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I don't struggle to meet women...
Previously...

..I just haven't met
the right person.

..two more single strangers...

I'm really ready to find the one.

..married at first sight.

Hi.

But Bailey's bravado...

How tall are you? 6ft 4in. 6ft 4in?

Like, there's no way he's six four.

..fell flat for bride Rebecca.

He's putting on like a bit of a
show, and it worries me.

And Divarni's negative nature.

Everything is so intense
and so deep.

..prompted a heated heart-to-heart.

The last thing I want to do is have

a talk about our traumas
and then like

get into bed with you.

..hurling them head-first
into heartbreak.

There's trouble in paradise,
isn't it?

Tonight...

I know what I want
and what I don't want.

It has to be right.

..one more couple says I do.

But expectations...

I would like to be matched
with someone who is a silver fox.

A sense of humour.

..are quickly tested.

Well, here's my vows.

Are you joking?

He's not the silver fox I had
in mind.

Bailey seeks a more
intimate connection.

I feel more comfortable now
with my hands on you than off you.

I personally wouldn't kiss somebody
as soon as I've met them.

That's just a bit too soon for me.

And for Julia-Ruth and Divarni...

Divarni and I slept separately.

I haven't seen him since.

..the road to a honeymoon reunion...

And you don't really get a second
chance with a woman like that.

..is heading for a dead end.

This is not how I wanted
my honeymoon to go.

Oh, my God, look at the sea.

Oh, it looks so beautiful here.

In Mauritius, Rebecca and Bailey
have arrived on their honeymoon.

Look how romantic this is.

Nice big bed.

Bailey has described himself
as an alpha, but I'm not sure.

So I want to spend quality time

with him on the honeymoon and see
if he fits into that alpha mould.

Cheers. Cheers.

Looking at Rebecca,
she looks absolutely gorgeous.

I'm definitely hoping it progresses.

The next step is hopefully getting
that little kiss from her,

and that'll probably make me
the happiest man right now.

When I turned around,
that moment, seeing you,

let's just say I had a big
smile on my face.

Oh, good. Yeah.

So for me, I'll just say how I feel.
Yeah.

I am interested to see if there is
that spark and we can, like,

kind of build on this.

I think the pace
that we're taking at is nice.

I'm just getting to know you. Yeah.

I do feel like we don't
need to put pressure on it.

We don't need to label anything.
Like, it just is what it is. Yeah.

We're still at kissing on the cheek
level.

I don't see the necessity
to rush something like that.

I personally wouldn't kiss somebody
as soon as I've met them.

And I've, like,
it's our first day of our honeymoon.

I've only known Bailey for, like,
a matter of hours, really.

That's just a bit too soon for me.

Divarni and I slept separately,
and I haven't seen him since.

He was really mad at what I said
and what happened at the camel ride.

And then last night, when we
were travelling back to the resort,

Divarni just started shouting
at me out of nowhere.

He was coming at me with a lot
of energy.

One of my deal breakers
that I said is a temper and anger.

I've been very clear about that.

And there was no need for it.

On the way back, I spoke to
Julia-Ruth about how annoyed I was.

I was just coming from a dinner
that was very intense.

There was a lot of emotions,

and I'm feeling
like I've been mugged off.

And that's something that I'm not
standing for in this experiment.

I want to be respected.

I told him I just need space.
I just need time.

We just need to kind of, like,
back off.

Just, like, step away.

This is not how I wanted
my honeymoon to go.

As Julia-Ruth and Giovanni's
honeymoon hangs in the balance...

..back in the UK...

..another couple's journey
in the experiment is about to begin.

Now, then, here we go.

I wouldn't know how
to purposely flirt.

I ain't no peacock.

"Check that out, girls."

And they go, "Oh-h."

My friends would describe me
as odd, a little quirky...

..and lovable.

Verbal diarrhoea is my middle name.

My approach to life is carpe diem.

It's as simple as that.

Being 60 doesn't prevent you
from doing anything.

It's a state of mind.
I'm old school.

And proud of it!

Cheers. Cheers.

Recently, we went to Ibiza.

Champagne, cocktails.

And I don't remember the rest.

I think you need someone
who's really patient,

really understanding.

You keep emphasising the word really
there.

Really. Really.

My outlook on life is just positive.

Wake up in the morning positive.

Ooh-hoo!

Cheers. Ding-ding!

But positivity is something
that you have to learn.

It's not a given.

My life's been very tough,
very chequered.

When I was around five year old,

my father walked out and left
and disappeared...

..forever.

I was desperate for a father figure
growing up.

I had no contact with him, period.

