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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:03,177 --> 00:00:05,353 - Brandon was the full package. 2 00:00:05,483 --> 00:00:07,964 Very tall, 6 foot 3. 3 00:00:08,095 --> 00:00:11,054 He was vulnerable, funny, open, honest. 4 00:00:11,141 --> 00:00:13,796 [suspenseful music] 5 00:00:13,883 --> 00:00:15,232 - It was all bullshit. 6 00:00:15,319 --> 00:00:17,321 - Just when you think you know this person, 7 00:00:17,408 --> 00:00:19,454 you don't know anything at all. 8 00:00:19,541 --> 00:00:22,196 I went straight to my social media. 9 00:00:23,414 --> 00:00:26,113 The floodgates opened and more and more women 10 00:00:26,243 --> 00:00:27,766 started coming out. 11 00:00:27,853 --> 00:00:31,161 - Brandon had multiple protection orders against him. 12 00:00:31,205 --> 00:00:32,467 When you do break up with Brandon, 13 00:00:32,554 --> 00:00:35,252 that is when the stalking begins. 14 00:00:35,339 --> 00:00:38,777 - My parents had to put a video camera outside my bedroom 15 00:00:38,908 --> 00:00:42,303 window to shine down on my car to see what he was going to do. 16 00:00:42,390 --> 00:00:45,262 - Days after getting a permanent restraining order, 17 00:00:45,349 --> 00:00:47,525 he came running to my car, knocking on my window. 18 00:00:47,612 --> 00:00:51,007 That's when I found the tracking device. 19 00:00:57,796 --> 00:00:59,233 - We really felt like we needed 20 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,148 to start warning people. 21 00:01:01,235 --> 00:01:02,888 - We all had the epiphany-- well, 22 00:01:02,975 --> 00:01:04,629 what if we use our voices? 23 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:09,069 - We were going to join forces to go up against him. 24 00:01:11,158 --> 00:01:12,724 [siren wailing] 25 00:01:12,811 --> 00:01:14,813 - I don't think Amber and I were ever prepared 26 00:01:14,944 --> 00:01:18,382 for the journey we were about to go on. 27 00:01:18,469 --> 00:01:21,385 ♪ ♪ 28 00:01:26,825 --> 00:01:29,176 - Brandon and I had been together for five years 29 00:01:29,219 --> 00:01:30,742 and married for two. 30 00:01:30,829 --> 00:01:35,747 And at that point, I felt like everything was a lie. 31 00:01:35,834 --> 00:01:40,709 I learned about Brandon's infidelity with multiple women. 32 00:01:40,795 --> 00:01:44,365 He put me through the wringer, telling me he had leukemia, 33 00:01:44,452 --> 00:01:46,106 but now I don't know what's the truth. 34 00:01:48,412 --> 00:01:50,848 And Brandon created fake emails 35 00:01:50,936 --> 00:01:52,676 pretending to be Athena, 36 00:01:52,808 --> 00:01:55,593 to keep us apart. 37 00:01:55,680 --> 00:02:01,730 Athena had been my enemy for five years, but in this moment, 38 00:02:01,773 --> 00:02:03,862 I knew that that was never going to happen again 39 00:02:03,993 --> 00:02:08,258 and that we were going to join forces to go up against him. 40 00:02:08,345 --> 00:02:11,000 - Between us, we had put up with Brandon's 41 00:02:11,087 --> 00:02:14,134 bullshit for about 10 years. 42 00:02:14,221 --> 00:02:16,701 We were vulnerable with each other. 43 00:02:16,745 --> 00:02:18,573 She shared some of the things that had hurt her. 44 00:02:18,703 --> 00:02:23,186 I shared the things that really hurt me, and from then on, 45 00:02:23,230 --> 00:02:25,362 like, bonded like sisters. 46 00:02:27,886 --> 00:02:30,889 - We learned Brandon had multiple protection 47 00:02:31,020 --> 00:02:32,935 orders filed on him. 48 00:02:33,022 --> 00:02:36,460 - We dug a little deeper into who these women were. 49 00:02:36,547 --> 00:02:39,507 - Some of the statements from the women that 50 00:02:39,637 --> 00:02:42,814 were incredibly disturbing. 51 00:02:42,901 --> 00:02:44,990 This is from August of 2005. 52 00:02:45,077 --> 00:02:48,951 "He grabs me, blocks doors so I can't get out. 53 00:02:49,081 --> 00:02:51,040 "I've had to run out the back door, through the trees 54 00:02:51,127 --> 00:02:53,390 and bushes to get to my car." 55 00:02:53,521 --> 00:02:57,786 I believe she got a 10-year restraining order. 56 00:02:57,916 --> 00:03:01,485 And another one states, "I am absolutely terrified of him. 57 00:03:01,572 --> 00:03:04,793 "He has caused me incredible strife, panic attacks, 58 00:03:04,836 --> 00:03:07,099 "and reenacted PTSD. 59 00:03:07,143 --> 00:03:09,711 "I lost 35 pounds due to stress, 60 00:03:09,841 --> 00:03:11,843 "and I almost lost my job. 61 00:03:11,930 --> 00:03:13,715 "He is violent and has left me with bruises 62 00:03:13,802 --> 00:03:16,718 on my arm from grabbing me." 63 00:03:16,848 --> 00:03:19,503 I never knew who he was to begin with. 64 00:03:19,590 --> 00:03:23,507 This Brandon Johnson was not the same person at all. 65 00:03:23,594 --> 00:03:27,163 Not only was I married to a liar and a cheat, 66 00:03:27,294 --> 00:03:30,645 but he was a monster who abused women. 67 00:03:30,732 --> 00:03:31,515 - Get the fucking camera off me. 68 00:03:31,646 --> 00:03:32,603 - No, I won't. 69 00:03:32,690 --> 00:03:33,952 You're acting like a crazy person. 70 00:03:34,039 --> 00:03:35,171 You're going to kill us. 71 00:03:35,258 --> 00:03:36,303 - You're going to get out of my truck. 72 00:03:36,433 --> 00:03:37,608 - No. 73 00:03:37,695 --> 00:03:39,175 Hell no. 74 00:03:39,262 --> 00:03:40,437 No. 75 00:03:40,524 --> 00:03:42,613 You're going to drive me to Portland, 76 00:03:42,744 --> 00:03:43,527 and then you're going to get the fuck out of my life 77 00:03:43,614 --> 00:03:45,790 for good. 78 00:03:45,921 --> 00:03:48,184 When I asked Brandon for a divorce, 79 00:03:48,271 --> 00:03:50,447 he was not willing to accept that. 80 00:03:50,534 --> 00:03:53,015 One thing about Brandon is that he does not 81 00:03:53,102 --> 00:03:56,148 take no for an answer, ever. 82 00:04:00,152 --> 00:04:02,938 - Amber was divorcing Brandon. 83 00:04:03,025 --> 00:04:05,332 She had made that decision. 84 00:04:05,419 --> 00:04:08,204 He, of course, started love bombing her again. 85 00:04:08,291 --> 00:04:10,467 - Basically saying he can't live without me 86 00:04:10,554 --> 00:04:13,557 and how sad he was about this divorce. 87 00:04:13,644 --> 00:04:15,820 He wants you to remember the good times. 88 00:04:15,907 --> 00:04:18,127 This time is going to be different. 89 00:04:18,214 --> 00:04:20,781 - But Amber was very certain at that point 90 00:04:20,825 --> 00:04:24,916 that she didn't believe a single word that he said. 91 00:04:25,003 --> 00:04:27,658 - I had not been able to serve Brandon divorce 92 00:04:27,789 --> 00:04:30,008 papers at that point, and it just so happened 93 00:04:30,139 --> 00:04:31,445 to be Valentine's Day. 94 00:04:31,532 --> 00:04:32,402 And I had some things that Sydney 95 00:04:32,533 --> 00:04:34,404 wanted to give her father. 96 00:04:34,491 --> 00:04:35,840 And I figured, you know what, let's take this opportunity 97 00:04:35,971 --> 00:04:38,843 as adults to talk about this. 98 00:04:38,974 --> 00:04:41,803 - Amber decides to make a quick pit stop at Brandon's. 99 00:04:41,890 --> 00:04:43,370 I tell Amber, are you sure you want to do this? 100 00:04:43,457 --> 00:04:45,807 I'm a little bit worried. 101 00:04:45,937 --> 00:04:50,942 The more we uncovered, the more afraid I became of him. 102 00:04:51,029 --> 00:04:54,381 And it kind of took me back to the feeling 103 00:04:54,468 --> 00:04:56,426 I had when I was married to him, when 104 00:04:56,557 --> 00:04:58,167 I was trying to divorce him. 105 00:04:58,298 --> 00:05:01,170 Brandon does not take rejection. 106 00:05:01,301 --> 00:05:04,478 He retaliates. 107 00:05:04,565 --> 00:05:06,915 - I've heard from several women 108 00:05:06,958 --> 00:05:10,484 that he can flip a switch on you and he can harm you. 109 00:05:10,571 --> 00:05:13,965 But that wasn't really sinking in to me yet. 110 00:05:14,052 --> 00:05:16,751 And naive as it sounds, I really 111 00:05:16,838 --> 00:05:21,321 didn't think that he would ever do something like that to me. 112 00:05:21,408 --> 00:05:24,280 - I just did not trust him. 113 00:05:24,411 --> 00:05:28,676 I couldn't trust what he would do. 114 00:05:28,763 --> 00:05:30,939 - When I got to Brandon's, I was 115 00:05:31,026 --> 00:05:33,811 trying to be on friendly terms so I could get him served. 116 00:05:33,855 --> 00:05:36,553 We were having a simple conversation. 117 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,338 And in the middle of that conversation, 118 00:05:38,425 --> 00:05:41,253 I got a text from another woman that 119 00:05:41,341 --> 00:05:43,430 reached out to me on Facebook. 120 00:05:43,517 --> 00:05:46,650 And she said, this is what I received from Brandon, 121 00:05:46,737 --> 00:05:49,131 and it happened to be literally the same message that he 122 00:05:49,218 --> 00:05:51,176 sent me the night before. 123 00:05:51,263 --> 00:05:53,091 I love you, you're the best thing ever, 124 00:05:53,222 --> 00:05:54,484 and I can't live without you. 125 00:05:54,615 --> 00:05:56,573 All of her messages were coming in, 126 00:05:56,659 --> 00:05:58,923 and I just started reading them to him. 127 00:05:59,010 --> 00:06:01,143 And he flipped out. 128 00:06:01,230 --> 00:06:04,364 And he grabbed a drink and just threw 129 00:06:04,451 --> 00:06:07,671 it across the living room, and it splashed everywhere. 130 00:06:07,802 --> 00:06:10,935 And he's like, why don't you see? 131 00:06:11,066 --> 00:06:13,242 And he was kind of shaking. 132 00:06:13,329 --> 00:06:14,548 It's that bitch Athena. 133 00:06:14,635 --> 00:06:16,680 She's been doing this for years and you know it. 134 00:06:16,811 --> 00:06:19,379 This is all lies. 135 00:06:19,466 --> 00:06:22,817 And he went into the kitchen and he 136 00:06:22,947 --> 00:06:25,733 said, if you don't stop reading those messages, 137 00:06:25,863 --> 00:06:27,604 I'm going to kill myself. 138 00:06:27,691 --> 00:06:30,259 I was just stunned that he was behaving that way. 139 00:06:30,346 --> 00:06:35,743 But I was also scared because he just pulled a knife. 140 00:06:35,830 --> 00:06:38,832 I said, you know what, I need to leave right now. 141 00:06:38,963 --> 00:06:42,358 And then his eyes went dark, like it wasn't him anymore. 