All language subtitles for The Real Housewives of Atlanta – S12E04

Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

We're 13 weeks now, right?

I think I want Ace to go to the next
appointment. Because he just asked me,

like, she bought it from the store?

I'm like, no, not quite.

Who's number one, me or Brooklyn?

You mean like the borough? No, like the
wife, Kenya, versus the daughter.

You're number one.

The excuse is, you were not emotionally
available. I'm like, no, we just

celebrated this.

available for you. My fiance actually
had sex with someone while I was

our child.

I'm beyond hurt.

What do you think about seeing Nene at
Pride?

For me, it's really uncomfortable to see
someone that I know whether or not

we're on good terms. And not at least
head nod. And then not at least give her

the respect of hello and goodbye.

She's just doing whatever she needed to.
She looks really desperate.

Desperate not to be your damn friend no
more.

Who is that?

I'm going to go make sure I say hello to
her.

Not that that's serious.

Live your best life.

You look cute.

You home

for the summer?

Yeah. That's good. That's good.

Thank you very much. You're very
welcome.

I just had reverse Tourette's the night.
It felt good to just say hi and move

on. In the words of Nene Leakes, hello
doesn't cost me anything.

Hi! I have this exact thing. I have the
whole thing.

I'm going to put on my flip -flops. I'm
going up top of the deck.

Cynthia is somebody I've shared a lot of
my life with. She was my bridesmaid at

my wedding. We're like blood sisters.

Even though we're not seeing eye to eye,
I mean, I love her. We have been so

close for so many years.

Like, I'm never going to walk past her
and not speak to her.

I

can't

believe how many people came out. Honey,
this is New York ride.

Noelle just realized that she flew it,
and now she's, like, at New York Pride.

I said, baby's trying to dance, mom.

Baby didn't take no babysitting.

When it comes to Marlo, I have none.

Every time Marlo's around, she has
something negative to say.

One of the biggest fires in this group,
I would say Eva. Girl,

I got two kids and a husband. What do
you ask? Two kids by two different men.

I came to Pride to enjoy the love, not
the Marlo.

good to be here at pride with noel to
celebrate the 50th anniversary of the

stonewall riot i'm here with my baby
mama right now we're living our best

cannot imagine a world where noel would
not be able to express her love for

whoever she wanted to love world pride
is amazing

it's a big big deal and i never ever in
my mind thought that the gay community

would love me so much

I'm a rainbow, bitch.

I am a rainbow.

This day is like a big -ass day. It's
all love.

Until Friday's over.

Let me take a picture of you with the
Porsche van.

as good as you look um maybe maybe not
not today today when i woke up it

settled in like this is what the
situation is before i came in here i

had a little hope and then to hear him
confirm that he betrayed my trust it is

completely devastating you know i'm
supposed to be planning my wedding i'm

supposed to be in the middle of a
breakup you know so but Let me ask this

because this has been a fast -paced
relationship.

Do you think he earned the trust or did
you give him the trust up front?

Although I know his dating history and
how he handled women, I should have

considered it more.

Hell, when I was pregnant, I was
literally sitting on the couch and

grow our daughter, you know? Like, so,
and these are the moments where he was

doing what he was doing. Did he really
tell you why?

or did you only hear what happened and
then you tuned it out? When he made the

decisions that he made at the moment he
made them, he disregarded our family. He

threw our family to the side. He threw
me to the side. I have loved Dennis with

my complete whole heart. We're supposed
to be a family together.

I will not stand for someone treating me
this way. I don't blame you. I

understand that because you're strong
enough as a female to say, I don't have

be disrespected, but think about the
decision.

Because I know it's tough. I know it's
painful.

But do you want to make life -changing
decisions when you're upset?

The decision that I make right now.

I have to also be for PJ.

She is priority number one. So I got to
make sure that I'm good. I can't be

having no mental breakdown.

I mean, when I'm depressed, I didn't
want to work.

You know, but I don't have that option
because I have a child. So I have to

sure her future is secure.

But at least he wants to be a parent.

So you don't have to feel like you got
the weight of the world on your shoulder

because what has happened in the past,
when you take on that weight, it really

burdens you.

