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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,150 --> 00:00:04,210 Previously on The Real Housewives of Atlanta. 2 00:00:04,910 --> 00:00:07,190 Welcome to Candy's Peach Buzz Museum. 3 00:00:09,710 --> 00:00:13,390 This ain't Mommy Nation, this is Mommy and Daddy Nation. 4 00:00:13,770 --> 00:00:14,589 Alright, come. 5 00:00:14,590 --> 00:00:15,750 I'll put you in any car. 6 00:00:16,770 --> 00:00:20,750 How we gonna make this baby if you always traveling? I can't even get a 7 00:00:20,750 --> 00:00:22,710 with my man, much less get some baby time. 8 00:00:23,130 --> 00:00:24,590 Can I have another baby? 9 00:00:24,950 --> 00:00:28,390 Hypertension increases, preeclampsia, seizure, stroke. 10 00:00:29,339 --> 00:00:33,980 Death, you have to really make sure that you're willing to take that risk. 11 00:00:34,300 --> 00:00:38,300 We're doing this movie now. The wife ends up doing a hall pass with a woman. 12 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:40,160 Who's playing the wife? June. 13 00:00:41,020 --> 00:00:44,860 There's some stuff on the Internet. You brought the money in as a chef, and then 14 00:00:44,860 --> 00:00:46,160 she ended up doing all this other work. 15 00:00:46,480 --> 00:00:49,880 What was it? It's a lawsuit, but it's being handled by my attorney. How much 16 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:51,240 she suing you for? $1 ,000. 17 00:00:51,660 --> 00:00:52,660 She don't have $1 ,000? 18 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,520 What is $1 ,000 divided by 8? 19 00:00:57,140 --> 00:00:58,140 Hello? 20 00:00:58,500 --> 00:01:00,800 Candy said that she saw us kissing. 21 00:01:01,020 --> 00:01:02,220 That never happened. 22 00:01:02,580 --> 00:01:07,660 You're not going to make me unsee what I saw. Candy said it at that interview. 23 00:01:07,900 --> 00:01:09,200 Did you? Is that cutting episode? 24 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:11,240 I should have sworn y 'all kissed. 25 00:01:11,500 --> 00:01:12,500 Maybe it wasn't. 26 00:01:12,940 --> 00:01:18,520 If I misjudged the moment, I accept that and I'm wrong. 27 00:01:18,780 --> 00:01:20,440 I just don't like people lying on me. 28 00:01:23,140 --> 00:01:27,160 My roots are in Atlanta, but my branches are worldwide. 29 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:30,320 Forget the gaslight. 30 00:01:30,540 --> 00:01:32,120 I'm taking the spotlight. 31 00:01:33,500 --> 00:01:38,240 My past may be checkered, but my future is solid gold. 32 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,480 I just don't do it for the culture. 33 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:47,380 Honey, I am the culture. She by Sheree. More like she broke the internet. 34 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:52,040 If you can't keep the pace, stay out of my race. 35 00:02:01,950 --> 00:02:03,150 Hello, Sensei. 36 00:02:06,890 --> 00:02:07,890 Hi, 37 00:02:13,990 --> 00:02:15,690 handsome. What you doing? 38 00:02:16,610 --> 00:02:18,890 I'm at my restaurant just checking on things. 39 00:02:19,270 --> 00:02:20,490 I miss your lamb chops. 40 00:02:20,990 --> 00:02:22,210 Come and get it, baby. 41 00:02:26,780 --> 00:02:29,040 This is what we're going to do. I'm going to go first and then you're going 42 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:30,040 try it, okay? 43 00:02:31,500 --> 00:02:33,620 Get these back teeth. Yes, we are. 44 00:02:34,380 --> 00:02:35,380 Bitch. 45 00:02:36,180 --> 00:02:38,460 Blaze, you're not supposed to swallow the toothpaste. 46 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:40,800 No. 47 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:48,840 The property, it just, it gives like. 48 00:02:49,980 --> 00:02:51,000 I'm glad. Thank you all. 49 00:02:51,640 --> 00:02:54,440 So, you know, I heard you guys are doing a mental health getaway here at the 50 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,000 home. So I just want to learn a little bit about more of what you wanted to do. 51 00:02:57,260 --> 00:03:03,040 It's so important to be ahead of brain health. Yeah. So you don't end up in a 52 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:04,100 psychiatric ward. 53 00:03:04,890 --> 00:03:09,090 Y 'all know Allison was my manager my whole entire life. So to see her go 54 00:03:09,090 --> 00:03:13,330 through something real, I was very confused. Like, she's always been the 55 00:03:13,330 --> 00:03:17,190 one. And that's when I started to think about my own mental health and just with 56 00:03:17,190 --> 00:03:18,410 everything I have going on. 57 00:03:18,610 --> 00:03:22,730 My sister shared with me that when she went through her divorce, that was what 58 00:03:22,730 --> 00:03:26,890 caused her mental health break. So I am working so hard to keep my mental health 59 00:03:26,890 --> 00:03:29,130 in a good space and really be there for my family. 60 00:03:29,500 --> 00:03:34,400 So the goal is to open up a conversation and learn. In our community, the 61 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,820 African -American community, we don't talk about mental health enough. 62 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:38,740 I know you talked about even having a bar. 63 00:03:39,020 --> 00:03:43,200 Well, alcohol is a toxin to the brain. What I think we should have for the 64 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,960 actual retreat are some options of what we call functional drinks. 65 00:03:47,580 --> 00:03:48,580 Are you serious? 66 00:03:48,740 --> 00:03:51,640 Supplements like GABA and things that help you relax. 67 00:03:51,860 --> 00:03:55,680 So it's a non -alcoholic beverage where there is no effect. 68 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:58,780 Oh, man, seriously? 69 00:04:16,750 --> 00:04:20,089 All right. Well, so you got it, right? Oh, are you talking to me? 70 00:04:20,370 --> 00:04:22,130 Because I can't hear you over my news. 71 00:04:23,670 --> 00:04:28,090 Thank you. I just remembered that. I just remembered that I got this new 72 00:04:28,090 --> 00:04:29,710 now. I don't know how to act. You know what I mean? 73 00:04:32,910 --> 00:04:34,170 There's something wrong with you. 74 00:04:34,470 --> 00:04:39,110 Okay. So, you know, we have a lot for us to really, like, talk about and think 75 00:04:39,110 --> 00:04:40,490 about, I think, as a family. 76 00:04:40,870 --> 00:04:44,270 I feel like you were gone. It just felt like we never had a chance to, like, 77 00:04:44,270 --> 00:04:48,070 really, like. Really dive into it. Yeah. I did take some notes, and I did want 78 00:04:48,070 --> 00:04:50,130 you to kind of flip through them. 79 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,180 Pregnant. This real? 80 00:04:58,480 --> 00:04:59,480 It's real. 81 00:05:04,060 --> 00:05:05,180 Is it real? 82 00:05:06,580 --> 00:05:08,920 It's real. This is real? It's real. 83 00:05:09,180 --> 00:05:10,360 No way. 84 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:11,680 It's real. 85 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:13,400 No way. 86 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:15,500 It's real. That's what I'm talking about. 87 00:05:17,270 --> 00:05:20,570 It definitely feels different telling Ross that I'm pregnant the second time 88 00:05:20,570 --> 00:05:23,230 around. You know, the first time, Ross and I had just retired. 89 00:05:23,570 --> 00:05:24,690 It happened quickly. 90 00:05:24,950 --> 00:05:29,210 But this time, the whole family had known how much Ross wanted it and how, 91 00:05:29,210 --> 00:05:33,550 know, I was kind of unsure about it. It took some work to get here. I'm excited 92 00:05:33,550 --> 00:05:34,710 about what the future holds. 93 00:05:35,210 --> 00:05:37,370 Yeah, sit back, girl. Sit back. Sit back. 94 00:05:38,850 --> 00:05:40,810 I'm sweating a little bit. Aw, babe. 95 00:05:41,470 --> 00:05:46,090 I wanted to surprise you, so I wanted to, like, surprise you and the family. 96 00:05:47,610 --> 00:05:49,910 Mom, dad, Chezy, familia. 97 00:05:51,870 --> 00:05:53,110 Okay, 2023. 98 00:05:53,830 --> 00:05:55,110 Okay, let's start it off right. 