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Previously on The Real Housewives of Atlanta.

If 10 -10 -20 is our perfect date, things are going to be opened up. If

not, then maybe we're not meant to get married 10 -10 -20. I don't give up

that wedding.

How is it being with the Trinidadian men?

I was told they were cheaters. They're called Horner men in our culture.

How do you spell that?

Horner. I don't know. H -O -R -N -E -R? Horner? Don't ask me.

Horner.

Welcome to the ATL. Thank you.

Drew Sidora is a very talented actress and songstress.

I hate to ask you today, because it's your anniversary.

I want to know, can you all do praise and worship on Sunday morning?

We try to celebrate for the entire weekend.

It's because of God, you've been married six years.

You were gone for three days.

I was always a second. I'm not going to see him look stupid. I'm not.

He's embarrassing me. Like, I hate that.

I just feel like I can't get through to my husband. I will have to.

It has anything to do with the movement. I got to make sure that I do it. The

biggest takeaway from this experience is that I'm going to do it again.

If you don't like my shade, then step out of

my shadow.

A little candy always helps sweeten the tea.

I was in the game, but now I'm calling all the plays.

I've been through the peaks and the valleys.

And now I'm head over heels.

I may be social distancing, but I'm here for social justice.

We came back to Kentucky to fight for justice for Breonna Taylor, and I am

more upset than the first time because we've already done this. We've already

made her name trend again, and Daniel Cameron still hasn't done anything.

So we're there to interrupt the community and let them know that, no,

still a young woman who has been killed in this town, and we want justice.

When we got on that bridge, the cops were there in military gear, gas

their wooden batons exposed.

And someone screamed that this was our Selma moment.

My grandfather was on the bridge on Bloody Sunday.

And so at that moment, I felt connected to my grandfather.

I drew strength from it, and I continued to walk forward.

Nobody was going to turn me around.

Forsha was charged with obstructing a highway and disorderly conduct in the

second degree. My arrest this time was more difficult because I had been there

before and they wanted to prove a point. So they left me to be one of the last

people to leave the jail.

This is the world we're being forced to deal with right now. Each step is

uncomfortable. Each step is scary.

But we are charged with getting in action and doing something about it.

Hey, Jamie.

Let me turn him because I want to see you big.

Does this go this way?

I always have it the wrong way.

You like your gift?

Mm -hmm. Me and my roommate said we would take a lot of pictures. You need a

camera. You're going to NYC. You got to capture all those moments. Yeah.

So we're all wearing white. My guests are wearing black.

The wedding party's wearing white.

And then Mike and I are not wearing black or white. The wedding's black and

white, though? Well, the colors are black, white, silver, and gold.

Are you ready to make tattoos?

Huh? You ready to make pancakes?

Okay.

See how mommy does it? You

gonna do it?

Makai David.

Why are you calling me, boy?

Makai. I thought mommy was getting on church.

We are getting on church, but we're making pancakes. Why didn't you get the

syrup?

Okay, I got it from here.

Hey, babe, you almost ready?

Almost.

Look at you asking. Are you going to share, Nai Nai?

Are you going to share and let your brother get in here so he can make your

plate? Ralph, can you open this?

Well, both of you guys shouldn't be in there together.

So, Nai Nai, let your brother in. I think Nai Nai wants to stay.

Who's the parrot?

What are you talking about?

I don't think that's safe.

It's safe. It's a platform.

As long as they don't, like, try to jump over, it's good.

All right.

Look at these Anaya pancakes.

OK, you ready?

All right, let me finish getting set up.

All right, guys.

Where's your brother? Where's JoJo?

Come on.

One, two, three.

What? Oh.

What happened?

So heavy. Girl, come on.

Things between Ralph and I are definitely not great. You know, we

resolve things. We decided just to table it.

We ready.

You ready?

Which is something that at this point drives me crazy. We don't really talk

about it, nor do we have the tools to really resolve it. So we just kind of go

along and get along until the next crazy argument.

The theme for this morning will be bridle your tub.

And so I brought the message.

Thanks be to the Lord. Mom, what's the name of your sermon?

