All language subtitles for The Real Housewives of Atlanta – S10E02

Previously on the Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

I'm married now.

I cannot even know his name.

That's some stupid shit.

Are you overwhelmed or you got it? Can't
fail as a mother. You can't fail as a

businesswoman.

Yes, Cynthia.

I don't want to rain on anybody's parade
today.

It's my 50th birthday.

What's going on with you and Amy? She
was like, she needs to be fired.

I have never used the word fire.

You fake as hell. The only way Nene will
address this conversation is if it

looks like my lips are perched and I'm
ready to kiss her big ass.

Ten years in the game and I'm still the
tastiest peach in Atlanta.

Friends come and go, but family is
forever.

Age is just a number, but these
cheekbones are tiny.

Don't mess with the boss.

because you might get fired.

While some were saying I can't, I was
saying I do.

Call me a bad server, because I always
spill the tea.

Come on, buddy.

It's time to go.

All right, he's about to take a nap.

Be good.

Okay, love you.

Love you, too. Text me something nasty.

Nasty?

Get some light in here.

Good morning, Kyra.

Good morning.

You made your world of donuts and
pancakes this morning?

Yeah. Oh, they're pretty big.

I just got to send these emails.

King, want to do an email for me while I
go make some coffee?

Here, King. Try it.

Although I am 50 and single, it doesn't
mean that I want to be at the lake by

myself with the deers and the squirrels
every day.

I eventually want a man.

I want love again in my life, and I'm
excited about the possibility.

face like it's normal for me let me get
the door yeah that's probably long hey

hey how you doing

come on porsche's palace is about to
expand honey

My sister Lauren, she's kind of going
through some changes with her child's

father.

Yeah, eat. Oh, she's just talking. Let's
go get something to eat. Go get some

fruit. I kind of mentioned to her that,
hey, maybe you can come out here with me

and have your own space.

And I thought that would help. We got to
have some rules, though.

Like what?

Okay, if my door is closed, don't come
in. I don't want to hang out with you.

Okay, no, I'm just saying. I think
you're forgetting our dynamic. You talk

until I go to sleep. So if anything, if
my door is closed, don't touch y 'all.

Don't touch y 'all. Do not disturb. Do
not disturb.

Somebody's watching Pornhub.

I'm really testing this sister
relationship because we work together.

We're together all day when we work.

Y 'all already messing up. Y 'all
already messing up.

This is white fur. You don't... You saw
me walk around?

And now we're going to live together. I
hope it goes as planned.

We were in the same room when we were
roommates in college. Y 'all didn't

at all?

Mm -mm. But at the end of the day,
friends come and go. And the one

thing in my life is going to be my
family.

Didn't you go to a party the other
night? Whose party was that?

Oh, Cynthia's 50th.

All the girls were there.

Candy was there.

You know, me and Candy are actually in
an okay place.

You know, we're in a place of, you know,
see you, how about, whatever. Was Nene

there? Yeah, Nene was there. I ended up
asking her about her last interview. So

I said, you said you wanted me fired.

She was like, I did not say that. I was
like, yes, you did say that.

Freaking fraud.

Those are the two that I would get rid
of right away, honey.

And she was like, oh, no, I don't want
to talk about anything from three, four

weeks ago.

In the past, Nene and I have uplifted
each other. We've encouraged each other.

We've been there for each other. Now,
all of a sudden, because you want some

conversation and you want some press,
you drag me. That right there is

backstabbing at its best. The fact that
she could sit in my face and lie about

how harsh she was about me in her last
interview, that's where I couldn't take

it. No more pain and no more drama.

If that's what you're coming with, to
the left.

You're just dropping food everywhere,
sister.

That's another half rule.

Hey,

what's going on?

Hi.

I think I'm at the wrong place.

In front of the stairs somewhere? I'm in
front of stairs and I saw some chickens

outside.

Oh, you're in the exact right place.

Okay.

Well, hello there.

Hi.

Oh, my God. Look at you.

You look great.

Are you ready?

What's that?

I've got a blindfold.

Oh. You trust me, don't you? Well, you
know, it's been like three or four days.

It's too late now. You got to. Okay. I'm
going to try not to mess up your hair.

Oh, my God. All right. Here we go. Here
we go. I'm not saying I am opposed to a

blindfold if it was in the right
situation, but...