99 00:05:56,750 --> 00:05:57,709 Daddy -o. 100 00:05:57,710 --> 00:05:58,710 Yo, yo. 101 00:05:58,970 --> 00:06:00,050 Family meeting time. 102 00:06:00,490 --> 00:06:03,130 First, I was just kind of thinking maybe we could talk about some of the stuff 103 00:06:03,130 --> 00:06:06,710 that, you know, we've been working on and some of the goals that we have for 104 00:06:06,710 --> 00:06:08,990 2023. I wrote some stuff in my notebook. 105 00:06:09,550 --> 00:06:10,990 I think it's over here. 106 00:06:13,030 --> 00:06:14,330 Oh, my God! 107 00:06:15,350 --> 00:06:16,350 What? 108 00:06:20,900 --> 00:06:22,860 What is happening? 109 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,820 Nobody's throwing me. What? I missed it. 110 00:06:26,140 --> 00:06:27,140 Oh, my God. 111 00:06:27,280 --> 00:06:30,660 Turn around, babe. Mommy's a slow one. 112 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:32,400 Congrats. 113 00:06:34,420 --> 00:06:36,360 Oh, fantastic. 114 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:40,580 Oh, my God. No way. She slept all damn Christmas holiday. 115 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:46,440 True blessing. 116 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:47,680 Yeah, that is amazing. 117 00:06:48,380 --> 00:06:52,060 Unbelievable. So, I mean, okay, so... We started looking at apartments. 118 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,260 Yeah, we decided to live in the same community. 119 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,600 Oh, wait, so you guys have already identified an apartment? 120 00:06:58,820 --> 00:07:00,260 That we like, yeah. Yeah, that we like. 121 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:05,320 It certainly doesn't help for wanting a second child with my family wanting to 122 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:06,099 move out. 123 00:07:06,100 --> 00:07:07,100 I actually... 124 00:07:07,710 --> 00:07:11,050 I'm okay with finding a nanny or finding someone else to help. 125 00:07:11,270 --> 00:07:14,930 It's a lot of things, just a lot of things. It's just making it challenging 126 00:07:14,930 --> 00:07:16,970 your girl. You're going to be a big brother. 127 00:07:17,410 --> 00:07:18,990 Mommy and Daddy are having a baby. 128 00:07:19,710 --> 00:07:20,710 When? 129 00:07:22,930 --> 00:07:23,970 Congratulations, guys. 130 00:07:24,190 --> 00:07:25,189 Thank you. 131 00:07:25,190 --> 00:07:26,190 Oh, 132 00:07:30,250 --> 00:07:35,610 this is super cute. 133 00:07:37,500 --> 00:07:38,900 I'm about to beat you on everything. 134 00:07:42,340 --> 00:07:44,520 Ooh, let's vote. That looks fun, too. 135 00:07:44,740 --> 00:07:45,740 It's like little balls. 136 00:07:45,860 --> 00:07:46,860 How we doing today? 137 00:07:46,980 --> 00:07:48,320 Good. You guys know what you want to eat today? 138 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,980 I think we're going to do the wings, sweet potato fries. 139 00:07:51,260 --> 00:07:52,900 Yes. Then two side cars. 140 00:07:53,100 --> 00:07:54,860 I got that working for you. Thank you. My pleasure. 141 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,800 Ooh, baby, it's out on the safe. Ooh, 142 00:08:00,100 --> 00:08:01,320 date night is very needed. 143 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:03,120 Come on now. 144 00:08:03,530 --> 00:08:07,890 I mean, Ralph and I have not been keeping up with our weekly date night 145 00:08:07,950 --> 00:08:08,669 Ken suggested. 146 00:08:08,670 --> 00:08:10,950 If I get a strike, you got to call me daddy, all right? Okay, okay, deal. 147 00:08:14,290 --> 00:08:15,290 Well, 148 00:08:15,370 --> 00:08:18,170 if I beat your score, you got to call me daddy, all right? Yeah, okay, that's 149 00:08:18,170 --> 00:08:21,410 what you're trying to do? Yeah. I'm still just looking to make sure that I 150 00:08:21,410 --> 00:08:24,330 doing all the things necessary and right to make this marriage work. 151 00:08:25,270 --> 00:08:29,290 Cheers. Hey, cheers to a date night, finally being able to just unwind, take 152 00:08:29,290 --> 00:08:30,290 some time to ourselves. 153 00:08:30,390 --> 00:08:31,470 Yes, amen. 154 00:08:31,830 --> 00:08:32,829 Cheers. 155 00:08:35,330 --> 00:08:36,330 This is good. 156 00:08:36,450 --> 00:08:38,030 Babe, did you enjoy the holidays? 157 00:08:38,370 --> 00:08:39,089 You know what? 158 00:08:39,090 --> 00:08:43,409 I think it was probably one of the best Christmases, honestly, because it was 159 00:08:43,409 --> 00:08:47,630 just very simple, very quiet, because it's like I've got the most happening 160 00:08:47,630 --> 00:08:50,650 my family, and then I've got the most happening with work, with the music. 161 00:08:50,730 --> 00:08:54,490 Because when are we finishing the EP? The movie with Todd and Candy. We 162 00:08:54,490 --> 00:08:55,490 closed the deal today. 163 00:08:55,770 --> 00:08:59,390 And then everything that's going on with Allison being here. I want to support 164 00:08:59,390 --> 00:09:00,970 her in this whole mental health event. 165 00:09:01,500 --> 00:09:05,140 I'm realizing I need this mental health retreat just as much, you know, as I 166 00:09:05,140 --> 00:09:07,960 thought I was doing it for everyone else. Are you okay, though? Do you think 167 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,440 that you're in a stable state? I mean, you see me. I feel like sometimes I have 168 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:12,199 a breakdown. 169 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,300 Sometimes I need a hug. 170 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:14,980 Sometimes I need to just talk. 171 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:20,560 We started marriage counseling together, but then out of nowhere, you just stop. 172 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:25,040 Ralph had an issue when Dr. Ken was holding him accountable for his bad 173 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:29,720 behavior. I have chosen to stay in counseling and continue my old growth 174 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:34,140 I noticed that I need to gain more independence in this relationship and 175 00:09:34,140 --> 00:09:36,700 afraid to speak up for how I'm feeling. 176 00:09:36,940 --> 00:09:40,060 I don't want to, like, put more pressure on you. 177 00:09:42,540 --> 00:09:43,680 He's going deep. 178 00:09:43,980 --> 00:09:47,610 One of the things that I even feel with marriage counseling is... It's just a 179 00:09:47,610 --> 00:09:51,830 difference in experience in general, I think. Sometimes you get to a certain 180 00:09:51,830 --> 00:09:55,890 point where you need to really, like, focus on the actual work, and you need 181 00:09:55,890 --> 00:09:59,670 start applying it. And I feel like sometimes with counseling, it's just, 182 00:09:59,670 --> 00:10:03,070 right, this topic, now this topic, now you've got this issue, but that's going 183 00:10:03,070 --> 00:10:04,070 to get us divorced. 184 00:10:04,630 --> 00:10:08,590 Like, I can say I've had less blowups than I've had last year. 185 00:10:09,410 --> 00:10:10,970 In fact, the king called you a maniac. 186 00:10:11,560 --> 00:10:12,560 A maniac? 187 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,520 You don't even understand what maniac even means. 188 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:18,100 I tried to give her steak and lobster that night. Like, I'm not talking about 189 00:10:18,100 --> 00:10:19,100 steal. She deserves a lunchable. 190 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:22,280 Would you agree? 191 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,300 But I'm doing work, though. Babe, what are you doing? No, no, no, no, no. 192 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:26,360 Listen, listen, listen, listen. 193 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:30,000 Babe, come on. You got to measure it on the frequency of making sure it can 194 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,740 reduce the occurrences that they actually happen. 195 00:10:33,100 --> 00:10:34,740 This is very intellectual that I'm saying. 