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There's actually one specific fantasy I've always been very curious to find a

couple that's in for. This is more at the extreme end. But it's going on the

honeymoon with a couple.

and fucking the wife throughout the entire time.

I actually had a couple of months ago I was talking to, and they were like,

we're actually engaged, and that sounds phenomenal.

It didn't work out for other reasons, but, like, that would just be such an

amazing story to just share with people and be like, God, that actually

happened? Like, yeah, got video. Here you go.

But one encounter, it was a man that really wanted to be in the lifestyle.

and we'd been talking for maybe two or three weeks, and he invited me out to

dinner with him and his wife.

So I show up at the restaurant, we're sitting there talking, and his wife

arrived, and her and I discovered at the same time that she didn't know what

was happening.

She didn't know that I was going to be at this dinner.

God. Yeah, so they got into a fight right there and there in the restaurant,

I excused myself and carried on with my night.

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to this episode of the Venus Cuckoldress

your host, Venus. Thanks so much for joining me today. And today I have such

cool guy, QOGO, joining me to talk about what it's like to be a dominant bull

creator of all sorts of super sexy cuck porn content.

And this guest actually was recommended by one of my helpful cucks.

And that's a tier, in case you're wondering what the fuck that is, it's a

in the Queens Quarters fan hub, which is the new fan hub on VenusCuckoldress

.com. And if you join that tier, you get lots of perks. One of them is that you

get to suggest some episode ideas and guests.

And so that's how this all came about for today's show.

And by the way, I know I've said this before, but I'm going to say it again.

I absolutely love...

the helpful cuck tier.

I have so much fun with it. It is so great. Once a week we do a live hangout

it's just a small group of us. So, oh my God, I love it so much. I always have

such a good time.

And I have an upcoming lifestyle party that I'm going to go to. It's actually

interracial hotel takeover event. So I said, RIP my pussy.

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Oh, shit. I don't even know. I don't even know. But I'm just going to need a

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excitement leading up to it. They've been really great. So if you want to

the Helpful Cucks here and help out as well, be helpful. Why not? Go to

VenusCuckoldress .com. That's enough spiel about that. But really, honestly,

love, I love the Helpful Cucks. It is so fun. Okay.

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All right, let's just jump right into today's episode with QOGO. Here we go.

Here is QOGO.

He's a dominant, a bull, and a creator.

that has been active for a decade playing with couples in the hot wife and

cuckold lifestyles. He focuses on those couples that also have a heavy interest

in BDSM and want to explore the intersection of spouse sharing,

and kink.

All right, thank you so much for joining me on the show today. I'm so happy to

have you. Say hello to all of the listeners.

Yeah, thanks for having me.

First time ever on anything like this, actually. So, yeah, you're the first.

Great. Okay. So it was one of my fans that suggested that he would love

to have you as a guest on the show. And so I looked you up and sent you an

invite, and I'm so happy to have you here. So you are a self -proclaimed

dominant bull creator. Those three things, am I correct?

Correct. And that's kind of the order I...

Put them in order of importance to myself primarily.

Okay.

And so tell me how you got started in this lifestyle.

Oh, so about a decade ago in college, I had some friends that were looking to

explore more sexually in their relationship.

They wanted to try some threesomes.

So they invited me to come along and join them in those.

I did it a couple times, and somewhere along the way, the boyfriend started

finding himself enjoying more sitting on the sidelines as opposed to

participating. Yeah. And over time, he kind of started going, oh, he has a hot

wife, King, although he didn't really know what to call it at the time, but he

enjoyed watching more than participating.

Yeah. That went on for about a year until we graduated.

They moved across the country, so that ceased happening.

But last I spoke to them, they...

delved more into the femdom side so they're exploring more there and you

expanding their horizons from there i actually got into some long -term

monogamous relationships after which i came out of and i started playing with

couples again more long term a lot more low -key than i am now there was no kind

of content creation or anything of that nature at that time then covid hit

Quarantine, everything shut down, there was nothing to do.

I picked up photography as a hobby just to fill the time, not go crazy out of

boredom.

One of the couples I played with previous to COVID started being more

and starting things back up because it felt less dangerous.

Meet people again?

