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I'm a Los Angeles City firefighter. We have a cat named Coco who's crazy.
She was a precious little kitten, and then she just turned.
She has attacked both myself and Brandon.
I can't live like this anymore with her violence.
Foley is currently suffering from what we call the night terror.
Foley!
We're terrified that we're going to come home and that he's not going to open
his eyes.
Oh! Oh, my God.
I'm Jackson Galaxy. I'm a musician by night and a cat behaviorist by day.
I've met cats with all kinds of problems.
But I've never met one I couldn't help.
Oh, hello. In my career, I've worked with thousands of cats one -on -one,
analyzing their behaviors and retraining them and their guardians.
When relationships are at an end, I don't have many more options than to
leave. And cat guardians have reached their emotional limit. Just get rid of
her. I'm their last hope.
Are you all right?
I don't know. Cats have nine lives, but humans?
Only have one.
I'm on my way to go see Brandon and Tawny and their cat, Coco.
Coco is a really violent cat, but Brandon puts his life on the line every
day. He sees danger as a firefighter.
Tawny is done with this cat.
So I'm going to go over there right now and see if I can help put this fire out.
My name is Brandon.
My name is Tawny. And we have a cat named Coco. Oh, here we go.
I'm a Los Angeles City firefighter. We found Coco out in the middle of the road
in front of my fire station.
She was a precious little kitten.
And then she just turned.
We have this cat who is vicious.
She's attacked both myself and Brandon.
She's attacked family members and friends.
Coco. I feel like everybody around me, they're like, why do you still have this
cat?
I love the cat. She's definitely a buddy when I'm home.
His dynamic with Coco is a lot different, I think, than mine because he
lot less fear.
I'm going to pick you up, okay?
No.
As a firefighter, we see a lot of things, so when she's more aggressive,
doesn't affect me as much. I think I'm a little too scared.
We do tend to have arguments once in a while over what we want to do.
I'm kind of in my head thinking we just get rid of her.
I... on the other hand would like to try and keep her inside the house he always
says well i don't want to be the one to find her in the middle of the street
dead i feel irresponsible i don't feel like brandon understands like the
legitimacy of my fear brandon will laugh and i'm like if tani were to come and
tell me she's gonna get rid of the cat i would say no i can't live like this
anymore
Hey, man.
How are you? Hey, Jackson. How are you doing? I'm good.
You must be Brandon.
I'm Brandon. Good to see you. You know, it's good to see you. It's kind of
weird. I mean, I usually would go to my clients' homes to meet them. This time
around, I am coming to your work, but this is where I spend a lot of my time.
All right. Well, tell me a little bit about Coco. When we found her, she
She was this big. She was tiny. Her eyes were so closed.
She was right here?
You got to help a little kitten. I love it, man. You're a cat guy.
I dig it. When you got a guy who's a firefighter and they come out saying, I
love little kittens, man, I love that.
Basically, the problem is she just started to get aggressive.
My wife, she's scared of her biting her. Okay.
She doesn't want to have the cat. That's a challenge, but that's all right. It's
what I do.
Hey. Hi. How are you? Hi, Jackson and Tawny. Nice to meet you. Tawny, good to
meet you. Good to meet you. This has got to be sort of your second home, too,
yeah? Yeah. I come visit him often.
I'm really glad that Tawny came to the firehouse because I really need to know
what turned the sweet kitten that she raised into the cat that she feared.
When did you figure out that you had a problem on your hand?
We had an episode where she ended up biting me. Did she break the skin on
Yeah. But then it became sort of a continual thing. I noticed that when we
visitors, she just goes berserk. We don't have a home that people can just
freely walk in and roam around because we have Coco.
So we have a problem here.
What's your experience with her? I'm able to pick her up and throw her on my
shoulder. I carry her around. Wait, hold on a minute. It's a father -daughter
bond, I guess.
You've been scratched and you've been bit. I have.
A little. It happens. But I expect it, and I know that if she gets scared, I
react to that, and I take care of her, put her down, and then later on, she's
good again.
Now, the one place that you can tell that Tawny and Brandon are not quite on
same page is the way they handle Coco.
Brandon, very confident where Tawny is anything but.
I'm moving every day a little bit closer to having to eventually put her out. I
can't live like this anymore. I have a dangerous cat.
You know, I disagree.
I really think we can work with her.
