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That's gorgeous.
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Hello people, let me get my spotlight.
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Oh, come on, come on!
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Previously,
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on The Real Housewives of Dubai.
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She found my location.
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We found three amazing options for you.
Being able to start over and reinventing
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yourself is a way of life in Dubai.
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Sophia, you look like a tough girl to
me. Let's do this. I am definitely a
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rebel. But I'm a fusion between my
culture and my religion and me being
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open -minded and modern and
experimental.
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Everyone's going to be so sick of this
wedding after it's done. I'm almost sick
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of it. I'm in it.
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So Bruce called me and told me she's
only inviting the most important people.
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Why are we talking about something I
wasn't part of? You weren't invited.
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Who likes you? I have never met anyone
that likes you.
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They don't hate me because I'm
beautiful. They hate me because they're
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A woman should be two things, who and
what she wants.
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The desert is ruthless, but nothing is
more savage than me.
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The only thing you can take from me are
notes.
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If you think money can't buy you
happiness, you clearly haven't been to
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In the city of gold, nothing shines
brighter than me.
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I want to make a cake, can't I?
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Yeah, of course. Today's the cake day.
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Okay, now mix, mix, mix, mix.
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Okay, you need to mix really hard,
really hard, really hard.
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Am I a good cook?
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No. Hey.
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You don't make good ice cream. I give
you allowances, you know that. You need
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always stay good.
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I want to ask you a question. Yeah?
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Is cooking for women or men?
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Both. Both. Wow, very good.
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Add this.
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I have been raising my son as a single
mom from the day he was born. I do not
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raise my son based on the way his father
wants.
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Baby, dinner time.
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Come. In the Arab world, they sometimes
promote toxic masculinity, where a man
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should not show his emotions, a man
should not cry, but a man is a human
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with emotions.
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This is what I'm raising my son to be.
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Okay, dinner, let's go.
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Actually, you know what?
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Let's try one more time on the floor
with our hands.
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No.
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Mommy, I need to pass the culture to
you.
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Listen,
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in the UAE, my grandmother...
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My mom, they used to always eat on the
floor. You need to learn some of the
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traditional stuff.
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You can teach your kids when you grow
up.
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Maureen, can you get the floor mask,
please? So I'm going to teach you how my
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grandma did it. Okay, come.
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Oh, hell no. Come.
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Step number one, take your fingers and
you hold the rice like this.
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I don't want to do this for real.
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I want to go back to the normal step.
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Just try.
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Come. You do a ball.
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Yalla. Open. I seriously don't want to
do this for real.
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I tried, Maureen. I tried.
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I'm doing the traditional thing. My
parents, when I was raised up, they were
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like best friends to me. They were open.
They gave me my freedom. But at the
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same time, there were things about
upbringing that I told myself when I
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I don't want to do the same to my kids.
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You guys can do the modern thing. The
modern.
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Come on, baby.
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In my family, lunch and dinner is always
on the floor. It is kind of hard in
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today's modern world to preserve the
traditions and to pass them to the
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children. And I try with Maktoum. Like,
I keep trying and trying. He doesn't get
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it, but I'm, you know, we got to keep it
in there. Wait, let's call Baba Wahab.
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Let's call Grandfather.
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Sit down. Hello. Hi, Baba Wahab.
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Yes, Habibi.
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I baked a cake.
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You what? You baked a cake?
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Yeah. I cannot believe that.
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Yeah, he did.
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You have to show me. You have to show me
a video or pictures.
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Which flavor is it?
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Vanilla. You have to teach me now how to
bake a cake.
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Okay. Thank you.
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Of course. We did not read anything off
a book.
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Just tell Baba we baked a cake and say
bye. Give him a big kiss.
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Bye.
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Bye. Love you, Baba. Bye.
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Can't wait for you to come here.
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This night I'll never forget love.
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Hi. Hi, hello.
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Welcome to the cell.
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Thank you. Yeah, sure. Let me escort you
to your table.
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The weather is so perfect.
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Excellent. Thank you very much.
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Thank you.
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Hello. Hi.
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How are you?
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Can I order a quick drink while I'm
waiting for my friend?
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Definitely. Do you guys have Bellini?
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Bellini. We can definitely make it. Can
I have a Bellini? Definitely. Thank you
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so much. You're welcome.
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Hello. Thank you.
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Hi. Hi. How are you?
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I was just about to order a Bellini
while I was waiting for you.
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You'd get here so quickly. Hi.
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I just have champagne.
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Okay. Perfect. Thank you.
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Oh, my God. It's been long since we had
a night out. We do a lot of friends
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nights out, but we haven't done like a
solo night out. We have not. We haven't
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done a mommy's night out in like months.
We have not.
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Crazy. Cheers. Cheers to mommy's night
out. Cheers to mommy's night out. Oh, my
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God. So much to talk about.
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Before we go there, can I just say one
thing that I've missed?
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What?
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Our little Kiki.
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It's been so long. It's been, like, well
overdue. Literally, I feel like all of
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our friends have been having so many,
like, parties, gatherings, events, and
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it's just, like, then with the kids
being back into, like, full school mode.
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more distant learning.
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Exactly.
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I'm actually happy that my kids are back
to school because I suck. Well, kind
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of, sort of. I suck at distance
learning.
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I've known Lisa since she was pregnant
with Max.
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And I feel like we have a deep -rooted
connection because of my Caribbean
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My mother's mother, my grandmother, is
100 % Jamaican. Ruth is something
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different every week.
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One week she's Afro -Latina, next week
she's African -American, next week she's
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Jamaican, the following week she's going
to be Emirati.
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She really has multiple personality
syndrome, MPS.
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Is MPS a thing? I think I made it up.
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Have you seen Nina's Instagram? I've
been dead for like the last two days.
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haven't. Okay.
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I saw something very interesting. What
is that?
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Every blonde needs a brunette bestie.
Please explain to me when Nina Ali
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became best friends with Caroline
Stanbury. I don't know. Because from
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remember, Nina has been the only person
in our friendship.