So I want you to be crystal clear when
you choose to close that door forever.

The door is bolted. I'm not suggesting
you forgive them and get back with them,

but for the sake of the baby.

Do you think that at some point you'll
be able to have a cordial relationship?

I may eventually give him forgiveness,
but he's got to be a better man for me.

He needs to be a better man for his
daughter.

Forgiveness is not for him.

It's for you. So work on you.

Okay. Okay? I will.

Want something to drink? Just some
water. I had to hike up those stairs, so

I'm thirsty.

What's up, girly?

Woo, so much.

Well, Brooklyn, you know now she's
trying to crawl?

Yes, I saw you post that.

Yes. And she's strong.

Like, if you picked her up, she is going
to snatch your wig off. Girl, don't be

snatching edges around here. I'm like,
come to this party, Brooklyn.

Now that one right there, mommy don't
really like.

Berkeley's birthday.

In November.

November the what? The 3rd.

Oh, yes!

You know, my baby is due in November as
well. Oh, my God!

Yes! Oh, Candy!

Yes! I'm so happy. Candy was amazing
during my pregnancy.

Just a question mark about anything, I
called Candy, and she was always there.

Do you meet her in person?

We talk all the time. I go to the
doctor's appointments with her.

Do you take Todd with you?

Yeah. I mean, she's... okay with it
candy has a very successful marriage

though it's new it's new like mine but
somehow she's making it work i know

you've been around

My husband alive.

I'm more of a newlywed than you. I'm
only two years. But there is this, like,

battle all the time.

It's like when you came over when
Brooklyn was first born and he was

with me. And I'm like, dude, you can't
tell me not to change the baby's diaper.

Well, that's what the pamper is for.

You don't need to be changing her every
second. They didn't want me to disturb

her when she was relaxing. Right, that's
what it is.

I love Mark, but he told me you took him
aside. You were like, you're going to

have to let her change her diaper.

I've been around Kenya and Mark at times
where we have these conversations where

they are not seeing eye to eye. But in
that relationship, she's very

You know, if I swaddle her, he takes her
out of the swaddle. If I put her in her

crib, he takes her out of the crib. Why?

He's doing it his way, and his way is
the opposite from my way. I think at

times, it is hard for her, because she's
been single for a long time, and she's

doing things a certain way, but they're
figuring out their flow.

Hmm.

Sounds like marriage.

It's like, who...

has to always give in, though. Yes.
There's got to be some method where we

break a tie.

You know, his birthday is just coming
up. And I did plan on a trip.

But he doesn't want to travel with the
nanny. I'm like, but we have the ability

to just be intimate. Like, hello.

Yes. Can you watch this baby while we go
off and do this baby? Can you watch

this baby, OK?

Because mommy and daddy, you know what
I'm saying? Like, you got to. Right.

It's frustrating because to have a nanny
would allow us time to spend together,

which I really think we need right now
so we can reconnect after having a

I don't trust just calling somebody.

Exactly. I'm not having a stranger come
in and take care of my baby. Yeah, I

haven't figured that balance out yet.

That's going to be kind of tough because
I know you are a strong personality,

like I am.

And Todd and I, we bump heads on just
stupid stuff sometimes because as our

husbands, we want them to feel like
they're the head of the house.

But at the same time, come on, like,
they just think they know everything.

Everything. And get mad when you act
like you know something. Yes. You're not

attorney, but are you an attorney?

Like, did I miss something? Did I miss
something?

Girl. We got to catch up on them another
time because this is too much of a

conversation. Coming up next.

How you doing?

Fine. But you're walking out now, Eva?

You don't have to run.

Just in with sisterhood.

Are we now?

I know, you can't tell, but there's a
whole baby in here.

You got it, Mama? Oh, thank you.

Girl, I tell you, I already know what I
want.

Listen.

Hi, ladies. Hello.

Let me take you to your table. Awesome,
thank you.

Oh, perfect.

Why is it three?

Or is that a drink menu?

No, no, no.

Marla's supposed to come.

The devil is a lie and the truth ain't
in you.

