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Quincy. Quincy, no.
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I don't think that this is a law.
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What in the hell happened here?
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He's being a jerk. I'm a jerk?
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Ziggy was tossed from a moving car, and
she paralyzed from the waist down.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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I am Cat.
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The animal behavior is wow.
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The guardians call, and they're dealing
with a difficult cat.
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Wow, he really got you.
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I'm out to prove that there is no such
thing as a bad cat.
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Just a cat that needs my help. You did
it.
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My
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name
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is Christy, and I live in Northridge,
California.
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I found Skylar.
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When she was about four or five days
old, I found her in a garage.
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Her mom had abandoned her, so I fell in
love with her instantly.
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Over the last three years, Skylar's
behavior has gotten worse.
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She really hates her tail.
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She'll just start growling at her tail.
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And she'll start hissing, and she'll run
from it, and she'll hide from it. She
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seems miserable.
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because she's always running from her
tail.
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Skylar is a very loving cat, but she
will whip right away. So
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I can be petting her, and she's purring,
and she's loving, and then all of a
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sudden she will just attack.
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Skylar!
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No.
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Skylar will scratch me, claw me, bite
me.
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Oh, my God.
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I just don't know how to handle the
situation, so I really need help in
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make her life better.
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You know, sometimes a cat's behavior is
so mysterious that not only does it do
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damage to them, it does damage to the
relationship between them and their
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guardian. Now, in the case of Skylar,
it's driving Christy berserk. I'm going
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go over there right now and see if I can
make heads or tails of the situation.
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Hey. Hi, good to see you. How are you?
Good, how are you doing? I'm doing
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thank you. Good.
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So, let's talk.
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Skylar hates her tail. She will hiss and
growl and run away from her tail at
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least 30 times a day.
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30 times a day? At least.
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That's pretty severe.
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Yeah. Has your cat been checked out by
the vet?
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Do we know that there's no, never?
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Nothing for this.
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Now, here's the thing.
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The way you're saying this, you're
already feeling guilty.
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It sets off really huge alarm bells in
me that Christy won't take her cat to
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vet. So I got to dig a little deeper
into why.
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I mean, no matter what we do is the
first thing I always say. We got to go
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the vet, make sure we got a clean bill
of health.
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The reason I haven't taken her to the
vet, though, is because recently I was
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go from my job. Oh, I'm sorry.
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That sucks.
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Yeah, it does.
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So I don't have any money.
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So, there she is.
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Do you mind if I mess with you a little
bit? Can I mess with you a little bit?
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Hello, my baby.
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And I'm watching to see if the touch to
the tail would elicit a response.
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So, it's not. Now, is it predictable
enough for you? Because it seems like
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have a hard time controlling yourself
around her.
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I do, because I love her.
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I love her.
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When she is in the midst of going
through her thing, does she redirect
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onto you?
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I mean, I've got Mark everywhere.
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Holy crap.
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Hold on.
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What in the hell happened to you?
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I picked her up. You picked her up and
this happened? Yeah.
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That's horrific.
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I don't get it.
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I don't get that this isn't the reason
I'm here.
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I'm here because Skylar is biting her
own tail, not because Christy is getting
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the ever -loving snot kicked out of her.
Why is Christy being so coy about this?
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Can you trigger it if you want to?
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Normally all I have to do is go, Sky,
Sky.
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I always say it like that. Sky, Sky.
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And she'll move her tail and she'll
start growling.
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For her, that physical response triggers
something, which is such a sad concept
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that when you call her name, you're now
getting a growl. It's really sad, and
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it's very hard for me. Watching Skylar
go through this on a daily basis, I get
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depressed. It's really, really hard for
me to watch.
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She's my everything.
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My cat is my life, meaning without my
cat I have no life.
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That's not just being a good mom.
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That's being codependent. That's
something you really got to look out
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Do you think that there's any cause and
effect, sort of the vicious cycle, that
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you get depressed, she senses
something's up, she's avoiding you, you
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and the relationship is starting to
fray?
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Maybe my aura is negative, and that's
why she doesn't come near me as much,
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then she's just making it worse.
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Why? Because I need my cat.
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I need my cat's affection. To not get
affection from her is kind of sad.
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So if you feel rejected by her... Yeah,
it's like, then I'm just here by myself.
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Let's get out of here for a second. You
want to take a walk with me? Yeah. Come
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on. Sounds good.
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I absolutely, 100 % believe that
Christy's depression affects Skylar. I
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it's this really vicious cycle where
you've got depression that is then
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back to the human, who mirrors it back
to the cat, and the two of them are
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circling the drain together.
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I had my animals around me when I was
OD'd on the floor, kind of thing, and
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would get ill. They're sponges in that
way.
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I want to make sure you're taking care
of you while I'm trying to help take
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of your cat. Yeah.
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I think that I'm uniquely suited to help
Christy through this time in her life
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because I share a history of depression
and self -destructive behavior.
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Let's go back to the vet thing.
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Yeah.
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Because I keep getting that out of you.
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Every time I mention the vet, you get
sheepish. What is that? Is it just
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because, is it the money?
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Money is a lot of it. I've had bad
experiences.
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What's your experience?
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Every time I brought a cat there, it's
never been good, right? So first they're
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going to want to check for fleas, and
they're going to want to bring her to a
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neurologist, and I can't even imagine
how much that
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costs. Knowing my luck, this is going to
be some horrible thing that I can't do
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anything about.
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But we want to find out.
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One thing that doesn't add up to me at
all, Christy is a devoted cat mom.
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Devoted. At the end of the day, Christy,
you've got to bring your cat to the
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vet. That's part of being a parent.
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Every now and again, I meet somebody who
their situation supersedes that of
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their cat.