Bridal, you're tough.

Why you look at me when you said it?

I had a discernment that some stuff was going to go on yesterday.

And when I came up here to celebrate your anniversary, I came up here to

somebody crying.

And, you know, I try not to be a person that takes sides with anybody.

Oh, you really?

You want a person to agree with you all the time. No, no, no, no, no, no. I know

there's some things that we got to get on the same page with. And this is

something, this is work that you and I need to do. Because it's not a Ralph and

I wrote this because of you. And this is what you need to do. You need to

understand. You didn't say that. You wrote this sermon with me in mind.

Trying to bridge the gap on Ralph and my mom has not been easy. The way he

talks, he's like super straightforward.

Sometimes she takes that as disrespect.

Like, that's what you said.

I did. Well, based on the events that happened yesterday and how you talked to

her. But it was a lesson for her, a lesson for me. It's a lesson for

that's going to be on the moon.

So what did I miss by saying what I just said? Like, sometimes you can just

close your mouth and just let somebody just speak what's on their heart and

know that you're not perfect. And maybe there is work to be done. There's some

growth that needs to happen.

Ralph is very argumentative.

Why can't you just say, well, you know, maybe I can learn something tomorrow.

You're, like, getting kind of combative.

And I find myself taking a lot of accountability.

And it's a lot of work. I be tired.

Like, I be really tired.

So I think we've gotten to a place where you just really have to put back in

perspective why you came together initially.

I'm looking forward to this. I think this is a sermon that all of us can use.

is. You know that I tell it like a TIS is, so you know that I'm embedded in my

sermon. Let's just table the conversation. I don't want y 'all to now

I just can't take that right now. We need to just move on with the rehearsal.

Coming up next.

I'm not going to lie. Quarantine started like honeymoon. And then it turned into

divorce within five months.

The news is just a warning.

Pushed it all around here. The sound of me touring. Now they all adore it. I'm

sitting in the foreign car here tonight.

What you doing?

Park yo. And your driveway is so windy. I'm going to fall off a cliff right now.

Trying to see you.

Girl.

I'm coming.

I love how cute you are.

Hey,

you're beautiful.

You are giving me executive sexy hot mama tease in here.

That's what it's like.

That's what it be like.

Oh, my God.

You look gorgeous. Thank you. I love your fit.

Let me go grab you the tequila. Yes. Thanks for the invite again. Of course.

You are Latoya. We are like on the fast track lane of becoming friends.

We hang out a lot. We text each other all the time. We just have great

chemistry.

I really like her.

You're trying to butter up these buns, honey. Little honey buns.

I got to go get us shot glasses.

Not a tiny honey bun. You got a little honey bun.

I got a whole bakery. You got a little honey bun. I need a mirror. Wait, I need

to see if this is really funny.

It's not tiny.

Medium size, okay?

Honey buns are actually quite meaty, okay? I think you have a perfect little

butt for your perfect little body. I know what I need to do. I need to put

myself on a dating site soon.

On a what? Both of us. What site?

OnlyFans?

Why are we like twins?

I know.

We're like the same. I know.

Come on, we're going to take a shot. I'm sitting over there away from you.

Okay, no, we're going to sit down. We're going to sit down with the shot.

Yes. I told Cynthia what you said about the pet wig.

I didn't think of this much.

I like Drew. Yeah. I don't think Latoya and her are going to go long for long.

She was talking about her having a cat. A cat?

Yes. What's wrong with having a pet cat?

She wasn't talking about an animal.

She was talking about her pig.

It is a pet.

I don't know. I'm just not like a wig person, you know? I don't disagree with

you. But every now and then when your hair is jacked up or you want to do a

protective style, sometimes you have to. For sure. But at least get, you know, a

hairstylist that knows how to put it on. Okay.

That's fair.

But it's just the truth. Let's just call a spade a spade. A wig a wig. You know

what I'm saying?

A do a do.

A wig a wig. Like, that is not a wig. That is a pet.

On your head. I thought I was straight.

This little one right here, I think I may have met my match.

So we need to call it out, and we need to get her a real wig. Do you sew it?