With all these animals running around,
the last thing I want is a damn blind

photo.

All right.

All right.

All right. You ready? Yes.

And we're going to do a surprise photo
shoot.

Oh, my God. That was so dramatic. It was
mad dramatic. It was mad dramatic. Go

ahead and sit down. We'll get you right
here. So this is your studio?

This is my studio.

Welcome.

Thank you. Yes. What does... A date has
to do with a photo shoot. No more

surprises. Oh, I don't know what to tell
you. There's a lot more coming.

This date is all over the place.

Can you chin up just a little bit for
me, love? There we go.

All right.

Yeah, there we go.

With Evan, a mutual friend hooked us up.

You're going to give me those playful
eyes? Is that what you're trying to do?

Evan is an artist. He's a photographer.

That's beautiful. Of course it is. It's
you.

Thank you. He's almost like, remember
that movie Norbit?

He's like Norbit, but like Norbit with
swag. You know, I'm full of surprises.

There's another surprise?

Of course there is.

Come through. This is my studio, and it
doesn't normally look like this. Oh, my

God.

Wow.

There you go. There you go.

Wow.

Welcome to Shea Evan.

This is all your idea, like you?

Me and all the romantic comedies that
I've seen over my life, yeah.

Can't take all the credit.

You know, when I initially met you
through our mutual friend, he told me

were like 31, 32.

Right, he lied to you.

Yeah, he was a little off.

A little bit, just a little bit though.
Yeah, like you're like 29, right? That's

right, that's right. God, I wish you
were like... Ten years older.

It's not like I'm 18.

It really sucks because you're really
great.

Well, I mean, you say it like I'm about
to die.

No, no, no, no. But I just want to be
honest and transparent and feel like I'm

leading you on to think that, you know,
that I'm over the age part of it.

Evan's great for someone probably a
little younger.

I just keep thinking the whole time, how
old is his daddy?

You got your older cousin.

Here's to you not falling for me and me
not falling for you. It's a mutual

friendship.

Just a friendship.

Coming up next.

How is he dealing with this? I mean,
you're used to all this media attention.

My husband is just feeling very
overwhelmed because he's a private

don't want to get divorced.

Hi. Hi. How may I help you? I am here to
see Jack Daniels.

Have a seat right here, and he'll be
right with you, okay?

Hey.

Hey.

How are you? I'm good. How are you?
Good.

Looking good. Come on in. How you been?

I've been good. How about yourself?

Been good.

Yeah? I've been good, yeah.

You look good, though. Thank you. You
rocking the bun and everything.

Bun life.

Jack Daniels does not own a liquor
company. I met him several years ago

a mutual friend.

And no, that friend is not a bartender.

Am I supposed to put my feet up or
anything?

If you, if only if you like to. Okay.
Tell me why you're here.

Um, I was dealing with some very, you
know, deep rooted

issues that I kind of suppressed for a
very long time, like well over 10

years. Okay. And I never would have
talked about them.

But they were brought up a few months
ago.

Have I ever physically touched you?

Have I ever smacked you?

Choked you?

Yeah.

Could you still breathe?

That's not funny. Sorry.

I don't remember choking her. But if I
did, I'm sorry.

Because maybe I didn't choke you hard
enough.

I guess I didn't really know that I was
holding on to this baggage and just

talking about it right now. Like, I am
seriously about to tear up.

And I don't want to, but this is where I
want to get to, where I can talk about

it and it doesn't affect me.

Yeah. I'm not afraid of the tears. I
don't want you to be afraid of tears

either. I want to stop having them.

So that's why I'm here.

Okay. I don't want to cry.

So you can make me cry today.

I just got my makeup done. You got
tissue?

I feel like me being able to talk about
the abuse will help me be a better

person, a better mother, because I don't
have all that extra baggage.

You said a lot, and I want to unpack
some of that.

Mm -hmm.

I need to know what those tears are
about, though.

There was a lot of mental and emotional

abuse. From?

From my ex -husband.

So you've been holding on to that for 10
years?

It's over.

How do you walk around like that?

I have three kids. We have kids.

I always felt like I had to be strong,
you know, mom, you know, hold this

together. How are the kids taking it?
Have you talked to them about that?

Why not?

That was a shame.

Shame is not an excuse.

