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Don't go near the cat. Don't try to pet
the cat.
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Babe, let me out.
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I've tried so many different things and
nothing has worked. I feel completely
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hopeless.
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No, no, no, no.
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Ah!
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Damn it.
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Jackson and Ivy are feral. I can't pick
them up. You can't pick them up? No. Oh.
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I am moving to Vancouver, Canada in a
month, and I can't get my cat into the
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carriers. I hate to see them being
scared.
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You go to pieces.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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Oh, my God, I love my job.
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The animal behavior that guardians call
when they're dealing with a difficult
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cat.
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That really ups the stakes a little bit
here.
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I'm out to prove that there is no such
thing as a bad cat.
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Just a cat that needs my help. Thank
you.
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Hi,
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I'm Maddie. I'm Erin. We've been dating
for a year. I got May at a nearby
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shelter. She was six or seven weeks old.
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My first encounter with May was actually
very similar to what now I have to
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repeat to anyone else's first encounter
with May. Don't go near the cat. Don't
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try to pet the cat.
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Don't look at the cat.
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May is quite aggressive and attacks all
the time, and it's impossible
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to live here without living completely
in fear.
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I'm trapped.
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May, let me out.
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May is aggressive to the point where
blood is drawn and scratches become
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I love when she is relaxed and having
her brief lovable moment.
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Then she'll wake up and bite you, yeah.
That doesn't last too long. Then she'll
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attack. I feel completely hopeless.
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But I don't want to rehome her. I still
love her and want her to be here.
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May, let me out.
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Today I'm in Long Beach heading over to
meet up with Guardians Maddie and Erin,
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who sent out a Mayday alert about their
cat, May.
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Apparently, May lashes out violently,
both unprovoked and unpredictably. To
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that has the hallmarks of a cat who's
suffering. That means I can't get there
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soon enough.
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Hi! Hi!
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How are you doing? Good.
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Thank you for coming.
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Of course.
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So. I hear there's quite a lot going on
with your cat.
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A little bit. How old is she? A little
over two and a half. Two and a half. Has
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she always been aggressive?
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She started out really nice and adorable
and then kind of quickly descended into
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madness. Does she go after you guys
specifically?
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Does she go after anybody?
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Well, I mean, we're here mostly.
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Where is she?
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She is in the other room.
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Let's go to the other room. Let's go
meet your cat.
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This is May.
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Well, okay, the first thing I noticed,
what's up with her hair?
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The vet says it is stressed over
grooming.
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So, psychogenic alopecia. Now, is it
always like that?
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It's gotten so much worse.
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That is pretty bad. I know.
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Psychogenic alopecia is hair falling out
for no apparent reason. I've dealt with
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some serious cases of alopecia before.
This one is up there.
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I mean, this cat has licked herself
bald, and she's doing it in a very
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methodical way.
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Boy, she's just like May the Gargoyle
right now. Look at her, man.
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You said that you don't bring a whole
lot of people over here, mainly because
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her? If I have some friends over, I have
to give a speech.
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Don't look at the cat, don't touch the
cat, don't go near the cat. So you
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basically have people walking in like...
Yeah, already afraid.
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The worst thing that Mae does is her
surprise bite attack because you don't
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it coming. You have no way to protect
yourself.
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What I'm going to do right now, just so
you know, is challenge her just a little
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bit. See where the line is with her,
where she goes from being okay Mae to
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okay Mae.
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The way I'm challenging May today is by
presenting actual threats to her. I will
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cut off her escape routes to see how she
responds to that. I'm also going to
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present friendly gestures and see how
she responds to that and see if there's
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any logic in her responses. If I
approach you as a friend and you claw my
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out, I got information.
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Look, it's food.
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You want it?
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I am so scared.
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Would that be okay?
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Ha ha.
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Or not.
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She can't be touched where? Anywhere.
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He touched her.
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It's okay, baby.
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It's okay.
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I'm trying to get May to be in a relaxed
space with me, and in the meantime, her
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guardians are going into horror movie
mode every time I make a move towards
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I want her striking out from a place of
over -ownership of the space. I want to
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see if she's rational in her behavior,
and I can't see that until she's more
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relaxed. I'm going to have you leave the
room for a minute. I'm just trying to
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get some kind of honest response from
her.
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Hi, Mindy.
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Hi, sweetie.
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It's okay.
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Wow.
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Moms leave the room for a second. This
is what I get?
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The method to my madness is I am going
to push
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May. I want to see how appropriate or
inappropriate her responses are.
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She is coming after me like a cat on
fire.
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When May decides that I'm a real threat,
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Forget it, man. I don't stand a chance
right now.
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Oh, damn, you got some claws.
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I'm going to back away. I'm going to try
to present myself as an ally and not an
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enemy and see how she appreciates that.
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That one hurt, eh?
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I am not giving up until I get a clear
idea of what's up with me. You can go
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over there if you want.
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The exercise of challenge line is about
finding a rational spot where I need to
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stop my stimulation of the cat. There is
no rational spot with May.
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And that concerns me.
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This is a conciliatory gesture.
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She's literally reaching out to me.
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There's no doubt in my mind a shroud
disappears from her, that shroud of
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madness, and reveals a much sweeter
version of May, desperate to find her
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out. And that's why I'm here.
