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Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
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I'm in my city.
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I'm home.
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I heard you guys are opening a
restaurant. Oh, yeah.
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Yeah. Don't think that you're going to
just throw this up and not have to be
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involved. I'm just saying.
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They're not having one baby. They're
having two.
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We have to be careful about labeling.
Labeling our boys in particular because
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they are already endangered species.
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This is my mom's house.
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What?
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Kenya, I want to speak to you.
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Where's Aunt Lori?
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Anybody?
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Only God can judge me, and he seemed
quite impressed.
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I'm about to give you life, so stay out
of my way.
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Seasons may change, but Cynthia Bailey
never goes out of style.
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I'm a hit maker, and this year I will
reveal the best one.
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Don't come for me unless I twirl for
you.
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Faith, family, and career, those are the
facts of my life.
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Aiden, we got to start packing for
Washington, D .C. Are you going to help
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pack? I am going to pack with my own
suitcase.
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So which suitcase are you wanting to
take?
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The boys and I are going to D .C. this
weekend to support the 20th anniversary
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of the Million Man March.
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I want my sons to know what happens when
people come together to hopefully
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affect and influence change.
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This is not a suitcase.
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That won't make it on the plane.
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Boy, you are too silly.
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We should take a pan.
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It can come in handy.
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We're going to go on a march and meet
some people that's going to talk about
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you can become a big, strong leader.
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I'm also meeting with some very powerful
politicians who support my
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organization, Save Our Sons. I thank God
that he gave me the vision to do this.
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I know it's a struggle that needs to be
heard and addressed.
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And the change begins with us.
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Are you passing gas?
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You are so gross.
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Come over here so we can call. Come on.
Come on. Hello? Hey, Kim, it's Phaedra.
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How you doing? Oh, honey, how are you?
We are getting packed for D .C. I'm
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excited that y 'all can attend the
Million Man March with us. We're super
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excited over here. I invited Sheree and
Kim because they're mothers to African
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-American sons, and I invited Portia to
share this momentous occasion with them.
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Sounds like the ultimate play date, and
you know the boys would love to hang out
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with your boys.
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Chris has work.
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So I'm traveling by myself with the
kids. I'm excited about having Sebastian
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show them the monuments that he's been
studying, the Million Man March
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anniversary. I think overall it's just
going to be a really good trip.
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Hold on. Let me take this call.
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Okay, honey. I'll talk to you later.
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Hello? You have a pre -paid call. This
is your day call. You are not charged
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this call.
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What call is it from?
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I can't wait to see who the baby's going
to look like.
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If it's a boy, I do not want my son
wearing open -toed sandals.
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Or the closed ones. You know the ones
the old men start wearing?
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Okay. What are your rules about your
daughter? No perms or pressing the hair
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early. I don't even like doing the
weave. See, when I was in middle school,
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my mom let me experiment with my hair,
too. I had the stags, I had the crimps.
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I was serious about my hair.
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This is what I hate about men. They'll
talk about, oh, you know, why y 'all do
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this. But then you get with a woman who
has all the weave and all the makeup,
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and whether you like it or you don't.
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You ready for a restaurant?
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I think it might be a good look for it.
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That's a lot of work.
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I got a dope vision for it.
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We have our little family spot.
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It's like the old lady gang.
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Candy has this book of recipes.
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Some of them are Aunt Bertha's, some of
them are Aunt Nora's. So my thought was
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like, hey, why not open a restaurant and
let's share the recipes with the world?
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But when you plan on talking to the
family about it... The best place to
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them is at your mom's house. Let's get
everybody over there.
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We just let them hear it. And you expect
them to just be like, yeah, okay.
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Yeah, I do, because it's a good idea.
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There are a couple of things that make
me hesitant about the whole restaurant
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idea. The main one being we got a new
baby on the way, and he has this great
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idea about the OLGs, but he hasn't
talked to the OLGs about it.
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My aunts, they're amazing cooks.
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They're at an age where I don't want
them to have to do that every day. We'll
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get a chef, a few chefs. All I want from
them is to start with the recipe, get
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cute, come, shake hands, take pictures,
hug babies, and chill out.
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Oh, yeah, that's going to be right.
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Oh, no.
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This has to wrap around the outside.
That's how you get leaks on the seal.
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My GC said it would be done, and as you
can see, it's not done.
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I've been away for a few weeks from my
house to focus on the family reunion,
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nothing is getting done.
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Have you seen anybody else today?
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No, ma 'am. My original timeline in
completing my house in three to four
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is a little delayed. But I'm here, and I
am trying to race to the finish.
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Come on up, Cyn.
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Where's the door?
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One second. I'm going to come get you.
OK.
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Oh, my God.
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Oh,
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Lord. I wanted to check on my girl, but,
honey, I do need to leave here in one
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piece. Hi. Hi, girl.
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Can you tell me why you're having to get
a hire?
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I should have been in my overalls. Shut
up, girl.
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It's coming along.
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You sure about that?
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I bet. Because I can see you sitting up
here with an air mattress, honey, and a
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little hot plate. I'm going to give you
three more months to work on the tab
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before I come spend the night.
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How was the reunion, girl? How was the
family reunion? It was awesome.
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My dad and I are closer than we've
probably ever been in my entire life.
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Wow. He was really just everything I
needed him to be. Did you see your mom?
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you talk to her?
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I was on my way to the family reunion,
and I said, I have to do something.
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So I went to her house.
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Oh, my god.
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Hello?
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It's Kenya. I want to speak to you.
