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- Brandon was
the full package.
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Very tall, 6 foot 3.
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He was vulnerable,
funny, open, honest.
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[suspenseful music]
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- It was all bullshit.
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- Just when you think
you know this person,
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you don't know anything at all.
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I went straight to
my social media.
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The floodgates opened
and more and more women
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started coming out.
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- Brandon had multiple
protection orders against him.
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When you do break up
with Brandon,
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that is when
the stalking begins.
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- My parents had to put a
video camera outside my bedroom
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window to shine down on my car
to see what he was going to do.
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- Days after getting a
permanent restraining order,
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he came running to my car,
knocking on my window.
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That's when I found
the tracking device.
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- We really felt
like we needed
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to start warning people.
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- We all had the
epiphany-- well,
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what if we use our voices?
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- We were going to join
forces to go up against him.
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[siren wailing]
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- I don't think
Amber and I were ever prepared
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for the journey
we were about to go on.
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♪ ♪
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- Brandon and I had been
together for five years
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and married for two.
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And at that point, I felt
like everything was a lie.
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I learned about Brandon's
infidelity with multiple women.
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He put me through the wringer,
telling me he had leukemia,
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but now I don't know
what's the truth.
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And Brandon created
fake emails
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pretending to be Athena,
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to keep us apart.
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Athena had been my enemy for
five years, but in this moment,
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I knew that that was never
going to happen again
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and that we were going to join
forces to go up against him.
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- Between us, we had
put up with Brandon's
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bullshit for about 10 years.
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We were vulnerable
with each other.
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She shared some of the things
that had hurt her.
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I shared the things that really
hurt me, and from then on,
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like, bonded like sisters.
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- We learned Brandon
had multiple protection
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orders filed on him.
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- We dug a little deeper
into who these women were.
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- Some of the statements
from the women that
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were incredibly disturbing.
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This is from August of 2005.
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"He grabs me, blocks
doors so I can't get out.
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"I've had to run out the
back door, through the trees
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and bushes to get to my car."
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I believe she got a
10-year restraining order.
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And another one states, "I am
absolutely terrified of him.
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"He has caused me incredible
strife, panic attacks,
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"and reenacted PTSD.
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"I lost 35 pounds due to
stress,
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"and I almost lost my job.
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"He is violent and has
left me with bruises
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on my arm from grabbing me."
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I never knew who he was
to begin with.
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This Brandon Johnson was
not the same person at all.
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Not only was I married
to a liar and a cheat,
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but he was a monster
who abused women.
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- Get the fucking
camera off me.
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- No, I won't.
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You're acting like
a crazy person.
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You're going to kill us.
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- You're going to
get out of my truck.
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- No.
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Hell no.
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No.
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You're going to
drive me to Portland,
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and then you're going to
get the fuck out of my life
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for good.
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When I asked
Brandon for a divorce,
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he was not willing
to accept that.
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One thing about Brandon
is that he does not
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take no for an answer, ever.
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- Amber was divorcing Brandon.
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She had made that decision.
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He, of course, started
love bombing her again.
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- Basically saying he
can't live without me
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and how sad he was
about this divorce.
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He wants you to
remember the good times.
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This time is going
to be different.
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- But Amber was very
certain at that point
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that she didn't believe
a single word that he said.
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- I had not been able
to serve Brandon divorce
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papers at that point,
and it just so happened
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to be Valentine's Day.
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And I had some
things that Sydney
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wanted to give her father.
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And I figured, you know what,
let's take this opportunity
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as adults to talk about this.
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- Amber decides to make
a quick pit stop at Brandon's.
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I tell Amber, are you
sure you want to do this?
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I'm a little bit worried.
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The more we uncovered, the
more afraid I became of him.
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And it kind of took
me back to the feeling
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I had when I was
married to him, when
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I was trying to divorce him.
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Brandon does not
take rejection.
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He retaliates.
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- I've heard
from several women
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that he can flip a switch
on you and he can harm you.
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But that wasn't really
sinking in to me yet.
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And naive as it
sounds, I really
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didn't think that he would ever
do something like that to me.
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- I just did not trust him.
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I couldn't trust
what he would do.
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- When I got to
Brandon's, I was
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trying to be on friendly terms
so I could get him served.
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We were having a
simple conversation.
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And in the middle of
that conversation,
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I got a text from
another woman that
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reached out to me on Facebook.
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And she said, this is what
I received from Brandon,
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and it happened to be literally
the same message that he
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sent me the night before.
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I love you, you're
the best thing ever,
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and I can't live without you.
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All of her messages
were coming in,
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and I just started
reading them to him.
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And he flipped out.
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And he grabbed a
drink and just threw
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it across the living room,
and it splashed everywhere.
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And he's like,
why don't you see?
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And he was kind of shaking.
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It's that bitch Athena.
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She's been doing this for
years and you know it.
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This is all lies.
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And he went into
the kitchen and he
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said, if you don't stop
reading those messages,
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I'm going to kill myself.
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I was just stunned that
he was behaving that way.
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But I was also scared because
he just pulled a knife.
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I said, you know what, I
need to leave right now.
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And then his eyes went dark,
like it wasn't him anymore.
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He approached me and he
wouldn't let me leave.
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Brandon is a very big man.
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He's 6'3".
He's built.
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He was blocking me,
blocking me with his body.
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He had veins popping
out of his neck.
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He was-- literally
had, like, saliva
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coming out as he's screaming.
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It was terrifying.
It was terrifying.
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I just remember screaming,
please let me go.
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Please let me go.
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I don't know what's
going to happen.
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I think he thought
he was losing control
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and he needed me to get
back in my place, obey him.
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I don't even remember
getting down the stairs.
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Just panic.
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And I'm literally
reaching for the doorknob.
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I can feel his arm come up
over me and slam it shut.
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And so then it was another
panic of, now I'm cornered.
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I'm like, let me out now.
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He said, I'll let you out.
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But if you leave,
I'm going to go
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over and kill that
bitch Athena and then
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I'm going to kill myself.
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And with that, he
opened the door.
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I almost slipped on the ice.
I'm running towards my car.
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I was shaking like--
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like, just trying
to get my car.
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I sped out.
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Now I saw it for myself.
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He really is a monster.
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I did not call the police
because I was driving.
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I'm just shaking.
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My heart was racing
and I couldn't
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process what was happening.
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As soon as I got back to
Oregon, I spoke to the police
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and I told them
exactly what happened.
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He said, hold on.
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Did he say he wanted
to kill Athena?
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Of course, I'm just thinking,
Athena needs to know.
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♪ ♪
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[phone chiming]
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- I wake up to, you know,
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my phone chiming
a bunch of times.
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I get a text
message from Amber.
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It was a lot to absorb.
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Brandon had
threatened to kill me.
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I'm in sheer panic.
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I have all the
little kids there.
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I just started thinking,
are my doors locked?
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Are my windows locked?
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He's going to come kill me.
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Thankfully, the police
do arrest Brandon.
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♪ ♪
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- The police charge Brandon
with unlawful imprisonment
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and threatening
to kill Athena.
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And then he was ordered
to appear in court.
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- Amber called me
the next day, and I
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was really scared for her.
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I told her to get protection.
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I knew that Brandon
was dangerous.
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- The prosecutor in
my case requested
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that me and Athena show
up at the court in Bothell
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to testify.
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We certainly didn't want to go.
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- I was already terrified to
be around Brandon at that
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court hearing that day.
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- As we were going through
the metal detectors,
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Brandon was standing
to our left.
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As soon as we walked in,
he starts walking towards us.
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- He is shouting things at us,
telling us to leave him alone.
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We were all the way
against the wall
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trying to get away from him.
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- Our hearts were racing.
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The police officers
immediately called
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other backup police officers
to help with the incident
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and restrained him.
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The audacity of
him was shocking.
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Ultimately, Brandon
had to plead
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guilty to two more violations
of his restraining order.
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- After a series
of hearings, Brandon
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does agree to take a plea.
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- He admitted what he
did to me in his home
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and threatening to kill Athena.
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- And we are now all awarded
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the five-year
no-contact order.
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And it's not that common.
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Normally it's one
or two years.
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- And it was then that
I knew that they took
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this very, very seriously.
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I didn't know I was a victim
of domestic violence,
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I didn't know that, until
we had a victim's advocate.
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And she told me,
what he's doing to you
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is considered
domestic violence.
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So that was a really
big awakening for me.
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How did I get myself
involved in this?
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Like, how did this happen?
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He's not even close to the
person that I thought he was.
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We were given
restraining orders,
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and I truly believed at
that time that I was safe
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and that I would be protected.
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But I was so naive.
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Days after getting a
permanent restraining order,
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I was driving down
the freeway and see
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Brandon driving next to me,
flagging me down to pull over.
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I pulled over in a safe spot
where people could see me.
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He came running to my car,
knocking on my window.
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And I rolled down my window,
and he leaned in to kiss me.
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And I remember just leaning
back, trying to get away,
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and he kissed my forehead.
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I was just repulsed.
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I did not want him to kiss me.
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I wanted to get the
hell out of there.
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But it felt violating.
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It just felt violating.
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And that was that
moment of, wow,
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he's letting me know he
can do what he wants,
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and he can break that
restraining order if he wants.
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This actually doesn't
protect me at all.
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Well, what happens if
he shows up at my house?
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By the time I call 911, is
someone going to be here?
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Like, what if he
does something?
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♪ ♪
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[suspenseful music]
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- I was still fresh
out of this marriage
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and I was still
processing everything,
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so I didn't know at that
point what he was capable of.
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But Athena did.
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- I was worried for
Amber because
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when you do go to leave Brandon
and break up with Brandon,
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there's definitely
a switch that flips.
