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I told my wife that I love her!
NARRATOR: Previously...
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And she said it back! Yay!
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..a dinner party
that started with high hopes...
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To love.
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..soon gave way to despair
for some.
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I came into this,
I was open and vulnerable.
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But I am hurt.
Where do I go from here?
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If there's no potential
in this relationship,
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I worry you're going
to get yourself hurt.
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But it was Grace and
Ashley's marriage...
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Everything's gone really sour.
I don't know
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if I'm ever going to be able to see
you in the same light again,
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and you don't seem to care.
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..that lurched into a drastic,
downward spiral.
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This isn't going to go anywhere.
I didn't want this to end this way.
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I can't give any more
to this.
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Tonight...
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Welcome to Wales. Thank you.
..Homestays get under way.
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This is nice. This is
where you'll be sleeping.
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While it's a warm welcome for
some... Oh.
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Hello. You are everything
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that we could have wished for him.
This is a perfect match.
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..others face a much tougher
grilling.
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I struggle to see a future
with Leo outside of the experiment.
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It looks almost
like you've made your mind up.
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She ain't perfect, mate.
Maybe she's not for you.
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And... I have some information
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that I'm going
to have to drop to Nelly.
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..when a scandalous secret is
exposed...
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Oh. Why have you wasted her time
in this experiment?
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You don't respect her,
you don't care about her,
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and you've made her feel like shit.
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..it threatens to detonate Nelly's
marriage to Steven.
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She deserves 100 times better.
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Welcome to Wales.
I know, thank you.
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Are you buzzing to be in Hove?
How does it feel?
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It feels really good.
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Everyone wants to live in Hove.
Is that right?
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Yeah. Trying to convince you to move
down here, that's my plan.
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It's time for the Homestays.
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A key chapter
in each couple's journey.
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Having shared life in the neutral
space of their apartments,
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they'll now experience
each other's real lives.
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I can't believe I know
so much about you,
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but I haven't actually seen where
you live.
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Being in their partner's
world gives a clearer sense of
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what building a life
together could actually look like.
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Last night's dinner party, it
was pretty intense, wasn't it?
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Yeah, it was...
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..obviously, not
the best one for us, really, was it?
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I feel like I am the reason
that things aren't moving forward,
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because Leo
has expressed how much he likes me,
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and apparently I'm his dream woman.
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Home sweet home. Mm!
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But we don't have the emotional
connection there yet, for me.
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We just seem to be seeing
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very different views on this
relationship.
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Very, very different views.
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Me and April had a really tough
dinner party,
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and we're still not in the
best place.
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During the Homestays,
I am hopeful that we can reconnect
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and get that initial spark back
that we did have straight away.
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This week,
being away from the experiment,
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I feel like you're going to see
a different side of me.
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I've very much struggled being
in the apartments
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and around these big groups,
and just being in my home town,
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I feel a lot more comfortable
now, already,
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and if we don't get an emotional
connection after this week,
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then it's probably not going
to be there.
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I agree.
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This week is going
to be really good just
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to see you
in your natural environment.
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I think, for me, there is a bit
of apprehension there
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cos I'd much rather
be going into seeing your friends
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and family, being in a better place.
Obviously, the last time they saw us
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we were at the wedding and everyone,
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everything was really happy
and positive.
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Not quite so much, any more.
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On their wedding day...
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Oh, wow.
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Hi.
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April is definitely my type.
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She's got a beautiful smile.
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I love the mullet.
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..there was an instant
attraction between April and Leo...
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I definitely think he's my type
and I definitely fancy him.
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..which signalled a strong
start to their marriage.
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Pretty much every box that you could
tick from the first impression
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has probably been ticked.
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Oh, God, I'm so happy!
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For me,
I'm just really looking forward
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to having some quality time
with you,
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just the two of us.
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Mm.
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Homestay's make or break for us.
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Now, I'm in the perfect place
to try and turn it around.
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I'm just going to really try
and have fun with her,
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and show a different side to me
that, potentially, she hasn't seen.
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My humble abode. OK, after you.
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Let me go first, I'll open it up.
OK.
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Oh, come on, baby.
Homestays is probably the thing
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I've been looking forward to
the most.
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Makes the whole thing feel so real.
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Here's my little living room.
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Ah, it's nice. Little and sweet.
It feels weird being here.
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I could really imagine Bec
spending weekends
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or weeks down here
and, one day, introduce Bec
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to my gorgeous little daughter,
Bluebelle.
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Are you going to show me
the rest of your flat?
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Yeah? This is it, babe.
No, show me the rest!
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Come on, then. You've got a bedroom.
Where do we sleep?
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Here you are, babe, come see the
bedroom. Oh, this is nice.
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This is where you'll be sleeping.
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Nice white sheets. Yeah.
Bluebelle's section. Ah.
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She's got a few little toys, here.
Is that a little guitar?
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Yeah, here's her little guitar.
That's cute.
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That's so cute. I play,
actually, so I'm... Do you?
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..yeah, I'm teaching her to play.
Oh, go on, then. Go on.
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# Welcome to my house, Bec.
Here... #
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Is that not good? No, it's fine.
So, bedroom.
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Yeah. Pretty much tour done.
Lovely.
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Yeah, it's my little place,
it's only small.
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Bailey's flat is really cute,
but he's not got much stuff.
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He's got no pictures on the walls,
or much furniture, really.
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Could probably do with a little
rinse.
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But I think it's perfect
for what Bailey needs
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at this moment in his life,
before he had me.
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I'm excited now, just to show
you around Hove. Yeah.
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Try and give you a little taste
of what I do,
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like, the normal stuff,
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and convince you to come
down here with me.
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Leigh decided
to stay on her own last night,
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which I don't get why.
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I've called her,
I've messaged her.
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She's ignored me,
she's not replying.
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So, I've travelled all the way
back to Liverpool on my own.
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I'm confused, at this point, as to
why she hasn't come,
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why she needs space.
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I thought that she'd have
more respect for me.
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It is ridiculous.
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I've decided to stay at
the apartments
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rather than going to Leah's home,
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because last night when we went out
for drinks,
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I saw her flirting
with another girl,
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and she decided to stay there,
at the bar, with this girl
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when I left to come home.
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There was no introduction
between me and this girl,
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and she spent the majority of
the time with her,
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so, for me, something just didn't
add up.
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It was just another thing
that I've seen
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that just reiterated to me
that there's no respect there.
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I started to feel like you were
being overly familiar with Rebecca,
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and that's a bit muggy.
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Leigh's fears over what she saw
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as flirty behaviour from wife
Leah...
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Leigh thought I'd come up to you
in a bar and was like,
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"Hey, Rebecca, I fancy you."
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..only grew when Leisha
joined the experiment...
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They're hot. Blue eyes.
Oh, of course you fucking noticed.
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..creating a constant source
of tension in the marriage.
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I'm pissed off.
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I don't feel she's taking
my feelings into consideration.
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I like to meet somebody,
and there's, like, that flirty vibe.
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This is the second time that Leah
has crossed Leigh's boundaries,
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and Leigh's made it clear
that she wants a level of respect
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when it comes to their
communication.
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After seeing the way
that Leah behaved last night,
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that trust between me
and Leah is completely broken.
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I've kept giving her the benefit of
the doubt,
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but how many times can
something happen
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before I look at the situation
for just pure disrespect?
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I don't really want to go and stay
in Leah's house at this point.
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It just doesn't feel right
for me to do that.
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OK, this is it. Oh, wow!
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This is a huge week for me.
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I'm ready for the grand tour.
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I'm back home, and I'm
back home with a wife.
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It feels amazing, really.
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Here we are.
Oh, wow! Oh, this is nice.
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I'm really impressed
with John's apartment.
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It's very clean and tidy,
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but it is nerve-racking,
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because it's really important to me
that this week goes well.
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If John can't see me being here
with his friends
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and family in his living space,
then that's massive.
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Is it weird, me being
in your kitchen?
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It's nice. Can you see me,
like chopping up things and cooking?
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Flipping my pancakes? Yeah.
No, it feels like it should.
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It all feels, like,
even more real now.
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I've been sat on my sofa
as a single man
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for so long and wanted
to be on my sofa with somebody else,
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and I'm just so chuffed
that it's Abi,
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and it's a realisation, like,
"Oh, do you know what?
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"We're getting there.
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"We're getting to what
we want to achieve in life."
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This is the start of the rest
of our life.
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Obviously, I'm so close to my mum,
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and I just want
to show your mum how much
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I do care for you,
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and there is that pressure there,
cos I care about you so much.
