Original subtitles

We are now on day 11, and things are going well.

12 days ago I would have everyone who tells me that

declared crazy.

but now I hardly think of sex.

subtitle: WDR MediaGroup GmbH on behalf of the WDR

* Music *

We did it right away.

* Twittering birds *

Where are we? Do you know that, Santos?

No.

Maybe in the forest?

So.

Now you can lose them.

Wow.

Did you rent them? - bought.

what? - mhm.

You can set up a small studio

A trampoline? Juhu.

you are crazy. This is far too expensive.

You spinner.

Thank you. - like to happen.

(laugh)

♪ Do you know how much star liner are on the blue sky tent?

you know how many clouds go ... * message tone *

♪ ... widely over the world.

God the Lord has tampered, that he also didn't miss one.

Do you know how much ... ♪

(Melody continues to hum)

I think that has never been so quickly fell asleep.

Oh god, it's so beautiful here.

And is also completely furnished.

You don't have to do that, Luis.

But I wanted to.

Was a bargain.

Really.

About acquaintances.

Just let's stay here.

We never go again back to Cologne.

There is no more 9b.

Again this Marco?

Yes.

The transferred his insecurity

with that he lets the Macker hang out.

You don't even know what that is.

Have a look around, if you cross on the street.

Only tits and asses everywhere.

What kind of argument is that?

Well, 15-year-old boys are fully alone

with their hormones and their cocks.

When I was 15, I constantly and how obsessed a down.

when I had the 1st time sex, that was like a revelation.

And I wanted that all the time again and again at any price.

like a dog to which one holds a bone in front of your nose.

I think I have never told anyone.

Marie?

You don't even know who I am.

I love you.

Do you want to move in with me?

(laugh)

Um.

It just feels so insanely good with you.

Yes, it does.

You feel good.

(moans)

(moans)

* Creak *

(moan)

(laugh)

Do we want to take off the sofa?

Mhm.

Yes.

Let's do it immediately.

Now. Immediately.

* Music *

ah, your cell phone. - Oh, thank you.

* Music *

Hey, good morning.

when are you crawl here?

* door is opened and closed *

Hey, what are you doing?

Oh, hey. Sorry, I didn't want to wake you up.

I unfortunately have to go. The lawyer called.

Oh God, but not because of the video, right?

I don't know but I don't think.

certainly not. - okay.

Definitely not.

So do you stay or do you come with you?

still remains. would be a shame about the beautiful day.

I can pick you up tomorrow.

Oh god, that was so stupid of me.

Oh, don't make up anything.

So, do you come with you?

santos? We drive. - but I don't want.

I want to stay here. - yes, but we have to go now.

please go to. - nope, I don't want.

You can drive. I can stay here.

can I have now? - yes.

Thanks.

* Music *

Do you get in touch?

(Santos) bye.

* Music *

* Front door falls into the castle *

* Steps on the stairs *

* Doorbells *

Do you feel like cake?

I did it myself.

What are you doing here?

Do you have such small forks?

take your shit cake and disappear.

Not in a good mood?

You love surprises.

I still have one for you.

Did you withdraw your ad?

I'm still worried.

You know that your fairy tale of

sexual assault is zero and void?

at the latest, since you slept with me.

I have all your SMS as proof.

if you don't stop immediately, to bother me,

then I will display you. - How do they bother?

You bother me.

That comes from both of us.

Out.

Go now!

go now. - Luis! Luis!

go now! - I was just fun, okay?

I have already withdrawn the ad

Already yesterday.

you liar. - No.

No! No!

Please.

if you throw me out, then ... (scream)

Luis!

(screams)

* Knock *

Luis!

* Loud knock *

* Steps on the stairs *

* Music *

* announcement * "This conversation partner is temporarily

not to be reached, but is informed about your call. "

* Music *

* door is opened and closed *

Surprise.

(groanes on)

(moans)

Do we want to go up?

Uh.

Mh.

(moan)

Shit.