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That's a waste of time. Nobody answered.
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And then I heard someone say,
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Don't open the door. Then I heard the
lock, lock.
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That's what it was.
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Oh my God.
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Apparently she called Lori at the
reunion.
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And when I got there, they told me that
she left.
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So Lori left?
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Yeah. Because I went over to my mother's
house. You don't even have anything to
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say and you want to be upset because I
knocked on her door?
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So what? I would have like kicked the
window open and climbed through like.
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Face me. Look at me in my face and tell
me you hate me. Don't ever try to reach
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out to you ever again.
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And that would be enough for me.
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It's really heartbreaking to hear my
friend go through so much pain. It kind
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reminds me of the breakdown that Nene
had when she spoke about her
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with her mom.
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You're not a superhero.
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You're a woman, you're a person, just
like we are.
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As a mother, I just cannot imagine not
owning that Noel is my child.
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don't don't worry about all that i love
you cynthia having the reaction
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that i would just hope my family had
that's how they should have felt i'm
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i just i just can't i can't i am very
upset and i don't want to upset you so i
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think i should go I have not spoken to
my Aunt Lori since I've returned home
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from Detroit.
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So to have tension with her right now is
really breaking my heart because I
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don't want to lose my aunt.
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Now you see why I love Noelle so much.
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I know.
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Hello?
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Aiden's right here. Hold on.
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Nothing. Nothing?
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What's Dylan doing?
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He's at school.
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You want to tell him what we're doing?
We're going somewhere special.
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Washington, D .C.
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Make sure you take some pictures, okay?
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Okay. Remember we talked last time.
Mommy said that you wasn't being haved
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school. He had a wonderful day
yesterday, and he got two stickers.
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Uh -huh. You got to keep that up, okay?
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Okay. Not always are you going to get
stickers, you know. I know. It's
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for you to do good.
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I don't like getting bad reports on you.
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You hear me?
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Yes, ma 'am.
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Yes, sir.
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Yes, sir. Yes, sir.
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You don't want me to get on you, do you?
No.
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You know you can't handle me.
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I can't.
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Aiden's always excited to hear from his
father, and I try to maintain that
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relationship by allowing them to speak
as often as possible.
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I'll be home soon, all right?
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Okay. I miss you, baby.
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I miss you, too.
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Oh, we lost him. Parenting you can do
while being incarcerated.
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Are you excited about the trip? No.
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What? Are you excited about the trip?
Yes or no? Are you excited about the
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Coming up next.
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That's my mother.
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I have every right to go to her door and
knock on her door. I don't think you
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do.
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Where's the president?
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Are you the president?
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Yes.
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All right, let me go in here. We got to
go get dressed. I'll just finish the
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rest of my makeup right quick.
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Traveling as a single mom, you need a
team. So I brought my top team players
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help me navigate D .C.
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gracefully. You want to come pick out
what you want to wear?
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Come on, let's go.
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Quincy, take Patsy out. Come on, Quincy.
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Waffles!
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out to eat waffles.
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We got into D .C. very, very late, and
Chris and I are very hands -on in our
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parenting style. There's no staff,
there's no nanny, and that's, you know,
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choice. We wouldn't have it any other
way.
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Hey, 20 ,000 black boys to college. Oh,
wow. I'm super excited to meet it. One
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of my good friends at the White House
introduced me to Congresswoman Wilson
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because her organization, 5 ,000 Role
Models of Excellence, is the inspiration
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for the organization that I started,
Save Our Sons.
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I'm super excited to meet her. She's,
like, brilliant.
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All right, well, let me check on these
boys, because we are, like, got to move.
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Y 'all, you know we running late. Come
on, tell Aiden to get dressed.
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This is like a school bus, right? All
right.
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This is my seat.
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Hey, pretty.
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I feel honored and blessed to be here to
support Phaedra and stand up for all
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the issues in the African -American
community.
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Plus, I am ready to get my march on, get
my Olivia Pope on.
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Hey, girl.
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I'm so happy you could make it. Kyra's
coming, too.
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Oh, man. That's so cute. So this is a
great experience for you. I just knew
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I had to bring my son, Kyra. He's flying
in tomorrow.
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This is something that I know that we
have to experience together.
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Where's Kim?
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So some of these people that you will
meet, I've actually known since I was a
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little girl. That's how long some of
them have been serving.
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Okay. When you are an elected official,
you are a little bit better for
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everyone.
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Right.
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So Kim, are you ready?
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You know what? I'm going to leave
another car for you because we're
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late. So you can meet us there, but I
have got to get there.
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I'll see you in a moment. Over and out.
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The revolution cannot wait on Miss
Tootie today.
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Welcome to Congress. Thank you so much
for having us.
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Ooh, fancy, isn't it, Aiden? Wow. So
this is the Cannon House office
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Okay, now that's a lot of people.
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And then this is our office right here.
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Look at you.
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Oh, man.
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Look at this hat. I know.
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She has everything.
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Yes,
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Congresswoman Wilson, I am living for
this flaming Uncle Sam.
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We've got one person we're waiting for.
Let's go.
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Hello, this is Mr. President.
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No, this is the Prince.
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This is the Prince. That's the
President.
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Lord, I didn't have any coffee. Hi, Mr.
President.
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Hi, how are you?
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Hi, everybody.
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Hi. This is Kim Fields.
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Oh, Mr. Toto.
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This is the new class. See those boys in
the middle? That's the class of 2015.
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They're in college now.
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Wow, that is really something after just
one idea to change all those lives.