Then, 35 years later,

I received a phone call from
the good old Salvation Army.

"We've found your father."

I immediately decided
the next day to go and visit him.

Got to the front door...

..and walked away.

Didn't knock on the door.

Unfortunately, uh...

..the day my son was born, he died.

I wake up every day, every day,

regretting that I didn't knock on
the door.

I think with hindsight,

not having those values
and those teachings

from my father has affected me
in the long run.

I think it certainly
affected my marriage.

I don't think I knew how to be
a husband.

I had no yardstick.

I had nobody to follow.

Experience of marriage
has made me very, very cautious.

I haven't dated since.

So there's been no dating at all?
Zero.

Zero. Period.

My last relationship was my marriage
15 years ago.

Mm-hm. I'd loved to have made it
work, and I just failed,

and I feel a little bit of failure
for that.

And I don't want to go through
that failure again. Right.

So tell me, why now?

I'm always the life
and soul of the parties.

"Hey. Wow..." Mm-hm.

I'm actually quite lonely inside.

So all my children are
in a good place.

So my job is done.

It's my time now.

I know
that I've got a lot of love to give.

I'm not sure if I've just found
the person yet that's

able to bring that out in me.

I would love to be matched
to somebody positive, loving, funny.

I think somebody who
has a nice, friendly, smiley face.

My future wife should bring
a lot of fun to the party.

Let's have an adventure.

I'm Anita. I'm 54. I'm from Durham.

Oh, my God. BLEEP.

I need cue cards, me.

I'm a devoted mother
of two children.

I love being a mum,

but also, I love being a grandmother
as well.

Cheers, big ears. Cheers.

My grandchildren probably think I'm
a little bit wild.

I'm always doing something crazy,

whether it's fire eating,

learning to fly a helicopter,
riding motorbikes.

Of course, I'm the best grandma.

My love life...

..is non-existent.

18 months ago, my whole world
was turned upside down.

My mum suddenly passed away
in November,

I got made redundant the week
before Christmas,

and my partner walked out
Christmas Eve.

Within six weeks...

..I felt like I'd lost everything.

I was devastated
after the relationship broke down.

I had no inkling to think
that it was going to end.

I thought that we wanted the same
thing at the end of the road.

Obviously, he didn't have
the same...ending as what I wanted.

I just sat and cried, to be honest.

But then I just thought,
I've got to get...

..get up and start planning
for the month ahead,

so I had something to look forward
to.

So I started putting a list together
of things I've always wanted to try.

First on the list was a superclub
in Ibiza.

Had my eyes opened.

I got a tattoo from my thigh
right up to my rib cage,

and breast enlargement.

I would like to be matched
with someone who is silver fox.

Sense of humour...

..adventurous.

someone with the same lust for life
who I can grow old with.

After everything I've been through,
I still believe in love.

Paul and Anita have so much
in common.

They've both been married before,

they both have grown-up children,

and they both have a wealth of
life experience, good and bad.

Absolutely.

Anita's been through
some tough times,

but she's dealt with them

by throwing herself
into exciting new adventures,

which speaks to her resilience
and strength of character.

Her optimism and zest for life

are qualities
that should really excite Paul.

And Paul is a real character, too.

He's a titan in his friendship
group,

and his humour and sense of fun
should really appeal to Anita.

But importantly,
he also brings a steady,

laid-back energy which she should
find attractive and grounding.

They both want a meaningful
connection with

a partner they can
really embrace life with.

And of course, their shared family
values and life experiences

are things they can use to connect
and build strong foundations.

I think this is a fantastic match,

Anita and Paul.

So how are you feeling?

Nervous.

Apprehensive.

Worried.

Jodie is getting ready with me
today.

She is my daughter-in-law.

She will calm my nerves,

and I know she'll just
be there having my back.

So what are you expecting at
the end of the aisle?

Oh... What was it?

Silver fox, James Bond,
Bear Grylls, and Vinnie Jones

all mixed into one?

And funny as well. And, yeah, sense
of humour. He's got to be funny.

Yeah, good craic.

I'm hoping for a silver fox.

But if he's not what I expect, I'll
change my mind any time I want.

I've got my trainers in the bag.

The day has finally arrived,

and I'm feeling
like an excitable puppy.

Hi.

Wow!

Stunning! Oh, thanks.

Well, there's only one person
I could

choose to get ready with me today,

and that's my best man,

Emily, my beautiful daughter.

When you're get married, and they
say, "Oh, you may kiss the bride,"

are you actually going to kiss her?

Well, there's certainly be no
tongues.

Well... Ew!

Like this, isn't it?

Please don't do that.
Something like that.

