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Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.

I can tell it was a long journey because you stink.

You're welcome.

Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?

Yep, everything with a G on it. But there's stuff in there. Oh God, really?

It doesn't even seem like he was expecting me to arrive here.

It just doesn't really feel like home.

Well, we love each other.

All the good work we've done till now can be spoiled by one loud

person.

She is wondering if I should get married. And this is sticking with me.

I've had a really long date, so I apologize.

For how long do you think I'm going to forgive him?

Whatever.

I don't even know where I packed my underwear.

Hey, Matthew, where are you?

Hey, I'm in here.

I'm going to take a shower.

Yeah, go for it, darling.

Did you find enough space for your club?

No.

Enjoy your shower.

Thanks.

Greta arrived earlier today, and is this how I would have wanted it to go in

the first hour or two? Probably not, but I expected her to be pretty worn out

from the day.

Maybe there's more space I can clear for her, but I...

I think the best thing I can do now is just to stand back, give her some space.

I get it that she just wants to do her own thing for a little while.

Oh, hi, Matthew.

You're right.

Yeah, pretty well. How you doing, Matthew?

How you doing?

How's it going?

Yeah, pretty well. Has Grant arrived?

Yeah, yeah, she's arrived. She's having a shower now.

I bet she's tired, isn't she?

She's knackered.

Yeah. Did you have a big hug when you saw each other? Yeah, we had a big hug.

Aw. Hi!

Hi! Oh, my God!

So good to see you guys!

It's so lovely to have you here. Yeah, welcome.

Thank you.

The house looks great.

Hi! So nice to see you again.

It's nice to hear that cheeky laugh. It's got quite a distinctive laugh.

I'm just so excited to be here and just so thankful you guys let me stay here

again. Oh, you're welcome. We really love having you here.

Aw, thank you. Happy family, huh?

Yeah. I think Matthew has found his soul mate in Greta.

I hope that they have the wedding and the babies and they live happily ever

after. Matthew was anxious a few days before.

But I see a spark in his eye now.

Oh, you look really happy, both of you.

Mr Grumpy's happy now.

Yeah. Mr Grumpy.

Mark's been getting ready for you, haven't you? You've been sorting out the

fridge and the freezer.

Yeah. We've made some meat -free zones for you.

Thank you.

I've got something for Greta.

You've got something for Gretel. Yeah.

You guys always make me feel so included and welcome.

I think my mother has something for you. Oh, my God.

Oh, my God. Thank you.

Welcome. Did you make this yourself?

No. That's beautiful.

Oh, there's cactus kitties. That smells very nice.

This is a vegan cake? That is a vegan cake. It's got blueberries in, it's got

lemon in, and it's got...

It's got apple and hazel on the top. Oh, my God. Thank you. That's so sweet. I'm

going to cry.

I've been so anxious about the move that I forgot how amazing that these parents

are.

They have always really loved me and been really accepting of me. And that's

what I've always hoped for.

For saying it's vegan, it's not bad.

After my mom passed when I was five.

I've always had a tough time being around any parent.

So the feeling of a warm, happy family, it feels really, really nice.

I feel really grateful.

I'm sure Greta's really tired. It's been a long, long day for you.

I've been tired.

I'm sure. But Greta's been travelling for hours and hours and hours, so I

we should let Greta have some sleep now. OK, well, good night, you guys.

See you in the morning.

And you, Matthew.

Oh, are you coming with me? OK.

Good night.

Good night.

Today started off a little rocky.

but I'm glad things are beginning to feel more normal between me and Greta.

There's always an adjustment period when we see each other again, but I can't

wait to begin planning our life together.

It's been such a long day.

How are you feeling?

I'm just, like, kind of in shock right now a little bit.

In shock?

Yeah.

Like, good shock or bad shock, or just...

I feel like really unsettled.

When I was unpacking earlier today, I felt really overwhelmed. I felt like the

room wasn't really prepared for me to arrive.