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My foundation that I'm in the process of
starting Saving Our Sons is a pattern
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after yours to mentor young men so
everyone's empowered.
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But I really need a mentor like you that
has already done it.
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So if I could pick your brain, it would
just help me tremendously.
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Well, you can depend on me, and this is
a great partnership.
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I'm not going to let these boys down.
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This is the beginning, you know, because
men are the ones who lead these
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households. Being here today really
reminds me of my grandfather's legacy.
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I want to figure out what it is I can
do. These programs that you and Phaedra
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have is really, really powerful.
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I want to be a person to step in and try
to make a change as well.
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You almost made me say the Michael
Jackson lyric.
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I want to see the man in the mirror.
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You're going to talk about African
-American boys, you have to have a lot
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courage. Because people really do not
like African -American boys.
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They're stereotypes, and they do not
have high expectations
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for them. One little boy said to me one
day, Ms. Wilson, where is the jail
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for white people?
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Lord Jesus.
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Excuse me, I'm so sorry.
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Did Kim just give the congresswoman the
church finger like it's offering time?
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Girl, where you going?
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Come sit in my lap. You want to sit in
my lap? Oh, no, we're just going to have
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a little talk.
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Have a little Jesus moment right quick.
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There were just some concepts that we
were discussing that are a little more
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grown up for what Daddy and I want to
expose you to. Right now, Phaedra and I
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have very different responsibilities as
filters for our kids because Dylan and
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Aiden, their understanding of some of
the conversation isn't the same as what
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Sebastian is understanding as an 8 1⁄2
-year -old. You know, we have issues in
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our own community. We can't just blame
everything on the larger community.
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I don't have the luxury of sugarcoating
reality with my sons, and I don't think
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that it's the smartest thing to do.
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There have been a lot of people over the
course of time that have been treated
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unfairly because of the color of their
skin, okay?
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When you do what you do to be the best
you that you can be in the way that
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you're being raised, you guys will be
able to make a difference too, okay?
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I know it's nap time.
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Sleepy boy.
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Hey. Hi.
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Come on in.
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Sorry about dropping in unannounced.
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How are you? I'm good. How are you? I'm
okay.
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You want something to drink?
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Nah. Well, maybe on second thought, I
might need a little bit.
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I'll second that, please.
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So what brings you guys by?
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It's nice to see you, since I didn't get
to say goodbye to you in Detroit.
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Well, we wanted to talk to you about
something.
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Okay. Well, you want to sit down? Yeah,
have a seat.
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I wanted to say some things to you that
are
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rather difficult for me to say.
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As you know, you and I have not really
talked about you and your mom.
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I never wanted to be in the middle. I
just want to make it really clear to you
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first that...
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I love you very much, but I think you
also have to realize that I love my
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too.
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I don't judge her.
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She was a young girl when she found
herself pregnant, and I think personally
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had every right to give up her child.
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When I was three days old, my mother
gave me away to my dad's mom to raise
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And I was with her until I left Detroit.
I don't think you've ever taken the
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time to look at the other side.
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Okay, well, I appreciate you saying
that, but I'm not judging her for
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not to keep her child.
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What I've always had the problem with is
the way she treated me when I did come
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back into her life. The things that she
has said to my face, to your mother.
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I'm not going to get into a pissing
match with you, but enough is enough,
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Coming up next.
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God, I love you!
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Did I just walk into the Twilight Zone?
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Are you mad at me? I'm not mad at you.
I'm mad at the situation. This is not
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kids.
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I'm not going to get into a pissing
match with you, but enough is enough,
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I've seen my mother my entire life at
family functions, at Christmases, at
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Thanksgiving. But she always talked to
everyone in the room except for me. Let
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it go. I hear what you're saying. And
you haven't let it go. You have not.
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So in her mind, I did not exist. That is
how I've lived my entire life.
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And her family has always treated the
situation in a very dysfunctional way.
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chose... To leave the reunion because
of, from what I heard, you were upset.
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And that made me go, well, why would she
leave? Well, okay, let's stop there.
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I'll tell you exactly why I left. My
sister was in her home alone when
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occurred that really upset her. And they
called and said, can you please tell
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Kenya to stop?
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I personally didn't think that was
called for. She hasn't bothered you.
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After all these years out of the blue,
you just go and go bam on her door?
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All I wanted was to have a conversation.
But do you think you could have... Her
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door, knock on her door. I don't think
you do.
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I do, and I did.
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Knock on her door. I did not use the
word wrong.
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You're arguing about syntax right now.
It put me in a bad situation is all I'm
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saying. I'm sorry they put you in a
situation, Lori. Don't you think that's
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reason why the family never talked about
it?
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because it was a sensitive situation.
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I'm not going to live my life with a
damn elephant in the room.
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I'm not going to have a child sitting
there in my house and her mother is
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ignoring her and pretending like she's
not there. I'm not going to do that.
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But you don't know what people did.
Nobody should do that. You don't know. I
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there. How are you going to tell me I
don't know?
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Are you serious? You need to calm down.
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When you weren't around, you don't know
what we said to her.
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No, I don't. So how can you make that
kind of statement?
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I only want us to jump on her. She's
just like you. Jump on her and say,
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to her.
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That was not our place.
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I feel differently.
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My point to you is, it doesn't matter
what happens.
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It's time to let go.
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Move on with your life.
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After I left her house, it was like this
dark cloud blew away over my head.
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And I think that had you been there, you
would have been able to really feel a
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sense of relief that I got what I
needed.