TFA, I get you, I get you. Meh.

Even if you just find
one little thing of common ground,

I think you're all right.

I've been waiting
for Dad just to find somebody,

and he just doesn't have anybody
apart from me, basically.

I know your sort of
coping mechanism is joking a lot.

For someone that doesn't know you...
Yeah.

..it can come across a bit like,
"Ooh."

Yeah, but sometimes humour gives

a bit light-heartedness to the
event. Yeah, oh, definitely.

Everyone's a bit tense.

Yeah, but don't forget it is a
wedding, so maybe keep it a bit...

not too much humour.

My dad's very eccentric and loud,

and he gets like verbal diarrhoea,
basically.

But hopefully that won't come out,
and hopefully that will stay hidden.

I hope she gets past sort of
the initial just blurting out stuff.

You hope or you pray?

Pray probably.

Wow.

You look amazing.

Oh, my God.

I actually can't believe it's now,
today, it's happening.

It's come around so quickly.

Standing in the dress,

it's bloody real.

What are you doing?
What am I doing?

Oh, honestly, I just want to get
out there now.

I just want to meet him.

I just want to get to know him.

For the last few years, Anita has
just been to hell and back,

and I think she's stayed
strong throughout it all.

I think she just deserves the world
now.

She really does.

I'd really like to have a soulmate,

somebody who gets me.

I hope she's happy with
what I've got to offer her.

Time will tell.
We'll soon find out, won't we?

Wow.

I'm Paul.

Hi.

How is she? Is she nervous?

I'm not nervous. I'm ready.

Ooh.

Is she a bad timekeeper, normally?

She'll be here.

My only reservation would be like,
"Can you get serious?"

Is he a little bit too much of
a joker?

Whew!

There's a lot riding on today.

I'm not in my 20s or 30s any more.

This is it. It has to be right.

The last two years,
I've done a lot of soul searching.

I know what I want
and what I don't want now,

and I'm ready to find my other half.

I'm hoping that he's the one.

I'm looking for the missing piece
of the jigsaw.

Hey, hey.

Hello. Wow.

Look amazing. Thank you.

I'm Paul. I'm Anita.

Where do I sign?

Wow.

Toing-g! Ha!

Ah.

First impressions of Paul,

he's not the silver fox I had in
mind.

He's not the type I would
typically gravitate to.

Hey, hey, hey.

Ugh.

You ready?

Um...

Anita and Paul, you're going
to make your vows to one another.

I've not got my glasses.

Right, well, here's my vows.

Are you ready?

Are you joking?

No, I'm only kidding.

I wanted to
keep mine short and sweet.

Although we've never met,
we've been matched for a reason.

Yeah.

Our love will be built on
patience...

..please, trust, respect,

and unwavering support
for each other. Yeah.

I'm looking forward to
the journey ahead

and the possibilities it may bring.

One step at a time,

we can build a loving,
respectful partnership

till death us do part.

Oh, that's really nice.

Can I have my glasses back?

The print was about that big.

I can't see you.

Out of all the people we could have
possibly encountered in this world,

here we are today,
standing together, you and me.

Two strangers, two missing pieces
of a jigsaw.

And I can't wait to get to know you.

So as we embrace this
crazy adventure together,

united as one, there's no doubt
we are going to have moments

that feel surreal and overwhelming,

but hopefully more that feel amazing
and just right. Yeah, nice.

With mutual respect,
trust, and honesty,

I'm sure we'll be able
to grow together.

So, Paul, I will laugh with you,
cry with you,

support you,
and definitely surprise you.

And hopefully we will both find

a happiness we never
knew was missing in our lives.

Wow.

Well done.

Well done, sweetheart.

Anita's vows were nice, weren't
they?

There was no ChatGPT there,

not a chance.

She probably used a quill
and paper, like I did,

by candlelight.

Ready? Oh, yeah.

Anita, I give you this ring.

Wear it with love and joy.

As it has no end,
neither shall my love for you.

Where'd you get him from?

Oh, my God.

Oh! It's warm.

Go on!

Yes-s!

Oh, phew!

Paul, I give you this ring.

Wear it with pride and joy.

As it has no end,
neither shall my love for you.

I choose you to be my husband this
day and for evermore.

Oh, easy.

We would all be delighted
if you would

like to seal your commitment
to your marriage with a kiss.

Oh! Oh!

Bring it in here, come on.

I'm feeling very relieved.

Anita is very attractive.

Jackpot!

She looks like she's
a barrel of laughs.

He seems very nice.
Seems a bit of a joker.

He's not the silver
fox I envisioned,

but I do want to get to know him.

