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Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
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No, I got to tape the shot.
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Oh, the TV show.
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I have some nude scenes to do. What?
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Nude? I'm going to suck this gut in, and
I'm going to do this scene.
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If you have anything you want to get off
your heart, we're going to put it
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amongst the rest of the ruins, and it is
done. It will never be brought up
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again. Nobody cares about you. You get
your ass up. We're leaking.
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Bye.
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Why don't we play out a Greek tragedy?
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But you can be Mimi. I'll be Kenya.
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We are going to be you and we're going
to have a conversation.
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They can play whatever game they play.
I'm not a part of that bush.
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I was gone with the wind, but now I'm
back and twice as fabulous.
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I'm living my dream, not above my means.
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This phoenix has risen, and I'm saying,
bye, ashes.
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The only time that I look back is to see
how far I've come.
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Don't check for me unless you got a
check for me.
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I'm on a spiritual journey and still
traveling first class.
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Always told me watch your friends, watch
your homies. Yes. Money. Yes. All. Yes.
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Clothes. Yes.
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All. Yes. No matter what you got to keep
the eyes on. Yes. Yes.
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Baby, these big long brown legs, honey,
what's going on?
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Yes, honey, give me one of them. I want
one of them.
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So what's going on? What's your schedule
like?
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I have a full board meeting.
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The American Cancer Society got you
busy.
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Yeah, I'm busy.
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I got to speak.
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Greg has been cancer -free a good six
months. He takes all his medications,
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doing all of his holistic things. So I
think all those things played into him
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having a healthy life. I like where you
speak.
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Well, thank you, honey.
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You know, you were asleep when I came in
last night. So overall, it was a great
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trip. Me and Portia moved on. That's
good.
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But one of our hosts,
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her, Ken, everybody had heard that she
is possibly getting a
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divorce. And quite frankly, we were
going to embrace her. You know what I'm
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saying? Anyway, so she just completely
ignores me.
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And I don't dislike her like that.
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I just be being petty with the bitch
because she keep being petty with me.
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thing that really upsets me about Kenya
is that Kenya is picking a fight with
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me for no reason.
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Do anybody know what a problem is with
you?
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Portia and Tanya decided to host this
thing called The Ruin.
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Now, we'll say that I had a couple
drinks.
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But that doesn't have anything to do
with what was going on. She tried to
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well, you called my child a buffalo.
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She knows that I am not referring to her
child.
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She knows I was referring to her because
that very night that she's speaking up,
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I said hi to her. She didn't speak. And
I was like, she must be having a.
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Buffalo. You know what I'm saying?
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So she was like, well, anybody that
talks about my husband, my family, my
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you know, you're dead to me. You can't
talk to me. Bitch! Hey, you forgot you
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talked about everybody's marriage.
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Horsham had an arranged marriage with
Cordell, and she was basically hired to
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his beer.
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You talked about people's children.
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Worry about pimping your daughter out,
bitch. She'll suck for John Legend
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tickets, bitch.
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You've been involved in people's
relationships, but when it's done to
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like, oh, it's off limits.
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So she's sitting over there, and we
can't get nowhere.
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So I got up, and I thought I'd throw a
cup of popcorn at her. Just thought she
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might open her mouth and catch a cup of
it. Gobble, gobble.
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Right. I didn't leave out with the best
intentions, but I came in with good
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ones. That comment did all of this?
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She already was picking with me on
social media.
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So I don't know. I don't know what her
problem is. I know this. I don't f***
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with her, okay?
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That's that.
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Well, how can you?
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She's got walls up all around her.
You're giving her an olive branch and an
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olive tree and an olive orchard. So move
on.
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It's not bad.
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You want some stuff to pack?
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It's chilly there.
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Yes.
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I don't think I was ready for that
forecast.
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I'm going to need some sweaters.
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You ready for me to leave?
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Am I?
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Oh,
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it's like that.
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Baby Tucker will be here in seven weeks.
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And I am headed to Chicago tonight for
another 10 weeks.
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So I'm going to be flying back and forth
to make it all happen.
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You ready to go?
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I'm super excited about having a...
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real part of substance on a TV show. But
at the same time, there's so much stuff
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at home that I feel like I'm going to be
missing out on. We got this baby that's
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on the way.
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You've been chasing this acting thing
for a minute, so it's time for this to
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happen. You know what I mean? I'm not
totally into the sex scenes, but...
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Well, I'm thankful that you're trying to
be understanding.
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I'm trying. And you're being such a
great husband.
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Why would you get over it? You got to
come get close and hug.
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I'm okay.
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I want you to be okay with this.
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I am. I've never said I don't want you
to do it.
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It's just not the easiest thing, but I'm
going to be all right.
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If you're going to do it, you got to do
it.
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So you don't want to be whack.
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Oh. Hell no. So.
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I'm not going to be whack.
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Don't be confident you're going to be
good.
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Don't be all right.
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So what are y 'all off doing? Are you
going to be there when the baby comes?
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I'm definitely coming home. I'm going to
hold that week. But the way it's
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looking, it could possibly go past the
date that our delivery is happening.
