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My cat is Lita.
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My cat's Buddy. He's a wild, macho,
awesome cat.
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I'm sure that he's going to just kill
her.
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Personally, I don't think anything can
be done for our cat.
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I mean, a cat whisperer? I don't buy it.
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You're French.
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I have a cat named Princess Huffy Pants.
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She will hurt and bite and scratch you.
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We'll see.
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I had cuts that were bleeding.
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She's also peeing all over the place.
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There's some pee spot.
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Ugh. Just did this.
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If it doesn't get fixed.
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Bye, kitty.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy. I'm a musician by
night.
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and a cat behaviorist by day.
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I've met cats with all kinds of
problems.
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But I've never met one I couldn't help.
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Oh, hello.
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In my career, I've worked with thousands
of cats one -on -one, analyzing their
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behaviors and retraining them and their
guardians.
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When relationships are at an end, I
don't have many more options than to
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leave. And cat guardians have reached
their emotional limit. Just get rid of
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her. I'm their last hope.
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Are you all right?
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Sorry, I don't know. Cats have nine
lives, but humans only have one.
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I'm heading over right now to see Derek
and Ryan and their cats, Buddy and Lita.
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Now, Buddy has been beating up Lita so
badly that she's growing up all over the
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house, and Derek wants to kick Ryan and
Lita out of the house at this point. I'm
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going over there to take care of the
human bully and the feline bully.
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I'm Ryan.
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I'm Derek.
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And we've been living together with our
cats for five months.
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My cat is Lita. She's been a very unique
cat from day one.
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My cat's buddy. He's a wild, macho,
awesome cat.
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He's a bully.
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He pounces on her and beats up on her.
He's an instigator. He likes to provoke
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and sort of... He's trying to get her
off from underneath the bed where she
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hides every day, all the time.
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What's the point of having her if you
never even see her?
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I'm sure that he's going to just... Kill
her.
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I like that about my cat because she's a
macho cat.
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I have found piles of vomit all over the
place.
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I think if your cat wasn't bullying my
cat, then she wouldn't be throwing up.
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There's a pile of vomit right here that
she never got around to cleaning up.
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I didn't know. I found a pile of vomit
on one of the chairs on the microfiber,
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which is killer because now it's
stained.
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She had thrown up on my pillow.
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Well, she only throws up on your stuff,
on your side of the pillow. Oh, well,
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that makes it okay. I think the fact
that Derek is putting the well -being of
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his apartment over me and our
relationship, I think it's hurtful.
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I have told Ryan, point blank, if our
cats cannot get along, you will probably
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have to leave.
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I can't deal with it anymore.
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If this didn't work out and I had to
move out, I would be devastated.
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And I'd get some sleep.
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Personally, I don't think anything can
be done for our cat. I mean, a cat
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whisperer, I feel like it's hocus pocus,
but I guess we'll see.
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Jackson, please come help because our
relationship is on the line.
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How you doing? Hi, good. How are you?
I'm great. I'm Ryan. Hey, Ryan. I'm
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Jackson. Derek. Hey, Derek. I'm Jackson.
Good to meet you, man. Yeah. Let's sit
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down. Let's talk about what's going on.
Come on in.
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I'm excited. I think he can help.
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I don't buy it.
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But we'll see, I guess, huh? Yeah.
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All right, guys.
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Tell me what's happening.
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You go first. Long and short, our cats
do not get along at all. They're
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constantly.
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Her cat, Lita, is...
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Throwing up all over the house.
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I can't get her to stop throwing up. I
feel like it's distress of Buddy
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with her. Maybe that's what's causing
it. Okay. So we have fighting cat,
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cat.
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Oh, and my cat doesn't like him.
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Lita is your cat? Yes. Doesn't like you.
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Where has that left you guys?
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I'm doing everything I can to keep this
relationship together, to keep us
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together, to keep the cat.
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from killing each other.
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Ryan doesn't want to rattle anything.
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She doesn't want to rattle Derek's
world.
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And that is no way to live whether
you've got two legs or four.
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Your connection with Buddy, tell me
about that.
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He's just the best cat I've ever had.
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He's a macho cat. He's a man cat.
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He plays rough, but he loves it.
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So you like his behavior.
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I do.
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I think it's hilarious.
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I'm in this house for five minutes when
I find out that Buddy is... bullying
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Lita so badly and beating on her so
badly that she's throwing up all over
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house. And at the same token, Derek
thinks this is funny somehow.
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Do you ever stop it? Well, she usually
yells at me. First of all, like, your
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damn cat's attacking my cat again.
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Yeah, okay. I don't care for Lita. Why I
care about a cat? That doesn't want
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anything to do with me. You seem almost
like you have washed your hands at this
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point. I have.
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So if you've washed your hands, why am I
here?
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Because Ryan believes in you.
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Ryan believes you can fix it.
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We've had our little disagreements about
that, too.
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I knew from the get -go that it wasn't
his idea that I was there. It must have
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been Ryan's idea.
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Derek has that same kind of bullying
vibe about him that his cat does. I
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he will dominate the conversation, and
in the meantime, Ryan is just sitting
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there looking for approval, not really
speaking her mind, and her cat is doing
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the same thing, huddling in corners,
evidently, and getting beat up at every
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turn. That stuff's got to change.
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What I need to do is take a look at
where things are going down, and of
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meet the cat.
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Okay. All right, let's get going.
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There was a point where I said, enough.
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I have heard enough. Let's walk around.
Let's see what the territory has to tell
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us. Hey, buddy.
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Hi.
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Hello.
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Look at your big boy.
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So we're on our way to the bedroom, and
I happen to notice Buddy standing in the
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doorway, and he's playing with a toy.
He's just a normal cat.
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Of course, I also noticed the doorway
next to him is ripped to shreds.
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I got to take a close look at this.
Yeah.
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Wow, man. He chipped away at it. Yeah.
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Was he locked in here?
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No. No?
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What's he trying to get at?
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Nothing. Nothing.
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He was just trying to scratch.
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Yeah. The door jamb by the bathroom was
taken apart like a scratching post. You
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know why that is? It's because Derek
doesn't really care.
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Derek doesn't care. He's actually, I
think, a little proud of the fact that
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big boy is destroying the house. Whereas
Lita pukes on his shirt and it's life
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over. We've never had a scratching post.
