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This is Mickey's domain.
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If I were to leave all three cats alone,
I would find a dead cat.
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I work with animals all day, and for me
not to be able to control my own
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animals, I just feel like I'm constantly
being rejected.
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Ow! You can't do this.
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Elsa's like a Tasmanian devil.
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You shred my shower curtain. Just tore
that up.
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Elsa.
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This is a vacuum horse, you two.
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Every day she's back.
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Oh, Elsa.
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No words can describe how much I love
her, but I just need your help, man. I
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can't take this anymore.
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I'm Grace. And I'm Mark. And we rescue
Falling Cat.
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He might fetch for you.
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Oh my God, he totally expected that.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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I am Cat.
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The animal behavior that guardians call.
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And they're dealing with a difficult
cat.
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Wow, he really got you.
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I'm out to prove that there is no such
thing as a bad cat.
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Just a cat that needs my help. You did
it.
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My
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name
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is Megan, and I live in Downey,
California.
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My name is Kelly Holt. My name is
Richard Holt. We have three cats in this
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house. There is Bear, and there's Ducky,
who's super sweet, and then there's
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Mickey.
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He will launch himself at you and bite.
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I just feel like I'm constantly being
rejected.
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I'm a pet groomer. That's what I do for
a living.
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I work with animals all day, and for me
not to be able to control my own animals
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is just kind of like a little bit of a
defeat.
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The most concerning behavior that Miki
shows is the aggression that he shows
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towards the other cat. He basically sees
red.
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I have to keep them separated or else
they will fight.
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This is Miki's domain.
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Miki is constantly locked up in my room.
He's in there.
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All day.
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And then he has free run of the house at
night.
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We have to constantly be aware of which
cats are locked up, which cat is out.
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Here we go.
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A huge fear of mine is that if I were to
leave all three cats alone, I would
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find a dead cat when I came home.
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It's gotten to a point where it's
unbearable.
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It's not fair to have my family come
home to this all the time. And they are
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cats. We can't do this. This is a big
issue for our family. It's actually
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breaking us apart because Miki's
behavior can actually injure somebody,
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has.
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I've got one here and another puncture
there.
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Either the cats have to go, or Megan,
you have to take the cats and find your
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own place.
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It would break me if I had to move out
or get rid of one of my cats.
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It would break me.
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I will consider every possibility and
every solution that Jackson gives me to
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help these cats because I really need
them.
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This is a desperate cry for help.
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Hey. Hi.
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How are you, Jack? Hi, I'm Megan. Megan,
how are you doing? Thank you for having
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me. You're here.
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Come on in. And look, we even have a
cat. This is Bear.
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What's up, Bear?
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Hi, Bear.
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He has the best personality out of all
three. Not that you play favorites or
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anything. Right, no.
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So, let's sit down and start talking
cat.
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I'm sorry. Feel me that arm.
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You don't think I could walk in here and
not see this, right?
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No, this is daily.
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This is daily? Yeah.
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Miki did this.
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So, Miki is our problem child?
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Yes. Okay. What I did was I tried to
hold Miki with bare hands on me.
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So if you were not to smell like bear,
that wouldn't be a problem. Not at all.
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You could pick up Mickey.
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He never had litter mates, so I don't
think he knows.
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How do you know he didn't have litter
mates?
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I raised him.
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Bottle? Yeah. Oh, one of them. Yeah. One
of them.
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Cats that are raised from a very young
age, a few days old, just by humans, I
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call them bottled babies. And bottled
babies don't have the experience with
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other cats, so their social skills with
other cats are just a little skewed.
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They also get over -attached to their
humans. And I've got to keep an eye on
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both of those things.
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He always had aggression tendencies?
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Since the other cats come.
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Ah, so we've got Bear and we've got
Duchess, who just don't leave.
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Had a litter. I just thought they were
so adorable.
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Okay, so what did the introduction look
like? We tried putting up a little kitty
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gate, giving them food, and Mickey, he
just wouldn't do it.
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I believe in introducing cats through
scent. A great way to do this is to feed
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them on opposite sides of a baby gate so
they begin to make positive
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associations with the scent of the other
cat.
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But you need to make sure to start with
the cats far apart. It looks like Megan
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really rushed this process.
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And then I would try removing the gate
and Bear will get closer and closer to
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Miki. And Miki will hiss and walk away
from Bear.
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And Bear will follow. And that's when
the pfft happens.
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So Miki has given him every chance in
the world to back up, right? So now I'm
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getting the fact that it's actually Bear
that's the problem, not Miki.
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What? Wait, what?
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No, no. You don't see it that way?
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Bear is a little troublemaker. He looks
for anything that's fun, and Miki is a
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lot of fun. The thing is, fun for Bear
is not fun for everyone, Miki included.
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Now Miki's nowhere to be found right
now. Where's he at?
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He is locked in my room underneath my
blanket.
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Now, one thing I think is a really huge
problem with Mickey, he's in this small
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bedroom. He will cling to me like a
little child.
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Don't forget, Megan raised him from
birth. All he knows is Megan, and that's
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healthy. He has to be separated from the
other two.
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When you settle into a routine where one
cat is sequestered all day long in a
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room, then they come out, then you
sequester the other cat, it's dangerous.
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Because when that one cat comes out
here, they're treating this as a
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hostile territory.
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You guys cool with having these three
cats live like this for the rest of
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lives? No, not at all. This is not
workable. We're always on alert.
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One thing that we usually boil down to
at the end of the conversation is you
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need to look for your own place and take
the cats out.
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Oh.
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Okay. Tears usually come out at that
point because I just feel like there's
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other option, really. I'm feeling like
this is my last chance, really.
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I'm just kind of really hoping this
works.