It kind of made me feel like not really welcome here.

Welcome here?

Yeah. You're always welcome here. You've always been welcome here. Well, no, I

mean, I feel really welcomed here by your parents, but I meant just, like,

doesn't really feel like my room, too.

It just kind of feels like your room.

Well, it is my room, so it's always going to feel a little bit foreign to

You'll become more and more comfortable with you.

I feel like you don't understand what I'm saying. Like, it doesn't feel like

room because it's filled with your stuff and there's no space for my stuff.

That's what I'm saying.

Deal your stuff out.

Take all your things out, put them out. If you don't want my clothes there, take

them into the garage.

If you want to draw, tip everything out, put it in the bin and put your things

in there.

This is as much your room as it is mine now.

I didn't think this is how our first night back together would go.

I was really hoping for this giddy romantic reunion, but that's not

And at the same time, I feel really hopeful we can reconnect and have the

intimate moments. The more time I spend with him.

I'm so tired, honey. I'm just going to go to bed, okay?

Yeah, that's fine.

Good night.

Good night, darling.

I'm going to try.

I'm excited that we're going to Cuba.

What?

You're crazy.

Why? I get what I want when I want.

Lou moved to Colombia yesterday, and I was so happy to see him, but later the

meeting with the wedding planner, I felt so mad with him.

But he explained to me he was tired, like he had a so, so long flight, and

he missed a little bit, and so I forgiven him for this time.

She was still mad.

She was angry. But the fact of the matter is we haven't seen each other in

months, and it was good to hold each other in our arms.

We kissed.

I was happy.

Are you ready to go to pick the cake?

Yeah, let's do it.

Today is the tasting of the cake.

I'm so happy and excited about it.

The cake is here.

We're going to have a funny and cute day night.

And we can put all the violence behind us.

Hola, ¿cómo están? Bienvenidos a Marmetina.

Muchas gracias.

Andamos buscando la torta para nuestro matrimonio.

¿Qué les parece si les saco una degustación de diferentes cakes para que

prueben a ver cuál les gusta más?

Perfecto. Bienvenidos.

Vamos.

The wedding is coming up so soon.

Talk later.

I just want to know everything going to be perfect and my dreams going to come

true.

Are you ready to try?

Let's do it.

You give it to me and I give it to you. Which one is this?

The cave is so, like, like, floofy.

But it's kind of basic.

Okay. Red velvet.

Red velvet?

Do you like it?

No. It reminds me of a wedding.

I don't even know what is pistachio.

Like in Colombia, if you ask me if I see a pistachio in my life, no.

Go try this one.

Looking like you bought.

Mmm.

I want this for me and the other one for the other people.

Really?

This is something like I don't want to share. It's delicious.

Aw, you're so cute.

No, thanks.

Baby, I just want to say I love you so much. You mean the world to me, and I

know we've had a rough start to me moving here, and it's been stressful for

of us.

I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you.

Well, big thing... Are

you weird?

I'm trying to tell you something, and I don't know how to do it.

But...

I'll try.

When you tell me this, it's because something is coming.

Well, look, I mean, we talked about me not doing a bachelor party, and...

I totally get where you're

coming from.

Go to Japan.

Where do you have to go?

Okay.

Remember when I had said I was going to David's house?

David, you don't respond to me.

Go to the point.

Basically, they threw a small little bachelor party.

A small little?

And what is a bachelor party for you? What the f*** do you do?

A stripper came over.

And what do you do with the stripper?

What do you mean?

What do you do with the stripper?

I mean... Tell me the true look because you know I'm going to have to find out.

I didn't do anything, I just... Is he dancing for you?

Yeah.

The stripper did the stripper stuff.

I mean, she came over for... You touched her?

I didn't touch her. I mean, I didn't...

Madeline.

I'm 58.

One night I was working and Dylan came in. He fell for the Detroit way. It was

love at first sight.

