? No, when I was in Venice, this
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knew everything and knew I am part
Chinese, 3000 BC.
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00:27:54,510 --> 00:27:55,229
I'm sorry?
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00:27:55,230 --> 00:27:56,230
Come again?
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00:27:56,970 --> 00:27:57,970
What?
475
00:27:58,330 --> 00:27:59,330
No.
476
00:28:00,650 --> 00:28:01,890
No. No.
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00:28:02,790 --> 00:28:04,530
Well, may I raise a glass to Kathy?
478
00:28:04,750 --> 00:28:07,450
Yes. Thank you so much for having us
over.
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00:28:07,790 --> 00:28:09,610
This is much better than Augusta.
480
00:28:10,530 --> 00:28:14,050
Well said. Thank you for having us,
really.
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00:28:14,670 --> 00:28:16,170
So, how are you feeling?
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00:28:17,410 --> 00:28:18,410
Well...
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00:28:19,370 --> 00:28:20,309
The Reba.
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00:28:20,310 --> 00:28:23,270
Yeah, that's what I mean. How are you
feeling about being here?
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00:28:23,570 --> 00:28:25,370
She's my mother. I love her. Of course.
486
00:28:25,670 --> 00:28:26,629
She's tough.
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00:28:26,630 --> 00:28:27,690
She's a tough cookie.
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00:28:27,890 --> 00:28:30,350
People say that we're a lot alike.
Right.
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00:28:31,150 --> 00:28:33,610
And I'm like, I don't see that at all.
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00:28:34,850 --> 00:28:39,810
I'm very much like hard on my sleeve
kind of person. I've always been like
491
00:28:39,970 --> 00:28:42,230
Where my mother, I don't know if she has
feelings.
492
00:28:42,770 --> 00:28:44,270
I've heard so much about you.
493
00:28:44,490 --> 00:28:47,450
I've heard so much about you, too. Good,
I hope. I'm going to see.
494
00:28:47,830 --> 00:28:48,830
Oh, oh.
495
00:28:49,020 --> 00:28:55,320
I've only met a glimpse of Reba, but
seeing her, one, I think she was
496
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,320
really tough on you.
497
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,180
Just because that's who she is. Not that
she was targeting you or anything like
498
00:29:00,180 --> 00:29:01,680
that, but I just think that's her way,
right?
499
00:29:02,300 --> 00:29:09,220
And then I think sometimes I could see
you being like that in a
500
00:29:09,220 --> 00:29:10,220
way.
501
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:12,800
Having just met Reba.
502
00:29:14,060 --> 00:29:15,980
I feel like there's a lot of
similarities.
503
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:17,280
Like, they're both tough.
504
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,640
What you did was ridiculous. Name them.
505
00:29:19,900 --> 00:29:23,040
Well, be quiet. Let me talk, Jesus.
506
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:30,520
No one really wants to inch in to make
amends or say I'm sorry, but I hope they
507
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:31,479
can figure it out.
508
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:36,960
When they're gone, you would do anything
to have one more conversation, to see
509
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:41,320
them one more time, to hug one more
time. You don't want to have regrets.
510
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:48,020
I remember you telling me when you
opened your store that you had a
511
00:29:48,020 --> 00:29:48,899
with your mom.
512
00:29:48,900 --> 00:29:53,800
I spent a lot of money. I spent a lot of
time, all of my heart in this store.
513
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,600
It's important for me for you to take it
seriously.
514
00:29:58,560 --> 00:29:59,560
Okay.
515
00:30:00,300 --> 00:30:01,700
Shall we continue on?
516
00:30:02,700 --> 00:30:06,360
It's just that in that moment, you
needed her.
517
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:07,720
Oh.
518
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:16,260
I was so excited to have her at the
store.
519
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,800
I worked very hard to open that store.
520
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:31,200
And to have my mother come in and not be
supportive or overwhelmed with joy for
521
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,180
me, I deserved better than that.
522
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:37,200
I deserved better than that from my
mother.
523
00:30:42,570 --> 00:30:44,010
It was real hard.
524
00:30:55,830 --> 00:31:00,690
I was so excited to have her at the
door.
525
00:31:07,870 --> 00:31:09,810
It was real hard.