You owe them an explanation.

It's just something that I just never
chose to talk about with the kids. I

didn't want them to look at me
differently and lose respect for their

even me.

So here's what I want.

This is your homework assignment. I need
you to come up with a time for when you

want to talk about this thing. Not to
your kids just yet, okay?

I want you to rehearse this, okay?

i want to force and challenge you to
have this conversation because i think

very important for them and more
importantly for you it's going to free

so many different ways and i don't want
you to keep hiding and running from this

it's time to like face it am i gonna cry
every time i come

you're gonna be fine thank you

They just haven't been out. They've been
missing their mommy.

Quiet, King.

Shush.

Did they go to the wedding? No, I
couldn't bring them there.

I know how y 'all feel, King and Twirl.
I wasn't there either.

King was like the main person, I
thought.

Once I'm officially single, that we were
going to, like, tear it up together.

They no longer sleep with me.

Oh, my God. You kicked them out? I had
to.

You know, someone once told me you have
to get rid of four legs to get two.

Now, King has a man, and I got a lake.

Did you change your name?

Not yet.

Of course. Are you going to keep more?

I think I'll be hyphenated.

Hyphenated, yeah. Yeah.

I know. You'll always be changing more.
I can't wait to change my name. Oh, we

should sit over here. Okay.

I literally have been married for all of
five minutes, but I have to say getting

married was the most amazing time in my
life.

I think I'm still on cloud nine. Like,
did it really happen?

Did I really get married? Did I really
walk down the aisle?

I don't know. I've never been attracted
to a man like this.

It was a miracle that I met him. We
would have never crossed paths.

He is the corporate world.

Right. Chef, introduce you guys. Yes.
Chef Roble invited me to the restaurant.

was like, sure, where is it? I was led
to an amazing restaurant in Brooklyn

where my future husband was an owner.

So what happened? You go, and then what
happened? Did you immediately, like,

feel attraction to him? No, no. So I
ate, and Chef Roble introduced us. It

just a quick, you know, you enjoy your
food, whatever. And then he left, and

then Chef Roble spoke so highly of him.

My husband is a former Wall Street
banker and now entrepreneur. He owns

businesses, and he just does what he
wants to do, and he's very successful at

doing it.

I probably just got excited talking
about him. Wow. And I noted that, like,

you know, wow.

And then to myself, I thought, why can't
I meet a guy like that? Right. You

know? My husband and I, we met, but we
didn't start dating until many months

later. I just was not in the right head
space to have a serious relationship. I

needed to do a lot of work on myself.

But right now, I am in a totally
different space because I worked on

honestly.

I got my husband.

He's everything that I prayed for. I
feel like for whatever reason, Kenya

the most criticism about her
relationship.

If she's not in a relationship, she
can't get a man.

You know, it's like she got to buy a
man. It's like all this crazy nonsense.

And looking back, I really wish I had
done more to protect.

My marriage. I know you have a tough
skin. Yeah. But how is he dealing with

this? I mean, you're used to all this
media attention and public scrutiny and

just craziness out there. He's not used
to it.

It's not his world. It's not his world,
but in this case, I feel like I need to

be his protector. Yes. You know what I
mean? My husband is just feeling very

overwhelmed because he's a private
person. So for him to now be the subject

every blog site internationally, it's
insane to him.

I wish they'd leave me alone.

Hey, well, don't get tired. I mean, even
haters got to sleep sometimes.

Coming up next. One more game that I
need some more volunteers for. You know

to put a wiener in a hole.

One, two, three.

How you doing? Welcome to Duke League.

Hey, how are you? Wonderful.

How are you?

I'm good. Look at you. You look pretty.

You're already giving me a little
African tease with this necklace, honey.

love it.

What's going on? Okay, so I'm here
shopping for the trip for the wedding.

night before the wedding, we're doing a
dinner in the bush.

You have to dress in African garb for
that.

You didn't tell me all of that. Well,
that's why I invited you here.

I plan to go to Shamia's wedding in
Africa, which is really cool. I wasn't

thinking to do all of that. Yeah, I know
you weren't, but that's why you don't

have to think. You have me to think for
you.

I became really cool with Shamia in the
last few years.

But at the same time, of course it's
been so weird with Shamia.

You knew that? They are really close.

I want to publicly apologize for however
you felt. And I love you.

