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Barnabas is the perfect cat from hell.
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Ow!
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Barnabas was vicious from day one.
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He drew blood, he bit, he hissed. Pretty
much daily.
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Looked like a horror movie.
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He does not like my husband at all.
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The only thing that makes him happy is
opera music.
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I don't know if there's hope for this
cat. He's not going anywhere.
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We have a cat named Bogey.
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Oh. Bogey is Thane's cat.
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He is from hell.
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Hey, what are you doing in there?
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He'll go into my drawers, pull all the
clothes out, dig his way in there, and
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then pee on him.
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Oh, my God. He's actually peed while
we've been in bed. Oh.
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On top of me. Oh.
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Specifically. And the urine went all the
way through the mattress.
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We can't yell at Bogey, so we turn to
each other. He's kind of breaking this
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family up a little bit. So he's not part
of our family? No, he is a part of our
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family, but we cannot go on living like
this.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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I'm a musician by night and a cat
behaviorist by day.
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I've met cats with all kinds of
problems.
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But I've never met one I couldn't help.
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Oh, hello. In my career, I've worked
with thousands of cats, one -on -one,
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analyzing their behaviors and retraining
them and their guardians.
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When relationships are at an end, I
don't have many more options than to
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leave. And cat guardians have reached
their emotional limit. Just get rid of
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her. I'm their last hope.
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Are you all right?
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Sorry, I don't know. Cats have nine
lives, but humans only have one.
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I
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have
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come all the way to San Diego to see
Alan and Shannon and their cat Barnabas.
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Who is literally ripping this couple to
shreds. I'm going to go over there right
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now and see if I can at least stop the
bleeding.
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My name's Alan.
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My name is Shannon. We live in San
Diego. We've been married for almost
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years. We have a main coon named
Barnabas.
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Barnabas is the perfect cat from hell.
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Barnabas is vicious from day one. He's
been in the garage.
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And we thought it was going to be a
short quarantine, but he's so nasty that
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just don't trust him in the house.
Right.
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He does not like my husband at all.
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He will not let me pick him up.
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If I do, he will swap my face or scratch
me or even bite.
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I've gotten bit and scratched so bad
that the blood was just dripping down my
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arm. It looked like a horror movie.
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Today's blood drawing from the cat.
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And another one.
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See, he got me.
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One time I was so frustrated with the
cat when the cat hissed at me and I
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back at the cat.
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If it was up to Alan, the cat would have
been given away.
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Shannon believes that you don't get rid
of damaged goods.
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I don't want to see him ever put this
away. There's no... I was always brought
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up, if you have a pet, it's like when
you have a husband.
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You're in it for better or worse.
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Barnabas is really just tearing our
lives apart.
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I don't know if there's hope for this
cat. He's not going anywhere.
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Hey, how are you? I'm Jackson. Hi, Jack,
and I'm Alan. Alan, good to meet you.
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Thanks for coming in. Thank you so much.
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I'm Shannon. Nice to meet you. Good to
meet you.
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Tell me, you got a cat problem I can
help you out with?
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Well, we just got Barnabas, and he's
been in the garage for a few months now.
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Oh, wow. He's drawn a lot of blood. He
bites, he hisses, he growls, he
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scratches. I do not like what I'm
hearing one bit. When you lock away a
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cat, you're only making the problem
worse by denying them social contact.
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Barnabas hates Alan.
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He's worse with him than he is with me.
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If I go to pick him up, he'll whop at
me, you know? I like to cuddle with
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Yeah, me too. Yeah.
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I've tried everything to make Barnabas
happy. You're going to think this is
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crazy. Yeah.
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I put a little opera music on, and all
of a sudden, he just, like, nodded off
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sleep.
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I was able to pet him.
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Incredible. That's so cool. And then he
just nodded off. Shannon told me, oh,
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you're going to think that's so strange,
playing opera for Barnabas. Of course
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it's not strange. Music therapy worked
for humans, for animals alike, and
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something I can work with.
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What else has been going on? Max is the
cat we had. He just passed away
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yesterday.
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Yesterday?
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Yeah. I can't tell you how sorry I am.
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But he's my favorite cat.
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He was a special cat.
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Shannon contacted Max's breeder, and
that's why we were hoping when we got
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Barnabas that he'd be a little mini
-Max.
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Because to see that he looked exactly
like Max, and I'm like, I want that cat.
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But once we brought him home, he turned
into this monster.
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Yeah, their nephew and uncle.
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Wow. Alan and Shannon are telling me
about the loss of their cat, Max,
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yesterday, which is just awful.
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But in the meantime, I'm a little
worried when I hear that Max... was the
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favorite cat. That means poor Barnabas
has a lot to live up to.
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Was Max part of the reason that Barnabas
is in the garage?
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No, Barnabas is the reason he's in the
garage. Now, if I didn't show up here
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today, what next? What next for
Barnabas? I really wanted to give
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because I feel like he was getting
between me and Shannon.
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Yeah, if that cat gets given away, he's
going to get put to sleep, and I'm not
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going to have that.
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All right, guys, come on, let's walk.
All right.
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Alan and Shannon just lost one cat. I do
not want them to lose another. We have
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a cat who's really asking for our help.
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It's time to get started. This is our
cat room.
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Really beautiful steps.
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I mean, you catified the space really
beautifully. I assume this was for Max.
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And that's where we want to have
Barnabas being the loving cat that I
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can be.
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So we walk into what they're calling the
cat room. The first thing I notice is
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there's no cats in there, and that's
because they lost their other cat, Max,
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just yesterday. And yet, Barnabas has
not come into the house. I can think of
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all kinds of things we can do with this
room, but we've got to get that cat out
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of the garage.
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There's his garage.
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Oh, well, there's Barnabas.
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Let me just see what happens when you
approach him.
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Oh.
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So as Alan goes to touch Barnabas, first
of all, he's going above the top of his
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head. Most cats don't like that, but I
don't like where this is headed even one
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little bit.
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Alan, try not to reach over his head.
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Oh, and Alan, it just seems like he
doesn't even know me.
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Whoa, whoa, whoa, okay, wait, hold on.
All right, Alan, I have definitely seen
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enough of you getting beat up. Let me
get in here for a second.