No pressure.
We don't know much about Coco's history. Her aggression could be caused by
trauma or it could be a trait of her feral background. There's no way to know
how or why she turned violent. I need to see the home. I need to meet Coco. Can
we go there now? Yeah, let's go. All right.
I walk in.
And where is she going to be? She'll come and she'll peek her head through
This is going to have to change. What she wants is an attack angle, and we
to take this away from her. Coco is following a predictable behavior.
Hide low and strike hard. Now, I can't eliminate her natural instinct, so all I
can do is eliminate her hot spots.
I'm not really noticing a whole lot of...
Coco presence in here, and I think it's going to be important as we go along. If
she's territorially threatened, then we're not going to be a happy family at
all. Look around, no evidence of her cat. That means that Coco has no
whatsoever, and that with a cat like Coco is a big problem.
Where's she at?
In the bedroom.
Cool. I'm going to the bedroom then. All right.
Okay, then.
I feel like I'm marching into my doom here. Coco, where you at, baby?
Coco?
I have to find out if Coco's aggression is triggered by Tawny's anxiety, and
unfortunately, there's only one way to find out. I'm going to just plop myself
down on your level. We'll see what happens. Hey, how's it going?
Now, I hear that when someone approaches you scared, you get scared.
Are you going to be nice to me?
They say that you're bad when you get picked up, okay?
Soon,
as Coco picked up on my nervous energy, she started to get herself into a
defensive ball. She started with the low growl.
And as I came in, more and more even shaking with my hand, Finally, bang, she
hit me.
Although I totally sacrificed my hands to Coco, I got the information I needed.
She struck out at me specifically when I came at her with nervous energy.
Knock, knock.
Who's there?
Angry cat.
It was time to call Brandon into the room because at that point I wanted to
if it was even at all possible that he could calm her down.
I think I need a paramedic. Oh.
Is this kind of normal?
Yeah. I can go ahead and try and pick her up if you want me to. Really? Yeah.
You just have to be fast.
Go for it, man. Okay.
Go, go. It's okay.
Usually I'll let her see who it is.
Let her smell me.
Look at that.
She knows I'm going to pick her up.
He scoops her up, and you see that bond.
You see that 10 -day -old kitten being saved by that fireman. It was pretty
cool. Come on in. All right.
So let me ask you something.
It's so funny you won't even come in. Okay.
Do you feel like it's possible to have that level of calmness with her?
I mean,
I will certainly try.
I see a territorially threatened animal. I see one who has that feral in her for
sure. And now we have to work on a few different things.
And let's go on inside and talk some homework.
Awesome. All right, come on guys, let's go.
I was a little shocked to come in there and just see Brandon just calmly petting
the cat. You could have done it too.
That's what Jack was trying to tell you. I know, but... The way you approach
her. I don't have bravery like he's brave.
I'm going to use some fight or fire lingo here.
At the scene of every fire, there's only one guy in charge, the captain in
charge, Kitty Captain here. That's you. You've got to call the shots.
Everything that Brandon does with this cat is gold. We've got to pass that on
Tawny if she has any chance whatsoever of having a trusting relationship with
Coco again. Right now, I need you to think 100 % catification.
What I want is litter boxes, food dishes, trees, anything of cat furniture
she can claim as her own. These are the things that need to be out in social
areas. The idea of catification brought a little bit of...
anxiousness to me because she's a part of our life, but we don't have to create
our life around the cat.
Another thing, by the way, I want you to block off the underside of this cabinet
here. I do not want to give her that option to lay in wait for people, right?
All right, guys, if you have any questions at all over the next couple
you call me. It's an important time, okay? All right, thanks, Jeff. All
This is kind of it. I have anxiety living in my own home.
I'm at that point where she will get the boot if this keeps up. I really don't
want that to happen.
So I'm here for my second visit with Tawny, their firefighter husband,
and their cat, Coco.
First time I was here, Tawny wanted this cat out of here. Brandon wanted no part
of that, and neither did I.
I had a chance to look at Brandon and Tawny's homework, and I've got to tell
you, they did an excellent job with the catification.
Got multiple scratchers, litter box in the living room.
I'm pretty impressed with the changes I'm seeing in Coco's behavior.
What I don't like is how visitors and Connie approach the cat. It's my
Oh, there's the cat.
I don't like this. I really don't.
