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Previously, on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily
Ever After. I'm excited, but I've never
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been on bad terms like this, and we're
just leaving the country.
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It's not about my parents, it's not
about your parents, it's about us.
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I wish we had left things better with my
parents, but we're going off to see the
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world. Going to Europe.
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We don't know how long we will be there.
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Going to the airport?
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Yes, please.
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Here we go!
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Love it. So freaking good.
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Such an epic, exciting moment. And I
want to, you know, fight for this, you
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know, marriage, fight for this life. But
at the same time, I don't know how much
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longer I can hang on.
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Are we truly happy?
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There's something very important that I
need to share with Darcy.
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But I need to have this conversation
with her when she's come.
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I knew it.
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I've read you very well.
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I know you don't want to face your mom,
but you know what? I just, I really
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think it's time.
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I'm having a baby in six weeks.
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I cannot continue lying to her.
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Mommy, perdoname.
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Literally missed you so much.
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I missed you too.
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How about us three? Let's go have a
drink, have a conversation.
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Why three of you?
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I've got Lauren over here talking about
Yara behind her back. And I don't like
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this. I don't like what's happening.
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You're making fun of me. And the way I
treat myself.
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What?
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Elizabeth's lying.
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So ready to just hop on a plane and go
home. I'm so over this.
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What happened?
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You look familiar like a lover from
another life. Your eyes used to light up
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every time I had you close.
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Drive easy, puppy.
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Why are you laughing for my pain?
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I thought you were going to poop
yourself.
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No, it's not poop. It's a baby.
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I was reading that because the baby's
head down, like she's pushing my vagina,
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and that's what it hurts.
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Horrible feeling.
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This is like someone grabbing your balls
in mind.
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Like this.
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There you go.
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Papi, please.
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Come on.
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You're very stressed.
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I'm just kind of tired.
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Is it because you're nervous about the
birth class?
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You better take this birth class
serious.
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You don't even know what hole the baby's
going to come from, right? Probably the
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butthole. Matt.
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What? I'm being serious.
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OK.
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It's so good to finally meet you in
person.
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Hey, Rachel. Nice to meet you.
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Come on back.
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We're about to get started, guys.
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Hi. Hi.
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This is so cute.
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So we're going to have you sit on the
ball here.
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We'll have you in the chair behind.
Don't let me fall.
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Jesus Christ.
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I'm scared of exploding it.
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They're not that pregnant yet.
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Oh, babies.
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I don't know why my skull is so thick.
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Even though I'm going to a birthing
class, even though we're inching closer
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the delivery of this baby, it's still
not, like, real, real to me, obviously,
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because I'm still not, I haven't learned
a thing.
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Jasmine is having the baby within a
couple of weeks.
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And I'm hoping to learn anything would
be nice.
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Anything. How do I hold a kid? How do I
feed it? Do I change his diaper? How
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often do I change it? When do you put it
to sleep? How do you put it to sleep?
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There's a lot of variations of that
stuff to think about. So hopefully they
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just, like, dump this information on me
and I'll learn something.
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I have a lot to learn.
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We're going to have such a fun class
together, guys. We're going to talk
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things that you can do to have an
easier, more comfortable labor.
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Right. I need it. Who needs it?
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So if you look here, this is how baby is
going to move into the pelvis.
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And as the shoulders come through,
they'll rotate on the way out.
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The dolls that you have in front of you
are right about the size of a newborn
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baby, so it gives you a really good idea
of what to expect.
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Yikes. Matt, that face.
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That's a pretty big baby. This is pretty
accurate.
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I want a medicated natural birth, and I
really hope with this class that Matt
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can finally understand how intense it is
going to be.
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Me giving birth. We're talking about
unbearable pain.
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Imagine like a coconut is coming out of
your penis.
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How would that feel, Matt?
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One of the things that we are going to
start out talking about is fears
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surrounding the birth space. Do you guys
want to share any particular fears that
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you have weighing on you?
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What if you end up tearing up?
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So if there's tearing.
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Yeah. When we talk about tearing, we
talk about degrees, first through fourth
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degree. So a first degree tear is going
to be superficial skin. Third into this
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capsule around the anus and fourth would
be a connection between the two
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internally or externally.
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We don't see a lot of third and fourth
degrees. So what we're looking for is
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stretching the muscles.
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What you can do as a partner is use your
first two fingers. And so we actually
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start on the outside here. We press into
these tissues towards the clitoris.
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We're going to go to the first knuckle
until you have that nice stretch. And
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then you go in and do the same at the
second knuckle. Is this like on the
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of the wall?
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Inside. Okay, gotcha.
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So apparently if I don't help Jasmine
with the stretching of the walls, her,
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you know what, is going to tear.
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possibly all the way to her butthole.
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Yike.
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That would just be one giant hole. I
don't know how you fix that.
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So I have to remember, between reading
and everything else, I got to remember I
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have to do the stretching thing now with
her too, which is like between foreplay
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and trying to help her stretch. I don't
know.
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I never heard anybody talk about this
before, the stretching of the muscle
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tissues on the inside. I've never heard
this.
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This is actually a space where we can
provide massage and touch.
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So when we talk about labor massage, we
want to focus on down and out.
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So I'm going to have you press sort of
down and out.
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Okay, so focus that massage going down
and out. I know not easy with the
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sweater. There we go.
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This is good? Mm -hmm.
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Okay.
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Oh, gosh.
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I love it.
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Yes. Then keep going. That's what we're
looking for. Some people like gentle
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touch. Some people do not, and that's
okay.
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I like rough.
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Justin.
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Okay.
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So, guys, come into a hands and knees
position.
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I'm going to have you sit by her hips.
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Oh, my knees. All right.
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This is one of the most common ways that
we see babies born when we are
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experiencing unmedicated birth, right?
What tends to happen here is we're
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these loud grunty pushes and kind of
like, ah, to kind of like, ah, like we
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working with our bodies.
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So you have to take care of your mind.
Be present with your partner. Now,
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partners, you're going to reach down and
catch your babies, okay? With this deep
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breath, we're going to go.
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Oh, imagine sending your baby down and
out. Deep breath here with me again.
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Oh.
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Being gentle with yourself. There you
go.
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When this happens, it's going to be a
long day or a long night of clawing and
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screaming.
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So kind of like an exorcism or
something.
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Your partner is going to pat baby back
through your legs.
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So head first.
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Turn baby around. Perfect. Bring baby to
your low belly and then sit back onto
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your heels.
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What I like about this transition of
sitting back is it gives you a moment to
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see your baby.
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To look at your baby with your partner
and you create this little bubble around
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you guys.
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I'm trying to learn like as much as I
can about the process of the baby. And
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kind of gives you like anxiety.
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I don't know. It's a lot.
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We're at week 37, and I don't have all
the time to figure out about taking care
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of a child.
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I love you, baby.
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You're so beautiful because you look
just like Mommy.
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Oh, look at your daddy. Oh, don't cry,
don't cry.
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Jasmine, you know, she completely f***ed
up my life. Really did.
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The last time I spoke to Jasmine, I was
reading her my letter.
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The scam is marriage fraud to the teeth.
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I didn't do anything criminal. I married
you and the marriage didn't work.
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That is criminal because the marriage
was never true.
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I was expecting more from her, like more
of apology.
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There was like no explanation of
anything.
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But, you know, that's why I decided
today that I'm going to talk to a lawyer
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about my options for divorce because I
need to do it. And I think it's the only
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way I'm going to get closure in this
whole thing.
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Robert.
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Gino. How's it going?
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It's been a while. How are you doing?
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It's been a minute, right? Yeah,
definitely.
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All right, come on back to the
conference room. Let's do it.
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I decided I want to speak with a divorce
lawyer, a very good top -notch lawyer.
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You know, I need to move forward in my
life, see what my options are, because
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our relationship is over. It's done.
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There's no repairing it.
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Thank you.
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So you're back here for another divorce,
huh?
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Unfortunately, yeah.
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The funny thing is that I've been to
this divorce lawyer's office before.
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About 12 years ago, when I finalized my
divorce with my previous wife, they were
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very good and thorough. So I'm very much
looking forward to speaking to him
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about how complicated my situation is
now.
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The first divorce is relatively easy,
but this one is different. And so how is
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it different than the first one?
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Well, very different.
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In my recollection, you had a consent
judgment divorce, right? So you two were
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able to agree on terms relatively
easily.
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This is going to be much different
because Jasmine does not have the same
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personality as my previous ex.
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Jasmine has like a demon or devil inside
of her.
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This is going to be ugly.
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With my first wife, we always got along.
We never argued much.
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And our marriage was pretty solid,
really, for the most part. We lasted for
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seven years.
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But, you know, over time, we kind of
grew apart a little bit.
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And in the end, we ended up just
mutually agreeing to getting a
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divorce.
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You were married how long ago?
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We've been married just over two years,
like basically two years. Okay.
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We only lived together for like 10
months until she cheated on me and I
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her out of the house. Wait, wait, wait.
She cheated on you?
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Yeah, 10 months into the marriage, she
spent the night at this gentleman's
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and I found out.
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But we did agree to an open marriage.
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But we had rules for it. Okay.
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that she can only spend two hours with
him per day, and not to get too close to
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him.
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Whose idea was open marriage? Was it
yours or hers?
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It was hers. She was proposing it.
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And when I went back and looked at the
whole big picture, it's very clear to me
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that I was used for a green card.
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I understand why you felt that way.
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So what I did a few months ago... is I
reported her for immigration fraud.
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I am not letting up on the immigration
fraud because I want Jasmine to
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be held accountable for her huge
betrayal.
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Jasmine got her green card in hand and
left.
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I would be happy if she gets deported. I
think she deserves it.
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I want her to feel some pain. I want her
to feel some pain like I felt pain.
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Give me some details of it. I'm not an
immigration attorney, so maybe you can
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educate me here.
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So basically, I gave all the details to
immigration, what happened, the
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cheating, and how she was pursuing this
person when I submitted the green card.
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When I submitted her green card
application, she was pursuing this guy
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gym. So I explained all the details of
that, you know, how she was cheating on
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me when it's half started and how it was
linked to immigration.
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And I kind of talked in all the details
in my submittal, my report to them. And
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then I actually did it twice. I
submitted it twice because I want to
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absolutely sure it got through.
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But the second time I submitted it.
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I updated it and told them that she was
pregnant on the second
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time. Okay, that's the factor we're
going to have to talk about.
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She's pregnant with another guy during
her two -year probationary period on her
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green card, and she moved to Florida
with this guy and still married to me.