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The damage was already done.
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Just let him go for it.
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Lita hangs out. Under the bed. In the
corner.
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I know it's kind of crazy out here,
right?
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I know things are dire when we have
Buddy in the doorway playing with a toy
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Lita fearing for her life under the bed.
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So I pull out my cat cam, which is
basically a camera on the end of a pole.
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use it with scared cats who are removing
themselves from me. I don't want to be
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that guy in this instance who's going to
push their challenge line to that
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degree. So what I'm going to do is bring
the camera to them, get those kind of
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responses from their body that I
wouldn't be able to see otherwise.
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Lita, I want to see you a little better.
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The camera lens close to her and then
sort of retreated it away, and I thought
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it seemed a little bit like a mini
confidence -building exercise.
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I don't see how that's helpful.
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Hi, honey bun.
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One more up close and personal.
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When I reached out for her with the cam
and pulled it away again, she had a
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little bit of curiosity. She wanted to
know what that was.
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That, with a petrified cat, is a huge
moment.
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Okay.
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Man. Did I see a lot today? The level of
bullying coming from cat to cat
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reflected the level of bullying going
from human to human, and neither one is
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okay. I'm really concerned about Lita. A
good reason why she's throwing up as
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much as she is is stress.
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I also know that Buddy's a bully.
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Hearing Jackson say that this is Buddy's
fault and that Buddy's a bully kind of
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pissed me off a little bit.
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What I want for you guys, obviously I
want you to stay together.
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I want to see, most importantly, Lita
come into her own a little more.
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Buddy pulled back. His bullying
tendencies have got to stop.
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How am I going to train him to not use
the doorframe?
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Derek did not like talking about the
reality of his cat being a bully. So, as
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Derek always does, he steered the
conversation back into his favor.
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What I'd like you to do is you use
something called sticky paws.
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And sticky paws are just double -sided
sticky tape that won't take anything
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else. Well, your door frames are done
anyway, but it won't take anything else
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off the doors. But basically, he'll walk
up to the door. He'll be like, oh,
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well, that's no fun.
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Okay. Next homework assignment.
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I want to see playtime being done.
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Lita's playtime is about exploration and
confidence building. You guide her out
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from under the bed, through the valley
of the shadow of death, out the door and
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out here. Then I want you to have
mealtimes. You put the food down, let
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eat, especially on either side of the
door so they can smell one another and
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at the same time.
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Walk away, everything's great. Derek,
you're Santa Claus when it comes to
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You're the one who feeds three times a
day. You're the one who gives treats. No
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treats come from you at all. Derek is
going to be the only person feeding
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cats because somehow he's got to be a
good thing to Lita. And every time food
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presented, it's going to be by him with
a soft voice and a nice presence. Derek,
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I know that you feel like you've kind of
washed your hands of this whole thing.
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Let's get your hands dirty again. I will
play my part and do what I need to do.
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Do I believe him?
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Actually, not really.
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It's important for you to stand up as
well and make sure, because like I said,
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it's so important to build up the
confidence of Lita. I was very
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Still am.
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We'll see you soon.
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All right. I'm a show me, don't tell me
type guy. If you fix it, I'll believe
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it. Until then, I don't believe it.
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We're going in right now for my second
visit with Derek and Ryan and their
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Buddy and Lita. Now, let me tell you
something. The last time I was here,
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Lita wouldn't even come out from under
the bed. She was being terrorized by
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Buddy, and that behavior was being
supported by Derek.
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What I'm hoping is that Ryan stood up
for himself a little bit, and maybe Lita
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has found some self -confidence.
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Hey, man. Hey, Jackson. How are you? How
you been? Good.
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Good. How are things going?
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Not so well.
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Well, what's going on?
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Ryan and I are no longer together.
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Oh. Yeah, Ryan and I are no longer
together or living together.
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Didn't see that one coming. Ryan and
Derek broke up. She moved out. I guess
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one way that's good, because Lita
doesn't have to worry about being beat
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Buddy anymore, but Lita threw a twist in
things. Well, is everything okay here?
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Yeah, everything's good. Buddy's good,
back to his normal self.
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With regard to Ryan and I, there's just
more problems between us, really, than
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there were with our cats.
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And so, you know, we just decided it was
best that we end things.
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Hey, thank you for everything.
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Hey, absolutely.
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Appreciate it. Okay, you got it.
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Take care.
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Derek tells me that Buddy's okay.
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Everything's fine here. He's back to
normal. So I can walk away from here
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knowing that things are good. But I
still have to check in with Lita and
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think a lot of damage has been inflicted
on Lita. I don't really know how
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quickly she's going to bounce back.
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Hey, Ryan, it's Jackson.
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Yeah,
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no, Derek told me.
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No problem. I'll be right there.
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I'm here at Ryan's new place and I'm
here basically to help Lita raise her
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confidence up because now she's in a
brand new environment.
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Hey, Ryan.
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How are you? I'm good. But I'm also here
to help Ryan's confidence because I'm
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sure it's taken a hit as well.
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Let's just get this out of the way.
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What the hell happened?
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We just had bigger problems than our
cats, for sure.
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Yeah. If I had to move out, I would be
devastated.
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And I'd get some sleep.
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Being with somebody that you love for a
year and then not having that person in
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your life anymore is definitely hard.
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And it takes a little bit of a toll on
my confidence, for sure.
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Even when I left.
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Were you guys able to start working on
the problems with the cats?
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The problems between the cats themselves
were getting a little better. Derek and
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Lita's interactions weren't really
getting much better. She hated him.
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This is what Lita does when Derek tries
to touch her.
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She's not throwing up anymore, which is
great. As soon as you left that
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environment, boom, she stopped throwing
up. Yeah. To be completely honest, this
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has never happened to me before. I've
never been working with a couple who
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splits up in the middle of working with
them, and yet one part of the couple
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still wants me to work with them. But I
know that Lita needs me, and Ryan needs
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me as well. And I'm here for the long
haul with these guys.
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I'm really more invested than I ever
was. There was this point where I was
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through a similar situation, and I
hadn't been on my own.
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for a while, you know?
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And I lived with one of my cats, total
scaredy cat. This is her.
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When we moved out, I got this done.