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that has ever talked so badly about
Caroline. This is why it's so crazy to
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And you know me, I cannot pretend. I'm
not a pretender. Neither am I. You know,
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I'm not a pretender. Not even if you
paid me, I can't do it. For me, I'm
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girl, what's going on? Like, you don't
keep the same energy.
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I've known Nina the longest, and when
Sanbury was trying to befriend me, Nina
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would warn me to be careful of her and
to be honest. Some of the things that
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said were so horrible, I won't even
repeat it.
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She's ghetto. She's ratchet.
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She's trashy.
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Those are the good things. All the
things that I'm saying are the good
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I'm just going to let people sink in
their own shit. I'm not Rose.
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I'm not going down in that. Girl, I'm
not going down with that shit.
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Bye. So how is everything with you and
Ayan? We're all good.
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Ayan, I mean... But you guys have been
like that forever.
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Really? Like, we fight like hell, and
then we kiss and make up. I'm sure
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tired already at this point. I am.
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I need another drink. Every time we and
Ayan are around each other, you know
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we're going to go like two rams. Yeah.
Two bulls on a china shot.
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And then, you know, five minutes later,
you're going to find us over by the
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bathroom door hugging and laughing and
requesting shots. Yeah, yeah.
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Ayan and I have a very interesting
relationship.
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She annoys the shit out of me. Can't
live with her? Can't live without her.
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That's Chanel Ayan, honey.
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Oh, this all looks so delicious.
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This is delicious.
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Ah, gracias.
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Es un placer.
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Oh, that's so pretty.
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That looks like cheddar.
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Cheddar. Parmigiana I could digest.
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Cheddar I can't.
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Is it cheddar or parmigiana?
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Boy, I can't tell the difference between
cheese. Cheese is cheese. No.
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I don't like it anyway.
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Okay, let's just take a shot. Okay.
Ready?
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Okay. Salud. Okay.
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To mom's night out. To mom's night out.
Okay.
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Playing no game.
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I love the burn. Where are we going
after this?
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Let's go to, like, One Oaks. Let's go
somewhere. Let's go party. Let's party.
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Coming up next.
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Oh, my God. How much is this one?
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$5 .6 million.
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Work a little bit harder.
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Let's just have a protein shake before
everybody gets here.
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Honey, that's a watery smoothie. It's
not a protein smoothie.
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It's too thick without the water.
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We need to put water on it. It's
horrible.
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I do.
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I'll drink it.
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Otherwise it's full fat.
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Oh, okay, okay. So the water eliminates
the fat. No, otherwise it's a full glass
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of almond milk.
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There we go.
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You're welcome. I just saved you a load
of calories.
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Just explain to me how water eliminates
the almond milk.
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Maybe it doesn't make any sense.
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I want to show the girls. Coco.
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Hi. Hi. Good to see you. Oh, my God.
We've all got these. I just bought
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Oh, hiya.
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My newest addition.
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Hello, gorgeous.
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Can I hold her?
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Oh, wow, you guys, look at this.
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So much nature.
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You know what, I grew up in... It
doesn't feel like Dubai, does it? It
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I'm building a house literally at the
end.
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She's teething. She's not... Oh, my God.
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Excuse me, ma 'am. No, no, no.
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We're building our dream house in Al
-Burari, which is where we've always
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I love it.
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Buying a house in Dubai is a whole other
ballgame. You can't get mortgages here
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if you're self -employed. You have to
put 30 % to 40 % down, cash, so it's not
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as easy to buy here as it is anywhere
else in the world.
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So I have to move out of here in
January. How long are you guys on the
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Well, it's going to be ready by the end
of next summer.
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Oh, there's dogs everywhere.
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Are the rules of the house that everyone
has a dog on their lap? I think so.
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Do you want one?
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I've got two more. Look at this. I don't
mind.
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Hi, gorgeous.
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Hi. Good to see you. Good to see you,
too.
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Okay, I'll put that on.
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Oh, my God. You got a baby, too?
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Yes.
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This one was just gifted to me. How
cute.
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Yes, but so naughty.
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I wanted to show you quickly. So I've
been here for five years now.
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Look, look. I just wanted to show you
Divorce Not Dead.
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Oh, this is so cute.
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I love it. I've got to show you my
podcast. I mean, I'm divorced and I'm
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dead. To be able to get divorced in this
country is quite hard to do in itself.
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To be a single woman, to raise your
children, any woman who's made a life in
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country that is this foreign.
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There is a certain amount of hustle that
goes into it. None of us were left in
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giant golden cages with like endless
pots of money. That just doesn't happen.
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I was just telling her this house sold.
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So I have to leave in January and I'm
building a house here. I need green.
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The house we're building is on water. So
I look out of my window and I've got a
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river.
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You know, when you move here, you don't
think you're going to live in Dubai for
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long. I rented for so long because I
owned a house in England. And I was
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I'm not going to stay here. Nobody can
leave Dubai once you're here.
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You're here.
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I know a lot of expats that have been in
the UAE for 10, 15 years.
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Majority, like 80 % of the country is
expat. We're the minority here. They're
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everywhere. So we're co -living.
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Since I moved here and I got divorced,
I'm so sort of like about my energy and
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everything. You're right.
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Energy is crazy.
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But it reminds me of when we got
together the other day.
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Yeah, the energy was off the other day.
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Hi, Sunbury.
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Caroline.
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Caroline Sunbury is the same. How are
you?
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No, that's my first name. The other
one's my surname. Thank you.
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I was blindsided in that dinner
because...
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She came for me really strong, and I've
never been anything but a friend to her.
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I was hurt by that. I know her, and I
think that she has a beautiful heart.
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That's why the situation that night
surprised me, because I've never seen
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behave that way.
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Obviously, the girl got triggered, and
people who have went through trauma,
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feel like everything is trauma from not
being invited to.
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No, no, it's probably from the past, and
I really want to have a conversation
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with her, and I think she owes you a
direct apology.
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I'm certified in life coaching.
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And also, like, I've healed from my own
traumas, so I know how trauma can change
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your behavior.
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There were certain words that Brooke
said that just made Ayaan, like, fire up
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even more and more and more. So you can
tell she was triggered.
