All language subtitles for The.Real.Housewives.of.Atlanta.S13E04

Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

All right, I'm waiting for Drew to get
here. Who's Drew?

Drew actually was at my wine cellar
launch and proposal that you almost won.

Oh! Where did you go? If you don't feel
like you need to tell me where you went,

then we can get in it right there.

Are you agreeing to counseling?

I'm definitely down with counseling
because, Lord, we need you.

All of the stress was Black Lives
Matter, worrying about my people.

It's just been a whole lot.

I'm definitely in serious need of a
girl's day.

We're wearing masks right now, Cent.

Who's just about playing B? You guys are
making me feel like a f***ing asshole.

Babe, don't walk away.

Are we going to get married on October
10th, 2020?

I don't know. I'm not doing this no
more.

If you don't like my shade, then step
out of my shadow.

A little candy always helps sweeten the
tea.

I was in the game, but now I'm calling
all the plays.

I've been through the peaks and the
valleys, and now I'm head over heels.

I may be social distancing, but I'm here
for social justice.

I do this with my eyes closed.

OK, I want to hear about Jill, though.
How was it?

Shall I get something to eat?

Shall we eat straight up mystery meat?

It was set together. It was a piece of
bread, mystery meat, another piece of

bread, another piece of mystery meat.
Oh, y 'all had a Big Mac mystery meat. I

have no idea what it was. I do this with
my eyes closed.

I do this with my eyes closed.

Hey, baby, is it good?

Yeah. Yes.

Say chicken.

Say chicken.

Say chicken.

You so silly, Nai Nai.

No, you silly.

No, you silly.

I don't know if I'm ready for you to go.

Certain stuff, I'm not going to lie.
You're coddled.

Nobody's going to be like, Riley, did
you finish that? Your teacher sent me a

report. The school stuff, I do my own. I
mean, she's not the academic scholar.

Whoa.

Whoa! First of all. I mean, you're
smart, but you have, like, street

One plus I did yoga.

Can you do yoga?

You would think I'm flexible because I'm
very...

Athletic, but I'm not sure.

You're athletic. You used to be
athletic.

I still am.

Hi.

How are you? Good. How are you?

I'm very well, thank you. Can I sit in
the middle? Oh, yeah. I've got a lot to

release.

Hi. How are you?

Hey. Okay. Come on. You got your own
mask. I thought you might actually do

A little.

I've been neglecting myself.

Well.

I think we all have in the quarantine,
so.

Okay. Welcome to Paper Plan Yoga Studio.

My name is Yogi A.

So here we go. Inhale, your arms up.

Exhale, hinge at your hips. Draw the
navel in and fold forward. Let the head

hang heavy.

Inhale, the left arm up.

Exhale, twist to the right and gaze over
at your right shoulder.

You know, I love doing yoga. Inhale, the
left arm out.

Don't smack me with that. Oh, sorry.

But I'm not very consistent with it.
Right arm goes out.

And on the exhale, OK?

It's something wrong with my hip over
here.

I think my hip is rusty because it has
not been moved in certain positions.

And then just give it a little wiggle.
Shift your hips. Oh, OK.

Yeah. So if you hear that would be my
hip, not a bad squeaking.

On the exhale, round your spine and then
gently walk your palms back towards

you. Is this level one?

It is. Oh, this is the level one step.
Okay.

There you go. Good. Can I just get a
minute? I'll just take a little water

break. Okay.

How are you feeling?

A little stressful. In yoga?

Well, not necessarily in yoga.

What's going on? What's wrong?

Oh, well.

Okay, we can take these masks off now.

What's wrong, friend?

Well.

wedding stuff.

The back and forth, we're trying to do
this during a pandemic has been

challenging.

But Mike finally thought of venue, and
Mal thought too. It's beautiful.

Yeah? Yeah.

Well, Mike loves it, but we had more
conversation.

So, Kenya, I asked a question, and this
is what set her off. I said, so if

anything happened with this venue where
COVID, where we have a second wave of

it, if it closed down, are you still
getting married on 10 -10?

