All language subtitles for The Real Housewives of Atlanta – S12E21

Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

They announced they're getting a
divorce.

Oh, my God.

You can see her whenever she comes here.
And what about when he comes here? Are

you going to stay here?

Where is he going to be? Oh, no, I don't
want him to stay here.

I've never been separated before, and I
lost being able to communicate with

someone every day. And to suffer a loss
of that, it's been very difficult.

What's going on with the house? When is
the closing?

On Friday.

Mike and I have gone through hell to
find the perfect house. Five finished

bedrooms, three -car garage, four -sided
brick. It's gorgeous.

You don't want to talk to Mommy?

I do.

Why are you crying?

Why are you crying?

Uh -uh.

Two months ago, I almost lost my family
because I was being selfish, so... I

want you to put your ring back on.

I'm just trying to make everything work.

I went to support Portia's fundraising
event.

All right, go support them. No, don't
act like this.

I was gone with the wind, but now I'm
back and twice as fabulous.

I'm living my dream, not above my means.

This phoenix has risen, and I'm saying,
bye, ashes.

The only time that I look back is to see
how far I've come.

Don't check for me unless you got a
check for me.

I'm on a spiritual journey and still
traveling first class.

I'm a PJ.

She good.

I had her in my bed last night, and it
was so funny because in the middle of

night, she got closer to me.

I was like, oh, my God.

Let's steal some milk in there. Let me
see if I can smell it.

You ain't going to smell nothing but
Chanel.

Better hurry because my way was moving
fast, yeah. And I don't answer if it

ain't about the cash, yeah.

Welcome to swag.

That was a cute man. Thank you. Did you
pay for it?

Yes, ma 'am.

Make sure.

Can we get some cocktails going?

So that's all the rest of the stuff I'm
off the dishwasher, right? Yeah. Just

need to close up the boxes, tape them.
And then that's the word back there. Got

to pack that up. You ready to go to the
new house and play?

All my stuff is finished. I'm done.

It's over with.

I appreciate you trusting me to lead the
family.

You're welcome, baby.

This is the final day in my condo. And a
flood of emotion.

And then when the movers come, just make
sure that they wrap the chairs, wrap

the table.

Got it.

You find that house that my kids are
going to grow up in.

Oh, little house.

It was real.

Oh, this feeling. I can't even describe
it. It's like strawberries and new baby

and fried chicken and good times.

Like, it is everything.

Can you say bye -bye?

Bye, house.

Where's mom?

I'm glad it's, you know, getting cooler.

Not too cold, but I can still wear
shorts.

You look hot. I like this look.

Girl.

What? There's just been so much going
on. What is going on?

I almost shouldn't even be here right
now because Ty, girl, he let me have

What did you? I just told you to leave
my child alone.

So, when I went to Portia's event, I was
just really... coming back from Chicago

on my one day off.

And I already knew they don't tape on
Saturdays. So I was like, oh, I can come

home Friday and Saturday, then I get
back on Sunday. Right.

But Don Juan was like, okay, well, if
you're going to be home, then he wanted

to host this dinner that Roc Nation was
doing for women in entertainment.

So you've been gone a whole week, and
then you come home, and the two days you

have, you're working the whole time.
What did he have to say?

Oh! What?

didn't he say he had me in tears he made
me feel so bad we need you i love my

kids but i want to spend time with you
as well i want to spend time with you

well act like it he already was feeling
away about me doing the sex scene

in the show but i mean what he he was he
had very valid points okay so

Because, you know, I always felt guilty
because I do hurt so much.

But I just feel like... It's for your
family.

Yeah, it's everything I do. It's like I
feel like it's helping everything that

we're all trying to do. You know what
I'm saying? A lot of people don't

understand. I help a lot of people.

Not just my immediate family.

I have other kids in my life that I look
out for.

Friends of the family. Like, I'm the one
who comes through for everybody when

something goes wrong. That is something
that I have to work on.