142 00:06:42,445 --> 00:06:45,622 He approached me and he wouldn't let me leave. 143 00:06:45,709 --> 00:06:48,058 Brandon is a very big man. 144 00:06:48,146 --> 00:06:50,497 He's 6'3". He's built. 145 00:06:50,584 --> 00:06:55,240 He was blocking me, blocking me with his body. 146 00:06:55,327 --> 00:06:57,329 He had veins popping out of his neck. 147 00:06:57,373 --> 00:07:00,289 He was-- literally had, like, saliva 148 00:07:00,376 --> 00:07:02,639 coming out as he's screaming. 149 00:07:02,726 --> 00:07:05,903 It was terrifying. It was terrifying. 150 00:07:05,990 --> 00:07:07,905 I just remember screaming, please let me go. 151 00:07:07,949 --> 00:07:09,298 Please let me go. 152 00:07:09,385 --> 00:07:11,343 I don't know what's going to happen. 153 00:07:11,431 --> 00:07:13,868 I think he thought he was losing control 154 00:07:13,955 --> 00:07:17,741 and he needed me to get back in my place, obey him. 155 00:07:20,352 --> 00:07:24,052 I don't even remember getting down the stairs. 156 00:07:24,139 --> 00:07:25,532 Just panic. 157 00:07:25,619 --> 00:07:28,926 And I'm literally reaching for the doorknob. 158 00:07:29,013 --> 00:07:33,191 I can feel his arm come up over me and slam it shut. 159 00:07:33,278 --> 00:07:36,151 And so then it was another panic of, now I'm cornered. 160 00:07:36,238 --> 00:07:38,980 I'm like, let me out now. 161 00:07:39,110 --> 00:07:40,284 He said, I'll let you out. 162 00:07:40,372 --> 00:07:42,505 But if you leave, I'm going to go 163 00:07:42,592 --> 00:07:44,681 over and kill that bitch Athena and then 164 00:07:44,768 --> 00:07:47,467 I'm going to kill myself. 165 00:07:47,554 --> 00:07:50,165 And with that, he opened the door. 166 00:07:50,252 --> 00:07:52,907 I almost slipped on the ice. I'm running towards my car. 167 00:07:52,994 --> 00:07:54,430 I was shaking like-- 168 00:07:54,517 --> 00:07:56,954 like, just trying to get my car. 169 00:07:57,041 --> 00:07:59,348 I sped out. 170 00:07:59,479 --> 00:08:01,132 Now I saw it for myself. 171 00:08:01,263 --> 00:08:03,787 He really is a monster. 172 00:08:03,874 --> 00:08:05,572 I did not call the police because I was driving. 173 00:08:05,659 --> 00:08:07,008 I'm just shaking. 174 00:08:07,051 --> 00:08:08,270 My heart was racing and I couldn't 175 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,359 process what was happening. 176 00:08:10,446 --> 00:08:14,145 As soon as I got back to Oregon, I spoke to the police 177 00:08:14,232 --> 00:08:16,104 and I told them exactly what happened. 178 00:08:16,147 --> 00:08:17,627 He said, hold on. 179 00:08:17,758 --> 00:08:22,589 Did he say he wanted to kill Athena? 180 00:08:22,676 --> 00:08:25,417 Of course, I'm just thinking, Athena needs to know. 181 00:08:25,548 --> 00:08:28,072 ♪ ♪ 182 00:08:28,159 --> 00:08:29,770 [phone chiming] 183 00:08:29,813 --> 00:08:33,513 - I wake up to, you know, 184 00:08:33,643 --> 00:08:36,167 my phone chiming a bunch of times. 185 00:08:36,254 --> 00:08:38,169 I get a text message from Amber. 186 00:08:38,299 --> 00:08:40,607 It was a lot to absorb. 187 00:08:40,650 --> 00:08:43,347 Brandon had threatened to kill me. 188 00:08:43,434 --> 00:08:46,526 I'm in sheer panic. 189 00:08:46,613 --> 00:08:48,528 I have all the little kids there. 190 00:08:48,615 --> 00:08:50,965 I just started thinking, are my doors locked? 191 00:08:51,052 --> 00:08:52,401 Are my windows locked? 192 00:08:52,488 --> 00:08:55,752 He's going to come kill me. 193 00:08:55,839 --> 00:08:58,973 Thankfully, the police do arrest Brandon. 194 00:08:59,060 --> 00:09:05,849 ♪ ♪ 195 00:09:24,259 --> 00:09:26,870 - The police charge Brandon with unlawful imprisonment 196 00:09:27,001 --> 00:09:29,003 and threatening to kill Athena. 197 00:09:29,090 --> 00:09:31,309 And then he was ordered to appear in court. 198 00:09:31,396 --> 00:09:34,182 - Amber called me the next day, and I 199 00:09:34,269 --> 00:09:35,487 was really scared for her. 200 00:09:35,531 --> 00:09:38,708 I told her to get protection. 201 00:09:38,795 --> 00:09:40,362 I knew that Brandon was dangerous. 202 00:09:43,887 --> 00:09:48,065 - The prosecutor in my case requested 203 00:09:48,152 --> 00:09:51,025 that me and Athena show up at the court in Bothell 204 00:09:51,155 --> 00:09:52,896 to testify. 205 00:09:52,940 --> 00:09:56,030 We certainly didn't want to go. 206 00:09:56,117 --> 00:09:59,250 - I was already terrified to be around Brandon at that 207 00:09:59,381 --> 00:10:01,557 court hearing that day. 208 00:10:01,601 --> 00:10:04,473 - As we were going through the metal detectors, 209 00:10:04,560 --> 00:10:07,258 Brandon was standing to our left. 210 00:10:07,345 --> 00:10:10,131 As soon as we walked in, he starts walking towards us. 211 00:10:10,261 --> 00:10:15,658 - He is shouting things at us, telling us to leave him alone. 212 00:10:15,745 --> 00:10:18,052 We were all the way against the wall 213 00:10:18,139 --> 00:10:19,140 trying to get away from him. 214 00:10:19,270 --> 00:10:21,664 - Our hearts were racing. 215 00:10:21,751 --> 00:10:23,666 The police officers immediately called 216 00:10:23,753 --> 00:10:26,364 other backup police officers to help with the incident 217 00:10:26,451 --> 00:10:27,365 and restrained him. 218 00:10:30,804 --> 00:10:35,722 The audacity of him was shocking. 219 00:10:35,809 --> 00:10:38,072 Ultimately, Brandon had to plead 220 00:10:38,159 --> 00:10:41,858 guilty to two more violations of his restraining order. 221 00:10:54,828 --> 00:10:58,875 - After a series of hearings, Brandon 222 00:10:58,962 --> 00:11:01,878 does agree to take a plea. 223 00:11:01,965 --> 00:11:05,621 - He admitted what he did to me in his home 224 00:11:05,665 --> 00:11:07,623 and threatening to kill Athena. 225 00:11:07,710 --> 00:11:10,887 - And we are now all awarded 226 00:11:10,974 --> 00:11:14,456 the five-year no-contact order. 227 00:11:14,543 --> 00:11:16,893 And it's not that common. 228 00:11:16,980 --> 00:11:18,634 Normally it's one or two years. 229 00:11:18,721 --> 00:11:22,594 - And it was then that I knew that they took 230 00:11:22,682 --> 00:11:25,075 this very, very seriously. 231 00:11:25,162 --> 00:11:28,862 I didn't know I was a victim of domestic violence, 232 00:11:28,905 --> 00:11:32,430 I didn't know that, until we had a victim's advocate. 233 00:11:32,561 --> 00:11:34,868 And she told me, what he's doing to you 234 00:11:34,955 --> 00:11:36,652 is considered domestic violence. 235 00:11:36,783 --> 00:11:41,004 So that was a really big awakening for me. 236 00:11:41,091 --> 00:11:43,224 How did I get myself involved in this? 237 00:11:43,354 --> 00:11:45,661 Like, how did this happen? 238 00:11:45,705 --> 00:11:49,796 He's not even close to the person that I thought he was. 239 00:11:49,839 --> 00:11:52,102 We were given restraining orders, 240 00:11:52,233 --> 00:11:54,583 and I truly believed at that time that I was safe 241 00:11:54,670 --> 00:11:56,454 and that I would be protected. 242 00:11:56,585 --> 00:11:58,456 But I was so naive. 243 00:12:05,159 --> 00:12:08,249 Days after getting a permanent restraining order, 244 00:12:08,379 --> 00:12:10,599 I was driving down the freeway and see 245 00:12:10,686 --> 00:12:14,342 Brandon driving next to me, flagging me down to pull over. 246 00:12:14,429 --> 00:12:18,694 I pulled over in a safe spot where people could see me. 247 00:12:18,825 --> 00:12:21,828 He came running to my car, knocking on my window. 248 00:12:21,915 --> 00:12:24,221 And I rolled down my window, and he leaned in to kiss me. 249 00:12:24,308 --> 00:12:27,747 And I remember just leaning back, trying to get away, 250 00:12:27,834 --> 00:12:30,662 and he kissed my forehead. 251 00:12:30,793 --> 00:12:33,100 I was just repulsed. 252 00:12:33,230 --> 00:12:34,928 I did not want him to kiss me. 253 00:12:35,058 --> 00:12:36,973 I wanted to get the hell out of there. 254 00:12:37,060 --> 00:12:38,496 But it felt violating. 255 00:12:38,583 --> 00:12:40,760 It just felt violating. 256 00:12:40,847 --> 00:12:44,546 And that was that moment of, wow, 257 00:12:44,676 --> 00:12:46,504 he's letting me know he can do what he wants, 258 00:12:46,635 --> 00:12:49,812 and he can break that restraining order if he wants. 259 00:12:49,899 --> 00:12:53,555 This actually doesn't protect me at all. 260 00:12:53,642 --> 00:12:55,905 Well, what happens if he shows up at my house? 261 00:12:55,992 --> 00:12:58,647 By the time I call 911, is someone going to be here? 262 00:12:58,734 --> 00:13:00,040 Like, what if he does something? 263 00:13:00,170 --> 00:13:02,477 ♪ ♪ 264 00:13:06,394 --> 00:13:08,613 [suspenseful music] 265 00:13:08,700 --> 00:13:11,268 - I was still fresh out of this marriage 266 00:13:11,399 --> 00:13:13,836 and I was still processing everything, 267 00:13:13,923 --> 00:13:16,621 so I didn't know at that point what he was capable of. 268 00:13:16,752 --> 00:13:19,799 But Athena did. 269 00:13:19,886 --> 00:13:23,454 - I was worried for Amber because 270 00:13:23,541 --> 00:13:26,849 when you do go to leave Brandon and break up with Brandon, 271 00:13:26,980 --> 00:13:31,549 there's definitely a switch that flips. 272 00:13:31,680 --> 00:13:36,990 That is when he escalates and the stalking begins. 273 00:13:37,077 --> 00:13:39,862 When Brandon and I got divorced, 274 00:13:39,949 --> 00:13:43,257 I had to get a temporary protection order against him. 275 00:13:43,344 --> 00:13:48,479 I naively thought that getting the protection order 276 00:13:48,566 --> 00:13:50,046 would help me. 277 00:13:50,090 --> 00:13:51,743 It was clear he didn't care. 278 00:13:51,874 --> 00:13:55,747 Brandon did not care about that piece of paper. 279 00:13:55,790 --> 00:14:00,448 - When you reject Brandon, it's not really you that he wants, 280 00:14:00,578 --> 00:14:03,538 it's control. 281 00:14:03,581 --> 00:14:05,279 He wants to control you. 282 00:14:07,368 --> 00:14:11,154 And we discovered that this has happened with not only 283 00:14:11,285 --> 00:14:12,634 us, but multiple other women. 284 00:14:17,204 --> 00:14:20,772 - As a hairstylist, I see hundreds of women a year, 285 00:14:20,860 --> 00:14:22,470 and they tell me everything. 286 00:14:22,557 --> 00:14:26,387 I absolutely warn them to be on the lookout for Brandon. 