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So she got pregnant with a random dude
down the street, still married to me,
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cheated on me.
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Okay.
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While we're married.
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For immigration, I really can't speak
to. I think you probably know as much as
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do on that. In regards to divorce,
there's a huge impact on that.
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Is there? There is.
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So the question is, is the child yours?
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The child is not mine. It's his.
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Okay. Well, under Michigan law, I'm
going to give you some bad news here.
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You may be aware, as we were doing
before, that I'll kind of tell you what
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law is. I'll tell you the good news, the
bad news, and where I think the likely
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outcome will go. So under Michigan law,
when you are married and a child is
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born, during that marriage, or the
husband here, you're presumed to be the
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father.
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Are you kidding? No, I'm not,
unfortunately for you. That's crazy.
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You have a legal obligation.
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And a financial obligation to that
child.
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What?
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I mean, come on. This is ridiculous.
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That's understandable.
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But the basic presumption is that
because you are married to Jasmine and
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the husband, she had a child during the
marriage, that makes you the father.
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With this baby, you have an obligation
until the baby turns 18 or graduates
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high school. We're talking hundreds.
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of thousands of dollars that you'll be
paying in child support.
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What? If you don't take action.
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You f***ed up my life.
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It's a lot of different amazing
experience.
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I tell you, we should stay in Amsterdam
and a little working.
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Like a hooker.
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They're more legal.
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It's just like you take a step forward
and you take three steps back.
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I don't want to deal with this stuff
anymore. I definitely do want to talk to
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Yara. What happened last night?
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I cannot leave this trip on these terms.
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Back in day in London, this weather is
amazing to see.
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It's played for the total starfish fest.
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And I love it.
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Look at all the lemon.
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It's all emotion, can't slow down, it's
a rollercoaster. So let it go, let it
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go, let it go, let it go.
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You ready, Nala?
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Get it!
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I can go after that one now. Give her
this, she want new one.
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Yay, she want new one.
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It's been five months since we've been
back in Europe.
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It was a great trip, but because we
didn't sell Julia's apartment like we
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planning to do, we had to come back from
Europe early.
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You know, traveling is not cheap.
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I'm telling you, we should stay in
Amsterdam and a little working.
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Like a hooker.
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They're all legal.
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Did see a lot, yeah.
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Yeah, for an age, oh my God, this old
lady, like, oh my God.
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I'm like, what are you doing there?
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Yeah, there was one who was like...
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She's probably 60.
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You need to lower the retirement age
over there.
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We're visiting nine countries in one
month. And it's a lot of different
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experience.
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I love Switzerland so much. Yeah, you
just have these like big icy mountains
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with snow on them. It looks like it's
photoshopped. From a movie, yeah. So
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romantic. So romantica.
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Though it was hard in our finances, I
still feel like the trip was an overall
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success. I do feel like Julia and I
reconnected to a certain level.
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Oh, yeah.
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Oh,
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my God. Oh, my God.
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You talking to somebody?
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I'm not there. Why?
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It came out.
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I gotta go. Hold on.
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Yes, bud.
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I swear to God, I'm not lying.
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This is not a joke.
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What was that?
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Your heart?
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Yeah. Oh, my God.
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We're pregnant!
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After we reconnected, I decided to try
to have a baby, but doctor told us it's
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not expecting anything for a long time.
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That's what she told us. I mean, it's
possible, but we don't expect.
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Usually I decide to record every time
for a couple of years. I decide to
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this, right?
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So, and this time I decided to, ah!
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It's going to be safe. I'm not going to
record. I record every single time.
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Every single time. And this time, I'm
like, no, I'm not going to record.
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I'm scared.
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What if?
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How if?
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What is that?
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I need a second test. My brain explodes.
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I'm excited.
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Julia showed me that test. I was
literally like...
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The air just left my lungs.
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Like, greatest moment of my life so far.
I think next best one's going to be
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when that little thing comes out of
there, you know? I got to start working
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my dad jokes.
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You don't need to work. You just need to
repeat yours. Oh, really? Okay.
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Well, I saw them talking. I saw them
talking to Yara.
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And then I heard there's a glass break.
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And then they just didn't laugh.
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I don't know.
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They got into a fight.
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I spoke to them.
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Hey, babe.
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I need help.
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I'm getting the toilet treats, and I'm
coming. Toilet treats.
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Don't forget your mouth guard.
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Right. And your earplugs for me to tune
me out.
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These are dirty now. I'll leave them
here.
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Where's the box from them, though?
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I don't know. I'm going to start getting
some stuff, though.
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Okay.
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I'm glad we're leaving, like...
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We got to get out of here. I don't want
this more of this uncomfortability and
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trying to resolve things. Like, I don't
want to deal with this stuff anymore. I
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know. Just one thing. I don't have
energy for that.
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But, like, I definitely do want to talk
to Yara. I can't leave this trip
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without, you know, making sure we're
good.
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No problemo. Go talk to Yara.
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I'm going to keep, you know, organizing.
And then when you come back, we'll
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finish up and go.
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All right. I'll be right back.
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I cannot leave this trip on these terms.
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Like, Yara definitely doesn't deserve
what happened last night. And I'm not a
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malicious person. I wear my heart on my
sleeve. I will literally give my shirt
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off of my back to you. And I want her to
know that.
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usually means do not disturb.
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Hi.
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Hi.
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We're getting ready to leave. So I
wanted to talk to you if you have a
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I do have a minute. So why are you
leaving?
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You know what?
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It just, a lot happened last night.
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So I need to just decompress.
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I understand that you have to leave. I'm
not going to even try to pressure you
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to stay longer and all this stuff. I get
it.
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I'm pissed at Elizabeth again because
it's hypocritical because she got mad at
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me for all of us talking about them at
dinner.
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But then she goes and twists words.
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And I'm so sorry that you felt in any
way hurt.
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I wanted to apologize to you.
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If I hurt you or... I do not have, like,
negative energy, emotions to you, to be
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honest. I just want to give you a hug.
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The funniest part, to be honest, which
I'm thinking right now, that I am the
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youngest from all of them. We have,
like, five or seven years old difference
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between us. I mean, hello, guys. You
could be more mature.
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I'm almost 40.
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But to be honest, I appreciate Lauren's
thick accountability.
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I just couldn't be mad at her because
she's opening up for me.
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And I'm actually starting to question
Elizabeth because she is the one who
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started for a lot of the problems in the
group.
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I would not have come on this trip if I
didn't consider you a friend.
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I think the same thing about you. Have a
safe flight. Thank you. You too. Bye.
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Bye. Tell Jovi we said bye. Okay.
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All right.
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Oh, you're all packed.
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You see?
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I'm really glad that I spoke with Yara.
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Yeah? I am. It went really well.
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And we, like, I truly say, like, I love
her. She's amazing.
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Great. So maybe now you have a new great
friend. Yeah.
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You know, I don't want to say you lost
one, but, like, you have a new somebody
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to talk more to. To latch on to.
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In 10 years, we've achieved so much as a
couple.
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We've gone through seven surgeries,
three kids, moving twice.
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Three times.
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Three times, excuse me.
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Alex is my best friend. You are. He's my
best friend, too.
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The big one has more. Okay.
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One last look at that view.
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I want to have all of this behind me.
It's not who we are. We don't fill
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ourselves with toxic people.
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This was the final straw.
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Like, there is no friendship between me
and Elizabeth.
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I don't even like saying her name. I
just need to, like, move on with my
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We're open to new friends.
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Accepting applications for friends.
Accepting applications. We're ready to
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some new friends. What are your
requirements, your special skills?
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Do you like to ski? How many kids do you
have?
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Do you talk behind their back?
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Do you raise your wife's text messages?
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We definitely accept the application.
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Oh, it's snowing.
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I think I'm ready for the beach.
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How'd you sleep?
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Uh, by myself.
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Last night, Georgie stormed out. He
didn't come back to the room. And I have
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idea where he is.
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He was even saying in Bulgaria, he was
able to think a lot.
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Think about what?
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I don't know.
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You're not crazy.
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I'm not crazy.
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Something going on.
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I want a caring partner.
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I need you to fully be there for me. And
then I bite the umbilical cord.
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Look at me in the eye.
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There's a lot more stuff about this
baby, and we've covered 5 % in this
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Scary.
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So as we wrap up our class, I always
like to talk about how important the
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of support is.
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I encourage all of you to bring your
partner more into this journey with you.
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Thank you.
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That is our class for today, guys. Thank
you so much for joining me today. I
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hope your hips are feeling loose and
comfy, that you have some great tools to
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take home with you. Remember to practice
some of these movements, some hands -on
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techniques. Yay!
454
00:30:32,570 --> 00:30:33,630
Good job, ladies.
455
00:30:34,590 --> 00:30:35,590
Your daughter.
456
00:30:36,510 --> 00:30:38,950
Right out of the oven. Good luck, guys.
457
00:30:39,170 --> 00:30:40,170
Thank you.
458
00:30:40,250 --> 00:30:41,250
Thank you.
459
00:30:41,270 --> 00:30:42,270
Oh,
460
00:30:46,930 --> 00:30:46,930
my
461
00:30:46,930 --> 00:30:54,310
gosh.
462
00:30:54,370 --> 00:30:55,370
Thank you.
463
00:30:56,950 --> 00:30:58,590
I step on bubblegum.
464
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,440
So how did you feel during the class?
465
00:31:06,540 --> 00:31:07,540
Fantastic.
466
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:09,960
What was your favorite part?
467
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:12,740
Breathing. You like it? Yeah.
468
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:20,620
What about the part where you have to
pull the baby and how to give it to me,
469
00:31:20,660 --> 00:31:23,500
remember? Yeah, I thought it was like a
football move or something.
470
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:25,600
But now you know how it is.
471
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:27,160
How is it?
472
00:31:27,180 --> 00:31:30,040
So I push, you catch the baby. Yeah.
473
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,440
Then what?
474
00:31:31,610 --> 00:31:32,970
And I just flip it around.
475
00:31:33,190 --> 00:31:35,030
Flip it around. And I put it back in the
oven.
476
00:31:35,650 --> 00:31:37,370
I mean, back to you. I hand it to you.
477
00:31:37,810 --> 00:31:39,310
In the legs. And you grab it.
478
00:31:39,610 --> 00:31:42,830
Yeah, you have to remember those steps.
And then I bite the umbilical cord.
479
00:31:47,030 --> 00:31:48,170
Why are you like this, man?
480
00:31:49,850 --> 00:31:51,410
Like what? I'm not even doing anything.
