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Sidney is Zach and his ex -wife's cat.
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After we moved in together, Sidney
started peeing all over the house.
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It stinks.
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Yeah, it's terrible.
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This is our brand new pouch.
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It started immediately, which made me
feel like it was me, like I was this
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stepmother. It was like this huge one,
two, three punch for Sid.
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Here's your new mom. Here's your new
house. And by the way, here's your new
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brother, and he is the spawn of the
devil.
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Stella is our first baby, but since
Avery's come along, things have gone
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cuddles and snuggles to chaos.
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The attacks are so frequent, it is truly
a daily fear for her attacking her
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daughter.
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Stop it.
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The humans in this house are living in a
constant state of fear. It's a really
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tense situation.
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I hear the most incredible stories about
animals and their people every single
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day. Our cat, Grace, saved us.
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Had you guys not come downstairs, we
wouldn't be having this conversation
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now. Wow.
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Whoa!
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Holy! I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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What the hell, man?
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The animal behavior that guardians call
when they're dealing with a difficult
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cat. Sometimes I wish that I didn't have
her.
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Damn.
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I'm out to prove that there is no such
thing as a bad cat. Just a cat that
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my help. This is fun.
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I'm Zach.
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And I'm Meredith.
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We've been together for two years. We
have two dogs, Hector and Teddy and a
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Sidney. After we moved in together,
Sidney started peeing all over the
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He peed on everything.
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It stinks.
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Yeah, it's terrible.
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Oh my God, that feels horrible.
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He peed in the crate again.
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There's pee all over here, and there's
pee on this desk here.
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It always smells like pee over here.
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Cat pee is the worst thing on the
planet. And this is my side of the bed.
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There's no cleaning cat pee out of
stuff. You throw away things that cats
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on. I'm so careful in here. I decided
enough was enough.
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Sidney was not allowed inside the
bedroom.
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After he's been locked out of the
bedroom, Sid started peeing on the
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So this is our brand new couch.
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Sid peed on it twice a day, every day,
and after three months of cleaning it
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we decided to just put the couch in the
garage.
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We have this beautiful home together
that we can't fully enjoy.
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Sid's peeing problem adds an enormous
amount of stress. We never fight about
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anything except for Sidney. I don't know
if we're fully equipped to handle it.
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I can't do this anymore. This is the
biggest stress, and it could be the
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that could break us.
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Hi.
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Hi. How are you doing?
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How are you doing?
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This is Teddy, and this is Hector.
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Now, how old is Teddy? He's nine months
old, and Hector is six.
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We got him right after we lost my other,
I had a rescue pit bull for 12 years,
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and he passed away in January. Oh, I'm
so sorry, man. We had to put Diamond
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because he couldn't walk.
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After Diamond passed away, about two
months later, we got Teddy as a seven
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-old pit bull. We got him to refill the
house.
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This must add a whole layer of fun,
whatever cat problems we got going on
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Yeah. So what's going on?
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Sydney is Zach and his ex -wife's cat.
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Before we moved in together, Zach was
like, there's this cat that we have, and
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he's gone back and forth between us
three or four times.
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And the reason you guys were switching
up was just sort of a custody thing? She
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wanted custody, but everywhere she moved
to was difficult for her to have him.
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This was only about two and a half
months into our relationship, but we
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were going to be together. So he
consulted me, and I said, okay, well,
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to take him.
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but just tell her that we're going to
take him on the condition that we're not
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going to give him back. I know it was
stressful for him to go back and forth.
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Yeah, not for any cat.
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Sydney went back and forth from one
house to the other. That's a lot of
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on a cat. They're territorial animals.
They define their safety by their space.
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Once we moved in here, Sid has had kind
of this, like, peeing problem.
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It started almost immediately, which
made me feel like it was me, like I was
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this evil stepmother.
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Evil stepmother. You hear those words,
you know something's going on here that
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shouldn't be happening. There's no way
that just because Meredith is a new
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person on the scene that Sidney is
suddenly going to start taking
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on her. Is Sidney neutered?
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Oh, yeah. Okay, good.
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Teddy. From talking to my ex -wife, he
never did this with her.
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He never peed in her house? No.
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Crazy.
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Teddy, come on.
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I just want to get to walking around
here, meet him, take a look at... All of
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the zones. Are there a lot? There's a
few. Right now, there's three solid
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that he goes. Well, yeah. I mean, that's
because we don't have our couch
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anymore. How long has it been since you
haven't had a couch?
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Two months. Now, without the couch here,
has he stopped peeing here?
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He stopped peeing here.
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Where he pees the most is right over
here.
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This is all him? Yeah.
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Nothing a cat does is random.
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Wow, that's all from Sydney peeing.
Yeah, from Sydney peeing. They plan out
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their days. They plan out what
strategically has advantages, what keeps
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territory safe.
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So this spot was hit all the time. This
is pee.
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Look at all that.
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In Sydney's world, wherever he pees,
there's a good reason behind it. I have
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figure out what that reason is.
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Did the peeing on the sink start
recently?
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That's real recent. That's real recent.
So is that after the couch went away?
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Yeah. Okay. The fact that it's
everywhere means that this territory has
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some level of instability for Sidney.
That is a ton of pee. Come on.
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The very first place that he started to
go was right here.
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Oh, wow. It does stink over here. Yeah.
And this is my side of the bed. Ground
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zero. Ground zero.
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Holy cow.
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It still clearly smells over here. Yeah.
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That's a big spot right there. The
entire room is covered in pee. Some of
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stuff could be from my old pit bull,
Diamond, from his incontinence, from the
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past. Oh.
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Diamond had degenerative hip disorder to
where he could not walk anymore and
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eventually losing all function of his
bowel control.
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Diamond passed away eight days after we
moved in here. You move in. Diamond
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passes. A week later, Sid starts peeing
everywhere.
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Dear Sidney.
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and you're trying to figure out what
happened to my life, where the dog that
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grew up with is suddenly gone, and now
there's this new dog, but I smell the
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dog every time I come into the bedroom.
You understand why he's so confused and
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why he feels the need to feel
territorially permanent, to spray on top
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everything. I really love animals. I
love Sid, and I just feel like he's
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unhappy, you know?