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Just because I get a moment of
vulnerability from May doesn't mean that
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done. Now I want to see if we can
sustain that. Can we form a
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is this just a moment?
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Out, not.
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You are not messing around. We have a
momentary emergence of reason followed
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by a whole lot of crazy.
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No, no, no, no.
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Out,
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not. You are not messing around.
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Truth. No, no, no, no.
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Damn it.
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I'm at Guardian Aaron and Maddie's house
right now. Shortly after my arrival, I
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began a series of challenge line tests
with their cat, May, and I'm getting a
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pretty severe beatdown in return.
Despite the pain, I'm doing my best to
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it out.
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Just the truth.
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No truth.
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I am willing to lose half the blood in
my arm if it means that I can leave on a
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positive note with her.
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I don't know what else to do with you. I
really don't.
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I literally have not been beaten up this
bad in a long time. I mean, there comes
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a moment where if I don't call it quit
soon, I'm going to lose a digit.
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Wait, what's that?
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Can you give me a little blink?
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That's a good girl.
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Right when I give up, Nay is showing me
vulnerability.
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I get to exchange some blinks with her,
some slow head movements. We're talking.
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We're having a conversation.
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There's something behind claws and
teeth, and that's a beating heart.
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May needs help.
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Okay, so I asked for this. This is on
me. So we got to get to work. First and
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foremost, we got to get her on
medication.
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Mentally, she's suffering, and that's
the bottom line.
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If your cat is a threat to themselves or
a threat to others, and it's in a very
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unpredictable way, your cat is suffering
and your cat needs help. Period. End of
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sentence. There's other stuff I want you
guys to do. It's not just about give
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meds and walk away.
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I want you to be cataloging the where's
in your house, okay? We're looking for
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what I call the confident where.
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Confident where is when her body goes
from this to this.
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Tell me where that is. Because those are
the things we'll capitalize on. We'll
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start building her a world starting from
where she feels safe and confident.
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So I want you to be playing with her.
And I want you, obviously, to use toys
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where your hand is nowhere near the cat.
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Once the meds start to take effect and
Mae is hopefully in a better mind frame,
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then we can use the play to divert her
from the over -grooming. The most
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important homework I can give you is
that when you're scared, act as if
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not. The stakes are pretty high if
Maddie and Aaron don't accomplish all of
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I'm laying out. If they think that it's
bad now, this is the tip of the iceberg.
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I worked my butt off just to get a
moment with her where I saw her poking
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through the clouds. I feel like I know
your cat like you know her at this
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and she's not what she seems to be.
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I believe that. If the homework is not
successful, I'm going to be scared about
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May's future.
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Just hang in there, okay?
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Thank you.
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I'll talk to you soon. Bye.
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Tell you what, man, I got beat up today,
but it was totally worth it. I know
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this cat better than I could have
possibly.
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I may be hurting, but in the long run,
she won't be.
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My name is Jennifer, and I have two
cats, Jackson and Ivy.
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Jackson and Ivy are feral. They don't
attack, but they're very scared.
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They're always hyper -aware of anything
going on, any noise, any movement, and
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they're really scared of strangers.
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I knew when I adopted them that they
were unadoptable, and I knew it was
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to be hard, but I took on that
commitment and that responsibility, so I
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totally devoted to them, and I want to
do whatever I can.
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I am moving to Vancouver, Canada in a
month, and I can't get my cats into the
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carrier. I'm just trying to run after
them, and they are running away from me
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and hiding. It's impossible.
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I just want the tools to help me to get
my cats being really comfortable in the
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carriers because I have a long car ride
ahead of me. The cats are going to be
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freaked out. I am going to be freaked
out.
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So I'm about to meet up for the first
time with Jennifer and her two cats,
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Jackson and Ivy, who refuse to get into
a cat carrier. Now, you think that
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that's a small deal? Think about
emergencies. Think about going to the
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not a small deal. And she faces a
problem that many cat guardians do. How
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get cats to do what they don't want to
do?
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That's why I'm here.
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Hey. Hi, Jackson. Hi, I'm Jennifer.
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Jennifer, how are you? Good to meet you.
The cats are in the bedroom.
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Come on in.
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I know that we're dealing with some
fraidy cats.
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Yes. They are a little over three years
old. Okay. They're feral cats.
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I volunteer at a shelter, that's where I
met them, and they would just run and
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hide when anyone came in. Wow. But I
couldn't just... you know, leave them
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and wanted them to have a home. Were
they ever considered adoptable? No, they
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were considered unadoptable.
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Wow. And they were rescued when they
were a few months old, so they weren't
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really fully socialized. How many
months?
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About three months old, so they just
kind of missed that window.
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Right there. Yeah.
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Get all the information that they need
to succeed socially in life. Between the
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ages of three and nine weeks old, pass
there. It's a crapshoot whether or not
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they will ever acclimate to humans. I
see somebody.
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Oh, yeah.
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Who is that? That is Jackson. He is
named after you. Oh, is he really? Yes.
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Oh, that's embarrassing.
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Okay, so let's just sit down here.
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Hello, my friend.
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Hello, my friend.
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Where's Ivy?
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She is probably hiding here under the
ottoman.
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I got Jackson under the bed, but at
least making contact with me. But Ivy,
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going to be a tough one.