I love you too. How does this look?

Like I can put you on a box of pancakes.

I didn't know that was you. Hey, wait.
Group hug.

Wait. I thought you were talking to one
of the workers.

Yeah. That's coming to America.

I love it. The only thing missing was
the rose petals and maybe a lion scarf.

This is cute. Okay, y 'all going to try
this stuff on?

Oh, that's pretty.

Okay, can we put the hair up on now? No.

Oh, that's so cute.

You're not coming to Kenya, so you have
to try it.

Unfortunately, I won't be able to attend
Shamia's wedding, which is in Kenya.

Let's clarify.

The country, not more manner.

But I will be attending her bridal
shower.

Oh, that's so cute.

I know last year I gave Shamia quite the
bone at her party.

Well, picking up Phaedra, her exact
words was, Shamia, everybody's husband

Atlanta.

But this year, I'm going to give her
something off her registry.

Oh, what's going on with Portia? Is she
coming? I don't think she's coming,

though. She's like... I'm not going to
make the wedding. The tickets are way

expensive. First class tickets are
around $10 ,000.

And I was like, oh, man.

Yeah.

I have seven friends that are going to
her wedding. Right.

Why the friend from childhood came?

And I love her, and I just feel like
it's one side. I feel like I'm the one

always trying to make it work. At this
point, it would be good if she just

I'm not trying to pay that kind of money
to come to your wedding because I don't

fuck with you like that. I know this is
messed up, but I'm kind of glad that.

She's not going to the wedding. Because
that's one less place I have to worry

about her fake ass trying to hug me.

Since you spent all that money on a
first class ticket for somebody you

known that long, at least I can do it by
your lips.

Get a big

trash bag over there.

Girl, I literally have to throw
everything in here away.

I've just started out. I am a baby
vegan.

I want to live my best life mentally,
spiritually, physically, all the way

around. Oh, all this has to go. You're
going to be my size. Oh, my God. Look at

all this meat. That's all meat, Portia.
And I'm not giving it to my family. The

silent killer.

My family's always tried to get me to
eat healthy. My mom showed me a movie

called What the Health, and it kind of
led me to a space where I felt like, you

know what? I want to take meat out of my
diet completely.

Why do I have so much meat? You got to
throw away the baconator.

Oh, my God. You have to throw it away.
That's a wrap. I mean, everybody has

definitely known me to be a meat eater.

Beef, pork, chicken, everything.

So it's a total change for me. And I do
have to admit, people are definitely

waiting to see me eat a piece of meat.

I'm woke now. I'm woke. You're woke now?
I'm woke.

The meat that is on a plate. Let me
clarify.

What I think is funny is that we used to
live together and we used to wake up in

the morning.

And start drinking again.

Girl. Now we have to wake up and baby
proof the freaking house. Struggle city

now. I know.

Speaking of that, should I still freeze
my eggs?

Maybe be vegan for like six months and
then freeze your eggs. Those are better

eggs than the ones you have right now.
I'm pretty much vegan for the rest of my

life. Those are Hennessy eggs.

Did you just call my eggs Hennessy eggs?

Learned it.

It's awful.

I'm just joking. They're not. They're
beautiful eggs.

Okay, I'm tired of doing this.

Okay, help me do this thing for Bailey.
I want to take her swimming. Well, not

swimming, but... Yeah, this was boring.
We'll have to ask Dominique to do it

when he comes back. Oh, your assistant?

Well, now I'm saying, because I just
want to play with Bailey. Uh -huh. It's

much.

Puppies!

Look at your mommy's wedding dress.

Look how beautiful your mommy was.

It's challenging not having my husband
with me in the same city.

Your mommy was a beautiful bride.

His businesses are in New York. My
businesses are in Atlanta.

Look, puppy.

Look.

Yeah, kitty.

Yes, beautiful.

And until we figure it out, this is just
how it is.

Hey, Brandon.

Hey, baby.

Guess what I'm looking at?

What? I'm looking at sand that's in my
wedding dress from me rolling around on

the beach doing Beyonce Drunk in Love. I

don't know.

It's just like I was in a place where I
just felt like protected and St.

Lucia was just like.

The dream wedding, no paparazzi.

But Brandon, we got all these people
online.