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And do you really feel like you're part
of the...
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When Diamond was sick, you know, that
was really stressful.
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And sometimes, I don't know, sometimes I
feel like, you know, us moving
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in together was part of the reason why
you decided that, you know, it was time
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to let him go.
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In retrospect, the decision to adopt
Teddy, it was too soon.
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Now I just feel like it was like this
huge one, two, three punch for Sid.
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It was like, welcome back to your dad.
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Here's your new mom. Here's your new
house.
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Say goodbye to your brother. And by the
way, here's your new brother. My heart
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absolutely goes out to Meredith.
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I mean, she is the new factor in Zach
and Sidney's life. And the second she
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comes into their lives.
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Bang. Everything falls apart.
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I get it. I get where she might feel
responsible, but she shouldn't.
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Oh, there you are.
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Hi, Sid.
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So that's where he spends most of his
time.
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By nature, he's a social cat, right? Oh,
my God.
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Come on.
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Teddy. Teddy is bouncing off the walls,
literally bouncing off of me. Cup shot.
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He is a bundle of energy, and I'm sure
that Sidney responds to that on some
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degree or another.
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Go ahead, I just want to see this.
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What the hell, man?
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Why is your dog humping your cat?
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He was just trying to pin him down.
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There's nothing normal about this theme
right now at all.
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Oh, maybe he's doing a little humping.
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What the hell, man?
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This happens every day?
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Yeah. This is not normal.
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So, we let that happen?
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He's not happy playing with Teddy, but
he could stop Teddy from doing that, in
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our opinion.
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Huh.
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These guys have clearly seen this happen
many, many times before, and that may
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speak to the fact that Sidney doesn't
seem to be overreacting, but...
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It seems to me that unless Sidney was
screaming for help, these guys are just
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going to keep letting this happen. Is
Teddy neutered? Yes. Is he extra
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because we're here, or is he like this
all the time? He's kind of like this.
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He's pretty energetic.
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I really do feel like I've got a full
vision of what the problem is in this
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house. Maybe a little bit too much, but
now it's time to sit down with this
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couple, give them some homework, and
start laying out a course for the
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From what I'm gathering, there's a lot
of change that's happened, a lot of
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change. For a cat, there's nothing more
important than territorial security,
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than knowing tomorrow I will wake up and
my territory will be what it was
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yesterday, what it was the day before
yesterday, and will be tomorrow until
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end of time.
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For Sid, it has all gone.
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And Sid is just... expressing it the way
he expresses it. For a cat who is
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feeling no sense of territorial
permanence, pee's all you got, man.
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It is your way of saying, I belong here,
I live here, there's proof of my
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existence. First of all, what do you
guys do in terms of Teddy's exercise?
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I run him. You run him?
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Yeah, I walked Teddy. I ran him this
morning before you guys got here.
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Shh. That dog is a nutcase. He needs
that aerobic exercise to really work
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He needs to go out to the dog park. He
needs to play. And when he gets back to
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this house, boom, he's tired and he's
not humping the cat.
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The next thing I want to explain to you
is the concept of the mojo map.
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Mojo, which is confident ownership of
territory. You're going to mark on your
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map with a certain color where he sits.
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where he watches things out the window,
where he hangs out but doesn't pee.
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Then I want you to identify those places
that mark unconfident ownership of
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territory. That's where he does pee. And
the mojo map will start to rid us of
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the concept of random behavior and start
identifying patterns.
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The mojo map is a map of mojo or anti
-mojo. When I come back here next time,
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not only will I see patterns, but you're
going to see them too.
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Now, that carpet is done in your
bedroom. You've got to pull it up. He
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your old dog, Diamond, constantly. And
he is not given that chance to, just as
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you would, mourn. A cat's nose is more
sensitive than our sense of smell.
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And they define their world by that
sense.
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So that smell of your friend the dog who
suddenly disappeared a year ago, but
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his pee lingers, that messes with your
head if you're a cat.
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How are you guys feeling about the level
of homework that we got going on here?
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It's definitely...
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going to take some work, but I'm willing
to put it in to make things better.
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Right now, I am so motivated to start
working on this homework.
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All right. Thank you. Bye, guys. Bye. If
this is what's going to make Sid happy,
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if this is what's going to make our home
a home again, we'll do it.
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I'm Morgan.
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I'm Eric, and we have a one -year -old
daughter, Avery Grace.
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Hi, Abe.
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Say hi.
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Yeah, say hi, everyone.
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And we also have our fur baby, Stella.
She was our first baby. When we first
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brought her home, she would cuddle with
me.
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She was essentially a companion for Eric
and I. But since Avery's come along,
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things have gone from cuddles and
snuggles and playful times to attacking
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chaos.
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Stella will bite our ankles, our hands,
legs.
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Any extremity she can get to, basically.
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Stop! Hi, Stella.
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Oh! She's even swiped and got me in the
eye once. What if that had been Avery?
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My worst nightmare is that she gets
Avery in the eye and Avery loses vision.
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attacks are so frequent now that, you
know, it is truly a daily fear for her
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attacking Avery.
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Hey.
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Stop it.
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I feel like it puts me in a constant
state of fear and anxiety trying to...
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Make sure Stella doesn't attack her.
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I'm afraid that if Jackson can't help
Stella, they're never going to be able
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coexist together, and we won't be a
family unit.
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We really, really, truly need help, and
the safety of our daughter is the most
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important thing to us.
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Hello.
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How are you doing?
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Hi. Eric.
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Eric. How are you doing? Hi, Morgan.
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Who's this?
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Say hi, Avery. Say hi, Avery.
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Say hi.
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It's good when I get a smile right on my
face.
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Can you say hi?
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She's like, I like cat toys. Yes. I
cannot lie.
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So.
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What's happening?
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Stella's always been a little bit off
and kind of rambunctious, and she's
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unpredictable, but since Avery's been
here, it's definitely gotten worse. We
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kind of don't know what to expect, and
like I said, she's bitten her, she's
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scratched her. She broken skin on Avery
before? Not on Avery.
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But you?