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Now, I wanted to step in and see if I
could do something different. Push this
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cat's challenge line so that I can see
if he's just a grumpy cat who hates Alan
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or if there's a deep receded aggression
going on here.
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Hi, buddy.
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I hear the warning.
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I know, buddy. I know. I know. Well,
what if I... Whoa!
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Okay, man.
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Whoa!
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Whoa.
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Whoa.
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Whoa! Okay, man.
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Man, he just thumped me.
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So, Shannon, come on over here.
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Let me see what it is that you do.
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I just come over here and pick them up.
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How do you like that? Watching Shannon
handle Barnabas, suddenly I'm seeing his
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previous life come to light. Because he
can be handled by a woman, no problem.
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But Alan and I? No dice. This cat wants
nothing to do with men. So now I know
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it's time for Barnabas to be
reprogrammed to men in general.
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I see the look on your face. You just
got a... I take a little pin and go,
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get your little tail.
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Oh, yes. Yes, I'm jealous.
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You know, early on, because I can't do
that to him.
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I could smother Max with love or
whatever, and I hope
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he can do the same thing with Barnabas.
If we're going to get anywhere, I need
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these guys to start embracing Barnabas
for who he is and not who he reminds
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of. Well, let me give you guys some
homework, okay? Now, the first thing,
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today's moving day.
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He comes out of that garage. We
integrate him fully into this home.
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It's really tough because you're
expecting Barnabas to be a little bit
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Max than he is.
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And he's not. He's Barnabas.
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You okay?
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What's up?
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What? It's okay.
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Barnabas.
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We all do.
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We all do. I know how hard this is. I
know how hard today is for you guys.
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We would love to have Barnabas a part of
our family, especially since Max is
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gone now.
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At the same time, we're trying to say
goodbye to Max, trying to really invite
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Barnabas into the space.
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Now, the second thing is, Shannon,
clearly you've broken through all those
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defenses that he was putting up in order
for Alan to come in.
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You've got to pull back a little bit,
Shannon.
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It's great that Shannon can handle
Barnabas, but carrying cats around like
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can rev them up. She may be trying to
protect him. What she's doing is sending
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message that he should be nervous, too.
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She's saying, it's okay, it's okay. And
in reality, what the cat hears, it's not
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okay. And I'd rather her focus on trying
to calm Barnabas down by burning energy
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with play, and that way he'll be calmer
when Alan tries to deal with him. Alan,
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we have to reassociate him with men. So,
Alan, your homework is...
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opera dining i want you to feed barnabas
and you do it while the opera is
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playing okay all right guys i'm gonna
leave great to meet you thank you and
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sir i'll talk to you soon all right this
just needs to work because we can't
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keep living like this i want barnabas to
be a happy cat and i want us all to be
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a happy family and live in harmony
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Right, I'm back in San Diego and I'm
outside of Shannon and Alan's house for
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second visit with them and their cat,
Barnabas.
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Last time I was here, Barnabas' violent
behavior, specifically towards Alan, had
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landed him in solitary confinement in
the garage. Now hopefully this time
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he is out enjoying life in the rest of
the house.
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and there's no violence whatsoever.
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Believe me, in that case, I'll be a
happy guy.
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Alan, man, how are you?
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Hey, Jack. Good to see you again.
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Good to see you. So, guys, please tell
me that Barnabas is at least in the
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now and out of that garage.
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The night that you left, we brought him
in. He's everywhere in the house. Yeah,
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there we go. Thank you. Thank you. I'm
so proud of you guys. Good, good, good,
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good, good.
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I can tell he's happier than he was
before, but he still needs a lot of
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He's so tense.
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Okay, well, that shows a lack of
confidence in the territory.
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Right. And, of course, the territory is
still pretty new. Guys, the last time I
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was here, your cat Max had just passed.
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How is it putting your attention on
Barnabas? Well, there's still
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because he has some big shoes to fill as
far as Max goes.
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These guys need to realize that
comparing Barnabas to their old cat is
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going to prevent them from bonding with
him. And Barnabas... is never going to
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thrive unless he has a bond with both
Alan and Shannon.
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All right, so the last time I was here,
guys, I asked you to video document
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everything you had been doing. Let's
take a look at life with Barnabas. Now,
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the video homework, I got to see
Barnabas moving into the house and
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playing with him.
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That's so sweet.
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And best of all, I saw Alan starting to
build a relationship with Barnabas using
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opera to get through to him.
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Send in,
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Barnabas.
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Look at you wagging your tail.
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That's not a good thing.
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But I saw Alan committing a cardinal sin
with cats. I mean, there's this cat
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wagging his tail, and he's hissing, and
he goes in for a pet.
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Oh. Alan, that is not a happy cat. That
is a cat saying, leave me alone.
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Oh, there's our man.
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First off, we headed into the room that
used to belong to their cat, Max. Now,
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the last time I was here, Barnabas was
anything but relaxed.
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Whoa! Whoa!
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So now, I'm just hoping today he's at
least made some progress.
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Hello, mister.
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Hi.
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Oh, hi.
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You remember me?
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Remember the last time I was here?
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You weren't too psyched to see me.
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And right away, you could tell that he
was a less hostile cat.
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Now, because he's living in the house,
because they've been using opera to form
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positive associations with men, and
because Shannon's helping get that
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energy out with Flay, I can tell he's
not going to attack me like he did last
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time. Of course, it's not me that I'm
worried about. It's Alan.
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Now, listen, Alan, do you feel
comfortable trying to pet Barnabas?
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No. When Jackson asked me to pet
Barnabas, I was afraid he was going to
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my face.
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I have to be leery of him because I'm
not sure which way he's going to go. Is
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the nice Barnabas or is he going to be
the mean Barnabas?
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Sometimes when I come up here and I pet
him, he will growl at me and hiss at me.
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Really? Sometimes I see Alan will spend
just a few more seconds too much with
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the cat.
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The one thing that I would really
encourage you to do is...
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Always be conscious of the way a cat
tells you he doesn't want to be pet,
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swishing tail and flattened ears.
Otherwise, you're going to get bit.
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I was not going to wait for Alan to get
bit by Barnabas. I didn't want to risk
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going three steps back here. But it
worries me that he still sees Barnabas
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unpredictable. It's not that Barnabas is
unpredictable.