I'm going to tell you right now, I'm not
staying for whatever y 'all little pal

are supposed to be. If it's any
bullshit, then I won't be here long.

won't be here long because her name is
bullshit.

Look, Eva's pregnant. She's the last
person that needs to miss a good meal.

And I do find it a little strange that
Marlo invited me to dinner since she's

actually here in New York City with Nene
as her plus one.

Marlo is a very nasty person with
absolutely no morals and a thick lace on

wig, which is always ill -fitted. But,
hey, I don't know. Maybe Nene's off

another slanderous interview about my
ass. So, who knows? Maybe a bitch is

hungry. Ladies, how are we? Hi. How are
you doing? We know exactly what we want.

Okay, let's do it then. Peking duck,
four pieces of yellowtail sashimi, lo

broccoli, orange chicken.

What do you want, Cynthia?

Fried green beans, two pieces of
yellowtail, and I would love a lychee

Thank you.

So here's the thing with Marlo.

We all know that her loyalty is to NeNe,
which is fine.

She got loyalty.

Well, whatever little bit she got, it's
to NeNe. And NeNe's still running around

talking shit about me, and you can't
tell me Marlo don't know or entertain

She claims she keeps it so 100.

She don't even check NeNe and say, hey,
you know what, this may not be what it

is. Thank you.

You should ask her, like, are we
actually friends? Because if we are,

things that have transpired, a real
friend wouldn't allow to transpire.

Hi, Divas.

I'm going to pack my little piece up.
How you doing?

Fine.

What, you are walking out now, Eva?

You can stay. You don't have to run.

Can we pack this and that up? I want a
piece of that duck.

Leave her some duck on that plate.

Baby's on the way.

More kids, being great mothers,
everything should be positive.

I'm just in with sisterhood.

Are we now?

We should be.

I'm going to take this.

All right. Bye, smooches. Bye,
sunflower.

Golly, too much for the take, huh?

Well, you know, you guys just live off
in a good space now.

Going forward, I just need to make sure
that everybody knows about anybody

showing up if they ain't checking for
them.

Although she was kind enough to leave
her a little bit of duck, honey.

I don't like this. She wasn't cheap,
honey.

Yeah, at bar or any available seating.

Bad girl. Bad because you live in a
fraud life and you're broke.

She is not broke.

She just got two or three jobs since she
met us. She just got that. She didn't

have it when I was talking to Marla.

Hmm.

I wish Marla would jump off a bridge
with all her curiosities and concerns

my life.

What I don't respect, you know you are
bisexual.

You were not honest about it. Look, I
have got my eye. I am cool with the

cucumber. I'll help you with some duck.
Yes, thank you.

What a nice question.

Can I get you something to drink? Oh,
please get her a drink. Yes, please.

What would you like? Two lychee
martinis. No, I think I'm going to have

lychee martini. No problem.

What's going on with you? I want to talk
about positive stuff. My two nephews

are staying with me now.

Wait a minute, what do you mean they're
staying with you? Right now I have

legally temporary custody. Oh my
goodness.

Do you like it?

No, both of those are for me.

I ordered two. I didn't order you one.

Bring another one.

I need a shot.

Here's Marlo.

Here's to motherhood. I can't believe
you're going to be in something like

Mine's tea, not mother. Mine's tea, they
call me. Did you get a chance to look

at the menu at all?

Let's have the lobster and kimchi fried
rice. Yeah.

So what's going on with Noelle? She
looks so amazing.

And Noelle seems so comfortable at the
parade.

She's very comfortable.

I mean, Noelle told me that she, you
know, was dating a girl.

How did you react?

I'm fine with it, as long as my child is
happy. I mean, you've tested the cookie

jar, and look at you now.

So what's been going on with the girls?
Have you and Nene talked?

What's been going on?

Well, honey, you know good and well me
and Nene ain't talked. Y 'all talked

today.

She really didn't want to be
uncomfortable or be awkward in that

although she just did some s*** -ass
blog talking about me. She definitely

winked. So you think she's just
following along with the crowd? She just

really desperate.

Now, I have to address... She said that
she told plenty of people.

Told plenty of people what? She talked
it. She's a lady of grace and class.

