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For my students that place is of vital importance.

Now I'm looking for someone who has them can help.

You should both be there prepare for...

that you probably less will become independent.

If you comment on daddy have...

call him and tell him against him.

Sorry, you still want to leave!

Hey, you're already here.

Yes, I'm already there. Yes.

How good. Shall we call again?

Yes. Okay.

Do you think she's sorry? Of course not.

And if it is, she's pretty late.

My parents are away next weekend.

So I thought, maybe we can...

Talk to you about this Jasmine?

About what? About your divorce and Merel. Sometimes.

Yes, she's in the middle of it too.

It has to be from both sides come, right? Yes.

Just like in a regular one marriage, actually. Yes.

You can't destroy this I won't allow that!

As parents you always have to radiate confidence.

Even at times when you do you don't really have.

Perhaps especially at those moments.

Because if you only watching from the sidelines...

with a face like that 'that won't work'...

then of course it won't work out.

You have to do things yourself have it checked out.

And give them confidence that they can.

If something goes wrong, you explain just assume it's part of it.

And how they can solve it again.

And this is how they gain self-confidence.

And the courage for the things themselves to try and investigate.

I used to enjoy reading to my children for from Pippi Longstocking.

Because he always said: 'I've never done it before...

so I think I can do it.”

I thought so always a great life motto.

(music by Queen and David Bowie: 'Under Pressure')

*Pressure pushing down on me

*Pressing down on you no man asked for

*Under pressure

*That brings a building down

*Split a family in two

*Puts people on streets

*Under pressure*

Hey, honey. Did you sleep well?

Meh.

Are there no crackers?

Yes.

Um... Oh, well.

I'll grab them right away.

Aren't you going to be late?

For what? You have that one optional lessons? Yes.

Those are optional, off I go don't go.

But you said you have a pair didn't understand math chapters.

This is your last chance to get anything to ask for the exam.

I'll definitely get a pass, no worries. Can I have the sprinkles?

Yes, great.

Should it be like that, that shirt? closed to the top?

Yes. Must, yes.

I'm not worried...

but I think it's a bit of a shame, if you don't take that opportunity.

Okay, good to know.

It looks very strange, it feels like you're suffocating.

Fuck off, I just woke up. Yes?

Guys, come on.

You're making a fool but you have to know that yourself.

Breeding hell, you're so annoying! So, hey!

Bye, darling. Hello, darling(!)

If you want to continue living here, then you take it into account...

that we are having a good time here want to have breakfast. Because?!

Or else you'll send me back to mom?

Hansje... Yeah, what the fuck?

Well...

Is it an idea that you might also sets a limit?

I have twice...

'Guys, be a little nice against each other'.

That's impressive(!)

That Hansel puts me in a bad mood delivers is still up to that point.

But that she's teasing Max, I can't stand that.

He already has enough on his plate.

See you tonight. Hmm...

bye.

Good morning. Hey.

Good to have you here, man.

Everyone seems sick today. Even all my substitutes.

No problem, I had a day off after all.

Well, where do I start?

Well, if you want to finish this, then I check the menus.

Sure.

How are things going with Esther?

Esther is strict.

If I don't get to bed in the morning layout, I immediately get a sermon.

And furthermore, with you?

I don't know anymore man.

Um...I seem completely lost lately.

It feels like I'm 100 kilometers away hit a wall per hour.

I have no answers for anything. Who I am, what I do here.

What I want with the rest of my life.

But I'm glad you're here.

Only that care department upstairs, where he ends up, I...

I'm very there startled.

Um...

I think he will be very unhappy there

Yes, growing older is not easy.

And witness it, is not easy either.

No, but my father is someone that, uh...

yes, how can I explain that?

He has something for everything to be noted.

M-hm. He thinks Bingo is stupid.

Slavinken, he doesn't like that. He thinks it's ordinary.

Haha. Haha, yes.

Yeah, it's just a little bit a, uh...

a snob, that sums it up the best together.