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She's sort of representative of throwing
off shackles. I think that sort of
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helps to bond him and I a little bit on
a different level than just the cats.
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You know, we put things on ourselves to
remind us every turn that...
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We survived, you know? I could talk
about tattoos all day, but what was most
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important to me at that moment was to
see Lita and get her back on her
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proverbial and literal forefeet.
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What are you doing, poor little thing?
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Hi.
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I know.
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You're like, I don't like men anymore,
you see?
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Yeah. You see what happens?
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Why don't you hang on to her for a
second? I'm going to go back out. Okay.
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Go get my guitar case, because I'll tell
you what. She might not like me, but
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she's probably going to like some of the
things I got in there. All right.
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Now. I know.
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Lita is nowhere near confident enough
with men.
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Her whole body is shaking.
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Oh.
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What is that, lovey?
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What is that?
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I know, I know.
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Oh, honey.
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It's okay.
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Baby, I know.
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Just because Buddy's not here in
physical presence doesn't mean his ghost
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here. The trauma is something that
Lita's going to live with for a while.
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If you get her interested in smelling
that food right there, I'm going to keep
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my hands away from her.
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She doesn't trust other people's food.
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I wanted to get low. I wanted to get
quiet.
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I wanted to offer her food, something
Derek never did. You're okay.
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I know, that's a lot.
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Oh, there we go.
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All right.
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She actually responded, and she took
some of the treats from him, and it was
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shocker to me, for sure.
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Now, as long as she's eating, if I'm
concerned, life is getting better. The
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upset that Ryan got in the past, the
more upset Lita got.
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Now, I think that there's this thing
being put out by Ryan that she's like, I
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finally have this chance, so I have no
time to waste. I've got to help this cat
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find her confidence.
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So I'm going to start giving you
homework. The first thing you're going
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unpack your life, okay?
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Settle in.
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Lead it. You're going to reflect that
confidence that you have in your new
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That's number one. Number two.
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Give me about a minute. I'm going to
jump outside, grab something for you,
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I'll be right back.
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Lita needs what I would call confidence
-building blocks. We're going to put
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these blocks in the middle of the room.
She's going to be able to go up them and
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down them, in and out. She's going to
know what it feels like to own
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She's going to experience life as a
confident cat. What you're going to do,
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can get bunches of these blocks and just
sort of pyramid them up.
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Okay. They become this cool staircase.
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She comes up here, lands here, right?
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Take her through it with favorite
treats. You ever done something like
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before with her?
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No. Baby food's totally fun.
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I love using baby food for cats. They
come in stages. The first stage for
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infants is like a hoop, but the second
stage, that's where we want to live.
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That's the place where it's just meat
protein.
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That's what turns on the cat, and it's
safe for them, too.
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Like human baby food?
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Totally. Yeah, I have never heard of
feeding a cat baby food. I don't promise
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lot of things, but I can promise you,
you stick to it, we're going to have a
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breakthrough. Okay. Right on. All right.
I don't think Lita will immediately
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take to the confidence block.
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I think it's going to take a lot of
effort and a lot of attention.
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So I need to really just sort of settle
in here. So I'll see what I can do.
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I'm here for my final visit with Ryan
and Lita. Now, the last time I was here,
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Ryan's confidence was low because she
had just moved into a new apartment
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her breakup with Derek. Now, I've
already taken a look at Ryan's homework.
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I got to see Lita using her confidence
building blocks.
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I got to see that Lita was following the
spoon with the baby food all over the
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place. That baby food was working really
well.
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Hey. Hi.
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How are you, Ryan? I'm good. How are
you? I'm great. As I walk in to talk to
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Ryan today, first of all, you notice
that she's moved in.
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The second thing is, there's an air of
confidence about this girl now.
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Oh.
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Hi. Look at how smiley you are and
everything. How's life?
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Life's good. Yeah?
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Yeah. She's coming out from under the
bed more often. She's not hugging the
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walls anymore. She's walking in the
middle of the room.
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Already? Mm -hmm. That's great. I'm
pretty stunned, actually.
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This whole process has helped Alita a
lot with her confidence.
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Things are a lot better, I think, with
her and with me as well. We're both sort
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of, you know, recovered from the trauma.
She usually yells at me. First of all,
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like, your damn cat's attacking my cat
again.
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Yeah. Okay.
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You look a lot better. Thank you.
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This is not a person living with shame
and regret anymore. She's living in her
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own world. She's happy about it, and
she's feeling full of herself, and I
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seeing that.
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Now, we're looking over at the boxes.
Let's get up and see these confidence
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blocks in action.
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Now it's Alita's time. Let's bring her
out and see what she does.
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Good girl.
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Yeah? Good girl.
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Let's eat some food.
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Yeah. Just give me a shot.
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Lita took really well to the baby food,
like way better than I thought she was
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going to.
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Oh, good girl.
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Now the baby food idea worked perfectly
on Lita and enticed her onto those
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confidence building blocks where nothing
else would.
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That's a good girl. Now this is
confidence 101.
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The first time I met Lita.
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Now, hell, I didn't even meet Lita. She
was hiding under the bed in terror of
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Derek and Buddy, me included. This time
I come in, she's on her confidence
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-building blocks. She solicits touch.
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She wants to be pet. She is not that
terrified cat I met just four weeks ago.
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Good girl.
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Like, how can I get in there? But I love
it. No, I love the fact that she's
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exploring even that way. Lita is no
longer being bullied.
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She's in her own environment, and
she's...
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Responding really well to having the
whole place to herself and not having
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buddies sort of looming over her
shoulder. The other thing I got to say
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really love is that in terms of me kind
of getting into this inner circle here,
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it didn't take too long, you know.
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She does have to reassociate a little
bit of the man vibe.
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Yeah. I look over to Ryan for a second
there, and there she is mirroring that
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confidence back. This is a woman who's
finally home. Sorry I didn't have a
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housewarming gift.
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I kind of wish that I had something to
bring over here, you know, but I don't.
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But I got another idea, so it's a good
surprise, I think. All right.
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I didn't get Ryan a housewarming gift,
but I think I got her something better,
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and I think she'll agree.
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Ryan and I were talking a lot about each
one of her tattoos, what they meant to
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her. I decided that maybe we should go
get one together. This journey that
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just been through, leaving Derek, you
will probably have to leave.