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That is when he escalates
and the stalking begins.
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When Brandon and I
got divorced,
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I had to get a temporary
protection order against him.
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I naively thought that
getting the protection order
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would help me.
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It was clear he didn't care.
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Brandon did not care
about that piece of paper.
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- When you reject Brandon, it's
not really you that he wants,
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it's control.
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He wants to control you.
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And we discovered that this
has happened with not only
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us, but multiple other women.
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- As a hairstylist, I see
hundreds of women a year,
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and they tell me everything.
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I absolutely warn them to be
on the lookout for Brandon.
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I tell them that they
should run for their life.
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I dated Brandon Johnson
in 2006.
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Brandon was very intense
and almost immediately
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told me that he loved me.
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And I believe Brandon
tells you everything
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that you want to
hear as fast as he
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can so that you are hooked.
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- Ah!
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- For the most part,
he's very charming.
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But if you, God forbid,
break up with him,
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then he is
vindictive, spiteful.
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He wants to punish you.
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- Stop, stop!
- You need help.
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- Stop, please!
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Just stop talking!
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God!
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- When I broke up with Brandon,
he just seemed to be furious.
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Brandon would show up
at my work,
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at my home
where I lived alone.
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He was coming to
bars that I went to
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after work with my coworkers.
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He was so persistent.
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And he's huge.
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I mean, he's a big guy,
over a foot taller than me.
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I had specifically asked
him to stop contacting me,
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and he was still
showing up everywhere.
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He was incessantly calling me
to the point where I did end up
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changing my phone number.
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My family was concerned for me.
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My co-workers were
concerned for me.
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Not too long after,
I did get back
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together with an ex-boyfriend.
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He and I were out one night,
and Brandon came and found
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me and made a huge scene.
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Brandon accused me of cheating.
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He told me that he was
going to fucking kill him
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and that I was damaged goods.
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You fucked up now.
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I'm going to ruin you.
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Brandon was completely
unhinged, like a caged animal.
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Brandon was behaving that
way because I had moved on.
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He was so jealous
and he genuinely
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seemed capable of violence.
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Years later, Brandon
found out that I had
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talked to Athena and Amber.
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I was at the lobby of
this hotel with friends,
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and I ran into him.
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He proceeded to scream my
name, that I was a whore,
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that he had explicit
pictures of me
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and was going to
show everybody.
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I was really, really scared.
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I said, I have nothing to hide,
and there aren't any pictures.
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I don't know why
you're doing this.
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I looked around to all
of these bystanders
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and said, we were in a
relationship 10 years ago.
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He punched some really
thick glass doors.
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And he only left me
alone when I said,
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I'm going to call the police.
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I feel like once you've
been involved with Brandon,
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you're kind of always
involved with Brandon.
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And he will do anything to
continue to torture you,
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even from afar.
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I had even mentioned
to my family
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that if I ever went missing,
he should be their number
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one person to look at.
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- After Brandon stalked me
onto that freeway that day,
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and after talking with Athena
and hearing from these women,
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I was on fire.
355
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It was just like, fuck him.
356
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Fuck him.
357
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We're going to tell everyone
what he did to all of us.
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- All of us had the
worst experience,
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00:18:18,532 --> 00:18:20,099
and we wanted to share that,
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this is a crazy person.
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You can't even
think this shit up.
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And nobody was helping us.
363
00:18:26,322 --> 00:18:30,718
And we wanted people to know
what we were dealing with.
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00:18:32,546 --> 00:18:35,418
Amber and I knew
that we now had
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00:18:35,505 --> 00:18:40,815
to protect ourselves, our
daughter, and now other women.
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00:18:40,945 --> 00:18:43,339
- We always talk about
Brandon being a hurricane,
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00:18:43,426 --> 00:18:45,515
and you're kind of in
the eye of the storm,
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and he's circling around you.
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And you can't see out,
but everyone can see in.
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So we wanted to
really show what
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happens in these toxic,
cyclical relationships.
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- My daughter, Lexus,
she loves podcasts.
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And I remember her
listening to one, going, huh,
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00:19:02,402 --> 00:19:04,099
and then Amber says
the same thing.
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I'm like, we all
had the epiphany.
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00:19:05,318 --> 00:19:08,103
Well, what if we
use our voices?
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- So we decided
to do a podcast.
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I was very adamant.
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It was just, we're
going to have to do it.
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And Athena was like, OK,
I'm on board, let's go.
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Let's do it.
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00:19:22,073 --> 00:19:26,556
- We had to team up and we
had to get to the truth.
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And this is how we became
"Ex-Wives Undercover."
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Hello, everyone,
and thank you
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for joining us for
season one, episode
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one of "Ex-Wives Undercover."
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00:19:37,219 --> 00:19:39,395
- The name
"Ex-Wives Undercover,"
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it just kind of
said everything
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00:19:41,441 --> 00:19:43,094
because you feel like
you're an FBI agent
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when you're with Brandon.
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00:19:44,531 --> 00:19:46,228
- You're going to want
to buckle up for this one,
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because it's got
a lot of twists and turns.
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We did everything
from the ground up.
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Women that he chose,
he could manipulate.
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00:19:55,281 --> 00:19:56,934
We built our website.
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We bought recording
mics off Amazon.
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00:20:00,895 --> 00:20:02,810
- I'm ex-wife number
two, by the way.
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This is Amber.
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00:20:04,507 --> 00:20:06,509
I worked a full-time job,
so did Athena.
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00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,773
We spent nights, weekends,
every waking moment
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00:20:09,817 --> 00:20:11,688
was on this podcast.
402
00:20:11,775 --> 00:20:15,388
We'd sit down, get on the
mics, and spill our story.
403
00:20:15,475 --> 00:20:16,911
- We were all looking
for true love,
404
00:20:17,041 --> 00:20:19,000
but unfortunately,
Amber and I married
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00:20:19,087 --> 00:20:21,872
a very charming sociopath.
406
00:20:21,959 --> 00:20:23,526
Amber and I knew
how important it was
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00:20:23,613 --> 00:20:25,398
to tell our truth
no matter what.
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00:20:25,485 --> 00:20:26,834
You just never know.
409
00:20:26,921 --> 00:20:29,880
- I think the podcast
has achieved a lot.
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00:20:29,967 --> 00:20:33,971
I love that Amber and my mom
can be like a leading
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00:20:34,058 --> 00:20:36,496
light for women.
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00:20:36,583 --> 00:20:38,411
You might look at them and
be like, oh, my God, can't
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00:20:38,498 --> 00:20:40,413
believe you fell for that.
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00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:41,544
But you can't
fully understand it
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00:20:41,631 --> 00:20:45,156
or grasp it until you've
been in that situation,
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00:20:45,244 --> 00:20:48,725
or you've watched someone
close to you be in it.
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00:20:48,812 --> 00:20:50,466
I get it, I do.
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00:20:50,553 --> 00:20:52,599
I really do because
I was there.
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00:20:55,645 --> 00:20:58,082
When I was born, it
was just my mom and I.
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00:20:58,169 --> 00:21:00,955
We were, like, best friends.
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00:21:00,998 --> 00:21:05,046
Then Brandon came along.
422
00:21:05,133 --> 00:21:07,396
I was seven years old.
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00:21:07,483 --> 00:21:08,919
I was a child.
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00:21:08,963 --> 00:21:13,576
He treated me like
I was a competitor,
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00:21:13,707 --> 00:21:15,970
almost, like I was a threat.
426
00:21:16,013 --> 00:21:17,798
He would get mad at me
if I sat next to her
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00:21:17,885 --> 00:21:21,541
in a booth at a restaurant.
428
00:21:21,628 --> 00:21:24,021
He used to take my stuff
and he would hide it.
429
00:21:24,108 --> 00:21:27,242
His reactions were crazy.
430
00:21:27,373 --> 00:21:30,114
I mean, you could, like, trip,
and he would yell at you.
431
00:21:32,726 --> 00:21:35,772
- Lexi, she was
robbed of so much.
432
00:21:35,859 --> 00:21:37,426
Yeah.
433
00:21:37,513 --> 00:21:40,124
Sorry, it makes me
emotional about that one.
434
00:21:44,477 --> 00:21:47,393
Her dad left, and then
Brandon stepped in,
435
00:21:47,436 --> 00:21:48,785
and he thought it would
be fine because this
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00:21:48,872 --> 00:21:50,483
was the new boyfriend.
437
00:21:50,570 --> 00:21:54,269
And then he never was
loving towards her.
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00:21:54,356 --> 00:21:57,664
And she was robbed of that.
439
00:21:57,707 --> 00:22:03,060
- He punched a hole in our
closet door in the hallway.
440
00:22:03,191 --> 00:22:05,149
It got to the point
where it was easier
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00:22:05,236 --> 00:22:07,935
not to make him mad.
442
00:22:08,022 --> 00:22:10,546
I would worry about my mom
all the time,
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00:22:10,633 --> 00:22:14,245
worry about my safety
or hers or my sisters'.
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00:22:14,376 --> 00:22:19,381
He created a very toxic
environment for everybody,
445
00:22:19,512 --> 00:22:22,384
and he just never quits.
446
00:22:22,515 --> 00:22:24,821
He just knows how
to ruin lives.
447
00:22:24,952 --> 00:22:27,563
He's good at it.
448
00:22:27,650 --> 00:22:29,260
- It was awful.
It was awful.
449
00:22:29,391 --> 00:22:32,655
And after that, I knew
that took a piece--
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00:22:32,786 --> 00:22:34,657
that definitely
took a piece of me.
451
00:22:34,744 --> 00:22:37,356
- I think the main hope
for all of the podcasts
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00:22:37,443 --> 00:22:39,270
is that it will
help people become
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00:22:39,401 --> 00:22:43,449
more aware of the red flags
in a new relationship.