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We can get like a tour bus to drive us
to Chicago for the.
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Those last few weeks of taping.
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In other words... You're saying last few
weeks? I can't be away from my newborn
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baby. I just want to be, like, the first
body that she's holding on to when she
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comes out. She's not hearing my voice
while she's in the womb.
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I just wanted her to bond with me.
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We got to work. We got to work together.
I'll just be back and forth.
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It's so much stuff we got going on, but
I still was trying to figure out if
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there was going to be time for us to,
like...
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Get like a little marriage counseling
session in.
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Do you have some hidden problems that
you're not telling me? No. I mean, I
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feel like we've had a couple moments in
this last couple months where either you
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got on my damn nerves or I got on your
nerves.
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You're like, uh, this is too. No, no.
It's like scared of success.
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Nobody's scared of success. Don't try to
talk to me like you just like, oh, you
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way more successful than me.
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I'm just, you know.
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Trying to be proactive and not wait
until we do have a problem.
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Yeah, we need a counselor.
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You need some counseling.
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Mm -hmm.
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Yeah.
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All right, let's do it. I'm ready.
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Okay. I got some stuff to get off my
chest. I got a lot of stuff that I need
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talk about.
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You let me know your schedule.
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My next off day. If you can be available
for it, I'll be there.
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Okay? All right.
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All right, babe.
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Let me get my stuff.
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Okay. Coming up next.
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It's going to be especially important to
make sure that in the event of divorce,
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he is disinherited from everything.
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If you're here to look at the wigs,
they're located over here.
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There are more in the bag that we can
show you.
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Looks like you've been in my closet,
bitch. Well, honey, uh... You're dressed
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like me, honey. I didn't know that we're
gonna be twins today.
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Look, I don't know where my friendship
is gonna go with Nene in the future, and
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the last thing I need is this damn Greek
tragedy to set me back.
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I was not feeling you, honey, in Greece
on the last day. Right! Because I was
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saying, you know, we've come a long way.
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And how dare you try to make fun of... I
was not. You sure?
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I promise you. You've definitely made an
effort. I did.
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And we were just trying to make light of
it, honestly.
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It was no shade.
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It was like, you know, let's just kind
of end it on a fun note. Right. And I
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going to represent you very well, honey.
Let me see how you were going to do me
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all this improvisation.
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What you need to understand is I was
trying to be a friend to you, honey. I
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trying to show you some compassion,
honey. Okay. But that's okay. You don't
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to worry about me.
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You don't have to worry about me because
this peach right here, honey, I will be
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taking it to the coffin, honey. Okay?
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I will be dead, honey, holding a peach
in my hand, bitch.
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I'm the one.
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H -B -I -C, honey. Okay, bitch.
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Okay, so please know that. From the
beginning, bitch. Catching all these
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legs, bitch. You used to be from the
beginning, bitch. You used to be long
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You was at home watching me, bitch.
Honey, this is NeNe Leakes. Just
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honey, I'm the one. I'm the one, bitch.
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H -B -I -C, honey. H -B -I -C, bitch.
The threat, bitch. The threat, bitch.
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We live in the same neighborhood, so we
bump into each other all the time. Oh,
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so this is another animal print party
I'm not invited to? I like this. It's a
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little secret meet -up. You know, let's
dress alike.
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It's cute.
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Okay, y 'all make sure y 'all be in my
event Friday at 12.
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It's my first little event, y 'all. We
just received an amazing offer.
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Oh. They would love for you to just tell
your story of pregnancy. I would love
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to help bring awareness to it.
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Charity has been a huge part of my life
since childhood.
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My family's charity, Jose Feed the
Hungry and Homeless, has been around for
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decades. This luncheon is to introduce
me as the celebrity ambassador for March
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of Dimes.
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We're just a bright color. My journey to
have a child was really hard for me.
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That's just something that I don't want
any other woman to feel. I just love the
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fact that they support mommies on their
journey to fertility, and so that's why
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I am very happy to partner with them.
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I have been better,
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but I'm okay.
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Tell me what's going on. What brings you
back in? Well, there has definitely
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been some changes in my life.
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My husband and I have decided to
separate.
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I'm so sorry.
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And now I just really don't know if
we're going to divorce or if we're going
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try to make it work.
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I was hoping that my husband would have
been open to counseling, which we've
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discussed many times.
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It just never happened.
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Now I really have to protect Brooklyn,
make sure she's okay.
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Eventually, we will have to speak about
what we're going to do about our
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marriage. But right now, there's just
been no movement at all.
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I'm sorry you're going through that. You
know, I'm a mom too, and so I know it's
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a lot. I just want to refocus my energy.
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and put it into myself and my daughter.
So I think that there's two things you
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need to think about in this scenario.
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One is what happens if you do formally
get a divorce?
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And the second is what your documents
should look like until you make the
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decision. Early on, when I first visited
you, I wanted to definitely
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set some things aside for her, but now I
just want to make sure that no matter
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what happens, that she's taken care of.