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Yeah, me, definitely. She's got her eye
before. Yeah, she's got me in the
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eyelid. My thought is that it's just the
general state of energy that a 13
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-month -old child brings to the table.
If that cat's energy is not drained off
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of them every single day, that static
builds, and then you've got the
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unpredictable motions and behaviors of a
child. And that, I think, is that
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combustible combination.
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I'm just watching Stella's tail.
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It's always going.
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Always? Always. Most of the time. Even
when she's like...
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laying and she seems to be resting like
it seems to be going. We used to joke
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that she like sleeps with one eye open.
She's always kind of on guard.
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Stella is a classic tail talker. When
she's not feeling altogether grounded,
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that tail is not grounded. First it
starts to flick, then it starts to whip,
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then it starts to wag. She's letting you
know I am just feeling like I'm
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crawling out of my skin a little. Just
by watching every circle around Stella,
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can see that they've got a history.
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Seeing Stella sitting on this table and
seeing Avery eye level to the cat
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sitting in her little chair, it's a
really tense situation.
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Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
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Hey,
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hey, hey, hey, hey.
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Come over here.
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Okay, so that didn't take much. Yeah,
no, it doesn't. You look at her again.
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And she's like, nah. She's like, no, I
like Stella. But she's very persistent,
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and she loves her cat.
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Avery is suddenly hit with the soft paw,
just a little bat like that, just a way
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of saying, you might want to get out of
my face.
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Expecting Avery to understand get out of
my face and go take a seat someplace
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else is unreasonable. Now, as this one
gets a lot more active, I notice
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it being mirrored by Stella. Stella
starts getting ramped up as well.
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Are you ready for a nap?
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This is what happens before nap time is
that she starts getting... I've gotten
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all the information that I can get right
now from Stella and Avery's
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interactions. Now we can get Avery down
for the count for a minute so that I can
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really spend a little more time with
Stella.
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Stella!
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The best way that I can challenge Stella
to see if her behavior is predictable
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or not is to bring out a toy and bring
out my hands. If she chooses my body
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parts over the toy...
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Well, it's bad for everybody, including
me.
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Good girl.
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Get that tail going.
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Get that tail going.
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Good girl.
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Now what happens?
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Now let's play a little bit.
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Now we're going to use our hands.
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What is that?
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What is that? What I'm seeing is that
she's looking for the toy. She's going
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around looking to see where that toy
went. She doesn't want my hands. What?
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And I'm telling you, I am going to town
right now. I am rubbing that cat's
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belly. I am picking her up, putting her
down, juggling her, basically.
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And she continually wants to remove
herself from the situation.
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What finally sets off Stella is not me
petting her, over -petting, over
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-stimulating. It's when I remove all of
that attention and just sit in
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stillness.
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Oh, now she's all wound up and she
doesn't have an outlet, and that's when
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goes for me. Now we got it going.
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Yeah?
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Okay. I know you're angry. I'm sorry.
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I don't mean to anger you, but if that's
as bad as it gets.
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I've got all the information I need from
Stella, and I'm actually really excited
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right now because I feel like I can give
these parents tools that will save the
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relationship between their child and
their cat and save this cat from hitting
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the bricks.
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The ability to forge a positive
relationship between these two that's
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last many, many years is the most
important thing. The cat's 100 %
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So it's really important that you guys
start to be able to identify what is
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what. So I've got to send you guys to
cat class right now.
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The first thing we're going to start
with is body language 101.
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This is your clue.
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She's a tail talker. When you see that
tail talking, you have to start
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a bit of a protective bubble around
Stella.
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So next, this is your cat's favorite
thing ever. Okay. So that's cool. I
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would literally, what I was doing was
playing with her. Then I'd put it in my
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back pocket and present my hands just
like she would.
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And she's like, I don't want that. I
want the toy. Okay.
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Your second assignment is the play
technique called boil and simmer.
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Realizing that with cats, they are
built.
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For speed and not distance. So when they
play, it's like, go, go, go, go, go,
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go, go. So that's the boil. Then they're
just going to, this one is just going
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to go.
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Okay. But she's only going to do that
for about a minute. That's the simmer.
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Then you're going to go at it again.
Every time you do it, you're going to
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more and more truly tired. And then at
that point, you feed a meal.
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Okay. Boil and simmer is so productive
for Stella and for Eric and Morgan as
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well. It actually takes all of this.
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unpredictable energy and just drains it
out so that you have a purely
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predictable cat. And if you can predict
Stella's actions, you can stop an attack
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before it happens. So your last
assignment needs to catify this world in
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way because what happened today was
thoroughly predictable, right?
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It's their eye to eye, which is already
a little bit offensive to the cat.
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We give Stella some vertical space here.
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Stella could be up on a perch somewhere
looking down, watching as Avery does
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these unpredictable movements. And this
one owns the floor. Right. And the four
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-legged owns the sky. Yeah. Even though
I'm ditching a lot of work on you guys,
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the payoff is so huge. That's why I'm
excited right now. Because I really
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that you're set up to do a really cool
thing right now. Awesome. All right.
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Thank you.
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Guys, you are very welcome. I will see
you in a few weeks. Yes. Thank you.
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Thank you. Don't get up. I'm just going
to leave.
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Bye -bye.
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Bye, guys.
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Bye. All right. Thank you.
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Yeah. The homework assignment that
Jackson gave us is definitely going to
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the situation.
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It's going to be challenging. My focus
most of the time is on Avery, and then,
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you know, I'm going to have to learn to
kind of split it up a little bit more.
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You peed on everything.
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It stinks.
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You know, going in to meet up with Zach
and Meredith today, I'm just hoping for
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a baseline.
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I mean, if they cleaned up the place and
Sid just went and remarked everything,
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we've gotten nowhere.
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And there's our boy.
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Hello, my friend.
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There's Teddy. I'm just going to ignore
Teddy for now.
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That's the kind of Sid we want to see.
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That makes Jackson happy.
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The last time I was here, Sid wasn't
psyched to have someone strange in this
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house. This time around, there's a lot
more welcoming happening. That lets me
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know that Sid is on the road to
confident ownership of territory.
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That's a breakthrough.