A very nice snob, but it is a, uh...

a... a snob.

Yes, but we are something used to it.

We will do our very best to to make your father feel at home.

Real.

We are here because of the municipality has decided to extend the subsidy...

for the educational institution of Mrs van Noord.

With all its consequences.

Many agencies lean on a municipal contribution.

We cannot escape the fact that sometimes having to make painful choices.

I understand that, but 75% is very high.

And as a result, the school must close.

And that is very painful, Don't you think so?

Considering there are only 25 students at the school are...

we found the subsidy amount that she received was disproportionately high.

We got that money for the increase to compensate rent.

Ma'am... There we have it three discussed extensively years ago.

You can't just make that appointment roll back?!

What Mrs van Noord is referring to...

is that the rent of the land true the school is on...

was adjusted three years ago.

Since that increase is impossible can be worn for school...

decided the then councilor to increase the subsidy...

to compensate for some things.

Yes, but the new council thinks differently about that.

My God, 'greetings'...

Hm?

'Greetings', there I have it hate it so much...

if someone puts that in their email.

Yes. 'Greetings', you don't say that, do you?

Maybe as your girl you're seven...

yet not as an owner of it a wholesaler in building materials?

Hmm.

Or 'kindly'.

I also get a little itchy, tho.

Or 'greetz'.

With a Z like that, greetz.

Hahaha.

What do you use then? I? Greeting.

And you?

Kind regards, or kind regards.

Very boring.

You know what I really think the worst?

'Warm greetings'. Oh, yes.

Yes. A kind of limp, sweaty hand.

So parents automatically get a text message...

as their son or daughter has been sent out.

Yes. Some schools do them already, with very good results.

But that's a bit...

Parents want to be informed held. That could be...

I'll get it back too in parent conversations.

That they don't know what their child is doing...

and then they can't do anything. This goes way too far, Hans.

Parents can already see if their child has skipped school.

What grades they get whether they had forgotten their books.

I think that's enough?! In some cases...

I think it's ridiculous.

What's next? Let's go cameras here hang up...

so parents can see what their children say and to whom?!

Shall we keep it constructive? No, I don't want that!

I think this is a total retarded plan. Point!

What an awful dick. Doesn't make any sense.

But he is sure that he wants to leave me.

So he doesn't give anything else statement?

You just have to accept it.

Without anything to hold on to to keep.

What a total jerk.

Yes. Well, yes. Would you like some more tea?

It's so antisocial to have you like this to be left out in the cold.

You can't do that?! No.

My goodness, what are you? a rude bastard!

You've now said what a incredible jerk Marcel is.

That's true, isn't it?

Yes, but you don't have to do it all time to say to me.

I have been for over 20 years married Marcel.

It's weird that you every two sentences says...

what an incredible piece of shit he is.

You say that yourself it's a jerk.

But that's not the same, right? That I say it, or that you say it.

I just thought... I feel very sorry for you.

Yes, but it doesn't help! So just stop it, okay?

Hey. Hey, dude.

How are you? Good and with you?

A little bit of stress before my exams.

But otherwise fine.

Are you fed up with Vitesse?

Sometimes. And then it drops again.

And how are things going at home?

Fine. Hansje also lives with us.

Oh. Okay.

Pleasant? Well, nice...

Erm... let me put it this way:

with you it was a lot more relaxed.

(laughter)

And with Linde?

Good.

Very good, things are going very well.

Okay, so that's serious.

Yes.

Certainly.

I'm going to stay with her on Friday.

Her parents are going away for the night, so...

Exciting.

Nervous? No.

Bought condoms? Yes, of course.

Just checking.

Don't try too hard.

And don't forget that they do too is nervous.

It'll be fine.

Oh, how handsome he is. Yes.

Hi, handsome. Haha.

Hello, hello!

Nadia, will you join us for lunch?

No, I have to go in half an hour feed again.

So I'm going home soon.

Before sir here it rages to a shout.

We'll see you in three weeks, right?

Um, in four weeks?