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It's a bad situation, but we're here for
you. We love you.
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Nothing's going to change that.
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So she doesn't want to be your mother.
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That's a missed opportunity for her.
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You want a mother? I've been sharing my
mother with you forever. You can have
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her.
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Thanks, Jay.
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All of these years, I have begged, I
have pleaded, I have prayed to have my
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mother in my life.
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And that will never happen.
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Bring it in, bring it in, bring it in.
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But the beauty is I've reconnected with
my father. And I have the family that's
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in front of me, the friends that love
me.
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I really feel like this is a new
beginning.
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I love you. I love you, too. I really
do.
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All right, ladies, we are at our next
function.
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Oh, come on.
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In order to take Save Our Sons to the
next level, I've garnered a lot of
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from members of Congress. So I put
together a luncheon so that I can thank
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Come on, Sebastian.
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Woo! Come on, babies.
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I can't believe I have to be on this
stupid trip.
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Oh, wow. Look at this pretty yard.
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Meeting the people of Stupid Conger.
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Who cares?
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Oh, hello.
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Hi. Oh, thank you, Sandra.
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Thank you so much for everything.
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Excuse me. Excuse me. Excuse me. Wow,
this looks fabulous. You know how I like
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to do things, honey.
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I'm so not eating from here. I'm totally
eating at the hotel.
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Hey!
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Congressman Bishop, how are you doing?
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How are you? Oh, my goodness, I'm great.
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Ah! They done brought New Orleans in.
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Can we just one photo op right quick?
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Yes, ma 'am. Come on, ladies, come on.
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This is important. Oh, Jesus, dinosaur
in the foot.
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Okay.
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Okay, okay.
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I'm sorry to disturb. I have to step
out.
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He's okay.
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It's time for him to lay down.
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All right. These people actually took
time out of their schedule to, you know,
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meet with us and him just leave. I kind
of thought it was a little rude.
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Tootie should take a page from Phaedra's
book and learn to travel with a team.
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Are you mad at me? I'm not mad at you.
I'm mad at this situation. This is not
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for kids.
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And this is frustrating.
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We're in an environment that is for
adults.
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But I got two kids with me. Sebastian
wants to get his fun on. He's eight. And
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Quincy wanted to get his nap on. He's
two.
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Well, hello. I don't think I got a
chance to meet you.
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Portia is Hosea Williams' granddaughter.
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Big shoes to fill.
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Yes.
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So the Underground Railroad pass right
beneath us.
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Well, there has to be an opening for the
railroad at some point.
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Somebody's driving the train.
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It wasn't a train.
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I just appreciate you all coming out
just to take a moment with my saving our
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son. It is so many single black women
who need to have men
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mentoring their son.
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When you see things that you think can
make a difference, you do it. We're not
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going to sit back and let the ills of
society take our children.
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And that's why I came today, just to
say, I'm going to be a battler.
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Our children are not going to have the
door closed on them.
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I sympathize with Kim because I know
what it's like to have two boys yapping
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your heels. But at this moment, I cannot
focus on Kim and her child care issues
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because I am sitting here with the cream
of the crop from the Congress.
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Is everything okay?
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Just trying to put in the sleep, take a
nap.
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You don't think you're going to come
back in? I mean, you don't want to seem
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disrespectful, you know, to put all this
together.
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I'm not being disrespectful of being a
mother and taking care of my kids. No,
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course not, but, you know. I just didn't
know how it would look. It looks like I
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have a 20 -month -old I'm trying to take
care of and an 8 -year -old who is
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trying to understand.
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What is all this and why did I miss a
day of school?
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I understand being a mom is a full -time
job.
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I've got three myself.
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But just because you're a mother doesn't
mean you shut the whole world out.
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I don't want to miss too much. I think
I'm going to go back in. But if you get
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chance. I'll be right back in. I have
nothing to apologize for. Not at all. Of
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course, I would have loved to have
stayed in the luncheon and had Quincy
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nap so preciously. That's not how to
check out.
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What's your name? What's your name?
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What's your name?
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I know.
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Oh, what do you need?
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Coming up next.
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Ty, what's the name of the restaurant?
We were thinking Old Lady Gang.
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Oh, hell no.
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Kenya is my girl.
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Oh, really?
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I want me some ribs and some collard
greens with some macaroni cheese, a
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of corn with coleslaw in the bowl.
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We got to come on now before our food
get cold.
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Food waiting on Canada.
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Tell them we're going to eat and they're
going to have to catch up with us.
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It's nothing like having a good old
family dinner to get everybody buttered
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for this family restaurant idea.
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The success of our restaurant is
dependent on my mom and my aunt saying
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Did I
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just walk into the Twilight Zone?
464
00:27:05,700 --> 00:27:10,380
The fact that we have a baby on the way,
it has made my mom try even harder with
465
00:27:10,380 --> 00:27:13,660
Ty and even Carmen.
466
00:27:18,870 --> 00:27:22,670
Heavenly Father, we thank you for this
food we're about to receive.
467
00:27:23,090 --> 00:27:24,510
Amen. Amen.
468
00:27:25,410 --> 00:27:27,410
It looks pretty good now.
469
00:27:27,810 --> 00:27:29,170
Who made all this food?
470
00:27:29,510 --> 00:27:30,890
Me. You made it?
471
00:27:31,270 --> 00:27:33,630
Did you make that? Yeah, taste it.
472
00:27:34,130 --> 00:27:40,050
It looks pretty good. He knows it's
good. I think Bertha raised her hand. Me
473
00:27:40,050 --> 00:27:41,050
Candy were thinking.