Hi, what's wrong with the kitty?
No!
No! I still have a lot of work to do.
Hey! Welcome back!
How are you? Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing great.
Where's Brandon? He's in the backyard, so let's go join him. Okay, cool.
Hey. Hey, Jackson. How's it going? How are you, man? What's going on, Jackson?
Good to see you again. Good to see you, too.
So, tell me, how are things in the world of Coco?
We're progressing.
Good. Slowly. Good.
He's adapted to the lay of the land. I can tell that she likes having more of
the home be hers.
In the video homework, your brother, he literally walks in the door, looks at
the cat, and he's like, I don't like this.
I don't like this. I really don't.
She's just walking.
She's not doing anything at all. So I see that we got our work cut out for us.
Friends have been scarred by the cat because they've seen her kind of at her
worst. We want to have a home that feels safe to people.
The last time I was here, I gave you the sort of captain's position of really
demonstrating to Tani, this is what this message means, this is what her body
language means. And we worked on that, but there's...
There's still a little fear there.
You're still pretty shaky?
I'm still a little shaky, yeah.
Yeah, I know. She has a little claw. A little claw.
She's got sharp ones.
I speak cat. I understand.
You cannot minimize our cat situation, and you are, and you're doing it.
She still pisses and isn't totally approachable, and to me that's a
have you been doing the homework?
I'm trying, buddy.
And you think it's funny, and you think it's cute.
They're not going to be perfect, right?
It was kind of uncomfortable sitting there with Tawny and Brandon. In terms
their approach to Coco, these guys have got to meet in the middle, or we don't
have a chance.
Here's what I want to do. We're going to get up and take a look around the
house, and, of course, I've got to see Coco.
Okay.
All right, guys.
Well, let's start right here.
Show me now where she hangs out.
Now she's over there, right?
So now, that's a good invitation. Do it again.
Oh, my gosh. Yeah, good.
And then this is what I do.
No. Oh, that's the thing that you use. Yeah. Okay, so here's the bad in that
situation. I mean, it's all bad.
It's all bad that she's camped out here waiting, right? And then she's going to
swipe. This is a tool of your fear, right?
This is the thing that says, I'm still afraid of you. I will not touch you.
You're activated in this situation, and I have to use some sort of a blocker to
get you away from me. So this whole situation is bad.
I do have this by the front door. That's the thing we're going to do. Exactly.
You got it. People walk in the door. Do I hand them this? I specifically suggest
your brother. If he were to walk in and he's like, Coco, boom.
And here, and then she goes to play over here. Not only is he in a position of
power, which is a good thing, but she has now cleared her way out of here.
You see that subtle difference. The subtle difference is, do these become a
of fear or do they become a tool of empowerment?
And in that way, it's win -win.
My plan is to give people walking in the house that toy, because the thing is,
if we empower them with a toy, they get to guide her away. Otherwise, everyone
walks in with fear. This way, we're disarming the people and disarming the
All right. Now, last time I was here, I asked you to put litter boxes in
socially significant areas, and you did.
There you have it. Props to you. You were not psyched about that. Yeah, I
it sucks, but I'm willing to kind of embrace it, and she hasn't used one of
bathrooms since this one. Okay, so it sucks for you, but that is one of those
things where the cat is talking loud and clear and saying, I don't feel secure
in this area. Now I do.
I've got to tell you, first off, I'm pretty impressed.
Tawny, I didn't even think was going to do it. She did it.
And double -edged sword here, Coco's using it. She's using it more than the
in the bathroom. She's letting us know, I like this, I appreciate it, thank you
very much. Now don't move it.
By catifying, you've absolutely made it so that this whole area is friendly
toward her. Now do you feel that you're...
Still scared enough of her that none of this worked for you?
There's definitely been, you know, steps, but I'm still afraid.
That's really important.
So I want to try something different, something we haven't done before.
Now, where's Coco at?
The last time I saw her, she's in the guest bedroom.
And that's where we're going to head. All right.
The only way for Tawny to get over her fears is to confront them. And the only
way she could do that is without Brandon sitting next to her. This was a time
for her to be alone without his protection.
First thing I want you to do is take a seat on the bed.
Beautiful. Sitting near the cat.
You just sit.
When someone's suffering from post -traumatic stress, one of the things
use is exposure therapy. Have them walk through the fear that they fear the
most. Here's the next step.
