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Sorry, no, I'm new.

It's not plugged in.

Our fourth customer and we lost it. Jenny, you have to try to do very quick.

You know what I can do? I can go home.

I'm so excited to see this house, like so freaking excited.

There's even the option of renting.

No!

It's an option. I am not living in an apartment.

You're reacting as if I'm, like, saying, we're getting an apartment.

You don't mind? Because I always end up doing what you want.

And I'm tired of it.

Lo siento por todos.

I wanted to forgive him.

But I can't stop thinking about he touching a stripper.

Me and Madeline got into it a couple times, trying to work through it.

You haven't said one nice thing about her.

Getting married, like, what about this sounds like a good idea?

You're deciding to live here, and I can't finance it.

My mom's always my number one supporter.

Now it's like my mom's always working against me. There is a way that I would

able to support both of you if you both moved to Boston.

I'm excited.

A day away, you and I, mommy and daddy away, you know, eating cheese and having

some fun.

You and I, we can take some cute photos.

We can enjoy and have some, like, really good cheese.

Cannot wait to eat the cheese.

It is going to be a lot of fun.

Goat cheese is something that Manon and I bonded over when we first started

dating. And she's expecting to just go to, like, a fromagerie.

I have something else in mind.

This is no Wisconsin cheddar.

This is fromage.

I'm taking Manon to a goat farm.

Vente de fromage. Vente de fromage. So it's a store where they sell cheese?

It is très authentique.

Are you sure it is what you think it is? Yeah, it is an authentic cheese

experience.

I know that Manon is, like, not a farm person, but there was a specific type of

cheese that Manon loved and you cannot have in the U .S. because of

So I've looked into a goat farm that makes this cheese. I felt like it would

just be something really cool to see, you know, how you make the cheese.

And I always fantasized about getting a goat, making some cheese.

goat mowing my lawn for me. It's the French dream.

There's mud everywhere.

Like, what is this? Did you bring me to a freaking farm?

So, when I said authentic, I meant, like, farm to table.

Um... Look at my outfit, Anthony.

You could have said something this morning. Well... Anthony told me, hey,

gonna bring you on a nice, cute date.

Bonjour. Bonjour.

Oh, the smell.

I dress business, sexy, chic, like my style.

But if you would have told me, hey, it involves being at a freaking farm, okay,

I would have put up a very cute, sexy, chic look for the farm.

You know, just tell me and I'll dress the part.

Ma femme.

Hi, bonjour. Bonjour.

Vous venez pour une dégustation de fromage? Oui, pour manger le fromage. D

'accord. Bon, on va faire ça après.

No.

No,

no, no. Oh, the smell too. No, no.

I think Anthony wants to help me. Okay? Of course.

Oh,

what the...

It's fine.

Oh, no, it's not fine.

No, it's not fine.

It's coming. The gods are waiting for you. Yes.

Oh, my gosh. No, the gods are not waiting for me. Believe me.

No,

no. I'm good.

I was like thinking I was going on a cute date.

Oh, we go. There's the bat, too. What the heck?

And I end up with like a bunch of like goats looking at assholes, smelling

disgusting. What the heck is wrong with you?

I told you I'm not a farm girl.

I know your favorite cheese of all time, San Marcelin. And I was like, oh my

God, I got to find this cheese.

It was romance.

You know, no milking, no cheese.

That's fine. I'll go vegan or whatever.

So, you are on the go. It's very easy. You pull it. Uh -huh.

When it's in contact, it starts automatically.

Don't look at me like that.

Look at her. She's giving me the side eye.

Great at you.

Okay.

Bear with me. All right.

There we go.

All right.

It's fine. It's okay.

Okay. Oh.

Have you seen the sunset?

The sunset?

Yeah. No. No. So it's not finished.

Okay. So we're already here all day. Okay.

If you petted the goat like you would have been, this is the greatest day

No. The goat were looking at me like with side eyes.

No. Goats can smell fear.

I'm going to bath.

Honey, this is awesome. This is like all I've wanted to do since we've been

here.

I'm going back to L .A.

Okay.

There is a way that I would be able to support both of you.

The lottery?

Trust me, I play every weekend.