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Woohoo, I'm so happy. Since Jackson came
and visited us the first time, we laid
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out a plan of action and took it step by
step and had, in my opinion, a lot of
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success. I was very motivated by what
you said about we're going to get rid of
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the word random.
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That really helped me, too, to feel
like, okay, well, there's a method to
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madness, then there's going to be a
method to ours.
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Like that.
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That's a good way of saying it, for
sure.
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Let me get into my case here, and we
will start going through your homework.
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When I left Zach and Meredith last time,
I wanted them first and foremost to
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clean up the place. We took a look at a
carpet in their bedroom. Diamond, the
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dog that passed, was all over that
carpet.
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Get rid of it. All right, here we go.
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There's Zach back there. The room's
empty. We're about to start ripping up
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carpet. Oh, boy.
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Yike. I have assigned things like
pulling up carpets before.
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And it's a crapshoot whether the
Guardians are actually going to do it or
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Zack and Meredith just did it. They
pulled it up. And that is a sign of the
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commitment that these Guardians have.
Now, let's see how you're exercising
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Teddy. Teddy, I'm about to take him on a
run right now.
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No, Teddy, no.
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O -M -Z.
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Teddy?
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No, Teddy, no.
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That's a problem. The first time I was
here, Teddy was basically mounting Sid
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front of us, and the Guardian response
was, huh, look at that. Now I'm seeing
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video proof of the same thing. We've got
to put an end to that.
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Teddy's a problem.
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Do you think Sid just shakes it off, or
do you think that it bothers him?
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I would like to think that he's fine
with it, but he goes in the closet when
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Teddy bothers him.
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Teddy does raise that stress level
pretty high. So that's something to
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about. Even after Jackson left the first
time, I was still kind of in denial
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about Sid caring about the way that
Teddy was treating him. And then to
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watch it back and see, that was
definitely tough to see. Where's your
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at? In the kitchen. Now it's time to
take a look at the mojo map. Hopefully
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information that I get from that really
starts enlightening the guardians and
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myself as to the patterns that make up
Sidney's every day. In this...
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World, good mojo, is purple.
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Yellow, of course, is pee.
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These spots here are where he hangs out.
Where we'll catch him fully
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comfortable, laying down awake, just
relaxed, to sleeping.
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Since the last time I was here, that's
it?
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Yeah. That's it? Yeah. That's fantastic.
We have now pulled out the carpet in
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here, and it is a pee -free zone.
Without all those competing scents in
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it's gone.
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He's now starting to sink into that
sense of permanence.
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Really, really good news.
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So this was never peed on in here. He
never peed on there. Nothing's never
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yeah. He's there every day. That's where
we spend the most of our time.
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This room holds a lot of...
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keys for us. What I'm trying to
establish for Sid is base camp.
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Base camp is where you put all of their
belongings, anything that smells like
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them, where they can say, I own this one
little space.
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And then as they start to establish a
sense of security in that room, we start
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to expand base camp. We take the
belongings that are in there, slowly
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the house with those things. That's
going to be really important to get us
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the point where this is base camp. Once
this becomes base camp, we're home free.
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The really good news here is that
through the homework, I feel like we
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understand Sid. We understand his
motives and what makes him unconfident.
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can use that information to make him
confident. This thing right here, that's
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huge hint of where we need to go because
we know he hangs out here and he hasn't
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peed here.
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Why doesn't he pee here? Because it's a
scent soaker. When they scratch, not
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only are they leaving a visual marker,
they're also leaving a scent marker.
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There's scent glands between each one of
their pads. It makes it unnecessary for
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him to spray that basket. He doesn't
spray the piano. Just because of this
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thing that says, I live here. This for
him is this for you. So when you walk
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around the house and you have these
pictures of you guys, and every time you
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walk by, you have even that little bit
inside you that goes, this is my life.
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That is that for him. We've proven that
Sid can live in both the bedroom and the
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TV room and not mark them with urine,
just with his body scent. We'll start
447
00:26:12,550 --> 00:26:17,990
there. Put all kinds of scent soakers in
those areas and then blow it out. We're
448
00:26:17,990 --> 00:26:21,010
going to take the cushions from the
couch that are in the garage.
449
00:26:21,660 --> 00:26:26,980
And then in base camp. Filling that
room. Right. We're marinating scent
450
00:26:27,060 --> 00:26:30,620
Then we can start taking those things
out, putting them in the rest of the
451
00:26:30,620 --> 00:26:34,960
house. I am still nowhere even close to
comfortable putting any piece of
452
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,600
furniture in here without knowing that
it's going in the trash.
453
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,260
I'm acknowledging that there's a little
bit of risk involved here. We have to at
454
00:26:41,260 --> 00:26:42,400
some point start taking risks.
455
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,900
I'm working with the feeling that it's
going to work just fine.
456
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:47,980
But if it doesn't...
457
00:26:48,270 --> 00:26:51,190
This family is going back three or four
steps, and I don't think we can handle
458
00:26:51,190 --> 00:26:52,190
that around here.
459
00:26:52,250 --> 00:26:55,630
Next, you knew that there was no way we
were going to get through the day
460
00:26:55,630 --> 00:26:56,810
without talking about Teddy, right?
461
00:26:57,330 --> 00:26:58,330
Teddy needs training.
462
00:26:58,810 --> 00:27:01,750
Sid has to feel safe in the house. Right
now he doesn't because here's the
463
00:27:01,750 --> 00:27:06,630
bottom line. If you can't predictably
put your dog in a down stay and have
464
00:27:06,630 --> 00:27:10,370
cat walk across the floor and know that
your dog is not going to go crazy on the
465
00:27:10,370 --> 00:27:12,230
cat, then we're not there yet.
466
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,900
Teddy needs structure just as much as
Sid needs structure.
467
00:27:16,180 --> 00:27:19,140
So it's up to Zach and Meredith to give
Teddy that structure.
468
00:27:19,360 --> 00:27:23,640
If you guys have any problems over the
next couple weeks, call me and we'll
469
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,100
it out. Thank you again. Thank you.
470
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:30,640
My biggest worry right now is for us to
get on the same page about how we're
471
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:34,020
dealing with Teddy and to keep Teddy
from attacking Sid.