526
00:31:14,250 --> 00:31:15,810
It's just so hurtful.
527
00:31:17,390 --> 00:31:20,650
And she wasn't trying to hurt me.
528
00:31:21,170 --> 00:31:22,790
It's just her way.
529
00:31:23,090 --> 00:31:24,690
So what do you want to do?
530
00:31:25,110 --> 00:31:29,270
I want her to respect me. Maybe that's
what I'm actually looking for, respect.
531
00:31:29,370 --> 00:31:35,190
When Christian and I got divorced, her
first question was, well, who's going to
532
00:31:35,190 --> 00:31:36,190
pay for this?
533
00:31:36,310 --> 00:31:39,630
Like the car, the house, everything.
534
00:31:40,150 --> 00:31:41,430
That was hurtful.
535
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,040
That's a mom making sure you're going to
be okay, that it's not necessarily
536
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:46,960
negative. It was about her.
537
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:48,740
It was about her.
538
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:54,200
She was so nervous in the divorce that I
wasn't going to have enough money to
539
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:55,820
help support her lifestyle.
540
00:31:56,120 --> 00:32:02,580
That was very clear. I learned that I
was raised by a narcissist and I married
541
00:32:02,580 --> 00:32:06,880
narcissist. You feel like she's seen
you? Like the difference between you
542
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,860
Christian's wife, the homemaker, the
mother?
543
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,560
to now being a businesswoman on your
own? Like, do you just want her to
544
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:18,480
acknowledge, like, I see what you're
doing, and I'm proud of you. She's not
545
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:19,480
easy.
546
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:25,540
I think that watching my mother for
years give Christians so much praise.
547
00:32:26,060 --> 00:32:32,120
And meanwhile, I'm raising these
beautiful children, and there's no, good
548
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:37,760
for you. And now, living alone, starting
a business.
549
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,960
I do want her to acknowledge it. It's
important.
550
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,300
It's going to help me move on.
551
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:47,100
I would love to have a conversation with
her.
552
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:48,620
What would you say to Reba?
553
00:32:48,900 --> 00:32:53,400
Pretty much that I've gotten to know you
very well and you've shared some things
554
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:54,400
with me.
555
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:59,060
And, you know, see how we can bridge the
gap a little bit.
556
00:32:59,300 --> 00:33:00,460
And then I'm going to run.
557
00:33:01,460 --> 00:33:05,760
I really appreciate Garcelle's optimism.
558
00:33:06,670 --> 00:33:12,690
But I just don't think meddling in a
relationship that is this complex, when
559
00:33:12,690 --> 00:33:16,750
don't know Reba, is a little
presumptuous.
560
00:33:16,990 --> 00:33:19,470
Can you give me a little heads up before
this happens?
561
00:33:19,750 --> 00:33:22,710
Before she takes the scarf and wins your
neck.
562
00:33:33,420 --> 00:33:36,820
Ladies, I got seedless lemon pasta.
563
00:33:37,780 --> 00:33:39,700
Oh, my goodness.
564
00:33:40,860 --> 00:33:43,340
Where is the fresh sage?
565
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:50,200
I have a question for you, Kathy. I've
been trying to get to know all of the
566
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:55,880
ladies, and you know your sister really
well. And I assume that she's probably
567
00:33:55,880 --> 00:34:01,400
open and friendly and welcoming, but I
haven't found that.
568
00:34:01,820 --> 00:34:02,980
I find her to be cold.
569
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:09,139
I think Kyle has been cold to me because
I immediately connected with Dorit.
570
00:34:09,639 --> 00:34:13,520
I mean, they've been having issues, so
it kind of makes sense. But it's also
571
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,199
very elementary school.
572
00:34:15,420 --> 00:34:16,420
It's really petty.
573
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:21,460
What are your thoughts about where she
is right now? I think it would be really
574
00:34:21,460 --> 00:34:26,360
helpful to understand where she is, sort
of in her own mental state, I guess.
575
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,639
I don't even really know what's going on
in Kyle's life. Does she open up a lot
576
00:34:30,639 --> 00:34:36,440
about... I don't like to push her too
much because that's when she gets, she
577
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:40,739
doesn't like that. Yeah. So I try to be
very careful and not bother her.