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And moving in to her own place with Lita
meant a lot to her. And I thought that
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she might want to get that immortalized
on her skin. And hey, I'm always up for
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a new tattoo. Are you getting a Lita
tattoo right now? I am.
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Really? That's nice. Thank you.
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I am glad that I could get something for
you that's permanent, that represents
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Lita, that represents your bond with
cats. I mean, you've had a long trip,
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You know, in addition to being, you
know, the cat behaviorist, Jackson
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he was sort of like a therapist to me a
little bit.
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It's okay.
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I'm on my way to see Jen and Nicole in
Jen's cat princess puppy pants.
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Jen tells me the puppy pants is lashing
out at people and peeing all over the
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house. That and a lot of pee.
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Jen feels like she's on the verge of
losing her best friend and roommate,
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Nicole. So I've got to get over there
right now to see if I can stop the
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I'm Jen.
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I'm Nicole.
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And we've been friends for about six
years and roommates for four.
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I have a cat named Princess Puffy Pants
who is a long -haired tortie. We do call
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her Kitty.
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And I have a dog named Lola.
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And I have a cockatiel that we call
Bird. All the animals get along
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it's great.
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When I first brought Princess Puffy
Pants home as a little kitten about six
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months old, everything was fine. She
learned how to use her litter box.
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But then she became very...
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Territorial.
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When there is another cat that comes
into our yard, Princess Puffypants goes
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nuts.
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She hisses.
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Don't hiss at me.
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She will turn and bite and scratch you.
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Oh, see?
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It's okay, kitty.
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Hey.
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One night, she heard a cat outside. So
she springs up, runs across the top of
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the couch.
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Her back paws landed on my face. I had
cuts that were bleeding.
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She's also peeing all over the place.
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And we have a lovely pee -pee spot that
is reek of pee -pee.
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This situation with the cat peeing has
put restraint on our friendship.
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I don't like to have people over because
it stinks and it's embarrassing.
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She'll text me, like, when I'm at work.
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Hey.
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And I'm like, okay, well, I guess I'll
leave work now.
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So she'll clean it up, even though it's
my cat that's doing it. I mean, I keep
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after it because I am a neat freak. I
have tried everything.
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I have gone through, you know, hundreds
and hundreds of dollars.
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I have purchased I don't know how many
different kinds of miracle advanced
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formulas so she wouldn't mark again.
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I am looking at a...
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moving out and just being by myself with
my cat, or I'm going to have to get
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rid of the cat, and that will be awful.
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She is my little girl, and I love her
dearly.
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Hey. Hey. How are you? Hi. Good.
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I'm Jen. Hey, Jen and Jackson. Nice to
meet you, Jackson. Nice to meet you as
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well.
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I am telling you, this place stinks.
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I mean, it smells so bad in here that my
eyes almost started tearing. Let's talk
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about the obvious here. Okay. Because if
there is an elephant sitting in the
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room, that elephant smells like a big
pile of cat poop.
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I know. It's awful.
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Princess Puffy Pant is taken to marking
all over this couch that we're sitting
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on almost daily. She doesn't even use
her litter box anymore.
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Ever? Just to poop. Just to go poop
every now and again.
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There is a huge gap between human
thinking about litter boxes and cat
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about litter boxes. For a cat, it's a
holy place.
454
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It's a place where I put my scent, and
because I put my scent here, I own this
455
00:26:46,260 --> 00:26:50,340
place. Tell me all the things you've
tried. One of the suggestions, which
456
00:26:50,340 --> 00:26:54,720
tried, is to put foil around whatever
they're peeing on, but sometimes she
457
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,960
of figured out she can move it, or
she'll just go where it's not and pee.
458
00:26:58,410 --> 00:27:02,510
The idea behind putting foil down where
a cat's peeing is that they don't like
459
00:27:02,510 --> 00:27:05,990
the feeling of walking on that foil.
They don't like the sound and the
460
00:27:06,090 --> 00:27:09,330
and that'll just be an aversive for
them. It'll just keep them away from
461
00:27:09,330 --> 00:27:14,730
area. Also, we're trying to keep cats
from coming into the yard, and we read
462
00:27:14,730 --> 00:27:16,510
that cayenne pepper is a deterrent.
463
00:27:16,830 --> 00:27:19,990
So we sprinkled that all over our
garden, all over the tops of the fence.
464
00:27:20,210 --> 00:27:24,110
And then they said eggshells in the dirt
supposedly keeps them out, but it
465
00:27:24,110 --> 00:27:25,210
doesn't seem to make any difference.
466
00:27:25,770 --> 00:27:30,290
From eggshells to lavender to cayenne
pepper, these are all kind of old wives'
467
00:27:30,450 --> 00:27:34,950
tales. So we've got to be able to let
Puffy Pants say, I own this. This is
468
00:27:35,210 --> 00:27:36,350
Tell me what else has been going on.
469
00:27:36,570 --> 00:27:41,990
When we're trying to calm her down from
hurtling herself at the sliding glass
470
00:27:41,990 --> 00:27:47,690
door to get to the cat outside, she'll
attack us or scratch or act out at us.
471
00:27:47,730 --> 00:27:48,599
Oh, my God.
472
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:52,960
Puffy Pants' reaction really worries me.
Not only is she peeing all over the
473
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,780
place, but she's also redirecting her
aggression onto people, and she's
474
00:27:56,780 --> 00:28:00,220
herself against that window with such
violence that it's seriously only a
475
00:28:00,220 --> 00:28:01,720
of time before someone gets hurt.
476
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,440
Where's your line in the sand?
477
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,660
Do I not want my couch peed on? Yeah.
478
00:28:05,900 --> 00:28:07,180
You know, it causes tension.
479
00:28:07,500 --> 00:28:11,740
It did cause some fights. I can't deal
with this much longer. I have to do
480
00:28:11,740 --> 00:28:12,740
something.
481
00:28:12,780 --> 00:28:13,780
That.
482
00:28:13,980 --> 00:28:17,480
Find a new place for her to live,
although who's going to adopt a cat that
483
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:18,480
all these issues? Right.
484
00:28:18,940 --> 00:28:21,280
You know, move out by myself.