Right. And then she, like, went crazy.
Oh, I didn't go crazy.

I just got a little emotional because
Mike was kind of painting a picture

do you want the marriage or your
wedding? Like, what did you say? Oh, I

know.

That was her answer.

That's not a good answer. No. That's
what makes him upset.

I understand that. Why wouldn't you know
if you're just trying to get married?

Because if we're not going to do it
where we plan on doing it on 10 -10 -20,

then I want to go back to the drawing
board together as a couple.

No. No, why is that now?

Why? You are telling this man, now I'm
not sure if we're going to get married

-20 when you have told the whole world
we're going to get married on this date.

Come hell or high water. What is it,
high water?

Hell or high water.

Right. And now you're saying, I'm not
sure.

You got to see it, Cynthia.

He's hearing that if I can't marry him
at this place on 10 -10 -20, that I'm

basically saying I don't want to marry
him. That's what he's hearing. I don't

think he's hearing that. Well, what does
he hear? You want to make it about a

show versus just married to him on that
day because that's the day you guys

decided. You're saying unless it's
filmed, unless that date produces a big

show. You are now saying I don't want
10, 10, 20.

No, that's not true.

Okay, let's just break the fourth wall
all the way down.

Even if I wasn't on a show. But that's
not what you're saying.

But that's not what you're doing.

If you have committed to this date, then
why are you not committing to it?

Because I, in my mind, I wanted this
date. You don't have an answer. I do

an answer. It's not making sense.

It is making sense.

That is very insulting.

The show didn't tell me I had to have a
big wedding.

The show didn't tell me I even had to
get married. Hell, the show didn't tell

I had to get divorced.

So now go run tell that.

Cynthia, you're bringing up... No, no,
no. Let me finish.

Let me finish. Listen, I let you talk. I
let you talk. Let me finish. But you're

dragging all this other baggage. But I
can drag it out if I want to. You're my

friend. Just listen to me and support
me. Just shut up and listen and support

me. I'm taking and receiving your
advice, okay?

You said that I committed to the date. I
feel like I'm committed to the man

whenever their date is. But... Now that
you guys have made me understand how

that makes him feel, then I'm going to
go back to my man and say, listen, if

getting married on 10 -10 -20, if it
makes you feel like I do not want to

you, if it just can't happen in a
pandemic, I will marry Mike outside on

sidewalk if I have to. That's it. That's
all he wants to hear. That's all he

wants to hear.

That's all he wants to hear.

Okay.

Thank you.

And I will never listen. I've made my
mistakes. I was in a very bad place last

year. I've made a lot of mistakes with
you. I'm not going backwards.

Last year, I did things to the people
that were closest to me, and Cynthia's

one. I could have ruined her engagement.
I feel like you might propose tonight.

No, you don't think she's going to
propose tonight? Why would you bring

to her? That is not cool.

But I don't want there to be any doubt
about how I feel about her.

Let me get some sage. I feel an energy
shift.

Okay. Yes. We need to woosah.

You know, this is basically just to
bring the energy down a little bit. You

seem like really, really, really, really
great spirits.

Coming up next.

Respect would be someone not
emasculating me. I just am not going to

that.

Hi, welcome in the new boat.

I'm having one friend come in to meet
me. Okay, you can follow me.

I can do this.

Hi,

how are you? Hi. Come meet me, your
girlfriend.

All right.

Hey, kitty.

You look like a little peach dream.

Thank you.

I need an extra nap. I know.

I've been here before, and I thought you
would like it, so that's why I was

like, okay. No, I love the menu, even
though I'm supposed to be losing weight

right now. I did lose nine pounds.

Ooh, what'd you do?

Just stopped eating sugar for the week.

I lost, like, two pounds.

Two pounds is better than zero, so I am
going to have the...

Sweet orgasms. Okay. I'm going to get
those wings and fries. The honey -o -bay

wings and fries. Yeah. That salad looks
really good.

The grilled red salad?

Yeah. Okay. Thank you. My pleasure.