It's become public fodder. Oh, well, she
was just with this one. Or how the hell

did she marry? Did she pay him? Yeah. He
did not sign up for the crazy. He

signed up for me.

You just told me about how amazing that
day was.

Preserve it.

Think about that. But Brandon, it's
really scary how people just don't want

see you happy.

Let them kick rocks and go suck up an
egg roll and cut out the noise.

All right, I got to go, guys. Okay.

Hey, Joy.

Hi.

I'm not having a good day. What's wrong?

You know, we were supposed to be going
to church tomorrow.

The preacher, like, blessed our wedding.

But it's like, Mark just went on and
really just went away.

I can't even sleep. He's not eating.

He's got ex -girlfriends. He said things
about me from 25 years ago. Some famous

guy did it. Like, what does that have to
do with now?

He has to fight the fight.

They don't know me. Everybody thinks he
fought his mother, everybody for me.

I've been told so many times by people
who just were not very kind to me that

they try to make you feel like, you
know, you're not worthy of real love.

Coming up

next, a friend of mine just introduced
me to a guy.

So how old is he? He's 29.

Babe. Hmm?

I bought those little rags you asked
for.

Oh, OK.

You know, we never even come in here
anymore.

What's going on over here today?

Charade. She wanted to figure out how to
talk to her kids about

the abuse that went on between her and
her husband.

Right. But she can't do it at home
because the kids are there.

Are you going to pay attention or are
you going to fall asleep?

Well, I'm tired because, you know, I've
been working overtime lately.

I know, I know.

So I hope I don't fall asleep.

Candy!

Sharae! Hey!

What are we doing?

Yeah, I brought some chicken and some
salad and stuff so you won't have to

for my friends.

Oh, praise the Lord.

We'll see y 'all later. See y 'all. All
right.

Oh, that's probably your friend.

Hey!

I invited three of my good friends.

Greg, he's got your back. Michelle,
she's going to give you the best advice.

And then you have Kiki. She has good
feedback and she gives you straight up.

They know my kids very well.

So I feel comfortable talking to them
about this. Thank you guys for, you

coming. You guys know I started being a
life coach.

That's it. He gave me some homework.

He said, sit down with some friends,
pretending like they're my kid.

Okay. But my thing is, I don't know how
to start the conversation.

Because of the things that came out last
year, I need to talk to the kids about

the domestic violence because it's
everywhere.

So I know they've heard about it. You're
Callie, you're Cairo, and you're Tia.

All right, I'm going to be you.

Okay. And you be silent.

I feel like we really need to have a
serious conversation about something.

like the elephant in the room that we
just never discuss.

It is true that there was some abuse in
my relationship with your father.

If you do have questions, I don't want
you to feel like you have to tiptoe

around me about it. But Daddy jokes a
lot. So jokes doesn't mean verbal abuse.

He jokes a lot. I mean, he does that to
all of us.

You know, the difference between joking
and really trying to really tear

somebody's character and their spirit
down.

But we have to remember, we can't let
anybody kill our spirit.

And we can't let anybody ever break down
our confidence of who we are.

So, let's see you try it.

So, I want to talk to you guys about a
very serious topic.

There's been a lot of talk about, you
know, your dad and I's relationship.

This is definitely a difficult task for
me.

I'm not perfect.

I've done some things and, you know,
kind of put up with some things that I'm

not very proud of.

I want you, you know, to kind of educate
you on abuse.

What did he do?

It was some physical abuse. I mean, it
was a more mental and more verbal abuse.

Like a real fight?

We have some fights.

This assignment was super difficult in
front of Candy and my friends.

I can't even imagine how hard it's going
to be for me to have this conversation

with my kids.

How do you feel right now?

Drained.

But guess what? You actually did a good
job.

Almost done. I'm not packing that much
stuff because I'm not. How long are you

going to go for?

Just for the weekend, yeah.

So you'll be back on Monday?

Yeah. Noelle is getting older, and, you
know, she's growing up. She has a

serious boyfriend who lives in
Charlotte, and thank God Peter's there

over. How's everybody doing in
Charlotte?

Really good.

How's Peter doing?

He's really good.

Did he ask about me or anything? No.

Didn't ask about him either, so don't
say I asked about him. I really love

Charlotte. You do? As a city.

Like, even if my boyfriend wasn't... You
like to live in Atlanta?