First thing I want to do is I want to blindfold you, all right?
Every step along the way on this thing is you trusting me.
And more importantly, you trusting her. Go ahead.
I get scratched. You're in big trouble, Jackson.
By blindfolding Tani, I'm hoping to change her view of Coco because she
literally won't have one. And by removing her sight, I'm hoping to also
this overwhelming fear of Coco that she has and tap into trust.
And we're uncovered.
I'm a little worried about what Jackson's going to ask me to do, but I
is part of the process, so I guess I'm just going to have to be willing to do
it. Right now, I'm going to have you hold your hand out, put your hand down
this. I'm going to put this tune in your hand.
The last time I was here, I got beat up pretty good by Coco.
The damage was pretty evident, and Tawny got to see that evidence.
So this time around, I had to take a risk.
Just approach her with it.
Closer. Okay.
But right now you look tense, so relax.
Relax.
At this moment, I am just hoping that that cat responds the way I want her to
because I could lose Connie for good.
What is she doing, Jackson?
I need you to relax.
Breathe through this whole thing.
I could feel her little, you know, movement in my hand, which was pretty
It felt like, wow, she does trust me.
How do you feel?
Like I conquered a little bit of my fear.
That's right.
It was pretty amazing to watch Tawny's transformation.
She went from being a scared person, a person with no faith in her own
abilities, to a confident person, somebody who felt a connection with her
animal. Really, one of those one in a million moments.
Hey, mister.
Hey. So, that was pretty cool. I couldn't be more excited.
Tawny was wearing a blindfold, and she fed Coco out of her hand.
That's unbelievable.
Yeah. So, for your homework, I want you to continue this.
Now, that's number one. I think we're on the right track.
Definitely will feel a little silly walking around my house blindfolded. I
you to start teaching other people how to conquer their fear. Put some of the
wand toys right outside the door. As they walk through the door, you tell
what to do and have them lead her through the living room. My plan is to
everyone who's walking in the house that toy because the thing is, if we empower
people by giving them a toy so they can lead her away, they won't walk away in
fear. Now, the next thing you guys are going to do, I want you to get an
electric blanket.
We'll call it the fire blanket. Once she's got her scent really soaked into
think of another place where you can move that electric blanket.
Cats respond to warmth. So we'll put the fire blanket in the socially
significant part of the room, and that way before long, Coco will gain
confidence that she belongs in the room. And when Coco feels secure in the room,
then she won't attack people.
Guys, we've got a lot of work ahead of you, but this time I think you're a
little more prepared. All right?
I'm out. All right. Take care.
Thanks again for coming out. See you soon. Bye -bye.
Bye. We don't know how the next couple weeks are going to unfold.
I'm really hoping that she changes, but session three when Jackson comes, if
Coco can't be fixed, we just get rid of her. I don't like hearing that. That's
not even something that I'm going to think about at this point.
And now it's time for a kiddie bit.
Approximately how many people are bitten by cats in the U .S. annually?
Is it A, 5 ,000, B, 40 ,000, or C, 25 ,000?
Find out the answer after this break.
Approximately how many people are bitten by cats in the U .S. annually?
The answer is B, 40 ,000. Believe it or not, Cats learn most of their social
language before they're even nine weeks old. If you do get bit, clean the wound
immediately and consult a doctor.
So I'm outside Tawny and Brandon's house for my final visit with them and their
cat Coco, and here's what I want to see. A lot less aggression from their cat
Coco, and a lot less fear from Tawny. Those two things together, we got a good
day.
Hey! Hey, how are you? Good, how are you doing? Welcome back.
Good to see you.
Brandon, how are you, man? Hey, Jackson. Good to see you, brother.
Hey, Ben. Good, good. Good, you look good.
So, how are things going with you guys? How's life with Coco? Tell me.
Everything's going pretty good. We have some good news for you today.
Tell me, what's good news? The cat has not been scratched for the past two
weeks. That's a huge change.
That's a huge change.
That's fantastic.
Coco has not attacked a single person. That means change has happened.
I feel like overall she feels that our house has become more of her territory.
You know, we've got more toys, and she kind of feels like, okay, I don't have
to, you know, defend it.
The most important thing is that you can walk through the house knowing that
you're okay.