I was watching a show.

And the sex scene was so graphic.

I mean, he was, like, from the back,
from the side, up in the air, up against

the wall.

It's similar to, like, the scene I have
to do.

That is a lot. I mean, I get what you're
saying.

You're his wife.

Right, I know.

And you are simulating sex with another
man, and he's not there, and he's trying

to be positive, but then it's like, it's
a fight.

I know.

How much money do you want to make,
girl?

Like, you got it all.

But how often do you get this beautiful
dream family?

Sometimes I wish that Mark was more like
Todd.

Please, the money you already have. But
how often does a great love come around?

I know I'm not the one to give marital
advice right now.

But you don't want to end up like me
right now.

Speaking of, I'm sorry. I'm giving you
my woe with me story.

How are you? No, I mean, you know.

Nothing has really changed. You know, we
haven't spoken.

Did you take him off block?

No. Maybe that's why you haven't spoken.

Have you thought about that?

When he learns how to talk to me, then I
will take him off of block.

If he's not willing to work on it, I'm
not left with anything.

You know what I mean? It's just like,
what am I working with? We literally had

everything. Then it just went to hell.

Well, it doesn't have to stay in hell.

When you see other people going through
things, obviously it makes you look at

your own relationship and say, I guess
we ain't that bad. You guys can always

put forth an effort to try to fix it. I
don't know. I'm hoping that Todd and I

will continue to love on each other.

Because that's the main thing, right?

But anyway, this is...

You're taking up a lot of time in your
day, and I don't want Todd calling me.

Yeah, girl, I got to get back home. No,
I'm kicking you out. You have to go.

The funny thing is, he's working right
now.

Okay, so what is his favorite food?

Salad. Okay, so go get a great salad.

Surprise him at work.

He's going to be emotional. He's not
going to be in one place.

But he's going to eat it all. Well, as
long as he eats two salads, I'm okay

that.

up next. I still would like to have an
actual wedding.

I want to plan a wedding.

Now you hear me?

You hear me?

I know what you need. I know how to get
you right.

We need to stay in shape. I definitely
do.

I feel more comfortable in stretch stuff
now. My butt is out of control. That

ass is crazy.

That's all that good old new love and
stuff.

Anyway, what's been going on?

Well, just working.

How's business? I see the birthday
parties are taking off. Yeah. Business

picking up. It's a little slow through
the week still.

Okay. Are you guys offering more of an
incentive deal for some of the floor

nights? Like a cheaper rate for a
birthday party? Yeah, like if somebody

having a Wednesday and there's no...

real traffic on wednesday we're closed
on wednesday i know but if somebody

to come in and do a party then somebody
can come and work a party okay so we

would change the signs because on our
signs we're closed on wednesday so

whatever those signs outside reflect
that's the days that we have to operate

sister mel manages the bailey wine
filler which is great it would be great

have two days off where everybody have
two days off a week why

Why? I don't even have two days off.
It's a damn labor law or something that

have two days off. Two days off?

Yeah. I need to see that paperwork.

The thing about hiring family is if they
do something you don't like and you let

them know, they check you back.

Dave and I was also talking about, like,
we doing meeting greets on Thursday

night. When are you available, though?
Well. You don't even know your schedule,

so. I would have to look at my schedule,
see when I'm going to be in Atlanta,

when I'm going to be in L .A.

And figure it out. I know I'm your
sister, but I'm also your boss.

So you got to let me boss you. You know,
Noelle is in L .A. She has her first

audition for the Salt -N -Pepa
documentary.

So she wants to go more in acting. She
wants to do it all.

Basically, she doesn't want to come
back.

Noelle is out in L .A., and she's
staying at our place that I share with

out there. You know that she's not going
back to D .C., right?

You're not going to not go to school and
not do anything.

You're either going to work.

Or are you going to insurance?

I agree 100%. The great thing about
college is not going anywhere. She can

always go back. I just want her to
follow her dream.