* Music *

Hey, Hey.

Hey!

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

I am so sorry.

Stop it.

(breathe heavily)

What's up?

I...

I have...

It does me ...

I slept with another woman

With whom?

with Verena? - yes.

Not only.

with Verena and other women.

Prostitutes.

And...

I'm sorry, I actually didn't want that.

I can't control myself.

What does that mean? that this is not your fault?

I don't mean that. You don't understand what I mean.

I am a ... for me it is always like that.

for me that is ... I always break everything.

Stop it!

I had hoped, that it will be different with you.

* Door falls into the castle *

* Cell phone ringing *

Mama?

Marie, I thought I call for Easter.

Do you still don't eat meat?

Mom, I'm on the road right now.

I'll call you back later, okay?

Well. On the weekend?

with Santos? - yes, promised.

until then. - yes.

* Music *

* The door is opened *

(sings "Happy Birthday" in Japanese)

I already look so old, or why are you howling?

It is over.

Luis affected me ...

... cheated. - what?

With whom?

Verena.

Fuck.

What an asshole.

I am so sorry.

(sobs) I don't want to mess up your day.

I think it's better, if I stay here.

Absolutely no way.

You come with dancing.

don't let this shit fucker mess the evening.

We make it nice, okay?

OK.

* Music *

(moans)

* Music *

(moans)

* Alarm ringing *

* Alarm ringing *

Yes, a flu is likely.

I enable the sick leave, as soon as I have it.

Thanks.

* Message tone *

already checked social media today? - no, why?

Campaign already online?

I wanted to talk to you about that.

fuck. - yes.

Well done.

"sexist garbage, invented by employees like Luis Hecker,

hashtag, the women sexual traumatize! "

That plays us only in the hands of

but Verena has withdrawn .

Your statement, the advertisement she cannot withdraw.

Here the police because of the severity

of the allegation .

Yes.

I'm sorry, what you have to go through.

At the same time she delivered the perfect steep template.

We show you because of defamation and false statement on

and sue additionally for pain compensation.

will not work, Verena has no money.

then we get a title, and as soon as she has coal,

Let's get them.

It's all ok?

(Merle) Hello you 2.

Have you strapped yourself?

* Message tone *

(Merle) How are you, Melanie?

is the morning evil gone? you have become ball.

you know, Everything tastes so tasty.

The main thing, you still fit in the wedding dress.

Do you already have one? - I bought one with mom.

(Merle) Greetings from me.

(man) this wedding dj canceled. (Merle) Oh no.

(breathe heavily)

* Music *

* Music *

Marie?

I'm full.

you look unhealthy, I have only read what about eating disorders. What, a crane. That is really

the very best gift.

but the Easter bunny will be happy with

if I tell him that. ah, by the way, I have

also something for you.

for me? - yes.

uh, I have nothing for you. - that doesn't matter.

You always liked him like that.

and grandma would have wanted, that you wear it.

Thanks mom.

that's really nice of you. Thank you.

That's fine.

Nice that you are happy.

Can I call dad and show him the crane?

We do that later, honey, yes?

So David would really have been welcome . - Mama.

Why can people no longer

together go through thick and thin?

I hope you have done something else

How is Julius?

luis. - Luis, of course.

Luis.

Luis bought a house for mom, with a trampoline for me.

real? I don't know anything about it yet.

So, it's not a house.

It's a hut in the forest, but ...

* Message tone *

Do you want to quit eggs? - mhm.

* Conversations in the background *

* TV runs in the background *

* Cell phone ringing *

Marie?

Can you answer a few questions to me ?

Yes.

Yes, of couse.

Have you ever thought

that sex or certain stimuli master you?

What kind of questions are these?

you ever thought that you because of your

sexual behavior or your thoughts help needed?

Yes.

you do not take care of your well -being or that of your family

or other if you go sexual needs?

What is really with Verena?

nothing that she didn't want, you have to believe me.

Do you think you are sex addicted?