Seriously pretty amazing news so far. It was time to take a look at video
homework and see what else I could correct or appraise.
My brother Tyson is here.
I'm going to hand you this toy.
It's good that she's not.
Catching you.
Taking a look at Brandon and Tawny's video homework, it's everything I could
have asked for. I think Tawny thinks this is how you play with Coco. Don't be
scared. The video homework shows Tawny practicing her face your fears blindfold
exercise.
Anticipating Coco's cues without being able to see her is a huge step for
Coco is enjoying her eating blanket.
I gave Tawny and Brandon the fire blanket assignment.
Warm blankets create comfort and security.
I'm seeing Coco sitting in the middle of the living room, free from anxiety.
Look at that soft look.
What do you think?
I'm so proud of you. I really, I mean, I don't want to sound goofy about this.
There's just a sense of pride, like, wow, we saw progression, and that's
exciting. Now, of course, Coco's in there, and I want to spend some time
her, so come on. All right.
I want to see Coco and Tawny interacting in a way that I didn't think was
possible a few weeks ago. I know that she's got it in her. I just want to see
with my own eyes.
I actually want you to just reach out, mimic what Brandon's doing right now,
just start petting her.
If Tawny brings fear, it's not just a matter of her getting bit. She's going
set Coco back a few steps also.
It's so important that she take all the lessons I've taught her and bring them
to bear in this very moment.
There you go. Look at that.
There's no way that I could have gotten you doing this the first day that I met
you. Brandon, I mean, you've got to admit, there's no way.
She just has adapted so well, and to see her do this is amazing.
Where's your fear level right now?
I feel pretty confident right now.
It's pretty incredible.
When Jackson first came, I was afraid of my cat. I think I'm a little too
scared. Toning down, you know, my senses and my fear helped her just become more
calm. Now I feel like I'm not in danger.
So I got to put the question before I leave. At this point, are you
keeping Coco?
We definitely want to have her keeping her inside with us. That's fantastic.
Wow. Are you kidding? I mean, not only to say that she can stay in this house,
but to admit that you've changed along with her is, people don't do that. So
that's, wow, that's great.
Guys, I'm going to take off. All right. Well, thank you so much for all your
help. It has been amazing. You have been so fantastic. I really was hesitant to
believe that there was somebody out there that can actually make a
a cat's life, but Jackson can.
Guys, take care. Bye.
Our relationship in general has become better because the cat has some hope.
Tawny's a lot less anxious. The fact of the matter is, happy wife, happy life.
So, thank you, Jackson.
Foley!
Foley!
I'm in Austin.
On my way to go see Joseph and Ruth about their cat, Foley.
Now, in all my years, I've never heard of this before. The cat has night
terrors. What that means is that in his sleep, he flails, throws himself off of
wherever he is, not to mention the cat is attacking the couple while he's in
midst of an episode. I have got to get over there right now.
I'm Joseph.
I'm Ruth. We've been married for a little bit over a year. We are both
students studying music here in Texas. We are the proud parents of Foley, and
is currently suffering from what we call the night terror.
Whenever Foley falls asleep, he will just launch himself. It's like a
He has flung himself into our coat rack, into the computer desk.
And he'll end up flinging himself off of the ottoman, and he'll hit the floor
pretty hard.
It's been going on about a year, a little over a year now.
It looks like he is trying to kill something.
If he can grab onto something, you know, he'll pull it in and he'll kick it with
his back feet.
The first time I tried, that I got scratched, he latched right onto my arm.
I mean, I had, you know, scratches and blood all over me.
One time, his nail, like, snagged on, like, a vein.
My arm was just streaming blood. Every time we take him to the vet, when we
them that we think the cat's having nightmares, they just, like, oh, I've
heard of that before. That's so strange.
Wake up.
I do feel like I sacrifice a lot when I'm on, quote, Foley patrol.
I'll sometimes get frustrated with Joseph when he gets frustrated with the
We'll definitely get really irritated with each other when one of us has to
our work aside in order to watch Foley. And, you know, when we're both under a
deadline, sometimes I do get pretty pissy.
There's definitely still continues to be disagreement about letting him in the
room at night.
I'm absolutely terrified that he is going to seriously injure himself.
That we're going to come home and that.
He's not going to open his eyes.
Hey, guys.
Hi. How are you?
How are you?
I'm Joseph.
Nice to meet you. Hey, Joseph.