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I've been trying to socialize them as
much as I can. They're a lot better than
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they were. Like, I can pet them a little
bit when they're really relaxed.
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But I can't pick them up. You can't pick
them up? No.
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Oh.
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Yeah. Okay.
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Wow, man. Okay.
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Usually, ferals have a decent sense of
trust with their guardians. It's
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outsiders who can't get near them. But
from what Jennifer is telling me, her
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issues go even beyond that.
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Now, tell me the rest of the story.
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In the apartment right below mine, there
was a fire.
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About a year ago. So the alarm was
blazing. I was desperately trying to
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cats and get them into carriers so I
could evacuate them. But the problem is
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that I can't even pick them up when
they're relaxed, much less when a fire
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is blazing and they're terrified. And
eventually, like, I had to just evacuate
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without them. Oh, you had to leave
without them. I did. It was
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Thankfully, they were fine.
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And, you know, the fire was contained
and put out quickly.
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I just feel like I can't keep them safe.
I can't care for them the way I want
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to. There's a story I've heard many
times over.
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I actually even experienced it with a
friend of mine who lost her cat. Oh, my
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God. Being in that position, it would
kill me. I really feel for Jennifer.
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That's a heartbreaking decision to make.
Do you feel like there are keys that
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you've found that help to bring them
around?
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hard. They aren't very food motivated.
Like, nope, we don't care. We're not
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interested. All cats are food motivated.
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Watch this. Going straight to the big
guns.
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We're going sardines. Let's have some
breakfast together.
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What do you say?
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What if I give it to you right out of my
hand because I really got a feeling you
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might take it from me.
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Good boy.
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Is it a good boy? Here.
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Oh, there we go.
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Good job, baby.
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And there's some more right there.
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And can you come even further?
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Good boy, Jackson.
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Now the presentation of a challenge
line, right? Because that is pretty far
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there for him. If Jackson is willing to
stick his head out and his shoulders out
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under that bed, for me, a stranger, that
defines having your cat do something
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they don't want to do. And Ivy is no
different.
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Eventually, food will override her fear.
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Oh, honey. Oh, that's Ivy. That was Ivy?
Yeah.
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Oh, there she goes, baby girl.
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Oh, sweetheart.
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Now.
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Now. I know. Let's talk, okay?
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Let's talk. She has plenty of hiding
spaces.
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I know, but I hate to see them being
here. I know you do. I know you do.
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Judging by what just happened with Ivy,
you go to pieces.
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Yeah.
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Ivy just got spooked for a second, which
for a feral cat is nothing out of the
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ordinary, and Jennifer is a total mess.
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So if Jennifer is going to burst into
tears watching Ivy get scared walking
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across the room, how does she expect to
get her into a carrier, transport her 21
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hours into a new territory, set up that
territory, and think that these cats are
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going to thrive in that new territory?
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Jennifer's got a little bit of waking up
to do right now.
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Oh, that's got to go.
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Oh, off she goes.
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Judging by what just happened with Ivy,
you go to pieces.
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I know, but I hate to see them being
scared. I know you do. I know you do.
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Ivy just got spooked for a second, and
Jennifer is a total mess.
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You just about broke down in tears
watching her do that.
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The bigger challenge to me right now is
the human, for sure.
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Okay, let's go talk homework with you,
okay? Yeah.
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If I can't get Jennifer on board, and I
mean now, I might as well throw in the
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towel here.
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So here's what I want to do.
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I think that this begins with you,
right? I think it would be really useful
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you to find your comfortable center when
it comes to dealing with them.
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Have you ever meditated before? Have you
ever done meditation?
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A little bit. I want every day, just
five minutes before you interact with
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First and foremost, I want Jennifer to
face life with her cats in a grounded,
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present way with the practice of
meditation so that she can look at
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the outside in and say, am I presenting
energy that my cats are going to pick up
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on, negative or positive?
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After that, movable base camp.
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The most crucial part of base camp for
these cats is their carriers. I want
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Jennifer to break the task of getting
her cat into the carrier, into the
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smallest possible task, that then become
achievable challenge lines one after
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the other instead of one massive
challenge line ice bath for her cat.
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You've got to feed your cats in the
carrier to get them to positively
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the carrier with good things.
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Once you can feed him and you go like
that, he's fine, cool. The next treat,
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like that, he's cool.
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And if he's not, if he's going like
this, but he's still dealing with it, do
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same action three, four, five times
until you get all the way close.
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Every time that you extinguish a
challenge line, you're moving forward,
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Jennifer has a lot of work to do before
I get back here next time, and I know
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it's daunting, and I know putting her
cat through challenge is really
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emotionally challenging for her, but we
got to do it. Take care, okay?
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Thanks, you too.
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All right, bye -bye. Bye. Jackson was
totally accurate in his assessment, not
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just of Jackson and Ivy, but of me. If
the homework doesn't work, I'm screwed.
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I don't know what I'm going to do.
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I'm trapped.
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I'm here for my second visit with Maddie
and Aaron and their cat, Mae.
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Mae, who gave me one of the most epic
feedings I've ever taken by a cat
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I gave these guys the homework to get
Mae on medication with the hopes that we
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could successfully reintroduce her to a
world that is just not on fire.
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Hopefully that's the case.
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Well, hey. Welcome back. How are you?
Good to see you. Good to see you.