Yeah. And we'd been just kind of talking about photography at the time. And so

I'd been showing off pictures, like astrophotography and architecture and

vanilla things I'd been doing.

And she liked it. So she said, like, hey, bring along the camera. Let's

it with the debauchery and see what we come out with.

So we captured some photos, some videos, shared the bits and things on Reddit

originally. And there was immediately an audience, a fan base that just kind of

blew up.

Yeah. People then.

asked me for seven or eight months to start an OnlyFans.

And the couple I've been playing with already had their own OnlyFans. They

sharing some stuff on their own.

But they weren't sharing long videos just because they didn't have the

as far as editing things to cut 20, 40 -minute videos and stuff like that.

And people really wanted to see longer videos.

So I resisted for seven, eight months. And I said, why not?

Extra spending money wouldn't hurt. It also would just be nice to be able to

present a more non -pornified view into what the lifestyle is

like at a higher quality, because I really became a photography nerd at that

point. I was really a stickler for just image quality and things like that.

So I started My Only Fans in October 2020.

It immediately blew up. I think the first...

End of the first month, I had like 1 ,200 or 1 ,300 fans.

And it's just been a journey since then.

Oh, that's great. So obviously cuckolding is a big part of the content

create.

How do you feel about that role of being a bull? Is it something that you feel

passionate about?

Yeah.

It's a mix right there because I'm primarily a dominant, but one of my

kinks in that arena is fantasy fulfillment.

So I really do love just getting the kernel of an idea from a woman or a

and just kind of turn that into something bigger, something amazing.

they look at and go, holy shit, I didn't ever think about ourselves.

So that's fun.

But I also do play in a very specific niche of I only play with women that are

into BDSM.

So like all my couples are submissive women or switch women, or they may have

femdom sign, they dominate their husband or things like that. There's some

element of heavy kink to it. Right. So it's fun there to help them explore

cuckolding or hot wife kink, as well as whatever BDSM things that they may have,

whether that's like rope bondage or suspension, spanking, whatever it may

Right. Yeah, so I have some women who, you know, their husband brings up this

kind of relationship to them, this fantasy.

And they're like, the women are like, but I'm not dominant. Like, I'm very

sexually submissive. Like, how do I, this doesn't make sense to me. How do I

this? It sounds like you would be like the perfect bull for her.

I have been in that role a couple times as far as.

coaching a woman that doesn't really feel secure and like dominating her

yeah that's really what he's after so it's honestly i think i've done a few

videos but it's just like tips and like hey here's something you could say a lot

of times me and the wives will find ourselves just scheming beforehand over

or planning out things i mean like i have to run things by them be like all

right this might be a little extreme do you think you'd be into this and i

almost never had a no it's always like yeah

I remember very early on, one of the ideas I ran by a couple, actually the

was, hey, do you think he'd be into if in the middle of the date I made him get

down on all fours and be a stool to throw my legs up on while you blew me?

she was like, yeah, he'd probably lose his mind.

We ended up talking to her about for a week. So yeah, it worked out well.

I love that you use that word scheming. I think that's part of the fun of this

kind of relationship is the planning, is the anticipation of things or the

flirting or the texting or whatever.

And so I love that you use that word. That's great. Yeah, absolutely.

So, okay. So, and are the cuckold husbands always there watching or

involved in the scenes that you do?

It varies.

When possible, we always like to do that, but coordinating three adult

to get them in the room can prove to be a hassle a lot of the time.

So for more local couples, a lot of the times the wife will come by themselves,

but we always send the husband an abundance of video afterwards, so he

misses out on anything.

But when the husband can come, yeah, absolutely we have the husband come.

There is the occasion where there are husbands who prefer... not to come, not

because of timing, just that's their preference.

Sometimes it's due to something like a cheating fantasy or they just prefer

the wife come back and tease them with the play -by -play of what happened in

their own words and things like that.

Right.

Okay, yes, that's fun too.

It was a little different.

What's your favorite way to include the cuck when he is there?

So usually if it's a husband with a...

Cuckold fantasy is a humiliation kink. It's just coming up with things, like I

said before, like dealing with the wife for things he would really enjoy.