I always have to take the high road. I
always got to be the one.

To come to her, and I'm not doing it
anymore. But you know why?

Because you've always done that. That's
your fault. But I'm not doing it

anymore. But I'm just kidding. Y 'all
been together eight, nine years.

I think it's really unfair that NeNe can
pretty much go on national television,

do a blog, just pretty much blow my
brains out, and the whole world would be

like, well, honey, that's just how NeNe
is.

Don't worry about that. That's NeNe.

That was a real friendship, you know,
huh?

You ain't even ask this new.

But then, if I even sneeze in the wrong
direction, I need to take the higher

road. Hmm.

If Nene don't say nothing about me,
Marlo, I am good. And I still got love

Nene. But that don't mean we have to be
friends.

You sitting here eating with Eva and
with me, sitting here with her.

In time.

I'm not ready and I don't think she's
ready.

I love her and I love you too. I feel y
'all just went too below the belt. So

when I'm with her, she may say some
things about you, but I'm not going to

it talking about you like that.

Who are you?

I like you.

You even have like a glow. I'm like,
what the hell? Girl, I'm pregnant.

Oh, my God.

Give me a hug.

Oh, wow.

Love you to death.

Wait, is my wig coming down? I ain't
glue it down.

So good.

Coming up next.

So I'm the one that needs to give the
apologies because that's not what's

to happen. And what you're not going to
do is act like all of this is my fault.

You're so crazy. No, I'm not crazy. I'm
dead serious.

These damn black shoes.

I'm taking you to work with me today,
Mr. PJ.

Hello? Hey. Hey. How far did it say?

I turned around so Uber will be there in
four minutes.

Okay, cool.

Okay, cool. Okay.

Bless you, Mama.

Going through a breakup is definitely
not how I picture going back to work

maternity leave.

You were easy this morning.

But fortunately for me, my Dish family
has allowed me to ease back into work.

I decided to bring baby PJ from my first
day back at Dish. Of course. Oh.

You need anything else to hold her just
like this? I feel ready to get back to

that boss mom that I know I can be.

Girl, Lauren was going to go get my car
from Shamie's house, and now she's stuck

in traffic and can't make it to me, so
now we're going to have to Uber to work.

Oh, okay.

So let me put my dress on.

Okay, you have her bag?

Yeah. Okay, let's hurry up.

Ever since my appointment with Dr.
Sherry, it's like I'm a single mom.

having to figure out what I'm going to
do with PJ.

You know, it's been tough.

Okay, you see Granny sweating here. If
it wasn't for my mom being there 24 -7

help me, I just don't know what I'd do
right now.

I'm going to get my hair and makeup in
there.

Oh, my God. I don't have any.

Okay.

Oh, nice.

Here's the menu. This is the wine list.
Thank you so much. You're welcome.

Oh, how pretty.

Are you kids cursing?

There's adults over here.

A cursing kid.

Hi. I was just taking my hair loose.

Oh, you take it all the way down for me.
Yeah, I was just like, let me take my

hair loose.

How are you? You look fabulous.

Thank you.

Marlo shows up in the middle of the day
in a sequins jumpsuit. Like, this ain't

Studio 54, bitch. This is the boathouse.
May I get you anything to drink?

May I have a Chardonnay? I'm gonna have
a glass of champagne.

So, how you been doing as a mentee?

Y 'all, I don't know, about 12 and 11.
They just have something to say about

everything. I ain't see why you didn't
do this. Well, I see why you... Because

do as I say, not as I do, okay?

I'm telling you.

It's a lot.

May I take your order? I'll look through
the shrimp cocktail. I wanted the chill

seafood cocktail.

Sure. Yeah.

Let's talk the health and wealth.

Oh, and friendship.

Mm -mm.

So last night, you know, I told you I
went to go have a drink with Cynthia.

Mm -hmm.

I get there, Eva's there. Oh, she didn't
tell you she was bringing Eva? She

didn't tell me she was bringing Eva.

So when I get to the table, she's like,
wait, I'll get mom to go.

Uh -huh.

I'm like, girl.