I think.

Ehm... he needs a week to get used to it at daycare...

and now it turns out that I'm after one or two hours of collection, every day.

So I want to ask if maybe I can take an extra week of vacation.

Okay. I'll do it with the others discuss.

Okay, I'll go soon. Before he gets hungry.

I'll walk with you for a moment. Yes.

Bye. Doeg. See. Bye. Doeg.

Quite intense, those first weeks.

Very intense. I'm really devastated.

He is the sweetest baby of the world...

but I only sleep three hours per night, or so.

And I'm so worked up all the time.

I'm afraid of him all the time not well placed...

or that he is too cold.

I had that too.

And that breastfeeding eats away at you also completely gone.

I'm making myself everywhere for the first time worry about.

Hmm. About money, about the world where he will grow up.

Well. Whether we are good parents.

And how on earth am I going to do it with daycare and work. Phew!

Those first weeks were big ones being a pink cloud is a bullshit story.

It takes a lot of getting used to... (elevator ding)

and difficult, and lonely.

And all those other things.

(whispering:) Yes.

Courage.

Hello, darling!

Day!

Yes!

(Hansje's voice:) Hey, it's Hansje. I'm not here right now.

Leave a message after the beep. Hans, I see you are online.

So just take a moment.

What kind of idiotic stuff is this?

I just want to know how is with you.

Well, um... call me back.

It makes no sense at all for me that question, but...

Well, bye.

Yes, I like the lectures very interesting and fun.

It's very different from that with medicine.

Then I just sat and waited until the hour was over.

And my exams are going very well.

So I'm not afraid anymore don't make it.

It saves a lot of energy.

How good. And you?

Yes, basically the same.

It's very nice here.

I look forward to going to school every day to go.

Only, uh...

What?

I received an email this morning van de Rietveld.

That I've been rejected again.

Oh, no. What shit.

Yes.

Very shitty.

And now?

Don't know.

Do you actually want children?

Oh, yes. For sure. At least three.

And how are you going to arrange that? with work and all?

I don't know much, I'll see you again.

They just go to daycare.

And if they are sick?

Or have a study day?

Then I ask my parents.

I think I'm having a daddy day gonna do.

We'll see about that, right? (laughter)

There are few words that I use like that I hate it as much as 'daddy's day'.

What do you mean? Because I find it insufferable...

that as men one day a week stay at home...

to take care of their children, they get a pat on the back.

While a woman, when she has her child four days a week...

takes to daycare, is an ambitious bitch.

I don't think people here...

Suppose your boss agrees and you get a daddy day.

That still leaves four days per week.

Days when you don't go to your child the nursery can bring...

because it goes to the child health clinic must.

Or you have to pick him up from school because of lice, or it is out the jungle gym thundered.

While you just wanted to leave to court.

I don't even have it yet about swimming lessons.

School trips, where parents come along must act as a supervisor.

Autumn, Easter and Christmas presentations...

where you have to show up.

10 minute conversations, hockey training, piano lessons.

That will take care of itself, right?

Well, in my experience the Things rarely happen naturally, James.

Jesus, Merel. Maybe we will do much better. I hope so, I really do.

Because now it's nine of the 10 times the mothers...

who bend over 3000 times to solve things.

And guilty day and night feel...

because they have the feeling to fall short.

That's why there's a truckload on it young ambitious women...

on sick leave with a burnout...

and that is unfair and not fair!

Hey! Hey.

How quiet it is here. Max is at Linde's party.

He stays there to sleep. And Hansje is with Erik.

Oh, nice. I'm over that meeting social media, at school. Yes.

Lasagna is in the oven.

Oh, how nice. See you later. Yes.

Hey, I... I found it really shit this morning.

Yes, me too.

I'm having such a bad day, when it starts like this.

No, me too. Um...

You were right.

I have to be clear with Hansje.

More straight.

I really want her to like it has with us.

That she is doing well. I want that too.

But if we let her have everything determine, then... No.