People can say anything. You cannot shut anybody's mouth.

I know. If this is what it's going to be like every time family members come

over, I don't want to live there.

Are you okay?

Why does she have a problem with me? What is wrong with her?

I haven't heard anything from any of his family members for a long time. So I

thought everything was okay and it all just kind of went away.

But I found out I was wrong.

Age gap relationship will always face this kind of issue. I thought your

accepted me.

Yeah, I thought that too. That's why I thought they are coming to our place.

So where did that come from?

I don't know what to say about it.

Fauna accepts me, but I'm worried that if these other family members keep being

negative, it could make her mind go back to the way it was before.

So I am worried about that a lot.

People can say anything. You cannot shut anybody's mouth, and that's why I don't

care.

And I suggest you don't care about what people talk about.

Don't upset yourself. You are a beautiful person. My family finally

for you.

I know.

I saw tears in my mom's eyes.

She don't want, like, anybody to say anything to you. It is a proud moment

me.

I never thought that I would see Sadhana sticking up for me.

But if this is what it's going to be like every time family members come

that's just another reason why I don't want to live there.

Yeah, baby, everything will be fine. I love you.

I love you, too. Thank you so much for standing up for me.

I'm just glad it's over.

My pleasure.

up next.

I'm 58 and I live in Dallas, Texas.

I'm also known as Delita.

I don't consider myself a stripper. I consider myself an exotic dancer.

I started in this industry back in 1989 when I was like 21 years old because I

needed money.

And here we are, 37 years later, and I'm still shaking.

I'm a dinosaur.

Dancing has always made me happy.

It makes me feel youthful. It makes me feel energetic.

It keeps me fit.

God have mercy.

But now I'm hanging up my cowgirl hat to move across the world to be with my

boyfriend, Dylan.

I'm just going to turn the water off here.

Ah, I see the problem.

G'day, I'm Dylan. I'm 38 years old and I live in Longfest in Tasmania.

There we go.

No more leaks.

Thank you so much for coming out, Dylan. I appreciate it.

I'm a plumber. I don't do anything from plugging up leaks, fixing dunnies.

Oh, yeah, that's a good flush.

I do enjoy being a plumber, just jumping in the ute.

getting out and about with the locals, and it's actually a great job down here.

I pick and choose the work I want to do, and I've been as busy as a bull's arse

in twice even.

G'day, ladies. I heard you had a broken pipe in here.

I'd hate for you to get fucking wet.

But I'm also Stanley Mousetrap in Launceston.

Growing up, I wanted to be on stage, but not doing the singing and songwriting

like nobody cared.

So I started stripping, and the phone started ringing.

A few years later, Australia's Got Talent came to town, and I ended up

making it all the way to the grand final of that show, and then suddenly I'm

Thunder from Down Under's MC in Las Vegas.

This next one's for all those country girls out there.

And that's when I meet Thea.

I moved to Las Vegas because my love life was a mess.

I was married twice.

I was separating from my husband, and I was not looking for love. One night, I

was working, and Dylan came in.

I looked up on a podium, and she looked beautiful.

We just started talking, and then, yeah, I was just really just smitten with

her.

He fell for these right away. It was love at first boob sight.

He invited me to his show.

He has the best abs, I mean.

Dylan is too old. It's like a Brad Pitt.

He's very handsome.

And that Australian accent, boy.

Thank you so much for having me.

It's beautiful.

I never thought I would date somebody that was like 20 years younger than me.

But his personality won me over.

He made me laugh. He made me smile.

He's very romantic. He's very passionate. He has an old soul.

Katia is the most loving, nurturing, amazing woman I've ever met.

I don't want to be with anyone else. I only want to be with Katia.

She's the sunshine in my life.

We've been together for 12 years and still going.

We're destined to be together.

Oh, my God, my feet.

Me too.

Dylan and I lived together in Las Vegas for about seven years, but then he had

to move back to Australia due to visa stuff.