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I mean, you talk about high stakes. It's
not just the cats that are going to get
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rehomed in this situation. It's their
daughter, too. So I'm going to work as
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hard as I can to prevent that outcome
from happening.
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There's our buddy. Oh, Bear, I brought
your friend. In the meantime, I've got
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see the situation.
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So I want to set up an environment where
I can see what's going on. So I use
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pillows to block off all the hiding
spots.
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Hi, Mickey, my friend. Hello?
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Where are you going to hit me?
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Okay, buddy, stop it.
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I can tell right away by observing Miki
that he's a defensive cat. He only
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attacks when he feels threatened.
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Here comes Bear.
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Here comes Bear.
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Look at that. You think that that's this
little innocent move what he's doing?
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He is blocking off all of Miki's exit
points. He is just trying to stir up
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trouble right now.
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Bear is just looking at that dead end
going, you got to come out sooner or
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later, man. And when you come out, we're
going to have fun.
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Okay, so here's what we're going to do.
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I am actually going to lead Bear over.
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With a toy.
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And then my goal is to see if I can keep
his attention away from that toy,
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right? And keep him on the non
-breathing toy, the appropriate victim.
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I drag him on in here. Come on, come on,
come on, buddy.
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Now I'm going to bring him right over
there.
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Come on over.
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There he goes.
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Look at him. He's making that choice.
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Feather or Mickey?
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Feather. Mickey.
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Feather. Feather.
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Feather.
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That's amazing.
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Good boy.
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He doesn't care about Miki at all. He
cares about that feather hanging off of
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that toy, and he wants to kill it.
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If we can just burn Bear out for
appropriate play, he'll stop provoking
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Miki will learn that he can relax around
Bear because he's just not getting
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stalked. This is huge.
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Let's go ahead and put Miki back in your
room. Come on, Miki.
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There. Can you be cool for a second?
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If Bear can just leave Miki alone, and
Miki can then, in turn, summon the nerve
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to move past Bear, then these two cats
have taken their first step towards true
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peace.
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Miki?
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Go ahead, Miki. If Jackson can't help
this situation, I'm going to have to
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either move out or I would have to re
-home.
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And both of those situations would just
break my heart. It would be
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catastrophic.
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When I see Bear is blocking off the
entrance for Miki to go back in the
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I'm thinking something's going to
happen.
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Come on.
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There's going to be a fight. There's
going to be a brawl.
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Let's go ahead and put Miki back in your
room. Come on, Miki.
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Bear, can you be cool for a second?
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It's an understatement to say that Miki
and Bear don't share the same space
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well.
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But I've seen some progress here today
because I saw that Bear can be more
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interested in a toy than he is in Miki.
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But as these two cats go whisker to
whisker, we're facing a potential
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moment here.
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Um, Miki? And I have no idea how it's
going to go.
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Come on.
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Something's going to happen.
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There's going to be a fight. There's
going to be a brawl.
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Go ahead, Mickey.
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Come on. If I had to get rid of one of
my cats, that would be the worst.
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And that just terrifies me.
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And it makes me feel like I've just
failed.
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Come here, my friend.
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Mickey has to go by Bear.
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That is some... What?
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Uh -huh.
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Oh, my God.
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Come here, baby.
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It just completely blows my mind when I
see that happen because I'm not used to
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those two cats acting together like
that. They are always...
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on the hunt with each other. There's
always an issue.
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I don't think I've seen you smile that
big in a long time.
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I know, like, there's hope. There is
hope. There is hope.
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Bear is too tired from playing to strike
out at Miki.
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Miki has just watched Bear play, so he
knows this cat is capable of something
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else and just walks right by him. Their
relationship changes on the spot.
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I'm going to give you guys some homework
now. I wanted... to no longer be your
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room at space camp for Mickey.
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Because you are the one and only thing
that represents security to him, right?
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I'd like to start doing the swap out
with Mickey being in that sunroom. He
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look through the safety of this window
and do what he did today, which is
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observe. Number two, the opposite side
feeding thing.
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We're going to go back to that again,
okay?
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Now, here's the key to that.
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We're not going to feed them at that
baby gate. Mealtime will happen on
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side of a baby gate. They can back it up
as far as they have to as long as these
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cats see each other, eat, and walk away
again. And the goal is to get them
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closer and closer until the gate is no
longer necessary.
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Finally, we're going to start doing play
therapy with the cats separately. Play
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until they're tired. With Miki, his play
raises confidence. He can smell the
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other cats but still catch his prey.
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And Bear has got to get tired before he
ever sees Miki. We saw the results of
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that today. That can happen every single
day, and it needs to.
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That sounds awesome. That deep breath,
was that an overwhelmed breath, or was
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that okay? No, that was a relief breath.
We've got something we can do to move
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forward. Good. What I'm looking for when
I come back here for my next visit is
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very simple. I want to see Miki gain the
kind of confidence that he can just
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walk in this room, sit on the top of
this couch, and watch that foolish Bear
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play with that toy. And I need Megan to
be fully aware.
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of how over -connected she is to Mickey.
I'll see you guys in a few weeks, okay?
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Thank you. Take care.
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I'm extremely invested in doing the
homework so that Mickey can get better
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Bear can get better and everyone can be
harmonious.
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Because if Jackson can't help us, that
would be the worst -case scenario.
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My name is Chris.
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This is a single man with a wild cat.
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Ah. Her nickname is El Elsa, like El
Nino. There's going to be a storm around
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when she's in there. You know what I
mean?
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This is a vacuum for her to use, dude.
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You shred my sour curds. You tore that
up.
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Yo.
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Come in the bathroom. This is what I
usually see.
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She just does stuff that I think normal
cats don't do.
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One time I was cooking, she jumped on
the stove, took a hot link out and ran
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with it.
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The other day she was drinking the
toilet water like a dog.