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My mum will be happy if I'm happy.
And I'm very, very happy.
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Steven has let me down yet again.
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I said to Steven that
he is more than welcome
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to come to Manchester,
but he said that's something
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that he categorically
doesn't want to do.
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I have heard nothing from Steven,
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not even a, "I hope you made it
back OK."
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It just reiterates to me
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that I'm very insignificant
to Steven.
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It didn't feel right for me
to come to Homestays with Nelly.
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I've got a lot on my mind
at the minute,
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so, I didn't think it was
fair on Nelly
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and her friends and family as well,
to come to a Homestay
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where things just
aren't quite right.
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My head's all over the place.
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I've got some serious thinking to do
about Nelly and I's marriage.
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I'm not looking forward
to telling my friends
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and family that Steven
has decided not to come with me.
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The one person I'm actually
really worried about telling
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is my mum, because she really,
really liked him.
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So, now I'm gonna have
to burst her bubble.
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This isn't how I hoped
my Homestay would be.
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Hi. Hi, oh, my God.
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Oh, my goodness.
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I missed you so much.
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It's so nice to see Nelly back.
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I feel so happy to see her.
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We don't usually go
this long without talking.
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We've all missed her at home,
haven't we?
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Yeah, missed her so much.
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Come on in. Where is Steven?
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Well, come on in, guys.
Would you like a drink?
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Thank you.
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How are you?
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We're good, thank you. We're good
but, more importantly, how are you?
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Where is Steven?
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Yeah, well, about that, he's, erm...
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..decided not to come on Homestays.
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CORK POPS
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What's wrong?
241
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So, last week,
we had a Partner Swap week.
242
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I was with someone called Bailey.
He basically treated me amazing,
243
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which is exactly how you should be
treated in a relationship.
244
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That's right.
245
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Were you just not getting
that before?
246
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Literally, no.
247
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Steven said, well, he's been with
this girl called April,
248
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and that they've had a really
good time.
249
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He's managed to have fun with her,
the fun is back,
250
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and he managed to open up to her.
251
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And it was kind of like, "Well, she
says I am this.
252
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"She says I am that."
253
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So, kind of like,
"Why can't you see it?"
254
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And I'm thinking,
has he been extra attentive to her
255
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when he's not even done
that to me in my marriage
256
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to make her say that?
257
00:12:11,560 --> 00:12:13,640
Well, we, kind of, got a bit of
that vibe
258
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when we had dinner at yours.
259
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You'd ask him a question
and he'd answer it in, like,
260
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four or five different ways.
261
00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:20,600
I'll be honest,
I was really confused.
262
00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,280
So, what we last saw wasn't great.
263
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In my head, I'm thinking, well,
264
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"If you really wanted
to give it one final push,
265
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"you should be here."
266
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I am disappointed
that he hasn't made the effort.
267
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Yeah, I'm really upset.
268
00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,240
You know, it's heartbreaking to...
269
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Don't get upset, Mum.
270
00:12:35,560 --> 00:12:38,600
..it's heartbreaking to see
that my daughter has to go through.
271
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We had a really big hope
272
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that she will find
her soulmate here.
273
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It is not a nice feeling.
274
00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,600
I don't think Steven
is the right person for Nelly.
275
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Do I continue working through it?
Like, do I?
276
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Do I continue or...?
277
00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,720
I think you've tried your hardest,
but you're hitting a brick wall.
278
00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,760
Now, I've seen my mum and brother,
they know what I deserve.
279
00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,880
I feel like I've got a little
bit more clarity.
280
00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:07,160
We want to see you happy.
281
00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,120
He doesn't deserve you.
282
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Not for a partner
and not as a friend.
283
00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:24,880
How's it cooking, good looking?
284
00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,200
It's cooking good.
285
00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,520
My main ambition going into
the Homestays
286
00:13:32,560 --> 00:13:35,280
is just keeping
the positive energy going.
287
00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,840
The real Leo is,
I'm a very extroverted person,
288
00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,960
and being in this
comfortable environment,
289
00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:44,320
it's really going to help me
show April the real me.
290
00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:46,200
Babe, do you want to see some magic?
291
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Erm, OK.
292
00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:51,280
Right, let me show you.
293
00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:53,760
What is this going to be?
294
00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:57,680
Are you ready
for the world-famous...
295
00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,400
I know what it is.
296
00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:00,960
Already, yeah, OK.
297
00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,040
Penis magic.
298
00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:08,720
How's that for you, babe?
299
00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,760
Why is he doing that?
I don't understand.
300
00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,760
Tell me you love me, baby.
301
00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:18,960
Mm. It just makes me wince.
302
00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:20,960
Whoa, whoa!
303
00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:23,520
You're an idiot.
304
00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:25,480
It's not sexy to me. Nope.
305
00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,160
See, now, you know
when you did the penis trick?
306
00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:31,840
Penis magic. This is far more
impressive.
307
00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,160
I should have started with this.
308
00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,360
Yeah, I reckon. Well, well.
309
00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,160
I think April's having a great time.
310
00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,760
It's reassuring to me, because,
I have been making an effort,
311
00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,120
and it's just nice to know
312
00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:45,760
that I'm heading
in the right direction.
313
00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:47,120
She was definitely here for it.
314
00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:54,720
This smells amazing, looks
amazing. You're amazing,
315
00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,880
and I really appreciate
you cooking for me tonight.
316
00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,320
Thank you.
317
00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,720
Holy guacamole!
These fajitas are fire.
318
00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:18,240
I'm gonna get us some kitchen roll.
319
00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:21,800
Fuck's sake.
320
00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,720
Having slept on it last night,
321
00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,600
I've decided to go to
Liverpool today
322
00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,000
and confront Leah.
323
00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,840
I want to find out exactly
what went on with this girl.
324
00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:47,160
To me, it looked suspect.
325
00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,080
If I don't get the answers
that I need today,
326
00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:54,200
and it turns out
that Leah was being disrespectful...
327
00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:58,400
..then, as far as I'm concerned,
the marriage is over.
328
00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,000
Nice of you to
finally turn up.
329
00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,000
Nice of you to finally turn up.
330
00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:25,560
SHE SIGHS
331
00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:29,960
Leigh turning up to my house,
I feel blindsided.
332
00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,160
Why has she not texted me back?
Why has she not called me?
333
00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:34,880
I've just been completely
left in limbo,
334
00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,720
so, yeah, I do want to know
what's been happening.
335
00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:43,400
So...
336
00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:48,840
..when we went out,
I seen you around another girl.
337
00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,160
Mm-hm. It just seemed sus.
338
00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,000
Fucking hell. There's a girl here
339
00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:57,360
that you're spending
a lot of time with,
340
00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,760
you haven't introduced me,
you've wanted to stay out
341
00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,600
with this person
and everybody else is leaving.
342
00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:03,640
Muggy.
343
00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:08,720
So, this is why you've ignored me.
It's a bit of a shit thing to do.
344
00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:11,120
You were sat on a complete
other table over there, away,
345
00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,360
so it wasn't like a case of...
It was right next to you.
346
00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:14,880
..no, it wasn't. It was.
347
00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,800
You were, like, ignoring me
at that point.
348
00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:18,160
I wasn't ignoring you.
You were...
349
00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,920
You'd spoken to the...
..you know you were.
..people that I was with.
350
00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,360
Leah, there was no point of that
night that I was ignoring you.
351
00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,160
I wish you would have told
me earlier, and I would've
352
00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,080
just been able to squash it
and tell you it was nothing.
353
00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:30,560
See, from my side,
354
00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:33,400
I'm literally calling you
all the next day, texting you.
355
00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,240
I'm absolutely none the wiser.
356
00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,200
I think it's all been blown out
of proportion.
357
00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:41,240
She does get in her head,
358
00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,480
and then she gets her back up
because maybe I triggered her,
359
00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:45,520
but she's got nothing to worry
about with this person.
360
00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:46,960
It's ridiculous.
361
00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:54,280
It's so confusing with you
because it's been so like this,
362
00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:55,480
I don't know if I'm coming or going,
363
00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:58,240
and then something happens
that will make you a bit jealous.
364
00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,880
I'm not just, like, a bit jealous.
Time after time,
365
00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,080
boundaries have been crossed,
366
00:18:03,120 --> 00:18:06,280
and I wouldn't feel the way
that I feel if that wasn't the case.
367
00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,240
Was there anything more with you
and that girl? Nothing.
368
00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,360
I felt, a while ago, that I couldn't
really trust Leah any more,
369
00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:21,160
so I'm hoping
that Homestays can help that,
370
00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,560
but I think that's going to take
a lot of work from Leah.