If you both moved to Boston.

You could have, obviously, a primary role in my company, which was our

plan. And I'm certain we could get Johnny work there as well.

You wouldn't have to pay rent.

And you could both have a very bright future.

Why make it harder if you don't have to?

I mean, I don't know. I feel like when things are hard sometimes and you

accomplish it, you appreciate it more.

I agree with that. And it's more rewarding. I did it, Johnny.

As you know, I built my own company.

And I don't, I would appreciate not having to had to do that.

The reason why I like it here so much is being in the water as close as I am to

the water. And I cherish that a lot, you know, is something that. And I

appreciate that.

But I obviously have to bring in a little realism because that's me as a

Continue. Is it realistic, Johnny?

It is.

Is it realistic?

In the end of the day, this is my home. This is my place.

And I have to show you that I can provide for her.

I'm sure if I get partnership papers with Chloe, that will make you feel a

more comfortable showing her that she's legally living in my house and that we

don't have an issue with that.

You know what? None of this, honestly, Jonathan, none of this makes me

comfortable.

Here we go. None of it makes me comfortable.

You know what would be comfortable?

It's my daughter being at home.

I'm sorry. Can I borrow you for another glass?

Would you also like one?

No, wait.

I just want you to be happy. I want her to be happy.

And I think what will make you happy is if you see her happy.

I think, you know, somewhat selfishly, like, what is that going to look like to

me?

What do you mean?

Like, we're so close as we are, you know, but that's going to change.

No, it would never change. And then to have grandchildren and everything. I

really think that you should think through the Boston option a bit.

I really would appreciate that. Of course.

Very much, if you could.

I struggled to build a life to ensure that I could take care of myself.

I didn't do that so that Chloe would have that same path.

I think...

Johnny definitely sees how much money Chloe spends versus how much money she

earns. And Johnny's current job is not going to sustain

them both for any significant period of time.

And Chloe being cut off financially, you know, I think he's going to feel it.

How much is it? $70 for the small and $90 for the big.

It's too much.

Okay, then go away.

Rohit just shows up on her now. He's negative about everything.

I don't trust him at all.

Do you think you will survive here?

You don't have chefs.

Your parents are cooking food. Who does that?

Please help me get out of the dark house today.

I had to move some money around.

It was $2 ,000.

I have a surprise for you.

What? This might be my last shot to try and make things work.

Give it to me.

Papa, I'll cut one tomato thick.

Is there smoke or something?

What happened?

I don't know. I just all of a sudden start choking. Because we are cooking

That's why.

This is the third day of cafe and business is okay.

It's not bad.

But we always can do better.

I heard about Sumit's cafe from some of his friends that he opened it and

he didn't invite me in the inauguration. I don't know why and that's how I am

concerned. So I came here and see.

You know how to do that. I want one spaghetti.

Spaghetti?

Spaghetti? Spaghetti not on the menu yet.

Oh. Not yet. My bad.

Yes, it is.

All of a sudden, Rohit just shows up unannounced. I turned around, and there

was. Come outside. I want to talk to you.

And I just looked at him like, what are you doing here?

Go have a coffee. How much is it? 70 for the small and 90 for the big.

It's too much.

Sorry, we have set prices here. No, I don't want to have it. It's very

expensive. Okay, then go away.

Why is everyone so happy to see him?

And when I know he's here to judge and to be negative about everything, I don't

trust him at all.

So Sumit, do you see anyone outside?

Two, three people.

Right now, you are at the wrong time. You know what? The timing is always

bro.

You said everything is there.

Too many people are there.

At your restaurant, I didn't see anyone.

You know what? This area is surrounded by a lot of universities. This is a

hangout spot for the kids.

There's hundreds of students.

Then why there is no one?

Because this is school time. It's college time. Don't you know that? It's

time. No, it's not lunch time. Who do the lunch in the 12th or 13th? You do,

the student, if they're going to the college or the university, they get off

like 2 .30 or 5. Sir, it's on me, okay? It's very expensive, though. It's on me.

Good.

Rohit seems to be very jealous of... submit with this cafe.

So he's going to come and put him down and you can't make this work.

Do you give tip?

No, I will not.