196 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:40,300 I graduated early, so don't think I'm not following. I can't change you. I 197 00:10:40,300 --> 00:10:44,220 force you. And I'm not going to mother you. 198 00:10:44,660 --> 00:10:46,220 All I can do is worry about my girl. 199 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,020 I don't care if you get mad or not. 200 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:59,560 I can't change you. I can't force you. And I'm not going to mother you. 201 00:11:01,060 --> 00:11:02,060 Barbecuing. Yes. 202 00:11:03,340 --> 00:11:04,600 Thank you. 203 00:11:06,010 --> 00:11:08,950 Good. And some buffalo for you guys. 204 00:11:09,210 --> 00:11:10,530 All right. Thank you. Perfect. 205 00:11:11,990 --> 00:11:17,110 I'm not going to lie. I think that it's important for you to meet me halfway to 206 00:11:17,110 --> 00:11:21,310 continue to do the work together because I'm not single. I'm married. 207 00:11:21,830 --> 00:11:24,650 And I just need you to show up. 208 00:11:24,890 --> 00:11:31,710 I also need support in the movie that I'm doing with Todd because this movie 209 00:11:31,710 --> 00:11:34,990 is going to take me away for 10 days. 210 00:11:35,390 --> 00:11:39,790 So it's going to take up a lot of time, but when it comes to the kids and the 211 00:11:39,790 --> 00:11:43,470 house, I want to make sure you're okay because I'm not going to be around. 212 00:11:44,330 --> 00:11:45,330 We got a little problem. 213 00:11:46,650 --> 00:11:49,470 What? I'm going to be real with you. You're now booked and busy. 214 00:11:50,230 --> 00:11:51,390 I've always been busy. 215 00:11:51,790 --> 00:11:54,950 I'm going to step up as much as I can, but there's a bottom line that I got to 216 00:11:54,950 --> 00:11:58,430 make sure of, and it's money. Like you see Todd, he has daddy daycare. 217 00:11:58,930 --> 00:11:59,930 I'm not daddy daycare. 218 00:12:00,110 --> 00:12:03,610 He doesn't travel as much as me and as much as I'm going to be. 2023. 219 00:12:04,620 --> 00:12:06,100 It is going to be a challenging year. 220 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:09,920 Do you think anything happened between Ralph and the video producer when he 221 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:10,920 traveled to Vegas? 222 00:12:11,020 --> 00:12:12,700 No, I really don't feel that way. 223 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:14,560 More so it's about Ralph and I. 224 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:20,520 Anything can place a wedge between us now because we're not on a solid 225 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,080 foundation. We're going to another level. 226 00:12:23,340 --> 00:12:28,340 You know, ideally I want to be like Barack and Obama. 227 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:30,260 Barack and Obama. 228 00:12:30,540 --> 00:12:31,540 I'm sorry. 229 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:32,739 I'm drunk. 230 00:12:32,740 --> 00:12:33,740 I'm drunk. I'm drunk. 231 00:12:34,210 --> 00:12:35,890 I'm talking to you like Ike and Tina. 232 00:12:36,450 --> 00:12:38,610 No, no, no, not crazy Ike, like regular. 233 00:12:38,830 --> 00:12:39,830 Let me show you. 234 00:12:40,030 --> 00:12:41,030 Let me get back on this game. 235 00:12:41,190 --> 00:12:42,670 You tell me, where's Michelle? 236 00:12:42,970 --> 00:12:44,190 Hey, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 237 00:12:44,450 --> 00:12:46,850 Michelle, I mean, Michelle, baby, you to Michelle. 238 00:12:47,990 --> 00:12:49,270 You know what, let's just go. 239 00:12:49,530 --> 00:12:50,890 You forget you have a wife, I swear. 240 00:13:19,980 --> 00:13:21,240 The strip salad. 241 00:13:21,460 --> 00:13:24,140 I thought you might be dropping carbs right now. 242 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,780 So you can stay looking all sexy. 243 00:13:27,940 --> 00:13:29,200 What you got going on? 244 00:13:29,620 --> 00:13:31,160 Girl, you know I'm building out the salon. 245 00:13:31,660 --> 00:13:32,880 Yes, how is that coming along? 246 00:13:33,180 --> 00:13:36,680 Like, it's coming along. So now we're ready to put drywall up. 247 00:13:37,020 --> 00:13:40,740 So that might take... Uh -oh, let me go get the door. I'll be right back. 248 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:59,000 Spinach, chopped salad. It looks good. I'll take it. You want... You want... 249 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,900 Madame, is this to your liking? 250 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:04,160 You know, 251 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:12,000 so at Brooklyn's new school, we have to have cloth napkins in her lunchbox. 252 00:14:12,140 --> 00:14:13,140 Yeah, every day. 253 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:16,300 Where does mommy tell you you have to put the napkin? 254 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,040 In my lap, but the teacher doesn't want me. 255 00:14:19,260 --> 00:14:20,260 Okay. 256 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:21,880 I don't know why not. 257 00:14:22,380 --> 00:14:23,380 That's where they go. 258 00:14:23,870 --> 00:14:26,730 Oh, I need to do better with my child. So they make sure they put them on their 259 00:14:26,730 --> 00:14:27,730 lap. 260 00:14:27,930 --> 00:14:33,510 You know, and occasionally, you know, when I cook or have someone cook, you 261 00:14:33,510 --> 00:14:35,230 know. What you mean have somebody cook? 262 00:14:36,070 --> 00:14:39,090 Because I can pop the bottle for celebratory reasons now. 263 00:14:39,750 --> 00:14:44,570 Well, possibly, which is why I like that you girls are here, because I am 264 00:14:44,570 --> 00:14:46,450 thinking about having another baby. 265 00:14:49,370 --> 00:14:50,370 Who's going to be the daddy? 266 00:14:50,570 --> 00:14:52,070 Yeah. I still have. 267 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:53,360 embryos frozen. 268 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:55,120 So, Mark. 269 00:14:56,540 --> 00:14:57,540 Okay. 270 00:14:59,580 --> 00:15:03,100 I am a little concerned about this. 271 00:15:03,380 --> 00:15:04,680 He said you can still use them? 272 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:09,280 When we signed the paperwork, it asked you, you can only choose one person. 273 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:13,880 And I was chosen. Yeah, see, that's the thing. You did right. I need to get 274 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,720 tested again. So she's going to do the ultrasound. 275 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,800 Medically speaking, it's so many things that can go wrong. 276 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:26,440 It's so many things. But now you have a surrogate. I have a surrogate. Yeah. 277 00:15:26,740 --> 00:15:27,740 Thank you. 278 00:15:29,580 --> 00:15:33,820 Everybody knows that I went through a surrogate to have Blaze. 279 00:15:34,300 --> 00:15:38,480 Shadina has been a blessing to us, and I want to say thank you. Well, Shadina, 280 00:15:38,500 --> 00:15:42,680 my surrogate, is also Shamia's. I got her baby mama! 281 00:15:43,140 --> 00:15:44,160 Shadina is amazing. 282 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:47,680 I feel like if I had a surrogate... 283 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:49,860 would I feel jealous? 284 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:53,080 When your baby gets here, it's going to be the same exact feeling. They're going 285 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:56,520 to have you in the hospital, in the bed. They're checking you in, too. 286 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,720 And you're going to have that baby with you bonding. 