And shortly after that, I moved back to Texas, and we've been doing the long

distance back and forth, off and on.

But all of that is about to change because I'm moving to Tasmania to be

Dylan.

I'm not going to miss these.

For sure.

What kind of shoes do you have to wear in Tasmania?

Flat. Is it like all jungle?

No. It's like an island.

Google Tasmania.

Google Tasmania. I need to Google it. I don't even know where it's at.

Nothing like Dallas.

You know, here it's like really fast paced. Yeah.

It's fun.

Exciting. Lots to do here.

What can you do there?

I don't know. I've never been.

It's going to be quiet.

Like staying home, reading a book, reading a Bible, like retirementville.

I mean, if that makes you happy, yeah, but I couldn't do that.

I mean, he's wonderful. He's exciting.

He loves to surprise me. But it's going to be, you know, like a nice, chilled,

relaxing life.

It's just not going to be the same.

Yeah. You know, I really feel scared about, like, hanging up all, you know,

saying goodbye to dancing.

Because the last time he had me do this, he's like, babe, babe, let's come

together. I promise I'm going to take care of you, and you don't have to work

anymore, and we moved to Thailand.

I, like, you guys know I sold everything, got down to a suitcase and a

-on, you know? And here I am, back dancing again.

Four years ago, Dylan and I moved to Thailand.

for about a year, and things did not go as I planned.

We were fighting constantly, and it was not working, and I felt more alone than

ever. It was just awful.

All this fighting became very toxic, and I couldn't take it anymore.

So we broke up, and then I came back to the States.

So that's what I'm worried about, that that could happen again.

So how are you so sure it's not going to happen this time?

i don't know despite our problems our love is so strong no matter how much we

fight we end up coming back together what do you guys think do you guys think

i'm doing the right thing i mean i feel nervous for you and especially with

everything you're sacrificing yeah here i go again yeah

I'm just tired of the back and forth, you know.

Just being with somebody, even though, like, you're not with them, it just

like you're alone, you know. I'm just tired of that work, going home to an

apartment. Like, I really, like, I just want this to be, like,

like, I just want this to be the final time.

I'm giving up a lot to be with Dylan.

The dancing, the independence.

My big city life, my friends, I'm moving to a whole new country.

And I'm doing this all for the second time.

But Dylan is so worth it. He makes me feel like no one's ever made me feel. I

love him more than anything in this world. He's just the most amazing person

I've ever met.

And I feel like Dylan and I have a connection that nobody else can

But I just hope we don't fall back into our old patterns and break up again. I

don't know if my heart can take it anymore.

In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.

I'm fine to be the breadwinner here, but I think there needs to be a realistic

cap on things.

I definitely don't want this cake in my marriage.

I have a marriage.

Ready for a spa treatment?

Yeah.

Hi.

Hi. Hi, welcome.

Here's a hot towel for you both. Perfect.

Oh, that feels good.

Yeah, that feels great.

And then here's a welcome drink for you both. Oh, thank you.

Cheers, darling.

Cheers.

It's my second day in England with Matthew, and I felt a bit unsettled.

But I think Matthew knows the key to my heart because today he surprised me with

the trip to the spa, which is one of my favorite places.

Aw, you look cute.

It's just a small thing to show me that he cares and to make me feel welcome.

So this is our relax room.

Please make yourself comfortable. And the therapist will come in shortly.

Ooh, you like to sink into these.

Yeah.

Wow, that's good.

Honey,

look, we can still hold hands.

Oh, yeah.

I'm going to take my glasses off, too.

Get the full relaxation experience.

Yeah.

We're spa people, aren't we?

Yeah, once in a blue moon, it's pretty good, isn't it? Well, I get massages

quite often in Oklahoma.

Like, you know, weekly massages.

Having a massage every now and then is fine.

I think once every week or two is probably a little bit too much.

No.