Mike is looking at me like, how is
Noelle living here with me at this

my fiance is not here.

I got Noelle, but I can't even get you
here. So what does that mean?

That means you're going to move to L .A.
or you're moving to Atlanta? I don't

really know.

When you get married, you can't be
living in different cities. So you do

that, right?

Well, I know that's not ideal.

You can't do that.

Well,

we're trying to figure it out because
he's been spending more time here in

Atlanta, and it's not really fair.

I'm very happy.

When I'm in Los Angeles with my family,
everyone's there except me.

We just got to figure it out. But I
don't want to give up Lake Bailey

Lake Bailey is the one thing that I did
for me. I have to figure out a way to

have it all.

I love him, by the way. Just absolutely
love him. I think he's perfect for you,

and he will be the one that can put his
foot down with you, because I think that

you're an alpha, and I think that Mike
will get that ass in line.

Wow. Okay.

Big ass in line, because that ass is out
of control. There's a lot of ass to get

in line.

You making cookies?

I'm making cookies.

Babe, you got your phone?

Right here. Take a picture with me.
These are the outfits I bought for us in

Greece. Let me stand right here.

Look, look, PP.

Oh, don't turn your head.

PJ, daddy, baby.

Look right here, dada.

PJ. Here, excuse me, baby. Excuse me.

Excuse me, boo.

Excuse me, boo.

PJ. Look, look, look at him. Look at
him.

Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.

Okay.

She over it.

Want to drink your bye -bye?

Huh?

Here you go.

Here, Mama.

Take your bye -bye.

Yeah, there we go. She lit now.

So what's up, boo -boo? What you had
going on?

Work. I started, like, 7 o 'clock in the
morning.

Duluth's still super far, so... I know
it's still been a lot for you going back

and forth.

I mean, I'm here every Sunday. I'm here
as much as I can be during the week,

but, like...

It's a grind coming out here.

So what do you want to do? I know that
for us, this back and forth is not

working.

I mean, right now, it seems to be okay.
But, I mean, you know, I'm going to get

to a point where it's like you need to
be here every night. You know what I'm

saying?

That ain't really possible right now.

Why? All my stuff is somewhere else. I'm
not bringing all my stuff back here.

Why not?

Because I can't do it.

What do you mean you can't do that?

Sit down, babe.

Talk to me. So look, man, I know you
want me to be out here all the time, but

that can't happen, man.

Okay, you sound crazy.

You want to be out here all the time.
This is where your family is.

I understand this is where my family is,
but I ain't want to move all my stuff

back in here.

Why? And then you get mad, and then you
put all my shit back on.

There was a reason that that happened
before.

Because you do realize that you would
have still been here if you hadn't have

done what you did.

Well, you threw me out this morning.

Right. And now we're back together, and
you just make it back the way it was.

You know, I mean, we have had some
terrible issues, but where we're going

live keeps coming up. You see this
traffic out here?

Mm -hmm. This is why it's very important
for us to cut this commute down.

I've compromised. I came on here.

No, you haven't. Not mentally.

Distance is a little bit difficult when
you're trying to rebuild a relationship

after infidelity.

I'm doing the best I can to compromise.

Not really. We are engaged with a full
baby, and we live separately.

You know, there's some insecurity that's
there now, and you want the person to

be there all the time so that you can
spend quality time and, like, really fix

the relationship.

It took me almost two hours to get from
the city to Duluth today.

I think we should talk about this
another time. Why? Because you're not

the answer you want? No, because I think
you're playing with you.

I'm not playing. I'm taking it as a joke
a little bit.

All my people keep asking me, oh,
where's the wedding date? I ain't

wedding invitation.

Well, let's talk about it. That's what
we can talk about.

Y 'all supposed to be getting married on
New Year's Eve 2020.

That's a big -ass day.

It would have been, but we've been going
through a lot lately.