So I'm just going to wait,
see what happens,

and hopefully...

..the attraction part will come
later.

Oh, God, there's another one.
You take that one.

Right, I'll protect you,
don't worry.

Right, back off, son.

That's my wife, yeah?
Behave yourself.

Bailey and I are now at a point
where we're really comfortable

in each other's company,

but I'm still not sure if he's my
type,

so the pace that Bailey and I are

at the moment feels absolutely fine
for me.

Yeah.

Go on, son!

He's getting some action.

Must be on his honeymoon, eh?

TURTLES GRUNTING

Fucking hell.

There's tortoises going at it
everywhere.

They're having a better
time than me.

But you don't know, we've still got
a bit of time, haven't we?

I would have never imagined falling
out with my wife

on our honeymoon.

Being apart from Julia-Ruth today,

it was difficult for sure.

But I feel like the
space was needed.

I've reflected,

and I feel like there
was just a lot of miscommunication.

It was a lot of emotions
that played a part.

I don't want my wife
to step away from the marriage.

And you don't really get a second
chance with a woman like that,

but we shall see.

Hey.

I missed you today.

Yesterday was an emotional day.

From our previous conversation
at dinner,

and then the elevated
levels of stress

literally went through the roof.

There's just no need
for that situation to happen.

Just doing it
in the heat of the moment.

Uh-uh. Yeah.

There's no need for that.

But, um, I do want to apologise
for how I approached you.

Feel like I came a bit too strong.

I just wanted to get things off my
chest,

but it was the wrong time,

and the way I articulated it wasn't
the best.

So I do understand why we are
in this situation.

I appreciate that, and I understand
that, like,

it's a lot of emotions to deal with.

Next time, I just need to just,

you know what I mean,
give it some time.

100%.

Do you forgive me?

It's all right, baby steps.

I think it's good to iron out
and have those things now.

But this is the crucial
part about relationships.

Yeah. We're figuring out each other.

That was nice.

It does feel like it's got weight
and meaning behind it,

and it's not just words.

I have one other surprise for you,

but it is outside.

OK. Yeah.

Yeah. All right, let's go.

I think tonight went well.

Obviously, going into it was a bit
nerve-racking,

but I apologised, so I feel like

we're definitely heading
in the right direction.

Open your eyes.

OK.

Oh, you got the keys.

I got the keys. Yeah.

Um, I've been writing this
for a while.

It's just like a little
introduction to us.

OK.

# The first time I laid
my eyes on you

# I turned around

# Oh, you made me smile

# Don't run away, don't run away,
don't run away

# I'm feeling you

# Don't run away, don't run away,
don't run away

# I'm feeling you. #

Beautiful. That was all for you.

Oh.

That was amazing.

I feel like I've able to appreciate
Divarni a little bit more.

And I think we understand
each other's boundaries

and how to communicate
with each other,

and what we both need.

But there is a lot
more to still work through,

so that's definitely going to be a
challenge for us.

Thank you for that
and sharing with me.

No worries. It was beautiful. Yeah?
Mm-hm.

Hello, congratulations.

I'd like you to try and nuzzle her
ear from there, if that's OK.

What? What?

No. Like in the crook of her neck
there. I'll go.

I would blow it. I can't.
Are you tickly?

She's very tickly.

Getting the photographs taken,
it's a bit too close for comfort.

Yeah, it's a bit early for that.

This is my first top
three questions.

How many times have
you been married? One.

How many children have you got?

Three.

Where do you live?

Five miles south of Middlesbrough.

Right, that's not too far.

Geography-wise it's good.

We've both been married.
We've got children.

So hopefully got to be some common
ground there somewhere.

So, were you born in Scotland?

Oh, I'm Jokonese. What?

Jokonese. What?

Oh, you better believe it.
What is that? I dare to even ask.

He's obviously got a good
sense of humour,

and that's one of the things I did
ask for.

Let's get your arm around.

Let's get physical.

But I think he's going to be one of
those people,

if it's in here,
it's going to come out here.

Ha-ha, I got you.

I got her.

No, seriously, I've got her. God.

Obviously, I don't know him.

I've got a lot more to find out
about him, but it was a lot.

It was really overwhelming.

CHEERS AND APPLAUSE

Woo!

You all right? Yes, gorgeous.

Hey, darling. Hey.

You all right? Yeah.

I need a drink.

I brought you a big one.

What did you ask for, then?

I asked for.. Silver fox.
...silver fox.

Silver fox, I think so.

Just by DNA, silver fox. Yeah.

Bit of a Bear Grylls.
A bit of adventurous...

Yeah, I like a bit of that, yeah.
..cos I'm always.