371
00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,640
How are you feeling?
I'm excited. I can't wait.
372
00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,280
How are you feeling?
Yeah, I'm excited.
373
00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,080
A little bit nervous
but I'm excited.
374
00:18:41,120 --> 00:18:43,400
For the first part of his Homestay,
375
00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,720
John is taking wife Abigail
to visit his family.
376
00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:48,400
You gonna give Uncle John
a big hug?
377
00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,880
Yeah. Yeah. So excited to see John.
378
00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,440
It feels like ages
since I've seen him.
379
00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:57,960
Just absolutely beside myself
with excitement.
380
00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,480
Oh. Ah! Hello! How are you?
381
00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:02,800
Hello.
382
00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:08,720
Hi. How are you? Lovely to see you.
And you.
383
00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:10,560
It feels so surreal
being home with Abi.
384
00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:11,880
I've got last-minute nerves.
385
00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,880
Just hoping that the day goes
as we want it to.
386
00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,600
We're so close as a family,
387
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:18,160
so, to know
that I've got their back in,
388
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,040
yeah, it's so big a moment.
389
00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:21,440
That.
390
00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:26,120
Who's that? That's Abi. I'm Abi.
Are you Giovanni?
391
00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,160
Yeah. Yeah. You know
what I'm dying to ask, don't you?
392
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,680
Where was the honeymoon? Seychelles.
393
00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,520
No!
394
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,600
Brilliant. It was, yeah,
395
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,400
It was absolutely stunning,
wasn't it? Yeah.
396
00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:43,160
Proper honeymoon Paradise. It was,
yeah. You both look very happy.
397
00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,160
Yeah,
you both look really well.
398
00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,000
It's been absolutely brilliant.
Oh, good.
399
00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,240
Yeah, everything's just been
incredible,
400
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,560
like, and we take each step, like,
within our stride.
401
00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,840
It's lovely to hear,
that's really nice to hear.
402
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,960
Yeah. Has the L word been said yet?
403
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:07,680
So, after Partner Swap week,
I had a bit of a realisation,
404
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,080
what the hell am I waiting for?
405
00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:11,520
So, I said, "I love you."
406
00:20:15,120 --> 00:20:18,440
Did she say it back?
I did, I did, I did say it back.
407
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,840
Once this experiment finishes,
what's the plan?
408
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,320
You know, it was important to me
that Abi wanted to start a family,
409
00:20:24,360 --> 00:20:25,720
which she does. Mm-hm.
410
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,440
You know, and I
said that I want to start a family.
411
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,800
So, you know, we do want
to get moving as well, don't we?
412
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,720
Oh. Not imminently.
413
00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,040
In the future. In the future.
That's lovely.
414
00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,000
That's lovely to hear.
That's lovely to hear.
415
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:43,040
It's something we both want.
416
00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,520
It's just brilliant to see
you so happy.
417
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,760
You are everything that we could
have wished for, for him.
418
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,080
That's what I want,
I want to be part of your family.
419
00:20:59,120 --> 00:21:01,480
I think the absolute world of John.
420
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:06,880
And it's all down to you all
as well.
421
00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,120
Oh, you OK?
422
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,320
It's just, isn't it so nice to be
in this situation?
423
00:21:13,360 --> 00:21:14,400
Yeah. Yeah.
424
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,960
But he has, honestly,
looked after me as well.
425
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,360
We have been each other's
support network.
426
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,360
Come on, John,
show your sensitive side.
427
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:26,920
Hey!
428
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,360
Abi, welcome. Thank you so much.
Thank you.
429
00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,840
I've never seen John
this happy before.
430
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:38,160
He seems to be beaming
from ear to ear.
431
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:39,840
This is a perfect match.
432
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,240
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
433
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,400
I'm excited
for April to be seeing my friends.
434
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,680
My friends' opinion, it is very,
very important to me.
435
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,200
The last time the boys saw me
436
00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:58,680
and April together was
at our wedding.
437
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,320
It was a really, really good day.
438
00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:02,320
Since then, we've had
some ups and downs,
439
00:22:02,360 --> 00:22:04,760
so it's going to be good
to get some advice from them.
440
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,200
Hello, guys. How are you, mate?
441
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,640
I'm excited to see how
they're getting on.
442
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:14,440
I mean, on the day, I thought they
were a brilliant match.
443
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,480
So, how have things been for you
since the wedding?
444
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,960
For me, it's been very up and down.
445
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:26,000
I very much really liked April,
and during the honeymoon,
446
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,840
we was getting on really,
really well.
447
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:29,800
And, entering the apartment,
448
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,840
it became apparent
that we weren't on the same page.
449
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,440
I'm struggling to build
an emotional connection
450
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:43,080
because we are not talking
in depth about things.
451
00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:46,200
I don't feel like Leo
is very talkative,
452
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,520
and that's a worry for me.
453
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,520
On all levels, or just
on certain subjects?
454
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,600
All levels.
455
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,160
Why are you not speaking to her?
456
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,480
Because the Leo I know
doesn't shut up.
457
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,400
Well, that is not
what I've experienced.
458
00:23:01,120 --> 00:23:04,080
I've gone into my shell
a lot more in this environment.
459
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,360
I'm definitely not calling it a day.
460
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,920
I definitely still feel
like there's something there.
461
00:23:11,120 --> 00:23:12,320
This is the time that we can
462
00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:15,120
really spend some quality
time together,
463
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:16,200
one-on-one,
464
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,800
and truly express ourselves
to each other.
465
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,680
He's trying,
466
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,200
and you're not.
467
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,720
It looks almost like, you've...
468
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,000
You've almost made your mind up.
469
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,640
You feel like I've made my mind up?
470
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,160
Yes. I'm not saying this is done,
471
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,840
this is not a nail in the coffin -
I'm out, fucking see you later -
472
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,520
otherwise, I wouldn't be here
speaking to his two closest friends.
473
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,120
I'm just sternly
telling you,
474
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:50,080
this week is make-or-break for me,
because I've struggled,
475
00:23:50,120 --> 00:23:53,560
up and to this point,
to build the connection
476
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,160
that is making me see a future
with Leo outside of the experiment.
477
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,280
I want Leo to be his authentic self.
478
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,600
I want him to be everything
that he can be...
479
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,760
Hang on. I want him to be
everything he can be.
480
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,680
Yeah,
this isn't the normal Leo.
481
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,760
So, I'm not experiencing
the normal Leo?
482
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,920
What I see is little puppy dog Leo.
483
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,640
It's bullshit.
484
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,280
Don't tell me I'm not trying
to make it work,
485
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,800
cos that's not the case.
486
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,200
Well, I will let you catch up.
487
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,360
It's so frustrating.
488
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:39,920
On the wedding day,
489
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,000
I thought you two perfectly matched.
490
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,640
From talking to her now,
491
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,640
I don't feel like her heart
is in it as much as yours is.
492
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,720
I'm very positive going
into this relationship,
493
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,160
and I want to make a lot of changes
and make it work.
494
00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:00,160
All I hear is a lot of, like, you,
you, you.
495
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,040
But I don't hear anything she wants
to change about herself.
496
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:04,440
She ain't perfect, mate.
497
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,280
And I'm going to be brutally honest,
I think she thinks she's, like,
498
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:09,360
too good for you.
499
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,920
Leo and April are definitely a miss.
I think they're doomed.
500
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:19,280
You must stay truthful to yourself.
If she doesn't like you for it,
501
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:20,480
maybe she's not for you.
502
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:26,280
Yeah, if she don't like it,
then, her loss.
503
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,040
I'm really enjoying having
Bec in Hove.
504
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,360
My little side-hustle is that
I run a beer company
505
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,040
so, I can't wait to show Bec
where my beer is brewed.
506
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:50,920
So, this is where the beer
is cooked.
507
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,520
It's a little taste of what
I'd like to imagine
508
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,760
the future could look like.
Go on, have a look. Oh!
509
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,160
You all right?
510
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:58,680
Health and safety.
511
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,480
What, this is where your beer was?
Yeah, so...
512
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,800
Wow, it's huge. ..yeah,
they cook the beer in here.
513
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,960
They're so big.
They're so echoey.
514
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,320
Look. Can you hear me?
515
00:26:06,360 --> 00:26:09,640
Go on, say something in there.
Free therapy. Come on.
516
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:10,880
Hello!
517
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,080
Bec!
518
00:26:12,120 --> 00:26:13,960
Hove is way better than Liverpool.