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Christy and Skylar together create this
sort of chain of dysfunction that
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affects them both in a really negative
way. I want Christy to experience a
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better, fuller life for her and also for
the sake of Skylar.
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I'll tell you my observations first and
foremost.
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We've got the twitch going on. The tail
is going on. The tail is always... I'm
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just going to not touch her at the
moment. What you're seeing from Skylar's
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is not behavior. It's physical.
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From watching her gait, is that there
may be something going on, whether it's
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old fracture in her tail, whether it's a
small fracture at the base of the
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spine, because remember, the spine
continues the tail. The only way to find
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what's going on is to get to the vet.
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Yes, we're going to have to do a lot of
testing.
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That's all there is to it. I mean, x
-rays, for sure. And blood tests. I'll
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a deal with you. You throw your arms
around this process.
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and I will help out with the vet thing,
okay? So let me help take a little bit
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of the money off.
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That's not supposed to make me sad.
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It doesn't make me sad.
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I don't do that normally, and I wouldn't
do it unless I felt like there's
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something really great waiting for you
guys, and I just don't want you to get
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your own way.
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I appreciate it.
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I do.
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That's the service to her. The second
thing is service to you. There can't be
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this Schuyler -shaped hole in you,
right?
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You've got to be able to be whole.
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Christy's got to take care of Christy in
order for her to take care of Skylar.
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So I want her to start getting
comfortable in her own skin. The way she
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that is to learn how to meditate. The
idea is for you to be comfortable,
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and quiet, and not reaching for anything
to soothe.
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The last thing that I want Christy to
do, I want her to spend time as part of
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community. Right now, there's a lot of
isolation happening in your life. I
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that there's something in you that
really needs to be around, not just your
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animal, but animals. Yes.
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I want her to go to a shelter, clean
cages, just put some love on these cats.
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It'll get her out of this place.
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It'll get her involved in something, and
that's really, really crucial.
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Look, at the end of the day, I'm not a
vet. I'm not a shrink.
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I'm someone who shares your experiences.
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In a big way. Yeah.
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And I really believe one way or another,
you guys are both going to benefit from
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it. I think so too.
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The work that I have to put in to help
Skylar is a bit overwhelming only
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a lot of it has to do with me changing
who I am. I really have to help myself
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that I can help Skylar.
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I'm Stacy.
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And I'm Gary.
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And we live in Sherman Oak.
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We've been together seven years now.
Seven years, we've been married about
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When I adopted Quincy, he was only two
months old. It seems like the older he
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got, his problems seemed to grow with
him.
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His behavior is really predictably
unpredictable.
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He knows exactly what he's doing. He
knows exactly what's in the law, and he
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keeps doing it.
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When we first got him, he was an
excellent litter box user.
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And when he started growing out of the
litter box, I replaced it with a bigger
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box. And that's when he seemed to have
started pooping on the floor. Not every
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time, just sometimes.
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So sometimes he poos in the box,
sometimes he doesn't. And look what I
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to.
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Feels like he's just doing it to be
mean.
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He seems to have violent tendencies.
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I mean, he's a cute -looking cat, but
it's almost like randomly he becomes
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violent and then just attacks.
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He is cute, though, isn't he?
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Mm -hmm. You know what you did.
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No matter what we do or say, he's going
to keep doing it until something
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changes. If Jackson doesn't help us, I'm
afraid the tension between Gary and I
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is going to escalate to deeper issues
that we won't be able to fix.
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Hey, how are you?
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Thank you for coming out. We need some
help coming in. Okay, that's what I'm
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here for, man. Help us. We're dying. We
are.
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So, what's going on here?
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We've got a cat that has a behavioral
problem.
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Okay. Want to try grabbing him? Yeah,
he's lurking in a corner somewhere.
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Oh, there he is.
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Jackson, this is Quincy.
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Quincy Jackson.
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He's gorgeous. He's the cutest cat.
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He really is.
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He is held. He's two years old. He
brought him home, actually. I brought
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home when he was about four months old.
Was it not your idea? It was her fault.
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You were going to say it. I was going to
say fault, but her idea, he just sprung
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it on me. I adopted a cat.
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Really? Yeah.
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Now what happened?
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Initially, it was the litter box.
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He sometimes poops in the box.
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Sometimes he doesn't. And it's the way
he poops in the box, too. It's so weird.
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The box is pretty big, but he'll always
go right to the very edge of the box and
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put his front paws on the edge of the
box. Your face is imitated a cat
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You actually did that really well there.
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What else?
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That's just a small issue. It's my big
issue.
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That's a big issue for me. It's big for
you, not big for you. It's not a big
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issue for him because he doesn't clean
it up. I clean up the poop on the floor.
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If that's not the big problem, what is
the big problem? He just attacks me.
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This is from yesterday.
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We can't figure out why he's doing it.
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I feel like Quincy bites him and attacks
him for attention because Gary doesn't
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play with him enough. That has become a
huge issue, and the way that we deal
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with that, we lock him in the bathroom.
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Look, I have seen people give their cats
timeouts when they're just sick of it
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and they don't want to deal with it
anymore. They just put them in a room.
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it work? All the toilet paper is off the
thing.
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He pooped in there before. So the answer
is no, it doesn't work. I guess not.
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So why do you keep doing it? I'm trying
to find a way to punish the cat. She
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kind of lets him do his thing, which we
argue a lot about. You have polar
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opposite approaches.
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We're basically talking about our
marriage right now.
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Does Quincy become a catalyst for bigger
things between the two of you? He is a
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four -legged metaphor for how we deal
with life and how differently we
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circumstances and problems.
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I'm seeing a lot of the common
frustrations that I see in a lot of cat
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play out through Gary and Stacey.
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Number one, there's the concept that a
cat is just willfully being mean. And
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there's a misconception that cats don't
need exercise.
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And without exercise, they become
Quincy.
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Quincy, danger of leaving here?