So, I met with Cynthia the other day. Uh
-huh. She and Mike were having problems

about the date of the wedding.

Really? Yeah. It just means so much to
her to have this big wedding. Now that

she's not sure about how the pandemic is
going to pan out, she basically is not

committing to marrying him on that date.

What? Wow, that's crazy.

Yeah, it was crazy.

Last time she did it in the midst of
brokenness. Tell me a little bit about

budget for the wedding. We have
absolutely no money.

And now she got a little coin.

Right. She wants to do it right without
the stress.

Oh, that looks yummy.

Oh, so pretty.

Well, here's the other thing. Oh, what?
I really felt bad about everything that

happened with her proposal.

Oh.

So, I want to make it up to her.

Okay.

I want to throw her a surprise
engagement party.

Oh. And I need your help.

Okay. So, I already have a date next
Friday.

Okay. We have to get people there on
time because people have to be there

she arrives to say, you know, surprise.

Maybe they'll get there in time.

Hold on. It sounds more like you don't
think they gonna come if they know you

throwing it. No!

I'm cool with everyone.

Except maybe... I mean, who am I not
cool with?

Nah, okay.

We know good and well that some of these
people may not come.

But it's your party, girl. But we'll
pretend that there's no reason you asked

to say it was my party.

Yeah, I've been working with an event
planner, and she seems to... Oh, you got

an event planner?

Oh, yeah. It's Friday, honey.

I just want her to walk in and just cry.

If that doesn't happen, I'm going to
need you to give me a refund.

Got it.

So you invited everybody?

Who is everybody to you?

Marlo. I don't really care for her, but
it's how Cynthia feels about me. Okay.

Portia. She's...

Cool with Cynthia.

Okay. Has anyone talked to Portia? I
know she was arrested again.

Why did you say it like that?

Oh, my God.

Was she just waiting? She was waiting
for the moment to shade.

It just seems like maybe they're not
really fighting in the right way.

She was out at this protest without a
mask on.

Right now, it's just so weird. You don't
really know what to do because we're at

a time of social unrest.

And I'm not talking about what to do
about protests.

No, no. I'm talking about what to do to
keep faith. Because you're also putting

everyone around you at risk.

Her and Portia's not in the best place,
but, you know, Portia out here keeping

Breonna Taylor's name alive.

So regardless of how she's doing it,
she's doing it.

Uh, so Marlo, Portia.

Okay, so then who else do we have?

Latoya. Oh, speaking of she came to my
house.

Who? Latoya.

And we had shots.

Let's take the shots. Can I pour some of
it out?

No, just pour it in your mouth.

Don't you like it in your mouth?

You know, at least you can take
advantage of me or something.

Have you ever seen anything happening
between you two? I mean, God, really?

Are you really questioning me about
that?

Well, you know, feel free to get naked
anytime you want. This little bi

situation she's got going on is new.

Would you be jealous?

I definitely would not be jealous.

They can have each other.

Don't let me find out how to send y 'all
some bedroom candy items.

And you good with the kids and
everything?

Who has the kids? Delores.

Who's Delores?

Deborah.

Deborah has the kids. She's got it.
Don't you worry about it. The kids are

taken care of.

Okay. We just got to make sure that
nobody comes outside so we can have our

counseling session.

I got you. I understand.

You need to concentrate.

Because there's got to be a list. What's
important to her and then what's

important to you. And then you guys come
together and make that work.

Well, you know, our issue, like, we
would go to different counselors, and

they would give us homework, but someone
wouldn't do the homework.

And then he would just not want to go
back. So we never really get through all

of the problems.

I think love may be at the door. We can
stop this right now. All right. Love

you, Mommy. Thank you.

Ralph and I have tried couples
counseling a time or two or three or a

I've lost track.

But after our huge blow up on our
anniversary, which was probably the

argument we've ever had in our marriage.
Until you go and get your head out the

clouds, you're not going to be able to
get nowhere. And that's with me or

anybody else.

It's embarrassing me. Like, I hate that
shit.