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I think we should leave her better than
the way we found her. No, I really don't
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need to accept her time or her energy
right now. I'm very sorry she's had
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in her life, but she's not going to add
to mine.
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Money over everything, draping gold and
diamond ring.
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Hello, good afternoon.
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Good afternoon, hi, I'm Riza Lejan and
I'm Chanel Ayan.
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Sure, of course, I'll take you through
the room, please.
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Thank you very much.
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Thank you. You're welcome.
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I look good, I think I look good.
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I'm so pretty.
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Hello.
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Hey, Nina.
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Hi, how are you? I'm good, baby. So nice
to see you. You too?
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Yeah. You look amazing. Oh, my God, you
too. Look how gorgeous you look. I feel
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like you just came off the runway.
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Yeah, Givenchy runway today.
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I guess dress code was runway, and I
showed up for casual lunch.
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I am the queen of fashion. It's like I'm
Rihanna.
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And then Nina mashed potatoes with no
butter.
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Plain. I don't need to wear my wealth. I
just wear what's comfortable.
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I have love for Nina.
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She tries.
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She tries.
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Welcome to Philia. Would you like a
refreshing cocktail? Do you have any
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juices? We can do pineapple. We can do
orange.
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Pineapple, please. Pineapple. I'm going
to stick with water for now. Of course,
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ladies. Thank you.
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Pleasure. Thank you.
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So what are you doing for Thanksgiving?
Because I'm going to Lisa's house with
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my husband and my son. Yeah, she invited
us. We decided to, like, go to Blue
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Waters, and we're going to have, like, a
nice little dinner there.
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Nice. On the wheel. No way.
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I invited Sarah as well. Oh, nice.
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Thanksgiving isn't celebrated as much
as, you know, for instance, Christmas,
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because it's more of an American
holiday.
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But it's very important for me to
celebrate Thanksgiving, because for me
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like, one of my favorite holidays in the
U .S. growing up.
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Thanksgiving is a very weird story.
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I'm from Africa.
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We've had many colonizers that were not
supposed to be there. I don't want to
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get into it.
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Oh my God, I wanted to invite you for
lunch so we can catch up about that
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that happened the other night. And I
just wanted to apologize because
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you went so hard on that dinner.
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Yeah.
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I just don't know what happened.
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I know.
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Stanbury kept on saying, I don't like
you, I don't like you. I was like, what
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the hell is going on? And I was really
worried why you didn't stand up for me
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when she kept on saying, I don't like
you, I don't like you, I don't like you.
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But Ayaan, I don't even recall that.
Were you in the same party as me or not?
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Yes, I was.
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Stanbury and Ayaan, they're not close.
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So why should she even care?
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Like, it's not that deep.
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Move forward.
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Don't invite her to your next event.
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Even Steven.
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When everybody was leaving, I was like,
what happened? And she's like, I don't
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know. She goes, I thought we were cool,
but she came in guns blazing. No, just
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because I'm from Somalia, that does not
mean I come in guns blazing. But it has
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nothing to do with where you're from. Of
course it does. We have a lot of guns.
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I'm from Texas.
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We have a lot of guns. You don't mess
with us.
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I didn't come in guns blazing. I came in
knowing that I was excluded from
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hanging out with all of you.
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And that really triggered me because me
and you have discussed how I grew up
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with my dad and how emotional I am. I
understand. And it just took me to a bad
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place. You don't know the sadness I've
gone through. My dad used to beat me
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my sister because I was not important to
him, okay? So I have so much pain on
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things like that.
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So when someone comes to me and says, I
don't like you, it makes me really angry
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because I work so hard to be who I am.
My anger is mostly with somebody the way
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she talked to me in front of me. Why
make me feel secluded?
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Why make me feel like I was unimportant?
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It's not okay.
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It was a game for her. It was a pleasure
thing.
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I went home and I was crying because I
just felt like I was that little girl
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that was told, you're not good enough.
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I feel like you and
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Caroline Stanberry.
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have totally misunderstood each other.
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Trust me, Ayan, I didn't like Sanberry
when I first met her. I know, you told
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me. I didn't like her. She was not my
cup of tea. And the funny thing is, when
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talked to her, when I actually sat down
and talked to her, she said, you know
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what?
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It's funny. I feel the same about you. I
didn't think you were my cup of tea
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either. But, like, I gave her the
chance.
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Nina, I see you for who you are.
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Flip -flopper.
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Skyscraper.
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Climbing the motherfucking sky.
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And she's also very boring.
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I'm sorry. I've given out enough
chances. Would you give her one more
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Like, let's talk about it. No, but it's
not the time. It's not the time for me
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right now. Because it's not the time.
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But why not put the planes out?
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What are you going to get out of them?
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There's no plane. There's volcano.
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There is plane. There's volcano.
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Coming up next.
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Anything more dense down here?
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Let's go.
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We'll lay the queen home.
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Now I feel ridiculous.
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As if I can't walk.
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Bubble, we need to eat dinner. Is that
okay with you?
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Can you open the door for me?
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Okay.
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Little cutie pie?
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I'll be back.
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Look what I got for you guys.
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Yeah, beautiful.
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This would be amazing with the
engagement party.
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It's beautiful.
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Does it come with a bodyguard too?
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Sarah? Yes, madam?
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Can you please prepare my coffee?
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Okay, madam.
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Thank you. You're welcome.
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Can you please bring my sunglasses?
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All right.
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Boom, boom, boom, hooray, I'm back.
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Mm -hmm.
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Oh, my God.
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Wow. How much is this one?
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$5 .6 million.
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You have to work a little bit harder,
Sergio.
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I know. Oh,
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my God, you're crying again.
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I'm not crying, no.
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How am I marrying you?
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Baby, I'm not crying.
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I can't help but notice that all I see
is phones out trying to take my
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photograph.
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Ready, Angel?
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I'm crashing over, I'm crashing over,
it's just the right.
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00:21:21,970 --> 00:21:23,210
Christian, what should we get first?
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Cookies. Cookies? Okay, let's start with
the meat.
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Hi, do you guys have the Oscar Mayer
bacon?
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It's out. Oh, okay.