I didn't know it was that serious. I
didn't think. I just told what one of

bridesmaids said about you. First of
all, the house that she's in is not

actually where she lives.

The house is in somebody else's name
because her credit is too bad.

Oh, not the credit.

Now I want my Bible back from her.

Uh -uh. Not the Bible back. Because it
ain't do no good. She's not reading it

being mean like that.

But anyway, soon as Eva left, we went to
talking about you, of course.

What do you mean talking about me? Of
course.

Because. I told her, I said, look, I saw
you on sources talking bad about Nene.

But the friendship of eight years, it
should be here. It should have been

not social media.

I finally did an interview.

She'd been on every single show and
radio saying I was a toxic friend. She

over with candy on her little thing
saying I was a toxic friend.

But can she explain toxic just like
there is a Nene?

There's a 52 cents, Cynthia.

But if you mad at me, be mad at me.

But don't try to go out and get
everybody else to get on the mad train.

As you can see on her social media, she
has a different philosophy of

friendship. Like anyone that does that,
I don't consider them a friend. She made

it with wedding about her. She made my
siblings event about her. The cancer

situation with Greg.

Everything is not about you.

And people are popping out of the
woodwork. Yes. Who are literally like

me on. Looks like you guys are on
Cynthia's side firmly. Thank you.

To go around trying to make people think
that I was not a good friend, it was

just a hurtful thing to me. I loved her
like a true sister.

You know, the last thing I want to do is
get upset.

Oh, is that an octopus in there?

Yeah, it looks good, though. Let's try
it. It's calamari. You eat calamari.

Yeah, but I don't want that one. Dear
Heavenly Father, thank you for the food

and the octopus that we're about to
receive.

In your name, Jesus Christ, amen.

Come on, let's eat it at the same time.
I will never eat that. I'm just not. I

can't. And it looks so ridiculous. Ew!

Oh,

that was good.

So how did it all end?

I said, I'm not here to point fingers.

I said, you and Nene both are wrong.

No, listen.

I said, as in friends of eight years.
Can't they go on there both of you,

they? Because both of y 'all were. You
didn't have to go on there and say

nothing. Even though you reacted to her,
it still was wrong.

And that's why I said, you're in a Nene
situation. I said, it has to stop.

I said, I don't care if y 'all don't
ever talk again in your life, but it

deserves this.

And it deserves. It deserves what?

A cloak shirt.

But I'm going to tell you something, and
I'm going to tell you this, and this is

going to be for the last time for you to
know. Thank you for asking me to

somehow do this, but that ain't going to
happen. And I'm telling you this as a

friend. It's personal, okay?

Coming up next.

Didn't you just celebrate an
anniversary? I ended up going to Turks

You? Yeah, me and Brooklyn.

So you went on your anniversary trip by
yourself? That doesn't even make sense

to you.

I don't care if y 'all don't ever talk
again in your life, but it deserves it.

Let me tell you this, and this is going
to be for the last time for you to know.

It's personal, okay?

So you need to stay out of it. She do
deserve an apology for that, though,

right?

I want to ask you something, Marlo,
before we go too far into this. So I'm

one that needs to give the apology?

Because that's not what's going to
happen. If I got to be the one to give

apology and these people get to sit here
and look at me like I'm dead wrong,

it's not going to happen. And what
you're not going to do is act like all

this is my fault. You're so crazy. No,
I'm not crazy. I'm dead serious.

I'm fine with talking about feelings,
but what I'm not fine with is you are

acting as if this is something that I
did. And all of this is my fault. I'm

saying, I'm asking.

you play a part in any of it. Do you
understand her being upset?

Are we really doing this, sis?

We really doing this? Wow, this is
crazy.

I'm gonna need damn therapy just trying
to be their damn friend.

Nini! This is too much.

Grown -ass woman.

Don't leave me, Leek!

Wait!

Nini, do not leave me!

Nini! Are you really leaving me, my
lord?

Oh, wow!

Really, Leek?

You're leaving me?

This bitch is crazy for real.

Get out your feelings and get into your
bag.

You ready to go see your baby sister?

Yeah. Are you excited or are you super
excited?

I'm super excited.