We know we have serious problems that we
really need to commit to working out

and fixing quickly.

I'm walking a little slow from having my
Achilles surgery.

Okay.

Set this right here. I feel like I'm in
the little kid's chair.

This is the queen's chair, baby.

I guess.

So let's start with, if you had two or
three goals for your relationship, like

the things that are most pressing, what
would they be? And I'll start with you,

Drew.

Transparency.

Genuine love for Josiah, my nine -year
-old.

More peace, less anger.

That's more than three.

When you say genuine love, what would
that look like?

I mean, I understand there's a
biological difference, but I guess not

showing him how to be a man, but
actually giving him that love, like

it's okay to hug, it's okay to nurture.

Josiah was three when Ralph and I first
met, and Ralph took my heart because he

really loved my son, but it's very much
that tough love, you know, giving him

that emotional love.

Because Josiah is super sensitive, I do
not want Josiah to ever feel that the

love that Ralph is showing him is
different than his biological children.

And transparency, what do you think
transparency would look like?

Transparency, like if you're going
somewhere, you know, being able to just

and say, hey, I'm going to the store,
I'm going to work out, I'm going to

just allowing me to know what you're
doing, where your mind is.

So, Ralph, what would be your goal that
needs to happen in your relationship?

Respect and sex.

What's the preferred frequency for that?
I can't even listen to this. I would

say minimum three times a week. And I
think that's really, truly very, very

conservative. Okay. And what would
respect look like for you?

Respect would be someone not
emasculating me.

Drew tries to treat me like her mom
cheated her dad, and that's never going

work with me.

How much truth is it that he saw your
mom emasculate you? That's not true.

I mean, I allow him to be the man that
he is. You know, I see who Ralph is. I

know he's not my dad, and I've had to
let go of those expectations.

Okay.

What was that?

You look like you're about to cry. That
wasn't even real.

Let's carry on. I mean, you're laughing
one minute. I mean, it just looks like

you're about to cry.

I'm okay.

You sure? I'm good, yeah.

I mean, it just looks like you're about
to cry.

I'm okay.

You sure? I'm good, yeah.

I want you to know that I hear you.

Your frustration is seen, and we are
definitely going to address it, okay?

Right after I come to Ralph and his
history, okay? I'm going to double

So, Ralph, let me talk to you about your
history.

All right. So, my past.

I grew up in a single family household.

My father left at a really early age.
And so I found myself pretty much having

to assume the role of the man of the
house, I should say. My mom, she wasn't

affectionate to us, you know. And so my
senior year, I got to a place where I

said, you know what, mom, if you don't
appreciate my help and my support, then

I'm going to go and live with my father
and I'll see how you fend for yourself.

And I did that.

And my mom ended up getting evicted. So
we were homeless during my senior year.

My father had lost his job at the time.
It was nothing but really beer in the

refrigerator. And so it was a really
hurtful time. But that was the first

heard my mom say, I'm sorry.

Your mom finally said she was sorry to
you after you left?

After I left. After she got evicted.

If I go back to the goals, Drew, you
said, I want transparency.

I want him not to leave.

When was the only time he got an apology
from his mother?

When he left.

So you leave.

But I just want to give him that love
that he didn't have. But I am paying for

everything his mom did.

And so if he's not going to own that and
accept that and go seek healing in

that, I don't know what else to do. I'm
owning everything and I'm taking on

responsibility.

I even took the next step to go seek my
own counseling because I have to be in a

mentally strong place.

To be that support to him. But he's
never working on himself. I always say

to him. We just started the process.

No, we started this process six years
ago. We can't go back and relive the

But if you can commit to believe in the
future, then you won't grieve the past

so hard.

Do you understand?

You know, I am grieving. And I'm very
transparent in saying that. Right now,

you see your wife emotional, what do you
really feel like you want to do?

That's right.

Yes. Let him cover you.

I'm sorry, Joel. My entire goal is never
to hurt you.

My goal is to try to make sure to show
you more support and love.