So an example was like that stool example I gave earlier, or it'll be this

verbal humiliation saying like, hey, don't you wish you could fuck your wife

this well? You really can't satisfy her, things like that. And I usually like to

egg the wife to do the verbal humiliation.

So I'll like. grab her hair, pull her head up, make a look at her and be like,

tell him how good this dick is. Or like, tell him how you wish he could fuck

this wall or things like that. Because I think that is a lot more impactful to

the husband if they have a humiliation cake.

Like, I don't have a serious emotional connection to them, but their wife does.

Those words hit a lot harder.

Yes, it's an emotional slap.

Yeah, exactly.

I like it. If the husband was just a...

hot wife kids so just there for the voyeurism doesn't want humiliation

like that mostly they like to play cameraman so just hand him a good camera

be like hey grab all the great angles go for it have fun yeah speaking of how do

you deal with um well in my experience i've come across lots of what i what uh

people in the lifestyle call these mini spielberg cucks who

They want to basically direct a scene.

They want it exactly this way. They want you to say this one thing.

They want you to look like this.

Everything needs to be the way they have this fantasy in their mind. They want

it played out exactly like that.

I personally find it annoying as fuck.

How do you deal with those guys?

I know exactly the type you're talking about. I haven't encountered them.

At the beginning, I encountered him. Now, in the conversations I have

with a couple, just to make sure we're all the same vibe, we're all on the same

page, it's going to be a good connection.

Those are one of the things I can kind of sense up front.

And because I don't enjoy being in that situation either. The whole thing just

feels, it feels like low production professional porn. And that's not

I'm interested in being involved in. Like, I don't want to walk in there with

script and be like, all right, here are your lines. That's not interesting.

So when I sense that a husband, that's what he's after, like those are

relationships I don't pursue.

Yeah. So for all of you mini Spielberg cucks listening right now, stop that

shit.

It's what she wants and it's what you, what the bull wants too. I mean, for

fuck's sake, just, we're not fantasy dispensers. I can't stand that shit.

So have you generally

always been treated with respect or have you had some disastrous encounters with

couples oh man early on i had some interesting situations before i knew

knew how to spot trouble one of the earliest i can remember was i think this

much not this exact scenario but this kind of idea there's lots of honestly i

think there's a lot more people on the fantasy side of the lifestyle than

actually in the lifestyle.

There were a lot more fakes pretending to be in the lifestyle than those

actually in the lifestyle.

I constantly get those messages.

But in one encounter, it was a man that really wanted to be in the lifestyle.

And we'd been talking for maybe two or three weeks. And he invited me out to

dinner with him and his wife.

So I show up at the restaurant.

Well, we're sitting there talking and his wife arrives.

And we, her and I discovered at the same time that

She didn't know what was happening.

She didn't know that I was going to be at this dinner.

So they had been discussing this purely from a bedroom pillow talk perspective

and never had that key conversation of, hey, let's make this real.

Oh, my God.

Yeah, so they got into a fight right there and there in the restaurant, and I

excused myself and carried on with my night.

You know what? I have heard of that.

happening and you if you're anywhere online in this lifestyle and you will

some frustrated husbands talking to each other about my wife won't do this for

real or she won't you know talk about it or I really want her to but she won't

and blah blah blah I have actually heard them give advice to each other the

world's worst advice one of them one of them being

You just, you know, surprise her with a bull. You just sort of like, you know,

put this bull in this situation and hope she goes for it.

Absolute terrible idea.

The fuck is that shit?

You know, do not, this is this whole idea that guys have where they think

they can trick their wife into doing this for them. I'm like, oh my God.

And I get those kind of request messages all the time. I bet you do.

I will have guys that say like, hey, could you go hit on my wife on Instagram

hit on her at this bar she'll be at and try to seduce her? I'm like, that's, no.

You are trying to blow up your marriage. Please stop it. Yes. It's a terrible

idea. And like you were talking about, I will hear, I will see those

conversations of aspirant cucks giving advice to each other, and they'll be

talking about things that sound like emotional blackmail.

They're trying to guilt their wives, and it's like, this is the worst possible

way to go about this.

You can bring up the idea to her, you can tell her how important it is to you,

but you cannot just keep pushing it or try to trick her into being on board

this. That is like a purified way to ruin your relationship.