472
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:46,340
I am here in chilly Reedsburg,
Wisconsin, and it was a winter's night
473
00:27:46,340 --> 00:27:50,940
this one about a year ago when a faulty
water heater sent carbon monoxide
474
00:27:50,940 --> 00:27:55,080
pouring through a home, almost killing
everybody in there. But of course, this
475
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,360
is not a sad story. There's a very
different ending here, and that's why
476
00:27:58,360 --> 00:28:01,960
here to talk to Kevin and Annette and
their cat from heaven, Grace.
477
00:28:03,439 --> 00:28:04,279
Hey, Jackson.
478
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,980
Well, hey, man. How are you doing? I'm
doing good. Good to see you.
479
00:28:07,180 --> 00:28:10,020
My wife, Annette. Hey, Annette. Good to
meet you. Thank you for coming.
480
00:28:10,260 --> 00:28:12,180
I am so excited to be here.
481
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:13,279
I'm Kevin.
482
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,880
I'm Annette. And our cat, Grace, saved
us.
483
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,500
Tell me what happened that night. It all
started. It was Saturday night.
484
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,420
Our tank of hot water here, something
had got stuck in it. So all this carbon
485
00:28:23,420 --> 00:28:24,420
monoxide.
486
00:28:24,810 --> 00:28:26,750
was ending up back in the house. Wow.
487
00:28:26,990 --> 00:28:29,470
The carbon dioxide, if you can't smell
it, can't taste it, so you don't know
488
00:28:29,470 --> 00:28:30,229
what's going on.
489
00:28:30,230 --> 00:28:33,410
Right. For some reason, that night,
Gracie came in the bedroom. I'm
490
00:28:33,590 --> 00:28:37,390
and all of a sudden, I hear just
banging, banging. And it rattled. So I
491
00:28:37,430 --> 00:28:42,510
I knew something was wrong, because I
was all wavy and stuff. I thought I was
492
00:28:42,510 --> 00:28:43,910
having a heart attack. Oh, God.
493
00:28:44,170 --> 00:28:50,810
So I woke up in tremendous pain. I think
that she knew something was wrong to
494
00:28:50,810 --> 00:28:53,130
begin with. So I opened the door, and
she took off.
495
00:28:53,610 --> 00:28:54,790
I was like, call 911.
496
00:28:55,070 --> 00:28:57,570
I mean, that came to my head, luckily.
497
00:28:58,390 --> 00:29:03,850
Annette went, stumbled downstairs to try
to get help for the carbon monoxide.
498
00:29:04,250 --> 00:29:06,950
Do you know what the levels were at this
point of carbon monoxide?
499
00:29:07,170 --> 00:29:08,170
About 650.
500
00:29:08,450 --> 00:29:09,610
Okay. What's normal?
501
00:29:09,910 --> 00:29:10,910
Zero to five.
502
00:29:11,130 --> 00:29:13,970
Yeah. So literally, had you guys not
come downstairs.
503
00:29:14,550 --> 00:29:18,190
We wouldn't be having this conversation
right now. Right. I always say it was
504
00:29:18,190 --> 00:29:20,350
saved by grace. She was saved by grace.
505
00:29:21,210 --> 00:29:24,110
I never even thought of that. Listen,
one of the great things about doing what
506
00:29:24,110 --> 00:29:29,150
do is I hear the most incredible stories
about animals and their people every
507
00:29:29,150 --> 00:29:30,029
single day.
508
00:29:30,030 --> 00:29:33,770
This one, though, there's something
special about it. She's doing a little
509
00:29:33,770 --> 00:29:34,229
of this.
510
00:29:34,230 --> 00:29:37,790
Yeah. Yeah, see how it rattles? It was
gone. I mean, she was gone.
511
00:29:38,250 --> 00:29:43,070
We wouldn't have woke up without Gracie.
Now, at this point, where are the cats
512
00:29:43,070 --> 00:29:44,070
at?
513
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:45,979
We didn't know.
514
00:29:45,980 --> 00:29:49,640
After we got out of the hospital, we
came back here, and we were worried
515
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,140
Grace because she was in a room with us.
She was upstairs with you, right? Yeah,
516
00:29:53,140 --> 00:29:57,380
she had had the carbon monoxide poison.
So finally I looked down in the
517
00:29:57,380 --> 00:30:01,300
basement, and there she was, all curled
up in the corner. I did find her, and I
518
00:30:01,300 --> 00:30:02,320
picked her up.
519
00:30:02,540 --> 00:30:07,300
She started bawling. The whole
experience just hit me as soon as I held
520
00:30:07,300 --> 00:30:10,520
my arms and knew she was okay, and we
were all okay.
521
00:30:11,300 --> 00:30:13,480
When did you guys start putting it
together?
522
00:30:15,139 --> 00:30:19,920
that Gracie basically saved the day.
When I was in the ER, you finally get
523
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,740
thoughts back, what is happening, and
it's like, holy mackerel, Gracie's the
524
00:30:23,740 --> 00:30:28,360
one. Without pounding on the door, we
wouldn't be here. I mean, that's how it
525
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,600
is. Unbelievable, man.
526
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,940
What I've learned from this incident is
to check your carbon monoxide detectors
527
00:30:33,940 --> 00:30:35,300
because they will go old.
528
00:30:35,870 --> 00:30:38,770
After five years, you're supposed to
change the whole thing. People at work
529
00:30:38,770 --> 00:30:41,750
stuff, and they've seen what was
happening to us, and they actually
530
00:30:41,750 --> 00:30:44,950
their CO detectors, and they actually
put them in their house. So it's
531
00:30:44,950 --> 00:30:46,790
that happened to us, and we're helping
other people.
532
00:30:47,370 --> 00:30:50,350
They're getting their stuff, too. I
mean, when you think about it, Gracie
533
00:30:50,350 --> 00:30:54,890
just save Kevin and Annette's life, but
the whole town of Reedsburg has been
534
00:30:54,890 --> 00:30:57,430
made aware of carbon monoxide poisoning.
535
00:30:57,850 --> 00:31:01,490
She could have saved the lives of
countless other people because the
536
00:31:01,490 --> 00:31:02,389
here are long.