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She likes to jump in the sink, taking
the sponge out of the sink. I wake up in
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the middle of the night and the sponge
will be right next to her.
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Every day she's like, ah, Elsa.
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Elsa's like a Tasmanian devil. No words
can describe how much I love her, but I
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just need help, man. I can't take this
anymore.
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So I'm on my way to East L .A. to meet
up with Chris and his cat Elsa.
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Chris is a bouncer at a karaoke bar.
He's a really nice guy. But in terms of
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scent, a little not so much.
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It looks like Elsa needs a little
introduction to human scent, and Chris
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little introduction to cat scent, and I
am on my way.
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Hey, Chris. Hey, Jackson. How are you
doing? Good, man. How are you doing? All
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right. Good to see you. Thank you.
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I walk into this house.
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And I see not a whole lot of anything.
There's nothing that says a cat lives
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here at all.
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I know it's going to be a long day, man.
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Well, I adopted this cat about six
months ago.
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You got her from the shelter? Yes. Was
it one of those, like, love at first
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sight things?
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Something like that. She had a gleam in
her eye that caught my attention because
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she has, like, a crossed eye. When I
looked at her, she kind of gave me that
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look, and I fell in love.
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Right on, man. Right on. Have you had
cats before?
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Yeah, I grew up with cats all my life.
You know, as a kid, my grandmother, we
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have a colony of cats in the backyard.
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Yeah,
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we got a lot of cats.
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I mean, the problem is that Chris is
taking the approach that he had as a kid
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with feral cats and bringing it to Elsa,
which means he's doing nothing. He's
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just letting her run rampant without
offering her anything in return.
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Ever since I got her, man, she won't
listen to me. How old is he? I adopted
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when she was a baby.
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Hey, look, Chris has a huge heart. That
you can tell. He took a kitten out of a
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high -kill shelter here in L .A. He
wanted to give that cat a good home, and
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has. However, we want to make it so the
rest of that cat's life is a good one.
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What the hell is that, Chris?
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Oh!
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You got... evidence of what
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she's done to your place, that will help
me a ton.
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What the hell is that, Chris?
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Is that like a turkey tin?
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Hell yeah.
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Wow,
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man. So we're starting to swear one
here.
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So I said, hey, let's go Thanksgiving.
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If that can hold a 45 -pound turkey, it
can hold else's turd.
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If you've got to ask me, Why a cat
doesn't want to go in a turkey pan?
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You should get a fish.
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Well, that's kind of an easy fix, man. I
mean, it's called a litter box.
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We should introduce you to one, man,
because that's never going to work.
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Number one, it's too small.
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Number two, it's made of metal. So when
she goes to scratch it, that feeling,
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the fact that you are so...
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Lucky that she's using the litter box,
man. The fact that she's done him a
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by pooping and peeing in that turkey pan
is a cat miracle.
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You know how you have cords and stuff
like that?
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She'll be chewing on the back of these
cords.
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Yeah, man. This is what I worry about.
They start chewing on stuff like this,
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man. It can be really dangerous for
them.
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I've known many a cat, man, who's gotten
electrocuted. So it's something we do
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have to watch out for.
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But this is the kind of damage she can
do, huh? Yes, sir. She does it a lot?
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Man, she chews on it like a snack, man.
Fruit roller or something like that,
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man.
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If you're going to present your cat with
this amazing gift and call it a vacuum
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cleaner cord, see, this is where the
problem is.
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I'm looking around the place, and I'm
looking for something that's not a
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That's a cat toy.
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What do you got cat toy -wise? The cat
toy I own is this right here, Jackson.
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Little cat spinny thing.
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Now, it's so funny, man, because you
look at the vacuum cleaner cord, and you
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look at this, and this thing is like
pristine.
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Yeah, she's only like, one night, man,
she played when I got her like a kid.
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So, the thing is, though, here, hold
this.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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This versus this, right? This has like a
finite amount of possibilities, right?
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I hit the mouth. It goes like this. I'm
done. I'm six months old, right?
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This can be taken, tossed around, you
know, up and down, can be chewed, take
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anywhere. It becomes...
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A toy, right? Any self -respecting cat I
know would reject that sad little cat
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toy for that sponge any day of the week.
Thus, the symbol of the sponge in this
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house. Now, there's only so far that
we're going to get here without Elsa
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actually coming out and saying hi to me.
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I mean, she's incredibly shy, doesn't
like company at all, but anytime there's
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not company, she just runs wild and
destroys the place.
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Hi, Elsa. How could you possibly be
talking about a hyperactive, destroying
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things cat, man? This is the mellowest
cat in the world. I'm going to break out
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some toys out of my case here.
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Oh, what is that?
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Uh -oh.
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What is that?
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Elsa, what is that, honey?
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Ah, I got a paw.
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There you go.
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There you go.
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Now, if he is... that before she turns
into Tasmanian Devil every day, I'll
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to toy like this.
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I want to give you some homework.
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Now, the first thing is your schedule
doesn't mean anything.
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It's about what you do when you get
home.
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There's a technique I call boil and
simmer. It's like when you're doing a
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recipe, you bring it to a boil and let
it simmer.
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Same thing with her. You let her come to
a boil, like play -wise, let her come
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down again. When she's done playing, out
comes dinner.
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This is a technique to say hunt, catch,
kill, eat. If they were out in the wild,
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that's exactly what they would do. By
the time you leave the house to go to
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work, she's down.
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You will not come back to a destroyed
house.
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Me and Elsie are going to start this cat
one -on -one homework.
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Me and Elsie are going to have a good
time later on tonight.
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I'm going to boil her. I'm going to
simmer her.
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You, I'll see you in a few weeks. Hold
on, she's got to give you a handshake,
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too. Bye, baby. Have a good one, Jackie.
All right, take care, guys.
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All right.