I bet a lot of it is born out of desperation because they really want

badly that they're willing to try anything to get their wife to agree to

this. I get that. I understand it. But it is just going to make things worse.

You're going to end up single or divorced, whatever.

It's just the worst way to go about it.

I bet you get lots of guys.

messaging you with pics of their wife and wanting to know what your reaction

when you see them, right?

Every single day.

Every day. So I call those would you fuck my wife conversations. I don't

in them because they're just not interesting.

They're all the same. I don't want to sit there and have some fantasy sexting

conversation with a guy. I understand why he's after it because

Unfortunately, the vast majority of people will never be able to jump into

reality side of this case.

They're just not in the right relationship for it. They're not in the

place. Their spouse just isn't interested.

It's unfortunate, but you have to deal with the reality of that.

And it's perfectly fine to want to have those role play fancy conversations, but

have them with people that are also interested in having them.

Don't pretend that it's something genuine going somewhere. That's just

obnoxious. Yeah, I don't get guys sending me pictures of their wife, but I

do get cucks who will message me with something like, do you think that a two

-inch penis is small? And I'm like...

Google can tell you that, but I'm like, why the fuck are you messaging me with

this? I know exactly why, because you want to just wank off while I tell you

that, yes, it's really fucking small.

They want you to be their kink dispenser. Yeah, kink dispensers.

I feel like you're just sucking up my time right now for your old wank

So I'm like, this is so annoying as fuck, and yet I get it all the time.

Yep. So guys, could you please stop that? Stop it.

The honest ones are good. Guys will reach out to me and describe some very

specific situation to their relationship or how they approach their wife about

something. And it's like, I don't know either of you. I don't know your

relationship. I know nothing about this. I cannot provide good advice.

I cannot provide what your next step should be here. I don't know how your

wife's going to react. I don't know where she is headspace -wise.

Yeah, she probably doesn't even know about his fantasies.

Okay, so what are some of the other common questions that you get people

you about all the time, whether it be about the content that you create or

a bull or being a dominant?

I'll get a lot of just looking for advice messages.

So things about how to have the discussion, the talk with their wife

bringing this up, how she may react.

you know, common things you may run into and just how to pivot from them and

things like that.

And I normally direct them to two subreddits on Reddit because I've never

on that side of the conversation.

I'm not the best person to give advice on.

But, like, Hot Wife Advice and then, oh,

I forget the other one. There's another Reddit. But it's very good about other

people in the lifestyle, husbands, cucks, you know, fags.

whatnot, having discussions about how they had that conversation, how it went

for them, tips and tricks, things you may encounter and stuff like that.

a much better source than me.

Yeah.

Yeah, I get people asking for advice every day.

Every day.

Who are wanting to tell me their story and advice.

Anyway, it's a little overwhelming at times.

But apparently people really do need that. So there are women in this

lifestyle who are actively creating community within the lifestyle for

Spaces, private spaces, safe spaces where we can connect and mentor each

and help each other and have friendships, which is an amazing thing

really helpful for the lifestyle. Yeah, absolutely.

Have you found that there's anything similar?

for bulls like in your in your part of this lifestyle have you noticed do bulls

reach out to each other is this something that goes on uh not that i've

mean from my perspective for the most part bulls are pretty solitary creatures

um i i know a few that

like form groups for wives that have like, you know, DP or gang main face and

things like that.

And there is a similar subreddit. Like I was talking about that specifically for

bulls. I think it's, Oh, it's skating my mind right now, but it's not, not very

populated. Um, the conversations that happen there are very fantasy

influenced. I want to say.

It's just to know you're thinking, like, that didn't happen. Come on.

But,

no, I think for the most part, it's mostly solo operators.

That's what I kind of figured. Just from my perspective in the lifestyle, I have

not seen a lot of bulls reaching out to each other.

Even when it comes to talking about the lifestyle.

Aside from one or two podcasts, there's just not a lot of conversation going on

in the lifestyle, which is very interesting to me.

When it comes to specific fantasy fulfillment, that you were talking about

fantasy fulfillment,

how far do you go with that for couples? I'm assuming that you often get couples

who have a specific fantasy that they would like to fulfill.