537
00:31:02,390 --> 00:31:06,750
Heaters are on all the time, and things
like this could happen to anybody. It's
538
00:31:06,750 --> 00:31:09,750
been a pleasure hanging out with you
guys. Thank you for having me. Thank
539
00:31:09,790 --> 00:31:10,790
It was wonderful.
540
00:31:11,030 --> 00:31:13,530
Thank you. Nice to meet you. Take care
of her. Take care of all you guys. Thank
541
00:31:13,530 --> 00:31:15,210
you very much. All right, man. Take care
of yourself.
542
00:31:15,660 --> 00:31:16,980
Bye. See ya.
543
00:31:17,980 --> 00:31:19,340
What an amazing story.
544
00:31:19,540 --> 00:31:23,460
I mean, honestly, to think of all the
things that had to fall into place in
545
00:31:23,460 --> 00:31:25,380
order for this entire family to be
alive.
546
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:30,580
I mean, Annette hit it on the head, man.
This family was saved by grace.
547
00:31:31,900 --> 00:31:33,400
Hey, dude, with the mouth.
548
00:31:34,140 --> 00:31:35,580
Let's go ahead and put Teddy outside.
549
00:31:36,030 --> 00:31:40,590
Come on, Teddy. Teddy is going from cute
to scary in a heartbeat. If I left this
550
00:31:40,590 --> 00:31:45,030
house without helping to address the
problem that is Teddy, I wouldn't be
551
00:31:45,030 --> 00:31:47,990
to live with myself. So, here's a
surprise I got for you.
552
00:31:54,310 --> 00:31:55,430
Hey, stop.
553
00:31:55,850 --> 00:31:56,850
Stella?
554
00:31:57,630 --> 00:31:58,630
Stop!
555
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,780
Last time I was here, I got to see
exactly what Eric and Morgan didn't want
556
00:32:07,780 --> 00:32:10,480
see, which was Avery getting swatted by
Stella.
557
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:17,660
The reason really was just a lot of
shared space, a lot of excess energy
558
00:32:17,660 --> 00:32:19,260
a young child and a young cat.
559
00:32:19,500 --> 00:32:23,280
Pow. How you been, bro? Doing good, man.
Good, good. Good to see you. Hi.
560
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:24,480
Good morning.
561
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,980
Now, hopefully with the homework that I
gave these guys, they should have been
562
00:32:27,980 --> 00:32:32,340
creating lanes of traffic and little
bubbles for the two to operate in
563
00:32:32,340 --> 00:32:33,340
actually coming together.
564
00:32:33,770 --> 00:32:36,350
Hopefully, that's what I'm going to see.
I love this.
565
00:32:36,810 --> 00:32:38,970
Stella does, too. I love this.
566
00:32:39,210 --> 00:32:40,430
Catifying is one thing.
567
00:32:40,650 --> 00:32:44,610
Making it look like it belongs in your
house.
568
00:32:44,850 --> 00:32:48,130
Do you realize that I walked in here and
missed it? Yeah, it's pretty cool.
569
00:32:48,430 --> 00:32:49,430
How's Stella been?
570
00:32:49,510 --> 00:32:53,450
Good. Doing good. One thing I've noticed
a lot, too, about Stella, her tail
571
00:32:53,450 --> 00:32:58,990
doesn't move. When she's resting, yeah.
Seeing Stella up on this cat tree, eyes
572
00:32:58,990 --> 00:33:01,330
are relaxed. She's kind of sleepy. Her
tail.
573
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:06,080
It stops because she's not just relaxed,
she's safe. I know you guys have been
574
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:12,820
up to a lot over the past couple weeks.
When Avery is playing loud,
575
00:33:13,100 --> 00:33:17,760
we notice signs of Stella, her tail
moving back and forth rapidly.
576
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:21,790
We are getting better at... recognizing
it, I think.
577
00:33:22,050 --> 00:33:25,770
Okay, Avery and Stella were kind of
getting into each other's space.
578
00:33:26,390 --> 00:33:30,190
Stella was trying to get in Avery's
little chair that she's sitting in and
579
00:33:30,190 --> 00:33:32,510
to get her up in her own space up here.
580
00:33:33,470 --> 00:33:38,910
She chooses, as she's chosen today,
twice now, to remove herself rather than
581
00:33:38,910 --> 00:33:43,430
engage. Eric and Morgan have done
brilliant work really being able to
582
00:33:43,430 --> 00:33:47,790
Stella's behavior through her body
language. She's a very clear
583
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:52,440
They know to back off at a certain
point, to separate the two of them
584
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:53,339
things happen.
585
00:33:53,340 --> 00:33:56,740
Moving on. So I'm going to play with
Stella.
586
00:33:57,900 --> 00:33:58,900
Woo!
587
00:34:00,780 --> 00:34:03,440
There she goes.
588
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:09,280
Having a routine is helping. I think she
likes that.
589
00:34:10,010 --> 00:34:14,190
She's loving all of her goodies that
we've gotten for her. Everything's going
590
00:34:14,190 --> 00:34:16,949
really well up to this point. I mean,
everything that I've heard, everything
591
00:34:16,949 --> 00:34:19,969
that I've seen on homework, but I want
to see a little bit more. Time to look
592
00:34:19,969 --> 00:34:20,908
the catification.
593
00:34:20,909 --> 00:34:23,409
We've been busy today. Nothing like a
handyman.
594
00:34:24,290 --> 00:34:25,389
There we go.
595
00:34:25,710 --> 00:34:28,010
Trying to make our home more Stella
-friendly.
596
00:34:28,290 --> 00:34:32,670
Eric is just walking around, putting up
shelves and everything. He did an
597
00:34:32,670 --> 00:34:33,670
amazing job.
598
00:34:34,070 --> 00:34:35,429
Scratching posts here.
599
00:34:35,830 --> 00:34:36,830
Yay!
600
00:34:37,389 --> 00:34:40,350
All the way around, man. All the way
around.
601
00:34:40,630 --> 00:34:44,170
The flow of shelving around the room is
really solid, but there is one thing
602
00:34:44,170 --> 00:34:47,489
that's missing, and that's the concept
of an on -ramp or an off -ramp. And
603
00:34:47,489 --> 00:34:50,010
that's our cue to adjust our
catification.