You know, I want to believe that it's
sincere, but at this point, he's

apologized to me so much that I feel
like the apology needs to come with some

work to really ensuring that we don't go
through it again.

This is just stage one. Okay.

But the main thing that I want you to do
is do the work. Thank you so much.

Thank you. Virtual girlfriend.

Hello?

Hey, Cynthia.

Is this Lauren?

It is.

What's up, Pisces?

What's up, birthday twin?

I'm calling because we're doing a
surprise party for Portia.

Because, you know, she's been doing all
this protesting and all that good stuff.

Okay. Super small get -together.

Just, you know, just the few girls that
we like and all that good stuff.

I caught that shade. Not a few girls
that we like.

Hello? Hey, Candy.

Hey, what's up? We're going to do
something for Portia on Friday.

Thanking her for doing all the work
she's doing.

You know, getting arrested and
protesting every other week.

Okay. We want to show her our
appreciation.

We're going to do it at her house in the
backyard, so it'll be social distance,

and I was thinking everybody can wear
all black.

Okay. That's a good idea. Hi, Lauren.

Is that Marla?

Yes. I know my boo's voice. I know that
raspy voice like mine anywhere.

That sexy voice. Would you mind coming?
I think it would be nice to have all her

friends there.

Sure. Oh, absolutely. She's doing an
amazing job.

King is invited, right? Because I'll
probably just come with her.

I didn't extend an invite to her.

That's awesome.

Are we allowed to bring a plus one? My
friend Toya is here, too. I don't know.

Yeah, I mean, sure. I'm sure she's cool.

Thank you. Yeah. Are you thinking you
want to bring a plus one? I would love

bring her.

I mean, as long as she comes with good
intentions, I just want this to be all

good vibes.

Absolutely. Okay. All right. All right.
I believe you. You're my favorite.

Thank you so much. You're welcome, boo.
Bye. Okay. Bye.

See you Friday. All right. See you on
Friday. Bye. Bye.

What you doing? Hi, sweetheart.

What are you doing?

I'm just actually going over the wedding
list.

I'm in good spirits, though. I really
received and appreciate your strong

the other day. Mike and I have been
doing so much better.

I'm actually writing my vow for the
wedding. I was practicing with the

mannequin, like pretending the
mannequin's you so I could get a feel.

You have restored my faith and love, and
I'm thankful that you came into my

life.

So, okay.

My titties are not that big.

Anyway, we're doing way better.

So thank you for that.

You're welcome.

I was calling because I just got a call
from Portia's sister, Lauren.

She invited me to a get -together to
celebrate, like, all the protesting and

stuff that she's been doing.

Let me see if I can get a party put
together for me to celebrate all the

that I do. Listen, listen, listen,
listen, listen. Are you finished?

Oh, no, no, no. You're finished. You're
finished. Listen, we are going over

there. Let's roll. Let's do it.

I'll go. I'll come briefly and, you
know, show my support as I would with

of you ladies celebrating a good cause.

Absolutely. I think we're going to have
a good time. So let's just keep that

energy. Okay. Gotcha.

Okay. Love you.

Okay, bye, Mama. All right, bye.

Coming up next.

I just got

my

suit from the cleaners, all ready for my
dad.

I thought the colors were royal blue and
red, like the Giants colors.

Baby, I don't want to, like, match you
too closely here, but, you know. How

are we going to be there? How many days
do you think? Just two.

Why have Sean come in? Because mom can't
keep the kids that many days by

herself. So Sean said she would come
down. Stay with mom and the kids while

we're gone.

We got the call that Ralph's father had
had a heart attack.

It's kind of crazy.

It is, man.

It's just been hard just trying to just,
like.

pull everything together and just get my
mind ready for this. It still feels

like a dream.

Unfortunately, he did pass away.

So we're going to head down to North
Carolina for services.

And I know it's going to be tough for
Ralph because his dad was everything to

him. I'm going to stay as strong as I
possibly can because at the end of the

day, man, that's what he wants, you
know?

He's out there rooting for the Giants in
heaven. He got his wings.