How far do you go with that?

I would say a couple. I'm pretty much open to anything that doesn't involve

direct male -on -male sexual contact.

Outside of that, like, picture of fantasy. I'm open. Let's talk about it.

There's actually one specific fantasy I've always been very curious to find a

couple that's in for. This is more at the extreme end.

But it's going on the honeymoon with a couple.

and fucking the wife throughout the entire time.

Well, yeah, I actually had a couple of months ago I was talking to, and they

were like, we're actually engaged, and that sounds phenomenal.

It didn't work out for other reasons, but, like, that would just be such an

amazing story to just share with people and be like, good God, that actually

happened? Like, yeah, I've got a video. Here you go.

Yeah, you know, I don't know if you've heard about my ultimate cuckolding

fantasy that I have, but it's the wedding night BBC gangbang that I'm

determined. But on my list of 17 ways to cuck your man, that's on there,

actually, is having your bull with you for honeymoon and anniversary.

Oh, really?

Yeah, no, I'm still waiting for the right couple to do that one.

I'm very interested. That'd be awesome.

It's hot as fuck.

I love it.

Oh, my goodness. Okay, so maybe one day.

Okay, so you're definitely not down for the forced -by aspects of fantasies

with cuckolding couples, correct?

Correct.

Okay, what about the ones that have the sissy fetishes? Are you down for that,

like as far as having them around and participating in the humiliation aspects

of that?

Oh, yeah, I'm perfectly fine with that. I don't kink shame.

Even the forced buy stuff, I have nothing wrong with that. I'm just not

personally sexually attracted to men, so I can't really participate there.

But as far as sissy stuff, I play with couples now that are into that.

The wife, who's the husband's dom, will, you know, dress her husband up in

panties and maid outfits and things like that. Force him to wear, like,

dildo belts, I guess would be the best way to describe them.

And all manner of things like that. Make him wear makeup, fake lashes, whatnot.

And if they're into that, I'll absolutely lean into it. I'll help

them.

Oh, my goodness.

That's awesome.

Especially if he's very, like, I don't know, masculine, dominant kind of alpha

guy in everyday life to do that to him. Oh, yeah. Which happens a lot.

I think there's this misconception with a lot of people on the outside that

everyone with a cuckold fantasy is, like, a small guy with a tiny dick.

And, like, this fantasy mindset of, like...

They actually are what their kink is.

And it's a very mental kink. It's not always linked to what they are

or how they are outside of kink. I've met plenty of cucks that are, honestly,

for the majority, most cucks I know are very successful in their day -to -day

life. They're professionals that are like high -end enterprise managers,

doctors, lawyers, things like that.

Almost all of them have average -sized dicks. There was one couple I knew

probably five years ago where the husband had a heavy cuckold fantasy.

He was into being pegged by his wife.

And that one always made me laugh just because of the sheer size difference

between them.

The wife is, like, 5 '2", 100 pounds, and the husband is this 6 '6", 280

Viking -looking guy.

He had a larger cock than me, but he was absolutely into, like, small penis

humiliation, being pegged by his wife, sexification, verbal degradation, all of

that. But, you know, it obviously had no correlation with who he actually was as

a person, just a mental kick. That's what got him off.

Yeah.

Yeah, that was the thing about my very first pegging experience that I didn't

anticipate. Well, I didn't think I would like pegging ever because I was like,

I'm not going to feel anything. Why the fuck do I want to do this? Like, you

know, I like getting fucked. I don't want to just sit there with a toy and,

know, fuck this guy's ass. But I did not anticipate how fun, how

amazing it would be.

But just being able to like.

physically overpower a guy like that so when you were saying about their size

like she's this little woman and he's like this big guy i'm just imagining

there is something to that did not just the optics of it but just the emotional

like i'm just going to like get on top of you kind of thing and like the tables

have turned yes

Oh, and the noises that men make when they're getting their ass fucked. Oh my

God. It is something so hot for me. Oh, I just, I love it. So tangentially

related, a common question I'll get, since you've never seen my content, I'm

very heavy on the foreplay.

Some of my dates are usually about two hours. And honestly, probably the first

hour is foreplay. It's kinky stuff.