I'm fine to be the breadwinner here and support you and give you what you want

to be happy, but I think there needs to be a realistic cap on things, you know?

I mean, if we want to be realistic.

You bought an upgraded engine on your car that you did not need at all.

And you bought a very expensive computer.

So I don't really know what realistic means to you.

We share the car, right?

But I can't share your spa expenses.

We don't both get something out of your massages.

You get a heavier version of myself.

I don't think a happier version of you is very sustainable financially.

So we probably need to reel it in just a little bit.

Well, I really don't feel like I'm that unrealistic of a person financially and

that I'm really not asking for much.

I'm willing to give almost everything I have financially for us combined.

But if I stopped working today, I couldn't afford the life that you want.

And I'd lose you as a result.

So you think I'm engaged to you for the money? Is that what you're saying?

I just want you to bear it in mind to be able to have things like this in life.

It's something that ultimately I have to foot.

I assumed that you were going down this career path to make a lot of money and

work in finance because that's who you were and that's what you wanted.

I don't want you to make choices because you feel like that's what I want in the

future.

I do enjoy my career.

I enjoy the work I do.

And I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate how much I give to this.

I am really surprised by this comment.

Matthew knows I want to be an animal lawyer.

But I cannot practice law until I have the proper certification.

And it's going to take some time to do that.

I'm really grateful that Matthew is supporting us.

And I don't want to be a burden.

But I don't want to start this whole thing where we're keeping score on each

other's sacrifices.

I don't think that's a healthy foundation for a relationship.

We're all ready if you want to come up for your massages now.

Sounds good.

Feeling very tense.

He did propose to me in Vegas, but he ended up taking the ring back.

Are you kidding me right now? He was young.

It doesn't matter.

It can cost you so much if it doesn't work out.

I love cooking. I enjoy it very much. Like, I can make all types of dishes.

My nephew's coming over. He loves homemade food.

I'm really looking forward to cooking for him and hanging out with him.

I haven't seen Nicholas in a long time.

He doesn't know Dylan. He's never met Dylan.

But when I told Nick I was going to be moving out to Tasmania, he immediately

scheduled a trip to come out and visit me.

Look at you.

All grown up. My goodness. Oh, my gosh. I love your place. It looks gorgeous.

Thank you. Yeah. Auntie's going to make some chicken mothman curry. I need you

to wash your hands, and you're going to be my sous chef. You're going to help

chop up the carrots.

I just love Nick.

He loves me for the way I am. He thinks I'm the coolest aunt because I was

always, like, the wild one.

Sneak off and do what I want when I want.

My mom calls me a wild horse you cannot tame.

I mean, I moved out when I was 17 because I just don't like to be

I'm excited to see you. You've always been my favorite aunt. Aw, thank you,

sweetie. Of course.

Sorry, honey.

Do you want some more? Yes.

It's kind of big. I might chip my teeth trying to eat that.

Has your mom talked about me and Dylan?

I've heard the typical story. What did she say about, you know what?

Anything that we grew up with, anything that Patia does is...

just beyond the norm.

You guys have a 20 -year gap, right?

Yes, 20 years gap.

He's 38, yeah.

This is like textbook cougar and the cub situation, you know?

It is. I mean, you see all these guys, they're so hyped. Oh, my gosh, I can't

wait to have an older woman, blah, blah, blah. I know, but he's very, very

mature, Nick. I know when I first met him, I was like, no, you know?

Nicholas, I've known Dylan 12 years. Like, yes, we're together for that long,

but yes, we also like...

separated many, many times. Because I would be like, go, go. I don't want to

hold you back.

But then he was the only one, the one that's always calling me to come back.

He's like, I try to not think about you and try to be without you, but I can't.

Living in Las Vegas, doing what we both did, we were both performers, we get

into fights about jealousy and insecurities.

So Dylan and I have broken up 20 times.

He was definitely a runner. He would question our relationship and would end

breaking up with me.