604
00:34:50,370 --> 00:34:51,370
Now, let's get up.
605
00:34:52,010 --> 00:34:53,969
I'm a little worried about this thing.
Okay.
606
00:34:54,389 --> 00:35:00,530
We have a problem here where Cat
Superhighway meets human lane of
607
00:35:00,850 --> 00:35:01,890
Given Avery...
608
00:35:02,980 --> 00:35:07,580
this as the Kidzilla zone. She can do
whatever she wants down here, right? My
609
00:35:07,580 --> 00:35:12,000
fear is, as Kidzilla comes through here,
swipe.
610
00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:14,720
Okay. And we don't have a decent on
-ramp here.
611
00:35:14,980 --> 00:35:16,040
You see where I might be going?
612
00:35:16,380 --> 00:35:20,280
On that there? Yep. Okay. If it lines up
the way I think it's going to, she's
613
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,480
out of the lane of traffic. Okay. Let's
do it. Okay. I'm going to help you guys
614
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:28,140
out. All we got to do is take the cat
tree from where it is for Stella, and in
615
00:35:28,140 --> 00:35:29,660
the meantime, put the bookcase...
616
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,580
over where the cat tree was, and that's
a perfect off -ramp into the kitchen.
617
00:35:34,300 --> 00:35:35,300
Wow. Hey.
618
00:35:35,460 --> 00:35:41,320
That's fairly perfect. Now this room has
the feeling of flow that we always look
619
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,320
for from catification.
620
00:35:42,780 --> 00:35:47,320
I think we're done here. I think that
we've got an amazing beginning.
621
00:35:48,170 --> 00:35:52,510
And I think that that's really all I
could hope to give you guys is a
622
00:35:52,670 --> 00:35:56,070
you know, like they say in Casablanca,
the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
623
00:35:56,650 --> 00:36:00,010
Yes, you too. Thank you so much. You've
been absolutely wonderful. I feel like I
624
00:36:00,010 --> 00:36:00,828
need to give you a hug.
625
00:36:00,830 --> 00:36:01,830
Absolutely.
626
00:36:02,610 --> 00:36:07,630
And give a hug to Avery for me. Will do.
All right. Thank you. Bye, guys. Bye.
627
00:36:08,010 --> 00:36:13,490
It makes me happy just seeing Stella and
Avery coexisting peacefully and being
628
00:36:13,490 --> 00:36:16,730
sisters that love each other. I think
that we're going to live in harmony
629
00:36:16,730 --> 00:36:17,730
together.
630
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,300
You peed on everything.
631
00:36:22,700 --> 00:36:23,700
It stinks.
632
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,700
The last time I was here, Sid the cat
was still dealing with issues of
633
00:36:28,700 --> 00:36:34,100
territorial impermanence. And Zach and
Meredith were dealing with a lot of fear
634
00:36:34,100 --> 00:36:37,060
and a lot of challenges laying in front
of them. And hopefully they've embraced
635
00:36:37,060 --> 00:36:41,060
those challenges and they're not going
to be sitting in here paralyzed by pee.
636
00:36:41,240 --> 00:36:42,240
We'll find out.
637
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:45,880
Yay!
638
00:36:46,110 --> 00:36:49,330
Oh, hi, Teddy. Hi, hi, hi, hi, hi.
639
00:36:49,770 --> 00:36:50,770
Hey,
640
00:36:51,030 --> 00:36:52,030
dude, with the mouth.
641
00:36:52,670 --> 00:36:54,250
Let's go ahead and put Teddy outside.
642
00:36:54,610 --> 00:36:55,428
Come on, Teddy.
643
00:36:55,430 --> 00:36:56,430
Go, buddy.
644
00:36:56,930 --> 00:37:03,290
Teddy is a ball of energy, and he just
about takes my fingers off this time.
645
00:37:03,470 --> 00:37:05,730
He's going from cute to scary in a
heartbeat.
646
00:37:06,030 --> 00:37:07,170
Let's take a look at the video homework.
647
00:37:08,610 --> 00:37:11,070
Added to a base camp.
648
00:37:11,930 --> 00:37:13,010
Stuff for Sid.
649
00:37:13,670 --> 00:37:14,670
Mm -hmm.
650
00:37:16,109 --> 00:37:17,610
He's happy it's here already.
651
00:37:18,110 --> 00:37:21,830
Sidney is using these scratchers exactly
as I hoped he would.
652
00:37:22,030 --> 00:37:25,850
I mean, he's body marking them. He's
rubbing his face and his entire body.
653
00:37:25,850 --> 00:37:28,850
scratching the heck out of them. And
he's marinating them.
654
00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:30,930
Exactly what you want to see at a base
camp.
655
00:37:31,210 --> 00:37:33,610
Marinated belongings that you can move
out to the rest of the house.
656
00:37:34,270 --> 00:37:36,470
You were bringing cushions in.
657
00:37:36,670 --> 00:37:42,130
You were... Couch cushions? Yeah, baby.
Couch cushions. They haven't been peed
658
00:37:42,130 --> 00:37:44,050
on? Not yet. Not yet. Oh, yeah.
659
00:37:44,490 --> 00:37:45,189
That's amazing.
660
00:37:45,190 --> 00:37:49,130
The cushions are actually here. These
guys took that initial risk, went into
661
00:37:49,130 --> 00:37:53,510
garage, got the cushions out, allowed
Sid to just body mark the heck out of
662
00:37:53,510 --> 00:37:58,090
them, sleep on them, and now they're in
the family room and they haven't been
663
00:37:58,090 --> 00:37:59,390
peed on. Moving on.
664
00:37:59,690 --> 00:38:02,510
So we've got this new harness for Teddy
for when we take him out.
665
00:38:03,810 --> 00:38:05,990
He's still got energy, as you can see.
666
00:38:06,230 --> 00:38:08,830
He's just got this fascination with
Sidney.
667
00:38:09,170 --> 00:38:12,130
Wait, where'd that come from? He's still
chasing Sid around. You know, the
668
00:38:12,130 --> 00:38:13,170
issues with Teddy...