I don't.

Okay, first of all, what's the pet's name? Since it's a pet, what is its

Druisha. I don't know how you spend so many years in Hollywood with the best

hairdressers in the world, and this is what you can come up with.

This is a special effect all...

On its own.

A pair, dead animal. A pair on my head.

She got you each on her head, too. She got that beauty supply wig on her head,

girl.

See? Listen.

No, we cannot be friends because we are too shady together.

But other than that, do you have any other issue with Drew? I don't have an

issue with her at all. Well, you didn't get offended by her basically calling

you out.

About wanting a date. You can do what you want while you're separated. What

hell did you say?

No. Okay.

Not at all. You know, Adam and I, we've been through so much in our relationship

and we've forgiven each other, but we just don't see eye to eye. I get you.

man is acting a fool on you. Yeah. And I know you want to be a free spirit. You

want to get back out there.

So what are you doing?

What are you truly doing?

I just want to live my life.

I just want to live my life. But I can't fully live my life if I'm married. So

are you making a divorce?

Yes. Oh, wow.

We're going to take some pictures.

What pictures?

Pictures because you're starting your new journey, your new chapter. Oh, Lord.

Okay, we can edit that down in FaceTune. You're going to flip my butt down? Yes,

I can do all of that. I'm putting these on online dating apps, okay? Wait, I

need to know which one.

Turn around.

No, that sends the wrong message.

Them titties are hot.

That's cute.

Okay, okay.

I have to show that I'm still married. All right, I'm gonna edit it out anyway.

Coming up next.

All right, go ahead, big ball. You can go ahead and start it off. What do you

want me to start it off?

Okay.

So here, right there, and then boop. There you go. Okay.

Like that? Yeah, keep the foot on there. Keep it on the bottom. Oh, okay. There

you go.

Okay. Step up.

Uh -oh.

Okay. Feel that old knee now.

There you go. Five.

Five more.

Three. You got to heal over here like more men are.

Hi. Good job. Hello, ma 'am. Hi. Oh, my God.

Dee, Rich, they came over here to help us get back together. Yeah, I have

off into a vat of fat of 30 pounds.

We ended together. We both got to get it back.

Seriously, I need to get my body back from a decade ago, for real.

Three weeks after I had Brooklyn.

I was 155 pounds.

I am now over 180 pounds, so you do the math.

I gained, like, 25 pounds during the quarantine. How much weight do you want

lose before the wedding?

All of it.

Kenya, we're going to get you to start over here on the bands, on our

bands. Okay. We're going to get you started with your ball slam.

Okay. I like balls.

All right. So just go down.

Slam it as hard as you can. Like you mad at something.

All right. Just slam down.

Cynthia doesn't have a reason to be mad these days.

She's in love.

How do I do this? Step in.

Okay. Right up.

I want to try to get my arms more defined.

Hold it at your chest.

Oh, Lordy.

What's up, Ms. Moore?

I was thinking of a picture of your breasts online.

Oh, my God.

I mean, like, they're big in person, but in pictures?

Yeah.

Woo!

So what you been doing, Candy? Getting ready for Riley to go to college. Y 'all

driving a Sprinter or y 'all flying?

We're driving a Sprinter. Road trip.

Road trip!

I got some fruit.

Let's go eat some fruit.

All right, let's take a fruit break.

Exactly. Oh, my goodness. Oh, my goodness.

Yeah, it was nice.

Ew, fruit!

Let me give you guys an update on the wedding.

Uh -oh.

We always told him it was 250 people now because of COVID. We understand we have

to make some modifications when it comes to that.

250 people in a pandemic?

No.

Long story short, I'm trying to do the walkthrough with Mike because he hasn't

actually even seen the venue yet. We're going to go see it. Don't ask me about

what I would plan.

You know, I never follow the rules.

This is the only place I've ever really wanted to have it. You can get married

at Lake Valley.

That would be a nice wedding. Honestly, with a tent in your backyard, I can make

you so beautiful.

Well, I think the rules change a little bit if I have it outdoors.

I feel confident moving forward with the wedding as long as we adhere to all the

COVID -19 rules and regulations. So now...