But now as he gets older, he's realizing this is the girl that I want to be

with, my dream girl.

You guys have had this relationship now for, you said, 12 years? 12 years.

So where is the ring at? I don't know if you know this, but he did propose to me

in Vegas. Okay.

Like three years after we were together, but he ended up taking the ring back

because, you know, he wasn't ready at the time. Are you kidding me right now?

was young.

Oh, that didn't matter. No, I mean, it was nine years ago.

Now, I feel like he's more than ready. He's very ready.

I've not met the guy, so it's not my place to really dog him, but who takes

ring back? You know what I mean?

I can't picture in any world that if I did that to a woman, that she would take

me back.

Either she has a lot of love in her heart, or she has no idea what the hell

she's doing.

Until you have the ring, why don't you stay here? Because that way, if

does go wrong, you don't have to move all the way back. You don't have to

your life again.

Well, I know. At the age of, what, 60? I know.

But we're going to get married, so it will work. He's going to propose to me,

and I'm going to give him one last chance.

But it can cost you so much if this doesn't work out.

And I don't mean to make you cry.

I know. I appreciate you. Okay.

Come here.

I'm not... No, I

know. I'm just warning you.

I know.

I'm not trying to scare you. No, I know, I know.

No, I truly believe that this will work out.

This will be our final time.

It does hurt because I've invested so much time in us and I don't want to, you

know, like, he feels the same way.

You have to let him know this isn't the same thing you guys have been doing for

12 years.

I know, I know.

But I want to give him that last chance.

Knowing my nephew, that concern about me hit hard.

I have to make sure that this is the final time.

And I'm not going to keep the breakup, the make -up, the breakup, the make -up

going for the rest of my life. I mean, I'm 58.

I've been doing it for too long.

Or get off the pot.

He has to propose to me. If he doesn't commit, I'm moving on.

That's it.

But at the same time, I'm worried that if I did, I mean, I invested 12 years,

and if it doesn't work out, I will come back and be alone.

That does scare me a lot.

I knew she'd be pissed. I didn't think that would happen.

What am I going to do right now?

Can we figure this out, please?

Can I

get, like, a napkin or something?

I didn't think that would happen.

I definitely

don't want this cake

in my marriage.

I have a marriage.

This is over.

I lost two years of my life.

He knows my rules.

I knew she'd be pissed.

She doesn't like the idea of me being around other women at all.

But I didn't plan the bachelor party. I didn't know about it.

I didn't order the stripper.

I was just there.

I didn't know how to tell her, but I also felt that starting a marriage

without 100 % honesty is not a good place to start.

This is too much.

Sorry.

Sorry. You know exactly what do you do.

How you think I gonna to get married with someone I don't trust in anything?

Sorry. I didn't know what's happening.

I didn't.

Excuse, I don't know what's happened.

You have close to three years to me, with me.

You know who I am. You know which one is my limit.

Sorry.

Go, go get married with me.

Can we

figure this out, please?

Figure out what?

We're supposed to get married, Madeline. No, the marriage is canceled.

It's not canceled. It's canceled.

Go to get married with the stripper.

You cannot get married with her.

I don't want to marry her.

Exactly. You lost me for her.

Close the door of my car.

No, Madeline.

Close the door of my car.

Madeline. Madeline.

Mira.

It's over.

It's over.

Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.

Today,

I am finally going to Tasmania to see my honey.

My biggest concern about going to Australia is his mom being so darn close

us. I think it's about time that he gets off his mom's nipple. It's time.

I have been working on a business plan.

Manon will always be hustling.

Are you, like, for real?

Yes, I'm for real.

Do you see him?

Jonathan asked me to stop his location sharing.

I can be looking at him, but my physical eyesight doesn't need to stop tracking

him.

You don't give anything to me.

I don't know if she'll speak with me.

I don't know what to do at this point.

No. Get out of here.

Get out.