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00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:37,660
Oh, they don't have our bacon. One
really interesting thing about the
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supermarkets in Dubai is that pork is in
a completely separate part of the
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supermarket. You have to be non -Muslim
to enter this part of the supermarket,
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and I feel like that's the part I live
in the most.
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Hi, Joel.
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Christian, say hi.
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Hi. Okay,
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so I need lamb chops.
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Oh, I'm doing this for Thanksgiving
dinner, so it's more than the usual.
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Let me get the organic ones. No problem.
And give me 20 pieces. 20 pieces. Yeah.
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It's almost Thanksgiving, and just
because I'm in Dubai does not mean I'm
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going to keep up with my Jamaican
tradition.
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It's amazing. We celebrate all the
different holidays, and Thanksgiving is
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of my favorites.
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Turkey, turkey, turkey.
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My turkey is there, but it's jerked.
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We love our curry gold, we love rice and
peas, all of that.
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You've been really good to mommy today,
so you can have a cookie.
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Yay,
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I know you like that, yeah.
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You want Oreo?
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You can have one cookie, okay?
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Only one.
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00:22:45,220 --> 00:22:46,220
Hello.
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Love those sunnies. Say hi to Auntie
Nina.
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I haven't seen anyone since your lovely
dinner.
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I had so much fun.
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I had lunch yesterday with my aunt.
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Oh. I don't know. I just feel like
there's so much unsettled emotion.
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Okay.
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You're like Stanbury.
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I could have human feelings.
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Yeah. Okay.
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She was like, oh, I felt like, you know,
you weren't taking my side or speaking
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up for me. Oh.
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00:23:31,330 --> 00:23:32,330
Yeah. Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Right.
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Listen, girl, I don't want to cut you
off, but my kid is climbing out of the
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trolley. He wants to get out the
supermarket. So I'm going to love you
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you. Say bye. Say bye. Say bye.
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Okay, honey. Bye.
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Christian!
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Christian!
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Have you been eating cookies this whole
time?
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Oh, now you want to close it.
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All the evidence is on your face.
455
00:24:06,900 --> 00:24:09,480
I thought I told you no more cookies
until you got home.
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1 ,362 .8. Thank you.
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You little cookie monster.
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Coming up next.
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Give me one thing that they're thankful
for. Well, I will be thankful when
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nothing bad happens on this thingy.
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All
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right,
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so I'm going to do curry, curry, curry.
So get me all my curry stuff.
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Curry powder.
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Complete seasoning.
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I need the big pot for the curry.
467
00:25:04,170 --> 00:25:07,050
I don't know, I feel like I'm gaining
weight.
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These gloves don't fit anymore.
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00:25:09,630 --> 00:25:15,430
I could hire a caterer to do all of this
cooking for me, but in Jamaica we say,
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I love my belly. I love my food. I love
my curry.
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I need pimento.
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I just really like cooking really
delicious food, and it's something that
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me happy as well as my kids and my
husband.
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Okay, perfect. Now I just need to go
check on the event planner to make sure
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that the decorating and everything is
set.
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00:25:35,770 --> 00:25:40,230
Just keep an eye on everything for me,
Jory. Okay. Just make sure nothing gets
477
00:25:40,230 --> 00:25:43,630
burned. Okay. Because I cannot have a
burnt Thanksgiving dinner.
478
00:25:54,250 --> 00:25:55,370
Are you guys excited?
479
00:25:55,990 --> 00:25:59,510
We are going to have lunch literally in
the sky.
480
00:25:59,870 --> 00:26:01,390
I'm not even afraid of heights.
481
00:26:01,650 --> 00:26:02,650
Wow.
482
00:26:03,730 --> 00:26:04,729
Oh, wow.
483
00:26:04,730 --> 00:26:05,730
Oh, hello.
484
00:26:06,190 --> 00:26:07,470
It's so beautiful.
485
00:26:08,590 --> 00:26:09,830
Ayan, you have a seat here.
486
00:26:10,070 --> 00:26:13,190
That's not how you spell my name. Can I
have some of the bread, Sophia?
487
00:26:13,510 --> 00:26:14,249
Yes, Sophia.
488
00:26:14,250 --> 00:26:16,010
Do you mind sharing the carbs?
489
00:26:16,230 --> 00:26:19,350
But it's scary. What if it starts
moving?
490
00:26:19,710 --> 00:26:22,590
You won't feel it. We are moving. Don't
they have it on their side?
491
00:26:23,100 --> 00:26:25,200
We are moving. Can you not see? We're
moving.
492
00:26:26,300 --> 00:26:27,440
Help yourself.
493
00:26:28,360 --> 00:26:29,660
I'm too petrified.
494
00:26:30,900 --> 00:26:31,920
She's so cute.
495
00:26:32,340 --> 00:26:36,940
For me, Thanksgiving is so special
because it's the one time of the year
496
00:26:36,940 --> 00:26:40,760
the whole family gets together. Like
every year since I was born, I moved
497
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:44,540
Lebanon. Every year, my aunt, she hosts
Thanksgiving.
498
00:26:44,780 --> 00:26:47,860
I miss Thanksgiving in the U .S. I was
born in Lebanon.
499
00:26:48,410 --> 00:26:52,670
But we moved to the U .S. when I was
four. And growing up, first, it was
500
00:26:52,730 --> 00:26:55,190
very challenging because we didn't speak
the language.
501
00:26:55,450 --> 00:26:58,790
And I would sit with my grandmother, and
we would watch this soap opera called
502
00:26:58,790 --> 00:26:59,790
All My Children.
503
00:26:59,910 --> 00:27:03,810
I feel like I learned my English
watching All My Children and listening
504
00:27:03,810 --> 00:27:08,490
music. Running around, like, singing
like a virgin, not knowing what on earth
505
00:27:08,490 --> 00:27:11,950
was singing at, like, five, six years
old. Like, I have family that flies in
506
00:27:11,950 --> 00:27:14,750
from all around the world, and it's like
a family reunion.
507
00:27:15,070 --> 00:27:17,390
My kids love and appreciate all the
holidays.
508
00:27:17,770 --> 00:27:18,790
that we celebrate together.