454
00:22:43,579 --> 00:22:47,061
It's safer for everyone.
455
00:22:47,148 --> 00:22:50,804
- As the podcast grew
and had a further reach,
456
00:22:50,891 --> 00:22:53,328
then more and more people
would come out, even
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00:22:53,415 --> 00:22:55,417
more victims of Brandon's.
458
00:22:55,504 --> 00:22:57,811
I would say,
on a weekly basis, I
459
00:22:57,898 --> 00:23:01,945
was being contacted
by different women,
460
00:23:02,032 --> 00:23:05,471
people in the legal system,
women in other states.
461
00:23:05,514 --> 00:23:07,603
- He's going to lie
until the day he dies.
462
00:23:07,690 --> 00:23:10,606
It was really gratifying
to see that our story
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00:23:10,693 --> 00:23:13,043
was resonating to women.
464
00:23:13,130 --> 00:23:16,786
And then we got a message
from a woman named Kelly who
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00:23:16,873 --> 00:23:17,961
kind of changed everything.
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00:23:18,005 --> 00:23:23,489
♪
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00:23:23,576 --> 00:23:27,884
- So one of my friends,
she sends me a message.
468
00:23:27,971 --> 00:23:30,539
And she's like, oh, my gosh,
have you seen this?
469
00:23:30,626 --> 00:23:33,542
There's this podcast, and it's
called "Ex-Wives Undercover."
470
00:23:33,629 --> 00:23:36,240
And I'm like, OK,
whatever, these two women.
471
00:23:36,327 --> 00:23:39,156
And my friend had
said, that's Brandon.
472
00:23:39,287 --> 00:23:40,897
I was like, no way.
473
00:23:40,984 --> 00:23:44,814
So then I started listening
and listening, and I was just--
474
00:23:44,901 --> 00:23:46,555
I was appalled.
475
00:23:46,642 --> 00:23:50,254
And the time that it
became really real for me
476
00:23:50,341 --> 00:23:54,041
is when there was audio
clips of his voice.
477
00:23:54,128 --> 00:23:57,958
And there's one in particular
where he is in a car.
478
00:23:58,088 --> 00:23:58,959
He's like--
479
00:23:59,089 --> 00:23:59,960
- Stop, please!
480
00:24:00,090 --> 00:24:02,658
- --just stop talking!
481
00:24:02,745 --> 00:24:04,921
And that's when
it really hit me.
482
00:24:05,008 --> 00:24:06,314
I'm like, oh, my gosh,
this really is.
483
00:24:06,445 --> 00:24:08,011
This is for real.
484
00:24:08,142 --> 00:24:10,100
And everything came back
and spiraled back for me.
485
00:24:10,187 --> 00:24:13,582
I still can visualize what
his eyes looked like when
486
00:24:13,713 --> 00:24:15,323
he was saying those things.
487
00:24:15,410 --> 00:24:19,806
It really was the
worst part of my life.
488
00:24:19,936 --> 00:24:24,680
♪ ♪
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I was Brandon's first
serious girlfriend.
490
00:24:28,423 --> 00:24:31,426
I started dating
Brandon in 1992.
491
00:24:31,557 --> 00:24:35,386
We dated for three
years, so that was when I
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00:24:35,430 --> 00:24:39,869
was 14, 15, and 16 years old.
493
00:24:39,956 --> 00:24:43,003
We went to high school
in Aberdeen, Washington.
494
00:24:43,090 --> 00:24:47,311
In that time, Aberdeen was
just-- we're a small town,
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00:24:47,398 --> 00:24:49,705
old logging community.
496
00:24:49,792 --> 00:24:53,230
A lot of people know
Aberdeen for being Nirvana.
497
00:24:53,361 --> 00:24:56,407
Kurt Cobain actually went to
Aberdeen High School, which is
498
00:24:56,538 --> 00:24:58,975
where Brandon and I both went.
499
00:24:59,062 --> 00:25:03,153
I was super just attracted
to Brandon's personality.
500
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:04,285
He was outgoing.
501
00:25:04,372 --> 00:25:05,329
He was loud.
502
00:25:05,416 --> 00:25:07,244
He liked me.
503
00:25:07,331 --> 00:25:09,986
You just fall into that
trap of, oh, my gosh,
504
00:25:10,030 --> 00:25:12,859
this guy picks me.
505
00:25:12,946 --> 00:25:15,949
Day one started out
amazing, and probably
506
00:25:16,036 --> 00:25:19,474
four or five months in, it
just got extremely chaotic.
507
00:25:19,561 --> 00:25:21,476
He didn't want me
out of his sight.
508
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,696
He always wanted
to be around me.
509
00:25:23,783 --> 00:25:25,436
Didn't want me
talking to anybody,
510
00:25:25,524 --> 00:25:28,309
and only because, you know,
I was his.
511
00:25:28,439 --> 00:25:29,528
But there was
times when I really
512
00:25:29,615 --> 00:25:32,052
wanted to be with
just my friends,
513
00:25:32,182 --> 00:25:34,315
but that wasn't
really allowed.
514
00:25:34,402 --> 00:25:36,273
He always had to
be there because he
515
00:25:36,360 --> 00:25:38,667
didn't want me to be alone.
516
00:25:38,711 --> 00:25:40,843
So I lost a lot of those
relationships during that time.
517
00:25:43,498 --> 00:25:45,935
He was definitely obsessed
with gaining muscle.
518
00:25:46,022 --> 00:25:48,590
It was really every
day having to lift.
519
00:25:51,288 --> 00:25:55,292
He talked to me about being
bullied for being overweight.
520
00:25:55,336 --> 00:25:59,209
And when he was younger, he
said he saw people in his life
521
00:25:59,296 --> 00:26:03,910
be abused, that he wanted to
be strong enough to protect.
522
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:08,697
It is interesting how he says
he wants to protect women,
523
00:26:08,784 --> 00:26:11,831
but he really
wanted to control.
524
00:26:11,918 --> 00:26:14,964
He insisted he walked me
to every single class.
525
00:26:15,051 --> 00:26:18,315
And if there was a time that
I didn't want to kiss him,
526
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,318
or I didn't want to hold his
hand on the way to class,
527
00:26:21,449 --> 00:26:27,281
he would push me up against
the wall and yell at me.
528
00:26:27,368 --> 00:26:31,198
He would, you know, tell me
that I was overweight,
529
00:26:31,285 --> 00:26:33,679
the colors that I could
and couldn't wear,
530
00:26:33,766 --> 00:26:35,942
not wearing purple,
you look ugly in that,
531
00:26:36,029 --> 00:26:38,858
that I wasn't good enough
to be a cheerleader.
532
00:26:38,945 --> 00:26:42,949
He just made me feel
so incredibly small.
533
00:26:43,036 --> 00:26:45,821
Eventually, when I tried
to break up with him,
534
00:26:45,908 --> 00:26:48,128
he wouldn't let me.
535
00:26:48,215 --> 00:26:51,000
It was if you break up with
me, I'm going to kill myself.
536
00:26:51,087 --> 00:26:52,872
I felt helpless.
537
00:26:52,959 --> 00:26:59,400
I tried to leave him numerous
times, and it took a lot.
538
00:27:01,924 --> 00:27:04,884
He would stalk me and
sit in front of my house.
539
00:27:04,971 --> 00:27:08,278
And my parents had to put a
video camera outside my bedroom
540
00:27:08,365 --> 00:27:10,367
window to shine down
on my car to see
541
00:27:10,498 --> 00:27:13,327
what he was going to do.
542
00:27:13,414 --> 00:27:16,852
If somebody, especially a guy,
ever picked me up in the car,
543
00:27:16,983 --> 00:27:19,072
he would follow us down
the road in his truck.
544
00:27:19,159 --> 00:27:24,555
But there was always this
stalking, crazy behavior.
545
00:27:24,643 --> 00:27:28,559
I'll tell you right now, like,
when trauma happens to you,
546
00:27:28,647 --> 00:27:31,345
there's things that
never leave your head.
547
00:27:31,432 --> 00:27:32,825
So I reached out
through the podcast
548
00:27:32,912 --> 00:27:35,305
and I'm like, oh, my gosh,
I know this guy.
549
00:27:35,392 --> 00:27:37,394
He never stopped.
550
00:27:37,525 --> 00:27:38,961
And it just got worse.
551
00:27:39,092 --> 00:27:41,355
I do believe that
it almost became
552
00:27:41,442 --> 00:27:43,444
addictive behavior for him.
553
00:27:45,881 --> 00:27:50,059
- Hearing from Kelly makes
you think, oh, oh, my gosh,
554
00:27:50,146 --> 00:27:52,279
you know, this isn't an adult
Brandon thing.
555
00:27:52,366 --> 00:27:54,411
This started well
before me, Athena,
556
00:27:54,498 --> 00:27:56,849
or any of the other women.
557
00:27:56,979 --> 00:28:00,243
There was certainly a
risk to doing the podcast,
558
00:28:00,330 --> 00:28:03,116
but you should have a right to
know if the person that you're
559
00:28:03,203 --> 00:28:05,422
dating is dangerous or not.
560
00:28:05,466 --> 00:28:08,338
- It's hard.
It drives you crazy.
561
00:28:08,425 --> 00:28:11,472
- We knew that Brandon wasn't
a listener of podcasts,
562
00:28:11,602 --> 00:28:15,258
so we knew that we'd be safe
for a little while anyways.
563
00:28:15,345 --> 00:28:18,522
- As soon as Brandon really
caught on to the podcast,
564
00:28:18,609 --> 00:28:21,787
I believe that people from his
hometown started reaching out.