474
00:27:41,310 --> 00:27:45,910
Oh, yeah, what did I think? We were
thinking about opening up a family
475
00:27:45,910 --> 00:27:46,910
restaurant.
476
00:27:55,470 --> 00:27:56,209
You ain't got my support.
477
00:27:56,210 --> 00:27:57,129
You ain't got mine.
478
00:27:57,130 --> 00:27:58,670
All right. Well, listen, listen, listen.
479
00:27:58,890 --> 00:28:05,130
I don't want y 'all to be in there
working every day. But we would like it
480
00:28:05,130 --> 00:28:08,070
like, maybe y 'all can give guidance on
the recipe.
481
00:28:09,350 --> 00:28:12,830
What timeline are you talking about
opening?
482
00:28:13,490 --> 00:28:15,130
Well, maybe in February.
483
00:28:15,610 --> 00:28:18,010
Huh? A month after you had the baby?
484
00:28:18,230 --> 00:28:21,270
You know, we still got to think about
little baby Tucker.
485
00:28:21,930 --> 00:28:24,030
Tori, what's the name of the restaurant?
Actually.
486
00:28:25,790 --> 00:28:27,370
We was thinking old lady gangs.
487
00:28:28,670 --> 00:28:29,670
Oh, hell no.
488
00:28:29,830 --> 00:28:30,669
It's cute.
489
00:28:30,670 --> 00:28:32,370
No, it's not. No, listen, listen.
490
00:28:32,590 --> 00:28:34,310
You know those old Wanted posters?
491
00:28:34,750 --> 00:28:37,350
So it's going to be the three of y 'all
looking real cool.
492
00:28:37,670 --> 00:28:42,150
No. And then it's going to say, Wanted
for the best southern cuisine.
493
00:28:42,910 --> 00:28:43,930
Looking good.
494
00:28:45,010 --> 00:28:46,010
You like that, right?
495
00:28:46,470 --> 00:28:49,630
Come on, bro. You got to know that.
That's good.
496
00:28:49,870 --> 00:28:53,250
I ain't never been to jail, so I ain't
want it.
497
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,480
I don't know what I'm getting myself
into.
498
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,800
Mama Joyce, what you think?
499
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,280
I like it. I might do it, but you know.
500
00:29:00,260 --> 00:29:02,140
You ought to be the hostess with the
bouncer.
501
00:29:02,540 --> 00:29:05,080
And let Bertha be the bouncer.
502
00:29:05,340 --> 00:29:06,340
Yeah.
503
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,100
I think my family definitely needs a
little more convincing.
504
00:29:10,500 --> 00:29:13,860
You got to think about it at least one,
Bertha. I'm thinking. I'm thinking.
505
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:15,120
She going to be there.
506
00:29:15,260 --> 00:29:16,520
At least it wasn't a flat no.
507
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,960
We are ushers in the church together,
and we going to be there.
508
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:21,640
That's all right.
509
00:29:33,429 --> 00:29:38,530
Lord, why should I went to Thotville to
disrupt the nation with her booty?
510
00:29:39,230 --> 00:29:40,229
Mm -mm -mm.
511
00:29:40,230 --> 00:29:42,210
So what's going to happen to that? We're
going to be in the VIP.
512
00:29:42,550 --> 00:29:46,310
Minister Louis Farrakhan called me
personally to be on the stage during the
513
00:29:46,310 --> 00:29:50,690
march because I'm going to be one of the
key advocates for mothers of slain
514
00:29:50,690 --> 00:29:51,690
African -American boys.
515
00:29:51,990 --> 00:29:56,070
So I wonder if Sharae's son made it in
because he was trying to get him here. I
516
00:29:56,070 --> 00:29:59,170
believe he got on the morning flight. I
wonder how Kim's doing with her two
517
00:29:59,170 --> 00:30:00,170
alone.
518
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,360
Hi, honey. So we're about to take off
for the march, and then we have to leave
519
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:05,560
early to catch the flight.
520
00:30:05,780 --> 00:30:08,580
That's right. I'll be there at the
airport to pick them up. The kids and I
521
00:30:08,580 --> 00:30:13,140
to leave today's march early because I'm
hosting a huge event in Atlanta for the
522
00:30:13,140 --> 00:30:14,480
Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.
523
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,680
Lord, let there be a Starbucks by this
march.
524
00:30:16,980 --> 00:30:17,980
All right, let's go.
525
00:30:19,500 --> 00:30:20,500
Come on, baby.
526
00:30:20,660 --> 00:30:23,460
Woo! Woo! Good morning, everybody.
527
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,440
Oh, there's that handsome son.
528
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,860
Carol can't even fit on the bus, he's so
tall.
529
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,400
I remember you was a little itty -bitty
thing.
530
00:30:31,620 --> 00:30:34,940
You were the guy who looked like
freaking O .J. I heard him. He was
531
00:30:35,220 --> 00:30:37,960
Denzel. Oh, Lord have mercy. Jesus.
532
00:30:38,340 --> 00:30:40,960
How tall are you? 6 '6". You big for 19?
533
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,860
Portia was slobbering like a baby on a
pacifier.
534
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,460
Oh, man, you are illegal.
535
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,040
Illegal for what?
536
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,240
No, no, no, no, no. Not like that.
537
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,280
Okay, cougars. He's 19 years old. Back
off.
538
00:30:55,780 --> 00:30:56,780
Boo.