509
00:27:19,010 --> 00:27:23,170
But I think they tend to gravitate a
little bit more towards the American
510
00:27:23,330 --> 00:27:27,210
but that's only because they've
experienced those with family around.
511
00:27:27,510 --> 00:27:31,870
And when we gather, it's like true
Lebanese style. It's like a full house.
512
00:27:32,090 --> 00:27:36,170
I want to go around the table, and I
want everyone to just give me one thing
513
00:27:36,170 --> 00:27:40,470
that they're thankful for. Well, I will
be thankful when nothing bad happens on
514
00:27:40,470 --> 00:27:41,470
this thingy.
515
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,160
She knows your diet?
516
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,920
No. I'm the one that doesn't have a
diet.
517
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:58,180
So today's menu consists of traditional
Thanksgiving meal, along with, like, an
518
00:27:58,180 --> 00:28:03,640
Arabic Dubai touch. So we've got turkey,
we've got kibbeh, we've got shishawoop.
519
00:28:04,380 --> 00:28:08,840
And you know I had to get some French
fries in there.
520
00:28:09,580 --> 00:28:10,760
Look, you see our rooftop.
521
00:28:11,210 --> 00:28:14,670
Guys, everyone look at the red teddy
bear. That's Daddy's new entertainment
522
00:28:14,670 --> 00:28:15,930
center for you children.
523
00:28:16,250 --> 00:28:19,690
Wow. I started off being a banker and I
got in the hotel business.
524
00:28:19,910 --> 00:28:23,130
Okay. And then I sold all these
businesses when I learned about
525
00:28:23,130 --> 00:28:24,109
and bitcoins.
526
00:28:24,110 --> 00:28:28,630
Wow. When I was courting her, I didn't
have, you know, what I have now. I
527
00:28:28,630 --> 00:28:29,589
have the success.
528
00:28:29,590 --> 00:28:33,310
When I met my husband, he really had
nothing. We started together.
529
00:28:33,970 --> 00:28:40,610
There was a time in my life where I
worked four jobs.
530
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,260
Seven days a week. I know how to hustle.
I still hustle.
531
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,020
I'll bargain. I'll take a coupon if I
find it.
532
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,680
And what is the secret for you for like
a long marriage? I let her do what she
533
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:55,180
wants. The only people that tell me what
to do are my children.
534
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,420
Especially this one right here.
535
00:28:57,980 --> 00:29:02,240
How did you and your husband meet?
Through my cousin's now brother -in
536
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:05,820
saw my picture and then inquired about
me.
537
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,960
And then next thing I know, he always
gets embarrassed when I tell this story.
538
00:29:09,140 --> 00:29:13,500
Next thing I know, he was flying every
two, three weeks to come see me. From
539
00:29:13,500 --> 00:29:14,760
where? From Dubai.
540
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,200
You flew to America every couple of
weeks?
541
00:29:17,420 --> 00:29:18,820
Yes, literally. That's amazing.
542
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,940
He became a platinum member because of
me.
543
00:29:23,300 --> 00:29:26,440
The thing is, I believe in marriage, and
I believe in love. Because you've been
544
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,000
married. She's been married, you know,
twice. Twice.
545
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,800
Not twice. I chose the wrong people.
Three times.
546
00:29:32,700 --> 00:29:35,840
Three times? Come here. I think you've
got gossip. Come here. I'm just playing.
547
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,280
I swear to God. She's like, I swear. So.
548
00:29:39,690 --> 00:29:43,910
You know how women are. They just want
to pick men. I was the provider. I was
549
00:29:43,910 --> 00:29:45,350
the brains.
550
00:29:46,350 --> 00:29:47,309
I was everything.
551
00:29:47,310 --> 00:29:50,170
It was just tiring. And it was like a
very toxic relationship.
552
00:29:50,610 --> 00:29:52,890
Thank God these two situations are in my
life.
553
00:29:53,210 --> 00:29:56,950
But I feel when I sit with my mom and
dad and I'm like, I believe in love and
554
00:29:56,950 --> 00:29:58,150
want to get married. Mom's like, it's
enough.
555
00:29:58,390 --> 00:29:58,989
You try.
556
00:29:58,990 --> 00:30:00,190
But third time's the charm.
557
00:30:00,670 --> 00:30:03,550
Third time's the charm, yeah. My parents
don't mind me.
558
00:30:03,980 --> 00:30:07,200
falling in love and getting married and
finding the one. But what they care
559
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,460
about and fear for me is the pressure of
the society around me and the judgment
560
00:30:11,460 --> 00:30:15,720
of divorce that might impact my life in
a negative way and affect me on a
561
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,820
personal level. I believe in fairy
tales, and I feel like I'm going to have
562
00:30:18,820 --> 00:30:19,940
fairy tale soon. You will.
563
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:21,920
Manifest it.
564
00:30:22,700 --> 00:30:23,700
Manifest it.
565
00:30:23,900 --> 00:30:24,900
Manifest it.
566
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:36,660
Okay, let's check the turkey.
567
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:37,920
Come, boys.
568
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:42,460
Dad, open my door.
569
00:30:43,140 --> 00:30:44,140
It's clean.
570
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,040
Thank you, Cookie.
571
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:48,200
Hey, buddy.
572
00:30:48,540 --> 00:30:50,240
Oh, it's okay.
573
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,040
Oh, it's okay. It's okay.
574
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,820
I think my cats are here.
575
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,080
Let me go outside. Okay, hi.
576
00:31:01,540 --> 00:31:02,760
Oh, that is so cute.
577
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,640
Yes, give me the dish.
578
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:07,280
Thank you, thank you.
579
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:11,360
Let's go.
580
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,180
What is that?
581
00:31:18,740 --> 00:31:19,820
Coming up next.
582
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,120
You know, she told me in the middle of
the lunch, I don't want to have five.
583
00:31:24,380 --> 00:31:27,520
Yeah, but anyway, she's closer to you
than she is to Caroline.
584
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,200
She didn't make it look like that.
585
00:31:50,540 --> 00:31:55,260
In Jamaica, this animal would definitely
be in somebody's pot.