565
00:28:21,830 --> 00:28:23,832
He is losing his mind.
566
00:28:23,919 --> 00:28:29,272
- I was scared because when
he's pushed up against a wall,
567
00:28:29,403 --> 00:28:34,408
I think that he's going
to crack and explode.
568
00:28:34,495 --> 00:28:38,020
- He is now not in control.
569
00:28:38,107 --> 00:28:40,719
We had to deal with
repercussions to that.
570
00:28:40,806 --> 00:28:42,633
- Brandon was beyond pissed.
571
00:28:42,721 --> 00:28:46,812
He absolutely tried
to stop the podcast.
572
00:28:46,855 --> 00:28:49,597
- He sends
a cease and desist letter
573
00:28:49,728 --> 00:28:52,382
to try and shut us down.
574
00:28:52,469 --> 00:28:53,775
- It's scary.
575
00:28:53,819 --> 00:28:56,473
And we didn't know what to do.
576
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,476
- And then Brandon
pulled out all the stops,
577
00:28:59,607 --> 00:29:02,958
trying to get temporary
restraining orders on us.
578
00:29:03,089 --> 00:29:05,961
- We consulted with a First
Amendment rights lawyer who
579
00:29:06,092 --> 00:29:09,965
told us we have every right
to share our true story,
580
00:29:10,096 --> 00:29:14,013
and that this was a
matter of public interest.
581
00:29:14,056 --> 00:29:16,189
- Our attorney and his team,
582
00:29:16,276 --> 00:29:18,539
they did everything
to help us,
583
00:29:18,626 --> 00:29:20,846
and we won.
584
00:29:20,933 --> 00:29:23,500
- Immediately, the
temporary restraining
585
00:29:23,587 --> 00:29:25,459
orders were thrown
out and he was
586
00:29:25,502 --> 00:29:28,375
not able to stop our podcast.
587
00:29:28,505 --> 00:29:34,642
- Brandon's still very angry,
so he went for our reputations.
588
00:29:34,729 --> 00:29:37,514
We start being sent
screenshots
589
00:29:37,601 --> 00:29:40,300
of Instagram pages
590
00:29:40,387 --> 00:29:47,176
that are tagging us
abusing the legal system.
591
00:29:47,307 --> 00:29:53,617
Men against abusive women,
where a man is stating
592
00:29:53,704 --> 00:29:56,664
that he is a victim
of domestic violence
593
00:29:56,751 --> 00:30:01,147
by his two ex-wives
who are out to get him.
594
00:30:01,190 --> 00:30:03,932
It definitely did not
take much to uncover
595
00:30:04,019 --> 00:30:07,414
that Brandon was the one who
had created all these accounts.
596
00:30:07,544 --> 00:30:12,332
- Accounts basically saying
that we are frauds and liars,
597
00:30:12,419 --> 00:30:14,247
stalking him and being
obsessed with him.
598
00:30:14,334 --> 00:30:16,902
- Absolutely ludicrous.
599
00:30:16,945 --> 00:30:18,599
Nobody wants to stalk Brandon.
600
00:30:18,686 --> 00:30:20,731
Nobody wants to
be around Brandon.
601
00:30:20,819 --> 00:30:24,083
Nobody wants to ever
see Brandon again.
602
00:30:24,213 --> 00:30:29,566
♪ ♪
603
00:30:29,653 --> 00:30:32,569
- Our fans weren't falling for
his BS on those social
604
00:30:32,656 --> 00:30:34,267
media accounts.
605
00:30:34,354 --> 00:30:35,355
- They went into
protection mode
606
00:30:35,485 --> 00:30:39,446
and everybody was
flagging that account.
607
00:30:39,576 --> 00:30:41,840
- It was crazy to watch him
try to, like, flip the script
608
00:30:41,927 --> 00:30:44,103
and be like, I'm the victim.
609
00:30:44,146 --> 00:30:47,062
- I think his ego is so big,
610
00:30:47,193 --> 00:30:49,282
he just thought, everyone's
going to see the light.
611
00:30:49,369 --> 00:30:52,415
But we all knew
better than that.
612
00:30:52,502 --> 00:30:55,854
- Nobody bought
it for a moment.
613
00:30:55,984 --> 00:30:58,900
- But Brandon can never lose.
614
00:30:58,987 --> 00:31:02,077
As well as these slanderous
Instagram accounts,
615
00:31:02,208 --> 00:31:05,994
Brandon also got a
restraining order on me,
616
00:31:06,081 --> 00:31:09,650
threatening to remove
my rights to communicate
617
00:31:09,780 --> 00:31:12,218
with his daughter, Sydney.
618
00:31:12,305 --> 00:31:14,742
Brandon's restraining
order on me was thrown out,
619
00:31:14,829 --> 00:31:18,093
but it seemed that, you know,
he wasn't scared
620
00:31:18,180 --> 00:31:23,055
to take anyone
to court to challenge them.
621
00:31:23,142 --> 00:31:25,709
- He had a lot of
representation,
622
00:31:25,796 --> 00:31:27,363
a few different attorneys.
623
00:31:27,407 --> 00:31:32,020
And I just couldn't
understand, like, how.
624
00:31:32,151 --> 00:31:34,980
It's a lot of money.
625
00:31:35,067 --> 00:31:37,765
- Every time Brandon
and I were together,
626
00:31:37,852 --> 00:31:41,203
he would pay cash
for everything.
627
00:31:41,290 --> 00:31:44,990
And he always had a wallet
full of crisp $100 bills.
628
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,036
I do remember asking
him, in a joking way,
629
00:31:48,167 --> 00:31:50,038
did you just make
those this morning?
630
00:31:50,169 --> 00:31:53,694
♪ ♪
631
00:31:53,781 --> 00:31:56,653
- Brandon had
money for lawyers.
632
00:31:56,740 --> 00:31:58,612
He had money for vacations.
633
00:31:58,655 --> 00:32:00,570
He had money to
wine and dine women.
634
00:32:00,657 --> 00:32:02,877
- Like, where was he
getting all of this money?
635
00:32:02,964 --> 00:32:07,664
♪ ♪
636
00:32:07,795 --> 00:32:11,146
One day, I get a
message from my friend,
637
00:32:11,277 --> 00:32:15,324
and she is letting
me know that a woman
638
00:32:15,411 --> 00:32:18,240
by the name of Elizabeth
had reached out to her.
639
00:32:18,327 --> 00:32:20,373
- Elizabeth thought that
the man she was dating
640
00:32:20,460 --> 00:32:23,158
was telling her
all kinds of lies,
641
00:32:23,245 --> 00:32:25,247
and it legit sounded
like Brandon.
642
00:32:25,378 --> 00:32:28,250
And so she was
really concerned.
643
00:32:28,381 --> 00:32:30,339
- Next text that
comes through is
644
00:32:30,426 --> 00:32:33,821
an image of a driver's
license with Brandon's
645
00:32:33,952 --> 00:32:37,999
picture, Brandon Crane.
646
00:32:38,086 --> 00:32:40,175
Elizabeth asks,
is this really him?
647
00:32:40,262 --> 00:32:42,264
And we say, yes, absolutely.
648
00:32:42,308 --> 00:32:45,180
But his last name is not Crane.
649
00:32:45,311 --> 00:32:49,054
- Myself and Athena knew
that this is just taking it
650
00:32:49,141 --> 00:32:53,058
to the next level, and that
now he's changing his identity
651
00:32:53,145 --> 00:32:56,191
to get what he wants.
652
00:32:56,322 --> 00:32:58,498
Elizabeth absolutely
got a red flag from that
653
00:32:58,628 --> 00:33:02,284
and decided to go to the
courts and look into him.
654
00:33:02,371 --> 00:33:05,331
- And she finds out
everything else, everything
655
00:33:05,461 --> 00:33:08,812
from the past, all of
the harassment orders,
656
00:33:08,856 --> 00:33:10,727
stalking orders, DV.
657
00:33:10,814 --> 00:33:13,861
- She goes on to talk
about how crazy it was,
658
00:33:13,948 --> 00:33:16,733
how, you know, there's a lot
of legal charges
659
00:33:16,864 --> 00:33:18,126
he's facing right now--
660
00:33:18,170 --> 00:33:22,217
13 counts of felony
theft with his employer,
661
00:33:22,348 --> 00:33:24,741
and he's been charged
but not sentenced.
662
00:33:24,872 --> 00:33:26,613
She was just talking
like Amber and I knew.
663
00:33:26,700 --> 00:33:30,225
And we were like,
wait, wait, what? What?
664
00:33:30,312 --> 00:33:32,749
She sends me the court doc.
665
00:33:32,836 --> 00:33:34,534
She had made copies
of everything.
666
00:33:34,664 --> 00:33:37,928
- He has his complete
criminal history,
667
00:33:37,972 --> 00:33:40,627
and he's, you know, up
for embezzling money
668
00:33:40,670 --> 00:33:42,716
from an employer.
669
00:33:42,759 --> 00:33:43,804
I've never heard of this.
670
00:33:43,891 --> 00:33:45,675
This is wild.
671
00:33:45,762 --> 00:33:47,025
- And I was just
like, what the fuck?
672
00:33:47,112 --> 00:33:50,115
♪ ♪
673
00:33:53,857 --> 00:33:56,643
[suspenseful music]
674
00:33:56,730 --> 00:33:59,167
- At one point during
our time together,
675
00:33:59,298 --> 00:34:00,951
Brandon had a really
good job in tech.
676
00:34:01,082 --> 00:34:05,782
He was an HR recruiter at
HTC, a mobile phone company.
677
00:34:05,913 --> 00:34:10,309
I knew he made a really good
living, but not that good.