I have to convince Mike we can do this. Well, if you hire me.

How did you get in there? She's always been, like, my wedding planner in her

mind. She's also a lawyer. I can be your prenup, too. Oh, yeah.

What's up?

Are y 'all doing the prenup? We actually had a brief conversation about it, but

we haven't sat down with, you know, our lawyers and really, like, done it yet.

And I don't want to wait until the last minute. Don't wait until the last

minute.

Me and you aren't the same.

Listen to me. Do not wait for the last minute. A lot of hard feelings going on

with that prenup, but y 'all need time to work it out. It definitely tainted

beginning of our marriage.

But a prenup, you just want it to be fair.

I would not suggest that you sign this. So you think you should give someone my

money? Come on, come on. I don't want your f***ing money. But I just didn't

to be a woman who allowed my emotions to take over and didn't handle my

business.

Mine, yours is yours. Whatever we do together is ours. It's 50 -50. Got it.

Okay. That's easy.

How much do you charge to do a prenup?

I mean, I will work something out for you. Since you didn't even do one, I'm

just saying. But I know all about it. Of course, I wish I had gotten a prenup. I

have a very successful hair care company. I have no debt. I have a lot to

Thanks, Rich and Dee. I appreciate y 'all. Yes, guys. Thank you. No, thank

so much.

Candy, you better not ever.

driveway again wait a minute hold on hold on oh don't you dare don't you do

you can just write me a check candy girl come on here

i can't wait to come over to your driveway okay just roll down

okay now let's see if tanya's turning like us and

she just have on her bathing suit Because she texted me, like, are we just

What are we doing?

And I texted her a picture of my crotch, and I was like, so I just out.

Look at what I got for you. I had to bring her to Seha. You want to go

Oh, my God.

She's gorgeous.

Listen, congratulations.

Good to see you, too.

I love her. Love you. See you. I love you. These girls are going to go get it

on. Bye -bye.

We had a pandemic. We had social rights stuff. Like, it's so much. Like, I'm so

glad I got my girl time. I can't take this.

Listen, we're going to get girl time however we can.

What's your address?

Where are we going?

Yeah, Lauren, here. You got to tell me.

OK, wait. So her name is Fallon? So Fallon's has been Simon.

Right across from Siva's, where we like to go.

Oh, yeah.

Simon? That's his restaurant.

And his wife is just really nice. And we exchanged numbers one day. And she was

like, you should come over.

And then I was like, well, I got my sister. And she was like, bring whoever

enjoy. And I was like, hey, I'm coming.

Don't tell us. Don't threaten me with a good time. Girl, I would walk in with a

bottle and jump in the pool. We about to go set her pool off. Off.

Oh, my gosh.

This is so much fun. I appreciate the estrogen.

Thank you.

Oh, my gosh.

I do miss my girl. I need to know. How are you and Paul surviving?

I feel like it.

had its ups and downs. There were times when I was like, man, this is such a

blessing. I love you. And there were times where I just was like, I just

was like, go somewhere.

And there's nowhere to go. It started different.

I'm not going to lie. Quarantine started like honeymoon.

Yeah. Like in everywhere, cooking everything.

Oh my God, he's right here. And then it turned into divorce within five months.

Dennis and I, we had this major argument and just kind of sent me over the edge.

I don't necessarily like who I am in the relationship right now. This breakup is

just something that I need to do for me.

Of course, you're dealing with a lot right now. What I know that I've done in

the past to keep pushing forward and not stop is not fully immerse myself in

what I'm going through. So I don't want to stop and deal with it. The only thing

I know what to do with my emotions is compartmentalize.

This is what I care about. Black lives matter. This is what I'm fighting for.

This is work. This is PJ.

Relationship is not fair. This is family.

That's the only way I'm able to do it. Because to be honest with y 'all, I'm

like so broken. I'm so weak. I can't even deal with it.

Coming up next.

You know good and well how I feel about this man. Not about the wedding. She

loves me.

And he loves me. Y 'all both love me. And you guys are making me feel like a

fucking asshole.