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It's that Alan is just not reading his
cat.
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Some cats just aren't as cuddly as
others, and their guardians need to
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aware of their body language so they can
tell when the cat's had enough.
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I really want to focus on how we're
going to get these attacks gone
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What I want you to do is called the
duet. You're going to sit facing each
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and what I'd like you to do, Alan, is
watch Shannon when she handles Barnabas
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you can become more aware of how she
responds to his body language. There's
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better way of learning what you're doing
wrong by seeing someone else doing it
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right. And while you're working on that,
let's also give Barnabas something to
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help him get a little less on edge.
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I work with holistic remedies. These are
flower essence remedies.
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Now, this is called Stress Stopper. It
should help Barnabas just settle into
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new territory a little better.
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The next thing, we want to modify the
environment. I'd like to see a cat tree
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that cat room as a gift to Barnabas.
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Now that Barnabas is in the house, I
want that cat room to be his, and not
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Max's old room. Let's give Barnabas
something that doesn't have a trace of
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scent on it, because even if these two
cats never met, he can still smell
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of Max, and this way, he can start to
feel like this place is his now. Guys,
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you have any questions at all, you let
me know, all right? Good to see you
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again. I think we still have a lot of
work to do with Barnabas.
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He's not trustworthy. I mean, one minute
he's just fine, and the next minute
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he's growly and hissy and scratchy
and...
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If he doesn't shape up, then you know
the old saying, either shape up or ship
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out.
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Now it's time for a kitty bit.
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How many whiskers does a cat usually
have on each side of its face? Is it A,
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B, 13, or C, 12?
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Find out the answer after this break.
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How many whiskers does a cat usually
have on each side of its face? And the
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answer is C, 12.
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Whiskers are also known as tactile
hairs, which means they transmit
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about a cat's surroundings directly to
the sensory nerve.
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All right, I'm back in San Diego for my
final visit with Alan and Shannon and
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their cat Barnabas. The last time I was
here, it was clear that these guys
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hadn't let go of the memory of their
recently deceased cat, Max, and that
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still had no relationship with Barnabas.
I already got a chance to take a look
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at their video homework. I saw some
great things. I saw Alan building out
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cat room just for Barnabas so that he
can really feel like he owns the
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territory. Hey, Barnabas.
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I also saw them using spirit essence as
a stress stopper, which will help keep
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Barnabas calm as he adjusts to life in
the house.
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And finally, I got to see Alan and
Shannon doing the duets homework.
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Basically, we had Shannon teaching Alan
some really valuable lessons about how
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to pet Barnabas, how not to
overstimulate him.
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He's going to hit it.
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Today, I'm just hoping that these guys
have really been able to let go of Max
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and that Alan has a real bond with
Barnabas. I got high hopes, but I always
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high hopes.
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Hey, Shannon.
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How you been?
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Great. Good. So, guys, tell me.
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How are things going with Barnabas?
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Barnabas has blossomed finally. He's
blossomed?
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Yes. Beautiful.
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Tell me all about it. I think Barnabas
is starting to relate to me better.
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That's incredible, man.
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I'm starting to learn about cat
communication.
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Yay.
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That's fantastic.
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You know, the first day I was here, Max
had passed away the day before.
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Right. So allowing Max to go, allowing
Barnabas to come in, how's that been for
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you guys?
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The fact that I'm pouring all that grief
into a form of love towards Barnabas
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has made quite a difference. That's
incredible.
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The comparisons to Mac are totally gone
right now.
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We have decided to let Barnabas be who
Barnabas is.
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Guys, just tell me, how are things
between the two of you?
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Well, before, between Shannon and I and
Barnabas, it was a three -way fight.
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So now we're not fighting about Barnabas
anymore.
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Barnabas relates to me as well as to
Shannon.
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Glad to hear that.
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All right, guys, I want to get up. I
want to walk around. I want to see
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Barnabas. I am excited. Come on, let's
go. All right.
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Well, hi, buddy.
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Hello, Barnabas. This is definitely his
room now, man. I mean, honestly,
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everything in here, down to the bee on
the wall. Don't think I didn't notice
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that walking in here.
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All right, this is really, really good
work.
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Now, if you guys wouldn't mind just
taking a seat on the floor so we're not
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looming over his head.
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Okay. Now, Alan, can you show me how you
hold Barnabas? I need to see that you
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guys have formed a bond.
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Okay.
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When I first started with these guys,
Alan would go to pick up Barnabas, not
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know him, not know how his body
operated, how his mind operated.
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Barnabas is not mad because it's taken
all this time for Alan and Shannon to
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learn that. Look at that.
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That is the most incredibly peaceful
look.
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Look at that.
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Oh, man.
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It does my heart good, though. It does.
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It feels great to have Barnabas just let
me hold him and cuddle him.
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Look at that. That's the cat from the
garage.
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Look at how comfy it is in your arms,
man.
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Can you promise me that he is
permanently a part of this? Oh, for
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Barnabas is here to stay.
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That's all I wanted. The first day I was
here, Barnabas was an aggressive cat
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living in the garage, and it was clear
that Alan didn't have the kind of bond
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with Barnabas he was looking for. I like
to cuddle with cats.
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Now I am blown away by what I see.
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Barnabas hasn't just overcome his fear
of men. Now he trusts Alan so much that
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he's dripping off to sleep in his lap.
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And the look on Alan's face says it all.
He can finally hold his cat. These two
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are bonded. He's my cat now.
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Congratulations, guys.
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I'm out of here.
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If Jackson hadn't come, we would still
be arguing over how to...
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Tame the cat.
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Tame my husband.
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Farmers and I are definitely friends
now.
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I do feel like we're one big happy
family, finally.
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We have a cat named Bogey. Bogey is from
hell.
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What are you doing in there?
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He'll go into my drawers, pull all the
clothes out, and then pee on them.
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Oh, my God.
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I just can't do it anymore.
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I don't want to do it anymore.
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I'm done.
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If Jackson can't fix Bogey, he'll have
to find another home. So do you want him
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to get euthanized?
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So I'm heading over to see Jay and Tiana
and their cat, Bogey. Everywhere Bogey
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goes, he leaves a trail of destruction.