Eating pussy, it's tying the woman up, it's forced orgasms. It's whatever the

flavor of the moment is there.

And I will have a lot of men that aren't heavily into foreplay that are

questioning, like, how are you enjoying this? Like, you're not fucking them.

You're not getting your dick sucked the entire time. You're not getting any

direct sexual gratification from this act.

Why do you keep going on with it? And it's like, I'm into domination and I'm

into fantasy fulfillment.

If they're having an amazing time, I'm enjoying this.

That's what I'm into.

They're moaning and yelling and screaming the whole time. They're having

time. That's why I do what I do.

Isn't that interesting because, oh, this is going to sound kind of mean, but I

think most men are dumb as fuck when it comes to pleasure for women. They assume

that a dick in her pussy is everything she's ever going to need and it is the

thing that is amazing that's the source of all pleasure and like that's it and

so i'm like do you understand that like 80 percent of women do not have an

orgasm from just dick and pussy like right yeah they need stimulation yeah

do and they need other stuff so and like so for but

then i guess with like you know most cock porn is like it's all dick and

mean that, and she's getting off 14 times and she's like, oh my God, it's

best sex in my entire life, blah, blah, blah.

And, and so they're, they're, you know, they're absorbing this and that that's

what they think that we want to need. And I'm like, man, no.

I just have guys reach out to me that want to be, get into lifestyle as a bull

or a third for couples.

And that's usually one of the things I make sure to convey. Like, please don't

look at professional porn and believe that's how.

any scenario will actually play out.

They're very much after a specific kind of product, which is usually a lot of,

like, close -up penis and vaginal, like, insertion penetration shots.

And in real life, like, that's not what women care about completely.

That's not what's going to do it for them.

I would make sure, like, hey, just talk to your partner. Figure out what they're

after, what does it for them, what kind of experience they want.

It always blows my mind a little bit, like, something that seems that obvious

me has to be, like, hammered in.

Because they're just like, no, just got to fuck them good, right? Hold them down

and fuck them good. I'm like, not always. That's nice. Yeah, but there's

stuff, man. You got to explore.

Broaden your horizons.

Yes.

Yes, one of my favorite guys that I was with recently blew my mind because he

was this very, like,

holistic, sensual lover.

Like, did fuck the shit out of me. But there was at least like 15

other things that we were doing that was like, when it comes to pleasure, it was

like amazing.

And so it just added to the whole experience. And I was just like, wow,

it right there.

So I'm not surprised that guys are looking at you like, why are you doing

that foreplay? Like, she just wants to get a your big dick in her pussy.

And like, they just don't, they don't get it. They don't understand.

That's why I have like guys who asked me or no, no, no, no. So many cucks have

asked me over the years about like, um, bull I was with. And they're like, how

many times did you come?

They want me to say 14 times.

They want me to say like, Oh, so many, I lost count. They want me to say, they

want to hear that. Cause that's in their mind. What is.

going to happen, right? Meanwhile, I'm one of those 80 % of women who needs

than just taking pussy to get off.

A lot of my sexual encounters don't equal

orgasm for me, and I am totally okay with that.

For me,

my vibrator does it in 30 seconds or less.

I'm not deprived of orgasms in my life.

I just seek out pleasure when I go to these experiences. And I get it. And I'm

size queen, so I like the feeling of being stretched. And I like the feeling

my cervix getting a pounding.

And so there's other sources of pleasure that I get, immense pleasure that I get

from these experiences. But guys are so hyper -focused on the orgasm and how

many times she comes.

I was like, can you see? stop like just stop with that nonsense just fuck off

like holistic sensual experience you want like a mental aspect too and things

like that and i think a lot of the guys ask those questions are coming from it

from their perspective and their experience where an orgasm is the end

all yeah because for guys a lot you know it is that's that's the end right they

can't understand the perspective of like most women aren't like that yeah they

love orgasms orgasms are great but like an orgasm isn't everything it's not the

entire experience for them i've met women that are just absolute orgasm

and in two hours they can come 15 times like most women are not like that that's

a rarity yeah yeah lucky women yeah

those are the women that really love the forced orgasm play um like the fucking

machine to the bench and things like that Oh, the Sibian. Fuck my life. I

love the Sibian. Oh, my God. I tried it at a sex party one time, and I thought I

was going to get launched straight into outer space. I was just like, holy fuck,

this thing is amazing.