Old-fashioned values but young at
heart.

Emily reckons that's one
of my failings,

having old-fashioned values.

Yes, of course she's interested.

She'll be interested, yeah.

I think we're maybe two peas
in a pod.

Jackpot!

We have potential in the future,
my dear.

Hi. How are you?

You all right? Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you. I'm Sam.

Hello, Sam, Bailey. I'm Rebecca.
Nice to meet you.

Going to do some dances, yeah?
Mm-hm. Yeah. Latin dance.

Are you ready
for me to tread on your toes?

Yeah, come on.

You look lovely. Very lovely.

A saucy dance, good location,

but I'm not used to
people maybe not fancying me.

And it's been so hard to tell at
certain moments.

So think I'm gonna put on the moves
a little bit,

pull her in a bit closer,
show off a bit of my skills,

and I'm sure she'll like that.

One, two, step.

One, two, three.

One more time.

Lost my rhythm. Keep going, come
on.

One, two, three.

I'm very distracted.

One, two, three, five, six, seven.

She turns by herself.

Oh! Ooh. You spun me fast. Sorry.

I've lost it. You're good,
you're good.

Fucking freestyle.

Oh, this is a bit of me.

It's nice feeling
that closeness with Bailey.

He's huge. He's like a big bear.

So it's a nice feeling

when he's got his hands
around my waist.

He's quite touchy-feely.

I'm really starting to see
that alpha side come out of Bailey.

So today's been better.

This is nice. This is very nice.

Do you know you was actually,

this is gonna sound so bad, but you
was actually better than I thought.

What do you, what do you mean?

I feel more comfortable now with my
hands on you than off you. Ah.

Like, do you know what I mean?

I feel much more comfortable.
How embarrassing.

I feel like today,
probably cos of the dance class...

Yeah. ..it's like a physical thing,
isn't it? Yeah.

Like, you know, like...
Yeah. ..PDA is like, I enjoy it.

And like, I like to know
that somebody who's with me,

like, wants to get hold of me.

Yeah. Do you know what I mean?
And I do.

Yeah, love grabbing hold of your
hand,

walking about,
having chats with you.

And those feelings, like, like,
I mean, you know,

you know, like, I've catched
a little bit of feelings for you.

Do you know what I mean?
It's going the right way. What?

Well, no, I am.

Well, you must have had a feeling,
do you know what I mean?

Like, I like speaking to you,
getting to know you,

do you know what I mean? Mm-hm.
But I feel like for me...

I like speaking to you and getting
to know you, too. Yeah.

Like, I really do.

I don't think there's anyone I'd
rather be here with than you. Aw.

Yeah. You're very cute tonight.

What he said about catching feels,

that vulnerability brings
you closer.

It was nice to hear.

I think we both find
each other attractive.

I do think things are progressing
in the right way.

Congratulations, Paul.

Definitely punching though.

Do you reckon? 100%.

You're punching above your weight,
mate.

We all think she is.

Real pleased she's a northern
lass.

Is there a bit of chemistry
there, is there?

There's a bit of biology coming on.

Oh, there is some biology. Yeah.

How are you feeling?

Still a bit nervous,
to be honest, yeah.

It's overwhelming, isn't it?

It's like... Yeah, yeah.

..obviously there's going to be a
lot of laughs.

Yeah, yeah, definitely.

Honestly, I love that
because he's...he can be serious,

but he loves a laugh.

Yeah. He just, he just wants
to have fun. He literally is.

Sometimes it comes across the wrong
way... Yeah.

..when he says something. Yeah.

And if you're willing to be a bit...

Patience, yeah. Yeah, a bit of
patience, you know what I mean?

Yeah. There's a lot of other
boxes ticked... Yeah. ..so...

And it's an experiment,

so we're just going to have to trust
the process and see what happens.

Yeah. Just going to stick with it.

Yeah. Give it 100%.

I really like Emily.

Very protective of her dad.

And she just said to bear with him

for maybe the silly things
that he does come out with.

Hopefully, the jokes and the nervous
energy, there's a mask,

and I think I just need to get
to know him a little bit more.

Ah, seat at last.

Emily, she's very nice.
She's very protective of you.

Is she? Yeah. That's interesting.

She knows you best, doesn't she?

She knows that kind of...
Maybe, yeah.

..the jokey, nervous energy is kind
of a mask.

Course it is. Yeah.

I think a couple of times
I've been in deep,

you know, relationship-wise,
and it's not been the best outcome.

And I kind of want to bear it all,
but very guarded.

Yeah.

So what are you expecting
from this marriage, then, Paul?