481
00:31:51,710 --> 00:31:54,030
Did you see how intimate it is?
482
00:31:54,570 --> 00:31:55,570
Like giving birth.
483
00:31:56,040 --> 00:32:00,740
Like, literally all the positions, being
naked, pushing a baby out of you. Do
484
00:32:00,740 --> 00:32:01,740
you think that's funny?
485
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:03,320
No.
486
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,500
Exactly. So why do you want to laugh?
487
00:32:06,380 --> 00:32:07,380
Nothing.
488
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:09,200
Matt?
489
00:32:10,060 --> 00:32:11,060
Everything's fine.
490
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:18,440
If Matt says the stupid, like, it's fine
when I'm giving birth to this baby, I
491
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:19,720
want to cut his balls.
492
00:32:20,460 --> 00:32:24,930
It's not just... saying out loud,
everything is going to be fine. It's
493
00:32:24,930 --> 00:32:28,030
being supportive, taking care of the
baby.
494
00:32:28,570 --> 00:32:34,910
This birth class is a good beginning,
but I need this on a daily doses.
495
00:32:36,010 --> 00:32:37,290
Just look at me, Matt.
496
00:32:38,270 --> 00:32:41,890
Like, how pregnant I am. I feel lonely.
I feel overwhelmed.
497
00:32:42,570 --> 00:32:47,670
Jazz, do you see, like, the amount of
effort I'm putting, like, I'm trying?
498
00:32:48,170 --> 00:32:50,550
I see it. I'm trying, but you only see
the negative.
499
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:58,100
I appreciate everything you're doing. I
see you trying, but I
500
00:32:58,100 --> 00:33:04,940
need for this experience, you know, I
need you to fully be there for
501
00:33:04,940 --> 00:33:09,960
me. No jokes, no nothing, just like I
want a caring partner.
502
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,200
I need that right now.
503
00:33:13,020 --> 00:33:14,300
So I'm pleased.
504
00:33:15,020 --> 00:33:16,720
That's the only request I have.
505
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,320
All right.
506
00:33:20,450 --> 00:33:21,690
Look at me in the eyes.
507
00:33:22,190 --> 00:33:23,190
Promise.
508
00:33:25,890 --> 00:33:26,890
Yes, boss.
509
00:33:28,870 --> 00:33:29,870
She's right.
510
00:33:30,210 --> 00:33:32,210
I'm going to have to do my part.
511
00:33:32,710 --> 00:33:37,150
I'm going to have to step up and do my
part. But there's a lot more stuff about
512
00:33:37,150 --> 00:33:39,950
this baby, and we've covered 5 % in this
class.
513
00:33:40,670 --> 00:33:41,730
I don't know anything.
514
00:33:42,290 --> 00:33:44,970
Nothing. You know, what am I going to
do?
515
00:33:45,830 --> 00:33:46,830
Scary.
516
00:33:50,149 --> 00:33:53,550
It's a lot for me. I know it is for you,
you know. I don't want to sound
517
00:33:53,550 --> 00:33:57,930
selfish, but I am the one who has the
baby inside, the one doing the baking,
518
00:33:57,930 --> 00:34:03,510
one that has to go through the pain of
delivery, you know, the pushing.
519
00:34:04,050 --> 00:34:07,050
And trust me, that's a lot.
520
00:34:09,409 --> 00:34:12,870
I don't even know how many days or weeks
until the baby is born.
521
00:34:13,210 --> 00:34:14,210
It's very stressful.
522
00:34:32,779 --> 00:34:33,779
Oh. Hey.
523
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:39,560
Someone got smacked last night. Oh,
yeah. I'm in a good mood. Your hair.
524
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:40,560
Lord.
525
00:34:40,860 --> 00:34:42,600
Okay. That's a good, too.
526
00:34:42,820 --> 00:34:44,800
Wow. Your bed looks a little too neat.
527
00:34:45,260 --> 00:34:46,260
Yeah.
528
00:34:46,820 --> 00:34:50,780
Looking like you got ravaged. Yeah. Oh,
yeah. I was, like, doing all kinds of
529
00:34:50,780 --> 00:34:52,460
moves. Like, like, doing, like, like.
530
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:54,480
What the?
531
00:34:54,639 --> 00:34:55,639
Wow.
532
00:35:07,259 --> 00:35:09,520
Ow! I'm trying to pull it. I'm just
trying to get it out.
533
00:35:10,980 --> 00:35:11,980
Relax.
534
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:13,218
How'd you sleep?
535
00:35:13,220 --> 00:35:15,080
Uh, by myself.
536
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:16,800
What do you mean by yourself?
537
00:35:17,020 --> 00:35:19,540
It was fine the first two minutes, but
then it turned sour.
538
00:35:20,300 --> 00:35:22,840
Why? As usual. I don't know. I thought
he was getting in the mood to want to,
539
00:35:22,900 --> 00:35:24,240
like, talk and open up. Say something.
540
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:30,360
No, no, no, no, no. He kind of just went
right into, you know, making me feel
541
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:31,540
like I'm the blame for everything.
542
00:35:34,300 --> 00:35:36,000
Last night, Georgie stormed out.
543
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,840
He didn't come back to the room, and I
have no idea where he is.
544
00:35:39,900 --> 00:35:41,060
No text, no call.
545
00:35:41,780 --> 00:35:44,360
I don't know what he's thinking and
feeling in this moment.
546
00:35:44,580 --> 00:35:47,320
It just doesn't feel good.
547
00:35:50,100 --> 00:35:55,840
He's very dismissive, and he was even
saying in Bulgaria he was able to think
548
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:56,840
lot.
549
00:35:57,020 --> 00:35:58,020
Think about what?
550
00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,198
I don't know.
551
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:04,580
He's probably thinking about his future
for himself and not having me included
552
00:36:04,580 --> 00:36:05,098
in it.
553
00:36:05,100 --> 00:36:06,100
Hmm.
554
00:36:06,130 --> 00:36:08,830
That's the vibe I got because the tone
was nice. If he was thinking something
555
00:36:08,830 --> 00:36:13,530
positive, he'd be like, I was so happy
to be around family and you were there.
556
00:36:14,010 --> 00:36:17,990
I could definitely see us thinking so
much about what our future could look
557
00:36:17,990 --> 00:36:21,470
like. It wasn't anything like that. He
wasn't excited? No, it was total
558
00:36:21,470 --> 00:36:28,270
as if he was thinking about, he doesn't
want to waste his time on me because he
559
00:36:28,270 --> 00:36:29,270
misses his family.
560
00:36:29,570 --> 00:36:32,070
He doesn't think that I've been like a
family to him.
561
00:36:32,710 --> 00:36:34,790
We've been nothing but family to him.
Yes, we have.
562
00:36:35,340 --> 00:36:38,840
We've all been there for him. We've all
given him the benefit of the doubt and
563
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:40,800
showed him love and cared about him.
564
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,120
I don't know. I smell something fishy.
565
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,980
I texted him, are you OK? Will you be
coming back to the hotel? He just
566
00:36:48,980 --> 00:36:50,280
responded. What did he say?
567
00:36:51,720 --> 00:36:56,700
Not sure if you're really asking because
you really care or you're just
568
00:36:56,700 --> 00:37:00,720
pretending that you care. Because most
of the time, you are pretending that you
569
00:37:00,720 --> 00:37:03,920
care, but you don't give a at all. Seems
like he's the one that doesn't care.
570
00:37:04,410 --> 00:37:05,590
I think he's basically talking about
himself.
571
00:37:05,990 --> 00:37:07,690
Yes. When projecting that onto me.
572
00:37:07,990 --> 00:37:10,070
Exactly. That's what it sounds like,
Darcy.
573
00:37:12,850 --> 00:37:14,230
Okay. You're not crazy.
574
00:37:14,490 --> 00:37:15,490
I'm not crazy.
575
00:37:15,930 --> 00:37:17,230
Something going on over there.
576
00:37:18,610 --> 00:37:23,070
Really, I just kind of feel like Darcy
just can't get anywhere with Georgie.
577
00:37:23,070 --> 00:37:28,390
I feel like this time around, this
conversation, it's hitting deeper.
578
00:37:28,650 --> 00:37:31,630
And it's hitting her soul into her core.
579
00:37:34,240 --> 00:37:38,780
You know, I just hope that she finds the
peace that she needs so she can, you
580
00:37:38,780 --> 00:37:40,320
know, make the right decision for
herself.
581
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:43,560
Oh, Darce.
582
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:48,580
You deserve a husband that's going to be
there for you to think of things and
583
00:37:48,580 --> 00:37:51,200
not always, you know, flip things on
you.
584
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,960
But he's always going to. He's never
going to change.
585
00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:58,520
Never going to happen.
586
00:38:00,420 --> 00:38:02,340
That's why it hurts.
587
00:38:21,330 --> 00:38:26,710
I don't know what else to do to help fix
this marriage and our relationship.
588
00:38:27,590 --> 00:38:28,970
Because it's broken.
589
00:38:29,750 --> 00:38:32,190
You can only patch up the cracks so many
times.
590
00:38:33,660 --> 00:38:38,640
I don't know what to expect. I don't
even know what to say. If I see him,
591
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:39,700
got to do what's best for you.
592
00:38:41,580 --> 00:38:48,380
I don't want to be manipulated or angry
or feel like I'm
593
00:38:48,380 --> 00:38:49,380
not worth it.
594
00:38:50,300 --> 00:38:51,300
Not again.
595
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,640
Two people love each other. They can
forgive and forget.
596
00:38:57,580 --> 00:39:01,500
We've been able to do that before in the
past, but something just feels
597
00:39:01,500 --> 00:39:02,740
different this time.
598
00:39:03,380 --> 00:39:05,520
All you can do is focus on yourself.
599
00:39:06,260 --> 00:39:10,000
Just know that I love you. We all love
you. We have your back.
600
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:18,800
Can you do a Sasquatch?
601
00:39:19,780 --> 00:39:20,840
He's dragging it along.
602
00:39:21,720 --> 00:39:26,780
I think he will have a big... I could
not believe on Sasquatch. I don't know.
603
00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:28,240
Sasquatch is real.
604
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,140
Okay. Sasquatch is real. If you say so.
605
00:39:32,140 --> 00:39:33,460
Yara's dropping hints.
606
00:39:37,240 --> 00:39:43,380
So, here today for your first OB visit.
Make sure there's a good heartbeat.
607
00:39:44,180 --> 00:39:49,640
We are done with this fertility journey
for now, but I'm so scared.