I'm Ruth.
Tell me about Foley.
He's having these night terrors where when he's sleeping, he'll start out
twitching a little bit.
And eventually it'll turn into like full on like he's trying to violently attack
and kill something.
And he'll throw himself off of whatever he's sleeping on. Or if you're sitting
by him, he'll latch on to you and start scratching you.
That's awful.
Because of that, we can't really sleep in the same bed anymore because in order
for her to get good sleep or for me to get good sleep, one of us has to keep
fully sort of corralled. You guys must be sleeping like cats.
With one eye open. Yeah, that can't be good for you guys.
No, not really.
Ruth and Joseph strike me as being just completely energetically and physically
depleted. I can't even imagine the stress of your cat constantly being in
of killing himself or you.
The vet has completely ruled out epilepsy or any type of neurological
his night terrors. How old is he?
He's 14. Every single time he falls asleep, he throws himself off the bed.
hurts himself. He latches onto their skin in this complete unconscious
I've never even heard of this before. I don't even know where to start.
Has he injured himself?
There have been times where it'll take him like a minute or two to like sort of
regain himself.
If he flung himself off of something and ended up killing himself, I don't, I
don't, I couldn't.
I don't think I could live with that if I wasn't there to help him. What if he
bends in the air and lands on his neck? That's not a what if. That's a when.
That's a when.
You know why I traveled all the way to Texas? It's for cases like this. For
people like Ruth and Joseph who put their life on hold, their relationship
danger for the love of their animal.
It's time to go in there, take a look around. I'm going to go meet him now,
So, let's take... Oh, look, it's Foley.
And he's sleeping.
Let's just watch.
What he's doing there, is that the beginning of it?
Yeah, he kind of starts out, you know, you'll notice a little twitching and he
starts to... It'll escalate. Oh,
that? Yeah. So you... Oh!
Oh! Yeah.
Oh my God!
Okay. Bully, wake up!
Watching Foley, an elderly cat, violently shaking and crashing onto his
the floor is hard to watch. I mean, at his age, a fall like this could be his
last. The stakes here are through the roof.
So he loves to sleep here.
Usually around this ottoman, we put a bunch of pillows. So problem areas for
literally everywhere that he can get up and sleep is an issue because he can
get... down in a really ugly way all right well that's good information our
stop was the bedroom joseph and ruth uh wanted to show me where uh foley also
tries to sleep where he slept before wakes them up in the middle of the night
only one of you guys are sleeping here at a given time foley has dominated your
marriage for the most part i mean and that's that's incredible that you've had
to deal with that i gotta meet foley where's he at he's in here
Hi, buddy.
Bring him out. Just to sit with me for a little bit so I get to meet him a
little bit up close and personal.
Come on up here.
Come on, sit next to me, guys.
It's so great to meet him in a waking state. I'll tell you that, you know?
Because having met him in a non -waking state was just terrifying.
Let me see if you'll come to me.
Hi.
Hi.
Thanks for letting me meet you, buddy.
After spending time with Ruth and with Foley, I got what I needed. It was time
to go out and to give these guys some homework.
Now, the first thing is, I'd like you guys to go pick up a special bed slash
carrier. It's called a SleepyPod. That way, he can sleep at night, and you guys
can get a full night's sleep. That way, we have more of a normal life. I want
them to use a special carrier, which is also a bed. He can sleep in it, and it
becomes a safe haven.
So the next thing is the concept of the wake -a -bye. The wake -a -bye is I want
Ruth and Joseph to write a small piece of music, something nice and gentle,
using their talents as music people to bring him back into the world in a
way. Now, about his waking hours. I'd like you guys to get puzzle toys. When
Foley is awake, we have to make his waking times more valuable and challenge
him. physically to the best of his abilities. So I want them to design a
toy so that he has something to work on without having to run around and get
frustrated at the same time. I was really disturbed by what I saw.
And because of that, I'm going to bring over a cat sleep specialist.
You guys are going to get to have a consult with somebody who can explain to
more of what you're dealing with. Because right now, it's not just Foley
keeping you awake at night. It's the unknown.
I will be back in a few weeks.
Take care until then. It was really wonderful meeting you.
We've tried so many things with Foley, and we haven't been able to fix it. So
I'm not quite sure that any of the fixes will work.