287 00:14:26,517 --> 00:14:29,999 I tell them that they should run for their life. 288 00:14:32,915 --> 00:14:36,266 I dated Brandon Johnson in 2006. 289 00:14:36,353 --> 00:14:39,922 Brandon was very intense and almost immediately 290 00:14:40,009 --> 00:14:42,185 told me that he loved me. 291 00:14:42,272 --> 00:14:44,840 And I believe Brandon tells you everything 292 00:14:44,927 --> 00:14:47,625 that you want to hear as fast as he 293 00:14:47,712 --> 00:14:51,412 can so that you are hooked. 294 00:14:52,369 --> 00:14:53,675 - Ah! 295 00:14:53,762 --> 00:14:56,852 - For the most part, he's very charming. 296 00:14:56,983 --> 00:14:59,072 But if you, God forbid, break up with him, 297 00:14:59,159 --> 00:15:02,510 then he is vindictive, spiteful. 298 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,686 He wants to punish you. 299 00:15:04,773 --> 00:15:06,514 - Stop, stop! - You need help. 300 00:15:06,601 --> 00:15:07,558 - Stop, please! 301 00:15:07,645 --> 00:15:09,299 Just stop talking! 302 00:15:09,430 --> 00:15:11,519 God! 303 00:15:11,606 --> 00:15:15,610 - When I broke up with Brandon, he just seemed to be furious. 304 00:15:15,653 --> 00:15:18,265 Brandon would show up at my work, 305 00:15:18,352 --> 00:15:20,658 at my home where I lived alone. 306 00:15:20,789 --> 00:15:24,967 He was coming to bars that I went to 307 00:15:25,054 --> 00:15:26,969 after work with my coworkers. 308 00:15:27,056 --> 00:15:29,972 He was so persistent. 309 00:15:30,103 --> 00:15:31,626 And he's huge. 310 00:15:31,756 --> 00:15:35,108 I mean, he's a big guy, over a foot taller than me. 311 00:15:35,195 --> 00:15:38,198 I had specifically asked him to stop contacting me, 312 00:15:38,285 --> 00:15:40,852 and he was still showing up everywhere. 313 00:15:40,896 --> 00:15:47,555 He was incessantly calling me to the point where I did end up 314 00:15:47,642 --> 00:15:49,209 changing my phone number. 315 00:15:49,296 --> 00:15:50,906 My family was concerned for me. 316 00:15:51,037 --> 00:15:53,648 My co-workers were concerned for me. 317 00:15:53,735 --> 00:15:56,825 Not too long after, I did get back 318 00:15:56,912 --> 00:15:59,610 together with an ex-boyfriend. 319 00:15:59,697 --> 00:16:04,833 He and I were out one night, and Brandon came and found 320 00:16:04,964 --> 00:16:08,880 me and made a huge scene. 321 00:16:08,968 --> 00:16:12,058 Brandon accused me of cheating. 322 00:16:12,101 --> 00:16:16,714 He told me that he was going to fucking kill him 323 00:16:16,845 --> 00:16:19,717 and that I was damaged goods. 324 00:16:19,804 --> 00:16:21,241 You fucked up now. 325 00:16:21,371 --> 00:16:23,460 I'm going to ruin you. 326 00:16:23,591 --> 00:16:28,944 Brandon was completely unhinged, like a caged animal. 327 00:16:29,031 --> 00:16:33,165 Brandon was behaving that way because I had moved on. 328 00:16:33,296 --> 00:16:36,734 He was so jealous and he genuinely 329 00:16:36,821 --> 00:16:39,694 seemed capable of violence. 330 00:16:42,479 --> 00:16:44,394 Years later, Brandon found out that I had 331 00:16:44,481 --> 00:16:47,267 talked to Athena and Amber. 332 00:16:47,354 --> 00:16:49,834 I was at the lobby of this hotel with friends, 333 00:16:49,965 --> 00:16:53,708 and I ran into him. 334 00:16:53,838 --> 00:16:59,540 He proceeded to scream my name, that I was a whore, 335 00:16:59,627 --> 00:17:03,848 that he had explicit pictures of me 336 00:17:03,979 --> 00:17:07,852 and was going to show everybody. 337 00:17:07,939 --> 00:17:10,203 I was really, really scared. 338 00:17:10,290 --> 00:17:13,989 I said, I have nothing to hide, and there aren't any pictures. 339 00:17:14,076 --> 00:17:15,512 I don't know why you're doing this. 340 00:17:15,643 --> 00:17:17,513 I looked around to all of these bystanders 341 00:17:17,601 --> 00:17:20,821 and said, we were in a relationship 10 years ago. 342 00:17:20,909 --> 00:17:26,522 He punched some really thick glass doors. 343 00:17:26,654 --> 00:17:28,134 And he only left me alone when I said, 344 00:17:28,263 --> 00:17:29,787 I'm going to call the police. 345 00:17:29,874 --> 00:17:32,747 I feel like once you've been involved with Brandon, 346 00:17:32,790 --> 00:17:35,184 you're kind of always involved with Brandon. 347 00:17:35,315 --> 00:17:38,622 And he will do anything to continue to torture you, 348 00:17:38,709 --> 00:17:39,971 even from afar. 349 00:17:40,059 --> 00:17:42,539 I had even mentioned to my family 350 00:17:42,626 --> 00:17:45,760 that if I ever went missing, he should be their number 351 00:17:45,803 --> 00:17:47,327 one person to look at. 352 00:17:51,940 --> 00:17:55,683 - After Brandon stalked me onto that freeway that day, 353 00:17:55,813 --> 00:17:59,861 and after talking with Athena and hearing from these women, 354 00:17:59,948 --> 00:18:02,820 I was on fire. 355 00:18:02,907 --> 00:18:05,780 It was just like, fuck him. 356 00:18:05,867 --> 00:18:07,869 Fuck him. 357 00:18:07,956 --> 00:18:13,570 We're going to tell everyone what he did to all of us. 358 00:18:13,701 --> 00:18:18,401 - All of us had the worst experience, 359 00:18:18,532 --> 00:18:20,099 and we wanted to share that, 360 00:18:20,186 --> 00:18:23,189 this is a crazy person. 361 00:18:23,232 --> 00:18:24,320 You can't even think this shit up. 362 00:18:24,364 --> 00:18:26,235 And nobody was helping us. 363 00:18:26,322 --> 00:18:30,718 And we wanted people to know what we were dealing with. 364 00:18:32,546 --> 00:18:35,418 Amber and I knew that we now had 365 00:18:35,505 --> 00:18:40,815 to protect ourselves, our daughter, and now other women. 366 00:18:40,945 --> 00:18:43,339 - We always talk about Brandon being a hurricane, 367 00:18:43,426 --> 00:18:45,515 and you're kind of in the eye of the storm, 368 00:18:45,602 --> 00:18:46,690 and he's circling around you. 369 00:18:46,777 --> 00:18:50,346 And you can't see out, but everyone can see in. 370 00:18:50,390 --> 00:18:52,392 So we wanted to really show what 371 00:18:52,479 --> 00:18:56,744 happens in these toxic, cyclical relationships. 372 00:18:56,831 --> 00:18:59,921 - My daughter, Lexus, she loves podcasts. 373 00:19:00,008 --> 00:19:02,358 And I remember her listening to one, going, huh, 374 00:19:02,402 --> 00:19:04,099 and then Amber says the same thing. 375 00:19:04,186 --> 00:19:05,187 I'm like, we all had the epiphany. 376 00:19:05,318 --> 00:19:08,103 Well, what if we use our voices? 377 00:19:08,190 --> 00:19:10,192 - So we decided to do a podcast. 378 00:19:13,369 --> 00:19:15,066 I was very adamant. 379 00:19:15,197 --> 00:19:17,634 It was just, we're going to have to do it. 380 00:19:17,721 --> 00:19:19,767 And Athena was like, OK, I'm on board, let's go. 381 00:19:19,897 --> 00:19:22,030 Let's do it. 382 00:19:22,073 --> 00:19:26,556 - We had to team up and we had to get to the truth. 383 00:19:26,643 --> 00:19:30,212 And this is how we became "Ex-Wives Undercover." 384 00:19:30,299 --> 00:19:32,171 Hello, everyone, and thank you 385 00:19:32,258 --> 00:19:34,608 for joining us for season one, episode 386 00:19:34,651 --> 00:19:37,132 one of "Ex-Wives Undercover." 387 00:19:37,219 --> 00:19:39,395 - The name "Ex-Wives Undercover," 388 00:19:39,439 --> 00:19:41,310 it just kind of said everything 389 00:19:41,441 --> 00:19:43,094 because you feel like you're an FBI agent 390 00:19:43,138 --> 00:19:44,444 when you're with Brandon. 391 00:19:44,531 --> 00:19:46,228 - You're going to want to buckle up for this one, 392 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,709 because it's got a lot of twists and turns. 393 00:19:48,839 --> 00:19:52,278 We did everything from the ground up. 394 00:19:52,365 --> 00:19:55,194 Women that he chose, he could manipulate. 395 00:19:55,281 --> 00:19:56,934 We built our website. 396 00:19:57,065 --> 00:20:00,808 We bought recording mics off Amazon. 397 00:20:00,895 --> 00:20:02,810 - I'm ex-wife number two, by the way. 398 00:20:02,897 --> 00:20:04,377 This is Amber. 399 00:20:04,507 --> 00:20:06,509 I worked a full-time job, so did Athena. 400 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,773 We spent nights, weekends, every waking moment 401 00:20:09,817 --> 00:20:11,688 was on this podcast. 402 00:20:11,775 --> 00:20:15,388 We'd sit down, get on the mics, and spill our story. 403 00:20:15,475 --> 00:20:16,911 - We were all looking for true love, 404 00:20:17,041 --> 00:20:19,000 but unfortunately, Amber and I married 405 00:20:19,087 --> 00:20:21,872 a very charming sociopath. 406 00:20:21,959 --> 00:20:23,526 Amber and I knew how important it was 407 00:20:23,613 --> 00:20:25,398 to tell our truth no matter what. 408 00:20:25,485 --> 00:20:26,834 You just never know. 409 00:20:26,921 --> 00:20:29,880 - I think the podcast has achieved a lot. 410 00:20:29,967 --> 00:20:33,971 I love that Amber and my mom can be like a leading 411 00:20:34,058 --> 00:20:36,496 light for women. 412 00:20:36,583 --> 00:20:38,411 You might look at them and be like, oh, my God, can't 413 00:20:38,498 --> 00:20:40,413 believe you fell for that. 414 00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:41,544 But you can't fully understand it 415 00:20:41,631 --> 00:20:45,156 or grasp it until you've been in that situation, 416 00:20:45,244 --> 00:20:48,725 or you've watched someone close to you be in it. 417 00:20:48,812 --> 00:20:50,466 I get it, I do. 418 00:20:50,553 --> 00:20:52,599 I really do because I was there. 419 00:20:55,645 --> 00:20:58,082 When I was born, it was just my mom and I. 420 00:20:58,169 --> 00:21:00,955 We were, like, best friends. 421 00:21:00,998 --> 00:21:05,046 Then Brandon came along. 422 00:21:05,133 --> 00:21:07,396 I was seven years old. 423 00:21:07,483 --> 00:21:08,919 I was a child. 424 00:21:08,963 --> 00:21:13,576 He treated me like I was a competitor, 425 00:21:13,707 --> 00:21:15,970 almost, like I was a threat. 426 00:21:16,013 --> 00:21:17,798 He would get mad at me if I sat next to her 427 00:21:17,885 --> 00:21:21,541 in a booth at a restaurant. 428 00:21:21,628 --> 00:21:24,021 He used to take my stuff and he would hide it. 429 00:21:24,108 --> 00:21:27,242 His reactions were crazy. 