Let me see how excited you are.

Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.

That's baby sister dance.

All right.

All right.

Well, look who I found.

Hi.

Hello. Hey, what's up?

Ace, remember when we said we were going
to let you see your little sister

today? Well, today we're going to see
her on the screen, but she's in Miss

Shadina's belly.

Okay. Okay?

Just like you used to be in my belly,
right?

Yeah. I'm so excited for my baby sister.

The further we're getting into this
pregnancy, it's almost like I'm getting

see what it feels like to be a man
during pregnancy.

It's weird.

You know, we have the back aches. We
want our feet rubbed. Oh, you know, I

heartburn. And they just sit there and
they live their best life until the baby

shows up.

Oh, hello here.

Oh, wow. You know, I felt guilty for
that at first.

But now I'm starting to appreciate it.
I'm glad it's not me.

What you see, buddy?

Her hair.

I can't wait to see her for real.

Me too.

When she comes out, you going to pick
her up?

Yeah. You going to change her diaper?

Yeah. Even if it's boo -boo?

No. No?

So you can have a natural birth, right?

Yes, I will. That's our plan.

I don't want to see none. Just pass me
the baby. You don't want to see the baby

come out? Uh -uh.

They have a good setup, I have to say.
So when we're in the delivery room, once

baby comes out, dad or mom, in this
instance, can cut the cord. Who's going

cut the cord?

Todd can cut the cord if he wants.

And then baby's handed off to you guys.

But if he doesn't, I'm good. I'll do it.

And what we have done in the past is we
take you guys to your own room. And you

undress. Baby goes on your chest.

And then you guys are in bed together.

I get in the bed?

We want everybody comforting the baby.

Okay.

I mean, I remember when we were back at,
do I get to rub the stomach? Now we are

at the point you guys are undressed,
babies on everybody's chest, and just as

you were with this baby. We'll let you
stay in the hospital with your baby.

Really? You have a postpartum room.

She has her own room.

We don't ever have to see you again.

That's kind of weird.

Wow. It seems so final.

Well, you are having a baby.

It is for real.

I know. It's weird, though.

I did not know that our relationship
with Shadina was going to be axed

immediately.

Like, okay, here's your baby. I
immediately put you in the other room.

never speak to you again.

That's so strange.

So you... So Ace will be there, too,
right? Yeah. You want to be there?

Ace, I want to know, do you have a name
for the baby?

I like Blaze.

Oh, I like your name.

I can't wait to see what type of big
brother you're going to be, Ace.

All right.

All right.

Thanks, Shadina. All right. Thank you.
Thank you, Ace.

Take care of my baby.

Okay. Well, until I can pass her off,
I'll watch her for you, okay?

Okay. I think it's very important for us
to bring Ace along with us just so that

we can continue to make it more real for
him as well. Yay!

Come on, buddy. He almost knows what's
going on better than Todd.

Oh, boy, buddy.

So what you thought?

Huh? That was cool?

Yeah. Yeah.

I saw her head.

You did see her head. Oh, OK, big
brother.

Babe, would you be OK if, like, I leave
and you take eggs with you? Because I

got to see you. She texted me, and she
sounded, like, really upset.

Like, she's got something she really
needs to talk to me about.

Oh, okay.

You guys are going to play?

That's a good idea, Daddy. That is a
good idea, buddy.

We're going to hang out. What are we
going to do?

Play with Daddy.

Play with Daddy.

Coming up next.

This has been hard because when you
argue, there's lines you don't cross.

Oh, my gosh.

He must have called you by some name or
something.

Yeah.

Now turn me up some. We did it. First
day

back here.

First day back.

Maternity's over.

It's over. I was freaking out about
going back to work. Like, I don't work

other people every single day. Every
day. Every day. And you've been for

For years.

Were you freaking out on the way?

So, hey, Dish, we always talk about
everybody else's teeth. There's all this

stuff in the press, headlines about
Dennis and I. So even though I was super

nervous going to work, being around my
work family, it's like, okay, now this

happening, and you can handle it.

After what may have been the longest
diaper -running history, ladies and

gentlemen, Portia Williams is back in
the business.