519
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,280
After meeting Leo's friends
yesterday,
520
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,760
on the taxi home, me and Leo
ended up having an argument.
521
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,360
It was due to some of the views
that his friends had.
522
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,520
His friends have stated,
"This isn't the real Leo.
523
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,080
"He normally talks loads.
524
00:26:41,120 --> 00:26:43,320
"He feels like a puppy dog."
525
00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:46,240
And it just escalated from there.
526
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:51,120
Leo's way to deal with that was to
pack up everything and leave.
527
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,400
And then didn't come
back till this morning, so...
528
00:26:55,360 --> 00:26:58,280
How was that an adult reaction?
Like, what the fuck?
529
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:06,040
Last night, my friends
told me it's blatantly obvious
530
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,720
that April isn't in this
relationship as much as I am.
531
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,800
It was really hard
for me to hear from them.
532
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,280
After we got home,
533
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,440
we had an argument,
and I just thought I needed
534
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,880
to remove myself
from the situation.
535
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,360
I went back to the office
where I worked from
536
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,000
and slept on the sofa there.
537
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,200
I have a lot to think about.
538
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,040
How are you?
539
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,120
I just thought...
540
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,800
..the argument wasn't
really going anywhere and...
541
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,520
But I shouldn't have walked away.
542
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,600
Talking to my friends yesterday,
543
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:43,120
I wanted them to at least
see what I see,
544
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,840
which is that there is a chance
for us to turn things around,
545
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,760
but they didn't see that.
546
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,760
Reality's hit, and...
547
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,080
..I just feel like
I need a break from this.
548
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,320
I don't understand
why it's escalated this much.
549
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,920
Like, this isn't how you deal
with arguments.
550
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,440
I'm feeling gutted
that it's come to this.
551
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,240
She's emotionally clocked out
of this relationship.
552
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,280
I've tried everything that I can
to try and turn things around,
553
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,880
but April's still not
liking me for me.
554
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:25,200
That's what it comes down to.
555
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,920
We're on our way to see
Emma and Taylor,
556
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:44,520
who's my auntie and cousin.
557
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,920
I can see Leigh's still got
resentment for me.
558
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,680
So, I feel like I really want
to get it all off my chest
559
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,320
as to what's been happening
in the last few days,
560
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,080
the trust, it being a big problem.
561
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,600
Hello. Hi.
562
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:02,680
Hi, how are you?
563
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,320
So, I do think I need
to be honest about all that.
564
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,240
How's it been?
565
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,200
Emotional roller-coaster.
566
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:17,800
It's been a lot to...process.
567
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,120
Has it been hard
living together, then?
568
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,600
Yeah. So where are yous at now,
with each other?
569
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,080
You know, I'm, like,
quite a jokey person.
570
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,320
It's never from a place
of me flirting.
571
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,040
But I have been branded a flirt
572
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,280
throughout this whole process
with bloody everyone.
573
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,200
Yeah, we've spoken
about situations throughout this
574
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,760
where you'll make a little
comment about someone else,
575
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,840
and I'll feel
like it's disrespectful, or...
576
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,960
But you also do tell me to have
a joke about things like that.
577
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,480
Not that, I don't. Really?
578
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,760
I've never told you to joke
about someone being attractive.
579
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,800
We've argued about
that multiple times.
580
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,040
OK.
581
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,560
For me, it's always like,
I've got to over...
582
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,040
..talk myself out of
a situation that's not a situation.
583
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,640
And I feel like that's where
compromise comes in and, like,
584
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,440
acknowledging each other's feelings,
585
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,840
and... Yeah. ..it's hard, isn't it,
I guess, both being girls?
586
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,880
Where do you draw the line
with other girls, and
587
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,400
having that friendship compared...
I'm so glad you've said that, yeah.
588
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,800
..to, like... It's just finding
that middle ground between you both.
589
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,480
Do you feel like
you can trust Leah now?
590
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,800
I think I'd be lying if I said 100%,
591
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,480
and I think it's beneficial
to be honest about that.
592
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,080
You know, Leah is a
very trustworthy person,
593
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:43,240
I've never known her to do horrible
things in relationships.
594
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:47,120
With Leah, she's quite out there.
We'll go on nights out
595
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,520
and Leah will come back
with 20 new friends,
596
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,160
and then these 20 new
friends will be out
597
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,280
with us all night. Mm.
598
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,360
But, just, like, trusting the fact
599
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,680
that she is, innocently,
a people's person as well.
600
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:00,800
I said coming in here
601
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,320
that I really wanted someone
that could, like, work a room,
602
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,000
I haven't got to worry about, you
know, checking that they're OK.
603
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,240
I love that element of you.
604
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,600
I think you both need to stop being
so serious and just try
605
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,720
and have some fun,
and just go for it. Yeah.
606
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,480
I'd like to do that.
607
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,400
I'm hoping seeing my family
608
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,120
has gave Leigh a little
bit of comfort -
609
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,000
people who know the real me.
610
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,240
I am a good person,
611
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,680
and I'm not someone who's going
to disrespect her,
612
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,800
or be disloyal. And know
that I've got no bad intent.
613
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,400
I really do hope I can get to
a point where I do fully trust Leah,
614
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,640
and that there are no worries
or doubts,
615
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,440
but I think it's going to be
a collective thing
616
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,640
from both of us to get there fully.
617
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,120
Leo's going to be here any minute.
Are you excited?
618
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:03,600
I know. I've just missed him.
619
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,200
I'm so excited to see April
because she's so lovely.
620
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,840
It'll be nice to meet her again.
621
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,720
When I last saw lovely Leo
and April,
622
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:16,200
my gosh, they were just
so loving and it was so exuberant.
623
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,640
I want them to say they're in love.
624
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,280
Ideally, I want them to be in love.
I do, I do, I do.
625
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,360
I hope it's going well.
That's all you hope for, isn't it?
626
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:23,840
That's all you hope for.
627
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,920
Oh, he's looking gorgeous.
Leo! Look at him.
628
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,600
Look at you. Missed you!
629
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:31,960
You look amazing.
630
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:35,720
You do look amazing.
How you doing, Mum? Look at you.
631
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:36,920
Look at you and mumsy and sis.
632
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:41,040
Oh, we love you. We love you so
much. We've just been talking...
633
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,840
So excited to see you.
And April, where is she?
634
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:46,880
She's not coming today.
635
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,320
Oh. Have a seat, mums. OK. OK.
Oh. OK.
636
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,120
OK. Oh.
637
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:58,200
Erm, obviously, last time you saw us
was at our wedding, and it was,
638
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,360
it was fantastic.
It was beautiful. And, erm,
639
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,040
you all right?
It's all right.
640
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,200
It's not about me, it's about
you. Just let him explain.
641
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,560
No, but let me explain, Mum.
Let him explain. Come on.
642
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:10,960
When we got back to the apartments,
643
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,000
I struggled to then open up to
April.
644
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,560
OK. So we've been working
on bits to try
645
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,880
and get this deeper
emotional connection,
646
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:23,080
and it just... It hasn't seemed
to have come naturally to us. OK.
647
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:27,480
Erm, she went and met
Simon and Astyn and
648
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,760
they were just
brutally honest to me,
649
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,000
where they see our relationship
as going,
650
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,120
and then it got a little bit heated.
651
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,160
Erm...
652
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:40,560
Simon and Astyn's reaction were
that she hasn't been trying
653
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,320
as much as I have
in this relationship,
654
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,600
and it's not going
to work between us.
655
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,320
I'm sorry, but how are they...how
are they the best to know?
656
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,520
You and April have been matched
for a reason,
657
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,680
and I think you are
very well-suited.
658
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,480
You have the same interests,
same personalities.
659
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,280
Your electricity at the wedding
was really great.
660
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:08,040
You are a beautiful couple.
You only get this one chance.
661
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,880
If there's one little part of you
that thinks,
662
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,920
"Actually, this can work.
This could work,"
663
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:14,640
you need to go for it.
664
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,640
You really need to go for it.
665
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,480
And this might be your only chance,
666
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,560
and I just wouldn't want you
to regret it.
667
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,840
I do feel like there is, maybe,
a slight chance.
668
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,200
A slight chance?
Oh, darling, go for it.
669
00:34:27,240 --> 00:34:29,120
A slight chance is a chance.
670
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,840
We're just seeing how it goes.
Just see what happens. If you see
671
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:36,760
a little, little bit. Yeah, maybe if
you do have this little time apart,
672
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:41,160
you might then come together again
and say, you know, it will work.
673
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,400
You don't know, you don't know.