Yeah, of course, of course.
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Have you given some thought to what you
would want life to look like for
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Brooklyn if something were to happen to
you?
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Financially speaking, I've already
gotten certain things in place, but I
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just make sure that it's all in the
trust. And I need everything to be
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by one person, and that's my Aunt Lisa.
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Okay. Would you want...
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your husband to be able to access that
money at all no no no because there is
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prenup it's going to be especially
important during this time to make sure
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it's in your documents now in the event
of divorce he is disinherited from
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everything i'm not looking for
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A payday or anything like that. I mean,
I feel like I make more money than him
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anyway. And I definitely have more
assets.
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So my concern is I don't want a nasty
divorce. I just want him to be able to
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take care of his child.
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If Mark and I choose to move forward
with a divorce, I want to be protected
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that I don't have to fight for.
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me to keep the things that I have.
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I just want to make sure that things are
fair.
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Well, I hope that he will see what it's
doing to you and what this is doing to
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Brooklyn and realize this is not what I
want for my life.
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Falling apart.
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Sorry.
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I'm so glad you have Lisa to be your
trustee and to help you through this
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situation. Yeah. Yeah.
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Unless you have more questions for me,
I'll plan to talk to you about the
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documents and then get them over to you.
Okay.
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Once you have everything signed, we'll
move your assets into your trust, and
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hopefully you'll just check this off of
your list so that you can get on with
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the rest of your life.
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Okay, good.
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I like that.
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Coming up next.
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You don't want to talk to Mommy? I do.
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Okay, so let's talk to Mommy.
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Do you want to check on mommy?
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Oh, there she goes.
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Remember I went in the Chuck E. Cheese?
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Oh, yep. I took him to Chuck E. Cheese.
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Did you have a good time?
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That was kind of fun.
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Mommy can't see that.
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You got to talk to mommy. We got like
professional photos.
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You know Miss Mommy?
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Okay, so let's talk to mommy.
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Why are you crying?
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Look at me. Look at me. Haze.
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It
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is
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so hard to be away from my family and
going to work.
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I miss you.
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I miss you too.
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I be feeling like I suck as a parent
sometimes.
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I've made it no secret. I definitely...
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need to figure out work -life balance.
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Love you.
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Hey, say love you.
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I love you.
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See you later. I love you too.
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Give daddy some love.
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Oh, boy, buddy.
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You're all right.
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You're okay.
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How cute is it in here?
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You can go ahead and take a seat right
there. Okay. And I'm going to go ahead
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and start changing him into this outfit.
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Okay.
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Maverick Leonard Sterling was born,
weighing in at 5 pounds, 7 ounces, 21
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inches. Baby time. Baby Maverick's on
his way.
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This was literally my shortest labor,
which was 22 hours.
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Well, the last two I got induced. This
is not an abduction. This is definitely
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not an abduction.
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Listen, I know I said I wanted five
kids.
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I just don't know if I want them all to
sit in my stomach.
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We will figure that out later.
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There you go. Oh my gosh, he's so
handsome.
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Nice to meet you. Hey, girly.
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God.
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You remember my mom?
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Of course I remember your mom.
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Hi. Good to see you.
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All right, I'm here to pick up my son.
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Thank you, guys. Thank you for having
him.
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He's so little.
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He is perfect.
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You look at all cool and flowery. Once
you realize you can put on a pair of
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jeans. Baby, I got a pair of jeans on
right now.
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This baby looks like Mike. Because that
nose is strong.
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You're right.
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Can you please tell your daughter not to
be pregnant at least for a year so we
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can hang out and go have some cocktails
and have fun?
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All right, from your lips to God's ears.
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She makes it look so easy.
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Till you're at her house.
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What's going on with the house? When is
the closing?
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On Friday. Okay. Mike and I have gone
through hell and high water to find the
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perfect house.
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I'm just happy to be settled. That is
the best feeling ever.
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Five finished bedrooms, three -car
garage, four -sided brick. It's
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How was Greece?
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We had some really good times and some
really bad times. Why the hell do you
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all the way to Greece and have a bad
time? Girl, what did I tell you? Okay,
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kind of prepped the girls and just said,
look, I know that everyone's not in a
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great place with Kenya.
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However... Y 'all going on her trip. I
have to say.
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To my surprise, Nene was gracious.
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Kenya just wasn't receptive.
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I would have appreciated if Kenya had at
least a fit or, hey, you know what,
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Nene, I appreciate what you're trying to
do.
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I'm just not ready.
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Yeah. Well, that's it. That ain't Kenya.
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That's a chill approach.
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But anyway, we ended up going to a
vineyard. Oh, yay.
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By the way, let me get to the shade now.
So I take a wine exam in Greece.
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How many red wines are there?
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I'll wait. Several.
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You know, I'm saying, this is my girl.
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But did you feel a way? I just felt like
it was going on and on and on. I was
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waiting for Kay.
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If she even said anything.
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So later on that night, Portia and Tanya
decided to have like a little burn
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party. Kay and I had our conversation.