Yes, perhaps.

You need help.

* Music *

Marie?

Yes?

I, I would do everything.

OK?

Everything.

* Music *

Hey.

Hi.

* Music *

I may ask how many of the 10 Ask you answered yes?

9.

We therefore believe that that Luis is addicted to sex.

I would like to say that I find the term a bit strong.

I am not a perverse or something.

I don't mean that.

But you lose control.

I am with an alcoholic father grew up.

He loses control.

but for me that's something different.

but if that is not pathological, What you do there,

then it is just Nasty towards me.

I hook here.

that the term sex addiction does not like to understand.

speak in the therapeutic context we at a hypersexuality.

This can be very different causes,

which we would go into in therapy

these sessions do not find with the partner.

in the sense of the healing process it is not

always advisable to share everything with your partner.

but they had on the phone for sex therapy

registered for couples.

exactly. couldn't we do both?

Yes, of course.

There are different options.

What I would like to recommend to you in any

case, are meet of the anonymous sex.

That sounds good.

Yes. I would give you a

"#ffffff"> 12-step group for partners and relatives recommend.

it's all about to support them.

I give you a brochure, and you will

take a look at in peace.

they want to go to therapy, Mr. Hecker?

Secure.

What if it doesn't help?

What if...

I think you earn something better, Marie.

Of course that helps.

Watch out, you move in with me.

And then you do the program.

We put together this therapy.

and there is no between us secrets more, too nothing.

to give up now before we started is nonsense.

Or don't you want a 2nd chance?

But.

But.

* Schiffhorn *

this morning in the S-Bahn I saw a woman,

that made me totally nervous.

I caught myself, How I had fantasies about it,

to sleep with her.

My wife and I do a phase of abstinence.

We even have a tablespoon.

* Laugh * Every day there

is a line, as in prison.

It also feels like as in prison.

It was my decision.

I wanted to be sexually sober, so that not to fall into my imagination

While I sleep with her.

Yes.

I don't want to fuck with any woman from the

S-Bahn, While I have sex

Your 1st meeting?

Yes.

Luis.

Paul.

May I ask you something?

What does sexually sober mean?

Never again sex?

So no sex with yourself.

and no with another person.

except with your fixed partner or your firm partner.

okay. Never again sex with yourself.

Do you already have a sponsor? - uh, no.

so, I could offer you that, luis.

Especially in the first time

, close support is very helpful.

You can call me at any time.

I can be reached day and night.

Thanks.

Hey, are you already at home?

Yes, I wasn't working. I needed a day for myself.

Say ... - we can briefly ...

(laugh) okay. - no, du.

No, do you.

Luis and I, We reconciled.

Did you forgive him that?

We found out, that Luis is addicted to sex.

And that now makes therapy.

Ha.

Cool excuse to fuck around.

This is a disease, and you can heal them.

Have you already had tested on stds?

Do you have?

Yes, I have.

We decided that Luis moves here. - what?

Do you just throw me out? - no, I ...

because of a type, The sex addicted is

color = "#00ff00"> and a process on the cheek has because of sexual assault.

Luis is innocent.

In addition, this woman is a crazy one,

which itself has catapulted.

Everyone deserves a 2nd chance.

are you sure, that you don't want to stay?

Come on now.

It's just not easy for me.

I'm just trying, save my relationship with.

* Music *

that, uh, that wanted to give you Santos

* Music *

I hope everything works out, how you imagine that.

Thanks.

Do you still need help with something? - no.

We'll get the rest right away.

* Music *

first say the secret word. - spinach salad.

Ih.

Hey Santos, no ball play in here.

but I wasn't. - mhm.

Where are your whole furniture? - stored.

maybe enlarge let's get each other again.

Marie, What did you do with the spacko?

he looks like a normal person. - Hey.

This is much better, since he is in the program.

Huh, what kind of program?

(Santos) we go to the playground?

Maybe later, Santos, yes?

and could we talk about it later?

do we want a beer? - I want cola.