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No, absolutely not.
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My God, you should have seen what just
happened there. Look, I love the cat.
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It's almost like I'd rather not be here.
The cat can be here, but I'm going to
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be somewhere else. Is this a
conversation too? The cat's not going
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If we can't get rid of these problems, I
don't even want to think about when it
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comes to our relationship, what it can
do.
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I want to see any stuff that you have
that's cat stuff and any place where he
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tends to wreak havoc. Okay? Okay. Let's
go.
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So that's the litter box.
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So when he takes a poo, he dumps it
right there. It's always in that spot.
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cats go right outside the box, he's
either uncomfortable in his gut.
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Or he doesn't like the litter itself.
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Okay, so you're saying that you don't
pick up the poop because these little
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circles, I mean, if it's wet and you
grab it, it sort of smushes inside. If
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weren't for getting into the hole, you
would pick it up. It would be easier to
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pick up the litter. He wouldn't pick it
up. I think we could have a mat with
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holes, a mat with squares. It does not
matter. I don't think he's going to be
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cleaning up any poop.
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So where is it that he gets timeouts?
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Pretty much every day he winds up in
here.
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Look, I have seen people give their cats
time out and say, be better. It's not
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going to happen.
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What is it that you expect to change
with him when he's in here? That he'll
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understand that if he knocks stuff over
or attacks me, he's going to get a time
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out. This is that itty -bitty space.
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This ends today.
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If I wasn't such a nice guy, the end of
this day would have been me locking
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those two in that bathroom for ten
minutes. Those guys would have clawed
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way out of that bathroom. I swear to
you, they would have.
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So, this is the land of what?
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Knocking everything over. When I try not
to pay attention to him, he just knocks
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over and looks at me again.
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It's almost like he's waiting for my
reaction. What is the reaction? I get
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upset. And? I yell at him in the
beginning, and then if he continues
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I lock him in the bathroom.
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Okay. It seems to be the subtext of
everything in this home is, but stop it,
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stop it. And your interpretation of what
he's doing is what? He's being a jerk.
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You know, the whole misconception about
cats being jerks is just a blatant
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misunderstanding. They don't do it just
to get a reaction.
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You've got to get into his head more
because all of this comes from the same
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place. I'm getting angry because the cat
is being locked in the bathroom because
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you can't deal with him. And you're not
thinking about what you can do to make
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his life better. I figured the only way
I'm going to get that point across is
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loudly, really loudly. I'm him. I'm a
jerk.
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No, I'm not a jerk. Am I hungry?
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No, I'm not hungry. It's a cup. Wait a
minute.
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Oh, I'm bored.
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I want attention right now.
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I want attention right now.
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Oh, I'm bored.
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He's bored all the time, guys. He's
bored all the time.
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There's no cat.
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stuff in here. This boy is two years
old. He is just getting into that world
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like, I am cat.
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And what we have in return is, no, stop
it. I'm going to put you in the
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bathroom. And then you get this.
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This is simple cat math right here. And
everything's going to change. The next
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time their cat is knocking things off
the shelf, what are they going to say?
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cat's bored.
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See, they're going to think that now.
I've drilled it in.
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And if I'm acting all like this, I'm
doing it for a reason because I am his
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ambassador right now.
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Jackson has clearly worked up. And I
will say that I did get a little
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heartbroken when he said we weren't
seeing things from Quincy's perspective.
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that really, that was a light bulb
moment for me.
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Gary, you're going to play a huge part
in this because he is coming to you for
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this. stimulation, and he's getting it,
but now you have to guide him into an
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appropriate place and say, this is the
place, right?
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So I'm going to start breaking stuff out
here for you. So these kinds of toys
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are where I want you to go. This opens,
you've got a feather, and this is a
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hunting toy. You get him locked into
this toy and run him around until he's
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tired. Every day, I want Gary to commit
to quality playtime. Playtime does not
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mean petting and stroking and touching
noses. It means wearing your cat out.
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All right, here, let me show you
something. There's some simple things
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can do.
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This is a cup holder from a car. You
stick it here, you put a cup in here.
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It's not going anywhere.
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When he goes after something like this,
tries to knock it off, and he doesn't do
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it, he's not a dumb cat. He'll stop
doing it. Here's another thing. This is
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cat tree. Literally, this is his cat
tree, because he doesn't have one. Get a
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cat tree and use it around here. I want
them to stop setting him up for failure.
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Right now, if there's a cup on the
counter, he's going to knock it off.
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just what he's going to do.
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Make him do something that's more
constructive.
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So, we're talking litter box.
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It's not the location of the box, and
it's not the box itself, because he goes
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in it. The other thing that he does that
you imitated so beautifully was the
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perching on the front of that box.
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It's almost as if to say, I don't like
the action of squatting in this box.
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One of the assignments that I have for
Gary and Stacey is I want them to take
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the litter level down to about an inch.
My hunch is that there's something about
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when Quincy gets in that box as a big
cat, he's just not liking it. He's
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afraid of it, or he's afraid of the way
his body feels when he's in it.
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And both of those things need to be
looked at. Also, there was the mat.
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And if the only reason that you're not
picking poop off the floor is because of
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the holes in that mat, let's just get
rid of the mat. If it works, it works.
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There's one other thing, and that's Gary
and Stacey actually communicating. If
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these guys were to look at Quincy as
their child and not an annoyance, the
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problem would have been diffused years
ago.
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You guys need to be touching base a lot.
And it's not about you doing wrong, you
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doing right. It's about what's he
expressing right now? What does he need?
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Get him to know what it's like to be a
killer, but in a constructive way and
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making you bleed in the process.
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And that's really pretty much it. But
you have to make a commitment to ending
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business as usual here. So that means
there's no yelling at him. There's no
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locking in the bathroom. Doesn't work
with cats. Never, not one time. I don't
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want to know that they did it even one
more time past today.