It just combines every single thing I need to get off. So I was just like,

It's really great, too, for combining with other things. Like, if you're

submissive, combine it with, like, bondage and sensory deprivation.

to which the point, like, the only thing you can focus on is the pleasure. You

can't see. You can also block the ears, too, for, like, complete blackout. And

then it's just, like, insane orgasm.

So do you exclusively play with couples who are into interracial, or

how much of a thing is that for you?

Honestly, it's not a big aspect for me from my relationship with the couples.

It's not something we talk about a lot.

There's really no race play in any of my interactions or things like that.

I have no doubt that there is that aspect of tabooness or whatever it is,

interracial kind of cuckolding stuff. But it's not overt in my

experience.

Okay. Yeah, I'm sure that there is because it's so popular. It's such a

thing.

not just in cuckold porn, but like in the fantasies of cucks, is having the

black bull who's going to come in and fuck your wife so much better than you

ever could kind of thing. So I'm sure you must get that often.

Yeah, and I get it in messages all the time, especially from the guys that want

to have those fantasy sexing conversations and things like that. They

want to lean pretty heavily in a racial aspect of it.

It's like, oh, you should come see my tiny white wife and things like that.

And nothing against it. It's not my cup of tea.

I don't like the leading to the race play side of it, but I get it.

Yeah.

Yeah, I had my very first cuckolding experience.

My boyfriend was listening on the phone and it was with a black bull and he was

an experienced black bull.

But we did not. I mean, talk about fucking up.

experiences in the beginning like you just don't know what mistakes you're

making learning experiences yeah learning right we I did not have a

with this guy about what exactly you know I was comfortable with or he he

ask me or anything like that and so we were just kind of winging it and um so I

walked into the hotel room you know and he's there and then I called my

boyfriend and stuff and this guy this bull

This is so crazy because it only ever happened that one time. It happened to

my first time.

He drops, like, the race play card on me mid -fuck. And I was like, what?

I was like, holy shit. Like, I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa. But I knew

that shit turned on my boyfriend. But these two hadn't talked.

They didn't know.

And so I was like, oh my God, I know that my boyfriend's listening right now

he's like going to be like losing his mind.

So I was kind of turned on by that part. But I was also very uncomfortable

because I was like, I'm not that, I mean, the whole like verbal

stuff with race play and stuff like that. I was like, oh, I'm like not

comfortable with that. But then at the same time, it was almost like.

This insane level of taboo added on to the whole thing. And I was like, damn.

The more naughty it is, the more hot it gets.

But I was like, how the fuck do you drop that on me like that?

I mean, it turned out okay. But I was just like, damn. My first time and

going to drop that on me? Like, fuck.

Oh, man. I actually have a related story from early on. I was speaking with a

couple. And we were just having normal conversations about what everyone's

boundaries are at, what they're into, what the fence looks like in their head,

things like that. And the husband started describing this very specific

he had in mind. And it turned out to be a, like a plantation

fantasy. Oh, no.

He wanted to be like.

slave rebelling against the slave master and fucking the white wife and i was

like yeah i'm not yeah that's definitely crossing a line into crazy

town i don't know i wouldn't be at all comfortable with that either um

but yeah so that's interesting that you know it is something that that men

do fantasize a lot about, but it sounds like you've definitely got your

boundaries with that, which is cool.

I was like, not at all prepared for it. So I was like, holy shit.

And then I like, I would never bring that up. It race play like that in, in

ever, like ever in an experience with a black guy, like never. I mean, that

would be the most rude thing I would think I could possibly do.

And so disrespectful.

But I have had a couple of guys since then who have initiated it. And I get

same feeling of like, oh, like this is very naughty. Like, you

know, this is very, very, very naughty.

kind of excited but still also just like damn like fuck we're pushing the limits

here you know and like oh anyway but yeah it's for me it would only be sexy

like the guy was into it if the bull was into it you know like if he was the one

to initiate it otherwise hell no I'm not bringing that up I've touched on it

before with couples just kind of leaning into the stereotype of like

black men have big dicks And if I know the husband has, like, a small penis

humiliation thing, and I get the sense, or I'll talk to the wife, and he's like,

he'd be in the right stuff.