That's what I said. My cheeks were out a little bit. You look great. You're

going to a pool.

I have nothing to worry about.

Good to meet you. Thank you for having us. Absolutely. Thank you for coming.

And I see you laid it out for us. It's gorgeous.

Absolutely. That makes me want to get married all over again. I mean, it's

gorgeous. Yes, we may just have to renew our vows, ring upgrade.

You know. Love it. The usual.

Love it. I will too. Oh, yes.

I'm the queen. You did whatever you want.

Okay. Absolutely.

You know, it's been heavy weighing on me.

All of the stress with Black Lives Matter, worrying about my people.

Portia, do you want some hookah?

Um, yeah.

I have hookah. And also worrying about my home life with Dennis.

It's just been a whole lot, though. I'm definitely in serious need of a girl's

day. The only thing I didn't do was poke holes in it. You're supposed to use

this. No.

No? No. Well, what are you supposed to do? Let the woman work.

So, yes. I'm going to use my earring.

Nice.

Now that is a total secret.

Your holes can't be too big.

Oh, I think I'm going to do this one. It has to be a wop hole.

You see my holes? They're extra tight.

Okay.

A wop hole?

It's tight? Oh, okay.

One. And two. And three. Oh, my hole is big. Mine is one size fit all.

But isn't all wop good?

I know. All wop is not good wop. Because if you have a big wop and it's wop.

That's nothing.

Now I'm just swimming in the ocean. We want you to get lost in the water now.

want to find you afterwards.

What is this?

Okay, you know what? Just light it. Then we're going to test to see which one is

best.

Okay. I'm about to hand you another one. It's a little strong.

Okay, wait. I like the first one.

Force up.

It is. Honey, turn on the hot tub, please.

I love this marriage. If I can't yell at you and tell you what I need you to be

doing, I don't want to.

Did I hear somebody say, what, what, what, what?

Oh, my gosh, I feel like you could do a music video.

We're in Kentucky protesting for Breonna Taylor.

And we got arrested just literally standing there peacefully protesting.

honestly, I wasn't scared.

I mean, I had already been arrested before. I wasn't scared or nothing.

But I will tell you this, y 'all. When I got back, I cried for three days

straight. I believe it.

Because when I got back, that's when I found out about Jacob. Jacob Blake. And

it's like, how?

How are we a whole nation going through this?

With the awareness. That is the part that was with the awareness. I'm not

going to lie. I cried so much, y 'all. It was ridiculous.

We're witnessing life being taken. We're witnessing a murder. And the impact of

that, it's nuts.

But you know what? Me being from the South, I have experienced all of this.

for me, it's not that it's new.

I'm just tired.

But the thing that brings me out every time I'm broke down and I just feel like

I just can't take it no more. I wake up and I see another person.

We can do something. We are not absolutely helpless. We feel helpless

our flesh is tired. They've beaten us down. We're psychologically dealing with

trauma. But we are not.

The same way that I can stand out there and do that. No, you don't need to do

that to the extreme.

But yes, you can talk to people and educate them on why they need to vote.

What does it mean when we say defund the police?

It's education.

It's creating voices.

And it's like really reframing a society, like you said, especially in

that's existed for so long. Yeah. I don't think that people really are

the trauma that Black people are living in right now. I mean, if you were to

wake up every single morning and say, see a person who looks just like you

killed, that's very traumatizing. We are trying to find a way to make the

bleeding stop.

These are my gifts to you.

Oh, thank you guys for coming.

You don't come to the Goulbadia house without having a gift.

Goulbadia. Goulbadia.

I've been asking you to please take these boxes downstairs.

I'll take care of it. You keep saying that. You keep saying you're going to,

they're still there.

I'm busy.

Well, I finished the kids' room.

I just need a little help. Can you do that? Guess what I'm doing. Help me

aren't you moving into this new house too?

From COVID to my three surgeries, life has been crazy.

On top of that, Ralph and I are in the process of purchasing a new home.

My first home I've ever purchased, so I'm super excited.

It is literally around the corner from where we live now. And it's over 9 ,000

square feet, so we can definitely stay in our corners when need be.