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Last thing, record the comings and
goings of your homework over the next
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of weeks.
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Right on, guys. I'm going to take off.
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Jackson. All right, guys. Thank you.
Take care. Thank you so much. Nice to
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you. Oh, you too.
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All right. Take care, guys. Thank you so
much. Bye.
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If we're successful with this homework,
that means we have communicated well
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with each other. Maybe it'll improve
other parts of our marriage, too.
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We'll see.
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I'm back here for my second visit with
Christy, intercast Skyler. I really hope
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Skyler's attacking her own tail left.
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And that Christy feels a little more
grounded. Wow, her tail is just busy.
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It wasn't constant action last time I
was here, right?
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Sky,
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Sky.
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Sky, Sky.
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Hi, sweetie.
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You met Dr. Kelly.
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Like Dr. Kelly. I liked her, yeah. Yeah,
she's great, right?
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I don't know what the outcome of all
this is.
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You don't either.
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Okay, good.
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She'll be coming later.
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Oh, fantastic.
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Oh, good.
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So she'll give us the results at the
same time so that we can all figure it
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together. And talk it out. Yeah.
Chiller. Okay, good. Let me just tell
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something. Even if Skylar is like World
War III right now, you feel grounded
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to me. So tell me what you've done.
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So let's start with meditation.
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I do it at least for 15 minutes each
day.
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That's helped a lot.
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I went to the shelter, which was therapy
in itself.
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Why? Because you go in there and you're
just there. Or for me, that's how it
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was. I wasn't thinking about, I have to
get this job. I have to do this. I was
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just there with the kittens. And they're
just so adorable. It's like, how can
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you focus on anything else? Right,
right, right. So my energy has been
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but good. Wow.
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I got a job.
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Yay!
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But not only did I get a job, I got a
job at a company that I've been trying
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get into since 2005.
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Wow. There's no way that would have
happened without you.
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There is not one part of me that
believes I could have gotten this job
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Jackson. He made me realize that my
energy has so much more of an effect
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really I ever thought it could.
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Last time I was here, Christy was
unemployed. She was absolutely lonely
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devastated and depressed.
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And just by the homework that she did, I
believe her energy started to be more
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inviting, less like she was pushing the
world away. What happened? She just
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landed a dream job. Now, you might be
thinking that there's no connection.
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I'm telling you there's a connection.
When is Dr. Kelly supposed to come? Very
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soon. Okay, good. What I want to do is
go through your video homework. That
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should shed some light.
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I'm going to just gently, I'm going to
press along her back and I'm going to
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if she has any sensation or back pain.
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What's going on with you right there?
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They were touching my cat.
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She definitely doesn't like it, does
she?
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Huh?
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I'm freaking out at what is about to
happen.
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We're going to try and get the blood
sample now.
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Oh, my gosh. What I'm looking for.
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What's going on?
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I'm trying to think.
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What I'm noticing in the video homework
is that Christy is not being mindful
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about her actions with Skylar. The
singing part of things. Because I did
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you to notice, Skylar actually got a
little worse.
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Christy got Skylar all ramped up. It
shows me that Christy's still not at
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place where she understands her own cat
as well as she needs to.
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Great timing. Cool.
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So now that the doctor's here, I am
holding my breath.
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I've been dreading finding out if there
is anything medically wrong with my cat.
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Her blood test was very normal.
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Internal organ function is all fine.
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Good. So I had the x -rays reviewed by a
board -certified radiologist and an
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orthopedic surgeon. Both did not think
that there was anything abnormal.
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Nothing. You know, she's not acting this
way because there's some kind of
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undiagnosed illness.
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Having said that, we still don't know
exactly what's stimulating the behavior.
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Blood tests are normal. The x -ray,
clean.
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That leaves us with... The big question
mark, what is it?
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There was nothing majorly wrong with
Skylar, which is great.
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But at the same time, we still don't
know what the problem is.
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So I'm hoping that we find that out. The
syndrome is called hyperesthesia
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syndrome. The syndrome that we don't
know exactly what the underlying cause
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Sometimes there can be a medical problem
or it can be behavioral.
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What we can do is a trial of a
medication called gabapentin.
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We'll give that some time. Definitely
need to give me a call in a week or so
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let me know if we're making any headway
at all.
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So going from this point on, it might be
a little bit easier for me to take
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Skylar to the vet because I had an
experience that wasn't nearly as
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I thought it would be. How do you feel?
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I feel good about the fact that we are
going forward and we're narrowing things
449
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:20,220
down. Hyperesthesia is one of those
things that as long as the symptoms
450
00:26:20,220 --> 00:26:22,660
abating, we're happy.
451
00:26:23,220 --> 00:26:26,220
Number one homework, of course, is
medication.
452
00:26:26,660 --> 00:26:31,360
As we introduce gabapentin, I want
Christy to log not just the attacks,
453
00:26:31,360 --> 00:26:33,480
time of day they happen, and the
context.
454
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:37,880
Hopefully, we're going to start seeing
these incidents go down. Number two is
455
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:42,220
your more personal log, and that's going
to be with your homework camera. And I
456
00:26:42,220 --> 00:26:44,780
want you to experiment vocally with
touch.
457
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:50,800
So if you're doing your sky sky, just be
observant. When you do it, what do you
458
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:55,840
notice? We have pupils that dilate, ears
that flatten, tails that flap all over
459
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,660
the place, and a cat who lashes out
eventually.
460
00:26:57,980 --> 00:27:00,640
All of these things are not random.
461
00:27:01,050 --> 00:27:05,310
There's something that connects them,
and Christy is the key to this whole
462
00:27:05,310 --> 00:27:07,610
puzzle. Let's talk about being mindful
of the space.