She received what I said.
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She said she didn't mean nothing. She
listened to me, and then I listened to
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respond, and we were good.
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If I threw a bitch away every time they
pissed me off, I wouldn't have no damn
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friend. I don't want to just...
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Throw a friendship away over something
that an apology can make right.
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Nene was like, well, I'm glad it wasn't
me. She always feels like I just gave
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Kenya a pass.
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And that's not true. You're allowed to
be different with your friends if you
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want to.
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Like you. I mean, what are we talking
about here?
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I know. Once it got heated, Nene
definitely brought up the Mark stuff,
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No. Guys, what does it like you?
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I love him, girl.
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Nene was throwing popcorn at Kenya.
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Trying to spit on her. Their little
situation went way. She didn't spit on
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Yeah.
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That's when you throw hands.
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Oh, my God.
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There was a lot that happened in between
that. Something great happened. What?
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Portia ended up pulling NeNe aside, and
they ended up finally having their
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conversation. Everything shifted after
that.
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Okay, so grief was kind of kumbaya.
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Oh, no, for sure.
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Okay, it wasn't a grief tragedy.
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Oh, no, it was not.
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Tanya and Kenya actually had a good
conversation about the cookie lady and
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that stuff. You know, we still have a
few issues in the group. At this point,
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you're looking for resolution, some
people are at least open to meet you
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halfway. Someone's waking up. Someone's
hungry.
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Come here.
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Your hands are full, so I'm going to
open up your gift for you.
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He's going to have lots of money, so I
got him a little bank.
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That is so cute.
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Right? You like it? He's smiling. Look,
he's smiling. See?
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I did the right thing.
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Coming up next.
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Kenyon and her estranged husband, he's
had multiple affairs.
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Uh -uh.
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No, you call me Stacey.
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Stacey, okay.
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It's so good to see you. It's so good to
see you, too.
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I know. This is little PJ.
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Oh, my gosh.
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And this is my mother.
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Oh, my gosh. Hello. How are you? I'm
Stacey. I'm so happy to be here.
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Yeah. This is Marcia Dimes' wife. Oh,
well, I am so excited. It's such an
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that you guys chose me. You're so
thrilled.
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Oh, my goodness.
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So many women of color are dying at
higher percentages giving birth.
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Healthy moms, strong babies. That's
everything we're about. Exactly. If more
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attention is given towards that, we can
have better health care in place. You
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can have healthy babies and healthy
mothers.
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A lot of the women who are coming are
mothers.
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Some of them are hopeful mothers -to
-be. Is it okay for some of them to tell
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their story?
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We want them to tell their story.
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Being an ambassador means that I am
going to represent the charity.
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How you doing?
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And I'm really... excited to get my
family and my friends involved because
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is something that we all can relate to.
Hey, pretty girl.
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You look gorgeous.
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Thank you.
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on my way over there and kid her strange
husband he's had multiple affairs a
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what it's a blog or she is a blog but
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but you know what i noticed today she
has a ring back on so i felt hopeful oh
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maybe it was the cookie lady and she's
confused about where the origin of that
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story well you know what i said i don't
think it's real it's fake but it's very
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Kenya would bring the cookie lady to
face off with Tanya, and you got your
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cheating mess to deal with.
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Tanya, go find the lady and sit her
right in the front of Kenya.
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I'm not going to say I don't think he's
done it. I'm just going to say the story
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is fake. You never know. You don't know
nobody, bitch.
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Well,
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I did my first 16.
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Uh -uh.
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How was it? It was extreme.
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days of shooting has been awesome we are
on the set of the shot oh my god season
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three is gonna be so crazy y 'all i only
have to work like a few days a week
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basically i'm flying home on all my days
off what's i say todd is not happy
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about the sex scene and when i'm on set
i'm not really on my phone like that i
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went almost the whole day and didn't
call and by the time he called because i
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had hit like on a picture on instagram
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This is so beautiful, though, you guys.
Isn't it gorgeous?
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She's good.
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She was going to try to come, but I was
like, Eva, can you just lay down for
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five minutes?
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Okay, ladies, thank you for coming to
this event. I would like today to be a
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conversation and to be the example for
you all to follow in speaking out about
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women's issues surrounding pregnancy.
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Six years ago, I suffered from a
miscarriage at home alone.
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It was something I really haven't spoken
about openly to this extent. The point
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is, if I were to have talked about it to
other women or, you know, been more
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open, I would have realized that it is
okay. It's about releasing all of that
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and having another woman tell you, I've
been through this, I survived, and I'm
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willing to use my story to help other
women.
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Everybody's got a story. Portia has
invited you all to really share your
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today, if you have the willingness to
share.
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I'll jump in.
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I found my forever mate later in life,
and I got the news that I didn't really
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have a lot of egg reserves, so that's
why it was so hard.
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I've recently started talking about it,
and I find that there's a lot of
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strength in being able to say that to
other women.
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Being a woman doesn't mean that...
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you're guaranteed to have children.