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Nothing safe. I mean, carpet, clothing,
you name it. These guys are at the end
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of their rope, and if Bogey could, he'd
destroy the rope. I'm going over there
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right now to see if I can help them out.
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My name's Jay. My name's Tiana, and
we've been together for four years. And
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have a cat named Bogey who's four years
old, and he's a domestic shorthair. He's
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not domestic. He's anything but
domestic.
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Bogey is Satan's cat.
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He is from hell. You can look around the
house, and there's not one place you
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can look that he hasn't gotten his claws
into.
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He'll go into my drawers, pull all the
clothes out, dig his way in there, tear
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them up, of course, and then he'll
decide to pee on them.
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Oh, my God.
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This is one of my most expensive shoes.
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Bogey!
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He's actually peed while we've been in
bed. On top of me. And the urine went
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the way through the mattress.
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Bogey destroys suits.
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I mean, look at this. I can't wear this.
I have had associates pull claws out of
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my shoulder pads and my suits that I
just didn't see from Bogey climbing all
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way up. Most people would say, like, oh,
why don't you just shut your closet
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door? He opens doors. He opens them.
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He doesn't drink out of his water bowl.
He'll only drink from the faucet. We
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can't yell at Bogey, so we turn to each
other and we yell at each other. Well, I
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normally am the one to have to clean.
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I clean the pee.
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That's special.
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I shouldn't even be on the hook for a
lot of this stuff.
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It was Kiana's decision to get the cat.
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I was very... That's true.
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All right, well, anyway.
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Not my cat.
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So he's not part of our family? No, he
is a part of our family, but he's like,
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you know, he's kind of breaking this
family up a little bit.
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I cannot go on.
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We cannot go on living like this.
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Somebody has to go. Trust me, I'm not
going to go. If this continues, there's
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way that we can.
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Jackson, please help me fix my little
baby bogey. I cannot live without my
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No one can change this cat.
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Hey, Jackson.
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I'm Tiana.
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Tiana, good to meet you. How are you?
Good. Welcome to San Diego. Thank you
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much.
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Hey, how are you?
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Jackson. Good to meet you. My name is
Jay. Hey, Jay. Good to see you, man.
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Guys, I don't know much about bogey. I
want to hear more.
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Tell me what's going on.
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Bogey is destruction with a capital D.
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During the day and then night, we'll be
in bed.
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And we catch the sound of furniture
being torn apart. And then you'll hear
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like, making these, like, very vocal,
like, noises. Like a creaky door opening
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and then kind of closing.
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It sounds like paranormal activity to
us.
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It is. Like, sometimes we'll come home
and all the doors in the kitchen will be
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open. It is. It's like something's
possessed him and it's just freaky.
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Once he gets in the drawers, what does
he do? He's in the kitchen. He'll go
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around the pods. He might sleep in there
for a while. He may urinate a little
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bit. Oh, he pees in there? Yeah.
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He's actually peed while we've been in
bed. Oh.
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On top of me. Oh.
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Specifically. Now, I haven't met Bogey
yet, but tearing up furniture, shredding
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clothes, and peeing can all be signs of
marking territory, but in a really
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insecure way. And the fact that Jay and
Tiana are getting peed on while they're
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sleeping tells me that Bogey's anxiety
level has got to be off the charts.
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Now, what age did you first notice this?
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I'd say, like, four months old. Four
months old. Yeah. Okay. Did something
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happen to him that might have triggered
this? I don't really know where his
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problem started from.
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That's a head scratcher.
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Okay, so...
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Do you feel like you don't have a bond
with him?
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Not at all. No. Not at all. Well, he's
my love, and he wasn't always this way,
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and he's not always a terrible cat,
but... You always defend him. He
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He always defends him, like, when he
does something. I defend him because I
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00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,720
him, regardless of what he does. Where
do you guys go from here? I just can't.
450
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:06,579
can't do it anymore.
451
00:26:06,580 --> 00:26:10,240
I don't want to do it anymore. I don't
think we should have to bicker and
452
00:26:10,460 --> 00:26:11,540
I'm done. You're done.
453
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,040
Wow. Um, okay. At least I see that I'm
up again.
454
00:26:16,670 --> 00:26:21,490
I can see being without Bogey's been
with us since the beginning. The tension
455
00:26:21,490 --> 00:26:25,330
between these two is clear. And if I
don't step in and fix this, Bogey might
456
00:26:25,330 --> 00:26:26,830
be the only one that's finding a new
home.
457
00:26:27,330 --> 00:26:33,530
Let's start right here, because this is
a whole lot of cat nonsense right here,
458
00:26:33,570 --> 00:26:36,390
man. That is destroyed right there.
459
00:26:36,830 --> 00:26:41,230
We have patches. He's ripped off the
patches. This is the act of a desperate
460
00:26:41,230 --> 00:26:42,330
cat. Okay.
461
00:26:42,940 --> 00:26:46,140
Cats scratch all the time. I mean,
that's something that's a natural
462
00:26:46,140 --> 00:26:49,980
being a cat. But there is a sense of
desperation to what Bogey's doing,
463
00:26:49,980 --> 00:26:53,800
by the size of the chunks taken out of
the furniture I'm seeing. Now, I don't
464
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,440
know what's causing Bogey to act out the
way he is, but I can tell you that it
465
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:01,480
has something to do with anxiety. Now,
some cats act out that anxiety in really
466
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,260
aggressive ways. Other cats, in more
destructive ways.
467
00:27:04,590 --> 00:27:09,110
This is the bathroom where Bogey likes
to access all of these drawers here.
468
00:27:09,290 --> 00:27:13,290
Yeah. So then he hides for 12, 15 hours
or however long he wants to.
469
00:27:13,510 --> 00:27:16,670
And then he'll come out and he'll meow
for a drink of water.
470
00:27:17,030 --> 00:27:20,570
So you'll just turn the water on for
him? Yeah, you have to just turn it on
471
00:27:20,570 --> 00:27:23,830
like a little bit. We'll let him drink.
We try not to let him over drink.
472
00:27:24,070 --> 00:27:27,690
Most cats love drinking fresh water, and
Bogey's found that he can get it by
473
00:27:27,690 --> 00:27:28,910
drinking out of the faucet.