430 00:21:27,373 --> 00:21:30,114 I mean, you could, like, trip, and he would yell at you. 431 00:21:32,726 --> 00:21:35,772 - Lexi, she was robbed of so much. 432 00:21:35,859 --> 00:21:37,426 Yeah. 433 00:21:37,513 --> 00:21:40,124 Sorry, it makes me emotional about that one. 434 00:21:44,477 --> 00:21:47,393 Her dad left, and then Brandon stepped in, 435 00:21:47,436 --> 00:21:48,785 and he thought it would be fine because this 436 00:21:48,872 --> 00:21:50,483 was the new boyfriend. 437 00:21:50,570 --> 00:21:54,269 And then he never was loving towards her. 438 00:21:54,356 --> 00:21:57,664 And she was robbed of that. 439 00:21:57,707 --> 00:22:03,060 - He punched a hole in our closet door in the hallway. 440 00:22:03,191 --> 00:22:05,149 It got to the point where it was easier 441 00:22:05,236 --> 00:22:07,935 not to make him mad. 442 00:22:08,022 --> 00:22:10,546 I would worry about my mom all the time, 443 00:22:10,633 --> 00:22:14,245 worry about my safety or hers or my sisters'. 444 00:22:14,376 --> 00:22:19,381 He created a very toxic environment for everybody, 445 00:22:19,512 --> 00:22:22,384 and he just never quits. 446 00:22:22,515 --> 00:22:24,821 He just knows how to ruin lives. 447 00:22:24,952 --> 00:22:27,563 He's good at it. 448 00:22:27,650 --> 00:22:29,260 - It was awful. It was awful. 449 00:22:29,391 --> 00:22:32,655 And after that, I knew that took a piece-- 450 00:22:32,786 --> 00:22:34,657 that definitely took a piece of me. 451 00:22:34,744 --> 00:22:37,356 - I think the main hope for all of the podcasts 452 00:22:37,443 --> 00:22:39,270 is that it will help people become 453 00:22:39,401 --> 00:22:43,449 more aware of the red flags in a new relationship. 454 00:22:43,579 --> 00:22:47,061 It's safer for everyone. 455 00:22:47,148 --> 00:22:50,804 - As the podcast grew and had a further reach, 456 00:22:50,891 --> 00:22:53,328 then more and more people would come out, even 457 00:22:53,415 --> 00:22:55,417 more victims of Brandon's. 458 00:22:55,504 --> 00:22:57,811 I would say, on a weekly basis, I 459 00:22:57,898 --> 00:23:01,945 was being contacted by different women, 460 00:23:02,032 --> 00:23:05,471 people in the legal system, women in other states. 461 00:23:05,514 --> 00:23:07,603 - He's going to lie until the day he dies. 462 00:23:07,690 --> 00:23:10,606 It was really gratifying to see that our story 463 00:23:10,693 --> 00:23:13,043 was resonating to women. 464 00:23:13,130 --> 00:23:16,786 And then we got a message from a woman named Kelly who 465 00:23:16,873 --> 00:23:17,961 kind of changed everything. 466 00:23:18,005 --> 00:23:23,489 ♪ 467 00:23:23,576 --> 00:23:27,884 - So one of my friends, she sends me a message. 468 00:23:27,971 --> 00:23:30,539 And she's like, oh, my gosh, have you seen this? 469 00:23:30,626 --> 00:23:33,542 There's this podcast, and it's called "Ex-Wives Undercover." 470 00:23:33,629 --> 00:23:36,240 And I'm like, OK, whatever, these two women. 471 00:23:36,327 --> 00:23:39,156 And my friend had said, that's Brandon. 472 00:23:39,287 --> 00:23:40,897 I was like, no way. 473 00:23:40,984 --> 00:23:44,814 So then I started listening and listening, and I was just-- 474 00:23:44,901 --> 00:23:46,555 I was appalled. 475 00:23:46,642 --> 00:23:50,254 And the time that it became really real for me 476 00:23:50,341 --> 00:23:54,041 is when there was audio clips of his voice. 477 00:23:54,128 --> 00:23:57,958 And there's one in particular where he is in a car. 478 00:23:58,088 --> 00:23:58,959 He's like-- 479 00:23:59,089 --> 00:23:59,960 - Stop, please! 480 00:24:00,090 --> 00:24:02,658 - --just stop talking! 481 00:24:02,745 --> 00:24:04,921 And that's when it really hit me. 482 00:24:05,008 --> 00:24:06,314 I'm like, oh, my gosh, this really is. 483 00:24:06,445 --> 00:24:08,011 This is for real. 484 00:24:08,142 --> 00:24:10,100 And everything came back and spiraled back for me. 485 00:24:10,187 --> 00:24:13,582 I still can visualize what his eyes looked like when 486 00:24:13,713 --> 00:24:15,323 he was saying those things. 487 00:24:15,410 --> 00:24:19,806 It really was the worst part of my life. 488 00:24:19,936 --> 00:24:24,680 ♪ ♪ 489 00:24:24,767 --> 00:24:28,336 I was Brandon's first serious girlfriend. 490 00:24:28,423 --> 00:24:31,426 I started dating Brandon in 1992. 491 00:24:31,557 --> 00:24:35,386 We dated for three years, so that was when I 492 00:24:35,430 --> 00:24:39,869 was 14, 15, and 16 years old. 493 00:24:39,956 --> 00:24:43,003 We went to high school in Aberdeen, Washington. 494 00:24:43,090 --> 00:24:47,311 In that time, Aberdeen was just-- we're a small town, 495 00:24:47,398 --> 00:24:49,705 old logging community. 496 00:24:49,792 --> 00:24:53,230 A lot of people know Aberdeen for being Nirvana. 497 00:24:53,361 --> 00:24:56,407 Kurt Cobain actually went to Aberdeen High School, which is 498 00:24:56,538 --> 00:24:58,975 where Brandon and I both went. 499 00:24:59,062 --> 00:25:03,153 I was super just attracted to Brandon's personality. 500 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:04,285 He was outgoing. 501 00:25:04,372 --> 00:25:05,329 He was loud. 502 00:25:05,416 --> 00:25:07,244 He liked me. 503 00:25:07,331 --> 00:25:09,986 You just fall into that trap of, oh, my gosh, 504 00:25:10,030 --> 00:25:12,859 this guy picks me. 505 00:25:12,946 --> 00:25:15,949 Day one started out amazing, and probably 506 00:25:16,036 --> 00:25:19,474 four or five months in, it just got extremely chaotic. 507 00:25:19,561 --> 00:25:21,476 He didn't want me out of his sight. 508 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,696 He always wanted to be around me. 509 00:25:23,783 --> 00:25:25,436 Didn't want me talking to anybody, 510 00:25:25,524 --> 00:25:28,309 and only because, you know, I was his. 511 00:25:28,439 --> 00:25:29,528 But there was times when I really 512 00:25:29,615 --> 00:25:32,052 wanted to be with just my friends, 513 00:25:32,182 --> 00:25:34,315 but that wasn't really allowed. 514 00:25:34,402 --> 00:25:36,273 He always had to be there because he 515 00:25:36,360 --> 00:25:38,667 didn't want me to be alone. 516 00:25:38,711 --> 00:25:40,843 So I lost a lot of those relationships during that time. 517 00:25:43,498 --> 00:25:45,935 He was definitely obsessed with gaining muscle. 518 00:25:46,022 --> 00:25:48,590 It was really every day having to lift. 519 00:25:51,288 --> 00:25:55,292 He talked to me about being bullied for being overweight. 520 00:25:55,336 --> 00:25:59,209 And when he was younger, he said he saw people in his life 521 00:25:59,296 --> 00:26:03,910 be abused, that he wanted to be strong enough to protect. 522 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:08,697 It is interesting how he says he wants to protect women, 523 00:26:08,784 --> 00:26:11,831 but he really wanted to control. 524 00:26:11,918 --> 00:26:14,964 He insisted he walked me to every single class. 525 00:26:15,051 --> 00:26:18,315 And if there was a time that I didn't want to kiss him, 526 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,318 or I didn't want to hold his hand on the way to class, 527 00:26:21,449 --> 00:26:27,281 he would push me up against the wall and yell at me. 528 00:26:27,368 --> 00:26:31,198 He would, you know, tell me that I was overweight, 529 00:26:31,285 --> 00:26:33,679 the colors that I could and couldn't wear, 530 00:26:33,766 --> 00:26:35,942 not wearing purple, you look ugly in that, 531 00:26:36,029 --> 00:26:38,858 that I wasn't good enough to be a cheerleader. 532 00:26:38,945 --> 00:26:42,949 He just made me feel so incredibly small. 533 00:26:43,036 --> 00:26:45,821 Eventually, when I tried to break up with him, 534 00:26:45,908 --> 00:26:48,128 he wouldn't let me. 535 00:26:48,215 --> 00:26:51,000 It was if you break up with me, I'm going to kill myself. 536 00:26:51,087 --> 00:26:52,872 I felt helpless. 537 00:26:52,959 --> 00:26:59,400 I tried to leave him numerous times, and it took a lot. 538 00:27:01,924 --> 00:27:04,884 He would stalk me and sit in front of my house. 539 00:27:04,971 --> 00:27:08,278 And my parents had to put a video camera outside my bedroom 540 00:27:08,365 --> 00:27:10,367 window to shine down on my car to see 541 00:27:10,498 --> 00:27:13,327 what he was going to do. 542 00:27:13,414 --> 00:27:16,852 If somebody, especially a guy, ever picked me up in the car, 543 00:27:16,983 --> 00:27:19,072 he would follow us down the road in his truck. 544 00:27:19,159 --> 00:27:24,555 But there was always this stalking, crazy behavior. 545 00:27:24,643 --> 00:27:28,559 I'll tell you right now, like, when trauma happens to you, 546 00:27:28,647 --> 00:27:31,345 there's things that never leave your head. 547 00:27:31,432 --> 00:27:32,825 So I reached out through the podcast 548 00:27:32,912 --> 00:27:35,305 and I'm like, oh, my gosh, I know this guy. 549 00:27:35,392 --> 00:27:37,394 He never stopped. 550 00:27:37,525 --> 00:27:38,961 And it just got worse. 551 00:27:39,092 --> 00:27:41,355 I do believe that it almost became 552 00:27:41,442 --> 00:27:43,444 addictive behavior for him. 553 00:27:45,881 --> 00:27:50,059 - Hearing from Kelly makes you think, oh, oh, my gosh, 554 00:27:50,146 --> 00:27:52,279 you know, this isn't an adult Brandon thing. 555 00:27:52,366 --> 00:27:54,411 This started well before me, Athena, 556 00:27:54,498 --> 00:27:56,849 or any of the other women. 557 00:27:56,979 --> 00:28:00,243 There was certainly a risk to doing the podcast, 558 00:28:00,330 --> 00:28:03,116 but you should have a right to know if the person that you're 559 00:28:03,203 --> 00:28:05,422 dating is dangerous or not. 560 00:28:05,466 --> 00:28:08,338 - It's hard. It drives you crazy. 561 00:28:08,425 --> 00:28:11,472 - We knew that Brandon wasn't a listener of podcasts, 562 00:28:11,602 --> 00:28:15,258 so we knew that we'd be safe for a little while anyways. 563 00:28:15,345 --> 00:28:18,522 - As soon as Brandon really caught on to the podcast, 564 00:28:18,609 --> 00:28:21,787 I believe that people from his hometown started reaching out. 565 00:28:21,830 --> 00:28:23,832 He is losing his mind. 566 00:28:23,919 --> 00:28:29,272 - I was scared because when he's pushed up against a wall, 567 00:28:29,403 --> 00:28:34,408 I think that he's going to crack and explode. 568 00:28:34,495 --> 00:28:38,020 - He is now not in control. 