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The most important thing that I want him
to understand is that having a cat is
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like having any kind of family member.
There's a life here, and you've got to
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make it so that Elsa's life is a
constructive one, not a destructive one.
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The last time I was here, I
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met up with scaredy cat Miki and his
overprotective mom, Megan. Now, while
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has made some progress becoming that
confident cat that we all need him to
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Oh, my God!
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Today...
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I've got to see even more progress,
especially with those tough challenge
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that I laid out.
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We'll see.
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Hi. Hey. Good morning. How are you? I'm
good. How are you? I'm okay. I'm okay.
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I'm really excited to see Jackson just
because Mickey's behavior I can see has
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completely changed.
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And I feel like I'm not doing things
right. So let's sit down.
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Where is Mickey right now? He's in his
sunroom.
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Are you freaking out right now?
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Oh, he's totally freaking out. Okay,
let's go, let's go. I'm disappointed
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because I really thought that this
homework was going to bear fruit and it
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struck out.
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Hello, my friend.
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Okay, now we're all going to sit.
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You can tell he's just like, he's upset.
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He has been starving himself every other
day. He doesn't eat.
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I'd say maybe two pounds lost.
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What? Two pounds? I'd say.
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You have to understand.
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How bad that is.
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That's almost a quarter of his body
weight. Your cat shuts down to that
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That is bad news. What went wrong?
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I feed them usually around 7, 7 .30 at
night.
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They only eat once a day?
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Yeah, they get a really big helping.
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If I feed them twice a day, they won't
do the morning.
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If Miki is only given one chance a day
to eat and he doesn't take it, then
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that's a huge problem.
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We're in trouble.
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Do you feel that you can get him out of
there?
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I could pick him up easily.
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Okay, pick him up.
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To see Mickey act the way he does around
Jackson like he's afraid of him is
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definitely heartbreaking for me because
I raised him myself. He's my child.
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Hello, little buddy. I know. There's
someone there. Don't worry, though. I
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you. I won't let him get you.
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He's still really tense.
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I got you, babe. I know what you want.
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I see you.
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You can't get any more sort of
mothering, nurturing than that, but...
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He's not a child. And once you start
carrying that child around when he's not
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child, it's going to have negative
repercussions. And those negative
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repercussions are all over this house
right now. This cat is totally shut
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And Megan is completely enabling him.
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See, no one's going to eat you.
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We're back to square one here.
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See, no one's going to eat you.
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I gave Megan homework that would
encourage Miki to be more confident, and
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I'm seeing is that she's encouraging him
to hide.
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Um, here's what I want to do.
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Put him in your room so he can calm down
in familiar territory, and then meet me
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in the living room.
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We're going to do this if he kills us.
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All right, let's get out of here.
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The situation here is worse than I
thought. I mean, here we have a woman
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works with animals for a living, and yet
her coddling of Miki is fostering a
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codependence in him that's very
troubling to me, and it's at the root of
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our problems.
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All right, let's see what we got here.
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Wow,
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bears are right there.
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I'm seeing lots of mistakes. First of
all, I'm seeing the cats way too close
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the feeding line, that gate. There's no
way I would eat there if I didn't trust
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the cats on the other side of that gate.
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I'm also seeing play behavior that
really concerns me.
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Come on, Meekie.
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Meekie, when he does play, barely leaves
his feet.
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That shows me that he's playing with no
confidence. He wants to, but he doesn't
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trust himself to do it or he doesn't
trust his environment.
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And the same distrust is what leads to
violence.
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He goes from zero to 60 in the fight -or
-flight department, and he always does
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it from a hiding position.
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And when he takes that posture, he
actually believes he's being threatened.
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that's why it's so vital that we put an
end to this coddling and hiding cycle,
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and we do it right now.
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So we've got cameras set up in there so
there's no humans in that room except
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for me and Megan.
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Oh, please.
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Yeah. Oh, please.
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He's not showing.
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That's not showing.
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And, of course, I walk in there and I
see what I don't want to see, which is
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Miki still hiding.
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Where are you, Bubba?
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You see? Look, look, look. This is so
important. Miki finds comfort hiding
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in Megan's room, away from the world. Of
course, that's not the behavior we
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want. We don't want comfort. We want
confidence out in the world amongst
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everybody and up in the world as well.
That is what makes a confident mojo
459
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:39,579
-filled cat.
460
00:25:39,580 --> 00:25:44,880
He's too insecure to occupy and to own
that part of the world, right?
461
00:25:45,300 --> 00:25:49,840
How do I get him to be confident? That's
what I want to do. Megan, you've got to
462
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,140
stop letting him hide.
463
00:25:51,420 --> 00:25:53,480
You're encouraging him to be small and
insignificant.
464
00:25:53,780 --> 00:25:57,040
And you've got to know what that body
language looks like in order for
465
00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:01,060
professional Megan to come out and say,
sorry, I just can't allow that. Earlier
466
00:26:01,060 --> 00:26:05,500
today when Miki shut down, Megan
actually made it worse by letting him
467
00:26:05,500 --> 00:26:06,500
inside her shirt.
468
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:07,640
No one's going to eat you.
469
00:26:09,180 --> 00:26:13,040
This is what you created, and this is
where he's going to stay unless you
470
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:14,040
challenge him.
471
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,960
That's a good boy. I know, I know, I
know, but I want you to hang out.
472
00:26:19,500 --> 00:26:20,660
I do. I want you to hang.
473
00:26:21,180 --> 00:26:22,360
Whoop. Oh.
474
00:26:22,780 --> 00:26:23,780
A little feisty.
475
00:26:23,940 --> 00:26:25,820
Yeah, well, that was the move.
476
00:26:26,180 --> 00:26:28,060
Do it one more time. Go ahead. Just put
him down.
477
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:29,720
Hi.