608
00:39:50,740 --> 00:39:52,600
You're going to feel a little bit of
pressure.
609
00:39:53,220 --> 00:39:54,220
Oh, my God.
610
00:40:08,430 --> 00:40:10,310
Brennan, you have to drive low.
611
00:40:10,930 --> 00:40:12,410
You want to throw up in the car?
612
00:40:12,610 --> 00:40:13,610
I don't.
613
00:40:13,710 --> 00:40:16,650
Sorry, it's just there's a lot of
information going on right now.
614
00:40:16,930 --> 00:40:18,450
Now you want to turn to the security?
615
00:40:18,930 --> 00:40:22,450
We have really crazy news, and I'm still
trying to process everything.
616
00:40:28,710 --> 00:40:29,710
Like...
617
00:40:37,230 --> 00:40:43,970
I knew, I felt like it would happen, but
I was beginning to wonder it may never
618
00:40:43,970 --> 00:40:44,970
happen.
619
00:41:06,430 --> 00:41:11,930
so scared to drink soju so we decided to
go into a third opinion them give us
620
00:41:11,930 --> 00:41:18,310
plan i changed my diet i started doing
hormones and vitamins and most important
621
00:41:18,310 --> 00:41:23,710
counting evolution day okay take a deep
breath
622
00:41:23,710 --> 00:41:30,450
i'm so happy we are done with this
fertility
623
00:41:30,450 --> 00:41:32,210
journey for now but
624
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:39,000
Now it's most scared and most excited
moment is first OB visit.
625
00:41:39,460 --> 00:41:43,960
I'm worried that I won't hear heartbeat
and I'm so scared.
626
00:41:45,260 --> 00:41:47,780
Good morning. How are you? I'm Dr.
627
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:51,260
Mayer. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet
you. Nice to meet you.
628
00:41:51,900 --> 00:41:58,560
So here today for your first OB visit,
how do you feel?
629
00:41:59,340 --> 00:42:00,780
Um, weird.
630
00:42:01,530 --> 00:42:02,509
Yeah.
631
00:42:02,510 --> 00:42:06,190
That's super normal. It looks like I'm
hungover every day. That is so normal.
632
00:42:06,450 --> 00:42:13,190
So you are considered seven weeks and
four days. And so you're very much right
633
00:42:13,190 --> 00:42:18,070
in the middle of the first trimester.
We'll do our ultrasound today, make sure
634
00:42:18,070 --> 00:42:23,090
there's a good heartbeat, and then the
next visit will be at 12 weeks, right
635
00:42:23,090 --> 00:42:25,510
before you turn into that second
trimester.
636
00:42:25,950 --> 00:42:27,170
All right, my love.
637
00:42:28,170 --> 00:42:29,450
Quick rest out.
638
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,280
You're going to feel a little bit of
pressure.
639
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:39,960
And then.
640
00:42:47,980 --> 00:42:49,360
Right here.
641
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:51,840
That's your baby.
642
00:42:53,540 --> 00:42:55,740
Look how cute your little baby is.
643
00:43:01,260 --> 00:43:04,160
Do you see right here? That's the
heartbeat flickering.
644
00:43:07,820 --> 00:43:10,680
Wow, this one's so good. I saw that.
645
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,540
Everything looks so good, guys.
646
00:43:16,580 --> 00:43:18,740
All right, let me measure that
heartbeat.
647
00:43:20,060 --> 00:43:25,140
And yours is 158. That's perfect. And I
love it when the heartbeat is on the
648
00:43:25,140 --> 00:43:26,180
high side of normal.
649
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:27,620
Your baby's perfect.
650
00:43:29,100 --> 00:43:30,100
Oh, my gosh.
651
00:43:31,630 --> 00:43:32,930
I'm rushing. I can't cry.
652
00:43:33,250 --> 00:43:34,690
Yes, you can.
653
00:43:35,090 --> 00:43:36,110
Yes, you can.
654
00:43:36,870 --> 00:43:39,730
You're still a woman with a baby inside.
655
00:43:44,470 --> 00:43:46,510
Oh, my God, you guys.
656
00:43:46,750 --> 00:43:48,950
Yeah, it's so fun.
657
00:43:50,190 --> 00:43:56,430
Knowing you're pregnant is big enough
news, but when you actually, like, see
658
00:43:56,470 --> 00:43:57,550
it's...
659
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:02,180
I don't know. There's some moment where
my heart gets to beat, you know?
660
00:44:02,460 --> 00:44:03,700
It's incredible.
661
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:08,660
The whole thing that we can even, like,
start to look inside and what's going on
662
00:44:08,660 --> 00:44:10,360
in there, it's really spiteful.
663
00:44:19,180 --> 00:44:23,040
Don't touch my uterus. Okay.
664
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:26,680
Gonna be a dad.
665
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,120
That's crazy.
666
00:44:29,720 --> 00:44:33,100
I think I want to be a dad like my dad,
you know? I want to... I always
667
00:44:33,100 --> 00:44:36,760
respected my dad a lot. He was always
fun, but firm, you know?
668
00:44:37,140 --> 00:44:39,300
I feel like I'm going to get the fun
part down for sure.
669
00:44:41,540 --> 00:44:43,680
Okay, let's go home. I have to eat.
670
00:44:43,900 --> 00:44:45,160
Okay. Steak and potato.
671
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:47,160
Gotcha.
672
00:44:47,820 --> 00:44:50,080
This is a big moment for our family, you
know?
673
00:44:50,420 --> 00:44:51,420
And I...
674
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:56,420
Honestly, cannot wait to tell my mom and
my dad because, you know, this has been
675
00:44:56,420 --> 00:45:01,560
a long time coming. So I would like to
do something special, something
676
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:02,560
memorable.
677
00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:09,220
I don't know what would be deserving of
such a big moment.
678
00:45:10,500 --> 00:45:11,500
Bye. Bye.
679
00:45:20,940 --> 00:45:23,100
I feel like water leaking out of me.
680
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,200
Jasmine, she's in labor.
681
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,400
The baby is coming.
682
00:45:29,700 --> 00:45:31,260
It's just straight anxiety.
683
00:45:33,460 --> 00:45:36,600
Like, oh man, she's really going to have
a kid.
684
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:51,800
It's 1 a .m.
685
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:59,200
I was obviously in bed and I felt like
my water has broken.
686
00:45:59,620 --> 00:46:05,040
I went to the bathroom and I'm bleeding
and I'm in pain. I'm having certain
687
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,840
contractions. So what Matt is going to
do right now is he's going to call the
688
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,520
midwife because I think a baby is
coming.
689
00:46:12,540 --> 00:46:14,360
Matt, you have to wake up.
690
00:46:14,700 --> 00:46:17,980
I know you want to sleep, but forget
about sleeping for the next.
691
00:46:19,210 --> 00:46:20,410
Days of your life.
692
00:46:32,870 --> 00:46:39,790
Oh, I feel like water leaking out of
693
00:46:39,790 --> 00:46:41,450
me. I have a diaper right now.
694
00:46:44,270 --> 00:46:45,270
Oh.
695
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,680
Make sure that I don't give birth in
this car, Matt, please.
696
00:46:51,260 --> 00:46:54,420
I don't want to give birth in the car.
697
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:56,520
Just breathe, Mama.
698
00:46:56,860 --> 00:46:57,860
Breathe.
699
00:46:58,140 --> 00:46:59,640
Try not to get excited.
700
00:47:00,900 --> 00:47:04,740
I'm trying not to, but it's giving me
anxiety, the fact that this birth center
701
00:47:04,740 --> 00:47:05,740
is so far away.
702
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:07,560
Jasmine,
703
00:47:10,860 --> 00:47:12,740
she's in labor. It's happening.
704
00:47:13,340 --> 00:47:16,120
I hope we made the right choice to come
to a birth center.
705
00:47:18,410 --> 00:47:22,190
And I'm thinking to myself, we should
have just probably went to a hospital
706
00:47:22,190 --> 00:47:26,630
because if anything happens to her or
the kid, like, what are we going to do?
707
00:47:27,410 --> 00:47:31,870
My heart is racing. I feel like the
walls are kind of closing in. And I'm
708
00:47:31,910 --> 00:47:33,230
stress to the max.
709
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:48,880
So freaking painful.
710
00:47:50,060 --> 00:47:52,460
Oh, here comes another one.
711
00:47:58,100 --> 00:48:04,940
But I'm taking it as a pro because I
feel like every contraction is bringing
712
00:48:04,940 --> 00:48:11,560
closer to meet our angel, our baby.
Today is her birthday.
713
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:17,420
And I think always.
714
00:48:25,300 --> 00:48:28,240
We just made it to the birth center,
which is good.
715
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,000
I'm in a lot of pain right now.
716
00:48:32,980 --> 00:48:35,540
Let's pray that everything works out.
Amen.
717
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:40,580
And that we can hold our baby pretty
soon.
718
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:41,980
So let's see.
719
00:48:48,110 --> 00:48:50,810
Come on. You can do anything for a
minute, right?
720
00:48:52,210 --> 00:48:55,050
Good job.
721
00:48:56,490 --> 00:48:59,490
That's your baby. Every contraction,
that's your baby coming down.
722
00:48:59,750 --> 00:49:01,690
Yeah. Like a villain.
723
00:49:02,130 --> 00:49:03,230
Of course.
724
00:49:06,110 --> 00:49:07,110
It's crazy.
725
00:49:07,410 --> 00:49:13,890
It's just crazy to know, like, the baby
is coming. Like, Jasmine is in so much
726
00:49:13,890 --> 00:49:15,990
pain. You want to try, too?
727
00:49:16,460 --> 00:49:18,060
Yeah, can you talk a little bit? Yeah.
728
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:19,640
Yeah? Let's do that.
729
00:49:19,980 --> 00:49:24,420
So this is the part that's been scaring
the crap out of me because it makes me
730
00:49:24,420 --> 00:49:27,820
feel, like, powerless, you know?
731
00:49:28,140 --> 00:49:32,840
And I feel bad, and I don't want
anything to happen to her, you know?
732
00:49:37,620 --> 00:49:38,620
Breathe,
733
00:49:40,060 --> 00:49:41,060
honey, breathe.
734
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:58,660
Please, God, please don't let there be
any issue. Please let the baby come out
735
00:49:58,660 --> 00:50:00,120
fine. Please let the baby be healthy.
736
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:02,019
She's coming.
737
00:50:02,020 --> 00:50:03,200
She's coming. She's coming.