474
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,740
Bogie has taken this love to an
obsessive place. Now, I don't think that
475
00:27:33,740 --> 00:27:37,100
excessive water drinking is a medical
issue. I just think it's another one of
476
00:27:37,100 --> 00:27:39,760
Bogie's extreme behaviors that I'm
hoping can be fixed.
477
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,240
I see somebody back there.
478
00:27:43,020 --> 00:27:45,700
Oh. Can I pull you out a little farther?
479
00:27:47,460 --> 00:27:50,260
Did you see him? I did. I just saw the
clothes move.
480
00:27:50,620 --> 00:27:54,880
He used my stepping stool, and he went
right up in there. Okay, let me get over
481
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,360
here. I didn't see him go. Let me get
over here real quick. He's very stealth.
482
00:27:57,820 --> 00:27:59,640
I just, I really want to see where he
goes.
483
00:27:59,860 --> 00:28:04,280
He's in behind the clothes there. Now
this is my opportunity. I want to see
484
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:08,760
he hides, where he hides, and how I can
challenge him. Pull this out of here.
485
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,180
This is called pushing his challenge
line.
486
00:28:12,380 --> 00:28:15,320
He's really not happy with the fact that
I completely uncovered him.
487
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,160
Yeah, well, I'm waiting for him to
rocket ship out of there.
488
00:28:18,380 --> 00:28:19,680
He's really scared.
489
00:28:20,120 --> 00:28:23,660
I'm going to keep pushing this challenge
line. I'm going to keep uncovering more
490
00:28:23,660 --> 00:28:24,660
and more.
491
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:28,920
There you go.
492
00:28:29,360 --> 00:28:33,000
Nice. This is the kind of thing we want
to do. We want to make it so that we're
493
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,040
not going to let you hide all the time.
It's not going to work for you. This is
494
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,600
something I'm going to give you guys
right now. I really want you to find
495
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:43,440
spots as you're touching, right? So for
him, this spot right at the top of the
496
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,360
ear, you see how I'm massaging right up
here?
497
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:52,100
That spot is kind of universal for cats.
Now, cheeks, under the chin, right?
498
00:28:52,879 --> 00:28:53,879
Top of head.
499
00:28:54,100 --> 00:28:58,160
They're almost acupressure points for
cats. This is the first huge step right
500
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,780
now is getting him to a place where he
sees you with comfort. Okay, you're
501
00:29:01,780 --> 00:29:05,040
to switch spaces with me right now,
either one of you guys. Jay, come on
502
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,820
And I just want you to go for those
spots I was telling you about.
503
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,420
Discover him and give him that comfort.
504
00:29:11,020 --> 00:29:12,020
Don't make him nervous.
505
00:29:12,380 --> 00:29:14,440
You're looking for that exit route right
now.
506
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,280
To the top of the ear?
507
00:29:16,500 --> 00:29:18,660
Yep. Tell me what you're seeing right
now.
508
00:29:21,550 --> 00:29:22,590
I see a normal cat.
509
00:29:22,830 --> 00:29:23,830
Oh!
510
00:29:23,890 --> 00:29:27,130
See, you're getting that little eye
-blinking thing going on right now.
511
00:29:27,470 --> 00:29:31,450
Jay, you've seen what I'm asking for?
Yeah, I just can't believe he's letting
512
00:29:31,450 --> 00:29:32,089
do it.
513
00:29:32,090 --> 00:29:37,190
You are bringing him comfort in this
moment, right? As stressed out as I'm
514
00:29:37,190 --> 00:29:38,910
making him, you're bringing him comfort.
515
00:29:39,990 --> 00:29:43,850
It's been four years since we've seen
that side of Bogie. So for both of us to
516
00:29:43,850 --> 00:29:48,610
see that, it was, you know, it brought
us back to the cat that we used to have.
517
00:29:49,020 --> 00:29:52,960
It was really good for both of us, for
Bogey to show us that he was still a
518
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,460
normal cat underneath all that
destruction and clawing.
519
00:29:57,300 --> 00:29:58,300
Okay, guys.
520
00:29:58,840 --> 00:29:59,840
Ready for some homework?
521
00:30:00,060 --> 00:30:05,100
Ready. Now, here's the thing. We have to
divide this up into what we know and
522
00:30:05,100 --> 00:30:06,960
what we don't know about Bogey.
523
00:30:07,370 --> 00:30:11,490
Listen, we don't know what's caused
Bogey to act this way, but I do know
524
00:30:11,490 --> 00:30:15,650
has anxiety, and it's causing him to
hide in places and act out by peeing in
525
00:30:15,650 --> 00:30:18,130
cabinets and on Jay and Tiana in their
sleep.
526
00:30:18,530 --> 00:30:22,870
Now, for some cats, it's part of their
genetic makeup, and for other cats, it's
527
00:30:22,870 --> 00:30:27,350
a response to their environment.
However, I do want to try to help Bogey
528
00:30:27,350 --> 00:30:29,170
we even attempt medication.
529
00:30:29,610 --> 00:30:33,490
What we do know about Bogey is that he
goes through periods of territorial
530
00:30:33,490 --> 00:30:36,570
panic, and that's because he's
territorially insecure.
531
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,140
That's all the clawing that we see on
the furniture, that's him getting into
532
00:30:40,140 --> 00:30:44,440
these places, peeing in those areas. I
mean, all of these things we have to say
533
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:48,820
no to. So the first thing I want you
guys to do is to kitty -proof. By
534
00:30:48,820 --> 00:30:52,640
child blocks on cabinets in the
bathroom, for instance. Then you're
535
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:56,100
them to come forward by using cocoons,
which are like cat beds in tunnels.
536
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,720
You're going to put treats in there, and
you're going to work with him to get
537
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:03,240
him into those places. Only give him
treats in his cocoons for the next
538
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,320
of weeks, okay? I don't want him to hide
all the way in the back of the closet.
539
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:10,420
Let's bring him out in socially
significant areas, but in a way that
540
00:31:10,420 --> 00:31:11,359
him feel safe.
541
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:15,240
Then, one of those rewards that he gets
is Touch 101, right? So you're going to
542
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,860
make sure you find those buttons in him,
but know this.