And we have to look after each other a bit keep paying attention.

Otherwise all your attention and energy will go to those two teenagers.

Yes. Okay.

It's been quite a while since we... did something fun together.

Yes. Shall we have a snack tomorrow? going to eat?

Yes, good plan. Yes.

It's been a long time anyway that we...

Haha.

Yes, I had noticed that too. Yes.

Can we do something about it?

Certainly.

But not now, because I am already too late. No? No, really.

Very quickly? No, haha.

Bye, dear.

Don't know.

I just find everything annoying.

I know I do too am very annoying.

And then I hate myself too.

Then I resolve not to anymore to be so stupid.

And then something small happens and then I explode.

Why then?

Don't know.

I don't know how at all must continue.

What the hell did I do on that gap year must do and during the holidays.

I just don't like it at all.

And you?

Hm?

Well, how are you.

With me?

Well, I, uh...

I find it occasionally too no bag on.

Without Hannah.

And without Chris.

And the whole situation with my father is now...

It really bothers me.

His dementia becomes only worse now.

So he has to go to the care unit.

And I think that's...

really nothing at all for him.

I think he's going completely fade away there.

But then again, he can't stay either where he is now.

So, um...

I'm thinking about getting it...

to take it home.

O?

Yes.

That's pretty intense, right? To then take care of him full time.

But listen, like me all the time is thinking...

my father is now very unhappy to be...

that's not an option either.

Yes, but who says he's there is going to be so unhappy?

I.

I gotta tell you, it looks delicious.

Haha. I didn't know you could cook.

Oh, yes. It's from a cookbook, you know.

Yes. Thank you.

I'm curious, you know.

Yes.

And?

I have to tell you honestly, he is very tasty! Haha.

He's very good. Yes? You're like Gordon Ramsey.

Haha, thank you.

Yes.

You shouldn't even have to home?

You must be studying all weekend, right? It'll be fine, really.

I am very high on average.

Even if I mess up those exams, I'm still standing enough.

You were always more of the eights and nines than the pass marks.

Yes. Not anymore.

I think you'll regret it Hans.

If you let it go now.

What do you mean? Because I know you a little.

You were always so proud of it, on your nice list.

I get it, you know. I get it.

You feel like shit.

But it's such a shame when you get it all...

out of your hands at the last minute let thunder.

Just throw yourself in there.

Two weeks, you're done with everything.

Hey.

Hey. I saw on the app that Joyce was ill...

So I thought I'd help out with cleaning up.

That's sweet, but not necessary. Frenky has already come to help me.

Oh.

Hi.

But, uh... I'd also like a moment talk about a few things.

Things I don't understand which I can't quite figure out.

But that can also be done later. I do just kitchen, I'm here now anyway.

That's not a good idea.

Jesus Marcel, who cares?! Don't be an idiot.

Carola...

I'll drop by tomorrow evening to pick up some stuff.

And then we'll talk for a while. Okay.

(music: 'Butterflies' van Abe Parker)

*How do I hold these emotions

*When you spin my world out of place

Tot snel. Tot snel.

*One look at me, it feels like everything

*Is written in marker on my face

*I'm hopin' maybe you can tell me now

*Am I Am I

*The only one that's catchin' butterflies

*Butterflies

*Am I a moth in your flame

*Do you burn the same when I

*Look in your eyes?

*Do you get butterflies?

*Butterflies

*Look in your eyes

*Do you get butterflies?

*Butterflies*

We zeggen het zo makkelijk against our children.

Or against each other.

'Come on. Well, a little bit more belief in yourself, you know.'

As if self-confidence is a thing something you just pick out of the air.

Sometimes you just don't know where to look for it. Right?

If it's your fifth time you have failed your driving test.

Where on earth are you supposed to go? get the confidence from that it works the sixth time?

(silence)

Thank you all for your arrival, your energy.

Very nice day. Namaste.

Namaste.

Fabie? Yes?

How are you? Yes, good. Fine.

With you? Also good.