463
00:27:08,070 --> 00:27:11,190
I'd like you to start looking into the
vertical world.
464
00:27:11,570 --> 00:27:16,390
Modification to the space will give
Skylar something to do, just like
465
00:27:16,390 --> 00:27:19,690
When she was playing with kittens, she
wasn't thinking about her own life. She
466
00:27:19,690 --> 00:27:20,569
wasn't getting depressed.
467
00:27:20,570 --> 00:27:24,750
Same thing with Skylar. If she's looking
at birds, if she's focusing out into
468
00:27:24,750 --> 00:27:26,970
the world, she's not thinking about her
tail.
469
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,680
I just want you to take that mindful
look at the space and change things,
470
00:27:33,100 --> 00:27:38,020
So far, everything Jackson has had me do
has helped, so I'm going to stick with
471
00:27:38,020 --> 00:27:40,760
that and just do exactly what he says I
should do.
472
00:27:43,740 --> 00:27:44,740
Thank you.
473
00:27:48,990 --> 00:27:52,950
Last time I was here, I met Stacy and
Gary's cat, Quincy. I left them with a
474
00:27:52,950 --> 00:27:56,650
of homework to help stop Quincy's
restless antics and his problem with
475
00:27:56,650 --> 00:28:00,310
outside the box. I hope that Stacy and
Gary followed through. If they haven't,
476
00:28:00,310 --> 00:28:01,690
my claws are coming out today.
477
00:28:02,390 --> 00:28:06,490
Hey, how's it going, Jack? Good, how you
doing? Oh, God, I've been doing so much
478
00:28:06,490 --> 00:28:09,830
better. Oh, there you go. The second I
walk in, I hear good news.
479
00:28:10,030 --> 00:28:13,070
So you're going to see some big changes
around here. The toy, the cat tree.
480
00:28:13,570 --> 00:28:15,430
It's like a cat lives here. It's
beautiful.
481
00:28:15,990 --> 00:28:20,510
You guys were great sending in a lot of
stuff for me. What I wanted to do is go
482
00:28:20,510 --> 00:28:22,690
over it with you and see what's going
down.
483
00:28:46,389 --> 00:28:47,950
Love it. Love it.
484
00:28:48,770 --> 00:28:51,950
How do we like our new cat tree? King of
the world now.
485
00:28:52,210 --> 00:28:53,210
King of the world.
486
00:28:53,450 --> 00:28:57,710
Here is one of the toys that we're going
to use. So maybe away from energy.
487
00:28:58,110 --> 00:29:01,810
We'll see if it works. Looking at Gary
and Stacey's video homework, you start
488
00:29:01,810 --> 00:29:05,050
see the progress. Gary at the beginning
is like, Quincy. Quincy, go.
489
00:29:05,250 --> 00:29:09,830
And then that turns into, what can I do
for Quincy? And Gary gets it now and
490
00:29:09,830 --> 00:29:11,650
resolves the problem. That was
wonderful.
491
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,319
Let's talk about play.
492
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:17,180
I need you to step it up a little bit.
Because right now, it's like fishing for
493
00:29:17,180 --> 00:29:19,020
Quincy. We need him to move.
494
00:29:19,220 --> 00:29:22,920
It's really important that you recognize
that just because you give your cats
495
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,640
activities doesn't mean you're done. You
have to keep upping the level of those
496
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,840
activities. Your cat's going to figure
out the puzzle, and then it's boring.
497
00:29:30,300 --> 00:29:33,520
Biggest things that you've noticed in
terms of change in Quincy? I think the
498
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:38,180
level of anxiety in Quincy has gone down
because we're not locking him in the
499
00:29:38,180 --> 00:29:39,180
bathroom anymore.
500
00:29:39,390 --> 00:29:42,730
That completely ended. He doesn't knock
things off the countertops anymore.
501
00:29:43,370 --> 00:29:47,690
The cup holder that you told us to get,
we did it, and he starts knocking at the
502
00:29:47,690 --> 00:29:50,670
cup in the cup holder, and you'll see
that the cup's not going anywhere, and
503
00:29:50,670 --> 00:29:52,070
then he'll just kind of be like, ah.
504
00:29:52,550 --> 00:29:55,910
What did you guys do? I take the little
toy with the feather, which she loves,
505
00:29:56,090 --> 00:29:59,410
and play with him, and we kind of have
like a little routine. Instead of
506
00:29:59,410 --> 00:30:02,690
him away, I take 10, 15 minutes out of
my day, and it's all better.
507
00:30:03,350 --> 00:30:07,170
You've got to be fairly relieved of
that. I am very, very pleased with some
508
00:30:07,170 --> 00:30:11,510
the changes I've seen with Gary and
Quincy. Gary, I can hear the change in
509
00:30:11,510 --> 00:30:17,190
voice. You hear this place where you go
from being annoyed to problem solving.
510
00:30:17,390 --> 00:30:18,990
That's really admirable stuff.
511
00:30:20,190 --> 00:30:20,969
That's amazing.
512
00:30:20,970 --> 00:30:24,190
No, because it's not easy. You know, the
last time I was here, this was
513
00:30:24,190 --> 00:30:27,810
obviously a point of friction between
the two of you. Everything cool in terms
514
00:30:27,810 --> 00:30:28,629
of your communication?
515
00:30:28,630 --> 00:30:31,850
Much better since we figured out the
whole, you know, not yelling about
516
00:30:31,850 --> 00:30:33,180
issue. Hooray for love.
517
00:30:33,380 --> 00:30:34,380
Yeah.
518
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:39,880
So we've been going through everything
that worked. What is not working?
519
00:30:40,140 --> 00:30:41,140
Well, the big issue.
520
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:42,160
Pooping on the floor.
521
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,680
Really? So litter level didn't do it.