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We put pressure on ourselves and I think
it's just nice to be able to share
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this. I nearly died having Brooklyn and
you should never shame another woman for
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not being able to have children because
those are things you cannot change.
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I just appreciate this forum.
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I wasn't gonna speak.
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Speak a little louder for this side. You
know, you can talk louder than that,
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Marla. I know, girl.
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So... I love children. I have 16 nieces
and nephews. And of course, how would I
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not want a child of my own?
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Things that happened to me in my past
has made that a problem.
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So I've had two atopic pregnancies and I
was so mad at God for so long. Like,
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why me? Why can't I have a baby? Why
can't I have someone to love me forever?
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All the years I've been around the
girls, I've always been so tough.
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But I've just realized I'm here for my
nieces and nephews.
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But you know what? Since my nephews have
been around, you can't hurt me.
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And I'm okay with showing that.
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And I'm a mother to you.
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So since I've got my nephews, I realize,
like, maybe this is why God won't let
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me have my own.
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I did have a miscarriage before. You
know, it's always great to have a
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system that you can go to to lift you
up, and it is beautiful.
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Hearing what Marlo said with Shia, my
water broke.
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like a scene from a movie. And we get to
the hospital and got the epidural,
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started complaining about, I still feel
this extreme amount of pain. It didn't
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go through.
461
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,500
So literally, I've been feeling that
pain all that time.
462
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:20,960
And of course, they gave me apologies.
463
00:29:21,260 --> 00:29:25,780
And she gave me the epidural, kicked in
right away, got the C -section, and went
464
00:29:25,780 --> 00:29:28,820
to the recovery room. But they wouldn't
let me go back. And I'm like, what's
465
00:29:28,820 --> 00:29:31,160
going on? They're like, we're having a
hard time for your blood to clot.
466
00:29:31,500 --> 00:29:35,200
And I think about how blessed I am to be
here, to be able to share my story and
467
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:40,340
raise my daughter. daughter and have a
daughter we can't be ashamed of what our
468
00:29:40,340 --> 00:29:46,960
story is i remember when you text me and
you were like i think my water
469
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:52,220
broke and it was so early on that one
and i said where's your husband do you
470
00:29:52,220 --> 00:29:54,920
need me to come to the hospital i don't
know where portia i think portia was
471
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,600
doing something else working that day
and we weren't even like bessie's like
472
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:02,700
guys are like where are you i'm coming
to where you are you are good during the
473
00:30:02,700 --> 00:30:06,750
pregnancy because you were ahead of me
So you could tell me what was going on.
474
00:30:07,110 --> 00:30:12,130
I didn't know that Kenya and Shamia were
so close that Shamia would have called
475
00:30:12,130 --> 00:30:16,310
her when her water broke. To me, it was
a little weird that that would have been
476
00:30:16,310 --> 00:30:17,630
her first person to call.
477
00:30:19,910 --> 00:30:21,590
Will you stand up, please? Oh, sure.
478
00:30:22,170 --> 00:30:23,830
We want to celebrate motherhood.
479
00:30:24,090 --> 00:30:27,410
We also want to do better to make sure
that more women who are trying to become
480
00:30:27,410 --> 00:30:30,650
mothers don't have some of the
challenges that others of us have
481
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:35,460
We actually commissioned a piece of art
from an African -American woman to
482
00:30:35,460 --> 00:30:38,660
really capture the beauty of motherhood.
So we want to give this to you as just
483
00:30:38,660 --> 00:30:40,820
a small gift for our partnership.
484
00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:42,500
Thank you so much.
485
00:30:42,740 --> 00:30:47,560
And I hope you'll take away from this
that your stories do have power. And I
486
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,480
want you to encourage more women to
share their stories as well.
487
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,680
I love the fact that these women were so
open and vulnerable.
488
00:30:53,900 --> 00:30:56,440
And I just thank God for my journey.
489
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,860
The ups and the downs, because now I can
use my life as a testimony to help
490
00:31:00,860 --> 00:31:01,719
somebody else.
491
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,540
Ooh, it's going to be an ugly one. Like,
what?
492
00:31:06,580 --> 00:31:09,780
PJ is the prize at the end of the
rainbow.
493
00:31:10,220 --> 00:31:11,220
Ooh, big mama.
494
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:12,760
Big mama.
495
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:14,520
Coming up next.
496
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:19,300
When you come back, you book every hour
that you have. It just doesn't make
497
00:31:19,300 --> 00:31:21,300
sense. Like, at a certain point, come
up.
498
00:31:35,660 --> 00:31:40,580
I'm just cutting up some sweet potatoes
for Brooklyn. She loves sweet potatoes.
499
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,420
She loves actually any and everything.
500
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:47,240
So much stuff I have to do, Lisa. It's
kind of driving me crazy. It's just been
501
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:48,240
a little difficult.
502
00:31:48,540 --> 00:31:52,820
I got, everything is selling like crazy.
Well, that's good.
503
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:58,880
No, it's excellent. It's just that it's
a lot of work. And because I'm down and
504
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:00,860
dealing with, you know, all this
personal stuff.