485
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:25,460
Yeah. These are the things I'm looking
at doing, like, within the next few
486
00:28:25,460 --> 00:28:26,460
weeks.
487
00:28:27,700 --> 00:28:31,460
Jen has let me know exactly how high the
stakes are. She gave me a few weeks to
488
00:28:31,460 --> 00:28:33,600
figure this out because she's up to here
with the situation.
489
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,440
And it's time to take a tour through the
rest of the house.
490
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,880
The first place that we're obviously
going to take a look around would be the
491
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,350
couch. This is where she pees all over
the place, right? Yes, this is exactly,
492
00:28:43,590 --> 00:28:47,230
especially right here. This is her
favorite side right here. This is it.
493
00:28:47,450 --> 00:28:51,190
So as soon as you move this foil, the
smell comes up and kills you.
494
00:28:52,170 --> 00:28:56,090
Of course she's not using the litter
box. This is her litter box. That means
495
00:28:56,090 --> 00:29:00,850
that this is a really important area.
The design of the pee tells me it's a
496
00:29:00,850 --> 00:29:01,850
panicky move.
497
00:29:05,510 --> 00:29:09,110
I took the black light outside to see
what the neighborhood cats had to say
498
00:29:09,110 --> 00:29:11,750
about Princess Puffypants, and the news
was not good.
499
00:29:13,150 --> 00:29:14,210
Oh, look at that.
500
00:29:14,450 --> 00:29:16,550
Yeah, there you go. As you can tell,
it's been raining here.
501
00:29:16,750 --> 00:29:18,410
Yeah. But this is still fluorescent.
502
00:29:18,710 --> 00:29:20,450
Your cayenne pepper's been washed away.
503
00:29:20,650 --> 00:29:24,030
The pee is still here. Why? Because
that's how they mark underneath leaves.
504
00:29:24,290 --> 00:29:26,930
You might as well clean up the
eggshells, too, because what you've been
505
00:29:26,930 --> 00:29:28,050
has not stopped the pee.
506
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,320
That was quite a surprise. Since I'm
such a neat freak, like, it really,
507
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:33,380
just want to start cleaning already.
508
00:29:33,740 --> 00:29:34,800
We got pee on the window.
509
00:29:35,020 --> 00:29:35,739
No way.
510
00:29:35,740 --> 00:29:38,080
You see it? The cats are marking
everywhere.
511
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,200
Of course Puffy Pants is going to
respond.
512
00:29:41,420 --> 00:29:44,200
What I need to do now is meet her and
try to stop this behavior.
513
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:49,580
Hi, baby. She looks really nice and
relaxed. So basically, we have cats that
514
00:29:49,580 --> 00:29:50,700
just hang here?
515
00:29:51,100 --> 00:29:52,100
Like intruders.
516
00:29:52,260 --> 00:29:56,860
Yeah. So, oh, wait, look, look, look.
Oh, that's that cat. Yeah.
517
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,980
I am going to sit right here and watch
it go down.
518
00:30:07,060 --> 00:30:11,740
When Princess Puffypants saw the cat
outside, her demeanor instantly changed.
519
00:30:12,580 --> 00:30:14,960
She hissed, and then she charged the
door.
520
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,580
Okay, you see that? Now that...
521
00:30:23,199 --> 00:30:27,080
is the crux of the problem here. The
level of aggression that we're dealing
522
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,240
in this house, this isn't about you
guys, it's about what's going on
523
00:30:30,900 --> 00:30:34,600
We can't be 100 % sure why the other
cats are coming into Puffy Pan's
524
00:30:34,820 --> 00:30:38,020
I mean, she's been spayed, so the only
thing I can think of is that they're
525
00:30:38,020 --> 00:30:40,540
coming over because they smell another
cat and they're trying to assert
526
00:30:40,540 --> 00:30:41,540
themselves over her.
527
00:30:41,900 --> 00:30:43,420
What can I do, Lola?
528
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:48,040
Look, I just may be a cat behavior
consultant, but I do love all animals. I
529
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,740
to see all the animals respond to each
other and make sure that one thing
530
00:30:51,740 --> 00:30:55,200
they're not sweeping under the carpet is
acrimony between the animals. So I went
531
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:56,700
upstairs to see all the animals
together.
532
00:30:58,140 --> 00:30:59,960
Lola could care less.
533
00:31:00,260 --> 00:31:02,340
Yeah. She seems totally chill.
534
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:07,120
Also, really, I mean, again, not that I
didn't believe you guys, but in the
535
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,920
presence of dog and bird, she seems
absolutely fine. Yeah.
536
00:31:11,889 --> 00:31:16,270
I don't know. I love this. The thing
that is amazing is that when you, it's
537
00:31:16,270 --> 00:31:17,950
about, again, it's all about territory.
538
00:31:18,450 --> 00:31:22,390
Here in this part of the territory,
she's not threatened. There's no
539
00:31:22,490 --> 00:31:24,970
Honestly, all three of these guys are
just great together.
540
00:31:25,190 --> 00:31:27,230
So that's good. You guys have done great
with them.
541
00:31:27,430 --> 00:31:28,409
Let's keep going.
542
00:31:28,410 --> 00:31:29,410
All right.
543
00:31:29,710 --> 00:31:33,710
There's one great bit of information
that comes from hanging out with the
544
00:31:33,790 --> 00:31:37,570
the cat, and the bird. And that is that
nothing that's going on in this house
545
00:31:37,570 --> 00:31:40,630
that's bad has to do with the dog, the
cat, and the bird together.
546
00:31:41,659 --> 00:31:43,600
Let's start wrapping this puppy up.
547
00:31:44,340 --> 00:31:45,340
Not that puppy.
548
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:50,500
First thing is, I need you guys to
blacklight on a pretty much daily basis.
549
00:31:51,020 --> 00:31:52,680
You're going to make a sweep of this
whole place.
550
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,900
I'm also going to install a motion
-activated camera in your yard so we can
551
00:31:56,900 --> 00:31:58,880
who's coming in and when. So that's
that.
552
00:31:59,300 --> 00:32:03,300
Now, let's get to making her stop peeing
on the couch, right?
553
00:32:03,700 --> 00:32:08,360
Even if it's just a temporary solution,
let's put litter boxes galore down here.