I felt like I would have PJ, start
planning a wedding, but it went in

It went... Have PJ cheat breakup.

Say what?

Cheat breakup.

And then now we're trying to go back and
figure it out. I understand that. I

don't want to plan no wedding. I still
would like to have an actual wedding.

We're just going to go get married. Why
are you all trying to argue? It's not an

argue.

I still would like to have an actual
wedding.

I don't want to plan no wedding. Why are
you all trying to argue? It's not an

argue. I'm gonna have a wedding.

For what?

Because I want to invite my friends and
family. What are you talking about? We

don't have no friends.

We're not doing no wedding. Why are you
saying that? That's not cool because you

didn't feel like that before.

Before, you wanted to have a baby shower
and do it up big. I wouldn't have a

gender reveal and do it up big and
invite everybody.

Now that you done something to me that
you feel that other people may be

or whatnot, now you want to close off
the wedding to people? I'm not playing

people's plates who don't really care
about what's going on. But that's not

for you to do something to me and now
all of a sudden you don't. I don't give

about nobody who cares about me.

Now you're being mean.

See, once we get the prenup done, then
we got to argue about a wedding.

OK, you know what?

You are having a bad night. We got a
long road, and that is not one of the

things on our road.

Let me know when you talk about prenup.

No, we need to get a prenup, because you
took me out of your crib.

And what they mean?

That is a perfect example of why prenups
are important.

Because you made it clear that what's
yours is yours.

You being mean tonight.

You being very mean. And I don't know
why you being mean. So I'm going to let

you be mean by yourself.

You leave me a cookie?

No. You leave me a cookie, bro? No, you
don't need no cookies. You don't need no

cookies. I'm going to eat all the
cookies. You don't even get a cooked

cookie.

You eat that.

Dennis can't have a cookie out that jar
and nowhere else, okay?

No cookies for you, hot dog man.

Yo, what's up?

Yo, B, why you fronting on me like that?

You're being bad.

You don't get to take any more shots.

Yeah. G money.

Yeah.

It's our anniversary.

I love it.

Not all bae love it. Do it again.

Do you like what you see? Cause you know
I rise high.

Eyes up here cause you know I say fly.

Boy, I know you like it.

We should have some champagne.

I'll be hiding under the bed as you open
it, okay?

You did that good. I can't do it.

Okay. Cheers, baby.

Cheers. For 23 years of more highs than
lows.

I'm just one of them cases, baby, where
they say you get married for better or

worse. My worst sometimes get in the
front.

What I mean for it to is just do it
sometimes.

This past year was really hard on our
relationship.

It's a lot, but it's a fight that you
were up for. You're going to do the

right? Mm -hmm.

Greg's health was down, and we couldn't
be intimate.

NeNe, you said you and Greg weren't
sleeping in the same room because of his

colostomy bag. Are you now back in the
same room together?

No. And Greg and I actually talked about
an open marriage.

How do you feel about open marriages?

Ain't nobody finna have no open
marriage. Now go to some male.

I brought the conversation up because I
knew that him having cancer was not a

time to divorce.

You look amazing.

Thank you. You too.

Reverend G, but he's a guy. He doesn't
want anybody else, as he says, eating

of his garden.

You want to get in the bed?

Me bed, me bed.

Listen,

last year was the first time since we've
known each other that we didn't sleep

together. When I got home, I couldn't
climb them steps.

And then you had to protect me. I could
not be a part of the radiation.

We definitely had a lot to happen in one
year, but, you know, my aunt always

says, too, that when you can just push
through stuff, when you come out on the

other side, you get to look back on the
experience and talk about it.

That's amazing.

Greg and I have been through everything
over 23 years. We've dealt with divorce.

I never wanted to be sitting here in
this situation talking about a divorce

breaking up my family. The second
marriage.

Remember... The vows you are about to
take will be broken only by death.

Sickness. I won't use those terms cancer
-free anymore. I will use the terms

that my cancer is non -detectable.