586
00:31:55,520 --> 00:32:00,460
We would curry it, maniswata it, goat
and soup it, all of that.
587
00:32:00,860 --> 00:32:04,800
But we're in Dubai, girl. What do you
think I'm going to do with this goat
588
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,960
besides my kids making him or her a pet?
589
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,760
I cannot get over it.
590
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:11,980
Oh, you know, Charlina.
591
00:32:18,179 --> 00:32:19,179
Welcome back.
592
00:32:19,660 --> 00:32:21,040
We got a goat.
593
00:32:21,660 --> 00:32:24,160
The reason why I brought you a goat is
in Kenya.
594
00:32:24,420 --> 00:32:27,940
Yeah. If somebody shows you love and you
invite my family to your house, you
595
00:32:27,940 --> 00:32:29,640
give them something that's so special to
you.
596
00:32:29,980 --> 00:32:33,840
So in our culture, like, goats are so
important. When you get married, you get
597
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:37,880
goats. When you get engaged, you get
goats. And you were there for me so much
598
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,140
few nights ago when I was in a bad
place. And I told Chris and Todd, I'm
599
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:45,260
how can I get this girl that I think
matters so much to my soul? Honestly, I
600
00:32:45,260 --> 00:32:47,040
love it. We're going to keep the goats.
601
00:32:47,300 --> 00:32:49,480
Lisa is really, like, ride.
602
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:52,900
She rides for me. I ride for her so
hard.
603
00:32:53,220 --> 00:32:58,160
She's always there for me. Like, she's
got my back. And that's something that
604
00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,160
you don't buy.
605
00:32:59,980 --> 00:33:04,560
She just loved me, and I love her. Okay,
guys, let's sit. I cooked everything.
606
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,440
I literally cooked everything.
607
00:33:06,700 --> 00:33:08,260
Oh, we are so excited, and we are so
hungry.
608
00:33:09,740 --> 00:33:13,340
Ion, you're there. I'm here. Okay, well
done. All this stuff is amazing.
609
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:14,499
Thank you.
610
00:33:14,500 --> 00:33:15,920
I made it. You did?
611
00:33:16,300 --> 00:33:17,300
It's amazing.
612
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:18,840
She cooked it.
613
00:33:19,100 --> 00:33:21,340
100%. She cooked all of this stuff.
Yeah. That's amazing.
614
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,940
The only things that were delivered were
the cake.
615
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:30,180
Lisa. How do you beat that beautiful and
gorgeous boss lady, a great mother on
616
00:33:30,180 --> 00:33:33,660
the planet, and cook like this? You
know, for me, I actually look up to her
617
00:33:33,660 --> 00:33:37,980
lot. I love your wife. Oh, my God.
Honestly, when I'm having a bad day, I
618
00:33:37,980 --> 00:33:39,520
call her because I know she's going to
make me laugh.
619
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:41,520
Like, see, it's my therapy.
620
00:33:42,500 --> 00:33:46,900
Why do you think I've been married to
her for 20 -plus years?
621
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:51,740
We need your secret. You know, honestly,
I've told you this, and I've opened up
622
00:33:51,740 --> 00:33:54,580
to you so much about myself. I didn't
actually know what love was.
623
00:33:55,070 --> 00:33:58,790
Until I met him, I told you, he taught
me how to feel love. It's really
624
00:33:58,950 --> 00:34:01,890
Like when I'm down, he's like, you don't
have to be down. Just remember who you
625
00:34:01,890 --> 00:34:02,890
are. Feel good about yourself.
626
00:34:03,270 --> 00:34:05,250
I've been with my husband since 1999.
627
00:34:06,030 --> 00:34:07,450
My sister introduced me to him.
628
00:34:07,980 --> 00:34:10,739
We were out. I just graduated high
school, actually.
629
00:34:10,980 --> 00:34:15,199
And he wanted to dance with me because
I'm a great dancer. I can move, man.
630
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,239
So he liked my dance moves.
631
00:34:18,659 --> 00:34:24,080
And then he wanted to get to know me.
And it was just like love at first
632
00:34:24,460 --> 00:34:26,980
Oh, the goat's in the pool.
633
00:34:28,500 --> 00:34:29,820
He can't swim. He can't.
634
00:34:30,500 --> 00:34:32,880
God save him. God save him.
635
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:34,900
God save the goat.
636
00:34:38,549 --> 00:34:39,549
You got it, Todd?
637
00:34:39,850 --> 00:34:40,870
There you go. Yeah, you got it.
638
00:34:42,170 --> 00:34:44,630
Okay, so maybe you don't want to do that
again, God.
639
00:34:45,310 --> 00:34:47,210
I cannot believe the goat went for a
swim.
640
00:34:47,590 --> 00:34:51,090
Where I go, there is something
happening. How is the food, boy? Oh,
641
00:34:51,090 --> 00:34:52,090
good. Fantastic.
642
00:34:52,310 --> 00:34:53,449
How good a cook is Mommy?
643
00:34:54,290 --> 00:34:55,530
The best. Huh?
644
00:34:56,030 --> 00:34:59,990
Oh, I have a lot to catch up with you on
since our dinner last time. Yeah.
645
00:35:00,590 --> 00:35:04,310
So I wanted to apologize to Nina for the
dinner stuff that happened and things
646
00:35:04,310 --> 00:35:05,109
like that.
647
00:35:05,110 --> 00:35:06,210
But honestly...
648
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,500
I didn't know who she was that day. What
do you mean?
649
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,940
You know, she told me in the middle of
the lunch, I don't want to have thighs.
650
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,300
Yeah, but anyway, she's closer to you
than she is to Caroline.
651
00:35:16,540 --> 00:35:17,980
She didn't make it look like that.
652
00:35:18,220 --> 00:35:20,000
She said she wants to get you guys
together.
653
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,520
I don't know when Nina became Dalai
Lama, but that day.
654
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,600
So I don't know why we have to sit down
and talk.
655
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:30,460
I don't want to sit down with somebody
because I feel like she's going to be
656
00:35:30,460 --> 00:35:35,160
manipulative. When people show you their
blue color, you know they're blue.
657
00:35:35,630 --> 00:35:37,310
Why try to see them in orange?