478
00:26:30,060 --> 00:26:31,060
Look at that.
479
00:26:32,620 --> 00:26:33,920
Hey. Good boy.
480
00:26:35,060 --> 00:26:36,380
What a good boy.
481
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:37,680
Well, this is different.
482
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,220
This is such a good thing.
483
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:45,220
He's kind of looking for that, like he
wants to be nudged, like to get out
484
00:26:45,220 --> 00:26:49,220
a little bit. Exactly. The only way that
any of us become our best selves is to
485
00:26:49,220 --> 00:26:51,660
overcome challenges. It's the only way
we do that.
486
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:55,380
I never really thought of it as a
problem for Miki to be hiding.
487
00:26:55,820 --> 00:26:58,500
I always thought that that was where he
was kind of safe.
488
00:26:59,260 --> 00:27:02,080
But now I know I'm wrong, so we need to
change that.
489
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:03,280
That was fantastic.
490
00:27:03,420 --> 00:27:05,940
Let's go back out, join your folks, and
let me give you guys some homework.
491
00:27:06,100 --> 00:27:08,280
Leaving Megan's room, I'm invigorated.
492
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:13,120
This cat does not have to live the rest
of his life in mortal fear 24 -7.
493
00:27:13,340 --> 00:27:16,440
We're going to set that challenge line,
and we're going to move forward like we
494
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:17,540
mean it this time around.
495
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,780
First of all, it is very important,
three meals a day.
496
00:27:22,120 --> 00:27:26,040
It's about how far back do you have to
go to the point where they walk up, eat,
497
00:27:26,120 --> 00:27:27,120
and walk away.
498
00:27:27,180 --> 00:27:31,240
The problem for us is confidence is cat
mojo. I want you to go through the
499
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:37,720
entire house and block off the unders,
right? Your goal is here, here,
500
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:42,600
here, not there, right? Because that
will cause him to shut down. More
501
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,680
importantly, Megan, you have to cut the
cord a little bit.
502
00:27:45,940 --> 00:27:47,500
You will be a source of challenge.
503
00:27:47,700 --> 00:27:49,380
All comfort comes from you guys.
504
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,200
So I can't give treats?
505
00:27:51,690 --> 00:27:54,190
I can't. Look at the way this is playing
out right now.
506
00:27:54,470 --> 00:27:55,470
Look at this.
507
00:27:55,490 --> 00:27:57,950
No, I get the treats. She gets the
loving. You get nothing.
508
00:27:58,190 --> 00:27:59,790
You get nothing. You get to be
professional, Megan.
509
00:28:00,490 --> 00:28:05,210
When Jackson tells me, you need to bring
your professional work self home, it's
510
00:28:05,210 --> 00:28:09,670
the worst possible thing for me to hear
because I love holding Mickey and I love
511
00:28:09,670 --> 00:28:14,570
coddling him so much. And I'm going to
have a hard time sticking to it, but I'm
512
00:28:14,570 --> 00:28:15,529
going to have to.
513
00:28:15,530 --> 00:28:18,390
Let's get to it. All right? Take care.
Thank you so much.
514
00:28:18,730 --> 00:28:23,720
Yes. Megan adheres to the homework. I'm
telling you, I'm going to come back to a
515
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,860
different cat. If she doesn't, I'll bet
something.
516
00:28:35,140 --> 00:28:39,160
I love that new toy, Jack. It's like a
kid in a candy shop.
517
00:28:43,959 --> 00:28:47,840
Last time I was here, I met Chris, who
was taking a real hands -off approach to
518
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:51,840
his cat, Elsa, mainly because his only
experience with cats was growing up with
519
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:52,840
a feral cat colony.
520
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,640
Hopefully, my homework technique called
boil and simmer, or playing in
521
00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:00,760
structured intervals, really helped get
that crazy energy off of Elsa, and at
522
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,440
the same time, taught Chris a thing or
two about his cat's personality.
523
00:29:06,300 --> 00:29:10,160
Me and Elsa, we had a little huddle. We
had to talk for a minute. I gave her
524
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,700
instructions. I gave her new rules to
run by in the house.
525
00:29:13,290 --> 00:29:17,290
Past cattle 101 with flying colors. I
know when Jackson comes back, he's going
526
00:29:17,290 --> 00:29:18,290
to be very happy.
527
00:29:19,810 --> 00:29:22,870
What is up, man? Jackson Gelson, what's
going on, man? How you been, man? I'm
528
00:29:22,870 --> 00:29:26,730
feeling good. Look at that. You didn't
have to go to the old school. Look at
529
00:29:26,730 --> 00:29:27,750
that. Jackson's side burns.
530
00:29:28,090 --> 00:29:33,290
I am not easily flattered, man, but
that's pretty damn, what the hell did
531
00:29:33,290 --> 00:29:37,470
to yourself? That's the claws right
there. I have to represent for the cat
532
00:29:37,470 --> 00:29:38,470
himself.
533
00:29:39,429 --> 00:29:43,170
I got the magical Jackson burns going,
so Elsa really respects him.
534
00:29:43,750 --> 00:29:47,410
Last time I left you, man, there was a
lot of work to be done.
535
00:29:49,070 --> 00:29:51,290
I see evidence of cat life.
536
00:29:51,870 --> 00:29:56,190
We got beds, we got tunnels, we got
toys, we got all kinds of things.
537
00:29:56,410 --> 00:29:59,750
There's only one thing that's missing,
and that is your cat, Abracadabra.
538
00:30:00,090 --> 00:30:01,090
There she is.
539
00:30:03,470 --> 00:30:04,830
Hello, my love.
540
00:30:05,770 --> 00:30:07,790
Long time no see, my baby.
541
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:09,880
Hit a little purr.
542
00:30:10,180 --> 00:30:15,580
One of the biggest problems that I
identified the last time I was here was
543
00:30:15,580 --> 00:30:17,660
litter box or your turkey pan.