Are you going out for dinner tonight? with me?

Eating out? Yes.

Tomorrow night is also possible.

No, I'm not going out to dinner with you. Oh. Why not?

Because I uh... I'm twice your age.

Oh. So what?

And I'm in a relationship. Oh. I'm in a relationship, yes.

Then you still can want to eat with me?

That really doesn't seem like a good idea to me. Well, see you later.

No, see you next week. Yes.

Hihi. Bye. I hope so, yes.

(softly) Hey.

Hey.

Slept well?

Very good.

Very nice to have you here!

You're probably craving something, right? Of course.

How is your husband?

Oh, well, that's fine.

Of course it is a bit complicated.

But we'll probably figure it out again.

Have you spoken yet?

He'll stop by tonight to talk.

Are you staying the night? I have to work tomorrow.

And I have dinner with Mees tonight agreed.

Oh.

Does that bother you? No, are you crazy?

Very nice, right?

Good morning. Good afternoon.

Come on. No, I'd rather do it myself.

It's okay. Next week Can I help more?

Then Carola does the piloting.

And are you going to keep it up?

Until the business is sold. And then?

What are you going to do then? Nothing?

Apply for benefits? No, of course not.

With the proceeds from the house and I can move on to the warehouse for a while.

You just got that case. It's all going well.

And now it suddenly has to be done are sold.

Just like with that bicycle shop a few years ago. Why?!

We all have to just work for a living?

And from Frenkie I don't understand it either.

Over 40 and still messing around a bit.

Frenkie works three days a week. He has his own house.

He has enough money to live on to live. What's wrong with that?!

Are you worth more as a person? if you work 50 hours a week?

Would you like to clean your plate?

Yo. Hey! And? Nice party?

Yes. Sure. Yes? Hm-mm.

But... Many people? Or uh...

Meh. Bit. Well, okay. Is it getting late?

No. No, not late. No dude. Okay.

But wait a minute. I look... no details?

You're not getting any details, Dad.

(telephone)

Hey, later, Dad. Yo. Calm.

Blackbird? Hi Tim. Um...

I'll just call to uh... to ask how things are going there.

And since my daughter If you don't call back, I'll give you a call.

Yes. Well, uh... All in all, uh...are you okay.

She's there all week already unbearable.

But last night she went to Erik's for dinner.

Maybe he has her given a magical potion or something.

She's just sitting now to do her homework.

O? Yes.

And she doesn't have all day yet shouted at someone.

So I'm going to fly the flag like this. Well, that uh... is nice.

Sounds good, right? Yes.

Are you asking her to give me a call? I do. Yes.

She never calls me back, either.

Maybe a consolation?

Yes. But you have another one daughter, who will call you.

Okay, well, have a nice weekend. Yes. Day.

I um...

I've been thinking for a long time. About what you said last time. And...

You're right.

I failed you. And I'm very sorry about that.

Things haven't been going well for so long between your mother and me.

And I... I didn't know how should I solve that.

It was no longer possible to talk. And the fights...

they only got worse.

And...

Then one day I just am walked out the door.

I saw no other way out.

But... I had you should never be left behind.

You have become the victim from all that hassle.

And I think that's very bad.

I hope you uhm...

that you believe me.

And that you want to try to...

Look, I...

I understand that it will take time. And...

that you have your reserves. But...

I really want to my daughter back.

I really, really want to be your father again.

How it feels? How what feels?

That Hansje is now also gone.

That feels ridiculous. It feels that way.

You'll be in trouble for 20 years out of your body to get it done to get.

Work, housework, cooking, worries.

And suddenly it is: toedeledoki. And that was it.

I know I've made mistakes and that I'm not doing everything right.

I don't need a fanfare and no flowers either.

But this is the other extreme.

I am being silenced by both my children!

As if I no longer exist!

And everyone always knows best.

Tim. And the self-proclaimed one parenting expert from a Dina...

they have been bothering me for years Rubbing that I'm doing it wrong!