738
00:50:05,820 --> 00:50:10,020
It's just straight anxiety because I'm
worried to death that something might
739
00:50:10,020 --> 00:50:11,020
happen.
740
00:50:38,190 --> 00:50:39,190
Oh, my God.
741
00:50:39,590 --> 00:50:41,610
Look at all the baby stuff.
742
00:50:41,850 --> 00:50:45,150
We should go in and look at them. No,
no, no, not inside.
743
00:50:45,930 --> 00:50:48,410
That is bad superstition in Russia.
744
00:50:49,070 --> 00:50:51,550
After first trimester, we can go inside.
745
00:50:52,050 --> 00:50:54,430
Julia, you have too many superstitions
and stuff.
746
00:50:54,830 --> 00:50:58,550
No, you can't do this because we have to
do everything right.
747
00:50:58,930 --> 00:51:00,530
I promise we will go store.
748
00:51:01,070 --> 00:51:02,910
In the second trimester, we will go
store.
749
00:51:03,850 --> 00:51:04,850
That's a good idea?
750
00:51:05,410 --> 00:51:06,430
All right, whatever.
751
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:09,200
Okay, Brian, I'm hungry.
752
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:13,880
Let's go, let's go, come on. Can we go
this way? It's a bad superstition.
753
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:21,560
Hi,
754
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:28,698
how are you?
755
00:51:28,700 --> 00:51:30,380
Good, welcome in.
756
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:31,960
Have a seat wherever you'd like.
757
00:51:32,180 --> 00:51:35,200
Are we eating or drinking, or both
today? Both. Okay, perfect.
758
00:51:35,950 --> 00:51:36,950
And thirsty.
759
00:51:37,050 --> 00:51:37,888
Love it.
760
00:51:37,890 --> 00:51:38,890
Okay, everything.
761
00:51:39,770 --> 00:51:41,830
They are officially seven weeks
pregnant.
762
00:51:42,050 --> 00:51:44,430
And I just crave everything.
763
00:51:44,930 --> 00:51:46,470
And this is good feelings.
764
00:51:48,110 --> 00:51:52,190
First trimester has been tough. And
people say morning sickness.
765
00:51:52,510 --> 00:51:57,070
That is not morning sickness. That's all
day sickness.
766
00:51:57,970 --> 00:51:59,150
Thank you.
767
00:51:59,590 --> 00:52:00,750
Look at that.
768
00:52:01,410 --> 00:52:04,190
Lollipop really helped me with my
nausea.
769
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,740
And Brennan trying to give me his
lollipop.
770
00:52:07,940 --> 00:52:12,260
Sucking on stuff helped reduce the
nausea. I mean, all I'm ever trying to
771
00:52:12,260 --> 00:52:13,580
help you out. You know what I mean?
772
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:16,480
But it does not have a gum inside.
773
00:52:17,020 --> 00:52:18,960
It has something that rhymes with gum
inside.
774
00:52:19,860 --> 00:52:22,000
What does this mean? What does this
mean?
775
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:24,800
You'll learn when you're older.
776
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,140
Did you have a by chance garlic sauce?
777
00:52:29,700 --> 00:52:31,340
We have a garlic aioli sauce.
778
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:32,680
Would you like that?
779
00:52:33,500 --> 00:52:34,500
Is that aioli?
780
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:36,240
Oh, sounds interesting.
781
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:38,080
Enjoy. Oh,
782
00:52:40,020 --> 00:52:41,960
strong.
783
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:49,220
Oh, my gosh. Why you never show me this
sauce before?
784
00:52:49,580 --> 00:52:50,860
I think they sell it at the grocery
store.
785
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:52,360
Garlic sauce?
786
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:53,920
Yeah.
787
00:52:54,780 --> 00:52:56,360
Is your life now complete?
788
00:52:56,620 --> 00:52:58,700
You're just going to be drinking it by
the tub?
789
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:02,880
I want just sweet bread.
790
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,060
And I put in the garlic sauce, and I eat
it.
791
00:53:06,300 --> 00:53:10,800
Like, I'm dipping in a super, like,
garlic onion sauce. I've seen you eat
792
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:14,140
with chicken sauce, Julia. I mean...
Yeah.
793
00:53:14,780 --> 00:53:16,420
Pizza with chicken sauce is good.
794
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:24,240
Lately, Julia's had weird cravings.
Like, she'll dip some french fries in
795
00:53:24,240 --> 00:53:25,240
lemonade.
796
00:53:27,020 --> 00:53:28,300
That's weird.
797
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,940
I need to try every sauce now.
798
00:53:34,060 --> 00:53:38,700
I try to stock the fridge with whatever
she wants, and I swear to God, we'll go
799
00:53:38,700 --> 00:53:41,920
to the store and spend $200, and then
she'll be like, burgers.
800
00:53:43,380 --> 00:53:49,500
So it's like caring for Julia right now
is a challenge. She is needy.
801
00:53:50,540 --> 00:53:51,540
Needy.
802
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:53,000
Seriously.
803
00:53:56,780 --> 00:53:59,700
It's interesting that you have all these
weird cravings.
804
00:54:00,220 --> 00:54:01,220
That's so...
805
00:54:03,230 --> 00:54:04,230
Dancing in there?
806
00:54:05,930 --> 00:54:07,570
Just doing little back flips in there?
807
00:54:07,870 --> 00:54:09,290
Don't move your hand.
808
00:54:09,550 --> 00:54:11,970
Why? Don't show people here around.
809
00:54:13,930 --> 00:54:19,690
But it's a lot happening, especially
with my body, with my mood, with my
810
00:54:19,690 --> 00:54:25,290
hormones. It's a lot of happening. I can
feel it, but at the same time, I
811
00:54:25,290 --> 00:54:29,470
doesn't believe it. You're having a lot
of changes now, and you're grown.
812
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,320
In some of my favorite areas, you know.
813
00:54:32,940 --> 00:54:38,880
It's becoming noticeable, Julia. So we
really, it's time to tell my parents
814
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:40,160
before they figure it out.
815
00:54:40,860 --> 00:54:43,200
And they get pissed off because we
didn't tell them.
816
00:54:46,540 --> 00:54:52,060
Brandon, your mom, she'll just make sure
everything in her way.
817
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,800
I think... It'd be a really good idea to
tell my parents right now because since
818
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:06,900
we've come back from Europe, they're
still mad about the financial bond we
819
00:55:06,900 --> 00:55:10,680
ourselves in. And I just feel like
they'll be happy for us.
820
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,080
They're the grandparents, you know?
821
00:55:13,660 --> 00:55:19,240
But Julia hasn't seen my parents since
the last time we had a fight with them.
822
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:25,840
So, can you are just waiting for a
little more time? I've always been...
823
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:30,300
already almost done first trimester. I
promise, in the second trimester, we're
824
00:55:30,300 --> 00:55:33,580
going to tell my parents and your
parents, because we need to make a plan.
825
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:38,780
No, I mean, what if they find out before
the second trimester?
826
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,600
Your brain's going to explode now. No,
you're just creating a recipe for
827
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:48,080
disaster. Your parents have to learn how
to mind their business, doesn't push me
828
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,680
and do anything. You and me have to
learn...
829
00:55:51,130 --> 00:55:52,310
To be a parent.
830
00:55:54,570 --> 00:55:56,690
We could use the support, you know?
831
00:55:56,930 --> 00:56:00,330
Give my parents time to, like, plan for
this. Give us advice.
832
00:56:00,530 --> 00:56:05,170
There's so much we don't know about
having babies, and they do.
833
00:56:06,670 --> 00:56:08,650
Betty, she will be overstepping.
834
00:56:09,070 --> 00:56:11,550
She already over -controlled us.
835
00:56:11,990 --> 00:56:16,450
And now I'm pregnant. I don't want her
to be telling me what to do. She told
836
00:56:16,510 --> 00:56:19,770
like, where to go, and she will be
suspicious what I'm doing.
837
00:56:23,720 --> 00:56:25,660
It's important my mom and dad know now.
838
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:29,880
I mean, they're the most, like,
important people to know. You know, when
839
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,900
this child, they gain a status. They
become grandparents, you know?
840
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:37,800
So, like, if we're going to tell
anybody, it should be them. They should
841
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:38,800
first.
842
00:56:42,540 --> 00:56:46,500
I don't think my mom was overbearing.
She just wants to help and be
843
00:56:46,900 --> 00:56:51,800
But I feel like Julia keeping it a
secret is just making the situation
844
00:56:52,060 --> 00:56:53,080
Because, yeah.
845
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:56,520
My parents find out we've been hiding
something as big as this from them,
846
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:57,780
they're going to be absolutely offended.
847
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:11,479
Thank you.
848
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:12,480
Hello.
849
00:57:13,940 --> 00:57:14,940
How are you?
850
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:18,040
Ready to go find Sasquatch.
851
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,100
Are we waiting for the other one?
852
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:22,940
Who? Yeah, where's Morgan and Alex? Oh,
they left.
853
00:57:25,450 --> 00:57:26,450
What? What? He left.
854
00:57:26,730 --> 00:57:28,570
Yeah. They didn't even tell me bye
either. They just hauled out.
855
00:57:29,390 --> 00:57:31,330
They go, they went back. What happened?
856
00:57:31,870 --> 00:57:33,050
I'm mad about last night, of course.
857
00:57:33,330 --> 00:57:35,910
Yeah. Nothing, bro. What happened? We
talked to them. They were fine.
858
00:57:36,230 --> 00:57:41,170
I mean, me and Yara had a conversation
with Lauren. They weren't really
859
00:57:41,170 --> 00:57:42,170
about that conversation.
860
00:57:42,250 --> 00:57:44,750
So I guess that was just like their cue
to get the out of here.
861
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:55,920
Just look at me.
862
00:57:56,540 --> 00:57:57,540
Just look at me.
863
00:57:59,580 --> 00:58:02,280
I saw you guys talking, and then I saw,
like, a glass break.
864
00:58:02,740 --> 00:58:04,440
Yeah. It looks like it broke everything.
865
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:08,680
I didn't break everything. I mean, I
told them the truth.
866
00:58:09,980 --> 00:58:10,980
About what?
867
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:15,500
I told Julia what you told me, and Julia
went and told her what you told me. I
868
00:58:15,500 --> 00:58:17,720
called her out. You told her that? Yeah.
869
00:58:18,620 --> 00:58:20,380
What, you mad I ruined your friendship
again?
870
00:58:21,420 --> 00:58:23,180
Well, now she's probably mad at me
again.