I got to lean into that a bit. So, like, small white dick can't satisfy his

wife. He needs a big black cock to make her feel good and things like that. So

I'll lean into that aspect.

That's probably about as far as I'd go on my own.

Yeah.

Yeah, there's definitely a wide spectrum of play when it comes to or interest

when it comes to interracial online. You've got people who are, you know,

like you said, into the or just even just the skin contrast, you know, or,

know, size, your stereotypes and stuff like that. And then on the other end,

you've got people who are full on into like.

racial supremacy kind of thing and white race extinction and stuff like that.

And there's very, there is that shit that's out there too. That is crazy town

me.

I've got two comments there. So like the skin contrast, I actually do love that.

It makes phenomenal photos. I love just dramatic photos. It's great photos.

The black new world order stuff that actually came to me.

in a conversation with a prospective cuckold and we were just talking through

and he was describing it. I was like, this sounds like a genocide kink. Do you

have a genocide kink?

Yeah, just because you're black, just because you're a bull does not mean that

you subscribe to that.

All right, I'm going to wrap stuff up before I ask you where people can find

and learn more about you. Do you have any kind of last words about advice for

whether it be wannabe bulls or couples wanting to explore into this lifestyle

or single cucks? Do you have any advice that you want to share?

Yeah, I can touch on a little bit of all those groups. I mean, for single guys

that have a...

sag fantasy or a cuckold fantasy, the biggest advice I can give is you can go

study a bit. There are Hot Wife advice on Reddit and some others that just give

perspectives from others that have been in that conversation.

Just be transparent with your spouse. Be upfront.

Lay out what it is you enjoy about the lifestyle, the fancy of the lifestyle at

that point, and how you'd like to explore it.

I always see the One of the biggest things that wives will come back with is

they feel it's a, it's a way for the husband to start fucking other women.

And this is his way. And most, it's not like most of them aren't even interested

in that. They just, you know, they want to see their wife get fucked.

So you can be transparent with that, be straightforward and, you know, don't try

and.

bamboozle her into the lifestyle or trick her or ambush her with a bull or

anything like that. That's bound to backfire on you. It will not go well.

For bulls, I actually wrote a big post about this because it's an area I have a

lot more expertise in. It's an area I'm on.

Also, same advice there a little bit. Be transparent.

There's no point in sending out...

five -year -old photos or lying about your dimensions on things, lying about

your experience. Because people very quickly realize what's true and what's

You can't just show up to the room and expect them to disregard any lies you

have made up until that point. It's going to be a bad experience for you and

them.

But also, men have to remember that couples online that are searching for a

are flooded with responses.

Non -stop. They probably got 20, 30 messages that day. They're going to get

another 40 tomorrow.

So you have to find a way to set yourself apart.

You have to be unique in some way. You have to bring something interesting to

the table to separate yourself from the hordes they're dealing with on a daily

basis.

Make sure you talk to them. Don't assume you know what they want.

Because if couples know what they want, they've discussed this fantasy a lot.

before they got to the step of searching for a bull.

So you don't have to, there's no guesswork involved there. Just talk to

Yeah.

And so, all right, thank you for that. That was all very good advice. I really,

really appreciate all of it and agree with it 100%. Where can people find more

about you and the content that you create?

Yeah, so they can find me on my website, cuio .com, C -U -I -O -G -E -O .com, or

on OnlyFans at cuio, same spelling.

I'm also on Twitter and Reddit.

You can really just Google my name, you'll find all the places I'm on. I'm

prolific on the web.

It's a very unique name, too.

And the links for all of your sites will be in the show notes for today as well.

If you're listening and you can't remember what he just said, don't worry.

look in the description notes for today's episode, and you'll be able to

them there.

Well, QO, Gio, thank you so much for being on the show today. I definitely

enjoyed talking with you, and perhaps I'll have you back sometime.

Yeah, it was a great time. I enjoyed it. Thank you very much.

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