Did y 'all ever go to any football games
when you were, like, younger?

I never had a chance to do it.

Like, it was kind of limited when we
would actually have a chance to really

out and do certain things.

But, I mean, now I'm a grown man. So
this was the time that I was going to be

able to start giving to him. Like, hey,
Dad, come on. You know what? We're going

to go out here and, like, live it up and
make sure we have some fun and

celebrate life.

So it hurts, but... If you want to cry,
it's okay.

I think it makes me just cherish life a
little differently.

Tomorrow's not promised.

I can't expect you to do certain things.

You know, I got to love you for you.

And we got to figure out a way how to
grow together.

Definitely. Ralph, father passing has
put our issues on the back burner. I

really just want to make sure that we
don't fight anymore because you don't

when your loved one is going to take
their last breath.

You're freaking gorgeous.

Oh, well, thank you, my love.

You said we were going juicing, so I
brought the jug.

Yes, jug.

Oh, I have got to get gas.

Let me put this on.

What does it say?

Give me a receipt.

Yes, ma 'am. I can't tell. It says press
payment key, but I'm already done,

right? Wait.

Yeah. You already put the gas in the
car?

Yeah. Let's go, bitch!

Let's sell me a Louisa in this Rolls
Royce.

Let's go!

How did it change?

How did it do it?

Let's go! Let's go!

Bitch!

I'm just glad we got to hang out. Yeah.

OK, so boys are back to school. They're
at home, virtual school.

And look what happened. So his teacher
sent me this missing assignment.

So I sent her. I say, tell him, get it
done now.

That was just like you see 30 minutes
ago.

You have to be on it. You got to get on
them.

Let's do our drinks. Yeah, let's do
drinks. Can we order some good drinks?

OK, what are we getting here?

Cucumber pineapple apple. Oh, that
sounds good. Three of those. Does anyone

food? Why don't you try the vegan
burger?

I want to do the house salad.

I'll be back.

So what's going on?

Nothing, girl.

You and Dennis?

Girl, we're not together right now. OK,
just not this week? All right, well,

that's good. It's been my brother's
love. Oh, not just not this week. So

'all been coping or doing good, though?
Yeah, we've been doing good. When you

break up like this in the beginning, it
just needs to be a solid, clean break

off of the principle of our child and
respect and love for her. And so I was

like, you know what? So then let's
separate.

And you could tell us tomorrow we're
back together, and we'd be like, OK,

going to happen. Watch. No, you don't
know. $1 ,000.

Within 90 days, y 'all will be back
together. You would have to put more

that. He buys a Chanel purse every day.
But it's still not working.

Dennis has been giving me what he calls
co -parenting gifts.

I don't want to lead him in the wrong
direction, but I do want to lead him

being a gifting type of co -parent.
That's good.

They don't come like, I love you,
please, I want to take you back. Because

knows I will not take them. So he
writes, I bet you can't wear this in

He's good. No, he's good.

He was like, this is just a thank you
for being an amazing mother to Pilar.

I don't want you just getting addicted
to the material things.

Can you please come

grab Brooklyn for five minutes?

Hey, Mama.

Hey, Pearl.

Oh, my God. I'm so excited. Look, you
remember when Pilar's birthday came and

were right in the middle of COVID?

Yeah.

had already gotten her birthday present,
so I'm going to bring it tonight.

So I have a Rosa Parks doll.

I thought this would be nice to give her
for her birthday and also to celebrate

the cause. I'm like, I'm excited.

because she's saying that she doesn't
want me to come?

Well, she was saying, I wouldn't want to
even chance running this night for

Pete. Please don't bring Kenya.

That's really, that's really, because
what am I going to do? Like, protest at

her celebration?

Like, this is ridiculous.

Right, right.

This is... Do y 'all know about this?

I know nothing about this. She's just
finding out.

All right.

Somebody's paying for my hair and
makeup, I know that.

But that's okay.

I'm not going to be petty. Go ahead and
have a good time.

You know, I'm just going to shoot the
messenger.

All right. Thank you.