505
00:32:01,100 --> 00:32:02,620
How are you doing?
506
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,480
I'm just trying to focus on business.
507
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,000
I'm trying to focus on Brooklyn.
508
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:11,240
You know, where do you start with all
this? It's just hard to, you know,
509
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:16,900
out. I just don't know how to even make
the visitation work.
510
00:32:17,220 --> 00:32:20,760
Yes, he can see her whenever he comes
here. And what about when he comes here?
511
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:21,719
Will he stay here?
512
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,660
Where is he going to be? Oh, no, I don't
want him to stay here.
513
00:32:23,980 --> 00:32:28,500
I've never been separated before, and I
lost my friend.
514
00:32:29,370 --> 00:32:34,210
I lost being able to communicate with
someone every day to make sure they know
515
00:32:34,210 --> 00:32:39,350
that you're OK and to suffer a lot of
that. It's just been very difficult.
516
00:32:39,690 --> 00:32:44,330
I want you to be happy. I want to be
happy, too. And I could have been happy
517
00:32:44,330 --> 00:32:50,550
my marriage if I felt like Mark was in
it to be happy as well.
518
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:55,240
One of my issues with him is like not
being able to just have a conversation
519
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,720
without yelling or anger or crossing
lines. Like, I know it's not me.
520
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:05,160
And I know how hard I've fought for this
marriage. I stopped caring about my
521
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:10,800
feelings. And all I was doing is just
trying to be everything he wanted me to
522
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:15,640
and work through everything as best I
could to keep my family together.
523
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:20,120
I just feel like it's just always been
this block up with him.
524
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:25,520
not letting me completely into his life.
525
00:33:26,020 --> 00:33:30,920
It's just a lot of things I felt like I
was in the dark about.
526
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:37,740
There's a large part of him or the
relationship that I was just never privy
527
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:42,620
For example, I'm not allowed to speak to
his mother or father.
528
00:33:42,860 --> 00:33:46,560
And if you don't know everything about
that person's life, you're not being let
529
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:52,350
in. No one deserves to be in a miserable
situation or being mistreated. So if
530
00:33:52,350 --> 00:33:54,250
it's best for you and Mark to split.
531
00:33:54,550 --> 00:33:57,470
I have to do what's best for Brooklyn. I
don't even care about me. I just care
532
00:33:57,470 --> 00:34:01,450
about what is Brooklyn learning? What is
that going to make of her?
533
00:34:01,830 --> 00:34:03,090
What can I help do?
534
00:34:03,830 --> 00:34:08,770
I went to go see the estate planner and
I wanted to make sure that Brooklyn
535
00:34:08,770 --> 00:34:12,710
would be taken care of. And so that
meant, oh my God, what?
536
00:34:13,230 --> 00:34:17,590
you know, what do I do if something does
happen to me or happen to Mark?
537
00:34:17,909 --> 00:34:23,810
And the one thing we did agree on is
that we wanted you to be able to take
538
00:34:23,810 --> 00:34:24,529
of Brooklyn.
539
00:34:24,530 --> 00:34:26,290
Oh, that's sweet.
540
00:34:26,969 --> 00:34:33,230
So you decide everything is going to
happen to her if I'm not in the picture.
541
00:34:33,570 --> 00:34:36,870
Okay. You're the only person in the
world I trust like this.
542
00:34:37,090 --> 00:34:41,989
Lisa is my grandmother's daughter, my
father's sister, and she's Brooklyn's
543
00:34:41,989 --> 00:34:47,780
aunt. Lisa is my power of attorney
because we grew up in the same household
544
00:34:47,780 --> 00:34:48,900
we have the same values.
545
00:34:49,199 --> 00:34:51,679
I know she would honor my wishes.
546
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:56,480
As we mature and grow up, we realize how
important family is.
547
00:34:57,020 --> 00:34:58,740
I'm very appreciative.
548
00:34:59,260 --> 00:35:01,040
You're going to make me cry, now stop.
549
00:35:02,340 --> 00:35:06,440
You know, since Mom died, it's just been
hard because she knew how much I loved
550
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:07,440
her.
551
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,920
And I know she would be sad that it
didn't work out with Mark.
552
00:35:13,370 --> 00:35:17,790
Because I really felt like she was
holding on before she died to make sure
553
00:35:17,790 --> 00:35:22,470
I had somebody that would take care of
me and love me the way I wanted to be
554
00:35:22,470 --> 00:35:25,550
loved. I just wish she would have seen
and met Brooklyn.
555
00:35:26,010 --> 00:35:27,010
Me too.
556
00:35:27,070 --> 00:35:30,370
I could teach Brooklyn the same way Mom
taught us.
557
00:35:31,630 --> 00:35:36,750
How to be ladies, respectable, loving,
caring.
558
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:41,460
Well, you know I will take care of her
to the best of my ability, and then some
559
00:35:41,460 --> 00:35:43,800
knowing that I have a big
responsibility.
560
00:35:44,420 --> 00:35:45,420
Mm -hmm.