He doesn't want us to succeed because he can't succeed.

Do you think you will survive here?

You don't have chef. Your parents are cooking food.

Who does that?

Like that's why we call it family cafe because we are working as a family. No.

Your parents are working here at this age.

For what? For you?

Problem in this Sumit's family cafe is that the family is cooking.

Jenny is making coffee.

For how long? Maybe a day or two, she will get tired and she will say, Sumit,

take me home. And at this age, he is insisting his parents to cook, help him.

This is not a real business what he is doing.

It will be closed soon, I guess.

We're going to serve food, which is, you know, which we eat in our house.

In our house, like in the family.

Homemade cooking. All those students who are living away from their house, I

want them to eat something and think about, like, they are still with their

family. And that's the concept.

And maybe we are not, like, as fancy as, like, other people, like, they're

serving pizzas and all other stuff. But we are making sure that whomever come

here will be a part of the family cafe, just like our family.

I don't know. You started this restaurant in this place and you are

okay, this will grow?

See, I got a customer.

See? And look, what he's ordering is coffee.

One customer.

Yeah, but there's hardly any customer over there.

Maybe after hearing the price, he will go away.

No.

It's stressing me out.

He put me into a mindset where I'm really doubting myself.

What if things won't work out? What if he's right?

There is nobody.

I cannot see anyone.

Only me, who will not pay for your coffee.

They're making me so worried that we're going to fail.

I really feel pressure because I want to prove him wrong and show him that we

can be successful.

I need to make this cafe work.

Please help me get out of the doghouse today.

The conversation with Brian made me question my future with Madeline.

But I love her, and I don't want a life without her in it. I have no other

choice but to fight for our relationship.

Maddie, where are you?

I have a surprise for you. What?

I have your boxers. And I have your new dog.

Look at this.

Madeline is not being responsive to anything that I've done to mend this

relationship. The cleansing was a bust.

But when I arrived back in Colombia, she had made it known that she wanted to

bring a new puppy into the family.

Had to move some money around.

It was $2 ,000.

Is this a good use of money? I don't know.

It's cute, huh?

Are you a viewer?

That is amazing.

I told him I want another dog, and he made true. Is that curious liver?

No. He's the second little dog I feel is more beautiful in my life. Obviously,

the first one is Angel.

So it looks like Chewbacca, so I think we should call him Chewy.

Chewy? Chewy.

I know which one.

Huh? Cairo.

Like Egypt?

No. Cairo, the signification is the time of God is perfect.

Okay.

I know it's not going to fix all of the fights, all of the hardships that we've

endured, but I'm really hoping that...

This puppy will show her that I'm listening and how much I care about her.

I am your mom.

Our wedding is supposed to be in less than a week, so this might be

my last shot to try and make things worse.

Don't want to even look at me?

Yeah, because you're bad.

So you happy?

You're not mad with me anymore?

Obvious.

Oh, my goodness.

That poopy was so special.

But this is not about the money. My love language is take care of me and service

to me.

I just wait for my man to make me feel special.

And with this, he showed me like he pushed over to be better.

That is the only one.

And I forgive him, and I'm so happy now move on of that.

But I still be cautious with him.

You are my priority.

That's it. Nobody else.

I just want us to be okay and for us to move forward. Okay?

And you know what is the bigger responsibility of both of them? It's

I know.

It's my fault. I took the blame.

I don't want to fight anymore.

Please. You want to continue fighting?

No, I don't.

You know which one is going to be the consequence of what you are. And you do

even if you're... At the end of the day, I just want to move on.

That's it.

You know the only reason I don't want to be mad at you?

Why?

You can see it now, yeah?

About like 130 goats.

Can we imagine the investment, first of all, the money, because you need like...

Put it in your mouth.

I know.

I know. You're waiting your turn to eat, aren't you?

Yeah.

Do you want to be

a

real farmer?

Sure. This is yours.

Okay.

Why do they scream?

What the... Oh, my Lord Jesus Christ.

Oh, my gosh, Santa Maria.

Seeing Manon's reaction to the farm, I'm kind of questioning my decision on the

surprise.

Okay. There are flies everywhere!

But... I am thrilled when the farmer is asking me to help him.