Now we just have to find out where we're going to put all this in the new house,

right?

And I need to go over there and really, like, measure stuff out.

When can we go buy the house?

I think we can go right now. Can we take a box and actually put it in the house?

Like, this is our house. Well, it's not until I buy it.

I signed a sale agreement.

Yeah, that was nothing.

Okay, so what else happened?

So we have to do the appraisal, and then I get my attorney involved.

Our attorney. It's our house. Our attorney. Oh, God.

So we have to make sure the title is clean. We arrange a closing date.

And then we signed.

OK. So we are going to get the house. It's our house. I can say it's our

I won't say anything.

That's something you just don't do.

That's why I say, you just focus on packing up. Well, I don't want to pack,

then we pack, and then we out, and we ain't got nowhere to live.

No. That's kind of scary. Look at me. Do you think I would put you and my family

in that position?

No. But can I be a part of the process? Because you're kind of just doing

everything, and I don't really know what's going on.

Can I just, like, write down the steps for you, and then you just see it on

paper?

I'm definitely not a woman that wanted to be kept. I wanted to have a partner.

But Ralph can be controlling.

You know, he wants to be the knight in shining armor. I definitely am grateful,

and I see his value. And sometimes I just feel like he doesn't see mine.

You're trying to insert yourself into things that you have. No, everybody,

you buy a house together, that's a beautiful thing, together.

It is. And you want to make it isolated. This is team.

It is, but we have different parts of the team. Drew's responsible for the

packing. I'm responsible for the business side of things. He said that.

what? I'm just going to remove the word I from my name. vocabulary. You should.

No more I. You really should.

I, I, I, I.

This is team.

It is, but we have different parts of the team. Drew's responsible for the

packing. I'm responsible for the business side of things. He said that.

that. You know what? I'm just going to remove the word I from my vocabulary.

should. No more I. You really should. I really feel like when we're getting

along, it's forever.

But when we have these arguments, at a certain point, it's like enough is

enough. We got to get our act together for the sake of our kids and for our

marriage if we want this thing to last.

You're giving me such a hard time, yo. I really don't. I tell you, you're a

great husband. I'm just saying, don't think for a second you don't have areas

where you can grow.

I think we both do.

Sometimes I can get things wrong, and I'll admit it.

Good. Well, I called a counselor that works with, like, couples.

Honestly, when we move in this house, I don't want to bring our past into this

home. No, but I want us to, you know, just be.

A home that we can, like, see our kids grow in, you know?

So who is this counselor?

Her name is Love McPherson.

Have you already spoken with her? Yeah. So you already gave her, like, a bias so

that she's already trying to prejudge me?

No, no, no, no.

Let me tell you what I need you to fix on Ralph.

I didn't say that. I'm sitting here saying I found us a counselor. That's a

thing. Can you just say, great job, babe?

Can I just hear anything positive? I'm just asking a question. You're always

finding the wrong in everything I do, even when I don't do nothing wrong.

We're standing in front of our house we're about to buy, and we're arguing.

wouldn't say it's an argument. This should be a celebration.

Are you agreeing to counseling?

Can't we just say?

I'm definitely down with counseling, because Lord knows. I just said it. We

it. Lord.

Lord, we need you.

You're nice, babe.

Even in the rain.

Governor's talent.

It's so grand, so it's going to be so different when he gets here. Hi. Hi.

Good to see you. Good to see you too. Hey, Courtney and Cameron.

Hey, Courtney.

This is Mike.

Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you too.

Welcome to Governor's.

Finally, we made it. Mike just wants to get married.

no matter where we get married on 10 -10 -20. Do you like anything to drink

before we start the tour?

But I think that weddings pretty much set the tone for the marriage. Since

here at the beautiful venue, I hope Mike is sold on. What are you having, babe?

Like a soda, a splash of cranberry.

Gotcha. Same. Matter of fact, my sister's going to meet us here. Can you

that three?

Y 'all trying to get the party started.

Yes, I'm waiting to do it.

She wanted me to do the wop coming in the door.

I just wanted you to see it. Because I've been talking about this place. Hi.