Can Santos be a cola?

What about lilith? - it found a cool flat share.

With roof terrace and such.

No, There is only apple spritzer.

You heard the boss. apple spritzer. - Manno.

Julian invited me to a vernissage . Does anyone want to do with?

Wow.

Uh, yes.

Yes, looks really beautiful. I come with.

real? - mhm.

* steps * if Luis could take care of Santos.

* knock * (David) Who should take care of Santos?

Papa!

Hey, na? - Do you want a beer?

No, thanks.

would be nice, if you would ask

me first, if you have a bottleneck.

This is not the right moment.

Would you like coffee? - okay.

Greetings, I am Vincent. - Hey.

here. - Thank you.

What does Lilith say that it was thrown out of ?

I didn't get them out.

I want to keep my room. - of course.

Hey. - I have to rinse here.

we don't even want to go home ?

dad did pizza. - nope, I want to stay here.

Hey, it's papa day. - I want to stay here.

We have to clear these boxes by luis.

If you come back, it is quite a bit for you.

come, go now with the dad with.

there is pizza. you love that.

Should we go to the children's room? - yes, please.

Santi, come. - I want to stay here!

Santos, Hey, Hey, Hey, calmly.

Mama!

Mama. - Santos, calm down.

Let me.

What kind of idiot is that?

Do we join?

Welcome.

What did I only deserve you?

No.

Hm?

The therapist has already spoken of abstinence.

And with the Aslern you have recommended it to me again.

but I thought that sex with me is okay.

Yes, that would also be, but it triggers me.

If I have sex, I want more sex.

And how long do we do that?

90 days.

Clear.

That's not bad.

Um ...

No, we can do that.

* tv * "in autumn 1933 adopted The Reichstag the law."

Why do you look that actually?

because Hitler is the only one, of which I don't get a stand.

(whispered) can we kiss?

Believe, yes.

* Music *

I'll read a little more.

OK.

OK.

* Music *

We are now at day 11.

And it is going well.

still 12 days ago I would have everyone who tells me that,

declared crazy.

But I hardly think of sex.

* Front door falls into the castle *

* Steps on the stairs *

* The door is opened *

Hi.

Hey.

I'm gone right away. I only get something.

Hello?

Is Luis there?

I am his dad.

Uh.

I, um, I'm Marie.

I told you You should wait below.

I forgot.

I only get something here. you stop here.

We are gone right away.

I'll be right back.

you might have a little cash?

Yes.

Thanks.

Is...

is that for him? - yes, he has none.

Thanks.

I'll give it back to you.

Then we are gone.

We leave it here.

I'm not coming home so late.

Yes, bye.

* The door is

opened * Oh God.

I, uh ...

it is okay, if you see me naked?

Um.

Yes.

Yes, it's okay.

I just wondered, whether I am beautiful.

(breathe in and out deep)

(moan quietly)

(moans)

Fuck it all.

I believe...

I think we stop here.

Where are you going?

* door is opened and closed again *

* front door is opened and closed again *

* door is opened * luis?

* Music *

* Door is closed *

* Music *

* Freiken *

* announcement * "This conversation partner is temporarily

not to be reached. "

* Freiken *

* announcement * "This conversation partner is ..."

* Freiken *

"This interlocutor ..." - Oh.

* announcement * "This interlocutor ..."

Are you serious?

* Announcement * "this ge ...".

* announcement * "this conversation partner is temporarily

not to be reached. "

How can you do that with me? you are so disgusting.

* Freiken *

Marie? Everything OK?

Do you know where Luis is?

How do you get it?

* Cell phone ringing *

* Music *

(groan)

* Music *

* Moan *

* Music *

(Santos) Mom, I am hungry.

I don't have time right now, honey.

Take a corn waffle.

But I want pancakes.

I'm so far. give me a minute.

what are you doing? - Santos, I need a minute!

get a corn waffle and play!

* Music *

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