554
00:32:08,460 --> 00:32:09,660
All right? I'd like to see three.
555
00:32:09,980 --> 00:32:11,420
On the couch, too, probably?
556
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,440
I would say right around here. Yeah. I
mean, anywhere that you can.
557
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:20,760
Okay. These are remote air blasters. You
face them where you don't want her to
558
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,840
pee. Okay. And if you walk by it, it's
facing the couch. That's going to
559
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,760
We have another one here, and I want you
to put this one out by that door.
560
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,700
And that way, every time they come up,
they walk up, they get sprayed, they'll
561
00:32:31,700 --> 00:32:32,980
walk away. Okay, Jackson.
562
00:32:33,180 --> 00:32:37,100
Okay. This is really our last hope for
our...
563
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,940
for our roommate relationship, for our
sanity.
564
00:32:42,940 --> 00:32:44,020
It was great to meet you.
565
00:32:44,420 --> 00:32:46,340
Thanks, Jackson, so much. I feel so much
better.
566
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,840
Good. Thank you very much. All right.
Hang on to the optimism. You're going to
567
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:50,319
need it.
568
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,940
If it doesn't get fixed, bye, kitty.
569
00:33:09,770 --> 00:33:12,890
I'm heading back in to see Princess
Puffypants and also Jen and Nicole.
570
00:33:14,630 --> 00:33:18,170
The last time I was here, Princess
Puffypants was peeing all over their
571
00:33:18,170 --> 00:33:22,250
apartment. This place smelled probably
worse than any home I've ever been to
572
00:33:22,250 --> 00:33:27,090
before. So as soon as you move this
foil, the smell comes up and kills you.
573
00:33:27,090 --> 00:33:30,210
was this behavior that was causing a lot
of friction between Jen and Nicole.
574
00:33:31,110 --> 00:33:34,510
Hopefully at least something that I gave
these guys helped a little bit.
575
00:33:34,990 --> 00:33:37,550
Okay, good to see you guys. Good to see
you too.
576
00:33:37,770 --> 00:33:39,230
Tell me, fill me in, what's been going
on?
577
00:33:39,470 --> 00:33:42,230
She was doing great, and I was really
excited.
578
00:33:42,490 --> 00:33:44,350
She's not attacking us anymore.
579
00:33:44,890 --> 00:33:49,450
Nice, nice. What else? Tell me more. She
was using the new litter boxes, but
580
00:33:49,450 --> 00:33:52,930
unfortunately, we did have a setback.
Crazy incident.
581
00:33:53,330 --> 00:33:58,370
And a cat wandered into the open sliding
glass door into the house. Yeah,
582
00:33:58,390 --> 00:34:03,010
actually came in. That led to some
setbacks. Yeah. So she started urinating
583
00:34:03,010 --> 00:34:06,430
the TV cabinet, and I don't know if you
can see. There's one there. Yeah, she
584
00:34:06,430 --> 00:34:07,430
just did one today.
585
00:34:07,730 --> 00:34:12,310
Ew. Why they're leaving that sliding
glass door open is beyond me. I mean,
586
00:34:12,310 --> 00:34:16,230
can't expect Princess Puffypants to feel
safe while you're at the same time
587
00:34:16,230 --> 00:34:18,310
inviting in all of the neighborhood
bullies.
588
00:34:18,650 --> 00:34:22,550
The next thing I want to do is that the
last time I was here, I asked you guys
589
00:34:22,550 --> 00:34:25,590
to shoot some video, which you did, and
I want to go over it with you.
590
00:34:25,969 --> 00:34:28,630
Setting up the new litter boxes.
591
00:34:29,449 --> 00:34:32,270
The good news here is that these guys
are at least being proactive and they're
592
00:34:32,270 --> 00:34:35,449
doing the homework I asked them to do.
They blacklit all over the place so they
593
00:34:35,449 --> 00:34:39,030
could see where Puffy Pants is still
peeing. They put the air blasters all
594
00:34:39,030 --> 00:34:42,550
around the couch. Not just one, they got
four. She's not peeing on the couch
595
00:34:42,550 --> 00:34:44,650
anymore, but she is peeing on the TV
stand.
596
00:34:45,469 --> 00:34:46,469
Get out!
597
00:34:47,050 --> 00:34:49,510
That's the front slider, her main door.
598
00:34:49,790 --> 00:34:52,909
That remote control night vision camera
just scored.
599
00:34:53,230 --> 00:34:57,050
We still have critters coming right over
the fence here. It doesn't matter if
600
00:34:57,050 --> 00:35:01,780
you... block off the couch. The bad side
is I gave them an air canister to put
601
00:35:01,780 --> 00:35:04,380
in front of the sliding glass door, and
it wasn't there.
602
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:10,620
You know, listen, this is why you must
leave that canister out all the time. We
603
00:35:10,620 --> 00:35:12,780
know pee out there, pee in here.
604
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:19,360
Now, we need to get up, walk around, see
all the progress we've made from the
605
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,500
last time I was here. The most important
thing is outside. We've got to go back
606
00:35:22,500 --> 00:35:26,340
out there and see where these guys are
coming from and how we can fix it.
607
00:35:26,620 --> 00:35:31,640
On your video, we thought the possum was
right here. And you can see that
608
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,120
something has slid in.
609
00:35:33,500 --> 00:35:37,660
Jen and Nicole knew that animals coming
into the yard was a big problem. So why
610
00:35:37,660 --> 00:35:40,540
they didn't do anything to protect it is
completely beyond me.
611
00:35:41,420 --> 00:35:42,420
Okay.
612
00:35:42,660 --> 00:35:46,540
I want to show you how territorial
animals can be.
613
00:35:46,780 --> 00:35:47,780
We've got poo.
614
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:49,400
There.
615
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,160
Come around.
616
00:35:52,700 --> 00:35:54,320
There's more.
617
00:35:55,660 --> 00:35:59,620
This is still another animal's home
base. We can't have that because
618
00:35:59,620 --> 00:36:00,980
Puffypants feels threatened.
619
00:36:01,220 --> 00:36:03,920
You ready to go in, Lola? So I wanted to
spend some time with Princess
620
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:04,920
Puffypants herself.
621
00:36:05,140 --> 00:36:06,140
Hi, baby.