Much better.

Why? I'm not as easily recognizable
there.

Like, even if my boyfriend wasn't there,
like, I would still like to go there.

Okay. All right, why do I feel like
you're moving to Charlotte?

Oh, my God, Nell, stop. You're always in
Charlotte.

Nell is at that point where she wants to
find herself, find her own identity,

and live her life.

I know you want to take some time to
travel and just kind of do your own

You just graduated high school with all
A's. Thank you very much. So proud of

you. I have to be okay with it because
my mom allowed me to do the same thing.

So the plan is like, so for a year you
want to kind of just figure out what you

want to do. Yeah.

And it changed my life.

So what have you been doing?

You know, I told you that I went on the
dating website, right?

Yeah.

going okay have you found any people on
there i mean i've been in communication

with a couple guys but they don't live
here but a friend of mine just

me to a guy the photographer guy that
lives here so are you gonna go see him

like are you guys gonna hang out i
actually have kind of gone out with him

couple times already what okay but i'm
not interested in him that way i think

he's really sweet but he's like a little
young so how old is he like exactly

he's 29

Okay.

Just turn 29.

No. But I thought when my friends first
introduced us, when we first went to

dinner, they were like, oh, he's like
31, 32.

And then when we got to dinner, I asked
him, he was like, oh, I'm turning 29 in

two weeks. At that point, I was already
on the date. Oh, my goodness.

Okay, so. And he was nice. Okay, so he
was 28 when you met him.

For like five minutes. Okay, so 28 minus
three would be half your age.

I don't really consider myself a cougar
because I'm not really looking for a

younger guy.

They're just looking for me.

Like, it would actually be, like, more
socially acceptable for me to date him

than you.

But if I'm old enough to be your mom,
you might be too young for me.

Okay, well, I need to, like, start to
get going before it gets too dark.

You're like an old lady now.

I'm so old. I feel like I'm young and
you're, like, old. No.

Look at you.

It's very hard to get used to Noel.

Growing up.

Like, I remember when I didn't even let
her drive out of the neighborhood.

Did you eat already? Do you want me to
make you something for you?

I'm good. I'm just going to stop and get
something on the way.

And now she's driving to a different
state.

Wow. Where's your water? I love you.

Give me a hug.

Call me.

I will.

Coming up next.

You're not a horrible friend, but you've
not been the best.

Okay,

make sure we're following the thing now.

Okay. Where are we going? 85.

Is that?

What?

My ring? Is that your wedding ring?
Yeah.

Oh, my gosh. You're wearing it like it's
costume jewelry. It is costume jewelry.

I'm not doing my outfit today.

And it's straight a wedding ring. Oh, my
God.

It's mine.

It's mine, and it's a diamond.

Oh, my gosh. Is this a turn -up event?

Of course. This should be. No, we have
on dresses and hats. We have to be

today. When since?

When since we came to any type of
celebration that we do, and it's not a

-up? No, we're going to be very classy
today. We're going to sit there with our

tea. Girl, bye. I have video of you
holding a bottle.

Perfect, perfect, perfect.

Hey. How are you? I'm good.

What?

Wow.

What's up, you folks? You look amazing.

You got that hat I can't even get to.

You look great.

I'm loving this.

Thank you. I like that hat.

For today, I don't want it to be
awkward.

So my deal is to just... What do you
call it? Fake it till you make it?

Are you going to the wedding?

No.

No.

I can't go.

By the time we looked at the ticket, it
was a bit much. I can't even do coach

and sit up like that because it's not
good for me.

Wait, what?

You know, I have that condition.

Is there a name for it?

That's a vagal syncope.

I personally have never heard of
vasovagal.

What's that word?

Tell me about it.

So basically, I have low blood pressure.

I am not buying what you're selling,
girl.

For you not to attend one of your best
friend's wedding, I don't care where it

is, what it costs. You have jobs, girl.

It's something deeper.

on these crazy hats, and you only had to
wear a big one of y 'all. Look at you.

Okay, that'll work.

Oh, I look so good. Yay!

Shamia is Miss Turn Up. She may be
getting married, but you are not going

turn her down.

The first game is called Shave Time with
David.

So if I can get five volunteers... She's
got naked men, the girls are taking a

shot, and it's just a get -down good
time.