287 00:15:59,060 --> 00:16:01,720 So it's definitely something you've got to be just comfortable with in yourself 288 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:04,540 to be like, I don't care what nobody else thinks. Because you're going to get 289 00:16:04,540 --> 00:16:07,540 many people to be like, oh, you're only doing it because you're vain. Yeah, you 290 00:16:07,540 --> 00:16:11,420 don't want to ruin your body. Not because I'm vain. No, they're vain about 291 00:16:11,420 --> 00:16:15,420 vagina. They're like, we want to be nice. Girl, that thing will snap right 292 00:16:15,500 --> 00:16:16,900 especially if you're doing those exercises. 293 00:16:18,090 --> 00:16:21,110 Why would you say that I started doing them? She's doing them right now. Like, 294 00:16:21,150 --> 00:16:22,250 one minute. Oh, okay. 295 00:16:24,030 --> 00:16:25,550 Are you going to tell, Mark? 296 00:16:25,930 --> 00:16:27,870 I think I have to. Or are you just going to just do it? 297 00:16:28,190 --> 00:16:31,750 No, I think I have to. Okay, so if he doesn't give you his blessing, are you 298 00:16:31,750 --> 00:16:32,750 doing it anyway? 299 00:16:34,490 --> 00:16:36,450 I'm going to answer it for you. I would proceed. 300 00:16:38,050 --> 00:16:44,670 So crazy. I wish you had been around. Like, it's been so many crazy days going 301 00:16:44,670 --> 00:16:45,349 on, girl. 302 00:16:45,350 --> 00:16:47,030 It has been so mean. 303 00:16:47,230 --> 00:16:51,150 I think you... What's been going on? Catch me up. Y 'all are good with Sharae 304 00:16:51,150 --> 00:16:51,729 right now. 305 00:16:51,730 --> 00:16:53,250 Yeah. Is she still dating Martel? 306 00:16:53,510 --> 00:16:58,050 You revealed the tea about him asking all the ladies for a cash out to pay for 307 00:16:58,050 --> 00:17:00,870 their dinner. He didn't pay for her birthday dinner. Say, who told you that? 308 00:17:00,950 --> 00:17:03,030 Girl, it was Marlo and Sonya. 309 00:17:03,230 --> 00:17:05,369 The bill was $1 ,500. 310 00:17:05,970 --> 00:17:07,569 I spent $1 ,500 today. 311 00:17:07,950 --> 00:17:11,589 I said, Martel, if it's even your last $1 ,500, just go ahead and front the 312 00:17:11,589 --> 00:17:15,970 bill. I find it quite funny that she didn't invite me to the birthday dinner. 313 00:17:16,460 --> 00:17:19,460 But the people that she did invite are going in on her man. 314 00:17:19,700 --> 00:17:24,980 At least when I say stuff, I say it out in the open. He was like, all the ladies 315 00:17:24,980 --> 00:17:26,700 that were there, he asked them to cash up. 316 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:28,240 That's a word. 317 00:17:29,020 --> 00:17:30,420 But I'm the thirsty one. 318 00:17:30,660 --> 00:17:31,660 Please, sir. 319 00:17:31,780 --> 00:17:32,780 Right. 320 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:34,500 Coming up next. 321 00:17:34,820 --> 00:17:35,820 Hey, husband. 322 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:37,320 Oh, you just? 323 00:17:37,620 --> 00:17:41,900 Yeah, he just got here. Ralph literally went around the room and hugged everyone 324 00:17:41,900 --> 00:17:43,200 except for her. 325 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:02,280 So, Gotti's been rolling around in the dirt, and he needs a good washing. His 326 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,380 normal groomer couldn't get him in today. I've never done this before. 327 00:18:05,780 --> 00:18:07,520 All right, I'll help Mom out a little bit. 328 00:18:07,740 --> 00:18:11,460 Look, I've dealt with a lot of dogs in my life, but Gotti's number one in my 329 00:18:11,460 --> 00:18:16,200 book. Good boy, Gotti. He likes to be cleaned. He is in heaven right now. 330 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:17,440 He's a great listener. 331 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:23,280 Like Martell, Gotti's the ideal partner. 332 00:18:23,740 --> 00:18:25,840 I'm going to allow you to pick out a few treats. 333 00:18:26,060 --> 00:18:27,220 Oh, let me see. 334 00:18:27,580 --> 00:18:28,580 Hey. 335 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:29,760 Hey, can you hear me? 336 00:18:29,900 --> 00:18:33,100 Listen, you are not going to guess what I just got finished doing. 337 00:18:33,420 --> 00:18:34,139 What's that? 338 00:18:34,140 --> 00:18:38,940 I actually bathed Gotti. He got out this morning, and he was rolling in the 339 00:18:38,940 --> 00:18:40,340 grass and in the dirt. 340 00:18:40,900 --> 00:18:42,720 I can't see you doing all of that. 341 00:18:42,980 --> 00:18:43,980 I know. Me, though. 342 00:18:44,380 --> 00:18:45,820 It's the first time for a lot of things. 343 00:18:46,420 --> 00:18:48,160 Yeah. You're on your way to the airport? 344 00:18:48,460 --> 00:18:51,320 Yeah, yeah. I'll be there in, like, eight minutes. I'm speeding, too. 345 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,180 I know. You got to go. Yeah, I'm going to call you when I get up here and get 346 00:18:54,180 --> 00:18:55,039 seated, okay? 347 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:59,100 Okay. So Martel and I have both been swamped with our work schedule. 348 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:03,520 But I was so happy that, you know, he was able to come for New Year's and for 349 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:06,020 birthday. What did we're filling in for your birthday? 350 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:09,580 An Alexander McQueen bag. 351 00:19:10,540 --> 00:19:11,640 Yeah, I was really shocked. 352 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,280 I don't even want to say this because I'm going to keep it. But he doesn't buy 353 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:17,880 the expensive high -end labels. 354 00:19:18,460 --> 00:19:20,340 Okay. Okay. All right. Bye -bye. Okay. Bye -bye. 355 00:19:21,070 --> 00:19:22,130 You find some good treats? 356 00:19:22,410 --> 00:19:25,130 Well, we got a couple of things that we're going to send Gotti home with. 357 00:19:25,250 --> 00:19:30,090 Perfect. I see a future. I mean, it's been maybe about six months. The status 358 00:19:30,090 --> 00:19:34,070 our relationship right now is just we're enjoying life. We're enjoying each 359 00:19:34,070 --> 00:19:36,670 other. We're having fun. It's complicated. 360 00:19:37,030 --> 00:19:38,210 It's just a lot of things. 361 00:19:38,490 --> 00:19:39,510 Would you like to start a points account? 362 00:19:39,990 --> 00:19:42,450 Yes. All right. What is the best? 363 00:19:42,830 --> 00:19:47,510 Okay. The best one is at AOL. 364 00:19:48,890 --> 00:19:50,170 No, I still use AOL. 365 00:19:50,700 --> 00:19:51,760 I wasn't going to say anything. 366 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:03,760 Hello. 367 00:20:05,120 --> 00:20:06,700 Hi. What's up, girl? 368 00:20:06,900 --> 00:20:07,900 Hello. 369 00:20:09,180 --> 00:20:15,700 I have so much going on. 370 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,320 Exactly. Between the script and the music. 371 00:20:18,900 --> 00:20:22,640 Starting off strong, girl. It's been really awkward between Drew and I. 372 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:25,380 Y 'all not going to be sitting up here trying to act like I'm making up lies 373 00:20:25,380 --> 00:20:28,720 about y 'all. I think she was fantasizing because I know I didn't get 374 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:34,120 only reason why it got so big for me is because she was calling me a liar. 375 00:20:34,660 --> 00:20:37,240 So after I got past that, it's stupid. 376 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:40,780 Now Candy has not apologized to me for the whole Latoya. 377 00:20:41,929 --> 00:20:45,950 situation. However, I'm at peace with it because I just know what the truth is. 378 00:20:46,090 --> 00:20:50,430 So I'm going to do this movie, and I'm excited to do it, and I'm just ready to 379 00:20:50,430 --> 00:20:51,349 move on. 380 00:20:51,350 --> 00:20:54,310 And then also, I sent you the text for my mental health retreat. 381 00:20:54,590 --> 00:20:56,470 So it should be awesome. 382 00:20:56,770 --> 00:20:57,770 We started a bureau. 