539
00:31:02,860 --> 00:31:03,860
honey. Say hey!
540
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,200
Okay, Dish Nation, you ain't at work.
What's up, Kim?
541
00:31:07,500 --> 00:31:12,440
Hey, family. Look at all these people, y
'all. Look at all these men.
542
00:31:14,420 --> 00:31:16,900
My little men for the Million Man March.
543
00:31:18,460 --> 00:31:19,460
Oh, Lord.
544
00:31:25,020 --> 00:31:26,020
Thank you.
545
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:27,840
Yay, let's go, howdy!
546
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:33,320
I'm happy that I'm able to be here with
my son and show him that Everything that
547
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:38,020
he reads or hears about on TV is not
true, that we can come together for a
548
00:31:38,020 --> 00:31:39,900
cause, for a positive outcome.
549
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,580
Okay, let's say bye to Ms. Phaedra and
thank her very much.
550
00:31:46,060 --> 00:31:47,600
They're leaving to go to the airport.
551
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:49,320
I got to host an event tonight.
552
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,040
Kim called me this morning and said she
has to leave early.
553
00:31:53,740 --> 00:31:57,260
I understand getting your coins up,
honey, because I have 15 jobs myself.
554
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,860
But you've got to take time for the
struggle. This was quite the play date,
555
00:32:00,900 --> 00:32:02,840
though, right? The Million Man March
play date, okay?
556
00:32:03,140 --> 00:32:04,700
That was more of y 'all's play date.
557
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,740
Enjoy the rest of the day. Take lots of
pictures.
558
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:12,920
Go this way, baby. I think it is so
weird that Kim came all the way to D .C.
559
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:17,700
the Million Man March, and she leaves
before the actual march.
560
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:21,180
How are y 'all doing?
561
00:32:22,700 --> 00:32:23,700
That's encouraging.
562
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,360
We're going to be on stage.
563
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,980
Black lives don't matter here.
564
00:32:28,340 --> 00:32:33,660
Black lives don't matter here. Black
lives don't matter here. Black lives
565
00:32:33,660 --> 00:32:34,660
matter here.
566
00:32:34,700 --> 00:32:38,900
For the last 20 years, they have
multiplied mass incarceration.
567
00:32:39,300 --> 00:32:42,080
They have brought to the strength of our
brothers and sisters.
568
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,440
My sons are quite young, so I'm not sure
if they understand what's actually
569
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:47,580
going on here.
570
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,700
Stand up for what has happened and
continue to speak out.
571
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:56,740
But I know in years to come, I can
explain to them that them simply being
572
00:32:56,740 --> 00:32:58,740
made them a part of history.
573
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:02,400
Coming up next.
574
00:33:02,660 --> 00:33:04,980
I can't even remember why we fell out in
the first place at this point. I
575
00:33:04,980 --> 00:33:05,980
actually remember. That's all right.
576
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:07,860
I'm still in therapy after you.
577
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:17,580
The demand for justice demands no limit.
This is starting to be a long day of
578
00:33:17,580 --> 00:33:20,260
speeches. Power to the people. Power to
the sandwich.
579
00:33:20,500 --> 00:33:21,500
Where the food at?
580
00:33:28,070 --> 00:33:29,070
Oh,
581
00:33:35,270 --> 00:33:36,490
I hope y 'all enjoyed it.
582
00:33:37,270 --> 00:33:39,450
I'm sorry I got missing.
583
00:33:39,670 --> 00:33:44,290
I was with some of the mothers that I
support so much. I wanted to bring them
584
00:33:44,290 --> 00:33:48,230
back so that y 'all could meet them.
These are all mothers who have lost
585
00:33:48,230 --> 00:33:51,630
sons to tragedy. They are the reason why
I'm so passionate.
586
00:33:52,060 --> 00:33:57,820
A change has to take place. The movement
has to start now. If not now, when? And
587
00:33:57,820 --> 00:33:58,820
if not me, who?
588
00:33:59,460 --> 00:34:01,060
My son's name is Ramoni Bryant.
589
00:34:01,420 --> 00:34:04,760
He was walking home and the cops saying
they saw a butterfly gun.
590
00:34:05,020 --> 00:34:10,699
My son, Jordan Baker, unarmed, 26 years
old, college student.
591
00:34:11,020 --> 00:34:15,040
These things are happening right under
our nose and nothing's being done about
592
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:18,550
it. to sit here and listen to the
mothers of slain sons.
593
00:34:18,810 --> 00:34:21,370
I don't want to have to tell you he was
a good person.
594
00:34:21,570 --> 00:34:22,989
That's every parent's nightmare.
595
00:34:23,250 --> 00:34:28,210
I see your son sitting next to you and
he's handsome. I miss my son so much.
596
00:34:28,929 --> 00:34:34,830
I'm sitting here with my son who's alive
and well and I just felt really, really
597
00:34:34,830 --> 00:34:39,090
bad. It's important that Kyro hear these
stories because it doesn't matter what
598
00:34:39,090 --> 00:34:40,090
area you come from.
599
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,880
You can be judged just because of your
color.
600
00:34:43,179 --> 00:34:47,239
Can you take a picture of all of us?
Yeah, get a big picture. It takes a
601
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:52,360
village, and all of us share in the
responsibility for the upbringing of our
602
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:56,260
youth. We have to be responsible, and we
have to take a stand.
603
00:34:56,860 --> 00:34:57,860
Justice!
604
00:34:59,060 --> 00:35:00,640
A mother's love.