569 00:28:38,107 --> 00:28:40,719 We had to deal with repercussions to that. 570 00:28:40,806 --> 00:28:42,633 - Brandon was beyond pissed. 571 00:28:42,721 --> 00:28:46,812 He absolutely tried to stop the podcast. 572 00:28:46,855 --> 00:28:49,597 - He sends a cease and desist letter 573 00:28:49,728 --> 00:28:52,382 to try and shut us down. 574 00:28:52,469 --> 00:28:53,775 - It's scary. 575 00:28:53,819 --> 00:28:56,473 And we didn't know what to do. 576 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,476 - And then Brandon pulled out all the stops, 577 00:28:59,607 --> 00:29:02,958 trying to get temporary restraining orders on us. 578 00:29:03,089 --> 00:29:05,961 - We consulted with a First Amendment rights lawyer who 579 00:29:06,092 --> 00:29:09,965 told us we have every right to share our true story, 580 00:29:10,096 --> 00:29:14,013 and that this was a matter of public interest. 581 00:29:14,056 --> 00:29:16,189 - Our attorney and his team, 582 00:29:16,276 --> 00:29:18,539 they did everything to help us, 583 00:29:18,626 --> 00:29:20,846 and we won. 584 00:29:20,933 --> 00:29:23,500 - Immediately, the temporary restraining 585 00:29:23,587 --> 00:29:25,459 orders were thrown out and he was 586 00:29:25,502 --> 00:29:28,375 not able to stop our podcast. 587 00:29:28,505 --> 00:29:34,642 - Brandon's still very angry, so he went for our reputations. 588 00:29:34,729 --> 00:29:37,514 We start being sent screenshots 589 00:29:37,601 --> 00:29:40,300 of Instagram pages 590 00:29:40,387 --> 00:29:47,176 that are tagging us abusing the legal system. 591 00:29:47,307 --> 00:29:53,617 Men against abusive women, where a man is stating 592 00:29:53,704 --> 00:29:56,664 that he is a victim of domestic violence 593 00:29:56,751 --> 00:30:01,147 by his two ex-wives who are out to get him. 594 00:30:01,190 --> 00:30:03,932 It definitely did not take much to uncover 595 00:30:04,019 --> 00:30:07,414 that Brandon was the one who had created all these accounts. 596 00:30:07,544 --> 00:30:12,332 - Accounts basically saying that we are frauds and liars, 597 00:30:12,419 --> 00:30:14,247 stalking him and being obsessed with him. 598 00:30:14,334 --> 00:30:16,902 - Absolutely ludicrous. 599 00:30:16,945 --> 00:30:18,599 Nobody wants to stalk Brandon. 600 00:30:18,686 --> 00:30:20,731 Nobody wants to be around Brandon. 601 00:30:20,819 --> 00:30:24,083 Nobody wants to ever see Brandon again. 602 00:30:24,213 --> 00:30:29,566 ♪ ♪ 603 00:30:29,653 --> 00:30:32,569 - Our fans weren't falling for his BS on those social 604 00:30:32,656 --> 00:30:34,267 media accounts. 605 00:30:34,354 --> 00:30:35,355 - They went into protection mode 606 00:30:35,485 --> 00:30:39,446 and everybody was flagging that account. 607 00:30:39,576 --> 00:30:41,840 - It was crazy to watch him try to, like, flip the script 608 00:30:41,927 --> 00:30:44,103 and be like, I'm the victim. 609 00:30:44,146 --> 00:30:47,062 - I think his ego is so big, 610 00:30:47,193 --> 00:30:49,282 he just thought, everyone's going to see the light. 611 00:30:49,369 --> 00:30:52,415 But we all knew better than that. 612 00:30:52,502 --> 00:30:55,854 - Nobody bought it for a moment. 613 00:30:55,984 --> 00:30:58,900 - But Brandon can never lose. 614 00:30:58,987 --> 00:31:02,077 As well as these slanderous Instagram accounts, 615 00:31:02,208 --> 00:31:05,994 Brandon also got a restraining order on me, 616 00:31:06,081 --> 00:31:09,650 threatening to remove my rights to communicate 617 00:31:09,780 --> 00:31:12,218 with his daughter, Sydney. 618 00:31:12,305 --> 00:31:14,742 Brandon's restraining order on me was thrown out, 619 00:31:14,829 --> 00:31:18,093 but it seemed that, you know, he wasn't scared 620 00:31:18,180 --> 00:31:23,055 to take anyone to court to challenge them. 621 00:31:23,142 --> 00:31:25,709 - He had a lot of representation, 622 00:31:25,796 --> 00:31:27,363 a few different attorneys. 623 00:31:27,407 --> 00:31:32,020 And I just couldn't understand, like, how. 624 00:31:32,151 --> 00:31:34,980 It's a lot of money. 625 00:31:35,067 --> 00:31:37,765 - Every time Brandon and I were together, 626 00:31:37,852 --> 00:31:41,203 he would pay cash for everything. 627 00:31:41,290 --> 00:31:44,990 And he always had a wallet full of crisp $100 bills. 628 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,036 I do remember asking him, in a joking way, 629 00:31:48,167 --> 00:31:50,038 did you just make those this morning? 630 00:31:50,169 --> 00:31:53,694 ♪ ♪ 631 00:31:53,781 --> 00:31:56,653 - Brandon had money for lawyers. 632 00:31:56,740 --> 00:31:58,612 He had money for vacations. 633 00:31:58,655 --> 00:32:00,570 He had money to wine and dine women. 634 00:32:00,657 --> 00:32:02,877 - Like, where was he getting all of this money? 635 00:32:02,964 --> 00:32:07,664 ♪ ♪ 636 00:32:07,795 --> 00:32:11,146 One day, I get a message from my friend, 637 00:32:11,277 --> 00:32:15,324 and she is letting me know that a woman 638 00:32:15,411 --> 00:32:18,240 by the name of Elizabeth had reached out to her. 639 00:32:18,327 --> 00:32:20,373 - Elizabeth thought that the man she was dating 640 00:32:20,460 --> 00:32:23,158 was telling her all kinds of lies, 641 00:32:23,245 --> 00:32:25,247 and it legit sounded like Brandon. 642 00:32:25,378 --> 00:32:28,250 And so she was really concerned. 643 00:32:28,381 --> 00:32:30,339 - Next text that comes through is 644 00:32:30,426 --> 00:32:33,821 an image of a driver's license with Brandon's 645 00:32:33,952 --> 00:32:37,999 picture, Brandon Crane. 646 00:32:38,086 --> 00:32:40,175 Elizabeth asks, is this really him? 647 00:32:40,262 --> 00:32:42,264 And we say, yes, absolutely. 648 00:32:42,308 --> 00:32:45,180 But his last name is not Crane. 649 00:32:45,311 --> 00:32:49,054 - Myself and Athena knew that this is just taking it 650 00:32:49,141 --> 00:32:53,058 to the next level, and that now he's changing his identity 651 00:32:53,145 --> 00:32:56,191 to get what he wants. 652 00:32:56,322 --> 00:32:58,498 Elizabeth absolutely got a red flag from that 653 00:32:58,628 --> 00:33:02,284 and decided to go to the courts and look into him. 654 00:33:02,371 --> 00:33:05,331 - And she finds out everything else, everything 655 00:33:05,461 --> 00:33:08,812 from the past, all of the harassment orders, 656 00:33:08,856 --> 00:33:10,727 stalking orders, DV. 657 00:33:10,814 --> 00:33:13,861 - She goes on to talk about how crazy it was, 658 00:33:13,948 --> 00:33:16,733 how, you know, there's a lot of legal charges 659 00:33:16,864 --> 00:33:18,126 he's facing right now-- 660 00:33:18,170 --> 00:33:22,217 13 counts of felony theft with his employer, 661 00:33:22,348 --> 00:33:24,741 and he's been charged but not sentenced. 662 00:33:24,872 --> 00:33:26,613 She was just talking like Amber and I knew. 663 00:33:26,700 --> 00:33:30,225 And we were like, wait, wait, what? What? 664 00:33:30,312 --> 00:33:32,749 She sends me the court doc. 665 00:33:32,836 --> 00:33:34,534 She had made copies of everything. 666 00:33:34,664 --> 00:33:37,928 - He has his complete criminal history, 667 00:33:37,972 --> 00:33:40,627 and he's, you know, up for embezzling money 668 00:33:40,670 --> 00:33:42,716 from an employer. 669 00:33:42,759 --> 00:33:43,804 I've never heard of this. 670 00:33:43,891 --> 00:33:45,675 This is wild. 671 00:33:45,762 --> 00:33:47,025 - And I was just like, what the fuck? 672 00:33:47,112 --> 00:33:50,115 ♪ ♪ 673 00:33:53,857 --> 00:33:56,643 [suspenseful music] 674 00:33:56,730 --> 00:33:59,167 - At one point during our time together, 675 00:33:59,298 --> 00:34:00,951 Brandon had a really good job in tech. 676 00:34:01,082 --> 00:34:05,782 He was an HR recruiter at HTC, a mobile phone company. 677 00:34:05,913 --> 00:34:10,309 I knew he made a really good living, but not that good. 678 00:34:10,396 --> 00:34:14,226 - I started to work at HTC in 2015. 679 00:34:14,313 --> 00:34:16,010 As an attorney, if you want to be 680 00:34:16,097 --> 00:34:18,360 in a more fast-paced, interesting environment, 681 00:34:18,491 --> 00:34:20,232 tech is the place to be. 682 00:34:20,319 --> 00:34:23,235 The first time I met Brandon was in-- I think 683 00:34:23,322 --> 00:34:26,194 it was the employee Christmas party. 684 00:34:26,237 --> 00:34:29,545 We randomly got paired up on a bowling team. 685 00:34:29,589 --> 00:34:31,504 Brandon seemed like a nice person, 686 00:34:31,547 --> 00:34:33,679 very private in the office. 687 00:34:33,766 --> 00:34:36,378 I don't know that he had a lot of friends. 688 00:34:36,465 --> 00:34:39,293 Being a recruiter, he could work from other places. 689 00:34:39,380 --> 00:34:40,904 I mean, he was working mostly with people 690 00:34:40,991 --> 00:34:44,734 outside the company, like, recruiting employees. 691 00:34:44,821 --> 00:34:49,304 I think it was in fall of 2018 when someone in finance 692 00:34:49,348 --> 00:34:53,264 came to the legal department at HTC, 693 00:34:53,351 --> 00:34:56,311 and they noticed something strange with the contracts. 694 00:34:56,398 --> 00:34:59,749 The contract was to increase the recruitment fees 695 00:34:59,793 --> 00:35:04,102 for this company Softnet. 696 00:35:04,189 --> 00:35:05,929 Based on what we read in the agreement, 697 00:35:06,016 --> 00:35:07,757 it was an outside recruiting firm, 698 00:35:07,844 --> 00:35:12,458 and they did tech recruiting for kind of skilled positions. 699 00:35:12,588 --> 00:35:14,764 This contract had a problem because it hadn't been 700 00:35:14,808 --> 00:35:16,418 approved, and none of the lawyers 701 00:35:16,462 --> 00:35:18,464 were aware of anyone who had worked on it. 702 00:35:18,551 --> 00:35:21,728 When we saw that it was signed by Brandon Johnson, 703 00:35:21,815 --> 00:35:24,296 that's when some alarm bells started. 704 00:35:24,426 --> 00:35:28,300 Brandon did not have the authority to sign a contract. 705 00:35:28,387 --> 00:35:29,779 They also noticed it was signed 706 00:35:29,910 --> 00:35:34,044 by someone named Barbara. 707 00:35:34,175 --> 00:35:36,743 We decided to really look into this further 708 00:35:36,830 --> 00:35:39,311 and figure out who this company was. 709 00:35:39,398 --> 00:35:41,051 When I first saw the name Softnet, 710 00:35:41,139 --> 00:35:43,619 it sounded like a fake company immediately. 