871
00:58:23,930 --> 00:58:29,710
But I was saying that more as a
precautionary for Yara not to be like,
872
00:58:29,710 --> 00:58:31,370
from her, just to let her know.
873
00:58:31,670 --> 00:58:35,030
I had a shot ski and felt like talking
about it. Oh, my God.
874
00:58:35,350 --> 00:58:37,290
You don't have to tattletale.
875
00:58:39,690 --> 00:58:44,990
I feel really awful. Lauren leaving this
abruptly is not good.
876
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:50,180
I think Jovi needs to keep his mouth
shut and mind his own business because
877
00:58:50,180 --> 00:58:53,900
wasn't planning on saying anything to
Lauren. She's not that type of person.
878
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,660
She avoids conflict at all costs.
879
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,820
Why would he instigate, like, another
fight? We all just got over something
880
00:59:01,820 --> 00:59:05,220
massive. And then he's going to bring up
some other bull.
881
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:09,800
He did it again, you know, like, and
he's again playing. He's being a
882
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:11,980
Yeah, he again does the same.
883
00:59:12,620 --> 00:59:15,000
He's like, he's up to no good, too,
right?
884
00:59:17,270 --> 00:59:21,410
Well, honestly, like, that information
sucks to hear because now I don't know
885
00:59:21,410 --> 00:59:22,570
where her and I stand.
886
00:59:23,570 --> 00:59:25,210
Now I'm back in the lion's den.
887
00:59:27,430 --> 00:59:28,430
Anyways,
888
00:59:30,410 --> 00:59:33,990
you know, like, who's the myths about
the Sasquatches?
889
00:59:34,210 --> 00:59:35,210
In Moldova.
890
00:59:35,710 --> 00:59:37,250
Everybody's got a different name for it,
huh?
891
00:59:37,470 --> 00:59:39,310
Well, Andrew, in Moldova, how did you
call?
892
00:59:39,530 --> 00:59:40,530
Baba Yaga.
893
00:59:40,670 --> 00:59:41,670
Baba Yaga?
894
00:59:41,910 --> 00:59:42,910
Yeah.
895
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:49,080
I also heard that Sasquatch is
interested in blondes over here. We're
896
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:51,080
victims. We're going to run.
897
00:59:52,580 --> 00:59:54,720
I'll give you my wife, just let me live.
898
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:56,820
You know what I mean?
899
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,440
Hey, nobody never saw him. Maybe he's
hot.
900
00:59:59,820 --> 01:00:02,860
He probably has a big... And have a big
house in the forest.
901
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,760
He's got big feet.
902
01:00:05,980 --> 01:00:07,460
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
903
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,520
Right? Exactly.
904
01:00:11,300 --> 01:00:12,300
We're here!
905
01:00:17,620 --> 01:00:18,620
Hi, guys.
906
01:00:18,700 --> 01:00:20,940
Welcome to the land of Sasquatch.
907
01:00:21,380 --> 01:00:22,380
My name's Mike.
908
01:00:23,020 --> 01:00:24,020
Hello.
909
01:00:24,420 --> 01:00:26,180
Have you ever been this far in the woods
before?
910
01:00:26,780 --> 01:00:29,380
Been in the woods, but we never saw
Chupacabra.
911
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:30,720
Chupacabra?
912
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:32,460
Looking for the wrong thing, ladies.
913
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:35,780
Okay, well, follow me.
914
01:00:37,220 --> 01:00:42,000
You know, we met the bartender the first
night, and he knew a guy who does these
915
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:43,000
Sasquatch tours.
916
01:00:44,190 --> 01:00:48,410
My great -grandfather, I think his first
Sasquatch sighting was in 1936.
917
01:00:48,750 --> 01:00:49,830
He saw them off in the woods.
918
01:00:50,190 --> 01:00:51,930
I mean, he's clearly been out a bunch.
919
01:00:53,510 --> 01:00:57,130
It's so funny that every country has,
like, the stuff that lives in the woods.
920
01:00:57,510 --> 01:00:58,810
Because it's an anxiety.
921
01:00:59,730 --> 01:01:01,110
Everybody's scared of going in the
woods.
922
01:01:03,170 --> 01:01:07,530
The thing about Sasquatch is that
they're mostly out at night. So if you
923
01:01:07,530 --> 01:01:10,530
take a picture or shine a flashlight,
you're really not going to see anything
924
01:01:10,530 --> 01:01:13,590
but just a black blob. So it's very hard
to find them, very hard to see them.
925
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:17,900
There's state campsites over here and
I've heard people screaming, so I assume
926
01:01:17,900 --> 01:01:19,780
he shows up and wants something to eat.
927
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:26,720
I don't believe in Sasquatches, but I
definitely believe that there are some
928
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:32,080
questionable creatures in the woods
because when I was about 13, I was
929
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:37,600
alone in the woods and something flew
past me and I still to this day have no
930
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,240
clue what the hell it was. A bird?
931
01:01:39,930 --> 01:01:44,410
It was just like this dark thing that
just flew by, but it was massive, and it
932
01:01:44,410 --> 01:01:46,850
was at the top of the trees. It wasn't a
bird. It just,
933
01:01:47,670 --> 01:01:49,930
I don't even know. I can't explain it.
It was so weird.
934
01:01:55,310 --> 01:01:56,970
Oh, this is beautiful.
935
01:01:57,410 --> 01:01:58,510
Wow, look at this.
936
01:01:58,910 --> 01:02:00,870
It's quite nice to wake up to every
morning.
937
01:02:01,130 --> 01:02:02,130
Yes, it is.
938
01:02:02,930 --> 01:02:07,570
So you can see here, these are fresh
claw marks from Sasquatch.
939
01:02:09,700 --> 01:02:13,320
Oh. At night, you can hear them
scratching the trees. With a console.
940
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:14,840
Oh, okay.
941
01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:17,340
That's what it is. We got a sign, Andre.
942
01:02:17,780 --> 01:02:18,780
Really creepy.
943
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:20,000
Wow.
944
01:02:21,380 --> 01:02:25,240
I fully believe in all this Sasquatch
stuff, and apparently this is a popular
945
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:27,720
place. Like, everybody believes
Sasquatch is here.
946
01:02:27,940 --> 01:02:31,040
So I was thinking, you know, we have to
do this. We're going to look for
947
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:32,460
Sasquatch, but it's going to be fun.
948
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:35,700
I could not believe in Sasquatch. I
don't know.
949
01:02:36,140 --> 01:02:37,140
Sasquatch is real.
950
01:02:37,950 --> 01:02:40,050
Okay, Sasquatch is real. If you say so.
951
01:02:44,210 --> 01:02:46,130
We're kind of in the middle of nowhere,
honestly.
952
01:02:47,250 --> 01:02:49,190
What do people eat around here?
953
01:02:49,690 --> 01:02:50,790
Do you have a grocery store?
954
01:02:51,610 --> 01:02:53,090
No, we don't have grocery stores.
955
01:02:53,650 --> 01:02:55,770
So where do you get, like, eggs or milk?
956
01:02:56,150 --> 01:02:57,550
My sister has cows and chickens.
957
01:02:58,030 --> 01:02:59,650
I'm with you. Come on, let's go.
958
01:03:03,290 --> 01:03:04,550
That was Sasquatch.
959
01:03:06,930 --> 01:03:08,430
Can you do a Sasquatch?
960
01:03:09,310 --> 01:03:10,490
He's dragging it alone.
961
01:03:11,290 --> 01:03:14,290
Because he's a big guy. If you see a
lion, he's dragging it alone. I think
962
01:03:14,290 --> 01:03:17,690
a big guy and I think he will have a
big... Speaking about that one.
963
01:03:18,090 --> 01:03:19,790
Like that. A Sasquatch.
964
01:03:20,250 --> 01:03:21,250
That's a crooked.
965
01:03:23,230 --> 01:03:24,330
Yara's dropping hints.
966
01:03:28,759 --> 01:03:29,759
That's funny.
967
01:03:30,100 --> 01:03:31,580
Josie, I think that was a hint for you.
968
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,980
Hey, guys, I don't want to slow down for
anybody, and we're way further than I'm
969
01:03:35,980 --> 01:03:37,060
usually comfortable going.
970
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:41,660
So if you look over here, you can see
fresh tracks.
971
01:03:41,860 --> 01:03:45,380
I don't know what those are, so we've
probably come too far, and I'm not
972
01:03:45,380 --> 01:03:46,720
comfortable being all the way down here.
973
01:03:47,300 --> 01:03:48,300
You're too far?
974
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:50,660
I've never come this far.
975
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:52,120
Oh.
976
01:03:53,460 --> 01:03:55,200
See that there? That's a little bit of a
dent.
977
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:01,920
Did you dig that out?
978
01:04:03,300 --> 01:04:04,300
You see it?
979
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:07,040
No way that's real.
980
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:08,280
Babe, you're going to fall through
something.
981
01:04:09,340 --> 01:04:10,600
Okay, that's probably far enough.
982
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:12,120
We should go back.
983
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:16,220
Scenery from a horror movie here.
984
01:04:16,580 --> 01:04:17,900
Hey, stop. Don't.
985
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:20,920
Nobody's been close enough to know if
he's dangerous.
986
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:24,040
Stop.
987
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:27,060
Hey, that's close enough. We should
probably go back.
988
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:31,960
Here, the lake is his at night, and I
don't want to be out here. Okay, yeah,
989
01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:33,040
let's go.
990
01:04:33,780 --> 01:04:37,840
You know what? We should rename
Sasquatch Alex, because he disappears.
991
01:04:38,580 --> 01:04:39,580
He disappears!
992
01:04:41,380 --> 01:04:45,120
This little Sasquatch journey is a lot
of fun.
993
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:49,080
I love seeing Yara's goofy side. I think
she's so funny.
994
01:04:49,340 --> 01:04:52,500
But Jovi better watch out, because he's
on thin ice.
995
01:04:54,220 --> 01:04:59,320
I don't think that Jovi understands the
depth of this. Like, my friendship with
996
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:00,380
Lauren could be over.
997
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:04,540
Like, Lauren and I have finally had a
good night with each other.
998
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:08,520
I don't think Jovi's taking that into
consideration. I think he's just like,
999
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:10,760
whatever. They're not friends anymore.
No big deal.
1000
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,100
Jovi's not seeing it for what it is.
1001
01:05:14,740 --> 01:05:19,260
So the fact that Jovi is just trying to
stir the pot right now and be a starter
1002
01:05:19,260 --> 01:05:20,640
is not a good look.
1003
01:05:21,260 --> 01:05:24,240
And it just makes me really believe that
this is a dick.