Amongst this group, everybody knows that
I've been married the longest. And our

marriage is doing better than any of
these groups. And those are facts. Okay?

Yeah, I'm looking at this room. You
really laid it out, didn't you? Well, I

wanted you to enjoy and relax. Should we
watch a movie?

Let's make a movie.

Oh, God.

I don't know about making a movie now.

My nickname's going to be Back Door
Billy.

Mm -mm.

Roof, roof.

I'm scared of the roof, roof, honey.

Don't be scared.

Come on.

Pull the cover on that.

Pull it up on your head. You're so nice.

Great stuff.

Coming up next.

This is not what I thought a marriage
would be like.

I'm getting ready to cut this, man.

Should we do a short squeeze?

Oh,

what a great day today is.

Welcome to our new home.

The Sterling Acres. I am officially a
homeowner at 35 years old. I am super

excited. Boom.

That's how we run it, run it.

You know we run it, run it.

Okay.

Apparently she's on the computer this
morning. Look.

She done checked several emails.

Well, baby, let me get to work. It look
like PJ already earning her check.

You know we run it, run it. We are here
on the back lot of a Rue Brothers

studio. You know what the theme of this
is? A star is born. I'm going to go big,

but I'm going to let those guys kind
of...

Scale me down. Y 'all know I'm cheap.

It's the last baby.

So red carpet is here.

We have media.

Babe, what up?

What's going on?

You frozen, babe?

So we're doing a walkthrough right now.

I had this bright idea that he wants to
do a baby shower theme on a movie set.

How much time you got on your break?

Okay.

But I'm in Chicago for my role on The
Shine.

So a lot of these things, my husband,
he's taking charge.

Okay. I just want to tell you I love
you. Love you, too. Sorry about that.

All right, so we have media questions.
Are we still with truck park, though,

just so I know? Yes. For gift drop -off?
Then also, I know Don Juan is there, so

he can, you know, fix anything that's
not going right. As soon as they get off

the carpet, it's like, boom, gift
touched.

More than anything, we have love, right?
We got a cutie pie.

Thank you, Father God. We ask you to
keep us on a path of being together.

Hello?

Hey, I'm here.

Okay, I'll open the door from here.

Okay. Come all the way up to my third
floor closet.

Okay.

Hello.

Hi. Hi, baby. Oh, straight red.

I want to get a hug, man.

I'm sorry.

I'm so... I know.

I know.

Oh, my goodness.

Yeah. It's a lot of stuff.

You got this much stuff here?

I mean, he lived here. Of course.

She was here all the time.

How are you doing?

I'm okay. I'm just trying to figure out
what to do with all this stuff, you

know?

Well, okay, I just have a few questions
before we get started.

What are we doing? Are we thinking about
packing it up? Like, have you spoken to

him? I have not spoken to him. You know,
he calls and FaceTimes with Brooklyn,

but... With you FaceTiming or just the
nanny? The nanny.

You know, if he wants his stuff, he can
have his stuff. I say, what if he

changes his mind and I won't come back
home? Then he can send the stuff back.

But he has got to make the first move in
letting me know he still wants his

marriage.

Is it all up to Mark to decide?

I'm not telling you to give up on your
marriage, but I'm just saying you can't.

save this marriage. Y 'all have to save
this marriage.

I know that Kenya really wants this
marriage to work, but it's like he isn't

really interested in even trying to save
the marriage.

I feel like you have been trying. You're
like nicer to Martin than you are to

Eddie. It's true.

I think that she has taken things that I
don't think she would have normally

have accepted had Brooklyn not been in
the picture.

When I say That's true. You have the
patience of a grasshopper when it comes

Mark. That's true. I've tried. You
tried. I ain't never seen you be the way

are with him.

And my whole idea was I have to be my
husband's ride or die, but what I will

never be is somebody's just punching
bag.

Or doormat. Or doormat. I don't know
anything.