658
00:35:37,850 --> 00:35:39,010
They cannot be orange.
659
00:35:39,310 --> 00:35:43,790
To be honest, personally, you would know
if I'm ready to do that.
660
00:35:44,070 --> 00:35:48,790
She showed me she's mean, unkind, does
not support me or doesn't want me.
661
00:35:48,950 --> 00:35:52,270
There's an issue with her. There's an
issue that she needs to deal with that
662
00:35:52,270 --> 00:35:53,270
her own soul.
663
00:35:53,290 --> 00:35:57,890
And on that period, and mother... What
is the goal?
664
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,780
Todd, where's the goat? I have no clue.
665
00:36:02,900 --> 00:36:04,120
I'll check here.
666
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:08,040
Oh, my God. We need to find that goat.
667
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:10,780
I don't know where the goat is.
668
00:36:11,860 --> 00:36:13,720
We think the goat might have slipped
through the gate.
669
00:36:13,980 --> 00:36:18,720
You think so? After I gave you the goat,
my hands are washed from that goat.
670
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,260
Girl, you gave me more work.
671
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:22,920
You should see what I'm going to bring
her next.
672
00:36:29,759 --> 00:36:33,800
Coming up next, he beat me so bad.
673
00:36:34,260 --> 00:36:39,180
I don't want to cry, but honestly, it is
not an easy situation for me to forgive
674
00:36:39,180 --> 00:36:41,060
someone like that. Honestly, it's not.
675
00:36:50,100 --> 00:36:57,000
Do you like your hair color
676
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,000
or no?
677
00:36:58,380 --> 00:37:02,600
to be good, but now you ruined it. I
didn't ruin it. It used to be so blonde.
678
00:37:02,740 --> 00:37:04,380
Now it's like less blonde.
679
00:37:04,620 --> 00:37:06,560
So it looks like proportionate to your
face.
680
00:37:06,820 --> 00:37:08,600
I'm disappointed at you.
681
00:37:09,020 --> 00:37:10,560
You're disappointed at me?
682
00:37:10,900 --> 00:37:13,260
I swear to God, you're an old man.
You're not a kid.
683
00:37:17,180 --> 00:37:18,098
Chanel's here.
684
00:37:18,100 --> 00:37:19,100
Wait, wait, wait.
685
00:37:19,340 --> 00:37:20,340
Wait, wait, wait.
686
00:37:20,720 --> 00:37:22,520
Marina, wait.
687
00:37:23,980 --> 00:37:24,980
Hi.
688
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:32,180
I brought you a gift.
689
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:33,960
Honestly, we have a lot of layers.
690
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:35,880
So I brought you onions.
691
00:37:37,500 --> 00:37:40,800
Literally, in my village, you just don't
go to someone's house without a gift. I
692
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:41,800
think it's really awkward.
693
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,780
I used to have a parrot like this at
home, and we used to teach it to talk
694
00:37:45,780 --> 00:37:48,900
we were young. Thank you for having me
in your house, because honestly, every
695
00:37:48,900 --> 00:37:52,000
time we met, I feel like we have a soul
connection somehow.
696
00:37:52,240 --> 00:37:53,460
You just feel the energy, right? Yeah.
697
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,340
It's a bit hot. My wig is, like, getting
super, super hot. Do you mind?
698
00:37:58,190 --> 00:38:01,670
Do you mind if I sit next to you, which
would be nice to be close to you anyway.
699
00:38:02,710 --> 00:38:05,470
And much closer, right? This is way
better.
700
00:38:05,750 --> 00:38:09,670
I know you're like a businesswoman, but
I would also like to know Sarah.
701
00:38:10,090 --> 00:38:11,630
I mean, I had a great childhood.
702
00:38:12,290 --> 00:38:15,570
My parents, they always tell me, when
you were young, we knew you were going
703
00:38:15,570 --> 00:38:16,408
be trouble.
704
00:38:16,410 --> 00:38:20,050
As in, like, you were determined, you
had your own philosophies. Like, my dad
705
00:38:20,050 --> 00:38:23,410
told me, by the age of five, you would
buy candy and resell it to your cousins.
706
00:38:23,930 --> 00:38:25,510
Oh, I like that. So you've been an
entrepreneur.
707
00:38:25,850 --> 00:38:28,970
That's how you are. I've been an
entrepreneur all my life. Yes, you have.
708
00:38:28,970 --> 00:38:32,290
then when I was 15, I started my first
business. So I feel like I have not
709
00:38:32,290 --> 00:38:33,290
my full childhood.
710
00:38:33,410 --> 00:38:38,810
So that's why I'm so playful right now.
Like there's still that child in me, the
711
00:38:38,810 --> 00:38:40,250
inner child that wants to have fun.
712
00:38:40,670 --> 00:38:42,410
So I am literally the same.
713
00:38:42,610 --> 00:38:45,010
I've always been an entrepreneur. I've
always known how to sell stuff.
714
00:38:45,290 --> 00:38:49,390
My dad would give us everything in our
village. We lived really good. Then
715
00:38:49,390 --> 00:38:51,370
suddenly he just didn't want to be a dad
anymore.
716
00:38:51,950 --> 00:38:54,690
And they just parted and left. And my
mom was uneducated.
717
00:38:54,990 --> 00:38:57,850
She was an orphan, left by herself with
kids.
718
00:38:58,670 --> 00:39:02,850
So then I just started helping my mom,
you know, at 8 years old, 9 years old,
719
00:39:02,870 --> 00:39:07,410
waking up at 4 o 'clock in the morning,
crossing the river to go buy bananas,
720
00:39:07,810 --> 00:39:09,510
pineapples, put in the truck.
721
00:39:09,750 --> 00:39:13,830
It gave me a lot of work ethic as a
person, you know, and it shaped me to
722
00:39:13,830 --> 00:39:17,970
a businesswoman. I've done so well for
myself from where I'm from.
723
00:39:18,270 --> 00:39:20,050
Do you feel like you forgave your
father?
724
00:39:20,610 --> 00:39:21,610
No.