But in the meantime they bake nothing at all with Hansje!

And like Erik, a good one for once had a conversation with Hansje...

well, then we all have to be very impressed.

Screw it! One good conversation!

That is really something different then day in, day out, caring for someone for years.

And what do you think?

Do you also think that you do? didn't handle it properly?

What Dina and Tim and Erik all say...

that matters to me actually not that much.

I'd rather know what it does to you that both your daughters are gone.

Do you feel guilty that you Hansje? asked to leave?

It just didn't work. That's crystal clear, isn't it?

I had no choice. I think it's time. Merel, I think...

This endless bullshit drives me crazy. Shall we make a new appointment?

I'll call. For now I can't I'm busy.

Hey dad.

Hey boy.

Nice day today, huh?

Yes. It's a beautiful day. Yes.

What are you reading?

Kopland.

Young Lettuce.

Young Lettuce.

I can tolerate anything

The withering of beans, dying flowers

But young lettuce in September, no

What would you think...

to stay with me for a while to come and live?

Are you allowed to play records there?

Sure, we'll pick you up just along.

And do you have television?

Yes.

And a good one?

A very good one, Dad.

Okay.

Okay.

Don't you get cold like this?

No, the weather is nice.

There were a few things what we needed to talk about.

And then you go out for dinner? Yes, is that prohibited?

I'm trying a little good to do that separation together.

Sorry. I think it's weird that you didn't say it.

Just catching up. About the children and financial things.

That's it.

I don't think I have anything about what I said...

because you did the other day too sounded so worried.

When we talked about Sophie, while there is no need for that.

Yes, okay, but if you're going to keep quiet that you agreed with her...

I'm really worried. No, I understand that too. Certainly.

But there is real no reason for that.

Sophie is her own thing doing.

She has a new job and she might want to move.

Out of town. Oh. To something quieter, outside.

That is of course difficult, with the children, as they continue live far away from each other. Yes.

But I also get it and maybe it is nice for the children.

I will next time just say it when i'm with her have agreed.

Yes.

Then you have to promise that you are not worried.

Okay? Yes.

Cheers. Cheers.

On your final exam. Shit, you guys have exams next week.

Yes, and the week after that. Then we're finally done with it.

And then? What's it going to be? The Pabo.

But you wanted that Not anymore, right?

Yes, I suddenly had doubts, but it still seems fun to me.

And I don't know anything else, so.

And I really don't feel like it in a gap year.

So I'm just going to try it and if it's nothing...

then I switch to something else.

And you? I'll take a gap year.

And I'm going to work and hopefully live on my own.

And that appointment with your father? Is it okay yet?

Yes, I think he means it yes really.

That he wants to try to have more contact again.

But I just find it difficult sometimes to...

I'm just a little suspicious become, I believe.

But if you're looking for a room...

and you're struggling with the rent and how to pay for everything and all that.

Then why are you renting out the guest room? not to Nina?

Then you are both away from your problem.

Right?

Mmm, but eh, that looks It all looks serious, right?

Max and Linde. Yes, I think so too.

But she's also great, right?

With that police training. That's so cool. Yes.

And what do you think?

Would they already...

Well, that really wouldn't surprise me. No?

No. I think so, yes.

Well.

So that whole story about that party and stuff?

Yeah, I think they just...

No? Yes. Don't know.

Wow.

Nice, right? Yes, very nice.

Want to do the dishes? No, I'll do that later.

Hey, how are your parents?

I don't know.

My mother still pretends everything will be fine again.

And your father? I don't speak that anymore.

Really don't feel like it.

Sorry about uh...

It might not have been that useful to throw it on the table like that. What?

That plan for Nina to come live here.

I understand that you do not so relaxed. What do you mean?

Because you had something.

No, that was a long time ago, man.

We're just good friends now. I think it's a great plan.

If we cover the cost of the rent, can share the messages and so on, it's a lot better to do.

Don't you think it's uh... What?

Maybe awkward if you start living together with Mees?

No, not at all, why?