This is just such a strange situation that we're just not sure what kind of
territory we're going into.
I'm back in Austin to see Ruth, Joseph, and their cat Foley. The last time I was
here, Foley's night terrors were so horrifying, they gave me nightmares.
I watched the video homework, and I got to see Foley safe and sound in his
sleepy pod as opposed to crashing headfirst onto the floor. We got
sturdy now. He's sleeping in, not on. He's absolutely 100 % safe. You could
for anything more.
I also got to see Foley using his puzzle rug, and that kind of play will help
him get a more restful sleep.
And I saw the sleep specialist came over.
I can only hope that we have a medical diagnosis of Foley's night terrors, so I
can focus on treating the behavioral side effects that have torn apart his
family.
Jackson, come in. We're in the music room.
Okay.
Foley, baby kitty cat, time to wake up from your nap. So when I walk in, Joseph
and Ruth are playing the wake -a -bye, the assignment that I gave them the last
time I was here. And it was wonderful. These guys have taken the homework
seriously, and they care about Foley so much.
It's so much fun.
Yeah!
That must have been the wake -a -bye, yeah? That was the wake -a -bye. Cool.
Well, homework check.
Onward. Onward. How have things been here?
Things have been a lot better. Yeah? Yes.
He's not flailing around. He's sleeping.
Oh, fantastic.
Dr. Martin told us about this thing called REM sleep disorder, which they
believe is what Foley has. Dr.
Martin suggested that we give him melatonin supplements each night, and
has not had a night terror since. Really? Yeah.
Oh, my God. That.
It's so amazing.
Melatonin is a natural sleep aid used to help sleeplessness in both humans and
animals. I'm really intrigued by Dr. Martin's recommendation to make sense
if melatonin helps you fall asleep and helps you stay asleep, that it would
with Foley's sleep disorder.
The biggest news from Dr. Martin is that he believes that Foley may have had a
stroke. You know, that is something that we haven't heard before. The mechanism
that makes you not move while you're sleeping, Foley has had that damaged.
So that's why he's acting out exactly what he's doing in his dreams.
Interestingly enough, the signs of stroke in animals is pretty much the
it is in humans. And this includes the loss of motor skills as well as the loss
of the ability to vocalize. And when you think about it, Foley exhibited these
symptoms in his wobbly gait. So now Ruth and Joseph finally have answers to why
these symptoms appeared in Foley. So how are you doing together? How's your
relationship?
Well, you know, working together with Foley has been something, you know, like
fun and bonding that, you know, yeah, sleep, you know, that's extremely
important for everyone's health and attitude towards each other.
Now, Foley hasn't had any episodes whatsoever, and I'm not going to be
about this. I'm sure that's going to happen again. This is the beginning of a
journey for them, not the end of it.
I want to walk around a little bit and see what he's been up to and see him. So
let's get going.
All right.
Now it's time to take a tour of the place and see what's changed.
Talk about this was like a symbol of all things terrible, right? I mean, this
seat was where I saw him hurl himself off, pretty much landed on his head.
He's not on this much anymore, right?
No. Whenever he's on that, he's awake. He's looking out the window. He loves
sitting in the window. He does. But he doesn't sleep there.
Is he sleeping anywhere around here?
He's sleeping on the puzzle rug. On the puzzle rug. He spends a lot of time on
this rug. It's a total relief to see him play here and sleep here. I couldn't be
happier. Let's head in the bedroom.
He'll spend a good deal of time on his new puzzle rug. He'll sleep there a lot,
which is great because it's keeping him on the floor.
Okay. Now, talk about the bed.
At any given point, one of you here, one of you in the day bed.
Right. Now...
Now there are two of us here and nobody in the day bed. It's one of those things
that people overlook. When you have a problem that's this entrenched, that you
wind up sleeping separately, it's just unacceptable.
You know, now that we can both sleep here at night, it's just a much more
refreshing sleep for us. I'm so glad that you guys took that part of the
homework seriously.
Foley's journey has been pretty remarkable right now, and I can't help
thinking about him and how much better his life is, and here he comes, right on
cue.
And the last time I was here, Foley was having night terrors, and because of
that, he was lethargic and shying away from people. Today, he's a confident cat
who walks into the room with his head held high. He was able to walk in and
relax. Look at that. See how he's starting to rest a little bit?