1004
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:25,440
Yeah, a working dick.
1005
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,820
I got some appetite after this. Yeah, I
want to eat something.
1006
01:05:29,180 --> 01:05:31,880
All this talk is making me hungry.
1007
01:05:36,900 --> 01:05:40,680
I got this message from Georgie that he
wants to meet.
1008
01:05:40,900 --> 01:05:45,280
I'm eager and I'm ready to hear what he
has to say. Are we even together right
1009
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:46,249
now?
1010
01:05:46,250 --> 01:05:49,210
You walked out. I don't know. I want to
feel empowered for myself.
1011
01:05:49,430 --> 01:05:53,170
There needs to be some serious
conversations, and we're running out of
1012
01:06:48,650 --> 01:06:49,650
You want to drink something?
1013
01:06:50,190 --> 01:06:51,190
Yeah, I'll drink.
1014
01:06:51,230 --> 01:06:52,109
All right.
1015
01:06:52,110 --> 01:06:53,110
I'll do a Cosmo.
1016
01:06:53,710 --> 01:06:57,350
Can I have one Cosmo and one glass of
wine on the same plate?
1017
01:06:57,550 --> 01:06:58,550
Thank you.
1018
01:07:00,650 --> 01:07:06,390
I got this message from Georgie that he
wants to meet and explain what's on his
1019
01:07:06,390 --> 01:07:11,030
heart. So I'm eager and I'm ready to
hear what he has to say.
1020
01:07:13,530 --> 01:07:14,530
Thank you.
1021
01:07:21,770 --> 01:07:23,010
Did you sleep okay last night?
1022
01:07:23,450 --> 01:07:24,970
I'm back.
1023
01:07:26,130 --> 01:07:27,130
Where did you sleep?
1024
01:07:53,770 --> 01:07:56,270
Even last night I tried to talk with you
about it.
1025
01:07:56,930 --> 01:07:59,910
Emotions about our marriage? About
everything.
1026
01:08:01,030 --> 01:08:02,330
Work? What I want.
1027
01:08:02,550 --> 01:08:03,550
Finances, family?
1028
01:08:04,030 --> 01:08:05,030
Everything.
1029
01:08:05,570 --> 01:08:09,790
And if you can kind of dive in a little
deeper, divulge a little bit more.
1030
01:08:10,290 --> 01:08:16,850
Yeah, so one of the actually, what I
realized, one of the strongest feelings
1031
01:08:16,850 --> 01:08:18,630
emotions I have was for you.
1032
01:08:19,850 --> 01:08:23,850
You know, that's... I really care about
you and I really love you.
1033
01:08:24,729 --> 01:08:28,990
Thank you. I love you too, but are we
even together right now? Like, you
1034
01:08:28,990 --> 01:08:31,569
out. I don't know. I want to feel
empowered for myself.
1035
01:08:31,790 --> 01:08:33,109
I get you want to do the same thing.
1036
01:08:33,330 --> 01:08:36,189
Is this marriage going to work? Is it
not going to work? Like, there needs to
1037
01:08:36,189 --> 01:08:39,170
some serious conversations, and we're
running out of time.
1038
01:08:39,649 --> 01:08:40,770
That's why I want to talk with you.
1039
01:08:44,529 --> 01:08:46,450
Try to explain my feelings, how I feel.
1040
01:08:47,550 --> 01:08:51,010
I need to feel comfortable just to, I
don't know, I don't know. Comfortable
1041
01:08:51,010 --> 01:08:54,390
what? To be able to. Why don't you feel
comfortable with me? Because I'm
1042
01:08:54,390 --> 01:08:56,689
expressing how I feel, too.
1043
01:08:57,910 --> 01:09:01,270
And you can't handle the way that I
express myself. I'm sorry that I'm not
1044
01:09:01,270 --> 01:09:02,770
trying to get at a level 10.
1045
01:09:03,109 --> 01:09:07,350
I'm, I'm, I guess that way, because I
don't feel like we're getting each
1046
01:09:07,470 --> 01:09:08,670
It's too much.
1047
01:09:14,410 --> 01:09:15,410
What do you need to say?
1048
01:09:15,819 --> 01:09:18,960
And I don't want to talk anymore. I'm
really tired.
1049
01:09:19,859 --> 01:09:25,080
I love you.
1050
01:09:30,279 --> 01:09:36,819
When I see my sister with her kids and
her family.
1051
01:09:39,260 --> 01:09:41,819
And when my sister asks me if I want a
kid.
1052
01:10:08,770 --> 01:10:09,830
Where do you want to go with her?
1053
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:22,520
Breathe, mama. Breathe.
1054
01:10:23,660 --> 01:10:24,660
Breathe.
1055
01:10:25,900 --> 01:10:30,240
Deep breath. Keep coming. She's coming
right now, mama.
1056
01:10:30,500 --> 01:10:31,500
Keep coming.
1057
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:33,780
Take a deep breath, and then you push
down.
1058
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:50,660
Breathe, mama. Breathe.
1059
01:10:50,940 --> 01:10:52,340
Breathe. Breathe.
1060
01:10:53,880 --> 01:10:55,120
Breathe, honey. Breathe.
1061
01:10:57,100 --> 01:10:59,500
Deep breath. Keep coming. She's coming
right now, mama.
1062
01:10:59,780 --> 01:11:00,780
Keep coming.
1063
01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:04,740
We're going to work together.
1064
01:11:05,540 --> 01:11:08,480
Take a deep breath, and then you push
down.
1065
01:11:16,500 --> 01:11:17,500
It's coming, honey.
1066
01:11:17,900 --> 01:11:19,220
Breathe and push deep.
1067
01:11:42,690 --> 01:11:44,310
I love you.
1068
01:11:44,550 --> 01:11:46,430
I love you, honey.
1069
01:11:48,170 --> 01:11:49,170
You're fine.
1070
01:11:50,190 --> 01:11:51,190
You're fine.
1071
01:12:03,990 --> 01:12:06,070
Oh, my gosh.
1072
01:12:07,270 --> 01:12:13,670
Now just seeing my baby, my daughter, my
sis.
1073
01:12:14,210 --> 01:12:15,430
Thank you, honey.
1074
01:12:15,910 --> 01:12:19,250
I imagine her.
1075
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:26,260
in so many different ways, but none of
them get even the closer to how perfect
1076
01:12:26,260 --> 01:12:28,700
and beautiful she actually is.
1077
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:33,180
I feel like this is how an angel will
look like.
1078
01:12:34,480 --> 01:12:41,060
I would like to introduce our baby,
Matilda.
1079
01:12:42,020 --> 01:12:43,620
Matilda! Matilda's here.
1080
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:46,700
Just baked out of the oven.
1081
01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:48,880
And she has blue eyes.
1082
01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:53,860
Where'd you get the name Matilda from?
1083
01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:56,020
From a joke.
1084
01:12:56,440 --> 01:12:58,940
I used to call Matt Matilda.
1085
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:05,600
In Matilda, you can see the name Matt,
and it's Matt and Matty, because that's
1086
01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:06,600
how we called her.
1087
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:13,900
It was beautiful, very painful,
unmedicated, but worth every
1088
01:13:13,900 --> 01:13:17,580
second of pain just to meet my beautiful
angel.
1089
01:13:20,430 --> 01:13:26,670
With giving birth to my daughter and
Matt being there, I trust Matt as I have
1090
01:13:26,670 --> 01:13:27,790
never trusted a person.
1091
01:13:28,130 --> 01:13:34,250
When I was the most vulnerable, he was
there for me unconditionally, made me
1092
01:13:34,250 --> 01:13:35,310
feel so loved.
1093
01:13:35,750 --> 01:13:40,850
And after this, I can trust him with
anything because I know that no matter
1094
01:13:40,850 --> 01:13:42,410
what, he's going to have my back.
1095
01:13:48,810 --> 01:13:50,850
I have no doubt he's going to be a good
dad.
1096
01:13:52,890 --> 01:13:54,870
She's so beautiful. We're so blessed.
1097
01:13:55,410 --> 01:13:56,410
Wow.
1098
01:13:56,570 --> 01:13:58,830
Finally, daddy is using the right
pronouns.
1099
01:14:00,290 --> 01:14:02,470
You're still calling her he.
1100
01:14:03,490 --> 01:14:05,110
Now you believe it's her he?
1101
01:14:05,850 --> 01:14:11,030
Yes. How does it feel to be the brand
new daddy of a baby girl?
1102
01:14:11,430 --> 01:14:13,730
Scary. Why? You're still scared?
1103
01:14:14,130 --> 01:14:15,610
She's so small and fragile.
1104
01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:25,060
the joy than seeing your child for the
first time. It's crazy, you know? And in
1105
01:14:25,060 --> 01:14:30,140
that moment, like I literally felt like
my heart grew like the Grinch's three
1106
01:14:30,140 --> 01:14:35,700
sizes. I cannot believe that 10 hours
ago, this baby was inside of Jasmine.
1107
01:14:35,920 --> 01:14:38,480
Like it's a whole baby.
1108
01:14:38,940 --> 01:14:41,420
I can't believe she was first in your
book.
1109
01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:42,920
That's gross.
1110
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:51,140
I'm telling you, I've never felt that
level of depth of love.
1111
01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:57,060
And it's like this is what life is
about. It's not about what your cars
1112
01:14:57,060 --> 01:15:00,040
don't matter about how much money you
got and all the other garbage that we
1113
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:03,160
to tell each other. That's not what it's
about. What it's about is this very
1114
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:04,160
moment.
1115
01:15:04,420 --> 01:15:07,340
And I could feel it. I could feel the
love, the compassion.
1116
01:15:09,460 --> 01:15:16,420
And I don't know. It's an insane feeling
that I don't think anything.
1117
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:20,100
Nothing can top this feeling. It's just
something crazy.
1118
01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:25,700
I love you, Maddie.
1119
01:15:26,860 --> 01:15:29,500
I'm going to spend the rest of my life
taking care of you.
1120
01:15:31,340 --> 01:15:32,340
Me too, baby.
1121
01:15:34,460 --> 01:15:40,840
Like every single tear, every single
struggle that I have had ever since I
1122
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:43,540
to this country, everything made sense
because...
1123
01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:50,680
Even when it is a mess, my life is a
mess, if, you know, it led to this point
1124
01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:57,020
which I'm holding this beautiful,
perfect angel on my arms, it's just like
1125
01:15:57,020 --> 01:16:01,280
I will go through everything again just
to be able to have her.