The only thing we changed with the
522
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:49,020
box is we got the new mat, and it just
makes it easier for me to clean up.
523
00:30:49,220 --> 00:30:52,580
There's one thing left. Of course, it's
got to be the poop. And there's still
524
00:30:52,580 --> 00:30:56,920
poop happening outside the box. There's
still Gary not liking picking it up. I'm
525
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:57,920
not picking it up. It's soft.
526
00:30:58,320 --> 00:30:59,920
Yeah. Still got that problem.
527
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:01,360
I'm still...
528
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:05,300
A little perplexed, but we'll go in
there later on and see if there's
529
00:31:05,300 --> 00:31:10,260
that I'm missing. What I want to do now
is just take a look around the house and
530
00:31:10,260 --> 00:31:13,460
leave you guys off on a good note, okay?
Let's take a look. I want to start
531
00:31:13,460 --> 00:31:14,460
here.
532
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:19,100
So this is where we put Quincy's puzzle
because this is where he re -saw the
533
00:31:19,100 --> 00:31:22,080
havoc. Look at how his body is turning
towards something more exciting.
534
00:31:22,460 --> 00:31:23,460
And look at him go, man.
535
00:31:23,660 --> 00:31:24,559
All right.
536
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:25,560
Great stuff.
537
00:31:26,260 --> 00:31:27,920
Let's keep moving here. Okay.
538
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,000
I just love looking around. There's toys
everywhere.
539
00:31:31,900 --> 00:31:36,820
And you got to smell poop. I do. I was
about to say something.
540
00:31:37,900 --> 00:31:39,640
Where's the litter box? It's over here,
isn't it?
541
00:31:40,180 --> 00:31:43,020
And bullseye. The poop looks good.
542
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,060
What the hell?
543
00:31:46,380 --> 00:31:47,380
Oh, my God.
544
00:31:54,620 --> 00:31:56,500
This always tells me.
545
00:31:56,780 --> 00:32:01,560
that there's something that screams I'm
not comfortable. It just screams it. Um,
546
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:07,640
what the hell? Can you give me something
like a tissue or... Thank you.
547
00:32:07,900 --> 00:32:10,540
Oh, boy, some days my job just rocks.
548
00:32:10,900 --> 00:32:11,900
You guys see that?
549
00:32:12,460 --> 00:32:13,339
What's that?
550
00:32:13,340 --> 00:32:18,620
Hair? No, that's not a hair. What is
that? That looks to me like a string.
551
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:19,939
Oh, my God!
552
00:32:19,940 --> 00:32:24,820
He pooped out a big, long hunk of
string, and there's more in the poop.
553
00:32:25,180 --> 00:32:29,720
My theory at this point is that Quincy
is going outside the box whenever he
554
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,100
ingests something foreign.
555
00:32:31,340 --> 00:32:35,460
Remember, cats are going to avoid boxes
if something in there is a bad
556
00:32:35,460 --> 00:32:39,840
association. I go in this place, and it
hurts. I'm not going to go in it, but I
557
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:44,640
will go right outside it. I think it's
coming from this. Okay. You have no idea
558
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:48,020
how lucky you are right now, because
these are the kind of things that send
559
00:32:48,020 --> 00:32:50,140
to the emergency bed at 2 o 'clock in
the morning. Yes. Right.
560
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,340
There's a condition called pica. It's
this compulsion to chew inanimate
561
00:32:54,340 --> 00:32:58,160
that unfortunately affects a lot of
cats. So you've got to pica -proof the
562
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,740
house. For cat guardians at home who are
dealing with cats that are ingesting
563
00:33:01,740 --> 00:33:05,920
foreign materials, unfortunately, we
don't know a lot about what causes cats
564
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:10,100
do it. But if they get rid of those
ingestible materials, then he's probably
565
00:33:10,100 --> 00:33:11,300
going to go back into the box.
566
00:33:11,500 --> 00:33:15,840
How lucky is it that he craps on the
floor when I happen to be here?
567
00:33:17,290 --> 00:33:21,810
Thank you, buddy. In my world, finding
pieces of crap with clothes in it is
568
00:33:21,810 --> 00:33:22,850
actually a good day.
569
00:33:23,150 --> 00:33:27,450
He's excited about poop. You should be
excited about poop because I think we
570
00:33:27,450 --> 00:33:28,490
just cracked the code.
571
00:33:28,690 --> 00:33:33,410
It's really a relief to find out there
is an actual cause for Quincy not being
572
00:33:33,410 --> 00:33:34,410
consistent in the box.
573
00:33:34,650 --> 00:33:38,050
There's something we can actually do by
changing the things that we're leaving
574
00:33:38,050 --> 00:33:39,570
out that could cause Quincy problems.
575
00:33:40,250 --> 00:33:43,770
I think we've figured out what's going
on with Quincy, and you guys have done
576
00:33:43,770 --> 00:33:48,430
amazing work all the way around. Now, we
still have one issue, which is that
577
00:33:48,430 --> 00:33:53,770
Gary does not like cleaning that up.
Sometimes it's like runny, and it's
578
00:33:54,490 --> 00:33:56,150
I might have a solution for that.
579
00:33:56,370 --> 00:34:00,450
Here we go. All you got to do is this.
Now, the big complaint, however, was the
580
00:34:00,450 --> 00:34:01,429
goopiness. Yeah.
581
00:34:01,430 --> 00:34:03,830
Hence, we have this. It's a poop
freezer.
582
00:34:04,130 --> 00:34:08,389
Oh, wow. That's right, man. First, you
freeze it. Yeah. Then you scoop it. Oh,
583
00:34:08,389 --> 00:34:12,889
wow. And officially, Gary has no more
excuses. Here we go. I bequeath to you
584
00:34:12,889 --> 00:34:14,510
freezer and the scooper.
585
00:34:14,909 --> 00:34:15,909
Get to work, dude.