His ability to rest right now, to close his eyes, is a sign of confidence. I can
tell you where he's come and where we need to get to with him. We've still got
some work to do. All right?
Foley has made amazing strides. At the same time, the humans still have a lot
work to do. And with that, I had to give these guys some homework.
We know now we're dealing with a stroke.
Ruth and Joseph have got to become students of stroke, not just about what
causes it, how to rehab it, how to use play and enrichment activities because
won't be able to recover without their help.
Humans and animals have very similar symptoms when it comes to stroke.
So let's take those human rehab approaches and bring them to him, okay?
Now, what we did with the playmat, that's rehab. That's getting his mind
body working again the way a cat's good. Take that as your starting point. What
more can you do? I want Ruth and Joseph to find new and creative ways to engage
fully, things like the play rug, which will help rehabilitate and stimulate
mind and body. The next thing I want is I want you guys to have... Date night,
please. You have no excuse in the world to not move on. I want to give these
guys their lives back, and I want them to have rest. I want them to have time
together in order for them to feel confident so that they can pass that on
Foley. On that note, you've got a lot of work to do still. Even though we've
been able to help Foley with a lot of the sleep behavior, the stroke looks
something that we can't do anything about and that it could happen at any
and just the thought of that.
is terrifying.
Guys, great work today.
It was great to see you. Ruth and Joseph have been really good students so far.
I just don't want their fear of what if to prevent them from pushing Foley into
a positive place of recovery.
I'll talk to you soon.
Bye. Bye -bye.
I watched their video homework.
I got to see Foley getting his mobility back, and I love that. I also saw Ruth
and Joseph having date night. Date night dinner.
I love the fact that they're getting their life back finally. Now, going into
today, I can only hope that this nightmare life they've all been living
finally behind them.
Hey, Justin. Hello, how are you?
Man, it is good to be back here. I absolutely find myself missing Austin
terribly. Tell me something, guys.
How are things going here?
Bully did have another episode where he actually fell off of the ottoman. We
were able to kind of problem solve and figure out, okay, why is he having
episodes again?
And it was that he wasn't getting the full dose of melatonin. He wasn't
it so much because he stopped eating all of his food for a couple days like
he'll do sometimes.
I'm sure it'll happen off and on here and there. Exactly. But, I mean, it's
an all -day, everyday thing anymore.
Was I surprised to hear that Foley had another episode? Absolutely not. But I
was happy to hear how Ruth and Joseph are handling the episodes without
constantly worrying and putting their lives on hold. What else? The rehab is
really working great with him, and his mobility is actually getting a little
better with that. Stop for a second and realize that you guys saved his life.
He deserves it.
You know, this whole process, I think, you know, he sort of saved us, too. You
know, he's really brought us a lot closer together. You know, we're helping
heal him. He's healing us, too.
Now that this situation has been resolved with Foley, we have the energy
space to focus on our relationship now. I think there's a lot more laughter and
fun around here in general.
So I saw in the video homework that you guys went out on a date. Were you out
there worrying about Foley? We weren't out there worrying about Foley. We were
out there just enjoying our time together.
Oh, sweet.
Everything was wrapping up beautifully with Ruth and Joseph. The problem was I
hadn't seen Foley all day, so I wanted to see him for myself.
Oh, hello, my buddy boy.
Hello, my buddy boy.
Oh, he looks so much better. Now, the first time I got here, you want to talk
about a nightmare. And it wasn't just Foley's nightmare. It was Ruth's. It was
Joseph's. And it was mine. We were all powerless. And now we got the knowledge.
And this little guy's got his life back. He's sleeping.
He's playing. And, man, that's music to my ears.
You don't get any more severe.
than Foley was, and you don't get the kind of transformation every day that
Foley has gone through. You can show others anything is possible.
The only thing I would ask of you is to be ambassadors for others with
cats that have had stroke because having those answers is everything.
I mean, if we can help somebody else out, you know, who's going through this,
mean, that would be really fulfilling.
I couldn't leave without giving Ruth and Joseph just one last piece of homework,
and that was to share their knowledge of strokes with other cat guardians who
may be suffering through the same thing.
Jackson, I just want to thank you so much for coming and helping Foley and
helping us.
I guess.
I don't think we ever could have gotten here on our own. Foley's life is so much
better. We can have a happy, healthy family now.
And for that, we're ever grateful.
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