Bye. You're welcome.

I'm done.

Hey, girl.

Can you just mention to the girls
tonight?

about our surprise party.

Sure. Okay, because I'm not going to
make it.

Wait, what?

Why?

Because Lauren, basically, she rescinded
her invitation.

Wow. Yeah. I think this whole party is
extremely self -serving and fake.

To me, it's just all a photo op anyway.

Who would not take someone rescinding an
invitation as an insult if you're over

here speaking about unity and Black
Lives Matter?

Why is it that she always manages to get
arrested on camera?

Please be consistent with your message,
period.

I personally just feel like, I mean, it
would be awkward anyway if you feel like

she's not, you know, being genuine.
Like, you don't even want to be there at

house and say that to anybody.

And I wouldn't. I wouldn't there.

I wouldn't there. I would respect the
fact of what they were trying to do and

play nice. I've done it 100 times
before.

I can think of a few times that Kenya
has not been able to play nice. It's a

whack event.

Is it whack? It's for children. It's so
disgusting out here. It's for children.

My stomach is nauseous. I know it's
Cynthia's event.

For Kenya to feel entitled enough to
take the microphone and make speeches,

was a little tacky.

I still was going to show up, be
positive. I even had a present for her

for her birthday. I'm going to go ahead
and send that with Cynthia.

Oh, my God.

Okay, well, I'll let everybody know.

All right, love you.

Love you, too. Bye.

I ain't gonna lie to you, I'm tired.

But we're not gonna stop.

I'm coming to rescue you.

The system was put together to break us
down. The system was put there to

segregate us. But as you can look around
right now, it has not segregated us not

one bit.

to run though. Where you going?

We gotta go too. I thought we were gonna
go out somewhere.

No, no, no, no. Bye.

So you bitches got stuff to do. You just
gonna have a day date with me?

No. And then we'll go live y 'all life
after this?

I was, um, is Pilar at home? I'd love to
see her. Yeah, she is home with all the

bad stuff, girl.

Fingers to the top.

Freedom. Oh, the party has started.
Never let it go. Never let it go.

Not once. Never let it go. Never let it
go.

I love all the pictures and everything
outside.

Yes, we've got all this.

This is some wine I brought for Portia.

And then this is actually from Kenya.

Okay. Oh, this is so good. Sweet. Yeah,
she was really disappointed she couldn't

come. She mad at me.

I don't know, but she was not happy. I
just couldn't risk it.

Good to see you. Cheers.

To the movement.

What's up, Foxy Brown?

How are you?

I'm good. You look so cute.

Thank you.

Did you speak to Kenya?

Yes, I did.

Yeah. I know she's talking to Lauren.
She's a little bummed out.

I mean, the way she was talking on the
phone, you know, maybe it was better.

Yeah.

Hi. Hi.

You look so pretty.

Hi. Give me a hug. Hug.

Hi, Fallon. How you doing? Hi,

Fallon. Cynthia.

I'm Latoya.

Nice to meet you.

Hello. How you doing? How are you?

I didn't recognize you with your hair
braided. Good to see you. How are you?

Good. What's your name? Hi, I'm Fallon.
Joy. Nice to meet you. I didn't get the

flats, Neville.

I didn't. I just said, you know what? I
know I'm going to be around some tall

people. Cynthia's the tallest one here.
What I could have done with my life and

your height. I know, right?

I wouldn't have all these kids, I'll
tell you that.

Wait a minute, how many kids you got?
Well, Simon, my husband, he has five and

have three, so we make eight. How old's
Simon?

You got a squad, girl. Simon is 56.

Yeah, I knew, I knew that.

Why did you assume that? Because you
look like you date older men with money.

Toya is Kenya on steroids.

Have y 'all realized that?

He's the first man I ever dated that's
older. So were you married before,

Briefly. To an older man?

No. Oh.

This one is our first older man. Yes.
No.

You know how Kenya says things and just
gets under people's skin sometimes?

That is Toya.

I need some food.

Ooh, Lampta. Yes, Lord.