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Just right off the bat.
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Since the last time I was here, did
anybody get as bloody as me?
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No, thank God.
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No. Okay, no attacks on you guys?
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A couple little attacks. A minor one.
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So when you talk minor, what does minor
look like? It's like she thinks she
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should be attacking, but she's just not
really into it since we started her on
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the medication. I was going to say, see,
that's the beauty of finding the right
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medication. I'm glad the anxiety
medication is working. That's amazing.
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Let's see what you guys have been up to.
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Erin's sitting on the couch petting
Kitty.
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What the hell?
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See, look, she's petting her tummy.
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Excuse me.
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We cut to smiley face while we pet the
cat, right?
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So that's pretty amazing. I mean, for
you to be able to just sit there and pet
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May means that something went right.
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So I'm trying to play with May before
feeding her, as suggested by Jackson.
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As usual, she is not very interested.
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Why doesn't my cat want to play with me?
Come on! The only way you're going to
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get your cat into this is to be the
bird.
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These guardians have got to understand
that you've got to take on the role of
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the prey animal when you handle that toy
in order for your cat to truly engage.
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Last time I was here, I wanted you guys
to sort of mark out the concept.
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confident wares in this house. And I'd
like to tour those places. Can you take
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me around?
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Yeah. Treasure hunt.
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So the annoying part is that she likes
to sit in the middle of the bath mat
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right there.
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So usually when we would be trying to
come into the bathroom, you can't
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that's her spot to hang out. Okay, so it
is a pretty territorially iffy
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place. A real button pusher for you
guys.
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You're going to have that moment of...
Maybe I don't have to go to bed, right?
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And your challenge is going to be, I'm
going to the bathroom. That's going to
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tough. I know it will be. So let's move
on to the next one.
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The last confident where is on the bed.
And right next to that X is Mae.
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You would assume that that confident
place would have been the shelf where I
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Mae the last time I was here. But that's
not confidence. That's the unconfident
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where. That's where she goes to be
scared and angry.
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She sits here a lot.
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Erin has to...
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curl up on that part of the bed or wait
for her to leave because she's been
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scared of the cat for good reason.
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Oh, my God.
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This is a big moment.
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I love what I just saw. I am super
stunned.
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Yeah. What about you? It's incredible.
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You're, like, tearing up. I know. I
know.
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I am so stunned right now.
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I was not expecting this.
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Oh, my God.
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Now, considering all that these three
have been through together, It's quite a
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beautiful moment, really.
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I thought this was always going to be an
issue, and feeling relief is so
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incredible. I bet, man.
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Maddie's response is just beautiful
right now because she's never had this
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moment before, and to see her get it is
really worth it. Last time I was here,
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the reason why I got as decimated as I
got was because I knew there was
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something else there, and I kept going
in because I kept thinking that I was
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going to get there with her. But she
didn't want to do that, but she had to
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it. Now you're seeing that impulse
starting to wane, and maybe every now
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again there's a little bit of a half
-hearted thing, but it's pretty much
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Right now, May is making progress, but I
think that Maddie and Aaron are
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thinking, hey, this is wonderful.
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We have a happy cat. She's on
medication. It's over.
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No, it's just beginning.
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May and Aaron had a nice moment, but
that's all it was. It was a moment. We
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every moment to be like this in order to
erase the fear and the distress that
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exists on both sides.
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I need you to reintroduce yourself to
Mae because I think that's what's
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necessary. You've been carrying around
the weight of her violence. Yeah.
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And now it's time to start releasing it.
Today, I got to say that moment that
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was so beautiful because you had no
expectations.
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So I need you guys to stay on each other
about those expectations.
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When I do this exercise with cats, it's
about reintroducing like you've never
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met before, even though you've had a bad
encounter. It's the same thing with
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these guys. They have to act like
they've just met Mae without fear.
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We have now identified her confident
wares. So now the fun part is expanding
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those confident wares to the confident
everywhere.
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For instance, the bath mat. The bath mat
is not serving a very good purpose
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right now. It's a big X, but it's also
something that you are now avoiding. So
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pull it out. Then guide her to these
places. Now we get into the over
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I notice May's alopecia isn't getting
any better. This over -grooming thing
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got to be addressed.
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I know that there's stuff that we can do
to help stop it.
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Proactively, it's stepping up your play
so that we can redirect that impulse.
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And you see her doing it? Just guide her
head away. You know, it gives the body
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a chance to regenerate. Maze over
grooming is an obsessive behavior, but
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good news is that Maddie and Erin can
help redirect maze grooming by
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her with play. I will talk to you in a
few weeks, okay? Thank you, Jackson. All
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right, of course. See you soon. Bye.
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Bye.
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Amazing. Mae is not suffering anymore,
and that's great. But what Maddie and
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Aaron have to realize is that's not
where we end. That's where we begin.
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How are things going here?
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There are definitely some bad parts.
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Don't be scared, Aaron.
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I'm here in San Bernardino, California
to meet up with Shanta and her husband
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Scott, and there are two cats from
heaven, Ariadne and Arcady. Now these
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cats are mobility challenged, but that
does not stop them from getting around
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and getting into trouble just like any
other cat. I can't wait to meet them.
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Hello. Hi there.
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Hi, how are you? I'm Jackson.