Hey, sis.

Hey, Mal.

Hey. I love that Mike and Mal have a great relationship.

Really? You're talking to Mike for real?

He's never had a wedding. Don't talk to him. All right. Go ahead. And I think it

would carry a lot of weight if Mal said to him, let's just focus on trying to

make it work. Where should we go first? Let's go this way. Okay, perfect.

All right. This is probably my favorite entrance.

Which is the grand staircase that will take you up to the ballroom.

Well, see, they would come in through here.

Yes.

Well, these two doors. Well, any of these doors, I guess.

And all the parking and stuff is out here. What's going to be here right

Well, Courtney.

Well, just, you know, vibe with me. I think it'll be amazing if we just have,

like, a nice aerialist here.

Wait, did you hear the part about the aerialist? Like, an aerialist. You know,

the girl, like, up on the pole. Oh, an aerialist. Oh, a stripper one or, like,

on a... No, not a stripper. But not the stripper.

I mean, she may have some stripper moves, but she won't be a stripper.

look classy. Give that, like, wow factor when they come in.

So far, so good.

And now we'll go up to the pre -function area.

And this will be where your grand charcuterie would be.

The pre -function area.

Okay. That's going to be so nice under the chandelier. Under the chandelier.

So this is where they'll hang out before the wedding, drink, eat.

Yes.

Oh, wow.

You're going to be really excited about this.

Oh, yeah.

Here is your grand ballroom.

Oh, my.

And it's huge.

And the best part?

Go outside to the balcony.

Wow. So this is awesome.

This is amazing.

Is that the... Yes. Oh, my God.

Oh, this is where you're going to get married? Yes.

This is gorgeous.

We have all this area down here.

People can be outside. That's a big thing. So what's the COVID restrictions

right now?

We're going to be able to fit 250 people here? Yeah.

Outside? We're going to do, like, a lot of indoor -outdoor spaces throughout the

whole entire wedding, so... And masks. Yeah, and masks.

Or Shield. Yeah, Shield.

We do have until October.

We just want to plan to. Well, we're going to give you guys a minute to,

discuss. Thank you, Courtney. No matter what happens, you can still have it at

the Bailey Lake House or wherever, small.

Right? Mm -hmm.

I just wanted to make sure that we have that day.

Clearly, I'm team 10 -10 -20.

Mm -hmm.

Clearly. Okay?

Right. So what happens, though, if things change and there's another

and we're, like, a week out?

I don't want to have a tiny wedding. But then you say it's my wedding, too.

Yeah, and the reason why I want to have a big wedding is mostly because of you.

But I don't care.

I want us to make a decision that we're going to be married on 10 -10 -20,

regardless of the situation.

Are you?

My mom's my sister, and the only thing I really require of her, really, as a

sister, is to just have my back.

We're wearing masks right now, so we have to plan for something like that.

I'm asking is, on 10 -10 -20, am I going to be your husband?

I don't know, Mike.

To me, it's not about the date, it's about whatever is the right time. It's

about the date, but you keep saying it's the perfect date. Well, wait, did I

tell you the wedding date?

October 10th, so 10 -10 -20. You have, like, a wedding date.

Mm -hmm. 10, 10, 20. I saw your post. You did?

That's a perfect day, right?

Clearly, I'm team 10, 10, 20. Mm -hmm.

Clearly. When it happens, it's going to be the perfect day. Okay, fine.

We said it was 10, 10, 20.

I got it. God and COVID -19 said it might not be 10, 10, 20. I got it. So we

have to come on the new whatever the plan B or the plan C or the plan D or

whatever the hell it is together.

Like, I don't want it to be like, what are you going to do?

It's a pandemic. It's COVID -19.

Everyone's going to be in mass. So what's your decision, Cynthia?

What are you deciding?

What's important to you? I don't know. I just want to marry you. And this is

where I stepped out six months ago to marry you. So I'm saying if you want to

marry me, then it shouldn't matter who's around us, right?

It never matters. But if you say, hey, you want it just to be me and you, or

want to share with our friends and family?

I'm not trying to take that away from you. All right. So then don't.