383 00:20:58,190 --> 00:21:00,690 Work it. Look, work it. Booked and busy. 384 00:21:01,130 --> 00:21:02,130 Booked and busy. 385 00:21:02,750 --> 00:21:07,470 I just wanted to welcome everybody to the table read for the past. 386 00:21:07,770 --> 00:21:09,870 I've been working on this thing for a minute. You know what I mean? 387 00:21:10,510 --> 00:21:14,450 You know, being secure, insecure about it, and my wife been pushing me. She's 388 00:21:14,450 --> 00:21:17,770 like, man, just go in and do it, go in and do it. So everything happens at the 389 00:21:17,770 --> 00:21:19,810 right time, and we're going to make magic. 390 00:21:20,110 --> 00:21:26,430 Right now, my priority is the restaurant and then the movie. 391 00:21:26,890 --> 00:21:27,890 Really? 392 00:21:28,510 --> 00:21:29,530 But I found it good. 393 00:21:31,830 --> 00:21:35,730 We'll turn it over to our director, Bobby Huntley, and we'll get the reading 394 00:21:35,730 --> 00:21:39,390 started. I really need this movie to happen. 395 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:46,000 for himself. My career has been the priority and he has been supportive of 396 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,060 career and the things that I've wanted to do. 397 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:49,880 Don't tell me what I need to happen for myself. 398 00:21:51,020 --> 00:21:52,020 Yeah, you do. 399 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,060 I do need my movie to happen. 400 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,680 I think the movie is more a passion thing that we need to make happen. 401 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,820 We're going to go ahead and read through this script and let's go ahead and jump 402 00:22:02,820 --> 00:22:03,820 into it. Let's do it. 403 00:22:04,940 --> 00:22:07,960 Interior, Baptiste home, kitchen, evening. 404 00:22:08,570 --> 00:22:12,630 Nina pours a glass of wine for Etta Franklin, her mother. She hands it to 405 00:22:14,370 --> 00:22:15,370 Ma, 406 00:22:16,870 --> 00:22:17,829 don't start. 407 00:22:17,830 --> 00:22:19,390 He does pretty great consulting. 408 00:22:19,650 --> 00:22:23,350 I just hope I don't get so busy that I won't have time, you know, to grow our 409 00:22:23,350 --> 00:22:26,830 family. Would your client like to respond to this evidence? 410 00:22:27,510 --> 00:22:29,970 Could this be because of your past? 411 00:22:30,910 --> 00:22:32,310 What is she talking about? 412 00:22:34,580 --> 00:22:38,020 Girl, me and Dan have this past thing. Taking on another partner? 413 00:22:38,260 --> 00:22:40,740 Ooh, girl, I must be rubbing off on you. 414 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,140 I don't know how you could ever do that. 415 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,960 If he's going to go out and get it, I'd rather know about it. 416 00:22:48,420 --> 00:22:49,420 All right. 417 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:56,540 I swear none of this has anything to do with my life. 418 00:22:57,860 --> 00:22:59,160 We do not do passes. 419 00:22:59,700 --> 00:23:00,900 Etta is not Mama Joy. 420 00:23:02,620 --> 00:23:06,060 And just so everybody knows, we start shooting Monday. 421 00:23:06,380 --> 00:23:08,100 It's a very aggressive schedule. 422 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,760 So if you're two hours late, it's going to cost me a lot of money. And we 423 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,620 appreciate you guys so much, too. We're going to set these lines up. You hear 424 00:23:14,620 --> 00:23:15,940 me? Coming up. 425 00:23:16,140 --> 00:23:20,720 Just wanted you to be honest with me because I think that this is really sad 426 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:24,100 you. I just feel like this is too much. 427 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,039 A survivor. 428 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,320 I like the fire. 429 00:23:35,740 --> 00:23:38,060 I met the fighter. 430 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,260 She's a survivor. 431 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,640 This is... Look at the shots, though. 432 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:46,600 Oh, 433 00:23:47,020 --> 00:23:50,520 my God. Are you guys here to see your health? What is in here? 434 00:23:50,780 --> 00:23:53,600 Well, we have a little bit of turmeric and all the good things for your health. 435 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,220 You ladies enjoy. 436 00:23:55,540 --> 00:23:56,680 Okay, thank you. Thank you, ladies. 437 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,960 This mental health retreat came about just due to my sister's journey dealing 438 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,760 with mental health and really me learning things about her that I never 439 00:24:05,980 --> 00:24:09,860 I just didn't know anything about what you were dealing with. The guy dated at 440 00:24:09,860 --> 00:24:16,840 22 and he beat the crap out of me. That started bad dreams, anxiety, and PTSD. 441 00:24:17,540 --> 00:24:24,260 This day is intended to educate us all and to help us with our own 442 00:24:24,260 --> 00:24:25,980 individual mental health challenges. 443 00:24:32,730 --> 00:24:37,610 We transformed the mess. Oh, my goodness. Right now. Oh, my God. 444 00:24:37,930 --> 00:24:41,710 As soon as you walk in, you feel it. It's just going to be a very holistic 445 00:24:41,770 --> 00:24:45,510 We've got brain -boosting foods. We're going to do a drop -in with Drew 446 00:24:45,850 --> 00:24:46,970 We're going to do some meditation. 447 00:24:47,570 --> 00:24:52,130 Everything Allison did while in the hospital to recover, restore, and get 448 00:24:52,130 --> 00:24:53,130 out in the world. 449 00:25:12,590 --> 00:25:13,870 How hot you look, that's your birthday. 450 00:25:14,070 --> 00:25:15,070 Oh, yeah! 451 00:25:15,550 --> 00:25:16,550 Birthday, babe. 452 00:25:16,770 --> 00:25:17,770 Birthday, babe. 453 00:25:17,970 --> 00:25:18,970 No, thank you. 454 00:25:41,900 --> 00:25:45,700 Is Ralph having some kind of mental breakdown because does he not see his 455 00:25:45,700 --> 00:25:47,060 there? Hey, husband. 456 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,040 Oh, you just? 457 00:25:49,420 --> 00:25:51,240 Yeah, he just got here. I've been here. 458 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,920 Ralph literally went around the room and hugged everyone except for her. 459 00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:00,620 Wait for a hug. I haven't seen him. He's been out all day. 460 00:26:00,820 --> 00:26:05,060 After date night, Ralph has been distant, but him showing late and then 461 00:26:05,060 --> 00:26:07,320 acknowledging everyone else but me, it's embarrassing. 462 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,020 This is typical Ralph when he feels disrespected. 463 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:15,220 Instead of speaking his mind and saying how he feels, he was being so cold. 464 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:22,380 I thought 465 00:26:22,380 --> 00:26:28,460 she was coming to get me. 466 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:33,560 Everybody find a space. We're ready to start. 467 00:26:34,170 --> 00:26:38,470 So Dr. K, she has been working with Allison since my sister has been on a 468 00:26:38,470 --> 00:26:42,570 journey just bettering her mental health. You know, she has some, what is 469 00:26:42,570 --> 00:26:44,470 called? Mental mishaps. 470 00:26:44,770 --> 00:26:47,710 That's the new word. That's going to be the new word. I'm learning so much. 471 00:26:48,130 --> 00:26:50,790 I just want to tell a little bit about my story because I don't know if you 472 00:26:50,790 --> 00:26:54,910 know. In 2020, I started having anxiety attacks and panic attacks. 473 00:26:55,450 --> 00:27:00,530 And I called 911 so many times that they ended up transferring me to a 474 00:27:00,530 --> 00:27:02,450 psychiatric hospital where I spent 19 days. 475 00:27:02,940 --> 00:27:07,160 We know as black people, we don't talk about things. It's very stigmatized. And 476 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,099 I'm going to get through this. 477 00:27:08,100 --> 00:27:14,000 So I just want to offer this gift to you of what saved my life because it does 478 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:15,000 work. 479 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:22,160 I am so proud of my sister and her strength to be able to talk about her 480 00:27:26,580 --> 00:27:29,220 Everybody find a space. We're going to get started. 