I'm expecting mutual respect,
two-way street, you know? Yeah.

Think we've got
to have each other's back.

I think that's quite important,
cos there'll be some...

..there'll be some tough times
here and there.

He seems like a genuine,
lovely person,

but I'm struggling with
the attraction part,

so I think talking and being honest

and being open is going to be
the only way forward for me and him.

We seem to be cut from
the same cloth

in respect of that respect thing
and that kind of a bit old school.

Well, that's what I'm hoping from
the marriage,

a little bit of trust...

Yeah, that'd be nice.
..respect, honesty.

Good one. Yeah.

I'm just going to take one day
as it comes and... Yeah.

...yeah, go with the flow
and just try and enjoy it.

CHEERING

I'm feeling super duper pleased.

I feel relieved
that she thinks I'm somebody

that she can get on with
and build with.

It's been a little bit of a mixture
of funny and serious today.

I think the laughs have covered
a lot of nerves.

For this marriage to work,

I think we've got a lot
of common ground,

but I do think we've got a lot
of work going forward.

Felt like we got closer yesterday.

Did you? Mm.

There has been slight progression.

Bailey and I did kiss last night.

I think yesterday was my
favourite day, actually. Yeah.

Had a little kiss for the first
time, which was nice.

I think the cheek's firmly gone
away now.

Those kisses have progressed.

Definitely a bit more my style.

Look at the size of the waves.
It is looking worse and worse.

They've literally just put
a letter through the door.

Let's see.

It's about this weather.

Right, so, class three cyclone
warning. Fucking hell.

Oh, my God.

"For your safety, any
movement outside the resort

"is strictly prohibited.

"Please do not leave your room
unless absolutely necessary."

I'm sure we can think of a few
things to do.

Yeah, we're gonna have
to entertain ourselves in. Yeah.

If we're in all day,

maybe we can progress on
last night a little bit.

I feel like the time
will go really quick for us.

Yeah, we can just sit in all day,
get a bit closer.

Yeah.

How nice is this?

It is actually beautiful.

Can't wait to get changed
and do some...

Oh, I thought you were
gonna stay naked. No.

Paul is talkative.

He hasn't switched off yet.

Oh!

I don't know if it's nerves
or whether that is truly Paul.

Have a smell.

Boo!

So the next few days is going
to be pretty crucial.

The swan's together.

You've got to be careful about the
swans, cos they look all graceful,

but underneath, they're going,
"Ah-h-h!"

I feel fantastic after arriving,

settling in,
seeing our beautiful suite.

I feel really good.

Oh, it's all right, actually.

Paul is loud, he's brash,
but that could be a mask,

so I'm looking forward
to getting to know the real Paul.

But at the minute, it's a lot, a lot
for me.

Because of the cyclone,

the restaurants are all closed
in the hotel tonight.

So Bailey has told me to get dressed
up, and he's going to sort it.

Hello, trouble. Wow.

How's it going? Oh, Bailey,
this is so nice.

Boy do good?

It's so nice to see him be really
romantic and gentle

and go to loads of effort
for the date.

You look bloody lovely, by the way.
Thank you.

You look nice, too. Cheers.

So, is this, like, what you do
for all of your first dates?

No, only for you.

Am I right in saying, like, we've
both really had,

like, one really significant
relationship?

No, I've had a couple.

OK. Yeah. Yeah, obviously most
recent's the biggest for me,

yeah, cos it was the longest.

What happened then?

Oh, I don't know, we kind of grew
apart I think, yeah, so...

It's hard, isn't it, cos when you've
got a child,

like, I think it gives
that different dynamic. Mm.

You look at your relationships a bit
different.

I think Bluebell's always kind of
in the forefront of my mind, so...

Yeah, of course. Yeah.

Do you think, like, you would
definitely want

to have children again
in the future?

That's what I want. Yeah.
Yeah, but I'd have to be sure.

Like, I 100% want to be a mum,

and 100% know that it's in my
future. Yeah. Yeah.

And I would have to be with someone
who would want to do that too.

I want a big family.

Like, I want loads of kids. Yeah.

I love being a dad. Yeah.
Honestly, I love being a dad.

It's definitely the most
important thing

that brings me the most happiness
is being a father.

So, yeah, definitely.

It's so nice to hear that Bailey

does want to be a father again
in the future,

and he knows how important
that is to me,

so it's something
that we're on the same page with.

I'm just really enjoying
getting close to you.

It just feels natural.

Do you know what I mean?
It does, yeah.

And share a few little kisses,
which is nice.

I've moved past the cheek stage now,
ain't I, yeah?.

No more cheeks, yeah?