544
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:18,920
Is that like a turkey tin?
545
00:30:19,380 --> 00:30:20,480
That's never going to work.
546
00:30:21,780 --> 00:30:22,780
Oh,
547
00:30:22,980 --> 00:30:23,980
and it's the litter box.
548
00:30:24,260 --> 00:30:28,160
As soon as you left, I had to throw the
turkey pan away and I brought the Elsa
549
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,160
condo in.
550
00:30:29,180 --> 00:30:31,100
Yeah, and it worked. She loves it.
551
00:30:31,340 --> 00:30:34,880
So the litter box is working because
it's a litter box.
552
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:39,820
It's not a turkey pan. Here we have her
little PlayStation here. We have a
553
00:30:39,820 --> 00:30:44,780
fatality. The cool thing is, though,
that when we have evidence like this,
554
00:30:44,780 --> 00:30:49,180
says to us, okay, this is what she
likes. When I first met Chris, the guy
555
00:30:49,180 --> 00:30:54,340
obviously loved his cat. But past that
point, I mean, clueless with a capital
556
00:30:55,020 --> 00:31:01,300
Now he's armed with knowledge about what
Elsa needs through her eyes. With this
557
00:31:01,300 --> 00:31:03,360
empathetic view, he approaches his cat.
558
00:31:03,690 --> 00:31:06,750
As a parent approaches a child, and
that's the key to success.
559
00:31:07,050 --> 00:31:09,290
I got some of your homework on video
here.
560
00:31:11,750 --> 00:31:15,170
Now she's playing fetch with you, man. I
love that. One of the best things about
561
00:31:15,170 --> 00:31:19,110
watching video homework is watching Elsa
play fetch with Chris.
562
00:31:19,310 --> 00:31:22,990
And Elsa's just doing it, like grabbing
that stick, bringing it right to Chris,
563
00:31:23,090 --> 00:31:26,910
demonstrating to Chris that I like doing
this. This makes me happy.
564
00:31:27,170 --> 00:31:31,470
Elsa's similar in time. I gave her a
good run, and now she's just hanging out
565
00:31:31,470 --> 00:31:32,470
the laundry.
566
00:31:32,959 --> 00:31:38,600
Very. I couldn't ask for any more than
that, man. That is perfect homework,
567
00:31:38,780 --> 00:31:43,480
I can honestly say, man, your technique,
the boiling simmer technique, it really
568
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:48,140
came into effect. When you left that
time, I boiled her up and I simmered her
569
00:31:48,140 --> 00:31:51,240
down. Between the time she's worked up
to the time that you got her down to the
570
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,420
final simmer, how long do you think it
is?
571
00:31:53,900 --> 00:31:55,200
I say about two hours.
572
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:59,140
For what? We have a good time. I kind of
like, let me have a second, Disneyland.
573
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:00,680
We try to ride.
574
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:05,320
Every ride, I bust a toy out right here,
and she have a good time with the mice.
575
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:10,560
Two hours, man. Chris is now playing
with Elsa for up to two straight hours.
576
00:32:10,780 --> 00:32:14,880
He's giving her more exercise than most
cats I know, and she reflects that in
577
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,660
her relationship with him. That is
something I like to see.
578
00:32:18,030 --> 00:32:20,750
I feel proud, like a proud father
watching his child.
579
00:32:21,010 --> 00:32:25,650
Yeah, you represent for all cat guys out
there, man, because real men like cats,
580
00:32:25,830 --> 00:32:31,650
and that's an important thing, and your
relationship with her is very nice, man.
581
00:32:31,950 --> 00:32:35,150
I mean, Elsa's made a lot of progress in
just a couple weeks, and...
582
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:39,960
If you hit that sweet spot and you give
the cat exactly what she was asking for,
583
00:32:40,100 --> 00:32:41,200
you're going to get results.
584
00:32:41,420 --> 00:32:43,180
And that's the kind of thing I want
everyone to know.
585
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:47,000
If you're just watching your cat, if
you're observing what it is that she's
586
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:51,900
content with, i .e., there's sponges all
over the house, and you go, wait a
587
00:32:51,900 --> 00:32:54,540
minute, she needs a toy, you fix it just
like that.
588
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,420
Chris, it's been absolutely real.
Thanks.
589
00:32:58,100 --> 00:33:02,640
Good time, man. Good time. Keep that
style, man. I like it. Keep the claw
590
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,000
on you, man. Thank you.
591
00:33:04,250 --> 00:33:07,810
I'm a different person now, even with
the cat world. And I think that I can
592
00:33:07,810 --> 00:33:08,870
it to a whole other level.
593
00:33:09,130 --> 00:33:12,070
So Jackson, if you need a sidekick, give
me a call.
594
00:33:18,490 --> 00:33:22,330
In my years of working with cats, I've
seen them contribute to our well -being
595
00:33:22,330 --> 00:33:25,430
in multiple, unexpected, inspirational
ways.
596
00:33:25,650 --> 00:33:26,650
And now you can too.
597
00:33:26,750 --> 00:33:30,150
It's my pleasure to share some of their
stories with you. Welcome to A Little
598
00:33:30,150 --> 00:33:31,710
Slice of My Cat from Heaven.
599
00:33:32,650 --> 00:33:36,430
I'm Grace. And I'm Mark. We live in
Studio City and we rescue cats.
600
00:33:36,770 --> 00:33:38,330
So all my life I've had dogs.
601
00:33:38,530 --> 00:33:45,030
I had no idea the amazing qualities of
cats until I read this book that changed
602
00:33:45,030 --> 00:33:48,770
my life. It's called Homer's Odyssey,
Odyssey of the Blind Cat.