Well, I sometimes have the impression that Mees uh...

that he still has you...

At Christmas he also said... That's really over now, right?

It really could be one breeding would be an ideal solution.

Ice cream, cheese, crème brulée, tiramisu.

I don't actually know if I do there is still something you can do, actually.

Well, we can share.

Yes, that's good.

(telephone)

Were you able to make a choice?

Yes, a tiramisu to share please.

Thank you.

Was that Jasmine?

Yes, but I'll call tomorrow back in a while.

On Saturday evening at 10 p.m.?

Yes, she had today a difficult conversation with her ex.

I think they just... What?

Just wanted to vent.

With you? With me, yes.

So this is driving me a little crazy.

That you really do like my mistress is calling.

I think you are would also find it difficult...

when I leave on Saturday at 10 p.m a colleague receives a call, of which you know he likes me. Dinah.

I've already said it 1000 times that nothing is wrong.

Only you have it left that Christmas drink. We are just friends.

But you refuse to believe that because it's a woman. Not at all.

Of course, if it was a man, there was nothing wrong.

Then it doesn't matter. Then you would have even encouraged it.

It's about what's in that drink... I'm just done.

Sorry about that stupid jealous thing.

And I have to me constantly defend.

You don't trust me. That's it. No.

I actually don't trust it.

And I think I have there every reason.

(doorbell)

Hey. Hey.

Were you able to leave?

Joyce is better again.

And it wasn't busy.

She also shuts down. Okay.

Have you had any contact with Danny?

Yes, he was here today. He eats with Mees.

How was he?

Yes, okay I guess.

Nice.

Marcel, I've been thinking about a solution.

About a way how we get here might come true, just the two of us.

And I understand that you need space...

to think, time for yourself, to sort things out.

So I thought...

what if we just do it for a while like now?

Just everyone every other week.

And then you go for the summer rent something, something cheap at a campsite or something.

Then we'll just talk once a week off, one evening to talk.

Or we can just do something fun to get to know each other again.

And can be found again.

Finding each other again.

That alone works when you both want it.

And I'm so sorry...

but if I say 'yes, that's a good thing plan', that's just not fair.

Because I don't want it anymore.

I really hope I do it one day can explain better.

How I feel, why I do this.

Living with Esther really doesn't work anymore.

I know I proposed to watch it for a while, with the house, with the business...

but if we don't sell it, I really can't go anywhere anymore.

So you're going to kick me out?

I think there are two options.

Or you can seriously investigate how you can buy me out...

or we sell and share the profits. Okay, those are my options.

And who says you can decide that? Don't. What not to do? This. What!?

We'll talk further when you are calmer again. No, we're not talking any further at all.

And I don't calm down at all!

I'm going upstairs to get some stuff... No, you're not going anywhere!

You wanted to leave so badly, then go away! Calm down for a moment.

Me gone, the house gone, everything gone! Fuck off! Out!

(music)

Trust is not there for the taking.

You can't buy it don't borrow.

You can only get it.

(music)

And you just get it if you deserve it.

(music)

And once you have it...

you have to do it whole guard your soul and salvation.

(music)

Because when you are with someone who you really trust...

That's a beautiful thing.

Because then you have your weapons can put down.

(music)

And you can say: This is me. With all my weaknesses.

And my shortcomings.

And that can be such a relief.

(music)

But trust is a fragile thing.

And if it is violated by someone you love very much...

That's one of the worst things that can happen to you.

Because you won't get it just back.

Trust comes on foot and goes on horseback.

They don't say that for nothing.

One snap of the fingers and hop, it's gone.

No, no, no!

Cunt!

How annoying for you. But this! "How annoying for you." What is that?

Sorry I exist!

I can't stand having you mine 20 year marriage compares with a relationship of a few months.

Nobody asked you to do this.

If I hadn't done it, he would have had to go to a nursing home.

Congratulations.

We're just gonna do it according to me. Yes.

I'm in love with you and I think you know that very well.

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