Thank you. Very good student. Thank you. That was awesome.

So this is what's going on? We're going to farm all day?

No. That's what you call a nice couple experience?

We're done milking the goat. It was so cool. You should have at least tried it.

No. You left me for like some freaking bear.

I was there to learn.

No, that's not cool, bro. Not cool. Oh, my gosh. Not cool.

The faster I helped him, the faster we ate the cheese.

Wow.

Oh, yes.

Okay, the good part, finally.

The part I waited for all day.

Oh, yeah. With the sunset.

Exactly. This is my type of experience.

Exactly.

Merci beaucoup.

Oh, yeah?

This is what I love. Okay. You changed your tune already.

Yeah, but I don't need to make it.

Give me a big piece.

Hey,

stop. One second. I haven't finished the one. Put it in your mouth.

Okay.

I could eat that all day, every day.

You can see it now, yeah?

See what?

This. I mean, not like on the scale of like 130 goats.

You mean making? 80 ,000 cheese. You mean making and doing? No, I see myself

eating the cheese.

this is just not for me like can you imagine the investment first of all the

money because you need like equipment to do it the commitment of having a goat

we have ben already ben is a big goat to take care about okay but like i'm not

talking about massive production of goats just some animals as a hobby make

cheese ben will love it because he loves animals you want more space

I'm making cheese as a hobby in the future.

Maybe, whatever.

But how this is helping our situation right now, it's not.

We are struggling.

We moved here for like a balance.

I feel you do what you want for you.

So you didn't have fun today?

When I ate the cheese?

I thought this would be a really cool experience.

It doesn't feel that your intention were actually good. Your intention was like,

I want to do this. I'm going to bring her with me even if she doesn't like it.

It's not my intention.

My intention was to show you a new side of France that we both haven't seen.

We both love goat cheese.

You know, this is not what I like to do.

I was very uncomfortable.

It's absolutely not my world. So respect also that I'm still here making an

effort for you. At least I'm here.

And when have I not been there for you?

Tony, I'm sick and tired of you trying to negotiate with me all the time and

trying to make me change my mind and playing games on me like that.

When I just feel you don't listen, it's just too much. Of course, I want you

to be happy and I don't want it to be all about me. But you need also a little

bit to go towards your wife.

Moving to France did wonders for my relationship with my son, with Ben, but

with my husband.

And in a lot of ways, it actually put more pressure.

We live at my parents'. There's no intimacy whatsoever.

We are exhausted because we sleep in a tiny bed with a two -year -old, so we

sleep like this every night.

I love that he actually took the time to plan a little date for us to be alone.

That was absolutely not for us or for me. That was actually a date for himself

with a goat.

I don't know what to do anymore with you, Anthony. Maybe we just cannot

communicate with each other.

We didn't get off to, like, the greatest start.

Why? I was feeling pretty torn about telling my mom I don't want her.

Down my neck, telling me, Chloe, you're stupid. This is a bad idea. Why would

you do this?

Okay. I'm actually pissed about that.

We are here.

Are we ready?

Mm -hmm.

It's a hot day.

It is a hot day.

Look at this water. It's beautiful.

Nice. This is perfect.

Yes.

Last night, Jonathan and me went to dinner with my mom, and things got a

hectic. My mom really put the burners on our relationship.

Jonathan, can you get me and my mom a drink?

Yeah, of course.

I thank my mom's offer of...

Jonathan and me both moving to work with the company would have sounded great,

but it's important to us to build something together and kind of create

life in the future.

Yeah, honey.

Acuna patata.

Zupina coladas. Zupina coladas, please.

It's like the heaviest car to ever hold in my hand. It doesn't melt. It's metal.

Wow. Watch.

Easy.

You never seen that before? I'll be back in a few hours, okay?

I'll be back. I'll get you guys some drinks.

Thank you.

Aren't you going to miss this when you go back home?

No. I'm going to miss you, but not this.

I think you're lying. I think it's beautiful.

Don't get me wrong, but if I want to retire, I can't keep just vacationing

the time.

I have to save money and get ready for retirement.

Yeah.

I just wish you would come home with me.

Well, I can't do that. That's kind of... That ship sailed.