605
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,540
Wow, you got the spread going.
606
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,260
Yeah, I'm trying to put it together
right now.
607
00:35:09,670 --> 00:35:13,290
You think the poker's coming the way you
landed it? I don't get anything laid
608
00:35:13,290 --> 00:35:14,290
out for me like this.
609
00:35:14,590 --> 00:35:15,990
Have you heard from them? What time they
coming?
610
00:35:16,770 --> 00:35:17,970
Oh, I think they're on their way.
611
00:35:18,250 --> 00:35:19,370
She's usually on time.
612
00:35:19,970 --> 00:35:23,730
My conversation with Kenya about her mom
really started to make me think about
613
00:35:23,730 --> 00:35:26,530
my relationship with Nene and, you know,
what she's gone through.
614
00:35:26,770 --> 00:35:28,630
Can you pour me some wine or something?
No, I'm at the shop.
615
00:35:28,930 --> 00:35:33,290
Not a shot. We recently reconnected,
texted each other, you know, here and
616
00:35:33,290 --> 00:35:36,510
there. But this is the first time that
we're actually hanging out together face
617
00:35:36,510 --> 00:35:37,368
to face.
618
00:35:37,370 --> 00:35:38,810
Hopefully by the end of the night.
619
00:35:39,290 --> 00:35:40,730
We'll be back in a good place.
620
00:35:48,130 --> 00:35:49,190
I'm coming.
621
00:35:52,470 --> 00:35:53,470
Yes,
622
00:35:56,830 --> 00:35:59,030
bitches. I am back.
623
00:36:00,350 --> 00:36:01,790
The queen is back.
624
00:36:02,050 --> 00:36:03,370
Be candy now.
625
00:36:05,710 --> 00:36:06,750
Face duck.
626
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,400
Okay. Pick your faces up off the floor.
She's back.
627
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:13,320
Peter Thomas!
628
00:36:14,260 --> 00:36:18,860
How are you, darling? You feel black and
chocolate, honey.
629
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:20,980
You know, they say I flirt with you,
child.
630
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:22,320
Let's keep it going.
631
00:36:22,740 --> 00:36:26,440
Oh, Stephanie, you got goody. You know,
I'm a sister -sister kind of girl. I'm
632
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:27,820
moving around in my heels, honey.
633
00:36:28,940 --> 00:36:30,000
I'm feeling sexy.
634
00:36:31,540 --> 00:36:34,300
I'm already ready to take off my shoes
and make myself at home.
635
00:36:36,390 --> 00:36:37,368
Girl, driving.
636
00:36:37,370 --> 00:36:38,370
Are you serious?
637
00:36:38,530 --> 00:36:39,810
Yeah. Oh, no, I was driving.
638
00:36:40,010 --> 00:36:43,230
I worried. I don't really like that.
Well, you know him and Noelle, they
639
00:36:43,230 --> 00:36:44,970
kept in touch. Yeah. A little Snapchat.
640
00:36:45,650 --> 00:36:47,410
He loved social media.
641
00:36:47,890 --> 00:36:50,770
Speaking of social media, I'm going to
need you to unblock me, Missy.
642
00:36:51,510 --> 00:36:52,510
Do I have you blocked?
643
00:36:52,690 --> 00:36:53,690
Yes, you do.
644
00:36:54,630 --> 00:36:57,430
I'm going to unfollow you since you went
ahead and blocked me. But I'm going to
645
00:36:57,430 --> 00:37:00,800
unfollow you again. But first of all, I
can't even follow you. OK, OK, OK. We're
646
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:05,080
going to work on that tonight. I just
wanted to get back to being the fabulous
647
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:06,120
NeNe Leakes.
648
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,260
So in order to do that, you have to hit
the block button.
649
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:14,780
Bing, bing, and bing. But I've opened up
those doors again to Cynthia, so I
650
00:37:14,780 --> 00:37:15,780
think it's OK now.
651
00:37:15,860 --> 00:37:18,980
You know, I really want to tell you why.
I wanted to be in a good place in my
652
00:37:18,980 --> 00:37:22,440
life, and I just was not ready, whoever
fault it was.
653
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,560
I was so hurt by our friendship.
654
00:37:25,660 --> 00:37:28,760
So I was just like, okay, now I really
have to go somewhere and sit in the
655
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,800
situation and just be like, okay, get it
together, Nene. I can't, I couldn't do
656
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,400
it. She was crazy for a long time.
657
00:37:36,180 --> 00:37:36,939
What do you mean?
658
00:37:36,940 --> 00:37:37,940
It's hard.
659
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:38,819
It's hard.
660
00:37:38,820 --> 00:37:41,940
Honestly, I'd be like, I can't go, Nene,
okay?
661
00:37:42,180 --> 00:37:44,640
When we broke up, it took some getting
used to.
662
00:37:44,900 --> 00:37:47,900
She started taking everything out on me
because she had all this free time.
663
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:49,700
You're the part that reads my weekdays
no more.
664
00:37:49,900 --> 00:37:53,300
Oh, Peter hated me. Never hated you. It
was a trying time.
665
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:57,000
I felt very, very broken.
666
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,460
You need to stop trying to roll with the
wind, okay?
667
00:37:59,720 --> 00:38:01,600
You stop trying to be a damn bitch.
668
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:06,440
I've never felt like the respect was
there. I've not been a bad friend to
669
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,520
Cynthia, so I won't even accept that.
That's bull.
670
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,600
I'm never going to be friends with her
again, ever.