I didn't think about Dennis one time.

I'm going to work all day. I don't need
no days off, okay? Everybody met P .P.

She did so good.

I'm like, she was on camera. Yes.

We got little baby PJ in the house. Yes.

And it's the real baby. This ain't no
stunt baby. This is the real baby.

They actually didn't even tell me to
pass her back off. They wanted me to

the rest with her.

Yes. Oh, my God. Well, I'm sure it was
cute, but you can't do that every day. I

know. See, that's the only thing. It's
time to find a daytime sitter.

Mommy is officially gone back to work. I
know. So we're all by ourselves.

It's like, we got to.

We got to figure it out. Okay, well,
this needs to be your number one

Finding a nanny is really difficult.
I've had nannies who come and they,

just exhaust you with information. It's
like, go watch the baby.

Then I've had a nanny who's just worried
about her money. Then I've had nannies

who just want to sit and talk to me
about my job all day.

Bitch, go watch the baby.

So, anyway, we just need somebody who
can be super...

flexible for her having a father who is
very present in her life. Fred, of

course. Yeah, because I'm going to need
this person to go over his place. Right,

of course. I'm going to need this person
to, like, maneuver and facilitate her

and him.

So she's going to communicate with him
more than you are. Yes.

Okay. Yeah.

A nanny is really going to give me the
time to process and heal.

what dennis and i are going through if
we don't have a nanny i'm in constant

contact with dennis so if someone is
there then it'll minimize our

so that i can be healing all right well
everybody's on nanny duty everybody's

trying to find nannies right now and if
y 'all don't i'm gonna get a chalkboard

and i'm gonna write you into the i'm not
organized i'm not gonna communicate

well with dennis you can still be in the
middle okay love you love you too

Alexa,

turn off.

Turn yourself off.

Why are you so sassy?

Knock,

knock. Hello.

Hey, I'm up here.

What's up, girl?

I came with gifts.

You did?

Oh, yes.

That's a teething necklace.

And then I also bought her a doll. Oh,
this will be my second doll.

Thank you.

Yes. You want some lemonade? That works.

All right. That is so funny. I'm sitting
here looking at your living room like

before it was just all fabulous and just
white. Now I see baby toys, the baby

mat.

Girl. I see. And look at you looking all
petite.

Girl, petite, far from it. This ass
ain't petite, I can tell you that.

I don't get it. She just said she needed
me to get here so quick, and then here

I am, and she seems quite all right to
me.

And then, you know, my boobs.

You already have boobs, and I'm sure
they're out of control now. No, I want a

reduction. Me too. Yes.

Let's go together. Let's go together.

How soon are you going to be able to do
it?

So the first time I went, the doctor was
like, OK.

He thought I was going to be a good
candidate. I don't scar and all that

And then he squeezed my nipple, and milk
came out.

Right. Because that's why I was like,
you have to wait until all the milk

up. Yes, but that was three months after
I stopped breastfeeding.

Oh.

I'm not... They're not getting enough
attention to just, like... Come on out.

What do you mean they're not getting
enough attention?

Where's Mark?

Well... I don't know. It's just, like,
maybe when I was about six months, seven

months, he just started getting, like,
really freaked out with my belly

And as I started getting, like, bigger,
I just think he just...

Thought it was kind of awkward or
something. I don't know.

My sex life started to go downhill
during pregnancy, but it picked back up

the baby dropped.

So is yours not picking back up?

It's not picking back up.

What the hell is going on? Didn't you
just celebrate an anniversary?

You asked me for suggestions of places
to go. What did y 'all decide?

I ended up going to Turks and Caicos.

You? Yeah, me and Brooklyn went.

Last minute by ourselves.

So you went on your anniversary trip by
yourself? That doesn't even make sense

to you.

Well, it was just a lot of conversation
about the nanny going, not going.

He didn't want her to come at all. He
was like, that's just not a vacation for

me. So if you take the baby on the trip
and you're having to cater to the baby

the whole time and not be able to go out
at night, not be able to do, that's a

vacation to him? I know.