I don't have access to his family. Wait
a minute. I don't have...

the common decency of just being able to
pick up the phone and FaceTime Brooklyn

with her grandmother.

Girl, okay.

Mark's parents have not seen Brooklyn.
I've been through...

a similar, you know, situation where my
family didn't want to have a

relationship with me, and I was a baby,
and I don't want that for my child.

I'm so sorry you're going through all of
this.

It's so many things. I'm going to cut
this man.

No, no.

What?

You can't talk to him.

Should we do short sleeves?

Should we make a muscle shirt out of it?

Like, that's crazy.

The fact that Kenya doesn't have basic
information about Mark, like...

His parents' contact information is
crazy.

I mean, what if something happens to
him?

Who is she supposed to call?

You know, from everything that you've
told me, honestly, I'm like... Like, I

hate that, but that's how I feel,
because I love you. I don't know,

this is just... It's very hard, and,
um... I just feel confused most

of the time, because this is not what I
thought a marriage would be like.

I don't know. I just hope I'll be okay.

Look, you're going to be fine.

You are deserving.

Look, you are deserving of love and
respect, Kenya.

If Mark can turn it around and be that
husband, then I am praying for you guys

and rooting for you guys. But if he
can't, then I'm praying that you have

strength to continue your journey.

I remember when I put the first shirt in
that closet or when we bought his first

pair of shoes from New York, how he
would come every week and little by

build his closet and how neat he kept
it. All right, let's let the movers do

this because I just don't want to see
him pack up and I'll just put some paper

on the door.

So when I walk past, I don't see it.

Even though he may not be there that
day.

He was still there because I can see his
shirt and I can smell his cologne. And

it's just very hard to now imagine that
it won't be there.

Then what? It feels like an empty home.

Baby steps, day by day.

Every day is going to get a little
easier.

Okay.

Coming up next.

So if you value your career, then you
prioritize your friends.

And then your family? I'm not trying.

I love

you.

I'll call you a little bit later. I'll
call you when Cynthia leaves.

Okay.

You want to answer the door?

It's Auntie Cynthia.

Mike's in New York on the Tiffany
Haddish case.

You see Daddy? You want to go say hi to
Daddy?

Welcome. Oh, my God.

Put this over here for me. Put the bag
over there. Thank you. And show her the

kitchen where you can put the cake.

Wait, where is Maverick? Oh, he's up
there. This is beautiful.

Oh, my God. I love that.

You've done a lot, Eva.

I don't know how you did this so
quickly.

I still got boxes from my mood three
years ago. I need you to come get my

again.

To know me is to know I don't play any
games. If I'm leaving, I'm packing up.

And if I'm here, we're getting settled.

Girl, listen.

How is this possible? I have movers. I
had people come hang all my pictures and

stuff. Has any of the other girls been
in your beautiful home?

No. Lord, no. You think I've had anybody
here before you?

Will you be inviting any of the girls to
this home?

Nope. No, just playing.

And it's so new.

Girl, let's go down.

Thank you, Marley.

Say thank you, Marley. Thank you. Mikey,
say thank you, Marley.

Thank you, Marley. Very good.

I love your new house. Thank you. And
we're neighbors. I know. And I love that

you are basically only three inches away
from me. I love it. What about, like,

security? Do you feel safe here? I do.
You can't crack a window in here. They'd

be like, left window in the foyer open.

So since Marley's name changing,
everything's been okay?

So you don't listen to the internet at
all?

Marley's donor is trying to get Marley's
name changed reverse back to her old

name. He's trying to get custody of
Marley.

Custody?

He ain't about to baby a cheeseburger
when we went to child support.

He fell asleep here in my state. This
man is not trying to leave you alone.

He's crazy.

At this point, I have reconciled with
the reality that Kevin's crazy. And he's

just going to be crazy.

And in the meantime, twirl.

But I can't live in fear, and I can't
let him affect Marley at all.