671
00:38:11,980 --> 00:38:13,240
Friendship contract is dead!
672
00:38:14,300 --> 00:38:21,250
I had your back when nobody else had
your... They recall that. If you were
673
00:38:21,250 --> 00:38:23,910
a friend to me, you would never do
something like that. If you were ever a
674
00:38:23,910 --> 00:38:25,850
friend to me, you wouldn't have done
half of the stuff you did. Nene, I would
675
00:38:25,850 --> 00:38:28,690
never. You're so innocent. I can't. We
done talking.
676
00:38:29,130 --> 00:38:30,570
Good. Do you still love her?
677
00:38:31,090 --> 00:38:32,090
I wish her well.
678
00:38:32,270 --> 00:38:33,189
That's it.
679
00:38:33,190 --> 00:38:34,890
I've had the time that I've needed.
680
00:38:35,810 --> 00:38:39,090
So, I'm going to see if I can start a
new friendship with Cynthia.
681
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:43,360
So I hope you've missed me, because I'm
over here with my long ponytail. So many
682
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,480
times, you know, I would run into you
around town. I'd be like, I want to come
683
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:50,440
over and say hi. I think at the end of
the day, we both realized that our
684
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:54,540
friendship actually was this bigger than
any of the drama that came with it. The
685
00:38:54,540 --> 00:38:58,920
only thing that matters at this point in
time is that we're back in each other's
686
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,000
lives. The last time I saw you, you had
the lobster bar.
687
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:06,860
And I said, there go candy, Kenya. I was
like, ah, child, they plod. Anyway.
688
00:39:07,580 --> 00:39:09,000
Kenya is my girl.
689
00:39:09,500 --> 00:39:10,500
Oh, really?
690
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,940
Kenya is my girl. You know, she's more
than me.
691
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,100
Well, I feel some kind of way when that
kind of turns.
692
00:39:21,620 --> 00:39:22,780
Don't be trying to get sensitive.
693
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:24,040
Not my girl.
694
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:27,100
Not my girl. Me and Kenya in a good
place. We good.
695
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:32,720
Disclaimer, no one can ever compare to
the friendship of Cynthia B. There would
696
00:39:32,720 --> 00:39:34,500
be no one.
697
00:39:34,860 --> 00:39:38,780
that will be able to feel the shoes of
Nene leaked with Sybil.
698
00:39:39,820 --> 00:39:43,100
I don't think that you guys are as close
as we were, though. I can't even
699
00:39:43,100 --> 00:39:45,460
remember why we fell out in the first
place at this point. Me either. I can't
700
00:39:45,460 --> 00:39:47,700
remember. I actually remember. That's
all right. Hey, hey, hey.
701
00:39:48,140 --> 00:39:49,840
You know, I'm still in therapy after
you.
702
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,600
Tell me what has been going on with
these girls. Because I haven't been
703
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,700
in so long.
704
00:39:57,060 --> 00:39:58,600
Kim feels heavy. Do you know her, Nene?
705
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:03,080
Rudy. Not Rudy, girl. That's from the
Cosby show. You're talking about 2D. You
706
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:04,480
know, she's been around the group.
707
00:40:04,820 --> 00:40:08,140
It's good. She's spunked hands with a
couple people. But for the most part,
708
00:40:08,140 --> 00:40:10,120
doesn't seem like that. But she's mad
cool.
709
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:11,360
And y 'all know Candy pregnant?
710
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,360
Yeah. She wanted to have a baby really
bad. Yeah. Does she know what she's
711
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:18,600
having? We don't know yet. I'm pregnant.
I haven't said anything yet. Are you
712
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:19,600
pregnant? Yeah.
713
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:23,080
Me too. I'm carrying twins.
714
00:40:24,260 --> 00:40:25,260
One, two.
715
00:40:25,610 --> 00:40:30,610
Okay. No, really. We're very happy for
Candy and Todd. But at the same time, I
716
00:40:30,610 --> 00:40:33,530
haven't pooped in three days. I'm
pregnant like hell. Okay?
717
00:40:35,970 --> 00:40:37,130
The queen is back.
718
00:40:37,490 --> 00:40:40,170
It's going to be a problem with someone
that thought they were the queen.
719
00:40:41,390 --> 00:40:43,610
Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
720
00:40:44,590 --> 00:40:47,010
I didn't imagine you'd be so good with
your hands.
721
00:40:47,230 --> 00:40:48,230
You have no idea.
722
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:49,880
All right. I'm a little excited.
723
00:40:50,700 --> 00:40:55,220
I talked to Kim and Kenya about helping
me out with a Cynthia Bailey eyewear
724
00:40:55,220 --> 00:40:56,540
commercial. Hey, Kenya.
725
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:57,718
Are you in Ruth?
726
00:40:57,720 --> 00:40:59,260
Oh, I'm actually not.
727
00:40:59,720 --> 00:41:00,720
Life to Obama.
728
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:04,980
We've talked about you taking the
children to prison. I think I'm ready.
729
00:41:06,240 --> 00:41:08,340
I wanted to invite you to a brunch.
730
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:12,720
My idea is to have us all come together
with as little makeup as possible.
731
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:14,280
Really, bitch?
732
00:41:14,540 --> 00:41:18,520
The undertone is you wear too much
makeup and you need to be told.
733
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,280
Well, if I thought that, then I would
say that.
734
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,600
Such a pretentious piece of shit is what
she is.
735
00:41:23,980 --> 00:41:24,980
But I digress.
736
00:41:25,620 --> 00:41:29,280
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