603
00:33:48,970 --> 00:33:51,570
And the rest is crazy cat lady history.
604
00:33:52,670 --> 00:33:57,290
Man, am I psyched. Not only are these
guys amazing adopters, amazing foster
605
00:33:57,290 --> 00:34:00,630
parents, but they concentrate on special
needs cats specifically.
606
00:34:01,500 --> 00:34:02,500
Blind cats.
607
00:34:03,620 --> 00:34:05,300
Hey! How are you, man?
608
00:34:05,980 --> 00:34:09,020
I'm seeing a few cats. How many do you
have in the house right now?
609
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,020
We foster, so we have cats going in and
out.
610
00:34:12,300 --> 00:34:16,460
So on top of the five that we have
ourselves, we have five that we're
611
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,400
He might fetch for you.
612
00:34:19,460 --> 00:34:21,239
Oh my God, he totally expected that.
613
00:34:21,460 --> 00:34:24,679
Now at first you're saying, oh my God,
that's amazing. It's a blind cat playing
614
00:34:24,679 --> 00:34:28,820
fetch. Watch out for the guitar case.
But then, my guitar case is in the way.
615
00:34:29,310 --> 00:34:32,909
He's running back with his little mouse
in his mouth and just goes whoop. He's
616
00:34:32,909 --> 00:34:37,030
got your case there, so he just goes
around the case. That's insane, man.
617
00:34:37,030 --> 00:34:42,389
cat especially loses their eyesight, the
rest of those senses go into overdrive,
618
00:34:42,389 --> 00:34:46,949
down to their whiskers. Everything is
just looking for information. And the
619
00:34:46,949 --> 00:34:49,210
Fitz navigated was absolutely amazing.
620
00:34:50,409 --> 00:34:52,489
I love the way he's exploring right now.
621
00:34:53,250 --> 00:34:57,470
What was the impetus? All of a sudden
you're like... We're going to do Blind
622
00:34:57,470 --> 00:34:58,630
Cat. What happened?
623
00:34:58,850 --> 00:35:01,870
I read this book called Homer's Odyssey,
The Odyssey of a Blind Cat.
624
00:35:02,070 --> 00:35:03,550
It was just such a sweet book.
625
00:35:03,770 --> 00:35:04,328
What's it about?
626
00:35:04,330 --> 00:35:08,410
It's about a cat that is blind and was a
kitten and nobody wanted him. And this
627
00:35:08,410 --> 00:35:13,310
woman, Gwen Cooper, adopted him. And
it's really just about how capable he
628
00:35:13,630 --> 00:35:19,010
Grace is telling me what a huge
inspiration Gwen Cooper's book is. I am
629
00:35:19,010 --> 00:35:23,290
biting my hand because I have a huge
surprise for her. I don't want to give
630
00:35:23,290 --> 00:35:24,390
away. I got to play dumb.
631
00:35:27,020 --> 00:35:31,120
But as far as the blind kids are
concerned, it doesn't matter. Is that
632
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,220
doorbell? Yeah. Go ahead. We can bring
it.
633
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:38,920
Gwen Cooper!
634
00:35:39,340 --> 00:35:40,480
Oh, my God!
635
00:35:41,340 --> 00:35:42,360
Oh, my God!
636
00:35:42,700 --> 00:35:49,540
Gwen Cooper changed the course of my
life,
637
00:35:49,620 --> 00:35:52,300
and not just my life, but Mark's life.
638
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,960
And so many cats that we have saved. She
is amazing.
639
00:35:57,340 --> 00:36:01,880
Really, since we read your book, we've
probably fostered about and found homes
640
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,500
for about 25 cats. Wow.
641
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,000
Wow.
642
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:06,800
That's a lot of cats.
643
00:36:07,420 --> 00:36:12,860
You know, the story spoke to you, and
that means a lot to me. It really did.
644
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:18,120
We have to look beyond ourselves, you
know, and to be able to be of service in
645
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:21,320
some way. And for me, I found my path,
and that was through.
646
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:22,960
Rescuing cats.
647
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:27,920
You know, the path to getting Homer's
story published was so difficult. And to
648
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:33,640
meet someone who was so influenced by it
and in such a wonderful direction, it's
649
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,380
just an indescribable feeling to be here
and to hear this.
650
00:36:36,700 --> 00:36:41,380
Well, we can't thank you enough. Meeting
Gwen and Jackson has been probably one
651
00:36:41,380 --> 00:36:46,080
of the best experiences of my life. And
for them to tell us that they're
652
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:49,620
impressed with what we do, it means so
much to me.
653
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,880
I wanted to try something with you guys.
Knowing I was coming over here, I just
654
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:55,980
sort of modified one of my toys.
655
00:36:56,900 --> 00:37:01,560
Basically, I just took something that
had a little worm on the end of it and
656
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,320
just replaced it with a bell. Here.
657
00:37:03,980 --> 00:37:05,040
Gwen, I present you.
658
00:37:05,340 --> 00:37:09,780
Oh, my God. He's right on it anyway.
Remember, blind cats play just like any
659
00:37:09,780 --> 00:37:11,820
other cat. They need that exercise.
660
00:37:12,220 --> 00:37:14,980
I love this. Oh, my God. I love this.
There you go.
661
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:20,280
Sending this message to people who are
even thinking about adopting a blind cat
662
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:25,260
that they do what any other cat does.
Absolutely. There are cats dying in
663
00:37:25,260 --> 00:37:26,520
shelters every day.
664
00:37:27,070 --> 00:37:31,490
just because they're blind or deaf or
have three legs or anything like that.
665
00:37:31,690 --> 00:37:36,290
Mark and Grace show you that just
because they're physically different
666
00:37:36,290 --> 00:37:39,770
mean that they can't bring something to
your life. And listen, if you don't
667
00:37:39,770 --> 00:37:43,450
believe me, don't adopt. Go ahead and
foster. We just got to get them out of
668
00:37:43,450 --> 00:37:46,570
system, and that will convince you that
these guys are special.