711 00:35:43,706 --> 00:35:45,752 So we went to their website, and, you know, there really 712 00:35:45,839 --> 00:35:47,928 wasn't a lot on the website. 713 00:35:48,015 --> 00:35:50,017 Then we looked at the Secretary of State's office 714 00:35:50,104 --> 00:35:51,932 to see who had registered Softnet, 715 00:35:51,975 --> 00:35:53,890 and we saw Barbara's name. 716 00:35:53,977 --> 00:35:55,588 And that was the same individual 717 00:35:55,631 --> 00:35:58,025 that we saw on the contract. 718 00:35:58,112 --> 00:36:00,070 We went to Barbara's LinkedIn page, 719 00:36:00,201 --> 00:36:04,684 and we noticed that she had, like, only a few connections. 720 00:36:04,771 --> 00:36:06,686 We thought that was extremely odd because, you know, 721 00:36:06,816 --> 00:36:08,905 a recruiter and especially a CEO would probably 722 00:36:08,992 --> 00:36:10,603 have hundreds of connections. 723 00:36:11,865 --> 00:36:14,128 And we went to social media 724 00:36:14,215 --> 00:36:17,044 and found her social media page. 725 00:36:17,131 --> 00:36:18,654 We started looking through her pictures, 726 00:36:18,741 --> 00:36:21,179 and we noticed that she commented on photos of Brandon 727 00:36:21,266 --> 00:36:23,442 and referred to Brandon as her son. 728 00:36:29,230 --> 00:36:30,188 At the very least, what we have here 729 00:36:30,231 --> 00:36:31,493 is a conflict of interest 730 00:36:31,624 --> 00:36:34,366 because Brandon's doing business with his mom 731 00:36:34,496 --> 00:36:37,369 and he's signing contracts with his mom. 732 00:36:37,456 --> 00:36:39,284 So we call Brandon in for a meeting 733 00:36:39,414 --> 00:36:42,069 and we ask him who Softnet is. 734 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:43,375 He said they were a company that did 735 00:36:43,462 --> 00:36:45,377 stellar recruiting services. 736 00:36:45,507 --> 00:36:46,813 Brandon definitely looked nervous. 737 00:36:46,943 --> 00:36:48,206 He was talking fast. 738 00:36:48,249 --> 00:36:50,164 I think he was pretty surprised 739 00:36:50,251 --> 00:36:52,471 to be questioned about this. 740 00:36:52,558 --> 00:36:55,909 Then we asked him if he knew who Barbara was, 741 00:36:55,952 --> 00:36:57,606 and he said he didn't. 742 00:36:57,693 --> 00:37:00,609 So then we gave him the contract that he had signed 743 00:37:00,696 --> 00:37:02,655 and we said, it says right there, Barbara. 744 00:37:02,742 --> 00:37:07,094 And he goes, oh, well, she's a recruiter for Softnet. 745 00:37:07,137 --> 00:37:09,575 Then we presented him with the social media page 746 00:37:09,662 --> 00:37:11,968 from Barbara that showed that she was referring 747 00:37:12,099 --> 00:37:16,843 to him as her son, and he 748 00:37:16,930 --> 00:37:18,845 knew he was caught at that point, I think. 749 00:37:18,932 --> 00:37:22,979 He said, oh, well, she changed her name. 750 00:37:23,110 --> 00:37:24,154 Sorry, I got confused. 751 00:37:24,242 --> 00:37:25,895 It was insane. 752 00:37:25,982 --> 00:37:29,116 Like, you pretend to not know your mom. 753 00:37:29,203 --> 00:37:31,858 We collected his laptop and his badge. 754 00:37:31,945 --> 00:37:35,688 Meeting was pretty much over at that point. 755 00:37:35,775 --> 00:37:40,040 It looked like, you know, he was kind of happy to just 756 00:37:40,083 --> 00:37:43,348 be fired maybe at this point. 757 00:37:43,478 --> 00:37:46,742 And it seemed like there was obviously 758 00:37:46,829 --> 00:37:49,571 some more stuff going on. 759 00:37:49,702 --> 00:37:51,878 We knew we still had some more digging to do. 760 00:37:51,965 --> 00:37:53,227 We didn't believe that, you know, 761 00:37:53,314 --> 00:37:55,577 these services were legitimate. 762 00:37:55,664 --> 00:37:58,754 We immediately contacted all the people 763 00:37:58,841 --> 00:38:02,802 who we paid fees for. 764 00:38:02,889 --> 00:38:05,805 And we asked them, you know, have you ever heard of Softnet? 765 00:38:05,935 --> 00:38:07,415 Have you ever heard of Barbara? 766 00:38:07,502 --> 00:38:10,418 And pretty much everybody said that they'd 767 00:38:10,505 --> 00:38:11,985 never heard of Softnet. 768 00:38:12,115 --> 00:38:13,856 They'd never met or knew of a Barbara. 769 00:38:13,943 --> 00:38:16,163 And they didn't work with a recruiter. 770 00:38:16,250 --> 00:38:19,427 They applied directly to HTC online. 771 00:38:19,558 --> 00:38:22,778 Softnet was getting paid, and they weren't 772 00:38:22,865 --> 00:38:23,823 actually doing anything. 773 00:38:26,434 --> 00:38:29,263 When Brandon left, we noticed that his computer 774 00:38:29,394 --> 00:38:31,396 had been logged in to a Softnet 775 00:38:31,483 --> 00:38:34,921 email account as Barbara. 776 00:38:35,008 --> 00:38:36,314 Brandon was a liar. 777 00:38:36,401 --> 00:38:38,664 I mean, he was essentially using 778 00:38:38,751 --> 00:38:43,582 his mom as a front to control this company 779 00:38:43,669 --> 00:38:45,671 and embezzle money. 780 00:38:45,758 --> 00:38:50,458 It came to a total of $392,000. 781 00:38:50,545 --> 00:38:51,677 This was fraud. 782 00:38:51,764 --> 00:38:54,767 This was $392,000 in fraud. 783 00:38:54,854 --> 00:38:56,203 It was shocking. 784 00:38:56,290 --> 00:38:59,380 And that's when we went to the police. 785 00:38:59,467 --> 00:39:02,209 - Brandon Johnson came to the attention of my office 786 00:39:02,252 --> 00:39:04,429 because Seattle Police heard that he'd stolen nearly 787 00:39:04,559 --> 00:39:07,083 $400,000 from his employer. 788 00:39:07,214 --> 00:39:09,390 We figured out through search warrants and other things 789 00:39:09,477 --> 00:39:10,826 that, in fact, that money had not 790 00:39:10,870 --> 00:39:12,219 gone to Softnet generally, but to 791 00:39:12,350 --> 00:39:13,786 Brandon Johnson specifically. 792 00:39:13,873 --> 00:39:15,875 He didn't include his mom in the bank accounts. 793 00:39:15,962 --> 00:39:17,529 I mean, I don't know if she knew about it. 794 00:39:17,616 --> 00:39:19,531 We don't really have evidence that she fully 795 00:39:19,618 --> 00:39:21,184 understood what was happening. 796 00:39:21,271 --> 00:39:23,448 And in all cases, the beneficiary 797 00:39:23,578 --> 00:39:24,927 was Brandon Johnson. 798 00:39:25,014 --> 00:39:26,755 It was his money. It was his crime. 799 00:39:26,842 --> 00:39:27,974 It was his scheme. 800 00:39:28,104 --> 00:39:30,846 It was him, him, him. 801 00:39:30,977 --> 00:39:33,501 He was ultimately charged with 13 felony counts 802 00:39:33,588 --> 00:39:36,896 in King County Superior Court in 2019. 803 00:39:36,983 --> 00:39:42,510 - Hearing that it was nearly $400,000, it was shocking. 804 00:39:42,597 --> 00:39:46,035 But it made sense now because we didn't know 805 00:39:46,122 --> 00:39:47,863 how he had this kind of money. 806 00:39:47,950 --> 00:39:50,736 But why isn't he being arrested for all this stuff? 807 00:39:50,823 --> 00:39:54,043 That's the million-dollar question. 808 00:39:54,130 --> 00:39:55,828 - After you're charged with a crime, 809 00:39:55,871 --> 00:39:58,134 especially a white-collar crime like this, 810 00:39:58,221 --> 00:40:01,050 often you are not put immediately into jail. 811 00:40:01,137 --> 00:40:02,095 It's not like a murder. 812 00:40:02,225 --> 00:40:03,444 It's not like a shooting. 813 00:40:03,531 --> 00:40:08,101 You are usually allowed to stay out. 814 00:40:08,231 --> 00:40:10,277 It was a big theft case, but we still 815 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:11,452 need to prove it at trial. 816 00:40:11,539 --> 00:40:13,846 But until that, Brandon Johnson was 817 00:40:13,933 --> 00:40:16,326 free to do whatever he needed to do, as long as he stayed 818 00:40:16,414 --> 00:40:18,807 in touch with his lawyer and came to court appearances 819 00:40:18,938 --> 00:40:20,374 as required. 820 00:40:20,461 --> 00:40:22,115 That is what he did on this case. 821 00:40:24,073 --> 00:40:27,642 - Ugh, that's when I knew 822 00:40:27,729 --> 00:40:29,905 it's not just the stalking of the women, 823 00:40:30,036 --> 00:40:31,124 the domestic violence. 824 00:40:31,254 --> 00:40:34,823 He is all around just-- 825 00:40:34,910 --> 00:40:37,826 he's in deep at this point. 826 00:40:37,957 --> 00:40:40,612 - Myself and Athena had formed very close 827 00:40:40,699 --> 00:40:42,831 relationships with multiple women that had 828 00:40:42,918 --> 00:40:44,398 been involved with Brandon. 829 00:40:44,529 --> 00:40:47,314 We ended up calling ourselves Charlie's Angels 830 00:40:47,357 --> 00:40:49,403 on this text thread between myself 831 00:40:49,490 --> 00:40:51,623 and Athena and several of the women. 832 00:40:51,753 --> 00:40:53,799 So if one of us heard from Brandon, 833 00:40:53,886 --> 00:40:55,714 it was on this group text. 834 00:40:55,801 --> 00:40:58,586 We're comparing stories so he can't get one up on us. 835 00:41:02,938 --> 00:41:07,290 - One night, one of the women who had ended a relationship 836 00:41:07,377 --> 00:41:09,858 with Brandon calls me, and she lets 837 00:41:09,945 --> 00:41:12,513 me know that she feels like she's 838 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,995 being watched, followed, that Brandon's starting 839 00:41:16,082 --> 00:41:18,127 to get a little obsessive. 840 00:41:18,214 --> 00:41:22,828 I believe that Brandon thought he could always get her back. 841 00:41:22,958 --> 00:41:24,917 And when he realized that wasn't going to happen, 842 00:41:25,004 --> 00:41:29,748 you could see the change in him that way. 843 00:41:29,835 --> 00:41:32,359 The woman calls me and lets me know that there's 844 00:41:32,402 --> 00:41:36,058 this video she has, and she wants to send it to me, 845 00:41:36,145 --> 00:41:40,323 and that you can see this man who looks, height-wise, very 846 00:41:40,454 --> 00:41:42,630 similar to Brandon. 847 00:41:42,717 --> 00:41:45,372 You see him bent down behind his vehicle 848 00:41:45,459 --> 00:41:48,593 in front of the house. 