678
00:34:10,396 --> 00:34:14,226
- I started to work
at HTC in 2015.
679
00:34:14,313 --> 00:34:16,010
As an attorney,
if you want to be
680
00:34:16,097 --> 00:34:18,360
in a more fast-paced,
interesting environment,
681
00:34:18,491 --> 00:34:20,232
tech is the place to be.
682
00:34:20,319 --> 00:34:23,235
The first time I met
Brandon was in-- I think
683
00:34:23,322 --> 00:34:26,194
it was the employee
Christmas party.
684
00:34:26,237 --> 00:34:29,545
We randomly got paired
up on a bowling team.
685
00:34:29,589 --> 00:34:31,504
Brandon seemed
like a nice person,
686
00:34:31,547 --> 00:34:33,679
very private in the office.
687
00:34:33,766 --> 00:34:36,378
I don't know that he
had a lot of friends.
688
00:34:36,465 --> 00:34:39,293
Being a recruiter, he could
work from other places.
689
00:34:39,380 --> 00:34:40,904
I mean, he was working
mostly with people
690
00:34:40,991 --> 00:34:44,734
outside the company, like,
recruiting employees.
691
00:34:44,821 --> 00:34:49,304
I think it was in fall of
2018 when someone in finance
692
00:34:49,348 --> 00:34:53,264
came to the legal
department at HTC,
693
00:34:53,351 --> 00:34:56,311
and they noticed something
strange with the contracts.
694
00:34:56,398 --> 00:34:59,749
The contract was to increase
the recruitment fees
695
00:34:59,793 --> 00:35:04,102
for this company Softnet.
696
00:35:04,189 --> 00:35:05,929
Based on what we read
in the agreement,
697
00:35:06,016 --> 00:35:07,757
it was an outside
recruiting firm,
698
00:35:07,844 --> 00:35:12,458
and they did tech recruiting
for kind of skilled positions.
699
00:35:12,588 --> 00:35:14,764
This contract had a problem
because it hadn't been
700
00:35:14,808 --> 00:35:16,418
approved, and none
of the lawyers
701
00:35:16,462 --> 00:35:18,464
were aware of anyone
who had worked on it.
702
00:35:18,551 --> 00:35:21,728
When we saw that it was
signed by Brandon Johnson,
703
00:35:21,815 --> 00:35:24,296
that's when some
alarm bells started.
704
00:35:24,426 --> 00:35:28,300
Brandon did not have the
authority to sign a contract.
705
00:35:28,387 --> 00:35:29,779
They also noticed
it was signed
706
00:35:29,910 --> 00:35:34,044
by someone named Barbara.
707
00:35:34,175 --> 00:35:36,743
We decided to really
look into this further
708
00:35:36,830 --> 00:35:39,311
and figure out who
this company was.
709
00:35:39,398 --> 00:35:41,051
When I first saw
the name Softnet,
710
00:35:41,139 --> 00:35:43,619
it sounded like a fake
company immediately.
711
00:35:43,706 --> 00:35:45,752
So we went to their website,
and, you know, there really
712
00:35:45,839 --> 00:35:47,928
wasn't a lot on the website.
713
00:35:48,015 --> 00:35:50,017
Then we looked at the
Secretary of State's office
714
00:35:50,104 --> 00:35:51,932
to see who had
registered Softnet,
715
00:35:51,975 --> 00:35:53,890
and we saw Barbara's name.
716
00:35:53,977 --> 00:35:55,588
And that was the
same individual
717
00:35:55,631 --> 00:35:58,025
that we saw on the contract.
718
00:35:58,112 --> 00:36:00,070
We went to Barbara's
LinkedIn page,
719
00:36:00,201 --> 00:36:04,684
and we noticed that she had,
like, only a few connections.
720
00:36:04,771 --> 00:36:06,686
We thought that was extremely
odd because, you know,
721
00:36:06,816 --> 00:36:08,905
a recruiter and especially
a CEO would probably
722
00:36:08,992 --> 00:36:10,603
have hundreds of connections.
723
00:36:11,865 --> 00:36:14,128
And we went to social media
724
00:36:14,215 --> 00:36:17,044
and found
her social media page.
725
00:36:17,131 --> 00:36:18,654
We started looking
through her pictures,
726
00:36:18,741 --> 00:36:21,179
and we noticed that she
commented on photos of Brandon
727
00:36:21,266 --> 00:36:23,442
and referred to
Brandon as her son.
728
00:36:29,230 --> 00:36:30,188
At the very least,
what we have here
729
00:36:30,231 --> 00:36:31,493
is a conflict of interest
730
00:36:31,624 --> 00:36:34,366
because Brandon's doing
business with his mom
731
00:36:34,496 --> 00:36:37,369
and he's signing
contracts with his mom.
732
00:36:37,456 --> 00:36:39,284
So we call Brandon
in for a meeting
733
00:36:39,414 --> 00:36:42,069
and we ask him who Softnet is.
734
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:43,375
He said they were
a company that did
735
00:36:43,462 --> 00:36:45,377
stellar recruiting services.
736
00:36:45,507 --> 00:36:46,813
Brandon definitely
looked nervous.
737
00:36:46,943 --> 00:36:48,206
He was talking fast.
738
00:36:48,249 --> 00:36:50,164
I think he was
pretty surprised
739
00:36:50,251 --> 00:36:52,471
to be questioned about this.
740
00:36:52,558 --> 00:36:55,909
Then we asked him if he
knew who Barbara was,
741
00:36:55,952 --> 00:36:57,606
and he said he didn't.
742
00:36:57,693 --> 00:37:00,609
So then we gave him the
contract that he had signed
743
00:37:00,696 --> 00:37:02,655
and we said, it says
right there, Barbara.
744
00:37:02,742 --> 00:37:07,094
And he goes, oh, well, she's
a recruiter for Softnet.
745
00:37:07,137 --> 00:37:09,575
Then we presented him
with the social media page
746
00:37:09,662 --> 00:37:11,968
from Barbara that showed
that she was referring
747
00:37:12,099 --> 00:37:16,843
to him as her son, and he
748
00:37:16,930 --> 00:37:18,845
knew he was caught at that
point, I think.
749
00:37:18,932 --> 00:37:22,979
He said, oh, well,
she changed her name.
750
00:37:23,110 --> 00:37:24,154
Sorry, I got confused.
751
00:37:24,242 --> 00:37:25,895
It was insane.
752
00:37:25,982 --> 00:37:29,116
Like, you pretend to
not know your mom.
753
00:37:29,203 --> 00:37:31,858
We collected his
laptop and his badge.
754
00:37:31,945 --> 00:37:35,688
Meeting was pretty much
over at that point.
755
00:37:35,775 --> 00:37:40,040
It looked like, you know,
he was kind of happy to just
756
00:37:40,083 --> 00:37:43,348
be fired maybe at this point.
757
00:37:43,478 --> 00:37:46,742
And it seemed like
there was obviously
758
00:37:46,829 --> 00:37:49,571
some more stuff going on.
759
00:37:49,702 --> 00:37:51,878
We knew we still had
some more digging to do.
760
00:37:51,965 --> 00:37:53,227
We didn't believe that,
you know,
761
00:37:53,314 --> 00:37:55,577
these services were
legitimate.
762
00:37:55,664 --> 00:37:58,754
We immediately
contacted all the people
763
00:37:58,841 --> 00:38:02,802
who we paid fees for.
764
00:38:02,889 --> 00:38:05,805
And we asked them, you know,
have you ever heard of Softnet?
765
00:38:05,935 --> 00:38:07,415
Have you ever heard of Barbara?
766
00:38:07,502 --> 00:38:10,418
And pretty much everybody
said that they'd
767
00:38:10,505 --> 00:38:11,985
never heard of Softnet.
768
00:38:12,115 --> 00:38:13,856
They'd never met or
knew of a Barbara.
769
00:38:13,943 --> 00:38:16,163
And they didn't work
with a recruiter.
770
00:38:16,250 --> 00:38:19,427
They applied directly
to HTC online.
771
00:38:19,558 --> 00:38:22,778
Softnet was getting paid,
and they weren't
772
00:38:22,865 --> 00:38:23,823
actually doing anything.
773
00:38:26,434 --> 00:38:29,263
When Brandon left, we
noticed that his computer
774
00:38:29,394 --> 00:38:31,396
had been logged in
to a Softnet
775
00:38:31,483 --> 00:38:34,921
email account as Barbara.
776
00:38:35,008 --> 00:38:36,314
Brandon was a liar.
777
00:38:36,401 --> 00:38:38,664
I mean, he was
essentially using
778
00:38:38,751 --> 00:38:43,582
his mom as a front to
control this company
779
00:38:43,669 --> 00:38:45,671
and embezzle money.
780
00:38:45,758 --> 00:38:50,458
It came to a total
of $392,000.
781
00:38:50,545 --> 00:38:51,677
This was fraud.
782
00:38:51,764 --> 00:38:54,767
This was $392,000 in fraud.
783
00:38:54,854 --> 00:38:56,203
It was shocking.
784
00:38:56,290 --> 00:38:59,380
And that's when we
went to the police.
785
00:38:59,467 --> 00:39:02,209
- Brandon Johnson came to
the attention of my office
786
00:39:02,252 --> 00:39:04,429
because Seattle Police heard
that he'd stolen nearly
787
00:39:04,559 --> 00:39:07,083
$400,000 from his employer.
788
00:39:07,214 --> 00:39:09,390
We figured out through search
warrants and other things
789
00:39:09,477 --> 00:39:10,826
that, in fact,
that money had not
790
00:39:10,870 --> 00:39:12,219
gone to Softnet generally,
but to
791
00:39:12,350 --> 00:39:13,786
Brandon Johnson specifically.