Well, push it up. You can't say you want
it to help.

Oh, Jesus.

Volunteers for candy.

Come on. What is the game?

You can play this one now. You know how
to put a wiener in a hole.

I think her thing was tied on a little
straighter. Oh, my God.

I think the rest of us had hooked to the
side thing. You know what I'm saying?

It may not be best for the game, but
it's better for other things.

How do you feel that you're about to be
married?

You know, he always thinks like we
already married because of the dowry

ceremony. It's a cultural marriage,
basically, like a tribal wedding.

But I'm like, in my culture, we don't
get married.

The courthouse. So, yeah.

You was at a dowry. Y 'all both came,
right? Yes.

And Bailey.

I was in it. You were in it.

No, she was in the lineup. I was
shocked. I couldn't believe it. You were

shocked that I came to the dowry? Yes.
We're in the wedding. You came and you

were in it.

Like, actually, you dressed up and was a
part of it. Yes, but the night before.

But why were you shocked?

I went home. But why were you shocked?

No matter whether there were people in
the room who were going to make me

uncomfortable, none of that mattered to
me. I'm here to support and love you,

and it's not good enough.

You're supposed to be there. You're
supposed to be in the wedding.

Figure that shit out.

You're supposed

to be there.

You're supposed to be in the wedding.

Figure that shit out.

Horses, dog, Shamia out.

treated her like and now she doesn't
even want to go to the girl's wedding

to me i'm like you really need her as
your friend like physically i just can't

do it in coach why don't you go to the
doctor you know when i passed out at the

nail shop she has been milking this
whole i'm supposed to put me on y 'all's

payroll okay so let me understand the
condition oh my god i can't I sent you

whole thing on it. I know. I was mad I
didn't read it. Oh, that's not nice.

Why was that?

Because I was telling you something
about my health. I would have thought

would have read that.

You got a doctor who speaks everything.

My doctor brought me a doctor's note.

It's crispy.

Let me see. Let me get one of these
notes here.

Do I have a letter condition I got right
now?

Portia, you're telling me you're not
coming to my wedding.

Yes, I'm telling you something about my
health. It's not the flight. Bottom line

is you're not coming.

Well, she can't sit on a plane that long
with her legs down.

They used to be enough all the time.

I wish that Portia would just be honest
and say that she doesn't want to go.

Clearly, she goes everywhere else that
she wants to get medical condition and

all. Okay.

I just think you need to recognize that
it's okay for her to be a little upset,

and she needs to recognize, but you also
have to recognize that she actually has

a problem.

Oh, God, girl.

First of all, this isn't my first time
telling Shamia.

the reasons of why I can't come to her
wedding. So right now, sitting at the

table and her being extra, it just feels
like I'm being fronted out in front of

the candy -coated clique.

And that's like a slap in my face.

I think it's about that time.

This feels nice.

Did you have fun?

Yeah.

the hell is going on? These girls are
going ham.

You put Phaedra before me, Portia. And I
never did that.

Y 'all were freaking frank. Y 'all were
freaking frank.

I have candy.

I never, I never, I never once ever put
candy before you. I apologize.

And I'm genuinely sorry. When you say
that your kids are shocked that I'm

attending each event, what else do you
need from me?

I'm genuinely here as your friend.

I would just like for you to be here.

So, this is how the day, in front of
Candy, was an awkward situation for me,

first of all.

Like, it is. And I can't even forget
today.

Portia, you have to understand my
position, too, though.

I'm not trying to understand it no more,
because I don't know how I feel. If you

ain't trying to understand it no more,
then why we even have a conversation if

you're not trying to understand me no
more? When people...

Act a certain way in front of other
people when you've shown them your

You have to listen and take heed to
that. I feel

like

my relationship with Shamia is a place
where I just want to love and support

from afar.

Bitch. I need a break from friends.

Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

This just feels easy, you know? I'm not
actually.

I'm going to make you wait.

I'm going as fast as I can.

Oh, my God. Like, what if Greg doesn't
come home?

Are you putting a motherfucking diamond
to the company? I put my life into it,

Portia. I work all day long. Well, don't
do it no more. Don't do it no more.

We're doing the work that the party plan
is supposed to be doing. Today is my

mother's birthday. I'm not happy that
you would do this to my mother.

Bitch. Get this off me.

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