849 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:53,772 And suddenly, you can just tell, like, either 850 00:41:53,859 --> 00:41:56,992 the tires are being deflated, but something is definitely 851 00:41:57,036 --> 00:42:00,256 happening to that car. 852 00:42:00,387 --> 00:42:03,477 - So the next day, she had noticed that the brake lines 853 00:42:03,564 --> 00:42:05,697 of that car were cut. 854 00:42:05,784 --> 00:42:11,093 - I can't prove it was Brandon, but it just-- 855 00:42:11,180 --> 00:42:12,225 that scared me. 856 00:42:15,576 --> 00:42:19,275 For months, I had nightmares about me 857 00:42:19,362 --> 00:42:23,802 driving my vehicle with my kids and not being able to brake. 858 00:42:23,932 --> 00:42:27,501 - Whoever cut the brake lines on that car, 859 00:42:27,632 --> 00:42:30,852 he had no thought in the world about harming 860 00:42:30,983 --> 00:42:31,810 an innocent person. 861 00:42:36,031 --> 00:42:39,382 - There were a few of the dates the woman 862 00:42:39,469 --> 00:42:42,081 gave me where she believed she was being watched or followed. 863 00:42:42,168 --> 00:42:43,952 And I was trying to comfort her 864 00:42:44,039 --> 00:42:46,433 by letting her know Brandon has 865 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,306 Sydney, so there's no way that he could, that late at night, 866 00:42:50,393 --> 00:42:52,918 get to your house. 867 00:42:52,961 --> 00:42:55,660 And that's when Sydney opened up and told me 868 00:42:55,747 --> 00:42:58,793 about the late-night drives and how 869 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,404 he'd left her wrapped up in a blanket 870 00:43:01,491 --> 00:43:02,841 in the back of the truck. 871 00:43:02,971 --> 00:43:08,716 To leave a little girl at night by herself alone 872 00:43:08,803 --> 00:43:13,939 while you're stalking your ex-girlfriend 873 00:43:14,026 --> 00:43:15,288 is despicable. 874 00:43:20,075 --> 00:43:23,775 After that incident, I get a phone call from Brandon, 875 00:43:23,862 --> 00:43:25,951 and he's informing me that he's not going 876 00:43:26,038 --> 00:43:27,126 to be able to take Sydney. 877 00:43:27,256 --> 00:43:28,954 he's in a bad place, 878 00:43:29,041 --> 00:43:34,089 and that he decided to take a few days to be alone. 879 00:43:34,133 --> 00:43:38,311 And then Brandon disappeared. 880 00:43:38,398 --> 00:43:42,532 - He pretty much was offline a longer than normal period of 881 00:43:42,620 --> 00:43:44,491 time, and we were concerned. 882 00:43:44,534 --> 00:43:47,537 - If there was any calm or quiet from him, 883 00:43:47,668 --> 00:43:50,323 that meant that something way worse was starting. 884 00:43:50,410 --> 00:43:53,326 Peace was scary when it came to Brandon. 885 00:43:53,413 --> 00:43:56,590 - He is not predictable at this point, 886 00:43:56,721 --> 00:43:58,810 and each week that passes, I feel like he's 887 00:43:58,897 --> 00:44:01,551 just losing it even more. 888 00:44:01,682 --> 00:44:05,555 He has multiple felony charges he's facing right now, 889 00:44:05,686 --> 00:44:09,124 and I have a feeling that Brandon had fled the state 890 00:44:09,168 --> 00:44:10,386 to avoid being arrested. 891 00:44:10,473 --> 00:44:12,780 ♪ ♪ 892 00:44:16,305 --> 00:44:20,179 [suspenseful music] 893 00:44:20,309 --> 00:44:21,920 - A week had passed. 894 00:44:22,007 --> 00:44:24,270 He had not contacted me. 895 00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,185 A few more days go by. 896 00:44:26,272 --> 00:44:28,883 I decide to reach out to any close friends and family, 897 00:44:28,970 --> 00:44:32,191 and nobody has a clue where Brandon is. 898 00:44:32,278 --> 00:44:34,193 - Athena called me up and said, 899 00:44:34,323 --> 00:44:36,848 I'm going to go to his house and see what I can find. 900 00:44:36,935 --> 00:44:39,328 - Sydney asked me to grab a few of her things 901 00:44:39,415 --> 00:44:41,722 that were there since he's MIA. 902 00:44:41,766 --> 00:44:43,637 She had schoolwork, her backpack. 903 00:44:43,724 --> 00:44:48,511 Although I have this five-year no-contact order, 904 00:44:48,642 --> 00:44:50,688 it didn't matter when it came to Brandon 905 00:44:50,818 --> 00:44:53,473 and I sharing custody of our child. 906 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:54,648 We had a parenting plan for Sydney, 907 00:44:54,779 --> 00:44:58,304 and unless we went back to court 908 00:44:58,434 --> 00:45:01,873 and spent another almost full year 909 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,441 redoing the parenting plan, he still had access to her. 910 00:45:09,010 --> 00:45:11,230 - I just said, please be careful. 911 00:45:11,317 --> 00:45:12,971 I don't know what you're going to walk into. 912 00:45:16,017 --> 00:45:20,587 - I look through the house, I call out. 913 00:45:20,674 --> 00:45:22,023 I go upstairs. 914 00:45:24,460 --> 00:45:27,289 I check the rooms. 915 00:45:27,376 --> 00:45:29,030 He's not there. 916 00:45:29,117 --> 00:45:33,556 ♪ ♪ 917 00:45:33,687 --> 00:45:36,211 Walking back down the hallway, there's 918 00:45:36,298 --> 00:45:38,213 all these boxes stacked. 919 00:45:38,300 --> 00:45:43,088 And I thought to myself, did he move? 920 00:45:43,175 --> 00:45:45,264 I went through the garage door just to make sure 921 00:45:45,394 --> 00:45:48,920 he wasn't in there. 922 00:45:49,007 --> 00:45:51,009 I was terrified, walking in, thinking 923 00:45:51,096 --> 00:45:53,881 I was going to find him. 924 00:45:53,968 --> 00:45:59,452 And that's when I saw this crossbow. 925 00:45:59,539 --> 00:46:02,411 - He's not an outdoor guy. 926 00:46:02,455 --> 00:46:06,285 - I think Brandon has never even thought about hunting 927 00:46:06,372 --> 00:46:07,416 a day in his life. 928 00:46:07,547 --> 00:46:09,636 He doesn't do this for sport. 929 00:46:09,723 --> 00:46:13,292 - So that was very unusual. 930 00:46:13,379 --> 00:46:15,729 When we got our five-year no-contacts, 931 00:46:15,816 --> 00:46:19,385 he was not supposed to have any type of firearm or weapon. 932 00:46:19,515 --> 00:46:23,258 And yet here he is with a crossbow. 933 00:46:23,345 --> 00:46:24,956 That's a weapon. 934 00:46:27,306 --> 00:46:29,221 What was his plans with that? 935 00:46:29,351 --> 00:46:32,746 Was that something meant for someone? 936 00:46:32,833 --> 00:46:34,487 And then, of course, we were scared. 937 00:46:34,530 --> 00:46:41,450 ♪ 938 00:46:41,537 --> 00:46:46,412 - So some time goes by, and I get a text message from Dee. 939 00:46:48,240 --> 00:46:51,112 - I was at the gym one evening here in Seattle 940 00:46:51,243 --> 00:46:54,420 and looked over towards the smoothie counter, 941 00:46:54,507 --> 00:47:00,513 and I saw Brandon standing there and had a wave of panic. 942 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,516 It had been a few years since I'd had a run-in with Brandon, 943 00:47:03,603 --> 00:47:06,214 and I felt safe. 944 00:47:06,301 --> 00:47:11,350 Seeing him, I became shaky and scared, and I snapped a picture 945 00:47:11,437 --> 00:47:15,223 and sent it to Athena, and said, is this really him? 946 00:47:15,310 --> 00:47:18,009 I think I was under the impression he had moved. 947 00:47:18,139 --> 00:47:19,880 - I'm seeing this image. 948 00:47:19,967 --> 00:47:23,231 I immediately just-- I felt sick, I felt nauseous. 949 00:47:23,318 --> 00:47:28,454 I was scared because we all believed he had left the city. 950 00:47:28,584 --> 00:47:32,719 That gym is 20 minutes from my house. 951 00:47:32,806 --> 00:47:38,681 - We made eye contact and he looked into my soul, 952 00:47:38,725 --> 00:47:41,206 and I felt very scared and terrified. 953 00:47:41,249 --> 00:47:44,165 And I knew that I had to call the police. 954 00:47:44,252 --> 00:47:47,168 There was no way I could go to my car with him there. 955 00:47:47,255 --> 00:47:51,129 I was certain he would follow me. 956 00:47:51,216 --> 00:47:52,608 When I called the police, I let them 957 00:47:52,695 --> 00:47:54,697 know that I had filed a restraining 958 00:47:54,741 --> 00:47:57,962 order against Brandon and that he had warrants. 959 00:47:58,092 --> 00:47:59,180 - There are a lot of different courts 960 00:47:59,311 --> 00:48:01,008 that have arrest warrants for Brandon Johnson. 961 00:48:01,095 --> 00:48:03,445 He's got three in Washington State. 962 00:48:03,532 --> 00:48:06,796 He had arrest warrants for hit-and-run, 963 00:48:06,884 --> 00:48:08,276 for driving with a license suspended, 964 00:48:08,407 --> 00:48:10,452 and for violating a no-contact order. 965 00:48:10,496 --> 00:48:12,846 In addition to that, we're looking to talk to him about 966 00:48:12,933 --> 00:48:15,718 stealing $392,000 from HTC. 967 00:48:15,762 --> 00:48:17,982 [indistinct police radio chatter] 968 00:48:18,069 --> 00:48:22,725 - They showed up with, I believe, six cop cars, 969 00:48:22,769 --> 00:48:24,902 including a K-9 unit. 970 00:48:24,945 --> 00:48:28,122 They located his truck, which was empty, and searched 971 00:48:28,253 --> 00:48:30,559 the premises inside and out, and said 972 00:48:30,646 --> 00:48:33,127 he had taken off on foot. 973 00:48:33,214 --> 00:48:36,565 And they were unable to locate him that night. 974 00:48:36,696 --> 00:48:38,654 - The fact that he'd come back, I 975 00:48:38,741 --> 00:48:40,830 was scared because I knew that he 976 00:48:40,874 --> 00:48:43,181 was in close proximity to me. 977 00:48:43,311 --> 00:48:46,314 And when you add in your family and your children, 978 00:48:46,401 --> 00:48:48,577 it takes it up to a whole different level. 979 00:48:48,664 --> 00:48:50,405 They're my world. 980 00:48:50,492 --> 00:48:53,713 And he is not predictable at this point, 981 00:48:53,756 --> 00:48:58,544 and that alone is terrifying. 982 00:48:58,631 --> 00:49:00,415 Some time goes by. 983 00:49:00,546 --> 00:49:03,244 Our 12-year-old daughter, Sydney, does ask me 984 00:49:03,375 --> 00:49:05,768 about her father picking her up from school. 985 00:49:05,855 --> 00:49:08,858 I find out that Brandon was texting her. 986 00:49:08,946 --> 00:49:11,035 And that's where you'll see that the family 987 00:49:11,165 --> 00:49:13,733 laws and the criminal laws coming together, 988 00:49:13,776 --> 00:49:15,561 there is a complete breakdown there. 989 00:49:15,604 --> 00:49:20,348 So my now ex-husband, Brandon, has threatened to kill me. 990 00:49:20,435 --> 00:49:22,698 He has warrants out for his arrest. 991 00:49:22,785 --> 00:49:25,527 He has multiple domestic violence orders 992 00:49:25,614 --> 00:49:28,966 from multiple women, and yet he can fully 993 00:49:29,053 --> 00:49:30,445 have access to our daughter. 