792
00:39:13,873 --> 00:39:15,875
He didn't include his
mom in the bank accounts.
793
00:39:15,962 --> 00:39:17,529
I mean, I don't know
if she knew about it.
794
00:39:17,616 --> 00:39:19,531
We don't really have
evidence that she fully
795
00:39:19,618 --> 00:39:21,184
understood what was happening.
796
00:39:21,271 --> 00:39:23,448
And in all cases,
the beneficiary
797
00:39:23,578 --> 00:39:24,927
was Brandon Johnson.
798
00:39:25,014 --> 00:39:26,755
It was his money.
It was his crime.
799
00:39:26,842 --> 00:39:27,974
It was his scheme.
800
00:39:28,104 --> 00:39:30,846
It was him, him, him.
801
00:39:30,977 --> 00:39:33,501
He was ultimately charged
with 13 felony counts
802
00:39:33,588 --> 00:39:36,896
in King County
Superior Court in 2019.
803
00:39:36,983 --> 00:39:42,510
- Hearing that it was nearly
$400,000, it was shocking.
804
00:39:42,597 --> 00:39:46,035
But it made sense now
because we didn't know
805
00:39:46,122 --> 00:39:47,863
how he had this kind of money.
806
00:39:47,950 --> 00:39:50,736
But why isn't he being
arrested for all this stuff?
807
00:39:50,823 --> 00:39:54,043
That's the million-dollar
question.
808
00:39:54,130 --> 00:39:55,828
- After you're
charged with a crime,
809
00:39:55,871 --> 00:39:58,134
especially a white-collar crime
like this,
810
00:39:58,221 --> 00:40:01,050
often you are not put
immediately into jail.
811
00:40:01,137 --> 00:40:02,095
It's not like a murder.
812
00:40:02,225 --> 00:40:03,444
It's not like a shooting.
813
00:40:03,531 --> 00:40:08,101
You are usually
allowed to stay out.
814
00:40:08,231 --> 00:40:10,277
It was a big theft
case, but we still
815
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:11,452
need to prove it at trial.
816
00:40:11,539 --> 00:40:13,846
But until that,
Brandon Johnson was
817
00:40:13,933 --> 00:40:16,326
free to do whatever he needed
to do, as long as he stayed
818
00:40:16,414 --> 00:40:18,807
in touch with his lawyer and
came to court appearances
819
00:40:18,938 --> 00:40:20,374
as required.
820
00:40:20,461 --> 00:40:22,115
That is what he
did on this case.
821
00:40:24,073 --> 00:40:27,642
- Ugh, that's when I knew
822
00:40:27,729 --> 00:40:29,905
it's not just the stalking
of the women,
823
00:40:30,036 --> 00:40:31,124
the domestic violence.
824
00:40:31,254 --> 00:40:34,823
He is all around just--
825
00:40:34,910 --> 00:40:37,826
he's in deep at this point.
826
00:40:37,957 --> 00:40:40,612
- Myself and Athena
had formed very close
827
00:40:40,699 --> 00:40:42,831
relationships with
multiple women that had
828
00:40:42,918 --> 00:40:44,398
been involved with Brandon.
829
00:40:44,529 --> 00:40:47,314
We ended up calling
ourselves Charlie's Angels
830
00:40:47,357 --> 00:40:49,403
on this text thread
between myself
831
00:40:49,490 --> 00:40:51,623
and Athena and
several of the women.
832
00:40:51,753 --> 00:40:53,799
So if one of us
heard from Brandon,
833
00:40:53,886 --> 00:40:55,714
it was on this group text.
834
00:40:55,801 --> 00:40:58,586
We're comparing stories so
he can't get one up on us.
835
00:41:02,938 --> 00:41:07,290
- One night, one of the women
who had ended a relationship
836
00:41:07,377 --> 00:41:09,858
with Brandon calls
me, and she lets
837
00:41:09,945 --> 00:41:12,513
me know that she
feels like she's
838
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,995
being watched, followed,
that Brandon's starting
839
00:41:16,082 --> 00:41:18,127
to get a little obsessive.
840
00:41:18,214 --> 00:41:22,828
I believe that Brandon thought
he could always get her back.
841
00:41:22,958 --> 00:41:24,917
And when he realized that
wasn't going to happen,
842
00:41:25,004 --> 00:41:29,748
you could see the
change in him that way.
843
00:41:29,835 --> 00:41:32,359
The woman calls me and
lets me know that there's
844
00:41:32,402 --> 00:41:36,058
this video she has, and
she wants to send it to me,
845
00:41:36,145 --> 00:41:40,323
and that you can see this man
who looks, height-wise, very
846
00:41:40,454 --> 00:41:42,630
similar to Brandon.
847
00:41:42,717 --> 00:41:45,372
You see him bent down
behind his vehicle
848
00:41:45,459 --> 00:41:48,593
in front of the house.
849
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:53,772
And suddenly, you can
just tell, like, either
850
00:41:53,859 --> 00:41:56,992
the tires are being deflated,
but something is definitely
851
00:41:57,036 --> 00:42:00,256
happening to that car.
852
00:42:00,387 --> 00:42:03,477
- So the next day, she had
noticed that the brake lines
853
00:42:03,564 --> 00:42:05,697
of that car were cut.
854
00:42:05,784 --> 00:42:11,093
- I can't prove it was
Brandon, but it just--
855
00:42:11,180 --> 00:42:12,225
that scared me.
856
00:42:15,576 --> 00:42:19,275
For months, I had
nightmares about me
857
00:42:19,362 --> 00:42:23,802
driving my vehicle with my kids
and not being able to brake.
858
00:42:23,932 --> 00:42:27,501
- Whoever cut the brake
lines on that car,
859
00:42:27,632 --> 00:42:30,852
he had no thought in
the world about harming
860
00:42:30,983 --> 00:42:31,810
an innocent person.
861
00:42:36,031 --> 00:42:39,382
- There were a few of
the dates the woman
862
00:42:39,469 --> 00:42:42,081
gave me where she believed she
was being watched or followed.
863
00:42:42,168 --> 00:42:43,952
And I was trying
to comfort her
864
00:42:44,039 --> 00:42:46,433
by letting her know
Brandon has
865
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,306
Sydney, so there's no way that
he could, that late at night,
866
00:42:50,393 --> 00:42:52,918
get to your house.
867
00:42:52,961 --> 00:42:55,660
And that's when Sydney
opened up and told me
868
00:42:55,747 --> 00:42:58,793
about the late-night
drives and how
869
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,404
he'd left her wrapped
up in a blanket
870
00:43:01,491 --> 00:43:02,841
in the back of the truck.
871
00:43:02,971 --> 00:43:08,716
To leave a little girl
at night by herself alone
872
00:43:08,803 --> 00:43:13,939
while you're stalking
your ex-girlfriend
873
00:43:14,026 --> 00:43:15,288
is despicable.
874
00:43:20,075 --> 00:43:23,775
After that incident, I get
a phone call from Brandon,
875
00:43:23,862 --> 00:43:25,951
and he's informing me
that he's not going
876
00:43:26,038 --> 00:43:27,126
to be able to take Sydney.
877
00:43:27,256 --> 00:43:28,954
he's in a bad place,
878
00:43:29,041 --> 00:43:34,089
and that he decided to take
a few days to be alone.
879
00:43:34,133 --> 00:43:38,311
And then Brandon disappeared.
880
00:43:38,398 --> 00:43:42,532
- He pretty much was offline
a longer than normal period of
881
00:43:42,620 --> 00:43:44,491
time, and we were concerned.
882
00:43:44,534 --> 00:43:47,537
- If there was any
calm or quiet from him,
883
00:43:47,668 --> 00:43:50,323
that meant that something
way worse was starting.
884
00:43:50,410 --> 00:43:53,326
Peace was scary when
it came to Brandon.
885
00:43:53,413 --> 00:43:56,590
- He is not predictable
at this point,
886
00:43:56,721 --> 00:43:58,810
and each week that passes,
I feel like he's
887
00:43:58,897 --> 00:44:01,551
just losing it even more.
888
00:44:01,682 --> 00:44:05,555
He has multiple felony
charges he's facing right now,
889
00:44:05,686 --> 00:44:09,124
and I have a feeling that
Brandon had fled the state
890
00:44:09,168 --> 00:44:10,386
to avoid being arrested.
891
00:44:10,473 --> 00:44:12,780
♪ ♪
892
00:44:16,305 --> 00:44:20,179
[suspenseful music]
893
00:44:20,309 --> 00:44:21,920
- A week had passed.
894
00:44:22,007 --> 00:44:24,270
He had not contacted me.
895
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,185
A few more days go by.
896
00:44:26,272 --> 00:44:28,883
I decide to reach out to
any close friends and family,
897
00:44:28,970 --> 00:44:32,191
and nobody has a clue
where Brandon is.
898
00:44:32,278 --> 00:44:34,193
- Athena called me up
and said,
899
00:44:34,323 --> 00:44:36,848
I'm going to go to his house
and see what I can find.
900
00:44:36,935 --> 00:44:39,328
- Sydney asked me to
grab a few of her things
901
00:44:39,415 --> 00:44:41,722
that were there
since he's MIA.
902
00:44:41,766 --> 00:44:43,637
She had schoolwork,
her backpack.
903
00:44:43,724 --> 00:44:48,511
Although I have this
five-year no-contact order,
904
00:44:48,642 --> 00:44:50,688
it didn't matter when
it came to Brandon
905
00:44:50,818 --> 00:44:53,473
and I sharing
custody of our child.
906
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:54,648
We had a parenting
plan for Sydney,
907
00:44:54,779 --> 00:44:58,304
and unless we
went back to court
908
00:44:58,434 --> 00:45:01,873
and spent another
almost full year
909
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,441
redoing the parenting plan,
he still had access to her.