Potentially, yeah.
674
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,640
Can't do this if you're crying.
I can't. I'm sorry,
675
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,160
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, darling,
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
676
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:51,960
I'm shocked again.
677
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,920
Me heart just sank. I had no idea.
It's OK.
678
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,280
No, but I had no idea.
679
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,200
I just thought everything was
up here and...
680
00:34:58,240 --> 00:35:01,480
Just awful.
Awful moment.
681
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,440
You know, I just didn't expect it.
No.
682
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,120
Darling, go for her.
683
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,920
I feel confused on how
I want to move forward.
684
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,920
Whether I should stick it through
for the rest of the Homestays,
685
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,040
or whether I should leave
the experiment.
686
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,040
My head's all over the place
at the minute.
687
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,120
Come on, baby girl, are you ready?
I'm so excited.
688
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,080
I'm really looking forward
to Bec meeting my sister.
689
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,960
It's important that they get on.
690
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,040
My sister Rose
has always given me great advice,
691
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:35,800
so I'd love her to speak to Bec
692
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,320
and convince her to move
down here with me.
693
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,480
Hello. Hello. Hi.
Rosie, how are you?
694
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,120
I'm good. All right? How's it going?
You all right?
695
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,680
I'm really excited
to see both of them,
696
00:35:45,720 --> 00:35:47,080
especially Bec, because I didn't
697
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:48,640
get to speak to her properly
at the wedding.
698
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,800
Here's my wife.
699
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,400
I really want to know how it's been,
700
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,680
because I'm not sure what's going
to happen
701
00:35:54,720 --> 00:35:58,800
with the distance between them,
and how realistic it is.
702
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,560
The wedding feels ages ago now.
703
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,520
A lot's happened since then. Yeah.
Like, literally, from the honeymoon,
704
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,160
we got on like a house on fire.
705
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,280
Living together has been, kind
of, the best part for us.
706
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,880
Just being home together is
where we have the most fun.
707
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,280
Aw, cute. Yeah, it's nice.
It feels comfortable.
708
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,720
Yeah, yeah. Which is good.
Just everything's great...
709
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,520
Yeah. ..but we live at opposite
sides of the bloody country.
710
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:20,960
Have you spoken about it a lot?
711
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:28,280
I don't think you can get to
Final Vows without having a plan.
712
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,000
I'm not sure if I could
leave home permanently
713
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,760
cos everything's there for me.
714
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,480
Like, friends,
family, my business is there.
715
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,520
Do you work, like, in your clinic?
716
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:43,840
Yeah. Every day?
717
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,840
Yeah, it is there.
718
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,320
I don't know if I could leave.
719
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,840
I don't think long-distance
is going to work that well.
720
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,360
Would you think about moving?
721
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,840
I just wouldn't sacrifice
any time with Blue.
722
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,640
I'd literally be so angry
if you moved.
723
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,000
No, I know. And it's just too far
724
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,760
to, like... You can't just
pop and see her.
725
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:09,520
You need to know
how it's going to happen.
726
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,120
How would it work?
727
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,640
I don't want you to move up there.
Yeah. Definitely not.
728
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,120
Bluebelle's down here.
I can't move. Like, I can't move.
729
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,880
Yeah, like, that's just...
I don't think you can.
730
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:20,960
Yeah.
731
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,840
My hands are, like,
completely tied.
732
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,840
You all right? What's the matter?
Nothing.
733
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,040
It's OK.
734
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,360
Seeing Rose today,
the penny's dropped
735
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,000
when it comes to us being
so far apart.
736
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,000
He's got his daughter here,
737
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,880
and I don't want to take Bailey
away from his family at all,
738
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:50,120
but everything that I have built
is in Liverpool.
739
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,000
So, Rose has brought us
back down to earth today.
740
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,200
It makes me feel sad talking about
it. Yeah. It is just the one thing
741
00:37:59,240 --> 00:38:00,640
we just haven't been able to crack.
742
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,880
The tough thing about this is that,
with me not being able to move,
743
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,880
I throw the ball in Bec's court,
744
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,480
and I know it's not fair,
745
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:12,800
but I can't physically move,
746
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,680
so it's just, like,
fucking gut-wrenching.
747
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,560
If we can't come to
some sort of agreement,
748
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:22,160
then we're both going to end up
with broken hearts.
749
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,480
Oh, exciting. Bring it over.
I can't wait to catch up.
750
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,960
It's really important that I have
this evening with my flatmate, Lucy.
751
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,280
Oh, God, I have missed this.
I've missed this.
752
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,480
I've missed you so much.
753
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,600
She is someone that I'm always
going to be honest to,
754
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:46,960
and she'll call it out
if she sees it,
755
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,280
so I just need to tell her
the truth.
756
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,480
What the hell is going on?
Why is Steven not here?
757
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,800
He's decided not to, erm,
come with me on Homestays,
758
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,240
and I've told him multiple times,
like, "You are so welcome to,"
759
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,560
but he just didn't turn up.
760
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:02,080
He was like, "I'm not coming."
761
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:05,000
How do you feel?
762
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,280
I just feel like he's shown me
completely that I'm not a priority
763
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,120
and he doesn't
really care about my feelings.
764
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:12,920
After the retreat,
I basically told him,
765
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,360
"I need more from you,
because right now,
766
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:16,640
"this doesn't feel like
a relationship."
767
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,000
And, when I had the commitment
ceremony,
768
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,080
the guy put stay for now,
and that's like a...
769
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,120
Pardon?
770
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,120
But that he'd also called me
a fucking idiot.
771
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,240
I think we know
who the effing idiot is,
772
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:27,720
and it's not you.
773
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:28,920
Then came back from Partner Swap.
774
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,000
I walked into the flat and on
the fridge when I got home,
775
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,920
he'd put up a photo of him
and April and I was like,
776
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,520
"What is that doing on my fridge?"
Are you taking the piss?
777
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:40,200
No, I'm not. It's so disrespectful.
778
00:39:40,240 --> 00:39:42,600
Why do you think it's appropriate
to have a photo of you
779
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,200
and another person's wife
on that fridge?
780
00:39:45,240 --> 00:39:48,320
On my fridge. Cos it ain't...
Honestly, he's vile.
781
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,680
Yeah. He is vile. Yeah.
782
00:39:50,720 --> 00:39:54,960
I'm upset for Nelly, because Steven
has invalidated her feelings
783
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,120
and he's not made her feel wanted.
784
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,040
The only thing that Steven's done
785
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,400
is take her more into her shell.
786
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,480
Why have you stayed for this long?
787
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,840
Do you know why? I put up with it
because, actually...
788
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:08,080
..I did really like him,
789
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,960
and he would give me
hope every week.
790
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,600
Like, the fact that he's make...
Wow.
791
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,520
I have just had a text from him.
792
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,840
Saying what?
"I've had some time to think.
793
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,760
"I'm coming Manchester tomorrow.
Let's meet."
794
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,280
First of all, where's the "Hi,
hello, how are you"?
795
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,760
Rude.
"I've had some time to think."
796
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,480
About what, exactly?
797
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,520
Your lack of...anything.
798
00:40:41,240 --> 00:40:43,400
You've lost your voice
and you need to find it again,
799
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,640
and you need to tell him
exactly how you feel.
800
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:46,800
And that's what I'm going to do.
801
00:40:48,240 --> 00:40:50,720
I haven't been treated right.
I haven't been affirmed.
802
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,520
I haven't felt secure.
803
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,960
I've finally seen the light.
804
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,080
I'm going to say everything I need
to say and get it off my chest.
805
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,400
And you're going to listen
for the first time.
806
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,040
So there's a waterfall
just down there.
807
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,160
Oh, really? Yeah, and there's a
castle at the top,
808
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:21,320
for the queen. Aw, for your queen?
Yeah.
809
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:22,480
SHE LAUGHS
810
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:25,400
I like you being my tour guide.
811
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,000
HE LAUGHS
812
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,560
It's my job to make Abi feel as
comfortable as possible this week.
813
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,280
It's beautiful. It's so pretty.
It's nice, isn't it?
814
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:34,760
Oh, look at this. Aw.
815
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,600
I think now Abi being in
North Wales is like another
816
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:41,640
visual representation of love,
and it feels really normal.
817
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,720
It just feels like
the necessary next step.
818
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,800
We've had the night apart.
819
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,960
Currently, I don't know where we
stand on the rest of Homestays.
820
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,480
I do want Leo to come to my
Homestays and come to Weymouth,
821
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,840
but the last couple of days
have been quite tough,
822
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,720
so I don't know if Leo is
coming yet.