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Oh my gosh, nice to meet you. I'm
Shanta. Shanta, good to meet you.
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It's Catland.
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Oh my God, there's so much to watch
right now. I'm Shanta, and this is my
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husband Scott.
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We foster cats with special needs.
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Let's meet some cats. Okay. Okay, so who
scooted this way? That was... Ariadne.
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This is Ariadne. She was born without
hip sockets.
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Wow. I've never seen a cat born without
hip sockets.
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Who is this? That's Arcady. What's going
on with Arcady? He was born paralyzed,
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and his hips are deformed and his knees
are deformed. Man.
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He's a mess, but a very happy mess.
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Even though neither one of them have use
of their back legs, that doesn't stop
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them from being able to get around and
having fun.
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So the box thing happened when?
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He was five months.
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He has a wheelchair, but he loves the
box.
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It's like a little hover around, man. He
could spin.
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Oh, wow. Here we go. Here we go.
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The thing that I find so amazing about
animals, no self -pity, no
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awareness of I'm different from anybody
else.
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I am Ariadne, I am Arkady, and get them
away, right? I mean, it's inspiring.
453
00:27:35,120 --> 00:27:41,640
If your reaction to seeing Ariadne and
Arkady is, oh, it's a sad story,
454
00:27:41,860 --> 00:27:43,840
you're missing the point.
455
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:50,640
They're happy animals living a happy
life with a happy family. So I noticed
456
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,100
they have outfits on.
457
00:27:53,360 --> 00:27:57,420
The outfits that I've created, I just...
Pulled fabric out that I had. It's
458
00:27:57,420 --> 00:27:58,560
simple, but they work.
459
00:27:58,980 --> 00:28:00,080
Water resistant.
460
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:01,940
Plus it protects their belly as well. It
protects them.
461
00:28:02,380 --> 00:28:06,580
Look, everyone who knows me knows that I
don't like putting animals in clothes.
462
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:12,600
Now, in this case, these guys need this
clothing. If it serves a purpose, go
463
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:18,600
with it. So now we have Ariadne and
Arcady. But who was the first that came
464
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:19,600
you? Tegan was our first.
465
00:28:20,180 --> 00:28:24,500
Oh, she's so adorable. Tell me the story
about Tegan. Tegan was...
466
00:28:32,950 --> 00:28:38,970
She went from being perfectly fine to
gone.
467
00:28:40,510 --> 00:28:46,170
Shanta's grief is still strong, but she
had the strength to turn that into
468
00:28:46,170 --> 00:28:47,490
something very positive.
469
00:28:47,850 --> 00:28:51,970
And a lot of people would have just
crawled into a hole and possibly never
470
00:28:51,970 --> 00:28:52,970
have adopted another cat.
471
00:28:53,190 --> 00:28:55,870
And these guys went completely headlong
in the other direction.
472
00:28:56,270 --> 00:29:01,190
Doing cats without special needs just
isn't our thing anymore. Now it's the
473
00:29:01,190 --> 00:29:02,029
special ones.
474
00:29:02,030 --> 00:29:05,130
One thing that's so crucial about the
work that Shanta and Scott are doing is
475
00:29:05,130 --> 00:29:09,650
that these cats, if not adopted and
fostered by them, would likely have been
476
00:29:09,650 --> 00:29:14,230
euthanized. Shanta and Scott, by
continuing to adopt and foster cats like
477
00:29:14,230 --> 00:29:18,310
Ariadne and Arcady and then raising
awareness, these cats are saving a lot
478
00:29:18,310 --> 00:29:22,390
lives. We had the opportunity of
visiting junior high classrooms and the
479
00:29:22,390 --> 00:29:23,390
reception was amazing.
480
00:29:23,610 --> 00:29:29,610
I have this hunger to just share with
people what we've learned because a lot
481
00:29:29,610 --> 00:29:31,530
people don't realize that cats like this
exist.
482
00:29:32,030 --> 00:29:36,890
I learned this, and I have to share it.
I can't keep it quiet. For Tegan, I have
483
00:29:36,890 --> 00:29:43,170
to share it. I leave here with a big
smile on my face. I met cats today who
484
00:29:43,170 --> 00:29:47,370
embrace life in a way that no other cat
can.
485
00:29:47,750 --> 00:29:53,030
And at the same time, I met two people
who just want to make life better for
486
00:29:53,030 --> 00:29:56,150
these cats, and that's all they care
about. These are my people.
487
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,720
So I'm here for my second visit with
Jennifer and her two cats, Jackson and
488
00:30:12,860 --> 00:30:16,200
Now, when I left these guys last time,
it was all about baby steps, trying to
489
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:20,480
make positive associations, because when
it comes to trauma here, Jennifer's got
490
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:24,580
as much as these cats do, and they both
have challenges that they had to face.
491
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:25,720
Hopefully they did.
492
00:30:25,860 --> 00:30:29,100
How's life in the world of Jackson and
Ivy?
493
00:30:29,940 --> 00:30:31,480
It's going pretty well. Yeah?
494
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:32,980
Making some progress.
495
00:30:33,300 --> 00:30:37,220
Good. That's what we want. We want
progress. Let's take a look at your
496
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,300
Time for my daily meditation.
497
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:40,840
Good.
498
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:46,280
Love this.
499
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:47,800
Love it.