586
00:34:16,010 --> 00:34:19,210
Yeah. All right. Let me see if I can do
this myself. Now, when you pick up the
587
00:34:19,210 --> 00:34:20,429
poop, it's going to be frozen.
588
00:34:20,889 --> 00:34:24,530
Listen, in all seriousness, you guys did
a great job. Thank you. I think this
589
00:34:24,530 --> 00:34:28,850
case really presents a crystal clear
vision of the right and the wrong. The
590
00:34:28,850 --> 00:34:32,969
wrong is you get frustrated and lock
your cat in a two -by -two bathroom.
591
00:34:33,230 --> 00:34:38,969
The right is you solve the problem.
People think that the cat can't drill a
592
00:34:38,969 --> 00:34:41,710
in your relationship. The cat can. The
cat did.
593
00:34:41,969 --> 00:34:44,570
And Gary and Stacey have patched that
hole up pretty nicely.
594
00:34:46,860 --> 00:34:50,679
In my years of working with cats, I've
seen them contribute to our well -being
595
00:34:50,679 --> 00:34:53,760
in multiple, unexpected, inspirational
ways.
596
00:34:53,980 --> 00:34:54,980
And now you can too.
597
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,480
It's my pleasure to share some of their
stories with you. Welcome to a little
598
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,000
slice of my cat from heaven.
599
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:04,920
My name is Michelle Hoffman, and I am
the president and founder of Milo
600
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:05,960
Sanctuary and Rescue.
601
00:35:07,100 --> 00:35:12,680
Ziggy came into my life last December
when she was tossed from a moving car.
602
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,960
she had been paralyzed from the waist
down.
603
00:35:15,300 --> 00:35:19,420
And she is an amazing, amazing creature.
604
00:35:19,700 --> 00:35:20,259
Hey, guys.
605
00:35:20,260 --> 00:35:22,400
Hi. How are you? I'm Jackson.
606
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:23,598
I'm Michelle.
607
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,980
Michelle. And this is Ziggy. Ziggy. You
went through a lot. She did. But what
608
00:35:27,980 --> 00:35:31,620
she has brought into my life far
outweighs whatever I can do for her.
609
00:35:31,980 --> 00:35:35,540
Ziggy has taught me so much. Ziggy has
taught me to never give up.
610
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:40,040
defy all odds, and to keep going through
the toughest time.
611
00:35:40,380 --> 00:35:45,120
And I am inspired every day by her
strength and her ability to overcome
612
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:46,820
everything that's been thrown at her.
613
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,620
All right, come on. Let's see.
614
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:53,300
Now, she can get along just fine, right?
Yes. Ziggy is great, but once in a
615
00:35:53,300 --> 00:35:59,740
while, Ziggy has little meltdowns. Come
on, Zig. She will hiss, growl a little
616
00:35:59,740 --> 00:36:01,640
bit, and so she has her moment.
617
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,140
She gets grumpy. Yes, she does.
618
00:36:04,650 --> 00:36:07,790
You've got to remember, here's a one
-year -old cat. She's a teenager.
619
00:36:08,030 --> 00:36:11,450
She's got that energy. Just because she
doesn't have the mobility doesn't mean
620
00:36:11,450 --> 00:36:16,270
she doesn't have the urges. And I am
sure that Ziggy experiences a lot of
621
00:36:16,270 --> 00:36:21,070
frustration not being able to get around
the way she needs to. But I will do
622
00:36:21,070 --> 00:36:22,210
anything to fix the problem.
623
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:31,280
It was amazing spending time with
Michelle and Ziggy last time, and we had
624
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,680
problems with Ziggy's attitude because
she doesn't have mobility.
625
00:36:35,100 --> 00:36:36,920
So I've got a surprise.
626
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,620
They're going to love it. I guarantee
they're going to love it. Well, hello
627
00:36:40,620 --> 00:36:44,820
there. Oh, hey, Jackson. How are you?
It's good to see you. It's good to see
628
00:36:44,820 --> 00:36:45,499
you, too.
629
00:36:45,500 --> 00:36:46,500
How you been? Good.
630
00:36:46,720 --> 00:36:49,840
And Ziggy, how you been? I got something
for you.
631
00:36:50,180 --> 00:36:52,480
I loved Ziggy's story.
632
00:36:52,890 --> 00:36:57,630
Loved everything about Ziggy. Oh, my
God, Jack. I couldn't be happier that I
633
00:36:57,630 --> 00:36:59,330
to just help a little bit.
634
00:37:02,450 --> 00:37:06,550
Now, you want to suit up? Let's do it.
Let's go. Let's do it. Come on.
635
00:37:07,110 --> 00:37:10,750
It's okay, Ziggy. Life is going to get
really good really soon.
636
00:37:11,350 --> 00:37:12,350
You ready?
637
00:37:13,110 --> 00:37:18,050
You ready? All right. I know. Seeing
Ziggy in this new cart, moving around.
638
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:23,140
The end game for me. I mean, the drive
was there. The desire was there. We just
639
00:37:23,140 --> 00:37:25,000
had to give her literally the support.
640
00:37:25,220 --> 00:37:26,640
This cart is fantastic.
641
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:30,080
Look, she needs a little bit of practice
in this. And then I think we got it.
642
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,340
This cart, it's going to be fantastic.
643
00:37:32,660 --> 00:37:36,840
I can take her more places. She can be
out more. And there's going to be no
644
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:37,840
stopping this girl now.
645
00:37:38,020 --> 00:37:42,200
We've come a long way. This cat only
needed the ability to move from A to B.
646
00:37:42,900 --> 00:37:45,680
Hopefully, this cart can fix that
frustration.
647
00:37:46,330 --> 00:37:50,450
You meet Viggy, and your perspective is
going to change. And look at her. It's
648
00:37:50,450 --> 00:37:51,450
an amazing inspiration.