No cheeks.

You're a good kisser as well.

Uh, what are you getting all shy
now?

I am shy. You getting shy? I'm shy.

Being locked up inside all day
is helping us

getting a little bit closer.

I'm being respectful.

I'm going at Bec's pace, but, yeah,

I'm hoping this cyclone gets the
train moving a little bit, though.

Let me get this chair.

Oh, thank you. Come on, madam.

Thank you.

Gonna pull it away. Whoosh!

Gentlemen. Whoosh!

There's no spark there yet,
but he's certainly a gentleman.

He's got that bit right.

To finally be here

with a beautiful guy... Girl, sorry!

Yeah, yeah. Got that wrong way round
there.

But as far as revealing your
emotions

and sharing
and all of the intimate stuff,

I think he struggles with
that a little bit.

So have you been
in many relationships, Paul?

Like, serious relationships.
Serious ones? Yeah. Four.

Four? Mm-hm.

You've only been married once.
Yeah.

And how long were you married?

Six years? Five years? Six years?

I mean, I was married when I was 17.

Two children.

Divorced by the time I was 22.

I didn't lose my virginity till I
was in my early 20s.

I think Paul's trying
to be as honest as he possibly can.

However, I wish Paul had asked
more questions about my life.

I've prompted him to talk about his
life, and he hasn't delved back.

I feel frustrated, because it feels
like he doesn't

really want to get to know us.

So why don't you think your past
relationships have worked out, then?

Well, different ones,
different reasons, really.

Yeah. There could be a common
thread.

I never had a serious relationship
for 15 years

since I divorced, never.

So you haven't actually had
a relationship for 15 years?

No. Crikey.

No, I haven't had a girlfriend
in 15 years.

You haven't had a...?

All right, so not... Right.

So you actually haven't had
a girlfriend for 15 years?

Correct. Right.

Paul was last
in a relationship 15 years ago.

It's a very long time to be single

and then all of a sudden be wanting
a wife.

What does marriage actually mean
to you? To me? Yeah.

I don't know what
the template says for marriage.

I've not read the book.

Tell me, what am I meant to do?

I'm here to find a husband,

but I don't think Paul's ready
for marriage,

so feeling a little bit apprehensive

going forward with the relationship.

I'm not sure how that's going
to work out, to be honest.

Yeah, it's worrying.

It does look a bit brighter.
Oh, yeah, that looks so much better.

I think we'll get out and brave it,
yeah? Yeah, amazing.

Sound like a plan? Yeah, let's go.

Last night was really cosy.

I think the little date, Bec really
liked that.

The cyclone did help.

So, yeah, it's safe to say

we definitely got a bit closer last
night.

Bailey is firmly out of the friend
zone.

And I do feel like the spark has
ignited, you know?

You ready, love?

Yeehaw!

Perfect.

What are you doing, man?

I think kayaking
is an analogy to life.

You've got to have good teamwork.

We're off, kids. Yeehaw!

I think we stroked well together.

Mind you, at some points we were

stroking differently
and going around the circles.

That was a challenge, wasn't it?

Yeah, it's a bit windy, that's why,
I think.

I think the key to a tandem
is you've got to...

Communication.

I think I communicate all the time.

Do you know what I don't think I do?
Listen enough.

Yeah, maybe.

I'm like that, "La, la, la, la, la."

It's like white noise, isn't it?

PAUL MAKES A NOISE

You are nonstop.

I think the experts have...

I see why they've matched us.

Oh, definitely! Yeah.

For the outgoingness... Definitely.
..the sense of humour.

Don't take life too serious.

But then, when it comes to the
L-word and the relationship...

What word? Sorry. The L-word.

No idea. L-word.

Oh, yeah. Oh, this one?

No, not that one.

I think the bond's
growing between us,

but I'm nowhere near the same
level of maturity

when it comes to emotions as Anita.

So, do you think you've ever been
in love?

I'm not really sure
what "in love" means.

We've joined this experiment.

We are married. Uh-huh.

So, are you actually ready
for marriage?

I don't know what "not ready" is.

So therefore, I don't know
what ready is.

You never give one answer.

Because I don't know the answers.

If I had the answers,
I'd give you the answers. Yeah.

I don't have the answers.

I came on here looking for love.

He's even admitted he doesn't know
what love is.

So it's really hard to kind
of move forward.

I'm feeling very good
about my final honeymoon dinner.

Oh, it's unreal. This is so nice.

Things with me and Bec are really
good.

I'm looking forward to a beautiful
meal with very beautiful company.

Honestly, I'm sitting here...

..big smile.

Couldn't have asked
for anything more.