481 00:27:29,700 --> 00:27:31,560 All right, don't go too hard now, Will. 482 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:33,260 Dropping with Drew, baby. Come on. 483 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,080 Oh. 484 00:27:35,260 --> 00:27:39,140 Six, seven, eight, nine, ten. 485 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,680 Oh, my God. Dropping with Drew was amazing. 486 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,780 We're still having our 21 -day challenges. 487 00:27:44,860 --> 00:27:48,880 I dropped it with Drew once, and that was an epic fail. Let me see. This 488 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:49,859 bad working. 489 00:27:49,860 --> 00:27:51,240 Oh, oh, oh. 490 00:27:52,180 --> 00:27:53,200 404 not found. 491 00:27:53,460 --> 00:27:54,580 Lord, it didn't drop it. 492 00:27:55,150 --> 00:27:56,670 The internet then dropped it again. 493 00:28:00,230 --> 00:28:05,650 Next up is the meditation studio with Sister Jenna. We're going old school 494 00:28:05,650 --> 00:28:07,890 today, men. Say and talk amongst yourselves. 495 00:28:08,110 --> 00:28:10,350 And you must take your shoes off. 496 00:28:10,770 --> 00:28:12,590 I don't have any socks. 497 00:28:15,030 --> 00:28:16,590 Now we'll do the meditation. 498 00:28:17,050 --> 00:28:21,710 So what I'd like you to do is to imagine that you're in a search inside of 499 00:28:21,710 --> 00:28:23,410 yourself for something really deep. 500 00:28:23,900 --> 00:28:27,720 something that the world hasn't been able to give you yet to make you feel 501 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:28,720 complete. 502 00:28:29,620 --> 00:28:34,280 And somehow, someway, the divine whispered something to you to show you 503 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,160 you've been trying to catch on your own. 504 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:41,220 I'm really surprised. The mental health event looks very nice. This is the 505 00:28:41,220 --> 00:28:42,220 reason for the healing trip. 506 00:28:42,300 --> 00:28:43,300 Let it go. 507 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,320 Let it flow. 508 00:28:45,060 --> 00:28:46,800 I'm glad that she was so inspired. 509 00:28:47,060 --> 00:28:47,939 Good job, Sheree. 510 00:28:47,940 --> 00:28:48,879 Good job. 511 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,360 I do not want to breathe in, breathe out. It smells. 512 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,660 I don't know if it's they feed or if it's them from them working out and they 513 00:28:55,660 --> 00:28:56,700 ain't put on any deodorant. 514 00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:02,040 I know we're here for the brain, but there's a fool down there. 515 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:04,520 What's up, Kiana? 516 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:05,600 Come on. 517 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,160 Good to see you. Hello, y 'all. Good to see you also. 518 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,400 You good? 519 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:11,560 Oh. 520 00:29:13,180 --> 00:29:14,660 Slowly open your eyes. 521 00:29:24,620 --> 00:29:25,820 I needed this retreat. 522 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,080 My blood pressure been high. 523 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,700 Stress. My group is falling apart. 524 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,300 I got friends who say I'm not really there for them. 525 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,980 We're trying to get this movie done. It's not everything. 526 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:43,400 I don't know. I need a who's thought moment. 527 00:29:43,780 --> 00:29:45,320 We're going to meet in the dining room. 528 00:29:46,700 --> 00:29:48,120 How'd it go the other day in court, man? 529 00:29:48,380 --> 00:29:51,440 You know what? It's still one of those situations. Somebody goes and comes into 530 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,400 your house and decides they want to try to sue you. 531 00:29:53,870 --> 00:29:56,450 and exploit you just because they feel like they can. 532 00:29:56,710 --> 00:29:59,250 You gotta be careful with that many people in your house, though. 533 00:29:59,450 --> 00:30:02,990 Man, I really don't want nobody in my house. This table setting is beautiful. 534 00:30:03,410 --> 00:30:06,890 It seems like y 'all be catching hell with these, you know, assistants. 535 00:30:07,250 --> 00:30:10,850 And that's just from the outside looking in. Nah, we do. For real. No shading. 536 00:30:10,990 --> 00:30:12,910 I'm just saying as a friend, bro, you know. 537 00:30:14,410 --> 00:30:15,410 Nice me a Portugal. 538 00:30:16,170 --> 00:30:17,290 After the meditation. 539 00:30:17,870 --> 00:30:19,730 Yep. Continue with the journey. 540 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:26,940 I think, too, like for me, because specifically when we were in Portugal, 541 00:30:26,940 --> 00:30:28,980 did have a moment of vulnerability with you guys. 542 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:33,180 And I didn't even feel comfortable, you know, just to open up so I ran. 543 00:30:33,380 --> 00:30:37,400 I am a work in progress. And we all are. Drew. 544 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:39,600 I didn't know what was going on. 545 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,400 And then you explained to me that, you know, that was a really tough moment for 546 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,700 you and that you were going through a lot. 547 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,520 And I do know that recently you went to court. 548 00:30:49,740 --> 00:30:50,740 How did that go? 549 00:30:52,530 --> 00:30:53,730 Um, would you win? 550 00:31:03,630 --> 00:31:05,950 I do know that recently you went to court. 551 00:31:06,190 --> 00:31:11,870 Do you want to talk about it? Um... What do you feel would be the proper justice 552 00:31:11,870 --> 00:31:12,870 for you? 553 00:31:13,250 --> 00:31:17,350 Honestly, just for her to go away, get thrown out, you know, but I think 554 00:31:17,350 --> 00:31:19,070 -stealing is a strong statement. 555 00:31:19,490 --> 00:31:21,190 So we'll get the official verdict. 556 00:31:21,630 --> 00:31:23,050 It's going to be 30 days. 557 00:31:23,310 --> 00:31:28,610 What happened? What happened with this court case? Oh, no, this girl wanted an 558 00:31:28,610 --> 00:31:30,390 opportunity to see if we would hire her as our chef. 559 00:31:30,670 --> 00:31:33,650 So she brought the pans of food over, and there was hair in the food, like 560 00:31:33,650 --> 00:31:35,350 hair. Hair and stuff like that. 561 00:31:36,470 --> 00:31:38,070 So, you know, she was like, 562 00:31:38,910 --> 00:31:41,790 what other opportunities do you have? We was like, hey, we got another 563 00:31:41,790 --> 00:31:43,490 opportunity to be like a nanny. 564 00:31:43,710 --> 00:31:47,590 We did an interview. She walked in the house, got a plate, wasn't really. 565 00:31:48,010 --> 00:31:49,230 You know, interacting with my kids. 566 00:31:49,550 --> 00:31:52,510 It didn't work out either. You know, it was like, all right, thank you so much. 567 00:31:52,710 --> 00:31:56,110 We don't need your services, whatever. She sends an invoice for $1 ,000. 568 00:31:56,430 --> 00:31:57,430 Like, wait, what? 569 00:31:57,610 --> 00:32:00,370 She kept persisting. When am I getting paid? I need my money. You better give 570 00:32:00,370 --> 00:32:03,590 my money. And then a year later, a sheriff shows up at my door to serve me 571 00:32:03,590 --> 00:32:05,430 paper. She upped it to $10 ,000. 