649
00:37:51,850 --> 00:37:52,850
Good girl.
650
00:37:57,710 --> 00:38:02,530
I am pretty pumped up. I'm heading in to
talk to Christy about Skylar.
651
00:38:02,770 --> 00:38:07,990
With feline hyperthesia syndrome, I
gotta see that Skylar has become a
652
00:38:07,990 --> 00:38:12,930
more grounded. A little less attacking
her own tail. A little less torturing
653
00:38:12,930 --> 00:38:14,310
Christy. I mean...
654
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:15,960
These things have to happen here.
655
00:38:20,340 --> 00:38:21,340
Well. Hi.
656
00:38:21,740 --> 00:38:25,980
You are just like, you're like glowing.
Every time I come in, it's like a
657
00:38:25,980 --> 00:38:29,900
different person. Right? A little better
each time, right? You know what? Let's
658
00:38:29,900 --> 00:38:33,820
get right into it. Because there's just
so much that I want to talk to you
659
00:38:33,820 --> 00:38:37,420
about. So let's get to it.
660
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:42,540
So we're going to give Skylar her
medicine. She's getting pretty good at
661
00:38:42,540 --> 00:38:43,820
let's see how she does this time.
662
00:38:44,730 --> 00:38:45,730
Aw, pumpkin.
663
00:38:46,990 --> 00:38:52,390
By and large, the attacks are down. The
worst case scenario was three in one
664
00:38:52,390 --> 00:38:57,810
day. Okay, down from... 20 to 30, yeah.
20 to 30 were down to three? Constantly,
665
00:38:57,930 --> 00:38:59,370
yeah. Pretty cool, man.
666
00:38:59,590 --> 00:39:00,590
And Sunday she doesn't have any.
667
00:39:00,730 --> 00:39:04,830
On Sunday there was only one attack, and
then Monday there was nothing.
668
00:39:05,030 --> 00:39:08,870
Tuesday there were two attacks, but they
were right in the morning when Skylar
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was waiting for me to feed her.
670
00:39:11,310 --> 00:39:13,290
And that was the worst of all of them.
671
00:39:13,900 --> 00:39:16,660
Skylar is not attacking herself anymore.
672
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:22,680
Skylar is not attacking Christy. The
medicine has done its job, and Christy
673
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:23,680
done her job.
674
00:39:23,700 --> 00:39:24,700
Good guy.
675
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:26,400
Guy?
676
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,920
All right, so the high -pitched voice
doesn't work well. So you were testing
677
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her. Yeah. That's fantastic.
678
00:39:32,580 --> 00:39:33,580
That's mindfulness.
679
00:39:34,240 --> 00:39:35,240
So happy.
680
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:42,000
Yay! So happy on so many fronts. First
of all, I mean, she's
681
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completely... in trance with what's
going on out there.
682
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:51,300
Pale is not moving. Her eyes are not
dilated. Her ears aren't moving
683
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:56,740
So do you feel confident at this point
that you know what's going on with her?
684
00:39:56,740 --> 00:39:58,240
Yes. Yes.
685
00:39:58,740 --> 00:39:59,740
Done. Completely.
686
00:39:59,920 --> 00:40:01,120
This is a case study.
687
00:40:01,340 --> 00:40:06,160
This shows that if you focus the cat,
present her with grounded energy, give
688
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:10,560
vertical space, and treat her with
something like gabapentin, you go from
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attacks a day to just about zero.
690
00:40:13,610 --> 00:40:20,030
Right now what we're seeing is Skylar
being a normal cat, Christy. I know,
691
00:40:20,090 --> 00:40:21,090
right?
692
00:40:22,970 --> 00:40:27,810
I can't believe I just heard Jackson say
that my cat is normal.
693
00:40:28,290 --> 00:40:30,070
That makes me so happy.
694
00:40:30,490 --> 00:40:31,810
I have a normal cat.
695
00:40:32,470 --> 00:40:34,190
Clearly, my work here is done.
696
00:40:34,410 --> 00:40:39,690
Yes. Before you go, though, I have
something for you.
697
00:40:41,770 --> 00:40:42,770
Oh.
698
00:40:43,130 --> 00:40:44,930
It's the most beautiful thing I've ever
seen.
699
00:40:54,390 --> 00:40:55,890
I have something for you.
700
00:40:56,170 --> 00:41:00,550
This is a picture I made for you. Oh, my
God.
701
00:41:00,930 --> 00:41:03,890
Oh. That's your baby. That's my baby.
702
00:41:04,270 --> 00:41:09,210
These are all the cats from the show
that you've helped. Oh, my God.
703
00:41:09,950 --> 00:41:11,290
I can't even.
704
00:41:12,180 --> 00:41:14,800
Tell you how special this is.
705
00:41:15,020 --> 00:41:19,360
So Christy gives me this collage. And
then, of course, there's a portrait of
706
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,020
cat, Benny, in the middle of it. Who
inspired this whole thing?
707
00:41:23,380 --> 00:41:27,500
Oh, my God. I can't believe this. It's
the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.
708
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:28,780
Thank you so much.
709
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:33,820
I want him to remember all the people
he's helped.
710
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,660
Not just me and Skylar, but everybody.
711
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:38,780
Why do you want to do that to me?
712
00:41:39,860 --> 00:41:42,180
You made me cry. I made you cry.
713
00:41:42,500 --> 00:41:44,520
Thank you.
714
00:41:45,340 --> 00:41:49,240
You deserve all that's coming, which is
good. Thank you.
715
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:51,120
Thank you.
716
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,280
I promised that cat that I would do
this.
717
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,140
And I know I've made a difference.
718
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:10,560
The hell isn't over yet. Go to the My
Cap From Hell Facebook page for
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