Hey. Hi.

Where's my girl?

Oh, my gosh. I've been stalling. Yeah.
Are you ready for us? Yes. Yes, please.

All right. Bye.

Bless this food. Amen.

Amen.

Hi,

beautiful lady.

Hi. Hi, everyone. Oh, my God. Wait a
minute. My heels are going. Oh, my God.

I can't hold them all. It ain't that
big.

Okay, guys. We're going to go meet
Portia. Let's go to the top of the

Yeah. Forget it. All right. Come on.
Okay.

And to live where we're free to just
enjoy our lives.

And we're just thanking you.

I have to admit, it did feel awkward to
think that they were celebrating me and

for my work with Black Lives Matter
because I just do it from my heart.

love you.

Y 'all look good.

But it just really gives me more
encouragement to keep doing what I'm

I love these girls.

Joy, how old are you?

33, 31.

How old are you? 33. Yay!

I could have babysat y 'all.

You could have babysat me, actually.

I probably could have had you.

If I'm feeling a little old around these
girls, I know Cynthia is feeling

quite ancient.

OK.

This is what I want my backyard to look
like.

like really great job she designed all
of this hey what's up nate okay you know

this is too much you are so extra i'm
gonna beat your ass later embrace it

yours man thank y 'all for coming though
like it means a lot to me because what

i do is for the people at the end of the
day that's really what has me out there

so i you know well speaking of
thoughtful i have a gift For Pilar.

Aw. And it's from Kenya.

Oh, that's nice. It's something that
she's had for Pilar for a while. Oh,

her birthday. Yes. Right, exactly.

Let Pilar open her gift. She's coming.
She's like, yeah, I heard you. Here we

go. Run.

Aw.

That's for you, Pilar.

Aw, boo -boo. Okay, we're going to open
that up there. She actually wanted to be

here, but Lauren had some apprehension,
so I was like.

Y 'all, Lauren, don't nobody ever know
where me and Kenya is?

Kenya and I tried being cool.

I really do have love for you. I really
do. And I want you to know that.

It didn't work out. You calling my
friend is pretty unfortunate.

So I'm cool with just being like, meh.

So next Wednesday, I have to invite you
to a fun surprise all -white affair.

Well, what is the event for?

Well, you'll see when you get there.

I just get cute, dressy, and all right.

I'm there.

I don't want a lot of these girls.

I hope this little plan of Kenya's
doesn't get me more involved than I need

be because this is not my party.

Oh, look at this baby with her sign.

That's a cute picture for sure.

No justice, no peace.

No justice, no peace. I'm like, oh, my
God. I feel

like I should say something.

I mean, I just want to say, first of
all, I appreciate the love that I

from all of y 'all.

Because you don't have to do it. You
know what I'm saying?

One, two, three, four. Okay, one, two,
three, four.

Go to mommy so I can tell these people
how much I love them.

She won't let me tell y 'all.

But I was just saying, for me, it's just
a matter of... Setting my well -being

aside for just the fact that we should
be treated like humans. Right.

We all work hard, right? We want to
dress nice. We want to have a nice

want to have a car. We want to have all
that.

But guess what? None of that matters at
this moment.

If something happened to you, if you get
killed, it could have happened to any

of us.

And that's why complacency is not
something we have the right to live in

more. The tears that I cry at night, the
tears that I know all y 'all cry at

night, wipe them in the morning and do
something about it.

I am super proud of Portia. I'm excited
for this new chapter of her life and how

she's really serious about it. Now more
than ever, as black women, we have to

support each other. That's really what
it's all about.

So I am so here for Portia Luther King.

I love y 'all so much, and thank y 'all
for being here.

Next time on the Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

The white tie event. Any clues on what
this event is about?

Oh, my God.

Wait, I saw on the group text that
Biden's going to be there.

Give me a hug, Ace. I'm going to miss
you.

I'm going to miss you.

I want to go with Ronnie.

Portia, did you get my gift? I did.
Okay. That was such a nice gift.

It would have been nicer if I could have
presented it in person.