572 00:32:05,850 --> 00:32:07,790 From $1 ,000 to $10 ,000? Uh -huh. Yeah. 573 00:32:08,550 --> 00:32:09,550 So, yeah. 574 00:32:09,830 --> 00:32:12,110 Thank you for asking, though. I do appreciate it. 575 00:32:12,350 --> 00:32:14,870 I thought it was $1 ,000. So it's $10 ,000 now? 576 00:32:15,150 --> 00:32:17,310 These stories be changing up and stuff. 577 00:32:19,340 --> 00:32:20,340 1K, 10K. 578 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:21,800 Okay. 579 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,700 Now, let's talk about the new year. The new year, you had a birthday charade. 580 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,600 What was at dinner? Tell us about the dinner, because I saw you posting on 581 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:29,600 social media. 582 00:32:29,620 --> 00:32:35,240 Well, you already know. I'm just kidding. I was booking movies, and I was 583 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:40,480 scrolling, so I saw a few things. So I had some of my girlfriends that I've 584 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:41,740 known for over 30 years. 585 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:42,960 I was there, of course. 586 00:32:43,340 --> 00:32:44,980 Miss Bailey was there. Yeah. 587 00:32:45,180 --> 00:32:47,200 Marlo came in. Courtney was there. 588 00:32:47,420 --> 00:32:49,440 Sonya was there. Wait, hold on. 589 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,640 Did Cherie say that she was inviting people that she's known 30 years? But 590 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,920 Courtney, Marlo, and Sonya get invited. 591 00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,440 But I don't get invited. 592 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,960 So you known these bitches longer than you know me. 593 00:33:03,930 --> 00:33:04,809 I don't know. 594 00:33:04,810 --> 00:33:08,090 Sharae has been different with me lately. And, you know, and I don't know. 595 00:33:08,090 --> 00:33:09,370 we just are growing apart. 596 00:33:09,690 --> 00:33:12,970 People come out for me. OK. People show up for Sharae. Is my invitation locked 597 00:33:12,970 --> 00:33:13,829 in the mail? 598 00:33:13,830 --> 00:33:15,210 Both of ours is locked. 599 00:33:15,610 --> 00:33:18,770 Ralph just told me that your baby got sick. So you guys did not go to town. 600 00:33:18,790 --> 00:33:19,790 we didn't. That is true. 601 00:33:19,910 --> 00:33:22,610 Candy can't even show up for the group. So I know she's not about to show up for 602 00:33:22,610 --> 00:33:26,250 me at the last minute. You have not been showing up. 603 00:33:26,580 --> 00:33:29,940 I'm just surprised that I didn't even get a text. So what you're saying, 604 00:33:30,060 --> 00:33:33,060 is you just felt like you would have liked to have had the opportunity to say 605 00:33:33,060 --> 00:33:35,000 you were busy? You know you were not coming. 606 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,560 Girl, that is not true. I was at home that night, and I definitely would have 607 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,560 come. 608 00:33:40,620 --> 00:33:42,900 Okay, well, I apologize. I didn't think you would be able to come. 609 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,820 It was a small dinner. It was very last minute. 610 00:33:46,020 --> 00:33:48,360 And it was at Nobu, which is one of my favorite restaurants. 611 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,780 I was like, no, boo. Oh, yes, boo. I can definitely check you. Honestly, just 612 00:33:52,780 --> 00:33:56,700 figured maybe, you know, candy. Somewhere being Oprah, honey. So I just 613 00:33:56,700 --> 00:33:58,260 she was booked and busy. 614 00:33:58,460 --> 00:34:00,820 I actually do have a question, though. What is the question? 615 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,120 I did hear that you guys were kind of split. 616 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,620 Like, who's what? 617 00:34:07,610 --> 00:34:09,070 Portugal were all as one. 618 00:34:09,409 --> 00:34:13,750 Mayetta told us not too long ago that these three and Courtney were in an 619 00:34:13,750 --> 00:34:17,389 alliance. Wait, what was the word I used? Collusion. I witnessed a 620 00:34:17,550 --> 00:34:21,570 She said she witnessed a collusion? You thought it was a collusion? No. It was 621 00:34:21,570 --> 00:34:22,288 very intense. 622 00:34:22,290 --> 00:34:25,909 I had to go look that one up. Courtney was fighting for her life to try to 623 00:34:25,909 --> 00:34:30,409 that she was, you know, on your side. No, no, no. It was never on my side. It 624 00:34:30,409 --> 00:34:34,409 was telling the truth. That I knew her for years. Uh -huh, and you just met 625 00:34:34,409 --> 00:34:37,820 cousin. Cousin -in -law. Cousin -in -law. Yeah. You were talking. I think 626 00:34:37,820 --> 00:34:40,940 said something, too, about it. Well, I heard this. I heard that. And you called 627 00:34:40,940 --> 00:34:42,320 your cousin -in -law a bitch. 628 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:45,520 What? 629 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,080 I called who a bitch? You said the bitch said Drew. 630 00:34:48,300 --> 00:34:51,219 I called Drew a bitch. Do you guys remember that? I don't remember. A 631 00:34:51,219 --> 00:34:54,400 said Drew said, and then I said this to her, and I said that to her. And then 632 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,920 the bitch asked me about it. Wrong person. 633 00:34:57,340 --> 00:34:58,380 Oh, no. It was you, baby. 634 00:35:09,610 --> 00:35:13,710 Bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch. Out of all people, for it 635 00:35:13,710 --> 00:35:16,230 Courtney, I'm definitely confused at this moment. 636 00:35:17,170 --> 00:35:18,590 I say bitch 24 -7. 637 00:35:18,890 --> 00:35:20,790 I say like this, bitch, you look good. 638 00:35:21,270 --> 00:35:22,490 Bitch, what you doing today? 639 00:35:22,870 --> 00:35:25,490 Bitch, bitch, bitch, try me. Bitch, they got a lot of bitches. 640 00:35:25,810 --> 00:35:27,810 I definitely did not say that, Drew. 641 00:35:28,410 --> 00:35:32,530 We've had hiccups, but I would never call you or anyone else at this table a 642 00:35:32,530 --> 00:35:33,530 bitch. 643 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:39,980 It's a divide in this group. Even the cousins ain't cussing in right now. 644 00:35:40,660 --> 00:35:46,300 The food was very good. I never called you a bitch. I don't use the word bitch. 645 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:50,320 Bitch, I didn't. You just said bitch. You just said bitch. 646 00:35:50,700 --> 00:35:54,480 Like, the irony. Like, what in the hell? 647 00:35:57,940 --> 00:36:00,740 Is everybody out here? 648 00:36:01,190 --> 00:36:02,930 Let's get a quick picture for us. 649 00:36:03,450 --> 00:36:04,530 All right, ready, ready, ready? 650 00:36:05,210 --> 00:36:06,210 Yes. 651 00:36:06,990 --> 00:36:09,210 All right, cool, cool. 652 00:36:10,110 --> 00:36:14,470 All right. All right, open y 'all phones. Open y 'all phones real quick. 653 00:36:14,470 --> 00:36:15,470 'all phones. Open y 'all phones. 654 00:36:15,650 --> 00:36:16,650 I got it. 655 00:36:16,990 --> 00:36:19,430 Open y 'all phones. Make sure y 'all like how y 'all look. 656 00:36:50,670 --> 00:36:53,410 how Sonia does things? Girl, just tell us you're pregnant. Like, everything 657 00:36:53,410 --> 00:36:54,910 doesn't need to be a social media stunt. 658 00:36:55,290 --> 00:37:01,010 I am sure that that baby is already craving some jerk chicken and plantains 659 00:37:01,010 --> 00:37:01,769 the womb. 660 00:37:01,770 --> 00:37:05,130 Oh, my God. I am totally getting baby fever. 661 00:37:05,590 --> 00:37:06,970 I'm really happy for her. 662 00:37:08,230 --> 00:37:10,790 Congratulations. Thank you. I'm so happy for you. 663 00:37:20,830 --> 00:37:21,830 Coming up next. 664 00:37:21,970 --> 00:37:26,950 I didn't get married to get divorced, but it's just like, at what point are 665 00:37:26,950 --> 00:37:30,630 things going to turn around? At what point does someone want to fight for the 666 00:37:30,630 --> 00:37:31,630 marriage? 667 00:37:45,770 --> 00:37:48,390 This is my first session in person with Dr. Kim by myself. 