578
00:34:41,020 --> 00:34:43,020
Everybody goes through something in
life.
579
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:50,260
And this is traumatic for her, being
married basically your whole
580
00:34:50,260 --> 00:34:56,480
life. I just tread lightly because I
just want to make her feel comfortable.
581
00:35:00,710 --> 00:35:01,710
And,
582
00:35:02,230 --> 00:35:06,970
you know, she's a Capricorn. If you
needed something, she would be there.
583
00:35:09,590 --> 00:35:12,090
How are you doing? You're so beautiful.
Yeah, how are you?
584
00:35:12,990 --> 00:35:14,150
Kathy and Rick Hilton.
585
00:35:15,330 --> 00:35:16,330
So beautiful.
586
00:35:17,230 --> 00:35:18,970
My life's pretty shit right now.
587
00:35:19,390 --> 00:35:22,750
When Pika and I separated, he was my
friend.
588
00:35:23,010 --> 00:35:25,770
I mean, like, we were... Who couldn't
help but love PJ?
589
00:35:28,650 --> 00:35:31,590
PK. PK, PK, PK.
590
00:35:33,610 --> 00:35:38,690
You're one of the few very long -married
couples. What do you attribute to your
591
00:35:38,690 --> 00:35:42,730
longevity? We started out very young. We
grew up together.
592
00:35:42,990 --> 00:35:48,010
We enjoy the same things. We don't have
to be out to dinner with couples every
593
00:35:48,010 --> 00:35:52,790
single... We enjoy being just together.
594
00:35:53,150 --> 00:35:57,670
When PK and I decided to separate, we
had said, we're going to take some time
595
00:35:57,670 --> 00:36:04,310
apart. We're going to work on the
resentments and the issues that we have
596
00:36:04,310 --> 00:36:06,350
have built up over the last few years.
597
00:36:06,850 --> 00:36:09,690
So she always kept everything very close
to the vest.
598
00:36:09,930 --> 00:36:15,570
I was very protective of my husband, of
my family. The way I grew up, you don't,
599
00:36:15,570 --> 00:36:19,130
you know. I get it. Even when I was
going through the worst of the worst, I
600
00:36:19,130 --> 00:36:22,930
through it alone because I didn't want
anyone to think badly of him. I heard
601
00:36:22,930 --> 00:36:24,250
about PK's DUI.
602
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:27,500
Alleged DUI. What do you mean alleged?
603
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:31,420
They never booked him. They never
arrested him. When he got to the
604
00:36:31,420 --> 00:36:34,860
took a breathalyzer and he was under the
lift. Why wouldn't you? You've chosen
605
00:36:34,860 --> 00:36:38,420
to have two children with him. We
understand that. I think he's a very
606
00:36:38,420 --> 00:36:39,440
father. Am I correct?
607
00:36:40,780 --> 00:36:41,780
Wrong.
608
00:36:43,580 --> 00:36:50,380
Well... There are times that I think P
.K. is the
609
00:36:50,380 --> 00:36:54,120
greatest father in the world. But is he
the most hands -on father? The truth is
610
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:55,049
no.
611
00:36:55,050 --> 00:36:59,330
So you're feeling... See, I thought you
were going to say yes.
612
00:37:01,590 --> 00:37:03,090
I would have ordinarily.
613
00:37:04,170 --> 00:37:05,170
Protecting him, I would.
614
00:37:06,210 --> 00:37:11,890
Reality? No. He would disappear and be
gone for weeks and weeks without even
615
00:37:11,890 --> 00:37:13,190
calling the kids.
616
00:37:13,850 --> 00:37:20,690
I worked overtime to put in their heads
that their father was trying to call,
617
00:37:20,790 --> 00:37:23,210
wanted to see them, missed them so much.
618
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:26,600
I've protected him at all costs, no
matter what.
619
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,780
And I don't think she realizes that. How
old is he?
620
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:31,080
56.
621
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,460
You know, when I first met him, I
thought he was 56.
622
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,220
I've known him a long time.
623
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:43,440
But the more I got to know him, I think
that's why I closed my eyes.
624
00:37:43,860 --> 00:37:47,960
No, but now, the more I got to know him,
I feel terrible.
625
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,300
I have nothing to say, okay?