823
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:19,160
On the wedding day, it
was all very fresh and positive.
824
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,760
It's sad that it's now this bad.
825
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:33,400
I haven't seen April
since yesterday morning.
826
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,560
We stayed apart last night.
I've had time to reflect,
827
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,600
sleep on it, and I feel like
seeing me mum and sister yesterday,
828
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,920
it's definitely put everything
into perspective.
829
00:42:46,720 --> 00:42:48,440
All right? I'm all right.
830
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,080
How are you doing?
I'm good. How are you?
831
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:54,400
Yeah, all right.
832
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,880
Saw me mum yesterday, and sister,
833
00:42:59,920 --> 00:43:01,240
and I woke up this morning...
834
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:06,560
..thinking a lot more positively
that I want to see it through.
835
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,480
I do genuinely, really,
really care about you.
836
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:10,920
I'm here for one reason,
837
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,120
and that's...that's to try and
make this marriage work.
838
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:14,600
Mm-hm.
839
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,680
I do need to give it 100%
last effort to...
840
00:43:21,720 --> 00:43:23,800
to see if we can
turn this marriage around. Mm.
841
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,440
Where's your head at?
842
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,560
I'm happy for you to come
to Weymouth
843
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:31,880
and for us to see the Homestays
through,
844
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,720
but if you're not honest
with your feelings,
845
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,320
then how do you move forward?
846
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,560
You know? Yeah, well,
I need to honour that.
847
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:41,760
Mm.
848
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,480
This is all I want,
is this last...last chance.
849
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:45,840
Yeah, definitely.
850
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,000
I am happy that Leo is coming
to Weymouth,
851
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:52,200
and I'm glad that we're continuing
on with Homestays.
852
00:43:52,240 --> 00:43:54,120
Leo still has positivity
about us.
853
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,840
But there is a big concern
whether or not this will work out,
854
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:01,760
because he's not great
at communicating.
855
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:04,640
I'm still really unsure.
856
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:17,720
LEAH: Do you like it, here?
857
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,240
It's really lovely.
858
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:23,640
After seeing this, I understand
why you love it so much.
859
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:25,320
Formby's just peaceful, isn't it?
Yeah.
860
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,280
Cos my life's so, like,
hectic and I'm, like,
861
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:28,320
here, there and everywhere,
862
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,920
and then I come back
and it's just, like, Zen.
863
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,040
Yeah, I get it, it makes sense.
864
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,360
I am pleasantly surprised
with Leah's hometown so far.
865
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,160
She lives quite a calm life,
and that's what I want,
866
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,320
so, it definitely makes me see her
in a different way.
867
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,480
I am now happy
Leigh's come to Homestays.
868
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,760
She's woke up in, like,
peace this morning.
869
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,520
It's really important for me
that she does like it,
870
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:52,520
and I think it's quite important
for her that she has felt
871
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,000
so comfortable here as well.
872
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,640
So are you glad you came? I am
really glad I came, yeah.
873
00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,720
Are ya?
874
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,000
There's a lot
that I didn't realise about myself
875
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,480
that I'm still maybe not over,
or that still triggers me.
876
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:12,080
In past relationships, I have been
massively disrespected.
877
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:15,000
Yeah. I have had my trust
broken by people.
878
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,000
So, before I come in here,
I was like,
879
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:21,440
"I will never tolerate
anyone even slightly
880
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,800
"disrespecting me again,"
because it made me feel
881
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,960
the worst I've ever felt.
I think, going through that,
882
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,520
and then being in situations
with you,
883
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,720
it's been hard to navigate
because where you are
884
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:34,920
such a bubbly, funny character,
885
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,880
and you do make jokes sometimes,
it is just a joke.
886
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,840
Yeah. But, for me, even those
things, I'm like, "Nope."
887
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:44,440
Yeah. That's not what I wanted,
that's not what I asked for.
888
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,720
And so, yeah, it has,
it's been a lot.
889
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,560
Like, I know it hasn't been
the easiest for you.
890
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,160
The reason I've been
so patient with you
891
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,280
is because you've been
so open about your ex.
892
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,560
But I think because of your past,
893
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:03,160
it's almost like
you're trying to find a problem.
894
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:04,560
We're never going to get anywhere
895
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,640
if you don't just have
the trust in me.
896
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,040
Yeah, and I think you're right.
897
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:12,440
I need to give you
the benefit of the doubt...
898
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:18,720
..that you're not going to do
what has been done to me before.
899
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:22,880
From my side, like,
what do you need from me
900
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,080
to make you feel secure in that way?
901
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,240
I think, maybe, it's the reassurance
in those moments.
902
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,800
It could be something as small as,
"You haven't got to worry,
903
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,400
"by the way," like,
"everything's good."
904
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,000
Or, like, just come and give me
a kiss on the cheek.
905
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,760
Just the smallest little thing
so I don't need to worry.
906
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:41,720
If I know that you're feeling
a certain way,
907
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,560
of course, I'll reassure you.
Yeah, that's positive, then,
908
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:45,920
for me and you, moving forward,
909
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:49,200
if I can make the effort to tell you
when I'm feeling uncomfortable...
910
00:46:49,240 --> 00:46:51,360
Hmm. ..that then gives you the
opportunity to reassure me,
911
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,720
so I think that's a good baseline
for us to, like, move forward.
912
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:57,440
The way Leigh
is being really vulnerable
913
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:58,640
and open with me now,
914
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,240
and telling me
she needs reassurance,
915
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,680
it's a different side to Leigh
that I haven't really seen before.
916
00:47:03,720 --> 00:47:07,080
It's definitely given me
more hope for the future.
917
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:08,920
Aw. Give us a smooch.
918
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:12,320
Mwah. Give me a hug.
919
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,720
Leah has been really understanding
when I've been vulnerable
920
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:20,360
and telling her exactly
how I'm feeling,
921
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:24,600
so I think I need to start giving
Leah the benefit of the doubt
922
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,480
and actually trusting
that she's not the same
923
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,640
as the people
that I've experienced before.
924
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:32,760
Come on, let's go and walk, yeah?
Come on, then.
925
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,320
THEY LAUGH
926
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:36,800
You dick!
927
00:47:49,240 --> 00:47:51,800
Thank you so much.
Thank you, sir. Thank you.
928
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,160
Last time I saw my mum and
my sister was at the wedding.
929
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:59,160
Their opinions will genuinely
have an impact on me.
930
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:02,680
It is very much still
make-or-break for me.
931
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:08,720
You all right? Yeah.
932
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,320
I'm really nervous about meeting
April's mum and sister today.
933
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,840
Obviously, we're not
in the best place,
934
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:18,040
but I'm really, really hoping
that it does go well.
935
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,680
Hi, darling, hello.
Hi, Leo, all right?
936
00:48:20,720 --> 00:48:22,480
Good to see you again, Sophia.
How are you?
937
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,120
Really good. Good. You look great.
938
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,560
Mwah. Missed you.
939
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,520
I think it's going to be a shock
to my family
940
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:28,760
that it hasn't gone well,
941
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,960
because it was
so positive on the day.
942
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,360
I think everyone would
naturally think that it would do.
943
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,760
So, how are you? The last time we
saw you was at the wedding.
944
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,320
I really loved the wedding.
945
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,400
The wedding day was so good.
It was amazing.
946
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:41,960
I was really happy. Yeah.
947
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,800
The honeymoon was so good,
948
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,960
and then we came back to
the apartments, and I think...
949
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:50,640
..you just struggled
a little bit.
950
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,080
Struggled in which way?
951
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:53,880
I think it was just
very overwhelming for me,
952
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:55,760
having all the other couples
around... Yeah.
953
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:59,080
..whereas April, she thrives,
she's a social butterfly,
954
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,600
and opening up, for me,
was very hard at first.
955
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,440
Did that affect you
as a couple, then?
956
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,560
Yes.
957
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,520
Where are you at now?
What did you do this week?
958
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,320
So, this week we was at my Homestays
in Chichester...
959
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,160
Oh, yeah, how was that?
..and my friends weren't
960
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,080
the most positive
about our relationship.
961
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,240
They made a few comments
that they didn't
962
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,360
sort of picture us being together.
963
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,920
They just didn't think
that we were quite compatible.
964
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:30,200
Are you?
965
00:49:32,240 --> 00:49:34,160
I adore April to bits...
966
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,160
..and I'm just hoping by the end of
967
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,160
the week, we'll have a little
bit more clarity.
968
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,760
I'm definitely still in this
experiment, to...