1126
01:16:01,660 --> 01:16:03,280
My daughter is beautiful.
1127
01:16:04,860 --> 01:16:07,660
Yeah. I love her so much.
1128
01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:09,880
You're perfect.
1129
01:16:10,420 --> 01:16:11,500
You really need to.
1130
01:16:18,220 --> 01:16:20,020
This child is my child?
1131
01:16:20,380 --> 01:16:21,720
It's not my child.
1132
01:16:21,960 --> 01:16:26,040
I am technically the father of this
child.
1133
01:16:26,340 --> 01:16:27,860
It's time to file for divorce.
1134
01:16:28,140 --> 01:16:32,240
She could leave the country or be
deported, and now that complicates
1135
01:16:32,740 --> 01:16:35,460
You are taking a chance the longer you
wait.
1136
01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:52,640
I think you have to look at the risk
here.
1137
01:16:53,260 --> 01:16:59,700
You have a baby that will be born to
this marriage, and as a result, you're
1138
01:16:59,700 --> 01:17:00,740
presumed to be the father.
1139
01:17:02,140 --> 01:17:07,300
Child support alone is going to be
hundreds of thousands of dollars that
1140
01:17:07,300 --> 01:17:09,720
going to be paying for a baby that you
said is not yours.
1141
01:17:10,920 --> 01:17:13,780
I wouldn't take a hundred thousands of
dollar risk.
1142
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:15,880
That's not a game I would play.
1143
01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:18,020
I think it's something you need to take
care of.
1144
01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:36,640
You're telling me that this child is my
child?
1145
01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:38,380
It's not my child.
1146
01:17:39,060 --> 01:17:43,560
Under Michigan law, that's how the law
sees it. That is a basic presumption.
1147
01:17:43,820 --> 01:17:46,060
There's ways to get around it, though.
1148
01:17:46,300 --> 01:17:48,580
You may have to do a paternity test,
DNA.
1149
01:17:49,420 --> 01:17:54,800
If the father of the child is willing to
do an affidavit to indicate that he is
1150
01:17:54,800 --> 01:17:58,740
the father of the child, there's ways
around it. But there's time limits on
1151
01:17:58,740 --> 01:18:02,120
this, too. The law, you need to do this
within three years of birth.
1152
01:18:04,300 --> 01:18:10,400
When I heard that Jasmine was pregnant,
I thought that that actually would help
1153
01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:13,680
my case in the divorce because it proves
adultery.
1154
01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:21,560
But I had no freaking clue that I am
technically the
1155
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:28,240
father of this child. Are you freaking
kidding me? That's really... This is
1156
01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:31,900
ridiculous. She really, really messed up
my life.
1157
01:18:33,240 --> 01:18:36,420
Yeah, I'm sorry. That's not something
easy to go through, especially if you
1158
01:18:36,420 --> 01:18:41,020
this image that it was going to be you
and her and have a child.
1159
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:44,200
Yeah, it was supposed to be her and I.
We talked about this.
1160
01:18:47,660 --> 01:18:50,360
Now, are you deciding that it's time to
file for divorce?
1161
01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:55,240
When you file, it takes at least 60 days
to get divorced if you don't have kids.
1162
01:18:55,380 --> 01:18:59,140
If you don't have kids. However, just
given what you just told me.
1163
01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:03,860
Since there's a minor child involved,
the statutory waiting period is now 180
1164
01:19:03,860 --> 01:19:05,120
days or six months.
1165
01:19:05,380 --> 01:19:09,620
So from the time of filing, it's going
to take a minimum of six months to get
1166
01:19:09,620 --> 01:19:10,620
divorced.
1167
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:12,400
Because there's a child involved.
1168
01:19:12,620 --> 01:19:13,620
Correct.
1169
01:19:14,940 --> 01:19:16,680
Even though the child is not yours.
1170
01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:20,360
I'm not quite ready yet.
1171
01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:22,000
There's two reasons.
1172
01:19:22,340 --> 01:19:25,400
One is I have a lot of investments.
1173
01:19:25,700 --> 01:19:28,020
I want to wait for the market to drop.
1174
01:19:28,620 --> 01:19:32,800
And then file because I want the least
financial impact to me. Because I know
1175
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:37,300
when you're married, you share assets
basically 50 -50 during your marriage.
1176
01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:39,260
Another reason is immigration.
1177
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:44,640
Because Jasmine is going to have to
remove conditions from her green card,
1178
01:19:44,860 --> 01:19:48,640
To get her permanent 10 -year card.
She's on the two -year probationary card
1179
01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:49,438
right now.
1180
01:19:49,440 --> 01:19:54,180
But I am not jointly going to sign for
it. And the only way she can do it on
1181
01:19:54,180 --> 01:19:56,980
own is if she's divorced.
1182
01:19:57,610 --> 01:20:01,270
So if I divorce her right away, I'm
giving her the green light to get that
1183
01:20:04,890 --> 01:20:09,930
I want her to be held accountable for
the betrayal she did to me, okay? That's
1184
01:20:09,930 --> 01:20:10,970
super important to me.
1185
01:20:12,450 --> 01:20:18,090
When there is this vengeance, payback,
pound of flesh you're seeking, a lot of
1186
01:20:18,090 --> 01:20:23,030
people, unfortunately, think that you
can utilize the court system to gain
1187
01:20:23,030 --> 01:20:23,849
pound of flesh.
1188
01:20:23,850 --> 01:20:26,030
What you do is you give attorneys a lot
more money.
1189
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:29,260
to probably in a position that I could
have told you would have been in from
1190
01:20:29,260 --> 01:20:33,480
beginning. So I believe he should be
filing for divorce in Michigan
1191
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:39,400
Since there's a minor child involved,
you're going to have to bring an action
1192
01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:41,800
within three years.
1193
01:20:42,540 --> 01:20:47,580
One thing we haven't considered is that
Jasmine could file for divorce in
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01:20:47,580 --> 01:20:51,580
Florida. I would hate to have to travel
back and forth to Florida for a divorce.
1195
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:54,820
So the person that initiates divorce,
1196
01:20:55,610 --> 01:21:00,070
is where the state that it's going to be
handled in. Correct.
1197
01:21:01,290 --> 01:21:03,810
Really, this is jacked.
1198
01:21:04,330 --> 01:21:07,330
You know, you are taking a chance the
longer you wait.
1199
01:21:07,690 --> 01:21:11,970
She could leave the country or be
deported, and now that complicates
1200
01:21:11,970 --> 01:21:15,070
far as you trying to get a hold of her,
and it just costs you more money.
1201
01:21:18,590 --> 01:21:21,250
Hearing everything the lawyer is telling
me today,
1202
01:21:22,580 --> 01:21:28,840
He's actually convinced me that I need
to take action now, and I need to be the
1203
01:21:28,840 --> 01:21:33,860
one who files for a divorce so I can
take control of the divorce and have it
1204
01:21:33,860 --> 01:21:34,860
Michigan.
1205
01:21:35,420 --> 01:21:39,620
With Jasmine's personality and stuff, I
don't know what she's going to do next.
1206
01:21:39,780 --> 01:21:43,460
I don't know what she's thinking in that
crazy mind of hers and that devilish
1207
01:21:43,460 --> 01:21:45,460
inside of hers, you know.
1208
01:21:46,440 --> 01:21:48,120
I've got a lot of stuff to think about
here.
1209
01:21:48,420 --> 01:21:50,400
Yeah, absolutely. I mean, whatever you
need, we're here for you.
1210
01:21:55,220 --> 01:21:58,540
Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, happily ever
after.
1211
01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:01,660
You're going to walk into this in the
street? You got to, because if I go like
1212
01:22:01,660 --> 01:22:04,740
this, the baby could die, Julia.
1213
01:22:05,080 --> 01:22:06,480
Good thing I think of these things.
1214
01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:13,920
I'm five months pregnant right now, and
still nobody know I'm pregnant.
1215
01:22:14,900 --> 01:22:20,780
Thank you, all right? Let her know,
because eventually it's going to come
1216
01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:21,820
and she's going to know this timeline.
1217
01:22:22,510 --> 01:22:26,310
I mean, I am lucky that she even let me
tell you guys, to be honest.
1218
01:22:27,030 --> 01:22:31,930
You are over -controlling. Even getting
more controlling than before. I don't
1219
01:22:31,930 --> 01:22:34,470
need more stress on my shoulder right
now.
1220
01:22:37,070 --> 01:22:38,450
Oh, my gosh. So many pictures.
1221
01:22:38,710 --> 01:22:41,630
Oh, my gosh. Full head of hair. I got a
necklace on.
1222
01:22:42,130 --> 01:22:45,110
Back in the day when I was working out,
looking good.
1223
01:22:46,250 --> 01:22:47,250
Hey, what's up?
1224
01:22:48,330 --> 01:22:53,340
Hey. Jasmine, I guess, posted something
on social media right now.
1225
01:22:54,540 --> 01:22:57,900
It looks like she had her baby.
1226
01:22:59,760 --> 01:23:05,800
Well... I feel in a way that
1227
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:08,480
they're expecting me to have kids.
1228
01:23:08,740 --> 01:23:10,840
Because that's how is our culture.
1229
01:23:11,740 --> 01:23:12,740
Stop this.
1230
01:23:12,960 --> 01:23:15,480
Let me move on. Let me have my kids.
1231
01:23:16,120 --> 01:23:17,720
Stop. Stop.
1232
01:23:20,810 --> 01:23:21,890
What am I dig for?
1233
01:23:22,130 --> 01:23:25,370
I see everywhere you go, there's
problems that follow you.
1234
01:23:26,430 --> 01:23:30,330
Jovi, he is just trying to find somehow
to like point the finger.
1235
01:23:30,850 --> 01:23:34,030
Sit down and handle yourself like a man.
1236
01:23:36,450 --> 01:23:37,670
Do you know your mom?
1237
01:23:38,090 --> 01:23:39,910
I want to cause a very good impression.
1238
01:23:40,530 --> 01:23:46,570
I want my kids and my friends to be
saved and not to go to hell, but to have
1239
01:23:46,570 --> 01:23:47,570
what little I want.
1240
01:23:48,510 --> 01:23:49,730
This is everything?
1241
01:23:50,380 --> 01:23:53,220
that goes against her morals and values.
1242
01:23:53,900 --> 01:23:57,240
The only people we can live for is
ourselves.
1243
01:23:57,520 --> 01:24:00,380
There is no way she's going to accept
this relationship.
1244
01:24:03,180 --> 01:24:05,480
Or this string. Would you marry me?
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