I, yeah, wouldn't want to do it
with anyone else.

We are each other's kind
of comfort blanket.

It's only been a week,
but it's a really nice feeling.

But also, I really like,

not vulnerable,
but a strange feelings.

Do you know what I mean? Yeah.
It is...scary.

Yeah. Yeah.

I feel like there's a massive
spark between us.

Yeah. Don't you? I do. There is.
There is some... Proper sparky.

There's a big one there.

There is like a big connection,
a big spark.

Because of, like,
past relationships,

I'm so worried about being
in a place where,

like, that spark does die. Yeah.

That's why I chase the spark
initially.

Yeah. I've never gone into anything
that isn't like that.

Yeah. So then when we met
and the spark was there,

like the tiniest amount,

it's mad now to be in a position
where we're like it's grown.

Now it's so deep. Mm-hm.

It means so much more than just like
that instant, like... Yeah.

..sexual attraction,
or that instant spark. Yeah, yeah.

I want it to just continue
and just be as,

like, powerful, and energetic
and happy. Powerful, yeah.

We the powerful couple? Yeah.
I like that.

Think we can keep it going? Mm.
Yeah?

Power couple.

When I first met Bailey,

I wasn't sure if he was an alpha,
but over the past few days,

I see that side to him.

He 100% is an alpha man.

And today, it feels like I've known
Bailey for forever.

Yes, come here.

Fucking beautiful. Look at you.
Really?

You look fucking beautiful.

One more. Last one.

Going home tomorrow.

Are we? Yeah. Hmm.

Back to reality.

Well, back to the apartment is more
like... Mm-hm.

Do you know what I'm going to do
for the first two days?

Sleep. All right. Yeah.

What do you think?

Anita and I are getting on like
a house on fire.

I think we've got a good
understanding of

where we're coming from,

so hopefully tonight could be
a perfect end to a perfect week.

You've hardly asked any questions
about me.

Any particular question you want
to ask me about?

No, I want you to tell me.

I don't want to ask.

Do you know what I mean? All right.

I want you to say to me,

"Well, this is what I think about
that,

"and I don't agree with that."

There must be something about me
that you've wondered about, though.

374 things, yeah.

Ask us one, then.

But why can't you tell me
like I tell you?

Why can't you open up to me?

I class that as being interested.

I always feel if people want
to tell you,

they'll tell you.

I struggle sometimes to understand
your train of thought.

When I ask you questions... Mm.

..it's like, "What do you think of
love?"

"I don't know what love is."

There's never just kind of like,

"This is how I feel or this is
what it is."

It's... Can I ask you a question?

Mm-hm. What is love?

Love is...

See the pause.

I couldn't... No, you see the pause,
though?

Yeah, yeah, because...
It's not that simple. Right.

Well, love to me is old couples
in their 80s still holding hands.

That's what I want.

That's affection. Yeah.
That's showing love.

But what is love?

Just at my age, I need somebody
who knows what they want. Mm.

You've actually said you don't know
what love is. Mm.

You don't know how you're supposed
to be feeling.

So why did you want to get married?

Wanted to have a life experience
and take myself out

of the comfort zone,
which I've definitely done.

So you didn't, you didn't join
the experiment to find love?

I don't know what love is.

How can I find something
I don't know what it is?

I think the key word is experiment.

I think if you look at the Google
definition of experiment,

it's to test something
to see if it works or not.

So...if we said earlier,
I'm not sure what love is,

then I don't think I'd join it
to find love.

I find Paul very frustrating.

I really don't know what he wants,
to be honest.

I enjoyed that steak.

I can't have that bit...

..too much. You enjoyed yours,
by the way.

Nah, I'm not gonna eat that.

I'm done.

I don't know
if there's hope for the marriage.

Um...truthfully...

...don't think there is.

Next time...

I'm home.

..our newlyweds...

Woo!

..move in together.

We're so cute!

But for some couples...

It's all just becoming a little
bit real now.

..domestic harmony...

I know your three children's names.

Do you know my two?

...is short-lived.

It's crunch time for me.

CHEERING

At the first dinner party of
the experiment...

Oh, she's on her own.

Make him feel good.

..it's showtime for Dean.

Here we are on this mad experiment,

seeing things not in our element.

But Sarah serves a scathing review.

He asked me if I'd ever slept
with anyone fat before. OK.

He was calling himself
the Funny Fat Kid.

He's like a Care Bear.

That's not a very hot thing to say
about your partner. No.

And while some
are falling head over heels...

I've got that like fuzzy feeling
in me.

You're gonna make me cry.

..others are falling apart.

You are very negative.