725
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:27,040
I've forgiven a lot of people in life,
but forgiving my father is the hardest
726
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:30,320
thing I could do. 26 years, I've never
spoken to him.
727
00:39:30,980 --> 00:39:35,100
If you know the stuff that he's done to
me, he wanted to marry me off at 14
728
00:39:35,100 --> 00:39:36,100
years old.
729
00:39:36,780 --> 00:39:41,880
Like at 14 years old, him coming to say
to me, come travel with me because I
730
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,380
miss you and we go together.
731
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,560
And I was packing my bags, I was going
to go with him. My big sister said,
732
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,520
do that. Dad is going to marry you off
of hard.
733
00:39:49,820 --> 00:39:51,200
I think seven.
734
00:39:52,090 --> 00:39:55,590
Or something I went to play in the
river. It was raining. He got really
735
00:39:55,590 --> 00:39:58,610
with me. He literally tied me on a tree.
736
00:40:00,050 --> 00:40:01,050
On a tree.
737
00:40:01,190 --> 00:40:02,630
While it's raining, Sarah.
738
00:40:03,130 --> 00:40:05,550
My whole entire life, all he's done is
beat me.
739
00:40:05,890 --> 00:40:10,130
My dad said all the problems in his
marriage started when I was coming in.
740
00:40:10,130 --> 00:40:13,890
I've always looked at myself like I'm
the problem that caused him not to love
741
00:40:13,890 --> 00:40:14,890
me.
742
00:40:15,110 --> 00:40:20,690
He beat me so bad that I ran away with
my other sister.
743
00:40:22,700 --> 00:40:27,620
I don't want to cry, but honestly, it is
not an easy situation for me to forgive
744
00:40:27,620 --> 00:40:31,020
someone like that. Honestly, it's not.
It's not. It's not.
745
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,100
Forgiving him is not something I can do
today or tomorrow.
746
00:40:34,300 --> 00:40:35,340
It's not whatsoever.
747
00:40:35,940 --> 00:40:41,400
I wish. It's been 26 years. I want to
get out of this stuff in my soul, but
748
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:47,340
not. But I have a good family. My
husband, he adores the shit out of me.
749
00:40:47,340 --> 00:40:49,960
makes me feel so safe.
750
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,380
My dad never, ever gave that to me.
751
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,500
Ever. So that's why at that dinner, when
somebody kept on saying, I don't like
752
00:40:56,500 --> 00:40:57,580
you, I don't like you, I don't like you.
753
00:40:57,820 --> 00:40:58,299
It got triggered.
754
00:40:58,300 --> 00:41:02,060
It triggered me so bad. Because it took
you back to where you felt like you were
755
00:41:02,060 --> 00:41:07,040
left out and not liked or accepted or...
Yeah. But it was the first time I've
756
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:10,580
ever been triggered. Can I advise you? I
do hypnotherapy.
757
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:11,999
Oh, you do?
758
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:12,899
Yes.
759
00:41:12,900 --> 00:41:17,180
And... Wow. Ayan, it's insane. Why was
your session about? I would like to know
760
00:41:17,180 --> 00:41:18,980
about you two. So, I was married twice.
761
00:41:19,509 --> 00:41:20,910
like disastrous marriages.
762
00:41:21,470 --> 00:41:27,250
I always choose partners that are wrong
because I will do anything to be loved.
763
00:41:27,770 --> 00:41:33,810
In my relationship, I had physical
abuse. I had mental abuse. I know what
764
00:41:33,810 --> 00:41:36,990
feels like to be in a dark place and to
be hurt and traumatized. And I know how
765
00:41:36,990 --> 00:41:40,050
it feels like to be healed, happy and
content.
766
00:41:41,009 --> 00:41:46,330
So I want Ayaan to open up to me so I
can support her and help her because she
767
00:41:46,330 --> 00:41:50,090
has no idea once you heal how life
changes.
768
00:41:50,410 --> 00:41:54,530
I came out of that very angry, carried
it for years with me.
769
00:41:54,750 --> 00:41:58,430
I used to be triggered easily. And when
you're triggered, you bleed on people
770
00:41:58,430 --> 00:42:00,830
who didn't cut you. Yeah. It was not
easy.
771
00:42:01,210 --> 00:42:05,710
And I know for you, it would be even
harder because of what you went through.
772
00:42:05,870 --> 00:42:07,770
And I'm going to introduce you to my
hypnotherapist.
773
00:42:08,190 --> 00:42:12,630
It's a way of just getting rid of all of
this so you can be 110 % you with your
774
00:42:12,630 --> 00:42:14,190
family, with your child. Yeah.
775
00:42:14,690 --> 00:42:18,230
This is the only thing that I need to
understand why I cannot let go of it.
776
00:42:18,370 --> 00:42:23,410
Yeah. With what you're saying, it makes
me see there's a light out there. Like
777
00:42:23,410 --> 00:42:28,110
Brooke said to me, I need to go to
therapy. She's been going to therapy a
778
00:42:28,170 --> 00:42:30,930
I'm like, you know, maybe I should go.
But then I'm like, Brooke needs a refund
779
00:42:30,930 --> 00:42:32,010
because I don't know if it works.
780
00:42:37,060 --> 00:42:39,640
Next time on The Real Housewives of
Dubai.
781
00:42:40,100 --> 00:42:42,940
Oh my God, he's digging me.
782
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,080
I couldn't think of anything worse.
783
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:49,160
I want to take a poll. Okay. But I want
to show my alien tattoo.
784
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:50,640
Okay. Because I'm an alien.
785
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:53,680
This is my first fashion show ever.
786
00:42:55,020 --> 00:42:56,020
Olivia, come here.
787
00:42:56,180 --> 00:42:59,140
Who's the first girl? I need the first
girl here. Oh my God, I'm going to freak
788
00:42:59,140 --> 00:42:59,959
this out.
789
00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:00,718
Okay, go.
790
00:43:00,720 --> 00:43:01,720
Go.
791
00:43:03,799 --> 00:43:06,840
All these children, I can't believe
Sergio is going to want another one,
792
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,680
eventually. You're not allowed to have
another one. It doesn't matter what
793
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:10,680
Sergio wants.
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