500
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:59,320
And look
501
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:04,140
at you. What do you do?
502
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:05,579
You walk away.
503
00:31:05,580 --> 00:31:09,920
Now, that's a big deal for you. The cats
are going into the carriers on their
504
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:13,360
own because they don't feel a sense of
pressure. All they feel is, hey, there's
505
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,820
food, and I'm going in. All right,
that's for you.
506
00:31:16,900 --> 00:31:18,140
That's for little Mr.
507
00:31:18,500 --> 00:31:19,500
Jackson.
508
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:21,720
I'm just going to do this.
509
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:24,640
Wait,
510
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:26,240
am I seeing this right?
511
00:31:27,660 --> 00:31:29,020
That's Ivy in there with door closed?
512
00:31:29,220 --> 00:31:30,119
Yeah.
513
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:31,720
Girl, nice.
514
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,160
What I've seen in the video homework
shows me that these guys are embracing
515
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:40,800
those baby steps. Now, she's got to get
it in her bones that she can do
516
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:45,840
processes like this over and over and
over again. So, I've got something else
517
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:46,569
my sleeve.
518
00:31:46,570 --> 00:31:50,490
So I want you to start getting your fire
drill in your head. Obviously, you guys
519
00:31:50,490 --> 00:31:53,630
have been through an actual fire. I hope
there's never another emergency like
520
00:31:53,630 --> 00:31:56,950
that, but I want you to be prepared for
it. What I'm also talking about is the
521
00:31:56,950 --> 00:32:02,390
act of getting these guys into a kennel
and what your next steps are after that
522
00:32:02,390 --> 00:32:05,630
in a thought -out way.
523
00:32:05,950 --> 00:32:08,510
Now, I'm going to give you two minutes.
524
00:32:09,540 --> 00:32:13,140
You're going to go into that room and go
through everything that you showed me
525
00:32:13,140 --> 00:32:17,880
on homework, which is your feeding
exercise into the kennel, doors closed.
526
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:22,180
now, time is the thing that puts
pressure on us.
527
00:32:22,900 --> 00:32:27,660
Your challenge is to get through this
pressure meditatively.
528
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:33,120
I'm freaking out right now. This is a
lot of pressure, and I've never timed
529
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,520
myself, so I have no idea how it's going
to go.
530
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:36,840
I know.
531
00:32:40,590 --> 00:32:41,469
Very nice.
532
00:32:41,470 --> 00:32:42,470
Let's do this.
533
00:32:43,150 --> 00:32:47,990
Now, the objective here with this dry
run is to keep the pressure on Jennifer
534
00:32:47,990 --> 00:32:52,810
she can keep acting rationally when the
pressure's on. And I can't be with her
535
00:32:52,810 --> 00:32:56,850
when she lands in Canada, but I want my
words in her head. And I want her to
536
00:32:56,850 --> 00:32:59,230
know that she's got options when she
gets there.
537
00:33:00,190 --> 00:33:03,070
And... Go.
538
00:33:03,290 --> 00:33:05,430
I'm going to have her put those cats in
carriers.
539
00:33:05,630 --> 00:33:07,390
Door is closed in two minutes.
540
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,260
Ticking clock. I want to see how she
responds under serious pressure.
541
00:33:23,540 --> 00:33:28,520
I'm all about pushing. I'm all about
challenging. But when you have two cats
542
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:32,280
a human who have been through the amount
of trauma these three have, you want to
543
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:33,279
be careful.
544
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,420
But then again, Jennifer has to learn
the lesson that just because you've been
545
00:33:37,420 --> 00:33:40,160
through something doesn't mean you have
to stay there.
546
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:44,240
Pain is something that happens to all of
us, but suffering, that's a choice.
547
00:33:44,580 --> 00:33:47,320
30 seconds to get that butt in there and
the door is closed. Come on.
548
00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:00,620
Six, five, four, three.
549
00:34:01,230 --> 00:34:03,490
Oh, and with two seconds to spare.
550
00:34:04,590 --> 00:34:05,590
Yay!
551
00:34:07,330 --> 00:34:08,730
You did it, man.
552
00:34:09,030 --> 00:34:13,130
You did it. That was fantastic.
553
00:34:13,510 --> 00:34:18,030
I feel like the cats are progressing
great. Jennifer was the X factor, and
554
00:34:18,030 --> 00:34:21,429
I felt like she started coming into her
own, and that was so important.
555
00:34:21,989 --> 00:34:25,170
Judging by what I'm watching in there,
your cats are doing great.
556
00:34:25,409 --> 00:34:30,110
So we're going to pack up your house as
if we are going to move you.
557
00:34:30,429 --> 00:34:33,230
Wow. Now, bring me your litter box.
558
00:34:34,770 --> 00:34:36,330
Okay. Don't ask why.
559
00:34:37,350 --> 00:34:38,350
Okay.
560
00:34:38,630 --> 00:34:40,750
We've been talking about traveling base
camp.
561
00:34:41,510 --> 00:34:47,610
This is the essence of base camp. I'd
like you to put the litter in the
562
00:34:47,610 --> 00:34:48,730
bag. Okay.
563
00:34:49,110 --> 00:34:53,449
I'm telling you, if you take that dirty
litter, pack it up, and you put it in a
564
00:34:53,449 --> 00:34:56,870
new spot, your cat's going to walk up to
it and they're going to be like, wait,
565
00:34:56,989 --> 00:34:58,150
what's that smell?