994 00:49:30,532 --> 00:49:34,101 It is outrageous. 995 00:49:34,188 --> 00:49:37,104 I previously had called the police prior, 996 00:49:37,191 --> 00:49:40,107 you know, and they straight told me it doesn't matter. 997 00:49:40,194 --> 00:49:41,761 They don't override one another. 998 00:49:41,848 --> 00:49:42,805 And you'll have to actually just get a court date 999 00:49:42,892 --> 00:49:43,981 and go back in. 1000 00:49:44,068 --> 00:49:45,939 And again, I'm thinking to myself, 1001 00:49:46,026 --> 00:49:47,419 what are these documents for? 1002 00:49:47,549 --> 00:49:50,161 What are these court orders for if they 1003 00:49:50,204 --> 00:49:51,336 don't really do anything? 1004 00:49:51,379 --> 00:49:53,512 They don't protect. They don't mean anything. 1005 00:49:53,599 --> 00:49:57,951 I am aware that Brandon has a suspended driver's license. 1006 00:49:58,038 --> 00:50:01,389 Therefore, I told her the only way that would happen 1007 00:50:01,476 --> 00:50:04,740 is if somebody else was driving the vehicle. 1008 00:50:04,827 --> 00:50:06,264 I asked her that morning when she went to school 1009 00:50:06,351 --> 00:50:08,353 if she had heard anything from her father. 1010 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:09,789 She said no. 1011 00:50:09,876 --> 00:50:11,921 I said, OK, then you'll be taking the bus home 1012 00:50:12,009 --> 00:50:13,923 and I'll see you when you get home. 1013 00:50:14,011 --> 00:50:15,447 Sydney never arrived home. 1014 00:50:15,577 --> 00:50:21,540 ♪ ♪ 1015 00:50:21,670 --> 00:50:25,196 I got a text message from her that said that her father did 1016 00:50:25,326 --> 00:50:26,849 pick her up. 1017 00:50:26,936 --> 00:50:30,331 I say, who's driving? 1018 00:50:30,418 --> 00:50:32,116 And she says, dad's driving. 1019 00:50:35,380 --> 00:50:39,036 That's when I call the Bothell PD. 1020 00:50:39,123 --> 00:50:43,083 They are 100% on board and they want to arrest him. 1021 00:50:43,214 --> 00:50:44,780 From there, I jump on a call with Amber 1022 00:50:44,867 --> 00:50:45,825 to tell her what's going on. 1023 00:50:45,912 --> 00:50:47,522 I'm nervous. I'm scared. 1024 00:50:47,609 --> 00:50:50,221 Sydney is not responding to any of my text messages now. 1025 00:50:50,351 --> 00:50:52,571 So it's all of us in communication. 1026 00:50:52,701 --> 00:50:57,054 And that's when I suddenly get text messages from Sydney. 1027 00:51:11,372 --> 00:51:13,505 I know my daughter is terrified. 1028 00:51:13,592 --> 00:51:15,028 I know she's scared. - You don't know what to do. 1029 00:51:15,072 --> 00:51:16,029 Do I call the police? 1030 00:51:16,116 --> 00:51:17,813 Do I drive up there now? 1031 00:51:17,900 --> 00:51:20,512 Can I help? What can I do? 1032 00:51:20,599 --> 00:51:23,080 - I was scared for Sydney. 1033 00:51:23,167 --> 00:51:25,169 He always said that nobody would 1034 00:51:25,256 --> 00:51:27,127 ever take his daughter away. 1035 00:51:27,258 --> 00:51:30,609 With everything he had done, now what is he capable of? 1036 00:51:30,739 --> 00:51:35,614 I remember that I have a tracking app on her phone. 1037 00:51:35,701 --> 00:51:39,487 I am on the phone with the police 1038 00:51:39,574 --> 00:51:43,535 and we began to follow her route with her dad. 1039 00:51:43,665 --> 00:51:45,624 - And the police officer says, we're 1040 00:51:45,711 --> 00:51:49,454 going to just pull him over and get to the bottom of this. 1041 00:51:49,541 --> 00:51:52,805 And then it just all took a left turn really quickly. 1042 00:51:52,892 --> 00:51:55,503 [siren wailing] 1043 00:51:55,590 --> 00:52:00,421 - She's saying that Dad's trying to flee from the police. 1044 00:52:00,508 --> 00:52:04,947 - What should have been a simple stop turned into this 1045 00:52:05,078 --> 00:52:06,732 crazy high-speed chase. 1046 00:52:06,819 --> 00:52:08,777 [siren wailing] 1047 00:52:08,908 --> 00:52:11,171 Just when you think you know this person, 1048 00:52:11,302 --> 00:52:13,304 you don't know anything at all. 1049 00:52:13,434 --> 00:52:16,176 - The police are pursuing Brandon, 1050 00:52:16,263 --> 00:52:18,657 you know, at a high speed, 1051 00:52:18,744 --> 00:52:23,314 and they confirm that Sydney is in the passenger seat. 1052 00:52:23,444 --> 00:52:25,794 - Your heart immediately goes to the worst of, 1053 00:52:25,925 --> 00:52:27,405 he's going to get in an accident. 1054 00:52:27,492 --> 00:52:30,886 He's going to hurt and/or kill both of them. 1055 00:52:30,973 --> 00:52:34,412 - He was weaving in and out at high speeds. 1056 00:52:34,542 --> 00:52:36,762 They realized that it was not safe for Sydney, 1057 00:52:36,892 --> 00:52:38,938 so they have no choice but to pull back. 1058 00:52:39,068 --> 00:52:42,550 ♪ ♪ 1059 00:52:42,681 --> 00:52:44,465 I had so many emotions. 1060 00:52:44,552 --> 00:52:46,163 I just wanted to be there with her. 1061 00:52:46,250 --> 00:52:50,471 If I could trade places with her, I would have. 1062 00:52:50,602 --> 00:52:53,518 - For so long we've been trying to say this, 1063 00:52:53,605 --> 00:52:55,955 and no one's hearing us. 1064 00:52:55,998 --> 00:52:58,044 And here's that moment, someone going to die 1065 00:52:58,131 --> 00:52:59,698 before you actually listen? 1066 00:52:59,785 --> 00:53:03,180 Is a child going to die because you wouldn't listen to us? 1067 00:53:03,223 --> 00:53:04,877 - I'm watching on the map. 1068 00:53:04,964 --> 00:53:07,619 And then there's a point where they're by the railroad tracks 1069 00:53:07,749 --> 00:53:10,578 and the dot stopped moving. 1070 00:53:10,709 --> 00:53:11,840 Amber was freaking out. 1071 00:53:11,927 --> 00:53:13,668 I was freaking out. 1072 00:53:13,799 --> 00:53:17,890 I've always had this feeling that if he's going down, 1073 00:53:17,977 --> 00:53:20,197 he's going to take her to punish me. 1074 00:53:20,327 --> 00:53:21,937 ♪ ♪ 1075 00:53:22,024 --> 00:53:26,377 [crossing bells dinging, train horn blowing] 1076 00:53:26,464 --> 00:53:29,423 Finally, I see that he is moving 1077 00:53:29,510 --> 00:53:33,079 and he's making a loop back. 1078 00:53:33,210 --> 00:53:34,254 All of a sudden, I get a phone call. 1079 00:53:34,341 --> 00:53:35,908 And it's Sydney and she's crying. 1080 00:53:50,270 --> 00:53:54,840 - Just hearing that is heartbreaking. 1081 00:53:54,927 --> 00:53:57,669 - I get a call from my mom telling me that my sister 1082 00:53:57,756 --> 00:54:00,280 called and found out that they were in, like, 1083 00:54:00,367 --> 00:54:02,456 a high-speed police chase. 1084 00:54:02,543 --> 00:54:05,677 At some point, he was able to get off the freeway, 1085 00:54:05,720 --> 00:54:09,811 dropped her off at a Pagliacci Pizza, gave her 10 bucks, 1086 00:54:09,855 --> 00:54:13,380 called her an Uber, and said, go sit inside and wait. 1087 00:54:13,467 --> 00:54:16,775 And Brandon sat across from the store 1088 00:54:16,862 --> 00:54:19,865 and just, like, watched. 1089 00:54:19,995 --> 00:54:23,738 And then from there, she called my mom. 1090 00:54:23,869 --> 00:54:26,263 - He left our 12-year-old daughter after, like, 1091 00:54:26,350 --> 00:54:29,266 going through the horror she just did. 1092 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,010 I have no words for it. 1093 00:54:35,141 --> 00:54:36,621 - What is this? 1094 00:54:36,664 --> 00:54:38,275 - Love it? 1095 00:54:38,362 --> 00:54:41,103 - She will forever have that memory of, 1096 00:54:41,234 --> 00:54:44,324 my dad trying to outrun the police. 1097 00:54:44,455 --> 00:54:47,632 He was supposed to be a safety place for her growing up. 1098 00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:49,242 That's your parent. 1099 00:54:49,329 --> 00:54:52,637 The system had failed us so many times. 1100 00:54:52,724 --> 00:54:54,116 And you're trying to protect this child, 1101 00:54:54,247 --> 00:54:56,902 and you're just hitting roadblocks at every turn. 1102 00:54:59,687 --> 00:55:02,647 And you don't know if this is going to end well. 1103 00:55:05,737 --> 00:55:10,002 - Sydney is texting me. 1104 00:55:10,089 --> 00:55:12,526 I'm driving as fast as I can to get her. 1105 00:55:12,657 --> 00:55:16,661 I pull up, she gets in the car, and I 1106 00:55:16,704 --> 00:55:20,969 just hug her and she's crying. 1107 00:55:21,013 --> 00:55:23,407 We take off from there, and the phone rings and it's her dad. 1108 00:55:23,494 --> 00:55:24,973 And she answers it on speaker. 1109 00:55:25,104 --> 00:55:26,758 And I hear his voice, and everything 1110 00:55:26,845 --> 00:55:30,849 inside of me just wants to scream and yell at him, 1111 00:55:30,936 --> 00:55:32,372 but I can't. 1112 00:55:32,503 --> 00:55:37,986 I have to shut my mouth and safely get us away from there. 1113 00:55:38,073 --> 00:55:44,428 - It really takes a horrible person to do those things. 1114 00:55:44,558 --> 00:55:49,955 - We knew that Brandon was incredibly scary and unhinged. 1115 00:55:50,085 --> 00:55:52,000 - He is a dangerous man. 1116 00:55:52,087 --> 00:55:56,527 And he's everywhere. 1117 00:55:56,614 --> 00:55:59,486 - If Brandon could do what he did with Sydney in the car 1118 00:55:59,573 --> 00:56:02,315 and with the police officers after him, 1119 00:56:02,402 --> 00:56:05,013 I had no idea what he was going to do. 1120 00:56:05,100 --> 00:56:10,192 I just knew something horrific was about to happen. 1121 00:56:10,279 --> 00:56:13,326 - Rachel came to me and told me she 1122 00:56:13,413 --> 00:56:15,154 found a guy that was perfect. 1123 00:56:15,197 --> 00:56:18,853 - I just got a really bad feeling about him. 1124 00:56:18,940 --> 00:56:21,421 - He was following her. 1125 00:56:21,508 --> 00:56:22,770 He had been listening under her bed. 1126 00:56:22,901 --> 00:56:25,425 I think he just took it beyond anything 1127 00:56:25,512 --> 00:56:27,209 that was even imaginable. 1128 00:56:27,253 --> 00:56:28,385 - You will get tased! 1129 00:56:28,515 --> 00:56:30,474 You will get tased! 1130 00:56:30,561 --> 00:56:32,040 Get down on the ground, now! 1131 00:56:32,171 --> 00:56:34,434 - And he was going to stop at nothing. 1132 00:56:34,521 --> 00:56:41,615 ♪ ♪ 87650

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