910
00:45:09,010 --> 00:45:11,230
- I just said,
please be careful.
911
00:45:11,317 --> 00:45:12,971
I don't know what you're
going to walk into.
912
00:45:16,017 --> 00:45:20,587
- I look through the
house, I call out.
913
00:45:20,674 --> 00:45:22,023
I go upstairs.
914
00:45:24,460 --> 00:45:27,289
I check the rooms.
915
00:45:27,376 --> 00:45:29,030
He's not there.
916
00:45:29,117 --> 00:45:33,556
♪ ♪
917
00:45:33,687 --> 00:45:36,211
Walking back down
the hallway, there's
918
00:45:36,298 --> 00:45:38,213
all these boxes stacked.
919
00:45:38,300 --> 00:45:43,088
And I thought to
myself, did he move?
920
00:45:43,175 --> 00:45:45,264
I went through the garage door
just to make sure
921
00:45:45,394 --> 00:45:48,920
he wasn't in there.
922
00:45:49,007 --> 00:45:51,009
I was terrified,
walking in, thinking
923
00:45:51,096 --> 00:45:53,881
I was going to find him.
924
00:45:53,968 --> 00:45:59,452
And that's when I
saw this crossbow.
925
00:45:59,539 --> 00:46:02,411
- He's not an outdoor guy.
926
00:46:02,455 --> 00:46:06,285
- I think Brandon has never
even thought about hunting
927
00:46:06,372 --> 00:46:07,416
a day in his life.
928
00:46:07,547 --> 00:46:09,636
He doesn't do this for sport.
929
00:46:09,723 --> 00:46:13,292
- So that was very unusual.
930
00:46:13,379 --> 00:46:15,729
When we got our
five-year no-contacts,
931
00:46:15,816 --> 00:46:19,385
he was not supposed to have
any type of firearm or weapon.
932
00:46:19,515 --> 00:46:23,258
And yet here he is
with a crossbow.
933
00:46:23,345 --> 00:46:24,956
That's a weapon.
934
00:46:27,306 --> 00:46:29,221
What was his plans with that?
935
00:46:29,351 --> 00:46:32,746
Was that something
meant for someone?
936
00:46:32,833 --> 00:46:34,487
And then, of course,
we were scared.
937
00:46:34,530 --> 00:46:41,450
♪
938
00:46:41,537 --> 00:46:46,412
- So some time goes by, and I
get a text message from Dee.
939
00:46:48,240 --> 00:46:51,112
- I was at the gym one
evening here in Seattle
940
00:46:51,243 --> 00:46:54,420
and looked over towards
the smoothie counter,
941
00:46:54,507 --> 00:47:00,513
and I saw Brandon standing
there and had a wave of panic.
942
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,516
It had been a few years since
I'd had a run-in with Brandon,
943
00:47:03,603 --> 00:47:06,214
and I felt safe.
944
00:47:06,301 --> 00:47:11,350
Seeing him, I became shaky and
scared, and I snapped a picture
945
00:47:11,437 --> 00:47:15,223
and sent it to Athena, and
said, is this really him?
946
00:47:15,310 --> 00:47:18,009
I think I was under the
impression he had moved.
947
00:47:18,139 --> 00:47:19,880
- I'm seeing this image.
948
00:47:19,967 --> 00:47:23,231
I immediately just-- I felt
sick, I felt nauseous.
949
00:47:23,318 --> 00:47:28,454
I was scared because we all
believed he had left the city.
950
00:47:28,584 --> 00:47:32,719
That gym is 20
minutes from my house.
951
00:47:32,806 --> 00:47:38,681
- We made eye contact and
he looked into my soul,
952
00:47:38,725 --> 00:47:41,206
and I felt very
scared and terrified.
953
00:47:41,249 --> 00:47:44,165
And I knew that I had
to call the police.
954
00:47:44,252 --> 00:47:47,168
There was no way I could go
to my car with him there.
955
00:47:47,255 --> 00:47:51,129
I was certain he
would follow me.
956
00:47:51,216 --> 00:47:52,608
When I called the
police, I let them
957
00:47:52,695 --> 00:47:54,697
know that I had
filed a restraining
958
00:47:54,741 --> 00:47:57,962
order against Brandon
and that he had warrants.
959
00:47:58,092 --> 00:47:59,180
- There are a lot
of different courts
960
00:47:59,311 --> 00:48:01,008
that have arrest warrants
for Brandon Johnson.
961
00:48:01,095 --> 00:48:03,445
He's got three in
Washington State.
962
00:48:03,532 --> 00:48:06,796
He had arrest warrants
for hit-and-run,
963
00:48:06,884 --> 00:48:08,276
for driving with a
license suspended,
964
00:48:08,407 --> 00:48:10,452
and for violating
a no-contact order.
965
00:48:10,496 --> 00:48:12,846
In addition to that, we're
looking to talk to him about
966
00:48:12,933 --> 00:48:15,718
stealing $392,000 from HTC.
967
00:48:15,762 --> 00:48:17,982
[indistinct
police radio chatter]
968
00:48:18,069 --> 00:48:22,725
- They showed up with,
I believe, six cop cars,
969
00:48:22,769 --> 00:48:24,902
including a K-9 unit.
970
00:48:24,945 --> 00:48:28,122
They located his truck,
which was empty, and searched
971
00:48:28,253 --> 00:48:30,559
the premises inside
and out, and said
972
00:48:30,646 --> 00:48:33,127
he had taken off on foot.
973
00:48:33,214 --> 00:48:36,565
And they were unable to
locate him that night.
974
00:48:36,696 --> 00:48:38,654
- The fact that
he'd come back, I
975
00:48:38,741 --> 00:48:40,830
was scared because
I knew that he
976
00:48:40,874 --> 00:48:43,181
was in close proximity to me.
977
00:48:43,311 --> 00:48:46,314
And when you add in your
family and your children,
978
00:48:46,401 --> 00:48:48,577
it takes it up to
a whole different level.
979
00:48:48,664 --> 00:48:50,405
They're my world.
980
00:48:50,492 --> 00:48:53,713
And he is not predictable
at this point,
981
00:48:53,756 --> 00:48:58,544
and that alone is terrifying.
982
00:48:58,631 --> 00:49:00,415
Some time goes by.
983
00:49:00,546 --> 00:49:03,244
Our 12-year-old daughter,
Sydney, does ask me
984
00:49:03,375 --> 00:49:05,768
about her father
picking her up from school.
985
00:49:05,855 --> 00:49:08,858
I find out that Brandon
was texting her.
986
00:49:08,946 --> 00:49:11,035
And that's where you'll
see that the family
987
00:49:11,165 --> 00:49:13,733
laws and the criminal
laws coming together,
988
00:49:13,776 --> 00:49:15,561
there is a complete
breakdown there.
989
00:49:15,604 --> 00:49:20,348
So my now ex-husband, Brandon,
has threatened to kill me.
990
00:49:20,435 --> 00:49:22,698
He has warrants
out for his arrest.
991
00:49:22,785 --> 00:49:25,527
He has multiple
domestic violence orders
992
00:49:25,614 --> 00:49:28,966
from multiple women,
and yet he can fully
993
00:49:29,053 --> 00:49:30,445
have access to our daughter.
994
00:49:30,532 --> 00:49:34,101
It is outrageous.
995
00:49:34,188 --> 00:49:37,104
I previously had called
the police prior,
996
00:49:37,191 --> 00:49:40,107
you know, and they straight
told me it doesn't matter.
997
00:49:40,194 --> 00:49:41,761
They don't override
one another.
998
00:49:41,848 --> 00:49:42,805
And you'll have to actually
just get a court date
999
00:49:42,892 --> 00:49:43,981
and go back in.
1000
00:49:44,068 --> 00:49:45,939
And again, I'm
thinking to myself,
1001
00:49:46,026 --> 00:49:47,419
what are these documents for?
1002
00:49:47,549 --> 00:49:50,161
What are these court
orders for if they
1003
00:49:50,204 --> 00:49:51,336
don't really do anything?
1004
00:49:51,379 --> 00:49:53,512
They don't protect.
They don't mean anything.
1005
00:49:53,599 --> 00:49:57,951
I am aware that Brandon has
a suspended driver's license.
1006
00:49:58,038 --> 00:50:01,389
Therefore, I told her the
only way that would happen
1007
00:50:01,476 --> 00:50:04,740
is if somebody else
was driving the vehicle.
1008
00:50:04,827 --> 00:50:06,264
I asked her that morning
when she went to school
1009
00:50:06,351 --> 00:50:08,353
if she had heard
anything from her father.
1010
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:09,789
She said no.
1011
00:50:09,876 --> 00:50:11,921
I said, OK, then you'll
be taking the bus home
1012
00:50:12,009 --> 00:50:13,923
and I'll see you
when you get home.
1013
00:50:14,011 --> 00:50:15,447
Sydney never arrived home.
1014
00:50:15,577 --> 00:50:21,540
♪ ♪
1015
00:50:21,670 --> 00:50:25,196
I got a text message from her
that said that her father did
1016
00:50:25,326 --> 00:50:26,849
pick her up.
1017
00:50:26,936 --> 00:50:30,331
I say, who's driving?
1018
00:50:30,418 --> 00:50:32,116
And she says, dad's driving.
1019
00:50:35,380 --> 00:50:39,036
That's when I call
the Bothell PD.
1020
00:50:39,123 --> 00:50:43,083
They are 100% on board and
they want to arrest him.
1021
00:50:43,214 --> 00:50:44,780
From there, I jump
on a call with Amber
1022
00:50:44,867 --> 00:50:45,825
to tell her what's going on.