And you have, like, a wedding date.

Mm -hmm. 10, 10, 20.

And when you get married and come home
from your honeymoon, where's home?

don't know.

Girl, I just moved up the street from
you.

Right.

Up the street.

Yeah. Up the street, T .T. As your
friend, I support wherever you go.

But ask Mike to move to Atlanta.

We got to figure it out.

Go and Marley get chocolate milk.

Okay. You'll put the straw in there for
them?

Okay. Thank you. You can have one, too.
Yes.

Speaking of long -distance
relationships, I actually went to Kenya

her. How's she doing? She did ask me to
come over and help her pack Mark's

things up.

Oh, my God.

I kind of hate that. I feel so bad for
them.

This is all she's ever wanted.

But, you know, if this is not going to
be Kenya's happy ending, like, it's

I don't want her to have to settle. At
some point, she's going to find the love

she deserves. Well, I feel
wholeheartedly that she wants to be in a

relationship. I'm just not sure if he
wants to be in it. Well, she definitely

don't need to be nowhere where nobody
want her. I mean, Kenya is quite the

catch, honey. I don't think she's going
to suffer in that department. Well,

let's toast.

I would like to toast to my friend and
my neighbor.

Thank you.

Congratulations. I'm so happy for you.
Thank you. This is everything.

I'm just going to need you to be not
pregnant for at least a year. Our pool,

game is strong right now. I need to be
extra strong. I might get pregnant on

your wedding night. I'm going to tell
you right now.

Yeah, you good?

Yep. I'm just waiting on this counselor
to get here.

I'm ready.

Who's this counselor?

Is it a guy or... It's a guy. I want you
to feel like it's non -biased. You know

what I'm saying? Yeah.

His name is Michelle.

A guy named Michelle.

Yeah. Not Michael.

No. Okay.

Oh, here he is.

Here we go.

Todd didn't really think we needed
counseling.

But in our friend group, there's been a
lot of issues in relationships. And so I

want to be proactive.

I'm getting a counselor, and Todd and I
are going to work through this.

Hey, how are you?

I'm Candy.

Good to meet you. Oh, where are you
from?

London. London.

Okay. Michelle, this is my husband,
Todd. Hello, Todd and Michelle. Nice to

you. Nice to meet you. Thank you so much
for having me. All right.

A friend of mine had passed her
information on. But it would be great if

could give us a little bit of your
background.

I am a psychologist. I specialize in
couples who are actually having

difficulties just with communication.

Oh, cool.

So I'm really interested in how you guys
are doing.

Lately, we've taken on lots of work
projects. Right.

You know, we have three kids, one on the
way.

So tell me about the one on the way.

Was it something that you're kind of
both excited about?

Is this something that you've been
planning for?

Yes. Okay.

Super excited about.

It was intentional.

We have a surrogate. Right.

Having a baby through a surrogate is not
something that happens overnight. No,

and that can be extremely stressful as
well.

Yeah.

Exactly. Anyway, so this is something
that we're excited about.

But obviously it's a new experience.

And, you know, trying to figure that out
too.

Every now and then we have our little
moments where it's like, you know what I

mean? Because I think it's just because
there's been so much happening, we get

stressed and then sometimes we can go
off on each other.

Right. And to me, it typically spawns
from something work related.

And Todd, for you, what's your
experience?

I think we've been so focused on success
that we've become great business

partners. Right.

We love each other to death, but we just
haven't had time to be happy together

lately. So then you never really spend
time just kind of enjoying the moment.

Never, never.

You know, you need to have that space
where you can influence each other to

slow down.

I think that's kind of the conversation
I had with you the other day. So she's

been gone.

Right. I get you have to go stay out of
town because you're trying to do this

acting thing. You're trying to, let's
get it. I got you.

But when you come here, the little time
that you do have, you book it with

miscellaneous bullshit.

Your friend's little event, it may mean
a lot to your friend, but right now,

that's not priority.