969
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:43,480
Yeah. ..to make it work.
To see, yeah.
970
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,160
Just have a nice, you know,
end of the week, and see.
971
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:53,480
I adore April.
She's everything that I've wanted.
972
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,760
It did start off so well.
973
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,160
I feel gutted we're not getting on
as much as we was before.
974
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:00,840
I'm gonna go get another drink
975
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,800
and, er, I'll let you guys talk
for a bit.
976
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,120
Thank you.
977
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:08,560
But I do think it's important
that we do tell the truth.
978
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,760
What's really going on? Because
you...you seem a bit on edge.
979
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:16,480
I do feel a little bit on edge,
I guess,
980
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,840
cos, like, for me,
at the beginning,
981
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,520
the wedding day was really good,
and I was like,
982
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,720
"Oh, my God, this man ticks
so many boxes,"
983
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,600
and I was like, "We're gonna have
so much to talk about."
984
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,000
And then sort of halfway through,
I'm thinking,
985
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:30,160
"I'm leading the
conversations a lot
986
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,040
"and not really getting a lot back."
987
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,440
It's not like I necessarily
need someone who's going to be
988
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,800
as big a personality as me,
cos it is quite difficult.
989
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,440
I just need someone to be able to
have the banter with.
990
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:43,480
I need someone that's
gonna make me laugh, and I...
991
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,440
Does he make you laugh?
992
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:46,760
No.
993
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,560
For me, personality is so important,
994
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,160
and, yes, we are not gelling.
995
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,000
You can't force a connection
with someone. Yeah.
996
00:50:57,040 --> 00:51:00,760
Did you think out of the experiment,
that it might be different?
997
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,520
From the personality
that I've seen..
998
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:04,920
..no. No.
999
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,240
What's made you stay this long?
1000
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,600
He is a really good partner.
Like, he is very caring,
1001
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:12,720
he is very generous, he does have
a lot of good qualities about him.
1002
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,960
I think, for me, at this stage,
I'm just not...
1003
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,240
..feeling the connection.
1004
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,240
No. He's not for you.
1005
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:28,200
You are such an outgoing person.
Mm. And Leo,
1006
00:51:28,240 --> 00:51:30,560
he's a lovely guy, but...no.
1007
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,920
My mum and my sister have definitely
validated how I've been feeling.
1008
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,160
I knew it would be clear
for them as soon as we met.
1009
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,880
This isn't going to work between
the pair of them.
1010
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:46,360
And we know that for a certainty.
1011
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:47,840
He's not for you.
1012
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,240
I want to surprise Leigh tonight.
1013
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,320
It's our last night at my Homestay.
1014
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:09,600
I want to make it romantic
1015
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:11,880
cos I'm not very good at doing
that in the past.
1016
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:14,120
I'm not touching your make-up.
No, I don't want to fall.
1017
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:18,640
I'm hoping, me being more romantic
and thoughtful
1018
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:20,760
helps her be more open with me.
1019
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:23,440
This will be the icing on the cake,
I'm hoping.
1020
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:24,680
OK, open.
1021
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:29,760
Oh! Did you do this all yourself?
Yeah.
1022
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:31,400
Are they real? Mm-hm.
1023
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,640
Aw!
1024
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,680
Thank you. You're welcome.
That's so sweet.
1025
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:39,440
I didn't know you had it in you.
1026
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:41,160
And ta-da-da-da!
1027
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:42,640
Look at you.
1028
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:47,560
This is really cute. Happy?
I'm really happy.
1029
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,320
Oh, what's this? That's rose.
1030
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,640
God, you really know me well,
don't ya? Mm-hm.
1031
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,440
Mm.
1032
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:58,640
Like it?
1033
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,400
Should we do a bit of spaghetti?
Hmm? Like Lady and the Tramp?
1034
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:04,440
LEAH LAUGHS
1035
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:06,760
Wait.
1036
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,200
I've literally had the best time.
I don't want to leave.
1037
00:53:13,240 --> 00:53:14,240
Have you? Yeah.
1038
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,160
Yeah. Kind of makes you see each
other in a different way.
1039
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:17,320
Well, how do you think
you've seen me
1040
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:18,440
that you didn't think I was before?
1041
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:20,440
I think your lifestyle is a lot
more calm than I thought
1042
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:21,880
it was going to be.
It's nice.
1043
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,080
It's this house.
It's a calming house. It is lovely.
1044
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,560
I have... There is...there's so much
about you that I love.
1045
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:29,880
Oh, yeah, like what?
1046
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:31,560
THEY LAUGH
1047
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:35,240
You are so caring and attentive,
and you are so patient,
1048
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,160
and it does make me want to stay
and does make me want to try,
1049
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,640
and makes me appreciate you
as a person.
1050
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:47,440
Yeah, there's a lot that you do
give me that I haven't had.
1051
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:49,160
I clearly have trust issues,
1052
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,560
and you being so patient and
allowing me the time and the space
1053
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:53,680
to work on that,
1054
00:53:53,720 --> 00:53:56,120
we wouldn't still be here
if you weren't doing that. Yeah.
1055
00:53:56,160 --> 00:54:00,200
So...I am grateful
that you've done that.
1056
00:54:00,240 --> 00:54:02,160
Welcome.
SHE LAUGHS
1057
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,920
I think, with you,
and I'll be really honest with you,
1058
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:12,720
you don't really like to sometimes
admit you need reassurance.
1059
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,000
No, no, I don't.
1060
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,320
But that also tells me
that there's feeling there from you,
1061
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,000
that you want reassurance
from me for a reason. Yeah.
1062
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:23,480
And each moment like this, and
conversation that we have like this,
1063
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:26,840
just enables me to trust you more.
1064
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,200
You've made such an effort, and...
1065
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,440
..I'm leaving here feeling happy.
1066
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:34,840
Good.
1067
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,960
This is, like, my perfect date.
I absolutely love it.
1068
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:42,720
And this effort from Leah tonight
is definitely what I've needed.
1069
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,560
It's a way of giving me reassurance
through actions.
1070
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:47,880
You keep kicking me.
1071
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,840
Sorry, sorry.
Oh, are you playing footsie?
1072
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:51,360
Yeah.
1073
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,880
You've made it a lovely Homestay.
1074
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,560
It's just got better
and better throughout.
1075
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,080
The space has been pretty good
for me.
1076
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:10,880
Definitely allowed my mind
to be refreshed,
1077
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,480
and think about what I want
in the future, going forward.
1078
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,240
I definitely owe it to Nelly to come
to Manchester to speak to her.
1079
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:19,440
Conversation needs to be had.
1080
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:27,960
I was initially disappointed
1081
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,600
that Steven decided not to join me,
because, in my mind,
1082
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,000
I thought you couldn't even make me
1083
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:34,600
a priority for once
in this relationship.
1084
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,920
But marriage does mean a lot to me.
Like, I'm a one-woman kind of guy.
1085
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:42,880
I mean, I've still
got...still got the ring on.
1086
00:55:47,240 --> 00:55:49,640
Hello. Hello. Morning. Come in?
1087
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,600
Hopefully, we'll leave with
a better head space
1088
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,120
and more respect for one another.
1089
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:57,120
Nice little pad, innit? Thank you.
1090
00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:00,120
I would like to think that Steven
has reflected on how
1091
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:01,720
this whole experiment's
been together.
1092
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:03,200
I've got things I need answering,
1093
00:56:03,240 --> 00:56:04,640
and I've got things
I want to tell him.
1094
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:09,960
How's it been since you come back?
1095
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:12,080
It's been really good.
1096
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:13,320
Speaking to my friends and family,
1097
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,120
I've got a lot more clarity
on stuff.
1098
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:16,200
But some things I...
1099
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,280
..I still have questions on.
1100
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:20,520
Partner Swap week.
1101
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:23,160
When I got back
after my week with Bailey,
1102
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,960
I told you how he treated me
the same as he treated Bec,
1103
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,000
and that's what I wanted
from a relationship.
1104
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,960
I felt that when you were telling me
about your few nights with April,
1105
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,120
it just felt like you were
directly comparing me to her,
1106
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,080
like, her personality
to my personality,
1107
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,960
how she's really fun,
and how she's got you to open up,
1108
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:41,720
and it just felt like,
1109
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,080
why are you comparing me
to another woman?
1110
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:47,600
I can imagine, yeah,
if it was awful.
1111
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,120
Yeah, it's a kick in the teeth.
1112
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:50,920
Like, did you guys flirt
with each other?
1113
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,160
That's two people.