626
00:37:56,660 --> 00:37:59,220
Because black don't crack, so I don't
know nothing about that.
627
00:37:59,420 --> 00:38:01,540
I didn't think he'd be doing what he's
doing now.
628
00:38:01,860 --> 00:38:02,860
Well, what is he doing?
629
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,900
Right. Well, I'm the girl that wants to
know. He just wrote this really angry,
630
00:38:07,300 --> 00:38:08,400
horrible note.
631
00:38:09,100 --> 00:38:13,580
What? What's in it? What did it say?
Just finances, and I'm going to stop
632
00:38:13,580 --> 00:38:16,340
this, and you're going to be liable for
this. Where are we going with this?
633
00:38:16,540 --> 00:38:19,900
Honey, that's a divorce. I thought we
were trying to take a little separation.
634
00:38:19,900 --> 00:38:21,100
Right, that's not a separation.
635
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:23,160
I wake up.
636
00:38:23,370 --> 00:38:30,150
to a seven -page email, and it was a
barrage.
637
00:38:30,150 --> 00:38:32,750
It was predominantly financial.
638
00:38:33,670 --> 00:38:39,770
His expectations were within a month or
two
639
00:38:39,770 --> 00:38:45,230
that I will be responsible for the
mortgage and all the bills associated
640
00:38:45,230 --> 00:38:45,828
the house.
641
00:38:45,830 --> 00:38:47,950
It's like, what the... Get a lawyer.
642
00:38:48,790 --> 00:38:52,050
There was also discussion of...
643
00:38:53,810 --> 00:38:59,830
custody, lawyers, and threat of, if this
doesn't happen,
644
00:38:59,970 --> 00:39:03,890
I will be proceeding with divorce.
645
00:39:04,150 --> 00:39:07,490
He is not a man I recognize at all.
646
00:39:07,830 --> 00:39:13,710
This is what happens when people get a
divorce. The email and the comment about
647
00:39:13,710 --> 00:39:16,090
being a good father or not, the gloves
are off.
648
00:39:16,950 --> 00:39:21,110
Everybody's at their absolute worst, and
that's what's coming out.
649
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,920
I've not seen one woman have a peaceful
divorce unless the guy died.
650
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,860
Can I ask a question and you can hate me
for this? What are you holding on to?
651
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:30,939
What are you doing?
652
00:39:30,940 --> 00:39:33,060
Do you think he still wants to be
married to you?
653
00:39:33,900 --> 00:39:34,900
No.
654
00:39:35,300 --> 00:39:36,300
I don't.
655
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:39,320
Then what are you waiting for?
656
00:39:52,330 --> 00:39:54,150
Do you think he still wants to be
married to you?
657
00:39:54,830 --> 00:39:55,830
No.
658
00:39:56,210 --> 00:39:57,210
I don't.
659
00:39:59,090 --> 00:40:00,430
Then what are you waiting for?
660
00:40:05,530 --> 00:40:11,210
I am the token idiot wife. No, you're
not. You're not. What you're doing is
661
00:40:11,210 --> 00:40:13,510
you're taking the rose -colored glasses
off your face.
662
00:40:13,750 --> 00:40:17,630
That is what you're doing. Right. Rose
-colored glasses. And it is about time.
663
00:40:17,810 --> 00:40:21,250
What about the contact lenses? Well,
those are next.
664
00:40:22,030 --> 00:40:24,610
You know, we've been married nine and a
half years.
665
00:40:26,550 --> 00:40:29,590
And I just found out that there's a law
in California.
666
00:40:30,130 --> 00:40:32,330
Yeah, it's community property.
667
00:40:32,530 --> 00:40:34,930
You can get half. He's trying to divorce
you before ten years.
668
00:40:35,630 --> 00:40:36,810
When is ten years?
669
00:40:37,290 --> 00:40:38,350
In six months.
670
00:40:38,790 --> 00:40:40,230
Oh, hell no!
671
00:40:40,750 --> 00:40:41,750
Oh, my God.
672
00:40:42,210 --> 00:40:43,210
No way.
673
00:40:43,750 --> 00:40:44,990
Girl, no way.
674
00:40:45,690 --> 00:40:46,690
That hurt.