543
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,640
Now you know that you can bring him
comfort, that your presence brings him
544
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,320
comfort. And then finally, you guys are
going to get an automatic fountain for
545
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,440
the bathroom. Put it right in between
his and her sink.
546
00:31:28,860 --> 00:31:32,580
Having a constant source of fresh water
for a cat like Bogey will allow him to
547
00:31:32,580 --> 00:31:33,760
go there at his own pace.
548
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:38,620
And also, big bonus, it's another chunk
of territory for him to own out in the
549
00:31:38,620 --> 00:31:40,940
world. Guys, if you have any questions,
you call me, okay?
550
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,900
Thank you so much. Great to meet you.
Bye, guys.
551
00:31:44,490 --> 00:31:48,670
It's kind of a stretch for me to believe
that with three hours of homework, we
552
00:31:48,670 --> 00:31:53,330
can fix this cat. We did see that
glimmer of hope today for a little bit,
553
00:31:53,330 --> 00:31:55,650
the same time, it's been four years.
554
00:31:56,030 --> 00:31:59,030
And I don't know if you can teach an old
cat new tricks.
555
00:31:59,330 --> 00:32:02,250
This is the last straw. If this doesn't
work, bogey's out.
556
00:32:13,550 --> 00:32:16,810
All right, I'm back in San Diego. I'm
outside of Jay and Tiana's house for my
557
00:32:16,810 --> 00:32:20,130
second visit with them and their cat,
Bogey. Now, the last time I was here,
558
00:32:20,270 --> 00:32:23,770
yeah, we were dealing with a scared cat
who was also really destructive, peeing
559
00:32:23,770 --> 00:32:28,310
on things, tearing up stuff, especially
Jay's suits, and even peeing on them
560
00:32:28,310 --> 00:32:31,490
while they were sleeping. I watched
their video homework, and I got to see
561
00:32:31,490 --> 00:32:34,530
coming out of the closet and inside the
cocoon. Is that nice?
562
00:32:35,190 --> 00:32:38,410
Which will help him get more comfortable
in the house, but in socially
563
00:32:38,410 --> 00:32:39,410
significant areas.
564
00:32:39,510 --> 00:32:40,510
Hi, Boze.
565
00:32:40,890 --> 00:32:44,850
And that's keeping him away from the
furniture, which is just the biggest
566
00:32:44,950 --> 00:32:48,530
Also in video homework, I got to see
them childproofing all of those
567
00:32:48,830 --> 00:32:49,830
Oh, wow.
568
00:32:50,030 --> 00:32:52,490
I'm just hoping he's not hiding anymore.
569
00:32:53,070 --> 00:32:56,430
I also saw that they got an automatic
water fountain to get Bogey to stop
570
00:32:56,430 --> 00:33:00,550
drinking from the sink faucet. And
finally, I saw Tiana practicing Touch
571
00:33:01,210 --> 00:33:07,270
But I really want to see Jay doing that
because he's the one who needs to bond
572
00:33:07,270 --> 00:33:08,270
with Bogey the most.
573
00:33:08,510 --> 00:33:11,110
Because if that doesn't happen, this
cat's not going to have a home for very
574
00:33:11,110 --> 00:33:15,030
long. How are things going with Bogey?
He is not scratching the furniture,
575
00:33:15,030 --> 00:33:18,310
really tripped me out. And what about
Bogey peeing on you guys while you're
576
00:33:18,310 --> 00:33:19,650
asleep? Has that happened again?
577
00:33:19,950 --> 00:33:24,230
No, but he has this new behavior where
he pees in my sink.
578
00:33:24,570 --> 00:33:25,850
He doesn't pee in her sink.
579
00:33:26,110 --> 00:33:27,310
He pees in my sink.
580
00:33:28,870 --> 00:33:30,630
I think we've done a lot better.
581
00:33:31,260 --> 00:33:34,760
Since the last visit. So we did what you
said. We kind of set up some cocooning.
582
00:33:35,340 --> 00:33:39,560
We got him those boxes, the cardboard
boxes where he can hide in and scratch.
583
00:33:39,940 --> 00:33:44,980
And that's his favorite thing. We got
the fountain of water. And he still
584
00:33:44,980 --> 00:33:48,320
to drink out of the sink. So he meows
and meows and meows. And Jay and I will
585
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:49,380
not give it to him.
586
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:53,880
So you guys did what I said last time. I
was like absolutely flat out ignore
587
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:54,880
him. Exactly.
588
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,340
He peed in the sink. I mean, he's never
peed in the sink before.
589
00:33:58,210 --> 00:34:01,450
So his litter box was, like, right
there, so it's not like he didn't have
590
00:34:01,450 --> 00:34:04,150
place to go. It was fresh litter, brandy
litter. We've got to dig into that,
591
00:34:04,250 --> 00:34:05,069
okay? Okay.
592
00:34:05,070 --> 00:34:08,949
Now, I'm not sure why Bogey is peeing in
the sink, but it's something that I
593
00:34:08,949 --> 00:34:12,590
need to look into because it doesn't
take much to get Jay worked up, and
594
00:34:12,590 --> 00:34:18,630
now, he's pretty worked up. I'm not
ready to completely cave in and say, you
595
00:34:18,630 --> 00:34:25,330
know, this is going to work because, you
know, he's peeing in things
596
00:34:25,330 --> 00:34:26,330
still.
597
00:34:26,380 --> 00:34:30,940
I am adamant about, you know, kind of
rehoming him if he can't get it fixed.
598
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:35,719
Just because if Jackson can't fix him,
you know, I know we certainly can't. All
599
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:39,800
right. Okay, so guys, we definitely have
had problems in this area. Now, you
600
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:45,060
guys were telling me that when he sees
this, he will ignore this fountain, come
601
00:34:45,060 --> 00:34:47,179
back to the sink, and he'll pee in it?
602
00:34:47,380 --> 00:34:51,480
Yeah. Why doesn't he pee in her sink?
Because the only sink he's going to pee
603
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:52,920
is the sink that gets turned on.
604
00:34:53,199 --> 00:34:54,199
That's the truth.