561
00:35:46,060 --> 00:35:47,060
I'm really disappointed.
562
00:35:47,220 --> 00:35:50,480
You don't know how much I love you. I
love you, too. To have someone who I
563
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:55,300
really trust and love to help me through
this makes it a lot better.
564
00:36:13,260 --> 00:36:14,260
What's up, man?
565
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:15,480
Nothing much.
566
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,400
Oh, boy, what you got going on?
567
00:36:18,820 --> 00:36:20,320
Oh, my gosh.
568
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:24,740
It feels like I only came home for two
seconds, and then Don Juan has already
569
00:36:24,740 --> 00:36:26,400
filled the schedule of everything.
570
00:36:26,940 --> 00:36:33,120
And like what? What you got to do? I got
to host a rock nation luncheon for
571
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:39,800
women in entertainment business, which
is really a dope event,
572
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:45,200
but I only really have, like, One day
home. Well, two days home.
573
00:36:45,820 --> 00:36:50,780
So why you allow him to do it? It was a
good thing to network with other women
574
00:36:50,780 --> 00:36:51,780
in the business.
575
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,460
Okay. You need to do a little more
networking with your family.
576
00:36:55,760 --> 00:37:00,100
When you come back, you book every hour
that you have. It just doesn't make
577
00:37:00,100 --> 00:37:02,080
sense. Like at a certain point, come on.
578
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,940
At a certain point, you got to say, you
know what?
579
00:37:06,180 --> 00:37:07,740
I need this time with my family.
580
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:14,280
Well, tomorrow I'm going to spend most
of the day with Ace, because tomorrow...
581
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,180
But you're not. He's going to play a
game. He's not spending time with you.
582
00:37:18,740 --> 00:37:20,920
Yes, but I'm going to be there.
583
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:26,800
You and I both knew that I wanted to
start acting more, and you... Well,
584
00:37:26,820 --> 00:37:29,180
nobody's even contesting the acting
thing.
585
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:34,960
I support you. But outside of that,
you've got to make time. Well, why don't
586
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:35,960
come to Chicago?
587
00:37:36,410 --> 00:37:39,650
I can't come next week. I got stuff I'm
doing. It's like you rolling different.
588
00:37:39,870 --> 00:37:45,690
Like, I'm not going to try to be funny.
It did seem like you got a light bit
589
00:37:45,690 --> 00:37:51,810
weird when I had to do the sex scene.
Any man does not want to see his wife on
590
00:37:51,810 --> 00:37:54,930
screen being touched by somebody else.
591
00:37:55,230 --> 00:37:56,230
It's fake.
592
00:37:57,170 --> 00:38:00,050
As fake as it is, nobody wants to see
it.
593
00:38:07,240 --> 00:38:11,800
As fake as it is, nobody wants to see
it. We did the sex scene. We spoke about
594
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:16,300
it. I told you, I'm supporting you 100%.
But at a certain point, you've got to
595
00:38:16,300 --> 00:38:17,540
give a little bit.
596
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,260
It can't just be like everything you
want to do.
597
00:38:20,540 --> 00:38:22,820
In two months, I'm not going to be able
to do it all.
598
00:38:23,240 --> 00:38:25,420
Yeah, but we need you now.
599
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:29,340
Acting was important, right?
600
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,740
Yes. Okay, so you're doing the acting
thing on top of all the other shit.
601
00:38:34,190 --> 00:38:38,310
So it's like, let some of that shit go,
spend some time with your family, and
602
00:38:38,310 --> 00:38:41,870
then take your ass back off to Chicago
to finish doing your acting thing. I
603
00:38:41,870 --> 00:38:43,870
guess I'm just trying to make everything
work.
604
00:38:44,290 --> 00:38:46,870
I wanted to support Portia's fundraising
event.
605
00:38:47,230 --> 00:38:50,790
I wanted to do something for my friend.
606
00:38:51,350 --> 00:38:53,170
I just thought it was a good idea.
607
00:38:53,970 --> 00:38:55,590
But maybe it wasn't. Dr.
608
00:38:55,810 --> 00:38:59,870
Jackie's having a fundraising event, and
I wanted to support her. Go support
609
00:38:59,870 --> 00:39:02,030
them. No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
610
00:39:02,430 --> 00:39:05,870
No, don't act like that. Come on, man.
Please don't be like that.
611
00:39:06,370 --> 00:39:08,290
I'm good. We'll catch you when you get
back.
612
00:39:13,950 --> 00:39:15,010
I don't know, man.
613
00:39:15,770 --> 00:39:20,970
I sacrificed a lot to support your
dreams. When I came into this situation
614
00:39:20,970 --> 00:39:22,130
you, I wasn't good enough.
615
00:39:22,370 --> 00:39:29,010
It was like I got to speedball fast
enough to make a lot of money so I can
616
00:39:29,010 --> 00:39:29,788
good enough.
617
00:39:29,790 --> 00:39:30,790
You know what I'm saying?
618
00:39:31,630 --> 00:39:33,590
So, okay, I can't... Good enough to who?