I don't like the fact that I'm leaving, and I'm leaving you here.

Like, you've made a decision to stay here, and with no financial support,

and you have... You know, the clock's ticking. I just struggle with wondering

why you want to do this, and I get that you love Jonathan, but I just...

I think Boston would be a better place for both of you.

It's important to our relationship to be here right now and to start here.

I mean, going to the States would also be a lot harder.

If the roles were reversed, to get Jonathan there would be a lot worse. The

processes are much longer and much harder.

Me and Jonathan would have to do, like, long distance for a long time.

And Jonathan and I will not last long distance. We won't. I've told you this.

just won't.

It's not the reason why I need to be here. Some relationships can do that.

We cannot.

Well, I think a relationship that you're going to commit to, you know,

potentially forever should be able to sustain long distance for a period of

time. And if it's not, then it's not something that you should even be

entertaining.

Definitely sounds like a trust issue, and you should probably spend some time

thinking about that.

Well, I mean, Jonathan, I mean...

We didn't get off to, like, the greatest start. Why?

Like, what do you mean?

At the very beginning, I thought everything was fine, and then all of a

he's like, I'm going to Miami for a boys' trip.

So I'm like, yeah, go have a boys' trip. I don't care.

And I think maybe in that moment, I thought we were more serious than we

because then I found out on social media that he was with a girl for her

birthday in Florida.

That's why he went there? He went to Florida to go see another girl? He

her there for her birthday, yeah.

So she was from here? She was from here, yeah.

Okay. I am absolutely pissed that Johnny was not faithful to my daughter.

No, I'm actually pissed about that, so.

Yeah, probably.

Yeah. I'm telling him, actually.

As a mother, I can't even put into words.

How disappointed and concerned I am.

Because for you to build a relationship based on infidelity, like in lack of

trust, is outrageous to me. And it's deaf and severe.

I mean, yeah, it wasn't exactly the greatest start. But, I mean, we've had

issues. We definitely have. But I think at the end of the day. That's a big one.

Yeah, it was a big deal. That's why I'm having these issues. But you think that

you can stay here and that's going to fix it?

The ability to trust someone, that doesn't make any sense.

If you can't trust somebody, you shouldn't be committing anything to him,

alone changing your entire life and leaving, you know, leaving your family

behind and your friends behind and your pets behind and your brother behind. It

makes it a lot harder.

You know, that's a whole other conversation, and that makes me more

than I actually was five minutes ago.

Even though it happened like 11 months ago, I'm really, to this day, still not

happy about it because we had many occasions where I had sat him down

not lie.

Just do not lie.

And he lied.

But I'm trying to reassure my mom as best I can that I know what I'm doing.

I don't want her down my neck telling me, Cole, you're stupid. This is a bad

idea. Why would you do this? And make...

my anxiety and my stress issues honestly harder.

It sounds concerning is what it sounds like. I mean, as your mother, that to me

is, you know, a lot bigger than a position or a job.

But I mean, there was certain things that they seemed crazy or they seemed

that helped that the more he did them, it made me feel better.

And slowly over time, he kept proving to me that he did want this to work and he

did want me to come here.

I kind of put the trust on him to rebuild it.

And he did.

I was feeling pretty torn about telling my mom about Jonathan's little cheating

scenario. But at the same time, I wanted her to kind of understand where I'm

coming from.

But now, I kind of regret telling my mom what happened with Jonathan in the past

because now she will always have that in the back of her head.

And every decision that I make, she's just always going to think, how can she

choose to go on?

I'm obviously super concerned.

Quite honestly, the infidelity would have been enough for me.

I mean, yeah.

In a perfect world, that would not have happened. It's not a perfect world. I

know. It's a low expectation world.

I don't have a positive outlook on where this is going.

You know, for your sake, I really hope it doesn't backfire.

Can you help me?

No, do it. You're ridiculous.

I've sacrificed so much to just try and make her happy, and I haven't been

appreciated. You want me to do everything. I do the work. I pay the

this. This isn't the life that I signed up for.

Are you ready to go to Guatapé?

Can you pop the trunk?

Come on, baby.

Can you pop the trunk?

Can you put this on the side, please?