605
00:34:54,330 --> 00:34:58,250
That means that you turn on the water
more. You've turned the water on. I
606
00:34:58,250 --> 00:35:03,330
haven't. Well, hold on, hold on a
second. Yes, because he won't stop
607
00:35:03,670 --> 00:35:07,670
But he will. So we have got to go cold
turkey. And I've got to tell you
608
00:35:07,670 --> 00:35:08,448
something, guys.
609
00:35:08,450 --> 00:35:10,430
It's going to not be fun.
610
00:35:11,150 --> 00:35:14,690
Now, listen, I give homework for a
reason. When they don't listen to me,
611
00:35:14,690 --> 00:35:16,510
going to be problems like Bogey peeing
in the sink.
612
00:35:16,790 --> 00:35:20,430
Jay's the biggest enabler. He's the guy
who's turning the faucet on. He's the
613
00:35:20,430 --> 00:35:22,070
guy who's making this problem continue.
614
00:35:22,729 --> 00:35:28,670
So, guys, I have an idea that I'd like
to try. I want to judge your progress
615
00:35:28,670 --> 00:35:29,710
with Touch 101.
616
00:35:30,110 --> 00:35:32,990
So I'm going to have you guys sit on the
bed for me. What I'm going to do is
617
00:35:32,990 --> 00:35:35,890
I'll grab Bogey. I'm going to just put
him in your lap.
618
00:35:37,430 --> 00:35:39,230
He doesn't call me up. Where's my boy?
619
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,440
Come say hi to Jay.
620
00:35:42,660 --> 00:35:47,080
When Jackson handed Bogey off to me, I
was definitely nervous. I was expecting
621
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,760
it to go horribly wrong.
622
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:52,260
This is just such an uncomfortable
feeling for me. I don't really know how
623
00:35:52,260 --> 00:35:56,700
sit. I haven't sat with him since he was
a kitten. Jay was putting out all the
624
00:35:56,700 --> 00:36:00,740
wrong energy. If Jay can't show Bogey
that there's a payoff when he comes out
625
00:36:00,740 --> 00:36:04,280
hiding, Bogey's going to run right back
into that closet and regress. Jay, go
626
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,280
for touch 101.
627
00:36:05,340 --> 00:36:07,060
Go to those absolute spots.
628
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,380
I'm just waiting for him to claw at my
lap.
629
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:13,120
Jay, keep petting him.
630
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,180
Make him feel like he's okay.
631
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,060
You're doing good, Jay. Just like that.
632
00:36:20,380 --> 00:36:22,060
Wait, wait. He's starting to purr.
633
00:36:23,100 --> 00:36:24,940
Are you kidding me? No.
634
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:34,460
Jay goes from being scared, thinking
that Bogey's going to hurt him, being
635
00:36:34,460 --> 00:36:37,880
apprehensive, thinking, well, this is
never going to last, then starting to
636
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,760
settle into this reality that, wait a
minute.
637
00:36:40,110 --> 00:36:42,170
This is real. This cat wants to be here.
638
00:36:42,390 --> 00:36:43,390
It's a first.
639
00:36:43,590 --> 00:36:45,430
I'm tripping. I can't believe it.
640
00:36:45,670 --> 00:36:51,370
The last time we saw a bogey like that,
probably four years ago, that was
641
00:36:51,370 --> 00:36:54,850
completely out of the ordinary. I mean,
that was a really big deal.
642
00:36:55,090 --> 00:36:57,050
That's a bogey that I remember a lot,
for sure.
643
00:36:57,580 --> 00:36:58,620
You guys ready for some homework?
644
00:36:58,820 --> 00:37:02,600
Ready. All right, good. So the first
thing is the concept of the widening
645
00:37:02,780 --> 00:37:06,980
I'd like you guys to get a rolling
wardrobe rack every single day. I want
646
00:37:06,980 --> 00:37:10,780
take at least a few articles of clothing
away from that closet and hang them
647
00:37:10,780 --> 00:37:11,780
someplace else.
648
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,400
Bogey is still hiding in places like the
closet where I found him earlier. So
649
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,660
what I want them to do is widen his
world. And since they don't have doors
650
00:37:18,660 --> 00:37:21,900
their closet, I need them to take the
clothes out of there so they won't have
651
00:37:21,900 --> 00:37:23,220
place to bury himself anymore.
652
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,860
The next thing you guys are going to do
is touch time. Touch time is basically
653
00:37:26,860 --> 00:37:30,240
an extension of what we did today. Make
sure you're doing touch 101, you're
654
00:37:30,240 --> 00:37:33,420
making sure you're calming him, and
you're bringing good things to his
655
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:37,700
Now, let's talk about what I'd like to
have out for him in the rest of the
656
00:37:37,700 --> 00:37:41,480
world. I want you to lure Bogey out of
his cocoons with play. Show him there's
657
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:42,880
bigger payoff out here.
658
00:37:43,300 --> 00:37:47,720
Finally, I do want you guys to remember
that he has to drink water, for sure.
659
00:37:47,940 --> 00:37:51,840
I don't want you to reward him using the
sink, Jay.
660
00:37:52,589 --> 00:37:56,070
Jackson has really made a lot of
improvements with Bogey. The touching,
661
00:37:56,070 --> 00:37:57,990
handle Bogey, how to make him feel
comfortable.
662
00:37:58,190 --> 00:37:59,069
Take care, guys.
663
00:37:59,070 --> 00:38:00,790
Thank you. Bye -bye. Call me if you need
me.
664
00:38:01,250 --> 00:38:04,430
But with that positive change came new
bad behavior.
665
00:38:04,690 --> 00:38:09,570
Now he's peeing. If Jackson can't fix
Bogey, we're going to have to rehome
666
00:38:20,620 --> 00:38:23,880
All right, I'm back in San Diego. I'm
outside of Jay and Tiana's house for my
667
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:27,800
final visit with them and their cat,
Bogey. Now, when I first met Bogey, he
668
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,560
a destructive cat. He was tearing up Jay
and Tiana's furniture, their clothing,
669
00:38:31,660 --> 00:38:35,980
and peeing all over the house. The
stress was tearing Jay and Tiana apart.
670
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,640
Jay was ready to rehome Bogey. Now, I
watched their video homework, and I saw
671
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:42,880
Bogey drinking out of his water
fountain, so I hope that means that Jay
672
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,000
turning on the faucet.