619
00:39:34,370 --> 00:39:37,430
Good enough, not only to your mama, but
the world.
620
00:39:37,870 --> 00:39:39,350
You know what I mean? It was a lot of
pressure.
621
00:39:40,890 --> 00:39:41,890
Where you going?
622
00:39:42,070 --> 00:39:43,070
To get a tissue.
623
00:39:44,270 --> 00:39:49,130
It's very unfortunate for my husband
that people always try to put him in the
624
00:39:49,130 --> 00:39:52,970
light of, like, he's some type of gold
digger. I do feel your opportunity.
625
00:39:53,310 --> 00:39:54,510
What do you think I'm getting out of it?
626
00:39:55,850 --> 00:39:57,270
What you getting out of it?
627
00:39:57,740 --> 00:40:02,140
What he does, you know, it benefits me.
What I do, it benefits him. Like, we're
628
00:40:02,140 --> 00:40:03,520
coming up together.
629
00:40:04,580 --> 00:40:06,420
I've given up the job situation.
630
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:11,240
But you figured it out. Yeah, yeah. I
figured it out to make everybody else
631
00:40:11,240 --> 00:40:12,240
happy.
632
00:40:12,580 --> 00:40:16,360
What do you mean? I don't do the shit
that I like to do. Like, you know,
633
00:40:16,380 --> 00:40:20,300
production and TV and film. That's shit
that I was doing before. I haven't
634
00:40:20,300 --> 00:40:24,380
really done that shit. And I didn't take
jobs because jobs didn't pay me what I
635
00:40:24,380 --> 00:40:25,178
make now.
636
00:40:25,180 --> 00:40:26,760
I was able to become...
637
00:40:27,310 --> 00:40:29,610
A business entity that makes a lot of
money.
638
00:40:30,910 --> 00:40:34,910
Everybody accepts the a lot of money
guy. He's good. He's the best. He's
639
00:40:35,290 --> 00:40:36,630
But I'm not f***ing happy.
640
00:40:37,090 --> 00:40:39,510
Me starting a trucking company, I don't
want to f***ing be a trucker.
641
00:40:40,550 --> 00:40:43,790
When you wanted to produce a movie, I
was down with that.
642
00:40:44,370 --> 00:40:47,970
That's not my fault that you did not
decide to move forward with it yet.
643
00:40:48,190 --> 00:40:52,030
I'm not really stepping out there
because I'm so worried about making sure
644
00:40:52,030 --> 00:40:53,430
I stay this guy.
645
00:40:54,740 --> 00:40:57,400
You know, for me, I don't mind
supporting you because I want your to
646
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,380
That's with all my heart. But within
that, we need you.
647
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,980
I love my kids, but I want to spend time
with you as well.
648
00:41:06,700 --> 00:41:08,180
I want to spend time with you too.
649
00:41:08,380 --> 00:41:09,380
Well, act like it.
650
00:41:09,720 --> 00:41:10,720
Act like it.
651
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,980
And that's if you want to be here. If
you don't really want to. Of course I
652
00:41:15,980 --> 00:41:16,980
to be here.
653
00:41:29,190 --> 00:41:30,510
Now you got me looking crazy.
654
00:41:31,410 --> 00:41:32,550
Why are you looking crazy?
655
00:41:32,790 --> 00:41:36,530
Because now I'm crying and I'm probably
getting my makeup up and I still got to
656
00:41:36,530 --> 00:41:37,830
host this thing on dinner.
657
00:41:38,530 --> 00:41:41,630
I know we just had the conversation, but
I've already agreed to do it.
658
00:41:42,410 --> 00:41:44,670
Okay, well, go do your thing, man.
659
00:41:46,410 --> 00:41:47,410
Go do your thing.
660
00:41:49,890 --> 00:41:50,890
I love you.
661
00:41:51,710 --> 00:41:52,710
I love you, too.
662
00:42:02,060 --> 00:42:08,340
I appreciate you putting up with me and
my crazy, crazy life.
663
00:42:09,540 --> 00:42:11,780
Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
664
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,800
What are
665
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:25,460
we doing? Are we thinking about packing
it up? He asked for it.
666
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,780
This is not what I thought a marriage
would be like.
667
00:42:28,020 --> 00:42:29,020
I'm getting ready to cut this man.
668
00:42:29,260 --> 00:42:30,660
Should we do a short squeeze?
669
00:42:31,310 --> 00:42:35,910
I don't think we should have a wedding.
I'm going to have a wedding.
670
00:42:36,270 --> 00:42:37,810
Not tonight.
671
00:42:38,610 --> 00:42:43,370
You mean me. Tonight. Marley's donor,
he's trying to get custody of Marley.
672
00:42:43,570 --> 00:42:44,570
Custody?
673
00:42:45,710 --> 00:42:52,710
You value your career, then you
prioritize your friends, and then
674
00:42:52,710 --> 00:42:53,529
your family?
675
00:42:53,530 --> 00:42:55,430
I don't know if that makes total sense.
676
00:42:56,610 --> 00:43:00,410
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