1023
00:50:45,912 --> 00:50:47,522
I'm nervous.
I'm scared.
1024
00:50:47,609 --> 00:50:50,221
Sydney is not responding to
any of my text messages now.
1025
00:50:50,351 --> 00:50:52,571
So it's all of us
in communication.
1026
00:50:52,701 --> 00:50:57,054
And that's when I suddenly
get text messages from Sydney.
1027
00:51:11,372 --> 00:51:13,505
I know my daughter
is terrified.
1028
00:51:13,592 --> 00:51:15,028
I know she's scared.
- You don't know what to do.
1029
00:51:15,072 --> 00:51:16,029
Do I call the police?
1030
00:51:16,116 --> 00:51:17,813
Do I drive up there now?
1031
00:51:17,900 --> 00:51:20,512
Can I help?
What can I do?
1032
00:51:20,599 --> 00:51:23,080
- I was scared for Sydney.
1033
00:51:23,167 --> 00:51:25,169
He always said
that nobody would
1034
00:51:25,256 --> 00:51:27,127
ever take his daughter away.
1035
00:51:27,258 --> 00:51:30,609
With everything he had done,
now what is he capable of?
1036
00:51:30,739 --> 00:51:35,614
I remember that I have
a tracking app on her phone.
1037
00:51:35,701 --> 00:51:39,487
I am on the phone
with the police
1038
00:51:39,574 --> 00:51:43,535
and we began to follow
her route with her dad.
1039
00:51:43,665 --> 00:51:45,624
- And the police
officer says, we're
1040
00:51:45,711 --> 00:51:49,454
going to just pull him over
and get to the bottom of this.
1041
00:51:49,541 --> 00:51:52,805
And then it just all took
a left turn really quickly.
1042
00:51:52,892 --> 00:51:55,503
[siren wailing]
1043
00:51:55,590 --> 00:52:00,421
- She's saying that Dad's
trying to flee from the police.
1044
00:52:00,508 --> 00:52:04,947
- What should have been
a simple stop turned into this
1045
00:52:05,078 --> 00:52:06,732
crazy high-speed chase.
1046
00:52:06,819 --> 00:52:08,777
[siren wailing]
1047
00:52:08,908 --> 00:52:11,171
Just when you think
you know this person,
1048
00:52:11,302 --> 00:52:13,304
you don't know anything
at all.
1049
00:52:13,434 --> 00:52:16,176
- The police are pursuing
Brandon,
1050
00:52:16,263 --> 00:52:18,657
you know, at a high speed,
1051
00:52:18,744 --> 00:52:23,314
and they confirm that Sydney
is in the passenger seat.
1052
00:52:23,444 --> 00:52:25,794
- Your heart immediately
goes to the worst of,
1053
00:52:25,925 --> 00:52:27,405
he's going to get
in an accident.
1054
00:52:27,492 --> 00:52:30,886
He's going to hurt
and/or kill both of them.
1055
00:52:30,973 --> 00:52:34,412
- He was weaving in
and out at high speeds.
1056
00:52:34,542 --> 00:52:36,762
They realized that it
was not safe for Sydney,
1057
00:52:36,892 --> 00:52:38,938
so they have no choice
but to pull back.
1058
00:52:39,068 --> 00:52:42,550
♪ ♪
1059
00:52:42,681 --> 00:52:44,465
I had so many emotions.
1060
00:52:44,552 --> 00:52:46,163
I just wanted to
be there with her.
1061
00:52:46,250 --> 00:52:50,471
If I could trade places
with her, I would have.
1062
00:52:50,602 --> 00:52:53,518
- For so long we've
been trying to say this,
1063
00:52:53,605 --> 00:52:55,955
and no one's hearing us.
1064
00:52:55,998 --> 00:52:58,044
And here's that moment,
someone going to die
1065
00:52:58,131 --> 00:52:59,698
before you actually listen?
1066
00:52:59,785 --> 00:53:03,180
Is a child going to die because
you wouldn't listen to us?
1067
00:53:03,223 --> 00:53:04,877
- I'm watching on the map.
1068
00:53:04,964 --> 00:53:07,619
And then there's a point where
they're by the railroad tracks
1069
00:53:07,749 --> 00:53:10,578
and the dot stopped moving.
1070
00:53:10,709 --> 00:53:11,840
Amber was freaking out.
1071
00:53:11,927 --> 00:53:13,668
I was freaking out.
1072
00:53:13,799 --> 00:53:17,890
I've always had this feeling
that if he's going down,
1073
00:53:17,977 --> 00:53:20,197
he's going to take
her to punish me.
1074
00:53:20,327 --> 00:53:21,937
♪ ♪
1075
00:53:22,024 --> 00:53:26,377
[crossing bells dinging,
train horn blowing]
1076
00:53:26,464 --> 00:53:29,423
Finally, I see
that he is moving
1077
00:53:29,510 --> 00:53:33,079
and he's making a loop back.
1078
00:53:33,210 --> 00:53:34,254
All of a sudden, I
get a phone call.
1079
00:53:34,341 --> 00:53:35,908
And it's Sydney
and she's crying.
1080
00:53:50,270 --> 00:53:54,840
- Just hearing that
is heartbreaking.
1081
00:53:54,927 --> 00:53:57,669
- I get a call from my mom
telling me that my sister
1082
00:53:57,756 --> 00:54:00,280
called and found out
that they were in, like,
1083
00:54:00,367 --> 00:54:02,456
a high-speed police chase.
1084
00:54:02,543 --> 00:54:05,677
At some point, he was able
to get off the freeway,
1085
00:54:05,720 --> 00:54:09,811
dropped her off at a Pagliacci
Pizza, gave her 10 bucks,
1086
00:54:09,855 --> 00:54:13,380
called her an Uber, and said,
go sit inside and wait.
1087
00:54:13,467 --> 00:54:16,775
And Brandon sat across from
the store
1088
00:54:16,862 --> 00:54:19,865
and just, like, watched.
1089
00:54:19,995 --> 00:54:23,738
And then from there,
she called my mom.
1090
00:54:23,869 --> 00:54:26,263
- He left our 12-year-old
daughter after, like,
1091
00:54:26,350 --> 00:54:29,266
going through the
horror she just did.
1092
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,010
I have no words for it.
1093
00:54:35,141 --> 00:54:36,621
- What is this?
1094
00:54:36,664 --> 00:54:38,275
- Love it?
1095
00:54:38,362 --> 00:54:41,103
- She will forever have
that memory of,
1096
00:54:41,234 --> 00:54:44,324
my dad
trying to outrun the police.
1097
00:54:44,455 --> 00:54:47,632
He was supposed to be a safety
place for her growing up.
1098
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:49,242
That's your parent.
1099
00:54:49,329 --> 00:54:52,637
The system had failed us
so many times.
1100
00:54:52,724 --> 00:54:54,116
And you're trying to
protect this child,
1101
00:54:54,247 --> 00:54:56,902
and you're just hitting
roadblocks at every turn.
1102
00:54:59,687 --> 00:55:02,647
And you don't know if
this is going to end well.
1103
00:55:05,737 --> 00:55:10,002
- Sydney is texting me.
1104
00:55:10,089 --> 00:55:12,526
I'm driving as fast
as I can to get her.
1105
00:55:12,657 --> 00:55:16,661
I pull up, she gets
in the car, and I
1106
00:55:16,704 --> 00:55:20,969
just hug her and she's crying.
1107
00:55:21,013 --> 00:55:23,407
We take off from there, and the
phone rings and it's her dad.
1108
00:55:23,494 --> 00:55:24,973
And she answers it on speaker.
1109
00:55:25,104 --> 00:55:26,758
And I hear his
voice, and everything
1110
00:55:26,845 --> 00:55:30,849
inside of me just wants
to scream and yell at him,
1111
00:55:30,936 --> 00:55:32,372
but I can't.
1112
00:55:32,503 --> 00:55:37,986
I have to shut my mouth and
safely get us away from there.
1113
00:55:38,073 --> 00:55:44,428
- It really takes a horrible
person to do those things.
1114
00:55:44,558 --> 00:55:49,955
- We knew that Brandon was
incredibly scary and unhinged.
1115
00:55:50,085 --> 00:55:52,000
- He is a dangerous man.
1116
00:55:52,087 --> 00:55:56,527
And he's everywhere.
1117
00:55:56,614 --> 00:55:59,486
- If Brandon could do what
he did with Sydney in the car
1118
00:55:59,573 --> 00:56:02,315
and with the police
officers after him,
1119
00:56:02,402 --> 00:56:05,013
I had no idea what
he was going to do.
1120
00:56:05,100 --> 00:56:10,192
I just knew something
horrific was about to happen.
1121
00:56:10,279 --> 00:56:13,326
- Rachel came to me
and told me she
1122
00:56:13,413 --> 00:56:15,154
found a guy that was perfect.
1123
00:56:15,197 --> 00:56:18,853
- I just got a really
bad feeling about him.
1124
00:56:18,940 --> 00:56:21,421
- He was following her.
1125
00:56:21,508 --> 00:56:22,770
He had been listening
under her bed.
1126
00:56:22,901 --> 00:56:25,425
I think he just took
it beyond anything
1127
00:56:25,512 --> 00:56:27,209
that was even imaginable.
1128
00:56:27,253 --> 00:56:28,385
- You will get tased!
1129
00:56:28,515 --> 00:56:30,474
You will get tased!
1130
00:56:30,561 --> 00:56:32,040
Get down on the ground, now!
1131
00:56:32,171 --> 00:56:34,434
- And he was going
to stop at nothing.
1132
00:56:34,521 --> 00:56:41,615
♪ ♪
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