673
00:38:44,220 --> 00:38:46,100
and that Bogey's no longer peeing in
Jay's sink.
674
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,240
I saw Tiana using the wardrobe rack.
Now, my goal is that that'll open up
675
00:38:50,240 --> 00:38:53,840
Bogey's world, making him more confident
so he'll no longer feel the need to
676
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,040
hide and destroy everything.
677
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,780
I also saw them playing with Bogey,
which is another way to bring him out of
678
00:38:58,780 --> 00:39:00,000
cocoon, so that was fantastic.
679
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:04,900
But what really worries me is Jay. I saw
him working on Touch 101, and neither
680
00:39:04,900 --> 00:39:06,560
Jay or Bogey looked all that
comfortable.
681
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:11,320
This time around, what I need to see is
Jay getting on board and developing a
682
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,760
bond between these two that's strong.
Otherwise, Bogey's going to get kicked
683
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,520
the curb and Tiana's going to be
heartbroken. There's a lot riding on
684
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,720
are things going with Bogey? It's really
hard for me to sit here and tell you in
685
00:39:21,720 --> 00:39:24,420
words because it doesn't sound
believable.
686
00:39:26,700 --> 00:39:28,000
It is completely different.
687
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:32,640
Oh, God, that's music to my ears. It
really is like unbelievable.
688
00:39:33,140 --> 00:39:35,100
I don't hear drawers opening in the
middle of the night.
689
00:39:35,450 --> 00:39:36,810
I have suits that don't have claws.
690
00:39:37,090 --> 00:39:41,730
And the thing that kind of blew me away
the most, he comes and he hangs out with
691
00:39:41,730 --> 00:39:45,430
us. How mind -blowing, man. It really
is.
692
00:39:45,770 --> 00:39:49,530
Since the last time I was here, how many
peeing incidents have there been?
693
00:39:51,910 --> 00:39:52,910
Zero.
694
00:39:53,470 --> 00:39:54,470
Now,
695
00:39:56,190 --> 00:39:59,650
we'll never know what happened to Bogie
to make him this way, but I was able to
696
00:39:59,650 --> 00:40:03,050
correct his behavior by slowly closing
off his hiding spot.
697
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:07,340
giving him socially significant places
in the house to own, and in doing so,
698
00:40:07,380 --> 00:40:09,540
creating a bond with a human through
touch.
699
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,820
He hasn't scratched the furniture at
all. He's been coming out. He's been
700
00:40:13,820 --> 00:40:18,880
hanging out with us. The Touch 101 has
just turned into, you know, playtime, us
701
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,160
petting him, him sitting in our lap.
Really? Yeah. He even drinks from his
702
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:25,540
fountain. That's amazing. Now, listen,
of course, I want to get up and walk
703
00:40:25,540 --> 00:40:27,700
around here and see Bogey, of course,
again.
704
00:40:28,220 --> 00:40:29,218
I'm excited.
705
00:40:29,220 --> 00:40:30,900
You guys ready? Let's do it. Come on,
let's get ready.
706
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:33,400
And there's our man.
707
00:40:33,620 --> 00:40:34,940
Thank you for joining the party.
708
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:39,620
The last time I was here, Bogey was
living underneath things, and he never
709
00:40:39,620 --> 00:40:42,980
out in the daylight hours. To see him
walking out, taking the middle of the
710
00:40:42,980 --> 00:40:44,940
floor in that living room is a big deal.
711
00:40:45,660 --> 00:40:47,740
You have come a long way with this cat.
712
00:40:47,980 --> 00:40:49,120
Tell me right now, man.
713
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:53,720
First day I got here, there was serious
discussion about Bogey leaving this
714
00:40:53,720 --> 00:40:56,180
house. Is there a chance of him leaving
here now?
715
00:40:57,460 --> 00:40:58,460
Bogey's my boy.
716
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:03,630
Oh. I would never consider... rehoming
him or getting rid of him. He's got a
717
00:41:03,630 --> 00:41:05,410
home and he'll have a home. Did you hear
that?
718
00:41:06,130 --> 00:41:07,130
Bogey's my boy?
719
00:41:07,230 --> 00:41:11,390
Yeah. Before Jackson came, you know, it
was just kind of begging for a miracle
720
00:41:11,390 --> 00:41:16,090
and hoping that, you know, Jay would see
some sort of change in Bogey. But the
721
00:41:16,090 --> 00:41:19,410
fact that Bogey has done a whole 180
makes me so happy.
722
00:41:19,870 --> 00:41:22,950
I got to be honest with you. When you
first came here, I was very skeptical.
723
00:41:23,190 --> 00:41:26,470
I'm absolutely blown away at what you've
done. And, you know, not only have you
724
00:41:26,470 --> 00:41:30,690
fixed my relationship with Bogey, but
you have done numbers for fixing my
725
00:41:30,690 --> 00:41:34,210
relationship with Tiana. Man, I'm just
so glad you hung in there because he's
726
00:41:34,210 --> 00:41:35,310
going to pay you back for years.
727
00:41:35,550 --> 00:41:36,328
For years.
728
00:41:36,330 --> 00:41:39,950
The guy has been fantastic. He's done
amazing work. Jackson, I can't thank you
729
00:41:39,950 --> 00:41:40,990
enough. Absolutely.
730
00:41:41,450 --> 00:41:44,250
Absolutely. Guys, if you need me, you
call me, okay?
731
00:41:44,490 --> 00:41:46,090
All right. Thank you, Jackson. Take
care, Jay.
732
00:41:46,510 --> 00:41:49,670
Before Jackson came, Bogey wasn't really
a part of our household. He wasn't
733
00:41:49,670 --> 00:41:51,250
really a part of me and Tiana's
relationship.
734
00:41:51,530 --> 00:41:54,390
Now when I come home and I see the kitty
blocks and I hear the water fountain
735
00:41:54,390 --> 00:41:58,210
and I see the sunbeds, it makes me happy
because he's a part of our family now.
736
00:41:58,430 --> 00:41:59,430
Forever.
737
00:41:59,630 --> 00:42:00,630
Forever.
738
00:42:03,250 --> 00:42:04,450
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