I like Mark, but I just don't understand
why he would allow Kenya to go on her

anniversary trip alone. It almost makes
it feel like he's not even trying to put

enough effort in. That was one of the
big arguments?

Yeah. That was heartbreaking to me.

I still don't understand why he had such
an issue with the nanny. It's

frustrating, and I don't know what to
expect. Is this what all couples go

through? How do we get over this hump
and get back to where, you know,

happy again but the thing is he is in
love with Brooklyn there's no doubt

about that and as much as I want that
being a mom and seeing my husband bond

with the baby it's like I'm just kind of
like left on the sideline a lot of

times it's like well when are we going
to be intimate when are we going to have

time for ourselves why don't you just
tell them how you feel

I do try to tell him candy.

And I just, it's not just that. It's
just like, you know, it's just been

it's just been hard because sometimes it
just escalates into an argument.

I feel like when you argue, you know,
there's lines you don't cross.

He must have called you by your name or
something.

Oh, my gosh.

When you argue, you know, there's lines
you don't cross.

Oh, my gosh.

Do you feel like he's crossed the line?

Yeah.

He must have called you out your name or
something.

Yeah, I already know that feeling.

But, I mean, he'll admit to that. We
talked about those things. And he says,

yeah, I admit, you know, I am a fighter.
I like to fight.

But there are issues, underlying issues
in our marriage that we're not, like,

dealing with.

It's like you'll be fighting about the
glass on the table, but that's not

what you're fighting about. You're
fighting about something that happened

week and you just didn't talk about it.
And I feel like a lot of that is going

on. The communication is not where it
should be with us.

And then I just feel a lot of times,
like, stuck because I don't want a

conversation to elevate to a full -on
argument.

being yelled at or something, because
it's like he just always wants to be...

doesn't compromise.

He doesn't compromise.

Like, I'm not a fighter. Like, I know
you know a different side of me.

Don't be disrespectful, because you will
be picking up your teeth off the floor,

pregnant and all. Don't go there with
me. You get hit below the belt, you're

going to get punched in your face.

You are a dumb call. Shut up. Yeah, you
want to hear it?

I don't know about that, man. No, it's
true. Like, I want peace. Like, I like

resolve issues.

I just don't want to be fighting with my
husband like this, and I want us to be

like we were. In the beginning, Mark was
definitely more careful with the way he

voiced his opinion, even when he was
upset.

And now, sometimes when he's upset, it's
just no holds barred.

I hope you get like you were in bed or
two.

Yeah. How does he speak to you, and what
is his tone like?

I cannot say that.

I can't revisit that.

My first year of marriage was my hardest
year.

See, when I get angry, and if he keeps
cutting me off, I explode, and I, you

know, say something that I really don't
want to say. Is it something that, like,

will hurt his feelings?

Every now and then, I've hit him with an
ego blow.

And, you know, their egos can be pretty
fragile.

Yeah. Do you apologize later?

I'll apologize for hurting his feelings.
But if I meant what I said, it's hard

for me to take it back.

See, I feel like you and him are
similar.

Who, me and Mark? Yeah, in that way. I
think I'm better at compromising than

Mark is, though. He can be funny and
smart and helpful and, like, supportive.

But then, you know...

When he gets mad, then it's like an
alter ego that comes in from the depths

hell.

I mean, I can laugh about it with you,
but it is serious, you know?

No, I mean, I hear you.

I mean, I feel like we love each other,
but this thing just gets

nasty sometimes, and I don't want that.
And I don't want it for Brooklyn.

I've waited my whole life for her. And I
will, I was that little girl who was

never protected.

And I won't protect her.

I don't want to cry.

I realize her relationship is so deep to
where she feels like it's toxic to her

daughter. I hope that this is something
that can be fixed.

Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

Look at this view.

She's moving up like the Jeffersons.

When I went to the wine cellar with her,
she was going in on me.

If you knew the things that she actually
said, like, you would be hurt.

Everything in the dark comes to light.

You are making a problem with me. You
don't want a problem with me. You're

a fraud.

She's never been pregnant. She has no
idea what that life is like. I told you,

we have been past that. Why are you
interrupting me? I'm talking.

You need to stop, Cynthia. You need to
stop.

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