675
00:40:49,110 --> 00:40:50,370
I don't know this man.
676
00:40:51,310 --> 00:40:54,910
In California, when you hit the 10 -year
mark, you're considered a long -term
677
00:40:54,910 --> 00:40:57,910
marriage, which means it's half, half,
and that's that.
678
00:40:58,490 --> 00:41:03,550
And I think vowsal support is forever
after a 10 -year marriage. One of you is
679
00:41:03,550 --> 00:41:07,590
going to be paying for the length of the
person's life. That's why if you're
680
00:41:07,590 --> 00:41:09,430
going to jump ship, do it before 10
years.
681
00:41:09,730 --> 00:41:10,950
Dorita, I worry about you.
682
00:41:11,750 --> 00:41:16,470
I really do. And I'm sorry you're going
through this. But I cannot sit here and
683
00:41:16,470 --> 00:41:18,290
bullshit with you when I know.
684
00:41:19,020 --> 00:41:21,920
What's coming for you? I wouldn't be a
good friend. You've begged for honesty,
685
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,160
and I'm going to give it to you. You
have to protect yourself.
686
00:41:24,420 --> 00:41:25,780
You have to go, hold on a second.
687
00:41:26,180 --> 00:41:28,120
The price of poker has completely
changed.
688
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:29,800
This is not my partner.
689
00:41:30,220 --> 00:41:31,260
This is not my friend.
690
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,080
This is my adversary now.
691
00:41:33,580 --> 00:41:39,660
And let me tell you, that is a f***ed up
place, as I have hair on my arm. That
692
00:41:39,660 --> 00:41:42,260
is a f***ed up place to be. But that is
where you are.
693
00:41:42,620 --> 00:41:44,620
And I don't know any other way to say
that's you.
694
00:41:45,279 --> 00:41:48,620
You have to be proactive. I'm telling
you right now, if you don't make these
695
00:41:48,620 --> 00:41:51,940
decisions, life will make it for you.
Yes. He will make it for you. He will
696
00:41:51,940 --> 00:41:52,940
it for you.
697
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:54,560
Please be proactive.
698
00:41:55,380 --> 00:42:00,260
And I'm preaching to myself as much as
I'm preaching to you because I could
699
00:42:00,260 --> 00:42:01,260
done a better job for myself.
700
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:03,860
But I was paralyzed by fear.
701
00:42:05,340 --> 00:42:07,660
And I waited till the last minute.
702
00:42:08,260 --> 00:42:09,280
And I shouldn't have.
703
00:42:09,500 --> 00:42:11,400
Yes. Don't get to the place of being
desperate.
704
00:42:12,020 --> 00:42:13,040
Desperation breeds.
705
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:17,000
No good strategy, girl. Oh, hell no.
That's what I've heard in business.
706
00:42:19,220 --> 00:42:20,198
Oh, God.
707
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:21,200
I know this.
708
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,380
If I have to go to war, I will go to
war.
709
00:42:25,660 --> 00:42:30,900
Once you get to that headspace, it's not
going to be easy to pull me back.
710
00:42:31,820 --> 00:42:34,860
But don't you think I have to be sure
that I don't want to go back?
711
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:36,400
He doesn't want you back.
712
00:42:37,820 --> 00:42:42,280
If that's the case...
713
00:42:42,620 --> 00:42:45,480
Everything you've told us tonight
indicates that that's the situation.
714
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:52,820
You got to get out.
715
00:42:54,820 --> 00:42:56,480
You got to get out.
716
00:42:57,820 --> 00:43:04,720
Next time on The Real Housewives of
717
00:43:04,720 --> 00:43:08,120
Beverly Hills, the cabana is getting new
life.
718
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,760
Does that look good to you? You don't
want dry grits. Turn it off.
719
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:13,299
But okay.
720
00:43:13,300 --> 00:43:16,720
Keely and I have talked about having a
baby. We've actually never said the
721
00:43:16,720 --> 00:43:17,720
words, I love you.
722
00:43:18,700 --> 00:43:20,080
You guys have spoke to PK.
723
00:43:20,380 --> 00:43:21,600
What did he say, girl?
724
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:27,640
I would just love to hear you say that
you're proud of her and that you love
725
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,980
too. I don't think that's any of your
business.
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