I want to be excited about getting married. I think you should be excited

regardless. I am excited regardless. That's my whole thing. You don't sound

excited. I am excited regardless.

Does she sound excited? You don't sound excited. I am excited. No, you're not.

Do you think I'm excited regardless? You're telling me. You sound very

Now, you know, you of all people, and this is when you need to not be on his

side about everything and have my back.

You know good and well how I feel about this mom.

It's not about the wedding. She loves me. And he loves me. Y 'all both love

other. That's very true.

We were just trying to talk about Plan B. And I want to have you feel like an

asshole wanting to have this celebration with you. Babe, come here. And you guys

are making me feel like a fucking asshole.

It's just about Plan B. That's all. It wasn't about this.

I don't know about Plan B. We're in a pandemic.

But we have to because we're in a pandemic. Babe, come here.

Don't walk away.

You know good and well how I feel about this man. Not about the wedding, but I

still want a wedding. And I don't want to have to feel like an asshole for

wanting to have a big celebration with you. Don't walk away. Them coming at me

at the same time, that's frustrating. I have every right to be optimistic and

try to work it out. You still loving it, Cynthia?

Yeah, I love it. I don't know, your energy's shifted.

It's really a lot.

trying to, like, think about, like, things that I can't really control.

Well, I'm sorry, but we're going to, you know, make sure that everything that we

can control is in order.

All right, well, I'll see you guys later.

It's so nice to have you. I feel like my back is up against the wall.

It's not a good feeling.

At least I know you like the venue.

What if I didn't like the venue?

Then I wouldn't want to have it there.

I keep telling you, though, my prize is you. People don't talk about weddings.

They talk about how is your marriage.

You can have the most expensive wedding in the world and get divorced three

months later.

You can have the cheapest and get divorced three months later. It depends

you are married.

That's all that matters.

Yeah, I agree. You'll say things like, If that means we're going to get

you know, in 2021.

I'm just looking at all options.

Okay, here's what I feel. After listening to everything, if for some

can't get married there, I don't want to get married at all that day.

Because you want the people to be there. The courthouse isn't going to be good.

So we'll just postpone the wedding.

Just won't do it. I feel like you think that.

I should be enough regardless.

And there should never be any doubt in your mind, you know, my reasons for

marrying. You don't understand your contradictions because you're... I'm not

contradicting myself.

I told you I want to marry you. Okay, so tell me on 10 -10. So all I'm telling

you is what I want. This is what I want. If I can't have it, then we can pull

over and get married now. You go back and forth. You vacillate, babe.

You have said that I need my wedding. I never said need.

I never said I need. And I told you that. So please don't say need again.

Because I never said I need this wedding. Calm down.

If you're going to quote me, then get it right. That's what I'm talking about.

This is where we go wrong.

I'm trying to have a conversation with you. But you get turned up about this.

Yeah, but you have to be accurate with what you say. I want.

To get married to you. Do you want to get married on 10, 10, 20?

Do you, do you, do you, are we going to get married on 10, 10, 20? I don't need

to get married. Are we going to get married? Are we, are we going to get

married? I don't need to get married at all. No, I'm asking you a question. This

is what I want. I'm asking you a question.

All right, well then you can tone it down. I'm asking you a question. Are we

going to get married on October 10th, 2020?

I don't know. Good.

We good.

We good.

Hello? I'm not doing it.

We don't talk about it anymore.

Next time on The Real Housewives of Atlanta.

Portia King!

Portia King!

Has anyone talked to Portia? I know she was arrested again.

Why did you say it like that?

Because at this point, it just seems like maybe they're putting themselves in

position to be arrested.

Respect would be someone not emasculating me. I just am not going to

certain things.

Cynthia, you bring it up. You bring it up. No, no, no. Let me finish.

Let me finish. Listen, I let you talk. I let you talk. You're my friend. Just

listen to me and support me. Just shut up and listen and support me.

Of course, this is Lauren.

She's feeling a little apprehensive about you coming.

Y 'all know about this?

I know nothing about this. You're just finding out.

Somebody's paying for my hair and makeup. I know that.

I'm done.