668 00:37:48,810 --> 00:37:52,310 instead of trying to force someone that doesn't want to continue counseling. 669 00:37:52,410 --> 00:37:56,590 Like, I can't change anybody. So then when you get confronted with Ralph or 670 00:37:56,590 --> 00:37:59,710 something happens, you have the tools. Wait, I think Dr. Ken rang the doorbell. 671 00:37:59,830 --> 00:38:00,830 Oh, he did? Oh, 672 00:38:01,450 --> 00:38:04,170 thanks. Do I need to join this counseling session? 673 00:38:04,390 --> 00:38:07,910 Oh, my goodness. 674 00:38:08,390 --> 00:38:09,890 Live and in person. 675 00:38:10,890 --> 00:38:16,740 Hi. Hey, good to see you. You too. I feel like it's been so long. Ever since 676 00:38:16,740 --> 00:38:20,740 date night, things have been going downhill with Ralph and I. We're not 677 00:38:20,740 --> 00:38:22,700 talking. He moved out of the bedroom. 678 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,360 Our marriage is in a perpetual cycle. 679 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:29,740 Sometimes it's up, sometimes it's down. We try to go out, have a good time, but 680 00:38:29,740 --> 00:38:31,040 then things go left. 681 00:38:33,140 --> 00:38:34,580 I was thinking. 682 00:38:35,020 --> 00:38:40,320 Yes. You have been in counseling with me for really what? 683 00:38:40,620 --> 00:38:42,140 13, 14 months. 684 00:38:42,380 --> 00:38:45,180 And a lot of times, people back out of counseling. 685 00:38:45,540 --> 00:38:50,900 Ralph and I have been married for eight years. And in hindsight, we have been 686 00:38:50,900 --> 00:38:56,580 dealing with issues of transparency, of faithfulness, 687 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,200 of respect. 688 00:38:59,580 --> 00:39:01,220 I feel like you shouldn't leave your family. 689 00:39:01,460 --> 00:39:02,439 You're married. 690 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,120 I leave because I don't have a choice. 691 00:39:04,780 --> 00:39:08,260 You got to stop these stupid issues. Where were you? 692 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:12,220 Tampa. So he did bring in an assistant. 693 00:39:12,500 --> 00:39:15,060 She had texted him, I'll come to your house and give you a massage. 694 00:39:15,380 --> 00:39:18,960 That is all becoming challenging for me. 695 00:39:19,180 --> 00:39:20,880 How things going with Ralph now? 696 00:39:21,100 --> 00:39:22,280 You have gone on dates. 697 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:23,680 Yeah, we did. 698 00:39:23,720 --> 00:39:25,220 Yeah, we did. And that was fun. 699 00:39:25,820 --> 00:39:28,740 It kind of like spiraled into like a disagreement. 700 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,320 Counseling, it's just, all right, this topic, now this topic, now you got this 701 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:34,960 issue, but that's going to get us divorced. 702 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:40,840 I feel like I'm able to stand stronger in what I know is right for me. 703 00:39:41,580 --> 00:39:46,100 I'm willing to draw a line of boundaries whenever he decides to come around. 704 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,900 I think you're kind of saying nobody can gaslight me. 705 00:39:50,180 --> 00:39:54,220 Oh! Is that what you're saying? I mean, you woke up. I'm woke. 706 00:39:54,500 --> 00:39:59,020 Yeah, I will not be tumble -dry. Those days are gone. Those days are gone. And 707 00:39:59,020 --> 00:40:01,880 yet, where does that really leave your marriage, though? 708 00:40:04,020 --> 00:40:05,160 Like, questionable? 709 00:40:07,879 --> 00:40:09,660 Disconnected. How are you feeling right now? 710 00:40:13,420 --> 00:40:19,060 It's like the emotional awareness is still lacking, which is all I've ever 711 00:40:19,060 --> 00:40:22,360 for. Like, I just want you to care about my heart. I want you to care about how 712 00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,480 I feel. I want you to care about the things that are important to me. 713 00:40:24,860 --> 00:40:29,880 Is that your way of saying that you're believing that my husband doesn't care 714 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,020 about how I feel? 715 00:40:32,660 --> 00:40:33,660 Right. 716 00:40:34,860 --> 00:40:39,060 I feel like, you know, I didn't get married to get divorced, so I'm always 717 00:40:39,060 --> 00:40:44,980 willing to try, but it's just like, at what point are things going to turn 718 00:40:44,980 --> 00:40:48,860 around? At what point does someone want to fight for the marriage? Like, I'm 719 00:40:48,860 --> 00:40:53,440 still in counseling, but he's not. I hope that things can turn around, but 720 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,540 without him showing up and making effort, it's impossible. 721 00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:01,300 I'm definitely worried about the state of our relationship. 722 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,980 Sometimes I look at him, and he's so vulnerable. 723 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,940 It's like... So you're torn. 724 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:08,520 Right. 725 00:41:10,100 --> 00:41:15,360 Because sometimes I just feel like this is too much. Like, I feel like I'm okay, 726 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,240 and then I'm just like, am I doing this to myself? 727 00:41:18,500 --> 00:41:20,880 Am I causing myself more pain? 728 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,280 I don't know. 729 00:41:25,540 --> 00:41:29,120 Your first relationship is to yourself. 730 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:34,720 You can't be good for anybody else, Ralph, the children, if you're not good 731 00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:40,460 yourself. It's like I have to be more aware of what's going on with me here. 732 00:41:41,340 --> 00:41:45,120 When will you know enough is enough? 733 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,580 Next time on The Real Housewives of Atlanta. 734 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,060 Everybody's saying you're killing it. Drew was the best decision I made in 735 00:41:56,060 --> 00:41:58,900 movie. Drew is a real actress. She knows what she's doing. 736 00:42:01,850 --> 00:42:04,810 I didn't know that that was going to take place last night. Things around 737 00:42:04,810 --> 00:42:07,650 change a lot. You usually don't come when I have, like, intimate scenes. 738 00:42:07,870 --> 00:42:11,650 Well, I don't come for guy -on -girl scenes, but girl -on -girl is a 739 00:42:11,650 --> 00:42:13,010 story. I'm here for it. 740 00:42:13,930 --> 00:42:14,950 Good evening, everyone. 741 00:42:15,350 --> 00:42:19,210 Thank you all for coming. With this event, I'm honoring successful people 742 00:42:19,210 --> 00:42:20,970 have made it out of the foster care system. 743 00:42:21,190 --> 00:42:23,690 They are special. They are seen, and they are appreciated. 744 00:42:24,070 --> 00:42:26,150 It feels like this is my calling. 745 00:42:27,529 --> 00:42:31,230 I'm a new grandma, and most of my parents have not seen her yet. So, like, 746 00:42:31,230 --> 00:42:34,450 has to be fabulous. It has to be over -the -top. It has to be beautiful. 747 00:42:34,850 --> 00:42:36,210 This is so gorgeous! 748 00:42:36,690 --> 00:42:38,110 She buys for a party. 749 00:42:39,250 --> 00:42:43,990 Can we have a little conversation? 750 00:42:44,410 --> 00:42:45,410 Oh, no. 751 00:42:45,510 --> 00:42:47,230 No, just a tiny one. 752 00:42:47,610 --> 00:42:48,770 I'm not going to come in. 753 00:42:49,170 --> 00:42:50,170 Why are you not coming in? 754 00:42:50,450 --> 00:42:53,470 There's a man here that literally... Oh, 755 00:42:54,310 --> 00:42:55,910 shit. That's not Bob's girl. 756 00:42:56,490 --> 00:42:57,730 Standing in front of him like this. 757 00:42:58,330 --> 00:43:01,990 Who is this woman that Bob is pulling to the photo? 758 00:43:02,650 --> 00:43:03,650 Maybe a sister. 759 00:43:03,870 --> 00:43:05,590 Maybe he has another daughter we don't know. 60895

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