566
00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,900
Yeah, that's right. I live here.
567
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,980
Hey, baby, this is territorial gold
right here.
568
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:09,380
Okay. It may not smell like gold, but it
is. Now, next thing that I want are
569
00:35:09,380 --> 00:35:14,280
beds, blankets, any kind of furniture
that is a scent soaker. If you want your
570
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:18,740
cats to be okay in new territories,
bring all their good stuff into that
571
00:35:18,740 --> 00:35:22,720
before you bring them. Set up their
litter box. Set up their dishes. Then
572
00:35:22,720 --> 00:35:27,380
last thing that you do is bring your
cats in. I also want their food dishes.
573
00:35:27,380 --> 00:35:28,420
want their water dish.
574
00:35:31,050 --> 00:35:32,150
To get some dirty laundry.
575
00:35:32,510 --> 00:35:35,970
Anything that has your scent all over
it. I feel confident setting up my house
576
00:35:35,970 --> 00:35:39,350
when I get to Canada. I know what things
I need to bring in so that the cats
577
00:35:39,350 --> 00:35:41,130
will feel like it's their space.
578
00:35:41,410 --> 00:35:42,410
Thank you so much.
579
00:35:42,630 --> 00:35:43,630
Bon voyage.
580
00:35:44,010 --> 00:35:47,070
I'm going to have Jennifer send me video
updates when it's time to make the big
581
00:35:47,070 --> 00:35:48,830
move, but I know this is going to work.
582
00:35:49,180 --> 00:35:53,800
I know that Jackson and Ivy and Jennifer
are going to get to Canada in one
583
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,300
piece. They'll all be sane at the end of
it, and they're all going to feel safe
584
00:35:57,300 --> 00:36:00,700
when they get to their home. We'll talk
to you very soon. Take care, okay? Thank
585
00:36:00,700 --> 00:36:01,359
you, too.
586
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:02,360
All right, bye -bye.
587
00:36:10,180 --> 00:36:11,860
I'm trapped.
588
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:22,180
So I'm here for my final visit with Erin
and Maddie and their cat, May. And the
589
00:36:22,180 --> 00:36:25,440
last time I was here, we had gotten past
the easy part of the work. The hard
590
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:29,180
part was reintroducing May to the world
so that she felt confident everywhere,
591
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:33,680
which I hope she does, because if she
doesn't, everybody suffers, including
592
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,360
How are things going here?
593
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:38,320
Things have been going really well.
594
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:43,160
Yeah, there are definitely some good
parts, followed by a few bad parts.
595
00:36:44,690 --> 00:36:49,750
Okay, so is it safe to say that the bad
is the exception to the rule? Yes.
596
00:36:50,250 --> 00:36:54,490
Well, listen, let's get right into it. I
want to take a look at what you guys
597
00:36:54,490 --> 00:36:59,270
have been up to. We moved Mae's bath mat
out into the living room.
598
00:36:59,650 --> 00:37:00,650
Neutral space.
599
00:37:01,570 --> 00:37:03,650
Not ours nor hers.
600
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:09,980
I got home just now, and May May was
sitting in the living room by herself on
601
00:37:09,980 --> 00:37:10,939
the blanket.
602
00:37:10,940 --> 00:37:14,500
And that's not anything that's ever
happened, so that's kind of cool.
603
00:37:14,820 --> 00:37:15,618
That's fantastic.
604
00:37:15,620 --> 00:37:19,640
Since that day, has it been, has she
done more of that? More frequent, yeah.
605
00:37:19,940 --> 00:37:21,280
Yeah? So this worked.
606
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,680
May's reintroduction to the world has
been a resounding success. I mean, every
607
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:30,800
place that she avoided before, she's
actually magnetized to now. This cat is
608
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,620
confidently owning territory.
609
00:37:33,670 --> 00:37:36,930
It's cat mojo, and Mae is demonstrating
that in a huge way.
610
00:37:37,270 --> 00:37:40,730
Maddie and Erin have been doing really
good work in expanding Mae's confidence,
611
00:37:40,870 --> 00:37:44,710
but I want to see how they're doing in
overcoming their own PTSD, and as a
612
00:37:44,710 --> 00:37:48,810
result, treating Mae like a normal cat,
because that's the only way she's ever
613
00:37:48,810 --> 00:37:49,810
going to act like one.
614
00:37:49,830 --> 00:37:55,770
Erin says that Mae tried to get her just
now, so I want to see
615
00:37:55,770 --> 00:37:57,630
if she's going to.
616
00:38:01,030 --> 00:38:02,270
Don't be scared, Erin.
617
00:38:03,500 --> 00:38:08,320
You see now. You see how she's in the
doorway, and Erin, I can see it. I can
618
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,220
you going ahead going, now what? Right?
Because now she's sort of blocking the
619
00:38:12,220 --> 00:38:16,720
doorway. This is the area where Maddie
and Erin can and will keep improving.
620
00:38:16,980 --> 00:38:21,540
Each time they walk by Mae with
confidence and without fear, the
621
00:38:21,540 --> 00:38:23,460
will just become a little more repaired.
622
00:38:23,980 --> 00:38:25,420
So May is here.