622
00:36:06,660 --> 00:36:08,220
Such a sweet little thing.
623
00:36:08,700 --> 00:36:11,960
The first time I met Princess
Puffypants, she was totally stressed
624
00:36:12,980 --> 00:36:17,540
She had that gray hellion outside
trespassing and basically making her
625
00:36:17,540 --> 00:36:18,920
nuts. What is that?
626
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:23,200
Today, she's a much calmer, more
confident cat, and that's just because
627
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,480
not feeling as threatened. But we still
have some work to do. That marking
628
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:30,680
behavior, for her, she's learned that
marking on things makes you feel better.
629
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:35,820
To me, it was, like, defiant. Like, pay
attention to me. Pay attention. Here I
630
00:36:35,820 --> 00:36:36,729
am.
631
00:36:36,730 --> 00:36:40,470
She had absolutely no fear about doing
it. Those are kind of human things that
632
00:36:40,470 --> 00:36:44,150
we're putting on top of her, I think.
And I think, you know, by and large, we
633
00:36:44,150 --> 00:36:46,150
really can start looking at cat
motivations.
634
00:36:46,550 --> 00:36:49,130
Princess Puffypants is peeing all over
the house, not because she wants
635
00:36:49,130 --> 00:36:52,810
attention, but because she's feeling
territorially threatened by the outside
636
00:36:52,810 --> 00:36:58,610
cats. So let's talk about turning the
yard into Fort Knox. The first thing is
637
00:36:58,610 --> 00:37:03,210
start filling in the holes or whatever
it was burrowed under. He's out.
638
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,940
If they happen to jump into the yard,
what I want you to do is I want you to
639
00:37:07,940 --> 00:37:12,160
these things out there for me. Now, this
thing here, it's a motion -activated
640
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:18,320
sprinkler attachment, and as soon as
anything comes in its range, it'll get
641
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,620
wet. Now, this one here works with sound
and light.
642
00:37:21,820 --> 00:37:23,480
You might want to cover your ears. All
right.
643
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:28,920
That's low.
644
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:34,640
Wow. I gave them some automatic blasters
through sound and light and water.
645
00:37:34,700 --> 00:37:38,540
We'll let these animals know that this
is not the place to hang out. Now, let's
646
00:37:38,540 --> 00:37:39,419
move indoors.
647
00:37:39,420 --> 00:37:43,060
Jen, I don't want you to get rid of
Puffy Pants. I definitely don't want you
648
00:37:43,060 --> 00:37:43,718
move out.
649
00:37:43,720 --> 00:37:47,040
And I don't want to see you or Nicole
get hurt either.
650
00:37:47,260 --> 00:37:51,800
Yeah, we have to basically keep the
sliders closed because it's just a
651
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:55,900
in and out. We cannot chance having a
rerun of what happened.
652
00:37:57,250 --> 00:38:01,430
So turning our yard into Fort Knox, like
Jackson suggested, is kind of a tall
653
00:38:01,430 --> 00:38:05,550
order. Personally, I'm skeptical that
it'll be a solution.
654
00:38:06,070 --> 00:38:09,110
Homestretch, guys, homestretch. All
right, thanks, Jackson. All right, I'll
655
00:38:09,110 --> 00:38:10,110
to you soon, okay? Okay.
656
00:38:10,530 --> 00:38:12,050
I am a bit skeptical.
657
00:38:13,910 --> 00:38:17,010
Animals find a way in however they want.
658
00:38:17,530 --> 00:38:18,950
Maybe they'll launch a sky attack.
659
00:38:20,090 --> 00:38:22,830
Don't say that, because they probably
will, like, go through the trees and
660
00:38:22,830 --> 00:38:23,830
to our balcony.
661
00:38:26,060 --> 00:38:29,120
I'm going in for my last visit right now
with Jen and Nicole and the cat
662
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,980
princess, Puffy Pants. When I walked in
here for my first visit, Puffy Pants was
663
00:38:32,980 --> 00:38:36,760
peeing all over the apartment, and Jen
and Nicole's relationship was frayed.
664
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,660
Getting ready to fill those spots.
665
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,820
Now, the video homework showed me a lot
of great things. They filled in the
666
00:38:43,820 --> 00:38:47,460
holes, they installed the motion
-activated alarm, and the sprinkler
667
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:48,680
which worked.
668
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:56,320
Anything that comes into this yard is
going to get a rude awakening.
669
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:58,180
Hi, Jackson.
670
00:38:58,420 --> 00:39:02,620
Hey. All I'm hoping for. I'm going to
walk through that door, take a breath.
671
00:39:02,620 --> 00:39:05,220
not going to smell pee. That is my big
dream for today.
672
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:12,000
So, it smells like you got good news for
me. She is back to her old self. No
673
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,780
more peeing. Are you kidding me? No. Not
once.
674
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,040
Not once.
675
00:39:16,140 --> 00:39:18,860
Not once. I know. It's awesome.
676
00:39:19,220 --> 00:39:20,220
I'm so happy.
677
00:39:20,490 --> 00:39:22,630
I'm so happy with the progress she's
made.
678
00:39:22,870 --> 00:39:27,330
There's no longer any incidents of
urinating anywhere in the house other
679
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her litter boxes.
680
00:39:29,350 --> 00:39:32,910
She's not interested in going outside.
She's a lot more content.
681
00:39:33,450 --> 00:39:39,070
And I'm so happy to see that she's back
to her old self. We're so pleased that
682
00:39:39,070 --> 00:39:43,510
we went ahead and we got a new couch and
it's being delivered tomorrow.
683
00:39:43,930 --> 00:39:48,810
That is so cool. That is so cool.
684
00:39:49,310 --> 00:39:52,530
Jen and Nicole buying a new couch is not
just going out and buying a new piece
685
00:39:52,530 --> 00:39:55,770
of furniture. It's a leap of faith
because they made the world safe.
686
00:39:56,170 --> 00:39:59,950
She's not going to pee everywhere. What
else? She hasn't launched herself into
687
00:39:59,950 --> 00:40:00,609
the window.
688
00:40:00,610 --> 00:40:04,570
Not once? Not once. She just chills and
looks out the window. We haven't seen
689
00:40:04,570 --> 00:40:06,390
any cats in the yard. No cats.