Right. And I'm here at the house, so I
see how it affects the kids. Like my

he's three years old.

and he'll come four in the morning and
get in the bed and say, where's mama?

My son, he's three years old, and he'll
come four in the morning and get in the

bed and say, where's mommy?

You can't be at everything.

So you got to prioritize what you value.

So if you value your career, which I'm
supporting you, then you prioritize

your friend and their event and then
your family.

I don't know if that makes total sense.

And how do you feel when you hear Todd
say that, you know, sort of like

prioritizing your time?

I'm an emotional person. I'm sorry.

It's okay to be emotional.

I do realize that I have an issue with
trying to find

balance. Right.

And I am definitely a person that, even
if I didn't get a chance to sleep,

if I went and was there to help support
everybody's thing and do my own, I would

do that.

What?

If you choose that over your family,
then what's going to happen to your

I'm not trying to.

You'll be gone a whole day too sometime.

He's working just a lot.

You're doing the same thing you're
saying I'm doing.

So what I'm hearing is that you both
have lots of aspirations, lots of goals,

but one of those goals needs to be the
relationship.

You mentioned six months ago is when you
started feeling like there's a drift.

That's when it seemed like...

a lot more of those little arguments
here and there would happen.

Say, for instance, in his relationship
with Kayla, which is his daughter we

into the marriage with. Sometimes I feel
like he wants to control

what I do for Kayla.

For instance, on her birthday, I wanted
to give her some money. And they had a

disagreement, fell out. So the money
that we were going to be giving her, he

like, nah,

uh -uh, she need to call me. And I'm
like... So that was her punishment?

My daughter is 23 years old, and she's
not being responsible.

Okay. I don't want to teach her that you
get shit for doing nothing, even if

it's your birthday.

It's her birthday.

And I don't feel guilty about it.

Todd and I definitely parent
differently, which is not good to me.

baby is almost here. But I feel like
we're just going to have to have good

communication and do our best to work
at, you know, raising great human

It's where we disagree.

I get it. And I hear what you're saying.
I think what I'm finding now is that

there is, you have a very kind of
specific way of.

dealing with and seeing the world and
that's based on how you were raised and

you have a very different way which is
much more softer much more kind of

maybe it's not working like this but let
me help you in a different way um and i

think that sometimes that can that can
work really nicely and sometimes it can

be conflicting so with everything that's
going on business -wise and the three

children that you have how is your sex
life

Oh, not as good as it used to be.

Not saying that the sex ain't good, but
meaning like we haven't been having sex

as much.

Oh, man, you know, we ain't did that in
a minute. What did it get us turned up?

Right. Got that out of our system.

All right, let's get back to work now.
We both got to get back to work. You

know, like, we on some real, like,
conquer the world stuff, and it's a gift

a curse.

But I also think what you don't want to
do is to lose sight of what you have

together. You know, because you could be
chasing these dreams and having all

these accomplishments, and then you lose
your partner.

at the end of it because you've lost
communication, you've lost the spark,

you've lost the love. But, yeah, I think
you guys are on the right road. It's

practice. So I think you really have an
opportunity now to start to think how

we're going to build these small moments
with each other that doesn't feel like

six months apart to have a date night.

I think that's really what I'd like you
both to focus on, just cud and candy

time. We'll make that.

Next time on the season finale of The
Real Housewives of Atlanta.

Mimi has very few friends.

Today I had no friends.

Said you was a bully.

And the other day when she came to my
event, this girl is making it look like

don't even care for my best friend who's
the closest to me.

We're one team and they're the other
team. People, they'll take your money.

right. You have to watch people.

A star is born.

You want to argue or you want to have a
good time? It's on you.

You just can't even say I apologize.

I'll say sorry when I feel like it.

Enjoy yourself.

Don't judge me now. Hold on. Don't judge
me because I ain't nobody touching you.

What you even doing that with me now?
They trying to like my house stuff.

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