623
00:38:25,740 --> 00:38:28,540
This is one of the spots that May enjoys
grooming.
624
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:33,300
Can you try to distract her from doing
that with the laser or some toys?
625
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,500
Because she's been here a few times.
626
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,080
Oh, good job. It works.
627
00:38:42,500 --> 00:38:46,860
There you go. I can designate this
officially as a spot where Kitty likes
628
00:38:46,860 --> 00:38:52,040
grooming. Don't you want to play instead
of grooming?
629
00:38:52,970 --> 00:38:53,970
Good kitty.
630
00:38:54,350 --> 00:39:01,290
Okay. Great stuff. I mean, to know that
she's capable of a normal life makes
631
00:39:01,290 --> 00:39:04,490
me happy. And you guys are capable of a
normal life.
632
00:39:04,810 --> 00:39:09,010
Amazing work. Through this process,
we've learned from Mae that we just have
633
00:39:09,010 --> 00:39:13,630
give her the time and attention that she
needs to become that cat that Maddie
634
00:39:13,630 --> 00:39:15,410
always knew was in there.
635
00:39:15,910 --> 00:39:16,910
Hi, Mae Mae.
636
00:39:18,470 --> 00:39:19,470
Wow.
637
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,040
I'm having a moment with your cat.
638
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:26,720
It's the truth.
639
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:28,680
I'm going to cry.
640
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:30,000
I'm going to cry.
641
00:39:30,260 --> 00:39:31,480
We have the truth.
642
00:39:32,060 --> 00:39:33,440
Such a good girl.
643
00:39:33,700 --> 00:39:37,640
I always want to make sure that a cat
that I had a not so pleasant encounter
644
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:44,120
with still sees me as an ally. To have
May walk up to me, headbutt my hand, my
645
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:48,200
legs, let me know that we're all good,
it does mean something to me.
646
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,880
I mean, this is the truth that I've been
looking for since the day I first met
647
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,040
me. Good girl.
648
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:57,820
Yay. What is it? What is it? What is it?
Oh, my God, look at that belly.
649
00:39:58,080 --> 00:39:59,500
Look at that belly.
650
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:01,580
She's so naked.
651
00:40:01,820 --> 00:40:02,820
It's okay.
652
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:07,500
Although I am seeing lots of new growth
there. See the peach fuzz? Yeah, it's
653
00:40:07,500 --> 00:40:08,940
starting to get a little darker.
654
00:40:09,380 --> 00:40:12,120
Well, the peach fuzz is to say that she
hasn't gone at it.
655
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,540
Redirecting the over -grooming is
working. Otherwise, she'd be completely
656
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:22,840
When I first met Mae, she was trapped on
a shelf lashing out within an inch of
657
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,200
her life and my life. And that cat is
walking around here soliciting attention
658
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:30,040
and love from me today and rolling over
on her back. It's a different cat,
659
00:40:30,180 --> 00:40:30,839
believe me.
660
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,940
No biting yourself, no biting humans.
Anything else is fair game.
661
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,820
Mae Mae, stay positive, my love. Okay?
662
00:40:37,220 --> 00:40:38,220
Guys, I'm out.
663
00:40:38,300 --> 00:40:39,340
Thank you so much.
664
00:40:39,580 --> 00:40:42,740
Hang with your cat. I don't want to
break this moment up for a second.
665
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:44,760
Thank you, Justin. Okay, guys. Thank
you.
666
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:46,280
Bye. Bye.
667
00:40:51,009 --> 00:40:54,670
Truth is, do not get me sweeter than
that. It's not just the fact that I'm
668
00:40:54,670 --> 00:40:57,830
bleeding. It's about May and the fact
that she's not suffering anymore.
669
00:40:58,070 --> 00:41:00,610
And it's about Aaron and Maddie. They're
not either.
670
00:41:01,070 --> 00:41:02,070
Today's a good day.
671
00:41:11,050 --> 00:41:14,630
Two weeks after I last met with
Jennifer, she packed up her car for the
672
00:41:14,630 --> 00:41:16,870
to Canada with her two cats, Jackson and
Ivy.
673
00:41:17,070 --> 00:41:19,630
And she's been sending me the video
updates that I asked for.
674
00:41:20,070 --> 00:41:21,070
So, good news.
675
00:41:21,130 --> 00:41:22,430
Cats are in the carrier.
676
00:41:22,690 --> 00:41:23,690
They're ready to go.
677
00:41:23,970 --> 00:41:28,250
Jackson made a huge difference. Now I
see that it is possible to work with my
678
00:41:28,250 --> 00:41:33,290
cat. And I know that if there's an
emergency, I can evacuate them.
679
00:41:33,510 --> 00:41:35,090
These guys are doing really well.
680
00:41:38,490 --> 00:41:39,490
We are heading.
681
00:41:40,110 --> 00:41:41,170
Across the border.
682
00:41:41,870 --> 00:41:47,210
Vancouver. In a few minutes, we'll be
arriving and unpacking the cat, setting
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base camp.
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I am in my home in Vancouver.
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There's Ivy in the litter box.
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Of course, in the two litter boxes, we
have the...
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Very valuable used litter.
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It's their territory now. They have
totally claimed it. I never in my
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dreams could have hoped that this would
go so well.
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It's amazing.
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