669
00:38:13,850 --> 00:38:15,350
seem to be getting worse.
670
00:38:15,650 --> 00:38:22,470
Trying to, you know, work on him not
being crazy has been really kind of
671
00:38:22,470 --> 00:38:25,710
challenging. I am really happy with
Sidney's progress.
672
00:38:26,110 --> 00:38:30,430
Now, Teddy, that's another question
altogether, but I got a plan.
673
00:38:30,650 --> 00:38:31,650
Oh, Sid.
674
00:38:34,430 --> 00:38:37,230
Good morning, my little buddy. Sid is...
675
00:38:37,660 --> 00:38:40,800
standing in front of me, eating his
dinner, that's ownership of territory.
676
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,520
That is saying, this is my place.
677
00:38:42,740 --> 00:38:46,020
Welcome to it. I'll be eating. You can
do whatever you want to do. I am
678
00:38:46,020 --> 00:38:50,080
absolutely convinced at this point that
this house and this cat are totally
679
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:54,200
ready for a couch in the living room.
Now, you know what's coming, right? I'm
680
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,500
going to help you. We're going to get
the couch in here, put the cushions on
681
00:38:56,540 --> 00:38:59,280
and say, job well done. It's your call.
682
00:39:02,540 --> 00:39:03,540
What do you think?
683
00:39:11,759 --> 00:39:14,340
Now, you know what's coming. I'm going
to help you. We're going to get the
684
00:39:14,340 --> 00:39:15,540
in here, put the cushions on it.
685
00:39:18,060 --> 00:39:19,180
You know, what the hell?
686
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:21,158
Let's do it.
687
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:27,220
Moving the couch into the house is still
a terrifying thought to me, but I just
688
00:39:27,220 --> 00:39:31,640
have to bury my fear and get on with it.
Ready, babe?
689
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:33,160
Let's do it.
690
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,980
Biggest hope that I have for Zach and
Meredith is not that their couch isn't
691
00:39:38,980 --> 00:39:43,800
going to get peed on. It's that if
something happens, they own the solution
692
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,560
as much as they own the celebration of
this moment. So this is what your house
693
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:48,700
is supposed to feel like.
694
00:39:49,340 --> 00:39:53,280
I haven't seen you smile, by the way, in
quite a long time. I feel really
695
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:58,920
excited and confident that the strategy
that Jackson had us take is correct.
696
00:39:59,260 --> 00:40:01,640
So here's the surprise I got for you.
697
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,180
A good friend of mine is coming over,
and he's going to work with you guys in
698
00:40:05,180 --> 00:40:09,240
Teddy. That's fantastic. That's so
great. If I left this house without
699
00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:13,060
to address the problem that is Teddy, I
wouldn't be able to live with myself.
700
00:40:13,180 --> 00:40:17,980
I've got to be able to address the whole
problem. And training Teddy is
701
00:40:17,980 --> 00:40:20,900
definitely going to help. It's
territorial permanence.
702
00:40:21,500 --> 00:40:22,940
Welcome to the world of Teddy.
703
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:28,920
I'm Zoe Sander. As a dog trainer, my job
is to make sure that people can have an
704
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:32,080
uncomplicated relationship with their
dog. I'm guessing this is part of the
705
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:33,058
problem, guys.
706
00:40:33,060 --> 00:40:34,060
Mm -hmm. Yes?
707
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:35,740
The jumping?
708
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:40,060
The jumping, the mouthing. All the
behaviors I'm seeing today are extremely
709
00:40:40,060 --> 00:40:46,820
typical, both of adolescent dogs and of
pit bulls. Pit bulls are all about the
710
00:40:46,820 --> 00:40:47,820
body contact.
711
00:40:47,980 --> 00:40:51,840
You'll notice that that's how they play
with each other. It's heavy on the
712
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:52,840
wrestling side.
713
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,120
So if I'm in a pit bull and I'm trying
to communicate to another dog, would you
714
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:57,120
mind backing up?
715
00:40:57,500 --> 00:40:59,840
I'm going to get tall and move directly
into them.
716
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,800
Versus if they want to come play.
They're like, come play with me. They'll
717
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,320
of turn and run the other way. So every
time he jumps on me, I'm taking steps
718
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,920
directly towards him. I'm not kneeing
him in the chest because that's not what
719
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:11,839
it's about.
720
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,440
It's about using the body language that
he knows.
721
00:41:15,770 --> 00:41:21,070
Three minutes of being here, Zoe showed
me how to deal with one of Teddy's
722
00:41:21,070 --> 00:41:21,928
biggest problems.
723
00:41:21,930 --> 00:41:22,930
Brilliant.
724
00:41:23,590 --> 00:41:29,710
The magic is happening. That's right.
The magic is real. That's right, baby.
725
00:41:29,990 --> 00:41:34,890
Zoe is teaching us all the things that
we need to combat Teddy's worst
726
00:41:34,890 --> 00:41:35,970
behaviors. Fit.
727
00:41:36,810 --> 00:41:37,990
Great. Fit.
728
00:41:38,410 --> 00:41:44,450
Good boy. Yeah. With Zoe's help, we're
going to train Teddy to listen to us.
729
00:41:44,750 --> 00:41:49,910
and not follow his impulses like chasing
fit around and treating him like he's a
730
00:41:49,910 --> 00:41:50,488
chew toy.
731
00:41:50,490 --> 00:41:53,410
I'm going to leave you guys because I
know you've got a lot of work to do.
732
00:41:53,410 --> 00:41:55,370
been wonderful, man. Thank you so much
for everything.
733
00:41:55,590 --> 00:41:57,350
Thank you. And for all your work with
your cat.
734
00:41:57,610 --> 00:41:59,690
Thank you. I'm here for you guys if you
need me, okay?
735
00:42:00,030 --> 00:42:02,010
You just, you know, fix the dog.
736
00:42:02,650 --> 00:42:03,488
I got this.
737
00:42:03,490 --> 00:42:07,750
If Meredith and Zach follow what I told
them to do today and they stay calm,
738
00:42:08,170 --> 00:42:10,930
this dog's not going to have any
problems in a matter of weeks. That's
739
00:42:10,930 --> 00:42:11,930
good, guys.
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