Yeah, just... If you're not going to help, you just need to help me do it.

The wedding is this weekend, and look at me. We're driving to Guatapé.

I agreed to forgive Luke, and I tried to move on, but I feel so nervous.

I really hope he don't prove I am wrong.

Are you guys ready for three hours of drive?

Can you help me? Put this on the finger. No, do it.

You're ridiculous.

A couple days ago, Madeline and I worked things out.

I'm glad the marriage is back on. I'm happy that we have another shot

But things are still not going as smoothly as I thought.

Close the door.

I was hoping we could put all the fighting behind us. But that doesn't

be the case.

It's stressful.

You know what I think?

Yeah. The dogs are a very good sense of character.

And both dogs are with me right now.

Mentiroso.

She always loves me more.

So you want to go with your mama?

I'm kind of going to love me more too.

You barely take care of her.

How are you going to say that?

You never help. I always do everything.

Oh, why you don't say that to yourself?

You leave your boxers in the floor, smiling like a... Like

you always be a baby?

I don't want to complain about putting in the car because I can do it. I have

the dog.

Why the hell am I anything to take the... into my car?

Look this, how I couldn't take the little, the bigger suitcase with this.

Like I am the woman, I need to be straight like a queen.

You shoppy big caballero.

I am a gentleman.

No, you don't. I open the doors for you. You don't. I do everything for you. I

like try and be nice to you. You do it when I tell you why you don't do it.

You like try and bicker and fight and nitpick.

So many things.

Like, how rude.

How you talk to me? Okay, like, I'm just saying, like. How you talk to me? Okay,

I'm just saying, like. How you talk to me?

You want me to do everything. I do the work. I pay the bills. I do this. I

I clean. I do, like.

You think I don't gotta pay my bill? I can't.

But if you want to be with me, you need to be provider.

You know it's so ugly when you pay for something and later you mention you pay

for that.

Be a man. Pay the rent. Pay the bills. It's the minimal things that men have to

do.

Minimal.

If this is anything like what our marriage is going to be like, holy, do

a problem.

The things that Brian and I had talked about are really thinking it right now.

I felt like I haven't been myself in a really long time.

You're completely just manipulated and controlled all the time.

You don't have to go through with this.

Wake up.

I feel like I've sacrificed so much to just try and make her happy.

And I haven't been appreciated for.

I'm constantly disrespected by a 20 -year -old.

I think I, like, give you a pretty good life, and... You think you give me a

pretty good life?

You think I already don't have a pretty good life?

It seems like you're always mad at me.

Yes, I am. You always make me mad.

It doesn't seem like that's a good thing.

This isn't, like, the life that I sign up for. I don't like fighting. Yes, I am

mad because you disappointed me.

But you're always mad. And made me ask him, why is he with you? Why?

Like, why?

And you never made me happy.

Exactly. So, like, what are we doing here?

Never. Shut up.

I am so furious right now.

I can't believe that we're fighting a lot and you just continue to make more

fighting? Are you kidding me? You're very opinionated, and you try and be so

dominant, and you try and act like you're the boss of everything and

the whole world. You're not, though. I am. You're not.

I put up with all your baggage and all your good stuff because I love you.

Mentiroso. Don't interrupt me.

Mentiroso. Don't interrupt me. Mentiroso. Like, I am how I am.

You don't like it, leave.

I have so many more reasons for leave of this relationship.

Respect goes both ways. No importa.

I'm saying you need to... You're going to break up this relationship.

F*** you.

Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, the other way.

I don't know if I'm nervous for Manon to see me as a mime or to improvise for

strangers, but it is the only job that I'm qualified for.

What the?

Antonio, what the heck? What are you doing? What is wrong with you?

Welcome to the great outdoors.

I love it.

Really? It's so different from being in the city.

That's mom.

Hi, mom.

Hi, how are you doing?

She's constantly invading our relationship.

She calls every day.

What's the big deal? It's my mom.

Babe, it's not normal.

Very windy today, huh?

Learning that Johnny cheated on my daughter has changed a lot of things.

If it was up to me, I would bring my daughter home with me.

It scares me, and I don't want to leave my daughter here on this island with

you.