690
00:40:06,630 --> 00:40:08,190
No possum. No possum either.
691
00:40:08,590 --> 00:40:11,730
Great. She's very content being inside.
692
00:40:12,310 --> 00:40:16,070
Well, you know what that says also? That
says that you guys built a strong
693
00:40:16,070 --> 00:40:17,810
perimeter. That you made it safe again.
694
00:40:18,330 --> 00:40:21,890
The last time I was here, Jen and Nicole
didn't get the outside perimeter area
695
00:40:21,890 --> 00:40:26,830
quite as I wanted them to do it. This
time, let's take a closer look. We got
696
00:40:26,830 --> 00:40:28,390
sprinkler system down there. Yeah.
697
00:40:28,590 --> 00:40:30,950
We've got the motion detector right
there.
698
00:40:31,430 --> 00:40:33,010
We've had no animals in here.
699
00:40:33,250 --> 00:40:35,850
The holes fill down here.
700
00:40:36,210 --> 00:40:39,790
I love the cleanliness here. You've
cleaned up the plants. Wonderful. Now
701
00:40:39,790 --> 00:40:40,790
come around here.
702
00:40:42,430 --> 00:40:45,790
And we have...
703
00:40:47,630 --> 00:40:53,510
A functioning and very loud and very
annoying motion -activated alarm system.
704
00:40:53,710 --> 00:40:57,870
Hey, it works, right? That thing jangles
your nerves. It's loud.
705
00:40:58,110 --> 00:40:59,130
It flashes light.
706
00:40:59,550 --> 00:41:02,910
Anything that comes into this yard is
going to get a rude awakening.
707
00:41:03,230 --> 00:41:07,190
Now, the one thing that I would say,
let's take a look at where you've
708
00:41:07,190 --> 00:41:08,750
it, right? You've mounted it right here.
709
00:41:09,010 --> 00:41:11,230
So when I walked by it, of course.
710
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,140
I would say possum, cat, not so much.
711
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:20,260
So I would take it right above this
plant right here. Just bring it about
712
00:41:20,260 --> 00:41:21,260
far off the ground.
713
00:41:21,460 --> 00:41:25,420
Really, it's about an animal that's
going to come in here. This is about as
714
00:41:25,420 --> 00:41:29,400
as they get. Okay. And they're going to
set it off. And believe me, they're
715
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:33,000
going to head for the hills because I
just about did. I almost went diving
716
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,660
the fence myself. So wonderful.
717
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:40,820
And as I look down here as well, there
is no more mounds versus pee on the
718
00:41:40,820 --> 00:41:41,850
window. Right.
719
00:41:42,270 --> 00:41:44,930
It's really looking good, guys.
720
00:41:45,470 --> 00:41:49,730
Now, the thing that I love is that the
last time I was here, it was some animal
721
00:41:49,730 --> 00:41:54,690
leaving the perimeter of poo is what we
called it last time. You've devalued
722
00:41:54,690 --> 00:41:55,750
this area.
723
00:41:56,030 --> 00:41:59,790
So you've made it unattractive down
here. You said there's no need.
724
00:42:00,150 --> 00:42:03,530
And, you know, I don't feel like
burrowing under because I can't really
725
00:42:03,530 --> 00:42:04,530
under.
726
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,060
There's nothing to smell. Nothing's
attractive to me. All right, I'm moving
727
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:14,420
And this out here is Fort Knox, and that
makes that in there safe, home, and
728
00:42:14,420 --> 00:42:18,380
that's why Puffy Pants is not peeing all
over your living room anymore.
729
00:42:19,220 --> 00:42:23,720
Awesome. Yeah, we got Fort Knox going on
out here. She should feel safe. I
730
00:42:23,720 --> 00:42:26,920
actually wanted to spend some time with
Puffy Pants. Here she is.
731
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:28,200
Hi, Puffy.
732
00:42:28,620 --> 00:42:32,040
She did seem safe to me. She's just much
more.
733
00:42:32,750 --> 00:42:38,290
present with us much more confident
really nice to see and again that
734
00:42:38,290 --> 00:42:44,250
means that you're not going to see what
you saw before totally different vibe
735
00:42:44,250 --> 00:42:48,490
from her that's for sure oh yeah she's
back to her old self relaxed so much
736
00:42:48,490 --> 00:42:53,750
better social the first day i got here
this was not Princess Puffy Pants. This
737
00:42:53,750 --> 00:42:58,790
was Princess Pea Pants. She was throwing
herself against a sliding glass door,
738
00:42:58,830 --> 00:43:01,410
and she was marking up the whole house.
It was really disgusting.
739
00:43:01,670 --> 00:43:08,210
She was so insecure, and that was
reflected in her actions. And today, she
740
00:43:08,210 --> 00:43:14,090
is puffy. Now she's puffed out. She's
secure. She's chest up, tail out. She's
741
00:43:14,090 --> 00:43:15,490
walking around like she owns the place.
742
00:43:16,030 --> 00:43:17,030
Right?
743
00:43:17,550 --> 00:43:19,630
That's what a normal cat does.
744
00:43:19,950 --> 00:43:24,450
Six years of friendship, and it was
straight into breaking because of the
745
00:43:24,530 --> 00:43:27,810
because of the pee all over the place.
Where are you guys right now? We're
746
00:43:27,810 --> 00:43:31,750
so much better. We're in the total
opposite place of where we're getting
747
00:43:31,890 --> 00:43:36,050
Stress is relieved. I don't have the
stress of trying to figure out, do I
748
00:43:36,050 --> 00:43:37,870
to move? Do I have to get rid of the
cat?
749
00:43:38,150 --> 00:43:41,390
Jen and I are getting along better.
We're not stressed out about coming home
750
00:43:41,390 --> 00:43:43,610
finding messes on the couch or on the
other furniture.
751
00:43:44,070 --> 00:43:45,210
That means...
752
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:46,480
Then my job is done.
753
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:47,680
Thank you, Jackson.
754
00:43:47,900 --> 00:43:51,360
You're absolutely welcome. Before
Jackson came into our lives, things were
755
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:57,240
really dire. And the turnaround has been
amazing. Bye, Jackson. Take care. I
756
00:43:57,240 --> 00:43:58,920
can't thank Jackson enough. Yes.
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