1114
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:54,800
Quite thick, that, innit?
1115
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:56,400
Is it, Steven?
1116
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:58,880
Flirting also counts
as sexual innuendos.
1117
00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:01,280
No idea what I'm going to be putting
in my mouth.
1118
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:02,720
Well, the night's still young.
1119
00:57:04,720 --> 00:57:06,400
Commenting on each other's bodies.
1120
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:07,840
Very comfortable sofa, innit?
1121
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:09,800
How does that fit
a six-foot-three man?
1122
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,160
That's what she said.
1123
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:12,680
Did you do any of that?
1124
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,520
No, I said, there's been no
flirting. No flirting whatsoever?
1125
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:18,600
No flirting.
1126
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:22,720
Hi. Oh, hello. Hi.
1127
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:23,960
Steven, this is Lucy.
1128
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:25,440
Hi, Steven, how are you?
Hello, you all right?
1129
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:27,680
Yeah, I've just got back
from work. How are you?
1130
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,800
Yeah, good. You can grab a seat
if you want.
1131
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,560
Yes, I will do.
1132
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,480
Things didn't sit right with me
after the conversation
1133
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:34,880
I had with Nelly.
1134
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,240
The way that she said Steven
has been with her,
1135
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,000
things didn't add up.
1136
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,840
I have been doing a little
bit of digging on Steven,
1137
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,080
and I have, in fact,
got some information
1138
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,240
that I'm going to have to
drop to Nelly.
1139
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,160
How are you feeling, Steven?
1140
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:50,960
About?
1141
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:52,120
Nelly.
1142
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:55,840
See, I like the girl,
I care for the girl.
1143
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,520
Do you think that Nelly
really deserves
1144
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:00,560
to give you any more of her time?
1145
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,680
It's not...it's not about that.
1146
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,040
I'm going to always have her back,
cos we've
1147
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:05,080
been in the experiment together.
1148
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,240
You've not had her back through the
entire experiment. I have.
1149
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:08,360
How? What do you mean, how?
1150
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:09,800
You've not been in the experiment,
darling, so...
1151
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:11,320
How have you had her back...
1152
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:12,680
I've not...
..when she's coming to me
1153
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:16,320
and telling me that she feels
like she's not been validated,
1154
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,960
she feels like you've not
made any effort?
1155
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,240
What does marriage mean to you?
1156
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,440
Marriage mean for me? Mm.
That's like the epitome of love.
1157
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:26,680
That's the grandest of all,
obviously, other than kids.
1158
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,400
So, if you're married...
1159
00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:33,120
..do you think it's appropriate
to be on a dating website?
1160
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:40,240
Sorry? What dating website?
I think you know, Steven.
1161
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:43,240
No, we don't know, cos I can get
my phone out now and show...
1162
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,320
I can get mine out, too.
1163
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,440
OK, so you think I'm on what?
1164
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:49,400
I know you're on it.
1165
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:50,440
Ah...
1166
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,600
No, I'm not on anything.
Yes, you are.
1167
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:58,800
Would you like me to show you, then?
Yeah, and...
1168
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,760
I'll show Nelly first.
I would love to see it.
1169
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:04,600
What app is it? He liked the
profile. That's why it's matched.
1170
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:05,840
What app is it?
1171
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:12,840
And that was...?
1172
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:14,240
Today.
1173
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,000
Oh, is that what you had to go
and clear your head about?
1174
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,360
Yeah, no, that's not me, Nell.
It is...
1175
00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:28,320
No, it is. ..it's a verified
account. Yes, it is.
1176
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,160
Why is it verified?
How the fuck do I know that?
1177
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:34,920
Well... Let me change my password,
I'll even show you
1178
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:36,920
that I can't even get that fucking
app on my phone, first of all.
1179
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,800
What app? Which app?
Well, I see it's Hinge, obviously,
1180
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:41,360
because you showed me the picture.
1181
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:42,840
Know it well, do you?
1182
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:46,160
Should we start being honest, then?
1183
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,720
I'm about to prove
that it's not me on there.
1184
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,600
Right, OK.
1185
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:51,960
I think, to be honest...
1186
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:56,200
..I'm going to take this off...
1187
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,520
..cos I think this marriage is over.
1188
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,280
Because I don't deserve that.
Why are you still on your phone?
1189
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,560
Nelly is speaking to you
and you're not even looking at her.
1190
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:10,440
Why do you have no respect for her?
1191
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:12,160
What do you mean, I don't have
respect for her? Of course I...
1192
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,960
You're not even looking at her
when she's speaking to you.
1193
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:18,440
When did you go back on the app?
1194
01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:19,760
Today.
1195
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,240
No. On the journey here?
1196
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:23,480
No.
1197
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,240
Look, the account's been removed.
Mm.
1198
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:31,760
That's signing in.
1199
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,120
Mm. So if I can't get into an app,
how am I on it?
1200
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:36,200
No, I'm asking a question.
1201
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:37,520
How can I get on it
if you've just been there...
1202
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,280
Well, you tell me because
you seem to work the magic
1203
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:40,320
and manage to do it. Well, if
1204
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:43,120
my account's been removed,
who's being me?
1205
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,040
You. Obviously not.
1206
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,480
Mm. Because I can't even sign in
to it. OK.
1207
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,000
Whoever the fuck that is ain't me.
1208
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,320
It's not adding up.
Like, I don't get it.
1209
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,120
Could it... It could be
on another phone, or...
1210
01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:01,200
If people have got photos and got
information, yes, cos...
1211
01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:02,760
It's not just photos
and information.
1212
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,600
To verify an account, you have
to go through certain steps
1213
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:06,920
to confirm it's you.
1214
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:11,040
And that can't really be done
by somebody that isn't you.
1215
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,680
What I've heard from Nelly is
that you don't respect her,
1216
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:20,000
you don't care about her,
1217
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:23,560
you're not interested in her,
and you've made her feel like shit.
1218
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:24,920
You had so little respect for her
1219
01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:27,080
that you weren't even going to
come up here and see her.
1220
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,680
I wanted her to come see her friends
and family by herself
1221
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:34,040
so she can get that feeling back
of being refreshed,
1222
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,480
and that's exactly how she's felt.
She felt so much better,
1223
01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:37,960
she felt so much lighter,
being around...
1224
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,080
Yeah, cos she realises
that she deserves 100 times better.
1225
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:42,840
Of course, yeah, look, deserves
the world, I've said this.
1226
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:44,760
What do you mean, of course?
I've said she deserves the world.
1227
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:46,840
Yeah, so why have you wasted
her time, then?
1228
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:48,480
I've not wasted her time.
You have wasted her time...
1229
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,760
How? ..because you've just
said she deserves the world,
1230
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:52,560
yet you were not prepared
to give that to her,
1231
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:54,400
so why have you wasted her...
It's not that I wasn't prepared
1232
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:56,280
to give it to her.
Well, clearly not.
1233
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,520
OK. So why have you wasted her
time in this experiment
1234
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,120
and told her constantly,
week after week,
1235
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:01,280
"Oh, I really care about you.
1236
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:02,520
"I really want to see it work,"
1237
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,480
when, actually,
you had no intention?
1238
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:06,720
Right, I'm going.
Sorry, Nells.
1239
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:19,440
Steven being on this dating app
1240
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:21,760
whilst we're still married
is cheating.
1241
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,160
That's a guilty man.
1242
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:34,040
This marriage is
well and truly over.
1243
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:36,960
I want nothing to do
with Steven any more.
1244
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:46,000
Next time...
1245
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:47,880
I can really see myself moving here.
1246
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:49,760
..the Homestays continue.
1247
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:52,400
We're here.
We've arrived at Bournemouth.
1248
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,240
Welcome home.
Thank you.
1249
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,760
While family approval comes easy
to some...
1250
01:02:56,800 --> 01:02:59,240
He told me that he loved me.
Woo!
1251
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:02,960
..others face tougher questions
from loved ones.
1252
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,800
I want you to be really happy,
but I want you to be happy here.
1253
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:09,920
I can see she is falling.
1254
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,760
I need to have that gut feeling
that you're the same.
1255
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:14,320
I cannae help my doubts.
1256
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,320
And as Grace and Ashley
spend time apart...
1257
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:21,600
Is he the person that everyone else
thinks he is?
1258
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:23,160
Have I got this wrong?
1259
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:24,480
You're still wearing your ring.
1260
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:26,320
Part of you is trying
not to give up.
1261
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:29,640
..they face a crucial decision on
the future of their marriage.
1262
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:33,520
I can't do any more
to prove to her who I am.
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