669
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:57,780
So I'm here for my final visit with
Megan and her cat, Miki. And the last
670
00:37:57,780 --> 00:38:01,500
was here, Miki basically wasn't. No
one's going to eat you.
671
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:06,480
And Megan was just enabling him. So
today, I want to see a cat who doesn't
672
00:38:06,720 --> 00:38:10,760
Who can be in a room with Bear and just
be a cat, not a scaredy cat.
673
00:38:11,240 --> 00:38:14,920
And I need to see that Megan learn to
give some tough love. Otherwise, she and
674
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:15,960
her cats are moving out.
675
00:38:17,580 --> 00:38:19,180
Hi. How are you?
676
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:20,520
Good. How are you?
677
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:22,020
Good. What's your hair?
678
00:38:22,490 --> 00:38:23,490
That's good.
679
00:38:23,690 --> 00:38:28,350
So first and foremost, what's going on?
What's happening?
680
00:38:28,570 --> 00:38:34,190
Miki will spend most of his day up on
the top of the cat tree. Oh, my God,
681
00:38:34,270 --> 00:38:39,350
that's amazing. And during feeding, now
I know, we had some rough patches, and
682
00:38:39,350 --> 00:38:43,250
you're seeing success with that. Sure. A
lot, yeah.
683
00:38:44,570 --> 00:38:48,050
We've marked it very graphically. There
we are.
684
00:38:51,020 --> 00:38:55,140
Oh, wow. You really are... It's right up
until last night. Very close.
685
00:38:55,700 --> 00:39:00,600
I love when my clients take me at my
word. When you put a piece of tape down,
686
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:04,260
may look like a matter of inches, but if
you add that up over a couple of weeks,
687
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:08,560
it's an illustration how this system
works, that getting cats far apart,
688
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:12,520
them up day after day works. The proof
that it works is that Mickey's eating
689
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:13,520
again.
690
00:39:13,540 --> 00:39:17,460
Wow. Good news, man. Everything sounds
killer right now.
691
00:39:17,700 --> 00:39:19,780
And by the way, you've come...
692
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:25,160
tremendous way with this whole thing,
from the person who would carry him
693
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:26,960
under her shirt, right?
694
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,640
I mean, you've really been a strong
parental figure to him.
695
00:39:31,100 --> 00:39:35,800
I am so proud of Megan for learning not
to coddle Miki. She challenged herself
696
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,840
and her cat, and that's what everybody
needed.
697
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:43,220
I just want to see Bear and Miki being
able to occupy the same space at the
698
00:39:43,220 --> 00:39:45,540
time without World War III breaking out.
699
00:39:46,860 --> 00:39:52,540
I got to see that Miki can be confident
sitting there owning the space while
700
00:39:52,540 --> 00:39:54,140
Bear is being Bear.
701
00:39:56,700 --> 00:39:59,140
Miki's got to be able to watch that and
know that it's not a threat.
702
00:39:59,780 --> 00:40:00,780
Coming.
703
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,160
And here comes Bear. Here.
704
00:40:06,660 --> 00:40:07,660
What's that?
705
00:40:07,700 --> 00:40:08,860
All right, here we go.
706
00:40:11,340 --> 00:40:12,880
There we go. Good boy.
707
00:40:13,240 --> 00:40:16,240
Good boy. So I got Bear playing. No
problem.
708
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,460
And then, their eyes meet.
709
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,560
I have no idea what's coming next.
710
00:40:23,180 --> 00:40:27,040
I was very nervous. I hope nobody bleeds
here.
711
00:40:35,220 --> 00:40:36,220
Good boy.
712
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:37,360
Good boy.
713
00:40:37,580 --> 00:40:42,340
What I need to see is Bear and Mickey in
the same room at the same time, not
714
00:40:42,340 --> 00:40:43,340
attacking each other.
715
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:44,760
Now, watch. He's looking.
716
00:40:46,700 --> 00:40:47,760
Their eyes meet.
717
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,780
I have no idea what's coming next.
718
00:40:53,020 --> 00:40:54,860
Look at that, man.
719
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:57,880
And then they look away.
720
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:03,300
It's been about Miki finding his
comfortable place up in the world. Now
721
00:41:03,300 --> 00:41:06,800
can be comfortable in the same place at
the same time as Bear, that's a
722
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:11,320
challenge met and a challenge won. Miki
is perfect.
723
00:41:11,620 --> 00:41:14,020
I call this game over, man.
724
00:41:15,260 --> 00:41:21,120
Very nice. From this moment on, Miki
doesn't have to cower in fear anymore.
725
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:25,680
He knows that when he's up, he's
surveying his kingdom, and all is good.
726
00:41:25,980 --> 00:41:26,980
Game changer.
727
00:41:27,300 --> 00:41:33,160
I'm very proud of him. And you, as well.
I gotta say. No, I really am.
728
00:41:33,500 --> 00:41:36,040
You've done amazing work.
729
00:41:36,380 --> 00:41:42,040
Going into the main option for me and my
cat, Miki, was move out.
730
00:41:42,570 --> 00:41:44,930
And now that we've had this progress, I
can say.
731
00:41:45,630 --> 00:41:52,390
You stepped up, man. Yes, my boy. I am
so very impressed with you. Thank you
732
00:41:52,390 --> 00:41:54,030
coming and saving us.
733
00:41:54,250 --> 00:41:56,250
You fixed him. Bye,
734
00:41:57,370 --> 00:41:58,370
guys. Bye -bye.
735
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:10,200
The hell isn't over yet. Go to the My
Cat from Hell Facebook page for
736
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,400
Microsoft's gifts and much more.
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